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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Y'all?

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Speaker 1: Is your girl lex p? And is your girl's rain cold?

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Speaker 2: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds?

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Speaker 1: Where is Sea? What's up? We gotta guess today? A Ay,

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Speaker 1: we love having it.

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Speaker 2: I love having it and let me let me, let

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Speaker 2: me just say this, so like we have had like

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Speaker 2: I think that's our theme, like the girl rappers, Like

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Speaker 2: every time we have a rapper on the show, it'll always.

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Speaker 1: Be like a good episode. And I love you down

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Speaker 1: because it's the bad bitch lyrics for me. Period. It's

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Speaker 1: a bad bitch.

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Speaker 2: And when I say beautiful in person, toxic chocolate.

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Speaker 1: Period. So introduce yourself. Let the world know who you are.

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Speaker 1: I miss toxic chocolates.

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Speaker 2: Ca. Okay, So if y'all don't know who, if you

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Speaker 2: living under a rock? Kelly had the song and it

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Speaker 2: just went crazy. Yeah, so I know, Look, this ain't

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Speaker 2: no interview, y'all know, But y'all know, I get excited

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Speaker 2: because I love the music.

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Speaker 1: I love the music. Girls, How did that song come about?

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Speaker 1: And like, did you know it was gonna go crazy

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Speaker 1: like it did?

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Speaker 2: I didn't. I was in Miami and I was with

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Speaker 2: my producer at Jacob and I wanted to be outside.

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Speaker 2: You know, people who going outside in Miami, they want

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Speaker 2: to be on the yacht.

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Speaker 1: With you know, with your girls, and just wanted to

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Speaker 1: be in the studio.

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Speaker 2: And it just wasn't giving it for me. So I

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Speaker 2: just kept saying like m M. So he was like,

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Speaker 2: we're going.

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Speaker 1: To the studio. We're finna over court. You need some

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Speaker 1: old songs. I'm like, okay.

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Speaker 2: So I'm sitting there, he making a beat from scratch,

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Speaker 2: He's doing his thing, and I couldn't think of nothing.

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Speaker 2: I just kept saying mmm, really, and so I was like,

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Speaker 2: wait a minute.

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Speaker 1: Ain't heard nobody say that on a song, right, right?

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Speaker 1: So what I'm you do? People get there?

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Speaker 2: I kept asking y'all, say you get what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: When I say mmm, you like yeah. I was okay,

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Speaker 2: so what people be saying?

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Speaker 1: Mm hm too? And then I just started He was like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what it's about and it's relatable

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Speaker 2: because I feel like that's how we are. We on

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Speaker 2: the phone, we'll be like m m.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta put the emphasis right.

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Speaker 2: So first before we get into it, I just want

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Speaker 2: to give a quick shout out to my homegirl Amina.

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Speaker 2: She actually got us these journals. Bitch, you're doing a

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Speaker 2: good job. I feel like it's important to journal, you know,

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Speaker 2: like I love writing down everything. Sometimes you need to

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Speaker 2: start writing down your days and also just for memories.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, especially being women in the entertainment industry,

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Speaker 2: like a lot of times we're hard on ourselves and

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Speaker 2: we don't.

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Speaker 1: Feel like we're doing good enough.

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Speaker 2: So if you write down what you did today, when

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Speaker 2: you look back on the next year, you'd be like, Wow,

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Speaker 2: look where I'm at now versus last year. So y'all

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Speaker 2: can find these books if you go to Amazon and

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Speaker 2: little type b you're doing a good job.

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Speaker 1: Journal.

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Speaker 2: She has a whole Amazon store. Just typing a mina,

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Speaker 2: it'll pop up. So yeah, get y'all journals. Thank you

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Speaker 2: a mina for the bug. I appreciate that. Yes, so

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Speaker 2: let's get into some little sat and some talk real quick.

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Speaker 2: But besides that, like what y'all been up to? Like,

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Speaker 2: what's been what's te what's up?

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Speaker 1: Well? Girl? We just had a super fucking love it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, super good time. What you been up to girl?

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Speaker 2: Any vacations any means? Well?

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Speaker 1: My birthday coming up? Okay, birthday? Thank you? How old

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Speaker 1: you turning because you know, Auntie old, I'm turning twenty two.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what I know that I'm a Leon two girls.

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Speaker 1: Birthday Okay, okay, I'm August seventeen. Okay, what are you

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Speaker 1: doing for your birthday? I think I have.

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Speaker 2: I've been trying to come up with the little I'm

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Speaker 2: Okay. So before we get into these topics today, y'all,

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Speaker 2: I have to ask y'all a question because I just

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Speaker 2: somebody said, like, dating is crazy, like especially when you're single,

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Speaker 1: Because we're dating, we're trying to figure it out.

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Speaker 1: With their other person because something just shifted.

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Speaker 2: when I meet you, you need to drop all y'all hoes.

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Speaker 1: So do y'all feel like when y'all get in a relationship,

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Speaker 2: Give somebody a little grace period to like drop their

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Speaker 1: Them to just drop them? Like it's just gonna say

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Speaker 2: Sounds good, like if the people is telling you to like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: we're dating, but I'm also talking to other people like

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Speaker 2: usually they don't go down like that. Yeah, usual, I

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Speaker 2: don't got no hose. I don't got to desiree. So

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Speaker 1: Like, oh this nigga a relationship right right?

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Speaker 2: Ain't even know like you No, you ain't getting no

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Speaker 2: motherfucking grace spirits because if you asking me to be

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Speaker 2: in a relationship with you, I'm assuming you ready to

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Speaker 2: drop or that they're gone already. You made that executive

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Speaker 2: you know that that means them hosts gotta go, right,

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Speaker 2: that's so, So why am I giving you a the

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Speaker 2: day after the day after a whole calling your phone

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Speaker 1: That's shitt mm hmmm, that.

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Speaker 2: Work.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I need a little grace period that

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Speaker 2: For me to just like go somebody and be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: I got a nigga now, like I'm good.

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Speaker 1: But it's dating, not the grace period. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 2: But let me ask you to be in a relationship

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Speaker 1: So new, so we don't know if we're gonna be

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Speaker 2: So what if I hears I just need a little girl,

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Speaker 2: it ain't no problem. But like I said, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I keep to yourself. Yeah, that's what I'll do. That's

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Speaker 2: I've never dealt with somebody that was like, oh, you

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Speaker 2: I've never been with somebody like that, but I feel

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Speaker 2: faithful niggas, damn it, but you're not faithful.

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Speaker 1: That that's cause you know.

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Speaker 2: I just gotta start doing little things kind of like

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Speaker 2: you know, back my, I gotta wean them off for me.

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Speaker 2: But I guess that's good that you said, though you

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Speaker 2: don't put no pressure on them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I want like some people be like that, like they like, oh, well,

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Speaker 2: you gotta cut all your house off, but I'm still

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hold on, cammunity. Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 2: The reason I don't trip about it is just because,

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Speaker 2: like I said, I get it, and we're all humans.

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Speaker 1: And honestly, I feel like this, y'all know, Like I

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Speaker 2: Oh and I'm about to be thirty three, I'm not really,

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Speaker 2: but I'm what I'm saying is I'm not really into

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Speaker 1: So I got fifty plus years. I'm playing with you.

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Speaker 2: So if you need three four months to cut somebody off,

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Speaker 2: that's cool because you're gonna be mine for the rest

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Speaker 2: at I'm more so feel like because I'm getting older,

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Speaker 1: Need to know what you want signed I'm getting.

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Speaker 2: I mean I feel like they know, but I'm not

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Speaker 1: Either you want to be with me or you don't.

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Speaker 2: Y'all street yeah, and you're not gonna play with me

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Speaker 2: cause then in three four months he don't cut them

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Speaker 1: So now you're looking well, No, I'll say this. When

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Speaker 1: I say to cut him, I don't. I don't. I'm

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Speaker 2: Still want him like dating that person, but like if

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Speaker 1: How is your day? Like, I'm not gonna trip on them,

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Speaker 1: like I don't want them like hanging out her day.

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Speaker 1: I mean, no, I'm saying that she's head him up.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying he's hitting her up. I'm saying if

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Speaker 2: Him up, like yeah, I mean, I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: Just don't bother me.

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Speaker 2: That's fine if she and you don't have no control

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Speaker 2: over there, you don't ask why you responded, Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: know what because I asked you. I asked you how

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Speaker 2: I'm all for I guess they're not.

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Speaker 1: Let me know, do y'all like a little gratiod all?

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Speaker 2: Maybe the grace period for me, like Okay, there's dating

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Speaker 2: and there's talking, right, Talking is when you create the

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Speaker 2: boundaries like you're not gonna play with me, where slowly

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Speaker 2: becoming into a.

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Speaker 1: Relationship is, Yeah, we date other people, we know what

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Speaker 1: it is.

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Speaker 2: But when y'all get to that talking stage and it's

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Speaker 2: like y'all know, like this, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: You start these games, gonna have to come to a

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Speaker 2: slow end. That's the grace period. So the talking stage

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Speaker 2: when you need to start. But I think for me

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Speaker 2: it was also like I have to have a conversation

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Speaker 2: like all right, were locked in now? Because I live

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Speaker 2: tell people like okay, now, the grace period is over now.

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Speaker 1: So it's not like I'm just.

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Speaker 2: Moving how I want to move still and being I'm

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Speaker 2: But you know, we kind to clean it up. It's

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Speaker 1: I'm not tripping on a little shit.

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Speaker 2: But like once we have that conversation that we're locked in,

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Speaker 1: You know? And I would never get mad at Sometimes

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Speaker 1: I want to see what you want. I want to

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't get mad if I've seen a girl texting

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Speaker 2: right right, I agree with that. I just had to

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Speaker 2: not She ain't got to be strict because we're not

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Speaker 1: I can feel game that was low right. You don't

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Speaker 2: If you want to act funny, bitch, we're gonna clown

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Speaker 2: August sixth. Yes, it's about to be solid in the North.

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Speaker 2: Dre said, the tickets is going fast, y'all. And I

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Speaker 1: We've kicked off this tore with a bang. Girl, y'all

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Speaker 2: Yes, So make sure y'all get y'all tickets and we'll

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Speaker 1: We all side period. What's up, y'all is your girl XP.

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Speaker 2: And it's Sugarls ring the call and we are bringing

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Speaker 2: the For Rich or for Poor Tour to Columbia, South.

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Speaker 1: Carolina on August fifth at the Center. Yeah, doors go

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Speaker 2: Yes, cause y'all know we can't dressed to impress. I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, stop playing.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you show tickets right now at poor minds

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Speaker 2: we'll see y'all August fifth.

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Speaker 1: We outside period. All right.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna get into these topics that wasn't even

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Speaker 2: the topic, y'all.

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Speaker 1: All right, go ahead, drag, go ahead, all right.

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Speaker 2: So for the first topic, I actually seen this tweet.

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Speaker 2: I think I either see it on Twitter or I

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Speaker 2: seen it on Instagram. But instead women be weaking the

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Speaker 2: knees for me and it's okay to move on.

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Speaker 1: M I feel like that's one hundred percent true.

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Speaker 2: I don't I don't understand why people be saw with

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Speaker 1: Part I think, for me, though, this is this is

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Speaker 1: because I can relate.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm, because I feel like you're like you you

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Speaker 2: you'll be trying to hold on to your knees. That's

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Speaker 2: why we was just talking about this. But you see

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Speaker 2: me rubbing my cross. You know what it is though,

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Speaker 2: because it's one it's one nigga in particular that I'm real.

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Speaker 2: I'm still I'm my man, my man, my man, you

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Speaker 2: know what it is I'm gonna be honest with you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's okay to move on. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: Am I weak in the nigge for that nigga? Yes

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Speaker 1: i am. I'm not.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing. I'm not leaving this nigga alone. I don't

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Speaker 1: This nigga ever. I'm just not.

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Speaker 2: But the reason is, yes, it's okay to move on.

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Speaker 2: Have I moved on in the past, Yes, I'll go

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Speaker 2: fuck with other niggas. He go fuck with outher and do.

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Speaker 2: But I'm still coming home like I am coming when

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Speaker 1: Mother fucking high nigga. We can get the pole. And

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Speaker 1: the reason is.

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Speaker 2: I ain't weakened the nigga. It's okay to move on. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but it's a lot of fishing to see, bitch. I

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Speaker 1: No, I feel you.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've been I've been weaked in kneas before.

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Speaker 2: It's okay, we all have. But I'm see I can.

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Speaker 2: I can move on. I'll move on fast, like if

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Speaker 2: I got ship. I'm the type to stay until I

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Speaker 2: don't really like I can't message you no more like

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Speaker 2: I hate you, like I don't know, so then when

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Speaker 1: Want nothing to do with you.

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Speaker 2: I can't double back like I'm out of that, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like the relationship you know did something to me, I

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Speaker 2: it is. But if my heart too, like m like you,

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Speaker 2: you did too much shit, I just slowly just pulling

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Speaker 2: like when I'm riding with you, I'm riding with you

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Speaker 2: exactly once I decide that I'm moving on. Yeah, nigga,

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Speaker 2: you never gonna see me, right, You're very much like that,

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Speaker 2: you and my best friend Lauren. But if but if

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Speaker 2: I'm fucking with you, I might stay with you for

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Speaker 1: But when I'm done, I'm done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And whatever you say about how it ended or whatever,

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Speaker 2: And I'm a believer too that, like romantic relationships, is

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Speaker 1: Yeah to you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: So I like you have multiple saul makes in your lifetime.

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Speaker 2: But just because you and a person have a connection.

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Speaker 2: I don't mean it different types. Yeah, it's different type

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Speaker 2: you may think that that's love and you know that

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like that's what how me and Throwback

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Speaker 1: And I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the longer you stay in those situations

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, that's why they came up, and I'm just.

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Speaker 2: When you love people, it's hard to but not only that,

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Speaker 2: I think also it's hard sometimes when you're wrapped up

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Speaker 1: And you don't even know what it is. You know that,

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Speaker 2: But I think we have to recognize that because you know,

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Speaker 2: when you were the first date, the wine.

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Speaker 1: Flowing, he done about the bottles, he about the salmon.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know, I love me a good Sami Beach. So

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Speaker 2: He wants it like you know, you be like, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, you knowing everything right, but you don't realize

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Speaker 1: You just may love how he treats you.

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Speaker 2: A lot of times you don't even love that person,

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Speaker 2: you just love how they are over you. Everybody loves

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Speaker 2: to be admired, especially as being leos.

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Speaker 1: We love being adored, like that's the way. Yeah cancer

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Speaker 2: You know they say that your moon sign is more

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Speaker 1: That's what I was about to say this.

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Speaker 2: It's a comfort thing because honestly, I know it's okay

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Speaker 2: to move on. But we were just talking about this morning.

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Speaker 2: I'm not as social as people think. I am so

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Speaker 2: is it like.

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Speaker 2: Do you mean like a fear that you can't find

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Speaker 2: to find like nobody to replace the personally.

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Speaker 1: I think it's you gotta.

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Speaker 2: really love fall in love with being by yourself to

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00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:52,600
Speaker 2: be able to you know, just recognize when something is

439
00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,600
Speaker 2: like you're love or something, it's just you being loving

440
00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:57,920
Speaker 2: what they're doing for you. You know, take yourself on dates,

441
00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:01,399
Speaker 2: treat yourself right, be by yourself, do the stuff that

442
00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,880
Speaker 2: you really really like that way when somebody is doing

443
00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,320
Speaker 2: it for you, you know, like, oh I do this

444
00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 2: for myself.

445
00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:08,800
Speaker 1: I like you, like.

446
00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,200
Speaker 2: This is real, real life normal for me. And I'm

447
00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:14,439
Speaker 2: not gonna lie with me too. This is a bad,

448
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,760
Speaker 2: bad habit that I have Sometimes I just be doing

449
00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:17,640
Speaker 2: it out of boredom.

450
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 1: I be texting niggas out of straight boredom.

451
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,880
Speaker 2: I don't even like it was an I don't even

452
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:27,240
Speaker 2: like this nigga. I don't even like if you walk

453
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,359
Speaker 2: by me right now, Sorry to this man. I don't

454
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:32,639
Speaker 2: know you like, yeah, like I just I be bored

455
00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,200
Speaker 2: and I be sometimes I give, but you'll be nigga's

456
00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,680
Speaker 2: a false as a whole. You'll be bored, but you'll

457
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:41,040
Speaker 2: be giving energy to the people that you care about.

458
00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 2: Like you you have feelings for these niggas. It would

459
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 2: be different if you was just doing shit out of boredom.

460
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,680
Speaker 2: And he was like, Okay, I'm having feeling with this nigga.

461
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 1: Goodbye. You know what I'm saying.

462
00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:50,400
Speaker 2: Okay, but you're talking about I know what situation you're

463
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 2: talking about. I'm talking about I can't say because it's

464
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 2: but I'm talking.

465
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,520
Speaker 1: About somebody like you know, I never liked this nigga,

466
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,080
Speaker 1: and it was just like you.

467
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:04,480
Speaker 2: Just like like I just be like, because if I

468
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:05,680
Speaker 2: don't like you would be You're gonna.

469
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 1: See it all of my face.

470
00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,600
Speaker 2: Ade I had I think I tried that and somebody

471
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,439
Speaker 2: told me I was mean, and I'm like, I'm the

472
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 2: farthest from me.

473
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:13,119
Speaker 1: You just.

474
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 2: Irritating, Like I don't know when I don't like, You're

475
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 2: gonna see it on my face. I can't hide it.

476
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,439
Speaker 2: The way I talk my attitude, it's like give me this.

477
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 2: I want this Okay, we're done. But I don't know

478
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,000
Speaker 2: if y'all saw this poster the other day he had said,

479
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 2: this girl was like, yeah, I hate when a nigga

480
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,560
Speaker 2: that I don't like be trying to cuddle me, and

481
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 2: somebody responded this dude responding, he said, walk me through

482
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:37,199
Speaker 2: the thought process of how you ended up.

483
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. That have to be some shit

484
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:45,359
Speaker 1: like I'll end up.

485
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 2: Like I feel like, yeah, I wouldn't have even ended

486
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 2: up at this nigga house. But what I'm saying is

487
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 2: for me, like, it'll be niggas that I've been cool

488
00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 2: with and I'll be flirting with them. I give him

489
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,679
Speaker 2: a false hoo. It'll be some niggas that's known me

490
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:56,680
Speaker 2: for six years. I ain't never got no pussy out

491
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,720
Speaker 2: of me. I'm sorry, but if I haven't fucked you

492
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,400
Speaker 2: within the first four or five times we've hung out,

493
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 2: I don't like you like.

494
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 1: Like you should know.

495
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 2: Maybe it's like you've been with somebody and you know

496
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,719
Speaker 2: that ended or whatever. You're trying to go all to day,

497
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 2: you trying to explore your options. Now this one person

498
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 2: treeting you, right, they taking you outside and then y'all

499
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 2: hanging out a couple of times. Then it gets to

500
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 2: the point where it's like, Okay, let's try this whole sleepover,

501
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 2: you know, let's just try. And you realize, like I

502
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 2: don't like this that happened with me with the dude

503
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 2: that brought me the chanel. He trying to touch me.

504
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 1: I said, let me thank you, but no.

505
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,119
Speaker 2: But that's really how it would be sometimes, and I

506
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 2: know that about me. That's a bad thought about myself.

507
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes I take ship a little too far, just out.

508
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: Of Border'm like, I remember the guy was Daddy. D

509
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: was like, Bro, you don't like him, why are you

510
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: doing this? And I do? I do. I'll be trying

511
00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,880
Speaker 1: to convince my friends and myself like.

512
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 2: I do you know when you really like a nigga.

513
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 2: I feel like we all as women, like you been

514
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 2: at least one nigga in your life that you daddy,

515
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 2: you really like that nigga? You mean dating other dudes,

516
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 2: be like, I mean he cold, but you know down

517
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 2: there you don't really with him, Like, Bro, I knew

518
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: I really didn't like all these niggas and the stuff

519
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 2: that I was doing, because like when a certain nigga

520
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 2: came back, I was like all right, we had fun,

521
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 2: It's time to go home. Like, I don't let niggas

522
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,400
Speaker 2: take me out of my illing me. I don't let

523
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 2: people take me out of character. The one time I

524
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 2: knew I really fucked with the niggas when I ran

525
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 2: up on him like mad people bashing on him, I'm like,

526
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 2: you won't even do stuff like this. That's how I

527
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 2: know I like somebody too. I think I don't like

528
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:50,919
Speaker 2: popped up at the house, kick.

529
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: Down dough and smack your chick.

530
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 2: I'm gonna see what's up, like because if the if

531
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: the guy giving me that energy too, like where he like?

532
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:06,159
Speaker 1: What's up? What you want? Oh twins that I'm one

533
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 1: of them people.

534
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,640
Speaker 2: If you answering it me, you want me to pull

535
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 2: up exactly because why you not answered?

536
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: You want? What's your saying? I'm a toy, okay, but.

537
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:23,439
Speaker 2: My moll finally, my wife and my rising libro see me.

538
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not like if I pull up on you,

539
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 1: I'm not knocking on the door. I might hide in

540
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 1: the bushes. I'm behind the bushes type of girl. I'm not.

541
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,199
Speaker 1: But why are you hiding? I want you to know

542
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: I'm outside. I just want to see. I really want

543
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: to see what's going.

544
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,360
Speaker 2: On, because if I go to your door, I feel

545
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 2: like that gives you a chance to lie, to say whatever.

546
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 2: I want to hide in the bushes. I've hid in

547
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 2: the bushes before. I'm not gonna lie.

548
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 1: Then what did you do? Nothing was going on? Bring No,

549
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 1: I just went home and I went to sleep. You

550
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:57,159
Speaker 1: never saw him left. I slept because he wasn't doing nothing.

551
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: I'm up very well that at night. But but like,

552
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 1: what would you know?

553
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 2: Because I don't want to do it, because if I

554
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 2: was gonna like record and take pictures and I was

555
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 2: gonna send it to them, but you.

556
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 1: Wasn't gonna you know, I'm scary, no, because.

557
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,120
Speaker 2: Because if I'm coming over, you are doing that, right

558
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: if you If I'm coming over and you're not doing nothing,

559
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 2: I want to stay.

560
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay now. I'm sorry you didn't plan on

561
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 1: me to come.

562
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 2: Over, but I'm here now, she said, I want to stay.

563
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: Stay. I'm just gonna make sure that there's nothing going on.

564
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 2: And if I see.

565
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: You ain't doing it, I'm gonna be like, hey, I

566
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 1: wasn't in the area. Exactly I know what I would

567
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: stop by exactly.

568
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 2: The way it was like this then used to live

569
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 2: in Bucket and I was on the East side.

570
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna stop and get some food in

571
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: a club.

572
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 2: In booktcause that's where all the all the clubs and

573
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 2: legs be and I just I'm so I just had

574
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 2: the job over here. But you know what, I feel like,

575
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 2: this is where i'mpposite that because y'all was like, that's

576
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 2: how y'all know. Y'all care about a nigga if you

577
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: let you out of your element. For me, I know

578
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 2: I care about somebody when I don't get out of

579
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 2: my element.

580
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: And I'm really trying to be calm and talk to you,

581
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:10,360
Speaker 1: like when I.

582
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 2: Pop off and I'm mad, that's just because I don't

583
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 2: give a fuck and you really gotta be fucked up,

584
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna talk to you.

585
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: When I care about you.

586
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep myself calm and I'm gonna really try

587
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: to communicate with you so we can work this out,

588
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 2: because I really want to talk to you. When I

589
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 2: pop off on you, I don't give a fuck about you. Really,

590
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 2: That's how I am. I don't like to treat people

591
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 2: like that that I care about, Like I think even

592
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 2: with my friends, Like.

593
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:36,959
Speaker 1: I really, you can't name one time I really just

594
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,239
Speaker 1: went off on you, like I don't do that.

595
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 2: I really be trying to communicate be cause if I

596
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 2: love you, let's talk this out. I don't want to

597
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 2: get toplar. It's a certain like situation, you know what

598
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 2: I mean. It's some moments where you Okay, let me,

599
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 2: let's just calm down and let's just talk about it.

600
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 1: But if you initially have me f up, it's now.

601
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna sit in here and say I never

602
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 2: go off on people I love and care about, like

603
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 2: I do do that, but like when it comes down

604
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,399
Speaker 2: to it, I'm trying to work it out. Yeah, I'm

605
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 2: gonna work it out.

606
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 1: List work. I'm gonna work it out with it because tomorrow,

607
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,880
Speaker 1: like what you're doing what me and.

608
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 2: Lex like honestly, but we said this before on the show,

609
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 2: like we wouldn't have been probably friends at this point

610
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 2: if it was for me because I used to always

611
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 2: get mad at hood because I gotta be my friend

612
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 2: all all. And she would be like, gro I'm gonna

613
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 2: call you tomorrow. When I say, that's just my personality everything.

614
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 1: She is so just like she I know she loved me.

615
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 2: But when we be yeah, are you and the stuff,

616
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 2: it'd be real like and we just need to take it,

617
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 2: just separate, you know.

618
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 1: She'd be like, I'm gonna just yeah.

619
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 2: I'd be like, actually, i'm gonna go you work on that,

620
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 2: I'm gonna work on this.

621
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 1: And then we come back. It's like we never even

622
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: like we like in.

623
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 2: We know we're not gonna let nobody play with this

624
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: period right about. But I know how Dre is like

625
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 2: Dray and my mom had the same birthday. My sister

626
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:10,639
Speaker 2: is a tourist. Like, I know how they are with

627
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 2: their mouths, and their mouths are so bad. But I'll

628
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 2: be like, all right, girl, talk tomorrow. I used to

629
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 2: do the same shits my mama used to.

630
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:18,880
Speaker 1: You so great.

631
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 2: But I'm like, all right, girl, I'll talk to tomorrow.

632
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 2: Hey girl, Like that's how our relationship was. So when

633
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: you start when you like girls like I pl.

634
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 1: On you by I'm cool on you. How okay, girls

635
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: see for brun my mom my mama leave her. She

636
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: real like like not.

637
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 2: But she just like it's not emotion. It's like, okay, well,

638
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 2: how can we fix the situation. It's real straight to

639
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: the point and wheel and like I'm one that's like real,

640
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 2: like I have real bad angry issues with so I

641
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 2: just be like real like quiet, like get out my face,

642
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 2: so both of us trying to communicate it.

643
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: I would she be wanting to talk, She's always want

644
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: to talk. Ship.

645
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: I used to be like, I don't want to talk

646
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: to you. It's not we don't talk, we don't talk.

647
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 2: I'm a talker, yes it is. I am a talker

648
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 2: like I like, no, bitch and I love you like, no,

649
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: you're gonna talk to me.

650
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm a quiet like storm. That's something. So women be weak.

651
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 1: Are y'all okay with moving on? It's easy for y'all

652
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: to move on? Yes or no? Yeah?

653
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 2: I mean try to act like it's just always easy,

654
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 2: because I don't feel like it's always easy. But I

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656
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657
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658
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659
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661
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693
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Speaker 1: I want to get into this next time. This is funny.

694
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Speaker 1: I look, I see. That's how I told you.

695
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 2: We always we love the girls. Okay, so the next

696
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 2: topic we wanted to talk about is because I know

697
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 2: we can all relate to this because we get to

698
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Speaker 2: the back period.

699
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Speaker 1: It's the boss bitches. Okay. We always talk about.

700
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 2: Bdb's go get you a BDB. A BDB is a big,

701
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 2: big baller. That's what we talk about show.

702
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: BDB is a big big ball us.

703
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 2: We always say, go get you a man that got money,

704
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 2: Go get you a man that got ambition. You know,

705
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 2: you're supposed to have somebody that is always doing better

706
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 2: than you, are more than you, or can put you

707
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: in a position to do very well.

708
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 1: We love that, but we never talked about.

709
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 2: It on the flip side because everybody want to talk

710
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 2: about how women are gold diggers.

711
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: But let's talk about it.

712
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 2: Men be chasing after women with money too, and men

713
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 2: will do you so fucking wrong and you move on,

714
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 2: this is your axe, and then he see the glow

715
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 2: up and he's trying to come back and treat you right.

716
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: So let's talk about it.

717
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 2: Let's talk about how men be chasing after women with

718
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 2: money too.

719
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: Let's talk about how.

720
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 2: Niggas be big browing niggas.

721
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: Just because they got money like that. Men are.

722
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 2: Men are big boxing than women, right, Men are bigger

723
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 2: box than women.

724
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: I don't care what nobody you can.

725
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 2: Literally, I literally I don't know who I told this,

726
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 2: but I watch it like I see it almost every day.

727
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 2: I be outside, like because that's my job, be at

728
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 2: the clubs and stuff. I walk in like it's another artist.

729
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 2: He real piles in. It's like sixteen females with them

730
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 2: and like sixteen men with them.

731
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: The men they trying to.

732
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 2: Rush to the front win like y'all all standing up

733
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 2: in the session smoking the hookah stuff and got these

734
00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 2: females down here looking crazy, But it's like, who's really like,

735
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: right when it comes down to the nitty gritty, your.

736
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 1: Homeboy to reach niggas more than we do. They really do,

737
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: even when it's the homeboy, like, oh my god.

738
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 2: But I mean even with even with women, I feel

739
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 2: like we can keep it honest, y'all know.

740
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm doing We're doing well. The show is

741
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: doing very well.

742
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 2: And it's a blessing and I'm very I'm very humble,

743
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 2: Like I thank God every day that I'm here because

744
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 2: we're all blessed.

745
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 1: I mean, we get to wake up.

746
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 2: You get to wake up and make music every day,

747
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 2: do something that you love and your passionate about. Not

748
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: a lot of people get this opportunity. But I will

749
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,959
Speaker 2: say it's a lot of niggas that I dealt with

750
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 2: in the past that didn't believe in me. That I

751
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 2: thought it was a joke when I said I wanted

752
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 2: to move to Atlanta and I wanted to do something

753
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: in media. They didn't see my vision. A lot of

754
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 2: people didn't understand my vision. But now you see the vision.

755
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 2: I never asked you to really see it. I just

756
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 2: needed your support. I just need you to say, hey,

757
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 2: lex Pi, you know what. I don't get it, but

758
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 2: fuck it, this is what we're doing. Let's roll with it,

759
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. And so now seeing how

760
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 2: those same men treat me now, like, oh man, I

761
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,280
Speaker 2: support men. I knew you was always funny.

762
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: I know, did you did? You? You are bopping?

763
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 2: You are right, you're dick writing because you see what

764
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 2: when you see what the fun going on and you

765
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 2: feel like, oh maybe I can get her back.

766
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 1: Yeah you pussy licking, real you real licking right now. Yeah,

767
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:34,320
Speaker 1: it's saying right now, like what what is it?

768
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 2: I think we've all been in situations like that with

769
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 2: me and like yeah, because it was a lot of

770
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 2: people who I feel like like I've dated industry guys.

771
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 2: I've dated guys that are in positions to like they

772
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 2: couldn't helped us, but they didn't. And and now you

773
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 2: want to work together because we've shown what we could

774
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 2: do on our own.

775
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: Which is cool.

776
00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 2: But it's like you fucked with me, so you should

777
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 2: have lead that off the GP right, like just because

778
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 2: like I got it's kind of similar, but it's not

779
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 2: like I had an X and like we both I

780
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 2: was did my I was doing my own thing before

781
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 2: I met him with my music stuff already and he

782
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 2: was doing his own thing whatever whatever he had going on.

783
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 1: We came together and in the relationship it didn't really work.

784
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 2: Out, and he it was mostly him doing and doing

785
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 2: all that stuff, and I still stayed or whatever. Then

786
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 2: when I finally decided to leave, that's when I started

787
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 2: blowing up. But let him tell it. I left him

788
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 2: because I already.

789
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: He turned me up. Let him tell it. I left him.

790
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 1: He cheated on me.

791
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 2: He tried to work it out, but I left because

792
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 2: I was turned up and I want to see what.

793
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, let him tell it. He he made me so

794
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 1: it's like making another meat. That's what Let's do it

795
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: again one exactly. I think the thing about black women too,

796
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 1: is like we are it's to a fault.

797
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 2: We a ride or die, and Nigga can be at

798
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 2: his lowest and we're gonna be there and we're gonna

799
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 2: and we're gonna do what we have to do.

800
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 1: Niggas not so much do that for us. Besides Patpoos

801
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: with Red Me.

802
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 2: That's the only time we see that Nigga hold the

803
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: big down right, niggas is not holding.

804
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: Rare is because.

805
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 2: We that But what I'm saying, is like we'll hold

806
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 2: a nigga down and stuff, but it's like, you know,

807
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 2: men don't give us that same respect. But as soon

808
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 2: as we leave and she gets popping, everybody want to

809
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 2: talk about they built up a black woman. We support

810
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 2: each other, We do this with each other. Can't nobody

811
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: say they made drain the call? Can't nobody say they

812
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:44,479
Speaker 2: made lex.

813
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 1: Peakin't nobody.

814
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 2: We did this. You didn't give me this personality. You

815
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: didn't give her these bars, Like you can't stop trying

816
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 2: to take credit from my under paper, because you too,

817
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: whatever is your path and what you to be, ever

818
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 2: God has for you, that's what he got for you,

819
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 2: no matter who come eat and like, this is what's

820
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 2: for you, and it's for you.

821
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: You ain't give me these God gave me these right, right,

822
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 1: So how do you feel about your every like do

823
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: y'all are y'all cool?

824
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 2: I just I.

825
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: It just I don't want you to do what you do.

826
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 2: I'm not like, what's the word, I'm not mad, I'm

827
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,959
Speaker 2: not nothing that Like, you're great.

828
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

829
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 2: You're very talented, you have amazing talents or whatever. Just

830
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 2: do you right, don't do. Don't worry about what I like.

831
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: Let's just move on.

832
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, don't bash me now. Listen, there was a

833
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 2: point of time where I did. I was mad sauty

834
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 2: as a woman. You like, I stayed this long and

835
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: you want to that's how.

836
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: You're doing me. And so I put it in my music.

837
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 2: I put in my music that I'd rather make some

838
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 2: money about it, right, saying, instead of going and they

839
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 2: think you're gonna go with a million, just.

840
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 1: Burn yourself out right right, let him tell it. That's

841
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: what I went to go do. I would to burn

842
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: myself out. No, I went to study our Yeah, they

843
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 1: always think that, especially minded women.

844
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 2: Dude like women who got you think me, I'm not

845
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 2: about to go fuck with nonother nigga to try to

846
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 2: get back at you.

847
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 1: That's not being I know how you're gonna look at me.

848
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: I know how niggas is. I know that they I

849
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: did this. I had I never know. That's why I

850
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: say having revenge sex never works. I give my little

851
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: exact exactly, I get my boss and do the things.

852
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 1: You think you think I need you, I'm gonna show

853
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 1: you promise. I promise. I don't right, And I think.

854
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 2: Because honestly, I feel like you did that. You play

855
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 2: me so man, I dropped. I said that nigga name,

856
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 2: I said this nigga got me so But we ended

857
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 2: up having to go to leate the episode later, and

858
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 2: it was way before the sho ended up like blowing up.

859
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: It was like, but I was like talking man about him,

860
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: But I don't got no, I never do that.

861
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 2: That's how I knew. Like, I'm like, you're not good

862
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,319
Speaker 2: for me because you'll be taking me out of my.

863
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 1: Care and they look for a reaction. They do things

864
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: to get a reaction from you. I have to learn now.

865
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, this is only for a reaction.

866
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 2: How are you gonna choose to react right now? I'm

867
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 2: gonna choose to let you have it, move on with

868
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 2: my life until you make these resks.

869
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: You do you and I'm gonna go.

870
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 2: So let me get off the topic real quick, because

871
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 2: I want to talk about this because you're beautiful, you're attractive,

872
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:26,399
Speaker 2: and you young. You know, you a newcomer, and I mean, look,

873
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: even though Auntie a little older than you, we still.

874
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: Kind of knew in the industry too.

875
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 2: And I feel like a lot of people fuck with

876
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 2: us to They're like, who are We always talk about this,

877
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 2: Who y'all fucked to get y'all deal?

878
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: How did y'all get here? How are y'all doing this?

879
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: Because mm hmm exactly, we didn't fuck nobody to get here.

880
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: We say this all the time and they always do

881
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: that to us. They gonna always assume it. So how

882
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: do you So, how do you handle that? Though?

883
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 2: Like, cause, look, we may we need some advice a

884
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 2: little bit because it's so aggravated.

885
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: It's hard for us not to react sometimes.

886
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 2: You know, It's it's really just the fact that you

887
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 2: cannot control what people think. At the end of the day,

888
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 2: they gonna think whether you them I ain't do that,

889
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 2: or you're trying to put points to them, they're still

890
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 2: going to think that you you.

891
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: Did, or people are gonna lie on you and say

892
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 1: that you did this with this person. Trust me, I

893
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: go through this.

894
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 2: It's down here to think that they homeboy until their homeboy.

895
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 2: They had said to me, I don't even know that, man,

896
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 2: I don't even know that.

897
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: Man.

898
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 2: Like literally, if you can't you cannot even you can't

899
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 2: control it. It's just you continue to live like you live.

900
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 2: You know, for a fact, that you work hard to

901
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 2: put the money into your business, or you work hard

902
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 2: and to prove you know, to make it where you

903
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 2: want to make it payitation that it's only gonna lower

904
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 2: your vibrations. So I want to stay high in my

905
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 2: vibration so I can keep breaking these bringing these rats in,

906
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,320
Speaker 2: so I can keep showing people that I'm talented and

907
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 2: that I can do this. Because when you react with

908
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 2: emotion with other people's thoughts and ashes, that does not

909
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: benefit you at all. Like, uh, you could be messing

910
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 2: with a nigga and he buy you a camera, he

911
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 2: buy you something to put on your should now, and

912
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 2: you let him go now.

913
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:56,280
Speaker 1: He doesn't punage your whole.

914
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 2: Operated like man, you know what's crazy though, And this

915
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 2: is why I always like my age is a cool

916
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 2: lass nigga.

917
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: He actually gave he really did give us the idea

918
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: for Wanda on Wednesday and when we started. But he

919
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: don't ever try to take credit for that ship. He's

920
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: never he's secure with himself. Yeah, and he definitely doesn't.

921
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: He's never been like oh I told Lex Peter, he

922
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:22,320
Speaker 1: never did that.

923
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 2: He's secure with himself as a man. He knows that

924
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 2: he had a boss with him, and that she wanted to.

925
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 2: He puts you on, and you know that he you

926
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 2: know what I mean, he knows that with himself, he

927
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 2: ain't got a break to his homeboys because it is

928
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 2: what it is. She's doing her thing. I'm still making money.

929
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 2: I'm still doing what I'm doing. So that's just the

930
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 2: type of man that we applaud.

931
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: Yes, I love it. Okay, what's up, y'all? Is your girl?

932
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: Lex P and Eastern Girl call and we're here to

933
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: talk to y'all about Hello Fresh. Y'all know things are a.

934
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,640
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935
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 2: to the grocery store. So I love Hello Fresh because

936
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 2: everything gets delivered to your door and you don't need

937
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,520
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938
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: Right.

939
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love anything that makes my life easier because

940
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 2: we have been so busy lately. And also the food

941
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942
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943
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,040
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944
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,239
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945
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946
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947
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:28,880
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948
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949
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:35,200
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952
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953
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955
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956
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961
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962
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into w bow bowl about

963
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 1: but it is my girl is icy as fun. Hey

964
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: it ain't. Ain't I love it? She is not one

965
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: of them. Okay, I'm loving this episode. I'm having a

966
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 1: grand I was literally sleepy like three minutes before. But not.

967
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 2: What I'm gonna do.

968
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: No, I'm loving it here.

969
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 2: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the bed segment.

970
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 2: So we wanted to talk about deal breakers in the bedroom.

971
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 2: And the reason I want to talk about this because honestly,

972
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 2: I thought I thought I was.

973
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: A big old freak, big pussy big. I thought it

974
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 1: was like turn it up in the bedroom. No.

975
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 2: I really thought nobody can out freak me. But then

976
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 2: once I really started like talking to people and real,

977
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 2: hold on, I'm not that freaking. I really just like

978
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 2: to have good sex. I like to feel good in

979
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 2: the bedroom. So I wanted, I always am interested to

980
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 2: like know other women's deal breakers in the bedroom.

981
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:20,399
Speaker 1: So that's what we're gonna talk about today.

982
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 2: What are your I heard I had a conversation like

983
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 2: this before too, and I felt the same way, like

984
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,240
Speaker 2: I was like, whoa.

985
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: That's what I am, very vanilla like I used to.

986
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: There's some things that you do that I don't do.

987
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: There's some things that I know that you don't do.

988
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna lie deal break in the bedroom.

989
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 1: If aig try to put his toe in my mouth,

990
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 1: oh my god, I did it once you Like, I'm

991
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: not sucking on And it wasn't like I don't know, like.

992
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 2: It wasn't like me my knees and like I put

993
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 2: his song in my mouth like it was I was

994
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 2: riding big backwards and then you know how you live.

995
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: And spending like his toe was like now was like

996
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: he never crossed my mind, like rub on the lett

997
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: smark on them. But she popped that bitch in my mouth. Now,

998
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,800
Speaker 1: every time I see that nigga, look at his but

999
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: then I'm like, you a nasty nigga every time I

1000
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: see that nigga.

1001
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 2: And be like, h, I have like this thing about

1002
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 2: fucking with niggas with ugly feet, So I never talked

1003
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 2: to niggas about ugly beet like yeah, I mean it's

1004
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 2: that was a little wild. That was probably like one

1005
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 2: of the wildest niggas I need to be.

1006
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: But like you know, you.

1007
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 2: What you do.

1008
00:45:55,719 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 1: Be new here? You ever respect go ahead and saying

1009
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: we would be in real right now, you would never

1010
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: do it. Okay, Let all right, everybody, why are y'all laughing?

1011
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 1: You have talked about this before, and like that's just

1012
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 1: not I don't know. It's like how you even know

1013
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 1: her in there before? Like I put my finger in

1014
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: a nigga asked, I.

1015
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 2: Don't think I'm the person I have had to come

1016
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:32,399
Speaker 2: face because I'm not gonna lie.

1017
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit there and be like, oh my nigga, love,

1018
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,399
Speaker 1: my nigga love. He's not. He don't even like that ship.

1019
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: But he was just like, okay, let me dry, we

1020
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: draw it. Whatever wanted. He wanted you to try, right, No,

1021
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 1: you just wanted to try. You as a freak.

1022
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 2: Nobody cannot nobody, I mean, somebody point me to the

1023
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,319
Speaker 2: best asked either, I said, hey, are you doing?

1024
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 1: Meant yeah, I.

1025
00:46:57,600 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 2: See what happened was honestly, No, I feel like sometimes

1026
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 2: when you're very comfortable with somebody in the bedroom, I

1027
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 2: just don't mind trying different things.

1028
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: It's it's something that me and this person do all

1029
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: the time.

1030
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: Like no, like it was like a one two and

1031
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 2: but it was just something I wanted to try because

1032
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 2: I wanted to see what the hooplot.

1033
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: Was to be comfortable. Who conversations? What rooms do you

1034
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:21,720
Speaker 1: be in where this is the hoopla?

1035
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 2: I'm not, like I said, I have been to a

1036
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 2: whole sex resort, Like I have friends like, I'm not

1037
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 2: gonna lie.

1038
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to put her on blast.

1039
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 2: Are one of our close friends as a whole sex

1040
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 2: podcast shout out to Kiki.

1041
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: Kiki is a freaky bitch. Kiki is a freak. Kiki

1042
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 1: is very very freaky.

1043
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:44,320
Speaker 2: Ok yeah, kick They have a show called Cocktails, emphasis

1044
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 2: on the cock So it's just like, yeah, something like

1045
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 2: we done have somebody on the show. She is a

1046
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 2: sex expert. Like we are around a lot of people

1047
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 2: that really live this shit.

1048
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You were just like I

1049
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: just want to get in there. I was gonna get

1050
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 1: in there, and I got in there.

1051
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 2: It was It's just the weird thing to me. Eat

1052
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 2: it listen, Okay, mass a man's ass. I probably eat

1053
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 2: a woman's ass before I do.

1054
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 1: Yes.

1055
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 2: One of the reason is, like a man I know,

1056
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:27,240
Speaker 2: is my nigga is very Yeah, my nigga is very clean.

1057
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:30,839
Speaker 2: Never never, Yeah, he's That was never a concern. They

1058
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 2: got a little let me shut up, you know what?

1059
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:36,240
Speaker 1: Not a little flows.

1060
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 2: Okay, So what's your deal break here in the bedroom? Like,

1061
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 2: what is something you will absolutely not to do? She

1062
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:46,479
Speaker 2: like eat an ass, bitch?

1063
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: We know she's not gonna suck a toll.

1064
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,840
Speaker 2: You know, I heard about them folks that like the

1065
00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 2: the girl to stracked them down the niggas you Okay,

1066
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 2: I can agree, but we've talked about that before. I agree,

1067
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 2: I would try it. I don't know, man, so you

1068
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 2: weren't doing but not with my nigga. My nigga, well,

1069
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:14,439
Speaker 2: first of all, would never let me do this. First

1070
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 2: of all, ever, I would never necessarily want to be

1071
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 2: in a serious relationship with somebody that would let me

1072
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:20,399
Speaker 2: pay them.

1073
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,360
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie. I would try it just

1074
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: to be like this the same what if what you

1075
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: supposed to do? What? I ain't dookie on it on

1076
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,800
Speaker 1: the strugs. Okay, see you're taking ship too far. Okay,

1077
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 1: that's real about him more so throwing it. You know,

1078
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about him throwing that at I'm like, what

1079
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 1: am I supposed to smack your ass? Like? It's definite

1080
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,880
Speaker 1: we do I guess if you bet up? Why not?

1081
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm not a bitch.

1082
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:55,839
Speaker 2: I might even have a pedal because I'll be thinking

1083
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 2: about me and how what I be doing. I'll be

1084
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,040
Speaker 2: throwing that ass back, and I never want to see.

1085
00:49:59,920 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 1: My nigga do that. They do that when they do it, Yes,

1086
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 1: yes they do. I've seen the video back art, Like really,

1087
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 1: I've seen.

1088
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 2: My friend has kicked somebody before her and she sent

1089
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,359
Speaker 2: me a video of her doing it, and I was actually, yeah,

1090
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 2: she was pegging somebody in the video and know what

1091
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 2: was he was throwing it?

1092
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 1: Yes, and he was like, oh, hennah, she liked it.

1093
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: Clearly he was biting. He was biting a pillow and

1094
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: she let her record. It was a it was a

1095
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: wild video. What's the conversation after that, Like after I

1096
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:39,399
Speaker 1: beat her back in? I mean, she's a freak. That's

1097
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 1: how I know she's a freaking. I'm not there yet because.

1098
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:43,840
Speaker 2: I say I would want I ever look at you

1099
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 2: the same, right, But when he's breakfast, bitch, you want

1100
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 2: a love as over easy?

1101
00:50:53,640 --> 00:51:00,800
Speaker 1: Now? Do he want you need somebody? What's the conversation

1102
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 1: after I literally beat your baking.

1103
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 2: I've been concerned about I don't know, I be concerned

1104
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 2: about the smell, Like I feel like you probably be

1105
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 2: flunky you put somebody in the booty.

1106
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: But yeah, like nigga's already not as clean as like

1107
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:17,040
Speaker 1: we are exactly. Yeah, I don't think they are.

1108
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 2: But I feel like anybody that's done ain'tal before. They

1109
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,320
Speaker 2: know how to prepare their booty hole. But niggas don't

1110
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:27,399
Speaker 2: know if it's the first time and the niggas wanted

1111
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 2: to be paid.

1112
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: He did not prepare his He's done it before. This

1113
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 1: ain't his first rodeo. That's had the first rodeo before

1114
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: with somebody and was like, fuck it, let's do it.

1115
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:38,840
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

1116
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 2: You know, he got the dial doos, they got the

1117
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 2: everything at the at the crib, so he probably seen that.

1118
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: But she was like, I'm gonna pinion. Is something I say.

1119
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 2: I would try it, but like I said, I would

1120
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 2: never try it with somebody like I'm in love with

1121
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 2: or somebody that I care about.

1122
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 1: I would first of all, my nigga would never ever.

1123
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:03,320
Speaker 2: Ever And then, like I said, the action of doing it,

1124
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,120
Speaker 2: because you gotta art your bag, you gotta throw your

1125
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 2: ass bag. He has to be comfortable, like you get

1126
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 2: that ship wet, like when I'll spending that bitch like.

1127
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 1: No, that's nice, not spending. I just still do you

1128
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:19,439
Speaker 1: know Okay, maybe I'm just not. I'm just I'm right right,

1129
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:21,439
Speaker 1: I know you are right, but that's what I'm saying

1130
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:24,040
Speaker 1: in a while. But I did in the past say

1131
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 1: that I would do so would you do it?

1132
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 2: I would do it to a nigga, But I agree

1133
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 2: with her, like just because I'm one of them people

1134
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 2: like I try anything on at least the ball. I

1135
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 2: try anything once, but it could be my nigga. I

1136
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,359
Speaker 2: agree with that, but like just to be like damn,

1137
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 2: like you know you be. I I measure myself like

1138
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,799
Speaker 2: being an oldest bug, like ad in a rocking chair,

1139
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 2: like looking back all life.

1140
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 1: Like we had a nice night. I'd be like, damn,

1141
00:52:58,640 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 1: that was the time.

1142
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 2: I'm yeah, yeah, I even like when I was your age,

1143
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 2: I probably woulna be like hell n. There was a

1144
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 2: lot of things that I felt hell now when I

1145
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 2: was twenty one, Like as I got older, I was like, Okay,

1146
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 2: I'll try it because I feel like this. I look

1147
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 2: at sex like I look like at food. You don't

1148
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 2: know if you like it or not till you try it.

1149
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 2: You might think something nasty until you actually try and

1150
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 2: you're like, oh shit, I actually kind of like this.

1151
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:28,840
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You really never know until

1152
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 1: you try it.

1153
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you have to be a little bit adventurous

1154
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 2: in the bedroom, and I feel like especially when your relationship,

1155
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 2: because if y'all don't try new things or tap into

1156
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 2: each other. I mean, of course, we all have our

1157
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 2: boundaries in the bedroom. But you have to try new

1158
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 2: things to be a little open minded because you never

1159
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,279
Speaker 2: know what you might like, something that might gross you out.

1160
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:48,879
Speaker 2: You actually do it and you be like, oh wait,

1161
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 2: this is not that bad because I've changed my mind

1162
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 2: about a lot of things.

1163
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 1: You're a deal breaker. Go ahead. Was like, wow, we

1164
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 1: were tending to get out the top of people. What

1165
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: I know. It's not I'm just saying, would you missed

1166
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 1: for the man who don't eat pussy? But he did? No? No,

1167
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 1: that's because I love to get I have got and.

1168
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 2: Like, well when he tried, it's horrible, Like he'll try,

1169
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 2: but it's not that's the biggest phenomenal.

1170
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:22,359
Speaker 1: Like, but I feel like somebody like that, you can

1171
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: teach them. It's not that hard. He don't want to.

1172
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:27,279
Speaker 2: That's what I was about to say. For me, it

1173
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 2: was more so like me and him started sucking with

1174
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 2: each other. You know, sometimes every time you fucking, he

1175
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 2: might not eat your pissy every time because sometimes you

1176
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 2: just being with y'all. So I think the first time

1177
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 2: we sucked it was just like whatever, it was some

1178
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 2: quick ship.

1179
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,759
Speaker 1: But then the second time it was like okay, like

1180
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 1: you know, he was like, I don't do that. Well,

1181
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:53,399
Speaker 1: I I don't do these and I organ so that's

1182
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 1: a big deal.

1183
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 2: Like if you don't eat pussy, you can't with me

1184
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 2: like that, and they expect you to, you know, do

1185
00:54:58,800 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 2: the opposite for them.

1186
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:04,879
Speaker 1: I think that's very gay. You think so I think

1187
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 1: that's gay? Yeah, yeah, I think. But I had talked

1188
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 1: to a guy before.

1189
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:12,800
Speaker 2: It wasn't somebody I was fucking, but he said he

1190
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:14,879
Speaker 2: doesn't like to eat pussy because it's a texture thing.

1191
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:18,400
Speaker 1: He doesn't like the way it necessarily feels in his mouth.

1192
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:25,959
Speaker 2: But I just feel like I guess if you yeah,

1193
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 2: like if you are attracted to a woman and you're

1194
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 2: fucking her, you I get satisfaction.

1195
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,240
Speaker 1: I don't please it. I love to make my nigga

1196
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: feel good.

1197
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 2: I always say this, like it turns me on, to

1198
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 2: turn you on, So I feel like I should get

1199
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 2: that same energy, Like you love seeing me have an orgasm,

1200
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 2: You love making.

1201
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 1: Me feel good, like matter about a texture thing, it's

1202
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 1: like you just want to please me. You just want

1203
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 1: to please me, period it. So you never said what

1204
00:55:54,920 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: I said, I'm not sucking on Yeah, yeah, they don't

1205
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:01,359
Speaker 1: do everything else.

1206
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:06,319
Speaker 2: But because that's like you done pass I don't care

1207
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 2: what you say, depend on who you're talking to. Sometimes

1208
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,399
Speaker 2: sometimes niggas don't get off the shower, the booty don't clean.

1209
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 1: They might walk to the millbox with no shoes on.

1210
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: You know, you really talking to niggas walking to the shoes.

1211
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:24,359
Speaker 1: And do you think niggas getting a shower like the girls?

1212
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, don't they do? I think.

1213
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 2: I don't think niggas hold their cheese open because I

1214
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 2: hold my cheese open.

1215
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 1: Them just go get clean. And then I don't think

1216
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: niggas their cheeks they clean in there. They do.

1217
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 2: But you.

1218
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,359
Speaker 1: Have you lived with a nigga before though, Yeah, y'all

1219
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 1: live with a nigga before. So you know sometimes when

1220
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: nigga be.

1221
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 2: In a shower, he in a shower, you brush your

1222
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 2: t you're supposed to watch that nigga doing. Let me

1223
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 2: see how you clean that all, bro, Let me see

1224
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 2: how you watch them balls. I'm not gonna lie like

1225
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 2: if nigga's the shower, I let me see.

1226
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:07,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see it.

1227
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 2: Listen, I'm gonna shower with you or whatever you're doing.

1228
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 2: Whatever you're doing, I need you to. I'll just privacy

1229
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 2: like I don't want.

1230
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't you want to see that. I'm gonna

1231
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: get out before you make sure. I need you to go. Yeah,

1232
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to see that.

1233
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 2: I never seen it, but you know the man like

1234
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 2: really washing even being in a shower with my nigga.

1235
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 2: When I think about it, like nah, like I'm turning

1236
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 2: the way you turn, I'll wash it on back if

1237
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: I gotta wipe it up a little bit. We can

1238
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 2: do this together. Team work, work.

1239
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 1: What are you wiping for? Like a little It's all right,

1240
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:47,479
Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm not okay. That's that's not okay. I'm sorry.

1241
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: That's not if I wipe you in a shower, that's

1242
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: something to come off from the red. That's why we

1243
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 1: hear I'm gonna throw at you. That's what it is, daddy.

1244
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 1: You got it from the toilet that you ain't wipe

1245
00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 1: good enough on the toilet while I'm an eating.

1246
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 2: Because because I've never watched the man's ass, let me

1247
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:11,959
Speaker 2: just throw that out here because I know people gonna

1248
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 2: be like, damn, Lacey watched that nigga was going to

1249
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 2: hit to see him. That about to come from the

1250
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 2: nursing home at my ass. But that's a better idea.

1251
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 2: Because I feel like, at least if you watched.

1252
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:24,920
Speaker 1: Me, you know it's clean for you.

1253
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 2: I've never had a but I gotta be straight out

1254
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 2: the shower. Yeah, I mean, I feel like the one

1255
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:31,479
Speaker 2: time we did try like it was straight out the shower.

1256
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 2: But I've never had a problem with his hygiene like ever. Yeah,

1257
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 2: I never had a problem with any nigga. I'm but

1258
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 2: I just think I just I don't want to know

1259
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 2: about your ass.

1260
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 1: I just don't. I just mean nobody y'alln't even look

1261
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1262
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 2: Yeah I do, But I told you I want my

1263
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 2: finger in a nigga asked before, But it was really

1264
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 2: just because he kept asking me to.

1265
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 1: That's a freaking I was like, why not, and he

1266
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 1: liked it and I didn't him. The week after right

1267
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 1: after that, it was moaning, I'm weak. Not y'all was

1268
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 1: having a moan off. All right, So we're gonna move on.

1269
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: So deal breakers obviously her deal breakers with the stuff

1270
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 1: we do. I stuck to that. I'm stricting this mother.

1271
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 2: Oh you know, longly I got no, don't let him

1272
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 2: come out of it, okay, because the nigga could be

1273
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 2: because I feel like you get into a nigga, you're

1274
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 2: not gonna say bit you sall my toes.

1275
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 1: Bitch, you ain't right, you ain't just ain't.

1276
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:44,840
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't want to leak booty because I have

1277
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 2: like a fear, like what if I'm leaking any tickling

1278
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:47,920
Speaker 2: for it?

1279
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 1: Why do you always take ship so far? Way? Does

1280
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:55,320
Speaker 1: balance though? Because if you're part of my face.

1281
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 2: So far, that's valid because it be part of my face,

1282
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 2: that's dis your stephole, that's disrespetfole.

1283
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: We all of God as before some time. I have

1284
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 1: never felt the urge of farts while my ass is

1285
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: being you a wild girl. Wait a minute, because wait,

1286
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: she's speaking from the spears. She didn't have to let

1287
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 1: one lose. You have to pump. No, I didn't. I

1288
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 1: ain't never farted.

1289
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 2: You didn't you didn't do it? But waits not well,

1290
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie that. But it ain't come out

1291
01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 2: a whole nothing, dear.

1292
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 1: I can't stop. Don't stop yet, wait hold.

1293
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 2: On, or you be like come way, yeah, you gotta

1294
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 2: wigg away like you just.

1295
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: Feel too good. But I'm just saying, these are the

1296
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:55,480
Speaker 1: things I think about. That's that's all they starts to

1297
01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 1: talk about. I've never done that.

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Speaker 2: I've never felt that, but I mean, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: tickling me doesn't make me want to have to poop.

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Speaker 1: I'm bad. I'm betting tickled though, so let us know

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Speaker 1: what you ain't never got even regular tickled, And like

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna too because I'm make her once the part

1303
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:26,440
Speaker 1: like you get tickling, you have to fart, you never

1304
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:28,680
Speaker 1: let not every time?

1305
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 2: Lying everybody has laughed hard enough part a little.

1306
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:39,919
Speaker 1: I know you why you ain't never sneeze before? Now wait,

1307
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 1: hold on now, like everybody and you was like.

1308
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 2: This.

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01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 1: I used to talk to this and he would fart

1310
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:55,280
Speaker 1: in his sleep and he would be embarrassed. He would

1311
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 1: wake up and start talking. He's like, what did you

1312
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 1: turn the TV on? What? No, nigga, she used to

1313
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: just talk and talking. What did you fall asleep? I

1314
01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:14,120
Speaker 1: hurt you? Wait because I had to say whoa, I

1315
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 1: had the same thing. And he is jump scary stuff, sleepy,

1316
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 1: pretend like you sleep. I'm like, I don't want him

1317
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: to feel amassed. I know what you gotta do, but

1318
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: like I want I turned over. I was just like smiling, like.

1319
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 2: Y'all are so kind because the nigga farted on me

1320
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 2: and then one timing, I pushed the nigga.

1321
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: It wasn't on me now, I was on my thighs.

1322
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:48,480
Speaker 1: Oh hell no, y'all like just like wake up, Like, yeah,

1323
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 1: he used to do it all the time he was

1324
01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: on the floor. I'm fucking weak. Yeah, I definitely.

1325
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 2: I would always act like I would sleep or act

1326
01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 2: like I didn't hear nothing like it was.

1327
01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 1: So I don't know how we got on this. I

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna move on because this is getting too much.

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Speaker 2: the bop the bye a Bow Bow Bow Bow Bow. Okay,

1355
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 2: So I actually have y'all know, usually I'll be on

1356
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 2: the R and B tip, but I actually heard this

1357
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 2: song the other day. My homeboy put me on the

1358
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 2: song and it's so fired. It's by West Side Buogie.

1359
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 2: It's called I. I just feel like it's one of

1360
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 2: them songs like if you're getting turned out, getting ready

1361
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 2: to go.

1362
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 1: To the club, this is like the song you're getting

1363
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 1: ready to like.

1364
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 2: The song is just like he basically talking about he

1365
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 2: like fucking with holes that bring him more holes that

1366
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 2: act right like they just in the club getting lit whatever,

1367
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 2: like they turn up having a good time. So, yeah,

1368
01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:49,040
Speaker 2: that's my bop of the week. I west side Buggie

1369
01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 2: and I got another bop of the week. What uh

1370
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:55,840
Speaker 2: you got a song with a money loan chains.

1371
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 1: That bitch fire period Hey went out on the track.

1372
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 1: So just toxic chocolate. I was like, you really be,

1373
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 1: Like you really be. My first friend gave me that

1374
01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 1: name too.

1375
01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 2: We was in the club and she was like we

1376
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 2: were just talking about like a situation or something when

1377
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 2: it's probably a nigga or something. And she was like, well, Kelly,

1378
01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 2: you might be the problem. And I was like, I'm

1379
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 2: not the problem. Maybe I'm part of it, right, but

1380
01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 2: like I really not have the problem anyway. She was like,

1381
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 2: you just toxing you so chocolate and you like toxic chocolate.

1382
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 2: I love me a dark skin, yeah, some fire tattoos,

1383
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:36,160
Speaker 2: real tall, dark skin and tatty head, the tall, good,

1384
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 2: good white teeth.

1385
01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, And so she was like,

1386
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: you taxic chocolate. You like toxic chocolate, And I was like,

1387
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 1: I love it. I need that to be my theme.

1388
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 1: And the cover of it was fire fire.

1389
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:56,520
Speaker 2: I mean it was it was just like perfect, like

1390
01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 2: everything the EP is fied, but like that's song that

1391
01:05:59,560 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 2: you got with.

1392
01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 1: I love her, I love her. She's hard, yes, I

1393
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 1: mean her pen game is really different, but you know

1394
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 1: what it is.

1395
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of times with rappers nowadays,

1396
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 2: especially women, because women are dominating in the rap game

1397
01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 2: right now. They they hate to see it because they

1398
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:15,960
Speaker 2: feel like, oh, all y'all rapping about is pussy, but

1399
01:06:16,040 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 2: y'all are not taking the time to really listen to

1400
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:21,760
Speaker 2: these women's music because honestly, when you talk about bars,

1401
01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 2: like you really be rapping.

1402
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 1: Like a lot of people are really not rapping, Like

1403
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: I get it.

1404
01:06:27,080 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 2: Sometimes you you come across an artist every now and

1405
01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 2: then they really not talking about shit, they really not rapping.

1406
01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:33,439
Speaker 2: But I was like, damn, this girl really got some bars.

1407
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:35,440
Speaker 2: But I feel like some people just look up and

1408
01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 2: get a hit.

1409
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,919
Speaker 1: Yeah you look up and get it. Yeah you can't

1410
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:42,120
Speaker 1: really rap. But it's a difference between It's a lot

1411
01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 1: of people that.

1412
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 2: Are great rappers, like these battle rappers, they got bars

1413
01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 2: for days, but they can't make a song.

1414
01:06:46,560 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 1: I don't say that.

1415
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:53,000
Speaker 2: It's people like you want people to be able to rap, Yes,

1416
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:54,600
Speaker 2: but can you make a song like? You would rather

1417
01:06:54,720 --> 01:07:00,480
Speaker 2: listen to a good song and somebody right, like you

1418
01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 2: don't want to hear that all the time, you know

1419
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. And people don't be knowing what they want.

1420
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 2: Everybody is so super picky with certain stuff. Oh females

1421
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 2: talking about sex sales though, n want to keep hearing

1422
01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:13,960
Speaker 2: about the hurricane that happened over there.

1423
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 1: I get it.

1424
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:18,920
Speaker 2: I get it, and that's why there is people for that.

1425
01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:21,919
Speaker 2: But turn them up, y'all, not turning them out, because that's.

1426
01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:26,440
Speaker 1: Not really what y'all want to hear. We want to

1427
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:26,919
Speaker 1: be in the club.

1428
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 2: You're mad about it, but like what else? What else

1429
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:35,680
Speaker 2: are we supposed to? Niggas can talk about whatever they

1430
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 2: want to, and all they talk about is the same thing.

1431
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:44,640
Speaker 1: Chilling niggas. I don't want. I ain't killed nobody at

1432
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 1: have time it beg out. That's what I'm saying. I

1433
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 1: ain't killed nobody, but I did exactly is quiet period.

1434
01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:54,440
Speaker 1: So what you've been listening to? What's the week?

1435
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 2: Girl?

1436
01:07:55,920 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 1: I like this song called what Up with I Don't Know?

1437
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 1: P P d G and pol G. It's like, hey, yeah, we.

1438
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people be sleeping on

1439
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:13,720
Speaker 2: like the younger people because they were like, not everybody

1440
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:16,560
Speaker 2: wants to rap like Tupac and ship like that, Like

1441
01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 2: not everybody's gonna be like a comment, like I feel like,

1442
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 2: but sometimes these people are making good club music, but

1443
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 2: y'all not really listening to what they're saying, Like, yeah,

1444
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:26,759
Speaker 2: they turning real real stuff, the real the real problems

1445
01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:28,720
Speaker 2: into that people could turn up to.

1446
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 1: Like they came into some I don't know some legits.

1447
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 1: That's what I did. I was going through it.

1448
01:08:35,120 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 2: But yeah, like what I get my leak bad with

1449
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:45,200
Speaker 2: these racks, I don't turn my situation into.

1450
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:50,519
Speaker 1: Exactly, like it's how you turn up? So what you've

1451
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 1: been listening to? Girls? You know?

1452
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 2: I love.

1453
01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, he dropped this album, so I don't even have

1454
01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 1: about like the whole album. I think it's Price of

1455
01:09:02,240 --> 01:09:02,760
Speaker 1: Fame for me.

1456
01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:05,439
Speaker 2: I like price of Fame, so yeah, price of Fame

1457
01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:08,000
Speaker 2: and like Rolling Stone, I think that was it.

1458
01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 1: He's just so tough he is speaking of toxic Niu.

1459
01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 2: It is, but I feel like he's so telling it

1460
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:16,240
Speaker 2: that he could sing, so we just be like, I mean,

1461
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,680
Speaker 2: he's saying it's so angelic and so it's like you're

1462
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:22,680
Speaker 2: not really even hearing him.

1463
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 1: It's just like I know he was a bad person.

1464
01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:29,799
Speaker 1: My favorite song by him, yeah, like yeah.

1465
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:33,280
Speaker 2: The first time when not the first time I heard

1466
01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:34,599
Speaker 2: him one of my favorite songs from him.

1467
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:37,479
Speaker 1: I knew he was a bad person because he he

1468
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:44,679
Speaker 1: was like this, I got too many still a compliment

1469
01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:47,680
Speaker 1: saying like how are you saying that to somebody? But

1470
01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:51,840
Speaker 1: he's just like I would be like you right they

1471
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:55,759
Speaker 1: oh my god, like why are you still at the mouse?

1472
01:09:57,960 --> 01:10:01,559
Speaker 1: Like how nice the way he says you know, forgot

1473
01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:05,000
Speaker 1: like you were like this, Oh that makes you feel

1474
01:10:05,040 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 1: special talks. So let me ask you this.

1475
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:17,479
Speaker 2: I always ask people this when they come on the show. So,

1476
01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 2: who is your favorite person that you've already worked with?

1477
01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:22,639
Speaker 2: And who is like your dream collab that you want.

1478
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 1: To work with?

1479
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 2: Okay, favorite person that I've already worked with, I would say,

1480
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 2: be a Okay, Okay, that was just a dope collab period.

1481
01:10:38,720 --> 01:10:44,799
Speaker 2: It just gave the girls whispers Twins, remax, bad bad bitches,

1482
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 2: don't got.

1483
01:10:45,320 --> 01:10:47,759
Speaker 1: A scream, know what I mean? Period?

1484
01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 2: Who I really want to work with is Nikki obviously,

1485
01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:52,439
Speaker 2: that's I just need that.

1486
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:54,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what I will say. I like

1487
01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 1: about you. You don't do too much online.

1488
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:58,560
Speaker 2: A lot of these girls be doing too much, Like

1489
01:10:58,640 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 2: Nikki owes them something and like, I feel like if

1490
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 2: you put your hand down to work, she gonna come.

1491
01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 1: She sees everything. She is very tapped in, so I.

1492
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:10,360
Speaker 2: Feel like you're gonna get that Nikki clib It's coming.

1493
01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:11,919
Speaker 2: It's definitely coming because I'm not gonna.

1494
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: Lie to I love and even if I don't, I

1495
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:18,600
Speaker 1: still she's my childhood, right exactly, That's my childhood. So

1496
01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 1: it's like it is what it is. Do Oh my god,

1497
01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 1: three weeks.

1498
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 2: I got.

1499
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:30,240
Speaker 1: It's like period right right, But I will.

1500
01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:34,000
Speaker 2: Say I love you and chanting together that's my y'all

1501
01:11:34,240 --> 01:11:37,280
Speaker 2: flows so well, that's my gather and I mean, y'all

1502
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 2: ate on that song.

1503
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:39,480
Speaker 1: What's the name of song? Ye?

1504
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 2: Yes, that is about When I first heard it, I

1505
01:11:42,400 --> 01:11:44,800
Speaker 2: was like, oh, y'all miss really well and they.

1506
01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:48,880
Speaker 1: Both have different styles. Yeah, it's still it flow.

1507
01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 2: That was like that was like one of the first

1508
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 2: times I was like, Okay, I really fun with her,

1509
01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 2: like I fucked with the song. Then when I heard that,

1510
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, she can really fucking rap, Like

1511
01:11:56,560 --> 01:11:58,280
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, so yeah, that's that's my I

1512
01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 2: love y'all together. That's like, So now we're gonna get

1513
01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 2: into our favorite segment of the show, which is pour

1514
01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:09,760
Speaker 2: your heart out. You know what we talk about the

1515
01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:12,960
Speaker 2: question question ask.

1516
01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:15,400
Speaker 1: Either way.

1517
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 2: We want to send y'all questions to ask Poor minds

1518
01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com. It's a s k p oh

1519
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 2: you are in my embas at gmail dot com, which

1520
01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 2: you're gonna read this first question.

1521
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 1: A might as well girl? All right?

1522
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 2: Question number one, High ladies. So, I've been talking to

1523
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:33,840
Speaker 2: the same nigga for two years plus now. One is

1524
01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 2: my ex boyfriend. Oh, I've been talking to the same

1525
01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 2: two niggas for two plus years now. One is my

1526
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 2: ex boyfriend of two years. One is a casual situation.

1527
01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:46,280
Speaker 2: They do the bare minimum, but it's not fun or excited,

1528
01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:50,280
Speaker 2: nor are they breaking any crazy bread. I'm over them,

1529
01:12:50,640 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 2: but I'm finding it difficult to find new men who

1530
01:12:53,080 --> 01:12:56,000
Speaker 2: are willing to do the little things like offering to

1531
01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:58,800
Speaker 2: pay for my transport to see them and making sure

1532
01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 2: I have somewhere somewhere to stay. I live one hour

1533
01:13:03,120 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 2: train away from the city that the niggas be at,

1534
01:13:05,680 --> 01:13:08,680
Speaker 2: so I've been pretty strict about not entertaining men who

1535
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:11,560
Speaker 2: can't do the bare minimum. Spending my own money to

1536
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:13,800
Speaker 2: meet a man for the first time who wants to

1537
01:13:13,840 --> 01:13:16,599
Speaker 2: see me is really absurd. It's not a money thing

1538
01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:18,719
Speaker 2: I can afford it. It just feels like a waste

1539
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 2: of time. On the other hand, I feel like I'm

1540
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 2: only twenty three, young and sexy, and I want to

1541
01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 2: have a good time. I guess my question is should

1542
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:29,160
Speaker 2: I leave my old niggas alone and just focus on myself,

1543
01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:32,000
Speaker 2: keep playing these games with my old niggas or see

1544
01:13:32,120 --> 01:13:35,599
Speaker 2: where it where it goes with the newer options, even

1545
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:38,160
Speaker 2: if they're not meeting my standards. Do you have any

1546
01:13:38,200 --> 01:13:39,880
Speaker 2: advice on how to ask these men to pay for

1547
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:43,840
Speaker 2: transport or hotel. I find it embarrassing to ask because

1548
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 2: it seems obvious to me that they should offer, so

1549
01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:48,600
Speaker 2: I just don't reply if they don't. But I'm not

1550
01:13:48,720 --> 01:13:52,720
Speaker 2: sure if that's sensible, considering I am a niggaless girl.

1551
01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 1: You did answer your question three dozen times.

1552
01:13:57,640 --> 01:13:59,200
Speaker 2: Now. I'm try not to judge people because you know

1553
01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 2: she is a low young but I will say this,

1554
01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 2: you know you wasting your time. You're wasting your time

1555
01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:07,799
Speaker 2: when a man really wants you to be in his presence,

1556
01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:09,639
Speaker 2: Nothing is gonna stop him from.

1557
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:12,960
Speaker 1: Getting you to him. You say, he does, They do

1558
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:16,600
Speaker 1: the bear and it's not fun or exciting. So what

1559
01:14:16,680 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 1: are you doing? It's okay to be Nicholas.

1560
01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:21,880
Speaker 2: Literally, if you're if you're a Niggolas and you're doing

1561
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:23,240
Speaker 2: this stuff, that's what we was just talking about.

1562
01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:26,400
Speaker 1: For yourself. Trust me, you're gonna attract.

1563
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:28,680
Speaker 2: You need to start attracting the good energy so you

1564
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:31,280
Speaker 2: can attract the type of needs that you like. Say that,

1565
01:14:31,760 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 2: because once you do them same things that got the

1566
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:35,880
Speaker 2: bare minimal, all of a sudden they got some they

1567
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:38,080
Speaker 2: got something to say, they got something. They got something

1568
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:40,840
Speaker 2: for that transportation, they got something for that rule. Hello,

1569
01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:41,759
Speaker 2: they got something.

1570
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 1: For you to be in the city period. They got

1571
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:46,560
Speaker 1: extra stuff for you. So you're gonna start attracting the

1572
01:14:46,720 --> 01:14:50,520
Speaker 1: type of man that you like. Let them, let them go, Nicholas.

1573
01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:54,599
Speaker 2: Might even happen for two weeks, right, But you gotta

1574
01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:56,080
Speaker 2: feel like you deserve more. I feel like a lot

1575
01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 2: of women feel like they don't deserve exactly something, or

1576
01:14:59,560 --> 01:15:00,559
Speaker 2: they feel like they can't.

1577
01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:01,360
Speaker 1: I don't give up.

1578
01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:05,160
Speaker 2: You need to say it like you're doing a bare mom,

1579
01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 2: I don't want to message you you're not doing enough

1580
01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:07,360
Speaker 2: for me.

1581
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:08,920
Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm gonna leave you alone.

1582
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you even asking them a way where it's

1583
01:15:11,320 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 2: like you're unsure if you're expecting to what you're not

1584
01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:16,560
Speaker 2: expecting too much, expecting a nigga to pay for you.

1585
01:15:19,200 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 1: He gonna ask you for anything you want have to ask.

1586
01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:24,280
Speaker 1: That's it for being honest.

1587
01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 2: If a man wants to see you, he's gonna be like,

1588
01:15:26,400 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 2: and if you want to do it, yeah, I'm gonna

1589
01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:30,840
Speaker 2: come get you. That's how you know. Man Like you

1590
01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:33,680
Speaker 2: say hour away, I'm still come get you. Boom, We're

1591
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:35,360
Speaker 2: gonna do something down there, or we I'm gonna take

1592
01:15:35,400 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 2: you back with me. And you just put your schedule

1593
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:37,679
Speaker 2: for a little bit.

1594
01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: And he's giving your all.

1595
01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:43,160
Speaker 2: Niggas, ain't you just need to hold You're not You're

1596
01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:46,120
Speaker 2: not you're not attracting the right right. And I feel

1597
01:15:46,120 --> 01:15:47,960
Speaker 2: like what Kla was saying earlier, like it's okay to

1598
01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 2: be alone, Like you need to learn what you like,

1599
01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:52,320
Speaker 2: learn what you deserve, and give yourself the things that

1600
01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:55,439
Speaker 2: you expect from other people. Take yourself out, do things

1601
01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:58,479
Speaker 2: for yourself so you're whenever somebody else does it for you.

1602
01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:00,120
Speaker 2: When something cause I'm not trying to be funny, you know,

1603
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:02,720
Speaker 2: I'm not judging, he says, But somebody paying for you

1604
01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:04,479
Speaker 2: an uber and paying for you the hotel, that is

1605
01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:07,920
Speaker 2: bare minimum. So when somebody even does that for you,

1606
01:16:08,160 --> 01:16:09,960
Speaker 2: you're not gonna be impressed by that, because I don't

1607
01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:11,840
Speaker 2: even want the next nigga to come along and him

1608
01:16:11,880 --> 01:16:13,680
Speaker 2: paying for your Uber and paying for your hotel. That's

1609
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:14,960
Speaker 2: not something you should be impressed by.

1610
01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:16,960
Speaker 1: It gives were going on the trip.

1611
01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:20,800
Speaker 2: I ain't seen you, right, I got here's the itinerary,

1612
01:16:22,560 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 2: going back into your friend's book, period right, write that

1613
01:16:25,640 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 2: down like manifest you live, you create your own reality,

1614
01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:31,240
Speaker 2: like like say the things that you already live in.

1615
01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:35,680
Speaker 1: I heard that from somebody who means a lot to me.

1616
01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:38,400
Speaker 2: Too.

1617
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:40,519
Speaker 1: He teaches me a lot.

1618
01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 2: No carel Bro and my mom they both tea my Redmond.

1619
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:46,120
Speaker 2: She really teaches me a lot, like like, really sit

1620
01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:49,760
Speaker 2: down and create your own reality. I am a whole

1621
01:16:49,840 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 2: lot of I ams. I'm like, this is already, I'm

1622
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:54,599
Speaker 2: already doing this. I already feel good doing this. By

1623
01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:57,720
Speaker 2: when you know, I love the way my man treats me.

1624
01:16:57,880 --> 01:17:00,200
Speaker 2: I love that he takes me out, like feel that,

1625
01:17:00,439 --> 01:17:03,720
Speaker 2: feel that shit, like really feel that period, write that

1626
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 2: down like and they look back into the job and

1627
01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 2: be like, dang, I manifested my dream life. I'm gonna

1628
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:12,400
Speaker 2: I always talk about her, my reader, Sha, I love her.

1629
01:17:12,560 --> 01:17:14,400
Speaker 2: She she brought us food to the show, like Shade

1630
01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:15,760
Speaker 2: is so sweet. But she told me that's how you

1631
01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 2: should write your manifestations. You're not gonna say, oh I

1632
01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:21,040
Speaker 2: am going to get You're gonna say, I have this right,

1633
01:17:21,280 --> 01:17:24,120
Speaker 2: My man does this, My job pays me this like

1634
01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:28,360
Speaker 2: you're already living it. That's how you properly manifest. I

1635
01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 2: am beautiful, I am this, I'm doing this. Yes, it

1636
01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:35,000
Speaker 2: feels so good that it happened to my mersay the

1637
01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:37,840
Speaker 2: twenty twenty two bands and just be able to job

1638
01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:39,960
Speaker 2: wherever I want to, Like you're that's what you're doing.

1639
01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:42,000
Speaker 2: It's just good to you talk about it like you

1640
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 2: already like you already had your period. So yes, since

1641
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:48,759
Speaker 2: letting it go, be Nicholas and understand manifest and manifest

1642
01:17:48,880 --> 01:17:52,880
Speaker 2: period question number two, go ahead, Drean. Okay, hey, ladies,

1643
01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:54,920
Speaker 2: I love y'all so much, so I've been dealing with

1644
01:17:55,000 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 2: this man and he's about sixty years older than me.

1645
01:17:57,400 --> 01:17:59,439
Speaker 2: I've known him for about two months, but we haven't

1646
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:01,680
Speaker 2: had sixty The crazy party is I'm so used to

1647
01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:03,720
Speaker 2: niggas trying to fuck on me, accept to the point

1648
01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:06,320
Speaker 2: where I'm shook. He has a lot going on right now,

1649
01:18:06,400 --> 01:18:08,320
Speaker 2: so I understand he's trying to get his life back

1650
01:18:08,400 --> 01:18:10,759
Speaker 2: on track. So I would rather take his flow instead

1651
01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:14,000
Speaker 2: of rishing shit like normal. I want this situation to

1652
01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:16,240
Speaker 2: be different. Should I be worried or should.

1653
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 1: I just go with the flow? I feel like we

1654
01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:18,600
Speaker 1: talked about this with.

1655
01:18:18,720 --> 01:18:21,519
Speaker 2: Nineteen or maybe it was Trap Wall Street Trap one

1656
01:18:21,520 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 2: of them was talking about it with If you said,

1657
01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:27,120
Speaker 2: he's trying to get his life back on track. Some niggas, honestly,

1658
01:18:27,200 --> 01:18:29,120
Speaker 2: when their money isn't right, they don't want to do

1659
01:18:29,200 --> 01:18:31,719
Speaker 2: nothing but get they shit together right. So I feel

1660
01:18:31,800 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 2: like you should embrace that. Like I'm not saying, like,

1661
01:18:35,360 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 2: be you know a Robert, I still have your fun

1662
01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:38,400
Speaker 2: in your life and do what you want to do,

1663
01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:40,479
Speaker 2: but just kind of be understanding and don't press him.

1664
01:18:40,960 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 2: Wait till he get his shit back together. You know

1665
01:18:43,400 --> 01:18:45,680
Speaker 2: he's not trying to be like a bum nigga, so

1666
01:18:46,240 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 2: be happy. That he's trying to get his shit back together.

1667
01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 2: But it's very weird. But niggas, that's about they bread.

1668
01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 2: If they bread is fucked off. They not trying to

1669
01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:55,120
Speaker 2: do shit. They're not trying to work. They ain't worried

1670
01:18:55,160 --> 01:18:57,880
Speaker 2: about no sex, they ain't worried about no being kicked up.

1671
01:18:58,360 --> 01:18:59,720
Speaker 2: He's trying to get his life back on track. So

1672
01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:01,400
Speaker 2: I would just say be patient and just take it

1673
01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 2: for a word. And at least he communicated that with you, right,

1674
01:19:03,800 --> 01:19:05,599
Speaker 2: so you know, it's like, you know, he just trying

1675
01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:07,080
Speaker 2: to get his stuff together.

1676
01:19:08,200 --> 01:19:09,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not about you. You can't take your person.

1677
01:19:09,920 --> 01:19:10,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1678
01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:11,160
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times that's what we

1679
01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:11,920
Speaker 1: do as women though.

1680
01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:14,800
Speaker 2: We feel like if somebody not doing something with us

1681
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 2: or for us, or we're not having sex, we automatically

1682
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:19,120
Speaker 2: go to the bad And a lot of times men

1683
01:19:19,240 --> 01:19:22,000
Speaker 2: have other things going on emotionally, So maybe just have

1684
01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:24,439
Speaker 2: a conversation about it with him, Maybe just talk to him.

1685
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:27,000
Speaker 2: Maybe that'll make him feel better. So y'all, can you know,

1686
01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 2: get a little more intimate. We have to open up

1687
01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:31,760
Speaker 2: those lines of communications to make men feel a little

1688
01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:32,759
Speaker 2: more comfortable sometimes.

1689
01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:33,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's as women, we.

1690
01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:35,800
Speaker 2: Love to talk about our problems, right, you know what

1691
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 2: I mean? Men, they kind of retreat right, want to talk, right,

1692
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, if you care about him and you're like,

1693
01:19:41,320 --> 01:19:43,200
Speaker 2: I'm just open up that line of communication, you know,

1694
01:19:44,240 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 2: all right? Question number three, Hey, guys, I moved to

1695
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:51,439
Speaker 2: atl from Los Angeles about a year ago. I'm twenty

1696
01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 2: two years old and I'm still a virgin. I'm not

1697
01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 2: super religious or anything, but I'm ready. But I'm also

1698
01:19:57,600 --> 01:20:00,280
Speaker 2: not looking to be in a relationship with anyone. How

1699
01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:02,519
Speaker 2: do you guys think I should go about it? Part

1700
01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 2: of me felt for so long that it would be

1701
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:06,320
Speaker 2: ideal for me to have to be in a relationship

1702
01:20:06,400 --> 01:20:08,519
Speaker 2: first to lose it. But I've always felt like my

1703
01:20:08,640 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 2: standards were too high, and because of that, the other

1704
01:20:11,400 --> 01:20:13,639
Speaker 2: half wants me to just date, have fun and let

1705
01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:16,559
Speaker 2: it happen. I struggle with severe anxiety, and I've had

1706
01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:18,679
Speaker 2: it for a couple of years now, and that's also

1707
01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 2: a part of my struggle in life in general. But

1708
01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:24,439
Speaker 2: I'm honestly tired of letting that be my excuse. I

1709
01:20:24,600 --> 01:20:26,400
Speaker 2: also feel like the type of guys that I would

1710
01:20:26,400 --> 01:20:28,600
Speaker 2: want to date and have fun with wouldn't want to

1711
01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 2: fuck a virgin.

1712
01:20:29,920 --> 01:20:32,160
Speaker 1: I feel like this generation of guys now, at.

1713
01:20:32,120 --> 01:20:34,840
Speaker 2: Least in the environments I'm in, don't even find it

1714
01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:37,519
Speaker 2: attractive at this point, Or that's what it seems like,

1715
01:20:37,640 --> 01:20:40,000
Speaker 2: But I could be wrong. There's a couple of other

1716
01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:42,120
Speaker 2: factors that tie into this, but I wanted to keep

1717
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:43,400
Speaker 2: it brief and to the point.

1718
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 1: So what should I do?

1719
01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 2: Is being a version at twenty two a bad thing?

1720
01:20:47,280 --> 01:20:50,280
Speaker 2: Is the first person you have sex with really that important?

1721
01:20:50,640 --> 01:20:52,840
Speaker 2: Or should I just find someone I'm comfortable with and

1722
01:20:52,920 --> 01:20:56,559
Speaker 2: get it over with? Thanks, Well, first of all, you've

1723
01:20:56,560 --> 01:20:59,080
Speaker 2: waited this long. Don't find somebody who just come to

1724
01:20:59,160 --> 01:21:00,920
Speaker 2: with and just do it. Get it over with sex

1725
01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:04,519
Speaker 2: as an experience. But you're also only twenty two. It

1726
01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:06,840
Speaker 2: don't matter if you're a virgin or not. Nine times

1727
01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:08,559
Speaker 2: out of ten, the person that you're with at twenty

1728
01:21:08,560 --> 01:21:10,000
Speaker 2: two is not gonna be the person you're with for

1729
01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:12,639
Speaker 2: the rest of your life. So I would say stop

1730
01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:15,400
Speaker 2: putting so much pressure on yourself. If a guy, I

1731
01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:18,280
Speaker 2: would say, find somebody you're at least that cares about

1732
01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:20,400
Speaker 2: you and cares about your well being, cause being that

1733
01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:22,519
Speaker 2: your anxiety is bad, let me tell you something. You're

1734
01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:24,080
Speaker 2: gonna fuck this nigga, And if you don't say nothing

1735
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:26,160
Speaker 2: to you the next day, your anxiety gonna flare up, bitch.

1736
01:21:26,800 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 2: So you need to find somebody that at least cares

1737
01:21:29,160 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 2: about you. You don't wanna just get it over with

1738
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 2: and fuck somebody, cause that's gonna make your anxiety real,

1739
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:37,000
Speaker 2: real bad. Yeah, you just shouldn't be having six because

1740
01:21:37,400 --> 01:21:40,519
Speaker 2: you feel like it's a bad thing yourself. This generation,

1741
01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:45,320
Speaker 2: it's like, Mmm, they don't really care honestly, So I

1742
01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:49,000
Speaker 2: don't I hold on today until I feel like I'm ready.

1743
01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:52,200
Speaker 2: It's or it's just the right person, exactly what I mean,

1744
01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:55,360
Speaker 2: Cause I feel like she I know, I can speak

1745
01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:57,479
Speaker 2: for myself. When I lost my virginity, I ain't losing

1746
01:21:57,520 --> 01:22:00,639
Speaker 2: to the right person, right, I mean I probably wasted,

1747
01:22:01,280 --> 01:22:02,519
Speaker 2: you know, I wasn't.

1748
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:06,280
Speaker 1: I didn't really care, right, right, That's what I'm saying.

1749
01:22:06,280 --> 01:22:08,679
Speaker 1: But it's just like, I mean, I didn't.

1750
01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:11,280
Speaker 2: Care about it, but like I just didn't care about him,

1751
01:22:11,520 --> 01:22:13,640
Speaker 2: ye right, So I feel like you've waited you know

1752
01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:14,040
Speaker 2: this long?

1753
01:22:14,120 --> 01:22:14,760
Speaker 1: You're twenty two.

1754
01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:17,720
Speaker 2: Honestly, most let's keep it real, most people are losing

1755
01:22:17,720 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 2: their virginity at like fifteen sixteen, So I feel like

1756
01:22:20,960 --> 01:22:21,720
Speaker 2: you've waited this long.

1757
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:23,280
Speaker 1: At least find somebody that cares about you.

1758
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:25,440
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you got necessarily be in a relationship,

1759
01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:27,960
Speaker 2: but find somebody that cares about your well being.

1760
01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:30,160
Speaker 1: You don't want to just do it and then regret it,

1761
01:22:30,280 --> 01:22:33,679
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, So agree period.

1762
01:22:34,280 --> 01:22:37,280
Speaker 2: Okay, so before we close this, bitch out, Callie, let

1763
01:22:37,400 --> 01:22:39,320
Speaker 2: us know what you're working on, what you got out

1764
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 2: where they can catch you, your Instagram, all that good stuff.

1765
01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 2: I got Birthday Bash coming up this weekend, rulling loud,

1766
01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 2: a bunch of shows, my birthday coming up, visuals, just

1767
01:22:50,400 --> 01:22:52,840
Speaker 2: more music. I'm about to keep this. I'm about to

1768
01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:53,519
Speaker 2: fuck up.

1769
01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:58,720
Speaker 1: Yes bad, We're bad. So you got some some some

1770
01:22:58,840 --> 01:22:59,800
Speaker 1: stuff coming for us.

1771
01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:03,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's I'll be posting steps and stuff on my Instagram,

1772
01:23:03,400 --> 01:23:07,120
Speaker 2: which is Callie's k A A k A l I

1773
01:23:07,280 --> 01:23:09,600
Speaker 2: I I Got You and that's on Everything Got You.

1774
01:23:10,240 --> 01:23:14,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we can find her on Instagram dropping fire music.

1775
01:23:14,479 --> 01:23:18,880
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. We love what the girls come through.

1776
01:23:18,920 --> 01:23:20,920
Speaker 2: I swear like people like when we have men on

1777
01:23:20,920 --> 01:23:23,439
Speaker 2: the show because we can get a different perspective. But

1778
01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:26,000
Speaker 2: this show is always based off of like girl talking right,

1779
01:23:26,000 --> 01:23:29,519
Speaker 2: I love. It's really always.

1780
01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:31,439
Speaker 1: This is very therapeutic for me.

1781
01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:33,479
Speaker 2: All Right, y'all know we always closed it out with

1782
01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:36,240
Speaker 2: a song, and honestly, uh, we on tour right now.

1783
01:23:36,320 --> 01:23:38,120
Speaker 2: So make sure y'all go to poor mindes dot com

1784
01:23:38,439 --> 01:23:39,719
Speaker 2: and get y'all motherfucking tickets.

1785
01:23:39,760 --> 01:23:42,200
Speaker 1: We are still adding dates. When I tell y'all, y'all do.

1786
01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:43,680
Speaker 2: Not a poor If you ain't never been to a

1787
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:45,920
Speaker 2: poor mind show, you've never been to a show. It's

1788
01:23:45,960 --> 01:23:49,519
Speaker 2: a lig It's so fucking fire, So I don't miss out.

1789
01:23:49,560 --> 01:23:51,479
Speaker 2: Go to poor minds dot com. Check all the cities

1790
01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:54,240
Speaker 2: that were going to y'all ready. Okay, so first of all,

1791
01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:55,800
Speaker 2: let me just say this. Y'all know I really sing,

1792
01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:57,639
Speaker 2: because sometimes when I sing on the show, they'd be like, damn,

1793
01:23:57,640 --> 01:23:58,880
Speaker 2: I thought Beyonce was on the show.

1794
01:23:59,240 --> 01:24:02,040
Speaker 1: Okay that for yeah, I'm just a little horse. He

1795
01:24:02,160 --> 01:24:06,360
Speaker 1: like I'm a little horse today. So he gonna kick

1796
01:24:06,400 --> 01:24:09,120
Speaker 1: it off, though, can you kick it off? I am,

1797
01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:15,000
Speaker 1: but you gotta. I'm gonna say it, puss through. You

1798
01:24:15,120 --> 01:24:18,320
Speaker 1: need to get a fake doom on a ride. But

1799
01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:22,320
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna in the great Laddice. What what do

1800
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:30,519
Speaker 1: you want to be here? Yeah? Yo, I don't want

1801
01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:33,080
Speaker 1: to know, man, because I gotta like that. But it

1802
01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:36,720
Speaker 1: ain't even gotta be like that, y'all. Man, he be

1803
01:24:36,840 --> 01:24:41,080
Speaker 1: calling me back. Yeah, no, matter of fact, he asked

1804
01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:43,080
Speaker 1: me how I do that? That fit my jeans on

1805
01:24:43,160 --> 01:24:46,320
Speaker 1: a baby fat? I don't know that type of plan,

1806
01:24:46,640 --> 01:24:48,760
Speaker 1: but I should warn you. I don't want your men.

1807
01:24:49,040 --> 01:24:56,240
Speaker 2: I understand, make him stay that night, but if he wants,

1808
01:24:56,600 --> 01:24:57,599
Speaker 2: you'll be gone.

1809
01:24:57,840 --> 01:25:02,120
Speaker 1: No, lie, I can't explain how many times I tried,

1810
01:25:02,439 --> 01:25:06,160
Speaker 1: how man, any times I cried thinking about mind and

1811
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:14,720
Speaker 1: where he might be with the do come mom in

1812
01:25:14,800 --> 01:25:18,960
Speaker 1: the club that's gonna be like damn, that's high in

1813
01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:24,120
Speaker 1: the car, they're gonna drop tops, like damn, that's it big.

1814
01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:26,160
Speaker 1: It was all the dream like damn.

1815
01:25:26,640 --> 01:25:30,080
Speaker 2: That's like, hey, K, you don't stop telling, don't talk

1816
01:25:30,240 --> 01:25:31,880
Speaker 2: like damn, that's hot.

1817
01:25:32,400 --> 01:25:36,080
Speaker 1: First of all that I love like I love giving

1818
01:25:36,120 --> 01:25:38,759
Speaker 1: Missy her proxes. Y'all gonna start playing with her producer

1819
01:25:38,960 --> 01:25:43,120
Speaker 1: like she has a producer, like, Missy, I love you.

1820
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:47,080
Speaker 1: I just want to try to birthday party? How is

1821
01:25:47,120 --> 01:25:47,599
Speaker 1: she a party?

1822
01:25:47,640 --> 01:25:47,680
Speaker 2: That?

1823
01:25:47,760 --> 01:25:49,400
Speaker 1: She's sweet? Yeah? I love it.

1824
01:25:49,479 --> 01:25:56,559
Speaker 2: It just gave like like yes, I love it, Missy

1825
01:25:56,600 --> 01:25:57,639
Speaker 2: and the Bills dead.

1826
01:25:57,840 --> 01:26:00,760
Speaker 1: Should out to Big Callie, not the little one.

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01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:43,640
Speaker 2: I love it here and we'll see y'all next, babe h.