Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I
Speaker 1: Heart Radio Podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. We
Speaker 1: are back in the stude feeling hunted. P Hundo, P
Speaker 1: you're filling und. I mean I wouldn't go as far
Speaker 1: as a hundred, but I think just because of all
Speaker 1: the stuff I have inside me now between the antibiotic
Speaker 1: my steroid and hailer feeling a little bogged down on medication.
Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm on the open up. We're
Speaker 1: on the up and up. We're on the open up,
Speaker 1: and that's all that matters. I is this what I
Speaker 1: have somehow dodged every dodged it from everyone near me,
Speaker 1: and I am knocking on wood hard because I don't
Speaker 1: know how I did it. And I genuinely feel like
Speaker 1: my immune system has been weekend because I've been like
Speaker 1: going NonStop. I mean it is early in the month,
Speaker 1: so you still sometimes you are right, I I but
Speaker 1: like part of me has that feeling of like I
Speaker 1: just want to get it and get it over with
Speaker 1: because I'm like, you know, you know, there's so many
Speaker 1: different things going around that it's like, well, I feel
Speaker 1: like you and Haley definitely had the same thing. You'll
Speaker 1: have like the exact same symptoms, the same length of time.
Speaker 1: She still will have like a cough attack that's been
Speaker 1: this is like week three. No, well, ever since I
Speaker 1: started the steroid in Hailer, my cough has been at Bay. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I would say. Hers is that it's at
Speaker 1: Bay too. But she also she tore I can't remember
Speaker 1: if it was like a tenant or a ligament in
Speaker 1: her foot. I think she said ligament. Yeah, so she's
Speaker 1: in like a walking boot. Yeah she's not. She's always
Speaker 1: got something. It's not not living her best life right now.
Speaker 1: But not say she's right. No. But we did have
Speaker 1: a really fun weekend. Oh my god. I mean, so
Speaker 1: many festivities, so many festivities out in the cold. What
Speaker 1: I was feeling very chilly this weekend. It was chilli, yeah,
Speaker 1: but we were intoor jingle ball Yeah but still okay.
Speaker 1: But I will say it was very rainy and cozy
Speaker 1: in l A this weekend, and we had jingle Ball,
Speaker 1: which I had the best I can't even explain to you.
Speaker 1: Becca looked like a little girl on Christmas morning, like
Speaker 1: it was like she was experiencing a concert for the
Speaker 1: very first time. It was like cute but also strange,
Speaker 1: Like I was like, what's happening here? You know, I
Speaker 1: can't explain it to you. I because we I have
Speaker 1: been you know, coming to my heart events and festivals
Speaker 1: for a long time. And to be honest, like I
Speaker 1: kind of last year, I remember thinking I kind of
Speaker 1: feel jaded because like we get to we talked about
Speaker 1: this all the time, like we get to do so
Speaker 1: many cool things that you just forget how cool they are.
Speaker 1: I really embraced jingle Ball this year, like I just
Speaker 1: I stayed almost all time. I left like like twenty minutes,
Speaker 1: not even But you know what, I would like mark
Speaker 1: two guests on this one. So out of all the
Speaker 1: artists there, so you don't have like the Shakira John
Speaker 1: Mayer fan club, Becca now has that with two of
Speaker 1: the artists that were at jingle Ball. Can you guess
Speaker 1: which to that? She used, completely fan girling out over.
Speaker 1: I'm wanna say, duelipa, Okay, have to get I don't
Speaker 1: get any confirmation. You have to guess the two and
Speaker 1: then I will reveal m hm hm and wrong and
Speaker 1: wrong again. Honestly, couldn't be more of the wrong. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So Becca wants to start the Louis Capaldi and pit
Speaker 1: Bull fan cum unexpected twist sent Synergy Club, Yes, Musical
Speaker 1: Synergy Sergy Club. Yeah, here's the thing. Pit Bull has
Speaker 1: always kind of been like like he had good songs,
Speaker 1: but it was always kind of like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: a joke to like him or something. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's like we would always joke about like Pitbull, you know,
Speaker 1: because he's very like Miami club and like the songs
Speaker 1: are very much that like vibe. So if you're not
Speaker 1: really into that type of music, then you're just kinda
Speaker 1: like it's whatever. It's Miami club music, y'all. The crowd
Speaker 1: so much fun that I'm like, I want to go
Speaker 1: to like a pit Bowl concerts at start in Miami
Speaker 1: to see Mr. Three oh five, Mr. World War five.
Speaker 1: I think there's a reason he's on most I Heart
Speaker 1: shows because he just brings it every single time. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I can't even explain, like it felt like we the
Speaker 1: energy turned up to like level one, and I don't
Speaker 1: think anyone in our group was. Well maybe Paulina because
Speaker 1: she said she is a fan. She has a three
Speaker 1: oh five area coach respect respect um. But our whole row,
Speaker 1: Like Dean Kaylin, we were all everybody was shook at
Speaker 1: how much fun they had during People. It was so
Speaker 1: when he played Timber, I mean, oh my god, all
Speaker 1: of his songs are that good and it just doesn't stop,
Speaker 1: and you know what's funny. So we actually introduced people, me,
Speaker 1: Ryan and Sissney. So we were backstage while they were
Speaker 1: like getting ready, and his backup dancers are like fully
Speaker 1: doing push ups like before they go out. I'm like,
Speaker 1: they are they got to build up their stamina for
Speaker 1: that because it is like NonStop. I have to say
Speaker 1: the dancers deserve a lout of credit because they're energy
Speaker 1: to like it was just the whole thing. Yeah. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm going to start a fan
Speaker 1: club for Louis Capaldi and Pitbull, but let me just
Speaker 1: say I left they're going when Louis Capaldi comes to
Speaker 1: l A, we will be going to that show and
Speaker 1: we are going to plan a trip to Miami to
Speaker 1: go see Mr. Three oh five here, don't stop the party.
