Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
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Speaker 1: Welcome back to you another Catholey Reckless episode with your
Speaker 1: girl Jess. Hilarious because what I'll be doing, I'll be
Speaker 1: fixing mess y'all. All right, let's get straight into it.
Speaker 1: We got a juicy story today. We don't have any
Speaker 1: voice memos. We just got straight words, y'all. This person
Speaker 1: wrote me a book, but it's gonna be good. Listen, Jess,
Speaker 1: I'm back and damn just I'm back, and yeah, I
Speaker 1: really need your help. Thank you again. Okay, So right now,
Speaker 1: me and my ex have been dealing with each other
Speaker 1: on and off for about four years. And yes, the
Speaker 1: question you're probably wondering, was it his fault? Yes, it's
Speaker 1: his fault every time. I haven't saw him in about
Speaker 1: three months until recently I invited him to my hotel
Speaker 1: for a drink. I don't know why I did it.
Speaker 1: I mean because you missed him. You was probably already
Speaker 1: drinking and was like, shit, I need a little dicky dicky.
Speaker 1: So then you called him. Let me continue. I was
Speaker 1: just feeling spontaneous and I was bored Okay. We sat
Speaker 1: in the lobby and literally talked for like five hours
Speaker 1: and it was very positive. Oh, y'all missed each other. Honey.
Speaker 1: It was like I was talking to a whole new
Speaker 1: person and I kind of was feeling him again. Oh
Speaker 1: I know, that's right. That's what happened. When you create time,
Speaker 1: when you put time in between you and a person,
Speaker 1: or create space in between you and a person, it
Speaker 1: could be for the better, it could be for the worse.
Speaker 1: So they were talking for five hours, Okay, So I
Speaker 1: invited him to stay. Oh oh, and when I tell you,
Speaker 1: the night was amazing, it was amazing. And I said
Speaker 1: amazing like that because she had all cats y'all. We
Speaker 1: watched our favorite shows and movies and ordered our favorite
Speaker 1: food like we used to, and also did shroms. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I know that sex was ball Doc kill On. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: all right. He ended up going to sleep before me
Speaker 1: and leaving me up with a racing mind. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: when you on shrooms, y'all just want to let you
Speaker 1: know your mind wanders even when you don't want it to.
Speaker 1: That is a high you cannot control. So I know
Speaker 1: she was going through it. Wait, how the hell he
Speaker 1: go to sleep on some shrooms. Y'all must have had
Speaker 1: the bullshit trims, because I can't ever go to sleep
Speaker 1: on shrooms. I don't know, I don't know. I don't know,
Speaker 1: y'all let me know. If y'all go to sleep on them,
Speaker 1: they leave me up for hours. Girl, tell me why.
Speaker 1: I saw him put the cold in his phone earlier
Speaker 1: that day and reverted back to it that night. Oh shit,
Speaker 1: and he was on shrooms. Oh lord, don't go through
Speaker 1: a niggaphone for one, but don't go through a niggaphone
Speaker 1: on shrooms. And I decided to go through his phone.
Speaker 1: I know what you're thinking, Yeah, bitch, you're crazy, but
Speaker 1: I don't care. I did it, and I was happy
Speaker 1: I did it. I found out everything I needed to know,
Speaker 1: and I even found out what he was doing while
Speaker 1: we were still together. Oh shit, girl, you went how
Speaker 1: far back did your goal? God damn? She said. Listen.
Speaker 1: He was sleep and I was up shrimming, bitch, I
Speaker 1: had all the time I needed. He was literally lying
Speaker 1: to me the whole time. I was crushed, and then
Speaker 1: you know, I was on shterms, so my mind was everywhere,
Speaker 1: which made me wake his ass up. And I told
Speaker 1: him when he get us olf together, he needs to
Speaker 1: get the fuck out. He looked at me very confused,
Speaker 1: so I had to repeat myself, when you get yourself together,
Speaker 1: get the fuck out. And then this nigga acted like
Speaker 1: he didn't know anything I was talking about. I told
Speaker 1: him to open up his phone and go to his
Speaker 1: messages once he was done. He needed to get the
Speaker 1: fuck out. And I don't know what delusional type of
Speaker 1: shit he was on, but he proceeded to go to
Speaker 1: his messages like he didn't know what the fuck I
Speaker 1: was talking about and was just looking stupid and started crying.
