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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Hendie,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Good morning today. How's it going great?

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Speaker 1: Everything is good. Thank you for asking. We're all in

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Speaker 1: great mood, happy to be here. What's going on with

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Speaker 1: this woman? Anya? We need to know how you guys met,

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Speaker 1: About any dates that you've been on, any conversations you've had,

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Speaker 1: and then what's going on now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well we met on Hinge and we I mean

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Speaker 2: we headed off right away. Really, she gave me her

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Speaker 2: numbers before I even have to ask. She was like,

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Speaker 2: you know, we would stick into it.

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Speaker 3: It was a kind of quick click.

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Speaker 1: So that's a good sign, by the way, because you

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Speaker 1: can keep the messaging going forever, and it's an easy

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Speaker 1: way for someone to just kind of disappear and goes me.

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Speaker 1: But once they have, once somebody gives you her number

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Speaker 1: or his number, now we're talking like, you know, this

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Speaker 1: is real communication.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's what I thought too, because you know, I've

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Speaker 2: been there where you just kind of talk forever on

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Speaker 2: the app and then a just stage away. But now

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Speaker 2: we switched the texting pretty quick.

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Speaker 3: A burner phone, they could have a burner phone.

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Speaker 1: A bad idea, actually a dating app, burner phone, you

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Speaker 1: know where, like you just give them that number and

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Speaker 1: it's not your real actual number. But then when you

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Speaker 1: carry around two phones everywhere that I think people might

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Speaker 1: be skeptical.

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Speaker 3: That's a sidebar. So you got her number.

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Speaker 2: Actually, maybe maybe that's what happened, because I haven't heard

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Speaker 2: from her, so maybe she did have a burn her phone.

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Speaker 2: Now listen, we it seemed to be going great. We're texting,

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Speaker 2: we exchanged socials, Instagram and stuff, and then finally we

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Speaker 2: did make.

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Speaker 3: A plan to go on a date.

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Speaker 2: The date comes and nothing, so we planned a couple

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Speaker 2: of days in advance, and on Friday night, she just

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Speaker 2: didn't respond any text. She was just completely silent. So

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Speaker 2: the date never happened. And I have no idea why

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Speaker 2: she just she just ghosted me. I was feeling super bombed.

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Speaker 2: She never I don't know, she didn't give me a

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Speaker 2: chance at all. She just just stopped talking. And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: maybe maybe she met someone else or something, but really

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Speaker 2: she could have just told me that, and she just

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Speaker 2: she just gave me nothing. And I have no idea

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Speaker 2: what happened.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you kind of had loose plans, but you know,

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Speaker 1: the idea was that you would be going out on

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Speaker 1: this on this Friday night, and then it just comes

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Speaker 1: and goes and you reached out like you attempted to

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Speaker 1: kind of circle back, but nothing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like, how Steven work for you?

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Speaker 3: Do you want to go here? Nothing?

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Speaker 2: I sent three texts and I was like, all right,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to look crazy, but something's up.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Anya. You'll be on the phone. We'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can get her on the phone. We'll ask

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Speaker 1: some questions. Don't say anything right at first, but at

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Speaker 1: some point you're welcome to jump in on the call

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Speaker 1: and hopefully we can figure out what's going on and

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Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, sounds good, Thanks so much.

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Speaker 1: You got I'm gonna play one song and then we'll

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Speaker 1: come back and do it. All right, Let's find out

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Speaker 1: what's going on? Part two of waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 3: Eddie, Hey, how's it going? Hey?

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Speaker 1: Welcome back? Still going great? I still feel like that's

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Speaker 1: still in a good mood. Everyone's still happy to be Yah.

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Speaker 2: I go to I just always asking people how they are.

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Speaker 1: Get Hey, we're good. We're good. Let's call Anya and

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Speaker 1: figure out what's going on. You guys, you met on

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Speaker 1: a dating app on Hinge. You messaged and you started texting.

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Speaker 1: You had loose plans, plans come and go, and now

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Speaker 1: she's ghosting and you want to know why?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, something, I just I have no idea what happened.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna call her right now. Good luck?

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Speaker 2: Thanks?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Hi is this Anya? Hey? Good morning?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, friend from the Friend Show, the whole crew is here.

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Speaker 1: I know this is kind of weird. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: picking up a number that you don't know. But we're

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Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a guy. Now, first I have

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Speaker 1: to ask you if it's okay if we talk on

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Speaker 1: the air. Can we talk on the air for a second. Sure,

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Speaker 1: it's kind of ridiculous, I know, but thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a dude who reached out

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Speaker 1: to us. His name is Eddie. You met him on

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Speaker 1: a hinge. I guess you texted a little bit, maybe

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Speaker 1: had some plans and it never happened with Eddie?

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, okay, yeah, uh huh, so that's true.

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Speaker 3: So you know what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 4: I do, Yeah, I do?

