WEBVTT - One on One with Mike Johnson

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, guys, and welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour. I'm Rachel.

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<v Speaker 1>Ali is off today, but we had the opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>do an extra podcast for you guys, and we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to wait. Well, the truth is, I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to wait because you guys, if you follow me, if

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<v Speaker 1>you listen to me, if you dare to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that I have a favorite, a clear favorite

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<v Speaker 1>from Hannah Bey's season, and I'm not shy about him.

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<v Speaker 1>It is none other than Mike Johnson. And I've been

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for this day to have Mike Johnson on the

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor Happy Hour podcast, and I am so excited that

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<v Speaker 1>he's here. You all know I've been pushing hard for

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<v Speaker 1>him to be the Bachelor, and while fortunately that's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to happen, he's still my bachelor and I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to him about that and so much more today. Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the podcast. Are you ready? Well, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been waiting a whole season to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Ready, I'm ready? Okay, So I guess I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to start from the beginning because I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>when I watched Hannah season, we didn't get to really

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<v Speaker 1>know you. We didn't get in depth. You know, we

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<v Speaker 1>saw you. There was a lot of drama that was

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<v Speaker 1>involved with your season and I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about that because we saw that enough. But I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that's when we saw you most. Even on

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<v Speaker 1>your one on one we didn't get to know Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>but you are a fan favorite. The audience knew that

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<v Speaker 1>there was something there. You were even a fan favorite

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<v Speaker 1>of Hannah. I've heard Hannah talk very positively about you

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<v Speaker 1>since the show's been over. So let's just from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is Mike Johnson? If you could describe yourself in

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<v Speaker 1>three words? What would you say? My friends would call

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<v Speaker 1>me since say bushy brow because I have thick eyebrows.

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<v Speaker 1>You do have thick eyebrows? Do you do you tame

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<v Speaker 1>your eyebrows? Are they natural? Just natural? Just black? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm rocking it. I'm blessed to be here with you, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm blessed to have you on the show. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>three words, and I know you already talked to me

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<v Speaker 1>about one word. Three words. If you had to describe yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>three words, had to describe myself? Goofy, ambitious leader? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>goofy ambitious leader. I like that you sound like a

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<v Speaker 1>good time. I'm a great time. And then and then

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time that somebody could learn something from you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So let's dive into it a bit. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like your life has changed since this

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<v Speaker 1>whole Bachelor experience? You know, a crazy thing. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm in the airport and I didn't brush my

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<v Speaker 1>hair and somebody wants to take a picture or something.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy because I want to. I'm grateful to take

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<v Speaker 1>a picture with you. But then bro, like my breath staying,

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<v Speaker 1>my hair is not dead yet, you know those are

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<v Speaker 1>That's the weird part. That's the weird part right there.

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<v Speaker 1>These are things you will have to learn. I had

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<v Speaker 1>to start getting eyelash extensions because too many times people

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<v Speaker 1>ask for a picture and I was bald eyed. Ye

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<v Speaker 1>stop balhead and bald eye. I never heard that before.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm learning it off on the spot. Serious, it's just crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not looking at my best and people want

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<v Speaker 1>to picture. That's when it's crazy. Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you've been able to go back to your normal life

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<v Speaker 1>since this whole experience. When I'm back home in Texas,

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<v Speaker 1>all my closest homies and cousins treat me like regular

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<v Speaker 1>and if not already even more on top of me now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I respect him, I love them and I need it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like that's kept you grounded through this

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<v Speaker 1>whole experience, because I see people get caught up, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't seem to be that person. I don't think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>caught up. What's I don't think I ever get caught up.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, I was just texting my little sister,

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<v Speaker 1>one of my best homies, a minute ago before being

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<v Speaker 1>out here, and they just, yeah, they do help me,

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<v Speaker 1>they stay, they keep me grounded. I think that's key,

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<v Speaker 1>and I wish more people did that. Um, you see

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<v Speaker 1>this world change a lot of people, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that's happened to you. I don't think it will. Yeah, see,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it will either. Okay, So I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know. I don't know. I'm sure the viewers are.

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<v Speaker 1>The listeners want to know this as well, But I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know how you How did you get on

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<v Speaker 1>the show. So that's a really good question. My homeboy,

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<v Speaker 1>I was working as a financial advisor and say it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in a safe place. No, I'm good I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say I told you already. I was at work in

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<v Speaker 1>my office and I threw my phone across the across

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<v Speaker 1>the room and my homeboy, my coworker, was like, what's

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with you? And I said, man, all these girls

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<v Speaker 1>just want to have sexual relations and I really want

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<v Speaker 1>to be in a relationship. And he bust out laughing

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<v Speaker 1>for like twenty minutes. She was like, what guy says that?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, bro, I'm serious. And after forever

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<v Speaker 1>of him laughing at me, he knew I was extremely serious.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be in a relationship. My last relationship

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<v Speaker 1>probably going on the show, was twenty fifteen and crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>it's got my heart broke, all that stuff, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I really wanted to be in a relationship again. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, get married. I'm mightna be thirty two. I

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<v Speaker 1>got like little gray hairs, my beard now rocket and

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<v Speaker 1>you know I'm trying to have kids one day. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>my ultimate going life has built a treehouse for my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>And so who are you? It's unicorn? A horn just

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<v Speaker 1>popped up on your head. And so like six months

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<v Speaker 1>after I I had like a bitch fit, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you would say, because I wanted to be in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>and I am picky. My homeboy send me a Facebook wing.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, hey, you should go try out for this.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was off work that day, so I drove

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<v Speaker 1>down to Houston, went to the aquarium where they had auditions.

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<v Speaker 1>And the crazy thing is they thought it was like

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<v Speaker 1>nine ladies to every one guy. It might have been

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<v Speaker 1>every It might have been forty nine ladies and one guy.

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<v Speaker 1>It was crazy, right, And then I think I was

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<v Speaker 1>only black guy there, sood out sounds like the sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like the Bachelor. I wore a full suit. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>got on the Houston news that night because they thought

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<v Speaker 1>I was a bachelor, which is crazy, Like legit, girls,

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<v Speaker 1>girls and their mom and dads were coming up to me,

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<v Speaker 1>like introducing their daughters to me while I was auditioning

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<v Speaker 1>for the show. You didn't even need the show, not

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<v Speaker 1>like that at all. But it was just a really

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<v Speaker 1>crazy experience. I mean, I had my book with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to tell the story. It was gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a great day that day. Right, So I can't tell

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<v Speaker 1>the story. Yeah, okay, so I have. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>told you guys, I have a disabled veteran license plates, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so I can park in disabled spots, and I parked

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<v Speaker 1>in one of the zoo is. The aquarium was quite busy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm parked there. I'm there pretty early and I

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<v Speaker 1>see a guy drive buy in a van. He's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>if someone are you like sitting there. I'm like, nah, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>you can have it. So I move out of this

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<v Speaker 1>spot so the other guy can get the parking spot, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Good karma. People have good karma. And so we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>that or whatever. I go upstairs and this dude in

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<v Speaker 1>the wheelchair he's trying out for the show as well.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a second time trying out, so me and

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<v Speaker 1>him made a really cool bond together. We stayed there

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time, just talking crap about the girls and

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<v Speaker 1>the guys there and just you know, doing what people do.

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<v Speaker 1>And he became my best friend. So shout out to you, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>if you hear this. I completely forgot your name. I

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<v Speaker 1>love you, that homie. But yeah, long story short, I

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<v Speaker 1>got mad because I wanted to be in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and my homeboy six months later took me then apply

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<v Speaker 1>for the show. Oh gott I see this. I used

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<v Speaker 1>to live downtown in San Antonio and I work my

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<v Speaker 1>butt off as a financial advisor. I was Rookie of

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<v Speaker 1>the Year. I worked crazy hard. I'm super ambitious. And

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<v Speaker 1>this girl in my department complace used to have her

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<v Speaker 1>name's Ashley. She used to have like Bachelor parties every Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had never watched the show prior to that,

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<v Speaker 1>me too, you know, being honest, and so she like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe me go watch one, and she said I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be the be on the show. She said I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna be the Bachelor, which is so crazy. I

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<v Speaker 1>was two years. Shout out to Ashley who saw what

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<v Speaker 1>we we see now. We see now and still see

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<v Speaker 1>and still are rooting for UM. I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>cool story. I love hearing how people got to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, some people submitted a video, some people tried

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<v Speaker 1>out four or five times. I remember my experience when

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<v Speaker 1>I went actually went to an audition to my co

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<v Speaker 1>workers signed me up. There were people who had been

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<v Speaker 1>there five six times. It's like American Idol had traveled

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<v Speaker 1>to different cities. And it's like you know with athletes,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're like hang up the cleats, it's almost like

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<v Speaker 1>turn like let the application go. You know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>a rat for you. Well, good thing. You went through

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<v Speaker 1>the Houston audition, Yeah, definitely. They liked you. They sent

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<v Speaker 1>you on through, you went to Hollywood, then you came

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<v Speaker 1>on our TV screens. Um, did you have any You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't watch the show and I didn't either, And I

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<v Speaker 1>love talking to people who didn't watch the show because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like your expectations are different than the super

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<v Speaker 1>fan who comes on the show, and there are a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of them. So what were your expecting? Who'd you say?

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<v Speaker 1>He Cam dead? Was Cam? Isn't Cam from Oh Austin?

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<v Speaker 1>Was he at your audition? No? He wasn't. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you would have seen him. He was probably

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<v Speaker 1>standing up on a ledge rapping. You'd have been talking

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<v Speaker 1>to everybody. He would have known everyone's bio. They're social,

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<v Speaker 1>he'd have known everything. Poor Cam. Just to digress a bit,

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<v Speaker 1>the way that that Anyeka called out Cam at the finale,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt sorry for him. I thought, geez, like, this

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<v Speaker 1>guy can't win. Um, okay, So what were your expectations

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<v Speaker 1>when you came on to the show, Because you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>watch it before, so I know what you were. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember stepping out of the limo and I saw Hannah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Oh, you're really cute, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>was like a plus right to me. I didn't watch

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<v Speaker 1>Colton season, so I wasn't I was unsure of who

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<v Speaker 1>would be the bachelrette. But you didn't watch Colton season,

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<v Speaker 1>no comic because I don't watch. My expectations were just, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>to be myself and have a good time and if

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<v Speaker 1>I find love, and then I find love. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>you did you know Hannah was going to be the bachelorette.