Speaker 1: I didn't give a fuck. This literally took me back
Speaker 1: to the reason why we broke up in the first place.
Speaker 1: So my question to you is why are all these
Speaker 1: niggas clowns and why they be so in denial and
Speaker 1: delusional and liars. Oh my god, this girl, this girl
Speaker 1: gonna get me an award. I'm telling you, because she
Speaker 1: comes to me for her mess all the time. Y'all.
Speaker 1: This is somebody, and I'm wondering her life is always
Speaker 1: in some day shambles. I'm trying to figure out why
Speaker 1: she don't write a goddamn book. She need to be
Speaker 1: helping fixed mess. That's what she needed to do, because
Speaker 1: she's been through a lot, and she's she seems very
Speaker 1: wise because she goes through something every week. So like
Speaker 1: I find myself helping this girl every week. But I
Speaker 1: love it. Okay, So in all seriousness, first and foremost,
Speaker 1: I'm questioning why you would go through his phone if
Speaker 1: y'all technically wasn't together. You said you missed them, y'all
Speaker 1: technically haven't even been together seeing each other in a while,
Speaker 1: you know, And this wasn't just somebody you was fucking
Speaker 1: with for a few months. This was an actual relationship.
Speaker 1: I remember your story before. This was an actual relationship,
Speaker 1: you know, like for years and years, you know, and
Speaker 1: then y'all broke up for whatever reason. Of course, you
Speaker 1: told me that it was his fault. Okay, So you
Speaker 1: created a distance between you guys and put a lot
Speaker 1: of time and between you guys, and people do change.
Speaker 1: We're gonna stop pushing that narrative, like people don't evolve,
Speaker 1: and people don't change, and people don't stop cheating that
Speaker 1: saying once it chet are always a cheater. I also
Speaker 1: don't believe in once a liar, always a liar. I
Speaker 1: don't believe in that. We have to give people grace,
Speaker 1: you know, we have to extend that. As the good
Speaker 1: brother ty Reese would say. In my opinion, yes, if
Speaker 1: he wasn't your boyfriend, if you guys weren't actually together,
Speaker 1: you had no business going through his phone. I don't
Speaker 1: know if that's something that you guys are used to doing,
Speaker 1: whether you guys are together or not, but that number
Speaker 1: one is a no no for this reason. One y'all
Speaker 1: weren't back together, and then two you were shrooming. As
Speaker 1: an avid shromer, I can tell you don't want to
Speaker 1: step foot and shit like that while you are on
Speaker 1: a shroom high, because anything could have happened. Anything, Your
Speaker 1: mind wanders and then then you start acting out of
Speaker 1: your full character. Then you you know, And I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to scare anybody away from doing shrooms because it's
Speaker 1: actually an enlightening psychedelic, you know, and it's really good.
Speaker 1: It can open you up, and it just opens your
Speaker 1: mind and it makes you become one with nature or
Speaker 1: whatever you It helps you face your demons, It helps
Speaker 1: you actually get out any anything that you have bottled up,
Speaker 1: and you feel good about it. It's also a body high,
Speaker 1: so you're numb to a lot of shit. And I'm
Speaker 1: really really selling this shit here. This is you know,
Speaker 1: but shrooms are used for a bunch of different things
Speaker 1: across the world. But it's really really good. It's it's
Speaker 1: an enlightening psychedelic So I don't like to step in
Speaker 1: anything negative while I'm shrewming. And I know you as
Speaker 1: a female, you couldn't help it, you know. And then
Speaker 1: also y'all sit in that lobby and y'all talked for
Speaker 1: those five hours, went down memory lane, came back as lovers.
Speaker 1: After y'all came back from memory Lane, and y'all went
Speaker 1: upstairs and y'all did the goddamn do. But before y'all
Speaker 1: got there, it was just a rekindle, you know, a flame,
Speaker 1: an old flame. Y'all are each other's old flame, you know.
Speaker 1: So it's like, damn, and that happens. That happens more
Speaker 1: often than not. I want people to understand that, like
Speaker 1: it's okay reconnecting with an X it is. It really is.
Speaker 1: When it becomes not okay is when y'all haven't gotten passed.
