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Speaker 1: get you into our iHeartRadio Music Festival. So Jason goes

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Speaker 1: like this, this week we give away trips and then

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Speaker 1: we take a little break, right, and then we start

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Speaker 1: giving away trips again. Yeah right, right, Well we're trying

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Speaker 1: to yeah, yeah, we're trying to get a trip to

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Speaker 1: more trips. I don't know why. I thought he just

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Speaker 1: wants you to buy tickets to go. Yeah, well there's that,

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Speaker 1: So how about just do that? Just buy trips and

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Speaker 1: because because I don't know when when we're giving them

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Speaker 1: away again, but we do have them this week nine

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Speaker 1: one and five are just an outside Heart Radio Music Festival.

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Speaker 1: Brian Adams, Ed Sheeran, Glow Rilla, Jelly Roll, Low Wayane's

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Speaker 1: Take in the House and Tim McGraw and so many more.

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Speaker 1: So nine Am have us to win your trip. And

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Speaker 1: then also at seven fifty five Halsey tickets for Huntington

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Speaker 1: Bank Pavilion at Northerly Island on the seventeen. We'll give

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Speaker 1: you the keyword that you need to who get hooked

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Speaker 1: up with Halsey tickets? All right, so it's the uh

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Speaker 1: talkback for tickets. So we'll give you a keyword at

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Speaker 1: seven fifty five. If you have us on the iHeart

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Speaker 1: using your name and that word that we give you

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Speaker 1: here in a little bit. We're just missing the guy

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Speaker 1: who breaks every voice of men song down it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: hey baby, I'm sorry. Please forgive me for all the

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to get were you baby? I didn't

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Speaker 1: know she was an Instagram model? Oh, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: she was. The Fred Show is on the interesting that

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Speaker 1: that's the one that played today because today's seeming KICKI

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Speaker 1: karaoke about an hour from now. He's the end. It's

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Speaker 1: the end, because it's the end of you and the showdown. Damn.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna be hose a week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of good songs.

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Speaker 1: We could do host. We can do host next week. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we can do next week. Yeah, maybe this week it's

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Speaker 1: the end of next week. It's host okay, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: that makes perfect sense. Waiting by the phone. Why did

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Speaker 1: somebody get ghosted? Will investigate in just a second show

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Speaker 1: biz Kiki final week, not a kiki, but if showbiz

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Speaker 1: kiki Showbiz Shelley, who invented the game, is back next

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Speaker 1: week from maternity leave. One hundred and fifty bucks is

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Speaker 1: the price today In your record forty and seven I

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Speaker 1: got away from my Thusaurus seven. Yeah, you did lose

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Speaker 1: seven apparently according to Pauline at least no.

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Speaker 4: That's me all right. Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 4: forty and seven. Your record is far less seven. No,

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Speaker 4: your yours is eighty five wins at ninety I think

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Speaker 4: that's a lot more impressive. But thank you, well almost

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Speaker 4: one hundred. We're going to almost celebrate one hundred losses

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Speaker 4: in your game. Definitely gonna be Publia, which is game

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Speaker 4: show Wednesday too. So you don't think you lost seven times?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean this is the we. We

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Speaker 1: the most reliable, focused person on the show. That's Paulina.

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Speaker 1: Who else would we leave it to?

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Speaker 3: I did the math and that's.

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Speaker 4: What my math was said.

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Speaker 1: Even your psychic called up yesterday and was like, you know,

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Speaker 3: Important never lie, never lied?

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Speaker 1: And we're usually right, not always, and we're on the

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Speaker 1: Interesting, less, a towering forty and seven is your record,

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Speaker 5: I've been wanting to address this issue for a while now.

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Speaker 5: There's not a moment in time where you need to

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Speaker 1: So every day somebody gets up and does this.

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Speaker 5: Yes, And I feel so bad because I don't even

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Speaker 1: But I do contend that there's a certain age. I

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Speaker 5: Yes, and you know, like it's been happening for over

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Speaker 5: But it's like, you don't have to do that the

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Speaker 1: You know, that's not the place for that. The comments

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Speaker 6: My friend's dad thought that his timeline, you know, everybody's

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Speaker 7: So every photo was like, wow, great photo, thank you

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Speaker 5: Wow, I like that too, and it's some Now shout

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 4: We need that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my mom everything everything this show posts, or

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Speaker 1: They will write emails around here to a large group

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Speaker 1: of people, and they will say, if this applies to you,

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Speaker 1: I don't need to know if if those if that

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Speaker 1: I don't need I don't even know. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know reply not reply to all? Is

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Speaker 3: What about your Coca Cola story?

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Speaker 2: Okay, one time years ago, I asked, we were all asked.

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Speaker 2: And I replied with a very heartfelt message, a very

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Speaker 3: Right to hear it, right, and she.

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Speaker 2: Came to this country so I can have a ice

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Speaker 1: How are you.

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Speaker 1: Doing okay? What's going on with this woman, Kristin? I

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Speaker 1: Come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Kristin.

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Speaker 1: what's up. In part two of Waiting met the phone, Hey, Adam, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call Christen. You guys, you met at

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it, but I think Hi is this Kristen. Yeah, hey, Kristin,

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Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fredam calling for the Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you. We're calling out behalf of a

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Speaker 1: what's going on with that? Why are we ignoring Adam?

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Speaker 8: Okay, listen, Adam is awesome.

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Speaker 2: Okay, he's attractive, he's charming, he's confident, he has great energy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's the butt? Where's the problem. Wait, so we did.

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Speaker 3: We did go out.

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Speaker 8: Okay, this sex was amazing, but okay, okay, all right, just.

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Speaker 8: He's leaving my place and you know, he's talking.

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Speaker 3: Oh how do you think I felt having just had this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's all us. So you guys, you met, you talk,

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Speaker 3: How was it out there? Like it's nothing and you didn't.

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Speaker 2: I knew nothing about it. I would have never gone

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Speaker 1: That's a details.

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Speaker 3: I had known that he had a wife.

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Speaker 1: forgot to mention kristin the Adam is here, I'm very forgetful. Also,

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Speaker 10: No, I'm non monogamous and my wife has agreed to

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Speaker 1: Really, and that would be interesting just because I mean, honestly, madam,

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Speaker 1: What he's describing I have heard of existing before, whereas

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Speaker 2: But the wife actually like agrees and like she's available

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Speaker 1: She says she's wanting to doing it. But at the

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Speaker 8: And I mean it's about board. Why can't I talk

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Speaker 3: I have time to you know, with.

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Speaker 8: That's all I'm asking for, Like, if this is above.

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Speaker 3: Verily she can do this. Okay, that's the only way

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Speaker 3: I'm in for.

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Speaker 1: This, Adam.

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Speaker 9: I can talk to her about like a verification. That's problem.

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Speaker 9: I'm not trying to hide anything. Like she just was

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Speaker 1: I mean, Kristen, do you want to be a third

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Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, good, It'll make me feel like

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Speaker 2: I'm a cheater. I'm a cheater for the entire length

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Speaker 2: of our relationship.

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Speaker 3: How do I introduce you to people?

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Speaker 1: Well, the family dinner, But like, I just want to

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Speaker 1: try to figure out is okay? So so let's say

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Speaker 1: it's all on the up and up? I mean, is

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Speaker 1: that just so that you know you haven't been cheating?

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Speaker 1: And then you're gonna dump this guy, or like if

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Speaker 1: she says, yeah, it's true, I let him do it,

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Speaker 1: then are you okay with those terms? Because he just

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Speaker 1: said he's not leaving his wife, So basically, now you

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Speaker 1: can accept that you're going to be.

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Speaker 2: If there's no chance of him leaving his wife. And

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Speaker 2: I'm just like some weird little secret. Yeah, I'm probably

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Speaker 2: not interested honestly, Like I just I don't think I can.

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Speaker 1: Live with that. I can't live that way on your head, Kiki,

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Speaker 1: what because this is in like, he's insane. This is insane.

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Speaker 3: Like you, if.

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Speaker 5: Your wife gave you the green light to do whatever

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Speaker 5: you want to do, do it. But why bring in

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Speaker 5: people unknowingly like hey my wife, I have a wife.

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Speaker 3: You don't tell somebody after the fact.

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Speaker 1: I think you've got to lay that out for me.

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Speaker 1: I think, Adam, you know that a lot of people

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Speaker 1: are gonna say no to this situation, and you didn't

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Speaker 1: want Kristin to say no, so you just didn't tell her.

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Speaker 9: That's what I lit lied And I can accept that.

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, Do we have an accountable person on here?

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Speaker 1: It's impossible. I do think you got to you gotta

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Speaker 1: lead with it. Adam, like you got to tell people, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm in an open relationship, like I got a wife

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Speaker 1: and kids, and that's not going to change because everything

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Speaker 1: changes now for Kristen because maybe she didn't want to

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Speaker 1: be an accessory. Maybe she didn't want to be just

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Speaker 1: you know, the side thing. Maybe she wants you to

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Speaker 1: all to herself and she has every right to make

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Speaker 1: that decision. But if she doesn't know, then look here

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Speaker 1: we are.

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Speaker 3: It's just really disrespectful, is really what it comes down to.

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Speaker 2: It's incredibly disrespectful, and it puts the other person in

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Speaker 2: a place where they feel dirty, and she's yeah, have.

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Speaker 1: You ever had this problem before, Adam? I mean I

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Speaker 1: assume you've been doing this for a little while. Like

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Speaker 1: if you had this issue, where when do you normally

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Speaker 1: lead with it? You normally tell people of.

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Speaker 9: Frond or no, I mean usually to kind of gauge

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Speaker 9: how how things go.

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Speaker 1: First it's not going to work out. Christian, Hey, thank

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Speaker 1: you for your time, and I'm sorry that you know

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Speaker 1: this happened to you and I wish you to invest

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Speaker 1: in Adam. Good luck out there team as well.

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Speaker 3: Thank you