1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and. 2 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:09,120 Speaker 2: Welcome to stuff I've never told you protection of iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:22,279 Speaker 1: And we are back with another happy hour episode. Where 4 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:23,479 Speaker 1: are we watching Sex and the City. 5 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 2: Yay? These are so fun for me because I literally 6 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: have no idea what's about to happen. 7 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: And I just get to tease you with it. 8 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fun to be talking about anything I don't know, It's. 9 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: True, and it's quite fun to watch your face. Yes, 10 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: and we are on season two, episode sixteen, if you're 11 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 1: keeping count. We're slowly making our way through these second 12 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: season out of all the seasons in the movies, and 13 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: apparently just like that, it is coming back soon too. 14 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, a lot. We've got a lot to do, 15 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: but we do before we start. This is a happy 16 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: hour and a if you're drinking anything, if you're doing 17 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: any excessive things, be responsible extracurricular things, I guess, be responsible, 18 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: take care of yourself. You know, drink it could be 19 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: an extra curricular right the things? No, yeah, sure, as 20 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: I've been watching all the k dramas apparently as a 21 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 1: thing for South Korea. But yes, with that, we are 22 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 1: not being currently sponsored by anything specific, especially if we 23 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: mentioned something for this episode, so we're not like doing 24 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: a this is brought to you by like Sex and 25 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: the City is brought to you by this. That's not 26 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: happening with this one. And if you listen to our 27 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: previous Monday Mini, you should be kind of caught up 28 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: about what we're talking about. With sponsorships kind of bilts. 29 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: You have become pros in the world of professional podcasting, right, 30 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, right right. 31 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: The will find you is what I really We have 32 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 2: to be real open, which I appreciate. 33 00:01:56,920 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: I think, yes, And we don't have that kind of money. 34 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 2: No, I just met with a financial planner and it 35 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 2: turns out no. 36 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: They told me I'm poorer than I thought. So, Annie, 37 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: what are you seepp in. 38 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 2: On my red wine from a box? I did want 39 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 2: to make because it's hot in my apartment. I wanted 40 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 2: to make a gen and tonic, but my aforementioned meeting 41 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 2: with the financial planner went over. I know I could 42 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 2: have asked, but I just did the easier thing. So 43 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 2: here we are. 44 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: Easy's nice. Easy's nice. I am drinking on another bubbly water. 45 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: I think I've kind of got to the point that 46 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what alcohol it makes me sleepy 47 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: and behind the curtains here. This is the first episode 48 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:45,959 Speaker 1: we're recording today. It's like, we shouldn't I shouldn't start there, 49 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: I shouldn't start sleepy. That's just the me thing. When 50 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: we ended with it, we're good to go. I'm good 51 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: to We're not ending this with it. So I'm gonna 52 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: be drinking on my bubble water, which is a specific 53 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: brand of mineral water. I think you actually got sponsored 54 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: by them at Slavor. You got the hard alcohol I got. 55 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: We don't have that here. Yeah, but yeah, so I'm 56 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: not going to mention the break because they haven't sponsored 57 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: us yet. Call us though, and you know who you are, 58 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: You know who you are, you know. So, yes, we 59 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: are on episode sixteen. But before we start, Annie, who 60 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: got to be last time around? Can you kind of 61 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: give us a rewind a recap? 62 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 2: So we've had our Big and Carrie mid season breakup. 63 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: The season started with them breaking up and then they 64 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 2: got back together, and now they've broken up again, and 65 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 2: it had a lot of introspection for Carrie about like 66 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 2: who am I dating and what do I want? Charlotte 67 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 2: is having to realize that what she wants, which is 68 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 2: kind of our more traditional heteronormative you know, picket white, 69 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 2: picket fence, husband, a couple kids. It's not what everyone 70 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 2: else wants. And she and I had this argument with 71 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: her brother about it and with Samantha about it and 72 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 2: called her some not nice things, but they have come around. 73 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 2: They talked about it, and then Miranda we have has 74 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: met Steve who I mean, I know spoiler alert because 75 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 2: HBO was telling me this twenty five years so that's past, 76 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,559 Speaker 2: but who we know is important in her life later. 77 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 2: But they have broken up, and now she has been 78 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 2: dating a bunch of interesting people. I'll say, and then yeah, Samantha. 79 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 2: It's so funny because every time I feel like I 80 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 2: say the same thing, but Samantha continues to kind of 81 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:49,799 Speaker 2: like date and has very specific ideas and thoughts about 82 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 2: relationships and how, you know, we should be more open 83 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 2: about what they can look like and kind of getting 84 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 2: into hijinks. And and the last one we talked a lot, 85 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 2: a lot about dating the family and it had a 86 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 2: really good moment at the end where they talked about 87 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 2: kind of the fown family and the friends, and that 88 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 2: is one of our favorite things as we as I'm 89 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: watching it. The first time, Samantha the several time. So 90 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 2: that was nice. 91 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, very good, very good. Thank you for that. 92 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,359 Speaker 1: So we are now on episode sixteen. We've traveled past that. 93 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: The title are you Ready? Is called was it good 94 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: for You? Question? Mark? Okay, can you give me a 95 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: prediction of what you think this episode is about? 96 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 2: As I mentioned in the last one, now I feel 97 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,679 Speaker 2: like I flew too close to the sun. I actually 98 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 2: had success. So now I'm in my head about it? 99 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:46,799 Speaker 1: Are you cathing? 100 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 2: It was like at semi right about a bad pun? 101 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 2: Was it good for you? I mean that sounds on 102 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 2: the surf like it's like maybe not great sex, or 103 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: maybe you don't know if the other person is enjoying it, 104 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 2: and so you ask, we'll it good for you? That's 105 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 2: what I got. That's it. 106 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: I like you generalized statement, not about the individual characters, 107 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: just a generalized statement. That's where we are. Know. 108 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 2: I'm hoping by like season three, I'll be like, Okay, 109 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 2: I got it, yeah, but not right now. I don't 110 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 2: have it yet. 111 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: We'll see season three. I'll remember those words. Okay, Okay, 112 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: all right, then let's get into it and see how 113 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: you do. When he was making love to me. 114 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 3: He was tired. This has nothing to do with you. 115 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 1: The man ever falling, They were a bit. It's nice, sleepy, 116 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: he's comfortable. There is some questions about, like how much 117 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: little movement do you do that he just all to 118 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: sleep And if you don't realize he's asleep until he 119 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: starts snoring, what are y'all doing? Y'all just laying there? Cool? 120 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: Of course it's her, and I have to say I'm 121 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: not surprised. Ever seen her on a staremaster, nothing happening 122 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: below the ways? Not no sale. How can you say 123 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: if my friend said that about me, I'd be really sad? 124 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: Ay are you talking this way about people? 125 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 2: See? 126 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: Oh? God? Also, I don't think I would be talking 127 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: about my friend's sex life to my other friends. I 128 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: don't know. 129 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: Maybe that's just I think it depends on your friend 130 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 2: group dynamic, okay, and in my personal case no, but 131 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 2: I can see some group dynamics working that way. We 132 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 2: want to have sex with a woman, are you serious? 133 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: Totally? I've always been curious what it would be like. 134 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: Either one of us has ever done it. 135 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 2: beIN we thought it might be fun. 136 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: So they're friends and they're propositioning her and I'm like, 137 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 1: that just feels awkward in itself, Like I have a 138 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: pretty strict role about not dating within the friend group, 139 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: so this feels like even worse. 140 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think it's like on the line of 141 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 2: flattering and also insulting, because. 142 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: The first Samantha wasn't insulting because that just validated her life. 143 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 2: Yes, and I think that is like a clear her character. 144 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,839 Speaker 2: But there's also kind of this assumption that you'll like, oh, 145 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 2: you're so sexual, you'll be into it, which I don't 146 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 2: think would fly with everyone but for her. Yes, you can't. 147 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 4: Smoke on the restaurant. You know I'm a smoker. 148 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a smoker too, but come on, Pally, watch 149 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 3: where you throw those things? 150 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: Huh. 151 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 2: Oh it didn't leave the mark. 152 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 3: As the pain subsided, my mind was free to notice 153 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 3: how incredibly cute this guy was. 154 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, my name is Patrick, Patrick Casey. 155 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 3: Kerrie Bradshaw Burn victim. 156 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 2: How weird was that that was? I would not be 157 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 2: happy if someone got a cigarette at me. 158 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: That's fair. 159 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 2: I think I would like hear the person out, but 160 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 2: then I would not go right with you anywhere. 161 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 1: Well, I mean like the fact that it was an accident. 162 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 1: He's apologizing. It's super cute. It could be a meet cute, 163 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: very New York meet cute cigarette. Yep, yep, that's how 164 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 1: it became. 165 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,839 Speaker 3: I had learned that Patrick was a composer who wrote 166 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 3: music for the movies. 167 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: So what type of movies do you compose? For? 168 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 4: Really bad ones? You know the I screamed when I 169 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 4: knew what you did last summer on. 170 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: There you go? Sorry, he just called out all your movies. 171 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. He would have been ex just from that, 172 00:09:58,880 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 1: wouldn't he. 173 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 2: I'm late, I have to go, dare you. 174 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 3: Thank you for the coffee, and maybe one day you'll 175 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 3: you'll give me. 176 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: Scar tissue again. 177 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 4: You're great. 178 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 3: As I walked away, I started to think how many cute, smart, 179 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 3: single smokers. 180 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: Are they left in the world. 181 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 2: Single smokers. That used to be a hard no for 182 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 2: me back when I was dating was if you smoked, 183 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 2: I was no man. 184 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was not my favorite this, but like, I 185 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,559 Speaker 1: would give you a chance if you told me you're 186 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: uh at social yeah social stop yeah yeah. And typically 187 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:40,320 Speaker 1: though whenever, like if I kissed them and they were 188 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: smoke wrath, I'll be like, nope. 189 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 2: You laughed real hard at my confession to you that 190 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 2: if I've just washed my hair, I won't go to 191 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 2: a restaurant if my friends invite me where the smoking 192 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 2: is allowed, because then I had to waped my hair. 193 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: Yet, how often do you wash your hair twice a week? Oh? 194 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 2: Okay, when I was running, it was every day. 195 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, me too. If I work out typically, well no, 196 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: not even that I want according to if I'm doing 197 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: something the next day, I might just put some of 198 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 1: the uh the dry shampoo, yeah, dry sapoo, baby powder 199 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: or whatever. 200 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 201 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 1: Can you believe that someone actually had the nerve to 202 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 1: call this colored florentine peach. 203 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 3: I can't believe you have the nerve to spend this 204 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 3: much on. 205 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: Sheets, Flora. You know, as you get older and you 206 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 1: have more of a disposable income, I will start spending 207 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: a little more money on my bed stuff, like like, 208 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 1: you know, like it's important to have comfortable things, soft 209 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 1: sheeese where you just lay in there. You're like, oh, 210 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: this is especially when they are freshly clean. It's a 211 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: delight and it's worth the money. 212 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: It is. I I agree, And I've been working on 213 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 2: sleeping more and I feel like I've had good luck, 214 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: and part of it is because my bed is so comfortable. Nice. 215 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 2: But also when I had a huge crush on Daniel Radcliffe, 216 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 2: I remember reading an interview with him where he said 217 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 2: the one thing he'll splurge on it is a bed, 218 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 2: like a nice bed and nice sheets and nice pillows. 219 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 2: And I had such a big crush on him. I 220 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 2: was like sage advice. He changed your life and he 221 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 2: doesn't even know it as it should be. I won't 222 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 2: bother him again with a why not. 223 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 4: Listen, let me explain. 224 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm embarrassed. You know, you're obviously you're in 225 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 3: the middle of a thing with your lover or whoever, 226 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 3: not gay. 227 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 2: I'm an alcoholic alcoholic. 228 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: We were just waiting for him. You ever dated an attic? 229 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 2: Yes, not an alcoholic, but a drug addicts. And I 230 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 2: didn't know at the time, and I was too young 231 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 2: to deal with it, like I felt guilty and I 232 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 2: had to stay in it to help him, and I 233 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,719 Speaker 2: didn't know how to help him, so it wasn't a 234 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 2: good situation. But I mean, I very well could have 235 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 2: dated an alcoholic and not known it, but as far 236 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 2: as I know, I have not. 237 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: I definitely dated an alcoholic, and he was I think 238 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: like almost into a year, but his addictive part and 239 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: social worker here, So being a person who worked with 240 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: like addicts and stuff, I was like, oh, no, this 241 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: is not good. But yet I believed him. And then 242 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 1: I saw all the things. I was like, oh, this 243 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: is because also and we're gonna talk about this in 244 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: a bit, but like he also has a habit and 245 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,959 Speaker 1: an addict in being happy and in love. So it 246 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: was very obvious that kind of was like I was 247 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 1: a replacement for a little while until I got boring. 248 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: Yeah to him, well, to be fair, like he was 249 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: also recently out of a relationship, Like he was divorced 250 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: and like went through a really horrible divorce. But like 251 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: there's so many things, but like all of that is 252 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 1: part of the addictive personality of like, oh okay, okay, 253 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 1: you're just that person. 254 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 2: Mine was much more. He was using me to like 255 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 2: he needed something to distract him, and it wasn't like happiness, 256 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: it was just something. 257 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: Easy. God boy, how would you feel about a dude 258 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 1: nakedly jumping up and down on your bed? 259 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 2: Not great? Yeah, I'm afraid okay. 260 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: Like he would follow on you. 261 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, but also yeah, I'm not super into Yeah, that's fair. 262 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 2: There's a good Seinfeld quote about it, where like and 263 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 2: for everybody who's attracted to the male body, all for it, 264 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 2: but like the flopping about, I don't think I yeah. 265 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: Flopping about. The flopping about also for me, like, even 266 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: though I do I am attracted to men, I don't 267 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: necessarily think, like all the anatomy is great looking, I 268 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: don't want to see it necessarily. 269 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. The Seinfeld quote is like the man is like 270 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 2: a jeep, like it gets a job done. The woman 271 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 2: is like much more like sleeker. 272 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: And you can decide. So I'm taking a class in 273 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 1: class No. A tantric sex workshop. 274 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 2: I feel like this is one of the scenes I've seen. 275 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: I've seen one where they go to a sex workshop. 276 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: This, dude, you are correct, is coming up. 277 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 2: I have seen this one particular party. 278 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 1: There you go, the one that you talked about. I've 279 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: seen parts of it. 280 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 2: Yes, I do think that's there's nothing wrong with that. 281 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 2: The same as like, I. 282 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: Don't know if I would be prepared to see what 283 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 1: you're actual act, I'll be like, wait the way, what 284 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: is happened? 285 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 2: I mean go in with full knowledge of consent. And 286 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 2: also no one can touch you in a class. You 287 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 2: consent to it. But I think it's like every everything 288 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 2: happens is it should happen, nothing wrong with it. It's 289 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 2: like kind of like you know, you can read books 290 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 2: and look up online. 291 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: Yes it helps, it helps, you know. For a lot 292 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: of teenage girls, it happened to be like Cosmos and such. 293 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: They were really raunchy about how to please your man 294 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 1: and all, by the way, really bad advice. 295 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 2: That was very bad advice because it was very much 296 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 2: more about pleasing the man and nothing about like you 297 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 2: sack like slowly. 298 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 1: That came about about like you know how women. And 299 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: I think GQ may have a version of that for men, 300 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 1: h I think, But I feel like there were more 301 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 1: articles about like how to get a woman, not necessarily 302 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: how to please a woman, right, and this is all 303 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 1: very heteromormative speak. And I think that's all I saw though, unfortunately. 304 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean that's think the thing is that 305 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 2: it is implies that if you don't, he'll leave you. 306 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 2: That's like kind of the understanding I got head. 307 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 1: In the bedroom or else he'll go. 308 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 2: And it might be a thing you don't want to do, right, I. 309 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: Can't do this either. 310 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 3: Can I. 311 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:31,719 Speaker 1: Very awkward, but I we're just getting stuck, can't. I'm sorry, Sorry, 312 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 1: it's very pretty, but I feel like it's not like 313 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 1: men don't have like some sort of breath, right right, 314 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I know women are are like a like 315 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 1: a fatty are. 316 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 3: Suddenly Samantha wasn't feeling so good about herself in bed. 317 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 2: I mean, if they don't want to do it, don't 318 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 2: do it. But I get why she feels a little 319 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 2: bolder right. 320 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 1: At this point, like she's talked to herself and like 321 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 1: they talked her into it, but they said no, So 322 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: that is what it is. 323 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:04,159 Speaker 2: You move on. 324 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 1: Does she feel rejected? Sure, yes, but she was. 325 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:12,919 Speaker 2: I don't know how I'm supposed to guess that I 326 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: need to like expand my worldview. 327 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: You're correct, you would have never thought that came in 328 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: with it proposition sam mm hmmm. So I go, so 329 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:30,400 Speaker 1: I get it. 330 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 5: So, without further delay, let me introduce my husband, doctor 331 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 5: really Chapiro. I will demonstrate the very effective Lingham massage. 332 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:55,400 Speaker 2: Oh my god, the memories are coming back. 333 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 1: Are you having it? Yeah? I remember this very one 334 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 1: of the moose ridiculous and I would be upset by 335 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 1: the way. If I was Miranda with her, I would 336 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 1: be very clearly exposed. I like these some of these 337 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: women have a pencil and pad. Take your time. Absolutely not. 338 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 1: I would have been out if I if I was 339 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: not aware of what was like, if this was gonna happen, gone, 340 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: I'm not watching this, This is not this is too much. 341 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 2: I can't do it by I don't think i'd have 342 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 2: the courage to leave. 343 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 1: Un I'd be like I got oh, no, I got 344 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 1: a caphone, call my dog is sick, and I would 345 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 1: know right away you were like, I still run away, 346 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 1: coming with me? Let's go, No race. 347 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 5: Your right hand and the receiver's root route. The root 348 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 5: chakra is located between the amus and the genitals. 349 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: Well, I think that I just got my fifty bucks worth. 350 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,040 Speaker 2: So I feel like I saw this when I I 351 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 2: was like in high school. 352 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: Well then that would make more sense of like why 353 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: so memorable as a high schooler. 354 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,919 Speaker 2: But I think I thought like, oh god, I have 355 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 2: to go to classes. 356 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: Also, I feel like this much movement on the on 357 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 1: the dude, eventually it's gonna start like hurting him, maybe 358 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 1: just really bad at this. I'm telling you myself here. 359 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 2: And when she was talking about it too. I think 360 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 2: I was like, oh god, I didn't know what it 361 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 2: was like this. So I needed the classes. 362 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 5: Because Wenesday go trick. 363 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 1: They don't go fuck. 364 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 3: You go girl. 365 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 1: See, I just do people teach like this, Like are 366 00:20:53,680 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 1: they this hands on? Unintended? He's gonna I told you, 367 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:04,880 Speaker 1: And just. 368 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 3: Like that, Miranda got hit by old Faithful. 369 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,439 Speaker 1: Oh my god, what's funny? 370 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 2: Now? Well, I wonder if they had the Simon afore beforehand. 371 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: I would be pissed. 372 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would be too. 373 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:24,159 Speaker 1: Amid. 374 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 3: That night, after we talked Miranda in from the Ledge, 375 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 3: I met Patrick for a movie. 376 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 4: So I was telling my sponsor today how I felt 377 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 4: about you, and suddenly I realized the maybe I should 378 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 4: just tell you, Carrie, I love you. 379 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 3: There it was the little phrase every girl is dying 380 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 3: to here a week and a half into a relationship. 381 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: So wow, this to me, it's kind of what happened 382 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:54,199 Speaker 1: with the dude. Not this, not because I was so 383 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:56,160 Speaker 1: great and bet or whatever. It's just like he got 384 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 1: so caught up that he immediately wanted to be in 385 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,040 Speaker 1: love and I'm like, dude, we've only been dating for 386 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: four weeks and because or maybe he just wanted to 387 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:07,439 Speaker 1: feel loved, like he could pull me so but like 388 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, nah, I haven't told any man I love you. 389 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 1: I've only known you for four weeks and I really 390 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,959 Speaker 1: really really like you and I really enjoy this and 391 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 1: the feelings. But like it was so a nerving how quickly. 392 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: But he was an addict and I really feel like 393 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: he's that's the speed that he would go. 394 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think mine was kind of similar in that 395 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 2: I feel like, looking back, he was he needed to 396 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 2: have like this dramatic love like he was much It's 397 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 2: like the most argumentative relationship I've ever been in. Wow, 398 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 2: And I'm not an argumentative person, you know this, Yeah, 399 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 2: but he needed that like adrenaline of the fight and. 400 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: Oh wow, feel that. 401 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 2: Yeah he was. Yeah, it was not good. Not a 402 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 2: good relationship. 403 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: Mine needed an immediate validation of like being it makes sense, 404 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 1: like you know all these things. It's kind of interesting, 405 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:25,360 Speaker 1: all right there it is you get like, I don't know, 406 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: one out of four stars because you did get one 407 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 1: portion out of that, right because poor Charlotte. Everything else 408 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: kind of doesn't really. 409 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 2: Again, it's really funny to me that that's like one 410 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 2: of the three scenes I remember, yes, And I'm like, 411 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,399 Speaker 2: how could I predicted any of this? 412 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 1: I mean, you're right, You're right. There's no way you 413 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,959 Speaker 1: can predict almost anything, except for like when you slowly, 414 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,679 Speaker 1: especially when they're standalones like this, because you don't have 415 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: any like build up relationships. So when we start coming 416 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 1: into the main relationships for each one, I think it's 417 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 1: gonna be a little easier as it goes. Uh. And 418 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: that doesn't come to much later because you know, we 419 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 1: have to go through all their hot girl summer faces, 420 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: which for Sam is for a while longer, but she 421 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 1: gets caught up in that too, So we love we 422 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 1: love a good hot girl summer rem right. I feel 423 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 1: like that should be a new episode name for their 424 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 1: their programs. Anyway, Well, you know, the just like that 425 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: because now they're coming back into being single or being 426 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 1: you know, newly into because you know, one's a widower, 427 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 1: the ones a divorce a, the ones m I A. 428 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 1: But she's gonna come back round via maybe phone call 429 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: or maybe through the other players. We don't know, but 430 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 1: we know she broke up with the movie star. 431 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 2: Well I don't know that, Sam. 432 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:47,959 Speaker 1: Do you watch the movie? Didn't you? 433 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 434 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 1: Oh, they would watch. 435 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:53,200 Speaker 2: The movie I went to go see the happening. 436 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 1: You. 437 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 2: My friends were so mad at me. 438 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 1: It wasn't a bad It's fair. Well, now you've we've 439 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 1: gotten to this episode. We've talked about semantics. We've talked 440 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 1: about being a love addict, and I don't think we 441 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: talked about like love bombing and all that. He doesn't 442 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,879 Speaker 1: technically do that, but he kind of does that with 443 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 1: the overwhelming quickness of being in love. But I think 444 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 1: he truly felt that it wasn't necessarily manipulation here. We 445 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: didn't have Miranda doing many things except being stained. Yeah, 446 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 1: I would be pissed. 447 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 2: I would be too. 448 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 1: Someone knows me a refund. 449 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I bet there was some form they 450 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 2: had to sign. 451 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,239 Speaker 1: I would hope so, because that whole thing, like if 452 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 1: if you ambushed me, it was a class like that. Nah. 453 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 2: Have you ever gone to a class where you thought 454 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 2: you knew what it was and it was not at all? 455 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: Yes, But typically it's not because like some exhibit is happening. 456 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: It's more so like, oh, I thought we were going 457 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 1: to talk about something completely different type of thing, because 458 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 1: you know, when you have to do like seminars and 459 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,199 Speaker 1: like trainings and you sign up for classes and you 460 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 1: go buy the title and then you're like, oh, no, 461 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 1: this is not what I had signed up for. What 462 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 1: is this? 463 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? 464 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 1: Or like the people who came to our panel who 465 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,239 Speaker 1: was waiting for another panel and was not expecting our 466 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 1: panel and was really upset that it was our panel. 467 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:33,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, legit asked us about gatekeeping from like the white 468 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 2: male sides. 469 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: In which I responded with, yeah, men, definitely gatekeeper because 470 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 1: I mis understood this question. 471 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 2: Understand the question. 472 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:48,719 Speaker 1: And I win no regrets to that because I flipped 473 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: it and I didn't mean to, and he just kind 474 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 1: of stared at me, but other people are nodding. 475 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 2: He was saying we were gatekeepers. 476 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 1: Yes, and I didn't realize Yeah, I didn't realize it. 477 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 1: I really thought he was asking how to handle gatekeepers. Yeah, no, 478 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 1: and I thought he was talking yeah, And I'm like, 479 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 1: what are you talking about? We're not gatekeeping feminism. We 480 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 1: want you to be part of it. Come on, how 481 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 1: are we gatekeeping that? Please be part of this. It 482 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,919 Speaker 1: was a mess. I still hold to my answer because. 483 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 2: I did not know it was because after I. 484 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,879 Speaker 1: Came down, you were like, this is not what he 485 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:25,399 Speaker 1: was asking. 486 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 2: I was like but I liked it. I liked that 487 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:32,360 Speaker 2: you were just like, of course, Mander. 488 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 1: And we need to handle this and we need to 489 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:35,439 Speaker 1: talk about it. 490 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,439 Speaker 2: Bore. It was really funny. 491 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 1: He did not thought it was really like unintelligent. But 492 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: still I'm answer day. I feel like that should be 493 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: the answer when they asked silly questions like that, just 494 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: for me, like you don't understand it, and then answer 495 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: your own way to real make him think that, make 496 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 1: him know, no, that's not what's happening. This is what's 497 00:27:58,600 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 1: happening instead. 498 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I told you before. One of our coworkers 499 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:10,640 Speaker 2: his favorite comeback to like any kind of real, sexist, racist, 500 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,120 Speaker 2: whatever criticism, like not an actual criticism, but just something 501 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 2: that's really mean. Is I hope you have a better day? 502 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 2: Good look? 503 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 1: Play ignorant to those questions are my favorite way to go, 504 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 1: apparently because I do it really quickly and very easily. Anyway, 505 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 1: But yes, that was our episode of was it good 506 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 1: for so? Was it good for you? Any this episode. 507 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 2: It was good for me. I feel now I can't wait. 508 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 2: I'll get to the clown one and then I can 509 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 2: check off all the three scenes. 510 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 4: Ye. 511 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 1: Yes, that's gonna be a while from now, and that's 512 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 1: when we get to see Blair Underwood and I'm like, yes, 513 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 1: let me see more of him. Okay, just a preview 514 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: to that, but very good, very good. You did get 515 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: portions of your generic answer it was, it was okay, 516 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 1: So we're coming on episode seventeen. We're slowly pacing our 517 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 1: way through all of the episodes. This, by the way, 518 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,239 Speaker 1: was released in nineteen ninety nine, so they didn't make 519 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 1: a reference to it's gonna be two thousand. Get with 520 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 1: the Times. That was twenty three years ago. 521 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, that was not quite twenty talk about two K? 522 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 1: Why two K? Get with the times? Any get with 523 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 1: the times? Obviously. We hope that everybody is enjoying our 524 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: watch through and we'll continue to join us, and yes, 525 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: we will be emailing someone soon, yes to join us 526 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: for our season finale. It was just gonna come way 527 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: later from now. 528 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 2: Strange but yeah, that's h but we're working towards it. 529 00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 2: Got the names collected. We'll contact whoever it is soon. 530 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 2: But be excited. I have no idea what's gonna happen, 531 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 2: So it's really fun. 532 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 1: Be excited. We don't know what's gonna happen. 533 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 2: We don't. So if you've seen the show, you haven't 534 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 2: seen the show, you've got friends in us, so we 535 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 2: will be contacting whoever that is soon. It's gonna be fun. 536 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 2: We're gonna do this again because we have many episodes 537 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 2: of Sex and the City left, as we've said, and 538 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 2: we want to bring you on. So yes, you can 539 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 2: contact us at Stuff Media, moom stuff at iHeartMedia dot com. 540 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 2: You can find us on Twitter at mom Stuff podcast, 541 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 2: or on Instagram and TikTok at stuff I've Never Told You. 542 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 2: We're us on YouTube. We also have a tea public 543 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 2: store and we have a book that you can pre 544 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,479 Speaker 2: order at stuff you should read Books dot com, also 545 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 2: on Audible. 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