Speaker 1: Whatever the reason may be that y'all are exes. If
Speaker 1: y'all didn't put everything out on the table and iron
Speaker 1: those kinks out, because that's honestly what y'all should have
Speaker 1: talked about. If y'all were planning to sleep together and
Speaker 1: you was planning to go through the phone, I think
Speaker 1: you just probably got a little carried away just looking
Speaker 1: for something. Because you know, as a woman, we can
Speaker 1: lay down with our ex and we can feel all
Speaker 1: that shit come back, and we can say, oh shit,
Speaker 1: I want you back. We can make a decision like,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna just fuck back with them. But
Speaker 1: we get curious because we never got over what they
Speaker 1: did to us before. But we just love them so
Speaker 1: much and in that moment, we don't give a fuck
Speaker 1: your mind right now in this moment, and everything good
Speaker 1: that we had is coming back because we're really in
Speaker 1: a good mood right now. Y'all never talked about and
Speaker 1: ironed out the kinks of what happened to y'all before
Speaker 1: in that relationship. So you got a little carried away
Speaker 1: and you went through his phone, But you shouldn't have
Speaker 1: touched this phone if you weren't his girlfriend. But that's
Speaker 1: what that five hours of conversation didn't That's what I
Speaker 1: was trying to say. I know it sounds like I'm
Speaker 1: talking in circles. Yeah, that's what that five hours of
Speaker 1: conversation was. Don't nobody just sit with somebody for five hours?
Speaker 1: And like you said, you didn't even plan to sleep
Speaker 1: with him. You missed him. You know you were bored.
Speaker 1: You said you were bored, but I think you missed
Speaker 1: him because God, when you bored, there's so many other
Speaker 1: things to do when you bored. You ain't got to
Speaker 1: call your X, you know what I mean. But yeah,
Speaker 1: he doesn't owe you any loyalty now because you guys
Speaker 1: are not together. And now I want to know this, say,
Speaker 1: if he would have went through your phone, would he
Speaker 1: have found something? And you didn't put that in there?
Speaker 1: You didn't, you know, I don't know if you even
Speaker 1: will when you respond back or keep me updated. Would
Speaker 1: he be able to go through your phone and not
Speaker 1: see anything, because then that's just us trying to have
Speaker 1: our cake and need it too. You can't get upset
Speaker 1: at him about something that you're doing too, because then
Speaker 1: it's a contradiction and you probably feel like, well, this
Speaker 1: don't for saying to me because he cheated first, and
Speaker 1: this that and the other. And yeah, but two wrongs
Speaker 1: don't make it right. I know you heard that cliche saying,
Speaker 1: you know, I know it sounds very cliche, but it's
Speaker 1: it's the truth. You know, two wrongs don't make it right.
Speaker 1: You need to tell me what do you want? What
Speaker 1: do you want? Do you want to be back with him?
Speaker 1: Do you? Cause you said it reminded you going through
Speaker 1: his phone reminded you when you saw whatever you saw
Speaker 1: of why you left. But y'all weren't together in that moment,
Speaker 1: you know. And I know you can go on and
Speaker 1: say I don't care, I don't give a fuck, but
Speaker 1: that's why I can't trust him. You called them, You
Speaker 1: called them to come there to the hotel. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: was an X for a reason. He is an X
Speaker 1: for a reason. But you called him, you know, And
Speaker 1: has he been reaching out to you? Also? Tell me, like,
Speaker 1: did he ever try to get you back when you
Speaker 1: left for what he did? Or you know, has he
Speaker 1: ever stopped trying? Because it could be one or two things.
Speaker 1: He could have been on your line real heavy and
Speaker 1: you just gave in because you were sitting at the barge.
Speaker 1: That's also a possibility because if you went a long
Speaker 1: time without talking to him. You were just holding out
Speaker 1: as long as you could, you know. And I've been
Speaker 1: there too, girl, getting away from somebody that I love
Speaker 1: so much because they don't treat me as good as
Speaker 1: I deserve to be treated. But we turn a blind
Speaker 1: eye to a lot of things that these men do,
Speaker 1: you know, because we want to be loved, then we
Speaker 1: do love them, you know. So it is what it is.
Speaker 1: But in this situation, I would say, you were absolutely wrong.
