1 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 1: I Do Part Two is a unique podcast that is 2 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: all about finding love again. Maybe you didn't get it 3 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 1: right the first time, or maybe you had love and 4 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: you lost it and now you are getting back out 5 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: into the dating scene. Well, I'm one of your hosts, 6 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: Jana Kramer, and today I wanted to touch base with one 7 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 1: of our celebrity mentors you love her on this podcast, 8 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:36,480 Speaker 1: former Real Housewife of New York Ellie Benzimone. Kelly, Can 9 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: I just first just can we just talk about how 10 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: beautiful you looked at the iHeartRadio jingle Balls, jingle Balls, 11 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: jingle Bells, jingle Ball jingle Balls. I mean, you just 12 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: and it was so funny my husband when you know, 13 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: I had my husband come in and meet everyone because 14 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: he hasn't met that I Do Part two crew. I 15 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: was like, I feel like I've seen her. I was like, 16 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: she was probably up like on a you know, like 17 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: you probably had her on your walls or something because 18 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: she's she's she's a model, she's beauty. He's like, yeah, 19 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 1: she's like, she's she's a beautiful lady. I was like, 20 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: I know, she's stunning. 21 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 2: Thank you, that's so nice. 22 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you guys, youse are the greatest couple. 23 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 3: You guys are so sweet and loving and just oh god, 24 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,559 Speaker 3: you're just like the perfect couple. 25 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,479 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. I mean that's very sweet to say. 26 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if there's do you actually believe that 27 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 1: there's a perfect couple. 28 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 2: I believe. I mean you guys have that. 29 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 3: I mean, you guys have just like nice, really just 30 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 3: quality energy. It's just like, you know, he's really respectful 31 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 3: of you and you're really respectful of him. 32 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: And I just think that's just like those are that's 33 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 2: those are like a couple. 34 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 3: Goals when you have like the you know i mutual admiration, 35 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 3: mutual respect. 36 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 2: That's just I mean, thank you, and it's you know, 37 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: it's Jenny has. 38 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: The word too perfect, is yeah, and is yeah. 39 00:01:56,320 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: I'm just the one odd one out. Oh not at all. 40 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: But let's let's talk about Oh oh my, says the model, 41 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: says the you know, beautiful, tall, thin model. So let's 42 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:16,679 Speaker 1: let's take it back to Los Angeles because we let's 43 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: well we'll take it back all all the way to LA. 44 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: But also, you know, you shared some things on the 45 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 1: last podcast that we did that you know, you've been 46 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 1: kind of talking to two different people, so I want 47 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: to I want to touch on that, but I also 48 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,239 Speaker 1: want to see you know, we had some listeners come 49 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: out and what was what what was the vibe? Like 50 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: did how did it? How did it go for for 51 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: you and and the listeners there? Was there anything that 52 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: you noticed or anything happened that I didn't see because 53 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: I was truth be told. I you know, I'm I'm 54 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: kind of old in the area where it's like I 55 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: always prefer to go home and be in my cozy's. 56 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,239 Speaker 1: But I'm like, you know what, babe, I'm like, there's 57 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: a VI piece that we're invited to. Let's go up 58 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: there and just have some fun. And I'm so glad 59 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 1: we did because it was genuinely such a good time. 60 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: But I saw you guys over there, and you know, 61 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: I was I was rootin and I'm like, all right, 62 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: I hope, I hope it's going good. But what was 63 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: your thoughts? 64 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, I saw you and your cozy slippers, 65 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 2: so you're I did that. 66 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 1: I was like, that was the only way with me, 67 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: I'll make it. I'm like, if I'm going up there, 68 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm changing my heels to slippers so I can still 69 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: all still rock the outfit, but like I need to 70 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: be somewhat cozy, right. 71 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 2: I love that you look so good, and I was 72 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 2: super jealous. 73 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 3: I was like, oh god, it's like I'm like in 74 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 3: these like sky I was like, literally, I think it 75 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 3: was like six to one on Friday night, which was 76 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 3: which was fun and tall and they're just you know, 77 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 3: the guests were just they're really they're really really nice girls, 78 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 3: really really nice and they've been through so much. So 79 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 3: when we were we were in the car, you weren't 80 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 3: in the car with us, and I sat in the 81 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 3: back with them and was just listening to their stories 82 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 3: and they were telling me their stories I mean of 83 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 3: just infidelity, and I mean. 84 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 2: I was shocked. I was really. 85 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 3: Shocked at to hear the stories that these guests had 86 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 3: gone through. 87 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 2: I mean I was really really shocked. 88 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 3: And so that even gave me more of an impetus 89 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 3: to be like, let's have fun at ihear and just 90 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 3: you know, have so. 91 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: Much fun ging gole ball. 92 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 3: You know, I always feel like I was actually talking 93 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 3: to my young my oldest daughter about this. I always 94 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: feel like when you're in a situation like that, it's 95 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 3: not always like you're looking to date someone. But it's 96 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 3: just nice to just genuinely be open to meeting a 97 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,919 Speaker 3: lot of different people. And you know, I saw a 98 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 3: lot of people that I knew and I just was 99 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 3: literally walking around with them and I introduced them to 100 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 3: Like I literally was just smiling at people and people 101 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 3: were like hi and I. It was literally just introducing 102 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 3: them to absolutely everyone that was responding to you know, 103 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 3: six foot one smiling woman. It was It was really, 104 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 3: it was fun. We had a really really good time. 105 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 3: We had a really good time. He one one guy 106 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 3: was there and he was like talking to us and 107 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 3: he was having a great He had like serious jewelry 108 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 3: game on, like these massive diamonds and I was talking 109 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 3: about this jewey and his wife came out. She was 110 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 3: like what did he say. I was like, I don't know, 111 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 3: but that jewelry game is firing. She was really cute 112 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 3: and funny, and so we had a really nice time 113 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 3: just like chatting with them. And afterwards they were like, 114 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 3: you can't you told you were talking to the wife. 115 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 3: I'm like, so, I'm like, by the way, like you're 116 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 3: single and I'm single. You never know who people know 117 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 3: and they could be like, oh my god. 118 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:35,559 Speaker 2: She was really fun. 119 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 3: She you know, was just talking to us and she's 120 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 3: you know, just having a good time, and like I 121 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 3: couldn't care less if she's married or not. Like I'm 122 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 3: not trying to go after her husband. I'm just having 123 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 3: meeting people and having a good time. So we had 124 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 3: had a lot of fun. You know, I had a 125 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 3: lot of fun. 126 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 2: Introducing them to a lot of people. 127 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: But with like what you just said, some of my 128 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: best like memories of even going out is I've met 129 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: actually girlfriends from going out and being places. And so 130 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: whether it's a love connection or you know, a man connections, 131 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: it's usually it's a people connection. You know, I met 132 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: one of my best friends in the middle seat of 133 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: a Southwest flight, you know. So it's like I think 134 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: it's being open to any connection when you go up. 135 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 3: I mean, they got to meet Teddy, they got to 136 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 3: hang out, they were hanging out with me, They got 137 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 3: to meet a lot of people that they probably wouldn't 138 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 3: have met from you know, the Golden Bachelor and Bachelorette. 139 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 3: There were a lot of people that they got to meet. 140 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 3: And to your point, you know, you never know who 141 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 3: you're going to meet and how you're going to meet people. 142 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 3: And so I was just talking to everybody, and I 143 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 3: think that's really I mean, just from my own experience, 144 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 3: that's how you meet great people. 145 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 2: It's just being out and about and. 146 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 3: People just see your energy and feel your energy and 147 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 3: you're having a good time. They're like, oh my god, 148 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 3: that looks like a good crew. Let's get to know them. 149 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 1: It was about the experience, and I think, like, you know, 150 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: and for me, like, okay, obviously I'm there and my 151 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: husband's on my arm, but like I got to sit 152 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 1: next to Ali, you know, Larder, and I was like, 153 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: that's cool. Like I've always thought she's an amazing actress. 154 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: And I took this was kind like and it took 155 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: me a second. Well, she was like it took me 156 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: kind of. I'm like, really weird when it comes to 157 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: like people were there receipts or whatever, and you know, 158 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: some of the interns were like do you want to 159 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: sit down? Like no, no, like you are sitting like 160 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: just because like you sit, you know what I mean. Like, 161 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: so we stood up in the back like for for 162 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: most of it, and then they got up and they're 163 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: like no, sit down. I'm like no, like seriously. But 164 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: then I'm like okay, fine, Like when you do that, 165 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, all right, fine, we'll sit now. 166 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 1: So when we sat down, I notice is really beautiful 167 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: blonde next to me, and they were they were trying 168 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: to like take a photo, and I'm like, I'll take 169 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: it for you. But when I took her phone to 170 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: like take the photo, I was like, oh, that's Ali Larder, 171 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And I'm like, like, she's 172 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: like I love her work, and well no, but and 173 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 1: like I'm like, I know, she has no idea who 174 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: I am. She's got to probably think that or she 175 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 1: probably saw that I registered it while I'm taking their photo, 176 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: you know what i mean, like her and her friend's photo. 177 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: So I'm like this is cool. But then I'm like 178 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: her foot her camera was kind of dirty, so I 179 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: like cleaned it, you know what I mean, and like 180 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: it sound like and then like I took, I took 181 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 1: a picture of them. But that to that point, it 182 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: was like it was an experience and like I didn't 183 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: know that. I was like that was cool. I got 184 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: to like have an interaction with her, and then you know, 185 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: I've got to you know, run and have you know, 186 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: see Teddy again and give her a hug and squeeze 187 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: her and then see you know, the the Golden Bachelorettes, Like. 188 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: It was there just so fun there. 189 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're just they're so fun, so beautiful and so 190 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:37,719 Speaker 1: vibrant and you know, so yeah. I think it's all 191 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: about when you go into dating worlds to remember the 192 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,839 Speaker 1: experience of it, because there's always going to be a 193 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: new experience one one doesn't look the same. And to 194 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 1: go on that. Was there anything that came up for 195 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: you in La? Were there any old flames that might 196 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: have texted you, Kelly, or did you have any run 197 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: ins when you were there? 198 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 2: One of my clos was like, oh, let's let's get drinks. 199 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 2: And I'm like okay. 200 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 3: And we're sitting there and he's telling me how he 201 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 3: owns this vineyard and I'm like that's great, you know, 202 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 3: I'm just listening to him. And then he was telling 203 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 3: me how he's, uh, he's a player. 204 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: I was like, what what guy wants? What guy just 205 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:20,679 Speaker 1: like that? 206 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 3: And I'm just like that doesn't make me. First of all, 207 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 3: you're my client. 208 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: Second, that doesn't make me wanting to jump up on you. 209 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 2: And then and then he goes, you know how. 210 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 3: Old was he, he said, in like sixties, mid sixties. 211 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 3: Then he goes to me again, that makes sense, Telly. 212 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 3: He's like, I really, I really don't like brunettes. But 213 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 3: I'm okay with you. 214 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we are not. I'm not allowing you 215 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: to date him. I'm sorry. I'm going to pull the 216 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: mother card on this and you cannot date him. And 217 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: it's not for you who says that. 218 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 2: I have no idea. 219 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 3: I think that you know, listen, as hard as it 220 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:59,719 Speaker 3: is for girls, it's the same thing with guts. And 221 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 3: you know, we were talking, you know about like, you know, 222 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 3: our game, That's what we were. 223 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 2: Talking about together. 224 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 3: And you know, some people just think that this kind 225 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 3: of like being aloof or saying things like I'm so great, 226 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 3: who are you? 227 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 2: Is going to make the other person like you more? 228 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 3: But does Like I can see right through that. I'm like, okay, whatever, 229 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 3: I'm happy to. 230 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: Like, you know, chat with you and have. 231 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 3: Fun and you know, have a glass of wine and 232 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 3: talk to you about what you're where you're you know, 233 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 3: what you're doing with your real estate career. 234 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 2: But I'm just not like that is not happening. That 235 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 2: does not work for me. 236 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: That's not happening. But at the concert, though, I did 237 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 1: hear from someone saying that you were a little flirty. 238 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: Who were you flirting with? 239 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 2: I don't know who was I find that's amazing. I 240 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 2: was flirting. I love it. 241 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 1: You don't even know. 242 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 243 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 3: There was a photographer that I know that he's so 244 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,079 Speaker 3: cute and he's always like he's like, hell, you're very flirtatious. 245 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 3: I think that, Like, I'm just very easy around men. 246 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 3: And you know, I don't know if you knows. I 247 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 3: have a twin brother, and so I'm just very relaxed 248 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 3: around men. 249 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 1: Like the diamond guy. 250 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh yeah, the 251 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 3: diamond guy that was married, yeah, Kelly, I didn't know, 252 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 3: never ring. And then his wife came out and I 253 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 3: was like, yeah, he's got great game, he's got diamonds 254 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 3: and he's fun and I know that guy. 255 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 1: Oh okay, got it. 256 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:26,719 Speaker 2: Got it? 257 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:28,559 Speaker 3: You know. I always say too, like you never know, 258 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 3: like who you're going to meet and who they might know, 259 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:32,959 Speaker 3: do you know what I mean? Like you may be 260 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 3: like he might be like, hey, you guys, like I'm married, 261 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:36,839 Speaker 3: but you should meet my friend. 262 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 2: He's over there in the suite, like you never know, 263 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 2: you don't know. 264 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 3: I met a vegan farmer. He was the other another 265 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 3: guy that like, I just smiled at him. 266 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 2: He was like hey, and I don't know. 267 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 3: I started starting, you know, striking up a conversation for 268 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 3: the two guests, my two friends, my two new friends, 269 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:56,559 Speaker 3: and like, you know, he's telling me about being a 270 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 3: vegan farmer. And that's when I found out about, you know, 271 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 3: this whole thing with my with my love of gummy 272 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 3: bears and how it's you know, completely over because everything 273 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 3: is going to be all natural and healthy and my 274 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 3: life is so much better. 275 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 2: It's fine. 276 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 3: But he was very cute and then yeah, and then 277 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 3: the woman came out and she was like. 278 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 2: That's my husband. I was like, okay, great. 279 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 3: One thing about this whole thing about like meeting people 280 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 3: that I'm married, is that if you're if you're married, 281 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 3: if your husband or wife are married, and you can 282 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 3: walk around and have fun with someone who's not, that's 283 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 3: a true testament to the relationship you have with your wife. 284 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 3: I Mean there's men that are like looking for people 285 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 3: that's totally inappropriate if you're married, but like, if you 286 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 3: can have fun with people in general and just like 287 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 3: laugh with them, Like, there's absolutely nothing wrong with like, 288 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:48,079 Speaker 3: you know, smiling and like having like a fun little banter. 289 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:49,959 Speaker 2: With the opposite sex. Zero. 290 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 3: What is wrong is engaging in inappropriate activity That is wrong, 291 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 3: like being like hey, can I get your number exactly? 292 00:12:57,280 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: Or if you find out that the person is you know, misleading, 293 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: married or or you know, has a wife, that's when 294 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: you're like, you know, you need to be respectful. 295 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 2: Of course, of course. 296 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 3: I mean I know, I've I've been married and I've 297 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 3: had women be disrespectful to me and to my marriage, 298 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 3: so I know what that feels like. 299 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, yeah, same. But you like we're like same, 300 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 1: same z is how does a girl up to a 301 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 1: man at their own, you know, bachelor party and slide 302 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 1: their number? Like that's just so disrespectful, Like don't don't 303 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: go up to the groom, you know and give your 304 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: number or have. 305 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 2: The groom tell me like that he should have married me. 306 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, speaking of though, because we've both been in 307 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: some you know, not great relationships with good not great men, 308 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: what is the quality that you're most looking for now 309 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: in a relationship from oh, from a man, Like, what's 310 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: the quality that you are hoping like what's the number 311 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 1: one quality you want them to have? 312 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 2: You know, I was talking to my therapist today. 313 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 3: We were talking about this exact question, and it's safety. 314 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 2: It's just this emotion. I'm craving this emotional safety. 315 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 3: It's like I I give this to my kids, to 316 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 3: my friends, you know, I make them feel like they 317 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 3: don't have they don't have anything in the world to 318 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 3: worry about as long as I'm their friend. 319 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 2: But I don't feel like that. 320 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 3: And that's one thing that I'm craving is just to 321 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 3: be able to be like, hey, you had a great podcast, 322 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 3: or it's reading outside, or you know, just stupid things 323 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 3: that are just I just want to like include that 324 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 3: person in my life with all of those different things 325 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 3: that have happened, whether they're significant or insignificant. I mean 326 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 3: basically every thing that happens to your partner significant if 327 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 3: you really really care about them. And emotional safety, I 328 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 3: think is something that like I've never had and I'm 329 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 3: I'm craving it. 330 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, No, I I definitely. And that's there's a 331 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: there's such a safety like what it does for your soul. 332 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: Having that safe safety, it gives you so much, like 333 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: that peace is just that feels it's not chaotic, you know, 334 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: like you can really just kind of rest and rest 335 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: in peace, and that's a that's a really beautiful place 336 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 1: to be. 337 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what that's like, but I'm looking 338 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 2: for it. 339 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: And I'm going that's the thing out of the two 340 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: guys that you talked about, because on the last episode 341 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: you talked about two guys that you or I mean, 342 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say you're like deciding between, but you're also 343 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: just entertaining both. Is there one that you feel more 344 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: safe with? Like is that maybe where you'll where you'll 345 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 1: end up or is it because I almost think, okay, 346 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: and maybe this is wrong, But so I was talking 347 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: to a guy when I was you know, and we 348 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: were not official or anything like that. We were just 349 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: kind of casually dating, and you know, and then I 350 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: met Alan. I knew immediately. I was like, he's done. 351 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: This is my person, you know what I mean, Like, yeah, 352 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 1: I just I just knew, like I didn't even want 353 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: to entertain anybody else. Well luctually that was even before. 354 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: But at the time, like I was, wasn't talking to anyone, 355 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: and then when I started talking to Alan, he kind 356 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: of came back around. He's like texting me like, hey, 357 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: you know, and I'm like, no, like, I actually like, 358 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 1: I don't want anything. I don't want to be with 359 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 1: you at all. So is it do you think the 360 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: fact that you're even kind of like hmming and hauling 361 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: one or the other that neither one of them might 362 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: not because it's like you don't have a strong pull 363 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 1: for one. 364 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 2: You know, I think that. I mean, I wish I could. 365 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 2: I wish I could blame. 366 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 3: Them, but I'm gonna have to blame myself for this 367 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 3: at this time, you know, because we've only been I've 368 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 3: only been going through this new metamorphosis for the past 369 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 3: you know, month, six weeks, and so I'm starting to 370 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 3: recognize the things that I want and that I I 371 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 3: am going to get. 372 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 2: And so. 373 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 3: Whether these guys are the greatest guys in the world, 374 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 3: you know, I really like both of them. 375 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 2: I think they're great. 376 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 3: I mean, I think that one of them is really 377 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 3: a really, really amazing guy. I just don't know like 378 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 3: where he is and in terms of like where we 379 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 3: would be in our life, because I mean, I want 380 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 3: to get It's not people are like, do you want 381 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 3: to get married? It's not that I want to get married, 382 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 3: but I want a committed relationship and I want a 383 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 3: family for my family. That's what I've always wanted to 384 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 3: stay one. That's why I got divorced, Like, I want 385 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:50,680 Speaker 3: a family for my family. And so I'm looking for 386 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 3: that man who is going to be that partner in 387 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,439 Speaker 3: love crime with me and Mike and me and my 388 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 3: family and his family. And I'm getting closer to understanding 389 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 3: what I really want. And one thing that my therapist 390 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 3: and I were talking about today is just there's there's manifesting, 391 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,159 Speaker 3: which was so great when I wrote that letter to 392 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 3: my future husband. It really put a different narrative in 393 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 3: my head versus the you know what's wrong with me? 394 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 2: What you know? People don't like me? Do I like them? 395 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 3: You know? 396 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:24,040 Speaker 2: Just all of this. 397 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 3: Self doubt And so now she was, She's like, I 398 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 3: really want you to be proactive about talking positively about 399 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 3: yourself and about what you really really want. 400 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 1: And what you deserve too, because I think that's where 401 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: I always went wrong, was I didn't think I deserved X, 402 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,200 Speaker 1: Y and Z. You know, yeah, So. 403 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 2: I mean I'm sorry for that. 404 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 3: You're like such a I mean every time that we 405 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,639 Speaker 3: get to hang out together, I'm like, oh, I love her. 406 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: But I'm glad that you're doing that manifestation though, because 407 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: I do believe in that too. Like there is, yes, 408 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 1: there's healing work, but there's also positive talk. And I 409 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: think that's if you're going to positive time and like 410 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: I'm never gonna find anyone, well, then you're not going 411 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 1: to find anyone because you're you're not going to have 412 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 1: the outlook to find someone. 413 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 2: And I just think positive talk is really really important. 414 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,640 Speaker 3: And so you know where again, like to just answer 415 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:16,919 Speaker 3: your question, you know, I'm working really working hard on 416 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 3: myself and I'm hoping that the people that are you 417 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 3: know around me are seeing that. 418 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 2: And you know, you don't know what's going to happen in. 419 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 3: Life, but I feel really good about today and I'm 420 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 3: going to feel even better about tomorrow. 421 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 1: I mean, write it on a postcard. That's so good. 422 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 2: It's so good ascard, I know. 423 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:47,919 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's good. Okay, let's go to just 424 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 1: the people that are, you know, wanting some more dating advice. 425 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 1: When you're out and you see a cute guy and 426 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 1: you send over a drink to get his attention, have 427 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 1: you done that before? Is that something that you've done. 428 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:01,160 Speaker 1: Have you ever? Actually I bought a drink for another 429 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: guy and never, I mean I haven't either. I'm curious 430 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 1: if guys like that boldness or not. 431 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if men would like 432 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 2: that boldness for me. 433 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 3: I think that they would be kind of like, wow, 434 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 3: who is that? 435 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 2: What is she doing? I think that they would take 436 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 2: it the wrong way to be honest. 437 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: With you really, see, Okay, So I'm gonna play devil's 438 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:28,199 Speaker 1: advocate on this one because I almost look at you 439 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 1: and I as I would be intimidated to talk to you. Really, Yeah, 440 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 1: though you're lovely and I know you now because you're 441 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,719 Speaker 1: so beautiful and like you're strong and like if I 442 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: was a guy, I might be a little and which 443 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: also you want a strong guy, right, But I think 444 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: it was I think if you've gotten the you know, 445 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: guys are intimidated or by you or something, and it's 446 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 1: like maybe it's okay to make the first move so 447 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 1: that way they know that, like you want to be approached, 448 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,239 Speaker 1: because a lot of times, even though girls say they 449 00:20:58,240 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 1: want to be approached, they really don't want to be approach. 450 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 451 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 1: I don't know, just the theory. 452 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:07,160 Speaker 2: So that's interesting people. 453 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 3: I mean there's there's some people that have said like that, 454 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 3: you know that I'm I'm kind of intimidating, but then 455 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 3: when people meet me, they're like, oh my god. No, 456 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 3: not at all, Like they're like, oh my god. Everyone 457 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 3: always wants to come talk to you. You're smiling, you're 458 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:27,120 Speaker 3: having a good time, You're always like engaging people, and 459 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 3: when they do meet me, I mean, I'm I'm outwardly, 460 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:38,399 Speaker 3: I'm outwardly confident, but inwardly very very very very insecure 461 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 3: really so so it's like, there'll meet me and but 462 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:44,879 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, listening to Jenny and she's like 463 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 3: follow me in the car, and I'm like I would never. 464 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 1: Could never out of crawled inside like yeah, yeah, I'm 465 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 1: so like I've always wanted to, like like with the 466 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 1: guy like that, but like I don't have That's where 467 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: I'm like insecure, Like, well, maybe they wouldn't want to 468 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: follow me. 469 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 2: Then I don't know what if he turned left? 470 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, what is your biggest insecurity? Like you say, you're 471 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 1: outwardly you know, confident, but you know, inside you know, insecure. 472 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: So I'm curious, what is what is that insecurity piece? 473 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 1: What is it telling you. 474 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,199 Speaker 3: It's telling me this is what we talked about before 475 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:37,479 Speaker 3: about the safety. It's like, are they are they really 476 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 3: interested in knowing about me as. 477 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 2: A person or me as you know. 478 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 3: It's like when they talk about the idea of a person, 479 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 3: like I think that and maybe this is just me 480 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 3: being I don't know, insecure more insecure. It's just like 481 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 3: I think that people just real like the idea. I 482 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 3: get very very very Insecure's it? I just get rawly insecure. 483 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I'm going to have thank you for sharing that. 484 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: You know, I think we all deal with insecurities, and 485 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:14,200 Speaker 1: you know, we need to like speak truth into what 486 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: the actual you know, truth is around it. And obviously 487 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,479 Speaker 1: we have amazing therapists that can help us do that 488 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 1: and friends too. 489 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 3: Do you want to know the real reason why I'm 490 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,959 Speaker 3: so insecure? The real reason that I'm so insecure is 491 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 3: because when I went on television before social media, I 492 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 3: had just gotten divorced and you know, obviously, you know, 493 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 3: my ex husband was not faithful to me and I 494 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 3: was you know, I had to put up with a 495 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 3: lot of of infidelity for the sake of my girls, 496 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,120 Speaker 3: and so you know, I had the confidence to get 497 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 3: divorced and happy that you know, he can be a 498 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 3: father to him in the way that's good for him, 499 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 3: and my girls are healthy and well. But then I 500 00:23:54,720 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 3: wanted a television show where I was literally like laddered 501 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 3: against a wall for having confidence and being able to say, like, 502 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 3: I don't like when people talk badly to me. I 503 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:11,159 Speaker 3: was really really I was literally slammed up against the 504 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 3: wall in terms of like socially, and people were like, oh, 505 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 3: is she really that mean? And I'm like, no one 506 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 3: ever in my life has ever called me mean ever, 507 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 3: never never. Okay, maybe my kids when I won't give 508 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:28,360 Speaker 3: them what they want, but no person, even any guy, 509 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 3: has never said that I'm mean. They've said I'm distant, 510 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 3: they say that, you know, certain other things, but they've 511 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 3: never no one ever has used those words, that word 512 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:43,719 Speaker 3: to describe me except for this what happened like literally culturally, 513 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 3: and it was really it's been very, very very difficult 514 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,959 Speaker 3: to get past that and to get through that and 515 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 3: to get to go to be on the other side 516 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:54,239 Speaker 3: of that. 517 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 2: And I feel like that's one thing that I've really really. 518 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 1: That's it almost identified you in the in the wrong way, 519 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,360 Speaker 1: Like it's not who you are, but like you yet 520 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 1: you've been ident you're label to identified as this when 521 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 1: it's like you're fighting to be like that's not who 522 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: I am, right, yeah, that's it's and that's hard to 523 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: because it's it's such a like it's almost like you're 524 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 1: being gas lit by other people, like always by other 525 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 1: people and everybody. But it's like, but no, that's not and 526 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: then you feel like you have to defend. But it's like, yeah, 527 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 1: that's that's exhausting real. 528 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 529 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 3: And it was never like, oh, like, you know, you're 530 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,200 Speaker 3: so nice to say to give me a compliment. 531 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 2: Most people do never do that. 532 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 3: They're always like, oh, that's from that's from this, or 533 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 3: she was like that and she was so mean to 534 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 3: this person and she's mean, and I'm. 535 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 1: Like, okay, right, well, and at this you know, this stage. 536 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 3: And I think a lot of guys sorry to interrupt you, 537 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,880 Speaker 3: but I think a lot of guys because they think 538 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 3: that's what it is, so they also kind of try 539 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:04,200 Speaker 3: to gaslight me too. And in the past like month 540 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 3: and a half, I used to get gas lit and 541 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 3: and like internalize it and be like oh my god, 542 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,920 Speaker 3: like that's how they see me, that's how they feel 543 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 3: about me. That's how people sat to when I walk 544 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 3: outside the street, that's what people think about me. And 545 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,640 Speaker 3: now I'm just like, no, that's not how people think 546 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 3: about me. And it doesn't matter if they think about 547 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 3: me like that anyway, right, I just I don't I 548 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 3: don't know. 549 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 2: I feel different. 550 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 3: I feel like I have a new shield or like 551 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 3: like I said, like the metapomorphosis. 552 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's recognizing. And I think that's for anyone listening. 553 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 1: There's always someone that said something about you that isn't true. 554 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:44,119 Speaker 1: They've spoken untruth into you because of something either they 555 00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 1: heard or they might have witnessed from a you know, 556 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 1: maybe we're having a bad day or something. I don't know, 557 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, you know who 558 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: you are, you know your own truth, and you know 559 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 1: what's in your four walls. And that's always kind of 560 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: whenever I get a little shaken by something that has 561 00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 1: been said, you know, allan's always like the four like 562 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 1: that's that we know who is in the four walls, 563 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,640 Speaker 1: and that's right. Really, all the people that really matter 564 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 1: to it's only like your family knows you are loved, 565 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,280 Speaker 1: and does anything else matter outside the four walls. 566 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 3: No, right, you know it doesn't. My dad used to 567 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 3: call it your like inner coconut. Don't let people into 568 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 3: the coconut. Like what you know who your people that 569 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 3: you are close, close, people you're very close, friends, your family, 570 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 3: people that are your friends who are become your family. 571 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 3: And I totally agree with that. And I just feel that, 572 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 3: you know, it's funny I just said. I actually said 573 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 3: it was a metamorphosis. And I feel like I'm a butterfly. 574 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 1: Love that I'm a butterfly. You're a butterfly. Okay, So 575 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 1: speaking of butterfly and fluttering into DMS, do you believe 576 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 1: in the DM in a route fluttering into DMS? Do 577 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:55,640 Speaker 1: you believe in that route? Listen, I have blindly DMed 578 00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:01,119 Speaker 1: when I was single, and I've had some good connections, 579 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:05,879 Speaker 1: you know, some some good you know, friend connections from 580 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:10,439 Speaker 1: from them from there too. They obviously weren't love connections. 581 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 1: But I know my husband he love connected me, you know, 582 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 1: with with dming me. But I think some women might 583 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: be like, no, I want to be approached. But in 584 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 1: this day and age and you have status and being 585 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:25,119 Speaker 1: able to go onto Instagram, you know, is there. I 586 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,120 Speaker 1: don't want to say a celebrity, but is there someone 587 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:31,399 Speaker 1: that you want to reach out to in DMS? And 588 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 1: would you do it? And if not, can I do 589 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 1: it for you? Wing woman? 590 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 2: I was like, give me your phone. 591 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 1: I was like all this because because this is this 592 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: is what So my girl Jesse Decker when I was single, 593 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: She's like, who do you want me to DM? And 594 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 1: I was like, Jesse, like nobody. She's like no, no, okay, 595 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: let me think about this. Okay, this is this guy 596 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: and she she was just straight up DM dudes. Yeah, 597 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 1: And like, I'm like, you are so like she was 598 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: like the best wing woman. I just really think we 599 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: need to find the person. You don't have to say 600 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 1: his name, but I am going to challenge you to 601 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: DM someone and take that bold step because I think 602 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 1: it's a good thing. 603 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 2: Today, I have to think about, like who that was 604 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 2: like right now, I'm like. 605 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm thinking like Kevin Costner. 606 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking about. 607 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 3: He he looks good in a cowboy hat. 608 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 2: I like good in a cowboy We have so much 609 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 2: in common. 610 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: You doser. Oh wait, he's on Instagram. 611 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god, you are hilarious. You are so funny. 612 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 2: Here wait, can Kelly. 613 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 1: D m him right now from your phone. I want 614 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 1: you to do it right now, and I want we 615 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 1: want we need to see proof of this, okay, and 616 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: we'll put it on socials. 617 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's going to be like, hello, okay. 618 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 1: Just be like, okay, be like your ears must be ringing, 619 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 1: and like, I like it's something like cute, like I think, 620 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: are your ears ringing? Winky faced? Talking about my love 621 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 1: for horses and your name popped up? Let me know 622 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: if you're ever in New York? 623 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 2: Talking love? Gosh, this is so good. 624 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 1: Because you gotta like put thrown an interest. Okay, so 625 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 1: everyone listening, if you want to reach out to someone 626 00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 1: thrown an interest that you know that they're like you 627 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 1: guys both like love and share. Say you know, thinking 628 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 1: of something you know or like you know, your your 629 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: ears ringing? Whatever? 630 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 3: Okay, your ears must be ringing talking my love for 631 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 3: horses and your name came up? 632 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 2: When are you in New York? Also? 633 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: Put Jana Kramer in your next movie. 634 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 2: I'm kidding. 635 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: I'm getting kidding. 636 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 2: My great friends a great actress. You'll love her. I 637 00:30:58,840 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 2: love that. 638 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: Okay, I need you to pressend. 639 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 3: You know what's so funny though, is that because I 640 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 3: always say aloha? Like we don't you don't. I don't text, 641 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 3: but like every time, like I would be like aloha. 642 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 3: That's my way of saying hello. And when I was 643 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 3: on Riah this summer, you know, I was like saying 644 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,280 Speaker 3: aloha and everyone's like, they were like. 645 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 2: Do you live in Hawaii? I'm like, no, why would I. 646 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 1: We're going to drop the aloha. I love you. We're 647 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: dropping aloha. Please do not aloha? Kevin Costner, Kevin, did 648 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:30,960 Speaker 1: you send that? 649 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 2: Not say a loha? By the way, thank you? 650 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 1: Did you send it? 651 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 2: Yes? 652 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 1: Let me see. I don't believe you. 653 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 2: I haven't anything. I sent it. So good. 654 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 1: Okay, Well that's something we get to recap on. 655 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see what he says. Let's see does it 656 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 3: get read. It's probably like his publicist. 657 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 2: You know what. 658 00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 1: But like at the end of the day, well great 659 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 1: that this publicism be like wow, you know then Kevin, 660 00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 1: here you go. But I think it's something. Keep thinking 661 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: of other people DM DM away because you know what's 662 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 1: the worst can happen They don't read it, or they 663 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 1: don't respond, or they do and guess what, You've got 664 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 1: a fun little you know, you know, drink date come 665 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 1: in your way. 666 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 3: Or you know whoever all to the listeners too, whoever 667 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 3: is listening, if you if you have an idea of 668 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 3: someone that you think would be really good for me, 669 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 3: because before I was like no athletes, no actors, like 670 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 3: I had all these rules, and now I'm just like 671 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,479 Speaker 3: as the butterfly, I'm like, no, no, no, I am 672 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 3: open to meet all these different kinds of people. So 673 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 3: if you guys think of anyone too that you think 674 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:36,920 Speaker 3: would be good for me, please let me know and 675 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 3: I will let my fingers do the walking. 676 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 1: And her wings do the floppen. Okay, twenty twenty five. 677 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 1: Are we wanting to be in a relationship or we 678 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: wanted to just continue this single? 679 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:51,479 Speaker 2: No? 680 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 3: No, no, no, in a serious relationship and ready to go 681 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 3: like I have. 682 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: That's the intention for twenty twenty five. I'm here for it. 683 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 2: Be in like not like, not. 684 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 3: Like oh, let's date, like in a very very serious 685 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 3: relationship that's moving forward towards getting being being married. 686 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 2: Yep. 687 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 1: And you know what, and this is the thing for 688 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,240 Speaker 1: everyone listening to project what you want. Don't say you're 689 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 1: never going to find or this, that and the other. 690 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 1: Project it say what you want and go out and 691 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: find it. You know. 692 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 3: What was interesting too, is just being in LA with everybody. 693 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 3: Like I never thought of LA as a place that 694 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 3: I would live. I always thought of an La as 695 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 3: a place that I went to work and then came back. 696 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 3: And you know, I'm at lunch with my friends the 697 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 3: other day and I'm like, you know what, I love LA. 698 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 2: Like it's a it's very me. It's like it's very 699 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 2: high and very low. 700 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 3: Like people are just having a really good time and 701 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 3: they're walking around in T shirts and then they go 702 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 3: to their you know, they do their work, and it's 703 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 3: just it's I feel very, very good and healthy in LA, 704 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 3: whereas it's you know, I work in Miami and Florid 705 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 3: in Palm Beach, and I've been going there all my life. 706 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 2: I just when I'm there, I just don't feel good. 707 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 1: When I'm yeah, well, I mean listen, listen to yourself, 708 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 1: you know, and like if that's the places it's not 709 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 1: my friend too, she's divorced. She's like, I'm not going 710 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 1: there anymore because it's not filling my soul, like my 711 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 1: soul cup, you know, I'm gonna She actually loves Miami, 712 00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,279 Speaker 1: but again, we're we live here in Nashville, so it's 713 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 1: kind of it's fun. 714 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 2: I love working in Miami. 715 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,399 Speaker 3: I just have never I'm just it's just never been 716 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,879 Speaker 3: a place where I'm just like this is Maybe it's 717 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,960 Speaker 3: because there's no horses and there's you know, I really, 718 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 3: I really do. I love I love the beach and 719 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 3: I love horses. I love that I love those are 720 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 3: the two lives. 721 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 1: I really yes, we love that so much. And you know, Kelly, 722 00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 1: we are going to be you know, just on this 723 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 1: journey with you. We're excited for twenty twenty five. You've 724 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:47,839 Speaker 1: put out the intentions and you know, stay tuned for 725 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 1: a Yellowstone Part two. 726 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,240 Speaker 2: I'm just having so much fun. 727 00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 3: Was telling my kids over the weekend, like it's just 728 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,359 Speaker 3: so nice to be in an environment or like I 729 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 3: feel safe, Like I feel safe to communicate, I feel 730 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 3: safe to tell you like how I'm why I'm so 731 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 3: deeply like I'm scarred. I have total PTSD from my 732 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 3: experience is like on Housewives, complete and utter, very very 733 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 3: serious PTSD one hundred percent. 734 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:19,640 Speaker 1: Well, you're doing all the work, and. 735 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 2: I just feel so good now. 736 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,840 Speaker 3: Just being able to communicate and to be able to 737 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:30,800 Speaker 3: to just be myself and you know, I'm super flawed, 738 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,240 Speaker 3: and you know what, that's okay. 739 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 2: I don't have to be like a. 740 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:39,320 Speaker 1: Men's sister, you know, and someone's gonna love all the parts. 741 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,560 Speaker 1: Like I have so many flaws, and I've seen such 742 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 1: a weird past and not weird past, but a hard past, 743 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:45,880 Speaker 1: and like he loves every piece of it, you know. 744 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,280 Speaker 3: So, by the way, I'm a ass singer. You were amazing. 745 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 3: I was like, oh my gosh, I know her. 746 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 2: Thank you. 747 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 1: I'm so sweet, thank you, all right, I love you. Kelly. Well, 748 00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 1: Kelly is the best, and it was so great catching 749 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 1: up with her, and it's really truly amazing to see 750 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 1: how far she's come since that first episode we taped 751 00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 1: a few months ago, just coming off the heels of 752 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 1: that broken engagement, and just you know, I just I 753 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 1: feel like she's just happier and stronger, and it's just 754 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 1: really been great to watch her along this journey. Listen to. 755 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 1: This podcast is all about you, guys, the listeners, who 756 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 1: have also had difficult times with finding love, and we 757 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:25,799 Speaker 1: want to hear from you and give you advice. So 758 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 1: call us or email us, follow us on socials. All 759 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,359 Speaker 1: the information will be in the show notes. Make sure 760 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,919 Speaker 1: to rate and review the podcast. I Do Part two, 761 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio podcast where falling in love is the main objective.