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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing in. It's Monday. Back to our roots.

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Speaker 1: We did a Wednesday episode last week, which I didn't enjoy.

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Speaker 1: I like a Monday. I thoroughly enjoyed our Wednesday together. Yeah. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying I didn't enjoy our time together, but

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Speaker 1: I like routine. I like having a schedule, and I

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Speaker 1: like things being the same time of day, same day

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Speaker 1: of the week. So it threw me off last week.

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Speaker 1: Are you all like that that a cancer? Because oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, I do know some scrubbers are the same

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Speaker 1: way because I had some some some direct messages from

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Speaker 1: some scrubbers Monday and Tuesday saying I keep hitting refresh,

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Speaker 1: where's my new episode? And I was like, Wednesday, Well,

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Speaker 1: I get that, like if you're a listener, because I'm

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Speaker 1: like that with TV shows, like if they mess up,

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Speaker 1: like even Bachelor and Pair Ice now is on Tuesday

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Speaker 1: nights because they're a happy Dancing with the Stars on Monday,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, that's kind of a I mean, Monday

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Speaker 1: was such a nice like just escape of like chaos

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Speaker 1: to watch Bachelor and Paradise on the Monday. But you know,

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Speaker 1: it's nothing really rattles you. It's actually funny. So before

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Speaker 1: we started the podcast, Easton sounds like he's like in

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Speaker 1: this tin can and for me, I like, I think

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Speaker 1: I am. I think I'm a perfectionist in a weird way,

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Speaker 1: because I was like, that sound would annoy me if

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Speaker 1: I was listening. So I was trying to tell him

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Speaker 1: to like fix it, right, Becca goes, I mean, it's fine,

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Speaker 1: and when it doesn't really rattle me, And I was like,

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Speaker 1: better question, what would rattle you? That's a great question.

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Speaker 1: I'll think about that throughout the episode. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: know things rattle me, but I can't like when that

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Speaker 1: kind of stuff. I don't know that I'm easily rattled me.

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Speaker 1: And let's hear it. Can we get a test test?

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Speaker 1: It's gonna sound great to the listener. I was just trying, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was trying to make it sound better for you guys,

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Speaker 1: pulling back the curtain a bit. Usually I use my

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Speaker 1: built in laptop microphone to commune with you, and it

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Speaker 1: sounds like garbage. But the listener, here's this thing. So

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Speaker 1: I don't care about what we hear. I care about

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Speaker 1: what they hear. If they I would feel I would

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Speaker 1: feel bad as a perfectionist. Does it bother you that

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Speaker 1: those three frames behind us are not straight? I've been

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Speaker 1: staring that the whole time. Rattled. That makes me feel

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Speaker 1: a little rattled. I'm not gonna lie. Oh no, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, Oh my god. I just choked on my

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Speaker 1: own spit that like went in the air pipe. I

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Speaker 1: literally thought it was about that to do a home

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Speaker 1: like for a second, it's okay because it's just my

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Speaker 1: own spit. Wow. Um. Yeah, So today is like the

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Speaker 1: most Monday is Monday. Can I tell you what happened

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Speaker 1: to me when I went to go get my COVID

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Speaker 1: do that for? I'm hosting something tomorrow, uh, for my

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Speaker 1: heart for work. So I'm pulling out of my apartment complex,

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Speaker 1: in a parking structure. Nice Samaritans just say come on

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Speaker 1: and girl like, it's never an issue. I leave my

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Speaker 1: It's not like, you know whatever, I'm leaving my apartment today,

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Speaker 1: like I literally looked. I go, you know, I'm trying

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Speaker 1: so I like pull The nice person behind her said

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Speaker 1: So I pull right behind her and I'm like less

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Speaker 1: it was so bad to the fact that so she

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Speaker 1: just said no. I have a funny story that's kind

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Speaker 1: after she saw it was being nice. Yeah, see that,

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Speaker 1: Last night, we were driving back from a wedding and

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Speaker 1: Red Star noticed that this car on the freeway didn't

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Speaker 1: Tebecca's point, I feel like traffic behavior is kind of

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Speaker 1: of you? Please? And he smiled and waved instead of course,

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Speaker 1: of driving in your car. Well, but can I tell

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Speaker 1: she I actually she was on one of those people

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Speaker 1: Olivia Holt in the Wild is a good Samaritan driver. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's true. Imagine if she hadn't and Antonya saw that

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Speaker 1: and my sister rolls down the window because they're like,

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Speaker 1: It's very it's very salzy times. Yeah, it's been salsy

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Speaker 1: like I'm so happy for you, And I'll literally respond

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Speaker 1: to say honestly, it makes me cry sometimes too. That's

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Speaker 1: very on brand. Obviously. It's so funny because like all

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Speaker 1: Tanya facetimes you were crying, like upset about something, and

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Speaker 1: It sounds like quite the pickle you're in it? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: fall asleep. It's not really the falling asleep, staying asleep

424
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:45,199
Speaker 1: that sometimes in melotonin helps you stay asleep. So it

425
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:48,960
Speaker 1: sounds like I have some issues, but glad we're talking about.

426
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 1: But I think there is a stigma around marijuana, and

427
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 1: I do think just like anything, people can overuse it

428
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 1: and abuse it. But like like I said, I feel

429
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,199
Speaker 1: better than I do when I drink. So yeah, you

430
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 1: know it's interesting because I for me, when my head

431
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 1: hits the pillow pillow, I am comatose until my alarm

432
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 1: goes off in the next morning, like I am. You

433
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 1: could have a circus in my bedroom and I would

434
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,880
Speaker 1: not hear a thing. Like I am usually very very

435
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 1: heavy sleeper, but I've realized that's not the norm. Like

436
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,639
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people wake up a

437
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: lot in the middle of the night. They wake up

438
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 1: to pee. People wake up, their brain starts like rattling

439
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: off their things that they have to do. And so

440
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 1: I'm just this is just I'm grateful for my sleep.

441
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean, if my alarm was going off

442
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 1: at four thirty in the morning, I probably hit my

443
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 1: pillow pretty hard as well. So I think most people

444
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,199
Speaker 1: could relate to that. Who have your schedule and do

445
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: what you do. It's a pillow and it's just comatose. Yeah.

446
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 1: In two thousand nine, I got a job or my

447
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 1: shift was three m to eleven am. I got up

448
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 1: at one thirty in the morning. Do you get to

449
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,439
Speaker 1: work at three am? And ever since? And I can

450
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: sleep anytime anywhere? Yeah, yeah, wow, Well but I realized

451
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 1: it's it's it's not a lot of people don't have

452
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 1: that luxury. So I'm really grateful for it. And I've

453
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 1: actually been writing it down in my gratitude journal regularly

454
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,360
Speaker 1: that I'm grateful that I can sleep through the night.

455
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 1: It's beautiful. I can't claim that, but I can fall

456
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 1: asleep anytime any place. I'm gonna start setting my alarm

457
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 1: for fourish and seeing what what I do by seven pm,

458
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: or just try like six am. Oh it's still dark,

459
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: but still it's better than I mean. I just think,

460
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,880
Speaker 1: why don't you ease your way into it? I mean

461
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 1: easing my way into it would be more like seven.