Speaker 1: But if this is something that you want, I think
Speaker 1: you guys should work at it. I think what you
Speaker 1: guys should do is meet up, because it seems like
Speaker 1: it's still a lot of love there and it seems
Speaker 1: like just the instant replay of the breakup. But y'all
Speaker 1: wouldn't have found y'allselves back in each other's presence if
Speaker 1: there was nothing else there to fix. If you feel
Speaker 1: like it's worth fighting for, I say, y'all, meet up.
Speaker 1: Y'all have a goddamn conversation. Y'all put everything on the table.
Speaker 1: You tell him what you do. You tell them. I
Speaker 1: don't care if you got four or five niggas that
Speaker 1: you just entertaining right now. You tell him that you
Speaker 1: tell him that because you can't go through his phone
Speaker 1: and figure out every fucking thing he doing, and then
Speaker 1: he asks you about what you're doing, and then you
Speaker 1: start lying. I've done that as well, because we feel
Speaker 1: like what they won't know, what they don't know won't
Speaker 1: hurt them because men takes Men take that shit a
Speaker 1: lot harder than we take it, to be honest, if
Speaker 1: we're being honest. I'm not saying all men, but in
Speaker 1: my experience, men take their excess dealing with other men
Speaker 1: or moving on way worse than we take it. They
Speaker 1: keep it bottled up. They keep it bottled up. They
Speaker 1: don't really show outwork, they don't really show that shit.
Speaker 1: We're just emotional creatures as women, you know. But guys
Speaker 1: they have a hard time coping with that when somebody
Speaker 1: has moved on and heartbreaks and men have heartbreaks as well,
Speaker 1: you know. So I think y'all should just lay it
Speaker 1: out on the table. You tell him what you're doing,
Speaker 1: he tell you what. I guess what you already know
Speaker 1: because you done went through everything, girl, I know you
Speaker 1: done went through the DMS. You can't go through the
Speaker 1: messages without going to the DMS, and you can't go
Speaker 1: through the dams without going on Twitter and the messages,
Speaker 1: and you can't check the Twitter without going in the
Speaker 1: recent calls, and you can't check the recent calls without
Speaker 1: going in the FaceTime. I mean, if you don't have
Speaker 1: an iPhone, do you know, then I don't know how
Speaker 1: to manroids work. But that's how it worked when you're
Speaker 1: going through a nigga I phone because I've been through
Speaker 1: more than I can even remember. So yes, I know that.
Speaker 1: So girl, you and then he was on them rooms.
Speaker 1: I know you didn't check this nigga apps like I
Speaker 1: know you didn't. Girl. Girl, you don't probably scroll through
Speaker 1: the context to see if he's storing a bitch's name
Speaker 1: under a nigga's name. Girl, I listen, I didn't done
Speaker 1: it at all, So I know you probably was check
Speaker 1: checking to see if he got a text free app, girl,
Speaker 1: cause them niggas do that too, But so do we
Speaker 1: because I've done that as well, damn Ina putting my
Speaker 1: business out there. But that's what I gotta do to
Speaker 1: help y'all fix y'all mess because I ain't squeaky clean,
Speaker 1: I ain't perfect patty. I'm not cookie cutter, y'all know.
Speaker 1: So that's what I think. I think you should also
Speaker 1: write me back, update me again, you know, just letting
Speaker 1: me know if this is what you really want, because
Speaker 1: I think you do. You wrote me about this man before,
Speaker 1: and I think you do. I just think that y'all
Speaker 1: are y'all have grown to be very toxic, and I
Speaker 1: still think that you can turn that around though. Y'all
Speaker 1: just have to be more communicative with each other, and
Speaker 1: y'all have to be honest about everything, honest, even you, Missy.
Speaker 1: You know, you going around snooping and shit playing private eye.
Speaker 1: If he started doing the same thing. It's a lot
Speaker 1: of things I'm pretty sure that he would find in
Speaker 1: your phone that would not make him happy. It doesn't
Speaker 1: matter who is the reason for y'all breaking up, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. All that matters is that you
Speaker 1: still want this man somehow, some way, and so y'all
Speaker 1: have to come to a come to a common ground,
Speaker 1: you know. And this is what made me leave you before.
