WEBVTT - Showered with Love 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.320 Hell, I Suck at Dating with Dean Unglert and Dared 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:10.920 Haven and I heard radio podcast. Hey, welcome to it 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:15.120 all new episode of Help. I Suck at Dating. I'm 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:17.439 currently yelling, which I probably shouldn't be because I have 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:20.200 a twelve week old sleeping behind me. So if you 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:23.800 hear crying, it's not Ashley this time, it's Dawson. Uh, 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:25.960 welcome to a new episode of Help. I suck a date. 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:29.960 In course, Dean Unglit is here. Dean, you're once again, 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:32.320 and I don't know why I say your name oddly, 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:35.479 just trying to add a little flare, you know, changing 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:37.440 out of it. You took the R completely out of 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:40.839 my last name. No, I said un glirt, No you 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:43.519 said unlit. But whatever, it's I'm just happy you got 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:45.920 six out of seven letters. Right, it's not so bad, 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:49.279 quick math, nice job. So you're where are you right now? 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:52.920 You're in a car. But this audio quality is pretty good. Yeah, 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:54.640 I'm glad. I'm glad I could be here with you 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:58.640 guys today. I'm in northeastern Wyoming, and uh, I didn't 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:01.720 expect to have any service, but it's been it's been, 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:03.959 it's been crazy. We got here. What do We get 0:01:03.960 --> 0:01:08.080 here on Wednesday, Wednesday afternoon, and I wasn't sure if 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:09.600 I was gonna have service, and I wasn't sure if 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:11.080 I was gonna be able to record a podcast this 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:13.440 week with you guys. But then I we got here 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:16.680 and uh, it's technically the off season for climbing and 0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:19.360 northeast Wyoma because it's so pretty cold out most days. 0:01:19.360 --> 0:01:21.480 But we got a good warm window. But anyways, we 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:26.000 pull up to this like lodge and it's completely abandoned. Uh, 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:27.440 And so we set up intense We set up our 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:29.400 tents next to it, just like to sleep near it. 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:31.920 And I go on my phone and there's a WiFi 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:34.960 that says like a Devil's Tower lodge WiFi, and I 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:36.679 was like, there's no way this is gonna work. And 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:39.400 I log on and it works perfectly fine. Like I'm 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:41.760 there's a perfect latincy between all of us right now. 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:44.959 So uh, I knew. I knew it was destined to be. 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:46.959 It was meant to be the best episode of Help 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:49.160 by second Dating. Ever, once I realized that this place 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:53.720 isn't abandoned, then right, there's just nobody there. It's your 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:55.600 Maybe a banded wasn't the right word, it's just the 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:58.680 off season here, like climbing season doesn't climbing season doesn't 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.040 start until May one, and so were like a week early. 0:02:02.520 --> 0:02:06.560 So is there gonna make it dangerous? Um, No, it's 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:08.440 not dangerous. It's just like I said, the weather so 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:11.519 like today was yesterday was like seventy five degrees, which 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:14.080 is perfect. The day before that it was like thirty five, 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.200 and then tomorrow it's supposed to get back down to 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:19.519 thirty five. So like the weather isn't super good where 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:21.680 there there's climbers every single day, but we got a 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:24.880 good little window of good weather. And uh, that's why 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:26.760 it's the off season because it's like, you know, it's 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:29.520 it's far enough north where they have like full on winters, 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:32.320 but climbers still as long as you can get enough 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:34.080 warm days in a row, I guess they want to 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:37.640 come out still. But it's funny actually, So we uh 0:02:37.720 --> 0:02:40.320 we got here to this abandoned lodge, my brother and I, 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:42.799 and we set up our tents and we were like, wow, 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:45.200 this is amazing. We have a perfect direct view of 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:47.520 Devil's Tower, which is the rock that we were going 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:50.639 to climb this trip, and it was like we were 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:53.000 blown away. We opened the door, the door was unlocked, 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:56.800 the sink had running water, the toilet worked, and we 0:02:56.800 --> 0:02:59.800 set up our tents and we're like this is unbelievably perfect, 0:02:59.840 --> 0:03:02.480 like kiss met. And we walk around the other side 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:04.880 and there's this hot tub sitting there, like a covered 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:07.520 hot tub, and we're like, no way, like everything's gone 0:03:07.560 --> 0:03:10.840 so good so far. Uh, if we're gonna take the 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:12.959 hot tub cover off and if the water is hot, 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:15.560 we're getting in it, no questions asked. And we took 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:17.400 the cover off, and of course the water was hot, 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:20.320 so we got in the hot tub for like thirty minutes. Uh, 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:22.560 and it was just like it literally like was the 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:26.120 most mind blowing experience where um, we we like called 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:28.160 a head like a month ago and we're like, hey, 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:29.680 we want to stay at the lodge just like camp 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:31.600 outside on the front lawn for a couple of nights. 