462
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 1: I think, okay, let's try seven tomorrow. Let's just try it.

463
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 1: Why not experiments? See here's the thing. Why not experiment

464
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 1: with things. If something's not working, try something else. It's working. Need, No,

465
00:23:53,119 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 1: it's not working. It's what's not working needed. Need to

466
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: sleep is a definition of it not working, of what

467
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 1: not working my body, your sleep cycle. So let's try

468
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: and get people just need to help because they can't

469
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: try their mind off. I think when I think it

470
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: has something to do with our phones, and I mean,

471
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,719
Speaker 1: mine's all so many things. It's my phone, it's my diet,

472
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 1: it's my lack of exercise. You're you're actually this is

473
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 1: just how messages. How I am allowed to be a

474
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: little like this. So that's fine. No, no, no, no,

475
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying that it. I don't think it has so

476
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 1: much to do. I'm not sleeping until like eleven. It's

477
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 1: not like I'm like just sleeping in Like I wake

478
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 1: up and I'm still like a little bit tired. I'm

479
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 1: not like, you know, it's not like one pm and

480
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, just did not. I don't know why

481
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 1: I'm tired because or why I'm not tired at night

482
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 1: because I slept in the afternoon. But anyways, i'll try.

483
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: I'll try. I'll start waking up. Let's try experimenting next

484
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: week on the podcast. I'd like you to come back

485
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: and have experimented with some thing different. Okay, I'll start.

486
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: I'll start trying. I love homework. Yeah, it's kind of

487
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 1: you do get like a hot, like your energy shifted

488
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,400
Speaker 1: when you started trying to boss me around. You would

489
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: have been a great teacher. She would have been a

490
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: really good teacher. Of like, well, I was the vice

491
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 1: president of education for my sorority, cap out with Data,

492
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:25,360
Speaker 1: so I did teach in some way, shape or form.

493
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 1: All right, well, yeah, I'll switch some things up and

494
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 1: I'll try to do it unaided and see what happens. Actually,

495
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: so I got dressed in the dark this morning because

496
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 1: I spent the night at Red Star's house, and so

497
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 1: I try and sneak out. I try not to wake

498
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,439
Speaker 1: him up when I leave, and so I put my

499
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 1: clothes on in the dark, and just like scitattle, I

500
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: put my hoodie on backwards, so I had like the

501
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 1: hood around the front of me. And I was laughing

502
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 1: so hard because people were saying that they they do

503
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 1: this on purpose on planes, they wear their hoodies backwards

504
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 1: so that they can just put the hoodie over their

505
00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: head and sleep, I know. And I was like, wow,

506
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 1: only I was taking a nap today. I just that's

507
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 1: so smart, because I shouldn't care what people think of

508
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 1: when I'm sleeping on a plane, but when I see

509
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 1: other people doing it, and I'm like, oh, man, like

510
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: anyone taking photos or anything. Not that I would ever

511
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: do that, but like if someone was to do that,

512
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: or like I drool when I sleep, so like, now

513
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: you know, there you go. Hot tip for everybody listening.

514
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 1: You drool every night? Yeah, I drool and that's kind

515
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:31,719
Speaker 1: of gross. Yeah, it's alive. Has been more a topic

516
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 1: of conversation. It really should be, I know. And you

517
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: know what, I actually couldn't ask my start about the

518
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: videoing us kissing because he watches the Instagram, like scrubbing

519
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 1: an Instagram, and he came, I know, and he was like,

520
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: you don't open your eyes when you kiss, and I

521
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: was like, you didn't hear the whole conversation. I'm not

522
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 1: saying I'm wide eyed. I'm saying I opened my eyes

523
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: to look at you. To make sure you're real, and

524
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 1: then I just sounded creepy to ask if I could

525
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: video it, so I need to give a little time.

526
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, he wouldn't know that you look

527
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 1: at it open his eyes because his eyes are closed

528
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: unless he looks at me too, which sounds like awkward

529
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: moment when you guys both open your eyes. But do

530
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 1: you want something so funny that I actually haven't even

531
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: told you a live this is a live exclusive story,

532
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 1: so I can't remember the days blur. But he texted

533
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 1: me the other day and he was like, my friend

534
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 1: just passed passed by you on Raya, which is like

535
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: that dating app. Oh yeah, And I was like that's weird.

536
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: And then in my head I just didn't I didn't

537
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: even think anything of it. I thought, when somebody's using

538
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: my photo or something like that. Right then I was

539
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: with him and I was like, let me send an

540
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: email to this app and just let them know, like, hey,

541
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 1: I'm not on it, that's not me whatever. But then

542
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: I start realizing you have to get like let into

543
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: this dating app, so you have to like upload your

544
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: like Instagram handle all this stuff. So I was like,

545
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: somebody can't be impersonating me on this accoun out Does

546
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 1: that make sense? So then I'm like, it's gotta be me.

547
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: So I redownload the app sure enough, because if you

548
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 1: don't deactivate, like if you don't deactivate your account, it

549
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 1: stays there even if you delete the app. Yes, I

550
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 1: had no ideas. So for months I've just been on

551
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: this dating app fully just there. I'm like, thank god,

552
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 1: there's like so much trust in my really, Like he

553
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: didn't even bat an eyelash. She was just like, oh

554
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,199
Speaker 1: my god, that's so funny. So then we go into

555
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,679
Speaker 1: like all my matches or like you know how it

556
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: goes into like the Yeah, it goes into the conversations

557
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 1: and they're so funny like this one guy was like,

558
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: hey Tanya, how's your day going. Obviously I don't respond.

559
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 1: Hey Tanya, any fun plans this week? Obviously don't respond.

560
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: Then he goes thanks for the match by It was like, great,

561
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: so it matches without you even matching it. No, Like

562
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: I was on it for like two days while we

563
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: were broken up, in that like weird time, so I matched.

564
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: I swiped on a couple of people, so like I'm

565
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 1: sure I don't know. I must have been those people,

566
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: but like we're going through the conversations and I'm like

567
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: peeing laughing because they were kind of rude. But I

568
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: get it because I didn't respond. I'm sorry. If he's

569
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: going to reach out, respond, But how funny is that

570
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 1: I've been fully And what's so funny is uh because

571
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 1: so he texted his friend back being like, oh, weird,

572
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: somebody must be using her photos or something, and then

573
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,719
Speaker 1: when we realized that it was actually me, we were like,

574
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: his friends probably thinks I'm so shady. Yeah, you did

575
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: tell me the beginning of that story. You're like, someone

576
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: is using my uh app. Yeah, but it wasn't that exclusive.

577
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: This wasn't not exclusive for me personally. But now when

578
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,959
Speaker 1: people like I feel like people call sometimes and they're like,

579
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: I found my boyfriend on you know, bumble still, like,

580
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: you know, she's been dating this guy and he's still

581
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: on Dada And now I'm going to actually believe the

582
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: person that's still on the app because it happened to me.

583
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: I've been fully on it for like six months. Listen.

584
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: I think there's the rare case that that happens, and

585
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: I think there's the other option, which is that slimy

586
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: dogs are on the loose, I mean dogs. Yeah, and

587
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: he like literally looked over and he was you deactivated

588
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: at this time? Right? He's like, what did you do?

589
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 1: And I was like, yes, I hit, I met somebody.