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<v Speaker 1>I did the night before because that was when she

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<v Speaker 1>had the five guys come out on stage with Chris

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Harrison and that's when Cam did his little rap

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<v Speaker 1>thing and got the row. So I knew her literally

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours prior. Um, that's I see. I'm shocked

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<v Speaker 1>that you knew her or you didn't know her until

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<v Speaker 1>right before. That's interesting. So you really were open and

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<v Speaker 1>just ready to meet someone, which is refreshing. You were

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I have to say use a bachelor term here.

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<v Speaker 1>You were there for the right reasons, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that I saw on my Instagram. When you're there for

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<v Speaker 1>the right reasons, things happened differently. Oh, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if that's a good thing or a bad thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>can take that two different ways. Okay, moving on, what

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<v Speaker 1>was your experience like on the show away from Luke?

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<v Speaker 1>Because we saw that, we saw that play out all

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<v Speaker 1>on the camera, so it's like, I want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what the other side was like for you. Well I

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<v Speaker 1>want to speak on that, but one shout out to Luke.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, bro, I hope you getting better. But

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<v Speaker 1>things outside of Luke, honestly were great. It was It

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<v Speaker 1>was a great group of guys outside of Luke. And

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah is goofy as hell and I love it. She

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<v Speaker 1>just speaks her mind. I love everything about her. In

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<v Speaker 1>that regard, it was boring, Like when you're not going

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, it's hella boring. You're just in a

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<v Speaker 1>mansion with a bunch of dudes. What did y'all do

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<v Speaker 1>for fun on your off days? Because you're right, what

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people don't see is that you see

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<v Speaker 1>the dates rights as a viewer, you see two hours

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<v Speaker 1>of filming when we've been filming an entire week, and

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<v Speaker 1>you only get out of the house on rose ceremonies

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<v Speaker 1>or if you have a date, So there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of downtime you're in these great countries, these beautiful cities

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<v Speaker 1>you've never been in before, and you don't really get

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<v Speaker 1>to go out and see it. So what did y'all

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<v Speaker 1>do for fun? Then I'll tell you what we did.

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<v Speaker 1>Telling what y'all did. You know what y'all did, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>probably y'all more buck way than we did. I just uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like y'all did drink. You know, stupid guy stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>push ups, pull ups, all that stuff. Okay, that's definitely

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<v Speaker 1>not what we did. Yeah, somewing around the pool, talk

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<v Speaker 1>shit to each other, do a lot of interviews. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of that going on. We did. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>The crazy thing is you do all these what is

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<v Speaker 1>it called guy talk or a girl talking? On your season?

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<v Speaker 1>None of that crab gets aired? I know, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>why you got me doing all these? It mean it's tough.

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<v Speaker 1>Tyler and I Tyler seeing I did a great one

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<v Speaker 1>making fun of Garrett and Hannah because like they live

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<v Speaker 1>like thirty minutes from each other. It was epic. That

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<v Speaker 1>should have made the credits. It was. Although the church

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<v Speaker 1>scene that y'all did at the piano was amazing. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad that that made the credits and I could tell

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<v Speaker 1>the camaraderie that you guys had on the season. Who

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<v Speaker 1>were you close to. I'm close to a lot of guys. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mentioned Tyler, he did homie Dustin. I spold

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<v Speaker 1>him earlier today, he's a homie. Dylan's my little brother, Connor.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm those are the ones that I hang out with

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<v Speaker 1>and talk to the most. Matteo. I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>see him in Atlanta. Yeah, I'm pretty cool with everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the infamous group chat popping because I know y'all

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<v Speaker 1>have it. Of course we got a group chat, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the one that pisses everybody off of my Android.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, you're one of those. It's I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>they should kick you out. It's very annoying when someone

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<v Speaker 1>goes green chat. I might get the eleven because all

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<v Speaker 1>my dms, like Mike, can you please get an iPhone

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<v Speaker 1>so I might listen to the fans? Yeah, you need

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<v Speaker 1>to pay attention to that. Um okay on your one

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<v Speaker 1>on one, I want to talk about that. Because I

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<v Speaker 1>said this earlier, I felt like we didn't see a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of you. Were you really nervous? Did we? Did

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<v Speaker 1>we miss out on some conversation because I know you expressed, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nervous, but it just seemed like a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>nervous energy. Nah, So I definitely wasn't nervous. It was

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<v Speaker 1>more of when I watched The Bachelorette back, all I

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<v Speaker 1>did with smile, and I have so much more than

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<v Speaker 1>a smile. I like, really do converse with people, have

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<v Speaker 1>a great conversation. I feel I think the show just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted me to. They just want to show my smile.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't want you to look like the angry black man,

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<v Speaker 1>and they damn sure in portray me that light. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm appreciative, even though I definitely was going off on

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<v Speaker 1>some people that deserved it. Sure I did too. You

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<v Speaker 1>know it's good, he said it did. It's good? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>did not ery good? Hannah. I definitely had conversations. There

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<v Speaker 1>was no pauses in our dates at all. On both

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<v Speaker 1>of our dates. It was great conversation throughout his fluid.

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<v Speaker 1>They just want to show me a smile for some reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's better than a frown, right, Not definitely, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a frowning. You know, it takes more. It takes

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<v Speaker 1>more muscles to frown than it does a smile, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So therefore to smile. I'm a frowner. I you'r a frowner.

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<v Speaker 1>Are your rbfer? I'm definitely you can say bitch. I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely have a resting bitch face boat show everybody. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>knows that. But I try to work on smiling because

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<v Speaker 1>people tell me that I look angry. So it's nice

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<v Speaker 1>that even Okay, maybe they didn't show your full personality,

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<v Speaker 1>but at least they showed you smiling. Yeah, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good thing. Definitely have a full personality. I'm extremely loud

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<v Speaker 1>and hilarious and I want to scream right now just

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<v Speaker 1>out of pure excitement and enjoy I'm glad that's the

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<v Speaker 1>energy you're bringing into the podcast. Who screamed with you? Um? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you get sent home. We all saw that, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was really hard to watch because you were like

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<v Speaker 1>dressed to impressed. Y'all had had the day date before.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you'd poured your heart out to Hannah. And

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<v Speaker 1>I remember even in the itms, you were saying, I

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<v Speaker 1>see her as my wife. Did you see it coming

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<v Speaker 1>at all? No? Zero percent one did not know that

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna be sent home because and I asked,

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<v Speaker 1>because and I want you to expand on that. I asked,

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<v Speaker 1>because when I got sent home, I knew it. I

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<v Speaker 1>was actually hugging sound and hugging audio and the cameraman

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<v Speaker 1>before the rose ceremony, saying this was it, Like I knew,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt it in my bones, and so I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I assume other people have that same experience. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>curious where you were coming from. Oh, let's speak on it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's juice. You ready for the juice? Time can be like, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet so. No, I one hundred percent thought that

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah was gonna give me a rose. What had a

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<v Speaker 1>shout out of doubt. But for those crazy, crazy extreme fanatics,

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<v Speaker 1>the suit I wore was the exact same suit that

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<v Speaker 1>I got out of the limo in. We didn't know,

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<v Speaker 1>and for me and myself, that was like symbolism. And

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<v Speaker 1>I did that prior to No one knows that, none

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<v Speaker 1>of the producers know that, and so, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>from my end because I wanted to make sure and

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<v Speaker 1>this is real. I don't want Hannah to take this

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<v Speaker 1>no way, nor anybody I was hearing this. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>brought a woman home to my mom in forever, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's been one woman in over a decade, and I

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<v Speaker 1>take that very seriously, whether on TV or not being

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<v Speaker 1>on TV. And I wasn't sure if I was ready

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<v Speaker 1>to take Hannah home, that's fair, and I didn't thought

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna stay. I thought she was gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>me a rose. But I wasn't sure if I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, hey, mom, this is you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful Hannah. What's up? Say hi? Yeah, Hannah can play

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<v Speaker 1>spaces by the way too, so I like that. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know she could play bones. So I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna stay. I thought Hannah wasn't leave me

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<v Speaker 1>a rose. But for me, myself and I shout to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, I thought we would have needed to have

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<v Speaker 1>a longer conversation for me to decide for myself, because well,

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<v Speaker 1>people don't realize that this is a two way street.

