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Speaker 1: Marriage is overrated here you go. It is like, why

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Speaker 1: do I gotta sign this piece of paper to show

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Speaker 1: you that I really love you? Like? Is that for real?

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Speaker 1: Why do I get the government involved? Like? I love you?

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Speaker 1: You live with me, I'll take care of you. I'm

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Speaker 1: doing all these things for you.

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Speaker 2: I love you.

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Speaker 1: Why do I have to get married because everybody say that's.

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Speaker 2: It's not because everybody says it, it's because.

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Speaker 3: It's I feel like marriage is something.

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Speaker 1: That this is the taking over the game. All right, everybody,

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Speaker 1: welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello?

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Speaker 3: Everybody, welcome to another episode of the Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: I'm your host, Zar Faraday.

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Speaker 1: Truth in the Building.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So how are you feeling today?

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Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm good. Yeah, New Memories still here, Still

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Speaker 1: the same algorithm.

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Speaker 2: It's all good, new timeline, same algorithm. It's hilarious. That's

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Speaker 2: a bar.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So there has been.

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Speaker 3: Like Lex p and Drea Nicole went on from Poor

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Speaker 3: Minds that came on our show.

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Speaker 2: They went on Cam Newton Show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love them, love those women first of all.

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Speaker 3: Down okay, both of them. They went on Cam Show

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Speaker 3: and Cam basically talking about there's a viral clip that's

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Speaker 3: and the conversation started by Cam saying like, I don't

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Speaker 2: They want to hide them on social media and stuff.

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Speaker 3: He's like, I'm not with that, like, people know who

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Speaker 3: remember that not all relationships are what they seem online either, though,

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Speaker 3: because people be having relationship goals like the Christie and

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Speaker 3: the Desmond's gotten all this, and then you don't even

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Speaker 3: so you don't really know what people's relationship actually look like.

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Speaker 3: And he was like, well, what does my relationship look

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Speaker 3: like to y'all? And they said it looks like hell.

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Speaker 2: They said it looks bad, and she was.

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Speaker 3: Like, I'm not gonna say it's like bad, but I'm

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Speaker 2: And one of them.

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Speaker 3: Said it looks like hell, literally, like I do not

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Speaker 3: want to like like she they drag her so much

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Speaker 3: He has obviously multiple other children, but they're not married.

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Speaker 2: They live together, so their whole thing.

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Speaker 3: He was like, why, Like they were like, I don't

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Speaker 1: On her, they don't know how she feel.

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Speaker 2: Well, he kind of agreed to that. He was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And the reason why they dragged her so hard is

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Speaker 2: And then now you're with this man.

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Speaker 3: Who has multiple baby moms, you live with him, or like,

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Speaker 3: it's like where's the intention on marrying this person? You

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Speaker 1: Like my thoughts on this with Cam Newton is I

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Speaker 1: Like if they're happy how they are, let them be happy.

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Speaker 2: But they're not. She wants to be.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm saying she wants to be married like

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Speaker 1: Women want to be married. Okay, what's the thing about,

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Speaker 1: do you is it like security security? It's it's security

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Speaker 3: Can I say something, When you're a woman and you

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Speaker 1: And a man, Surrey is being with me, under me.

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Speaker 3: Listen to what I'm saying. You're asking questions. So security.

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Speaker 2: We've talked about this before with them on the show

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Speaker 3: The thing about it is is as a woman, when

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Speaker 2: That's the mission, Like we wanna we're doing this together.

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Speaker 3: The woman is always like the second player to the man,

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Speaker 2: I'm doing this, I'm making sure the house is straight.

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Speaker 2: So what ends up happening.

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Speaker 3: If something wants to happen to you in the hospital.

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Speaker 3: They're not gonna say where is his girlfriend? Does he

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Speaker 3: are you his wife? Okay, well where is his mother?

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Speaker 2: Are you this?

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Speaker 3: They might even hell go to the next wife before

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Speaker 3: You don't have no no, no precedence over nothing. When

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Speaker 2: You see every flaw, you see everything.

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Speaker 3: So as a woman, yeah, it's security because women are

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Speaker 2: It's not just about the money.

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Speaker 3: It's about being able to say, like I'm his wife,

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Speaker 3: Men say things like that, and you wonder why woman

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Speaker 2: I want to be the wife. Like men take that seriously.

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Speaker 3: Other people take that more seriously than you saying I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, period.

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Speaker 3: There's a difference between I was your ex wife and

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Speaker 3: I was your baby mama. There's a difference having a

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Speaker 2: I'm your baby mama. It's a way different thing.

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Speaker 3: It's a respect thing, and it's for a woman to

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Speaker 1: All right. I heard what you said.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: So in saying that without getting married, and I would

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Speaker 1: say security is a bill that costs money. I can

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Speaker 1: I say, hey, you know what, baby, I know you

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you. Put this in your bank account. Boom.

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Speaker 1: All of that, I'm gonna put you in my wheel.

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Speaker 1: So if sh go bad tomorrow we got this, you

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Speaker 3: It's like I said, marriage, Well, that's what marriage give you.

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Speaker 1: Marriage give you.

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Speaker 2: All these things when I pass.

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Speaker 1: If we marry, you get it. So I'm gonna give

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Speaker 1: it to you before our past without getting married. Like

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Speaker 1: that's real. If I do your crib and I thought

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Speaker 1: a certain amount of dollars in your in your account

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Speaker 2: Not the same though, because like I.

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Speaker 1: Said, you're gonna make the decisions.