Speaker 1: I felt betrayed. I felt although you weren't my boyfriend,
Speaker 1: because I do think you owe him an apology for
Speaker 1: going through his phone although you weren't my boyfriend, but
Speaker 1: I still think you owe him an apology with an
Speaker 1: explanation like, Yo, that just triggered me, because that triggered you.
Speaker 1: I don't care which that triggered you. You were like,
Speaker 1: oh shit, because you said you had a flashback of
Speaker 1: why y'all broke up. So that tells me that you're
Speaker 1: not healed and you don't trust him fully, but that
Speaker 1: doesn't stop you from loving him. So you need to
Speaker 1: decide whether you're going to walk away from it all
Speaker 1: together or if you're going to try to trust him,
Speaker 1: because you can't say you can't get back with somebody
Speaker 1: that you didn't forgive for doing you wrong previously, because
Speaker 1: then you're gonna grow to hate him and then you know,
Speaker 1: and it's not fair for either one of you. So
Speaker 1: keep me updated, let me know what's going on, because
Speaker 1: I needed and I always say, if you love me,
Speaker 1: you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right
Speaker 1: back moving on. We have another story. This one is
Speaker 1: also written Hey Jess. So me and one of my
Speaker 1: closest friends had a fallen out right after I moved away.
Speaker 1: I had to move away because I met the man
Speaker 1: of my dreams and he works as a contractor, so
Speaker 1: he landed a big contract in Houston. I said contract.
Speaker 1: I said that really literate, and y'all heard, y'all heard,
Speaker 1: and say, I know, y'all, dad, let me say it
Speaker 1: over landed a big contract in Houston, which is where
Speaker 1: we now live. Long story short, he proposed, and I'm
Speaker 1: getting married soon, but still haven't spoken to my friend
Speaker 1: in a while. I'm torn I wouldn't feel right getting
Speaker 1: married without her there by my side. I've reached out
Speaker 1: multiple times and I just have been left on red
Speaker 1: and she hasn't returned any of my calls. Wow, what
Speaker 1: the hell y'all fall out about? Jesus? So I'm trying
Speaker 1: to figure out whether or not I should even invite
Speaker 1: her because she hasn't responded in a year. Damn. The
Speaker 1: reason for the falling out is because I told her
Speaker 1: I would Okay, look you about to answer my question. Good.
Speaker 1: The reason for the falling out is because I told
Speaker 1: her I would have to up and move to Houston
Speaker 1: from Ohio and her and I plan to start a
Speaker 1: business together, as we always said we would do when
Speaker 1: we were younger, but things changed for both of our
Speaker 1: lives suddenly. What should I do? Hmm? Okay, So I
Speaker 1: say a lot of a lot of interesting parts about
Speaker 1: this story I want to pick out. Okay, so she's
Speaker 1: one of your closest friends. Oh so you didn't say
Speaker 1: best friend. Okay, but I'm just gonna say you're you're
Speaker 1: a really good friend. I'll just say that. Okay. Y'all
Speaker 1: had a fallen out and you moved away right after that.
Speaker 1: And the falling out was because of your move. You
Speaker 1: were telling her that you had to just up and
Speaker 1: move to Houston because you know, your boyfriend at the time,
Speaker 1: who was now your fiance. Your boyfriend is this big
Speaker 1: contractor and he landed a really good, a big contract
Speaker 1: in Houston. So you had to move from Ohio to Houston.
Speaker 1: So you didn't even move down the street from your
Speaker 1: best friend, you know, from your good friend. You moved
Speaker 1: like miles and miles and I'm talking about hundreds of
Speaker 1: thousands of miles away. You moved where she has to
Speaker 1: she can drive, but you know, ultimately she would have
Speaker 1: to fly to you, you know, if she didn't want
Speaker 1: to drive. You know, So you didn't just move in
Speaker 1: Cincinnati and y'all niggas was living in Cleveland, y'all. Uh uh, y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all y'all moved, you moved far, okay, and then you said,
Speaker 1: and then he proposed to you, and congratulations. I love love,
Speaker 1: I love wedding bells, I love all of that. So congratulations, girly.
Speaker 1: But you went on to say you reached out even
Speaker 1: after the argument. I don't know. Did you wait to
Speaker 1: reach out? Did you reach out immediately when you got
Speaker 1: to Houston? I need a little bit more meat on
Speaker 1: the bone, I don't. These are the things I don't know. However,
Speaker 1: I still can, you know, give you advice without all
Speaker 1: that meat. But I wanted to know how long did
Speaker 1: you wait to even hit her? You know? Was it
Speaker 1: a long time? And then also were you posting does
Speaker 1: she still follow you on social media? Were you able
Speaker 1: to see that she was watching you and your story?
Speaker 1: Now you may not be a person to see to
Speaker 1: go through views and see what's going on, but you
Speaker 1: know this is your good friend, and if you want
Speaker 1: to see if she's been keeping track of you but
Speaker 1: not just not reaching out to you or talking directly
Speaker 1: to you, that's what you do. You can go through
Speaker 1: I mean, because that would obviously state that she still cares,
Speaker 1: but she's just still angry. I think what it is.
Speaker 1: Y'all been friends for so long, and y'all had life
Speaker 1: plans as friends to do business together. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. This reminds me of the movie Bride'smaids that
Speaker 1: I actually watched. It was one of my favorite movies.
Speaker 1: It was two best friends. One of them got married
Speaker 1: and was moving away, actually moving further away than her
Speaker 1: best friend would have liked, you know, and they were
Speaker 1: supposed to I don't I don't remember. I don't quite
Speaker 1: remember if they were supposed to go into business together,
Speaker 1: but I know that they had plans to do things
Speaker 1: together just as best friends. And she kind of felt
Speaker 1: like our best friend was taken away from her abruptly,
Speaker 1: and you know, and we're not going to be able
Speaker 1: to be down the street from each other anymore. We're
Speaker 1: not gonna be able to have these long, long, long conversations.
Speaker 1: You know, you have a man now, you know, So
Speaker 1: getting away from that movie, although it is real life,
Speaker 1: your situation is very common. That's the point of me
Speaker 1: bringing up the movie. It's very common. So I think
Speaker 1: your best friend is just dealing with having to see
Speaker 1: you level up, and it's and also this is not
Speaker 1: me calling her a hater in a bad way. This
Speaker 1: is not me saying that she's jealous of you, or
Speaker 1: she's envious or whatever. That may be the case, but
Speaker 1: it's not bad being jealous. Jealousy is not always bad.
Speaker 1: It's not, it's not. It's not that. It's totally human
Speaker 1: to be jealous of someone that was very close to you,
Speaker 1: who just took off when we were supposed to be
Speaker 1: building to take off together. You know, do you get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying? You kind of see my drift. It's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with being honest enough to say, yo, I
Speaker 1: felt like you and I and I don't know if
Speaker 1: your best friend, your good friend is ever gonna tell
Speaker 1: you this or be honest enough with you about it.
Speaker 1: But you're always like you left me here struggling. We
Speaker 1: used to struggle together, and although not your responsibility, and
Speaker 1: you don't have an obligation to stay here and struggle
Speaker 1: with me. If your life is presenting you, if it blessings,
Speaker 1: if your life is presenting you blessings at a certain time,
Speaker 1: because both of you, guys's journey are different. You know,
Speaker 1: maybe she'll take off next year. Maybe you know this
Speaker 1: just happened to you in a different time. Maybe she'll
Speaker 1: meet the man of her dreams next year. Maybe she
Speaker 1: can get the business started on her own. Maybe, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe that was a test for her. You know whose
Speaker 1: business idea was it. Maybe it was her idea for business,
Speaker 1: and she thought that she would be doing it with you.
Speaker 1: But maybe she's gonna do it on her own and
Speaker 1: it be even bigger than she had envisioned when it
Speaker 1: was supposed to be you too. Everybody has her own path.
Speaker 1: But you seem to love her, you seem to miss her,
Speaker 1: And it's a very very nice gesture and heartfelt to
Speaker 1: say that, Yo, I can't get married if my girl
Speaker 1: in here. You know, I don't feel right getting married
Speaker 1: if my girl is not here. Hold up, hold up,
Speaker 1: I know the shit getting good. But listen to just
Speaker 1: a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me,
Speaker 1: you'll listen. So it's making a trip back home to Ohio,
Speaker 1: you know, your old home, because he'll snitz your new
Speaker 1: home now, rightfully so, But is that something that you're
Speaker 1: opposed to actually going to fly and see her, going
Speaker 1: to fly to see her, to have a conversation. Look,
Speaker 1: I'm in your face. I flew to you. You ignored me.
Speaker 1: For a year. Yes, I up and left. My life
Speaker 1: is different and so is yours. You know such and such.
Speaker 1: You know, because you didn't tell me your name, and
Speaker 1: I don't want you to. But look, I'll just say, Maggie, look, Maggie,
Speaker 1: like we we're friends. We're friends first, you know. I
Speaker 1: don't want you to feel like we can't talk about this.
Speaker 1: We've been through so much. I bet you guys have
Speaker 1: you said? She's been your closest friend for a long time.
Speaker 1: And y'all made plans when y'all were younger to be
Speaker 1: CEOs and bosses together. You know what I'm saying. This
Speaker 1: has obviously really affected her. And while you're off living
Speaker 1: your happily, everlasting life, she's still, I guess, stuck at
Speaker 1: home dealing with the problems that she was dealing with
Speaker 1: when you left her. If you can just have a
Speaker 1: little empathy for her and didn't go see her ass, now, listen,
Speaker 1: if you don't want to, totally, totally I understand because
Speaker 1: now in your defense, come on, bitch, not a whole year.
Speaker 1: Come on, now, that's what happened with me and April Jones.
Speaker 1: When I was going through the shit with April, that
Speaker 1: bitch ain't talked to me for almost a goddamn well
Speaker 1: it's six months. Six month, yeah, like six like more
Speaker 1: than six months. It wasn't quite a year. But I
Speaker 1: think we was friends no more, bitch, I don't try
Speaker 1: after a certain amount. And me and April wasn't even
Speaker 1: childhood friends. I had met her in LA and we
Speaker 1: hit it off. She had great energy, so did I.
Speaker 1: And then you know, things, I just started seeing things
Speaker 1: that I didn't like. And you know, I'm me being
Speaker 1: from a different place, and I don't I never got
Speaker 1: fully eclimated to a place like LA, so I haven't
Speaker 1: been Los angelesed, you know what I'm saying. And a
Speaker 1: lot of people that move from their hometowns to LA
Speaker 1: become lost, angelized, and I just I, yeah, that's not me.
Speaker 1: It's like they don't even know who the fuck they
Speaker 1: be no more. You know, I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: them running from something or but a lot of people
Speaker 1: that move to LAB, I guess Maddie turned into different
Speaker 1: people and they they lose their fucking roots. And I
Speaker 1: literally have watched that. You know, It's just it's just
Speaker 1: I've gone through that that same thing with a close
Speaker 1: friend you know, go fly and see her, Go fly
Speaker 1: and here do that. Because even with me and April
Speaker 1: not being friends anymore and that's falling out, I still
Speaker 1: could have flown to Chicago to go see here. She
Speaker 1: was going through some things, and I did. I did,
Speaker 1: and still do have my own life, you know, I had.
Speaker 1: I have my own shit going on. But sometimes it
Speaker 1: is bigger than you, and sometimes you receive blessings when
Speaker 1: you just act selflessly. And I'm not selfish, but I
Speaker 1: just I don't know. I wasn't wrong for not going,
Speaker 1: and I don't feel like I was right for not
Speaker 1: going either, so you know, but I think in this case,
Speaker 1: this is a bond from childhood and it can be saved.
Speaker 1: You know, her ignoring you and all that she ain't
Speaker 1: disrespecting you. You know, I still disagree with letting a
Speaker 1: fucking year pass, but you don't know what she's been
Speaker 1: through in that year. So I would say, actu big
Speaker 1: contract the husband and gets you a motherfucking fly, and
Speaker 1: go fly and go see your friend and then update
Speaker 1: me and let me know what's going on. Booth. I
Speaker 1: loved this story. I enjoyed it. It's very relatable and
Speaker 1: I'm happy that I could relate to it and give
Speaker 1: you my own past experiences to kind of help you
Speaker 1: and kind of guide you. It'll all be okay again.
Speaker 1: Congratulations on that beautiful wedding girl, And if y'all need
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Speaker 1: since he's a big contractor. And just like that, we
Speaker 1: come to the end of another carefully reckless episode with
Speaker 1: your girl Jessilarius, who do what I'll be fixing mess y'all,
Speaker 1: and in my deepest paying voice, peace you next week.
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