Speaker 1: Second. One of our listeners, Chris, says his first date
Speaker 1: got derailed before it even started, just like most of
Speaker 1: the segments on this show. I was gonna say that
Speaker 1: used to. I feel for you, Chris. I have been there.
Speaker 1: In fact, I'm there right now. It's good. Stay in
Speaker 1: the present, Jeff, Chris, do you feel this segment tanking
Speaker 1: as we speak? I think we can get it back
Speaker 1: on track. Faces say different. But you're a lot more
Speaker 1: hopeful and optimistic than we are. Chris. But tell us
Speaker 1: about the girl that you were supposed to go out with.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Oh? Yeah, sure, niece Kayla? Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we met at a dating app. We been online. How
Speaker 1: long do you guys chat before you actually met up?
Speaker 1: Like two or three weeks? So you know, I guess
Speaker 1: a decent amount of time we got to know each
Speaker 1: other at least a little bit, right, Is that the
Speaker 1: normal amount of time that you guys do, two three
Speaker 1: weeks before you meet up? Yeah? I tried to meet
Speaker 1: as soon as possible so I don't waste my time.
Speaker 1: Two three minutes, Okay, she's out. Yeah, a solid connection, though,
Speaker 1: you want to make sure it's two three weeks If
Speaker 1: you're just sucking up like Alexas. Yeah, okay, fair, So
Speaker 1: you actually like her? It sounds like yeah, yeah, it
Speaker 1: was one of those outs where we were trying to date,
Speaker 1: not just get down to it good and so I
Speaker 1: mean the conversation leading up sounds like obviously it was good. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was good. She's super cute, Like first just our pictures,
Speaker 1: she had like freckles. She was wearing like all these
Speaker 1: cute like old band T shirts that she was sort
Speaker 1: of like cut up and anyway, whatever, my type sounds odd, okay,
Speaker 1: And you're not one of those guys that sees like
Speaker 1: a girl were in like a Rolling Stone shirt Ramans
Speaker 1: and it's like name three Okay. I was like, you're
Speaker 1: not even in Nirvana. LL tell us about the date
Speaker 1: and how it got derailed. Well, all right, so we
Speaker 1: scheduled that I was actually going to pick her up
Speaker 1: for our first date. Oh man, she definitely trusts you then.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so I got there, like I'm a pretty
Speaker 1: punctual person. I got there and ended up being like
Speaker 1: twenty minutes early. Okay, wow, okay, So I was like
Speaker 1: I'll go up, I'll knock on the door, like to
Speaker 1: see what's going on or whatever. Ooh, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Twenty minutes early for a day is really early. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like I'm not going to be ready, no exactly, Like
Speaker 1: and then it's like awkward because you have to answer
Speaker 1: the door. If you're knocking on the door, it's like
Speaker 1: different if you send a text and you're like, yo,
Speaker 1: I'm here. I'll just wait for you until you're ready.
Speaker 1: Let me know. Yeah, I thought about doing it, and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm going to be a gentleman.
Speaker 1: I'll just walk up to the door instead of using
Speaker 1: a cell phone about it. Okay, but it got it
Speaker 1: got way weirder though. Okay, So I go up and
Speaker 1: the door was actually like cracked open. So I sort
Speaker 1: of nudged it open just a little bit to give
Speaker 1: like a hey, you know, I'm here. And as I
Speaker 1: nudged it open, twenty ish people jumped out and screamed surprise.
Speaker 1: What Yeah? So yeah exactly, I'm really confused. Were you
Speaker 1: at the wrong house? No, So it turns out her
Speaker 1: friends were throwing her a surprise party a week before
Speaker 1: her birthday. Wow, oh, I guess they were throwing her
Speaker 1: off ascent by doing it a week early. Yeah, well
Speaker 1: what do you do? Do you say for the party
Speaker 1: or do you just leave? Well, she's obviously not even
Speaker 1: there yet if they're all waiting for her, right, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: she wasn't She was not there yet, so awkward. Yeah, so,
Speaker 1: I you know, they didn't like ask me a lot
Speaker 1: of questions. They just sort of were like getting getting
Speaker 1: you know, she's on her way here. Yeah, I didn't
Speaker 1: like fully have time to make the decision of like,
Speaker 1: so then you're just like put in with the crowd
Speaker 1: of people and you're now waiting to surprise her for
Speaker 1: her party with a group of people I've never met.
Speaker 1: That's hysterical. What happened when she came into the door.
Speaker 1: So she comes in the door, everyone jumps out yell surprised.
Speaker 1: You know, she's like looking around obviously very surprised, and
Speaker 1: then sees me in the middle of it, and he
Speaker 1: looks even more surprised. Probably not how you envisioned your
Speaker 1: first dates. So funny though. Was it a great party?