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Speaker 2: So why is the two things? Why did you say this?

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Speaker 1: Then?

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Speaker 3: Why did you say that the wife could sit in

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Speaker 1: Camera is that, Yo, you can't talk about my girl.

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Speaker 1: It's just everybody else like me as a man, as

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Speaker 1: a public figure, you're talking about my girl. That's up

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Speaker 1: all I'm saying talking about my boy. You can't just

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Speaker 2: Whatever, Why though, do you feel like.

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Speaker 3: Because I think like because of celebrity, like I don't

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Speaker 3: I understand that, but I still feel like it makes

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Speaker 2: Now I'm just your long term girlfriend living with you, and.

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Speaker 3: I'm saying, it's not just about security why women want

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Speaker 2: You're willing.

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Speaker 3: No, no, if you're not willing to marry me, you're

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Speaker 2: Personallyted, here you go.

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Speaker 1: It is like, why do I got to sign this

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Speaker 1: Is that for real? Why do government involve?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: I love you.

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Speaker 1: If you live with me, I'll take care of you.

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Speaker 1: Why do I have to get married because everybody say that's.

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Speaker 3: It's not because everybody says it, it's because it's I

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Speaker 3: I have my parents are married and my sisters are married.

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Speaker 1: Still longust that you've ever been in.

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Speaker 2: A relationship five years?

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Speaker 1: So like, if you were married for five years, what's

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Speaker 3: It means there's a bigger commitment. You can't just walk

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Speaker 2: You have to actually put in more work and this

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Speaker 1: You gotta put it on my work. What's the difference.

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Speaker 2: The difference is when you're.

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Speaker 1: being married. The only difference is it's gonna it's gonna

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Speaker 1: It's no benefits to the man. It's only beneficial to

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Speaker 1: all the things that married couples do. But the only

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Speaker 1: difference is when we break up, Now we're gonna have

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be an ugly breakup. A clean breakup is

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Speaker 1: when you're together. You could be a clean breakup and

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Speaker 1: it ain't gonna be no animals. It's more animosity on

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Speaker 1: a breakup in a marriage than it is in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: It's way more in a relationship. Y'all can still be

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Speaker 1: cool in a marriage, y'all gonna be tripping with each

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Speaker 1: That's so, that's so.

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Speaker 2: So your anti marriage.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Marriage. That's the anti marriage.

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Speaker 1: I've been married.

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Speaker 3: That's the fact that you're saying you're cool on marriage,

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Speaker 3: you're not getting married.

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Speaker 1: I will get married again.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't think.

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Speaker 3: You should because you don't seem happier. But you seem

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Speaker 3: marriage seems crazy to you. Mee, I personally feel like

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Speaker 3: I don't want to. I believe in marriage, and I

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Speaker 3: have actually seen successful marriages.

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Speaker 1: Marriage is an American or a worldwide thing that we

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Speaker 1: feel like that's when you've made it like that, ain't.

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Speaker 3: It's not about that's when you made it like I

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Speaker 3: think that that's what you're equating it to. I don't

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Speaker 3: even think it's that. Like, there's so many reasons and

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Speaker 3: why I can make you feel sure it's not about that.

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Speaker 3: It's like they're so like I already told you, there's

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Speaker 3: so many reasons.

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Speaker 2: It's not just security. It's about commitment.

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Speaker 3: It's about taking a vow to really be with each

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Speaker 3: other no matter what happens, Like it's about really deciding,

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Speaker 3: like we're going to take this next.

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Speaker 2: The paper does that, but it makes it official, and

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Speaker 2: it takes.

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Speaker 1: Harder to break up, and it's harder to break up

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Speaker 1: because what's at stake because of marriage.

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Speaker 3: Right, So I'm not going to go back and forth.

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Speaker 3: If you don't want to get married, don't get married again.

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Speaker 3: I know that I'm gonna get married one day, and

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm gonna value my marriage because I

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Speaker 3: think that marriage is important, because there's reasons why in

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Speaker 3: which a woman feels like marriage.

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Speaker 1: It's for older people.

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Speaker 3: I'm not an older person, Like, what do you mean.

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Speaker 3: I want a real family. I don't want a broken family.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to have to be a baby mother.

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Speaker 3: If as long as I'm not married to you, I

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Speaker 3: will be a baby mother, and I'm not going to

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Speaker 3: be that. I'm never gonna pop out kids. You're you're

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Speaker 3: an ex wife. There's a difference. You're an ex wife.

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Speaker 1: You get married and break up.

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Speaker 3: You are married my ex wife. You're not a baby mama,

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Speaker 3: and there's a difference. You make that commitment.

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Speaker 1: I can say this is my baby mama.

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Speaker 2: You know you don't though, you.

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Speaker 3: Don't say that you have an ex wife and you

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Speaker 2: So you don't say that because I hear you talk.

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Speaker 3: You've talked about it on the show publicly, So what

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Speaker 3: are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: Like you you you.

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Speaker 3: It's true, it's true. Then you when you have an

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Speaker 2: When you have.

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Speaker 1: If my wife right there be like this is this

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Speaker 1: is my mother's kid. I don't say that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what you say. But what the point

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Speaker 3: is is I know for a fact there's a difference.

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Speaker 2: And at the end of the day.

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Speaker 1: Title make a difference. If you a baby by or

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Speaker 1: oh I want to be called an ex wife, you.

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Speaker 2: Still it's not the point.

