WEBVTT - Pod Meets Twirl'd: Married at First Sight 2003

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Pod Meets Twirl, a podcast that began with

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<v Speaker 1>Dancing with the Stars wandering through Castle Survived Beaches, spent

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<v Speaker 1>an entire season debating the social hierarchy of cocktail parties.

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<v Speaker 1>Along the way, Will and I riffed on what I

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<v Speaker 1>thought was an entirely hypothetical observation, Maybe arranged marriage isn't

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<v Speaker 1>the worst idea. Apparently our producers were listening. So now

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<v Speaker 1>we're watching Married at First Sight season twenty, a show

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<v Speaker 1>where complete strangers meet at the altars, say I do,

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<v Speaker 1>and only then begin the awkward process of discovering whether

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<v Speaker 1>they have anything whatsoever in common. We are Wilfordell, who

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<v Speaker 1>loves love and believes marriage should be about the marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>not the wedding, and Wright Strong, who loves love and

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<v Speaker 1>made one observation about arranged marriage and is now being

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<v Speaker 1>forced to defend it for an higher television season. Join

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<v Speaker 1>us as experts, therapists, family members, and complete strangers all

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<v Speaker 1>attempt the oldest social experiment in human history with confessionals.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Pod Meats Twirled, All or Nothing? All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>Episode three, I feel like this is where the rubber

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<v Speaker 1>beats the road.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you none of them have. I was

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<v Speaker 2>going to make a rubber joke forget it. You're right,

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<v Speaker 2>it's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think this is something that we haven't gotten

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<v Speaker 2>the rubber stage yet or something, but you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, it has no I feel like once because this

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<v Speaker 1>episode we get past the actual wedding. Yeah, which is

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I say it in the intro, but this

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<v Speaker 1>is something you've always said, which is what you know.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of this wedding conversation which led to this

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<v Speaker 1>season was based on In the City, where you felt

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<v Speaker 1>that so many of the people on that show got

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<v Speaker 1>married for the sake of having a wedding and not because.

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<v Speaker 4>They were actually on a wedding a marriage, stay married, right,

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<v Speaker 4>And so I feel like this episode was eye opening

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<v Speaker 4>for me because it made me realize, like, oh, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>we're gonna get like because it has been so much

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<v Speaker 4>about the wedding so far, the actual day, which and

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<v Speaker 4>it still is for most of some of this episode.

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<v Speaker 3>But then we turn up the heat. Then in the road, Jesus.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, I'm so uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>I love how In the City made me uncomfortable, not

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<v Speaker 2>you uncomfortable, And this makes you uncomfortable and not me uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so funny. I wonder why. We'll have to figure

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<v Speaker 3>out why that is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, I don't know, Like, yeah, it's like the steaks.

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<v Speaker 1>The lack of steaks made me more comfortable, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>and make you feel like why are we doing?

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<v Speaker 2>But it also maybe just people fighting all the time

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<v Speaker 2>made me very like like yeah, right, it made ancious.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're this I'm just I'm in fully in again. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm so uncomfortable. I want people to Yeah, we.

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<v Speaker 3>Should be running bets every week.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why we are not like a bookie

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<v Speaker 2>uh station, where it's like, all right, six to week,

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<v Speaker 2>we're six to one Nicky and Sean. We are we

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<v Speaker 2>we had three to two against Devin and Caitlin. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>let's start betting on which one of these couples is

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<v Speaker 2>gonna stay together?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So we found out two episodes ago that we

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<v Speaker 1>they have an eighteen percent ess rate, So that means

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<v Speaker 1>what if you round that up to twenty percent, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a one in five chance round it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's awful. It's like, yeah, it's so much terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>So how many couples are there?

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<v Speaker 3>Eight three, four, five, six seven seven.

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<v Speaker 1>Seven seven seven. Really, only one or two of this

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<v Speaker 1>season are going to I.

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<v Speaker 2>Bet you one or two are gonna make it and

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<v Speaker 2>stay married past the show. And only one of those

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<v Speaker 2>couples is still going to be married in a year.

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<v Speaker 1>Not a single couple, not a single couple from season nineteen.

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<v Speaker 2>States producer just said, then, they literally had exactly the

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<v Speaker 2>same track record as you and I did oft of

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<v Speaker 2>setting those people up last year. Oh my, we we

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<v Speaker 2>we were. We weren't even involved that we had zero percent.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't all and they were zero zero percent.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you not? Were these the same matchmakers Mattie

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<v Speaker 3>from last year?

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<v Speaker 2>The same, the same uh, doctor Paz and everybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe Paul was because he was on the

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<v Speaker 1>UK version.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, because maybe they you'd have to fight.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean again, if you have a basketball coach that

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<v Speaker 2>goes oh for seven in games, you fire that coach.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you've got two matchmakers that are together that don't,

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<v Speaker 2>not a single couple stays together, get rid of those

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<v Speaker 2>matchmakers would be what I would say.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, I mean, this is like the Supreme Court.

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<v Speaker 1>More of the marrier. I think we need to pass.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, we need like a yes there should be

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<v Speaker 1>ten matchmakers. They should like, what are we doing? I agree, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>only more expertise would be more people wa tribunals.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we should see the tables around. Were like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>this person should go with this person.

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<v Speaker 3>What are we doing? I agree?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Episode three picking up with Nicky and Sean at the

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<v Speaker 1>altar and this horrible, horribly painful where either she is

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<v Speaker 1>just not feeling it or I think she literally does

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<v Speaker 1>not realize he is the room until she has to

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<v Speaker 1>really like they say it, meet your groom, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she like literally, I think she it's like invisible, like

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<v Speaker 1>he's just invisible to her because he's so not attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>You could kind of see the soul of her body

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit, and it was like, oh no, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think I thought she was joking, but now

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<v Speaker 2>the more that you're saying it, maybe she wasn't, which

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<v Speaker 2>is just terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>No. I think she literally was like, oh, I'm ready now,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just stand here like she thought he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>possibly be here yet, because this guy is just a

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<v Speaker 1>dude in in a suit. It's not like if he

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<v Speaker 1>dressed more in a tux, like if he had a

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<v Speaker 1>black talks on. I think every indication was that he

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<v Speaker 1>was like the help or like because of the color

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<v Speaker 1>of his outfit and the fact that he just did

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<v Speaker 1>not register for her.

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<v Speaker 2>She might also have thought to herself, and again not incorrectly, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I stressed to the matchmakers that I wanted somebody six foot.

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<v Speaker 1>But then she also said, but I'll take it right.

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<v Speaker 2>But at the same time, so she like, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you remember from time? And it's not even like you

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<v Speaker 2>gave me somebody five ten or five nine when I

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<v Speaker 2>asked for six foot fifty six, which is not a

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<v Speaker 2>not a big guy.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe that's why she's like, well, can't possibly they

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't have possibly something with this guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, maybe you're right, and she really didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, oh no, dude, And I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's one of these things like because I

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<v Speaker 1>have I know, you know, I have friends who are shorter,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that it's one of those things like

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<v Speaker 1>women don't consciously realize how much how important, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like they will often say like, oh no, I'm totally

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<v Speaker 1>open to it, but unless they've like already dated a

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<v Speaker 1>short guy or literally said the phrase short came you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like if they're like conscious of it, you can. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you haven't really thought about it and you just

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<v Speaker 1>always dated taller guys, it doesn't occur to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's also in proportion though, meaning like cam

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<v Speaker 2>in Michelle don't look like they're in proportion. He's so

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<v Speaker 2>much taller than her, and you had this. You have

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<v Speaker 2>the same thing with with with Adam, where it's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you want somebody six five, that's great, you look funny together,

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<v Speaker 2>like sorry you do. Whereas you're five eight, I'm five

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<v Speaker 2>to nine. But our wives are shorter, but in proportion

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<v Speaker 2>to us, Like we're still the taller guys in the relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not towering anything, but our wives are smaller. So

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<v Speaker 2>it looks okay together. Whereas you get these people. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>but the Cameron and Michelle, it looked uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>It looked odd, whereas Nikki and Sean, frankly, they kind

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<v Speaker 3>of look like they go together. I don't think she

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<v Speaker 3>feels that way.

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<v Speaker 1>But it looked right. I know, all right. He starts.

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<v Speaker 1>She gives her speech first, and I thought she did

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good. She seems to recover and sort of get

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<v Speaker 1>into it. He then gives his and emphasizes his ambition,

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<v Speaker 1>his hard work. He says, he's bought two of everything

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<v Speaker 1>up until this moment, and my question.

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<v Speaker 2>Is what things I would imagine two from my from

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<v Speaker 2>my own perspective, it's action figures because you take you

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<v Speaker 2>keep one in the packaging and you can play with

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<v Speaker 2>the other one.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea what he's talking about. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a nice sentiment. He's like, I've bought two

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<v Speaker 1>of everything planning for this moment, two of what, two

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<v Speaker 1>apartments sets of sheets? I don't know. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then they give a little kiss, and he asks, which

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<v Speaker 1>is nice?

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<v Speaker 3>Can I give you a little kiss?

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<v Speaker 1>It does little kiss, But this is the beginning of

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<v Speaker 1>the progression of his like physical stuff, which is then

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<v Speaker 1>we get a jump the broom moment, which is so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I love this.

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<v Speaker 3>What is this tradition?

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<v Speaker 1>It's an African American tradition. It goes back to It

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<v Speaker 1>goes back to slave times when people would have to

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<v Speaker 1>get married in secret, probably in secret, so they created

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<v Speaker 1>their own ceremony, which was you jumped the broom as

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<v Speaker 1>a couple to signify that you've gone from one side.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like a pure African American tradition, and I'd

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<v Speaker 1>heard about it, but I've never seen it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just love how beautiful, the gorgeous, just like this whole deck.

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<v Speaker 2>So she said it's supposed to resemble crossing the threshold. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so like you've gone from what's your own threshold?

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<v Speaker 1>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was. It was nice.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nice to see see that the kind of cultural

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<v Speaker 2>differences that can happen in marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love that she recognizes it. As his mom

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<v Speaker 1>brings in, it's like, oh cool.

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<v Speaker 3>His mom, by the way, who looked like superhero? Did

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<v Speaker 3>you see her?

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<v Speaker 1>She looked like her? So cool?

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<v Speaker 3>She looks She seriously looked like a superhero.

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<v Speaker 1>Was awesome. I know she was cool. Then they're walking

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<v Speaker 1>away and he's like, oh, give you a give you

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<v Speaker 1>some handspace, and she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, yes, thank you. I was like, oh shit, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, okay, little little break.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm already seeing where this is going to go.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I know, she brings up that she's

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<v Speaker 1>a sabio sexual again, hoping she's hoping that his mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Is trying to convince herself down.

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<v Speaker 1>They start talking. They are both smart, which I really like.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the way they talked each other. But is

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<v Speaker 1>that the thing? This is where he corrects that he

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<v Speaker 1>is an educational doctor, not a medical doctor. Dude, you say,

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<v Speaker 1>this's like.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying, you know, doctor doctor Sean. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't start with doctor if you have a PhD

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<v Speaker 2>or a doctor and I'm sorry, you do not.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe if you're a professor and you're in you're standing

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<v Speaker 2>in front of your students and you're teaching psychology or

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<v Speaker 2>something like that, then yes you can be doctor whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>but don't.

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<v Speaker 3>You can introduce yourself that way.

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<v Speaker 1>And I like actually that the show didn't clarify that

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<v Speaker 1>until this moment because it puts us in her shoes

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit because it was I was shocked. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wait what because when she was either talking

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<v Speaker 1>about epinephrine and adrenaline, I was like, and she says like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>well you're a doctor, so you know all these terms.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, he should. And then he's like no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm like, oh, I felt her. Of course

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<v Speaker 1>I was also appointed. Anyway, he is very very smart.

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<v Speaker 1>She is very smart. I like them individually, I am

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<v Speaker 1>not feeling their connection. It's a bummer. But I also

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<v Speaker 1>there's part of me that thinks this is a reality show,

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<v Speaker 1>that thinks that they're gonna do this, do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>We're specific we put together that no were they're.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to tilt the story, yeah, early in the season,

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<v Speaker 1>so that there's a journey certainly possible. There's part of

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<v Speaker 1>me that thinks that the journey, the story of Nicky

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<v Speaker 1>and Sean is going to be that despite the odds,

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<v Speaker 1>they actually I told you I would love that dude.

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<v Speaker 2>The season one, one of the first couples you meet

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<v Speaker 2>is this tall, incredibly goofy guy who is drenched in sweat,

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<v Speaker 2>and when I mean drenched, I mean comically drenched in sweat.

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<v Speaker 3>Standing at there at the front of the stage.

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<v Speaker 2>Albert Brooks yes in broadcast as she can, and she

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<v Speaker 2>walks in and she's stunning, I mean, like a model.

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<v Speaker 2>They get married, she runs out basically in tears. They're

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<v Speaker 2>still together this day and have kids. It's like that,

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<v Speaker 2>so you never know, you but it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hoping that that's the art with these two because

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<v Speaker 1>I really like them, and yes, like honestly, of the

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<v Speaker 1>people on the show, these are the people I would

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<v Speaker 1>probably like to sit and have a conversation. Maybe not

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<v Speaker 1>Sean so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Well thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt that way because by the end with Sean

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<v Speaker 2>he was saying some stuff that was a little cringey.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but it's all yes, right, And so it's

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<v Speaker 1>all because of it's cringey because it's not landing.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>If if he was like with a woman who was like,

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<v Speaker 1>sixty nine, let's go, it would be like, cool, you

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<v Speaker 1>found your match. But it's but I actually think as

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<v Speaker 1>a person he's pretty great, like raised religious to it

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<v Speaker 1>as confident, he's confident. So like I I think like,

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<v Speaker 1>of all the people on the show, these are the

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<v Speaker 1>two that I would like have dinner with separately and

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<v Speaker 1>be like, I like the person. I want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to them more. But to god, they're they're making me.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also feel like it's that thing where if

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<v Speaker 2>the exact things he was saying about sixty nine and

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<v Speaker 2>all that stuff and he was six foot two and gorgeous,

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<v Speaker 2>she would have giggled and me like, oh stop, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, as opposed to like ill, So yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 3>It's gonna be this could be wrong. This could be wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, then do we meet Caitlin and Devon. He's

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<v Speaker 1>immediately hiking, and his first quote about himself is most

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<v Speaker 1>people think of a bag, which it's like, it's quite

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<v Speaker 1>as Devon. I did too, because they do look like

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<v Speaker 1>a huge bag. You're a rugby. I love this the

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<v Speaker 1>anti Adam. This is the anti atom because he's all

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<v Speaker 1>the same things in the sense that his presentation, he

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<v Speaker 1>cares about sports and his looks, and he's got the

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<v Speaker 1>frosted dips and all the things, and yet he's aware

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<v Speaker 1>and he's able to see might think I'm a douchebag,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not, and I'm like, good for you, dude.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he sees his he and his future partner paddle boarding, hiking,

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<v Speaker 1>her sitting between his legs on a mountaintop.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>He needs someone who can work remote. Cut to Caitlin.

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<v Speaker 1>She can work from anywhere. He says he wants Sydney Sweetey.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants Nick Bosa sports ball reference. I don't know cool.

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<v Speaker 1>He has no relationship with his dad. They both want kids.

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<v Speaker 1>She's been in toxic relationships. Uh. He doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>become his dad doesn't want to yell doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>put himself above his partner. He wants to feel full

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<v Speaker 1>of butterflies and rainbows. Lisa call him a gentle giant.

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<v Speaker 1>I like I did too. I immediately like cool, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a there's he lost with the really okay you got married?

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<v Speaker 3>With his glasses on the top of his head? Are

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<v Speaker 3>you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? That's why most people think he's a doude.

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<v Speaker 3>People might be right, I hope not, because he seems

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<v Speaker 3>like a good guy. He seems like a good guy.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a self awareness here on both of their parts.

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<v Speaker 1>That and and I'm also I feel like my impression

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<v Speaker 1>has been colored by the fact that, as we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>into they seem really good. Yeah, but they do so

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<v Speaker 1>but so so at this point in the episode, while

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<v Speaker 1>we're recapping, I will say I was a little like,

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<v Speaker 1>is he actually a douchebag? I don't know, but but

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<v Speaker 1>I I do like their self's self awareness.

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<v Speaker 3>You're right, Adam does not have in any way, shape

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<v Speaker 3>or form, does not have no.

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<v Speaker 1>And also there's something about you know, it's just people

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<v Speaker 1>like acknowledging their vibe, like acknowledging who they are, what

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<v Speaker 1>they're actually into, and not put it on errors, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like Adam is putting on errors when he sits at

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<v Speaker 1>the piano, he plays fourteen minute song. It's like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to be you.

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<v Speaker 3>Think you're so like yeah, yeah, and Devin doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Devin's like, I'm not I'm not that cool, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>he's not that cool.

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<v Speaker 1>He's in fact, he's basically he says, he's a douchebag.

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<v Speaker 1>It's equivalent of being like, I'm a big loser a door,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. It's like it's his version of that.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't ever see Adam. I can't agine.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the things that people walk away from Adam like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, what he is is really self deprecating, like

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<v Speaker 2>I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's seriously.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Caitlyn talks about how her dad is not pumped about

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<v Speaker 1>her marrying somebody she doesn't know because he's more traditional.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I was. We see Devin with his great grandmother,

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<v Speaker 1>which is super cute. Then we meet Jeff the dad,

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<v Speaker 1>and he is super nervous sitting in the ceremony. He's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of aggressive aggressive, I'm gonna punch.

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<v Speaker 2>You watched that twice and then put on the subtitles,

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<v Speaker 2>making sure he actually said that. Somebody said to him, so,

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<v Speaker 2>are you ready to meet your new steps are your

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<v Speaker 2>new son in law?

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<v Speaker 3>And he turned around's like I'm gonna punch that guy

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<v Speaker 3>right in the face, Like Jesus, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but my god, but you know, going from

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<v Speaker 2>nervous to to like violent tendencies like Yike's.

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<v Speaker 1>Truly not a fan of Jeff Not. I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>fan of Frankly, I do not like I don't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that there's more to this.

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<v Speaker 3>I think so too. I feel the same.

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<v Speaker 1>I think everybody is like having to accommodate this baby's

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<v Speaker 1>emotional outburst.

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<v Speaker 2>He is a and he seems like he might also

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<v Speaker 2>be a bit of a bully. Yeah, yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 2>don't this is so either he got better, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>only because he couldn't get worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh only because yeah, only also because Devin is just

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<v Speaker 1>too cool a guy, and he like, who's willing to

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<v Speaker 1>accommodate this baby? Like this guy sucks one. Devin shows

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<v Speaker 1>up with sunglasses on his head, which I immediately was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, yeah, we thought the same thing were bad?

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<v Speaker 2>Is he he's.

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<v Speaker 3>Going to keep Why? Why the point I put mine

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<v Speaker 3>on the top of my head?

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<v Speaker 2>And I just started saying to suit, like I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to marry you all over again, marry you all over.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Jeff is not happy, which I kind of agree

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<v Speaker 1>with at this point because because of the sunglasses.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm giving the benefit of Dowdy forgot he put him

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<v Speaker 2>on his head. That's the that's what I'm gonna give

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<v Speaker 2>him benef the I know, I know, but giving him

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<v Speaker 2>the better for the doubt that he forgot to put

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<v Speaker 2>him on his head.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So then there's this funny moment where the officiant says,

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<v Speaker 1>are you ready to meet your bride? And he says, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but dead but dead. She walks down the aisle, makes

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<v Speaker 1>a silly face, and then she says, they found him.

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<v Speaker 1>I could not believe it. I was like, okay, who

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<v Speaker 1>about you?

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<v Speaker 2>But it wasn't even like under his breath the efficient

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<v Speaker 2>you read ready with your brother.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then she's like, let's go. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, these people I might have found him,

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<v Speaker 1>they might have found they might have found them man.

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<v Speaker 1>And then her dad stands up apropos of nothing Jesus Christ.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he's like the whole thing is crazy to me,

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<v Speaker 1>gives a little speech seems like maybe if it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a problem, but then it's not. He's just managing

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<v Speaker 1>to make this wedding about him.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like what Logic did, but without any humor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, it's like with like high stakes seriousness, get

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<v Speaker 1>over yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Devin presents himself kind of as a goofball, and her

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<v Speaker 1>response is super encouraging. I love that. She's just like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're responsible for my phone and ray line, super endearing,

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<v Speaker 1>just on it. Like again, not delusional, they are aware

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<v Speaker 1>of who they are. She's like, I lose my shit,

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<v Speaker 1>I lose my phone and my keys. I need somebody

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<v Speaker 1>to take care of this part of my life. And

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, I got your high pockets or whatever. His response,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like cool, It's like that's the way to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like walk into a wedding or into a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and being like I do this really poorly.

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<v Speaker 5>I do this.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what makes a relationship too.

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<v Speaker 5>The man.

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<v Speaker 2>Susan always says she never knows where we're traveling until

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<v Speaker 2>we're actually on the plane, Like I take care of everything,

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<v Speaker 2>and she knows that.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, that's that's that's not good with that stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yep, I thought their kiss was super good, crowded,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, throughout the episode. Yeah, there's this is a

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<v Speaker 1>so far I'm very curious because I could feel, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as all these like again, the arc of these reality

0:20:24.760 --> 0:20:27.959
<v Speaker 1>shows is that they set you up and it'll be

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<v Speaker 1>really interesting to see where these two go because so far,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the couple that I put them.

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<v Speaker 3>On that this one really interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, this is the best match couple. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the couple that I'm like, oh yeah, yeah, they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go.

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<v Speaker 3>I also like that they're the ones I would put

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<v Speaker 3>my money in.

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<v Speaker 1>My second position. I would too, but second position.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I feel like and are more uh

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<v Speaker 3>what's sort of like they're more mature in themselves and

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<v Speaker 3>in what they want in the relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I would agree with that. I don't think that that

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<v Speaker 1>means them more success.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I wondered if Devin and Caitlin are still

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<v Speaker 2>too young, too young emotionally, but possibly yeah. Do you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like sometimes it's just like you stick it out exactly

0:21:17.600 --> 0:21:20.600
<v Speaker 2>sometimes sometimes another recovering alcoholic is what keeps you sober?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, you never know yea.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just yeah, there's something about their vibe, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I like them. It's funny because they're well see, they're

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<v Speaker 1>not the people I would actually want to hang out with,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like like this crowd would

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<v Speaker 1>make like when guy wears the sunglasses Rugby whoooo. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm out, this is not my scene, but I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>it and I respect their their the way that they're

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<v Speaker 1>vibing with each other.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't disagree.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the person I like the most, just one

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<v Speaker 2>single person out of everybody I think so far, might

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<v Speaker 2>be Courtney.

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<v Speaker 3>Courtney is the person.

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<v Speaker 2>That I think, so far I would have the most

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<v Speaker 2>like Okay, she's like my little sister and want to

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<v Speaker 2>hang out with her like that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I would say, I see.

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<v Speaker 1>I like her too. Yeah, I like her. I also

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<v Speaker 1>really like Nikki, even though I don't like the way she's. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't blame her, but I don't blame her necessarily.

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<v Speaker 1>I really like her. Like everything out of her mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you're cool, Ye're smart.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm holding I'm holding my judgment because I'm afraid and

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<v Speaker 2>I think we saw a little bit of this. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>afraid what Nicky's gonna do is what sometimes people, it's

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<v Speaker 2>not just women or men, people do when they're not

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily attracted to the person where with which is they

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<v Speaker 2>start nitpicking and start picking fights so that the other

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<v Speaker 2>person will leave or and they don't have to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then it's like, well, I try talked about I

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<v Speaker 2>just become insufferable.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel like that might happen with them.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I know, I'm afraid she's being a little mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm feeling I feel like it's gonna she I

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<v Speaker 2>think she's got the ick and I think I think,

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<v Speaker 2>no matter what Sean does, it'll never be enough.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think that's yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, all right. Cut to Cameron and

0:23:01.520 --> 0:23:05.159
<v Speaker 1>Michelle awkward height difference as they try and do their

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<v Speaker 1>dance and this is.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks like a father Sunday, our father daughter dance

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<v Speaker 2>and and it's the daughters in the kindergarten.

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<v Speaker 1>I but I put this on him, like, yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a tall guy, you must have dated, but he hasn't.

0:23:16.640 --> 0:23:19.320
<v Speaker 1>He's only been six more relationships, so he doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to deal with It's like, bro, you're taller than

0:23:22.600 --> 0:23:25.640
<v Speaker 1>like almost anybody, like you've dealt with short women before.

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<v Speaker 1>Put her hands when we belong. Don't make a show

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<v Speaker 1>out of how awkward it.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Her brother gives a speech. He makes this weird bald joke,

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<v Speaker 1>which I didn't cat.

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<v Speaker 2>I think what her Michelle probably doesn't like bald men.

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<v Speaker 2>So what she's saying is she's happy that she got

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<v Speaker 2>down the aisle and you went a.

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<v Speaker 3>Full head of hair.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>We find out that she loves Disneyland.

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<v Speaker 3>Is she now? Does she love Disneyland or is she

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<v Speaker 3>a Disney adult? Because those are two different things. I

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<v Speaker 3>love Disneyland, I don't know, but you are you a

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<v Speaker 3>Disney adult? No, that's what I'm saying.

0:23:58.040 --> 0:24:00.760
<v Speaker 1>There's there's how do you feel Aboutney adults?

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<v Speaker 3>Look, hey, you're talking to a card caring NERD.

0:24:02.920 --> 0:24:05.199
<v Speaker 2>I play D and D, so you know I'm no

0:24:05.280 --> 0:24:07.320
<v Speaker 2>one to judge that that kind of stuff.

0:24:07.400 --> 0:24:09.560
<v Speaker 1>I think for me, the hard part about Disney adult

0:24:09.640 --> 0:24:12.520
<v Speaker 1>is not like, because I agree like the nerddom. The

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:18.240
<v Speaker 1>sense of wonder amazing, the idea of like enjoying play

0:24:18.640 --> 0:24:22.440
<v Speaker 1>and enjoying fantasy and enjoying imagination and joining storytelling are

0:24:22.840 --> 0:24:25.800
<v Speaker 1>all of that I to love. So that aspect of

0:24:25.840 --> 0:24:28.880
<v Speaker 1>Disney adult. I'm totally on board with, like let's run

0:24:28.920 --> 0:24:34.160
<v Speaker 1>around and be kids childish or childlike childish, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>something about Disney as a corporation and the money and

0:24:38.480 --> 0:24:43.199
<v Speaker 1>the like the limiting sort of worldview of Disney, like

0:24:43.560 --> 0:24:50.560
<v Speaker 1>that Disney is fundamentally like a hermetically sealed version of imagination.

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:54.840
<v Speaker 1>The Disney itself like like yeah, like Disney is very

0:24:54.920 --> 0:24:59.480
<v Speaker 1>safe and very like sweet and very like Princess and like,

0:24:59.640 --> 0:25:02.800
<v Speaker 1>I know the exceptions, but in general, Disney as a

0:25:02.800 --> 0:25:07.600
<v Speaker 1>corporation as a sort of brand is conservative in the

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<v Speaker 1>in the in the not in the like political sense,

0:25:09.760 --> 0:25:13.320
<v Speaker 1>but conservative in the like cultural sense, like in the

0:25:13.440 --> 0:25:17.560
<v Speaker 1>like very little baby steps. And also just it's all

0:25:17.560 --> 0:25:20.960
<v Speaker 1>about money. Like there's so much money about Disney that

0:25:21.119 --> 0:25:23.800
<v Speaker 1>drives me crazy. So like if the adult Disney is

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<v Speaker 1>like also into other childish imagination things, and being a

0:25:29.720 --> 0:25:33.359
<v Speaker 1>Disney adult is like one aspect of also going to

0:25:33.400 --> 0:25:35.920
<v Speaker 1>rent fairs, also playing D and D also loving the

0:25:36.000 --> 0:25:38.879
<v Speaker 1>Star Wars, also loving just yeah, I'm totally on board,

0:25:38.920 --> 0:25:42.080
<v Speaker 1>but if it's just Disney, it's a little limiting to me.

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:44.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, there's more of there's more versions of the

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<v Speaker 1>same sort of impulse and the fact that you've attached

0:25:47.760 --> 0:25:52.680
<v Speaker 1>yourself to just Disney. I would be like, your your

0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:55.439
<v Speaker 1>world isn't that open, Like your world is a little limited.

0:25:56.440 --> 0:25:57.240
<v Speaker 1>I feel the same thing.

0:25:57.400 --> 0:26:00.639
<v Speaker 2>It's also I don't understand wanting to go to the

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<v Speaker 2>park four days a week and wait in line and

0:26:03.680 --> 0:26:06.560
<v Speaker 2>do It's like I remember that I met a couple

0:26:06.560 --> 0:26:08.680
<v Speaker 2>where all they did was the band that used to

0:26:08.680 --> 0:26:09.600
<v Speaker 2>play in Tomorrowland.

0:26:09.920 --> 0:26:11.480
<v Speaker 3>They used to go like, well, the band's playing tonight

0:26:11.560 --> 0:26:11.879
<v Speaker 3>with have to go.

0:26:11.880 --> 0:26:14.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm like you're driving, or because you want to see

0:26:14.119 --> 0:26:17.200
<v Speaker 2>the band that plays it that does covers in They're like, yeah,

0:26:17.200 --> 0:26:17.720
<v Speaker 2>they're the best.

0:26:17.720 --> 0:26:20.760
<v Speaker 3>It's like oh okay, Like hey, do you do your thing?

0:26:21.840 --> 0:26:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's sort of like you know, going to

0:26:23.640 --> 0:26:27.119
<v Speaker 1>the mall for your hang Yeah. I'm like it's to me,

0:26:27.240 --> 0:26:30.600
<v Speaker 1>it's just consumerist and a little like limiting. Like you know,

0:26:30.800 --> 0:26:33.160
<v Speaker 1>I like unique experiences. I like going into the woods.

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:36.400
<v Speaker 1>I like getting lost. I like finding that weird little sit.

0:26:36.440 --> 0:26:37.760
<v Speaker 3>There's adults that will wait.

0:26:37.600 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 2>In line an hour to meet the character that's or

0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:42.160
<v Speaker 2>the person in the Mickey costume. I mean that's where

0:26:42.160 --> 0:26:44.640
<v Speaker 2>you're like, Okay, me too, it's hard for me. It's

0:26:44.720 --> 0:26:46.399
<v Speaker 2>just not my thing. I just can't relate to it.

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:49.919
<v Speaker 2>It's not my nerddom. So I love Disney It's a

0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:51.480
<v Speaker 2>great place to go a couple of times a year.

0:26:51.560 --> 0:26:55.000
<v Speaker 2>I really enjoy that, especially if if I'm with a kid,

0:26:55.640 --> 0:26:58.320
<v Speaker 2>like when we went when we brought Indy and that

0:26:58.320 --> 0:27:00.200
<v Speaker 2>that was like I got to experience it all over again.

0:27:00.200 --> 0:27:02.639
<v Speaker 2>It's like Christmas with a kid. It's like it starts again.

0:27:03.200 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 2>So that was cool. But I don't want to just

0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:07.760
<v Speaker 2>have Sue and I go to Disneyland.

0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:09.040
<v Speaker 3>Like all right.

0:27:09.080 --> 0:27:13.440
<v Speaker 1>Cut to Nicki and Sean. Her friends ask her how

0:27:13.440 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 1>she's feeling, and she is changing the subject, which.

0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:16.760
<v Speaker 5>Was a little.

0:27:18.240 --> 0:27:20.040
<v Speaker 1>I know, well this is the thing, but she isn't

0:27:20.080 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>feeling it, like it's obvious.

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:22.240
<v Speaker 3>You got to say something.

0:27:22.320 --> 0:27:24.160
<v Speaker 2>Don't be like, well is this a pano Like don't

0:27:24.200 --> 0:27:26.840
<v Speaker 2>It's like, all right, you're you're making light of the

0:27:26.920 --> 0:27:29.400
<v Speaker 2>fact that you are not attracted.

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:29.480
<v Speaker 5>To this man.

0:27:31.440 --> 0:27:35.359
<v Speaker 1>She says she wants to take it slow. His dad

0:27:35.440 --> 0:27:36.920
<v Speaker 1>is telling him to be patient.

0:27:37.480 --> 0:27:37.880
<v Speaker 5>Advice.

0:27:38.840 --> 0:27:43.880
<v Speaker 1>All right, Caitlin and Devon people are clinking their glasses

0:27:43.880 --> 0:27:47.199
<v Speaker 1>and they are kissing non stop. Yeah, which is hysterical.

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:55.960
<v Speaker 1>And then Devin talks to Jeff baby dad, uh and

0:27:56.320 --> 0:27:59.120
<v Speaker 1>watching this conversation the thing that was the most disturbing

0:27:59.160 --> 0:28:01.960
<v Speaker 1>to me. So it's it's Devin talking to Jeff and

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:05.080
<v Speaker 1>giving him what Jeff needs, which is what I understand

0:28:05.160 --> 0:28:10.680
<v Speaker 1>when you're the dad. The mom is between them, her

0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:15.400
<v Speaker 1>face is just this, oh, dude, she has been through

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 1>so much. You could see that she has to sit

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:21.439
<v Speaker 1>there and deal with her freaking husband, Jeff, and his

0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:26.879
<v Speaker 1>emotional requirements and what he needs from the guy who's

0:28:26.920 --> 0:28:30.159
<v Speaker 1>marrying his daughter. And you just see her like sitting

0:28:30.200 --> 0:28:32.320
<v Speaker 1>there going like I have to I mean, what this

0:28:32.359 --> 0:28:34.760
<v Speaker 1>woman has been through being married to Jeff. This is

0:28:34.760 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 1>where I was like, I don't like this dude, because

0:28:36.880 --> 0:28:39.160
<v Speaker 1>I could see in her face that she has had

0:28:39.200 --> 0:28:42.080
<v Speaker 1>to put up with so much bullshit from this guy

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 1>where he makes it all about whatever his worldview is.

0:28:45.960 --> 0:28:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I really That's why I was like, you know, and

0:28:48.920 --> 0:28:50.720
<v Speaker 1>she's not saying anything, She's not going to do it

0:28:50.760 --> 0:28:53.200
<v Speaker 1>on the TV show. She's just gonna get through it.

0:28:53.320 --> 0:28:55.720
<v Speaker 1>But you know that this woman has made their life

0:28:55.760 --> 0:29:00.000
<v Speaker 1>possible while he has made their life just so much harder,

0:29:01.280 --> 0:29:05.000
<v Speaker 1>all right, And we get to Bell Jolie with her

0:29:05.760 --> 0:29:09.960
<v Speaker 1>friends and she's saying that she thought maybe they were

0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:12.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna kiss, but she made a promise. So this whole

0:29:13.160 --> 0:29:14.440
<v Speaker 1>cheek is still kissing.

0:29:14.560 --> 0:29:17.080
<v Speaker 3>It is still going on here. Let it go, Let

0:29:17.160 --> 0:29:17.360
<v Speaker 3>it go.

0:29:17.920 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>And then Dad gives logic, is mega crap, Like you

0:29:22.440 --> 0:29:23.560
<v Speaker 1>clearly had an erection?

0:29:23.680 --> 0:29:25.040
<v Speaker 3>The hell is that all about?

0:29:25.360 --> 0:29:27.760
<v Speaker 1>Let this go? Like he's he's playing both sides, because

0:29:27.760 --> 0:29:31.120
<v Speaker 1>in the last episode he was like telling bel Jolie like, oh,

0:29:31.200 --> 0:29:32.280
<v Speaker 1>I know you didn't want.

0:29:32.160 --> 0:29:32.560
<v Speaker 2>To you know.

0:29:32.680 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 1>It's like he's playing. He's just every whoever's in front

0:29:35.480 --> 0:29:37.720
<v Speaker 1>of him. He's just trying to like be the person

0:29:37.760 --> 0:29:38.720
<v Speaker 1>that's most entertaining.

0:29:38.840 --> 0:29:39.520
<v Speaker 2>Let's be on camera.

0:29:39.800 --> 0:29:43.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know again, just like Jeff, like these dads

0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:45.640
<v Speaker 1>making it about them, like step back.

0:29:46.080 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 2>Like just I don't feel there's any there's any animis

0:29:49.280 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 2>in logic though, as opposed to where you know, Jeff,

0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:55.160
<v Speaker 2>when you're say I'm gonna punch you in the face,

0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:56.800
<v Speaker 2>It's like, what what the hell?

0:29:56.880 --> 0:29:57.240
<v Speaker 5>Dude?

0:29:57.320 --> 0:30:00.840
<v Speaker 1>He's aggressive. He's aggressive. It's he's insecure and it comes

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:03.720
<v Speaker 1>out in the worst ways. Then we get Nick and

0:30:03.800 --> 0:30:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Courtney where she's asking why did he go on so

0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:14.320
<v Speaker 1>many realities share. His friends downplay it. I mean I

0:30:14.440 --> 0:30:16.960
<v Speaker 1>like that she just straight up asked them. I think that,

0:30:17.200 --> 0:30:19.800
<v Speaker 1>like you were saying, like, she's not holding back. She's like,

0:30:19.840 --> 0:30:22.040
<v Speaker 1>this is the right flag. Tell me that it's okay.

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:25.000
<v Speaker 1>And his friends say like, no, he is doing this

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:26.920
<v Speaker 1>show for love. He is not doing the show for

0:30:26.960 --> 0:30:30.200
<v Speaker 1>the cameras. You're not a hundred, you're not convinced.

0:30:31.080 --> 0:30:34.160
<v Speaker 2>No, No, I'm not getting nance at all. This is again,

0:30:34.800 --> 0:30:36.840
<v Speaker 2>you can go on one reality show as a lark.

0:30:37.280 --> 0:30:39.400
<v Speaker 2>I can totally see that. Oh my god, my friends,

0:30:39.680 --> 0:30:42.120
<v Speaker 2>my friends bet me or dared me to go on

0:30:42.400 --> 0:30:43.800
<v Speaker 2>Survive Big Brother whatever.

0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:45.600
<v Speaker 3>Of course you can do that. You go on four

0:30:45.680 --> 0:30:47.640
<v Speaker 3>or five. This is what you want in your life.

0:30:47.680 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 2>You want to be a famous reality star and you

0:30:49.960 --> 0:30:52.680
<v Speaker 2>want to have, you know, be an influencer, and you

0:30:52.720 --> 0:30:53.560
<v Speaker 2>want to be on Instagram.

0:30:53.600 --> 0:30:54.600
<v Speaker 3>That's how you want to live your life.

0:30:54.640 --> 0:30:56.800
<v Speaker 2>So no, I don't buy it for a second that

0:30:56.880 --> 0:30:58.480
<v Speaker 2>this is the one where all of a sudden he's

0:30:58.480 --> 0:30:58.920
<v Speaker 2>going to do it.

0:30:58.960 --> 0:31:01.160
<v Speaker 1>What if he owned it a little bit, Like what

0:31:01.280 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 1>if he was more like, yeah, I want to be

0:31:03.400 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 1>a reality star, but I also I'm looking for love.

0:31:05.600 --> 0:31:08.160
<v Speaker 2>Then I would respect that at least he would say, yeah,

0:31:08.280 --> 0:31:10.840
<v Speaker 2>but sitting there denying it, like, no, no, it just

0:31:10.960 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 2>I just so happened to be on five reality shows.

0:31:13.800 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 1>Come on, dude, that's interesting. That's interesting. Yeah, he kind

0:31:17.920 --> 0:31:19.840
<v Speaker 1>of has to downplay it in order to increase the

0:31:20.240 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 1>fact that he's here for love. But yeah, and.

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:26.520
<v Speaker 2>If you if you think for one second that if

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 2>this couple stays.

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:30.800
<v Speaker 3>Together, which who knows what the future holds.

0:31:31.000 --> 0:31:32.800
<v Speaker 2>If you don't think this couple stays together and he

0:31:32.840 --> 0:31:35.840
<v Speaker 2>doesn't at some point, you don't think he's going to

0:31:35.880 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 2>sit her down and say I think they would do

0:31:37.720 --> 0:31:40.320
<v Speaker 2>a reality show about us, our life after merrit at

0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 2>first sight. If you don't think that's a conversation he's

0:31:42.400 --> 0:31:44.800
<v Speaker 2>going to have with her your nuts. Of course he is,

0:31:45.160 --> 0:31:48.240
<v Speaker 2>and he'll try to try to bank on whatever happens.

0:31:48.320 --> 0:31:51.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh that seeks he's either they're either not going to

0:31:51.160 --> 0:31:52.720
<v Speaker 2>stay together and he's going to be on a different

0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:55.040
<v Speaker 2>reality show in a year, or they are going to

0:31:55.120 --> 0:31:56.640
<v Speaker 2>stay together and he's going to try to pitch a

0:31:56.640 --> 0:31:57.760
<v Speaker 2>reality show about the two of them.

0:31:57.800 --> 0:32:00.120
<v Speaker 3>I guarantee you, as I said here, guarantee you is

0:32:00.120 --> 0:32:05.280
<v Speaker 3>what he wants. Nobody does five reality shows by accident. Yeah,

0:32:05.320 --> 0:32:06.280
<v Speaker 3>it's such a red flat.

0:32:06.360 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 1>Keep choosing and he's probably he's probably submitted himself for absolutely,

0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:13.440
<v Speaker 1>accepted for absolutely.

0:32:13.520 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 3>He's doing it every weekend.

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 1>That's his weekend activity, making videos.

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:21.040
<v Speaker 2>I bet you reality show agents. He's got an agent

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:21.960
<v Speaker 2>and all this kind of stuff.

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:24.320
<v Speaker 1>Of course it is no, they don't. They say that

0:32:24.360 --> 0:32:26.240
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't have an agent. They actually say that later.

0:32:26.400 --> 0:32:27.240
<v Speaker 3>Sure I think they did.

0:32:27.320 --> 0:32:32.840
<v Speaker 1>Sure Felippe and Torri cutting the cake, he says, I give,

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:34.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna give you know, you give the cake to

0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:36.720
<v Speaker 1>the most important woman in your life. And then he says, mom,

0:32:36.760 --> 0:32:39.560
<v Speaker 1>I love you, and then hands I like and then

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:41.200
<v Speaker 1>she goes out of her way to hand it to

0:32:41.240 --> 0:32:41.560
<v Speaker 1>his mom.

0:32:41.680 --> 0:32:43.480
<v Speaker 3>This is where my money is. This is my money's

0:32:43.520 --> 0:32:44.160
<v Speaker 3>on the two of them.

0:32:44.280 --> 0:32:44.520
<v Speaker 5>Yep.

0:32:45.240 --> 0:32:52.239
<v Speaker 1>Then Nikki and Shaw garter belt moment. Oh, she's like,

0:32:52.360 --> 0:32:55.479
<v Speaker 1>what are we doing this? This lap dance? Apparently it is?

0:32:55.520 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 2>Did you do this at your with She Yeah, no, no,

0:33:00.120 --> 0:33:01.520
<v Speaker 2>I didn't do any of this, any of this.

0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:04.240
<v Speaker 1>You didn't use your mouth to pull off a guy

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 1>did not. That's a poor guy. Like just take the hand, yeah, relax, relax,

0:33:11.080 --> 0:33:12.240
<v Speaker 1>Just give her some space.

0:33:12.360 --> 0:33:14.920
<v Speaker 2>Let he's gotta feel it, right, do you think he's

0:33:14.960 --> 0:33:18.440
<v Speaker 2>so oblivious or do you think he's just trying to

0:33:18.480 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 2>make the best of a bad situation.

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:22.920
<v Speaker 3>I mean he's got to see that she's not feeling it.

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:26.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he says it. Later he says she's not. Yeah,

0:33:26.600 --> 0:33:29.920
<v Speaker 1>but I but why he's not adjusting his behavior?

0:33:30.040 --> 0:33:32.680
<v Speaker 2>What I mean, like, let's not do the guarter belt thing.

0:33:33.040 --> 0:33:35.560
<v Speaker 2>Maybe we'll just make it a dance. Let's do something,

0:33:35.560 --> 0:33:39.440
<v Speaker 2>you know, you know, reassuring her, Hey, we're going to

0:33:39.480 --> 0:33:42.120
<v Speaker 2>take this super slow. I'm just as nervous as you are.

0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:45.840
<v Speaker 2>And you know I like taller women and you're not

0:33:45.880 --> 0:33:48.400
<v Speaker 2>tall either, so let's we'll figure it out.

0:33:49.160 --> 0:33:52.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. There's like he's really like embraced a sort of

0:33:53.120 --> 0:33:56.560
<v Speaker 1>a vision of himself as like this confident, funloving guy, which,

0:33:56.640 --> 0:33:59.360
<v Speaker 1>on one hand, that's greatesome, but it's not.

0:34:00.560 --> 0:34:02.880
<v Speaker 3>It's not you're not going to bulldoze your way through

0:34:02.880 --> 0:34:03.200
<v Speaker 3>He's not.

0:34:03.640 --> 0:34:06.560
<v Speaker 1>He's not, yeah, exactly, he's not recalibrating. He's just sort

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:09.640
<v Speaker 1>of like, I'll just keep going with my doctor, best,

0:34:10.320 --> 0:34:13.160
<v Speaker 1>doctor best, and it's like, hey, dude, like the doctor

0:34:13.200 --> 0:34:17.000
<v Speaker 1>thing's not working, yay, And then be the sexual stuff

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:19.160
<v Speaker 1>is not landing, so let it pull back a little.

0:34:19.239 --> 0:34:19.760
<v Speaker 1>Let that happen.

0:34:19.800 --> 0:34:22.200
<v Speaker 3>John Best, PhD. Is different than doctor Best.

0:34:36.680 --> 0:34:41.200
<v Speaker 1>Marissa and Adam. His friends describe him as chill, and

0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:44.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like, are you getting there? Knew what they

0:34:44.640 --> 0:34:47.640
<v Speaker 1>talk about how he's obsessed with jet skis, which guess

0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:51.320
<v Speaker 1>what she's clocked cut to him talking about jet skis

0:34:51.520 --> 0:34:53.120
<v Speaker 1>to everyone and everyone.

0:34:52.880 --> 0:34:57.720
<v Speaker 3>Who I'm sorry, who is this into jet skiing?

0:34:58.200 --> 0:35:03.759
<v Speaker 1>So I did efoiling just this weekend, which is basically

0:35:04.600 --> 0:35:07.560
<v Speaker 1>like a surfboard with a propeller at the bottom and

0:35:07.600 --> 0:35:10.680
<v Speaker 1>you ride it around. It is so much fun. It's

0:35:11.600 --> 0:35:15.560
<v Speaker 1>it's a crazy expensive sport. It's difficult, it requires so

0:35:15.640 --> 0:35:18.319
<v Speaker 1>much go. And I was talking to I just as

0:35:18.360 --> 0:35:20.040
<v Speaker 1>a friend of a friend who had an e foil

0:35:20.080 --> 0:35:22.120
<v Speaker 1>and we were staying at their lake and I'm on

0:35:22.160 --> 0:35:24.319
<v Speaker 1>this road trip was super fun and it'll go once

0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:26.640
<v Speaker 1>in a lifetime opportunity because it's like fifteen thousand dollars

0:35:26.680 --> 0:35:27.840
<v Speaker 1>to buy one of these things. It's not going to

0:35:28.200 --> 0:35:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm never going to be in there things you read,

0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:33.439
<v Speaker 1>so it's a great right. But we were talking because

0:35:33.440 --> 0:35:35.600
<v Speaker 1>there's all these jet skiers where we're doing this epoi

0:35:35.640 --> 0:35:37.600
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what's the deal with jet ski Like

0:35:37.600 --> 0:35:40.840
<v Speaker 1>it's not that exciting. He's like, no, it's the dumbest

0:35:40.840 --> 0:35:43.279
<v Speaker 1>thing you It's like a minute in and you're like, cool,

0:35:43.360 --> 0:35:46.160
<v Speaker 1>I did the thing. I've always felt this way. I

0:35:46.320 --> 0:35:48.040
<v Speaker 1>the first time I did jet skis, I was twelve

0:35:48.120 --> 0:35:50.120
<v Speaker 1>years old and I did the oldest stay where you

0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:53.120
<v Speaker 1>stand up. Yes, that was hard on fun. It took

0:35:53.200 --> 0:35:55.359
<v Speaker 1>me all day to learn and hard and fun. Same

0:35:55.400 --> 0:35:58.160
<v Speaker 1>with e foiling, hard and fun. Ride in a jet

0:35:58.160 --> 0:36:03.319
<v Speaker 1>ski like the WaveRunner style. It's the most absolutely what is.

0:36:02.800 --> 0:36:05.840
<v Speaker 2>Your entire life is based around just doing something that

0:36:05.840 --> 0:36:07.600
<v Speaker 2>twelve year olds can do that you can rent with

0:36:07.640 --> 0:36:10.600
<v Speaker 2>their your dad's signature like it. I don't get even

0:36:10.680 --> 0:36:13.440
<v Speaker 2>riding motorcycles or dirtbikes takes a lot more that You're

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:15.000
<v Speaker 2>just You're just on a jet ski.

0:36:15.600 --> 0:36:17.440
<v Speaker 3>How have you made this? Have you picked this to

0:36:17.480 --> 0:36:20.120
<v Speaker 3>be your life? Jet ski and pickle? It's like, are

0:36:20.160 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 3>you It's the weirdest thing to.

0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:24.880
<v Speaker 2>Pick to be the thing that you talk to about

0:36:24.960 --> 0:36:27.440
<v Speaker 2>with everyone is jet skiing.

0:36:27.640 --> 0:36:29.760
<v Speaker 3>It's so strange.

0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:35.920
<v Speaker 1>Devin and Caitlin. She's already wearing his jacket while they're

0:36:36.000 --> 0:36:37.760
<v Speaker 1>dancing this just as comforting.

0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:40.560
<v Speaker 3>I thought they were gonna have I'm gonna be honest

0:36:40.600 --> 0:36:40.879
<v Speaker 3>with you.

0:36:40.960 --> 0:36:43.080
<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's so great.

0:36:43.760 --> 0:36:44.440
<v Speaker 5>Ah.

0:36:44.480 --> 0:36:47.360
<v Speaker 1>Then Jeff the dad gives a speech, Let's make it

0:36:47.360 --> 0:36:52.320
<v Speaker 1>all about you again, yourself. He gets to tell about

0:36:52.320 --> 0:36:56.160
<v Speaker 1>how he wasn't gonna come five days ago. Who gives up, Jeff,

0:36:56.200 --> 0:37:05.080
<v Speaker 1>don't come. Jesus Christ God, I think Jeff's got chefs here.

0:37:05.160 --> 0:37:07.359
<v Speaker 1>It gets to turn it all around, and now he's

0:37:07.480 --> 0:37:10.239
<v Speaker 1>rooting for them. Good for you, all right. Cut to

0:37:10.320 --> 0:37:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Courtney and Nick out with her parents. He has won

0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:21.719
<v Speaker 1>everybody over. She's so happy. Okay, I guess she's gonna

0:37:21.719 --> 0:37:28.239
<v Speaker 1>accept the uh, the reality. Well, I think at this point.

0:37:26.760 --> 0:37:30.600
<v Speaker 2>I think she's she's gonna, hey, I'm I'm here. I'm

0:37:30.600 --> 0:37:33.279
<v Speaker 2>gonna trust the process. Like we talked about, make make

0:37:33.360 --> 0:37:35.080
<v Speaker 2>you know I'm all in. They said this guy's right

0:37:35.120 --> 0:37:35.360
<v Speaker 2>for me.

0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:37.640
<v Speaker 3>Who knows. Let's let's see.

0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:39.600
<v Speaker 1>This was interesting the way she's talking to her parents

0:37:39.600 --> 0:37:44.000
<v Speaker 1>in this scene. She says he's won everybody over. So

0:37:44.239 --> 0:37:47.120
<v Speaker 1>it's not he's won meal right, It's not like, oh

0:37:47.160 --> 0:37:50.240
<v Speaker 1>I am totally on board. She's like, I guess everybody

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:50.680
<v Speaker 1>likes him.

0:37:50.840 --> 0:37:51.279
<v Speaker 5>She likes.

0:37:51.360 --> 0:37:53.880
<v Speaker 2>She said, She's like, that's attractive to me that he

0:37:53.960 --> 0:37:54.839
<v Speaker 2>won everybody over.

0:37:55.600 --> 0:37:58.440
<v Speaker 1>But that's interesting, that's a it's an interesting phrasing that

0:37:58.640 --> 0:37:59.480
<v Speaker 1>I think, Yeah.

0:37:59.600 --> 0:38:05.080
<v Speaker 2>I think she's rightfully leary of why this guy's motives.

0:38:03.960 --> 0:38:07.560
<v Speaker 1>Totally, and we get a montage of everybody's weddings ending,

0:38:07.880 --> 0:38:13.719
<v Speaker 1>lots of partying, dancing, streamers, things happening Belgium. Lie and

0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:19.319
<v Speaker 1>Mecca in their car. They both revealed their parent situations.

0:38:19.360 --> 0:38:22.080
<v Speaker 1>She's never had her dad in her life, He's never

0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:25.200
<v Speaker 1>had his mom. He explains how he wants to be

0:38:25.280 --> 0:38:29.080
<v Speaker 1>exemplary with kids, which is this is cool because this

0:38:29.160 --> 0:38:31.120
<v Speaker 1>is like one of their big connecting factors we saw

0:38:31.120 --> 0:38:34.160
<v Speaker 1>in their previous episodes that they haven't shared with each other,

0:38:34.920 --> 0:38:37.480
<v Speaker 1>and we get Cameron and Michelle in their car. He

0:38:37.600 --> 0:38:42.200
<v Speaker 1>talks about being used to being alone because yes, he

0:38:42.239 --> 0:38:44.840
<v Speaker 1>has not been in a relationship more than six months,

0:38:45.280 --> 0:38:47.480
<v Speaker 1>she has only been alone for three years after being

0:38:47.520 --> 0:38:52.440
<v Speaker 1>in a three year relationship. That is gonna be yeah,

0:38:52.480 --> 0:38:56.560
<v Speaker 1>this is uh, this is bad, this is this is

0:38:56.719 --> 0:38:58.400
<v Speaker 1>this is bad, this is I mean again.