Speaker 1: Did you have a great Did she have a great time? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she seemed a really great time. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I talk to people a pretty decent amount, and like
Speaker 1: I hung out with their dog for a while. With
Speaker 1: I'm a big, big dog fan. Is that great? I
Speaker 1: have a weird feeling about it, really, why I think
Speaker 1: it sounds great? I mean I'd rather do that than
Speaker 1: like an awkward dinner date with someone, Like you're with friends.
Speaker 1: You guys are all drinking, the mood is super high
Speaker 1: with their friends, and they're all hanging out with each other,
Speaker 1: and he's over on the couch just sitting at the dog. No.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. If you can find a person
Speaker 1: who can hold their hone in a party, it is
Speaker 1: so attractive. I agree that you don't have to babysit
Speaker 1: them the whole time. Yeah, I mean it was cool,
Speaker 1: but like every now and again, they'd be like, wait,
Speaker 1: so how do you know her? I'm a little confused,
Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know. Do I bring
Speaker 1: up the dating appice? I was like, I would usually
Speaker 1: find a way to sort of like the conversation. We
Speaker 1: don't want to tell him, oh yeah, I'm from one
Speaker 1: nightstand dot com. Don't want to be like I'm her cousin.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. But if it was one of my friends,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, this is so hid Like the party
Speaker 1: sounded fun, but were you able to ever get any
Speaker 1: like alone one on one time to actually connect with her. Yeah, so,
Speaker 1: like we got on the beer pong table together one
Speaker 1: but that was fun. Okay. But actually, yeah, like I
Speaker 1: ended up staying until the end, So we got like
Speaker 1: almost half an hour to sort of like chap. It was.
Speaker 1: It's like it's like post party, like, you know, she's
Speaker 1: pretty tired. I was pretty tired. It was a lot
Speaker 1: like it was a lot. Oh yeah, yeah, but we
Speaker 1: decided next week we're going to go out on like
Speaker 1: a real date. Okay, So how did it end? Did
Speaker 1: you just leave? Yeah? I just you know, she gave
Speaker 1: me a hug goodbye. But I mean, you know, when
Speaker 1: I was leaving, like she seemed happy about the party,
Speaker 1: but she also seemed like genuinely happy that I actually
Speaker 1: made the decision to stay. And like, you know, okay,
Speaker 1: so what's happened since? Well, yeah, that's the thing. Nothing. Now.
Speaker 1: I texted her, you know, that week to make plans.
Speaker 1: I didn't gear back, and now it's been two weeks.
Speaker 1: Oh so I'm like, you know, I'm just racking my brain,
Speaker 1: like what you know. In my head, I'm like, now
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about who is at the party, I'm like,
Speaker 1: was there like an ex boyfriend or something that maybe
Speaker 1: she rekindled with Did someone say something bad about you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do you think it's gonna be weird when we call
Speaker 1: her in a couple of minutes and all shout surprise,
Speaker 1: Because that's my plan. We're gonna play a song, we'll
Speaker 1: come back, we'll call Kayla for you and try and
Speaker 1: get your second date update. Okay, Hey, I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: All right, hold on second date. You're in the middle
Speaker 1: of a second date update update. We're gonna find out
Speaker 1: how the couple is doing right after you here part two.
Speaker 1: If you're just joining us, surprise, it's a second We're
Speaker 1: supposed to wait till she was on the phone. Well,
Speaker 1: it's a second date update minus the date part. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But there was a lot of party because one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, Chris unknowingly scheduled to meet up on the
Speaker 1: exact night Kayla's friends planning a surprise birthday party for her. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So he showed up, got rushed in and told to
Speaker 1: hide behind a couch along with forty other people that
Speaker 1: he didn't know, and he surprised Kayla ended up hanging
Speaker 1: out for about three hours, mostly with Kayla's dog, but yeah,
Speaker 1: also with some of her friends and even her at
Speaker 1: one point. And Chris, how did you say it ended
Speaker 1: that night between you guys? I felt good. It was weird, obviously,
Speaker 1: but she was happy I was there and that we
Speaker 1: were definitely hanging out the next weekend. All right, good.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's just a scheduling thing. I mean, she did
Speaker 1: say it was her birthday the week after because they
Speaker 1: were doing the party a week before. Maybe she's just
Speaker 1: been too busy. Yeah, I mean that's it's definitely possible.
Speaker 1: I get that, But like she's not responding even to text. Yeah, Brooke,
Speaker 1: what a dumb suggestion that. I hope you feel embarrassed
Speaker 1: by that. I don't, okay, but you know you should
Speaker 1: a numb too embarrassment At this point, for my left,
Speaker 1: it doesn't happen anymore. Now, you just made it sad. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's just call Kayla and hopefully put some positivity into
Speaker 1: this call. All right? You ready to do this, Chris?
