1 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: On this week's episode of Cultivating her Space. 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: You can literally defide before you hit end on this episode, 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 2: or you go off and do something else that you 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 2: want to be confident. 5 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: I want to be confident. 6 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: I want to be rich. I want to feel good. 7 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 2: And you do that and you do the things that 8 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 2: cultivate that. But what I say is work. It's work, 9 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: and you really have to want it for yourself. Today's 10 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 2: episode is sure to provide you with motivation, inspiration, or 11 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: a fresh perspective. If you have any AHA moments or 12 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 2: appreciate anything from this episode, please leave us a review 13 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 2: to let us know we're on the right track. Also, 14 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 2: we release episodes every Friday, so be sure to subscribe 15 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 2: on iTunes and visit cultivatinghurspace dot com to access our 16 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: exclusive after show and other bonus content from the Patreon tab. 17 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 3: Welcome to Cultivating her Space, a podcast dedicated to uplifting 18 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 3: women like yours Doctor Dominique Bussard, a college professor and psychologist. 19 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 2: And Terry Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker. In a 20 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 2: world where black women are often misrepresented and misunderstood. Please 21 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 2: join us as we initiate authentic conversations on everything from 22 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 2: fibroids to fake friends and create a safe space where 23 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 2: black women can just be. 24 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: Ladies. 25 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 2: Today, we have a very special guest on the podcast. 26 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 2: She's not only a friend to the podcast, but also 27 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 2: a friend in real life. 28 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: Okay. 29 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 2: You might remember her from her incredible episode about manifesting 30 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 2: your ideal life and transmuting energy. Jasmine P. Green is 31 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 2: a founder, executive, performance coach, transformational speaker, and she guides 32 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: extraordinary female executives, diverse teams, and ambitious entrepreneurs to peak performance, 33 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: mental resilience, and deep fulfillment. So you better stay tuned. Okay, 34 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: this episode about to be let y'all get ready. Yes, 35 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 2: welcome to cuncervating her Space. Welcome back, friend, Thank you. 36 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 2: I love this space. It is my space. Okay, you 37 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 2: know I'm so happy to be here. Guys, thank you 38 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 2: for having me back. Yes, you're so welcome. It's my 39 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 2: space without the time. 40 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 1: Yes, that job. Sure, I think we might be dating ourselves. 41 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 3: Right. All right, jams, So we are going to get 42 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 3: into our quote of the day, and our quote of 43 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 3: the day will sound familiar to you because, as you know, 44 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 3: we we like to be all up in your social 45 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 3: media and you were constantly putting out profound words. So 46 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 3: our quota of the day. If you aren't a full 47 00:02:56,120 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 3: body yes to your expansion, you'll remain exactly where you are. 48 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, And. 49 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say that one more time for the people 50 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 3: in the back so that they let those words sink in. 51 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 1: If you aren't a full body yes. 52 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:25,679 Speaker 3: To your expansion, you will remain exactly where you are, 53 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 3: all right, So jasmine when you when you hear your words, 54 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 3: what comes up for you? 55 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 2: You know, so many things come up for me when 56 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: I hear that, but it's really it is you know 57 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 2: how they say, oh, a gentle reminder. That's not gentle. 58 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: That's like, look, let's let's let's get to it right. 59 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 2: You know, we can't, we can't play around. So what 60 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 2: comes up for me? If that listen, if there's any 61 00:03:56,240 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 2: part of you that is afraid, that is sabotage, sabotaging, 62 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 2: or feels like you you shouldn't be here, you don't deserve, 63 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 2: you don't belong, then due to being comfortable, due to fear, you. 64 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: Will be You're gonna be here. 65 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 2: You're gonna be right here until you can't stand it anymore. 66 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 2: So that for me, especially in this season, you know, 67 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 2: with all the different projects that I have going on 68 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 2: my own expansion. Look, that one got me back in check. 69 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 2: So I appreciate you bringing that one back. That's a 70 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 2: good one. 71 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 1: Whoa. 72 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: It's one of those quotes I feel like back in 73 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 2: the day my pastors to say, you can't say a 74 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 2: men say ouch, And it's one of those where you're like, oh, 75 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 2: that's just a little bit, but all right, you know 76 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 2: suggests when we had you on before, right, we talked 77 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 2: about transmitting energy and manifestation. Now I know from behind 78 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 2: the scenes that a lot has happened since then, Right, 79 00:04:55,480 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 2: Can you give us a brief summary of significant developments 80 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 2: or changes in your life since our dest relation. Wow, 81 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 2: so before we got started, you said I was on 82 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 2: season seven and here we are in twenty one, so 83 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 2: so much has happened. So I will say this, since 84 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 2: the last time that we shared the virtual stage, I've 85 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 2: moved out of the United States. So I've been traveling 86 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 2: NonStop for the past going on three years, really soon, 87 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: so I've been I packed up my penthouse, you know 88 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 2: we talked about that on that episode. I've manifested. It 89 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 2: was my everything, My everything I gave the people the 90 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 2: keys back, I turned in my car, I put all 91 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 2: my things in storage, and I went on this journey 92 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 2: to figure out who I am without all of that, 93 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 2: and come to find out I am just I'm everything. 94 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,359 Speaker 2: I love me, I like me right, I didn't. I 95 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 2: don't need Florida ceiling windows to prove a point. So 96 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 2: that was one of the biggest AHAs in that journey. 97 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 2: Some of the countries I've been to, Germany, France, the UK, 98 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 2: Dominican Republic, Mexico, I feel like I'm leaving some of 99 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 2: them out. But it's been a really beautiful and as 100 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 2: well as challenging journey. So that's that I stopped coaching 101 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 2: one on one. That was huge, and I went through 102 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 2: sort of like a sad moment, like I call it 103 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 2: the dark soul of the night. 104 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: You know. 105 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 2: I feel like we have many of these in our 106 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: lifetime where you have to really you come to a 107 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 2: point of like reckoning, you know what, The question becomes 108 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 2: like what do you what do you want to where 109 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: do you want to go next? 110 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: What do you want now? 111 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 2: And I've been so accustomed to the one on one 112 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 2: thing and just coaching and you know, getting people that 113 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: transformation getting them to their first million dollars, and you know, 114 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 2: it was so much fun. 115 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: So I stopped because it just wasn't in alignment anymore. 116 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 2: So I sat with it, sat with it, and then 117 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 2: in a millionaire was born and I was like, Okay, 118 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 2: this sounds cool. 119 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 1: Maybe I could make it into a monthly membership. 120 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: That's fun, right the industry, everybody loves a cool little membership. 121 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 1: Hey, you know whatever, a month and then you're there. 122 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 2: But I kept feeling this weight of this is more 123 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 2: than a Kajadi log in and a couple workshops in 124 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: a month, right, So what I did was I do best? 125 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: Is I just go all the way. 126 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: We turned it into a mobile app, where about two phases. 127 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 2: Now we're in a second to lance phase of development. 128 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 2: We have some back end stuff happening right now. In November, 129 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 2: we brought over well over one hundred new founding members 130 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 2: into the platform. We now have the e commerce or 131 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 2: the Inner Millionaire podcast. 132 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: You know, we it's y'all's cousin. 133 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 2: Okay, it's the cousin to the her space, right, little 134 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 2: cousins coming up, right. 135 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: So overall, I've just been really focused. 136 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 2: I've been in the jungle. Right now, I'm in the 137 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 2: United States because I have a tour that I'm going 138 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 2: to be doing. I'll tell you guys about that later. 139 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: But I was in the deep jungle up to moon 140 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 2: building out this app. Now I'm not a mobile cool 141 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: developer per then, but I was the mastermind behind the content. 142 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 1: And so this is this is where I'm at now. 143 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 2: You know, we're playing a big, much bigger game, much 144 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: bigger impact, much bigger responsibility. 145 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: And I love it. That's me. 146 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,559 Speaker 3: We we love to hear it and we are here 147 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 3: for it. But I know you, I know somebody is 148 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 3: listening in their life way they were. Now you gave 149 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 3: up the penthouse and the cars and all the things. Yeah, 150 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 3: and so tell us what that really felt like to 151 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 3: get to that point where because like you said, you 152 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 3: this is filt, that was what you manifested. And so 153 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 3: what is it like to be in a space where 154 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:49,559 Speaker 3: you have exactly what you manifested and decide. 155 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 2: To walk away from it? So it's beautiful question, beautiful question. 156 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 2: I got to give you props on that. 157 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: First. 158 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 2: What I will say is that I got to a 159 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 2: point of Okay, now, what, like you know, when you 160 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 2: when you are wanting something, you know it's huge. You 161 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 2: think it's going to do something for you, like you 162 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 2: think it's gonna make you feel better, make you more 163 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 2: important whatever. I know, speaking from my past experience, a 164 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 2: lot of pretty much all of my success in the 165 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 2: past was trying to approve a point to the family 166 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 2: members that said, oh, Jasmin ain't gonna be shit, Oh 167 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 2: she ain't gonna go nowhere. You know, the same family 168 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: members that said that to me back then. You know, 169 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 2: they look at me now and they're you know, you're 170 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:40,839 Speaker 2: a blank feeling the blank right. But for me, when 171 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 2: I got it, like okay, you know me sad that, 172 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 2: but oh I'm still something still off. 173 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: So I got it wrong. 174 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:53,599 Speaker 2: I was under the impression that if I did it, 175 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 2: you know, the money, the car, the place, stuff, I 176 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 2: thought it was gonna do something more than what it did. 177 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 1: And really it's just literal stuff. 178 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 2: Right now, with shitting your storage, I'm happier than I'm 179 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 2: happier now than I was when I was in it 180 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 2: having it. 181 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 3: So I was called to. 182 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: Just transform. 183 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 2: You know, I believe this, especially for those of you 184 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 2: who are listening who are life's coaches, any type of coach, 185 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 2: any if you're in any industry that involves people, you 186 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 2: have to realize you can only meet them as far 187 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 2: as you've met yourself. So if you're living on the surface, 188 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 2: then you can only meet someone else on the surface. 189 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 2: And oftentimes we are holding back on our true power 190 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 2: because we have not gone that deep within ourselves. And 191 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 2: it might look like leaving everything behind this is my 192 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 2: personal journey. But leaving everything behind and going to figure 193 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 2: out who you are without it, going through the layers 194 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 2: of trauma, having those those really hard conversations, and just 195 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 2: letting yourself cry to the point where you almost want 196 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 2: to throw up right, to get that deep so that 197 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 2: you can fully express yourself and your gift. That is 198 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 2: just what I know to be true for me. So 199 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 2: it's like I got it, you know, but it wasn't enough. 200 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 2: It wasn't what I thought it was and what it 201 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,719 Speaker 2: was going to do for me. Hey lady, it's Terry here, 202 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 2: Dom and I want to take a moment to thank 203 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 2: you for choosing to listen to our podcast. We love 204 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 2: you for real, and we want to give you a 205 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 2: chance to learn more about what's important to us. So 206 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 2: tell us what you think about this. 207 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 3: Imagine a world where you have a chance to get 208 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 3: featured on the Cultivating her Space podcast and share your business, 209 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 3: brand or perspective with millions around the globe. Imagine joining 210 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 3: our monthly virtual video check ins where you can connect 211 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 3: with like minded black women like you and share your 212 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 3: ideas and episode suggestions. 213 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: With Terry and I. 214 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 3: Now, I want you to imagine a world where you're 215 00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 3: in the exclusive Cultivating her Space Sanctual Slack channel, and 216 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 3: throughout your day and week, you are conversing with us 217 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 3: about what's happening in your life and sharing funny gifts 218 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 3: and or personal wins. How does that sound? 219 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 2: Hopefully this is up your alley, lady, because we are 220 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 2: taking things to the next level this year, and we're 221 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 2: doubling down on investing in our community. 222 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: That means you. 223 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 2: We want to meet you, connect with you, and create 224 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 2: communities of genuine women who love on black women and 225 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 2: push our culture and movement forward. We launched this podcast 226 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 2: in twenty nineteen, and to date, we have not missed 227 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 2: a week. 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Again Herspace podcast dot 241 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 2: com and you can click that link that says Patreon. 242 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:28,439 Speaker 2: All right, lady, we'll hop right back into the conversation. 243 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,199 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for sharing, Jasmine. 244 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:35,679 Speaker 2: We always appreciate your vulnerability and transparency and what you 245 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 2: just share it makes me think about you know, rich 246 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 2: people often talk about how they got the money and 247 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 2: it wasn't what they thought it was going to be. 248 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 2: It's like I got to the top of the mountain 249 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:45,959 Speaker 2: and they tell the broke people like y'all focus on 250 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,719 Speaker 2: yourself and like getting to know you because what you 251 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:51,839 Speaker 2: get once you get this, it's not what it's cracked 252 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 2: up to be right, and then you hear the broke 253 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 2: people like, well, give me the money and I'll show it. 254 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 2: I'll let me see for myself, right what you're going 255 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 2: to walk through that journey. So I want to share 256 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 2: a couple of things I knowed. One it's the skin 257 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 2: for me. I love the IHA moment you shared about 258 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,319 Speaker 2: loving yourself. Looks like you've been in the gym. Your 259 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 2: energy is definitely in a different place. Yeah, I see, 260 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,839 Speaker 2: come on, come on the energy. I'm thinking about just 261 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:16,719 Speaker 2: other times that we've been on Zoom, Like there's just 262 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 2: a lightness and your energy is just it's different. So 263 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 2: can you talk to us about We're going to talk 264 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 2: more about the Inner Millionaire, your new baby in just 265 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 2: a minute, but can you talk about maybe three additional 266 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 2: I high moments that you've had, either IHA moments or 267 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 2: experiences that really transformed you because you did something that 268 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 2: many people don't do and so be really great to hear, 269 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 2: like what else did you what else did you discover 270 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 2: about yourself when you were in the trenches In addition 271 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 2: to realizing like oh wait, I don't need all that stuff. 272 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 1: I love myself. I'm enough, I'm a bad bitch. I 273 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: got this, you know what I mean, like what to do? Yeah, 274 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: what else? 275 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 2: Tell us give us a James. So hmm, this is 276 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 2: you know what it's. It's almost like therapy, you know, 277 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 2: coming out here with you guys. Beautiful experience. Honestly just 278 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 2: from me on the side. So something else I would 279 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 2: say that came up for me. It was it was 280 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 2: really the tone. If I had to write a book 281 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 2: on this, I would title of it something about it 282 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 2: like you know, finding out my self worth or really 283 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 2: defining it for myself. I really did spend so much time, 284 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 2: you know, trying to attain and try to get and 285 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 2: all these things. So another thing I don't want to well, 286 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 2: I can't say a thing. An instance that happened was 287 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 2: my birch father actually found me on Facebook, right, so 288 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 2: I had to said a word about this on anywhere, 289 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 2: nowhere and all whatsoever. Just a few close friends know 290 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 2: about this, So. 291 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 1: This okay. 292 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 2: So I'm thirty three now, right, don't know, I'm not 293 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 2: known this man since the beginning of my time. So 294 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 2: at thirty three, now you send me a message on Facebook, 295 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 2: and I'm just I thought I would react differently because 296 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 2: this was maybe about eight weeks ago, and I still 297 00:15:58,200 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 2: haven't spoken to him on the phone. It's like, I 298 00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 2: I just didn't care to. I just don't care to. 299 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 2: I feel like I had an opportunity to. Had I healed, 300 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 2: I don't know, And it's interesting, like how did how? 301 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 3: How? 302 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 2: Because for so long I've always wondered, like, you know, 303 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 2: where were you or why? I shared a story on 304 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 2: TikTok about my birth mother because you know, both of 305 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 2: them were abset. 306 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: He was one hundred percent. She was probably like twenty 307 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: five or whatever. 308 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 2: I don't know, but he reached out to me, and 309 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 2: I think it was just in the process of defining 310 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 2: who I am without things also helped me define who 311 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 2: I am for myself, without needing to be loved by 312 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 2: certain people. 313 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: I think that's what I'm getting to. 314 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 2: I always, you know, tried to find love, and I 315 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 2: do have a love now, and I'm super grateful for 316 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 2: the healthiest, greatest relationship I've ever been in in my life. 317 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: You know, they said, what you love right, you can 318 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: do glow. 319 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 2: You know you perform differently, You're different, right, and you know, 320 00:16:56,080 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 2: just being me getting into myself, so I got a 321 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 2: chance to define made my value what in my worth 322 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 2: without things in people. So I feel like I just 323 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 2: kind of blurted that it really wasn't that well organized. 324 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 2: But that's just my truth. You know that he came 325 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 2: back in life eight weeks ago, and I'm just not 326 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 2: moved at all, not pressed, And normally I always thought like, 327 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 2: oh my, you know, i'd be Russian to talk, and 328 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:29,359 Speaker 2: you know, I want to come meet you, let me 329 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 2: fly to you where you at because I. 330 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 1: Just want answers. 331 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 2: I want to know something and I just feel like 332 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:34,880 Speaker 2: I know everything I need to know because I've given 333 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:35,479 Speaker 2: it to myself. 334 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 1: I don't need answers or apologies. 335 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 2: So that's something that really that came out of that 336 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 2: because I'm telling you, if I would have stayed in Dallas, 337 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 2: in that penthouse, my focus would have been on more 338 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 2: attaining things. Okay, now let's get the g wagon, let's 339 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 2: get the masarati, let's get the bigger penthouse, let's get them, 340 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 2: Like yeah, no, I really had a moment to reflect 341 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 2: and be with myself. 342 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 3: That is so beautiful, so beautiful, and we see it, 343 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 3: we see it, you know, like Terry mintioned, Like your 344 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 3: skin is this glistening, like your smile feels like genuine 345 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 3: like it is. It is truly radiating through the screen. 346 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 3: And so lady, if you're listening, like, we need you 347 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 3: to go and like look at this video, like catch 348 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:34,919 Speaker 3: this video because you need to see what it looks 349 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 3: like when you in the physical form, when you have 350 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 3: done the work, when you are doing the work. 351 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 1: When you are making the hard choices, but the healthy choices. 352 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: And so Jasmine, I appreciate what you shared about, you know, 353 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 1: having a family member reach out to. 354 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 3: You, someone that you thought would be you would want 355 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 3: to be connected to, and then to realize, no, I 356 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 3: don't need that. And so if it's okay, I want 357 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 3: to I want to dig a little deeper into that 358 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 3: in terms of how you were able to kind of 359 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 3: have that one, have that realization, but then too be 360 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 3: able to set a boundary within yourself and perhaps with 361 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 3: him to say no, this is not this is not 362 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 3: what I want, because I could imagine that there are 363 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,679 Speaker 3: lots of people out there with similar experiences of family 364 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 3: members that they thought they needed to be connected to 365 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 3: and then turns out, no, this is not a person that. 366 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:52,120 Speaker 1: I need in my life. 367 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 2: M of course, you know it had to joke me, right, 368 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 2: you know, I'm seeing this name had no profile picture. 369 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 2: So I'm like, this is which, this is weird. So 370 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 2: now I get this message and you know, I'm just 371 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 2: looking at it. I remember just opening it and I'm 372 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 2: like like, where, who, where, where did you come from? 373 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 2: And at the time, it was when I mean in 374 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 2: a Millionaire pretty much went viral and it it was 375 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 2: kind of like it was a highlight moment, right, it 376 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 2: was like, oh who like a peak moment. And so 377 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 2: then it hit me like, ah, okay, that's why distraction, 378 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,159 Speaker 2: you know. I mean, I've been on a been in 379 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 2: the game too long, in the in the you know, 380 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 2: the spiritual game to know that when when of course, 381 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,239 Speaker 2: you know there's there's good and bad, right, there's two, 382 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 2: always two sides of the coin. So I'm like, all right, 383 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 2: you know this is a distraction. And he's he told me, 384 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 2: he said, you know you have a little sister, and 385 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, tell me more. Right, So all these 386 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 2: things are coming up, I'm like, oh my god, who 387 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 2: is she? 388 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: What does she look like? 389 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 2: I go find her, I send her a message. I'm blocked, right, 390 00:20:55,160 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 2: So the rejection I had an opportunity to to experience, 391 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 2: to experience going through processing rejection because you know, as 392 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 2: a little forever guys, I'm telling you, from the time 393 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 2: I even knew I was a human and had two 394 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 2: parents that I wasn't with them, I felt rejected by 395 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 2: them because I wasn't with them ever, and so I 396 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 2: had to work through that. That's been years, like decades, right, 397 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 2: So now here it is, you know, I'm at the peak. 398 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 2: You know, I'm getting you know, recognized, and I'm bringing 399 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 2: women here to my platform and where it's at. 400 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: It we're rolling, we're moving. 401 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: It's positivity. And here he comes and then the news 402 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 2: of oh you have a sister, and then she blocks me. 403 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 2: So I'm feeling like, okay, you come into my life 404 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 2: and you're already bringing the chaotic energy. This is unnecessary. 405 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 2: Sorry about my co Interviewee Coco, She's just what she 406 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 2: wanted to do. 407 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 3: So I. 408 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 2: I talked to myself. I ain't gonna lie. We got 409 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:58,360 Speaker 2: a dialogue going, so I have to just I had 410 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 2: to coach myself. You know, some people look to the 411 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 2: Internet or they look to TikTok now or other people 412 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 2: to like walk them through it. 413 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: No, I walked. I walked me through it. 414 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 2: I immediately realized that they triggered my rejection and I 415 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 2: had a chance to sit with it and face it 416 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 2: and talk to it, and it's like, you know, I 417 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 2: it doesn't belong it really. I really sat with that 418 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 2: emotion for about I will say, two three hours, and 419 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:24,359 Speaker 2: I was able to release it. 420 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: And then I put the boundary in place. You know, 421 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 1: I just I just did it. I didn't announce it. 422 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 2: I just moved on and put my energy back into 423 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 2: what it is and I'm doing because I really genuinely 424 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 2: feel like it was there as a distraction, especially at 425 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 2: the start and peak of of what it is I'm creating. 426 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, what a blessing, jessin that you have 427 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 1: the wisdom now like you to send your first rodeo. 428 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 2: You know how these cycles go, and so that you're 429 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,399 Speaker 2: now at the discernment the wisdom but also the healing 430 00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 2: to not get pulled back into the cycle. Yeah, you know, 431 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 2: the abandonment issues or like the rejection, or like craving 432 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 2: something that probably isn't even good for you. And I 433 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 2: love how we are digging into the inner millionaire being 434 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:13,439 Speaker 2: you like your inner work, your inner process. And then 435 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 2: now you have this incredible platform Inner Millionaire. So can 436 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 2: you tell us a bit about what inspired the inception 437 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 2: of Inner Millionaire and what drove you to establish this 438 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 2: platform dedicated to kind of doing what you're doing now, 439 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 2: sharing uplifting stores of triumphs, navigating you know, paths toward 440 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 2: achieving millionaire status, and writing support. 441 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 1: How did this come to you? 442 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 2: So it's interesting because when I was business in sales coaching, 443 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 2: a lot of the conversation really shifted from funnels and 444 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 2: sales strategy to who are you? 445 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 3: Like? 446 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 1: Who are you in this? 447 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 3: Like? 448 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 1: Who and who do you need to become in order 449 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 1: to achieve. 450 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 2: This filling a blank goal, whether it's fifty thousand month, 451 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 2: fifty thousand dollars months, one hundred k months, a million 452 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 2: in a month, whatever that is, Like, who do you 453 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 2: need to become in order to to hold that? 454 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 1: And So in a millionaire, I think it's always just 455 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 1: been within the fabric of me. 456 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 2: It's just it's just my underlying tone, right, That's how 457 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 2: I really attributed like the success that I've gotten for 458 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 2: my clients due to that conversation. I've always prioritized in coaching, 459 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 2: but in a millionaire had my mind had to come 460 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 2: and get me one day. 461 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 1: You know, it was getting real. Remember I told you guys. 462 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,399 Speaker 1: I was like and this moment of okay, so what 463 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: do I do next? 464 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 2: Right, Like, okay, you know I left the United States, 465 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 2: call myself retiring, you know, trading crypto, doing my thing. 466 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 1: And then it's like, okay, I need I need, I 467 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,919 Speaker 1: need more, I need more. I need to be felt. 468 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:43,160 Speaker 1: I want to be felt. I deserve and desire connection. 469 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 1: Like what can I do? 470 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 2: So I knew what I didn't want to do, and 471 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 2: that's all I had. So I remember drawing a bath, 472 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,639 Speaker 2: and I remember meditating. I just remember just being still 473 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 2: and I opened up a year ago today, actually, I 474 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 2: opened up the Instagram app and I made a story 475 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,639 Speaker 2: saying you know, things change when you change or something 476 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 2: like that, and then I put hashtag in a millionaire 477 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 2: And that was the very start. It was. 478 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: You know, it's really me to myself. It was never 479 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: about anybody else. It was just me to myself. 480 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 2: Like, man, listen, you know, whatever deep message I needed 481 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: I could, I could channel it. And I do that 482 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 2: through writing. If you follow me, you know, I'm like 483 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 2: writing is my specialty. Like, so mine was speaking to me. 484 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 2: And then I was like you know what, I've been 485 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 2: able to do so much. I've created so many millionaires 486 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 2: due to the conversation attached to in a millionaire, Right, 487 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 2: so what can we do with that? I just started 488 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,639 Speaker 2: getting curious about the possibilities versus getting curious about like 489 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 2: what am I going to do next? 490 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 1: You know, I changed the tone of the. 491 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 2: Question, the energy of the question, and sometimes, really most 492 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 2: of the time, that's all you need to do is 493 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 2: just change the tone, shift the tones. 494 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: I'm getting curious about. All right, so what what what 495 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 1: can we do with this? Where is this going to go? 496 00:25:58,640 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: You know? 497 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,239 Speaker 2: And I let it literally lead me. I've never had 498 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,879 Speaker 2: to think so hard in this. Everything has honestly just 499 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 2: come with so much ease and flow. The features of 500 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 2: the app, down to the content, down to the branding 501 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:15,199 Speaker 2: shout out to Diamond Spikes. Just everything was so easy 502 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 2: with this, and I'm so grateful. I'm so grateful for 503 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,359 Speaker 2: that moment. So I encourage anybody if if you're listening 504 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 2: to this and you feel like, all right, I'm in 505 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 2: a pivot, but I just I don't know if that 506 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 2: shifts your attention for what you don't know next to 507 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,440 Speaker 2: at least being open invited in. You know, I'm open 508 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 2: and receptive to what is coming. You know what is 509 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 2: right now, help me see it, you know, pray that prayer, 510 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 2: meditate on that and it really will shift everything. 511 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:51,400 Speaker 3: Oh yes, I feel like we need to pause and lady, 512 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,200 Speaker 3: as you're listening, maybe this is the moment where you 513 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 3: pause and you meditate on what has been shared so far, 514 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 3: and then as you come back, we can hear more 515 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 3: from Jasmine on. So tell us more about the process, 516 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 3: the steps that you went through after you had this. 517 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 1: Moment a year ago, right, a year ago, yes, right, 518 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: a year ago. 519 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 3: It's mind blowing how much can change for someone within 520 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 3: a year. If we go back to our quote of 521 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:42,880 Speaker 3: the day, Yeah, where you said a full body yes 522 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 3: to your expansion. 523 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 2: It's crazy when you when you you don't realize it 524 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 2: as it's happening, you know, I just you know, have 525 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 2: the racesource stuff had my blinders on twelve months man, 526 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:02,919 Speaker 2: like from just a a hashtag right just coming out 527 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 2: of me writing too. 528 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 1: We have an MBC, we have users, we have revenue, 529 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 1: we have Wow, that's that's crazy. That's crazy. Thank you 530 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 1: for like showing me that. 531 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,159 Speaker 2: When your conversations are always so inspired. I'm trying to 532 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 2: think of like where do we want to go next? 533 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,439 Speaker 2: But one of the things I saw you write somewhere 534 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 2: what you talked about. I'm just gonna ask the question, 535 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 2: and this is gonna this is going to articulate what 536 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 2: you talked about because I don't want to. 537 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to give any hints. 538 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:46,080 Speaker 2: So, regardless of the specific goals, why do you believe 539 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 2: that who someone is matters more than what they want 540 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,719 Speaker 2: when it comes to achieving success? 541 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 3: This isn't it? Right? And to be. 542 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 2: The only goals I have this year is to achieve 543 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 2: like Korean glass skin and to chiggle my face a 544 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 2: little bit more, you know, and just be better. 545 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 1: So those are my goals, right. 546 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 2: So I just want to throw it out there because 547 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 2: it feels so good to say that versus like, you know, 548 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 2: putting all these heavy because, like you said in the question, 549 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 2: why do I feel like it's more important to focus 550 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 2: on like the beingness versus like the things to do? 551 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 2: Because it's you know, your identity, like who you are 552 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 2: really it's the foundation for everything. 553 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 1: It's it's literally it if it's not of you to 554 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 1: make a commitment to to even make a decision and 555 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 1: then commit to it. Then you will not do it. 556 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 1: So like, let me like, let me like run that 557 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 1: back just to make sure I said it right. 558 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 2: If it isn't in your nature, if it isn't of 559 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 2: you or in you to make decisions and commit, then 560 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 2: when you go to make goals that require commitment and 561 00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 2: decision making, it's just it doesn't. It doesn't add you 562 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. So I feel like, you know, 563 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 2: it's great to have clarity that you want a multi 564 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 2: million billion dollar brand. It's great to have the goal 565 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 2: for the million dollar a year or the month or 566 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 2: look money, whatever the number is, right, whatever, you need 567 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 2: to really spend the majority of your time figuring out, Okay, 568 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 2: who have I been so far that have gotten me 569 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 2: where I am now? 570 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 1: And what is it that I need to do differently 571 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: to get that different result? 572 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 2: Because year after year, you know, we're recording this in January, 573 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 2: middle of January, people, and I don't mean any harm, 574 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 2: but the same shit we wrote down in twenty eighteen, 575 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 2: we're still writing it in twenty twenty four. And the 576 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 2: reason that is is because you have not become the 577 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 2: woman or however you identify. You have to become the 578 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 2: person to actually bring that into fruition. It's just who 579 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 2: you are. And when you spend time on building that 580 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 2: muscle of confidence, worthiness, decisiveness, just actually following through and doing, 581 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 2: like my grandma said, say what you mean and mean 582 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 2: what you say. 583 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 1: If you if you say it, that's it. 584 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 3: You know. 585 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 2: Let's get into the identity of not sitting on the fence. 586 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 2: Let's get into the identity of jumping into action, you know, 587 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 2: become that person that take that takes risks, you know. 588 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 1: So that's that's what I believe. 589 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 2: I mean, I've never met a millionaire that didn't see 590 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 2: themselves as one first, who didn't act the part, who 591 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 2: didn't begin speaking in and you know, someone may be 592 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 2: listening to this and they may only have I remember 593 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 2: at one point only had like forty five dollars in 594 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 2: my checking account. So I want you guys to realize 595 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 2: you're not talking to someone who had a trust fund. 596 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 2: I'm not related to Trump or any of the Bush 597 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 2: family or anything like that. Like you know, I'm again, 598 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 2: like I said in season seven, I'm just your girl. 599 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 2: I'm from the hood, Allandale to be exactly street Port, Louisiana. 600 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 2: So I want you to understand you're not talking to 601 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 2: some You're not listening to someone who's disconnected. 602 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 1: I'm very, very still connected to that. 603 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 2: So if you're in that position and you're like, Okay, 604 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 2: I only have X amount of dollars and it's seem 605 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 2: so far away, just start talking to it until you 606 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 2: can talk from that place. 607 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 1: Start talking to it. 608 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 2: You know what abundance, I see you, and I see 609 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 2: you and the love in my life, the people are 610 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 2: around me, and the friendships that I have. If you 611 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 2: feel like you can't even name one or two friends, 612 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 2: look at the ground, look at the rocks and blades 613 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 2: of grass and shit, like, we gotta get real. We 614 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 2: just got to get really for real about it. Start 615 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 2: seaking it, start speaking to it. I see you everywhere. 616 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 2: You know what? You see a nickel and dime on 617 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 2: the floor, money abundance, I see, Oh my gosh, hello, hey, 618 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 2: heyy over here, I see you, And then you can 619 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 2: start speaking from it. And when you start speaking from 620 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 2: that place, that is just your reality. So you have 621 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 2: to be very intentional. And I know I kind of 622 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 2: took a detour, but you have to be intentional about 623 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 2: creating an identity that can do that and that's their 624 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,719 Speaker 2: first first call of action versus complaining and being upset 625 00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 2: and the negativity spill and all of that create one 626 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 2: that's that's looking for what is versus what isn't because 627 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 2: how you see something, what you see it and perceive 628 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 2: it to be, is what dictates your entire reality. We 629 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 2: have just that much creative power over our life, and 630 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 2: Terry doctor dom, a lot of people don't want to 631 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 2: take that level of responsibility and accountability of their life. 632 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 1: So it's going to be you know, well, my daddy 633 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 1: he wasn't around, he ain't want me, so you know 634 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,160 Speaker 1: I can't. Or my mama said I can't be this 635 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 1: and that they said it, so it must be tricker 636 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 1: like when you just. 637 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 2: All of that like erase it, like if you ain't 638 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 2: watching the video, I'm literally taking my left hand and 639 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 2: swiping it. Just do it like that, put it to 640 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 2: the side, put your blinders on, and rewire your mind. 641 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 2: Nothing wrong with you. Let me just say that nothing's 642 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 2: wrong with you. You're not broken. You're okay, you really are. 643 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 2: You're beautiful, like you're good. If you're saying to yourself, 644 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 2: this is my situation and I don't want the situation anymore, 645 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 2: then that's going to require you to change. The situation 646 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 2: will not change before you do. So that's just the 647 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 2: point that I that I want to drive home for anyone. 648 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 2: I mean, if the top of the year we have 649 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 2: big goals, you know, everybody's just you know, in it. 650 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:33,160 Speaker 1: I'm ready to roll. 651 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 2: But you know, in about three weeks they're going to 652 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 2: kind of you know, it's like, all right, that was cool. 653 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 2: Create an identity that it's going to see it through 654 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 2: to the end. It doesn't matter if it don't happen now, 655 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 2: but it happens in November. Create an identity that's like, 656 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 2: you know what I'm in it for. However it's however 657 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 2: long it takes. That's so important, y'all. Like, honestly, it's 658 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 2: it's completely changed in my life. And I'm so glad 659 00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 2: that I've created a platform that's just literally that. 660 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:03,919 Speaker 1: And I'm just okay, so real quick. 661 00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:05,799 Speaker 2: I didn't realize you was gonna be preaching today, Dom, 662 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 2: I asked them. I just want to say, Jason, what 663 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 2: I heard you say when you were talking about that 664 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 2: quote in the beginning is it reminded me of the 665 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 2: quote how you do one thing is how you do 666 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:15,480 Speaker 2: all things. 667 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 1: I'm ok here taking notes as you talk, and I'll 668 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,880 Speaker 1: focus on being a human being and not a human doing. 669 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 2: And just kind of tap into the reality of what 670 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,440 Speaker 2: you want versus complainingly about what you don't have, and 671 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,800 Speaker 2: just be it until you can really. 672 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 1: Be it, you know what I mean. So I just 673 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:36,080 Speaker 1: had to hem, yes, yes, yes, So the work guards work. 674 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: Let's let's give the people, Jason, can you give the 675 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 1: people an example of what that looks like? 676 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:45,200 Speaker 3: Right? 677 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? 678 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 3: How so, like you said, we're recording this in January, 679 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 3: mid January, and so if you're listening to this episode 680 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 3: as it's fresh, then that means that you probably are 681 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 3: setting some goals and attentions for the year. Yeah, and 682 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:13,440 Speaker 3: if we fast forward to October, November, December, what are 683 00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 3: the steps that a person could have taken along the 684 00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:23,279 Speaker 3: way to shift. 685 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 1: To where they want to be by November or December. 686 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 2: Now, this is a really good question because here's the thing. 687 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 2: I feel like change doesn't take long. You know, I 688 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,360 Speaker 2: could get real out there with y'all. You know. 689 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 1: Time to me, it's just, you know, we had humans. 690 00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 2: They had to put something together just so we could 691 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,239 Speaker 2: know whatever they thought that we needed to know. So 692 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 2: in my mind, the moment that you make a decision 693 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 2: that you want differently, you shift timelines immediately, like you're there, 694 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 2: it's here, and it's it's only your attention to what 695 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 2: you know you don't have yet or what are what 696 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 2: isn't happening is is what's keeping it far from you. 697 00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:11,240 Speaker 2: You can you can be the richest person on earth 698 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,879 Speaker 2: right now if you decide. Doesn't mean that your bank 699 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,560 Speaker 2: account is going to reflect I don't know how much 700 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 2: money is printed on this planet, but you can make 701 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,880 Speaker 2: the decision that that's who you are and that's how 702 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:28,439 Speaker 2: you feel, and that is that's the quantum leak, that's 703 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,840 Speaker 2: the breakthrough, that is the transformation, just the decision alone, 704 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 2: and from a day to day perspective, you got to 705 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:37,240 Speaker 2: get real careful. 706 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,279 Speaker 1: With who you're communing with. Who are we talking to 707 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,440 Speaker 1: on a daily basis, Who are laying in the bed with, 708 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:43,839 Speaker 1: What are we listening to? What are we watching? Are 709 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 1: we listening to the shade room? Are we what? I 710 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:48,799 Speaker 1: can't even pull up. 711 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,440 Speaker 2: Stuff because I'm now that I'm out of touch right, 712 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,760 Speaker 2: I'm not even over there because that's the problem. 713 00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,680 Speaker 1: But I would say, really get take some inventory. So 714 00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,320 Speaker 1: I mentioned reinvention. 715 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 2: I'm doing a tour around the US with the Reinvention Workshop, 716 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 2: and it's like, to me, it's the most transformational thing 717 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 2: on the planet. And so what I would say if 718 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 2: I just had to give you like one, two, three, 719 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,480 Speaker 2: number one, like, let's look at who you are. Let's 720 00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,960 Speaker 2: look at let's do an inventory of your thoughts, your habit, 721 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 2: what you're eating, all those things, your relationships, look at 722 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 2: the money you're making, look at where you're living. 723 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,759 Speaker 1: Ask yourself questions. Okay, so who have I been so 724 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 1: far to make this my current reality. 725 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,560 Speaker 2: That's gonna that's gonna give you a lot of clarity, 726 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 2: and then get into funeralizing yourself. You gotta you have 727 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 2: to have like it needs to be a ceremonial act, 728 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,239 Speaker 2: Like we don't do that as human beings when the 729 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,200 Speaker 2: loved one passes away for a reason. You know where 730 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 2: we're creating closure in some cases some culture is different, 731 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,680 Speaker 2: but for the most part, we need to do a 732 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 2: ceremonial act of letting you go. That's the second thing, 733 00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:56,560 Speaker 2: and the third thing is knowing exactly what it is 734 00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 2: that you want and then closing it off with determining 735 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 2: who you need to become to get that. And on 736 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,759 Speaker 2: a day to day, day to day, not just every month, 737 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 2: you know, once in a while, every single day you 738 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,480 Speaker 2: look for opportunities to show up in that way. And 739 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,960 Speaker 2: these are what's called like micro movements that's going to 740 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,000 Speaker 2: turn into a macro, massive web. That's how you know 741 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,400 Speaker 2: if you're in January listening in November, you look up 742 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,359 Speaker 2: and you're like, wow, like I have it all. 743 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:24,200 Speaker 1: What's next? 744 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 2: Because every single day, moment by moment, you've made those 745 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 2: those decisions, and you're taking those micro actions to assume 746 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:40,359 Speaker 2: the identity of what you are stepping into. Okay, try 747 00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 2: and take notes, trying to make sure I'm taking myself. 748 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 2: Oh zoom, you're dropping all this fire. God damn Jason. 749 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,880 Speaker 1: The interview, I said, bring hey, I said, okay, I 750 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 1: want to come on here. Look it's so good. Doviin 751 00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:54,880 Speaker 1: and I are like, we're gonna skip. Oh you bless it. 752 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,239 Speaker 2: Sorry, listeners, We love y'all, but we got to give 753 00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,880 Speaker 2: more of this tea. We did go check out at 754 00:39:59,920 --> 00:40:02,760 Speaker 2: the SO seven. Okay, well, Jason talked about transmitting energy. 755 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:04,680 Speaker 2: If you want to hear her, or you bleach, you said, 756 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 2: because this is spy. Your Jasmine's really good, and I 757 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:08,879 Speaker 2: love the way that you broke it down to because 758 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 2: I think that a lot of times, you know, we've 759 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,400 Speaker 2: talked a lot about manifestation in our personal conversations, and 760 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 2: I think that one of the biggest hurdles can be 761 00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 2: you feeling you taking on the spirit of the thing 762 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 2: that you desire even though your current reality doesn't look 763 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 2: that way. And I think that is oftentimes the biggest 764 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,279 Speaker 2: thing where people are like, Okay, yeah, I want to 765 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 2: do that, but like, look at these bills, look at 766 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:29,520 Speaker 2: this debt, like you know what I mean. And so 767 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,000 Speaker 2: I love the fact that you're just talking about making 768 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,920 Speaker 2: the micro movements because if you find that every year 769 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 2: you are in the same place, you aren't making progress, 770 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,759 Speaker 2: there's something within that needs to be explored. Right, Yeah, 771 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 2: we can't blame it on mommy and daddy and with 772 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,360 Speaker 2: Grandpa and what my mom did, Like, we have to 773 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,400 Speaker 2: really do the work on ourselves at this point and 774 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:48,880 Speaker 2: at this big age. 775 00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 1: I'm speaking for you know some of us, So. 776 00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,600 Speaker 2: Jaz my question for you is, can you share a 777 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:58,520 Speaker 2: bit about your perspective on the concept of making one 778 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:02,240 Speaker 2: million dollars small and how this mindset shift can impact 779 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,680 Speaker 2: financial success. I'm seeing a million because people always talk 780 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,239 Speaker 2: like it's always the one million. 781 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,719 Speaker 1: Right, So tell us about coffee. Okay, So I'm super 782 00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 1: excited about this question. 783 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,800 Speaker 2: In fact, I've been just you know, I've been waiting 784 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 2: on it because it's one of those things that you know, liveing. 785 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,359 Speaker 2: You guys even have to listen to this like over 786 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 2: and over and over and over again for Jilan. So 787 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,720 Speaker 2: here's here's what I want to bring back up. Earlier 788 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 2: I said that you know, your perception, like how you 789 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 2: see something is what it is, like your perception literally 790 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,839 Speaker 2: determines your current reality. 791 00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: So for somebody, ten dollars is a lot of money. 792 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:40,279 Speaker 1: I in fact, we're you know. 793 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 2: In Los Angeles and not Los Angeles, friend, sand Frame 794 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 2: where you're at, even where I'm at, I've been around 795 00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:49,439 Speaker 2: the world. We talked about different currencies, whether it's way 796 00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,560 Speaker 2: weaker than the US dollars. Somebody somewhere think like ten 797 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:56,719 Speaker 2: US dollars is a lot of money, right, But to you, 798 00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:03,560 Speaker 2: you're like ten dollars age like you it absolutely it's nothing. 799 00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 2: So when I say make a million small, like, let's 800 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 2: keep that same energy. Because here's what I know to 801 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:12,319 Speaker 2: be true for myself. Whenever I see something as big, 802 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:17,759 Speaker 2: oh my god, or you know, it separates me from it, 803 00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 2: it's like I've literally put it on a pedestal. I've 804 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 2: literally confirmed to myself and the powers that be that 805 00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:26,480 Speaker 2: it ain't me and I ain't it because it's over 806 00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 2: there and I'm over here. So whenever I create the 807 00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 2: awareness of or you know, okay, I'll see that, I've 808 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,920 Speaker 2: seen that and I want that, I have to quickly 809 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:40,920 Speaker 2: shift to the feeling of what I'm gonna feel when 810 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:43,440 Speaker 2: I get it. But more importantly just seeing it as 811 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,920 Speaker 2: like my charger, like I know I can go and 812 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:50,239 Speaker 2: get a hut like many of these, you have to 813 00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,400 Speaker 2: stree the things that you desire in that same way, like, 814 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:57,680 Speaker 2: do not create like this unnecessary gap between the things 815 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,080 Speaker 2: that you desire in yourself. So when I say make 816 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 2: a million small, it's like, look, if I said, if 817 00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:06,759 Speaker 2: I told both of you guys, like, go off and 818 00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 2: come back with six figures, you'd be like, what, I 819 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,920 Speaker 2: come on, Like, that's that's easy. Those listening maybe one 820 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,560 Speaker 2: hundred dollars, a thousand dollars. All of that to you 821 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,839 Speaker 2: is like it makes sense? Why does it make sense though, 822 00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,040 Speaker 2: Like why does a thousand dollars make more sense than 823 00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:25,759 Speaker 2: a million? Why are you making a million dollars so big? 824 00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:27,800 Speaker 2: And this this, I mean, I'm not saying, you know, 825 00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,360 Speaker 2: when you get it, not to celebrate it. It's definitely 826 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,360 Speaker 2: you know, you celebrate that, but don't make it so 827 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:37,920 Speaker 2: big to where you've put it on this pedestal and 828 00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 2: it's way way up here and you're. 829 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:41,040 Speaker 1: Just down here. 830 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,920 Speaker 2: Because when I'm look, this is the honest truth, and 831 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,479 Speaker 2: I'm never I do not like to be the person 832 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 2: tellpones what they can't do and what's not gonna happen. 833 00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,160 Speaker 1: That's typically not my conversation. But Cousin has to be 834 00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:53,040 Speaker 1: real with you, guys. 835 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:55,880 Speaker 2: If you're seeing it up here and you see yourself 836 00:43:55,960 --> 00:44:01,399 Speaker 2: down there, it's you don't it's not a match. It's 837 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 2: not a match, and you will be right there right 838 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:07,879 Speaker 2: and it will continue to be up there, and it's 839 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:08,680 Speaker 2: all in your head. 840 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:10,239 Speaker 1: It's all in your head. 841 00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:15,799 Speaker 2: Money is transacted every second of the hour, of the day, 842 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:16,760 Speaker 2: of the week, of the year. 843 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 1: Of the month, like it's. 844 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,120 Speaker 2: It just is. And the moment you take the power 845 00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 2: away from it and bring your power up like you're 846 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 2: more than money. 847 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,720 Speaker 1: You're more than a million. It's really small. 848 00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,400 Speaker 2: Make it your minimum, right, just make that be like, 849 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:39,120 Speaker 2: let's flip it now, right, instead of attaining an aspiring 850 00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,279 Speaker 2: for it, just make it the minimum. Let's let's really 851 00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,400 Speaker 2: start reframing how we're seeing it so that we can 852 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,839 Speaker 2: actually not just receive it. Because I know a lot 853 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,320 Speaker 2: of millionaires who get it and they don't have it anymore. 854 00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,560 Speaker 2: They can't hold it, they never be they never matched it. 855 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:53,239 Speaker 1: I don't want that for you. 856 00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 2: Everybody who's listened, everybody in the room can make millions, millions, 857 00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,799 Speaker 2: a million, of right, I want you to be able 858 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,080 Speaker 2: to hold it, to multiply it. 859 00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:03,480 Speaker 1: And in order to do that, you've got to take 860 00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:09,480 Speaker 1: the power from it. Ooh, I love that. I love that. 861 00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:11,799 Speaker 1: Now for those of. 862 00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 3: Us, those people who are listening that are like, Okay, yeah, 863 00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 3: money isn't my focus, right, Like I'm in a space 864 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:28,359 Speaker 3: where financially I'm good. Like, yeah, we're chilling over here, right, 865 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:35,399 Speaker 3: talk to us about the inner millionaire not just being 866 00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:40,080 Speaker 3: about like a dollar sign and what are other things 867 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:45,520 Speaker 3: that people might be focusing on that is not focused 868 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:46,600 Speaker 3: specifically on money? 869 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, So you know, essentially the brand I mean definitely. 870 00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:52,800 Speaker 2: You think of money when you hear a millionaire and 871 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,360 Speaker 2: a lot of people, you know, you equate that to 872 00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:58,840 Speaker 2: wealth abundance, and we know that those abundance and wealth 873 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:03,480 Speaker 2: encompetence all things right, not just the money, but your 874 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,440 Speaker 2: ability to receive love and terry. You said it, you know, 875 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,560 Speaker 2: you repeat it what I said a while back. You know, 876 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,440 Speaker 2: how you do one thing is how you do everything. 877 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:14,719 Speaker 2: So if we can get into a state of practicing 878 00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:18,319 Speaker 2: receiving in the in the money space, then surely you'll 879 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:22,360 Speaker 2: be able to do that in love, relationships, opportunities, and 880 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,760 Speaker 2: your health. Put me sabotage and not just find in finance, 881 00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,919 Speaker 2: as we do it in many many other areas as well. 882 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:33,719 Speaker 2: So I think for us, it for me, for me 883 00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,879 Speaker 2: when I you know, I'm speaking like I'm the rep 884 00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,719 Speaker 2: I'm the representative of and a millionaire. For me, it 885 00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:42,040 Speaker 2: was really important to make sure I included journeys that 886 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 2: didn't necessarily just talk about, you know, receiving money. But 887 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,960 Speaker 2: it does work on that receiving muscle, It does work 888 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,840 Speaker 2: on that confidence muscle, It does work on allowing you 889 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,480 Speaker 2: to up level in different areas versus just focusing on 890 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:59,160 Speaker 2: making money, because as y'all y'all. 891 00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:02,839 Speaker 1: Heard me say earlier, definitely ain't all of that right. 892 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,719 Speaker 2: You get options, you can travel well, first class, blah 893 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 2: blah blah, that's cool. But if you're sitting over there 894 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:12,680 Speaker 2: like just empty, like sad and just you're not your 895 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,040 Speaker 2: fullest self, it doesn't matter. It really doesn't matter. So 896 00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,440 Speaker 2: it was so important to me, and I love that 897 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:20,759 Speaker 2: you asked me that question. It was important to me 898 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,919 Speaker 2: to make sure it encompasses that the full what's the word? 899 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:27,120 Speaker 2: I'm looking for a spectrum of life and the things 900 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:33,160 Speaker 2: that we have women find important. So yeah, ooh, okay, Jess, 901 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,080 Speaker 2: And we're gonna I promise you we're not gonna hold 902 00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:36,880 Speaker 2: you hostage, okay, because we wanted we can talk to 903 00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:37,279 Speaker 2: you all day. 904 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 1: We're not gonna hold you hostage. But a couple more 905 00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:40,560 Speaker 1: questions for you, for sure, okay. 906 00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:44,279 Speaker 2: So I would love to know what rituals or practices 907 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,120 Speaker 2: you're employing these days, or what rituals or practices have 908 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,879 Speaker 2: been interesting to you when it comes to manifestation. I've 909 00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:53,200 Speaker 2: been looking into creating with accustom sleep meditation so I 910 00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:56,160 Speaker 2: can listen to it and reprogram my subconscious in that way. 911 00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 2: So I'm looking at different aspects of being like a 912 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:00,520 Speaker 2: visual person. What are some things that are interesting to 913 00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:02,400 Speaker 2: you these days that you're working on for yourself. 914 00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:07,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, so grounding, making sure I'm grounded with my two 915 00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 1: feet or planted in. 916 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:13,440 Speaker 2: The ground, and I mean literally in the other words, 917 00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:16,759 Speaker 2: it's helpful to me. So I do a lot of 918 00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 2: hypnotic audio that bring me to a point when I 919 00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:22,759 Speaker 2: was in Chu Loom and I think, I'm like, yo, 920 00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,239 Speaker 2: I can't wait to go back, because I would go 921 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,000 Speaker 2: to a lot of sound healing, soundbath. I do a 922 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 2: lot of King massages just to keep me in a 923 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:35,600 Speaker 2: state of just not being heavy. Because the leadership is 924 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,680 Speaker 2: being a founder, right, It's is new to me. Okay, 925 00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:41,120 Speaker 2: going from being a coach to a founder is like 926 00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:44,319 Speaker 2: that's crazy, and we're raising. We're in preceed right now. 927 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:44,840 Speaker 1: Raising. 928 00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:50,520 Speaker 2: It's totally different. So what I would notice like chaotic 929 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:53,360 Speaker 2: energy and I would immediately go towards okay, let me 930 00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,279 Speaker 2: do breathing. I went to a breath class and I 931 00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:59,000 Speaker 2: just I keep those things in my back pocket. So 932 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,360 Speaker 2: for me when I'm at adies and when chaos is 933 00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:07,320 Speaker 2: I'm presenting me, I can manifest anything. Money parking spots, lollipops, 934 00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,680 Speaker 2: ice cream, anything, right, that's just speaking for me. 935 00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 1: You know, nothing for me can work in a spirit 936 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:15,120 Speaker 1: of chaos. 937 00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:20,200 Speaker 2: So I'm just constantly breathing, taking my time and making 938 00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 2: sure I'm grounded. 939 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 1: So that's it. There was something that did stand out 940 00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,080 Speaker 1: to me. I've been looking at this for years though. 941 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,280 Speaker 2: It's a mirror work, you know, looking into my eyes 942 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:31,400 Speaker 2: telling myself that I'm beautiful. 943 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,839 Speaker 1: Thank you, Jasmine. Look you did that, okay. 944 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:36,239 Speaker 2: I don't know nobody else took me to date it 945 00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,319 Speaker 2: better than you, you know, just making sure that I'm 946 00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,120 Speaker 2: pouring into me, forgiving myself. 947 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 1: So that's something else as well. Thank you for sharing that. 948 00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:50,240 Speaker 3: I think that that's important for folks to really think about, 949 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:54,200 Speaker 3: like what are the like day to day things said 950 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 3: that we can do to really like I love what 951 00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:00,200 Speaker 3: you said about like. 952 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:06,720 Speaker 1: Going in doing the inner work and being at peace 953 00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:10,520 Speaker 1: so that one you can recognize the chaotic energy. 954 00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 3: And then being in a space to be able to 955 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:20,640 Speaker 3: remove it from your life, because that I think the 956 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,719 Speaker 3: piece of recognizing the chaotic energy is so. 957 00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:28,759 Speaker 2: Hard, yes, because it's like normal, you know, how we 958 00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:32,640 Speaker 2: function and have like functioning anxiety function and depression. It's 959 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,480 Speaker 2: like a norm and it becomes your baseline. And that's 960 00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,560 Speaker 2: why I think it's really important. I mean, my journey 961 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,240 Speaker 2: was I left the country. You know, I've eaten different foods, 962 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,759 Speaker 2: I've spent that alone time. I had a chance to 963 00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:47,600 Speaker 2: recalibrate and just look back at things and just create 964 00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:51,799 Speaker 2: a different normal from ourself and go there. Because you're right, 965 00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:53,840 Speaker 2: you don't know, you don't always know. This is just 966 00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,480 Speaker 2: the first thing. It's the first step. It's always happening. 967 00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:02,160 Speaker 2: So yeah, grounding is to be all right. So now 968 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,920 Speaker 2: completely off topic, but kind of on topic. 969 00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:14,480 Speaker 1: Question, what's up? So you left the country traveling mostly alone? No, 970 00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:15,960 Speaker 1: with my girlfriend? 971 00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:16,239 Speaker 3: Yeah? 972 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:19,319 Speaker 1: Didn't like that? Yeah, not yet? 973 00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,719 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, yeah, I was like, well, wait, hold on, 974 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:24,200 Speaker 3: let me not push your business fully out on the 975 00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:25,120 Speaker 3: street unless you want. 976 00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:27,080 Speaker 1: But okay, okay, So. 977 00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 3: Now that you have said that, okay, So yeah, left 978 00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:37,480 Speaker 3: the country traveling with your girlfriend. What when you think 979 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:41,560 Speaker 3: of the places that you have visited outside of the US, 980 00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:48,440 Speaker 3: what would be your top two or three places that 981 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:53,000 Speaker 3: feel safe and comfortable for black. 982 00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:59,960 Speaker 2: Women who Okay, definitely all right. I felt really safe 983 00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 2: in Germany. I felt safe in Trance. 984 00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:05,200 Speaker 1: The UK. 985 00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:07,960 Speaker 2: You know, they don't do guns in the United Kingdom, 986 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,239 Speaker 2: so that's just off bat like you can breathe, but 987 00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,440 Speaker 2: they do other things. But you do not need to 988 00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:15,120 Speaker 2: visit those types of areas where they do. You know, 989 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:16,880 Speaker 2: it's kind of like every everywhere in the world is 990 00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 2: just like everywhere else. You know, you got your hood, 991 00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 2: you got your good part, you got the you know yep. 992 00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:25,560 Speaker 2: So for me, I felt really safe in those countries. Mexico. 993 00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,440 Speaker 2: I know there's a lot of you know, weird conversations 994 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:35,640 Speaker 2: around that. However, I nothing, that's not my experience. It's 995 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,360 Speaker 2: just it wasn't. Again, I'm very mindful of, you know, 996 00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:42,440 Speaker 2: the spaces that I put myself in. So definitely, you 997 00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 2: know Europe, right, you as an American passport holder, right, 998 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,080 Speaker 2: you have a passport as American, you can get a 999 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:51,360 Speaker 2: lot of protection when you've lived with these countries, so 1000 00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,600 Speaker 2: they don't they don't really mess with us like that. 1001 00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:56,840 Speaker 2: But as a black woman, and let's take it a 1002 00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:00,120 Speaker 2: step further. You know, I'm queer, lesbian black women. I 1003 00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:03,680 Speaker 2: look it right, I'm masculine. I definitely get looked at 1004 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 2: everywhere I go, especially when i'm holding my girl's hand 1005 00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:07,160 Speaker 2: or she's. 1006 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,239 Speaker 1: Holding on to me or whatever. They're like, you know, what, 1007 00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:09,759 Speaker 1: are right. 1008 00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:14,920 Speaker 2: But other than that, nobody's matching, cutting and shooting, none 1009 00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,239 Speaker 2: of that. You know, I felt very very safe so far. 1010 00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:20,120 Speaker 1: Thank God. I feel I'm grateful for that. 1011 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:23,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a blessing indeed, because in the States, 1012 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:25,839 Speaker 2: it's like child it's like the ghetto here we get 1013 00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:28,720 Speaker 2: about we try to be like that about those country. 1014 00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:30,640 Speaker 2: But one of the things I know is, and I 1015 00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:32,680 Speaker 2: don't know if this is a new thing, but you 1016 00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,399 Speaker 2: talked a lot about confidence, and you talked about mirror work, 1017 00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 2: and you've said you've spoken highly of yourself in a 1018 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,759 Speaker 2: way on today's call. That just felt very refreshing. And 1019 00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:45,000 Speaker 2: I remember when I was you know, we're always a 1020 00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:47,000 Speaker 2: work in practice, but many moons ago, I was really 1021 00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:50,120 Speaker 2: struggling with liw self esteem and you know, little confidence 1022 00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:53,320 Speaker 2: and worth. I was very intimidated by confident people. So 1023 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,000 Speaker 2: if I were to hear someone talk about how amazing 1024 00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:58,080 Speaker 2: they felt about themselves, it would make me feel away 1025 00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:00,920 Speaker 2: because it was basically like a showing me that I 1026 00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:03,920 Speaker 2: wasn't confident enough to be able to have those conversations. 1027 00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:06,600 Speaker 2: You know, with myself and between myself and so now 1028 00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 2: it's very different from me, But I want to know, 1029 00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:10,600 Speaker 2: like where does that come from? And what are your 1030 00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:13,440 Speaker 2: thoughts on us being confident and be able to look 1031 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:16,000 Speaker 2: at yourself in the mirror and like talk your shit. 1032 00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:18,239 Speaker 2: I feel like we as black women sometimes don't get 1033 00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 2: enough grace to be able to do that. It's like, oh, 1034 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:23,400 Speaker 2: your cockier, So what are your thoughts on that? So 1035 00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,280 Speaker 2: it's definitely something you have to cultivate and you cannot 1036 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,880 Speaker 2: look for out. You can't bet on an outside source. 1037 00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 2: When I was coming up, it wasn't okay to be black. 1038 00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 1: It just wasn't. 1039 00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,080 Speaker 2: You know, if you're a dark skin, they think you're ugly. 1040 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,360 Speaker 2: If your light skin, they think you think you're white. 1041 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,600 Speaker 2: I had a lot of things come happened to me, 1042 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,920 Speaker 2: like in high school because my hair was long, I 1043 00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:48,160 Speaker 2: with a yellow bone, if they will say, and nothing 1044 00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,520 Speaker 2: around me helped me to celebrate myself. There were perms, 1045 00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:53,879 Speaker 2: they were you know, we'd trying to knock the kings. 1046 00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:55,160 Speaker 1: Out, all this stuff, blah blah blah. 1047 00:54:55,640 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 2: Now black is so celebrating and I know this wasn't 1048 00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,920 Speaker 2: really necessarily like pointed towards race. But if we are, 1049 00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:07,400 Speaker 2: I believe your audience is full of black women, beautiful 1050 00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:11,120 Speaker 2: black women. It's just really important to tap into what's 1051 00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:14,160 Speaker 2: available to you now, but not necessarily lean all the 1052 00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:17,200 Speaker 2: way onto it, like be supported, find those spaces like 1053 00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,279 Speaker 2: the Herspace podcast that celebrates you, but make it a 1054 00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:24,520 Speaker 2: point that you do it for yourself, literally for yourself, 1055 00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,760 Speaker 2: because no matter how many times you're told you're beautiful, 1056 00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:31,080 Speaker 2: if you genuinely just think you're ugly, it's gonna go 1057 00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:33,279 Speaker 2: on one ear and out the other. So it's gonna 1058 00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:37,239 Speaker 2: be uncomfortable. Look at the Reinvention Workshop, I'm gonna bring 1059 00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:40,799 Speaker 2: this up. We provide our attendees with mirrors. A lot 1060 00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:44,239 Speaker 2: of people cannot look into it, but if you come 1061 00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:45,799 Speaker 2: in in that room, you're gonna look in that mirror 1062 00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:48,920 Speaker 2: because I'm going to be with you and hold that space. 1063 00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:51,080 Speaker 1: But it's something that really needs to be done. 1064 00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:53,600 Speaker 2: And that's why it stood out for me in my 1065 00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:55,920 Speaker 2: life as a powerful practice is I got to look 1066 00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,520 Speaker 2: into my face and just see me and take all 1067 00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:02,080 Speaker 2: of me in and I see the beauty in you. 1068 00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:06,000 Speaker 2: You're beautiful, you know. And some days that be unmotivated, uninspired, 1069 00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,359 Speaker 2: but not be like, you know what, damn you look 1070 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,719 Speaker 2: my god, like, we can't really, I don't know we're 1071 00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:13,759 Speaker 2: gonna be able to go outside. You know, you have 1072 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:18,040 Speaker 2: to get to that point with yourself and for yourself. 1073 00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:20,799 Speaker 2: It's so important, it really is. And like you said, 1074 00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,160 Speaker 2: you know there's a lot of people. They get triggered 1075 00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:25,879 Speaker 2: by it. You know, they unfollow, they block, they people 1076 00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,960 Speaker 2: even create like hate threads and all kinds of things 1077 00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 2: because it's just really it forces them to see that 1078 00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:37,200 Speaker 2: they lack it. But if that's you, that's cool. But 1079 00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:41,840 Speaker 2: just know that it can be different. You can literally 1080 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,600 Speaker 2: defide before you hit end on this episode, or you 1081 00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:46,480 Speaker 2: you know, go off and do something else that you 1082 00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 2: want to be confident. I want to be confident. I 1083 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,520 Speaker 2: want to be rich, I want to feel good. And 1084 00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:54,520 Speaker 2: you do that and you do the things that cultivate that. 1085 00:56:54,719 --> 00:57:00,239 Speaker 2: But what I say is work. It's work and you 1086 00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:05,440 Speaker 2: and you really have to want it for yourself. Well 1087 00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:12,239 Speaker 2: you speaking of doing the work us for those who 1088 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:13,319 Speaker 2: are listening who are. 1089 00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:17,000 Speaker 3: Like, all right, all right, Jasmine, I'm ready, yeah, I'm 1090 00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:19,440 Speaker 3: ready to show up at this workshop and I'm ready 1091 00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:23,000 Speaker 3: to be handed this mirror and I'm ready. 1092 00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:28,320 Speaker 1: Let the people know where they can find you. Tell 1093 00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:29,439 Speaker 1: us more about this tour. 1094 00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:33,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so part of me is like, wow, I'm 1095 00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:36,040 Speaker 2: really out here, just like leving about this tour. You know, 1096 00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,560 Speaker 2: we have a many other things happening, so you can, like, 1097 00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 2: you can find me on Facebook. Just type in Jasmine 1098 00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:44,720 Speaker 2: Pee Green, I got the blue check mark, the spammer, 1099 00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,560 Speaker 2: the scammy whatever, they were doing their thing, So find 1100 00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:49,080 Speaker 2: me over there. 1101 00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:52,280 Speaker 1: Get on the wait list or the inn a Millionaire app. 1102 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:55,560 Speaker 2: By going to www dot in a Millionaire dot at 1103 00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:58,080 Speaker 2: you'll be able to get all the updates on that, 1104 00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:01,600 Speaker 2: especially ringing Invention, because if you're on that list, then 1105 00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,760 Speaker 2: we give you those updates first so we can get 1106 00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:06,000 Speaker 2: you tickets first before we give it to the general public. 1107 00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:09,240 Speaker 1: So right now I'm in Atlanta, Georgia. 1108 00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:12,240 Speaker 2: We're doing Reinvention in two weeks, so if you're listening, 1109 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:14,760 Speaker 2: you probably will miss this one, but we'll be doing 1110 00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:17,560 Speaker 2: one in New York, we'll do one in Dallas, and 1111 00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:21,000 Speaker 2: we're gonna check the interest, but most likely Los Angeles too. 1112 00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,920 Speaker 2: Please keep us posted because we want to show if 1113 00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:28,960 Speaker 2: we can, it'd be so amazing. And then join you 1114 00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:32,520 Speaker 2: mentioned so many different how just set you're working on today. 1115 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:34,800 Speaker 2: What are the other ways that the listeners can support you? 1116 00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:37,120 Speaker 2: Anything else that you didn't mention, because we want to 1117 00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:38,800 Speaker 2: make sure they can. We know you'd be going up 1118 00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:40,720 Speaker 2: on TikTok like we know that you know you got 1119 00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:42,720 Speaker 2: you talked about Facebook, you talked about in a Millionaire, 1120 00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:43,560 Speaker 2: talking about the workshot. 1121 00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 1: What else can they do to support you? 1122 00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:47,480 Speaker 2: You know what if it's on your if it's in 1123 00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 2: your heart, you know, DM me and blue heart, like 1124 00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:52,880 Speaker 2: go find me on any of these platforms, jab and 1125 00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:56,960 Speaker 2: P Green check Job, Instagram, Facebook, wherever right hit the 1126 00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,240 Speaker 2: hit the send message and just drop me a blue 1127 00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:02,840 Speaker 2: heart and some one who had to go through what 1128 00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,480 Speaker 2: a lot of you are going through today. It is 1129 00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:10,600 Speaker 2: so helpful and so needed to have support still to 1130 00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,760 Speaker 2: the very day, to be reminded that you know your 1131 00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,919 Speaker 2: love and you're making a difference. So if you could 1132 00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,800 Speaker 2: just send me a blue heart, I would be happy, 1133 00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:23,240 Speaker 2: genuinely ear to ear achieving. 1134 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:26,240 Speaker 1: You're super excited about that, So that's all I'm That's 1135 00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:30,320 Speaker 1: all I'm asking for, Jasine. You are a gym. 1136 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,120 Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna change your name and my phone 1137 00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:34,080 Speaker 2: the jazz and the gym because I like to change 1138 00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:36,280 Speaker 2: it up a little bit jazzy Jim Jazz. And we 1139 00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:38,400 Speaker 2: appreciate you so much. Thank you for your gifts, thank 1140 00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:40,800 Speaker 2: you for your energy, Thank you for doing the work 1141 00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:44,240 Speaker 2: like going in the trenches with yourself, for yourself and 1142 00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:47,280 Speaker 2: then bringing other people along the way. So excited for 1143 00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:48,320 Speaker 2: you and all that you're going to do. 1144 00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:49,160 Speaker 1: And thank you. 1145 00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:54,320 Speaker 2: We appreciate you, Thank you, Thank you, guys, and I 1146 00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:58,560 Speaker 2: just feel so cool and wow, I appreciate you so much. 1147 01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:01,320 Speaker 1: Oh, you appreciate you. 1148 01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:05,960 Speaker 3: Hey, lady, it's doctor dom here from the Cultivating her 1149 01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:10,000 Speaker 3: Space podcast. 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