1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached 2 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here 3 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: to give you a device on anything and everything you 4 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or 5 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: having issues with your family, or maybe you have a 6 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I 7 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts 8 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious 9 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: the sound of the beeB. 12 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: Hi Cheeky's. I want to start off by saying that 13 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 2: I love you your whole family. I have been a fan 14 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 2: of your mom for me many many years, and I'm 15 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 2: so glad that you're following in her footsteps because I 16 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 2: love your music and I hope that you continue with it. 17 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: I did meet you one time at a book signing 18 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 2: in La so I flew from Chicago to La just 19 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: for that, just to meet you, and I remember you 20 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: gave me a hug and I felt your soul like 21 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 2: I felt so connected with you. It was like I 22 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 2: knew you and ever since then. I'm my oh, my god, 23 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 2: obsessed with everything that you do. And speaking of books, 24 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 2: I read Forgiveness. I loved it, and currently I'm rereading 25 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 2: Unstoppable because I feel like every time that I go 26 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 2: in there, I get a new message, I get something 27 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 2: new from it, and it's so inspiring. I really go 28 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: in there for inspiration a lot of the time times 29 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 2: and just wondering if you have any plans for a 30 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 2: new book coming soon or something like that, because I 31 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 2: love how much you inspire through your writing, so I 32 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 2: hope there is something coming up soon. 33 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: Take care, Oh Sadita, I love you. That makes me 34 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: so happy. That's the best compliment that you can give me, 35 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,399 Speaker 1: is when someone meets me and they feel like they 36 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: know me or they love my energy. I love that, 37 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: so thank you so much, and thank you for reading 38 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 1: my books. I got to go to Chicago, my gosh, 39 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: I love Chicago. I gotta go do something out there. 40 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: But yes, I'm working currently on my children's book. Well 41 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: it's already come out July fifteenth, actually, and it's called 42 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 1: The Girl Who Seems to Be I have it in 43 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: English and in Spanish. It's a children's book. But I'm 44 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: also working on another book, more of a spiritual book, 45 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: more of like not an autobiography like Forgiveness and Unstoppable, 46 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: But in Unstoppable there's quotes even in Forgiveness and just 47 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: kind of things like that will inspire you the way 48 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: that you're saying, like an uplift you. So I want 49 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: to go more towards that angle. I have the name. 50 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,959 Speaker 1: I can't say it yet because we haven't registered it, 51 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: but I am working on something like that, and I 52 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 1: think it's going to be something like becoming and coming 53 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: back to I don't know, something down those lines. I 54 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: have to sit down with my agent and talk about it. 55 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: But I do want to work on another book. That's 56 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: something else that I've just been connecting with lately is 57 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: writing a lot, and I'm enjoying it so much. Writing 58 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: my quotes, writing my poems and all this stuff. I'm like, 59 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: I found, not found, I refound that passion in a 60 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: different way now. So definitely look forward to that SETI 61 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: than thank you so much for your support and your love. 62 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: I am so grateful for people like you, And yeah, 63 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: I think Mom is proud. I can really say that 64 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: from the bottom of my heart. I'm like Mom, I 65 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: think Mom's proud for sure. Thank you, Sadith that for 66 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: your question. You made me smile you alrighty guys, Now 67 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: we have another question from an anonymous listener. 68 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 3: Ola chia sexualsa con persona starves personae. 69 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: Olaula can peto the Hello. Okay, so this anonymous listener 70 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: is asking how to go about having sex? Are being 71 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: intimate with someone else after being intimate with just one 72 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: person for a long period of time. I'm assuming she 73 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: was in a very long relationship and now she's trying 74 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: to rEFInd is not even a word, but her sexuality 75 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: with someone else. Okay, Joe wow, machinoke is ifici Joe 76 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 1: antaeos to the timpo, come on Manola Carrassoni and tregarme 77 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: out persona you call pork to personaja namigo and while 78 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: per in timnel and is important pre contrar to sexually 79 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 1: and timisma center te sexy center, tila portia tra persona 80 00:05:55,960 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 1: to the coma and two piel looket to cam in 81 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: tregarde completamente por moso s alware mosso lestar con alli 82 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: and sexualmente and the opinion persona persona is the most 83 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 1: compartiendo no ao cso is paramimas importante us to querpono 84 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: so eso is importante premiramente to Mason cuenta il entierto. 85 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: Sex is entierte a mada pisma is alo malo ces 86 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 1: persona called qual keres star respectol your okes facil that 87 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: clo sintojo. So basically, I told this prop anonymous listener 88 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 1: that I know it's difficult. I think she needs to 89 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: find her sexuality within herself first, then feel sexy and 90 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: know what she can do and what she can give 91 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 1: someone sexually and be confident in that, but also think 92 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: about and very importantly consider who this person is, because 93 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: having sex with someone shouldn't, in my opinion, be just casual, 94 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: like we're exchanging energies and it's something very very intimate, 95 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: and their problems in some way become your problems because 96 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 1: this is it's it's an it's a ritual, you know, 97 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: having sex is a ritual, guys. So I was just 98 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: telling her to take that in mind and to make 99 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: sure that if this person is someone that wants to 100 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: be with her and taking her seriously, because that is 101 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: also can either leave her feeling great or feeling worse 102 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: afterwards so it's always just being mindful about who you 103 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: are giving your body to. So that was my advice 104 00:07:45,760 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: to her, and I hope it helped, yes perro Okay, guys, 105 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: last question comes from influencers, is today yallows? All right, 106 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: let's see. 107 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 2: Hank Chiki's This is influencers. 108 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: We want to know what's your vocal warm up routine? Ooh, 109 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: I like this question? All right, girl, Okay, So I 110 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: have different ways of warming up. I usually do a 111 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:28,679 Speaker 1: close mouth hum so that means my lips are closed 112 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: and I'm just doing a hum so it opens up 113 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: the back of my throat kind of like like it's 114 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: kind of like you're holding a big potato in the 115 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: back of your throat. It's hard to explain. And then 116 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 1: I do little tongue rolls like Also another thing that 117 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,599 Speaker 1: helps me is putting a pencil in my mouth and 118 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: doing that same thing to kind of get my lips loose. 119 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: And another way of getting your lips loose, because if 120 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: your lips are loose and you know they move easily, 121 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: then you are able to project better. So it's like 122 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: boo doing that kind of of like noise, drinking only 123 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: warm stuff teased warm water, right, before going on stage 124 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: and vocalizing as much as possible. I have a little 125 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: note from one of my vocal coaches from a long 126 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: time ago. I think he gave me these vocal lessons 127 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:20,839 Speaker 1: or these vocal exercises like in twenty eighteen, and I 128 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 1: still use them, and it's just kind of like just 129 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: it's a bunch of stuff, a bunch of little things 130 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: like that. But those are the things that I do. 131 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: And then also straws, vocal straws where you have a 132 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: straw and you like make bubbles into a glass cup 133 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: or any type of cup that has water. That also 134 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:42,599 Speaker 1: helps just vibrate your vocal cords and it helps you 135 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,599 Speaker 1: warm up. So that's what I do. And thank you 136 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: for your question. I like that question. It is different. 137 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 1: I love it and thank you all much. And if 138 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 1: you guys have a question, please leave it. It could 139 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: be about anything. As you can see, we talk about 140 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,439 Speaker 1: anything and everything here on this podcast, So leave me 141 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: your question and I'd love to hear from you at 142 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 1: speakpipe dot com, slash Chickis and Chow Podcast Amries. 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