Speaker 1: What the what are those hometel room service? You got
Speaker 1: the hotel? Okay, I never know what it's called. That
Speaker 1: Fireball Timber time of our lives and give me everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: come on, Yeah, it's hit after hit. It's called like
Speaker 1: the smoke shoots up Oak shooters. The smoke shooters went
Speaker 1: up and it was just like the whole crowd was
Speaker 1: like jumping and it was fun. It was like a
Speaker 1: big party. Yeah. But I will say my feet the
Speaker 1: next day because I had literally brought a whole change
Speaker 1: of clothes because my broken toes, like my my feet
Speaker 1: are not gonna last in these light heels where they're smushed,
Speaker 1: and I made it. Admit to the end. I have
Speaker 1: to tell you me. Two people ask me about my heels,
Speaker 1: like how do you because I got to the venue
Speaker 1: at noon on Friday, so I was in the heels
Speaker 1: from noon until we left it close to midnight. So
Speaker 1: if I was in the Bad Boys for twelve hours,
Speaker 1: if you have, I don't know how much they are.
Speaker 1: They're not like cheap, but they are these Stewart Whitesman heels.
Speaker 1: They're like the little slingbacks. I have them in black
Speaker 1: and I have them in tan, and I wear them
Speaker 1: to every event because they are so comfortable. I can
Speaker 1: just walk all day in those things. And they're high heels.
Speaker 1: You should do a little linky. Yeah, I should link them.
Speaker 1: Thank you for and these Jeffrey Campbell shoes that I
Speaker 1: wore to Wingo so comfortable. I feel like I could
Speaker 1: have romped around in those for weeks. Isn't that that
Speaker 1: that you those silver sleep but at one go you
Speaker 1: have a little golf cart situation. Yeah, jingle balls, I'll walk,
Speaker 1: I'll walk, and a lot of back and forth a
Speaker 1: lot and for a lot of sitting. I did get
Speaker 1: to sit quite some some sits. Yeah, yeah, it was
Speaker 1: really fun. Yeah. So then Friday night was amazing, amazing,
Speaker 1: And actually I got so many d m s because
Speaker 1: Beck and Paulina were sitting next to each other and
Speaker 1: they were like, oh, you're too dual bridesmaids battling it
Speaker 1: out for who's guys made sorry? Sorry? Made of honors? Dueling?
Speaker 1: Made of honors? Did Mike, Who's going to make the
Speaker 1: cut or whatever? It was so funny how many damns
Speaker 1: I got about that, the two of you being together. Well,
Speaker 1: we talked about it, you did. Paulina and I talked
Speaker 1: about it when she had heard the podcast. What did
Speaker 1: she What did you guys talk about relinquished control? I said,
Speaker 1: you don't get to decide. Yeah, but I said, there's
Speaker 1: no bad blood. I think that for Tony's personality and
Speaker 1: how she is particular, I think it'll be better if
Speaker 1: if you take the reins, if she happens to, you know,
Speaker 1: make that decision. Wow wow wow. Yeah. So I will
Speaker 1: say she came and clutched for me at jingle Ball
Speaker 1: because I ordered my dress for jingle All and it
Speaker 1: came in on Thursday. I tried it on. The girth
Speaker 1: it took, and the muscle it took. Robbie to zip
Speaker 1: me in. That was honestly like he was like whole
Speaker 1: Colgan trying to like he got me in this. He
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, baby, but fits. And I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: to be in this for twelve hours, you think I'm
Speaker 1: gonna like romp around the forum with like a I
Speaker 1: can barely breathe in this thing, Like there's no way. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So that was a sad moment. So I started my
Speaker 1: workout routine again today. But that's the size of the point.
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh my gosh, it's tomorrow. I
Speaker 1: have to figure something out. So Pauline it came over
Speaker 1: with like a bunch of options for me and really
Speaker 1: saved the day. Well, that's good to know. I will
Speaker 1: make sure that I have a backup wedding dress on
Speaker 1: in case the day comes and it's yeah, not zipping
Speaker 1: all the way. Yeah, I was alarming because I that
Speaker 1: was like my size, and so I was like, but
Speaker 1: you know, everything runs differently. I don't even get if
Speaker 1: something that fit me. I'm like, but the brand already small.
Speaker 1: But I already I know the size dress because I
Speaker 1: have a dressed from this. I don't have a ton
Speaker 1: of dresses that are just like fit differently. It was
Speaker 1: really well. I had tried mine on the day before
Speaker 1: and Haley I was like having to hold it close.
Speaker 1: Haley was having a zippen. And then when I was
Speaker 1: getting ready for jingle Balls by myself and I was like,
Speaker 1: what the heck come? I mean having to go up
Speaker 1: in my high rise pantyhose and get someone to I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say, do you know how many Uber drivers have
Speaker 1: zipped me into dresses in my day? Yeah? What is
Speaker 1: a single girl gonna do when she's like romping around town?
Speaker 1: Is romped? The word of the podcast has been used
Speaker 1: three or four times so far. We are what ten? Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of Uber drivers has zipped me in Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, that's so vulnerable, and I applaud you for
Speaker 1: having just the uh confidence, the girth, No, the girth, yeah,
Speaker 1: no that's not right, the just like, yeah, the confidence
Speaker 1: to be like, hey don't have I need a third hand.
Speaker 1: Girls gotta do what a girls gotta do. I applied that. Um.
Speaker 1: So I did get rejected a couple of times, but yeah,
Speaker 1: well that makes sense to me, Like legally, no, this
Speaker 1: hr in our contract. I can't touch you. Yeah, this
Speaker 1: is absolutely not allowed. So so yeah, that was jingle
Speaker 1: Ball was a blast. Um. And then Saturday we had
Speaker 1: our holiday party. We missed you Mark, Yeah you were
Speaker 1: missing East still wasn't here, but he's not here right
Speaker 1: now either, so you would have loved it. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. Yeah. So it was like the holiday party
Speaker 1: for the podcasts. It was so lovely, like the vibe,
Speaker 1: the energy, it was immaculate, Like I wouldn't have wanted
Speaker 1: anything better or more perfect. Yeah, my my wife and
Speaker 1: had one daughter were down in Anaheim for a chorus thing,
Speaker 1: so I was had my other daughter. We had lovely
Speaker 1: weekend together. I wouldn't have changed the thing. Well, you
Speaker 1: could have come to no, she probably would have loved.