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:34.119 And the guy was like, yeah, come on, no reservation 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:36.160 needed to show up and set up. And then we 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:37.960 got here and we were like, oh, I don't know, 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:40.040 like it feels uncomfortable because no one's here, and so 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:41.680 I called the number again. No one answered, so I 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:43.280 left a voicemail. So we were like trying to cover 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:45.000 all our bases and make sure everyone knew that we 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:46.840 were at least like going to be here. But then 0:03:46.880 --> 0:03:48.440 we got here and like the hot tub was on, 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:51.240 the plumbing was working, the water was working, and the 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:55.640 WiFi was working. It was just unbelievable to pull back 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.640 the curtain a bit. Dean, we're running a little behind schedule. 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:00.680 So you know, I follow his look ation on on 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:02.480 Find my Friends, So I'm like, let's make sure Dean's 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:04.440 not on the highway somewhere. And I look and I 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:06.800 see him inside of a structure, and and Mark so 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:09.880 eloquently put he trying Dean has drywall around him. That's 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:12.800 a good sign. And now we find out that you're squatting, 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:17.640 like basically broke into a lodge. Yeah, you could call 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:20.080 it squatting. I personally wouldn't call it squatting, but you 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:22.280 definitely could call it that, and you probably wouldn't be 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:26.440 entirely wrong. Uh. We so last night, no, I'm sorry, 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:29.920 our first night here, it was like eleven PM and 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:31.599 we were like getting ready to go to sleep. I 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:33.120 was like sitting up my camera because I wanted to 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:35.720 do like a time lapse of the night sky. And 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.240 as we're doing that, there's like this one long solo 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:40.720 road that you can see for maybe like a half 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:44.200 a mile as it approaches the lodge, like a dirt road, 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.200 and this truck was pulling up on it and I 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:49.000 was like started freaking out, and I was like, brat, brat, 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:50.800 someone's here. I don't know what to do. Someone's here. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:52.320 What should we do? And I like I was out 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:54.800 of my tent and I remained perfectly still, uh so 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:56.599 that they wouldn't see me in the dark light. And 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:58.200 then they didn't say anything that night. But it was 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:00.479 a it was a t REX apparently, because if you 0:05:00.480 --> 0:05:03.520 stand still, they couldn't see you. Got it. Yeah, they're 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:08.840 right there right exactly. So they didn't think to us 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:11.320 that night. And uh, I woke up the next morning 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:13.240 and I had to go to the bathroom really bad, 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:15.840 number two. So it was very very important. And I 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:19.080 bust into the house and these two people that pulled 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:20.799 up last night, we're sitting right there on the couch 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:22.800 and they like get up from the couch and shake 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:24.280 my hand and I'm like, Hi, I'm d nice to 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:26.120 meet you. I just pulled it yesterday. Do you guys 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:28.680 work here like praying that they say no, because if 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:30.000 they work there, I probably don't be able to use 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:32.239 the bathroom. And they're like, yeah, we managed the property. 0:05:32.560 --> 0:05:34.280 It's just off seasons, so we only come like once 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:36.720 or twice a week to come and manage it. I 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:38.400 was like, crap, so that means I can't poop, But 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:41.120 it was. It was a whole ordeal. And then after 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:44.080 that we were basically shunned to the outside uh entirely 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:46.039 for the rest of the time. But if you if 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:48.240 anyone from Devil's Tower Lodge is listening to this, I 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:51.120 appreciate the hospitality. We're gonna leave a nice donation for 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:54.440 you guys as we depart today. Um, and thanks for 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:56.440 the WiFi because without the WiFi, I wouldn't be able 0:05:56.480 --> 0:06:01.040 to do this. So where did you go poop? You 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:04.240 don't leave us hanging here? All right? Well? Actually I 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:07.560 held the poop yesterday until we got to the visitors 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:10.279 center at Devil's Tower. But I did just poop in 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:13.680 the forest twenty minutes ago, which is like, it sounds bad, 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:17.520 but it's actually not as bad as um as it seems, 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:20.680 because you're like in a nice you're a nice squat 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:23.560 and it comes out pretty easily. The wiping is maybe 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:25.480 the worst part, and you got to make sure it's 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:27.320 quick because your knees will get sore really fast. But 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:28.919 as long as you're okay with all those things, it 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:34.760 happens pretty easily. So yeah, that's oh, of course, yep. 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:36.720 You so you dig a hole, you dig a hole 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:39.559 like six inches deep, You do your business in the hole, 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:42.360 You fill the hole, and then you put your t 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:46.960 P in a separate plastic plastic plastic ziplock and pack 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:51.680 it out and then you just carry it out of 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:54.280 the woods with you and throw it out. Yes, I 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:57.560 mean you can't. You can't bury t P and poop 0:06:57.640 --> 0:07:03.239 underground because it's kind of like not good for berry poop, 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:06.960 isn't it fertilizer? Kind of yeah, But human poop, like 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.240 animal poop totally is fertilizer. Human poop poop probably could 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.720 be fertilizer. But if you think about our diets, like 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:17.200 there's so much um like chemicals and stuff in our 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:20.040 diets that's unnatural to the environment that you can't really 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:22.440 you can't really poop in the wilderness like a bear 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:24.000 could poop in the woods, you know, because it's just 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:30.000 a different composition, drop full of hot cheetahs and stuff 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:33.920 you know, not good for them, soil. No hot cheetos 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:35.560 on this trip, believe it or not. My brother went 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:37.080 to the store before I got it, and he didn't 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:40.440 buy any any hot cheetahs. But but it's been good. 0:07:40.480 --> 0:07:42.960 I feel like I'm monopolizing the conversation here. We had 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:45.280 a you know, we had a great day yesterday climbing. 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:46.920 It's been a dream of mine to climb to the 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:50.480 top of Devil's Tower, which actually is now I'm referring 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.520 only and exclusively as bare Lodge because that is what 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:56.920 the indigenous people of America called it before the white 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:59.240 man came in and rebranded it Devil's lodge, which is 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:04.360 so ridiculous. So bear lode or Devil's Tower, so bear lodges. Uh. 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:08.680 This like et igneous rock tower in the middle of Wyoming. 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:10.360 And I wanted a climate for like eight years, and 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:12.240 today or yesterday, we finally were able to do it. 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:14.280 It was one of the best experiences of my life. 0:08:15.440 --> 0:08:17.240 Would you ever want Kalin to go climbing with you 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:20.440 or do you think it's too dangerous climb? She climbs 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:23.160 with me sometimes she's got her own gear. Um, she 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:25.760 is still learning, and so we can only do like 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:29.400 pretty easy roots and stuff. But she enjoys it to 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:32.640 a degree. She's like she she hates it when she 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.040 does it, Like in the moment, she's not complaining, but 0:08:35.080 --> 0:08:39.640 she's like, you know, strenuous, strenuous and like trying really 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:42.240 hard and like kind of upset. And then she gets 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:43.480 down to the bottom and she was like, that was 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:45.600 so much fun. Let's do it another one. I'm like, okay, 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:47.800 but the next time we do it, you can't talk 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:49.679 about how much she hate me the entire way up. 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:53.520 So she she even made a note to me, like 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:55.600 a week ago, she was like, let's try and rock 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:57.680 climb a bunch this summer. And I was like shocked 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:00.480 because she uh, normally it's me that has to like 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:04.040 hold her hand and get her excited about mission or 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:06.120 something like that, because I get it, Like I was 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:07.800 kind of the same way when I first started about climbing. 