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, what happened because he reached out to

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Speaker 1: us and described what he thought was like a good

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Speaker 1: progression that you matched, and then chatted and texted, and

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Speaker 1: then you had some plans and apparently when he kind

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Speaker 1: of tried to follow through on those plans, you disappeared

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Speaker 1: and he hasn't heard from you since.

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Speaker 3: So why why is that?

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Speaker 4: Okay, sure, I'll get into it. Okay, So everything seems enormal,

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Speaker 4: uh for a while. But at one point while we

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Speaker 4: were you know, flirting, the like exchange you know, insta handle,

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Speaker 4: and I thinks it's got weird.

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Speaker 3: After that, why did they get weird?

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Speaker 4: Started sending me like a lot a lot, a lot

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Speaker 4: a lot of memes.

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Speaker 2: Which I like memes.

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Speaker 4: That's not the weird part. It was just like it

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Speaker 4: was the content of them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So he's start supporting you in like in the

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Speaker 1: d MS weird memes.

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Speaker 3: What what did they say?

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Speaker 4: Uh? Of course, yeah, hold on, I think I have

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Speaker 4: let me just.

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Speaker 3: Pull you can pull them up for us. Oh this

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Speaker 3: is wonderful.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we've got some receipts. Uh.

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Speaker 3: So okay.

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Speaker 2: So some of them.

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Speaker 4: Are about like true love, oh homemade. And I was like, okay, dude,

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Speaker 4: that's cute, but that's way too soon. Yeah, way too soon. Uh.

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Speaker 4: And he was got into sending me these really sexual means.

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Speaker 4: And it's not that I'm even prude like I you know,

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Speaker 4: I obviously would like that to be a part of

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Speaker 4: my intimate relationship, but these were really weird ones.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, can you give us an example of one

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Speaker 1: of the sexual ones please?

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Speaker 3: I just I have to know, Okay.

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Speaker 4: So okay, Oh, here's one to me when the airport

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Speaker 4: security finds the metal butt plug in my ass?

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Speaker 3: Wait, wait, give us something? Do you have any more?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so here's here's an Oh, here's a good one. Okay.

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Speaker 4: So it's a girl like a cartoon woman, and she's

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Speaker 4: texting and it's just why do you bring me to

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Speaker 4: the beach every day? And in a thought bubble above

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Speaker 4: the boy cartoon, it says, desperately trying to get stung

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Speaker 4: by a jellyfish, so she'll test.

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Speaker 3: On me true love soulmates and.

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Speaker 1: Let me bring Eddie. And I forgot to mention that

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Speaker 1: Eddie is here. Eddie, I mean, don't you think that

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Speaker 1: some of this content would be a little better suited

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Speaker 1: for someone who knew you a little better and got

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Speaker 1: your sense of humor?

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Speaker 3: I mean she's never met you.

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Speaker 2: I mean not really funny funny.

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Speaker 3: I feel like they're funny really I love.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I mean you're all laughing, right, but we're

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Speaker 1: also not trying to go out with you or like

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Speaker 1: interested in being in a relationship with you. And I

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Speaker 1: guess if you're this comfortable with jokes like that and

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Speaker 1: we've never met, then I mean what, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: It's like people they don't get it means I'm open minded,

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm you know, it's hard to offend me. It's

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Speaker 2: I think it's a good thing.

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Speaker 1: Well, and in fairness, I'm kind of with you on

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Speaker 1: that in some regard, because you know, if if if

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Speaker 1: that's your sense of humor and somebody can't handle it,

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Speaker 1: then it's probably or that you know, you don't hang

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Speaker 1: out anyway. However, sometimes it takes it, you know, a

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Speaker 1: few days to get to know someone develop interest in them,

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Speaker 1: to then determine that Okay, they got kind of a

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Speaker 3: I can deal with that. She doesn't even know you,

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Speaker 3: she has no context.

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Speaker 2: But like, why beat her on the bush? You know

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Speaker 2: what I mean? Just show her who I am right away.

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Speaker 1: But it does come off kind of pervy too, which

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Speaker 1: is the risk you take. And I assume it. Anya,

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Speaker 1: that was sort of your angle. Was this dude's a weirdo?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? To say the lead not charmed. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Look, he's saying that it's just his sense of humor

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Speaker 1: and he thought he was being funny. Maybe he can

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Speaker 1: tone it back a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, I would never tone it back.

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Speaker 1: Would you consider actually meeting him once and seeing if

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Speaker 1: maybe you know he's for you in person?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: All right, well that's a shame. So we don't have

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Speaker 1: a love match here, Eddie. I'm sorry it's not going

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Speaker 1: to work out.

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Speaker 2: I'll find someone who gets my sense of humor.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well maybe so, And I hope that for you

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Speaker 1: and Anya, thank you for your time. Best to luck

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