Speaker 1: She probably loved. I don't know about that. You're literally
Speaker 1: on the ocean, like the oceans right there, we're outside,
Speaker 1: there were heaters. They just kept bringing out food. It
Speaker 1: was like everybody was in a great move and like
Speaker 1: celebratory and like, I don't know. It was very really
Speaker 1: really nice. And then like, um, there's a lot of
Speaker 1: hidden gluten and sushi. I didn't know if you know that,
Speaker 1: but I asked this waiter. I was like, hey, I'm
Speaker 1: gluten free. If you can just let me know like
Speaker 1: what I can eat, I'm gonna be sitting at this table.
Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, no problem, I got you.
Speaker 1: He was so above and beyond kind. He like brought
Speaker 1: out like personal little platters of everything that didn't have
Speaker 1: the sauce on it for me, so it was gluten
Speaker 1: free and like Haley garlic or onion, So he customized
Speaker 1: hers with no garlic and onion and Tanya's with no
Speaker 1: gluten every single dish. Yeah, And so I called. I
Speaker 1: called the restaurant yesterday and just wanted to talk to
Speaker 1: the manager to like explain how nice. And that made
Speaker 1: me feel really cared for. And I always feel like
Speaker 1: such an asshole, being like I'm gluten free. I need
Speaker 1: you know, I need extra good for you though for
Speaker 1: calling the restaurant, yeah that like nobody ever leaves good
Speaker 1: YELP reviews on there, but I never think to do
Speaker 1: that when it was amazing. You only go on there
Speaker 1: when you're angry, correct, But that's great for you. That's
Speaker 1: a that's above and beyond to call the restaurant. And
Speaker 1: I was like, his name was Elias. He was so
Speaker 1: like and it was funny because they were like, our
Speaker 1: managers really busy right now, cand of just take a message,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I really want to talk to
Speaker 1: the manager. But then I was like I don't want
Speaker 1: to be annoying, so I was like, okay, make sure
Speaker 1: can you write this down? His name was Alias, and
Speaker 1: he was really great. He should get a raised Like.
Speaker 1: I was just like, no, he really And I mean
Speaker 1: I going to eat with Haley all the time and
Speaker 1: knowing how complicated, like even having to talk to the
Speaker 1: waiters like a very stressful experience. To have someone who's like,
Speaker 1: you're fine, I I got you. It was really really
Speaker 1: above him. It's got to be so hard to be
Speaker 1: a waiter these days with all of the different restrictions,
Speaker 1: especially in Los Angeles. It's got to be a challenge
Speaker 1: for these people. No, I feel like LA is probably
Speaker 1: easiest because so many people haven't right. If you're like
Speaker 1: where I grew up, they're like, you're not in the
Speaker 1: right spot, right. So, yeah, what a great vibe. It
Speaker 1: was really really nice, and he goes, I knew it
Speaker 1: was gonna be fun, but I really had the best time.
Speaker 1: I had the same feeling I had. And Robbie actually
Speaker 1: wasn't going to calm because we had the kids this
Speaker 1: weekend and so he didn't like to leave them. But
Speaker 1: he was like, you know, I really want to be
Speaker 1: there with you, and I think it's going to be
Speaker 1: a special night. And I was like, how did you know? Like,
Speaker 1: how did you know it's gonna be so special? Had
Speaker 1: to feel he had a feeling, always has a feeling. Yeah, well, yesterday,
Speaker 1: I in my mind I was thinking, you know, I
Speaker 1: knew I had all these things. I was going to rest.
Speaker 1: But then um Betty who invited us to her It
Speaker 1: was like her album released party, celebrating her album Big,
Speaker 1: and they did like a softball game and it was
Speaker 1: in Malibu and it was like raining. The whole time.
Speaker 1: But it was so much fun. But I have to
Speaker 1: say even something just like for fun and like, you know,
Speaker 1: not taken seriously. I hustled like I was playing in
Speaker 1: like the state championship. You're competitive. So sore today, like
Speaker 1: muscles that I have not used since two thousand and ten. Wow. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's a long time twelve years. It's a long time.
Speaker 1: They've been in retirement for a long hiatus. An we lost,
Speaker 1: but you know it was we all. I'm proud of
Speaker 1: you for getting down the rain. I did literally nothing yesterday.
Speaker 1: I mean I did, like, yeah, nothing. I watched Home
Speaker 1: Alone one Home Alone to the night before Christmas and
Speaker 1: Fear Factor and then Random because no it was old
Speaker 1: because we were talking about it at our dinner on
Speaker 1: Saturday night and I was like, oh, that might be
Speaker 1: a fun show that the kids might like because they
Speaker 1: like that kind of stuff. So that's why we threw
Speaker 1: it in the mix. And it was actually really entertaining. Um.
Speaker 1: But and then we had like a we like cooked
Speaker 1: a family dinner. Paulina came over. We made cookies, gluten
Speaker 1: free cookies. So it was like a very indoor activity Sunday.
Speaker 1: But I needed it. It was very It was a
Speaker 1: very cozy day, and to be honest, I had a
Speaker 1: blast within. Like once we got home, Hailey was the
Speaker 1: coach of our team because you know, she's in her boots,
Speaker 1: so she just was coaching and she had a great
Speaker 1: time coaching. And then we got home and I was like,
Speaker 1: I got a shower and I'm not moving from the couch.
Speaker 1: But she has been watching Wednesday. Oh my gosh, I
Speaker 1: binge that I finished top to bottom. Well, I kind
Speaker 1: of would like check. I was just kind of sitting
Speaker 1: there while watching it. It was a little scary for me,
Speaker 1: to be honest. The monster scared me a little bit.
Speaker 1: He popped out like he would just I don't think so.
Speaker 1: You know, I watched it with a ten year old,
Speaker 1: so yeah, it's definitely like a kid friendly, but it
Speaker 1: had some spooky part so I just kind of would
Speaker 1: check out when I needed to um. And I think
Speaker 1: she finished it. Did it end on like a cliffhanger? No? Oh,
Speaker 1: maybe she was another episode. And then we watched White Lotus,
Speaker 1: which I paid attention to. I think I kind of
Speaker 1: know what's going on in that show too. We're gonna
Speaker 1: start We're gonna start White Lotus Tonight White Lotus too.
Speaker 1: I finished Wednesday and I was obsessed with it. I
Speaker 1: like loved that show. Great. Um, and then there was
Speaker 1: something else that I wanted to tell you too. Well,
Speaker 1: I think it's time for a break. So think on
Speaker 1: that and we'll be back with your thoughts. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I remember it now, Okay, great, we'll be right back.
Speaker 1: Do you remember what you were going to be talking about?
Speaker 1: I remember now, okay. So, um, come January, Come the
Speaker 1: new Year, Come jan John one, John John One. I
Speaker 1: really want to be like my best Tanya, like my
Speaker 1: best self, and I've let my best Tanya romp around
Speaker 1: a little bit. She's wrong been, she hasn't been like
Speaker 1: on her game, you know, really paying attention to the
Speaker 1: small things in my life. But she's coming back in.
Speaker 1: So I'm going to create like a little like um,
Speaker 1: not like a challenge, but like a January thing, like uh,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know what it's going to
Speaker 1: be called, but like a January thing where we all
Speaker 1: I'm going to tailor two things that make me feel
Speaker 1: my best and so I'm gonna start making that. Now,
Speaker 1: what are some of those things? I'm curious? Um, making
Speaker 1: my bed every single morning, working out every day, even
Speaker 1: if it's just like a walk, like just like getting out, um,
Speaker 1: because I really got away from that for like the
Speaker 1: last couple of months, and it's just like not a
Speaker 1: great feeling for me, just for my mental health. Um,
Speaker 1: like pre planning my meals like you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: thinking about my day the next day, like planning my food,
Speaker 1: having my food prepared, making more stuff at home. I
Speaker 1: don't want to eat out as much, stuff like that.
Speaker 1: So just a little more health focus, yeah, a little
Speaker 1: more health focus. But I think it's nice you've just
Speaker 1: enjoyed yourself and not put so much pressure. It's really
Speaker 1: not an enjoyment, you know what I mean. I think
Speaker 1: you've enjoy it more than you like allow yourself to
Speaker 1: enjoy it. But I have like a layer of fog
Speaker 1: over me. And I don't like a layer of fog.
Speaker 1: I like clear sunny skies. Yeah, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: feel like I always have that layer of fog, So
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, that's not fun for me. Like
Speaker 1: I'm enduring it, but it's not I'm not like working
Speaker 1: or what is it optimal? I'm not an optimal operating capacity?
Speaker 1: Well come John One. Yeah, I'm gonna be setting myself
Speaker 1: up because I need really, I need a lot of
Speaker 1: stamina because come John One, we're gonna be doing a
Speaker 1: lot of press for the book. It's just gonna be
Speaker 1: a busy month. Yeah, it's gonna be a busy month
Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, so you better get that Domina. You're
Speaker 1: gonna get this Domina now. Yeah. I'm gonna start putting
Speaker 1: that stuff into practice now. And and so I have
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks, so you're gonna put together a
Speaker 1: little like something, a little something, Yeah, just a little
Speaker 1: something something for the month. You know, maybe like tell
Speaker 1: everybody like tag me if they're doing stuff, and you know,
Speaker 1: just create like a little fun little we got it.
Speaker 1: You're a hashtag for Tonyasmina just star. Yeah. I feel
Speaker 1: like that's great. I probably should do the same thing.
Speaker 1: But I'm pretty like happy. I don't really feel challenging
Speaker 1: yourself pushing yourself yea to the next level. Um, But
Speaker 1: I do feel like when I played, I was telling Hayley,
Speaker 1: it felt good to like play, like do something. I
Speaker 1: ran so much yesterday, but I didn't even realize how
Speaker 1: much I was running because it was like a game.
Speaker 1: So I was like, maybe I joined like a little
Speaker 1: like intermural sports like basketball, and then and then like
Speaker 1: I can invite my friends to come watch me weekly
Speaker 1: and see who shows up, see who supports me. Yeah
Speaker 1: that's fun. Yeah, I'll be like, hey, Tanya, I don't
Speaker 1: know what you're doing this weekend on this Sunday, but
Speaker 1: I have a softball game. I'm gonna come. Sure. I
Speaker 1: am making a sign for it to Wow. Yeah that's
Speaker 1: the energy an. Yeah. So I think there's like a
Speaker 1: healthy balance because I remember when I was like running
Speaker 1: nine miles a day, and I was like that was
Speaker 1: a sad Tanya, Like that was a sad Tanya really,
Speaker 1: because I don't think you ever admitted that. I think
Speaker 1: I was. I was like working out and just to
Speaker 1: like because when I work out, my brain is just
Speaker 1: kind of nowhere, and so I just kind of like
Speaker 1: want to work out or run so that I could
Speaker 1: not think about anything. When was that? When was nine
Speaker 1: post breakup, post trigger, post trigger. Yeah, we'll call trigger
Speaker 1: post trigger event. So I don't want to go back
Speaker 1: to like running nine miles a day, but I feel
Speaker 1: like a happy four would be like a nice balance,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. So I'm gonna do too today. Nice,
Speaker 1: just work my way back up to the four. It
Speaker 1: hurts so badly to just run, well, run, walk, do
Speaker 1: what you can. Yeah, yeah, is my steroid and Haylor after, yes, honestly,
Speaker 1: that sounds so painful. Well, we were up all night
Speaker 1: last night, like every two hours, people would have to
Speaker 1: go outside, and she was like having stomach issues, and
Speaker 1: I realized it was horrible, Like I literally woke up thinking,
Speaker 1: add this to my checklist of children of my children.
Speaker 1: And I actually saw the stick talk the other day
Speaker 1: that this girl it was like a stitch. And this
Speaker 1: woman's like, no one tells you that after like months
Speaker 1: after you have a baby, you have like an odor,
Speaker 1: that that so your baby can find you. And then
Speaker 1: this girl adds to her list and she scrolls down
Speaker 1: to like a hundred things of like why I don't
Speaker 1: want kids. I'm sure that's true, but I don't remember
Speaker 1: my wife having an odor after either of our children. Listen,
Speaker 1: it took me by surprise, and I too was like hm,
Speaker 1: hm hmmm. Maybe we have a Roora Quopo coming up
Speaker 1: this week on the podcast, and maybe you can ask
Speaker 1: her some of your parenting questions. Yeah, I don't much
Speaker 1: as if you have an vote or after you gave birth,
Speaker 1: feels personal. It feels a little bit personal. But we'll
Speaker 1: see how where the conversation leaves. But um, yeah, she
Speaker 1: apparently chicken. You said it's not good for the Sunny.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sunny has an allergic reaction to chicken.