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:03.759
<v Speaker 2>Adam has kind of funny red flags where it's like, dude,

0:39:03.760 --> 0:39:06.400
<v Speaker 2>are you seriously like, really with all this kind of stuff,

0:39:06.760 --> 0:39:08.800
<v Speaker 2>this is like a this is like a big one.

0:39:08.880 --> 0:39:12.000
<v Speaker 2>This is a big weird relationship. You one to be

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:13.560
<v Speaker 2>thirty seven years old.

0:39:14.480 --> 0:39:16.759
<v Speaker 1>I just also just feel no chemistry. I just you know,

0:39:16.840 --> 0:39:20.160
<v Speaker 1>it's right. If we're just going on vibes and chemistry,

0:39:20.760 --> 0:39:24.320
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing here. Now, I don't think Nick and Courtney

0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:29.640
<v Speaker 1>you're on a couch. They're discussing their insecurities. She says,

0:39:30.680 --> 0:39:34.200
<v Speaker 1>everyone liked you, which is the great. She takes her

0:39:34.200 --> 0:39:38.880
<v Speaker 1>makeup off and looks kind of different, attractive but different.

0:39:39.760 --> 0:39:43.360
<v Speaker 1>He makes a comment about tanning bed, how she maybe

0:39:43.520 --> 0:39:45.080
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be going to the tanning solon.

0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:48.759
<v Speaker 2>Now, I asked you about this so tanning bed, and

0:39:48.800 --> 0:39:51.240
<v Speaker 2>so we went back and actually listened. She doesn't say,

0:39:51.760 --> 0:39:53.480
<v Speaker 2>I get I go in the tanning bed all the time.

0:39:53.480 --> 0:39:57.040
<v Speaker 2>She says, I it's spray tanned. So spray tanning is

0:39:57.080 --> 0:39:59.279
<v Speaker 2>healthier than the tanning bed. The tanning beds bad, Like

0:39:59.280 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 2>if you're going to go to the anning bed every day,

0:40:00.640 --> 0:40:04.040
<v Speaker 2>that's really bad. Spray tanning is probably still spraying carstonogens

0:40:04.040 --> 0:40:06.560
<v Speaker 2>on your skin, but a lot less so than sitting

0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:07.399
<v Speaker 2>in a tanning bed.

0:40:21.520 --> 0:40:24.879
<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, they have an awkward bed conversation, which

0:40:25.000 --> 0:40:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I realize now is par for the course with this show.

0:40:27.840 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Like who's going to sleep? Jesus, you sign up for

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:34.080
<v Speaker 1>a reality show where you're basically going to have to

0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:39.239
<v Speaker 1>sleep with us? Yeah, like maybe have sex. Probably have sex.

0:40:39.480 --> 0:40:41.960
<v Speaker 2>At least this at least these people feel awkward about it.

0:40:41.960 --> 0:40:43.600
<v Speaker 2>Go watch Love is Blind where they can't wait to

0:40:43.680 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 2>jump in bed with each other every night and trade

0:40:45.520 --> 0:40:48.719
<v Speaker 2>partners and every other thing. Oh yeah, dude, you mean

0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:52.279
<v Speaker 2>Love Love Island? Sorry, yeah, where it's just they just

0:40:52.520 --> 0:40:56.759
<v Speaker 2>that's like, all right, everybody, you've picked Liam, You're going

0:40:56.840 --> 0:40:58.680
<v Speaker 2>to go and be in in his bed tonight.

0:40:58.760 --> 0:41:00.880
<v Speaker 3>And they're like I can't white to Bay with Lam.

0:41:01.000 --> 0:41:04.040
<v Speaker 3>It's like you're oh my god. Yeah. So it's just it's.

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Awesome if you signed up for that.

0:41:06.160 --> 0:41:08.160
<v Speaker 3>That's what they're signing up. Yes, it's a big orgy.

0:41:08.360 --> 0:41:10.360
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, that's a great way to That's a great.

0:41:10.200 --> 0:41:10.879
<v Speaker 5>One, all right.

0:41:10.920 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Mecca and Beljiu Lee. He asks what she's afraid of.

0:41:15.360 --> 0:41:18.359
<v Speaker 1>She doesn't have anything, and then he expresses that he's

0:41:18.360 --> 0:41:21.960
<v Speaker 1>scared she will think he's weird. This is Mecca's thing,

0:41:22.560 --> 0:41:24.719
<v Speaker 1>probably because he has a father who has made is

0:41:24.760 --> 0:41:27.480
<v Speaker 1>that what it is? I mean again, honestly, like he's

0:41:27.520 --> 0:41:31.359
<v Speaker 1>so insecure when he shouldn't be. Yes, yes, And then

0:41:31.560 --> 0:41:34.080
<v Speaker 1>she's like, what could possibly make you make me think

0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:35.680
<v Speaker 1>you're weird? And he's like, I brushed my teeth in

0:41:35.719 --> 0:41:38.600
<v Speaker 1>the shower. This guy is so scared of rejection.

0:41:38.800 --> 0:41:41.200
<v Speaker 2>It's just you know, he's also scared of Look again,

0:41:41.239 --> 0:41:43.440
<v Speaker 2>this is the thing we've talked about it being on camera,

0:41:43.560 --> 0:41:46.640
<v Speaker 2>scared of looking stupid, and.

0:41:48.400 --> 0:41:50.400
<v Speaker 1>Because his dad is mean, that's what it's got. But

0:41:50.560 --> 0:41:53.080
<v Speaker 1>he spent his whole speech making him the whole point of.

0:41:53.320 --> 0:41:55.960
<v Speaker 2>A relationship is finding your person to be stupid with

0:41:56.080 --> 0:41:56.919
<v Speaker 2>for the rest of your life.

0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:59.920
<v Speaker 3>That's the damn point. So yeah, it's weird.

0:42:01.080 --> 0:42:03.880
<v Speaker 1>She says that it's a romantic vibe, but that she

0:42:04.040 --> 0:42:06.680
<v Speaker 1>is standing on business, meaning they're not going to have sex.

0:42:07.160 --> 0:42:09.200
<v Speaker 1>She's really holding to this with the cheek thing that

0:42:09.640 --> 0:42:12.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know, I mean, I get it,

0:42:12.239 --> 0:42:14.400
<v Speaker 1>I guess you know, you got to respect somebody's boundaries.

0:42:14.440 --> 0:42:17.239
<v Speaker 1>But it's interesting that she's on one hand saying like

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:19.440
<v Speaker 1>I am attracted to him, I am feeling it, but

0:42:19.480 --> 0:42:24.440
<v Speaker 1>then also insisting on these kind of like predetermined things. Okay,

0:42:24.960 --> 0:42:29.960
<v Speaker 1>now we get Adam and Marissa. I love that his

0:42:30.120 --> 0:42:32.439
<v Speaker 1>question so revealing. He wants to know what she thought

0:42:32.480 --> 0:42:35.839
<v Speaker 1>of him, and then loves hearing about what she thought

0:42:35.840 --> 0:42:36.440
<v Speaker 1>of his shoulder.

0:42:36.560 --> 0:42:41.600
<v Speaker 2>And I were just absolutely dumbfounded by this conversation.

0:42:41.640 --> 0:42:43.000
<v Speaker 3>So what's the first thing you thought about me when

0:42:43.040 --> 0:42:45.160
<v Speaker 3>you walked down yet? Would you think like me, Oh

0:42:45.239 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 3>my god? And He's like, my shoulders really big? They

0:42:48.200 --> 0:42:51.080
<v Speaker 3>look big in this suit. It's like, are you kidding me?

0:42:51.200 --> 0:42:53.520
<v Speaker 1>And this guy loves to tell the camera he's not

0:42:53.600 --> 0:42:55.400
<v Speaker 1>worried about being naked with his wife.

0:42:55.719 --> 0:42:58.560
<v Speaker 3>I've trained him, I've trained for this.

0:43:00.840 --> 0:43:01.239
<v Speaker 5>You know.

0:43:01.520 --> 0:43:04.600
<v Speaker 1>They just had the worst sex ever this night. That's

0:43:04.600 --> 0:43:07.279
<v Speaker 1>what they did. Like that. They closed those windows, they

0:43:07.360 --> 0:43:09.400
<v Speaker 1>closed the doors, the cameras went away, and he was like,

0:43:09.880 --> 0:43:15.960
<v Speaker 1>now we're gonna have sex just like I played the piano. Long, boring, steady,

0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:18.080
<v Speaker 1>but professional.

0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:21.719
<v Speaker 3>Eventually, I'll train you to be the perfect love for professional.

0:43:22.239 --> 0:43:22.960
<v Speaker 3>Let me do it.

0:43:23.160 --> 0:43:26.440
<v Speaker 1>Let me show you. I am so good with my penis.

0:43:26.520 --> 0:43:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I am a professional penist. I am a.

0:43:30.080 --> 0:43:32.920
<v Speaker 3>Professional pianist and a pianist.

0:43:32.520 --> 0:43:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm a pianist, professional, dude, it's just cold blooded, cold

0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:45.759
<v Speaker 1>blooded professional. So and you know it's like, oh, now

0:43:45.800 --> 0:43:48.560
<v Speaker 1>I have to have the cold blood professional orgasm that

0:43:48.640 --> 0:43:53.359
<v Speaker 1>you demanded of so much more firefar bro super Yeah,

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:55.279
<v Speaker 1>just that.

0:43:55.400 --> 0:43:59.480
<v Speaker 3>Whole I could not believe that I have trained for this.

0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:02.360
<v Speaker 1>She's wishing she had that kill Swift.

0:44:05.400 --> 0:44:06.680
<v Speaker 3>I just choke him.

0:44:07.400 --> 0:44:10.399
<v Speaker 1>Kill the engine? Can I just kill the engine? He's

0:44:10.440 --> 0:44:13.160
<v Speaker 1>been twenty minutes, Dude, are you done yet? And he's

0:44:13.200 --> 0:44:15.520
<v Speaker 1>like no, no, no, I got another one to play another

0:44:15.560 --> 0:44:15.920
<v Speaker 1>song with.

0:44:16.200 --> 0:44:18.520
<v Speaker 3>D let me take somewhere.

0:44:18.800 --> 0:44:21.799
<v Speaker 2>He's got a little safe in his house, and in

0:44:21.840 --> 0:44:24.520
<v Speaker 2>the safe there's a letter saying, okay, all this is

0:44:24.560 --> 0:44:26.200
<v Speaker 2>a joke. I'm going to go on merrit at first

0:44:26.200 --> 0:44:28.840
<v Speaker 2>sight and be the biggest douchebag on the planet.

0:44:29.719 --> 0:44:34.360
<v Speaker 1>Is all act. He planned, He determined who he was

0:44:34.400 --> 0:44:37.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna be. He's like a look smaxer. He like wrote

0:44:37.040 --> 0:44:40.080
<v Speaker 1>out a list of like what a real man does.

0:44:40.320 --> 0:44:43.120
<v Speaker 1>A man is artistic, he can play the piano. A

0:44:43.160 --> 0:44:45.960
<v Speaker 1>real man has sex for twenty five minutes or six

0:44:46.040 --> 0:44:48.279
<v Speaker 1>five that is what I will do. He is six.

0:44:48.640 --> 0:44:51.359
<v Speaker 1>He is like plan this, he has trained it and

0:44:51.400 --> 0:44:55.120
<v Speaker 1>it is so mediocre and boring and just like it

0:44:55.239 --> 0:44:58.640
<v Speaker 1>is so funny. It's like it is just inhuman. It's

0:44:58.640 --> 0:45:00.279
<v Speaker 1>like it's like, how do I learn to be a

0:45:00.360 --> 0:45:00.959
<v Speaker 1>human being?

0:45:01.440 --> 0:45:04.120
<v Speaker 2>What is the first thing you thought about me when

0:45:04.160 --> 0:45:05.200
<v Speaker 2>you walk down the aisle?

0:45:05.840 --> 0:45:09.360
<v Speaker 1>My shoulders good because I do shoulders on Tuesdays and

0:45:09.400 --> 0:45:11.279
<v Speaker 1>I've been working them on every Tuesday for the last

0:45:11.320 --> 0:45:13.600
<v Speaker 1>six years. So I'm glad you noticed my Tuesday shoulder.

0:45:13.640 --> 0:45:14.880
<v Speaker 3>You think she's falling for it.

0:45:15.239 --> 0:45:18.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe, I don't know. No, I think it's

0:45:18.239 --> 0:45:20.680
<v Speaker 1>like it's like, how do you fall for an android?

0:45:20.800 --> 0:45:23.759
<v Speaker 1>Like it's not interesting, dude, Like it's like you need

0:45:23.760 --> 0:45:26.239
<v Speaker 1>to he needs to like be broken down and be

0:45:26.280 --> 0:45:26.800
<v Speaker 1>a human.

0:45:27.040 --> 0:45:33.319
<v Speaker 2>Like I don't know, but it's the whole thing is

0:45:33.560 --> 0:45:35.040
<v Speaker 2>just it's it's amazing in.

0:45:35.000 --> 0:45:38.040
<v Speaker 1>A weird way. I wonder if Adam would be better

0:45:38.120 --> 0:45:39.040
<v Speaker 1>match for Courtney.

0:45:39.920 --> 0:45:40.200
<v Speaker 3>Huh.

0:45:41.200 --> 0:45:43.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, because I think Courtney would see through

0:45:43.320 --> 0:45:47.560
<v Speaker 2>him too. I think Courtney, she is a bodybuilder, she

0:45:47.760 --> 0:45:49.800
<v Speaker 2>does do a she is sort of in some ways

0:45:49.800 --> 0:45:50.720
<v Speaker 2>a female version.

0:45:50.920 --> 0:45:54.120
<v Speaker 1>She's not a douche. I'm not I don't I'm not equitting,

0:45:54.120 --> 0:45:56.400
<v Speaker 1>but I think that she might be able to break

0:45:56.480 --> 0:45:57.160
<v Speaker 1>him down.

0:45:57.480 --> 0:45:59.879
<v Speaker 3>I don't you know who's actually think it would be the best.

0:46:00.239 --> 0:46:01.880
<v Speaker 3>The best match for him is Nicky.

0:46:02.920 --> 0:46:03.120
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:46:03.160 --> 0:46:06.759
<v Speaker 2>Really, he's tall, he makes a ton of money, he's

0:46:06.840 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 2>got knows exactly.

0:46:07.760 --> 0:46:10.840
<v Speaker 3>What he wants in his life. That's nick It should

0:46:10.840 --> 0:46:11.200
<v Speaker 3>be Nicky.

0:46:11.200 --> 0:46:14.399
<v Speaker 2>And at him, he's young enough to still have kids

0:46:14.400 --> 0:46:14.880
<v Speaker 2>with her.

0:46:15.360 --> 0:46:17.359
<v Speaker 1>It's like, I don't think he's smart enough though.

0:46:17.480 --> 0:46:19.320
<v Speaker 3>I think he thinks he doesn't read.

0:46:19.640 --> 0:46:21.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but she actually reads.

0:46:21.960 --> 0:46:27.279
<v Speaker 3>You don't read everything every day reader, are you?

0:46:27.400 --> 0:46:28.920
<v Speaker 2>Which, by the way, both Stu and I heard that

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:30.839
<v Speaker 2>when he's like, she's like maca chee's and reading all day,

0:46:30.840 --> 0:46:33.719
<v Speaker 2>and we were both like, it sounds like a magical day.

0:46:33.800 --> 0:46:37.279
<v Speaker 3>It's an incredible day.

0:46:37.680 --> 0:46:41.520
<v Speaker 1>Much better than twenty five minutes of twenty five minutes

0:46:41.520 --> 0:46:44.640
<v Speaker 1>of jet skis. And then I'm gonna give you a concert.

0:46:44.680 --> 0:46:46.520
<v Speaker 1>And then when we're done with that, it's do all

0:46:46.600 --> 0:46:49.960
<v Speaker 1>of Beethoven tonight. I also entered us in to pick

0:46:50.000 --> 0:46:52.279
<v Speaker 1>a ball tournament. Back, Babe, let me warm my hands

0:46:52.360 --> 0:46:53.960
<v Speaker 1>up in the fire. Let me warm my hands up

0:46:53.960 --> 0:46:56.200
<v Speaker 1>in the fire, because I've got a forty five minute song.

0:46:58.239 --> 0:46:58.600
<v Speaker 5>All right.

0:46:58.680 --> 0:47:00.759
<v Speaker 1>Then Sewn and Nicky are getting ready for bed. They're

0:47:00.760 --> 0:47:04.879
<v Speaker 1>gonna stay on different sides, and she finally says he's

0:47:04.960 --> 0:47:09.480
<v Speaker 1>not my physical way necessarily yes, Surprise Surprise tells him

0:47:09.520 --> 0:47:14.320
<v Speaker 1>to keep his shirt on, and she says, I don't

0:47:14.600 --> 0:47:18.479
<v Speaker 1>quote feel attracted to him and makes a sixteen, makes

0:47:18.480 --> 0:47:22.279
<v Speaker 1>a sixty nine joke, not the time, bro, not the time,

0:47:22.320 --> 0:47:24.440
<v Speaker 1>and he says, I'm teasy, and then she's like are you?

0:47:24.920 --> 0:47:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Are you? Then then she say it's her favorite position,

0:47:30.120 --> 0:47:31.799
<v Speaker 1>and this is we're like a little bit of hope.

0:47:31.800 --> 0:47:37.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, I mean, I know I'm holding

0:47:37.040 --> 0:47:39.680
<v Speaker 1>out that maybe this is the story arc that these

0:47:39.680 --> 0:47:41.960
<v Speaker 1>two will actually fall in love because he's just kind

0:47:41.960 --> 0:47:45.000
<v Speaker 1>of barky and trying hard the.

0:47:45.000 --> 0:47:47.439
<v Speaker 3>Way his favorite position is a sixty nine.

0:47:49.520 --> 0:47:52.759
<v Speaker 2>I mean it's I don't hate it, obviously, but it's

0:47:52.800 --> 0:47:55.360
<v Speaker 2>not whose favorite position is a sixty nine. It's like

0:47:56.160 --> 0:47:59.359
<v Speaker 2>it's you're at work, but you're also getting what it's

0:47:59.440 --> 0:48:03.640
<v Speaker 2>this is some times is too much just saying it's

0:48:03.680 --> 0:48:06.520
<v Speaker 2>like that, it's fine, I don't hate it, but again,

0:48:06.800 --> 0:48:08.719
<v Speaker 2>favorite position is a sixty nine.

0:48:08.800 --> 0:48:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Really, I find more often it's people's lead, That's.

0:48:12.239 --> 0:48:12.800
<v Speaker 3>What I'm saying.

0:48:13.560 --> 0:48:17.279
<v Speaker 1>That's where I would find a lot of people, a

0:48:17.320 --> 0:48:20.720
<v Speaker 1>lot of women that I've talked to really find it agreed.

0:48:21.239 --> 0:48:22.759
<v Speaker 1>But that's why I think the fact that she says

0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:25.640
<v Speaker 1>it's her favorite position, I'm like, okay, so maybe there

0:48:25.680 --> 0:48:30.400
<v Speaker 1>is some maybe here. I don't know. All Right, Caitlin

0:48:30.440 --> 0:48:34.000
<v Speaker 1>and Devin getting ready for bed. They're vibing physically. She

0:48:34.080 --> 0:48:36.800
<v Speaker 1>says she has no ick. She like grabs his hands

0:48:36.800 --> 0:48:39.920
<v Speaker 1>and puts them on her cheeks. I'm like, yeah, still my,

0:48:40.200 --> 0:48:42.120
<v Speaker 1>still my like number one, bet.

0:48:42.040 --> 0:48:44.120
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm going with, still going with Filipin.

0:48:44.120 --> 0:48:47.799
<v Speaker 1>Tori, Michelle and Cameron are on a couch. She brings

0:48:47.880 --> 0:48:51.160
<v Speaker 1>up the six months relationship thing again. Yes, he is

0:48:51.239 --> 0:48:54.520
<v Speaker 1>rubbing her shoulder in this scene, which I was like, okay,

0:48:54.640 --> 0:48:58.160
<v Speaker 1>a little bit so much me yep. She says it

0:48:58.200 --> 0:49:01.799
<v Speaker 1>was awesome to hear that he is is ready for commitment,

0:49:02.600 --> 0:49:06.200
<v Speaker 1>and that's where I was like, well, obviously he's unbearried

0:49:06.239 --> 0:49:08.600
<v Speaker 1>with at first sight, so I don't think that's like

0:49:08.600 --> 0:49:10.239
<v Speaker 1>a proof that he is there.

0:49:10.239 --> 0:49:12.720
<v Speaker 2>Also, I just noticed they're also by far the biggest

0:49:12.719 --> 0:49:17.719
<v Speaker 2>age difference thirty twenty eight, So that's there there by

0:49:17.719 --> 0:49:20.040
<v Speaker 2>far the biggest, the biggest age difference.

0:49:19.760 --> 0:49:22.080
<v Speaker 1>She's been in more long term relationships.

0:49:22.520 --> 0:49:22.919
<v Speaker 5>All right.

0:49:22.920 --> 0:49:25.200
<v Speaker 1>Felipe and Torri are getting ready for bed. He takes

0:49:25.200 --> 0:49:31.080
<v Speaker 1>off his shirt. Oh, this guy's a stud, talks about

0:49:31.080 --> 0:49:32.680
<v Speaker 1>being a go and then he takes off his shirt

0:49:32.680 --> 0:49:34.799
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, oh, get as, you've made up for it,

0:49:35.040 --> 0:49:37.360
<v Speaker 1>you've made up where and he's so proud of himself

0:49:37.520 --> 0:49:38.680
<v Speaker 1>and she says he's hot.

0:49:38.760 --> 0:49:40.080
<v Speaker 3>But just yeah, they're into each other.

0:49:40.160 --> 0:49:42.880
<v Speaker 1>He says, he's feeling like you won the lottery. And

0:49:42.920 --> 0:49:45.120
<v Speaker 1>they they lay back and they talk in bed. And

0:49:45.160 --> 0:49:47.800
<v Speaker 1>the way that they're laying back in bed, this is interesting,

0:49:48.640 --> 0:49:51.520
<v Speaker 1>is bad for the camera, right, like straight back it's

0:49:51.560 --> 0:49:56.040
<v Speaker 1>the only yeah, yes there. And I thought that that

0:49:56.160 --> 0:49:59.960
<v Speaker 1>was a great indication that they're actually just having a

0:50:00.160 --> 0:50:03.879
<v Speaker 1>time together because both of them lay back like they

0:50:03.920 --> 0:50:06.560
<v Speaker 1>don't sit up like everybody else. It's like they're sort

0:50:06.560 --> 0:50:09.520
<v Speaker 1>of posing for the These two are already just like

0:50:09.800 --> 0:50:12.200
<v Speaker 1>laying down and talking and they're not caring that the

0:50:12.200 --> 0:50:15.040
<v Speaker 1>cameras shooting up their nose and make you know. I

0:50:15.200 --> 0:50:18.160
<v Speaker 1>thought that was super endearing and like weirdly indicative of

0:50:18.200 --> 0:50:20.280
<v Speaker 1>like a comfort level that nobody interesting.

0:50:20.280 --> 0:50:21.680
<v Speaker 3>I didn't. I didn't put that together, but your on

0:50:21.719 --> 0:50:22.279
<v Speaker 3>hundred percent right.

0:50:22.480 --> 0:50:25.399
<v Speaker 1>Definitely, they're just in there, just into each other. They're

0:50:25.480 --> 0:50:27.680
<v Speaker 1>just like testing each other out, they're getting to know

0:50:27.760 --> 0:50:30.560
<v Speaker 1>each other. They're like already invested in, like laying down

0:50:30.760 --> 0:50:33.279
<v Speaker 1>and talking intimately in a way that like I just

0:50:33.280 --> 0:50:35.719
<v Speaker 1>didn't see it from the other people. So I'm with you.

0:50:35.880 --> 0:50:37.440
<v Speaker 1>I think Felipe and Tori are.

0:50:37.320 --> 0:50:38.920
<v Speaker 3>Like, that's my that's my goat, that's where I put

0:50:38.960 --> 0:50:39.640
<v Speaker 3>my money right now.

0:50:39.760 --> 0:50:43.240
<v Speaker 1>They're my number two, Devin Caitlin or my number one.

0:50:43.640 --> 0:50:45.880
<v Speaker 1>I think obviously Nicky and Sean are the ones that

0:50:45.880 --> 0:50:49.160
<v Speaker 1>they're setting up to be the failed couple. But I'm

0:50:49.200 --> 0:50:51.360
<v Speaker 1>saying it now, they're going to turn out to be

0:50:51.880 --> 0:50:52.759
<v Speaker 1>much better for each other.

0:50:52.840 --> 0:50:53.160
<v Speaker 5>Okay.

0:50:53.280 --> 0:50:54.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that means all less, but I

0:50:54.960 --> 0:50:57.360
<v Speaker 1>think they're the arc of them is going to be

0:50:58.040 --> 0:51:01.600
<v Speaker 1>holy shit. They actually do have something, okay, but I

0:51:01.600 --> 0:51:04.240
<v Speaker 1>don't think I'm ultimately. I think chemistry is too important.

0:51:04.280 --> 0:51:05.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't think she feels it.

0:51:05.520 --> 0:51:07.040
<v Speaker 3>So who do you think is going to have the

0:51:07.160 --> 0:51:07.959
<v Speaker 3>roughest road?

0:51:08.440 --> 0:51:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Cameron and Michelle?

0:51:09.760 --> 0:51:12.960
<v Speaker 2>Interesting, I think it a strange way. It might be

0:51:13.040 --> 0:51:16.600
<v Speaker 2>nick and Courtney. I think Courtney. I think Courtney's clocked him.

0:51:16.440 --> 0:51:17.120
<v Speaker 3>At this point.

0:51:17.360 --> 0:51:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I think this could I think it could get bad

0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:21.439
<v Speaker 2>or it could be Adam memory if Marissa ever wakes

0:51:21.520 --> 0:51:24.120
<v Speaker 2>up and is like, if he let's put it this way,

0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:25.640
<v Speaker 2>if he stays this way.

0:51:26.040 --> 0:51:29.400
<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing, we haven't gotten enough of Marissa's

0:51:29.400 --> 0:51:33.439
<v Speaker 1>interpretation yet. We have not seen she has been so accommodating.

0:51:33.800 --> 0:51:37.000
<v Speaker 1>She has not expressed any doubts really yet, So we

0:51:37.080 --> 0:51:40.040
<v Speaker 1>have no reason she could just this could be she

0:51:40.080 --> 0:51:44.959
<v Speaker 1>could she could just she could love We haven't gotten enough,

0:51:45.000 --> 0:51:48.040
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't love it, but I think you know,

0:51:48.160 --> 0:51:51.160
<v Speaker 1>she could be the want to be trained. She could

0:51:51.200 --> 0:51:54.560
<v Speaker 1>want to learn how to not drink and just avoid

0:51:54.680 --> 0:51:57.400
<v Speaker 1>cancer causing chemicals and play pitoyball.

0:51:57.560 --> 0:52:00.480
<v Speaker 3>That could be, she could love it. You're right, man,

0:52:00.800 --> 0:52:01.560
<v Speaker 3>we don't know yet.

0:52:01.880 --> 0:52:05.160
<v Speaker 2>We have to talk about what an arrangement, which what

0:52:05.440 --> 0:52:07.200
<v Speaker 2>I am for some reason now only going to say

0:52:07.200 --> 0:52:09.759
<v Speaker 2>it like Tony Danza, And today we are going to

0:52:09.800 --> 0:52:13.360
<v Speaker 2>be talking about Czar Peter the Third and Catherine the Great.

0:52:13.840 --> 0:52:15.680
<v Speaker 1>It's always royals, it's always.

0:52:15.600 --> 0:52:18.240
<v Speaker 2>The marriage arranged by Empress Elizabeth. They married in seventeen

0:52:18.280 --> 0:52:22.280
<v Speaker 2>forty five. The marriage was deeply strained, reportedly remained unconsummated

0:52:22.320 --> 0:52:23.040
<v Speaker 2>for years.

0:52:23.560 --> 0:52:25.160
<v Speaker 3>While Catherine was highly.

0:52:24.880 --> 0:52:28.080
<v Speaker 2>Intelligent and immers her stuff in Russian culture and Enlightenment ideas.

0:52:28.280 --> 0:52:32.840
<v Speaker 2>Peter was considered immature, eccentric, and obsessed about Prussian military.

0:52:33.320 --> 0:52:36.600
<v Speaker 2>Catherine then overthrew her husband, Zar Peter the Third in

0:52:36.680 --> 0:52:39.800
<v Speaker 2>a bloodless palace coup in seventeen sixty two. Their arranged

0:52:39.800 --> 0:52:42.839
<v Speaker 2>marriage was notoriously unhappy, plagued by Peter's immaturity and lack

0:52:42.880 --> 0:52:46.720
<v Speaker 2>of interest in ruling. Capitalizing on Peter's unpopularity, she seized

0:52:46.719 --> 0:52:48.120
<v Speaker 2>the throne and ushered in.

0:52:48.360 --> 0:52:53.399
<v Speaker 3>Russia's Golden Age. Wow, yeah, she took over.

0:52:53.520 --> 0:52:55.920
<v Speaker 2>She was arguably Russia's great one of the greatest rulers

0:52:55.960 --> 0:52:56.439
<v Speaker 2>of all time.

0:52:56.600 --> 0:52:58.399
<v Speaker 1>So wait, once he took up, Once she took over,

0:52:58.440 --> 0:53:03.560
<v Speaker 1>where did he? I think she had him excommunicated? So

0:53:04.239 --> 0:53:07.319
<v Speaker 1>oh my god? So did she just rule alone? Then

0:53:07.360 --> 0:53:09.000
<v Speaker 1>she never found another partner.

0:53:08.920 --> 0:53:10.200
<v Speaker 3>After Catherine, She's a throne.

0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:12.440
<v Speaker 2>In July seventeen sixty two, Peter Third was forced to

0:53:12.480 --> 0:53:15.840
<v Speaker 2>abdicate and was imprisoned in the village of Rapsha. Just

0:53:15.920 --> 0:53:19.680
<v Speaker 2>eight days later, he was assassinated, likely by Alexi or Love,

0:53:19.760 --> 0:53:22.040
<v Speaker 2>a key co conspirator, though the official government cause of

0:53:22.040 --> 0:53:28.919
<v Speaker 2>death was stated to be hemorhoidal colic. So not only

0:53:28.920 --> 0:53:31.080
<v Speaker 2>do they assassinate the guy. But then they've got to

0:53:31.160 --> 0:53:34.160
<v Speaker 2>make it like the most embarrassing thing in the world,

0:53:35.040 --> 0:53:39.600
<v Speaker 2>death by act. He choked on his own dick, like

0:53:39.600 --> 0:53:43.560
<v Speaker 2>like oh no, yeah, so.

0:53:43.480 --> 0:53:45.759
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I only call it a bloodless coup. But he

0:53:45.880 --> 0:53:48.200
<v Speaker 1>still got like imprisoned and eventually.

0:53:48.239 --> 0:53:52.200
<v Speaker 3>Well no, he got fassinated. Hey, hey, thank you very

0:53:52.280 --> 0:53:54.080
<v Speaker 3>much hemorrhoidal colic.

0:53:55.280 --> 0:53:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Wow, all right, will you been listening to podmeats twirld.

0:54:00.120 --> 0:54:02.360
<v Speaker 1>The vows have been spoken, the experts have weighed in.

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<v Speaker 1>That's us and our completely offhand conversation has now become

0:54:06.560 --> 0:54:10.239
<v Speaker 1>a season a season long commitment. We'll see you next time.

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<v Speaker 1>Trap you smoking