WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Surprise Party Shocker

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<v Speaker 1>Second. One of our listeners, Chris, says his first date

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<v Speaker 1>got derailed before it even started, just like most of

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<v Speaker 1>the segments on this show. I was gonna say that

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<v Speaker 1>used to. I feel for you, Chris. I have been there.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, I'm there right now. It's good. Stay in

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<v Speaker 1>the present, Jeff, Chris, do you feel this segment tanking

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<v Speaker 1>as we speak? I think we can get it back

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<v Speaker 1>on track. Faces say different. But you're a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>hopeful and optimistic than we are. Chris. But tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the girl that you were supposed to go out with.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Oh? Yeah, sure, niece Kayla? Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we met at a dating app. We been online. How

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<v Speaker 1>long do you guys chat before you actually met up?

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<v Speaker 1>Like two or three weeks? So you know, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>a decent amount of time we got to know each

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<v Speaker 1>other at least a little bit, right, Is that the

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<v Speaker 1>normal amount of time that you guys do, two three

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<v Speaker 1>weeks before you meet up? Yeah? I tried to meet

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as possible so I don't waste my time.

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<v Speaker 1>Two three minutes, Okay, she's out. Yeah, a solid connection, though,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to make sure it's two three weeks If

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<v Speaker 1>you're just sucking up like Alexas. Yeah, okay, fair, So

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<v Speaker 1>you actually like her? It sounds like yeah, yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was one of those outs where we were trying to date,

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<v Speaker 1>not just get down to it good and so I

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<v Speaker 1>mean the conversation leading up sounds like obviously it was good. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was good. She's super cute, Like first just our pictures,

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<v Speaker 1>she had like freckles. She was wearing like all these

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<v Speaker 1>cute like old band T shirts that she was sort

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<v Speaker 1>of like cut up and anyway, whatever, my type sounds odd, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you're not one of those guys that sees like

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<v Speaker 1>a girl were in like a Rolling Stone shirt Ramans

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like name three Okay. I was like, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not even in Nirvana. LL tell us about the date

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<v Speaker 1>and how it got derailed. Well, all right, so we

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<v Speaker 1>scheduled that I was actually going to pick her up

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<v Speaker 1>for our first date. Oh man, she definitely trusts you then.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so I got there, like I'm a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>punctual person. I got there and ended up being like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes early. Okay, wow, okay, So I was like

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go up, I'll knock on the door, like to

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<v Speaker 1>see what's going on or whatever. Ooh, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Twenty minutes early for a day is really early. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not going to be ready, no exactly, Like

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<v Speaker 1>and then it's like awkward because you have to answer

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<v Speaker 1>the door. If you're knocking on the door, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>different if you send a text and you're like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. I'll just wait for you until you're ready.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me know. Yeah, I thought about doing it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, I'm going to be a gentleman.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just walk up to the door instead of using

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<v Speaker 1>a cell phone about it. Okay, but it got it

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<v Speaker 1>got way weirder though. Okay, So I go up and

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<v Speaker 1>the door was actually like cracked open. So I sort

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<v Speaker 1>of nudged it open just a little bit to give

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<v Speaker 1>like a hey, you know, I'm here. And as I

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<v Speaker 1>nudged it open, twenty ish people jumped out and screamed surprise.

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<v Speaker 1>What Yeah? So yeah exactly, I'm really confused. Were you

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<v Speaker 1>at the wrong house? No, So it turns out her

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<v Speaker 1>friends were throwing her a surprise party a week before

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<v Speaker 1>her birthday. Wow, oh, I guess they were throwing her

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<v Speaker 1>off ascent by doing it a week early. Yeah, well

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<v Speaker 1>what do you do? Do you say for the party

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<v Speaker 1>or do you just leave? Well, she's obviously not even

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<v Speaker 1>there yet if they're all waiting for her, right, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't She was not there yet, so awkward. Yeah, so,

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, they didn't like ask me a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of questions. They just sort of were like getting getting

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she's on her way here. Yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like fully have time to make the decision of like,

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<v Speaker 1>so then you're just like put in with the crowd

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<v Speaker 1>of people and you're now waiting to surprise her for

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<v Speaker 1>her party with a group of people I've never met.

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<v Speaker 1>That's hysterical. What happened when she came into the door.

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<v Speaker 1>So she comes in the door, everyone jumps out yell surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she's like looking around obviously very surprised, and

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<v Speaker 1>then sees me in the middle of it, and he

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<v Speaker 1>looks even more surprised. Probably not how you envisioned your

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<v Speaker 1>first dates. So funny though. Was it a great party?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have a great Did she have a great time? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed a really great time. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I talk to people a pretty decent amount, and like

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<v Speaker 1>I hung out with their dog for a while. With

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a big, big dog fan. Is that great? I

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<v Speaker 1>have a weird feeling about it, really, why I think

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds great? I mean I'd rather do that than

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<v Speaker 1>like an awkward dinner date with someone, Like you're with friends.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are all drinking, the mood is super high

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<v Speaker 1>with their friends, and they're all hanging out with each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's over on the couch just sitting at the dog. No.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing. If you can find a person

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<v Speaker 1>who can hold their hone in a party, it is

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<v Speaker 1>so attractive. I agree that you don't have to babysit

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<v Speaker 1>them the whole time. Yeah, I mean it was cool,

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<v Speaker 1>but like every now and again, they'd be like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so how do you know her? I'm a little confused,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I don't know. Do I bring

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<v Speaker 1>up the dating appice? I was like, I would usually

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<v Speaker 1>find a way to sort of like the conversation. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to tell him, oh yeah, I'm from one

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<v Speaker 1>nightstand dot com. Don't want to be like I'm her cousin.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. But if it was one of my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, this is so hid Like the party

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<v Speaker 1>sounded fun, but were you able to ever get any

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<v Speaker 1>like alone one on one time to actually connect with her. Yeah, so,

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<v Speaker 1>like we got on the beer pong table together one

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<v Speaker 1>but that was fun. Okay. But actually, yeah, like I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up staying until the end, So we got like

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<v Speaker 1>almost half an hour to sort of like chap. It was.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's like post party, like, you know, she's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty tired. I was pretty tired. It was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>like it was a lot. Oh yeah, yeah, but we

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<v Speaker 1>decided next week we're going to go out on like

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<v Speaker 1>a real date. Okay, So how did it end? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you just leave? Yeah? I just you know, she gave

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<v Speaker 1>me a hug goodbye. But I mean, you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>I was leaving, like she seemed happy about the party,

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<v Speaker 1>but she also seemed like genuinely happy that I actually

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<v Speaker 1>made the decision to stay. And like, you know, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so what's happened since? Well, yeah, that's the thing. Nothing. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I texted her, you know, that week to make plans.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't gear back, and now it's been two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so I'm like, you know, I'm just racking my brain,

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<v Speaker 1>like what you know. In my head, I'm like, now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking about who is at the party, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>was there like an ex boyfriend or something that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she rekindled with Did someone say something bad about you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think it's gonna be weird when we call

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<v Speaker 1>her in a couple of minutes and all shout surprise,

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<v Speaker 1>Because that's my plan. We're gonna play a song, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back, we'll call Kayla for you and try and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. Okay, Hey, I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on second date. You're in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of a second date update update. We're gonna find out

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<v Speaker 1>how the couple is doing right after you here part two.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just joining us, surprise, it's a second We're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to wait till she was on the phone. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a second date update minus the date part. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But there was a lot of party because one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Chris unknowingly scheduled to meet up on the

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<v Speaker 1>exact night Kayla's friends planning a surprise birthday party for her. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So he showed up, got rushed in and told to

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<v Speaker 1>hide behind a couch along with forty other people that

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't know, and he surprised Kayla ended up hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out for about three hours, mostly with Kayla's dog, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>also with some of her friends and even her at

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<v Speaker 1>one point. And Chris, how did you say it ended

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<v Speaker 1>that night between you guys? I felt good. It was weird, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was happy I was there and that we

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<v Speaker 1>were definitely hanging out the next weekend. All right, good.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's just a scheduling thing. I mean, she did

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<v Speaker 1>say it was her birthday the week after because they

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<v Speaker 1>were doing the party a week before. Maybe she's just

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<v Speaker 1>been too busy. Yeah, I mean that's it's definitely possible.