Speaker 1: So chicken. And I think what happened was my sister's
Speaker 1: dog had a bone and I think it had like
Speaker 1: a chicken flavor or something. And Phoebe's been chewing on
Speaker 1: that like the past two days because I didn't give
Speaker 1: her anything different all night last night, she tried to
Speaker 1: get down. I'd let her down, she'd go outside, use
Speaker 1: the bathroom, come back in, repeat, And Hayley woke up
Speaker 1: a few times for it in solidarity. But I think
Speaker 1: she got a little more sleep than I did. Nice,
Speaker 1: So that's parenthood for dogs. I get it. Also, Um,
Speaker 1: I was just thinking about this because we were talking.
Speaker 1: Hayley has telling me about a friend that she has
Speaker 1: and she was with this guy for a long time
Speaker 1: and he she found out that he was cheating the
Speaker 1: whole time. And this girl was like stunning, like a
Speaker 1: ten and she was like she has an amazing personality,
Speaker 1: she's successful, she has her own company, and then she
Speaker 1: showed me him and and then the fact that he
Speaker 1: was also a loser who was cheating, and then he
Speaker 1: was just like not even physically, you know, Like I
Speaker 1: was just like, why is it? I feel like I
Speaker 1: always see women who are like tense, that's settle for
Speaker 1: men who are not. And I'm not even talking about
Speaker 1: looks wise, I'm talking about personality that like cheat on
Speaker 1: them or treat them poorly. But yeah, I never see
Speaker 1: a man who I would say is like a ten
Speaker 1: settle for a woman who is like less than you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. More often than not, I see
Speaker 1: a woman who is like top notch settled for a
Speaker 1: who is not well. I just think it's because like
Speaker 1: women are prettier in general, Like I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of guys are just kind of like ugly. No,
Speaker 1: I don't think that's I wonder if it's something to
Speaker 1: do with like we get to like make ourselves like
Speaker 1: you know, up and do what we want, and you know,
Speaker 1: guys are just kind of like no, I their hair.
Speaker 1: I don't even think it's anything to do with just
Speaker 1: physical But I just do think that there's something I
Speaker 1: just wonder if there's a psychology of like how And
Speaker 1: this might be like a stereotype, but like women yearning
Speaker 1: for love and relationship and emotional connection and are more
Speaker 1: willing to settle for something that's not great because we
Speaker 1: have well simon to be alone. But it's like if you, like,
Speaker 1: I think that there is like this biological clock in
Speaker 1: the back of every woman's head that thinks, like I
Speaker 1: need to find someone. I need to find someone, I
Speaker 1: need to have my baby, and you have my baby,
Speaker 1: and like people think of that like as early as thirty,
Speaker 1: like if I don't do it but for thirty, like
Speaker 1: I'm screwed, which is like not the case, but I
Speaker 1: think there is this like warped perception of that reality.
Speaker 1: So I think if you're dating somebody and it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: now now is the time, like I'm just gonna do
Speaker 1: with this guy. But if you're not talking about looks,
Speaker 1: there's plenty of guys that settle for someone because she's hot,
Speaker 1: but it's actually nowhere near attend in terms of personality.
Speaker 1: That's so true that we were just talking about looks.
Speaker 1: Let's say we are talking about women will settle for
Speaker 1: a man who is lesson But my thing is if
Speaker 1: a guy is less than in the looks department but
Speaker 1: has an amazing personality, I feel like that Trump's absolutely
Speaker 1: because because men are more shallow than women are, but
Speaker 1: men would not. I don't feel like a lot of
Speaker 1: men will day a woman who but like, I'm way
Speaker 1: more drawn to. Like if if I were to meet someone,
Speaker 1: which specifically speaking about like men, and I was to
Speaker 1: meet a guy and he was like really really hot
Speaker 1: but had like no personality or was like we'll lose it,
Speaker 1: like didn't wasn't funny or like engaging, I wouldn't much
Speaker 1: rather date a guy who like maybe was like less
Speaker 1: physically attractive on the scale of But I also think
Speaker 1: I think attractiveness is like relative, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like we're all attracted to like different people, right, and
Speaker 1: a lot of it is based I think more on personality.
Speaker 1: Like when I was younger, I think I was more
Speaker 1: vain and shallow, but like as I've gotten older, I'm like,
Speaker 1: you want to spend time with someone who like makes
Speaker 1: you laugh and feels engaged in conversation. But I'm just
Speaker 1: saying I noticed so many more times where like women
Speaker 1: will settle for less and date men who don't even
Speaker 1: deserve an ounce of their time. Yea, And is there
Speaker 1: the element there of the bad boy or a guy
Speaker 1: who knows a little aloof towards the relationship that they're drawing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I never I've never been that gale. But it seems
Speaker 1: like a common It does seem like a common thing.
Speaker 1: I don't get it. I would weigh rather steady at
Speaker 1: you than like scary sal Yeah, she wanted that pain.
Speaker 1: She didn't know. Yeah, but a lot of people want. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he wanted he wanted a bride. I was chasing my
Speaker 1: own fame, making my name, he says something. He was
Speaker 1: sun bed night rain, he was on the cloud. No, Tanya,
Speaker 1: you're literally not saying any of the comfortable. I wanted
Speaker 1: that pain, yes, yeah, I don't like I liked the
Speaker 1: pain for a long time. Not really the pain. The chase.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I've never wanted the chase. I'd rather have
Speaker 1: like a dead carcass. Yeah, we talked about this dead carcass.
Speaker 1: No chase. No, I don't need a fox flying through
Speaker 1: the valley. I need a dead coyote. Just I wonder
Speaker 1: if there's like an in between like just something that's
Speaker 1: not dead but is Yeah, yeah, like a hobbling hobbling yeah,
Speaker 1: tobbling dear. Yeah, but he doesn't need to be running
Speaker 1: all No, it does not need to be running. But
Speaker 1: I do think there's something there with the like the
Speaker 1: biological clock of like, Okay, maybe I don't have time
Speaker 1: to wait for Mr Perfect or you know Ms this Perfect. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I do. I think it. I think it happened.
Speaker 1: I like I see a lot of more women now
Speaker 1: like having babies on their own. Like I've met so many,
Speaker 1: and I think the past year women that have wanted
Speaker 1: to have babies that they're successful, have their lives together
Speaker 1: and are like I want to have a baby. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get a donor and I'm going to do this
Speaker 1: on my own, which I think is awesome. I think
Speaker 1: it's better to do it on your own than with
Speaker 1: like some loser dude. That's how I feel too. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that's it. I think it's a good theory.
Speaker 1: I was just so. I think we're on the up
Speaker 1: and up as a female species. I do too. I
Speaker 1: do too, do you I think so? But I think
Speaker 1: it's like not, it's not all one sided, like I
Speaker 1: know that there's all different relationships and sometimes it's the
Speaker 1: woman who sucks, and sometimes that's the man who sucks,
Speaker 1: or maybe it's a female female relationship, and you know,
Speaker 1: you just know, it's just people are different. But I
Speaker 1: think a lot of people also get married super young,
Speaker 1: were their immature and they don't like think about like
Speaker 1: actual things. Yeah, but I don't matter, You're right. I
Speaker 1: think I just recently have heard more about these amazing
Speaker 1: women who I'm like, why did he why why did
Speaker 1: he even get the chance to cheat on her? You know,
Speaker 1: I think a lot of it comes from again young immature,
Speaker 1: like I know, great man that went down a wrong path,
Speaker 1: because that's just what was It was like the time
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, forever to mature. We've talked
Speaker 1: about that. So it was like not thinking with the head,
Speaker 1: not that head. Correct. So I feel like I need
Speaker 1: to address something because there's a lot of scuttle in
Speaker 1: the Facebook group, the scrubbing and Facebook group because I
Speaker 1: posted this photo of Becca squeezing me on the carpet
Speaker 1: at the at jingle Ball and I like, circled your
Speaker 1: hand because I and I wrote felt significan can't because
Speaker 1: it was Becca, like squeezing me into her, which is
Speaker 1: like the death grip, which is usually what I give
Speaker 1: to her. This happened, correct, and so I did that.
Speaker 1: But what people were assuming was because I circled your
Speaker 1: ring finger and said, like felt significant, like you got
Speaker 1: engaged or something. So I want to debunk those rumors. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's go ahead and clear that up. I am not engaged. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm going to clear that up right now. Yeah, let's
Speaker 1: clear that up. Yeah. I had a few messages about
Speaker 1: it too. I was like, They're like, what does this mean?
Speaker 1: And I was like, I think it just means I'm
Speaker 1: hugging her heart, which I enjoy hug. I'm like a hug.
Speaker 1: I'm not really, but it's the death grip. It was
Speaker 1: the death grip that felt significant. But I feel like
Speaker 1: when I give hugs, I give like tight hugs. I'm
Speaker 1: not like, I'm not a weak hugger. M. I'm not
Speaker 1: a weak HUGGERA but like when when you're like hanging
Speaker 1: all over me, like when we're side by side, maybe
Speaker 1: I'm not as like affectionate in that regard, but when
Speaker 1: I give you a hug, I'm a good hugger. Like
Speaker 1: this this felt significant. Nothing worse than a weak hug,
Speaker 1: you know, when someone barely hugs yours like I would
Speaker 1: have rather just not. I don't know have to do anymore.
Speaker 1: I don't have to hug people or shake their hand
Speaker 1: or kiss them like. I don't like shaking hands. And
Speaker 1: I wish we could get rid of that altogether. Other
Speaker 1: hug too, because I'm I don't want your germs in
Speaker 1: my hands, that might be in my mouth and my eyes.
Speaker 1: I'd rather hug you. Yeah, And if you don't want
Speaker 1: to hug, dab exactly, but not bad but dab definitely
Speaker 1: not bab please, but yeah, the handshake has really thrown
Speaker 1: me off. Um now those are back. Nobody's even hesitating
Speaker 1: abu those anymore. Everyone's shaking hands now. You know what
Speaker 1: we're not hesitating about anymore, answering some emails. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: let's take a break and we'll be right back. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, we are back with some emails. Mark. I
Speaker 1: know you're down, but I'm great. My voice is not,
Speaker 1: that's all it is. It's freaking out Tanya, and I'm
Speaker 1: sorry she's the one coughing though. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you've heard that, but yeah, unwell but on medications, So
Speaker 1: I'm glad you're here anyway. This is from anonymous. I'm
Speaker 1: twenty eight and I was asked to be in two
Speaker 1: of my good friends weddings and they're on the same day.
Speaker 1: They within driving distance, but like three hours away from
Speaker 1: each other. One is a friend from college who has
Speaker 1: her wedding venue that it's a place to stay in
Speaker 1: the venue for the wedding party, for the whole weekend.
Speaker 1: She asked me to be in her wedding. Another is
Speaker 1: best friend from high school. I didn't realize they're on
Speaker 1: the same day, so I said, you have to both.
Speaker 1: Where do I go? What do I do? How do
Speaker 1: I tell the wrong person? Wait? So one of them
Speaker 1: asked her to be in and the other invited her
Speaker 1: to it. Yes, I mean, I think I would go
Speaker 1: for the one whose wedding I'm in. I agree. How
Speaker 1: do you tell the other person you're out after you've
Speaker 1: already said yes? I would just say I had an
Speaker 1: absolute brain fart and I committed to being in a
Speaker 1: wedding on the same day of your wedding and it's
Speaker 1: a three hour drive. I just realistically, there's there's you
Speaker 1: don't sometimes like you commit to stuff, You're like, yes,
Speaker 1: I'll totally be there. These are people that are really
Speaker 1: important to me. Yes, I'll be there. Yes, I'll be there.
Speaker 1: You don't really look at dates or pay attention to
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff, and then you're like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: so you can say I love you. I didn't even
Speaker 1: hesitate to say yes, because of course I want to
Speaker 1: be there. But I'm in a wedding that exact same day.
Speaker 1: I wish I could duplicate myself and be at both,
Speaker 1: but I cannot. Unfortunately, I think I read this wrong.
Speaker 1: The first line is I was asked to be in
Speaker 1: two of my good friends weddings and they're on the
Speaker 1: same Well, that changes things. One is a friend from college.
Speaker 1: Friend she mentioned that includes a place to stay, So
Speaker 1: I'm getting the vibe that the other one doesn't have
Speaker 1: those amenities, and that's the decision. It's a key factory.
Speaker 1: What would you do, Becca if you were asked to
Speaker 1: be in two weddings on the same day, two people
Speaker 1: that were important to you. I mean, I just think
Speaker 1: I would have to figure out logistically which one makes
Speaker 1: more sense, Like is one closer to home? Like without
Speaker 1: me having to travel? Is one I don't know, just
Speaker 1: come down to details, not friendship. Well yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: if if well, I don't think it's about friendship because
Speaker 1: I think if there was one obvious greater than on
Speaker 1: these two, she wouldn't be writing in right, Here's what
Speaker 1: I think. I think she said yes to one and
Speaker 1: then said yes to the second one she knows she
Speaker 1: used to commit to the first one to the second.
Speaker 1: I think you're right. I think I gotta do what
Speaker 1: you gotta do. So does she go to the one
Speaker 1: she wants to be in or the one that she
Speaker 1: committed to first goes to the one she wants to
Speaker 1: be in. I think, shitty it is. That's not They
Speaker 1: also don't know about each other's weddings, so they don't
Speaker 1: know which you committed to first. So you can do
Speaker 1: the brain fart excuse. You can make up a different
Speaker 1: like I could say, oh my gosh, my mom's having surgery.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but you is bad bad karma, I
Speaker 1: would say, I agree. I think you just tell whichever
Speaker 1: one you're not going to go to. Hey, I made
Speaker 1: a huge mistake. I committed, Like Tanya said, I really
Speaker 1: want to be there, but I committed to this one first,
Speaker 1: and I I feel horrible. I would love to celebrate you,
Speaker 1: you know, once everything settles down from the wedding, and
Speaker 1: or maybe maybe there's something before the wedding that you
Speaker 1: could be a part of and help with, like Machette
Speaker 1: the Bachelorette. Yeah, just like offer yourself to be a
Speaker 1: part in some ways since you can't make it to
Speaker 1: the wedding. That's what I would do. Well, would you do?
Speaker 1: You can't, you can't clone yourself. I don't know what
Speaker 1: I would do. This would be a real humdinger for me.
Speaker 1: You just shut down and don't go to either. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm out both of you. I'm out.
Speaker 1: I would probably do the person that I'm closer to,
Speaker 1: if it was if there was a difference, if there's
Speaker 1: a difference the person you're closer to. But it seems
Speaker 1: like all things being equal, to college friend would be
Speaker 1: better the closer than the high school friend. That's what
Speaker 1: I was thinking. You know, you never know. You can't
Speaker 1: put a time stamp on friendship. Here's another anonymous I
Speaker 1: want her at Eastern sand the podcast. Don't invite me
Speaker 1: to your party. I don't want to come. That's the
Speaker 1: same with me. I'm forty. I have a small group
Speaker 1: of friends that get together a few times a year
Speaker 1: for dinner, but no real close friends. I know I've
Speaker 1: done this to myself because I'm very introverted. I hate
Speaker 1: small talk. I feel awkward trying to think of things
Speaker 1: to talk about, and as a results, I just feel
Speaker 1: like I'm too boring to talk to. I see Becca
Speaker 1: and Tiny with all these wonderful close friendships, and I'm
Speaker 1: so envious. Any advice. Um So she's saying she doesn't
Speaker 1: want to go, but she does want friend because she's
Speaker 1: introverted and she hates she just feels awkward about the
Speaker 1: whole thing trying to keep conversation going. It just seems
Speaker 1: like effort. I think that that is also something that
Speaker 1: comes like once you once you commit to like, Okay,
Speaker 1: this is my personality. I'm introverted. I don't like being
Speaker 1: around a lot of people. It gets harder to make
Speaker 1: yourself do more outgoing things. You know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: once you like accept like okay, I'm an introvert because
Speaker 1: I used to it too. I was like very much
Speaker 1: a homebody. I didn't want to do anything. But once
Speaker 1: I started like having to go or forcing myself to
Speaker 1: go to things. I found I got better at wanting
Speaker 1: to go and wanting to be there, And like I think.
Speaker 1: I also, there's this book. I'm pulling it up now
Speaker 1: so that you can read it. No, this, No, honestly,
Speaker 1: this is such I think everyone should read this book
Speaker 1: because I always revert back to it. It's called How
Speaker 1: to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, and
Speaker 1: he talked about that, yeah, and he talks about like
Speaker 1: how you interact with people and how you like make
Speaker 1: connect with people even if it's not your natural personality
Speaker 1: to do that, and how sometimes it's not just about
Speaker 1: like she said, I'm too boring to talk to, but
Speaker 1: sometimes it's about like listening and asking about other people,
Speaker 1: like what do you want to know about them? Like
Speaker 1: what's something that piques your interests about their home or
Speaker 1: where you're at, and just like learning to have conversations.
Speaker 1: So I think, honestly, like I know it sounds lame,
Speaker 1: but like reading books and like there are skills and
Speaker 1: how you learn to connect with people, and I think
Speaker 1: it there are certain things that draw people towards you,
Speaker 1: but also does not to necessarily be like social events
Speaker 1: and stuff Like if you have a hobby, like let's
Speaker 1: say like working out, you can find somebody at your
Speaker 1: gym or like at your workout class that you see
Speaker 1: there often, and you just say, like, hey, do you
Speaker 1: want to get a juice after a class? And then
Speaker 1: you just like get a juice after a class, and
Speaker 1: that's like your socializing and you build a friendship that way.