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:09.520 You're kind of like, oh crap, this sucks. I'm scared 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:11.440 and it's really hard, and then you start doing it 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:13.520 and then you like it, and then I don't know, 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:16.240 that's just you guys should come rock climbing with us, 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:19.120 So you turned her onto rock climbing. Is there anything 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:21.760 that she turned you onto that you actually quite enjoy 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:24.520 now that you might like the equivalent of you like 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:26.440 her complaining all the way up the mountain? What would 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:27.920 you complain about? But at the end of the day, 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:30.120 you're like, you know what, let's do it this summer. 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:34.520 That's pretty fun. Maybe like, uh, washing our bed sheets 0:09:34.800 --> 0:09:40.120 once a week, that's pretty nice. I used to be 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:41.640 like a once a month kind of guy. But once 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:43.559 a week, like jumping in a new, fresh set of 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:46.080 sheets is pretty nice. What's the longest you've gone without 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:51.640 changing your sheets? Be honest, come on, oh eight months? 0:09:51.679 --> 0:09:54.839 Maybe I was say I've definitely I've definitely gone months. 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:58.520 I'll take over on that. I honestly, I'm you're right. 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:01.120 I'm probably undermining myself a little bit of selling it short. 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:03.240 I could be longer. Like in college, I probably never 0:10:03.280 --> 0:10:09.520 washed my sheets. Um and uh, the I shower more 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:12.559 frequently with Kaylin. Actually, no, you know what at first 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:14.400 I did when I was trying to, like, you know, 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:16.200 when you first started dating someone and you try to 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:18.800 like make sure that they know that you're not a maniac. 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:21.920 And you like do good things more often, and then 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:23.319 you get more comfortable with them and you start to 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:25.120 like revert back to your normal ways a little bit. 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:27.160 When Cay. When I first started dating, I probably showered 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:28.839 like a good four times a week, which is pretty 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:30.840 good for me. Uh. And now I'm back down to 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:33.560 I probably shower like once a week now, which is uh. 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:36.480 That's like my that's basically my baseline. But I don't 0:10:36.520 --> 0:10:38.560 stink that bad. I don't think at least, and once 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:40.520 I start smelling the stink come up, that's when I 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:43.240 start to shower more often. But it hasn't really been 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:46.440 a too stinky lately, so that's good. I mean, the 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:49.160 worst I can only imagine is all right, you know 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:52.640 college days. I'm sure you know, Dean, you were a 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:55.840 very sought after man. I just hope that if you ever, 0:10:56.480 --> 0:10:58.600 you know, had the privilege of having a woman over 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:03.120 that at your words before, you would have another woman over, 0:11:03.240 --> 0:11:05.760 if you were ever so lucky, you would wash the 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:10.800 sheets in between those two times. Yeah, that's the only 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:15.040 time I already get h Yeah, no, that makes sense. 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:20.200 I hope I showered between those things as well. Jesus, No, 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:23.080 I was pretty good about that in college and as 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:26.679 a young adult. I um, I wasn't as promiscuous though 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:28.560 as as it maybe you would think that I was, 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:31.480 so it didn't have to happen often. I guess it's 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:33.560 the point I'm trying to make. But yeah, no, it's 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:36.000 she She's got me to come around those types of 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:40.600 things like just general hygiene and um, being a nicer person. 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:42.800 So I appreciate her for that, and you know, it's 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:44.280 take a trade off. I make her more of a 0:11:44.320 --> 0:11:46.720 dirt bag and she makes me more of a beauty queen. 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:49.120 So it kind of works out. Yeah, you need a 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:52.280 little dirt bag in you, you know, yeah, as Kaylin 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:55.439 definitely needs a little dirt bag in her. Yeah, everybody does. Yeah, 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:57.440 I'm trying to think of something that Ashley has me 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:00.959 do that. At first, I was like, Oh, this sucks. 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.760 I guess living in Los Angeles for a while, but 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:05.760 I don't really miss it all that much, unfortunately, cause 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:08.640 we're not even in studio anymore, which I gotta be honest, 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:10.680 if if if I lived in l A, do you 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:14.160 think we'd be back in studio. Nobody's in studio anymore, right, Well, 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:15.839 that's kind of like an Eastern and Eastern Mark or 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:17.480 not at studio or in studio right now, So I 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:21.079 would say absolutely not, probably not. None of the podcasts 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:23.679 have returned to the studio. Is that just over? Are 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:25.960 those days behind us? That's just no one's ever going 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:27.880 to be in the studio again. The Seacraft Show is 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:29.760 back in studio, so the morning shows are back. The 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:32.319 podcasts haven't, And I think it's just a matter of convenience. 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:34.719 People have really gotten used to doing it wherever they are, 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:40.400 casing point Mr. Northeastern Wyoming. So I don't I don't 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:42.960 see us going back in for really any of them 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:45.559 unless it happens to be convenient for the people doing it. 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:48.800 But I see you guys in studio sometimes, like I 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:53.400 guess editing and stuff. I mean they're most most days. 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:58.280 Once every four months, yeah, for an afternoon Eastern modern 0:12:58.360 --> 0:13:02.560 day Dean Sheets. That's right, one over four months. Like, 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:05.000 what's your purpose for that? I mean the only time 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:07.120 I go in is if we have like a guest 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:09.960 for Seacrest that I have to be there for. I 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:13.440 think that's coming in. But other than nothing for podcasting, 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:19.720 I'm staying right here, baby, unwashed. Who's Seacrest again, it 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:24.160 doesn't matter. I'm talking about Rodney Seacrest. He's a hot 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:27.840 young jock out of the Dallas that I'm working with. Nice. Well, 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:29.760 let's be honest real quick. The real cash cowt I 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:32.720 Heart radio is help I suck at dating. So if 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:36.520 you guys are going into the studio for some come on, 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:39.840 come on, um, Jared, what are we talking about today 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:43.480 besides my hygiene? How poetic is it that Dean just 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:45.959 said that the real cash cow of our heart radio 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.320 is help I suck at dating? As his WiFi was 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:54.600 going in and out, and he was like, yep, that's 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:58.600 a nice microcosm. Right there after, can we take a second. 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:01.440 It's pretty good minus maybe that one little hiccup. Oh 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:03.240 it says it's unstable at the time, is it? Can 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:06.760 you guys still hear me? That was? That was that 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:08.960 was really bad timing. As I was saying the WiFi 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:11.480 connection is really good, Zooms told me my WiFi connection 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:14.160 is geting unstable. But generally I would say, I'm pretty 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.120 proud of how it's doing right now. And abandoned lodge, 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:20.400 so no, I would agree, I'm very proud of you. 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:23.240 Uh well, you know, I was thinking about some So 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.160 we have some hot topics obviously, say we can go 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:30.320 over today, obviously some relationship things. Lizzo confirmed that she's 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:33.560 in a relationship. We have an article, Jennifer. Instead of 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:36.360 doing hot topics, can we just milk having Eastern and 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:39.720 Mark on the podcast. Well, that was my point is that, like, 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:41.760 I almost don't want to do hot topics. I think 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:44.320 I think it would be I think we would be 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:47.280 so disappointed in ourselves if we walked away from this 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:49.760 podcast without getting all we could out of Mark and 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:55.480 Easton every last drop. And Dawson, Dawson, Dawson is starting 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:56.920 to wake up, so he might join us on this 0:14:56.960 --> 0:15:02.560 podcast here and even second guys time baby guys time baby, Yeah, Dawson, 0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:06.520 a little bro time. Yeah. Uh well, I was looking 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:08.800 up some morning and night routines because I was thinking 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.800 about how so I don't know about you, guys, but like, 0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:15.840 all right, old, let me get the baby, yeah, I 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:17.720 want to Uh well, let's take a quick break and 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:20.080 then maybe we'll jump back into it once Jared gets 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:33.080 back from nursing his baby. All right, we're back, so 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:36.080 before Jared gets back, because he's still taking a sweet time. 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:38.640 Mark you're the only other father in the in the 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:42.960 group here, And how how much does Jared ever reach 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:44.920 out to you for advice? Because if he's not asking 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:47.400 for advice, he is really dropping the ball on that one. 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:51.000 We we had some conversations before Dawson was born, but no, 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:53.480 we haven't spoken since Dawson was born. I'm sure he 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:55.920 has an excellent support group around him and plenty of 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:58.800 people offering him advice off and unsolicited. But I think 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:01.600 Jared knows I'm here for if he ever needs anything. 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:04.520 My kids are sixteen and thirteen, well almost thirteen, and 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:06.800 so it's hard. It's uh, it's it's it's almost hard 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:09.680 to remember the days that Jared is enduring. Do you 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:12.320 miss the baby face? Yeah, I mean especially now. So 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:14.960 my oldest turn sixteen on Wednesday, so yeah, you know, 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:17.040 we put up a Facebook post with pictures of her 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:20.040 as a baby and now, and yeah, of course we 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:27.360 missed those days. But to look at that guy, Yeah, hi, buddy, 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:30.640 he's a good baby. He's so I don't want him 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:33.320 to grow up like I'm I'm can't wait for the 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:38.080 days of sleep in some sort of structure. But he's 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:40.800 so freaking cute. Man. Like I don't want him to 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:43.640 grow up. He's gonna be like he's going to be 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:46.160 one of us. That's the dis morning part, Like he's 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:49.960 gonna be us. Bro, You're so much better now. Hopefully 0:16:49.960 --> 0:16:54.000 he showers more often than us. Doubtful. Um, So, my 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:56.240 brother just had a baby two and a half months ago, 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:58.600 and this trip that we're on right now, actually it 0:16:58.640 --> 0:17:01.960 is his first first night. It's away from the newborn baby. 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:03.880 And so like the first night we slept in the tent, 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:05.760 he like slept in until ten thirty in the morning 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:07.480 and he goes that's the first full night of sleep 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:09.679 I've gotten in seventy five days, and so I can 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:12.280 only imagine I can only imagine how Jared's has to 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:15.199 be the exact same way. Right. Yeah, it's just like 0:17:15.240 --> 0:17:17.600 I usually probably I get at least six hours a night, 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:20.639 but it's just interrupted. You know, it's always like go 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:22.800 to bed at like if I'm lucky, I'll go to 0:17:22.840 --> 0:17:26.960 bed at like midnight, and then you know, he'll kind 0:17:26.960 --> 0:17:28.760 of like be up around two or three, but then 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:30.280 he'll go back to sleep, and then he'll be up 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:32.600 at like six or seven, and then he'll go back 0:17:32.640 --> 0:17:34.840 to slave. So it's just like it's not terrible, it's 0:17:34.880 --> 0:17:37.560 just like you're constantly waking up, so it's you never 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:40.080 have like a well rested night. That's the only thing 0:17:40.640 --> 0:17:42.600 mark to the best of your memory. When does that stop? 0:17:42.640 --> 0:17:44.399 Like when do you kind of get a little bit 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:48.480 more autonomous with it? Yeah, I remember finding something called 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:51.879 the dream feed that was incredibly valuable to us. We 0:17:51.920 --> 0:17:56.080 would put our daughter down around eight and then around 0:17:56.080 --> 0:17:58.880 eleven you'd wake them just to feed them. You'd barely 0:17:58.920 --> 0:18:02.000 wake them, so they would kind of half sleeping, half awake, 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:03.600 and then you put them back down again and then 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:06.240 they'd go till morning. So that was really a great time. 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:08.840 And I don't remember exactly when that was, but you know, 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:11.600 within the first six months. But he doesn't he doesn't 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:13.760 finish the Wow, he just had a big fart. That's 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:16.680 the other thing. It's crazy, guys, like how as as 0:18:16.880 --> 0:18:19.199 Mark knows, it's just like you're just my hand is 0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:21.840 on his ass and he just lets it out, you 0:18:21.920 --> 0:18:25.199 know what I mean. He's parting on my hands a 0:18:25.200 --> 0:18:28.119 lot of the past few years. Hasn't it unbelievable, dude, 0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:31.320 I've never felt older, and I feel like such a 0:18:31.480 --> 0:18:35.480 just old piece of crap dad because now we're working 0:18:35.480 --> 0:18:37.359 with Audrey's. You know, there's so many college kids that 0:18:37.400 --> 0:18:39.240 come in and I work with so many college kids, 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:42.560 and there is I am just I am the old 0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:45.520 guy now, like and I can feel it like there 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:49.520 is a there's a disconnect, you know. It's just like 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:52.320 they see me as the old guy. I have no 0:18:52.520 --> 0:18:56.200 more I'm I have no more seduction to me. It's 0:18:56.280 --> 0:19:00.280 it's just it's I It's true, like you just lose 0:19:00.280 --> 0:19:02.720 a part of yourself because it's like I'm the dad now, 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:06.200 I'm the dad with the dad bod who just works 0:19:06.640 --> 0:19:11.800