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Speaker 2: You are a don't It's time. I don't give a day.

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Speaker 2: Donkey of today does not discrimination. I might now have

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Speaker 2: the song of today, but I got the donkey day.

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Speaker 2: So if you ever feel that I need to be

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Speaker 2: a donky man with the deed, it's a practice club, bitch.

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Speaker 1: You please don't give the day today?

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Speaker 3: Well at Sharon.

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Speaker 2: Donkey of Today for Wednesday, February twenty fifth goes to

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Speaker 2: forty two year old Lashaanna Williams of Concord, North Carolina.

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Speaker 2: Lashana is a former Okay, former daycare teacher who is

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Speaker 2: serving jail time after pleading guilty in a child abuse

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Speaker 2: case that, rightfully so, has sparked outrage among childcare safety advocates. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Lashana is the epitome of people are in therapy to

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Speaker 2: deal with the people in their lives who won't go

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Speaker 2: to therapy. Because this woman Lashana clearly needed some therapy,

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Speaker 2: and because she didn't get none, she's out here projecting

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Speaker 2: right now, projecting your pain on the other people's child

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Speaker 2: would you like to know what Lashawna did that has

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Speaker 2: causing me to say that, Well, let's go to w

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Speaker 2: CNC Charlotte put the report please.

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Speaker 4: Well right now, what we.

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Speaker 5: Know is this case states back to September of last year,

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Speaker 5: happening here at Concord Academy. According to court documents, Lashana

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Speaker 5: Williams was charged after police she hot glood a three

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Speaker 5: year old child two to eight chair, causing second degree burns.

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Speaker 5: Now tonight, childcare safety advocates expressed something needs to be done.

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Speaker 5: Forty two year old Lashawna Williams is serving a ten

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Speaker 4: Williams used a hot glue gun to put glue on

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Speaker 4: Advocates say this case raises bigger questions about childcare oversight

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Speaker 4: in safety. Williams will serve six months of supervised probation

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Speaker 2: Lashawna want to be Penny Mama from Good Time so Bad. Yes,

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Speaker 2: don't go into daycare or anything to do with kids

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Speaker 2: if you don't care about kids. It's that simple. In fact,

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Speaker 2: kids if you don't love yourself, because if you don't

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Speaker 2: love yourself, you will not love my kids. Tara Robinson,

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Speaker 2: I agree, Okay, she said, we need better people in charge.

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Speaker 2: And if you don't like kids, don't have patience, and

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Speaker 2: just that simple. Furthermore, what am I supposed to do

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Speaker 2: second book, Shook On Anxiety, Playing Tricks on Me, I

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Speaker 2: talk about something called parental paranoia, and it's the anxiety

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Speaker 2: our body. Do you know how crazy that is? Just

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Speaker 2: to take our kids to be with complete strangers every day.

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Speaker 2: We don't know these teachers for real, We don't know

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Speaker 2: Because as you can see what this woman in Lashaana,

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Speaker 2: all it takes is for her to have one bad day, okay,

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Speaker 2: We have to start getting a little medieval in America.

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Speaker 2: Not only do I want this woman to be prosecuted

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Speaker 2: What happened to the devil? Damn golden rule? Okay, do

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Speaker 2: unto others as you would have them do unto you.

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Speaker 2: If you glue my child to a chair, then you

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Speaker 2: super glue, wood glue, hot glue, glue sticks, guerrilla glue,

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Speaker 2: I tell you all the time, you have to do

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Speaker 7: And then Charlotte because the ain't no way there, ain't

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Speaker 7: It's like that, like that's wow, not at all. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: Now let's open up the phone lines eight hundred five

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Speaker 2: You got your hair like that this morning?

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I'm giving Holly Berry, is what you're saying.

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Speaker 7: You said you're sex it's great.

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Speaker 3: Also, everybody has faiked it.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you just want the pounded to stop.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and now I don't do that.

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Speaker 2: Now now, my good brother dj NVA, I'm triggered. I

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Speaker 2: read his first book, Real Real Life, Real Love, right,

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Speaker 2: he talks about how he didn't make his wife orgasm

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Speaker 2: write the book, sir, red the book.

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Speaker 1: Not read the book that I written the book.

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Speaker 2: Do we have the clip with Chobe? We don't have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, clip clip Cliel like Girls Friend Last. No, not Chloe.

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Speaker 6: I thought that one himself on his book to explain it.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to hear this story. I want to

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Speaker 1: It wasn't My mouth game was good. Okay, So she

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Speaker 2: I'm looking at Men's Health magazine dot com. What's that headline, say,

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Speaker 6: DJ mvy admitted his wife faked orgasm for ten years and.

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Speaker 2: Question, that'sait from It hurt me because I thought I

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Speaker 1: Take this away from me. What's the question?

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Speaker 2: No, I think the question is should women tell their

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Speaker 1: I have a joke about it. It's like, yo, women

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Speaker 7: No, women are not as forthcoming as we should be

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Speaker 7: man's ego, Like that's just really what it is. We're

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Speaker 2: Honest about it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, personal experience, you've been through that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah a few times, especially with young manus. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: We'll take some phone calls. Eight hundred five five one

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Speaker 2: Figure it right. God damn, you did tell her?

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Speaker 6: She confirmed, she said, Yeah, we'll try and get this

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