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Speaker 1: an email from one of our listeners who said he

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Speaker 1: wants to apologize to us in advance for what's about

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Speaker 1: to happen in today's call. Oh no good. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what he did yet, but he's on the phone

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Speaker 1: with us, and his name. Tell me if I'm getting

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Speaker 1: this right, Is it jarm jarm Yeah? Well, I feel

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Speaker 1: like you need to apologize for making fun of his

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Speaker 1: name already, Jeffrey. I just want to make sure it's

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Speaker 1: a unique name. Yeah. Is it short for like Jarmonjelo? What? Uh?

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Speaker 1: It's actually just short for Jarmond. Okay, name jarmandar. All right,

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Speaker 1: let's move past. So jarm you said you wanted to

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Speaker 1: apologize to us in your email, So go ahead, go ahead?

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Speaker 1: What oh? Um? Yeah, so I wanted to apologize in advance. Um,

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Speaker 1: You're apologizing to us or to your date. I'm apologizing

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Speaker 1: to you. Why, Well, because I'm a fan of the

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Speaker 1: show and I listened to you guys. I listened to

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Speaker 1: the second date updates all the time. Oh, we hate that,

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Speaker 1: You're right, I mean, that's not why we do this

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Speaker 1: at all. Well, so the thing is that I hear

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Speaker 1: us with a boring story? We get all kinds of stories. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just I would like your help. But it really

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Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us the name of the girl

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Speaker 1: that you want us to call? Her name is Laurie. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and where'd you meet her? We met on a dating app,

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Speaker 1: all right, which I also got from the show. You

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Speaker 1: meet people. Yeah, I feel like it's already going to

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Speaker 1: turn out bad if you're taking data and advice from us,

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Speaker 1: But continue, Jarm, what did you and Lorie do? So? Well?

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Speaker 1: I posted a picture and I know cool people call

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Speaker 1: matched with me. Sorry, we thank you're cool man? Oh okay, well,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. Welcome. We met at a restaurant,

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Speaker 1: you know, to be safe, we had we had dinner, yes,

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Speaker 1: and it was over okay. And what were the highlights there? Jarms?

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Speaker 1: there was one possible thrilling moment. Oh okay, do tell um? Well,

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Speaker 1: was It turned out it was clean. Ok that did

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Speaker 1: in about thirty seconds, let's find out. Okay, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: call Laurie for you right now. Are you ready? I

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna die the number right now? Here we go? Hello,

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Speaker 1: how can I speak to Laurie? Please? Did she? Hey Laura?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing? This is young Jeffrey from the

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Speaker 1: I'm good. How are you? Oh? You sound like you listen. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's so funny because I just talked about this show

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Speaker 1: this time? No? Um, I was talking about it with

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Speaker 1: guys to call me? Did so? Wait, you guys were

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Speaker 1: listens to the show and he must be a terrible person. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: It's not important, Arm, it doesn't matter. I actually honestly

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Speaker 1: And his jokes were definitely all about Indian elephants, so

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Speaker 1: he met no harm. Okay, Arm, just like an Indian

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Speaker 1: don't want to keep rehashing that. Yeah, John, this doesn't

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Speaker 1: Good for you. Your one match is a success. Maybe

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Speaker 1: Good job, Laurie, I think you are beautiful. Oh what else?

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Speaker 1: And I really enjoy talking with you. And again, I'm

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Speaker 1: you know, if if elephants are no, no, go with

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Speaker 1: I do know a lot about that species, that is

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Speaker 1: a good, good question. Zebras are safe. Jarms zebras are safe,

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Speaker 1: pay for it. Jarm will not make any elephant jokes.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear the zebra jokes. So that

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Speaker 1: zebra jokes. But I'm okay. Well, there you go. He

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Speaker 1: zebras and then throwing a joke. Would you like to

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Speaker 1: sign up for that? We'll pay for it. Sign me up.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to see the PowerPoint presentation. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I'm so shocked. I'm sorry, Jarn,

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Speaker 1: but I don't mean to be so shocked, but holy hell, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm real. Hooray, where's thrilled for your jar? Congratulations