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<v Speaker 1>I get that, But like she's not responding even to text. Yeah, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 1>what a dumb suggestion that. I hope you feel embarrassed

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<v Speaker 1>by that. I don't, okay, but you know you should

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<v Speaker 1>a numb too embarrassment At this point, for my left,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't happen anymore. Now, you just made it sad. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just call Kayla and hopefully put some positivity into

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<v Speaker 1>this call. All right? You ready to do this, Chris?

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<v Speaker 1>I hope? So? Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey, is

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<v Speaker 1>this Kayla? H Is this right now? With work and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning? Yay? I'm sorry? What happy birthday? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>We heard it's your birthday. Um, I'm sorry, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>a joke. It's something I don't I just don't have No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's not a joke. It's actually it's actually something

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<v Speaker 1>that we're doing called a second date. Update. Yes, we're

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<v Speaker 1>all wondering about a hangout that you had recently with

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners named Chris. Oh. He reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to us and told us, you guys are supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date, but then it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>got derailed because your friends threw you surprise birthday party

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<v Speaker 1>and he, like he said, he got like swept up

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<v Speaker 1>into the party somehow, which is I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>sounded like a really cute night. Really weird. Well, don't work. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't mean it's a blindside you in surprise with

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff. We're just really trying to help our

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<v Speaker 1>listener Chris understand what happened at the party, because he

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<v Speaker 1>felt like you guys were getting along and you were

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to hang out the next weekend and that never happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's just a little bit confused. Uh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was such a weird thing that had happened

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<v Speaker 1>because basically I was not only surprised that there was

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<v Speaker 1>a surprise party. But then I was like, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a double air of surprise because Chris being there, and

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<v Speaker 1>so it was like just a clown car full of emotions,

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<v Speaker 1>I suppose. And it was super nice that he stayed,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was weird because I guess he laughed and

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<v Speaker 1>then he came back. He left and came back you

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<v Speaker 1>mean to the party. I mean I didn't see him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just assumed he did that. What do you mean, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>because there was a gift from Chris that was on

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<v Speaker 1>the present table, and I mean, he didn't know that

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<v Speaker 1>there was going to be a surprise party, at least

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<v Speaker 1>he said he didn't, and my friend said he didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so sweet though, So you think he like rushed

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<v Speaker 1>out in the middle of the party to go get

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's so kind. Yeah, but it wasn't because

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<v Speaker 1>when I opened up his presence, it was Skims shapewear.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that is hard to get your hands on though.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a Kim Kardashian line of shapewear supposed to like

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<v Speaker 1>slim you down. Yeah. Yeah, was it lingerie though? It

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<v Speaker 1>just buy Skims because they do all sorts of difference.

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<v Speaker 1>It was shapewear, and m I was so like horrifically offended.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. He obviously he looked at me and then

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, oh, I'm just gonna go run out

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<v Speaker 1>and get shapewear for her. Why would he do that?

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<v Speaker 1>That is that's really odd, especially for a first gifts.

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<v Speaker 1>But is there one of those things where he just saw,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a Kim Kardashian line and he figured like

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<v Speaker 1>if I was gonna buy her makeup and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>Kim k on it or something I look at it,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he didn't know it was shape where maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was just like, look, I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>know he never told us that he bought you a

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<v Speaker 1>gift or anything about the skims, and he went on

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<v Speaker 1>and on about how cute and hot you were when

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<v Speaker 1>we talked to him. I mean, I just don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to have to think about it about him anymore. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, well, I'm sorry sorry to do this to you, Caleb,

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<v Speaker 1>but we do have one more surprise. Chris is on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and he wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey wait wait what yeah? Um, I'm sorry, I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>this is blowing away. I never left the party. I

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<v Speaker 1>promise you so what you already had a gift with

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<v Speaker 1>you when you showed up to a party that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what was going to happen. Du no, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on you guys, this is this is Chris. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you set this up to get me on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>like this? Like I got I want to do when

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't get figure out any other way to like

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<v Speaker 1>try to figure out like what I possibly did to

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<v Speaker 1>make you not like even respond to text like let

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<v Speaker 1>alone not go out with me again because you got

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<v Speaker 1>you bought me. You must have left and got me

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<v Speaker 1>some present that is demonstrative of how you look at

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<v Speaker 1>my body or I like it was just so weird

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<v Speaker 1>and inappropriate. Dude, what were you thinking? Man? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know what. I wouldn't even know where to buy

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<v Speaker 1>shapewear like this is I don't know. I guess I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sort of figuring out based on what everyone's saying what

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<v Speaker 1>shapewear is. But look, all right, kind of embarrassing. I

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<v Speaker 1>liked you a lot, like upon meeting you, and like

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<v Speaker 1>there was this whole table of presence like from all

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<v Speaker 1>your awesome friends, and I was like, I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>anything for her. It's her birthday, and like this is

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<v Speaker 1>my first impression on her. And I don't know, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think I drank too much, but maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>just put something in my head. I was just crossed

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<v Speaker 1>off one of the names on the gifts and I

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<v Speaker 1>put my name on it. Oh. I know it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a cool I know it's not a cool move, but

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you it was like done with like the

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<v Speaker 1>best intentions. Like I didn't open it. I didn't open

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<v Speaker 1>it first chorus, because it's wrapped. Kayla, we want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear from you. What what do you think about that?

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<v Speaker 1>My jaws just on the ground. So you're saying that

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<v Speaker 1>president wasn't from you and it did take credit for

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<v Speaker 1>a president somebody else was giving you, but it backfired

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<v Speaker 1>on you. Is that better or worse than what you

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<v Speaker 1>originally thought? Point? I mean, just like swimming in confusion.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, God, I will say, I will say it

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<v Speaker 1>means that he is not some weirdo who's giving you shapewa.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have never I would have never looked at

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<v Speaker 1>you and been like, oh man, she needs to alter

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<v Speaker 1>anything about her appearance or about yourself as a person,

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<v Speaker 1>like at all after like, no, he just needs to

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<v Speaker 1>alter the name on this happy birthday. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like he made a drunken, dumb mistake that he

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<v Speaker 1>thought was going to impress and it backfired in the

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<v Speaker 1>absolute right. But overall he seems like a pretty cool guy.

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<v Speaker 1>And we'd like to send you guys out on another date.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're up for a kala, we'd pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>No presence. Yeah, that's actually a good thing this time. Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>that typically isn't. Um. What do you think I will

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with Chris if he helps

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<v Speaker 1>me figure out who gave me shape where for my

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<v Speaker 1>first Chris up for a little detective work? I'm in Yeah, guy,

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<v Speaker 1>well I'll say this. You've now made a new listener.

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<v Speaker 1>We did it Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>been months since the surprise birthday scandal that rocked the

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<v Speaker 1>radio waves, and now Chris and Kayla are both back

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<v Speaker 1>to give us an update. Hey, guys, how's it going.

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<v Speaker 1>You're keeping it tight, keeping it constraint. She can't breathe

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<v Speaker 1>very well. That stuff is real. How you guys been? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really good. Good? Wait are you? So? Are you? Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Still seeing each other. Um, yeah, we have kept seeing

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Hey, welcome. That is cute, flirty, giggly. A

0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:50.760
<v Speaker 1>couple that shapes together stays together. I like that. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how has it been? No, it's been It's

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<v Speaker 1>been really good. It's been really good. Um. So we

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<v Speaker 1>decided we were gonna just kind of like take its

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<v Speaker 1>flow for a while. But a couple of months in

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<v Speaker 1>I did ask Kayla wanted to be official? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>circle yes or no? Kayla? Oh, big fat yeah. Yeah. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>it was funny actually, so like a little while after

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<v Speaker 1>we had like made the official boyfriend girlfriend. Um, she

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<v Speaker 1>actually ended up throwing me a surprise party shape them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I should have been a whole body shaping yeah, weight trainers.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't expected party. Yeah, would be. I actually thought

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<v Speaker 1>about that, but I was like, you know what, let

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<v Speaker 1>me be a little a little more clever. And I

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<v Speaker 1>told all of his friends to come and bring a present.

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<v Speaker 1>But the rule was that I wrote my name on

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<v Speaker 1>all the presents. Friends. Well, you've got him so much stock.

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<v Speaker 1>He had such a great sense of humor about him,

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<v Speaker 1>and actually it made me fall in love with him

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<v Speaker 1>even more even using those terms. Wow. Well, It's good

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<v Speaker 1>to know that you got over everything too, and now

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<v Speaker 1>you guys were happy, and now it's a cute inside Joe.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys end up getting married, all the presents

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<v Speaker 1>are going to be from Cale at the wedding. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for keeping us updated. Guys, it's Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning.