WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Boring Dude

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<v Speaker 1>an email from one of our listeners who said he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to apologize to us in advance for what's about

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<v Speaker 1>to happen in today's call. Oh no good. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what he did yet, but he's on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us, and his name. Tell me if I'm getting

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<v Speaker 1>this right, Is it jarm jarm Yeah? Well, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you need to apologize for making fun of his

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<v Speaker 1>name already, Jeffrey. I just want to make sure it's

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<v Speaker 1>a unique name. Yeah. Is it short for like Jarmonjelo? What? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually just short for Jarmond. Okay, name jarmandar. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's move past. So jarm you said you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>apologize to us in your email, So go ahead, go ahead?

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<v Speaker 1>What oh? Um? Yeah, so I wanted to apologize in advance. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but you do not accept Oh, I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>You're apologizing to us or to your date. I'm apologizing

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Why, Well, because I'm a fan of the

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<v Speaker 1>show and I listened to you guys. I listened to

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<v Speaker 1>the second date updates all the time. Oh, we hate that,

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, I mean, that's not why we do this

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Well, so the thing is that I hear

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<v Speaker 1>people talk about, you know, like wild and crazy things

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<v Speaker 1>that they do on their dates, and honestly, none of

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<v Speaker 1>that happened with me. So that's that's what I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to apologize for. How dare you're apologizing for colon

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<v Speaker 1>us with a boring story? We get all kinds of stories. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I would like your help. But it really

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<v Speaker 1>was just a regular old boring date. Okay, that's all right, John,

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you tell us the name of the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that you want us to call? Her name is Laurie. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and where'd you meet her? We met on a dating app,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, which I also got from the show. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys are always talking about that's a great way to

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<v Speaker 1>meet people. Yeah, I feel like it's already going to

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<v Speaker 1>turn out bad if you're taking data and advice from us,

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<v Speaker 1>But continue, Jarm, what did you and Lorie do? So? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I posted a picture and I know cool people call

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<v Speaker 1>it a pick, but she was the only person who

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<v Speaker 1>matched with me. Sorry, we thank you're cool man? Oh okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you. Welcome. We met at a restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to be safe, we had we had dinner, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was over okay. And what were the highlights there? Jarms?

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<v Speaker 1>You need a little bit more detail maybe, Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that's the problem because I pretty much just told

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<v Speaker 1>you the highlights okay. Really, so like the best thing

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<v Speaker 1>that happened is that you went to dinner and talked. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there was one possible thrilling moment. Oh okay, do tell um? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her staring at her fork, so I asked

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<v Speaker 1>if she was okay, and she said that she just

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<v Speaker 1>thought her fork was dirty. So I asked if I

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<v Speaker 1>could look at the fork, and then I looked at

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<v Speaker 1>the fork and it was a clean fork. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was It turned out it was clean. Ok that did

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<v Speaker 1>not happen. No, I'm serious, It really happened, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was close. I mean it was right on the line. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that was a water spot. Wasn't anything else. What was

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<v Speaker 1>her attitude like on the date? She was fine. I

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<v Speaker 1>did try to tell her some elephant jokes to light

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<v Speaker 1>in the mood. Oh can we hear can we hear one?

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<v Speaker 1>Try out material at us? Oh? Sure, yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell you one. Um okay. So one some hunters

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<v Speaker 1>were after an elephant and the elephant didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to do. So he met his friend Aunt on the

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<v Speaker 1>road and he told Aunt this problem that he had. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and Aunt said, don't worry, just hide behind me. You

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<v Speaker 1>get it, because he's small. Well the aunt small, right, right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So Jarm, did she crack up like we are? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Well not really. I did try a few more, but

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of gave up in the middle of my

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<v Speaker 1>fourth one. Oh she didn't seem to get it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't expect all these people that you date to

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<v Speaker 1>get the highbrow elephant humor made. I would say, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if she's not laughing at the first one, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>go to the fourth. But but Jarm's an optimist. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the date like? At the end, Jarm, we

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<v Speaker 1>just said good night, We shook hands and that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, sure, yeah, are you going to be upset

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<v Speaker 1>if that's the problem, Jarm. If she was just too

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<v Speaker 1>bored on the date, I mean, I guess I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>find it that out of the ordinary for me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not an exciting person, oh, Jody, I'm I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not something that I struggle with. I've

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<v Speaker 1>accepted it. I'm a pretty boring dude. Okay, Okay, Jarm,

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<v Speaker 1>We're not gonna let you be boring. Okay, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>pull through for you. Yeah, and this is pretty exciting

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<v Speaker 1>that you're doing this. Look at you. You're on the

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<v Speaker 1>rad You're stepping out of your comfort zone there, Jarm. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I've heard you guys work miracles before,

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<v Speaker 1>and considering she's the only person I matched up with,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought maybe you could work your magic here. We

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<v Speaker 1>got this job. We're gonna pull a miracle for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now. We're gonna play a song, come back, call

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<v Speaker 1>Laurie and get your second date update. Okay, Okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me hear you be really excited about it, Jarm,

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<v Speaker 1>I am, that was nuts. I am very well play