Speaker 1: I hope? So? Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey, is
Speaker 1: this Kayla? H Is this right now? With work and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning? Yay? I'm sorry? What happy birthday? Yeah?
Speaker 1: We heard it's your birthday. Um, I'm sorry, but it's
Speaker 1: a joke. It's something I don't I just don't have No,
Speaker 1: it's it's not a joke. It's actually it's actually something
Speaker 1: that we're doing called a second date. Update. Yes, we're
Speaker 1: all wondering about a hangout that you had recently with
Speaker 1: one of our listeners named Chris. Oh. He reached out
Speaker 1: to us and told us, you guys are supposed to
Speaker 1: go out on a date, but then it kind of
Speaker 1: got derailed because your friends threw you surprise birthday party
Speaker 1: and he, like he said, he got like swept up
Speaker 1: into the party somehow, which is I thought it was
Speaker 1: sounded like a really cute night. Really weird. Well, don't work. Sorry,
Speaker 1: we didn't mean it's a blindside you in surprise with
Speaker 1: all that stuff. We're just really trying to help our
Speaker 1: listener Chris understand what happened at the party, because he
Speaker 1: felt like you guys were getting along and you were
Speaker 1: supposed to hang out the next weekend and that never happened.
Speaker 1: So he's just a little bit confused. Uh yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean it was such a weird thing that had happened
Speaker 1: because basically I was not only surprised that there was
Speaker 1: a surprise party. But then I was like, it was
Speaker 1: a double air of surprise because Chris being there, and
Speaker 1: so it was like just a clown car full of emotions,
Speaker 1: I suppose. And it was super nice that he stayed,
Speaker 1: but it was weird because I guess he laughed and
Speaker 1: then he came back. He left and came back you
Speaker 1: mean to the party. I mean I didn't see him,
Speaker 1: but I just assumed he did that. What do you mean, Well,
Speaker 1: because there was a gift from Chris that was on
Speaker 1: the present table, and I mean, he didn't know that
Speaker 1: there was going to be a surprise party, at least
Speaker 1: he said he didn't, and my friend said he didn't.
Speaker 1: That's so sweet though, So you think he like rushed
Speaker 1: out in the middle of the party to go get
Speaker 1: I think that's so kind. Yeah, but it wasn't because
Speaker 1: when I opened up his presence, it was Skims shapewear.
Speaker 1: Oh that is hard to get your hands on though.
Speaker 1: It's a Kim Kardashian line of shapewear supposed to like
Speaker 1: slim you down. Yeah. Yeah, was it lingerie though? It
Speaker 1: just buy Skims because they do all sorts of difference.
Speaker 1: It was shapewear, and m I was so like horrifically offended.
Speaker 1: You know. He obviously he looked at me and then
Speaker 1: he was like, oh, I'm just gonna go run out
Speaker 1: and get shapewear for her. Why would he do that?
Speaker 1: That is that's really odd, especially for a first gifts.
Speaker 1: But is there one of those things where he just saw,
Speaker 1: like it's a Kim Kardashian line and he figured like
Speaker 1: if I was gonna buy her makeup and I saw
Speaker 1: Kim k on it or something I look at it,
Speaker 1: maybe he didn't know it was shape where maybe he
Speaker 1: thought it was just like, look, I want you to
Speaker 1: know he never told us that he bought you a
Speaker 1: gift or anything about the skims, and he went on
Speaker 1: and on about how cute and hot you were when
Speaker 1: we talked to him. I mean, I just don't want
Speaker 1: to have to think about it about him anymore. So
Speaker 1: you know, well, I'm sorry sorry to do this to you, Caleb,
Speaker 1: but we do have one more surprise. Chris is on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and he wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Hey wait wait what yeah? Um, I'm sorry, I'm like
Speaker 1: this is blowing away. I never left the party. I
Speaker 1: promise you so what you already had a gift with
Speaker 1: you when you showed up to a party that you
Speaker 1: didn't know what was going to happen. Du no, wait,
Speaker 1: hold on you guys, this is this is Chris. Did
Speaker 1: you set this up to get me on the radio
Speaker 1: like this? Like I got I want to do when
Speaker 1: I couldn't get figure out any other way to like
Speaker 1: try to figure out like what I possibly did to
Speaker 1: make you not like even respond to text like let
Speaker 1: alone not go out with me again because you got
Speaker 1: you bought me. You must have left and got me
Speaker 1: some present that is demonstrative of how you look at
Speaker 1: my body or I like it was just so weird
Speaker 1: and inappropriate. Dude, what were you thinking? Man? I don't
Speaker 1: even know what. I wouldn't even know where to buy
Speaker 1: shapewear like this is I don't know. I guess I'm
Speaker 1: sort of figuring out based on what everyone's saying what
Speaker 1: shapewear is. But look, all right, kind of embarrassing. I
Speaker 1: liked you a lot, like upon meeting you, and like
Speaker 1: there was this whole table of presence like from all
Speaker 1: your awesome friends, and I was like, I don't have
Speaker 1: anything for her. It's her birthday, and like this is
Speaker 1: my first impression on her. And I don't know, Like
Speaker 1: I didn't think I drank too much, but maybe I
Speaker 1: just put something in my head. I was just crossed
Speaker 1: off one of the names on the gifts and I
Speaker 1: put my name on it. Oh. I know it's not
Speaker 1: a cool I know it's not a cool move, but
Speaker 1: I promise you it was like done with like the
Speaker 1: best intentions. Like I didn't open it. I didn't open
Speaker 1: it first chorus, because it's wrapped. Kayla, we want to
Speaker 1: hear from you. What what do you think about that?
Speaker 1: My jaws just on the ground. So you're saying that
Speaker 1: president wasn't from you and it did take credit for
Speaker 1: a president somebody else was giving you, but it backfired
Speaker 1: on you. Is that better or worse than what you
Speaker 1: originally thought? Point? I mean, just like swimming in confusion.
Speaker 1: Right now, God, I will say, I will say it
Speaker 1: means that he is not some weirdo who's giving you shapewa.
Speaker 1: I would have never I would have never looked at
Speaker 1: you and been like, oh man, she needs to alter
Speaker 1: anything about her appearance or about yourself as a person,
Speaker 1: like at all after like, no, he just needs to
Speaker 1: alter the name on this happy birthday. I mean, it
Speaker 1: sounds like he made a drunken, dumb mistake that he
Speaker 1: thought was going to impress and it backfired in the
Speaker 1: absolute right. But overall he seems like a pretty cool guy.
Speaker 1: And we'd like to send you guys out on another date.
Speaker 1: If you're up for a kala, we'd pay for it.
Speaker 1: No presence. Yeah, that's actually a good thing this time. Yea,
Speaker 1: that typically isn't. Um. What do you think I will
Speaker 1: go out on a date with Chris if he helps
Speaker 1: me figure out who gave me shape where for my
Speaker 1: first Chris up for a little detective work? I'm in Yeah, guy,
Speaker 1: well I'll say this. You've now made a new listener.
Speaker 1: We did it Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. It's
Speaker 1: been months since the surprise birthday scandal that rocked the
Speaker 1: radio waves, and now Chris and Kayla are both back
Speaker 1: to give us an update. Hey, guys, how's it going.
Speaker 1: You're keeping it tight, keeping it constraint. She can't breathe
Speaker 1: very well. That stuff is real. How you guys been? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm really good. Good? Wait are you? So? Are you? Guys?
Speaker 1: Still seeing each other. Um, yeah, we have kept seeing
Speaker 1: each other. Hey, welcome. That is cute, flirty, giggly. A
Speaker 1: couple that shapes together stays together. I like that. Actually,
Speaker 1: I mean, how has it been? No, it's been It's
Speaker 1: been really good. It's been really good. Um. So we
Speaker 1: decided we were gonna just kind of like take its
Speaker 1: flow for a while. But a couple of months in
Speaker 1: I did ask Kayla wanted to be official? Did you
Speaker 1: circle yes or no? Kayla? Oh, big fat yeah. Yeah. Anyway,
Speaker 1: it was funny actually, so like a little while after
Speaker 1: we had like made the official boyfriend girlfriend. Um, she
Speaker 1: actually ended up throwing me a surprise party shape them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I should have been a whole body shaping yeah, weight trainers.
Speaker 1: I didn't expected party. Yeah, would be. I actually thought
Speaker 1: about that, but I was like, you know what, let
Speaker 1: me be a little a little more clever. And I
Speaker 1: told all of his friends to come and bring a present.
Speaker 1: But the rule was that I wrote my name on
Speaker 1: all the presents. Friends. Well, you've got him so much stock.
Speaker 1: He had such a great sense of humor about him,
Speaker 1: and actually it made me fall in love with him
Speaker 1: even more even using those terms. Wow. Well, It's good
Speaker 1: to know that you got over everything too, and now
Speaker 1: you guys were happy, and now it's a cute inside Joe.
Speaker 1: If you guys end up getting married, all the presents
Speaker 1: are going to be from Cale at the wedding. Thanks
Speaker 1: for keeping us updated. Guys, it's Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning.