1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: Hey, it's Friday and we've got a brand new episode. 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Just feel so good. 3 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 2: That's Friday. 4 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you years ago? You and the seventy five year 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: old kindergarten teacher. 6 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 3: Cool. 7 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: All right, let's get to comments before this brand new 8 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 1: episode starts. Yes, well, if you missed it, yesterday, we 9 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: aired Brook breaks you up? What a roller coasters one 10 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: for us. I didn't break anyone up, now, that's true Brooks, 11 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: despite my best best efforts, he really did. But Niclo said, 12 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: I hope brook has paid extra for this segment. Can 13 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: you forward that to my bosses? Yeah, definitely not the case. 14 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: But hey, thanks for having my back and I appreciate it. Yeah. 15 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: You know, not every relationship should be together. 16 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 2: You just kind of stirred crap up and then stepped away. 17 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 1: No, I definitely think they should have not been together. 18 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 4: Yeah. 19 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 3: I think a lot of people agree. 20 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: There's a lot of therapy that needed to happen there. 21 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: All right, your brand new second date update right now, 22 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date updates. 23 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 2: Where can you turn for help when you're stuck in 24 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 2: your dating life? 25 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: Oh? 26 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 3: I have no idea. 27 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 2: You could hire a dating coach to point out all 28 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 2: the things that you're doing wrong and why you're not 29 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 2: good enough to attract a mate in your natural form. 30 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: Or you can just talk to Jeff's mom for that. 31 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, happy to lay into in all of 32 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 2: your flaws. You could try wading into the muck of 33 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 2: the dating app world, where there's now been confirmed STD 34 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: cases from people who just downloaded Tinder. Wow, they didn't 35 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 2: even meet anybody on it, and they also gave all 36 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 2: of your other apps diseases to no. Or you could 37 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 2: just ask your friends for help and when they say no, 38 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: offer them money to do it. 39 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: Wait, it's almost like we're back to square one. 40 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, apparently, as one of our listeners did, and I'm 41 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: curious to hear how that worked. His name is Henry 42 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 2: So Henry Man. Welcome to the show. 43 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: Are you coming here for the free advice since you 44 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: spent all your dough already? 45 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 4: Well, so the money has not been spent yet, but 46 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 4: I feel like we can get into that. 47 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 48 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 3: Okay, because by the way, he said ask friends for advice, right, 49 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 3: were your friends? 50 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 2: Because needs money? 51 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 4: Yeah? 52 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 3: I just want friends. 53 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 4: Just hit me up with your cash app. I got you. 54 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 3: I pay you to be your friend, but your email. 55 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 2: Did say you were going to pay your friends for 56 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 2: help with your love life? Can you explain what you mean? 57 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I've been looking around dating, trying to find 58 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 4: somebody to kind of settle down with. 59 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 1: And okay, so you're looking at serious stuff right now. 60 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I actually have a buddy who encouraged me 61 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 4: to reach out to you guys, is right now he's 62 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,519 Speaker 4: on the hook for potential bounty. 63 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 2: I wonder, what are you talking about bounty? 64 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? 65 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, so, I mean I've been trying to date around 66 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 4: and uh huh to all of my friends to tell 67 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 4: their friends thousand dollars bounty. You find a girl and 68 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 4: end up marrying. 69 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 3: Her, oh your future wife? 70 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: Do you pay them on your wedding day? 71 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: The one right in front of your bride? 72 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: She's like, how am I not getting. 73 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: So hold on this girl that we're about to call? 74 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 5: Here? 75 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 2: Are you saying that she might be the one? 76 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 4: I mean maybe? Wow, she's the closest one I've met 77 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 4: in a long time that's got all of the sort 78 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 4: of things you look for. 79 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: Okay, and this is someone that obviously your buddy set 80 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: you up with. 81 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 4: Yeah. 82 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 2: Does she have a name Mia? 83 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: Yah? Okay, what do you like about her. What drew 84 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: you to Mia? 85 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 4: Well, I know, for like, as an example, when we 86 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 4: were at dinner, I heard her speak a foreign language 87 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 4: to the waiter. 88 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 2: She's maybe well traveled, well educated, that's a bonus. 89 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I don't know, she just got this real 90 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 4: feminine energy. It was really attractive to me. 91 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: Oh wow, all right, So what was a date? Like, 92 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: I mean, did you talk a lot beforehand? 93 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 4: I mean we did talk a good bit beforehand, like 94 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 4: we were just kind of texting back and forth. And yeah, 95 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 4: I mean basically just a little bit, not much. I 96 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 4: don't know, I'm nervous. 97 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: There were texts. 98 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 2: When you're in the presence of somebody that you really 99 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 2: feel a connection with, it's hard to even like put 100 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: it to words, I imagine. 101 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but there was a message, and then there was 102 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: a dinner. 103 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 4: And then there was dinner. Yeah, you know, we just 104 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 4: felt so comfortable together. It was like really amazing, that's great. 105 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 4: But then the weirdest and kind of I don't know, 106 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 4: cutest thing happened where it's gonna sound weird, but we 107 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 4: sneezed at the exact same time. 108 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 3: Oh my god, why do I see experience? 109 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: I really would be kind of funny, like exactly the 110 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: same time. Please don't tell me that you've hit the 111 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: age in your life where you're a man sneeze her 112 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 1: and it's super superaz Yeah, my god, I'm sorry. Every 113 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 1: year my husband's like goes up another decibel. 114 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 2: It does sound like a one in a billion type 115 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 2: of moment. Hopefully it was after your meals came out. 116 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 2: You sneezed onto each other's food, a little cross contamination, sweetness, 117 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: wipe each other's noses. That could be a sweet moment. 118 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 4: Well, it was definitely something we kind of giggled about. 119 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 4: I was like, you just need to because obviously I'm loud. 120 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 4: I couldn't really tell. 121 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 5: That's kind of better because you miss the other person's 122 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 5: sea like its own sneeze. 123 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, but clearly there's a connection going on on multiple levels. 124 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 4: Here feels like a strong connection, and I just I 125 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 4: can't tell if I screwed it up. 126 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: Why do you think that? 127 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I did ask her to come back and 128 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 4: watch a movie at my place. You know, maybe I 129 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 4: was being a little too forward, but I was just 130 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 4: really feeling it. 131 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 3: I don't know how she do she did not, Well, 132 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 3: that could just be on the first dated thing. 133 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: You know, you want to end the first date on 134 00:05:58,760 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: a high. 135 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, not do too much, you know? 136 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:02,239 Speaker 2: Is that how it ended? 137 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,799 Speaker 4: Well? I mean that's why I'm confused, because we did kiss. 138 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 4: Oh now she's not answering anything. 139 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that is weird answering. 140 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: I mean, your buddy's got a thousand dollars writing on this. 141 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: What is he said? I bet he's invested. 142 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 4: Well, he was the one that said, email you guys, 143 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 4: because you're gonna be able to help me get in 144 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 4: touch with her and figure out what's going on. 145 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: I didn't tell him anything. 146 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 3: We're helping his friend right now too. 147 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 2: He wants that money. 148 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 4: So yeah, and apparently this girl is like a friend 149 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 4: of a friend, so it's not like he knows her 150 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 4: first hand. So I'm okay, yeah, yeah, I need help. 151 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 1: So we're getting this not just for you, but for 152 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: him as well. 153 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and for us. 154 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 1: Do we get to cut? I feel like we get 155 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: a ten percent finder seeing if we get. 156 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,159 Speaker 2: Her on the phone, A lot of money is going 157 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 2: to be exchanged if we can pull this off. 158 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: I don't want any money, guys, I just want love. 159 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: Okay, I'll take your part. 160 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 2: We don't do that on him. 161 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 4: Show. 162 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: Okay, but we will try and reach out to Mia 163 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 2: for you when we come back and do your second 164 00:06:56,400 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 2: date update, maybe reconnect you with the one on a 165 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 2: sneeze level. At least we'll do it right after this. 166 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: Hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 167 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 2: I'm feeling a little bit of pressure right now because 168 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 2: there is money on the line for this second. 