Speaker 1: On this show. I like to think of us as.
Speaker 2: Doctors, not in the traditional sense obviously, because we don't
Speaker 2: have medical degrees, some of us even regular degrees, and
Speaker 2: we couldn't tell you where most human body parts are
Speaker 2: located or even pronounce them. And I know personally I've
Speaker 2: put the thermometer in the wrong place many many times.
Speaker 3: I don't want to know.
Speaker 1: We're more like doctors of love.
Speaker 2: And just like with your regular physician who asked you
Speaker 2: to come in for a check up every few years,
Speaker 2: just you know, to make sure you're still alive, we
Speaker 2: like to do that with our patients from a successful
Speaker 2: second date update, check in just to peek in on
Speaker 2: their relationship and see, hey, you guys dead yet?
Speaker 3: Okay, taking a pulse here, get on the scale.
Speaker 1: That's the worst part for me.
Speaker 2: Today we're going to perform a check up on two
Speaker 2: of our listeners who overcame some weird family drama. We
Speaker 2: see where they're at months later. I'm gonna get the
Speaker 2: thermometer out for your brand news.
Speaker 1: Second date up date update, next second date up date.
Speaker 2: If a date doesn't go well and you know that
Speaker 2: it's your own fault, that's tough, but it's easier to
Speaker 2: live with because you can own it and learn from
Speaker 2: your mistakes.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Actually, absolutely, that's a very progressive would think of it.
Speaker 2: It's much worse though, when a date goes south because
Speaker 2: of something or someone that's totally.
Speaker 1: Out of your control. It's frustrating.
Speaker 2: And that's what one of our listeners, Lana said in
Speaker 2: her email. She also said she's a big fan of
Speaker 2: the show. Oh cool, she doesn't miss a day. So Lana,
Speaker 2: first of all, thank you for listening, and tell us
Speaker 2: about the guy that you went out with what's his name?
Speaker 5: First of all, I just have to say.
Speaker 3: I'm excited you finally get your moment on the show.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm sorry that it has to deal with
Speaker 3: a bad date, but we're glad you're here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so let's get into your date. Tell us about
Speaker 2: the guy that you went out with. What's his name?
Speaker 5: So this guy's names Marcus.
Speaker 1: How did you meet Marcus?
Speaker 5: We met him bumble okay, And yeah, he just seemed
Speaker 5: like really relaxed and fun like he had some photos
Speaker 5: of him like doing things other than just drinking, which
Speaker 5: just nice.
Speaker 1: What other things are there?
Speaker 5: He had actually a photo of him doing like drag racing,
Speaker 5: so I'm like, is that just a hobby or you?
Speaker 5: Is that like a pretend photo.
Speaker 3: He's like, no, I swear I'm in that car right there.
Speaker 3: You just can't see me.
Speaker 1: So what did you and Marcus do for your date?
Speaker 5: I thought this was such a cute idea. He suggested
Speaker 5: that we'd go have a little picnic in the park.
Speaker 3: Oh that's always fun.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so sweet low cresh. And so we got there
Speaker 5: and he had this like giant picnic basket.
Speaker 3: Oh good man. Yeah, I mean you never know if
Speaker 3: you're just showing up to a park and he's got
Speaker 3: some subway ready for you, or he yeah right, but
Speaker 3: or he actually went the extra month and put together
Speaker 3: like some goods.
Speaker 5: Well, actually, he opens up the picnic basket and he
Speaker 5: pulls out bags of KFC.
Speaker 3: Oh. I mean, but that's delicious. I said, that's better.
Speaker 5: I think it'd be weird if he had a homemade sandwiches.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I was I read black, you know, I was really
Speaker 3: hoping for a circutery board or something.
Speaker 1: What did you think, Lana, was the KFC a good
Speaker 1: move or a bad one?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 5: Actually I started laughing hysterically because on my profile I
Speaker 5: say that. I love KFT.
Speaker 3: Attention to detail. Nicely done, sir, you can read. I mean,
Speaker 3: that's actually a lot of points. I mean, don't you
Speaker 3: say you can spell? Like? I remember when I met
Speaker 3: my husband, he showed up with my coffee order, and
Speaker 3: I just thought it was so sweet, like so thoughtful,
Speaker 3: just those little things.
Speaker 2: Okay, enough about Brooks boring dating life. Let's get back
Speaker 2: to Lana. Keep us going with Marcus. What happened next?
Speaker 5: Yeah, so you know, we had a great time. We
Speaker 5: were like eating our fried chicken and hanging out, and
Speaker 5: I started getting these like furious texts and phone calls
Speaker 5: from my sister, which I tried to ignore for a while,
Speaker 5: but then I was like, oh no, maybe there's an emergency,
Speaker 5: like maybe she.
Speaker 4: Got to a car accident.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was going on?
Speaker 5: She was mad at me because I borrowed one of
Speaker 5: her outfits. I borrowed the like pantsuit thing, it's like
Speaker 5: a jumper kind of.
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean, but that didn't really affect your date
Speaker 3: at all, did it?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I've lived with ten sisters and they get nasty over cloth.
Speaker 3: Did you guys get into a yelling match over the
Speaker 3: phone right in front of him.
Speaker 5: No, I mean I like walked away, and I mean
Speaker 5: I don't know exactly if you heard, but like I'm
Speaker 5: not shy, Like I'm pretty expressive and I waving my
Speaker 5: hands around. Like when I was talking to.
Speaker 1: Her, Marcus is like, why did you just spit on
Speaker 1: your phone?
Speaker 3: I mean I think that that's pretty simple, though. Didn't
Speaker 3: you just go back and tell them, like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: my dumb little sister called me because she's mad borrowed
Speaker 3: or clothes. Like, don't you think that that would be.
Speaker 5: He's probably gonna get a glimpse of what the fight will.
Speaker 3: No, you don't think so. I think that it's like
Speaker 3: kind of funny.
Speaker 1: That would be a red flag to me.
Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, viously doesn't get along even with
Speaker 2: her own family.
Speaker 1: That's not good.
Speaker 3: What was what was his attitude like when you got
Speaker 3: back after talking with your sister.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean he seems like a little bit awkward.
Speaker 5: So I was like, why don't we just go over
Speaker 5: to the little playground area and we'll go swing and
Speaker 5: swings and kind of lighten things up a little bit.
Speaker 1: How much you were your hands inflatable, Carson, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I think it depends on if this guy has a
Speaker 3: sibling or not, because if you have a sibling, you
Speaker 3: can understand that relationship like that, that tension is okay,
Speaker 3: that you still love the person, that that's just sometimes
Speaker 3: how you communicate, or just an outfit you love.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well maybe we'll be Maybe we'll be able to
Speaker 2: get a gauge about how he was feeling based on
Speaker 2: how the date ended.
Speaker 1: How did that go?
Speaker 5: You know, it was fine, Like we didn't kiss her anything,
Speaker 5: which would have been kind of weird in the middle
Speaker 5: of the park, but he did hug me, and you know,
Speaker 5: he had go to his buddy's birthday party and I
Speaker 5: had a dinner to go to, so we couldn't like
Speaker 5: linger very long. But I thought we had a great time,
Speaker 5: and in like the grand scheme of things, I actually
Speaker 5: would be open to a relationship with this guy, like
Speaker 5: he seems like definitely marriage material.
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, Oh, your sister is in so much trouble.
Speaker 3: She screwed this up for you.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's see if the sister drama continues. Yes,
Speaker 2: we'll play a song, we'll come back. We'll call Marcus
Speaker 2: for you and try and get your second date.
Speaker 5: Update Okay, Yeah, you guys are awesome. Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: All right, hold on, Lana. Update.
Speaker 3: You're in the middle of a second date. Update update,
Speaker 3: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 3: right after you here. Part two.
Speaker 2: Sibling arguments don't end with childhood, No, they continue well
Speaker 2: into adulthood. And today one of our listeners, Lana, is
Speaker 2: tattling on her younger sister, saying.
Speaker 1: Mom, Lisa's ruining my.
Speaker 2: Date again because she recently had a picnic in the
Speaker 2: park with a guy named Marcus. While it was happening,
Speaker 2: her sister kept spamming her phone accusing her of borrowing
Speaker 2: an outfit without permission.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she did, basically a Class C felony.
Speaker 2: So eventually Lana had to just take a moment to
Speaker 2: answer a call, yell at her cis and put her
Speaker 2: in her place. But now she's worried that even though
Speaker 2: the rest of the date went well, that may have
Speaker 2: been a turn off for Marcus. Nowlana, we didn't ask you,
Speaker 2: have you been talking very much with Marcus after the date.
Speaker 1: Or not at all? Like is he ghosting you completely?
Speaker 5: No, he hasn't ghosted me completely, Like if I text
Speaker 5: him he'll text me back, but he hasn't asked me
Speaker 5: on another date, and that was like a week and
Speaker 5: a half ago that we went out.
Speaker 2: But it's a good sign that he's still at least
Speaker 2: keeping in touch, maybe just.
Speaker 3: Replying to be nice maybe, or maybe he's just waiting
Speaker 3: for you to ask him on the date, like women
Speaker 3: can do that too. He's the one that made the
Speaker 3: first move with the KFC in the park. Maybe it's
Speaker 3: your turn.
Speaker 1: That's what we're doing right now.
Speaker 3: But she could have asked before us.
Speaker 6: That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Okay, you know, without a team around her, but it's
Speaker 3: all right. We're here for.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess I could have, but I don't know.
Speaker 5: I like it when the guy like makes ever, you know,
Speaker 5: I don't want to just be like chasing after some guy.
Speaker 2: I bet your sister would have asked the guy out
Speaker 2: without having to call a radio station.
Speaker 5: You did not just say.
Speaker 2: That I went there. I went there, girlfriend, girlfriend, I do.
Speaker 2: I have a younger sister. We haven't spoken in years.
Speaker 3: She also borrows one of your out there.
Speaker 2: She did unforgivable. Now that I'm all riled up, let's
Speaker 2: give Marcus a call.
Speaker 1: We'll try and get your second date update.
Speaker 5: You ready, Lana, Yeah, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm looking for Marcus us. Hey, my name is
Speaker 2: Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Sorry, I'm not interested.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no. This isn't like an advertisement or anything.
Speaker 2: We're doing a segment on our show called a second
Speaker 2: date Update.
Speaker 4: Am I in the radio right now?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Maybe?
Speaker 3: Is that? Okay? It's all just for fun. It's a
Speaker 3: positive things we have to tell you.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: The reason why we're calling you is because you recently
Speaker 2: went out with a woman who had a great time
Speaker 2: with you, but she's confused after your date.
Speaker 1: Why you're not reaching out to ask her out again?
Speaker 4: This is her name, Lana, it is.
Speaker 2: You know who we're talking about the phone right now.
Speaker 2: You're giggling as we're mentioning her. I mean that sounds
Speaker 2: like a good thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, she's great. I like her a lot, all right,
Speaker 4: I just don't know if it's the best match.
Speaker 1: What what makes you say that?
Speaker 4: Did she tell you we went out? We went out once?
Speaker 2: Yeah, she told us all about your picnic in the
Speaker 2: park date and how.
Speaker 3: Thoughtful you were that you got KFC because on her
Speaker 3: bio said how much she loved KFC. I would say,
Speaker 3: good move on.
Speaker 4: Your part, sir, Sure, thank you.
Speaker 2: She thought you were very thoughtful and very funny and
Speaker 2: she had a great time with you. So she's really
Speaker 2: hoping to see you again and doesn't understand why you
Speaker 2: haven't been in communication.
Speaker 4: Yeah. So did she mentioned she has a sister?
Speaker 3: Yeah she did. Yeah, she's embarrassed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she knows that.
Speaker 2: It kind of got out of hand and she went
Speaker 2: off to yell at her sister a little bit because
Speaker 2: of some sibling drama.
Speaker 4: But no, no, it's it's not. I totally get family drama.
Speaker 4: I mean, I you know, my siblings and I fight too.
Speaker 4: It wasn't that.
Speaker 2: Good.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: Did she mention her sister. She calls her like her
Speaker 4: little sister. But they're twin.
Speaker 3: Oh, they're twins. So she's like two minutes littler than
Speaker 3: she is or something like that, like twins like to do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess twins that Okay, why is that a problem.
Speaker 4: The last person I dated was also a twin.
Speaker 1: Whoa, what are the odds?
Speaker 3: Well, are you worried that it's Lana's sister?
Speaker 4: No? No, no, No, it's just like, so this last
Speaker 4: person I dated, I dated her for a while, and oh,
Speaker 4: this is embarrassing. All Right, I'm just gonna say it. Okay,
Speaker 4: when I met this woman that I was seeing, when
Speaker 4: I met her twin, I found myself more attracted to
Speaker 4: her than the person that I was actually dating.
Speaker 3: Hey wait were they Were they identical twins?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so some may have a personality trade that you
Speaker 4: are more attracted to than the look alike.
Speaker 1: So you're like, hey, I want that one.
Speaker 3: That's like one instance. What does that have to do
Speaker 3: with Laana? That has nothing to do with Laanna exactly.
Speaker 4: I just have this fear that, like maybe I have
Speaker 4: some weird thing inside me. We're like, when there's a twin,
Speaker 4: I end up wanting to be with the one that
Speaker 4: I'm not with, and I felt like I might or
Speaker 4: I might want to and that's why it ended, and
Speaker 4: I just don't want to go through that again.
Speaker 1: Okay, it is weird.
Speaker 2: So you you're worried that if you end up dating Lana,
Speaker 2: you'll eventually meet her sister and be more attracted to
Speaker 2: her sister.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because of one experience you had with identical twins.
Speaker 2: I mean that's a big stretch, man, It's a big leap.
Speaker 2: I mean, this is something that we definitely need to
Speaker 2: talk to Lana about.
Speaker 4: I guess I should, but I don't even know how
Speaker 4: I'd like even bring it up with her. It's so weird.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be weird.
Speaker 1: That would be it is.
Speaker 2: The good news is you already kind of did because
Speaker 2: Lana's been on the other line listening and she wants
Speaker 2: to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, no, yeah, yeah, Lana, Marcus, that is
Speaker 4: the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.
Speaker 6: You got commitment issues, buddy, Like that's the only.
Speaker 5: Reason that you would suddenly be attracted to another woman.
Speaker 5: There are a lot of attractive women out there.
Speaker 4: Well, first of all, hi, thanks for setting this up.
Speaker 4: That's cool.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, clearly you don't have the boss to talk
Speaker 5: to me about this. You could have just said something
Speaker 5: like as a joke and it would have been over. Like,
Speaker 5: I'm not worried.
Speaker 4: I'm trying to just not do anything bad. I'm not.
Speaker 4: I didn't.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, such a little whiny.
Speaker 3: But here's the thing, Marcus. What if Lanna is the
Speaker 3: hotter of the two sisters and you already went out
Speaker 3: with her.
Speaker 5: I mean, okay, so you just missed out.
Speaker 1: Bro, you're the hotter of the two identical twins?
Speaker 3: Are you mad? Then? At his reasoning is what I'm
Speaker 3: getting at, Lana.
Speaker 5: That is the most immature, stupidest I think I've ever
Speaker 5: heard of a reason that you don't want to go
Speaker 5: on another day because you think you're going to fall
Speaker 5: in love with my sister who you've never met.
Speaker 4: They asked me the question. I was just being honest.
Speaker 3: I mean he did know. He did know it was weird, right,
Speaker 3: and he didn't know how to bring it up to you.
Speaker 3: And I mean, Marcus, you can kind of see how
Speaker 3: ridiculous that thought is.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you couldn't understand how it's weird that I
Speaker 4: dated twins and now I'm with someone else's twins. You
Speaker 4: can understand like that's weird too.
Speaker 2: In a way, he's looking out for you, Lanna, like
Speaker 2: he doesn't want to accidentally break your heart.
Speaker 5: Oh please, You know what he is looking out for
Speaker 5: me by not texting me back is clearly he's a
Speaker 5: mess and I don't need to get involved with that.
Speaker 1: No, don't write him off yet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there has to be a way that we can
Speaker 2: find out once and for all whether or not he
Speaker 2: will be attracted to your sister. Maybe we can do
Speaker 2: some sort of blind test. You and your sister both
Speaker 2: meet him at the same time. He takes the blindfold
Speaker 2: off and he has to choose which one is Lana.
Speaker 3: That sounds like the worst idea for la make history
Speaker 3: of ideas?
Speaker 1: Is it the most romantic?
Speaker 3: That is terrible?
Speaker 1: What if he chooses rights, Lana? No, I bet your
Speaker 1: sister would be up for him.
Speaker 6: I told you death don't.
Speaker 1: Go there, so I won't go there. But how about
Speaker 1: I go here?
Speaker 2: Where I am ask Marcus, would you like to go
Speaker 2: out on another date with Lana?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 4: Now that we've talked about it, I do think you're right.
Speaker 4: I'm probably silly, and I really I would love to
Speaker 4: go on a second date with you. And I I'm
Speaker 4: sorry as being weird. I think I was just caught
Speaker 4: up guard and I didn't want to be a jerky.
Speaker 3: So cute Jeffery's doing the heart symbol with his hayos
Speaker 3: right now. It's really weird.
Speaker 1: It's so Nicelana.
Speaker 2: What I mean, I'm feeling the love coming through from Marcus.
Speaker 1: How about you? Lana? What do you say, give him
Speaker 1: one more shot.
Speaker 3: You did really like him, Lana, I mean, and he's
Speaker 3: a person who can admit when he's an idiot.
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, okay, so he's sweet, but like, if
Speaker 5: we go out again, I'm just going to be worrying
Speaker 5: the whole time that when he meets my sister he's
Speaker 5: gonna want to date her.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean that's you also jumping to a conclusion.
Speaker 2: Just make sure that they never meet. Problem solved. So
Speaker 2: what do you say we'll pay for it, KFC.
Speaker 5: He might have to do something nicer than he I
Speaker 5: see this time.
Speaker 4: I promise, I promise I will.
Speaker 2: All right, congratulations you too, successful second date update.
Speaker 4: Thanks guys, and I promise if I meet your sister,
Speaker 4: I won't feel anything.
Speaker 6: Such a charmer froking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: So that was a second date from a couple of
Speaker 2: months ago, and we asked Lana and Marcus to come
Speaker 2: back onto the show and give us an update on
Speaker 2: where they're at. Unfortunately, Lana is the only one who responded,
Speaker 2: and she's on the line with us. Lana, welcome back.
Speaker 6: Hey, guys, how are you?
Speaker 3: It's okay? You know, sometimes a second date doesn't turn
Speaker 3: into a third or a force.
Speaker 6: Well guessing we did actually have a third and fourth date. Yea, yeah,
Speaker 6: a bunch of more dates and they were really good.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Oh are.
Speaker 4: You one of those couples where he's like, honey, I
Speaker 4: don't want to do this, you just go on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what happened sounds like there's a butt coming.
Speaker 6: Yeah, there's a big butt.
Speaker 4: What happened?
Speaker 6: Well, okay, so I took him to a house party. Yeah,
Speaker 6: and surprise, surprise, my sister was there.
Speaker 3: Oht okay, please don't tell me. It's what he thought
Speaker 3: was going to happen, where he like, dug your sister.
Speaker 6: Well, in the back of my mind, I was like, okay,
Speaker 6: I know what he said. I have to just keep
Speaker 6: him apart. They must not be alone together.
Speaker 1: Smart, You're like a chaperone at a middle school dance,
Speaker 1: like hey, balloon's.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and and nothing happened. I walked my sister out,
Speaker 6: I said goodbye, and then I go back inside and
Speaker 6: I find him in a room with my best friend
Speaker 6: making out.
Speaker 2: Oh your best friend looked like you are you serious?
Speaker 3: I'm more upset about your best friend.
Speaker 6: I mean, she was plaster like she probably would have
Speaker 6: made out with a wall. But I learned my lesson.
Speaker 6: If a guy is worried about cheating or doing some
Speaker 6: sketchy behavior and he admits that to you, like, listen
Speaker 6: to him the first time.
Speaker 1: That's the real lesson here.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, we appreciate the update, Lona. I'm sorry
Speaker 2: it turned out the way it did.
Speaker 3: Good luck in love, Lona. Yeah, thanks for helping.
Speaker 6: I appreciate you guys trying. It's broken Jeffrey in the morning,