1 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: I've never been laught of waiting by the phone. 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 2: It's the Fredshell. Hey, justin, good morning, welcome to the show. 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 3: How are you jayone of guys? 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: What's going on? 5 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:11,239 Speaker 3: How you doing well? 6 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 2: You gotta see us that's going on, because I guess 7 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 2: you think you're being ghosted by a woman named Nora. 8 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 2: So how did you meet Nora? Tell us about any 9 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 2: dates you've been on, and then where things are now? 10 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 2: All right? 11 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,479 Speaker 1: So I met her on the ass. You know, we 12 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 1: talked for a couple of weeks. Things were pretty good. 13 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: It was a really nice vibe. After a while, I 14 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: was just like, let's just do it. Let's just meet 15 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: up in person, let's just go for it. And she 16 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 1: was like, all right, sure, let's give a shot. And 17 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 1: we go out. We're planning to go out, and she 18 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: just doesn't show up. And I mean, I don't know 19 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: what happened. I mean, we were we made it, we 20 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: made a plan, we were going to go out and 21 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: have dinner. And I show up and she's not there, 22 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 1: and I call and she's not answering my messages, and 23 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I mean, I didn't do anything. 24 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: Wrong, Okay, So you want to know how you go 25 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 2: from like matching and chatting to planning a date, you 26 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 2: showing up and then she just doesn't come at all. Like, 27 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 2: you know, normally we hear stories about stuff that happened 28 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: on the date, you know, something that the person did 29 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 2: or said or whatever. But this is a story about 30 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 2: a date that really never happened, Like you got ghosted 31 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 2: before you even met. 32 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 3: So how could you have screwed that up? 33 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't get it. I mean I didn't 34 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: even get a chance to do anything wrong. 35 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: It's rude. I mean, that is a little puzzling. Kiki. 36 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 2: We've never heard this, well I shouldn't say we've never, 37 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 2: but I mean all the years. But normally it's it's, well, 38 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 2: I don't know why she didn't call me, and it's like, well, 39 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: because you know, I don't know where do I even begin. 40 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 2: I don't know why because you own an elephant. 41 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, but there's always a reason, or. 42 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 2: Or because you sleep in the same room with your 43 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 2: roommate with a sheet that separates you and you're forty. 44 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: I mean, you know, these are the kind of things 45 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 2: that we hear. But you never even met Nora in person, 46 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 2: So how could you possibly have screwed this up. I 47 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,279 Speaker 2: definitely didn't. I don't know what it could be. Okay, 48 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 2: no clue. All right, well, let's play a song. Come 49 00:01:58,720 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 2: back in a couple of minutes. We're gonna call nor 50 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 2: get her on the phone if we can, gonna ask 51 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: these questions. You'll be on the phone at the same time. 52 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 2: And the hope is that we can straighten this whole 53 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: thing out, and then I guess sets you up on 54 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 2: what would be a first date and pay for it. Okay, 55 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: all right, don't let's see what's going on. Part two 56 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 2: of waiting at the phone. He's right after Gracie abrams 57 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 2: back in two minutes, no move. 58 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 3: You gotta hear this. It's the Fred Show. 59 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 2: So Jeff, the single dad from Siergo yesterday, he's on 60 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 2: the show. We found him and he's on the show 61 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 2: in less than ten minutes. We're gonna get to the 62 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 2: bottom of this. We're gonna find out who was right. Shenanigans, 63 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 2: No Shenanigans, Hey, justin, Hey guys, all right, hey guys, smooth, 64 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 2: Hey guys, let's call Nora. You guys matched on an app, 65 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 2: you planned a date, you went to the date, right, 66 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: and then she didn't show up, and you haven't heard 67 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: from her since you've reached out. Hey, where are you? 68 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: I'm sure you reached out afterwards? What happened whatever? No 69 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 2: response from this person whatsoever? She matches with you and 70 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 2: agrees to go on a date and then doesn't come. 71 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 2: So what could you have possibly done? 72 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean I thought maybe something happened 73 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 1: to you, remember his action or something, but you know, nothing, 74 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 1: got a damn thing. 75 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 3: All right, Well, let's call Nora now, good luck? Justin h. 76 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 2: Hello, Hi is this Nora. Yeah, my name is Frek. Yeah, Hi, 77 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 2: my name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, 78 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 2: the morning radio show. I have to tell you that 79 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 2: we are on the radio right now. I would need 80 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: your permission to continue with the call. Can we chat 81 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: for just a second? 82 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 1: Okay? 83 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, Well, thank you very much. We're calling on 84 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 2: behalf of a dude named Justin. He says, uh, he 85 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 2: reached out to us. We just talked to him. He 86 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: says that he met you on one of the apps 87 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 2: and you guys planned a date that you then didn't 88 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 2: show up for. Do you remember matching with him and 89 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 2: all of this? 90 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I remember matching but I think it's 91 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 4: pretty obvious why my ghosted him. 92 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 2: Well, so he doesn't think so, because the way he 93 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 2: describes it to us is that you guys matched and 94 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 2: chatted and set up a date that he went on, 95 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 2: and then you didn't show up. So it's apparently not 96 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: obvious to him. 97 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 4: Wow, okay, so that's okay. 98 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 3: So that's what he said. Okay, well i'll see you 99 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: what happened? So, uh yeah, I matched with him. 100 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 4: I was excited, he was cute, he's funny. 101 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 3: We're gonna go grab drinks. 102 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 4: So I show up to the bar and I order 103 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 4: a drink. I'm waiting, Like fifteen minutes go by. I 104 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 4: get a text from him saying, oh, I'm going to 105 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 4: be a little late, but okay, whatever. Fine, So I'm 106 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 4: just waiting. 107 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 3: I'm waiting and waiting. 108 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 4: All of a sudden, he's an hour late, and so 109 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 4: I was like, okay, whatever. 110 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 3: Forget this. 111 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 4: I close out, I leave, I get home, and then 112 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 4: I get a text from him saying where are you 113 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 4: and I'm my babe, I'm in my pajapas. 114 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 3: I'm home. Okay, So you sat there for an hour. 115 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 2: He's still texting you that for an hour and then 116 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 2: you went home and we're able to like change your 117 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 2: clothes and get in bed. And then he said, what's 118 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,119 Speaker 2: all this dude was like ninety minutes late at least? 119 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, so and he expected you to sit there 120 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 3: away for him. I guess I. 121 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: Don't why, Well, let's ask him, because I forgot to 122 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: mention the justice here. I'm very forgetful. I get caught up, 123 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 2: and I'm just I forgot justin you did not mention 124 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 2: to us. See here, I was trying to defend you, like, 125 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:26,359 Speaker 2: what could you have possibly done? Well, I know, showed 126 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 2: up ninety minutes late to a date. How can you 127 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 2: expect someone to sit there? Then? 128 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: Well, first off, I told her I was gonna be late. 129 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,239 Speaker 1: And second I think it was like forty two minutes, 130 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 1: fifty fifty fifty seven minutes tough, like, it wasn't that bad. 131 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 1: And I told her I was going to be late. 132 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: I had a lot of other stuff going on. I 133 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:43,559 Speaker 1: had a close up meeting to have someone, the stuff 134 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: I had to do. I was really excited about the day. 135 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 3: And then she just told me she didn't even sat down, honey. 136 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 4: Just because you warned that you're going to be late. 137 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 4: Doesn't give you unlimited time. 138 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 2: That is, I cannot expect someone to sit there later. 139 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 4: What do you mean you had a lot of stuff 140 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 4: to do. I had a lot of stuck to do. 141 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 2: You can't expect someone to sit there for ninety minutes, 142 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 2: justin like, that's the length of the first day. 143 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: It wasn't. It wasn't ninety minutes. It wasn't ninety minutes. 144 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 1: Maybe sixty maybe like sixty four minutes, maybe something. 145 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 2: Well, sixty four, Well, if it had been sixty three, 146 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 2: I would be You can't make someone wait an hour. 147 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: That's so rude. You're trying to make a first impression. 148 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 3: You can't. You can't do that. 149 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: I wish I had a lot of. 150 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 4: This is I'm not wrong. 151 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: I'm not wrong. 152 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 3: Oh no, you are right wrong, dude. 153 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: I told her I was going to be late. 154 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it feel like I. 155 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: Just didn't say it. 156 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:39,799 Speaker 5: But you could of like push it back or even reschedule. 157 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 5: I know it sucks sometimes right to get hit with 158 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 5: the hey can we do another day? 159 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 2: Thing? 160 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 5: But if you know that you're busy, and trust me, 161 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 5: I'm miss busy to be okay, I'm the girl who 162 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 5: pretends to be busy. 163 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 3: All the time. 164 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 5: I just literally like scheduling my own stuff on my 165 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 5: own calendar, but I will make time to make sure 166 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 5: that I have enough time to travel, get there, sit down, 167 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 5: and then personally, yeah, the damn it. 168 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 3: You cannot. Okay, Paulina, you do it. You're famous for this. 169 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 2: Actually, Okay, so you got Kiki, Hey, Kaylen, you cannot 170 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 2: on it. Especially in a first date. You cannot show 171 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 2: up an hour late. You need to plan your day 172 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 2: justin around the fact this is a first date of 173 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 2: first impression. If you're five minutes late even, I think 174 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 2: that's you need to be as close to on time 175 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: as you can. And I'll also tell you this, if 176 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 2: you cancel a date within an hour or two of 177 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 2: a beginning, you can pretty much count on unless you 178 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 2: unless you get a really good reason and you're extremely 179 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 2: proactive about planning a second date. I think you can 180 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 2: also expect to not hear from the person again, because 181 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 2: you can't be like that, especially early on. 182 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 3: You can't waste people's time like that. 183 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: It's not my normal thing, Like it's not I don't 184 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: do this. You don't know that she didn't give me 185 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: a chance, so like she didn't give me a chance 186 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: for her to know me, to know that that's not 187 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: the Normala gave. 188 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 3: You sixty minutes, she gave you ninety minutes. 189 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 5: Do you know you have ninety minutes again again? 190 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: Sixty four minute stops. 191 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 3: Oh, I don't think that that bet that's a long time. 192 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 3: Even I would say, the fact. 193 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 4: That you're not apologetic shows that you do do this 194 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 4: all the time. 195 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're you're not backing off this, like you could 196 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 2: just easily say, you know, I screwed up, I screwed up, 197 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 2: I don't know, my day got away from me, traffic 198 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 2: was terrible, my car broke down. You could say a 199 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 2: lot of things, and you could you could ask for 200 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 2: forgiveness and maybe you got a shot. But you're sitting 201 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 2: here saying like, ah, I oh over an hour late? 202 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 2: Oh well no, No. 203 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: I didn't say, oh well, I said, and first of all, 204 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:27,679 Speaker 1: I said it was sixty four minutes. And then also 205 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: I said that it's not my normal thing. And also 206 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: I told her I'm not wrong. 207 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm there, right, are you? 208 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 5: Even if someone I knew had me waiting for an hour, 209 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,199 Speaker 5: like I'm pissed off, but I'm not waiting for that. 210 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 2: Long late means five ten minutes late does not mean 211 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 2: over an hour. And she's saying, and look, she's saying, 212 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 2: she sat there for an hour at least, and then 213 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 2: she went home and changed before you got it in 214 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 2: her bed, before you even texted. And this is I 215 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:56,319 Speaker 2: don't look, Nora. I'll ask the question. I know the answer. 216 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:57,839 Speaker 2: Would you like to go out with Justin? If he 217 00:08:57,920 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 2: shows up on time? We'll pay for it? 218 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 4: Uh? 219 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 3: There you go. What do you mean whatever? You're in 220 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 3: the wrong here, dude. 221 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,959 Speaker 2: I don't know why you're bragging about sixty ft, why 222 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 2: you're bragging about me? Can you see you're saying it 223 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 2: over and over again. You were over an hour late 224 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 2: for a date. That's a terrible first impression. I don't 225 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 2: know why you think you expected or why you think 226 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: you deserve another one, but you're not going to get it, 227 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 2: so it doesn't matter. Nora. Thank you for answering it 228 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 2: for your time. Justin, Good luck out there, show up 229 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 2: on time.