169 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: Date update, and it's amazing and how that instantly changes 170 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: how invested people are in your dating life. 171 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, one thousand dollars right, a little bit. 172 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 2: It's not my money, thank god, because if I was 173 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 2: a betting man, I'd say this probably isn't going to happen, 174 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 2: and I would be right ninety percent of the time. 175 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 2: That's just the statistics for our show. Unfortunately, we're not 176 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:35,679 Speaker 2: great at getting yeses here. But hey, there's. 177 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 3: Always answers yet answers just yet, not. 178 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 2: Yes is but there's always that ten percent, and that 179 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 2: small margin is what our listener, Henry is banking on. Yeah, 180 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,239 Speaker 2: and if he ends up marrying me down the road, 181 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 2: his buddy who introduced them would get one thousand dollars. 182 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: Oh romantic, it's a pretty genius bounty. I mean, the 183 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: people who set you up should get a reward. Honestly, 184 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: how else are they going to motivate your fast right? 185 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: No wonder they always set me up with duds back in. 186 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 2: The day, Henry, we never asked, does Mia know about 187 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 2: the bounty? Did you tell her? If I marry you, 188 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 2: my friend gets one thousand dollars? 189 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 4: I have not told me about that. 190 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 3: It's a smart move. 191 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: Marriage is such a good topic to bring up on 192 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: the first shame job. 193 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but hopefully she answers our phone call here because 194 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 2: she's completely ignoring Henry and Henry, what's your confidence level 195 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 2: going into this? 196 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 4: Man, I'm looking forward to my bounty wife. Let's go 197 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 4: bounce wife. 198 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 3: It sounds pretty bad. 199 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 2: He's like the brawny man with that on the wedding invite. 200 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 2: But here we go. I'm in a dollar number right now. 201 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 2: Let's do it. 202 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 4: Hio. 203 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 2: Hi, we're looking to speak with Mia. 204 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 5: Yes, she's all right. 205 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: Hey Mia, this is a radio show called Brooke and 206 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 2: je in the Morning. 207 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 3: Good morning. 208 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 4: How can I help you? 209 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 2: You can help us because we're in the middle of 210 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 2: a segment right now called the second Date Update. And hey, 211 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 2: I don't know if you know what that is, but 212 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 2: we're trying to help out one of our listeners who 213 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 2: you met up with recently. You went out to dinner 214 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: with him, a guy named Henry. 215 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 5: Oh, yes, I'm sure, yup, I remember him. 216 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: Okay, that's interesting. Your tone definitely sounds interested, which is 217 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: a good sign. 218 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 5: I'm not sure if I would say that. 219 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 2: Well, well, we know that there's some awkwardness going on 220 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 2: because apparently, according to Henry, you're not responding to his 221 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 2: texts or calls at all anymore, which is a little 222 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 2: bits correct. Okay, it's a little confusing to him because 223 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 2: he told us about your date and it sounded pretty 224 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 2: good on our. 225 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 5: End, right, I mean, the date was fine. Honestly, I 226 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 5: was really drawn to him. He's very good looking. 227 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: Okay, that's one of the best reviews of a first 228 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 1: day I've heard that he's fun. 229 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 5: What's the issue, then, Well, the issue was that afterwards, 230 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 5: I was actually pretty excited about the date and him, 231 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 5: and I was kind of on cloud nine and I 232 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,439 Speaker 5: showed one of my friends a picture of him and 233 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 5: she recognized him. 234 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 1: Okay, weren't you introduced their mutual friends sorta anyway? 