Speaker 1: It doesn't always have to be like like part parties
Speaker 1: or concerts or like events. It can be stuff that's
Speaker 1: already kind of something that you enjoy doing and then
Speaker 1: you just kind of make friendships in that. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's how I like, I don't know, it's weird, Like
Speaker 1: that's how I'm at Raquel. We met in in our
Speaker 1: Bible study and so it was like we met at
Speaker 1: that and then we would just kind of meet for coffee,
Speaker 1: you know, whenever I was like around where her work
Speaker 1: was and stuff like that. So it's like we would
Speaker 1: meet for coffee and then that turned into like other things.
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, I I think I agree, Like I
Speaker 1: don't think you need to go to like massive parties
Speaker 1: if that like ragers or like things that you can
Speaker 1: invited to on Facebook or something. Well, I think she
Speaker 1: needs more one on one time, like she gets together
Speaker 1: this a little group, maybe one or two of those people.
Speaker 1: You like them a lot, and you could schedule some
Speaker 1: time together that might help create a better bond than
Speaker 1: you're getting through this group thing that you're not. I
Speaker 1: like intimate. I like one on one hangouts better than events.
Speaker 1: Personally myself too. I also think though jumping back, piggybacking
Speaker 1: off what you said, like knowing what you're interested in,
Speaker 1: and maybe if you're like I know, she doesn't necessarily
Speaker 1: say she wants more friends. But if you have an
Speaker 1: interest that's like a niche thing, like let's say you
Speaker 1: like to paint or something, and you go to like
Speaker 1: a local cloud painting class or something, you immediately have
Speaker 1: something in common with the other people that are in
Speaker 1: that room. So I think, like putting yourself out there
Speaker 1: and going to things that you you know or personal
Speaker 1: to you, but open up your interests to other people,
Speaker 1: I think is a good good start. Yeah, and shout
Speaker 1: out to Dale Carnegie. That book came out in nineteen
Speaker 1: thirty six and it's still getting what a shout out
Speaker 1: on de scribbing in podcast six Dead from with seventy
Speaker 1: years and his Legacy lives On. It's so good and
Speaker 1: it's so like topical. And then the other one I
Speaker 1: would recommend is a hundred and one Essays that will
Speaker 1: change the way you think. That one's by Brianna West.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start reading a lot more, by the way,
Speaker 1: that's a good goal. Yeah, Robby and I are going
Speaker 1: to read in bed before we go to sleep instead
Speaker 1: of watch TV. And you consider fiction, Tanya, I've gotten
Speaker 1: into this many times over the years. She will not
Speaker 1: read fiction helpful help, which to me is to me
Speaker 1: that's paralysis by analysis. You just you know, I like
Speaker 1: to grow, I like to exp fan reading a book.
Speaker 1: What's the difference if they're both a good story, what's
Speaker 1: the difference between watching White Lotus or reading a really
Speaker 1: good book. I love a good fiction book. It is
Speaker 1: like the best escape. I don't want an escape. But
Speaker 1: why do you allow yourself to watch fiction television shows?
Speaker 1: Why do you only watch self help documentaries? Because when
Speaker 1: I'm watching TV, I don't want to think. When I'm reading,
Speaker 1: I want to like think, or I'll just go to sleepy.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, it's some really good books out there
Speaker 1: that I've recommended you over the years and refused to
Speaker 1: even go like my choices. We had a whole book
Speaker 1: club on the Facebook group called Bookmark. There's a lot
Speaker 1: of fun book Mark. Yeah, I'm gonna make my own
Speaker 1: book club, do it. They would love that. And right
Speaker 1: now I'm reading a Hashimoto book. It's great. I'm learning
Speaker 1: so much about like gluten, and that's great. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what, Mark, I'm getting smarter and you're just escaping.
Speaker 1: But I think I think watching TV is is also
Speaker 1: an escape. So you do like to escape. You just
Speaker 1: I like to get smart and escape, Okay, in tandem,
Speaker 1: not escape and escape. I like a lot. I like escape,
Speaker 1: escape and get smart. Yeah that's good too. Yeah, thank
Speaker 1: you so much. Well, after that debate, which I did
Speaker 1: not know about you that you don't read fiction books,
Speaker 1: learned something new every day. I really do, I really do,
Speaker 1: you know. It's cute. Actually, Paulina was reading the advanced
Speaker 1: copy of my book last night. It was at my hat.
Speaker 1: It was at the house. There we go, Yeah, comes
Speaker 1: over to make cookies family dinner. First of all, I've
Speaker 1: asked for the advanced copy because I'm very an interview
Speaker 1: with her and Rickel and I haven't gotten it yet
Speaker 1: first of all, it was at the house and it
Speaker 1: was just like on the counter. She came over for
Speaker 1: dinner and saw and she's like, oh my god, can
Speaker 1: I read it? So she read like a couple of
Speaker 1: the first chapters and she was like, I didn't know
Speaker 1: this about you. I didn't know this about you, and
Speaker 1: like was like giving me. She's like, I didn't know
Speaker 1: what to expect because I thought it was gonna be
Speaker 1: very like churchy, and you know, she was like pleasantly.
Speaker 1: She was like really really enjoyed it and like learn
Speaker 1: new stuff about me, which I found to be funny
Speaker 1: because I think podcast listeners will have heard almost every
Speaker 1: single story. Oh interesting. But she's like, I didn't know
Speaker 1: how you got your first job at Kiss and like
Speaker 1: I didn't know you know how that is your best
Speaker 1: friends listen to the podcast. Paulina doesn't listen regularly. I
Speaker 1: told her we had the debates. I think she listened
Speaker 1: to it none. Yeah, same, sad, that's probably better talk
Speaker 1: freely to do not listen to the podcast. Maybe I
Speaker 1: feel like he sneaks them in every now and then.
Speaker 1: Yeah he does, but like on a regular he does
Speaker 1: not because someone told me not to listen to something
Speaker 1: I would be tuning in weekly. Yeah, because that's just
Speaker 1: a little bit about me. He respects my boundaries good.
Speaker 1: But he does watch all the clips on Instagram, so yeah,
Speaker 1: those are good. There won't be a lot of clips
Speaker 1: today because we started the video quite late, but if
Speaker 1: there is anything, happy, happy to watch them. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: that's it for today, and I hope you have a
Speaker 1: great week, everybody, Mark, I hope you feel better. And
Speaker 1: then the beginning and the end, all right, goodbye everybody,
Speaker 1: we love you, have a great week. Love you Bye.