590
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: I just love like that you're always I mean, Red

591
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 1: Star is amazing and he is. I think it's so

592
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: interesting of how like he doesn't really he doesn't get

593
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: like jealous or anything's very secure. But I love how

594
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: you always act like shocked, like, yeah, he didn't even

595
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 1: bad and eye, what reason would that man have to

596
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 1: assume that you were doing anything that wasn't loyal? I know,

597
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: if that's true. You make a good point. But I

598
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 1: mean if somebody, if if somebody told me that he

599
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: was still on a dating app, I'd kind of be like, well,

600
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: you know, I wouldn't like that, you know, I wouldn't

601
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: like that, even though I fully trust him, Like, I

602
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't like that. And he's just cool, calm. I wish

603
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: I had that. That's a quality of his that I

604
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 1: wish I had. He's he's cooler and calmer than I

605
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: am in every situation, Like you can't rattle the guy

606
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 1: even when he's overwhelmed with like work and stuff like

607
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: he's just calm and I'm the opposite. We should prank him.

608
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: I'm like spastic, like we should prank him. How would

609
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: you like to frank him? Well, I can't because was

610
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: this could be a clip used for the Instagram, which

611
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: he will definitely see him to think that is seeing someone.

612
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: I'm just talking about another fun prank of something that

613
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: could like shake him, make him a little bit more

614
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: aware of his surroundings because he's so chill he does

615
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: not care. We could leave my apartment door open, just

616
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: leave it open. He's dropping off my vaccine card later,

617
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: What is that going to do? He might think somebody

618
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: came and took me in a bunch of catchup all

619
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: over the floor. Yeah. I love this. This is really

620
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: going to be good. So therank is that your doors

621
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: left unlocked? Well, he's gonna come and be like why

622
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: is her door not unlocked? Wide open open? He's like

623
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: why is her door open? And then we're not here

624
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: scare him. Not don't like it. I don't want to

625
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: do it. That's a little too dark. Plus he's such

626
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: a chill dude, he'll probably like left door off on

627
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 1: a run or something. Let me just lock that for

628
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: her truly, it doesn't even look around. Um yeah, yeah,

629
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: I'll be thinking about something because I want to see

630
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: how how calm he is. He did say I have

631
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: free reign to prank him on April. He likes April

632
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: fools Day, so he's given me I know. He's one

633
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 1: of those people I know. So maybe maybe we put

634
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Speaker 1: a pin in it in April Fool's Day, we really

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Speaker 1: get him good. Okay, great, we have a lot of

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Speaker 1: time to plan, right. We will fake your abduction and murder,

637
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Speaker 1: make it really real. Oh that's interesting. If you could

638
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Speaker 1: have a quality of your significant other, one would it be?

639
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Speaker 1: That would be my I mean I would pick a

640
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Speaker 1: lot of things of his, but that one is probably top.

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Speaker 1: Probably passion and drive. I think we've talked about that before. Um,

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Speaker 1: we have a very special anniversary. Um. But we're gonna

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Speaker 1: take a break and then we will come back and

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Speaker 1: looped live dot com for tickets. Okay, we're back. So

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Speaker 1: I just want you all to know that it is

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Speaker 1: the fourth anniversary tomorrow of Scrubbing in when it all began,

668
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: Happy fourth birthday. What's the thing for four years anniversary?

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Speaker 1: Fruits and flowers? Really? Yes, that's so you so an

670
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Speaker 1: edible arrangement. Yeah, I didn't know there was things specific

671
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: for each anniversary. Yeah, what's family? Uh? Planet Planet just

672
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: never heard that? Yeah, wood, what quick cute story? First

673
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 1: anniversary is paper and my wife and I both thought

674
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: it would be hilarious to stop by Staples and grab

675
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: a ream of printer paper for the other one on

676
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: our anniversary, our first anniversary. We both had the same

677
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: idea for the same joke. Y'all did it separately for

678
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: each other? Yea? Is it wedding? It's wedding anniversary, right yeah? Yeah,

679
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 1: so well our ours is the wedding of sorts? Not really,

680
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: but we can still in it was a union of sorts. Well,

681
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,280
Speaker 1: I think is this anniversary from like the first episode

682
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Speaker 1: when I was a lone ranger with Mark and Amy

683
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Speaker 1: and East and it was just me talking essentially to myself.

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Speaker 1: Anniversary of that one? Yeah, um, so we'll do maybe

685
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 1: we'll celebrate the fruit and stuff when our anniversary of

686
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: you coming on your first episode. Yeah, but like, let's

687
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 1: keep it, let's streamline it. Let's just keep it. You know,

688
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:16,280
Speaker 1: September fourteenth feels like it's a nice it's in the calendar. Yeah,

689
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,240
Speaker 1: it's just crazy. I mean I literally remember Amy reaching

690
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: out to me being like, do you want to start

691
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: a podcast? In my mind being like I had co

692
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: hosted on Ben and Ashley's. I had taken like host

693
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 1: covered for Ben while he was out of town, and

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Speaker 1: it was so much fun. I was like, this is

695
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: really fun, just like talking and not really having to

696
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 1: worry about what I look like. I can just kind

697
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Speaker 1: of talk. And then she asked if I want to start,

698
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 1: when I was like, well, what do I talk? What

699
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: do I talk about? And four years later, we're just

700
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 1: like talking about yeah, kind of drooling. We've really just

701
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 1: the content that everyone needed continues to come for yours leader,

702
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: It continues to come. Yeah. But you know what I

703
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: think is actually what makes me happy about this podcast

704
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 1: in particular, is because I feel like there are a

705
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: lot of things that you can watch and that you

706
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: can listen to. There's lots of podcast there's lots of

707
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 1: television shows, but like we actually really are friends in

708
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,959
Speaker 1: real life, Yes we are, but I think it adds

709
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 1: an element of like we're just like doing life together,

710
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: you know, like if you think about it, four years ago. Okay, actually,

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Speaker 1: let's think about it. What year was that? Four years

712
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: was seen? Where were you personally in that year? I

713
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 1: was single and I was living in l A. It

714
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Speaker 1: was my first year living in l A. Yeah, September.

715
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Speaker 1: I think I was newly. I had like just gotten No,

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Speaker 1: maybe not just gotten. I was newly in uh the

717
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: on air role on the morning show, right, that was

718
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 1: like six years ago. Well, this is four years ago.

719
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Speaker 1: We're talking about. Haven't you been on the air in

720
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: the morning for like eight years? No, I was behind

721
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: the scenes. I wasn't like technically on air until Sisney

722
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: came in. Okay, so after Ellen left? Yeah, alright, which

723
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 1: is okay. So yes, I was newly, I would say,

724
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Speaker 1: newish two years in. Two years in still getting my

725
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Speaker 1: chomps wet. Oh that's a still getting my still just

726
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 1: getting my chops, my chops prepared. Um, I was in

727
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Speaker 1: a I was. I had just stopped sleeping with men.

728
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry for years. You just we're getting your chumps prepared.

729
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 1: I was just getting my chomps wet, like I was

730
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Speaker 1: new is not a thing. Getting your toes wet. No,

731
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Speaker 1: isn't it chomps? Is that your teeth? Yeah? I was

732
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: just getting my chops or isn't a thing? You've got chops,

733
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Speaker 1: but they don't time you chop at the bit. You

734
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Speaker 1: can wet your appetite. You can get your feet wet.

