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Speaker 2: Good morning, hello, thank you for having me.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's our pleasure. Maybe I think, what's going on

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Speaker 3: with this dude, Dre?

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Speaker 1: Is it? Dray? What happened?

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Speaker 3: Tell us everything about any dates that you've been on,

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Speaker 3: and then what's going on right now?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: So you know, I met Drey and we went out

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Speaker 2: and I had a great time. I thought it was cool.

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Speaker 2: You know, he took me out to eat, it was

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Speaker 2: it was it was chill, it was cool. Reviving and

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Speaker 2: he hasn't really responded, okay back at all. So I'm

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Speaker 2: just kind of wondering why. I'm not really sure you

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Speaker 2: know what's going on or what you know, what happened.

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Speaker 2: I hope he's okay.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So this date was you know, again, I always

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Speaker 3: ask this. People don't always seem to have awareness to

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Speaker 3: answer properly. But you thought the date went well? I mean,

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Speaker 3: it was good conversation, it was good chemistry. I mean,

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Speaker 3: you really walked away from this experience thinking I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: hear from this guy again. We're gonna go out again.

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Speaker 3: You're confused, you're perplexed.

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Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, I thought we were. I thought it was cool.

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Speaker 3: Okay, right, well, let's see if we can get Dre

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Speaker 3: on the phone. You'll be on the phone as well.

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Speaker 3: I don't want you to say anything right at first,

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Speaker 3: but you're welcome to jump in at some point, and

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Speaker 3: hopefully we can get answers for you and straighten things out,

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Speaker 3: perhaps and set you guys up on a second date

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Speaker 3: that we pay for. Does that sound good?

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Speaker 1: That sounds great?

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Speaker 3: All right, hang on one Second're gonna play one song

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Speaker 3: and then we'll come back and do it. Let's find

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Speaker 3: out what's going on. Part two of waiting by the

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Speaker 3: phone after Billy Eilish back in two minutes. Stay here,

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Speaker 3: Billy eilishh it's the Fred Show. Hey, Marissa, welcome back.

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Speaker 3: Let's call Dre. You guys, you went on a date.

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Speaker 3: You thought everything went well. You met on the dating apps,

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Speaker 3: you thought this date was good, good chemistry, all that

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Speaker 3: stuff you expected to hear from Dre again, Except he's

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Speaker 3: not calling you, he's not responded to you. You feel

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Speaker 3: like you've been ghosted, and you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: You're right on the money.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's call Dre right now. Good luck?

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Speaker 3: Marissa? Hello, Hi is this Drey? Yes, hey Dre, good morning.

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Speaker 3: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show

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Speaker 3: and I have to ask you if it's okay if

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Speaker 1: Do I have your permission for that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Well? Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you've heard this before, maybe not, but it's called

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Speaker 3: waiting about the phone. We're actually calling on behalf of

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Speaker 3: a woman who says she met you on the dating

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Speaker 3: apps you guys went out recently. Her name is Marissa.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember Marissa?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I remember Marissa.

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Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna flat out say I do

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Speaker 1: Okay, you remember Marissa.

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Speaker 3: Well, she called us and told us that she liked

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Speaker 1: Man? Listen, She's the girl took advantage of me, straight up,

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Speaker 1: girl took advantage of me. I took her out to this.

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Speaker 1: I think her hat to this nice place, right, I

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Speaker 1: We were reviving for a minute.

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Speaker 2: It was very nice. You know.

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Speaker 2: She ordered three plates.

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Speaker 1: She ordered three main courses. Three main course, the wake

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Speaker 1: She ordered that. She had lobster. She said lobster, and

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Speaker 2: Played also because he had some vegetable woman.

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Speaker 3: She got meats man, she got a chicken wago, she

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Speaker 1: What else did she do? He's the other porter's crazy.

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Speaker 1: She didn't need even finish it. She didn't need She

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah? How much did that? How much was all that?

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Speaker 3: A few hunder bucks?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, a few hundred. I dropped like seven hundreds

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Speaker 2: Lesson If you're inviting me to a restaurant, I feel

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Speaker 2: that are on the.

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Speaker 1: Menu, and the whole menu, everything on the menu, you

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Speaker 3: I mean it's you go to an expensive you go

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Speaker 3: maybe I don't know, maybe appetizer, maybe deserve whatever, But

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Speaker 3: I mean, three main courses, seven hundred dollars on a

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Speaker 1: On, that's not a good look.

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Speaker 2: I need to If he wanted, we could have split

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Speaker 2: the check.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know it was a big deal.

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is how I needs to going out.

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Speaker 3: Like we go, we.

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Speaker 2: Get everything, and we try everything.

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Speaker 1: You try everything. Please, it's not a big deal. You

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Speaker 3: I mean you can do whatever you want, Marissa, but

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I get where you guys are coming from.

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Speaker 2: It's just like I feel like if you're taking me

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Speaker 1: Like that can be ready to or main courses order

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Speaker 2: It's a party investment. I am worth investment.

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Speaker 4: I'm not mad at this though, and the only way okay, well,

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Speaker 4: the only reason I'm I'm mad at it is because

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Speaker 4: I was ever be single again, I want I don't

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Speaker 4: if you're if you really are committed to this.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So on a first date, you're going to test me

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Speaker 3: and make me spend four hundred dollars on main courses

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Speaker 3: for you? What does that actually say?

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Speaker 4: I would at least offer us with the bill, so

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Speaker 4: I'm not like her.

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Speaker 1: But you don't mean that. But you don't mean it.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean it. Don't say you don't judge him

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Speaker 1: if he actually just slipped the bill.

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Speaker 3: But like this all the time, says like is this

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Speaker 3: what you usually eat?

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Speaker 1: This is how I usually do it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we go to line my girlfriends.

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Speaker 3: Here, I offer I mean word for you to tastings.

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Speaker 2: And you didn't want to.

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Speaker 1: I thought.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know by myself.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no no, I could have ordered the sample play.

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Speaker 1: It could have been cheap. It makes no sense. Damn Well,

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Speaker 1: normally I don't go broke guys.

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Speaker 3: You know, yeah broke?

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I mean it sounds like.

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Speaker 2: You you that's that's that's very cute.

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Speaker 1: I tell you what, you will not go out with broke.

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Speaker 1: Do it again? Who's got lots of money to take

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Speaker 1: care of this stuff.

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Speaker 3: He wasn't broke until he went. Now he's broke, okay,

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Speaker 3: so I don't dre no chance at another date. I

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Speaker 3: don't even have to ask.

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Speaker 1: Oh I love you, guys, No, Marissa, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I gotta.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's one thing to expect a certain level

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Speaker 3: of treatment and respect. I'm all for that, but I

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Speaker 3: don't know that if you were by yourself, you would

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Speaker 3: have ordered, you know, several hundred dollars worth of food

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Speaker 3: by yourself, for yourself, of.

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Speaker 2: Course, not for myself. We were supposed to be sharing.

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Speaker 2: But when I go out with my girlfriends, I do.

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Speaker 1: We order a lot of food and I pick up

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Speaker 1: to check, no problem, and I don't complain about it

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Speaker 1: or ghost anybody. Oh great, yeah, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, Well dra still making payments on that, so I

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Speaker 3: don't think he's interested. But guys, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 3: Best of luck to both of you. The Entertainer Report

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Speaker 3: and three hundred and fifty bucks for showpiece Shelley. You

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