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Speaker 3: You just moving on because you just want to fight

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Speaker 3: be anti marriage. I don't think that you should even

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Speaker 2: If you get married again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so let's move on because I can't argue down.

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Speaker 2: People have different values.

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Speaker 3: And they also trying to tell them, like you have

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00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,399
Speaker 3: more money than to be doing all of that, Like

445
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,439
Speaker 3: why are you doing that when it's not like you

446
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 3: have any less money than us.

447
00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 1: I show you about girls friendships, it's based on I

448
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 1: see a lot of girls have so many different friends,

449
00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 1: and it's based.

450
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:52,640
Speaker 2: On like looks and status and that type of stuff. Yeah, girl,

451
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 2: that's like.

452
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:54,639
Speaker 1: But then at the end of the day, it's like

453
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,720
Speaker 1: that's artificial. Yeah, for sure, together based on what y'all

454
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 1: can get out of each other, because if you hang

455
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 1: on with baddies, you're going to attract more men to

456
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 1: y'all exactly different places, flying different places, doing all this.

457
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 1: But like that ain't real friendship.

458
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 3: I think more people should care about, like what kind

459
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,360
Speaker 3: of heart you have, and like how genuine you are.

460
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 3: Like I'm not going to say my friends aren't batties

461
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,119
Speaker 3: or whatever, because I'll never do them like that, but like,

462
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 3: I don't care about people and how they look and

463
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 3: what they're wearing and if they're cracking. Like my friends

464
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 3: are seriously genuine people and they're very like they're just

465
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 3: like super loving and down for me and they're gonna

466
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 3: ride for me.

467
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,880
Speaker 2: And that's what I care about. I don't care about

468
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 2: how much.

469
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 3: More money you got to me, how many more like

470
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 3: popping celebrity friends, how much more cracking you are, like,

471
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 3: I don't care about any of that, honestly.

472
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

473
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 1: The women in today's society who are really out.

474
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,160
Speaker 2: To more status.

475
00:22:56,440 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah person, Yeah, like Florence type of situation. It's like,

476
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: we want more influence, so you don't carry the status

477
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,400
Speaker 1: of us being influencers because everybody's a fucking influencer. I'm

478
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: tired of that. Yeah. One day when I was like, hey,

479
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: what's up. What's She's like, Hey, what do you do?

480
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 1: I was like, you know whatever, I was like, what

481
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: about you? I'm an influencer, Like what the fuck is

482
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: that at the end of the day, Like, seriously, what

483
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 1: are you influencing? Everybody ain't influencing everything. Don't give me that.

484
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, and half of these people don't even

485
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 3: be influencing anything. Like that's the thing, Like, I was

486
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 3: an influencer before I ever even was on social media

487
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 3: because I uplift people, motivate people, encourage people to do

488
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 3: certain things. I talk to women, give them advice. I'm

489
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 3: always doing that. I've always influenced people and I've never

490
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 3: said I'm an influencer. And I think that we just

491
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,159
Speaker 3: live in a generation now. Even some people I know

492
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 3: y'all want to kick it with the more cracking girls

493
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 3: that are out and now that like even me, Like

494
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,400
Speaker 3: I'm more cracking on Instagram or whatever, like if people

495
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 3: want to kick it, like let's go here, let's go

496
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 3: to dinner, and I'm like.

497
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 2: Girl, I don't know you, like I'm not. I have friends.

498
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 3: I don't need new friends just to look cracking, just

499
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 3: to be out and pool the man or whatever take

500
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,679
Speaker 3: an Instagram photo like I'm cool on that. That's my

501
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 3: problem because it's like I am a content creator. Maybe

502
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 3: I should be doing more of that, but I just

503
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 3: don't because I just don't care to do that.

504
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 2: I just no one can convince me, like go kick

505
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,880
Speaker 2: it with people that are influencing and do like content.

506
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 2: But it's just I just can't find it in my

507
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:25,959
Speaker 2: heart to go do that.

508
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 3: Like I don't want to be around people I don't

509
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 3: know and I don't care to know. Like I've never

510
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 3: been one so pressed to make friends, like I don't want.

511
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 2: I don't care.

512
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 3: If you're a vibe and you're genuine, you're cool, I'll

513
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,200
Speaker 3: rock with you. But I'm an energy person. I can

514
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 3: read your energy before you even speak, baby, So you

515
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 3: you don't even got to say too much to me.

516
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody, you know, I hate you go on a

517
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: girl page. She's showing all her assets, this showing that.

518
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:55,920
Speaker 1: And I'm influencing because everybody like.

519
00:24:56,000 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 3: Exactly, I would influencer because I'm shaking the ass.

520
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 2: I'm influencing. What yea fluent.

521
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 1: Influence because of what you.

522
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 2: And the half of the you have terrible.

523
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: Our society in a bad place. We are in the

524
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:22,439
Speaker 1: worst place of society of all time. I truly believe that.

525
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 3: Well, I mean we were in the worst place, honey

526
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 3: when our ancestors were a slave, didn't getting whipped in

527
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 3: the chains and they couldn't even walk outside of.

528
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 1: People just as a whole humanity. This is like the

529
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: worst time ever. Like, like our influences, what we look at,

530
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: what people do on the day to day. The friendships

531
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 1: are more fake. It's access to everybody.

532
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, like what you're saying, Yeah, it's.

533
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: Just not real to me. This is not real life.

534
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 3: And that's why I say, if you have a real

535
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 3: one in your life, don't take real ones for granted.

536
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 3: I have a viral little post like that because God

537
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 3: is barely making those anymore. If you know someone that's real,

538
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 3: genuine cool like the people that I know that are

539
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 3: real ones. I'm not playing around with them. You're not

540
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 3: taking that for granted because you're not getting that any

541
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 3: a lot out here.

542
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 2: I promise you not.

543
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, Like, don't take that them

544
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 3: people for granted for sure. Well, thank you to our

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you something like, you have how many sisters? Five?

549
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,159
Speaker 1: Are they all married? Yes? And you're not?

550
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 2: Yes?

551
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 1: Do you feel pressure there? No? I don't.

552
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,120
Speaker 3: I don't feel pressure because of that at all. I'm

553
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 3: the youngest out of all my sisters. I don't feel

554
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 3: societal pressure to be married because I would be married

555
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 3: by now.

556
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 2: I've been engaged.

557
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: Don't just say I'll be married by now. I don't

558
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: feel like because like you can just anybody.

559
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. But I was in a

560
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,360
Speaker 2: relationship and I was Have you.

561
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: Ever been proposed to? Yes?

562
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 2: I just told you I was engaged.

563
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: He was engaged. What happened?

564
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,360
Speaker 2: We broke up? We didn't make it to the marriage.

565
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: It was triful when you got engaged. Did y'all have

566
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: a wedding date?

567
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 2: No we didn't.

568
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: We just.

569
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're just gonna do ship, like we're.

570
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: Gonna get engaged to you just to buy some time.

571
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: I feel like when you get engaged, well I'm talking

572
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: when you get engaged. I feel like, when you get engaged,

573
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: you should say, all right, let's plan the marriage, right

574
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: if we get engaged. So if I get engaged to

575
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: you in June, hey, let's get married next summer, the

576
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: next summer. Well, we did say some people get engaged

577
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: and they just be engaged.

578
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 2: No, we did say that, though.

579
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 3: The thing is is we said that, but it was

580
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 3: on me to like plan it and do the things.

581
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 2: And I wasn't even in it anymore.

582
00:27:58,600 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to be married no more.

583
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 2: Don't want to be married to him.

584
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: No, So, like what happened, Like I'm saying the next

585
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 1: week we should plan the marriage.

586
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 2: No, we were. We were. He was talking about the

587
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 2: marriage and everything.

588
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 3: But I just think that I was checked out emotions.

589
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: So you got engaged checked out already. I got checked out.

590
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 2: I got engaged, but I was like, OK.

591
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: Period yeah.

592
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 2: During the check engaged, well he proposed, and I said.

593
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I felt like, okay, maybe we could make

594
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 3: it work.

595
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: Women play too much, Maybe we.

596
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 2: Could make it work.

597
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,439
Speaker 3: You just said that men get engaged to buy tide,

598
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 3: but we play too much.

599
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: But it make it, make it serious. So if a

600
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: man engaged, if he get engaged to you say all right,

601
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: so like we engaged and now let's start playing the wedding,

602
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 1: and if he say hold on, hold on, hold on.

603
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 2: I wasn't like that.

604
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 3: It wasn't like that though, that's what I'm saying. He

605
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 3: wasn't like that. It was really like, okay, but during

606
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 3: the engagement it was just like still so many arguments,

607
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 3: steal so much stuff, and I just was like, I

608
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 3: don't think we should go through with this. He was

609
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 3: very hurt by that, but I just felt like, hey,

610
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 3: I'm very serious about like the things that I think

611
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 3: that I deserve and that I just and it's not

612
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 3: even a lot like you if you can't give me

613
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,719
Speaker 3: the basic things and people don't realize that, like I

614
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 3: don't play like that, Like.

615
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 2: I don't care.

616
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna get married to say that I'm married.

617
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna get married just to be like I'm

618
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 3: a wife, Like I know that. That's what you keep saying.

619
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 3: But I'm not that person. If I wanted to do that,

620
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 3: I would have been married.

621
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 2: Period.

622
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: This is what I feel like engagement, And this is

623
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: why I'm speaking for everybody. If you getting gaged, you

624
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 1: got one year.

625
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 2: Here you go with it.

626
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: Don't marry you in one year. You need to make

627
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: a move, honey, from the engagement. You need to make

628
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 1: a move, honey. That's the timeline on engagement. That's blowing me.

629
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: When I heard somebody been at gage for six years,

630
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: Like what we got a game? We could have just

631
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: been together, like it's a one year. That's my timeline

632
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: on getting well.

633
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 3: People that were engaged and they both feel like okay,

634
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 3: like the engagement felt like a.

635
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 2: Wedding, Like I'm cool.

636
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 3: I just wanted to be engaged, like I wanted to

637
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 3: know that you would want to marry me.

638
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 2: Don't say that because we know people like that. You

639
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 2: know your friends, your friends like.

640
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: No dog, you got one year after the engagement to

641
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: do something after that, you should call it off one year.

642
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 1: If I get engaged, I want to marry you, right,

643
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: what does engagement.

644
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 2: Well you said to buy time.

645
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: No, no, but some dudes do that. So like after

646
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: a year, you'd be like, well, what's up? You should

647
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: be like what's up? Like, well, if he be like

648
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: a man, he like like the dude you said on

649
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: our last episode he got engaged after his girlfriend got

650
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: Cadlein that nigga did everything he could say that he

651
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 1: was buying time. But the real ship, when you get engaged,

652
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: it should happen within a year. You get max a

653
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: year and a half. Girls, if you listen to this

654
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: after a year and a half, if y'all ain't married,

655
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: because shit in line, you should not engage and say

656
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: let me get my shit in line. No, it should

657
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: be already in line.