735
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Speaker 1: What am I trying to say? Like, I think that's

736
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Speaker 1: what you're trying to say? Do you call your feet chomped?

737
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 1: Like I was just getting my acting chomps shops. Anyways,

738
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Speaker 1: you were just I was just starting I feel like, No,

739
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 1: I was well into my um not sleeping with unattached men. Yes,

740
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:31,760
Speaker 1: vigorously dating, yes, like vigorously dating. Our first few episodes

741
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:35,280
Speaker 1: of You were quite hilarious in those times. Mr Whole Foods,

742
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:39,720
Speaker 1: Mr Wills, Oh my, Mr Holfe was Mr wilshir catman

743
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: no dog man. Do you remember that friend that my

744
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: friend Mel set me up with. She like, so, she

745
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: meets this guy at this I don't even know what,

746
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: meets him for two seconds and gets his number to

747
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 1: set me up with him. I didn't know this when

748
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: she set me up on the day, I thought like

749
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: she had known this guy for a while. And I

750
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,800
Speaker 1: go on the day with him. We have zero in common.

751
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 1: He has an Instagram account for his dog. He goes

752
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: to sleep. At four o'clock in the morning, he goes

753
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: out to like the raids of downtown Los Angeles. I

754
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: was like, I call her after the date. Couldn't have

755
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: been faster. It was like twenty five minutes. I was like,

756
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: get me the f out of here. I get home,

757
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: I call her and I go, what about this man?

758
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: Did you think? Like? Was you know? She was well,

759
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: he was just like really nice to talk to. And

760
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: I just wanted you to know that there were still

761
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: nice men out there. And I was like, Oh, that

762
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: was not needed. You're like, I haven't lost hope to

763
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 1: this degree. I haven't lost hope to this degree I

764
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: was in life. Yeah, you were so funny because that

765
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 1: was like that was when you were on like Ryan

766
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: and you'd be like, what do I say? What do

767
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 1: I say? And we do it on the podcast and

768
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 1: you would inevitably send Happy Saturday. You know. It's just

769
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: like but you know what's interesting is I was on

770
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: these apps for a very long time and I really

771
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 1: only met two actual humans from the app. Yeah, what

772
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 1: was the guy? What was mr? Who was the guy?

773
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: For mr D dr mr D mr D Yeah, yeah, yeah, him,

774
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 1: and then after him I met Red Star. I've been

775
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: consulting with my archives to see what you were actually

776
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: up to in the fall of seventeen because I keep

777
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: diligent notes on the morning show. So this was the

778
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 1: I heart radio. Um, you went to New York and

779
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: you had a late night with Tubs, which I think

780
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 1: we made more of on the radio. Ye, yeah, yeah,

781
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 1: that was that. That was that year. Yeah. This was

782
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 1: the year that like Nick Jonas did like an ice

783
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: skating party, ice skating rent out some ice skating rink

784
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: in New York and I went to that. Oh sorry,

785
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: I was thinking Tippler. Sorry I thought I missed. I

786
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: confused Tubs with Tippler. Well, it's You've got a phone

787
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 1: number in New York. On September twenty eight we talked

788
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: about that is that ring a bell? Okay, we had

789
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 1: a break on that. You interviewed Dualipa. You give a

790
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: speech or your old high school. Oh yeah, that was September.

791
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 1: Actually October. I went back to my high school for

792
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: some I don't know what exactly it was, but I

793
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: gave a speech. Yeah, and you were asked out by

794
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: a married man. Yes, yes, yes, very married. You know

795
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: this too. You know this. We did't have a name

796
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 1: for him because I obviously did not accept it. But

797
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 1: you know you're aware. Have said man short stout sound

798
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 1: like winter. I was a hard decline for the one

799
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: that got away short and stout out single? Really what

800
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: a guy? Really top notch? It's pretty remark It's pretty

801
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: crazy though when you look back at like four years,

802
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: seems like it's a flash in the pan, but it

803
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: really a lot of change. It's splash in the pan.

804
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 1: That's the thing, you guys, Not in that context, it's not,

805
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: but still it's always fun to hear what you're gonna say,

806
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: and that's why we're all here. When y'all don't react,

807
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, maybe it's something I've never heard of.

808
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: But then I'm like, no, flash, it was a flash

809
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 1: in the pan, hasn't I've never heard of that. A flash.

810
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 1: That's a real expression. A flash in the pan is

811
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: like somebody who are fat or something truly popular and

812
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 1: then goes away very quickly, like Nico and Vins with

813
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 1: a flash in the pan. Right, Okay, so like you

814
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 1: think that four years is like lickety split and it's

815
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 1: not like a lot has happened. I mean you've been

816
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: like you're in a relationship for how how long has

817
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 1: it been now like official? Three years and five months? Wow?

818
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:46,280
Speaker 1: Almost yeah, almost three and a half years. That's wild.

819
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: That is wild because even sometimes when I think about that,

820
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 1: it feels like it feels more like two years, okay,

821
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: which is just a flash in the pan. Yeah, I know,

822
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: it's it's like, it's just cool of how much life

823
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 1: has happened and how we have all done it together

824
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 1: and had the you know, the live shows, and it's

825
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 1: just it's cool because there's definitely been like highs, and

826
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: there's been times where it's been hard to get on

827
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 1: here and have a podcast that was like and do

828
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: you feel like? I feel like I get asked a

829
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: lot of time from people that are starting podcast now,

830
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 1: how do you guys? How did you build your you know,

831
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: your scrubber as your scrub sisterhood. And I literally like,

832
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, there was no like strategy, you know what

833
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: I mean, Like we just came on here and we're like, yeah,

834
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: this thing on, how's it going? You know? Like I

835
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: I like, I have no good advice in terms of

836
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: just like, because people want strategy, they want to know

837
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 1: how to build their audience, and I'm like, I have

838
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: no idea, But they're the most loyal humans on the planet.

839
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I will say, I'm I would be curious

840
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 1: to know because you had listeners from the morning show

841
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: who love you. I had people from The Bachelor who

842
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,439
Speaker 1: watched me on The Bachelor, so we both had that

843
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:00,399
Speaker 1: built in. But I'm curious of the people who never

844
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: watched the bat or like didn't follow me from the Bachelor,

845
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 1: didn't listen to the more like radio show, who listen

846
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 1: to the podcast, I'd be curious to know what those

847
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: numbers look like. But yeah, I think it's like I

848
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,839
Speaker 1: always feel like people ask, you know, how did you

849
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: build your listen? Like, how did you build that? And

850
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 1: I think it's the community. It's not so much how

851
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: it started, but how it's like consistently stayed consistent. Yeah,

852
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,320
Speaker 1: consistently stayed consistent. See if you call me out on that,

853
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: can we tell you what scrubbers are not doing. They're

854
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 1: not not letting people out of their driveways onto a

855
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: busy street. You tell you that much, right. They're very

856
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: welcoming people and very polite, kind people exactly. Yes, they are.

857
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: Um Eastern sent to I don't is this supposed to

858
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: be anonymous? Uh no, it's also be anonymous. So Eastern

859
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 1: sends a group chat since a message to the group

860
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,799
Speaker 1: chat and said he needed some advice on something, and

861
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 1: he was like, should I send it to the scrubbing

862
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,439
Speaker 1: an email? And I was like I would just let's

863
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: just do it live on the podcast. So we don't

864
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 1: know what's about to happen. This will be quick, this

865
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: will be quick. But so my buddy is out of

866
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: town for an extended period of time. Uh. He asked

867
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 1: me to go over and water his line. So he

868
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: has a very nice sort all right, you guys, I

869
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: mean okay. So it's just a buddy of mine, close

870
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: friend of mine. Uh, he's out of town, needed me

871
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,280
Speaker 1: to water his line. He has a really nice pool

872
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 1: nobody's home. So we go over there and we go

873
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: swimming in the pool, Allison and I. He has a

874
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: camera in the backyard and I assumed it was like

875
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: one of those cameras that like, it's not recording anything,

876
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: it's just kind of there. Yesterday in the afternoon, we

877
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 1: decided to go skinny dipping for this is the first

878
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: time I've ever done this ever, because I'm a very

879
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 1: square person. So we do it and it's fun and

880
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: that's all. And then later in the afternoon, I get

881
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: a text to a group text with my friends on

882
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 1: it a picture of me naked, and he says, send

883
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 1: why are me or I won't send the really naughty ones,

884
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 1: and like he's clearly joking, and I'm a chill dude,

885
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: but so it kind of weirded me out. So my

886
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: question is, was I not was me going skinny to me?

887
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: Was that badge and I not have done that? Or

888
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 1: is he a creep for like taking screenshots of the camera.

889
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 1: Can I go all of the above on this one.

890
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,439
Speaker 1: I would have enjoyed you asking him if you could

891
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: use the pool. I would have enjoyed that. Prior to

892
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: the skinneay dipping, okay, the the pool, there was an

893
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: understanding that because he's been out of town for a

894
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 1: long time, another friend was watching the house while he

895
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 1: was gone. We were swimming this whole time. This is

896
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: the first time it was just me alone, and yeah,

897
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 1: maybe I should have texted and said can I go

898
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 1: swimming and not not said anything about being naked in

899
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: his backyard. But like I need to know, like where

900
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: you got because my camera and my all my around

901
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 1: my whole house, like they're all recording like at all times,

902
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 1: Like I can go back to any day and find

903
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:34,399
Speaker 1: if there's someone back there. So I want to know

904
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:38,720
Speaker 1: where that thought came of. Like that probably isn't do anything,

905
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: So I'm going to strip down. I have a kid.

906
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 1: I have an S camera in my house and it

907
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: doesn't record. It's just like it's a live stream. And

908
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: because you have to pay extra for the recording. So

909
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: so that's where that that's where that thinking came from.

910
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: Was this a spur of the moment decision like why

911
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:00,399
Speaker 1: not grab a suit? It was I had my suit

912
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: because let me tell you, once you skate it, you

913
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: never go back. I mean it was exciting. Yeah, it's nice,

914
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: it's nice to feel it in You're I'll happily go

915
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 1: back after alone. Right it was you and your wife,

916
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 1: it was me and Alison. Yeah, so that means that

917
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 1: he has photos of Alison too, Yeah, which is like

918
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: that's weird. But if he's your friend, he's not going

919
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: to like lobb those photos around. I think it's very

920
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,839
Speaker 1: weird that he sent that picture to a group chat.

921
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: I had it just to you with joke okay, funny

922
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: ha ha, but to the group chat, is weird. Okay,

923
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: That's that's what I thought I was. And I was

924
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: trying to be cool and I was like, hey, man,

925
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: way did your line? You know, like like I was

926
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 1: trying to be like cool about it, but I was

927
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: also like like, oh man, like what else did he see? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

928
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: what else did you do in there? Nothing? We didn't

929
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 1: do anything like bad. It's just just so like nothing.

930
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: If it was a movie, we get a we get

931
00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 1: an R rating because there was like frontal nudity, but

932
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: like nothing past that. M Um is Alison freaking out?

933
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: She she was, yeah, yeah, she was freaking out of that.

934
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 1: I personally would be freaking out just because like I

935
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: would be like I don't want anyone to have those

936
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: that footage of me. But at the same time, you

937
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:29,800
Speaker 1: did see the camera there and to take off your clothes,

938
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: so I don't know, and maybe you have a conversation

939
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: and just say hey, I don't know, like I don't

940
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,439
Speaker 1: know if you just let it go, and it's like

941
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,920
Speaker 1: I wouldn't go act like you don't care, like like

942
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,720
Speaker 1: what I don't know what's he's your friend. You preface

943
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: this was saying he's your friends, so he's really not

944
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: going to like put it on the internet. We have

945
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: heard from people who follow your story about how friends

946
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 1: will sometimes cheat on their spouse with their spouse, But

947
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 1: I feel like you would know if this friend is

948
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:05,479
Speaker 1: like shady. Yeah, I trust this friend mostly, but he's

949
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: capable of some diabolical stuff. So I'm if his first

950
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:13,800
Speaker 1: move was sending into the group chat, that's a little questionable.

951
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 1: The picture he sent was you can't see any of Alison,

952
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: like like she's she's like in the hot time. You

953
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,399
Speaker 1: can only see it from her like neck up and

954
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 1: I I am my my rears to the camera so

955
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:29,240
Speaker 1: you can't see like I don't care. I would honestly

956
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: act like you don't care and be like ha ha,

957
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,839
Speaker 1: that's the best you got. I'm sure there's better ones

958
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 1: in there or something like that. You're but you're but

959
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: to the group chat is better. That's not what I thought.

960
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:41,839
Speaker 1: That's not what I was picturing. So that's not so

961
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: bad because it's kind of like, you know, that's kind

962
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: of funny. I do. If I were a pool owner,

963
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: which I kind of a but not a traditional pool.

964
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 1: But I don't I'm trying to think if it would

965
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: bother me, Like, I don't think it would bother me

966
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 1: to have a neighbor who was watching my house while

967
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 1: I'm gone swim, but might bother me difference, it's not.

968
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: It's not because it just makes me think about pubes

969
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: in the skimmer, you know, and that says it's gonna

970
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 1: bother me. Let me tell you something. Publes are going

971
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:13,320
Speaker 1: to get the skimmer with a bathing suit on or songs.

972
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna tell you that. I don't know if

973
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 1: it's a psychological thing, because it is just like a

974
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: thin layer of micra over you know, separating in through there,

975
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: you know, like water swims in through your suit. Yeah,

976
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 1: It's it's like really in terms of cleanliness, I feel

977
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: like it's not that much different. It's I think it's

978
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:36,800
Speaker 1: a symbolic thing. Yeah, my I'm mostly my My biggest

979
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: takeaway from that is that he has mostly not saying

980
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 1: that you're you don't matter, but the thought that he

981
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 1: has footage of Allison. Yeah. And I don't know why

982
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm so unbothered by this, because I feel like nakedness

983
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 1: of me is just like everyone have not seeing it,

984
00:52:56,440 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying, having it, and it can be you don't

985
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: know what people are going to do. True. I think

986
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,400
Speaker 1: it's it's nice to be able to trust people and

987
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:09,279
Speaker 1: be like they would never. But like Alis and I

988
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 1: are both like open and we're you know, we're proud

989
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 1: of our bodies. But like it was the fact that

990
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 1: we were being watched without knowing that it's not my house.

991
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 1: You knew you you knew you might have been being watched. Yeah,

992
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 1: you're in front of a camera. So so we're ruling

993
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:31,919
Speaker 1: both parties that fall, right, I would say so, yeah,

994
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:39,760
Speaker 1: I would say yeah, I would say, don't do that again. Yeah,

995
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 1: I mean I am showering with my swimsuit on from

996
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:48,359
Speaker 1: you know, never nude would never go on Naked and

997
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:51,799
Speaker 1: Afraid of Love. We've been watching a lot of Naked

998
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 1: and Afraid and Naked in Afraid of Love, which is

999
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:57,280
Speaker 1: probably it's like Naked and Afraid, but like a love

1000
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 1: version of it, So it's naked bash. Yeah, it's like

1001
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: Nakena in Paradise. Oh my gosh. That sounds interesting. And

1002
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,760
Speaker 1: that's probably what sparked this, was we seriously just watching

1003
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:11,360
Speaker 1: it on a loop. But and that's a whole different

1004
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:12,800
Speaker 1: thing because you have to survive out in the wilderness.

1005
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: I have a whole plan for that. I think being

1006
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: naked is so free. I would drive me nuts though

1007
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:21,439
Speaker 1: if I knew, if somebody we knew it had naked

1008
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: footage of my wife would drive me into it. Yeah,

1009
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: it's a it's yeah, it's on my mind. But she's

1010
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:34,399
Speaker 1: a good looking lady. I mean, I don't know. Yeah, yeah,

1011
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,479
Speaker 1: what's easy, gonna say, hand over the tapes? Punk? Yeah,

1012
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: he's not gonna like you know, it's it's I'm hoping

1013
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 1: it just goes away. That's your best bet is to

1014
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 1: just not acknowledge it. If he keeps sending photos in

1015
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 1: the group chat, maybe you have a talk with him.

1016
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 1: But I think at this point you just you know,

1017
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: make a joke out of it and move on because

1018
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:55,399
Speaker 1: you don't want you don't even want to think about

1019
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 1: her talk about anymore. I suggest he's taking out of

1020
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: all and just sounds like you need it. Thank you

1021
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: very much for your advice, But complicated situation, all right,

1022
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 1: We I mean, I don't know how we're going to

1023
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: follow up our you know, advice with what we just had,

1024
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,880
Speaker 1: But we're gonna read emails. But first we're gonna take

1025
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 1: a break and we'll be right back. So we have

1026
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 1: Gwynn Whiting from the laundress scrubbing in today and she

1027
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 1: is like a professional with her equipment all set up.

1028
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: Welcome to the o R. I'm a professional laundry scrubber too.

1029
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: Just what we like. I actually just um before I left,

1030
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 1: was I still have lost my own I lost my

1031
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 1: smell to COVID like a month and a half ago. Yeah,

1032
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: about a month and a half ago, and I still

1033
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: don't have my smell. It's like very faint, so only

1034
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 1: really like nice smells. I can kind of get a glimpse.

1035
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 1: And I used the laundress and I was like, I

1036
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:18,399
Speaker 1: think I can smell my clothes again. I've been panicking this, yeah,

1037
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 1: and I've been panicking that it's going to be something bad.

1038
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 1: You know that I smell first, So I was. I've

1039
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: been really happy that it has. It's been like nice,

1040
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:30,959
Speaker 1: fragrant since laundry. It's a good sense. Yeah, I know

1041
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 1: what actually what inspired you guys to start the laundress

1042
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:39,800
Speaker 1: mm hmm. The short answer is dry cleaning bills, preach

1043
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: sister that's the that's the cheap and cheerful answer. But

1044
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: you know the bigger part of that story was, UM,

1045
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 1: it was young, UM, early twenties, in my career of

1046
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 1: mid twenties and really um amassing my wardrobe and my

1047
00:56:56,880 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 1: investments and my bending and sheets and all the things, UM,

1048
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: and wanting to take better care of these items, and

1049
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 1: really being challenged by what was out there to work with. UM.

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Speaker 1: I even trained my husband to do a pitt stain

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Speaker 1: I know, I want to glass to whine with you ladies.

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Speaker 1: They're not I know when we I want to come

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Speaker 1: to New York. I'm really missing New York. But I'm

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Speaker 1: waiting for it to cool down a little bit so

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Speaker 1: i can get the fall effect. Yeah, you gotta wear

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Speaker 1: glass of wine time where you are. I feel like

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Speaker 1: it's a tincy early for us. Yeah. Actually, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I'm drinking wine for noon. So all right, we are

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Speaker 1: back with some emails. Mark take it away. Cassidy says Tanya,

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Speaker 1: what advice do you have for dating someone with kids?

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Speaker 1: I recently had a baby. The father is not involved,

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Speaker 1: so I'm looking to hear from the other perspective. He's

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Speaker 1: still little, just over two months old. But I've been

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Speaker 1: single for over a year, so I would like to

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Speaker 1: start branching out and figuring out how I want to

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Speaker 1: go about things. You know, I think the best advice

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Speaker 1: that I could give you is that you can write

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Speaker 1: your own story. I think that the thing that people

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01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 1: get really tripped up on with this kind of stuff,

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Speaker 1: and I I did in the beginning to is like

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01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: you read handbooks or you watch YouTube videos of like

1146
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 1: how to meet them and how to do it and

1147
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:44,280
Speaker 1: how to do it properly, and it's like it's different

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01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 1: for everybody. Whatever feels the most natural to you, you

1149
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like this is your life, this

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Speaker 1: is your child, and you get to decide how quickly

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Speaker 1: how slowly you want to bring somebody in, Like you

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01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:03,240
Speaker 1: get to decide the those those you know, the way

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Speaker 1: that you want to do it. And so I think

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Speaker 1: really sitting with yourself and figuring out how you want

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Speaker 1: to go about it. I think, you know, having a

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Speaker 1: happy parent is leads to happy kids in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: And um, I'll never forget this one man. Actually a

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Speaker 1: few years I met this We met this couple and uh,

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Speaker 1: the guy had been divorced with two kids when he

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Speaker 1: met his now wife and we were just like chatting

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Speaker 1: with them, and he said, you know, what's the best

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Speaker 1: piece of advice or something like that, and the guy said,

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Speaker 1: kids grow, or the sun shines. And it was just

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Speaker 1: like the sweetest just like sunshines. Just keep it happy,

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Speaker 1: keep it positive, do what feels good for you. And

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Speaker 1: that would be my advice. Great, bad advice, good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think the great advice. I liked that it was

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Speaker 1: from the perspective of someone who has the kids dating yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, as opposed to dating someone with the kid,

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Speaker 1: because I think there comes a lot of like I

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Speaker 1: feel like, and I shouldn't write this in the email,

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Speaker 1: but there comes a lot of guilt with it too,

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Speaker 1: and so a lot of people who you know, she

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01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: might be feeling guilty for wanting to date or wanting

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Speaker 1: to find happiness. Um, and I don't think you should

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Speaker 1: feel any sort of guilt in that regard at all.

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Speaker 1: Having a happy life and good partner is only going

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Speaker 1: to benefit your kid. And I think being very proud

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Speaker 1: and open about having a kid and how proud you

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Speaker 1: are and how important this child is to you is

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Speaker 1: really going to set the tone for how the people

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Speaker 1: you date respond to you having a kid too, which

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Speaker 1: we've talked about on the podcast. Yeah, because like I

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01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 1: think the other thing too is like don't try and

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Speaker 1: hide it, Like if you're on dating apps, don't try

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01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 1: and just put, you know, post a picture of you

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Speaker 1: and your child so that the people so that the

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Speaker 1: people you're matching with, no, you know, like I knew

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Speaker 1: straight up from day one, what you know, you could

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Speaker 1: just you know, not post it, and then you know

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01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 1: they fall in love and then they show up to

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Speaker 1: the house and the way was this. I'm just skidding,

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Speaker 1: that's horrible advice. I would just say, I agree. I

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Speaker 1: think you're just like but incorporate into a conversation, not

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Speaker 1: like in a way that you're like, oh, I have

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Speaker 1: a kid, but being like, I have this amazing child

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Speaker 1: I love. That's my whole life. Yeah, all right. This

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Speaker 1: is from Anonymous. I met the Sky back in May

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Speaker 1: through Bumble and we hit it off right away. Last

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Speaker 1: week was my birthday. He said he was taking me

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Speaker 1: out to dinner a surprise, and we were going to

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Speaker 1: spend Labor Day weekend in New York City. On the

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Speaker 1: day of my birthday. We had a misunderstanding regarding the

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Speaker 1: dinner reservation. He canceled the reservation without consulting me because

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Speaker 1: I admit another reservation at a restaurant that we were

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Speaker 1: dying to go to for Thursday, the day after my birthday,

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Speaker 1: and he assumed that was going to be the celebration

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Speaker 1: for my birthday. I'm a little confused by that, but

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Speaker 1: I think I got it. Basically, birthday plans canceled. Baton sure, okay.

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Speaker 1: We talked on the phone. He apologized and I said

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Speaker 1: that accepted as apology. But what made me sad was

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Speaker 1: even though he made a mistake, he didn't even try

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Speaker 1: to fix it or beat with me on my birthday.

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Speaker 1: That led him to tell me that he felt like

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Speaker 1: he was disappointing me all the time, and he still

1216
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 1: was in limbo regarding if he wanted a relationship or not.

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Speaker 1: So he decided to end things on my birthday. He said,

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Speaker 1: if I wanted to continue talking to him or ask

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01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,720
Speaker 1: him anything I could, should I reach out to him.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk to him and figure out what

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01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: the heck happened. Everyone keeps saying that not talk to him,

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01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 1: but I can't just leave things like that. What would

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Speaker 1: you do? And by the way, I just found out

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Speaker 1: he unfollowed me on Instagram. The detail of that email

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Speaker 1: is really blessing my heart. Tanya speaking advice, So Tanya

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Speaker 1: seeking advice. So I have particular advice. It's probably opposite

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Speaker 1: of what you're gonna say. I think you're going to say,

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Speaker 1: reach out to him and get closure if you need it. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so go ahead take it away. So, first of all,

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Speaker 1: somebody that dumps you on your birthday. It's a hard

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Speaker 1: note for me, but that I'm gonna put that as

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Speaker 1: gide if you can't get past this and there's things

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Speaker 1: rolling around your brain and you just want answers to things,

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Speaker 1: but I think you should reach out. But I think

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Speaker 1: also holding yourself to a standard and like not backing

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Speaker 1: down and not holding out hope or in that sort

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01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 1: of sense, like not having an ulterior motive. If you

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Speaker 1: really just want to know, like where his head's at,

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01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 1: and you need that conversation, then I think you should

1240
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Speaker 1: have it. But I don't know, dumping you on your

1241
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:32,280
Speaker 1: birthday seems cold. I mean I would. I'm kind of

1242
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Speaker 1: on the same page if it's something that you can't

1243
01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 1: stop thinking about and you're like, I just need I'm

1244
01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 1: a little conflicted because it was they started hanging out

1245
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,920
Speaker 1: or met in May, which wasn't that long, Like it

1246
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Speaker 1: hasn't been it's been four months. I don't know he

1247
01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 1: if he already made the move to on follow you

1248
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:53,720
Speaker 1: on Instagram and it got that like he just checked

1249
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 1: out that fast. I'm almost like, don't even give him

1250
01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 1: the time of day anymore, Like you've given enough and

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01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 1: he's clearly out. But I think if you're kind of

1252
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:04,919
Speaker 1: like I cannot move on until I have some sort

1253
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 1: of conversation with him, then do it knowing that you

1254
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 1: deserve better like that you can have that conversation, get closure,

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01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:14,240
Speaker 1: and then move on to something. And you might not

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01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:17,080
Speaker 1: get closure in the conversation, but then well for herself,

1257
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:19,320
Speaker 1: like if she needs to say something, then she can

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Speaker 1: say it, not expecting him. He might not say anything

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Speaker 1: you want to hear, but knowing that you can say

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Speaker 1: what you need to say and then move on to

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01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: bigger and better things. This is not your guy. To me,

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01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:34,000
Speaker 1: he sounds like a bit of a load. I think

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01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 1: that he was looking for an opportunity to get out,

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01:08:37,520 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 1: Like it seems like he took the first chance he could, like, well,

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01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:44,120
Speaker 1: you're not happy, but the rest is over for me,

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Speaker 1: So I think he was he was looking for an opportunity.

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01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 1: Or if he said he's hates that he's always disappointing you,

1268
01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:52,080
Speaker 1: like what else has he done in the last more months,

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01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:55,720
Speaker 1: Like seems yeah, seems are early for that level of disappointment.

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01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 1: Feeling that way. It's just not a match and that's okay.

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01:08:58,200 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 1: If you want to have lunch with him, and sort

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01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 1: things out, and I guess have Adam, but you're not

1273
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:02,720
Speaker 1: going to get anything you want to hear. How did

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01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 1: that guy? Sometimes? Yeah, sometimes you get what is it?

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01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: You can? Uh, you never Um, it's hard to help

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01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:15,080
Speaker 1: when nothing's coming out the closure. They say, it's like

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01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:17,599
Speaker 1: sometimes you get the clip answers that you never get

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01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 1: the answers your need, so you have to get closed

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01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:21,680
Speaker 1: on your own. There's some sort of quote like that

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01:09:21,880 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 1: here where you're going with that. That's what I'm saying, Like,

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01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 1: I think I almost feel like reaching out to him

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01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:28,760
Speaker 1: is going to set you up for more rejection and her,

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01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:32,600
Speaker 1: because you're probably gonna have expectations going in that conversation.

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01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:34,600
Speaker 1: But if you can go into it saying like I

1285
01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 1: just need to say this regardless of what he says

1286
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 1: in return, it's gonna make me feel better and I

1287
01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 1: can move on. Do it. But going to it without

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01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:46,760
Speaker 1: with very low expectations. Yeah, yeah, we like low expectations

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01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: around here. Just keep them and then keep them real high.

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01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 1: The tough balance, but you gotta do it. Yeah, it

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01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:58,559
Speaker 1: is a balance. Yeah, I gotta keep the expectations low

1292
01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:00,600
Speaker 1: and then keep them real high. If you know what

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01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what did that turn sexual or something? Why'd

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01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:07,960
Speaker 1: your voice do that thing that you do when you're

1295
01:10:07,960 --> 01:10:11,880
Speaker 1: talking about like, No, I don't even mean to no, no, no,

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01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 1: I wasn't looking at her, so all I heard was

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01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:21,240
Speaker 1: keep them low and then keep them high. Yeah, I

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01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:26,760
Speaker 1: got the vibe. The vibe you're saying, keep them low

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01:10:26,840 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 1: and dating and then once you're in a relationship, keep

1300
01:10:29,160 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 1: them high. Is that the idea? No, I think she

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01:10:31,400 --> 01:10:33,400
Speaker 1: was saying keep them low going into that kind of

1302
01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 1: conversation with someone who's lame like that, but then raise

1303
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:42,560
Speaker 1: them up again. Yes, whence dating, the expectations need to

1304
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:45,760
Speaker 1: be high because your partner, your partner is needs to

1305
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: like level up, your partner needs to be a better

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01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 1: uh level that version of did you say, whence dating?

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01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:58,639
Speaker 1: Is that a word? I mean, I think you're doing

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01:10:58,640 --> 01:11:02,719
Speaker 1: like a Shakespearean thing. She's kind of fun not doing

1309
01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:08,920
Speaker 1: a Shakespearean sha literally reached so far for her, Like, yeah,

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01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:11,120
Speaker 1: it's a word if it's said in this way or

1311
01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:14,360
Speaker 1: back in the Shakespearean days, Like, that's not what she's

1312
01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:19,200
Speaker 1: doing us just doing a Shakespearean thing exactly, shook. It

1313
01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: is more like a you know, basically shakespeare we've gone

1314
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:31,120
Speaker 1: so far from Shakespeare where back to back with Shakespeare?

1315
01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 1: That's how far way you got exactly? You made the

1316
01:11:33,439 --> 01:11:39,559
Speaker 1: full circle? Well, weinst it's been fun, it's been west fun.

1317
01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 1: Whilst it's been fun, it's time to say goodbye, goodbye it.

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Speaker 1: We will be back next week for another hard hitting

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01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 1: week of news, hardheading episode of news. Happy anniversary if

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01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:03,240
Speaker 1: you've been here from the big even if you came

1321
01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 1: late and started from the beginning, or even if you

1322
01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:08,840
Speaker 1: started last week, we are so happy to have you.

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Speaker 1: How many is that? Because I feel like I should

1324
01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:12,679
Speaker 1: be over two d right, if it's been four years,

1325
01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:15,200
Speaker 1: how many episodes have there been of scrubbing in? I'm

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01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 1: asking Eastern, and I know that he is the kind

1327
01:12:17,280 --> 01:12:19,880
Speaker 1: of person that would have that information very quickly at hand.

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01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 1: A seconds from now, he'll burst forth with a three

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01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:24,720
Speaker 1: digit number to let us know how many episodes there

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01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:29,679
Speaker 1: of bead Eastern? The number of episodes let's guess everyone guess, okay,

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01:12:29,720 --> 01:12:33,400
Speaker 1: all right, yes, please? How many weeks in a year? Six?

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Speaker 1: Come on? Really, that's that's two hundred and fourteen. Chinese

1333
01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:45,080
Speaker 1: making faces of me because she didn't like that I said.

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01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 1: That isn't a common knowledge. How many weeks are in

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Speaker 1: a year? No, I mean yes, but Shakespeare and people

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01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:54,680
Speaker 1: you don't bother with that. How many weeks in a year?

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Speaker 1: Fifty six? Yeah, I was going between it because I

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01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:06,760
Speaker 1: heard both numbers from her. So I'm gonna say episodes, Well,

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01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:08,839
Speaker 1: that would be precise. I feel like we've had weekends

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Speaker 1: weeks where we've done more than one, and are we

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01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:17,600
Speaker 1: playing prices right rules that you cannot go over? No,

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01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:21,840
Speaker 1: just whoever's closest? Okay, two, right to fourteen? Then I

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01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:32,720
Speaker 1: will say to okay, Becca technically technically wins right on

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01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:35,360
Speaker 1: the money to the point where I think she's looking

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01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:43,240
Speaker 1: at something, because in our system it says scrubbing In

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01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:48,040
Speaker 1: has two episodes, which is remarkable. However, some of those

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01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:53,000
Speaker 1: are trailers for this is Paris, you know. So I'm

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01:13:53,040 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 1: trying to pull up exactly how many episodes I'm gonna

1349
01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:00,800
Speaker 1: give it to beccay, and I'm I want to say

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Speaker 1: that Becca is not a cheater. And then the double

1351
01:14:04,120 --> 01:14:06,759
Speaker 1: tier on that, like a sub tier of that point

1352
01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 1: is that I don't even think she would bother to

1353
01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:13,040
Speaker 1: like check no, right, I don't know how you would look.

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01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even know how to look at that. So

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01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:19,519
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that's just her genius mind, shakespeareance something

1356
01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 1: there's saying as much pride and winning when you cheat,

1357
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:25,479
Speaker 1: like there you get like maybe you feel the high

1358
01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 1: of saying people being like you're the thinking that you win.

1359
01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:30,840
Speaker 1: But deep down, I don't. I feel a sense of

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01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:33,160
Speaker 1: pride right now that I guess that without looking at

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01:14:33,200 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 1: anything right on them, I mean, not counting this episode

1362
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:39,599
Speaker 1: we're doing right now, but two episodes. That's pretty incredible. Back,

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Speaker 1: I'm impressed. I'm just impressed that we have done two

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01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:45,679
Speaker 1: d and fourteen give or take some trailers of this show.

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01:14:46,479 --> 01:14:49,600
Speaker 1: That's pretty crazy. That's pretty crazy. Yeah, baby, that's like

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01:14:49,640 --> 01:14:54,680
Speaker 1: two and fourteen hours of our lives. You ever take

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01:14:54,720 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 1: a few? Yeah, I mean a lot of episodes are

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01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:01,160
Speaker 1: ninety minutes summer longer. So about a lot of math.

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Speaker 1: I'll get on now. I'll really work on that during

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01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:07,599
Speaker 1: my other homework this week. Yeah, this Shakespearean mind can't

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01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:13,160
Speaker 1: do the numbers to below. You really too right minded?

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01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:16,160
Speaker 1: You know, like, or what's the math mind? Isn't the

1373
01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:20,360
Speaker 1: math mind your right brain? I don't know, Yes, yes,

1374
01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:23,840
Speaker 1: because your left is your creativity I kind of missed

1375
01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:26,080
Speaker 1: the like aultro we had because it was just like

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01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:33,880
Speaker 1: cut tan y'all, you know, like when you please cut

1377
01:15:33,920 --> 01:15:36,320
Speaker 1: me off. I need I have a I have a

1378
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:38,960
Speaker 1: man on his way and I want to smooche him

1379
01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 1: like I gotta get out of here. We love you

1380
01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 1: all and we'll be back next week. Bye bye,