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<v Speaker 1>Like just Rachel, you are at the bachelorette, but your husband,

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<v Speaker 1>now he was a contestant, but at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>he had an opportunity to leave as well, and obviously

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted you as you wanted him. And so for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I looked at it like that. That's why I was

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<v Speaker 1>never nervous. It's a two way street. From me my

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<v Speaker 1>heart has feelings as well. I think it's interesting that

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<v Speaker 1>you say, and thank you for being honest and sharing that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's fair fair for you to say you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know if you were ready to bring her home,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's the other side of it. People don't talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you watch this play out, you assume everybody

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<v Speaker 1>wants a rose every single week, But it is such

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<v Speaker 1>a pivotal time when you have to take the lead

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<v Speaker 1>to your home because it's a reality check. You're in

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<v Speaker 1>this bubble, this bachelor bubble. You are caught up in

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<v Speaker 1>these feelings and these emotions because you have to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about them all damn day, every day. And then you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna step outside of that bubble and take them home

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<v Speaker 1>where you know, we talked about this earlier. Your family,

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<v Speaker 1>your friends are gonna check you and bring you back

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<v Speaker 1>to reality. And that's a scary thought. And so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad that you speak on that because I think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people need to realize how nerve wracking it

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<v Speaker 1>is for the person to accept the rose to bring

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<v Speaker 1>them home. You got to make sure that you're ready

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<v Speaker 1>for that. And I think over that, I know you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't watch Colton season but there was a girl who

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<v Speaker 1>did that on Colton season. She just felt like their

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<v Speaker 1>relationship hadn't progressed enough for her to bring him home.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a serious thing. So I like that you set that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing is Hannah. I definitely like her, liked her, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to make sure that is when we

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<v Speaker 1>write for my family as well. I think that shows

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<v Speaker 1>how much you liked her. You weren't just gonna it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a game to you, and you aren't going to

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<v Speaker 1>take her. Yeah, you aren't going to set her up

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<v Speaker 1>for failure. You wanted it to be right, and that

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<v Speaker 1>shows your sincerity. Another good characteristic of the Bachelor, of

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<v Speaker 1>why he should be the Bachelor. I'm just telling y'all

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<v Speaker 1>another good characteristic. All Right, I have so many more

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<v Speaker 1>questions for you. We're gonna take a quick break. I'm

0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:04.840
<v Speaker 1>gonna let you have a breather because I feel like

0:19:04.880 --> 0:19:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I've been grilling you for a moment and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come right back. All right, you guys, I'm back talking

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<v Speaker 1>to the Mike Johnson and we've been talking about his

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<v Speaker 1>time on the Bachelorette and how he got here and

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<v Speaker 1>just this journey through this whole bachelorette journey. But one

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<v Speaker 1>question I want to ask you because the way Hannah

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<v Speaker 1>season ended, we've never seen anything like it before, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to get too into it because it's

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<v Speaker 1>we've talked about it so much, but I am curious

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<v Speaker 1>as to first I'll ask you this. Are you cool

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<v Speaker 1>with Jed? Yes? Okay, So I'm not going to get

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<v Speaker 1>a lot out of you. No, you probably will you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just gonna say, did you see this coming? Oh,

0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:45.480
<v Speaker 1>that's fair to ask. I'm just because I can be cool.

0:19:45.560 --> 0:19:50.480
<v Speaker 1>Someone domo be not honest about the situation, right, So, No,

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<v Speaker 1>none of us knew that Jed had someone back home,

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<v Speaker 1>like at all. It was. I mean, you can see

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<v Speaker 1>my eyes right now. I was like, I was flowergasted

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<v Speaker 1>by it. Had no idea I knew that hand I

0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:03.200
<v Speaker 1>was gonna choose Jet though, um even for the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I got even furthermore when I got sent home because

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<v Speaker 1>I know Ellen. Hannah had one on Ellen and she

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<v Speaker 1>was Ellen was playing that game with her, like who

0:20:10.520 --> 0:20:13.679
<v Speaker 1>she likes? And she chose, uh, what's my man's name?

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<v Speaker 1>From the stars born Radley Cooper? She chose. Hannah chose

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<v Speaker 1>Bradley Cooper. She likes guys that look like they haven't

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<v Speaker 1>showered in a few days, and that's Jet, and so

0:20:22.680 --> 0:20:25.040
<v Speaker 1>is that Jet. Jed looks like he has a shower

0:20:25.720 --> 0:20:28.600
<v Speaker 1>or does he smell like he has a Jet? Smells good?

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<v Speaker 1>He smells good. See to me, he doesn't look rough

0:20:31.280 --> 0:20:34.040
<v Speaker 1>around the edges like that. No, it's just his style.

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<v Speaker 1>He wears a tight jeans with the boots, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the nice little leather jacket thing, got a little beer going.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just his style. He wears a ring. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. Yeah, he wears a ring that really stood

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<v Speaker 1>out to me. I'm not. I'm not into I did. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, none of us knew that Jed had a

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<v Speaker 1>woman back home. He seemed like a great guy to me.

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<v Speaker 1>He's hilarious, He is super funny, he's these are things

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<v Speaker 1>you don't get to see. I mean, we had Jet

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<v Speaker 1>on the show, and of course it was more of

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<v Speaker 1>a serious conversation, so we didn't get to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>him about that. But it's interesting to know there's this

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<v Speaker 1>other side of him now. Although it's sad to say

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<v Speaker 1>that you will not make history being currently being the

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<v Speaker 1>first black bachelor. I'm sorry. Oh no, we'll get into that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want to say you did make history because

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<v Speaker 1>to my knowledge, and again I didn't watch the show

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<v Speaker 1>before I was on it, you are the first contestant

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<v Speaker 1>to wear a do rag and itms, oh, we have

0:21:29.400 --> 0:21:32.639
<v Speaker 1>to talk about that, Hey, do rag king, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I stood up and clapped when I said,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the realist shit I've ever seen on the show.

0:21:39.440 --> 0:21:42.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm always be me, always be a hunted to myself,

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<v Speaker 1>and they always have us. You know, we're at home

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<v Speaker 1>all day in the mansion. Why am I gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>off my dud rag? Why am I gonna take out

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<v Speaker 1>my bajamas that I have one? Like? Yeah, I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be reality TV, so I'm gonna show you reality TV.

0:21:54.920 --> 0:21:57.480
<v Speaker 1>I appreciated it because and what you guys don't know

0:21:57.520 --> 0:21:59.960
<v Speaker 1>a little behind the scenes information is we're not allowed

0:22:00.040 --> 0:22:02.520
<v Speaker 1>to wear sunglasses, we aren't allowed to wear hats, we're

0:22:02.520 --> 0:22:04.200
<v Speaker 1>not allowed to wear things really on our head. So

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<v Speaker 1>when I saw that you were able to wear the

0:22:05.880 --> 0:22:08.200
<v Speaker 1>d rag, I said, way to make a statement, Mike.

0:22:08.359 --> 0:22:10.639
<v Speaker 1>You know I couldn't do this podcast without talking about

0:22:10.680 --> 0:22:13.360
<v Speaker 1>the doo rack. I almost posted it on social media

0:22:13.440 --> 0:22:15.280
<v Speaker 1>when it happened, but I didn't. It was it was,

0:22:15.480 --> 0:22:22.040
<v Speaker 1>It was great. I was a fan of it. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get into paradise, but before I get there,

0:22:24.600 --> 0:22:26.159
<v Speaker 1>I do want to ask you a question because I

0:22:26.200 --> 0:22:28.520
<v Speaker 1>felt like this was a question that was posed to me.

0:22:29.240 --> 0:22:31.879
<v Speaker 1>And it's sad to say, I don't get a lot

0:22:31.960 --> 0:22:34.920
<v Speaker 1>of opportunities to talk with other people in the franchise

0:22:34.960 --> 0:22:36.560
<v Speaker 1>about it, just because there aren't a lot of people

0:22:36.600 --> 0:22:39.240
<v Speaker 1>in the franchise that look like us. But being a

0:22:39.359 --> 0:22:43.640
<v Speaker 1>person of color in this franchise, do you feel like, Oh,

0:22:43.720 --> 0:22:45.720
<v Speaker 1>I guess I should just ask you. What did it

0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:48.280
<v Speaker 1>feel like to be a person of color in this franchise?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you always feel that similar to the way you

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<v Speaker 1>said when you went to the audition and you were

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<v Speaker 1>the only blackmail there. Do you feel like your race

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<v Speaker 1>was an issue on hand a season? Do you feel

0:23:00.960 --> 0:23:02.880
<v Speaker 1>like it's something that you had to talk about constantly?

0:23:02.880 --> 0:23:08.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm very curious, let's do it. So when I found

0:23:08.160 --> 0:23:14.800
<v Speaker 1>out there's a southern white girl from Alabama as a bachelorette,

0:23:15.200 --> 0:23:17.520
<v Speaker 1>I was like, whoa, I'm even sending home? Now you want?

0:23:18.080 --> 0:23:20.479
<v Speaker 1>I would have said the same thing, now you want?

0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:24.639
<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying home. Damn that sucks. But when Hannah

0:23:24.640 --> 0:23:27.440
<v Speaker 1>and I kissed for the first time, I was like, Okay,

0:23:27.600 --> 0:23:32.159
<v Speaker 1>you know, she might like the big lips, and then

0:23:32.320 --> 0:23:35.399
<v Speaker 1>from there it would be in the back of my

0:23:35.480 --> 0:23:37.399
<v Speaker 1>mind I would say, you know, could have Hannah, I

0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:41.359
<v Speaker 1>see herself bringing African American guy home to her parents.

0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:46.520
<v Speaker 1>And now I know her parents love and adore me,

0:23:46.640 --> 0:23:49.720
<v Speaker 1>and so I respect them as well. But that was

0:23:49.800 --> 0:23:51.520
<v Speaker 1>something that was my mind. Not gonna deny it. You know,

0:23:51.560 --> 0:23:54.119
<v Speaker 1>I was concerned about that. But as far as the

0:23:54.160 --> 0:23:58.520
<v Speaker 1>cast member goes the cast members go, I was like,

0:23:59.480 --> 0:24:01.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't really here. I didn't care about none of

0:24:01.080 --> 0:24:02.520
<v Speaker 1>them in that regard. I just cared about Handa and

0:24:02.560 --> 0:24:05.400
<v Speaker 1>how she would feel. And that sounds like I'm trying

0:24:05.400 --> 0:24:08.080
<v Speaker 1>to be a good guy, but that's just not the truth.

0:24:08.160 --> 0:24:09.600
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. I didn't care about none of the

0:24:09.680 --> 0:24:13.840
<v Speaker 1>guys and how they felt. My connection was with Hannah

0:24:13.880 --> 0:24:17.200
<v Speaker 1>and if she didn't if she could see pass raced

0:24:17.240 --> 0:24:19.800
<v Speaker 1>and I was cool with that. No, I I'm very

0:24:19.840 --> 0:24:22.560
<v Speaker 1>curious and I love to talk about it, mainly because

0:24:22.560 --> 0:24:25.399
<v Speaker 1>I can. Yeah, But when I was on The Bachelor,

0:24:25.600 --> 0:24:27.840
<v Speaker 1>I didn't feel that way either. When I got the

0:24:27.880 --> 0:24:31.240
<v Speaker 1>first impression Rose to be Frank. I didn't know what

0:24:31.320 --> 0:24:35.040
<v Speaker 1>that was because I didn't I didn't, I didn't watch

0:24:35.119 --> 0:24:37.639
<v Speaker 1>the show like that before. But there were girls that

0:24:37.720 --> 0:24:40.639
<v Speaker 1>came to me that said, oh, a black person has

0:24:40.680 --> 0:24:43.760
<v Speaker 1>never received the first impression Rose. So those things were

0:24:43.840 --> 0:24:46.399
<v Speaker 1>in my mind when I made it as far as

0:24:46.440 --> 0:24:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I did. I was told a black person's never made

0:24:49.160 --> 0:24:52.560
<v Speaker 1>it this far. So I didn't really feel it until

0:24:52.640 --> 0:24:55.680
<v Speaker 1>those monumental to monaments and then of course being the Bachelorrettes.

0:24:55.680 --> 0:24:57.240
<v Speaker 1>So I'm just very curious as to how it was

0:24:57.320 --> 0:25:00.320
<v Speaker 1>for you. All Right, let's get into Paradise. Why the

0:25:00.400 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 1>hell did you decide to go to Paradise? I still

0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:07.080
<v Speaker 1>was single and still wanted to be in a relationship,

0:25:07.119 --> 0:25:10.720
<v Speaker 1>So why the hell not? So they twist your arm,

0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:15.040
<v Speaker 1>you finally decide to go. You got a day card

0:25:15.080 --> 0:25:17.520
<v Speaker 1>when you first arrived, right, I did. Okay, So you

0:25:17.560 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 1>have a day card and you decided to take Kaylin.

0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:24.560
<v Speaker 1>I did. It was so what the America doesn't see

0:25:24.680 --> 0:25:27.639
<v Speaker 1>is that I was. It was a toss up between

0:25:28.480 --> 0:25:31.760
<v Speaker 1>Sydney and Kaylyn, and then Katie was my second option

0:25:31.840 --> 0:25:33.000
<v Speaker 1>of who I wanted to go on a day with.

0:25:33.480 --> 0:25:35.760
<v Speaker 1>But it was like dead even between Sydney and Kaylin

0:25:35.880 --> 0:25:39.560
<v Speaker 1>and then Katie. I chose Kaylin or Sidney just because

0:25:39.880 --> 0:25:42.040
<v Speaker 1>Sydney is quiet and I felt like at the end

0:25:42.040 --> 0:25:43.160
<v Speaker 1>of the day, I at least have a fun time

0:25:43.160 --> 0:25:45.080
<v Speaker 1>with Kaylin. Yeah, And did you guys have a good

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:47.120
<v Speaker 1>time now? We had a great time after your date.

0:25:47.160 --> 0:25:49.600
<v Speaker 1>Did you know that it wasn't gonna go anywhere after that?

0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 1>I knew I wanted to tell to Sydney because I

0:25:53.359 --> 0:25:56.680
<v Speaker 1>told Sydney even before going on the day with Kaylin.

0:25:56.720 --> 0:25:57.959
<v Speaker 1>I told Sydney, I'm gonna go on to this day

0:25:58.000 --> 0:25:59.040
<v Speaker 1>with her, but I still want to talk to you.

0:25:59.680 --> 0:26:01.720
<v Speaker 1>And so as soon as I got back the next day,

0:26:01.960 --> 0:26:03.159
<v Speaker 1>I was talking to Sydney and I wanted to be

0:26:03.240 --> 0:26:04.760
<v Speaker 1>with Sydney. And I think Kaylen had one on a

0:26:04.880 --> 0:26:07.040
<v Speaker 1>day with Dean that same day. Yeah, so it worked

0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:09.959
<v Speaker 1>out kind of perfect. What happened to Sydney, I mean,

0:26:10.000 --> 0:26:12.399
<v Speaker 1>you guys seem to be having fun and playful on

0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:15.600
<v Speaker 1>the beach. We really didn't get the end of your stories.

0:26:15.840 --> 0:26:18.600
<v Speaker 1>What happened? First off, they not first off to you,

0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:23.199
<v Speaker 1>that's disrespectful, but first off to the show, Like, bro,

0:26:23.400 --> 0:26:25.680
<v Speaker 1>come on, you gotta like show what happened to the

0:26:25.840 --> 0:26:29.679
<v Speaker 1>end of Sydney and I, yeah, weird, So tell us

0:26:29.800 --> 0:26:35.240
<v Speaker 1>what happened. I broke it off with Sydney. I just

0:26:35.359 --> 0:26:38.600
<v Speaker 1>felt as if I thought a couple of things. One,

0:26:38.600 --> 0:26:41.440
<v Speaker 1>I feel like she didn't find me sexually attractive too.

0:26:41.520 --> 0:26:46.160
<v Speaker 1>I felt like our connection just was not there whatsoever.

0:26:47.000 --> 0:26:50.680
<v Speaker 1>I think that we both were trying. And I think

0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:53.040
<v Speaker 1>that Sydney is a diamond. When I say a diamond,

0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:57.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean that she is absolutely spectacular and very very

0:26:57.840 --> 0:27:01.320
<v Speaker 1>hard to crack, and that what I mean by diamond,

0:27:01.760 --> 0:27:05.359
<v Speaker 1>and so I called it ruby as well. But that

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:08.639
<v Speaker 1>diamond wasn't for me, and so I broke things off

0:27:08.720 --> 0:27:11.879
<v Speaker 1>with her. And then I went to the to the wedding.

0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:15.399
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so it was before the wedding. Gosh, we

0:27:15.600 --> 0:27:18.600
<v Speaker 1>really didn't see well, we don't know, so, I mean,

0:27:18.640 --> 0:27:20.399
<v Speaker 1>you can kind of set the timeline for us. But

0:27:20.800 --> 0:27:23.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you cleared that up because I remember watching

0:27:23.880 --> 0:27:27.119
<v Speaker 1>thinking what happened to Mike and Sydney. They just all

0:27:27.119 --> 0:27:29.280
<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, they just weren't. Yeah, that was weird.

0:27:29.440 --> 0:27:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I broke it off with Sydney. It was it was

0:27:32.280 --> 0:27:36.280
<v Speaker 1>respectful on both sides. It was mutual. And I went

0:27:36.320 --> 0:27:38.040
<v Speaker 1>to the wedding, and that's what y'all don't get to see.

0:27:38.080 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I was in my zone. I was Mike Johnson to

0:27:41.080 --> 0:27:43.600
<v Speaker 1>a T Mike and Dallas was up representing San anton

0:27:44.960 --> 0:27:48.359
<v Speaker 1>I was just heavyes can be. I was just so

0:27:49.160 --> 0:27:51.520
<v Speaker 1>just thrilled to be there. I literally forgot I was

0:27:51.520 --> 0:27:54.480
<v Speaker 1>wearing a microphone. I forgot its cameras was on. I

0:27:54.600 --> 0:27:56.960
<v Speaker 1>just was having a wonderful time. I were free. I

0:27:57.119 --> 0:27:59.920
<v Speaker 1>was free. Yeah. I spoke to Angela, I spot to Danielle,

0:28:00.080 --> 0:28:04.160
<v Speaker 1>I spoke to Bibiana, and I just had a wonderful time,

0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:06.040
<v Speaker 1>Like it was. First of all, I love going to

0:28:06.080 --> 0:28:10.840
<v Speaker 1>weddings because the reception and because you get the dance

0:28:10.880 --> 0:28:12.800
<v Speaker 1>and oh yeah, I just have a fun time. Do

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:17.040
<v Speaker 1>the bunny hobbit. Listen when people ask me about my wedding,

0:28:17.080 --> 0:28:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, let me tell about the reception. I had

0:28:21.920 --> 0:28:25.720
<v Speaker 1>a fantastic time at Chris and Chris's wedding. Shout out

0:28:25.720 --> 0:28:29.639
<v Speaker 1>to them their beautiful love birds. And then I went

0:28:29.680 --> 0:28:32.160
<v Speaker 1>on to day with Angela. So I got a question

0:28:32.240 --> 0:28:34.960
<v Speaker 1>for you, got a answer for you. What do you say?

0:28:35.160 --> 0:28:37.000
<v Speaker 1>And I'm asking you this because people said it to

0:28:37.080 --> 0:28:40.000
<v Speaker 1>me too. What do you say to the critics that

0:28:40.240 --> 0:28:44.600
<v Speaker 1>say you don't like to day black women? Yeah, that's crazy, Um,

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:48.720
<v Speaker 1>I would say, literally my ex girlfriend prior to being

0:28:48.760 --> 0:28:53.160
<v Speaker 1>in on America's face as a black woman, I come

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:55.360
<v Speaker 1>from a black woman who's a strong and beautiful. My

0:28:55.440 --> 0:28:57.480
<v Speaker 1>sister and my grandmother. Don't make me go all on y'all,

0:28:58.120 --> 0:29:00.760
<v Speaker 1>off on y'allum. First of all, I was on to

0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:03.080
<v Speaker 1>show that the league was a white girl, So therefore,

0:29:04.200 --> 0:29:08.320
<v Speaker 1>who cares my homies always telling me to follow your heart?

0:29:09.160 --> 0:29:12.960
<v Speaker 1>And then my aunt's you know my aunts, they're they're

0:29:13.040 --> 0:29:15.560
<v Speaker 1>the ones that want a date a black woman. And

0:29:15.640 --> 0:29:19.640
<v Speaker 1>then my uncle's like, she find what's up? And that's

0:29:19.680 --> 0:29:23.040
<v Speaker 1>just me being transparent. But my homeboys and my sister

0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:25.920
<v Speaker 1>and my grandma always tell me to follow my heart

0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 1>and wasn't near and dear to me. The craziest thing

0:29:29.560 --> 0:29:31.080
<v Speaker 1>is like when I if I were a data white

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:32.840
<v Speaker 1>girl and I take her back to where I'm from

0:29:32.880 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 1>in Dallas and we got to certain places we will

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:40.480
<v Speaker 1>get looked at in Texas. That is true, But also

0:29:40.560 --> 0:29:44.080
<v Speaker 1>true is I don't care. I absolutely love my black woman.

0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:49.080
<v Speaker 1>When I auditioned to be the bachelor. I had a

0:29:49.200 --> 0:29:53.560
<v Speaker 1>Microsoft word spreadsheet that I had printed out financial advising.

0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:57.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you know, I'm weird like that. And I had

0:29:57.880 --> 0:30:02.600
<v Speaker 1>three different categories of women, and the first was the

0:30:02.760 --> 0:30:06.960
<v Speaker 1>black woman that I am attracted to and I'm not

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:11.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna say their names. And the second, the second one

0:30:11.320 --> 0:30:16.360
<v Speaker 1>was like mixed chicks or whatever or other category Pacific

0:30:16.400 --> 0:30:18.880
<v Speaker 1>islander type category. And the third chick. The third category

0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:23.280
<v Speaker 1>is the white girls. And I mean, I'm a man

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 1>that has lived around the world, living in Europe for

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:30.719
<v Speaker 1>five years, and I love all people, and I am

0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:33.800
<v Speaker 1>attracted to who I'm attracted to. I have always said

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:37.719
<v Speaker 1>I would marry a black woman, but I'm not going

0:30:37.760 --> 0:30:42.000
<v Speaker 1>to hold my breath. I love you being honest about this,

0:30:42.120 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 1>and I ask you because, again, as as prefaced this

0:30:44.800 --> 0:30:47.960
<v Speaker 1>whole conversation, I can talk to you about things that

0:30:48.040 --> 0:30:50.200
<v Speaker 1>I can't really talk to every guest that comes through

0:30:50.280 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 1>here because we have shared experiences. And I got the

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:57.640
<v Speaker 1>same criticism because you come on TV and you're on

0:30:57.760 --> 0:31:01.640
<v Speaker 1>the season of somebney who's white. Yes, And then as

0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>the bachelorette, I have a whole shlew of men to

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:08.680
<v Speaker 1>choose from, and the one I ended up with is Colombian.

0:31:08.760 --> 0:31:11.640
<v Speaker 1>So people automatically think you don't like your your last race,

0:31:11.720 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 1>and you are last race, people automatically think you don't

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:16.800
<v Speaker 1>like your own race. And you know how it is.

0:31:16.920 --> 0:31:19.600
<v Speaker 1>You're judged by America and then you're judged by Black America,

0:31:19.880 --> 0:31:22.280
<v Speaker 1>and they're the ones, and they're the ones that usually

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:25.920
<v Speaker 1>come at you for not liking your own race. And

0:31:26.080 --> 0:31:28.560
<v Speaker 1>it's so I love that you said my girlfriend prior

0:31:28.600 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 1>to the show was black. They don't know your dating

0:31:31.760 --> 0:31:33.840
<v Speaker 1>history before coming on the show, and so I wanted

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:36.200
<v Speaker 1>to talk about that because I know you got that

0:31:36.320 --> 0:31:42.160
<v Speaker 1>same criticism as well. Know I absolutely adore my black

0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:45.240
<v Speaker 1>woman and my black skin. Am I Melanin and I'll

0:31:45.320 --> 0:31:48.480
<v Speaker 1>kiss all over you if you're my lady. You love women,

0:31:48.840 --> 0:31:51.720
<v Speaker 1>and there's and there's nothing there's but there's nothing. But

0:31:51.840 --> 0:31:55.800
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing wrong with that, all shapes, sizes, personalities, You

0:31:55.920 --> 0:31:58.240
<v Speaker 1>love for women, you're a lover of women. There's nothing

0:31:58.280 --> 0:32:00.800
<v Speaker 1>wrong with that. You're single. I think we'll get into

0:32:00.840 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 1>that later, but yeah, there's there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

0:32:05.160 --> 0:32:06.880
<v Speaker 1>And I think that your friends are right and telling

0:32:06.920 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 1>you love who you love there or you said you

0:32:09.960 --> 0:32:11.640
<v Speaker 1>always thought that you would marry a black woman. I

0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:13.440
<v Speaker 1>truly always thought that I would marry a black man.

0:32:14.240 --> 0:32:15.960
<v Speaker 1>Has to say that either, but no, and I and

0:32:16.080 --> 0:32:18.320
<v Speaker 1>I put that to the side and just said I'm

0:32:18.320 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna love who I love, and it turned out to

0:32:21.080 --> 0:32:23.960
<v Speaker 1>be Brian. So you know, I think that if you

0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:25.960
<v Speaker 1>put those lists to the side and those you know,

0:32:26.160 --> 0:32:28.280
<v Speaker 1>I have to do this and just open your heart

0:32:28.320 --> 0:32:31.480
<v Speaker 1>to whatever, you'd be surprised at what comes through. Yeah,

0:32:31.920 --> 0:32:35.160
<v Speaker 1>you know that. There's a little um ig story that's

0:32:35.200 --> 0:32:37.440
<v Speaker 1>going biba right now. It's the little white kid and

0:32:37.440 --> 0:32:38.880
<v Speaker 1>a litt black kid and they run up to each other.

0:32:38.960 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 1>They're on the side. Oh yeah, I've seen that. Yeah.

0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:43.800
<v Speaker 1>When I was a child and one of my best

0:32:43.880 --> 0:32:46.000
<v Speaker 1>friends growing up, his name is Colt Simons, so cold

0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:47.800
<v Speaker 1>if you hear this, what's up? Hold me? He was

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:50.600
<v Speaker 1>a white kid that lived in like our neighborhood, but

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:52.640
<v Speaker 1>he was like the white kid that had money and

0:32:53.200 --> 0:32:54.840
<v Speaker 1>he was the only white kid in our neighborhood. And

0:32:55.360 --> 0:32:59.720
<v Speaker 1>his parents had his driveway was some minute and they

0:32:59.800 --> 0:33:02.240
<v Speaker 1>had basketball goal and it was really cool and all

0:33:02.240 --> 0:33:03.680
<v Speaker 1>the black guys who come over there and it was

0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:06.440
<v Speaker 1>never about race until he went to high school and

0:33:09.360 --> 0:33:11.200
<v Speaker 1>those little kids I was talking about with a little

0:33:11.200 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 1>white and a little black kid running up to each other.

0:33:13.040 --> 0:33:14.920
<v Speaker 1>They don't think about race. I think about love and

0:33:15.000 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 1>friendship and happiness, right, and then when we get older,

0:33:17.760 --> 0:33:21.880
<v Speaker 1>we it just it happens. It comes about. You know,

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:23.280
<v Speaker 1>when I was in Europe, and I lived in Europe

0:33:23.320 --> 0:33:24.520
<v Speaker 1>and I go on a day with a white girl,

0:33:24.640 --> 0:33:26.200
<v Speaker 1>you no big deal. I got on a day with

0:33:26.240 --> 0:33:28.080
<v Speaker 1>a white girl in Texas, go to Aha or something, which,

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:29.800
<v Speaker 1>by the way, I'm way better in my days in

0:33:31.080 --> 0:33:33.160
<v Speaker 1>But if I were to go someone with a white

0:33:33.240 --> 0:33:36.200
<v Speaker 1>girl in Texas will be looked at differently versus if

0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:38.880
<v Speaker 1>me and you go out. Yeah everybody, I know she

0:33:39.000 --> 0:33:41.719
<v Speaker 1>has a husband. Okay, No, but I get what you mean.

0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:45.240
<v Speaker 1>It's yes, yes, people think that you're supposed to. I

0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:46.840
<v Speaker 1>just pulled up what I told you all about them

0:33:47.040 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 1>the document here. Look I got and can I give

0:33:50.320 --> 0:33:52.960
<v Speaker 1>some back some inside knowledge. Now you said that this

0:33:53.080 --> 0:33:54.600
<v Speaker 1>is when you were in talk to the bathroom. We're

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:57.080
<v Speaker 1>going to get into that. But some behind the scenes

0:33:57.200 --> 0:33:59.960
<v Speaker 1>things that people don't know, and that's what we promise

0:34:00.120 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 1>to give you on this podcast, is that when you

0:34:02.280 --> 0:34:05.360
<v Speaker 1>are in talks. They do ask you who are you

0:34:05.520 --> 0:34:08.239
<v Speaker 1>interested in? What are you attracted to? What type of

0:34:08.320 --> 0:34:10.400
<v Speaker 1>women or men would you like to see on the season.

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:12.759
<v Speaker 1>So that's why I want people to realize you weren't

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:15.359
<v Speaker 1>just sitting at home and pulled out this this word

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:18.760
<v Speaker 1>document because you just got it saved no production ask

0:34:18.880 --> 0:34:21.960
<v Speaker 1>you who you're interested in? Definitely, So I was prepared.

0:34:21.960 --> 0:34:24.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean I was taking this stuff seriously, like we

0:34:24.280 --> 0:34:26.680
<v Speaker 1>talked about earlier, I was there for the right reasons. Yeah,

0:34:27.040 --> 0:34:33.880
<v Speaker 1>and so yeah, um I was. I was going to

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:38.440
<v Speaker 1>ask him. I was good, we'll have to. Can we

0:34:38.520 --> 0:34:45.480
<v Speaker 1>put up his document on one Bachelor Nation dot com? Um?

0:34:46.000 --> 0:34:48.280
<v Speaker 1>You should? You should? You should put that up yourself

0:34:48.320 --> 0:34:50.680
<v Speaker 1>if you're if you're comfortable with that, because that's very interesting.

0:34:51.600 --> 0:34:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I was going to ask you about the Bachelor in

0:34:53.760 --> 0:34:57.160
<v Speaker 1>Paradise reunion. Okay, I don't really you can, I be honest.

0:34:57.239 --> 0:34:58.640
<v Speaker 1>You look like you did not want to be there.

0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:01.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be there, very annoyed. Is that

0:35:01.680 --> 0:35:04.920
<v Speaker 1>does that pretty much wrap up how you felt about Paradise?

0:35:06.239 --> 0:35:08.440
<v Speaker 1>I just felt that I had nothing to contribute. I

0:35:08.520 --> 0:35:12.279
<v Speaker 1>didn't when I watched the show back. I wasn't in

0:35:12.320 --> 0:35:14.879
<v Speaker 1>any scenes. I wasn't about the drama. I would walk

0:35:14.920 --> 0:35:17.480
<v Speaker 1>away off camera when they were having drama situations. And

0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:20.240
<v Speaker 1>so I didn't fall in love on Bachelor in Paradise.

0:35:20.280 --> 0:35:21.560
<v Speaker 1>So I just felt like there was no need for

0:35:21.640 --> 0:35:25.359
<v Speaker 1>me to be there. And then right before going on stage,

0:35:25.360 --> 0:35:26.720
<v Speaker 1>they told me that I wasn't going to be the Bachelor,

0:35:27.400 --> 0:35:30.399
<v Speaker 1>and so you got me out here, you know, flew

0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:34.080
<v Speaker 1>me to La I'm working to Ascot, which I don't think.

0:35:34.120 --> 0:35:35.919
<v Speaker 1>No one has rocked to Ascot on the show before.

0:35:36.040 --> 0:35:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't think so either, And I did notice it,

0:35:38.920 --> 0:35:42.800
<v Speaker 1>and I just there was no need for me to

0:35:42.840 --> 0:35:45.200
<v Speaker 1>be there, and you just tell me that I'm not

0:35:45.239 --> 0:35:46.640
<v Speaker 1>gonna be the Bachelor, So I just didn't want to

0:35:46.680 --> 0:35:48.399
<v Speaker 1>be there at all. All Right, Mike, that's a really

0:35:48.480 --> 0:35:52.200
<v Speaker 1>good place to stop, because that conversation is going to

0:35:52.280 --> 0:35:54.000
<v Speaker 1>take another turn and I really want to get in

0:35:54.080 --> 0:35:56.879
<v Speaker 1>depth with that. So coming up next, we're gonna talk

0:35:56.880 --> 0:36:00.880
<v Speaker 1>to Mike about how he felt about not being the

0:36:01.000 --> 0:36:07.640
<v Speaker 1>next Bachelor. Stay tuned. Okay, welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour,

0:36:07.719 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 1>and I'm talking to Mike Johnson and Mike, we're just

0:36:09.800 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna go straight to it. We're gonna get into it.

0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:14.840
<v Speaker 1>At this point, we know that you weren't chosen to

0:36:14.960 --> 0:36:20.600
<v Speaker 1>be the next Bachelor. I'm still not over it, but

0:36:20.719 --> 0:36:23.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to know how you feel about it. So,

0:36:23.800 --> 0:36:27.799
<v Speaker 1>were you in talks to be the next Bachelor? Percent

0:36:27.880 --> 0:36:29.960
<v Speaker 1>talks to be the next Bachelor? I think a lot

0:36:30.000 --> 0:36:32.600
<v Speaker 1>of people want to know because people are upset, right,

0:36:32.680 --> 0:36:35.040
<v Speaker 1>you're not You're not the Bachelor. People are rioting and

0:36:35.120 --> 0:36:40.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm leading it. Okay, I appreciate it, but a lot

0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:42.719
<v Speaker 1>of people don't even think that you were considered to

0:36:42.840 --> 0:36:44.560
<v Speaker 1>be the Bachelor. So that's why I wanted to lead

0:36:44.600 --> 0:36:47.360
<v Speaker 1>off with that question. And people probably didn't think I

0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:48.960
<v Speaker 1>was considering be the Bachelor because I was trying to

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:52.719
<v Speaker 1>be so respectful of the crew at Bachelor World, and

0:36:52.800 --> 0:36:54.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to speak about it even when I

0:36:54.680 --> 0:36:57.160
<v Speaker 1>went on TV. I thought that was being extremely respectful

0:36:57.200 --> 0:37:01.600
<v Speaker 1>and a gentleman of me to the Bachelor World, and

0:37:01.840 --> 0:37:04.840
<v Speaker 1>Peter didn't. I don't think Peter did those interviews, and

0:37:05.000 --> 0:37:08.680
<v Speaker 1>so he didn't have to go through that. I wanted

0:37:08.680 --> 0:37:13.320
<v Speaker 1>to be the Bachelor reasons being because one, I do

0:37:13.520 --> 0:37:16.480
<v Speaker 1>want to find a wife. Two it was bigger than me,

0:37:17.000 --> 0:37:19.600
<v Speaker 1>and I wanted to represent for all people of color,

0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:22.839
<v Speaker 1>and then also talking about people of color, they need

0:37:22.880 --> 0:37:24.040
<v Speaker 1>to have an Asian bachelor, they need to have an

0:37:24.040 --> 0:37:26.360
<v Speaker 1>Indian bachelor, they need to have other people outside just

0:37:26.440 --> 0:37:27.840
<v Speaker 1>black and white, and so I want to speak on

0:37:27.920 --> 0:37:31.280
<v Speaker 1>that as well. But I did audition to be the Bachelor,

0:37:31.880 --> 0:37:35.239
<v Speaker 1>and one percent did want to be the Bachelor. I

0:37:35.280 --> 0:37:38.600
<v Speaker 1>think that's important for people to know too. This isn't

0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:41.399
<v Speaker 1>an instance where you were offered and you turned it down.

0:37:42.000 --> 0:37:45.719
<v Speaker 1>You wanted it and you didn't get it. So how

0:37:45.800 --> 0:37:48.279
<v Speaker 1>did you feel when you found out you were not

0:37:48.400 --> 0:37:50.800
<v Speaker 1>chosen to be the Bachelor. I found out in the

0:37:50.880 --> 0:37:54.400
<v Speaker 1>trailers you know before you go on Bachelor and Paradise Reunion,

0:37:56.239 --> 0:37:59.799
<v Speaker 1>and I knew it all. You knew in my head.

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:01.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes I wanted to be the Bachelor. Yes, I auditioned

0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:05.360
<v Speaker 1>to be the Bachelor. I went in there with the

0:38:05.520 --> 0:38:07.800
<v Speaker 1>right intentions of I wanted to find love, want to

0:38:07.840 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 1>be true to myself. You might have seen do rad

0:38:09.520 --> 0:38:14.240
<v Speaker 1>Keene come back. I had a list of a word

0:38:14.360 --> 0:38:16.440
<v Speaker 1>document of the type of women I wanted, what I

0:38:16.520 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 1>was scared of, what I wasn't scared of, And I

0:38:19.120 --> 0:38:22.680
<v Speaker 1>think ultimately it just came down to they chose the

0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:26.600
<v Speaker 1>right person for what they want, and there's nothing wrong

0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:29.000
<v Speaker 1>with that at all. When I first found out, I

0:38:29.160 --> 0:38:31.480
<v Speaker 1>was I'm not gonna lie. I was sad. I was

0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:35.000
<v Speaker 1>annoyed when I very first found out, But then I

0:38:35.080 --> 0:38:37.920
<v Speaker 1>think by the end of the night, I wasn't annoyed

0:38:37.920 --> 0:38:42.560
<v Speaker 1>nomore because I was appreciative and thankful that they told

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:44.200
<v Speaker 1>me no right then and there, because now I can

0:38:44.280 --> 0:38:46.719
<v Speaker 1>focus on myself. And I'm just blessed because I know

0:38:46.760 --> 0:38:49.680
<v Speaker 1>i'mna find my wife and find my queen. You know, Mike,

0:38:50.360 --> 0:38:52.800
<v Speaker 1>this is that's really really big of you, and it

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:56.000
<v Speaker 1>makes me still want you to be the Bachelor even more.

0:38:56.200 --> 0:39:01.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm more upset this podcast. I'm telling you, don't you

0:39:01.200 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 1>edit this out. I'm upset, and I just I hadn't

0:39:04.920 --> 0:39:07.640
<v Speaker 1>even met you. You know most people don't know is

0:39:07.680 --> 0:39:10.600
<v Speaker 1>that we have a mutual friend. Yes, my mentee from

0:39:10.680 --> 0:39:13.919
<v Speaker 1>college is one of your best friends, so I could

0:39:14.000 --> 0:39:16.759
<v Speaker 1>speak to your character outside of what I saw on

0:39:16.880 --> 0:39:18.880
<v Speaker 1>the show. And now I'm sitting here in front of you,

0:39:19.239 --> 0:39:21.759
<v Speaker 1>and I'm just so I might shut a tear. I'm

0:39:21.840 --> 0:39:25.680
<v Speaker 1>just so upset that you're not the Bachelor, and this

0:39:25.840 --> 0:39:27.120
<v Speaker 1>is what I have to say, and I'll ask you

0:39:27.200 --> 0:39:30.040
<v Speaker 1>this too, because you've just been so open and honest

0:39:30.080 --> 0:39:33.280
<v Speaker 1>and really respectful and how you're handling this whole process.

0:39:34.680 --> 0:39:37.920
<v Speaker 1>This is nothing against Peter. We had Peter on the show,

0:39:38.440 --> 0:39:40.239
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of times people will confuse that we've

0:39:40.320 --> 0:39:44.160
<v Speaker 1>had Peter on the show. Peter seems lovely, straight lined,

0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:49.400
<v Speaker 1>vanilla but lovely. And I and it's not that I

0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:51.719
<v Speaker 1>don't think he'll make a great bachelor. I think that,

0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:55.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, he's very Ben Higgins esque. I think they'll

0:39:55.239 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 1>surround him with an entertaining cast to mask his u

0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:08.480
<v Speaker 1>his magoonness. I I I again. So I'm saying all

0:40:08.520 --> 0:40:10.359
<v Speaker 1>that to say it is not a knock against people,

0:40:10.480 --> 0:40:12.400
<v Speaker 1>nothing against Peter. What do you think about Peter being

0:40:12.440 --> 0:40:13.920
<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor? Do you think he'll make a good one.

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I think Peter is a good looking to do with

0:40:17.960 --> 0:40:21.480
<v Speaker 1>his five o'clock shadow, He has a fun, super fun job.

0:40:22.080 --> 0:40:25.200
<v Speaker 1>His family's amazing, his little brother. I know personally he's

0:40:25.320 --> 0:40:27.719
<v Speaker 1>dope kid. And I said, oh, when I say, called

0:40:27.760 --> 0:40:30.320
<v Speaker 1>somebody else a kid, right, I'm only thirty one, But

0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:34.080
<v Speaker 1>I think I would have been more entertaining. I said it,

0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:36.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna stick by my word. Yeah, I think

0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:41.040
<v Speaker 1>you'd more entertaining too. Um. Oh, you said Peter has

0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:42.959
<v Speaker 1>a has a fun job. I don't think he's gonna

0:40:43.000 --> 0:40:46.439
<v Speaker 1>have that job after doing The Bachelor. I disagree Peter

0:40:47.719 --> 0:40:50.160
<v Speaker 1>is in love with being a pilot. No, I don't

0:40:50.200 --> 0:40:52.480
<v Speaker 1>think it's up to him. Oh not correct, you know

0:40:52.520 --> 0:40:54.439
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. I'm sure he'd get another job. He'll

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:55.920
<v Speaker 1>be a private father or something. I'm just saying I

0:40:55.960 --> 0:40:57.799
<v Speaker 1>could just have his own plane. He might. Maybe they'll

0:40:57.840 --> 0:40:59.759
<v Speaker 1>let him take a sabbatical. I don't know. It's hard.

0:41:00.040 --> 0:41:01.480
<v Speaker 1>I think that's why a lot of times you see

0:41:01.880 --> 0:41:07.680
<v Speaker 1>people on the show who have jobs or lack thereof

0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:09.920
<v Speaker 1>of jobs, because it's hard to ask your employer for

0:41:10.040 --> 0:41:11.919
<v Speaker 1>time off. So I'm not saying that as a knock

0:41:11.960 --> 0:41:14.279
<v Speaker 1>to Peter. I'm just saying it's gonna be hard for

0:41:14.400 --> 0:41:16.080
<v Speaker 1>him to be able to do both, is what I'm saying.

0:41:16.320 --> 0:41:18.919
<v Speaker 1>And I was a financial levisor so therefore I didn't

0:41:18.920 --> 0:41:20.120
<v Speaker 1>have a boss to tell me what I can and

0:41:20.200 --> 0:41:27.480
<v Speaker 1>can do. Say it again, have you really answered my

0:41:27.560 --> 0:41:30.759
<v Speaker 1>Bachelor questions very well? I mean not that I was

0:41:30.840 --> 0:41:32.680
<v Speaker 1>trying to get MESSI or anything, but you are a

0:41:32.760 --> 0:41:34.279
<v Speaker 1>very matter of fact, and I think it is what

0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:36.440
<v Speaker 1>it is. I will ask you this, are you Are

0:41:36.520 --> 0:41:39.160
<v Speaker 1>you disappointed with the lack of diversity on the show.

0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:42.120
<v Speaker 1>So that's one of the things I spoke about to

0:41:42.520 --> 0:41:44.560
<v Speaker 1>the producers if I were to be the Bachelor, and

0:41:44.680 --> 0:41:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I said that I wanted to be representative of America

0:41:47.800 --> 0:41:50.360
<v Speaker 1>as far as the women that would be on the

0:41:50.360 --> 0:41:53.160
<v Speaker 1>show if I were to be cast as a bachelor, like,

0:41:53.239 --> 0:41:55.759
<v Speaker 1>I also feel that more people of color. And I

0:41:55.880 --> 0:41:59.800
<v Speaker 1>know Peter mom is of Latin descent, but come on,

0:42:00.360 --> 0:42:02.640
<v Speaker 1>Peter's white, right, Let's be honest. And so I'm not

0:42:02.680 --> 0:42:04.840
<v Speaker 1>talking about things of that nature. I'm talking about I

0:42:04.960 --> 0:42:08.360
<v Speaker 1>want to full on Indian guy or a full on

0:42:08.640 --> 0:42:10.759
<v Speaker 1>Asian girl. For some reason, I like Asian girls. I

0:42:10.840 --> 0:42:13.480
<v Speaker 1>like Sydney's Asian. I didn't know that. I didn't know

0:42:13.560 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 1>that about myself until going on Paradise, open to all

0:42:17.160 --> 0:42:21.160
<v Speaker 1>these different experience. Really does love women? You love women,

0:42:21.360 --> 0:42:24.040
<v Speaker 1>It's what you feel, And I think that's great. Do

0:42:24.239 --> 0:42:28.359
<v Speaker 1>you think that not getting the Bachelor is the best

0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:31.920
<v Speaker 1>thing you never had? Right now? I'm about to say

0:42:32.040 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 1>right now because I don't focused on is in the moment,

0:42:35.440 --> 0:42:38.080
<v Speaker 1>and so I know that if I were to be

0:42:38.160 --> 0:42:42.680
<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor, it would come with a lot more scrutiny

0:42:42.800 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 1>into my personal life, into my family's personal life, and too,

0:42:46.040 --> 0:42:49.440
<v Speaker 1>my sister and things of that nature. And maybe that's

0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:50.960
<v Speaker 1>God's what I'm saying. It's not the right time for

0:42:51.000 --> 0:42:54.799
<v Speaker 1>you to be in that spotlight. And the whole point

0:42:54.840 --> 0:42:57.560
<v Speaker 1>of going on the show is a finer person, and

0:42:57.680 --> 0:43:00.640
<v Speaker 1>so I want to make sure that that's the presidents.

0:43:01.320 --> 0:43:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to find my wife, I wanted to find

0:43:03.120 --> 0:43:05.400
<v Speaker 1>my queen, and so if I'm not on a Bachelor,

0:43:05.520 --> 0:43:07.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, I've been blessed to be open up to

0:43:07.760 --> 0:43:09.560
<v Speaker 1>a plethora of people that know my face, and so

0:43:09.640 --> 0:43:11.920
<v Speaker 1>I may find my woman. Still, yeah, let's talk about that.

0:43:12.000 --> 0:43:14.319
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about God's plan and the women that you've

0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:18.680
<v Speaker 1>been opened up to meet. A ka Demi Lavado. Oh,

0:43:18.760 --> 0:43:21.840
<v Speaker 1>we got to talk about it, okay, because Demi Lavado

0:43:22.120 --> 0:43:23.800
<v Speaker 1>is a fan of the show, and I have not

0:43:23.920 --> 0:43:29.160
<v Speaker 1>seen her this involved ever, So spilled the tea. Spill

0:43:29.200 --> 0:43:31.200
<v Speaker 1>the tea. Before I spill the tea, you said two

0:43:31.239 --> 0:43:33.480
<v Speaker 1>Drake lines. By the way you said one, I'm upset.

0:43:33.600 --> 0:43:38.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean you said I'm a fan. Just so you know, Um,

0:43:38.760 --> 0:43:43.120
<v Speaker 1>spilled the tea on Demi. Okay, I'll ask you more

0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:45.960
<v Speaker 1>pointed places, ask you questions because I will always answer it.

0:43:46.000 --> 0:43:47.440
<v Speaker 1>I will always answer the question. You just got to

0:43:47.480 --> 0:43:52.080
<v Speaker 1>ask them. Okay, have you met? Yes, Demi and I

0:43:52.160 --> 0:43:57.879
<v Speaker 1>have met in person. How many times we met? We've

0:43:57.920 --> 0:44:00.800
<v Speaker 1>met more than one time. Let me just tell you

0:44:01.080 --> 0:44:04.320
<v Speaker 1>who is not going to be on Peter season. Demie Lavado. Okay.

0:44:04.800 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 1>None of those girls can even stand in the same

0:44:08.320 --> 0:44:11.360
<v Speaker 1>room with Demmi Levado, so you are already winning. Let

0:44:11.440 --> 0:44:14.560
<v Speaker 1>me just tell you this, Mike Johnson your middle name, no,

0:44:14.760 --> 0:44:18.120
<v Speaker 1>no middle name, okay, Mike Johnson. Um, how is she?

0:44:19.080 --> 0:44:22.440
<v Speaker 1>I think she's amazing. She's incredibly humble when she and

0:44:22.640 --> 0:44:25.600
<v Speaker 1>when her and I are together or have Oh my god,

0:44:25.600 --> 0:44:29.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying this now. Don't say anything that's gonna mess

0:44:29.480 --> 0:44:32.080
<v Speaker 1>up the relationship because I'm shipping this. No, not at all.

0:44:32.520 --> 0:44:36.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm extremely respectful. When Demi and I are together, it's

0:44:36.920 --> 0:44:40.000
<v Speaker 1>laughter and we talk about real shit, like she's a

0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:42.719
<v Speaker 1>down to earth woman and I respect it so much.

0:44:42.960 --> 0:44:47.640
<v Speaker 1>And she's just really humble, really cool, really fun, down

0:44:47.680 --> 0:44:49.960
<v Speaker 1>to earth person. And she's from Texas and she's from

0:44:50.000 --> 0:44:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Texas that in common her bodyguard from Texas too, So

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool. Look, okay, you sound well acquainted. Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying it's my job to see through this.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say that I have met Demi Levado and

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<v Speaker 1>she did not have this reaction to me. She treated

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<v Speaker 1>me like I don't even know if she knew I

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<v Speaker 1>was on the Bachelor. She took a picture with me

0:45:08.680 --> 0:45:12.880
<v Speaker 1>and walked away. She's an extremely sweet woman. No, no,

0:45:13.080 --> 0:45:16.080
<v Speaker 1>she seems really sweet. And is there anything else that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you want to tell us? What is the status

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<v Speaker 1>of your relationship with Demi Levado? My status of the

0:45:21.840 --> 0:45:24.399
<v Speaker 1>relationship with Demi and I are that we are two

0:45:24.440 --> 0:45:28.040
<v Speaker 1>people exploring each other. I like it. I like it.

0:45:28.280 --> 0:45:30.960
<v Speaker 1>So what's next for you? Mike Johnson? What's next for me? So?

0:45:32.280 --> 0:45:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I am really big and I really care about self

0:45:37.640 --> 0:45:40.719
<v Speaker 1>love and insecurities, and so I am working on something

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<v Speaker 1>right now to help raise people's self love and lower

0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:47.840
<v Speaker 1>their insecurities through a media platform. I love this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to tell you why this is so necessary.

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<v Speaker 1>So we just did a podcast with Blake and it

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<v Speaker 1>went so deep it had to be two parts. And

0:45:56.800 --> 0:45:59.400
<v Speaker 1>what I loved about that podcast is he was so

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<v Speaker 1>open vulnerable. I mean, you met Blake, you saw the drama,

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<v Speaker 1>but he talked about the darker side of being a

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor Nation, which a lot of people don't. I hit

0:46:09.000 --> 0:46:10.600
<v Speaker 1>him up about it, and I really think that you

0:46:10.719 --> 0:46:14.239
<v Speaker 1>guys should team up together and really help people through this,

0:46:14.360 --> 0:46:16.520
<v Speaker 1>because everybody wants to see they were on TV and

0:46:16.920 --> 0:46:19.640
<v Speaker 1>you know people they're shilling or they're going to all

0:46:19.680 --> 0:46:22.479
<v Speaker 1>these events. But you know that lasts for most people

0:46:22.560 --> 0:46:24.960
<v Speaker 1>six months and then the whole new crop of Bachelor

0:46:25.000 --> 0:46:28.080
<v Speaker 1>contestants come in and you're lucky if you can sustain

0:46:28.120 --> 0:46:31.600
<v Speaker 1>it longer than that. And when you don't, it's the

0:46:31.719 --> 0:46:33.480
<v Speaker 1>dark side of things. Or if you have a bad

0:46:33.560 --> 0:46:36.800
<v Speaker 1>experience and it plays out on a public platform like

0:46:37.000 --> 0:46:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Blakes did, it's a darker side of things. So I'm

0:46:40.520 --> 0:46:44.080
<v Speaker 1>excited to hear that you're doing something positive and I

0:46:44.160 --> 0:46:46.319
<v Speaker 1>think it can really reach and help a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree completely. I've had family members and friends commit

0:46:53.400 --> 0:46:58.759
<v Speaker 1>suicide and you know, become hurt really bad by mental health.

0:46:58.920 --> 0:47:01.359
<v Speaker 1>And I know people that are in the public eye

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<v Speaker 1>that were once in the start now they're down at

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom, and so that plays a real toll on you,

0:47:08.400 --> 0:47:11.120
<v Speaker 1>and so you asked earlier about me and my personality.

0:47:11.120 --> 0:47:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Have I let things to go to my head. I

0:47:12.480 --> 0:47:15.520
<v Speaker 1>try to be even killers always because I am super

0:47:15.560 --> 0:47:18.840
<v Speaker 1>grateful to be sitting here with you right now, and

0:47:20.200 --> 0:47:22.560
<v Speaker 1>I know that tomorrow could be gone, and so therefore,

0:47:23.360 --> 0:47:24.719
<v Speaker 1>my day ones, I want to make sure that they

0:47:24.800 --> 0:47:26.560
<v Speaker 1>know that I love them care about them. And that's

0:47:26.600 --> 0:47:28.080
<v Speaker 1>the strongest thing that you can have is just your

0:47:28.120 --> 0:47:29.440
<v Speaker 1>family and friends that are near and dear to you.

0:47:29.680 --> 0:47:31.960
<v Speaker 1>But I understand that everyone goes through something and my

0:47:32.080 --> 0:47:34.359
<v Speaker 1>DMS people say, how do you smile? You know, through

0:47:34.360 --> 0:47:37.640
<v Speaker 1>a diversity, and so I just want to use my

0:47:37.719 --> 0:47:40.560
<v Speaker 1>platform for the good, for the greater good while still

0:47:40.600 --> 0:47:43.160
<v Speaker 1>having fun and still being do rat you know, Mike

0:47:44.560 --> 0:47:48.640
<v Speaker 1>very powerful. Gosh, Mike Johnson. I have to say it

0:47:48.840 --> 0:47:51.880
<v Speaker 1>is our loss that we don't have you as the

0:47:51.920 --> 0:47:55.360
<v Speaker 1>Bachelor for season twenty four, but I am glad that

0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:58.440
<v Speaker 1>you have graced us with your presence on hand a season,

0:47:58.960 --> 0:48:01.040
<v Speaker 1>even on Paradise, though I know you weren't a huge

0:48:01.040 --> 0:48:02.680
<v Speaker 1>fan of that, but you are a part of this

0:48:02.840 --> 0:48:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Bachelor family. You're a part of this franchise, and I

0:48:06.120 --> 0:48:08.600
<v Speaker 1>think that you're a really positive figure within it. I

0:48:08.640 --> 0:48:10.320
<v Speaker 1>appreciate that, and so I just want to thank you

0:48:10.400 --> 0:48:12.319
<v Speaker 1>so much for coming on the podcast. And I'm also

0:48:12.400 --> 0:48:14.279
<v Speaker 1>excited because I feel like this is a question I

0:48:14.320 --> 0:48:15.960
<v Speaker 1>wanted to ask you too. I feel like a lot

0:48:16.000 --> 0:48:19.160
<v Speaker 1>of people haven't had the opportunity to know you, and

0:48:19.280 --> 0:48:22.239
<v Speaker 1>you've really gone deep on this podcast. And I think

0:48:22.360 --> 0:48:24.880
<v Speaker 1>one of the things people would say about why you

0:48:25.440 --> 0:48:29.479
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't make a good bachelor is because you didn't open

0:48:29.640 --> 0:48:34.520
<v Speaker 1>up or you didn't cry in certain instances. And for

0:48:34.640 --> 0:48:37.880
<v Speaker 1>all those people out there who said that, take I

0:48:37.920 --> 0:48:40.400
<v Speaker 1>hope you're listening to this podcast because you have opened

0:48:40.480 --> 0:48:42.080
<v Speaker 1>up in a way and put yourself out there and

0:48:42.160 --> 0:48:45.920
<v Speaker 1>been very vulnerable, very honest, and really shown who you are.

0:48:46.400 --> 0:48:49.919
<v Speaker 1>And so I mean, like to all the haters out there, bye,

0:48:50.040 --> 0:48:51.560
<v Speaker 1>I want to speak on that light. Think thank you

0:48:51.600 --> 0:48:54.279
<v Speaker 1>for bringing that up. That's ridiculous when I'm not going

0:48:54.320 --> 0:48:55.759
<v Speaker 1>to call her name, said that I'm not going to

0:48:55.800 --> 0:48:57.759
<v Speaker 1>be a good continent for the Bachelor because I wasn't

0:48:58.200 --> 0:49:02.200
<v Speaker 1>vulnerable enough or didn't cry. For one. Where I come from,

0:49:02.239 --> 0:49:04.839
<v Speaker 1>when we talk about tears, we let those tears out.

0:49:05.600 --> 0:49:07.719
<v Speaker 1>But I'm not gonna let tears out for the most

0:49:07.840 --> 0:49:13.600
<v Speaker 1>frivolous of things. I do cry. I am an emotional person.

0:49:13.640 --> 0:49:15.839
<v Speaker 1>I am in touch with my emotional side. But I'm

0:49:15.840 --> 0:49:19.440
<v Speaker 1>not gonna cry for something that you've seen fifteen other

0:49:19.520 --> 0:49:23.120
<v Speaker 1>dudes cry for, and so that's just ridiculous to me.

0:49:23.200 --> 0:49:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I am extremely You can ask ask anybody to know me.

0:49:27.000 --> 0:49:28.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I don't need to ask. I already

0:49:29.000 --> 0:49:30.880
<v Speaker 1>know what's up. And I'll tell you this. There are

0:49:30.960 --> 0:49:33.160
<v Speaker 1>plenty of people who cry on that show, and there's

0:49:33.280 --> 0:49:36.440
<v Speaker 1>nothing behind those tears. It means nothing, nothing. It doesn't

0:49:36.440 --> 0:49:38.200
<v Speaker 1>mean that they'd be a good lead. Okay, And I'm

0:49:38.239 --> 0:49:40.880
<v Speaker 1>not going to name any names, Okay, Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say thank you so much for

0:49:43.320 --> 0:49:45.840
<v Speaker 1>coming on the podcast. Really do appreciate it. It was

0:49:45.880 --> 0:49:48.759
<v Speaker 1>a long time coming, and I wish you all the best.

0:49:48.800 --> 0:49:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm excited to see what happens for you. I know,

0:49:51.280 --> 0:49:52.839
<v Speaker 1>for one, I'm not going to be here for six

0:49:52.920 --> 0:49:56.279
<v Speaker 1>months or less. I know that's right me neither. Good.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Johnson, thank you so much for coming in today.

0:50:00.760 --> 0:50:02.680
<v Speaker 1>I know you had to stay in La an extra

0:50:02.760 --> 0:50:04.840
<v Speaker 1>couple of days to make this work, so we definitely

0:50:04.880 --> 0:50:07.439
<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. But I feel like you kind of wanted

0:50:07.480 --> 0:50:09.479
<v Speaker 1>to do it anyway, because this was a long time coming.

0:50:09.560 --> 0:50:11.839
<v Speaker 1>I see it on your face now. So next week,

0:50:11.880 --> 0:50:14.359
<v Speaker 1>you guys, do not forget. We will have part two

0:50:14.520 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 1>of the Blake Interview. I promise this is one that

0:50:16.719 --> 0:50:19.360
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to miss. It'll go up Wednesday morning

0:50:20.160 --> 0:50:23.040
<v Speaker 1>and it's worth the way. In the meantime, you can

0:50:23.120 --> 0:50:26.279
<v Speaker 1>get all the latest Batchter news on batternation dot com

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0:50:29.280 --> 0:50:30.880
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