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<v Speaker 1>a song and do it after this. Hold on looking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. Second date update when he goes

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<v Speaker 1>on a hot date. He's home and in bed by

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<v Speaker 1>eight pm. His go to romantic move is to comment

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<v Speaker 1>on the cleanliness of your silverware. When he tells an

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<v Speaker 1>elephant joke, he tells four of them, all in a row.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the least boring man in the world, and his

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<v Speaker 1>name is jarm Jarm JARMI there, Yes, I'm here. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there he is. There's that intro for you. Jar Jarm

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<v Speaker 1>went out with a girl named Laurie, and he's worried

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<v Speaker 1>he may have been a little bit too boring on

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<v Speaker 1>his date. But Jarm, I don't believe you're boring. I

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<v Speaker 1>think there's something in your life that you're passionate about.

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<v Speaker 1>We just don't know it yet. Oh Um. When I

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<v Speaker 1>was fourteen, I had a stamp collection. Oh I also

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<v Speaker 1>had a stamp collection, Jarmu. We also had a sick

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<v Speaker 1>cat that Pete on the stamp collection. So, yes, you

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<v Speaker 1>are interesting, jarm. I love you and we never asked

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<v Speaker 1>you this. Have you actually tried reaching out to Laurie

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<v Speaker 1>yet or is this the first time? Um? I have.

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<v Speaker 1>She hasn't responded. Okay, And what did you like about her? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I like that we matched okay, Well the app alright,

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<v Speaker 1>the app mat she you're the only one that Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they both find each other attractive. That's a good start.

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<v Speaker 1>They sound perfect to me. Yeah. Well, technically she never

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<v Speaker 1>said that she thought I was attractive, but I can

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<v Speaker 1>verify that I think she is. Okay, alright, confirmed? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>jarn I feel like I'm gonna get the We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get the female version of you on the phone here

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<v Speaker 1>in about thirty seconds, let's find out. Okay, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call Laurie for you right now. Are you ready? I

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<v Speaker 1>am ready? Are you amped up? My palms are a

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<v Speaker 1>little sweaty, but please yeah, help me? All right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna die the number right now? Here we go? Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>how can I speak to Laurie? Please? Did she? Hey Laura?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing? This is young Jeffrey from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brooke and Jubil in the Morning. Um, him,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. How are you? Oh? You sound like you listen. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so funny because I just talked about this show

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<v Speaker 1>the other night. Oh what complaint blog? Were you on

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<v Speaker 1>this time? No? Um, I was talking about it with

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<v Speaker 1>a date who I'm now like suspicious might be actually

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<v Speaker 1>the one initiating this call. You're really good, Laurie. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the name of your date? Jarm? Did he ask you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to call me? Did so? Wait, you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about us? We were, Yeah. Was it a fun

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<v Speaker 1>conversation for you? Um? I mean he brought it up

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<v Speaker 1>the show that it's like something he listens to and

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<v Speaker 1>likes a lot, and so we were just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>talking about it, and I've definitely heard the show before,

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<v Speaker 1>but it sounds like he listens a lot. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>is that why you're not calling him back? Because he

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<v Speaker 1>listens to the show and he must be a terrible person. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. John told us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>your date, and he really likes you, and he's caught

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<v Speaker 1>onto the fact that you're not responding to him anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to know the reason why. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not that I am not responding. I just needed a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of time. That you're not responding way, that

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<v Speaker 1>means that you had actually thought about going out with

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<v Speaker 1>him again. Listen, the date was fun. He's like, really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got this kind of funny Michael Sarah vibe thing

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<v Speaker 1>going on. Oh my god, I could totally see that analogy. Actually, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was worried that he was too boring

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and it wasn't like a negative thing. He

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<v Speaker 1>knows fully very self aware of his boring level. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's funny. I like his sort of his personality

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<v Speaker 1>and his flatness. It's just I just was having some

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<v Speaker 1>kind of trouble processing weird thing that happened. Oh what

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<v Speaker 1>weird thing. I mean, it's really not even a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not like it's not his fault. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if he told you, guys, um that he was

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<v Speaker 1>telling some jokes. It's the table Oh yeah, yeah, elephant jokes.

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<v Speaker 1>We heard the one about the aunt. Yeah. Yeah. We

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get the other three that he told you, but

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<v Speaker 1>we heard the aunt one. Yeah. Well I didn't love

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<v Speaker 1>them because they weren't They weren't very funny. Is that why? No? No, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that I don't think he's funny. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>he couldn't have known. But I actually have some history

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<v Speaker 1>with elephants. Your X is an elephant. No, but my

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<v Speaker 1>uncle was actually just on a safari last year and

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<v Speaker 1>there was a pretty bad accident with an elephant. Oh, no. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like the first elephant joke he made, I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like avoid it and not really laugh at

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<v Speaker 1>it and just move on from it. I kept telling

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<v Speaker 1>he's elephant joke. Oh god, how would anyone know? Though? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did you tell him that you had an uncle that

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<v Speaker 1>had a running with an elephant? It sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>joke in it of itself. I mean, I know it's

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<v Speaker 1>not because being honestly, I know, I know it sounds crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, honestly, it was really traumatic and I wasn't,

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<v Speaker 1>like really still not ready to talk about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely didn't want to talk about it on the

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<v Speaker 1>first date. And I know it sounds crazy, but my

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<v Speaker 1>uncle was really hurt. I mean he's still recovering. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>he's okay. He didn't die, No, he's okay. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was a bad accident. Like either you don't think about

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<v Speaker 1>that as a possibility of happening. And it's just I

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<v Speaker 1>know he didn't mean to do it, but he just

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<v Speaker 1>kept harping on it. It was like picking up an

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<v Speaker 1>open wound, you know. Well, I feel like maybe Jarms

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<v Speaker 1>should know why you were not laughing and why you

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<v Speaker 1>were turned off by that, Like you never told that

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<v Speaker 1>to him. I didn't. You're right, I just wasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>ready to talk about it. Don't you think he has

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<v Speaker 1>a right to know though? That that's why I mean

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<v Speaker 1>eventually yeah, yeah, just don't like you. Yeah, everything else

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<v Speaker 1>is fine. It's just that one thing kept happening, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well more is about to happen because Jarm is actually

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and he's been listening this whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>What Yeah, he heard and he really wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>with you, Jarm. Wait, hold on, he's happening right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's been listening. Sorry, Oh, I just want to say

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<v Speaker 1>how sorry I am. I really I had no idea, hey, Jarm, Um, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, this is like I'm just a little cut

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<v Speaker 1>off guard. I wasn't really ready for this. Um. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you know, glor if you don't mind me asking, um,

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<v Speaker 1>was it an Indian elephant or an African bush elephant? What?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not important, Arm, it doesn't matter. I actually honestly

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know. It's kind of the it's the point,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, you know, sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>was just wondering because you know, I saw a Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>documentary about um. Anyway, it said that, Um, African bush

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<v Speaker 1>elephants are much more aggressive, so I was just curious.

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<v Speaker 1>And his jokes were definitely all about Indian elephants, so

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<v Speaker 1>he met no harm. Okay, Arm, just like an Indian

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<v Speaker 1>elephant wouldn't mean harm. You need to be focusing jarm

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<v Speaker 1>on her and her feelings right now. She had a

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<v Speaker 1>traumatic experience with elephants. Maybe try changing the subject, Jarm.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah again, Laurie, I'm I'm really sorry, um, and I

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? Can I can? I just ask was it

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<v Speaker 1>a kick or a trampoline? Trying to figure out about

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<v Speaker 1>the elephant attack Terma, Like, really doesn't matter what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of elephant was or how the accident happened. I really

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to keep rehashing that. Yeah, John, this doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like elephants CSI. We don't need to get to the

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<v Speaker 1>bottom of this case. We're trying to get back to

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<v Speaker 1>the date. Okay, Maybe driving you should concert on the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that she actually really liked you, Like that's brad Man,

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<v Speaker 1>Good for you. Your one match is a success. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>say something nice to Laurie about how you felt about her.

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<v Speaker 1>Good job, Laurie, I think you are beautiful. Oh what else?

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<v Speaker 1>And I really enjoy talking with you. And again, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if if elephants are no, no, go with

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<v Speaker 1>something else, Try something else. There's literally like an elephant

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<v Speaker 1>in the room, and it's like it really means it

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<v Speaker 1>this time. What I was going to say is if

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<v Speaker 1>elephants are a problem, we don't have to ever talk

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<v Speaker 1>about elephants again. Okay, that's insinuated. I think that's for

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<v Speaker 1>the best. Yeah, that would be great. I'm just not yet,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's still really really fresh. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally understand that, and I wouldn't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>feel uncomfortable. Okay, do you believe I'm Laurie. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think you could trust a guy like Jarn.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I really would like to. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>would be interested and seeing him again and talking to

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<v Speaker 1>him again. But I just we have to like agree

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<v Speaker 1>that we've got to take it easy on the elephant

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<v Speaker 1>specific talk for a while. Right in the meantime, if

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't mind letting me know if anyone in your

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<v Speaker 1>family had any sort of traumatic experience with zebras, because

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<v Speaker 1>I do know a lot about that species, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a good, good question. Zebras are safe. Jarms zebras are safe,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Okay, Well, I'm sensing some positivity here, so

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<v Speaker 1>with that in mind, we would like to offer to

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<v Speaker 1>send you and Jarm out on a date and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Jarm will not make any elephant jokes.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to hear the zebra jokes. So that

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<v Speaker 1>the yes is that he yes't say that I know

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<v Speaker 1>zebra jokes. I just said that I know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about the species, but I'll have to look up some

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<v Speaker 1>zebra jokes. But I'm okay. Well, there you go. He

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<v Speaker 1>can give you a PowerPoint presentation on the origins of

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<v Speaker 1>zebras and then throwing a joke. Would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>sign up for that? We'll pay for it. Sign me up.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to see the PowerPoint presentation. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why. I'm so shocked. I'm sorry, Jarn,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't mean to be so shocked, but holy hell, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm real. Hooray, where's thrilled for your jar? Congratulations