235 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 5: So I mean, not not her, No, she said, this 236 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 5: is a guy that she used to date someone else 237 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 5: that she knew, and he's like a serial cheater. And 238 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 5: then his name is not Henry. He goes, well, I 239 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 5: don't know what his real name is, but she knew 240 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 5: him as Hank. 241 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: Wait wait, she didn't date him, she knew someone that 242 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 1: dated him. 243 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 4: Is that. 244 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 1: Oh this is so much hearsay? 245 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 2: But you said serial cheater. 246 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 5: That's the word she used. 247 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 2: Exactly Do you mean serial dater? 248 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 5: I mean, isn't it the same thing. 249 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 1: Yes, my real data would be someone who goes on 250 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 1: lots of dates. That's not cheating. 251 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 2: And he told us that, he said that he's been 252 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 2: trying to go out with a lot of women to 253 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: find his perfect match. 254 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 5: I don't know whatever it is. He's going out with 255 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:13,840 Speaker 5: lots of women, he's using different names. 256 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 2: Huh. 257 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: I mean it feels like that should be something you 258 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 1: should talk to him about because it's a lot of 259 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: like rumors. And he said said totally gossip stuff. 260 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, And we can facilitate that conversation right now because 261 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 2: we have do you have Henry or Hank or whoever 262 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 2: his name. 263 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: Is, which is the same person? Henry and Hank are 264 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: the same. 265 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 2: However, he goes by that person is on the line 266 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 2: right now waiting to talk to you. 267 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 5: Are you serious? I am he's listening this whole time. 268 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 6: Yes, Henry, Henry say hi, Hey, Oh my god, that 269 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 6: was a big accusation. 270 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, Henry, do you know what she's talking about? 271 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, who she's describing is just not me. I 272 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 4: mean that's the old me. 273 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: Oh wait wait, the serial cheater part is the old you? 274 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: Or the serial dater part is the old you. 275 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 4: Well, serial dater. I don't know where the cheating part 276 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 4: came from, because like, yeah, I am trying to date 277 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 4: women and meet people, but I don't like that version 278 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 4: of myself where I'm just going through chicks like wildfire. 279 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: Okay, we don't need to say. 280 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 2: It's a way to describe it. 281 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 4: Listen, that was the old mean, that was Hank. I'm Henry. 282 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: Hank was the player. Henry's the stand up Guys. 283 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 5: When you have a friend of college and then they're 284 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 5: out of college and change their name, ye got it, they. 285 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 3: Grew up a little. 286 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. It started to get to a point where my 287 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 4: friends even started calling me hammering Hank. 288 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 1: Okay, remember she is here with that. 289 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 2: Although that is pretty impressive. 290 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: That nobody wants a hammer. 291 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 2: So I'm sorry, what's your nickname? If you're not Hammering 292 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 2: Hank anymore? 293 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 4: Who are you now currently? I'm I'm Humble Henry. 294 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 2: He's a sweetheart now. 295 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, miya. 296 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 1: You can see that people can change, right, they can 297 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: change their behavior hopefully. That was a long time ago. 298 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 3: When you say, how old? 299 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 2: When did you make that choice? Like, I don't want 300 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,479 Speaker 2: to live that lifestyle anymore, Henry. 301 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 4: I mean it was like weeks ago. 302 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 2: Oh wait, the way you were talking about it, you 303 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 2: made it sound like it was years two years. 304 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: Many, Miya, he's changed. Let's concentrate on. 305 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,680 Speaker 2: The part Hammer and Hank is no more. 306 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 5: Listen, even talking about it, it is too recent. No 307 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 5: girl wants a guy like that who's dating billions of women, 308 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:50,439 Speaker 5: Like that's gross. 