WEBVTT - John McEnroe

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Ruthie's Table four, a production of iHeartRadio and

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<v Speaker 1>Adami's Studios.

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<v Speaker 2>Summer in London has ripe strawberries, green grass in the

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<v Speaker 2>parks and skies that are at last blue. The city

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<v Speaker 2>fills up with visitors, many here for Wimbledon. Last July,

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<v Speaker 2>I went to a dinner with people well known in

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<v Speaker 2>the world of theater, politics, movies, art and television. At

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<v Speaker 2>around ten thirty the doorbell rang and John McEnroe entered

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<v Speaker 2>the room. Everyone stopped talking. Over the years, I've witnessed

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<v Speaker 2>in the River Cafe the spell binding effect an athlete

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<v Speaker 2>can have. None of us can do what they do,

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<v Speaker 2>and we all know it. There are many many images

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<v Speaker 2>of John McEnroe on the tennis court, but the one

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<v Speaker 2>that I recall is not athletic, but artistic. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>photograph of John carry in fact, almost cradling a painting

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<v Speaker 2>by Philip Guston, who was a close friend of my

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<v Speaker 2>father and mother. It was moving to see a strong,

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<v Speaker 2>powerful athlete I admired carrying something so fragile. Today, in

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<v Speaker 2>New York City, John has walked across Central Park from

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<v Speaker 2>his home, and in the fading autumn light, we will

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<v Speaker 2>talk about the food we eat, the art we love,

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<v Speaker 2>and the friendship we a tennis player and a cook

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<v Speaker 2>have begun.

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<v Speaker 3>Really very nice intro.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, thank you for coming. It'd be nice if

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<v Speaker 2>you begin to read a recipe.

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<v Speaker 3>I do love Italian food, so I'm gonna try it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's my favorite food.

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<v Speaker 4>Pantala amatrianae is the dish that I'm going to read

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<v Speaker 4>to tablespoons of extra virgin olive oil, two hundred and

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<v Speaker 4>fifty grams nine ounces of pancetta, two dried red chilies,

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<v Speaker 4>Get a little spice, one red onion, two tablespoons eight

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<v Speaker 4>hundred grams of tin tomatoes, tin plum tomatoes, three hundred

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<v Speaker 4>grams of penney, one hundred grams of freshly grated pecorino pecorino. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>heat the olive oil in a large frying pan, Add

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<v Speaker 4>the pancetta and fry until it becomes crisp. Add the chilies, onion,

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<v Speaker 4>and rosemary to the pan and sweat.

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<v Speaker 3>It's as sweat. Okay, sweat, I know what that means.

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<v Speaker 2>It is, yes, sweat well. It means that you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want it to brown, you want it to soften.

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<v Speaker 4>Add the tomato, stir well. Simmer for thirty minutes until

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<v Speaker 4>the sauce is very thick. Bring a large saucepan of

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<v Speaker 4>salted water to the boil. Cook the penne until cook

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<v Speaker 4>but still firm, which is known in Italian as aldente.

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<v Speaker 4>Drain the penney and add to the sauce. Mix well,

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<v Speaker 4>and serve with the pecorino. You know, I don't remember

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<v Speaker 4>that much about my childhood, mainly because what's happened to

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<v Speaker 4>me from eighteen to now I'm sixty three years old

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<v Speaker 4>has been so incredible in a lot of ways that

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sort of like, you know, I had a nice,

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<v Speaker 4>okay upbringing. I had a commuter now each way from Queens,

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<v Speaker 4>New York into the city to go to high school.

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<v Speaker 4>Sports kept me, helped me get friendships because I was

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<v Speaker 4>a bit of an introvert, shy kid.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I'm not really now, but I was then.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have a lot of great memories in my childhood,

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<v Speaker 4>but that doesn't mean it was bad. It means that

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<v Speaker 4>there was a loving family, a mom who took care

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<v Speaker 4>of me. God wrest her soul. My dad as well,

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<v Speaker 4>that always believed in me.

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<v Speaker 2>Did your mother cook?

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<v Speaker 3>My mother did cook.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's the thing, She wouldn't allow us to leave the

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<v Speaker 4>table till everything was eaten. She grew up during the Depression,

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<v Speaker 4>so didn't have a whole lot, but she wasn't super poor,

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<v Speaker 4>but she felt that we needed to finish what was

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<v Speaker 4>on our plate. We had to have liver once a

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<v Speaker 4>week our month because we were Catholic, and we had

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<v Speaker 4>to have fish, which I hated, and liver, which was

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<v Speaker 4>even worse. I felt like I was going to throw

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<v Speaker 4>up two younger brothers. But the good news was is

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<v Speaker 4>that I didn't know that dessert was an option until

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<v Speaker 4>I went to college because my mom would always have

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<v Speaker 4>a you know, chocolate cake with you.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to finish this. You're a kid, You're like, really,

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<v Speaker 3>I have to finish this.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think maybe it's because maybe she's you have

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<v Speaker 2>to finish your to finish the dessert, you have to finish.

