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Speaker 1: They talk about. Yeah, they talk better than they excited

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Speaker 2: Tell me, these are the radio blogs on the Fred Show,

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Speaker 2: Like we're writing in our diaries, except we said him aloud.

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Speaker 2: We call him blogs Kaylin.

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Speaker 1: Take it aways, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: So I asked the Loyal thirteen on I think it

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Speaker 3: was Friday that I posted it to help me because

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Speaker 3: over the weekend I was going to meet my boyfriend's family,

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Speaker 3: his parents for the first time, and his brother had

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Speaker 3: already met his sister. But the circumstances were a little complicated,

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Speaker 3: I feel like, so I didn't know what the hell

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Speaker 3: I should bring to, you know, as a side of respect,

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Speaker 3: you don't want to go empty handed. So I was

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Speaker 3: meeting his family, his parents, but it was at his

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Speaker 3: sister's new house, so it was like a housewarming. But

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Speaker 3: it was a barbecue for Father's Day. So there's a

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Speaker 3: lot of layers here. Yeah, right, Okay, So everyone was

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Speaker 3: giving me really awesome suggestions. His dad's not a big

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Speaker 1: He's not my dad?

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Speaker 3: Do I get his mom something even though it's not

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Speaker 3: her house, just as a side of respect and obviously

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Speaker 3: give the host something his sister. So what I ended

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Speaker 3: up going with, and I think it was okay. I

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Speaker 3: know she likes plants and I love to give an orchid.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you could just throw a couple of ice

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Speaker 3: for his mom paeonies if you were wondering, and I

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Speaker 3: brought drinks for the whole party, and then I.

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Speaker 1: Brought a cheesecake. So that's what I ended up going with.

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Speaker 1: That's good, Okay, Yeah, I think it went over well.

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Speaker 3: And I just obviously wished his dad like a happy

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Speaker 3: early Father's Day. But everyone was right like, he's not

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Speaker 3: I was like, you know.

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Speaker 1: You're not my dad, right, well, you're not my dad.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad he's not my dad because that would make

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Speaker 3: things awkward for my boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: I but yeah, no, and I dad, Yeah, period, That's

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Speaker 1: what I said. Right when I got there. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: It would be weird for me to get him a card, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, I've loved watching you be an amazing dad

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Speaker 3: over all, it's like, I just met.

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Speaker 2: That funny if you've got to show if you got

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Speaker 1: I know exactly. I just love watching you be a father.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, no, so I was. I remember when he

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Speaker 3: Well, you don't know if your jokes are going to

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Speaker 3: and they did, so I think it went well. I

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Speaker 3: think I stressed a little bit too much about it,

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Speaker 3: which I always do, but I did. It is a

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Speaker 3: lot going on, so you you were right to stress

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Speaker 3: just move and change my name because it was too much,

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Speaker 3: and a lot of people were like that my social

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Speaker 3: battery would be crazy. There were also other people there

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Speaker 3: because his sister has roommates, so their families to.

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Speaker 1: Them, right, what about their dad?

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Speaker 3: Well, when I got there, I told him, I was like,

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Speaker 1: So I didn't know if that helped me or hurt me.

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Speaker 1: It might have been a good buffer. You know, the

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Speaker 2: You know, I think you should have brought some one

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: People in the comments also said bring a signed photograph.

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, I mean you did that, right,

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Speaker 2: That's the first thing I bestow upon every new person

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Speaker 1: Right, because that else you going to say, I have

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, you take all the stuff back when you

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Speaker 4: take the cheesecake home, No, and the drinks.

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Speaker 3: No, my cheesecake not fully eaten, which I love seeing

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Speaker 3: shout out trader Trader Joe's. It's just a frozen cheesecake

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Speaker 3: that you just let a thought for two hours. They

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Speaker 3: anything back that I brought. I left my can drinks

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Speaker 2: Okay, as we all know, Rufio would have asked if

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Speaker 2: he could take everything he brought back with him, including

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Speaker 2: the flower flowers. Just did you enjoy working for the

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Speaker 3: Too, So yeah, I think it went okay.

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Speaker 2: You know? Is that guy by the way, he is

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Speaker 1: We're not kidding. I brought yeah, drinks for myself. Yeah, drinks,

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Speaker 2: But when you bring something to a party, it's you've

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Speaker 2: you've relinquished them. It's it's for everyone, because I did

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Speaker 2: you did you take anything that was intended for anyone else?

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Speaker 1: No? I brought drinks, no food, drink and I drunk them.

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Speaker 1: But did you eat any of the food that was

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Speaker 2: So so you were able to use anything that was

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Speaker 1: But anything you brought you.

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Speaker 4: To be a party, it's a you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: You bring your own drink, You bring your own beer.

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Speaker 1: B y O B. Bring your own drink. The host

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Speaker 4: Right and then that person the host will be like, hey,

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Speaker 4: take this plate home, take this food home, which is fine.

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Speaker 1: But if I'm going to drinks for myself to drink,

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Speaker 4: Only drinks I drink, I'm gonna take those home with

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Speaker 4: me because as a person that hosts parties.

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Speaker 2: As well, I don't have room everyone, so no, everybody can.

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Speaker 2: You're not bringing drinks for you to drink, only every

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Speaker 4: Yes, I don't drink beer. I don't drink beer. If

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Speaker 4: it's drinking beer, I'm bringing something for myself.

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Speaker 2: My point is I'm not drinking other people's. It's as

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Speaker 2: a gesture of being in someone else's home. You're bringing

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Speaker 2: tell you they would like you to take it with them.

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Speaker 2: Otherwise you have given it to them. It is theirs.

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Speaker 2: They hosted you. You're only contributing to what's available for

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Speaker 2: don't give, You don't bring someone to a party and

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Speaker 1: You don't do that. No, if it's if it's the

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Speaker 1: drinks that I brought to the party, then yes, no,

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Speaker 1: because they're no longer yours. They're the party drinks. They're

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Speaker 1: for the drinks that I brought for me. That's party.

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Speaker 1: But you do it.

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Speaker 2: But no one brings anything just for them to a

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Speaker 2: group events. You don't get to say this is only

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Speaker 2: for me. It's for everybody, like you're putting you. You

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Speaker 2: bring it in, you said it with all the other drinks,

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Speaker 2: and then it's for everyone to share.

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Speaker 4: You know, this is a crazy concept, But like I'm

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Speaker 4: just saying, like, like if I bring drinks and someone

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Speaker 1: Fine, Okay, you'll share, right, Okay, Well then I'm going

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Speaker 1: at the party and I enjoyed you, and what if

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Speaker 1: you enjoyed my chocolate chip cookies that I brought, right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: then I want to take some home. I'm going to

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Speaker 2: So you can take home my chocolate chip cookies and

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Speaker 2: all of your drinks.

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Speaker 1: How many parties have you hosted at your house for it?

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Speaker 1: How many parties more than you in yours. I'm a

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Speaker 1: better host. Are you getting me? I've been writing there

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Speaker 1: like three times in my house. You've never come once.

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Speaker 2: Speaking to a personal I'm you don't get to take.

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Speaker 2: You can't take other people's stuff and yours.

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Speaker 1: I'm not taking other people's stuff. I'm taking the stuff

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Speaker 1: I brought home. And take this plate.

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Speaker 4: I don't have room for it. Take these leftovers. I'm

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Speaker 4: going to take the leftovers. I'm not making my own

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Speaker 4: plate to take home. If the host says, hey, I'm

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Speaker 4: take take good because your logic makes no sense.

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Speaker 1: Friends, but did you reverse park at the rights? Did

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Speaker 2: When it's one way you get when I bring to

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Speaker 2: a party, it's now the host of the it's theirs.

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Speaker 2: And if they say to me, if they say please

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Speaker 2: because I don't have any plates for them, that's up

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Speaker 1: I do. That is not up to me. I am at.

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Speaker 1: My gesture for coming to the party is whatever I

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Speaker 1: to just award.

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Speaker 2: Things for myself and then also take them and then

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Speaker 2: also take what other people brought to that I want selectively.

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Speaker 1: You just leave it, you know, just move on.

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Speaker 2: So you're saying you can take the stuff you brought

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Speaker 2: home and the stuff I brought home, I'm not saying that.

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Speaker 1: What are you saying? I brought drinks for to drink

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Speaker 1: at the party.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna take those drinks home, no matter how many

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Speaker 4: are left, because that's what I brought to drink, and

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Speaker 4: I could drink it later at my house or the

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Speaker 4: next weekend.

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Speaker 1: And so could the host.

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Speaker 4: But as the host, like the host, I'm telling you,

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Speaker 4: the host doesn't want all those drinks.

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Speaker 1: They don't want all that because they have no room

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Speaker 1: for it.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to stand on business and say I do

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Speaker 2: not believe that what you're saying is proper etiquette.

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Speaker 1: But okay, I don't either.

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Speaker 2: And to be honest with you, of all the people

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Speaker 2: in the room, you're the last person that I trust

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Speaker 2: on the etiquette. Actually, why because of this rant right here?

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Speaker 1: I think his parents liked me. The sister might be,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: But did you take everything is going to be every

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Speaker 2: single thing you brought with you? Was there any was

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Speaker 2: there any pie left, any cheese cake? Because that's yours

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Speaker 2: to take home. Apparently.

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Speaker 3: I think there was a slice, but I I didn't take.

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Speaker 1: Oh you left it for someone else to have it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and my press, my press Seltzers I left there, but.

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Speaker 1: You know, did you leave a tip? The understanding when

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Speaker 1: I ate? Okay, I hope so though,