309 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: Tell her, Tell her how you're not. 310 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 4: It's not a billion. I mean, you know, maybe a 311 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 4: million would be closer, but I'm not. 312 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 5: You ask me back to your place in the first night, 313 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 5: would Humble Henry really do that? 314 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 4: I mean, if it has only been two weeks like 315 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 4: you said, so, I mean, listen, there's probably like five 316 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 4: percent of Hammer and Hank that's still in there. But 317 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 4: I mean he's the one that asked that question. 318 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 2: Oh, Hank asked you to place. 319 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: Come on, Henry, tell her how you haven't gone on 320 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: a date with anyone else in the last two weeks. 321 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 4: Right, well, I mean there's two girls that Hank needs 322 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 4: to break up with. 323 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 5: Still, come on, you're a player, dude. I'm not having that. 324 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 4: Oh my god, No, no, that's not my thing. That's 325 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 4: it's Hank's and Henry. 326 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 2: Right, those other women aren't dating Henry. They're dating d 327 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 2: bag Hank. 328 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: It makes it sound like you're cheating when you say 329 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: you have to break up with them. 330 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: Henry's not cheating, Hank is. 331 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 5: I told you she's a serial cheater. That's what my 332 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 5: friend said. 333 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 4: I knew it. Listen, it's not a boyfriend girlfriend exclusive relationship. 334 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 4: There's no cheating going on. 335 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 1: Oh okay, from your side, I'm going to. 336 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 4: Go to their apartments this weekend. It'll all be taken 337 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 4: care of, and we're gonna put Hammer and Hank to bed. 338 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 4: You won't hear from him then? 339 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that is Hammer Hank's favorite place. 340 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 1: So funny, all right, I feel like we should ask 341 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: if they want to go on a date in like 342 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: a couple of months. When Hammer and Hank is perl 343 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: like we know he won't be resuscitated. 344 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 4: Want to know? 345 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 2: Maybe Mia has been intrigued by the idea of Hammer 346 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 2: and Hank. 347 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: It's like the worst nickname. 348 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 2: Mia. Would you like to go out on a date 349 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 2: with Hammer and Hank or Humble Henry? 350 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 5: Are you guys seriously asking me this? 351 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, yes, listen, there. 352 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 5: Is no amount of money, like he finishing up with 353 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 5: these women and then I get to have him. No, 354 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 5: thank you. 355 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 4: I'm just I'm so sad to hear that you've seen 356 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 4: it this way. But I need you to know there's 357 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 4: like one thousand dollars on the line. 358 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 2: This could work. 359 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 4: Go ahead, Yeah, wait a minute, what do you mean? 360 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 5: What's the thousand dollars for? Like to go on a date? 361 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 4: Okay, so you know the friend that introduced us, he's 362 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 4: going to get a grand if we end up getting married. 363 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 2: Oh oh, isn't that sweet? 364 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 5: Like I didn't think this could possibly get anywhere? 365 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 2: Here we are, well, Henry Hank, whoever, I'm sorry, it's 366 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 2: going to be a no from me. 367 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 1: You know, keep working on yourself, keep working on that 368 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 1: Humble Hendry five percent. 369 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 4: I don't know, Maybe it's time to just bring back Hammer. 370 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 3: I don't know if you ever. 371 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: Three in the morning, oh Man. 372 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 2: At the end there, when he told her about the 373 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 2: whole bounty thing and how he could possibly get married 374 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 2: to her, I really thought he was going to get 375 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 2: her back on his side. 376 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: If he said it the right way, it could have 377 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: proved that he was interested in long term relationships, that 378 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: he was truly invested in something real this time. But 379 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:26,159 Speaker 1: he did not at the right time or in the 380 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: right sentence. 381 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 2: He didn't deliver a lot of the things he said 382 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 2: the right way. Two weeks. Yeah, so no surprise that 383 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:36,199 Speaker 2: didn't work out. But at least she's gonna have a 384 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 2: fun story that she can tell her children one day 385 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 2: that you kids, before I married your father, I went 386 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 2: out one night with a guy named Hammer and Hank. Wow, mom, 387 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 2: you're so cool. Yeah? 388 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 1: Is that a character from Toms. 389 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 2: You're never gonna find out what that is. 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