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<v Speaker 4>So, you know, I was a bit. They used to

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<v Speaker 4>have four sizes when I grew up. There was small, medium, husky,

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<v Speaker 4>and large. I was husky. I was a bit husky.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember husky.

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<v Speaker 4>So it dawned on me when I went to college that, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I could sort of eat whenever I want and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't have have to eat what I don't want.

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<v Speaker 2>So were they miserable meals around the table? Did you've

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<v Speaker 2>always dread?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I didn't have miserable meals.

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<v Speaker 2>Great meal, but the experience because just.

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<v Speaker 4>Once once a month, you know, or once a week,

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<v Speaker 4>it was it was tough. We didn't get the type

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<v Speaker 4>of fish and chips that you got in England. Say

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<v Speaker 4>that would have been more bearable, heavily fried with a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of ketchup.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So did she work during the day?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, she was a nurse, an operating room nurse

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<v Speaker 4>when I became probably around twelve. I think she retired

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<v Speaker 4>from that because she had she I had two younger brothers,

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<v Speaker 4>we had three kids. My dad was a lawyer, so

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<v Speaker 4>she sort of took care of us at home and

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<v Speaker 4>we didn't have anyone cooking for us except her.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard work.

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<v Speaker 3>It is hard work, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I wish I had been more appreciative at the times

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<v Speaker 4>get fit food.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you all do the dishes afterwards? Do you think

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<v Speaker 2>did you all have to do?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>See, my mom was like the very clean house, so

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<v Speaker 4>we didn't really have to do the dishes. I mean

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<v Speaker 4>we probably just stuck him in the sink and we

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<v Speaker 4>didn't have to make our bed, which is sort of

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<v Speaker 4>maybe that's why I got spoiled so young.

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<v Speaker 3>One of the reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so Bill times at the macrone House. They were fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Generally it was a loud dinner table. You know, my

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<v Speaker 4>parents are very loud, so, you know, it was definitely

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<v Speaker 4>a shock going to London when I was eighteen because

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<v Speaker 4>people were very polite and you know, we had to

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<v Speaker 4>be a certain way, and beer was very hot and

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<v Speaker 4>it was in a you know, a wood barrel or

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<v Speaker 4>something like what the hell is wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>With this is that when you were playing when you when.

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<v Speaker 4>You first time I went to London was I was eighteen,

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<v Speaker 4>so it was sort of these in seventy seven, so

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<v Speaker 4>that was like the punk sort of revolution, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was walking down the King's Road for the fro,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, oh my god, these people are crazy. But

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<v Speaker 4>then I started realizing that they were sort of like

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<v Speaker 4>we were both. They started calling me a punk for tennis.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, wait a minute, I'm you know, have you

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<v Speaker 4>seen the ex Pistols? So I guess in tennis terms,

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<v Speaker 4>I was sort of a punk, but compared to the

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<v Speaker 4>real ones, I had a lot of.

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<v Speaker 3>Work to do. But you know, some of what they

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<v Speaker 3>were espousing was.

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<v Speaker 4>Not all that different than what I was thinking, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>sort of rebelling against that felt unfair.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought, you know, can I raise my hand and say,

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<v Speaker 2>you rebuild against what was unfair?

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I believe, That's what I'll tell them. Yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll admit I went over the line on a couple

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<v Speaker 4>of occasions, maybe a couple of hundred.

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<v Speaker 3>But at the same time, it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I believed that our sport should be viewed differently

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<v Speaker 4>than it was and even is now. You know in

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<v Speaker 4>this you know, upper class have to behave a certain way.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's a bunch of bologney. I never believed

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<v Speaker 4>that I wanted to be thought of. It was the

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<v Speaker 4>same way that they look at what you call football.

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<v Speaker 4>Well you're American also, but you've been there since seventy

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<v Speaker 4>in the seventies, I believe.

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<v Speaker 3>But we call soccer, they call football.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought, you know, in the rugby field, they're not

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<v Speaker 4>saying hello, how are you out there? And our football

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<v Speaker 4>field or whatever sport it is. So that's always been

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<v Speaker 4>an uphill battle. So I take pride in trying to

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<v Speaker 4>change the sport. What I believe was for the better,

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<v Speaker 4>but some people may differ with that.

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<v Speaker 2>And you refused to play in South Africa? Didn't you?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for saying? That was my probably the proudest

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<v Speaker 3>decision I ever made, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think I just remember being with our friends

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<v Speaker 2>and saying, this kid, you know in Wimbledon is talking

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<v Speaker 2>about what's not right, but his political values, his social

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<v Speaker 2>values are so correct, and there weren't many players who

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<v Speaker 2>were doing that. Did you ever play? Did you ever

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<v Speaker 2>go to Soethwies you?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I did, only when they ended on apartheid. And

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<v Speaker 4>I believe that the reason that I ended up meeting

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<v Speaker 4>Nelson Manll on my first trip, where he rudely he said,

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<v Speaker 4>I wish I would have given a million dollars if

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<v Speaker 4>we had a tape of this.

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<v Speaker 3>But he said to.

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<v Speaker 4>Me when I walked into his house that he lived in,

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<v Speaker 4>it's an honor to meet you.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, he's not.

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<v Speaker 4>Talking to me, because that's about what I was going

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<v Speaker 4>to say to him. Yeah, and he was the most

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful man I ever met. Well, just his hand it

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<v Speaker 4>felt like I was shaking hands with an angel. There

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<v Speaker 4>was this feeling that I can't explain and I brought

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<v Speaker 4>a racket. I gave him the racket that I used

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<v Speaker 4>it wimbled in the old wooden racket. I said, this

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<v Speaker 4>is for you, and he held it and he said

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<v Speaker 4>to me, I listened to your match when you played

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<v Speaker 4>Born in nineteen eighty. And I realized that he was

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<v Speaker 4>saying that he was listening to me while he was

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<v Speaker 4>at Robin's Island, where he spent twenty seven years of

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<v Speaker 4>his life. And I'm sitting there complaining about a goddamn

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<v Speaker 4>line call like this is the world's coming and went

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<v Speaker 4>in and this guy didn't have a bone of bitterness.

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<v Speaker 4>It felt like in his body. How in God's name

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<v Speaker 4>could anyone ever have that this? So, you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>really felt like he was one of the most beautiful

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<v Speaker 4>people in history.

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<v Speaker 2>He said it was an honor to meet you, and

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<v Speaker 2>then he said that he'd listened to you at Wimbledon.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that that was the connection, you know that he

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<v Speaker 2>was also saying, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well it was fair, yeah like that. I just you

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<v Speaker 4>just could picture that and then me going.

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<v Speaker 2>Homely you think he ever played tennis.

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<v Speaker 3>From the way he was swinging the racket, I believe

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<v Speaker 3>he did play. He did.

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<v Speaker 2>He did.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought he played. I can't swear to that. I

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<v Speaker 4>look like he knew how to play.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my brother told me that he was once in Hollywood.

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<v Speaker 2>My father was in the movie, said that he was

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<v Speaker 2>in Hollywood and Mandela was there, and there was this

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<v Speaker 2>huge audience, and Spielberg was there, and Geffen was there,

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<v Speaker 2>and Tom Hanks, every every movie starred, Harrison for there

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<v Speaker 2>and then Nelson Dell was talking and he just looked

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<v Speaker 2>out and he just stopped and he came down to

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<v Speaker 2>the audience. He walked through to the one important person

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<v Speaker 2>in the room, and it was Muhammad al A, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's going back again to the athlete, to the

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<v Speaker 2>person who had dignity, the person who Yeah, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's what we you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I met Ali a few times and he had

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<v Speaker 4>a pretty profound effect too, but he was already suffering

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<v Speaker 4>from from the effects of Parkinson's and it was tough

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<v Speaker 4>to see this, you know, incredible human being.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know how many athletes do you know?

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<v Speaker 4>Or they would give up three years of their prime, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and refused to fight because they're on principal.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think pretty much nobody, honestly.

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<v Speaker 2>When did you start playing tennis.

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<v Speaker 3>I was eight years old.

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<v Speaker 2>Did your tennis coach think about what you should be eating?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 4>I ate cereal that had tons of sugar. I'd have

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<v Speaker 4>a bacon sandwich for breakfast, cinnamon toast with butter and

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<v Speaker 4>cinnamon on it. My mother never said a word. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it didn't matter. Just eat when you're a kid. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I just totally disagree. I see these kids at my

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<v Speaker 4>academy and they've got these portions.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, you're twelve, go burn it, run around a little.

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<v Speaker 2>What about when they when they're sitting there there drinking

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<v Speaker 2>the water and sweat, you know, sweating and so would

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<v Speaker 2>you ever think of having anything at all to eat? No,

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<v Speaker 2>you wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 3>You mean during the match, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You'd have some nuts or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Nothing, I mean bananas.

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<v Speaker 2>That board match went on for how long?

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<v Speaker 3>Four hours?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you hungry at all? Yeah, you were hungry, but.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean also yourself jacked up.

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<v Speaker 4>I think if people ever saw me play, they could

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<v Speaker 4>probably agree that they saw some a lot of energy

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<v Speaker 4>being thrown out. You're actually running a lot, so it's

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<v Speaker 4>not a good thing to have a big steak an

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<v Speaker 4>hour or two before you play.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I remember beorn Borg.

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<v Speaker 4>My buddy would have a steak two hours before every

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<v Speaker 4>match and it didn't affect him at all.

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<v Speaker 3>He was fine.

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<v Speaker 4>He was probably one of the greatest and not the

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<v Speaker 4>greatest athletes they saw in a court. Murray, for example,

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<v Speaker 4>Andy Murray, I saw him eating a turkey sandwich about

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<v Speaker 4>a half hour before he played.

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<v Speaker 3>He goes, that doesn't affect me at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, before he played, like you know, Wimbledon or something

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<v Speaker 4>or usa U because you can eat that right. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 4>it doesn't bother you know. So some people have different metabolisms.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't do that. Some people are even worse. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>they'll go the whole day and not eat at all.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know then that's why it could be why

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<v Speaker 4>they're a little more irritable. I felt like I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>digest as quickly. Needed a little bit more time.

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<v Speaker 2>So you wake up in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't a big brad, not a big break. Depending

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<v Speaker 3>to mending.

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<v Speaker 4>When I played, I would have a bigger meal, probably

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<v Speaker 4>three hours before I played. That would be something like chicken,

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<v Speaker 4>some type of pasta, some type of blandish potato, some

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<v Speaker 4>type of vegetable.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it's possibly a soup. Not really too long.

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<v Speaker 2>I eat three hours before they have a two hour

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<v Speaker 2>break before you actually run the court.

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<v Speaker 3>Two to three hours.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, later matches was preferable because I don't really like

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<v Speaker 4>breakfast that much and I don't like to have to

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<v Speaker 4>eat early, but sometimes you have to do it, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's in my day there was more emphasis on carbs.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to ask you, if it's changed changed

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<v Speaker 2>quite a bit, what year did you start?

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<v Speaker 3>I started in seventy seven, and so what.

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<v Speaker 2>Was nutrition light? I asked this to Becam the other

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<v Speaker 2>day about when did that feeling of you know, what

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<v Speaker 2>we ate affect our health?

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<v Speaker 4>I'd say the early to mid eighties there was more

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<v Speaker 4>talk about what.

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<v Speaker 3>Would be most beneficial.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, when you're eighteen, I think you can pretty

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<v Speaker 4>much run through anything, and the first couple of years

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<v Speaker 4>after that you can burn. You're burning so many calories

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<v Speaker 4>it almost doesn't matter, or so you thought, because it's

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<v Speaker 4>sort of mind over matter, But it because I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's people are more aware of it than ever.

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<v Speaker 3>I think they've gone a little bit too far.

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<v Speaker 4>The other way do you in my opinion, But I

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<v Speaker 4>think they just you know, every little you know, they

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<v Speaker 4>regulate everything and they've got to do what it's such

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<v Speaker 4>a time and eat such an amount and I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's such a bunch of bs personally.

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<v Speaker 2>And now you're going to come back to onelon the summer,

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<v Speaker 2>you will be that.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I've been there probably forty seventy seven I'd

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<v Speaker 4>say forty three of the last forty five years. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>when my first child was born, I miss one. The

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<v Speaker 4>pandemic was canceled, but pretty much everyone I've been there,

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<v Speaker 4>either as a player as a commentator.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So it sort of come full circle because.

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<v Speaker 4>When they wanted to get rid of me for a

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<v Speaker 4>while and throw me out, and now all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm working for BBC of all places, and

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<v Speaker 4>they're telling me to do exactly what I want, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So I find that to be very commendable, I must say,

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<v Speaker 4>because you know, there's sort of we thought like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>they're a bunch of stuff shirts the way they talk

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<v Speaker 4>and the way they deal with the event. But when

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<v Speaker 4>they hired me, they were like, look, we want something different,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, we want you to be you. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think that's the key to hopefully my success, if you

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<v Speaker 4>know people want to call it that is because I'd

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<v Speaker 4>recognize that you need to be yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously for you. And I can't imagine what it's like

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<v Speaker 2>being booed out of court. I can't imagine who would do.

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<v Speaker 3>That, well, you know, but people did.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, and I think that.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you feel when you got booed?

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<v Speaker 4>When you walked on the court for the nineteen eighty

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<v Speaker 4>and eighty one Wimbledon final against.

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<v Speaker 3>Pork didn't feel that great?

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<v Speaker 4>But I could always do what Trump did, which was,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I sat next to him once and we

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<v Speaker 4>were at a hockey game. Coincidence that we were sitting

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<v Speaker 4>next to each other, and they would introduce quote unquote

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<v Speaker 4>celebrities and they you know, I'm hoping like they don't boom.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, Ladies and gentlemen, John McEnroe, three time Wimbledon

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<v Speaker 4>Jim you know, luckily I'm in New Yorker. I've been

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<v Speaker 4>in New York in my whole nice applause. A half

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<v Speaker 4>hour later, ladies and gentlemen, you know, entrepreneur, real estate

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<v Speaker 4>icon and apprentice.

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<v Speaker 3>This is two years before he ran ars, two years

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<v Speaker 3>before he.

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<v Speaker 4>Ran fifteen thousand of the seventeen thousand people boot him.

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<v Speaker 4>He sat down and he looked at me, and he says, John,

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<v Speaker 4>they still love me.

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<v Speaker 3>And I thought, for the first time, I thought maybe

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<v Speaker 3>he could be a politician. He is of all things.

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<v Speaker 3>The guy became the president of the United.

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<v Speaker 4>States, you know, and you would have thought he would

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<v Speaker 4>have actually like said, oh my god, how in God's

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<v Speaker 4>name did I do this. We've been around him about

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<v Speaker 4>two hundred and fifty years. I would say that was

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<v Speaker 4>probably the craziest thing that ever happened. And we've had

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<v Speaker 4>civil wars. This guy, you know, never ran for anything

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<v Speaker 4>in his life.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>See, you can't do something with Trump though, because he

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>He eats terrible food, right, he.

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<v Speaker 4>Doesn't sleep, and he never works out, and he's you

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<v Speaker 4>know something, that guy's got more energy than I've ever

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<v Speaker 4>seen anywhere in my entire life.

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<v Speaker 3>It is crazy. I mean it's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you an emotional when you would lose a game?

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<v Speaker 2>Would you not want?

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<v Speaker 3>Really?

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing like that or.

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<v Speaker 3>That would be alcohol, would or other things?

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<v Speaker 2>But not food?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean food might It's not like I, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>go in and eat a bag of you know, potato

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<v Speaker 4>chips because I.

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<v Speaker 3>Was pasted it.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your plan? You don't go out, you don't party,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't go out in the evening.

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<v Speaker 4>You I was not able to do much in the

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<v Speaker 4>way of partying during Wimbledon, of all things.

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<v Speaker 3>You'd hate to sort of blame it on that anybody,

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<v Speaker 3>not that I'm aware of.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I mean I think that in the older days

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<v Speaker 4>a few of us tried to do it a little bit,

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<v Speaker 4>but not you know, you'd be a fool to do

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<v Speaker 4>it at Wimbledon. You could do it at a period

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<v Speaker 4>of time where you're not you know, it's an exhibition

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<v Speaker 4>or a smaller event, or it's not much on the line,

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<v Speaker 4>but if you willing to do it Van and then

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<v Speaker 4>to me is sort of like you're not taking it

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<v Speaker 4>seriously enough. Sometimes, you know, you may not want to

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<v Speaker 4>be particularly social if you're more wound up, maybe before

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<v Speaker 4>close to a match, especially me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sad I missed you in London because it was

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<v Speaker 2>crazy the last time you were there and I was here.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember you were just arriving.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I came over for a cup, an event called the

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<v Speaker 4>Labor Cup, which is a team tennis event where Roger

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<v Speaker 4>Feeder ended up retiring, so it was a big deal

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<v Speaker 4>for the sport.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how did you feel we felt.

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<v Speaker 4>I felt that it was a beautiful night and moment incredible.

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<v Speaker 4>We also won as a team for the first time,

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<v Speaker 4>which was even more incredible. No offense to Roger, and

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<v Speaker 4>so the weekend of the week I was there turned

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<v Speaker 4>out to be awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ever go to your friends because it's very

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<v Speaker 2>international tennis, you're talking about playing with Borg and playing Fetter.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you go to their house? Have you been to Switzerland?

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<v Speaker 2>Never get a fund?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think, damn guy won't invite me the Orange

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<v Speaker 3>house I've been at?

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<v Speaker 2>What was that like?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it's that you know the sweets, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>they're great, spotty hat up in the on the water

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<v Speaker 4>and loves to entertain.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>One of the best friends you could ever have. Never

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<v Speaker 4>eats much.

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<v Speaker 2>He doesn't eat, not a big eater.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how the guy never has been tired

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<v Speaker 3>in his life.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, phenomenal athlete. I don't know. It's constitution, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 4>It's him because he'll he eats because he has to eat.

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<v Speaker 4>I eat because I like to eat. We do just

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<v Speaker 4>a difference.

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<v Speaker 2>What about your kids, So having six kids, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>kind of food responsibility. Did you take that on in

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<v Speaker 2>terms of I took it on.

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<v Speaker 4>But sometimes I think, you know, we we we should

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<v Speaker 4>have just let it go and let him do what

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<v Speaker 4>they want pretty much, let him learn on their own.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you could recommend.

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<v Speaker 4>Stuff, but if you sort of no, that's not good,

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<v Speaker 4>that desert because you're putting on You know, girls are

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<v Speaker 4>four girls and two boys. Every human being is different.

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<v Speaker 4>All my kids are different, so you got to sort

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<v Speaker 4>of know how to treat them. My son, one of

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<v Speaker 4>my sons, he would eat so slowly. Everyone would be

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<v Speaker 4>finished at the table. He'd still be cutting the saladch

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<v Speaker 4>saning to eat your goddamn salad, you know, and he'd

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<v Speaker 4>sit there absolutely perfect body. Though I don't know why

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<v Speaker 4>he you know, he chewed everything twenty times.

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<v Speaker 3>So the way I never said that, if.

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<v Speaker 2>You will sit down to dinner when you had the

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<v Speaker 2>kids to the family, you had dinner every night together.

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<v Speaker 4>Somebody they called me Larry the lecturer is what I

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<v Speaker 4>became known as because I try to give him a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit of life's lesson and then, oh god, here

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<v Speaker 4>he goes again.

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<v Speaker 2>About food, about life, about anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes it was food, sometimes there's about tennis. Sometimes it

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<v Speaker 4>was about life. Sometimes there's about cool work. Sometimes it

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<v Speaker 4>was about nothing in particular, and then I started pontificating

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<v Speaker 4>and that rubbed them the wrong way. And sometimes I

0:23:08.200 --> 0:23:12.840
<v Speaker 4>overdid it, and then I dig in and they go Dad, everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>Disagrees with the other table.

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<v Speaker 4>There's seven seven to one, including Patty and I go

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<v Speaker 4>I'm still right.

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<v Speaker 3>I love Italian food.

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<v Speaker 2>Have lived in Italy.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never lived there.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been there, you know, probably fifty to seventy five times. Yeah, playing,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, where did you go?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Every city you can imagine.

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<v Speaker 4>The first rock and roll tour that I ever participated

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<v Speaker 4>in as a band, allegedly I was the most traveled

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<v Speaker 4>unsigned band in history.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh is that a fact?

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<v Speaker 3>I would bet money on that.

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<v Speaker 4>But we did a two week tour of Italy in

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<v Speaker 4>the summer of nineteen ninety four, ninety four. I was

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<v Speaker 4>thirty five. Yeah, I had stopped.

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<v Speaker 3>Playing from a well, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Was more of a sort of a passion and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to say hobby, but something that was trying

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<v Speaker 4>to sort of find that find out where I was headed,

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<v Speaker 4>because you know, when you stop playing, it's not always

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<v Speaker 4>on the terms you want. I was going through a

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<v Speaker 4>divorce at the time at the end of my career,

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<v Speaker 4>which I didn't anticipate.

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<v Speaker 3>I had three kids, so I.

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<v Speaker 4>Was you know, then the next couple of years you're

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<v Speaker 4>going through it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not fun.

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<v Speaker 4>So I needed a little bit of levity and so

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<v Speaker 4>I was able to start to do something that I

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<v Speaker 4>love to do. It made me appreciate my friends who

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<v Speaker 4>did it for a living more. But it was a

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<v Speaker 4>fun trip, I must.

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<v Speaker 2>Say, and vitally.

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<v Speaker 4>My agent at the time was Italian and so he

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<v Speaker 4>sort of set this whole thing up. We played with

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<v Speaker 4>Frank Sinatra plant I forgot forte dem.

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<v Speaker 3>But we played some.

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<v Speaker 4>Nice locales, but we we didn't knock them dead. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>we didn't get to eat the food that you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you're normally able to get pretty easily just because of

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<v Speaker 4>scheduling and stuff. But I mean, you can stop by

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<v Speaker 4>a highway, which is a lot better than.

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<v Speaker 2>The apostat those little sandwiches that they fought. When you

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<v Speaker 2>segued from that that photograph that I describe, which I

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<v Speaker 2>can imagine in my head of you carrying the painting,

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<v Speaker 2>how we segued from from music to art from tis.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I always loved art because I relate to artists

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<v Speaker 4>big time. Because there is close to tennis players as

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<v Speaker 4>almost anyone else, because they're sort of on their own island.

0:26:05.080 --> 0:26:08.000
<v Speaker 3>They've got to represent.

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<v Speaker 4>They go to a gallery opening, people could be there

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<v Speaker 4>and it sucks, you know, and the person could.

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<v Speaker 3>Be right there and well, yeah, they couldn't. He couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>give those paintings away.

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<v Speaker 4>He got so frustrated with the art world that he

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<v Speaker 4>sort of walked away from it.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like sort of like if I walked.

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<v Speaker 4>Into the center court of Wimbledon and you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>lose six to zero, you know, and I'm down to

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<v Speaker 4>zero and people are booing, and you feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you want to hide. It's the worst feeling in the world.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think it takes guts to put yourself in

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<v Speaker 4>a position there's a great reward if it goes well,

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<v Speaker 4>but there's also a definite downside, So it takes I

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<v Speaker 4>think it takes emotional strength to do that. And so

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's the same as for an artist or

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<v Speaker 4>like a comedian that does stand up. You know, I've

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<v Speaker 4>seen many a comedian's bomb And I would never criticize

0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:03.840
<v Speaker 4>a player on a court if I see them giving

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<v Speaker 4>one hundred percent and they're laying an egg. That's not

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<v Speaker 4>what I have a problem. I have a problem with

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<v Speaker 4>the people that go out in the court and don't

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<v Speaker 4>try and give their best. That's the part I have

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<v Speaker 4>a problem. Because you've been put in this position where

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<v Speaker 4>you could do something that would be truly memorable at

0:27:19.480 --> 0:27:22.240
<v Speaker 4>a you know, a truly memorable site, say at Wimbledon

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<v Speaker 4>in the US Open, you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 4>there in half asset. So that's why I've always related.

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<v Speaker 4>I always loved Guston. He was one of my favorite artists.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not sure why that started. I loved, like, I

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<v Speaker 4>think because they're so political. All through his career, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and even when he was in his twenties, not his twenties,

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<v Speaker 4>in the twenties and thirties, he was painting hooded figures

0:27:47.320 --> 0:27:50.760
<v Speaker 4>and you know, clan people railing against that.

0:27:51.160 --> 0:27:53.400
<v Speaker 3>And then he went through different.

0:27:53.119 --> 0:27:56.920
<v Speaker 4>Periods, which I love to see artists doing different things.

0:27:57.600 --> 0:28:00.439
<v Speaker 3>And then he went almost you know, abstract express this.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you're like, that's a huge change, and then

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<v Speaker 4>back to these like cartoonist figures, which I thought were incredible.

0:28:07.640 --> 0:28:11.280
<v Speaker 4>So I just thought this guy just had a you

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<v Speaker 4>know that would be like the type of artists that

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<v Speaker 4>if I was an artist, I'd be trying to emulate,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, so and he stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>But he really was so And when you were talking about,

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:25.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, saying, somebody is just criticizing them in such

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<v Speaker 2>a damaging way, you know, Hilton Kramer of the New

0:28:28.320 --> 0:28:31.840
<v Speaker 2>York Times, when Gustin had his first show at Marlborough

0:28:31.840 --> 0:28:33.960
<v Speaker 2>and he showed the hooded figures and he showed the

0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:36.199
<v Speaker 2>clan just wrote on the front page of the New

0:28:36.280 --> 0:28:38.239
<v Speaker 2>York Times Arts sets, you hit this guy should give

0:28:38.320 --> 0:28:40.960
<v Speaker 2>up and go home. And you know, he got on

0:28:41.000 --> 0:28:43.480
<v Speaker 2>a boat to Rome. He was I said, he was

0:28:43.480 --> 0:28:46.120
<v Speaker 2>a friend of my father's who was also very political,

0:28:46.280 --> 0:28:49.240
<v Speaker 2>and it was so damaging, you know, and it was

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<v Speaker 2>so cruel and it was fearful.

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<v Speaker 4>I find it, you know, difficult to respect these I mean,

0:28:57.680 --> 0:29:03.600
<v Speaker 4>I respect someone who gives some destructive criticism or who

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<v Speaker 4>would admit I don't get this and I'm not sure

0:29:06.400 --> 0:29:08.680
<v Speaker 4>why this person did it, but I've got to sort

0:29:08.680 --> 0:29:13.440
<v Speaker 4>of let this, let me digest this, or some half

0:29:13.480 --> 0:29:16.520
<v Speaker 4>assed that goes on. You know, some tennis guy you

0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:19.040
<v Speaker 4>know who writes tennis who did make it because he

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 4>wasn't good enough and then he's going to sit there

0:29:20.760 --> 0:29:23.840
<v Speaker 4>and criticize me. I go, you better know what you're

0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 4>talking about before you start laying it out. Some people

0:29:28.920 --> 0:29:31.960
<v Speaker 4>that went around the tennis circuit for a handful of

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 4>years I respected, I respected their opinion. I would, you know,

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:37.760
<v Speaker 4>take the heart what they would say. At least I'd

0:29:37.760 --> 0:29:42.560
<v Speaker 4>give it, you know, the legitimacy deserved. A lot of

0:29:42.600 --> 0:29:44.880
<v Speaker 4>other people would come in to show up one or

0:29:44.880 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 4>two weeks a year because they were local beat writers

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 4>for the hockey teams or basketball, and they'd roll in

0:29:50.240 --> 0:29:53.560
<v Speaker 4>when we went to Philly or these other places and

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:56.479
<v Speaker 4>they'd start, you know, lambassing the tennis players.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was like, you don't know a damn thing.

0:29:58.280 --> 0:30:02.200
<v Speaker 4>About what we're doing, and was frustrating, and it's hard

0:30:02.200 --> 0:30:07.200
<v Speaker 4>to respect that. So I could certainly see where a

0:30:07.240 --> 0:30:11.120
<v Speaker 4>guy who you know, put his heart into soul into something,

0:30:11.160 --> 0:30:15.320
<v Speaker 4>you know, either way, like in my case, I was

0:30:15.440 --> 0:30:20.000
<v Speaker 4>lucky because even I didn't like it. But sometimes negative

0:30:20.000 --> 0:30:25.320
<v Speaker 4>attention can still people still want you. You know, they'll

0:30:25.320 --> 0:30:27.479
<v Speaker 4>offer you money to come because they think that you know.

0:30:27.800 --> 0:30:29.840
<v Speaker 3>The car crash.

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<v Speaker 4>If you're an artist and someone completely shits on you

0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:35.240
<v Speaker 4>and you know you don't sell anything. You're not making

0:30:35.240 --> 0:30:38.479
<v Speaker 4>any money, so you could, you know, head down a

0:30:38.520 --> 0:30:42.240
<v Speaker 4>really bad path, and I think a lot of artists

0:30:42.240 --> 0:30:44.480
<v Speaker 4>have done that as well as comedians.

0:30:45.880 --> 0:30:46.680
<v Speaker 3>The upside is.

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<v Speaker 4>If you're able to stick with it and believe it that,

0:30:49.880 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 4>you know, the turnaround could be all the more sweet. Unfortunately,

0:30:54.160 --> 0:30:56.240
<v Speaker 4>it doesn't seem to happen that often with artists that

0:30:56.240 --> 0:31:01.719
<v Speaker 4>are alive and nowadays to me, a successful artist at

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:05.240
<v Speaker 4>least financially, they're like businessmen. They're not even like, you know,

0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:07.840
<v Speaker 4>the best artists to me anymore, they're just the smart.

0:31:07.840 --> 0:31:12.360
<v Speaker 4>They're extremely smart people, and they manipulate the system in

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<v Speaker 4>a brilliant way. I mean, I must say, and that's

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<v Speaker 4>part of what I like about sports ultimately, because you

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:22.280
<v Speaker 4>can't really do that in sports.

0:31:22.320 --> 0:31:23.760
<v Speaker 3>I mean ultimately you got to go out there.

0:31:23.760 --> 0:31:26.080
<v Speaker 4>You can talk all you want, but you know, you

0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 4>get out in the court or you got to step up.

0:31:29.720 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 3>So that part I like that.

0:31:31.960 --> 0:31:36.000
<v Speaker 4>Ultimately, the best will the cream will rise to the top.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that you know your honesty and your you

0:31:42.520 --> 0:31:44.959
<v Speaker 2>know what you say about whether it's you know the

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:48.200
<v Speaker 2>world or Trump or the booing or the art or

0:31:48.240 --> 0:31:51.360
<v Speaker 2>the solitariness. It is a solitary thing, is it? Play?

0:31:51.480 --> 0:31:53.320
<v Speaker 2>You know, being an artist in your.

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:56.960
<v Speaker 3>Studient very solitary, especially and your sport.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I love the musician Devils.

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<v Speaker 4>And I also love playing for my country because you're

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<v Speaker 4>with the team for that brief period of time.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think you you know, as I said, from

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<v Speaker 2>the very beginning, we were on your side. We thought

0:32:10.520 --> 0:32:14.520
<v Speaker 2>you are. You know, your anger was fine, your unfairness

0:32:14.640 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 2>was respected. Your politics, you know, your politics were amazing.

0:32:19.240 --> 0:32:22.520
<v Speaker 2>Ow are And I think as a model that's what counts,

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:23.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, and as a player, And.

0:32:23.520 --> 0:32:25.400
<v Speaker 3>I think you're I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're really nice. I think you're nice to

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<v Speaker 2>walk across the park. I think you are. So if

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<v Speaker 2>we think that food, you're gonna have food which makes

0:32:37.240 --> 0:32:40.440
<v Speaker 2>you feel healthier, food which makes you feel better performance.

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<v Speaker 2>You could have food that pleases your mother because you've

0:32:43.280 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 2>eaten it. You could have food that you want your

0:32:45.200 --> 0:32:47.640
<v Speaker 2>children to eat. Food can be all that, but can

0:32:47.760 --> 0:32:53.320
<v Speaker 2>also be comfort. If you needed comfort, what food would

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<v Speaker 2>you reach for?

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<v Speaker 3>Big ball of ice cream?

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<v Speaker 2>Ice cream? I'm sure I do too.

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<v Speaker 4>I love ice cream, cookies and cream coffee, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>mixture of things.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you always keep it in the house if you Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I do.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's not you know, we shouldn't do that. I

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<v Speaker 4>love you know. I love a beer and Pratzels late

0:33:15.320 --> 0:33:16.760
<v Speaker 4>at night. It's comforting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Is there a food that reminds you of your childhood?

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<v Speaker 3>Pancakes? Are some? Did great?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you thanks for having me.

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