658
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 3: This has come from man who's anti marriage, y'all, so

659
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 3: don't even last.

660
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 2: I can't tell, honey, I can't tell.

661
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 3: My biggest thing is, Look, my biggest thing is everyone

662
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 3: does things on their own timeline.

663
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 2: I don't know.

664
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 3: I've I've talked to someone before that said that the

665
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 3: engagement will be enough for them, Like, okay, if I

666
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 3: just get engaged and know that.

667
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 1: Like, because that's the highest accomplishment.

668
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 2: You ever gonna have getting engaged.

669
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy, it's accomplished anyways. I think for me,

670
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 3: I'm not just getting married to anyone just to marry.

671
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 3: I'm not afraid of commitment, but I definitely have the

672
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 3: fear of like having a baby or being married like

673
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 3: makes me connected to someone for a while.

674
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: And I've never wanted to make either one of those.

675
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 3: Decisions in my life because it just scares me, like,

676
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 3: oh no, honey, I don't want to even deal with

677
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 3: this person for the rest of my life. No, So,

678
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 3: like I've never pushed go, and I could have a

679
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 3: lot of times on those things, but I don't care

680
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 3: about what society thinks.

681
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: But do I want?

682
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 3: Am I a romantic lover girl that wants a man

683
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 3: to just propose to me and be like I want

684
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 3: to be with you for the rest of my life

685
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 3: and I'm gonna be committed. Yeah, Like I'm a girl

686
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, Like I'm a woman.

687
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 3: Everybody wants that romantic dream of feeling that it has

688
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 3: nothing to do with all this money or this or that,

689
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 3: or like trying to take the man, Like I'm the

690
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 3: type of woman you can have it. Like when I

691
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 3: be done with someone, have everything. I don't even want

692
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 3: your money. I don't want shit, have it all. I'm gone,

693
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,959
Speaker 3: Like seriously, I will walk away from every damn thing.

694
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 3: If I'm done with someone, you could have every dollar.

695
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 3: I will start over because I've started over before and

696
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 3: you could go and get it cracking. Like that's the

697
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 3: type when jay Z says she said keep her keep

698
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 3: your own money. If we ever did split up.

699
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 2: That's me. You could have it, like I'll sign a

700
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 2: prenup and everything.

701
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: Like in this category, j is gonna be good when

702
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: he's she's gonna be good. Don't don't. Don't put them

703
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: in this category. Put some motherfucker that got some money

704
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: and the motherfuck who broke and who broke like that

705
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: I for show, will you gotta up keep everything? Yeah?

706
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 3: If you no, no no, I for show will say that,

707
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 3: I'll be like keep everything.

708
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: Nowhere to go, you go outside like you're gonna need something.

709
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 3: Stop playing girl show for show for show like that though,

710
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 3: like you can have everything cool position, Huh. I'm never

711
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 3: gonna be in that position, like because at the end

712
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 3: of the I don't come from where I'm going to

713
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 3: be on the streets like I'm gonna be good. Like

714
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, I'll be okay, so

715
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 3: you know, like, but at the same time, it's like, yeah, women.

716
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:12,959
Speaker 2: Just want to feel loved.

717
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 3: And you know, I saw this meme recently that says,

718
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 3: why do men keep treating us like no limit soldiers?

719
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 2: Like we're yes girls like y'all treating us like we know, limit.

720
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 3: Soldiers and talking to us crazy and treating us like

721
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 3: we men and being rough like we not no limit soldiers.

722
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: Now, we're in a society to where women want to

723
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: be the man. We're in that society. That's why we

724
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: talked like that. When men when women want to drop

725
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 1: their femininity and be masculine, because we got more masculine

726
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: women than ever, they think they can do what men do.

727
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: That's the society that we're in now. They think they

728
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,399
Speaker 1: can play our roles, do the shit we do, heavy

729
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: lifting and all that, and it's demasculating men to make

730
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: us look nothing. So like what you're talking about it

731
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: is that. That's why we like that real talk.

732
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I don't think that all women are like that.

733
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 3: I think that men are now being conditioned to just

734
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 3: like treat women like.

735
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: And this society has conditioned that's to be like and.

736
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:22,919
Speaker 3: The man in the society has conditions emasculated.

737
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 1: Emasculated the men to where now we're growing up like

738
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: it's okay to you know, and wear skirts and in

739
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 1: high heels.

740
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 3: So I'm going to break something down for you. It's

741
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 3: not women who emasculated men. It's systemic racism that's been

742
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 3: going on for years and years and years and when

743
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 3: the day in the slave days, they used to take

744
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 3: black men from their families, rape and beat them in. No,

745
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 3: listen to what I'm saying, So women, no, listen to

746
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Women did not emasculate men. Men have

747
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 3: been emasculated for centuries, Black men specifically. That's why every

748
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 3: black man, why women, every So black women are the

749
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 3: people who are putting men in skirts and dresses when

750
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 3: they play on acting roles. That's the only way these

751
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 3: men can get roles is if they dress up as women. Historically,

752
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 3: black men have only been able to get roles when

753
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 3: they dress up black women. Historically, Systemically, people have been

754
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:24,879
Speaker 3: Black men have been suppressed and have been emasculated by society,

755
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 3: not by black women. Black women have been conditioned to

756
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 3: be masculine by black men because black women cannot put

757
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 3: their guard down, feel safe or feel soft around a

758
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 3: black man because they have treated them horribly based off

759
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 3: of their circumstances.

760
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 2: So if we want to.

761
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,800
Speaker 3: Talk about who made who what, black men made women

762
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 3: be more masculine, not the other way around. Black men

763
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 3: were emasculated unfortunately by society, and this has proven historical facts.

764
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 3: So at the end of the day, no, you're wrong, Okay,

765
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 3: you know what you don't like when I say something

766
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 3: and they say that they'd be like that he cuts

767
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 3: her off when she be trying to get off.

768
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,720
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, that's the truth.

769
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 3: So, yes, society have emasculated black man and it's horrible

770
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 3: and I hate that. And I feel like when I

771
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 3: watch how the world has worked. Yes, have we continue

772
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 3: to emasculate them? We have not helped the issue. I

773
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 3: will not say that, but I will say that black

774
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 3: but I will say that if who played a bigger

775
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 3: role in making one which way is black men?

776
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 2: Black men has disrespected.

777
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 3: Her, abused, cheated, lied to black women on a more

778
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 3: consistent basis than women have hurt the black man.

779
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 2: Black women have been loyal to a fault. Okay.

780
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,319
Speaker 3: Black women have been designed to stick around even through

781
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 3: all the hard times. So at the end of the day, no,

782
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 3: I'm not going to sit here and let you say

783
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 3: that black women are masculine because men with all of

784
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:51,320
Speaker 3: this stuff.

785
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 2: We are a lot of black women.

786
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 3: You know how much it hurts to continue to be

787
00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:00,280
Speaker 3: cheated on, lied to taken out of your softness because

788
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 3: a man is not allowing you to thrive in your femininity.

789
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: It hurts.

790
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 3: There's a cost that it pays for a man to

791
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 3: have a feminine woman, and the cost is for him

792
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 3: to make her feel safe, for him to make her

793
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 3: feel comfortable being vulnerable, for him to make her feel

794
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 3: like she's in a space where she can thrive and

795
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 3: she doesn't have to look over her shoulder or feel

796
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 3: like he's cheating on her or lining to her, or

797
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 3: feel like she cannot really be in a safe space

798
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 3: where she can be the woman that she is designed

799
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 3: to be.

800
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 2: Okay, a woman when we have we have.

801
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 3: To have hormonally less estrogen, more estrogen in our body

802
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 3: in order to operate as women, when we have to

803
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,160
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804
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,560
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805
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807
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808
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809
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,640
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811
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Speaker 3: So basically Savannah James said that she loves going to

850
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:25,359
Speaker 3: the strip club. That's one of her hobbies, right, hobby. Yeah,

851
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 3: she said, it's like a hobby of hers to go to.

852
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Speaker 3: Her favorite hobby is to.

853
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Speaker 1: Go to women or men?

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00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 2: You ask questions, I don't know. I want to say that.

855
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: It's probably men, that's probably man.

856
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 2: No, no woman wants to see a man stripper. I

857
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 2: don't want to look.

858
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: At around girls stripting. Wrong with that?

859
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Speaker 2: What if it's men? You can't go to the.

860
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 1: Band that's what you love to do? You want to

861
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:52,919
Speaker 1: go see that? Like, damn, that's crazy. If your girl

862
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 1: want to go see men strippers all the time, that's

863
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: that's a red flag.

864
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 3: But what about so it's not a red l that

865
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,040
Speaker 3: she wants to see women naked all the time, And

866
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867
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Speaker 1: A girl's out And I'd rather you do.

868
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 3: That really, yeah, because there's men in there that are

869
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 3: ready and on it.

870
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: But you're gonna be with your girls and y'all gonna be.

871
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 2: There, and what if they're non understand the.

872
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: Thing about Savannah James, she's a public figure.

873
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she can't be doing it. But we're not

874
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 2: talking about.

875
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: Look at it as innocent, it's nothing.

876
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 3: But what about if it's not so Like, let's just

877
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 3: say it's just a girl and it's your girlfriend. She's

878
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 3: not a public to the strip club and we go

879
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:29,479
Speaker 3: every three times a week.

880
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,439
Speaker 2: Nobody's yeah, twice a week.

881
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: The money, y'all got, Well, you gotta throw something.

882
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 2: We're throwing something and we're just going there, we're eating wings,

883
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 2: we're going.

884
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: If you're going, you gotta go to the strip. I

885
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: gotta be going on more dates than you're going to

886
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,359
Speaker 1: strip clubs. If you're doing that more than we're going

887
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: on the dates, that's an issue.

888
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 3: What about if it's a date she's like, oh, I

889
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:54,839
Speaker 3: want us to go on the date there all the time.

890
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 2: Okay, that's cool.

891
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: If she wants to do that. Sometimes in the relations

892
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 1: we gotta you don't want to do I'm crying, Oh

893
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: you want me to go look at some cool.

894
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 2: Am I allowed to get dancers private?

895
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 1: No?

896
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: That's right there, Yeah, that's fine.

897
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 3: All right? There were good, And you don't mind if

898
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 3: the girls dancing on her and all of that stuff,

899
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 3: and she's grabbing her ass and they're shaking in and

900
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 3: all that. We together, so you're not stripping off of that,

901
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 3: and you're not tripping off of her going once a

902
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:39,760
Speaker 3: week to the strip club.

903
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: No, we're not going once a week.

904
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 2: She said, it's a hobby she does all the time.

905
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: Going once a week.

906
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 2: Come on, no, yeah, to go beat there? You know

907
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 2: you love to get frustrated to.

908
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: That.

909
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 3: You're not tripping off of that. Okay, So you think

910
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 3: that a strip club? Have you ever been to a

911
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 3: sex club? Would you go to one with your partner?

912
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,320
Speaker 3: So it's like, okay, So for instance, there's in Jamaica

913
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 3: there's a there's a resort and it's called I don't

914
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 3: know what it's called. I think it's like Hinduism something something.

915
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 3: I've heard of it. And everyone in that resort is

916
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 3: getting it cracking naked in the pool, in the beach,

917
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 3: in the thing. Would you go to that with your partner?

918
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 3: We have to talk, but the question is would you go?

919
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 3: If the person?

920
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 2: But would you you're not planning it, but would you

921
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 2: want to go?

922
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: I'm not planning it. If she wants to go, we

923
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 1: can go.

924
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 2: I'm not.

925
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 3: I don't think I'm into that because I don't like

926
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 3: all that sex going around, Like, what kind.

927
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 2: Of diseases do people?

928
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: If she don't want to do it if I don't

929
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: do it, or somebody.

930
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 2: Will if she wants to do it.

931
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: If she wants to do it.

932
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 2: But do you want to do that?

933
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that.

934
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 2: You're not such your that's that's your righte.

935
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: What are you looking at? Somebody getting it cracking?

936
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 3: But they're all but the girls are coming over to

937
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 3: get it cracking with y'all as well.

938
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 1: I'm good. I ain't never done that. I never wanted

939
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: to do it.

940
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not into that. I think that that's too

941
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:21,320
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Speaker 1: You love that. I'm like, I'm she got y'all ry

949
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:53,840
Speaker 1: she cooked.

950
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie you could, Okay. So anyways, moving.

951
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 1: On from that, Damn she got me, I usually get her.

952
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: She got me.

953
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 3: He usually gets me every dime, buddy, Okay, So let's

954
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:13,320
Speaker 3: go back to the script.

955
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 2: Toney. Okay, so.

956
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 3: Justin La Boys obviously with coy La Ray, they have

957
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 3: a podcast they've been chopping and they've been going viral

958
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 3: like all the time. And he told her, he was like,

959
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 3: you're my first babitch I've ever been in a relationship with,

960
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,400
Speaker 3: like you know, like you had a But he was like,

961
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,959
Speaker 3: but you know, it's not easy, he said, it's hard

962
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 3: when you got your first babbitch. He said that it

963
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 3: stressed him out. You know what I'm saying, because it's like.

964
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 1: Well he talking because having a girl who not only

965
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: looked good and it's bad, but on a level of

966
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 1: notoriety too.

967
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. So that's a double whammy right there

968
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 2: on that.

969
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 1: So I'm sure you have some bad ones on the

970
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 1: look side, but when you got the bad one who's

971
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 1: popping not only and looks, but in the culture, Yeah,

972
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:08,399
Speaker 1: that's different. You know, that's a public relationship where now

973
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: when you move, you got to move different. You know

974
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, When you're in a public type of

975
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: relationship where everybody know your chick and know y'all together.

976
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: So that's what he I think that's what he says.

977
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, he was saying that he was like, it's hard,

978
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 3: like and it's a funny mean because there's like I

979
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 3: think he's.

980
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 1: Like pictures, like he wrote to he can't move go

981
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 1: to the club if he flirting on and do it

982
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 1: all like what like he wote to, Like that's what

983
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: do you mean?

984
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 3: He want to be flirting And that's what men want

985
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 3: to do when they're in relationships. They want to go

986
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 3: flirt with women at the club.

987
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: That's what y'all want to do.

988
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 1: I'll see, I will go to the club.

989
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:52,280
Speaker 2: So I just right.

990
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: The club for what you need to go to the

991
00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: club for.

992
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:03,320
Speaker 3: I I'm crying, Okay. So you know the singer TAM's

993
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 3: you know what I'm talking about, right, Tams. She's amazing.

994
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,879
Speaker 3: She's actually one of my favorite artists right now. She's

995
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:14,920
Speaker 3: a virgin at twenty nine, and she said she's waiting

996
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 3: for marriage.

997
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 2: What do you think about that?

998
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: Well, we talked about this, Yeah, we did. I mean,

999
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 1: like and her situation. It's a little different because if

1000
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: you're a virgin in marriage, any sex that you get

1001
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:36,359
Speaker 1: in the marriage is gonna be great because you don't

1002
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 1: know what it was. So like we said, like you

1003
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: should have sex before marriage to see just what's going on,

1004
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 1: but like hers, it's gonna.

1005
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 3: Be That's not true though, As a woman, losing your

1006
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,319
Speaker 3: virginity is the most disgusting, painful experience ever.

1007
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:51,439
Speaker 2: It's not good and.

1008
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 3: Sex doesn't Sex doesn't even feel good. I don't even

1009
00:48:56,040 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 3: think I had good sex until years after having said, Like.

1010
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 2: You don't think it's good. You don't just to lose,

1011
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 2: you'll be thinking like, damn, sex is not.

1012
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it hurts, and then also too it's just

1013
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:14,440
Speaker 3: like it's awkward, and then like you're not. Like I

1014
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 3: think it takes a while as a woman to understand

1015
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 3: your body, to understand what you like and what you

1016
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 3: don't like. To feel like I feel like you have.

1017
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 1: To have.

1018
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 3: A lot of experiences sexually to get there.

1019
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:33,799
Speaker 2: Like even me, like someone who's had sex.

1020
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm still inexperience in some aspects or

1021
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 3: like because I haven't tried everything, you know, like I

1022
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 3: don't like certain things, like I still get be shy sometimes,

1023
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 3: like even me. So imagine being like a virgin and

1024
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 3: having to like start having sex. You don't know what's

1025
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 3: going on, you know what I mean. So I feel

1026
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 3: like that's definitely a crazy experience.

1027
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:00,080
Speaker 2: To lose your virginity, Like.

1028
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 3: I respect it completely, you know what I mean. I'm

1029
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 3: I'm sure like as a woman, it's not like I

1030
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 3: regret anything, but yeah, would you want to just be

1031
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 3: like I never had.

1032
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 2: Sex with none of y'all? Yeah, absolutely, y'all like cool.

1033
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,279
Speaker 3: But at the same time, it is hard to like

1034
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 3: adjust to first having sex.

1035
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:20,399
Speaker 2: And I can only imagine like.

1036
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 1: Y'all gonna go through it together and it's gonna be

1037
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 1: special for her.

1038
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm saying, yeah, it'll be special.

1039
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,760
Speaker 1: Like damn this shit week first.

1040
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's like no, because you don't know if.

1041
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: I want to marry somebody like that. Wow, No, nothing

1042
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: that's going on.

1043
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. I remember when I told.

1044
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: Me like maybe I just I just need you to

1045
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: get me right, and it's gonna blow me because it

1046
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: ain't getting me right.

1047
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. And I think like when I first started.

1048
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: To hang it up on marriage at twenty nine, you

1049
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 1: waited too long.

1050
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 2: Baby, I'm dead. I respect it.

1051
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 1: I respect yo, Henna, he gonna cheat on you?

1052
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 2: Why would you say that and wish that upon her life?

1053
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 1: Don't say that because he's gonna be. He gonna be.

1054
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 3: You don't know, she might get cracking. You don't know

1055
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 3: what might happen. I remember when I first started having sex.

1056
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 3: I'll never forget that. My ex was like, honestly, you

1057
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 3: just are laying there and it's making me feel like

1058
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,359
Speaker 3: I'm just like doing something.

1059
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:24,879
Speaker 2: You don't want me to doing nothing. You're just like this.

1060
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 3: And I remember him telling me that. I'm like, wow,

1061
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 3: this is crazy. I'm so embarrassed, Like I just.

1062
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 2: Am laying there like dad.

1063
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 3: He's looking at her like, like, what's that movie where

1064
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:39,840
Speaker 3: dude party?

1065
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,399
Speaker 1: What's that? Dude? What's the dude? Y'all don't talk about

1066
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: weekend at Birdie. You just sit there. Did this? That's

1067
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: blowing up? That was blowing He got.

1068
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:56,280
Speaker 2: Cheat dog keep saying that that's.

1069
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 1: Right.

1070
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 3: Nah, that's so crazy. Why can't he teach her?

1071
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 2: Like, why do you process? It's not that hard to

1072
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 2: teach somebody something.

1073
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: It is hard to teach somebody something.

1074
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 3: I'm a quick learner. There's a lot of people who

1075
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:13,840
Speaker 3: can catch on. You just gotta tell him a few times.

1076
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:15,919
Speaker 1: Hey, they ain't never done that. How long it's gonna

1077
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: take you to drive? Not the first two three times

1078
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:19,319
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to drive a little bit.

1079
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 2: It's good it's quick. If you don't how to.

1080
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,800
Speaker 1: Ain't quick. Never drove like you you might get to

1081
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: an accident. Got to drive in a parking lot somewhere

1082
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: where they know cars. You ain't gonna go and traffic

1083
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: your first time driving. Why he's gonna be like, all

1084
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: right until she gets right. I need to be right.

1085
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 2: Okay, that's crazy. So man, just cheating when things aren't right.

1086
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: It ain't that. It's just that, like, damn, she not

1087
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 1: fulfilling what I really need because she's an experience. So

1088
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 1: why she waited so long?

1089
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 3: Okay, So let's answer some fan questions before we wrap up.

1090
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 3: I found out my boyfriend has a private Instagram where

1091
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,320
Speaker 3: he follows nothing but women and thirst s traft flag.

1092
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 2: He says, it's for peace.

1093
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 1: Red flag. That's nothing. Private is the grand way you're following.

1094
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 1: Now he's seeing what's up.

1095
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 2: You're seeing what's up.

1096
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, thank you guys so much for joining the

1097
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 3: Truth after Dark.

1098
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 2: We love y'all, I love y'all.

1099
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Speaker 1: Make y'all like and subscribe. That goes a long way

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00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 1: to what we're trying to do in our algorithm. Five stars.

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Speaker 1: All that.

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Speaker 3: Help us get to one hundred thousand subscribers.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna give us the three sixty though. You got

1104
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 1: that dress on now Valentine's dating k You're like damn

1105
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 1: like everybody even it is this like give the people

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Speaker 1: what they want, like this is aizarre fair day, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm nervous now. No, seriously, seriously, I don't think I

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Speaker 2: want to do it. I don't think I want to

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Speaker 2: do it.

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00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: That's crazy. Alright, well next episode maybe.

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Speaker 2: Maybe next episode.

1113
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm scared.

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Speaker 1: Hugs. This is the taken over the game, all right, everybody,

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Speaker 1: welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic