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Speaker 1: The second date of days.

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Speaker 2: It's more and more popular nowadays to go to restaurants

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Speaker 2: and food spots that do shared tables.

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Speaker 3: The community tables, you know, like the big long ones

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: The upside to that is you might meet somebody interesting

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Speaker 2: sitting at your table. The downside is you're sharing napkins,

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Speaker 2: swipe and pass. That's my experience, and I'm just hoping

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Speaker 2: I'm not fourth in line for the community nap.

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Speaker 3: He's stealing other people's napkins.

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Speaker 4: I think.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's the way forward.

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Speaker 2: But the only reason that I even bring it up

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Speaker 2: is because one of our listeners says she met a

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Speaker 2: guy while sitting at a shared table.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Donna. That's cute, Donna. Did you have

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Speaker 1: to share napkins at the table like I do?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: I didn't share anypp.

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Speaker 3: Okay, just sharing a straw, sip and pass, probably conversation,

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Speaker 3: jeff That's probably all she's shared, right, Donna.

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Speaker 6: Yep, that's pretty much it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is a good start.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I definitely need to know where this place

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Speaker 2: is that had your community tables, because I'm going to

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Speaker 2: the wrong spots where did you you.

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Speaker 3: Are so unsanitary?

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Speaker 4: Jeff?

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Speaker 1: Where did you go?

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Speaker 5: It was a food festival?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you met like a picnic table sitting down?

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, a fold out table sharing too.

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Speaker 1: And who was this guy that you met?

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Speaker 5: Eric?

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Speaker 3: Eric?

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Speaker 1: Was Eric eating that would draw you to him?

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Speaker 3: Is that how you struck up conversation?

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Speaker 4: God?

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Speaker 1: Look at that guy.

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Speaker 3: I only date guys who eat euros?

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Speaker 2: Can I get that napkin when you're done? By the way,

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Speaker 2: where how.

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Speaker 1: Did you meet him?

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Speaker 4: He was actually a beer garden.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, that's a little bit easier to meet

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Speaker 2: somebody there.

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Speaker 1: How did you do it?

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Speaker 3: They're of age?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're trying to like figure out where did it down?

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Speaker 4: And so he had a little picnic table and it

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Speaker 4: was just kind of him and for friends. So it

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Speaker 4: was just kind of this nice, like perfect two guys

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Speaker 3: Cool. Okay, so how long did you guys hang out together?

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Speaker 4: Oh? It was like an hour and a half maybe

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Speaker 4: because we were just kind of having a good time. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it was super natural, Like he was really funny, really genuine,

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Speaker 4: nice guy, And I just saw myself laughing so much

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Speaker 4: because you're so goofy.

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Speaker 1: Oh that awesome.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't call him goofy to his face, but I

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Speaker 3: Was your girlfriend like hyping you up? I mean, could

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean she was like making eyes at me,

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Speaker 4: And he and I actually did agree to hang out later,

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Speaker 1: Perfect. So what did you and Eric do when you

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Speaker 1: met up after the event.

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Speaker 4: Well, we had already drink a lot because you're chilling

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Speaker 4: in the beer garden for a while, so we didn't

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Speaker 6: They got some dessert.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I just really liked him.

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Speaker 1: Did you or did he kiss you or anything like

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Speaker 4: No, no kissy stuff, no handholding it or anything.

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Speaker 1: But you felt the vibe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So looking back now at the whole thing, what

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Speaker 2: do you think the reason is that he might not

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Speaker 1: Is there? Do you have any idea? Okay, oh, why

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Speaker 3: Why would you not be able to say it?

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Speaker 1: Is it about you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well you know how this segment works, Like, you

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Speaker 2: should probably be honest with us now, because if we

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Speaker 2: for that, you know, you say you're not married, it

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Speaker 2: could be embarrassing for you. So if it's gonna come

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Speaker 2: out anyway, you might as well tell us. Now, just

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Speaker 4: It might be one of those things like maybe he

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Speaker 4: like when I'm revealing this thing and I'm like, oh god,

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Speaker 4: what if that wasn't the thing?

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Speaker 3: Okay, wait, you don't know if he knows or not.

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Speaker 3: Would he be able to find it out on the internet? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: then he knows.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, well, what is that? Can we know

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Speaker 1: what it is? And we won't bring it up to

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Speaker 4: Okay, I okay, I didn't say any of this to him,

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Speaker 4: but I don't know if you found out, Like, okay,

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Speaker 4: I don't even know if I could say this right now.

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Speaker 1: Deep breath.

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Speaker 3: It's probably honestly, like all this stuff is usually not

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Speaker 3: in their heads, right.

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Speaker 6: Don't want my mom to be listening or something.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, we're big with moms.

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Speaker 1: So kidding, suspect or what's going on? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Hey, we are an innocent he'll proven guilty type of show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, tell us, I'm not only can you fans?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Okay, you know what?

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Speaker 3: I bet your mom doesn't even know what that is?

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Speaker 3: I hope, So okay, Like, how like if you searched

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Speaker 3: your name when it come up, you know, because he

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Speaker 3: the content? Like is it is it.

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Speaker 2: Something?

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Speaker 1: Just asked her to send you a link?

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Speaker 4: If?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Is it pretty aggressive?

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Speaker 4: It's not extremely aggressive, but it's definitely like leaning and derighted?

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Speaker 1: Are okay? Well, some guys love that and some guys don't.

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Speaker 3: It's a personality thing, and you're definitely gonna have to

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Speaker 3: tell him whether whether he knows now or not.

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Speaker 2: And we really appreciate you being vulnerable and coming clean

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Speaker 2: about that to us. We will definitely get your information

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Speaker 3: But I thought I was getting their information trial.

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Speaker 2: I was We're very thorough in our research whenever we

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Speaker 2: do this thing. But just I'm now I'm curious, how

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Speaker 2: successful are you with your only fans?

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Speaker 1: Are you somebody who might be more well known or well?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm somewhat popular, like I have a pretty

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Speaker 2: Okay, wow, well now I guess that has me curious.

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Speaker 2: If you've got all these followers and all the success,

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Speaker 2: then why Eric.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's a great question. I'm not on any

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Speaker 4: dating apps and this happened organically, which it was very

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Speaker 6: It felt like a cute little me cute you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how will you handle it if it is an

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean some guys are scared. Some

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Speaker 6: Why you like me?

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Speaker 2: I think I know which category we fell into. Sorry,

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Speaker 2: but we will not bring this up again unless Eric

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Speaker 2: says it first, because we're going to come back and

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Speaker 2: call him and ask him why wouldn't he call you

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Speaker 2: back after such a great, unique, genuine hangout getting He

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Speaker 3: Is so nice to have a listener just be honest

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Speaker 1: How much easier this makes our job. It did take

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Speaker 1: a lot to get it out. It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Is even worse than are So we're gonna find out

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Speaker 2: when we call Eric and get you your second date

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Speaker 2: update right after this hold on. Brooks said it earlier,

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Speaker 2: and I think we all agree it is refreshing to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it makes me feel so much less stressed going

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Speaker 3: I mean it's a big thing, yeah, but it.

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Speaker 1: Feels like we're from the same page.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's good to know that information before we dial

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Speaker 2: this guy. And our listener, Donna, who's Jose's already searched

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Speaker 2: The way, I know it's hard to nail it down

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Speaker 2: meeting with a guy named Eric. It happened organically when

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Speaker 2: they were both at a food festival and they ended

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Speaker 1: Now he's not calling her back.

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Speaker 3: It was such a sweet interaction. It really felt genuine.

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Speaker 2: And the whole reason I bring up the honesty part

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Speaker 2: found out that she is a successful model on only fans.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing is, we all understand that that information

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Speaker 3: And if he brings it up, do you want us

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Speaker 3: to admit then that we already know Donna, or is

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Speaker 3: that something then you just want to talk to us?

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Speaker 1: Or do we lie and say that's not her? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You know, Actually I feel like I would like it

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Speaker 4: if I were to be the one to say it

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, if he knows it makes sense online fair

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Speaker 3: If he already knows, I mean.

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Speaker 1: Find out eventually if you ever talk about work, Willows.

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Speaker 2: You can always keep a secret life for twenty thirty

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Speaker 2: years before you have it. Yeah, so okay, he doesn't

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Speaker 2: have to know all the details.

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Speaker 1: But that's good advice.

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Speaker 2: It's really you, Johanna. This is your decision. We're just

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Speaker 2: gonna call Eric. We'll see if he answers the phone,

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Speaker 2: and then from that point on, we're just gonna roll

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, beautiful, all right, here we go.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial his number right now. Let's do this. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: we're looking to talk with Eric.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is Eric Crusis.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is a show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 2: the morning morning shows.

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Speaker 1: Here, I'm Jeffrey. You guys want to go around the

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Speaker 1: room and introduce yourself. Let's sound off. It's okay, Eric,

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Speaker 1: She's the fun one.

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Speaker 3: Why are you so awkward?

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Speaker 1: I want to hear him talk.

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Speaker 1: Her name's Donna.

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Speaker 3: Sounded like a cute date.

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Speaker 5: I guess if I had to sum it up, I

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Speaker 1: Well, it's not much more than that.

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Speaker 2: According to her, was the beer garden you went out

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Speaker 1: I thought it was.

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Speaker 3: Really sweet that you guys didn't drink again either, like

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Speaker 1: I don't know how that even happens. How do you

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Speaker 2: Comment, but you were saying that you got a different

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's I want to make it clear, she's a

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Speaker 5: She just kind of gave off goodie goodie vibes and

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Speaker 3: And you're really good at reading people, right, Yeah, I

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Speaker 5: And to be honest, she just seems a lot more

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think she's too innocent and you are like

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't mean like wild. I'm just looking for

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Speaker 3: An adventure right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there is a very adventurous woman on the other

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Speaker 2: sure if you could guess that girl would be Donna

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Speaker 2: no way, Oh yeah, really really Donna?

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Speaker 6: Are you there?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 6: Eric?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, are you dying on the inside? Donna?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Hey, Dona, I didn't know you were on the

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Speaker 5: You're such a kind girl, and I.

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Speaker 4: H no, I get it. I get it, and I

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Speaker 5: I mean, that's that's cool for you to say that.

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Speaker 5: And again, I think you're I think you're really cool.

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Speaker 5: But like, you can say that, but I don't know

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Speaker 4: You know, well, you can just trust me that I'm

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Speaker 6: Came off very shy.

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Speaker 4: But I don't say I.

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Speaker 6: Do have I'm experienced. I'm an experienced woman.

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Speaker 3: You do not have to say that.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 3: But she's obviously not shy. She called a radio station

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's pretty wild that she called the radio station.

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Speaker 5: But again, you sound innocent to me, and you're just

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I guess if you feel that way and

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Speaker 6: More than I guess, nice meeting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my god, I think that's a good choice. Donna.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Donna, Okay, I do too.

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Speaker 2: I think she should tell him like before before he

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Speaker 3: I mean, he is so certain who she is and

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Speaker 2: Well, fine, but at least before we go, I have

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Speaker 2: to ask Eric, would you like to go out with shy,

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Speaker 1: And we would pay for the date?

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Speaker 5: Uh? You know, again, it doesn't seem like a match.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 6: I mean, Eric, I think you made a mistake and

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't worry about it, Eric, You.

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Speaker 5: Know what, can somebody just tell me what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Not?

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Speaker 1: Sorry?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: He's gone. Sorry, Donald, we had to hang up on

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Speaker 4: I'm glad. I'm glad you did.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever had.

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Speaker 4: I can maybe see why he maybe thought that, but

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Speaker 1: I like, how hard for it he thought he was.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's just crazy.

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Speaker 1: I want to be there the day he finds out

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Speaker 2: It's probably the day that he listens to this podcast

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Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, the mistakes that I've made.

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Speaker 4: That was That's what got me.

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: We're getting a lot of text in seventy five nine

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Speaker 2: to two on this one, one says, think, I hope

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Speaker 2: Eric's listening right now and realizes he missed out on

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's right.

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Speaker 3: It's really a learning moment to not judge people so quickly.

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Speaker 2: Really, you know, yeah, don't judge a book by its

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Speaker 3: I don't think it was the cover that was the problem.

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Speaker 3: It's just like her attitude.

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Speaker 2: Another text says I've been trying to date an only

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Speaker 1: That guy's an idiot. Oh man.

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Speaker 1: She never revealed what she does to her for.

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Speaker 3: Any I I agree.

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Speaker 2: I thought this would be like Alexis going out with

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Speaker 2: it's like, you're not my type.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what are you doing.

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Speaker 3: She did not.

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Speaker 1: I think he knows now did.

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Speaker 3: She's just trying to get more subscribers.

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Speaker 1: Out of this.

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Speaker 2: She probably did. We're hoping to get a few more subscribers.

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Speaker 2: If you like the second.

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Speaker 1: Dates, you can always well yeah, one hundred percent. We

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Speaker 2: By the way, on YouTube, you can find us or

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Speaker 2: anywhere where you get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: and make sure. If you need help with your dating life,

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