WEBVTT - It’s Complicated

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effects.

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<v Speaker 2>College punk Bubba's fucks that that really needs to be

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<v Speaker 2>my ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Like y'all don't remember Bubba spokes yes, bitch, Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 2>Who all right?

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<v Speaker 3>He lost sweet too?

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<v Speaker 2>He did? I haven't seen Let me see Bubba s

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<v Speaker 2>fucks real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know this is this is not the usual intro,

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<v Speaker 1>but something just came over me when she pressed the record,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like college punk Bubba spucks brown. Alright,

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<v Speaker 1>let me see, let me see lord sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, oh yeah, he did lose weight. He's just

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<v Speaker 2>a black girl to damn damn Bubba. He do look good,

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<v Speaker 2>oh baby beard. Though these guys ship right here and

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<v Speaker 2>white certain white man.

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<v Speaker 3>I am to like when Travis she was doing Kayla.

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<v Speaker 1>Fine, yeah right, but wow, his own kin, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he looks like one of his own. Like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>see how I was attracted. Travis used to be a fine.

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<v Speaker 3>I had swag, all that swag, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Haircut that even his skin looked a little tanner.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't wait for she pops out with next, because

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<v Speaker 4>you can't wait to see who what Kayla pop up next?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I think she's why good. She's flying to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she said certain remarks I didn't like.

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<v Speaker 2>But like what.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a few things that she said I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like either, I'm not pop up with somebody else.

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<v Speaker 4>I just thought I just when I seen her before,

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<v Speaker 4>I thought she seemed like a cool person. You heard

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<v Speaker 4>her talk, but like, I think she still beautiful girl.

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<v Speaker 4>But for sure, she is definitely gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Like when she was wish some Colledge show, Okay, because

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to interview. What she said, Well, she

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<v Speaker 4>was just kind of and actually should I guess big

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<v Speaker 4>herself up.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's just how it came off real.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm better.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But the Cameron actually said something about that.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, you can be the most beautiful girl,

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<v Speaker 1>but your attitude makes you ugly.

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<v Speaker 2>And I didn't like her after that interview. Yeah that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's literally what she said. I fucked with that.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I be doing, I'll be fixing messy on

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<v Speaker 1>We got semester day. This actually is one of my

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<v Speaker 1>family members, right, And she didn't want to I know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy. She didn't want to write me a story.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just talking. We were just talking about it

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<v Speaker 1>and one of my family gatherings that we had over

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<v Speaker 1>spring break and we were talking about it, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she asked me. Yeah, because I was like, well, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you just gonna come on my podcast? And she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, bitch, no, I'm not coming on. Just go

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<v Speaker 1>and tell a story. Act like I wrote it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I can't act like you just write it.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, no, just just talk about it like

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about it now. Tell him about the ship,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you help me fix it. I said, all right, Taylor,

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<v Speaker 1>gonna help you too. She was like, she can't help me.

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<v Speaker 2>She don't have kids yet.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I am about to have a child.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but I guarantee you this shits so ghetto.

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<v Speaker 2>You've never been through this. So she knows that.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's like, no, Taylor is not Taylor is very

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<v Speaker 1>cookie cutter. She's never been through this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, fine, I'll take it exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you will, So listen, this is ghetto, Taylor.

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<v Speaker 2>So my cousin, right, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Should tell him your name, bitch, because I told you

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<v Speaker 1>to write me a story. Now I gotta fucking remember everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Should say something anyway, Kelsey right.

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<v Speaker 4>Out.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we call a cow when she's right on Glennovera

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<v Speaker 1>and Baltimore. Listen, you'll no because she's a fucking clawn. Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>fucking write me anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, it's just said.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So he's in a relationship right with this guy. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy's cool. He's been around us, he's been around

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<v Speaker 1>I've met him Baltimore was small, so I knew him before,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know, I knew him from around Baltimore before,

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<v Speaker 1>but he wasn't always with my cousin. This shit right now,

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga is known in the city too. Like, he

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of kids, just like my baby father.

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<v Speaker 1>Each kid got their own mother. He got like he

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<v Speaker 1>got seven kids with six baby mothers because he alright,

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<v Speaker 1>his first two kids are about the same woman.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. Yeah, there we go.

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<v Speaker 1>And him and my cousin been together for about six months,

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<v Speaker 1>but they were already they were fucking with each other

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<v Speaker 1>before they made it official.

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<v Speaker 2>They were fucking with each other on it off for

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<v Speaker 2>like the year. Right. So this is the thing. She

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<v Speaker 2>my cousin got kids too.

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<v Speaker 1>Her kids is by one She got three girls, her

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<v Speaker 1>kids by one guy, right, now, when she met this nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>her baby father had a problem with him, Like now,

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't with her baby father, but they got engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>Her her baby father was engaged and she ended up

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<v Speaker 1>leaving him because he had cheated and all of that ship.

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<v Speaker 2>So they never made it down the oist. But that's

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<v Speaker 2>the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>She lived in his house and she ended up finding

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<v Speaker 1>condoms and all that type of ship and everything, and

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<v Speaker 1>she picked up and left while this nigga was at

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<v Speaker 1>work and she left. She never even came back. They

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<v Speaker 1>like she was for like two and a half years.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she she left, and she she didn't talk to

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga at all, and he's not really his daughter's

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<v Speaker 1>lives like that. Like she just was like yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>when she cut niggas off, she cut Yes, she had

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<v Speaker 1>her birthdays.

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<v Speaker 2>Makes that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Right after I knew that's something I would do, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, yep, ye see Taylor can't help you dumb, So.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I wouldn't still I want to have like

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<v Speaker 4>I would cut him off. But trigging with the yeah

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<v Speaker 4>they had kids already, Yeah, that's all right, was like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And one, two or three, you got three girls with

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga, and she is so primed.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, I'm gonna take yo.

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<v Speaker 1>She was going through, going through and having the work,

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<v Speaker 1>put all three of the girls in like daycare, in.

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<v Speaker 2>School, going to do it on her own just because

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<v Speaker 2>she likes she just I held you that right. She

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I should have set the fuck house some

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<v Speaker 2>fire everything.

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<v Speaker 1>That, but she didn't and that do you know that

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<v Speaker 1>nigga because she wouldn't take him back, decided not. He

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<v Speaker 1>won't go ahead, nothing to do with the kids, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was crazy and she was like, okay, got you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need I don't need you for shit.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know it was hard for her, but she

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<v Speaker 1>once she once she left the house, she knew, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not coming back.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not even allowing him back. So that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But they recently like he started coming around for the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>like after like a year or so, so he's in

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<v Speaker 1>their lives, but not really like he needed to be

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<v Speaker 1>and not enough or whatever. Right, so now she's dating

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<v Speaker 1>this new nigga who is known as a chronic cheater

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<v Speaker 1>all around the motherfucking city. And it got word got

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<v Speaker 1>back to baby Daddy. So baby Daddy was like, of

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<v Speaker 1>all nigga that you can deal with. You're gonna deal with, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know what I put you through.

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<v Speaker 2>Blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want that nigga around my girls. So yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but like this nigga has drama. Baby Mama's okay, like

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<v Speaker 1>all of them from Baltimore to like niggas. No, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the point of this is how popular he is.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody in Baltimore is gonna figure out who the fuck

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about, Like my my, like Baltimore listens to

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<v Speaker 1>kV Rects, I guarantee you, I'm gonna get feedback like, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about him?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm gonna be like, yeah, bitch, you know you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And more than like yeah, bitch, I'm fucking you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like yeah, Like he actively cheats

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<v Speaker 1>on my cousin And I'm like, bitch, if you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>take it from your big father, why the fuck is

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<v Speaker 1>you allowing this nigga to do it?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? Hold up?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold up, I know this shit getting good, but listen

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<v Speaker 1>to just a couple seconds of a commercial.

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<v Speaker 2>If you love me, you'll listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why, but this nigga just purpose to her,

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<v Speaker 1>the boyfriend, like, yeah, he just proposed to her, but

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<v Speaker 1>this is the crazy thing.

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<v Speaker 2>He proposed to her, like.

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<v Speaker 1>A few weeks ago, but a few weeks before that,

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<v Speaker 1>she caught him cheating, you know what I mean. And

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<v Speaker 1>then you way you get around the family and shit

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<v Speaker 1>and her and her daughters, and mind you he takes

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<v Speaker 1>care of like he loves her daughters, like he takes

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<v Speaker 1>care of her daughters, and he takes care of his kids.

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<v Speaker 1>He definitely getting money. He one of them niggas in

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<v Speaker 1>the streets. But like the thing is is like so

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<v Speaker 1>all together they got ten kids, right, I know. Now

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<v Speaker 1>he has custody of four of them because for the

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<v Speaker 1>baby mothers is schizophrenic, bipolar, like yeah he yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why they're so that's why they're drama. Like one

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<v Speaker 1>of his baby mother's locked up. Yeah, one is in

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<v Speaker 1>a rehabs Like now, I don't know, but I was

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, it just sounds good. It sounds like and

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<v Speaker 1>go with the story. But no, no, no, all them

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<v Speaker 1>bitches is drawn. Everything is street with the rehab shit

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Yeah, like so it's straight drama.

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<v Speaker 2>But my cousin. She he proposed to her.

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<v Speaker 1>This bitch said yes, right because she didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>embarrass him. But and I went to that, we had

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<v Speaker 1>a family gather and you know, a couple of days

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<v Speaker 1>after and shit, and she come, bitch, look what I

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<v Speaker 1>got showing me the ring?

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<v Speaker 2>She like, yeah, you know, I show her my ring

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<v Speaker 2>and shit.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, you said yeah, and you just tell

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<v Speaker 1>me like he just cheated on you caught it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and you've caught him how many times? And you'll only

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<v Speaker 1>been together for six months, bitch, and you don't caught

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<v Speaker 1>like more bitches than monce y'all been together, Like that's crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Like you caught him, that's that many times.

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<v Speaker 1>And so she was just like, yeah, bitch, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to embarrass him. I didn't, I said, So you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mean to say yes. So I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>say yes.

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<v Speaker 2>I meant what.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean what I said. I just didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>he proposed in front of everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Bitch, then if you don't already want.

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<v Speaker 1>To So she don't know how well, two things. She

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what she want to do, right, Kelsey, She

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what she want to do?

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<v Speaker 2>And also she don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know how to tell him that she not ready. She

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<v Speaker 1>thinks he needs more time because she was like, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna be mad.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, is it gonna beat on you?

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<v Speaker 1>You say, bitch, no with women, Okay, cool, So if

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<v Speaker 1>you're not in fear of your life, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>got to worry about being punched or anything, but just

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<v Speaker 1>sit down and tell.

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<v Speaker 4>That nigga alshow being engaged in me or getting married

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<v Speaker 4>the next day either though.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that, Taylor, but no, I'm not ready to say, yeah, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you was just literally like and she's.

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<v Speaker 2>Not a crier, so I'm not gonna say she was

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<v Speaker 2>literally crying to me.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm the one that got to listen to the

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<v Speaker 1>shit every fucking time she catches it caause this is

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite cousins.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. She my older cousin.

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<v Speaker 1>Too, So like, bitch, what, No, you just told me

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<v Speaker 1>he cheated on you with this bitch and this bitch

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<v Speaker 1>called your phone because he's been spending the night at

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<v Speaker 1>her house.

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<v Speaker 2>She told me, I can tell this put by the

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<v Speaker 2>way too. Just don't.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm just saying, did she want to be with

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<v Speaker 3>him or.

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<v Speaker 2>She or any of the bitch's names. Huh.

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<v Speaker 3>Did she want to be with him?

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<v Speaker 1>She did, she want to be with him, but she

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to marry him.

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<v Speaker 2>But he's paying for the house, he's paying for the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also think because knowing who my cousin is,

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<v Speaker 1>she's always been the type of person that's been like

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<v Speaker 1>taken care of, like she's a captain bitch like she

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<v Speaker 1>she's a keep up bitch, like you know, not a

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<v Speaker 1>kept up bitch like men have to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>keep up with her lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and he pays for it all.

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<v Speaker 4>And mind you, but what she does, she but just

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<v Speaker 4>not bad enough to be one.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever saying does she love him for what?

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<v Speaker 2>Then?

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<v Speaker 3>Like you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like she said, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>More than just money, because she used to be a

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<v Speaker 1>money hungry gold digg in his house. But yeah, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just really that's how we talk to each other too.

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<v Speaker 1>Want that's time we talking about each other, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, she she used to be that. And and

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<v Speaker 1>after having her last two daughters, she she started taking

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<v Speaker 1>herself and her life way more seriously than she was

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<v Speaker 1>taking it.

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<v Speaker 4>Like my cousin used to do, like take any type

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<v Speaker 4>of abuse for money, like what you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, Like her dating history is not good, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>why we didn't see this coming.

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<v Speaker 2>With her babyfather.

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<v Speaker 1>Her beefall was actually one of the best guys that

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<v Speaker 1>she was with, but he started cheating before a while,

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<v Speaker 1>like he was great, like and then he just started

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<v Speaker 1>cheating or whatever. But but she's never been a cheater, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>she never cheated on nobody. She And when I say like,

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<v Speaker 1>go digging ass her, I mean like she wasn't in

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<v Speaker 1>relationships with niggas, like but couldn't nobody talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>unless she was getting something out of it, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. So that's when I say when I

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<v Speaker 1>say he like, I don't mean like she was cheating

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship cheating, She just had a roster of niggas,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So she said, she said she do love him.

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<v Speaker 1>She said she wants to you know, she don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to leave him, but she don't want to marry him.

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<v Speaker 2>She don't think he's ready to get married.

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<v Speaker 1>But she said she honestly felt like he proposed because

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<v Speaker 1>she forgave him too quickly. And so he feels like

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<v Speaker 1>this my ride or diabage, just my damn bitch, and

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<v Speaker 1>he did tell her. She said he did tell her

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<v Speaker 1>instead of apologizing, because he's never apologized for fucking cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>All he all he does is get like is point

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<v Speaker 1>out thing is All he does is point out shit

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<v Speaker 1>that he don't like and try to like make reasons

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<v Speaker 1>like I did while I'm out here doing me because

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<v Speaker 1>you was like, or because when I come home sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you don't feel like fucking me, or when I you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, or like I don't know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just it's just weird shit. Then he complains about like

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<v Speaker 1>how her daughters are now, my little cousins are very disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 2>Is no, it's been no father figure.

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<v Speaker 1>Around for a while, and she kind of do let

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<v Speaker 1>that big one and that the middle my middle baby,

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<v Speaker 1>My middle little cousin very respectful, my oldest, her oldest

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<v Speaker 1>daughter and her baby very they talk back. They disrespectful,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, ain't none of my kids like this?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>So he kind of like criticizes her about her parenting

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<v Speaker 1>and like, and he says, if I'm gonna be living

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<v Speaker 1>here and I'm paying all the fucking bills, they're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>respect me and they're going to treat me like Dad

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<v Speaker 1>they gotta call me daddy, but they gonna treat me

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<v Speaker 1>as if I'm their father.

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<v Speaker 2>They're gonna fucking respect me, like you gotta. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, I think you should start physically disciplining them.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't. She never hit her girls, like she you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's like, but she like, Yo, you want you

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<v Speaker 1>want to all of this, but you cheating on me.

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<v Speaker 1>You not even doing everything you're supposed to do. Like

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<v Speaker 1>because she cares more, she cares more about just the money.

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<v Speaker 1>But she also that is also a big factor. Went

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<v Speaker 1>back in the day, that was the only only fucking factor.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but they live together for how long?

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<v Speaker 2>Six months?

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>They lived He moved.

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<v Speaker 1>In literally like I mean now he moved in, He

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<v Speaker 1>moved there, like they got a place together. He got

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<v Speaker 1>a place for them.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>They moved together like before they made it officials. So

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<v Speaker 1>because they already knew they was gonna make it official.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that she knew he had a roster of bitches.

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<v Speaker 1>She already That's why she was sucking with him on

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<v Speaker 1>and off for a year. Somebody you kept going in

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<v Speaker 1>my ad yeah, bitch here street nigga, and he got bitches.

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<v Speaker 1>So he and you want days, it's convenient for him.

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<v Speaker 1>He did that for a whole year, and then she

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<v Speaker 1>asked him. She gave him the ultimatum, you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>with me or you're not because I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, all right, let's make it happen. You

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<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, and then he got the house, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's that if you love me, you'll listen to this

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<v Speaker 1>commercial and then we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, like I said that, I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>They're not even get married right away. So she's said

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<v Speaker 4>it's a growing relationship. Do you think he can get

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<v Speaker 4>over her cheating? You think she can get over him cheating?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think does she think that he will stop cheating?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Never, No, I know he won't stop cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I know this nigga, Like no, no, no, the

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<v Speaker 1>nigga's my fucking homeboy.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, like I know him, But why isn't it

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<v Speaker 2>is not more something deeper than no I know?

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<v Speaker 1>Now listen, it's another thing. I know he loved my cousin,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah he does. He loves her, but his type, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he can't be with one person, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what she wants now.

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<v Speaker 2>At first, she didn't give a fuck about any of that.

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<v Speaker 1>As long as the nigga was paying bills for her,

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<v Speaker 1>she was getting money out of him, she didn't give

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<v Speaker 1>a fuck. But now my cousin is like, she want

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<v Speaker 1>a fam like she want that househol because she wants

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<v Speaker 1>more kids. Oh and the bitch pregnant. Yeah, she ain't

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<v Speaker 1>tell me I can say that part, but she is.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. She text me like, bitch, how you gonna give

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<v Speaker 2>me the whole meal?

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<v Speaker 4>But I can't put the chart onside pregnant. I know,

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I know, I know it, I know it

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<v Speaker 4>just put everything that she was raising.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a total different gear, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>But not necessarily, I would say.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, now it's more complicated too, because now you

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<v Speaker 4>have a better have another father for your child. But

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<v Speaker 4>like it's clear the type of guy she's going for,

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<v Speaker 4>is it, Like, yeah, you can find a guy that's

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<v Speaker 4>not always in the streets and still takes care of you. Yeah, Well, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I believe that you can't find a god that's not

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<v Speaker 4>in the street sector.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I do believe that. However, why it's still early.

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<v Speaker 3>Why it's early coming.

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<v Speaker 1>She missed the period last month. She yeah, so she

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<v Speaker 1>literally and he knows, no, she ain't telling us, Yeah, god, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell him this yet.

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<v Speaker 1>But he do love kids and he ain't no cap

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<v Speaker 1>on the amount of kids that this nigga want to have,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he don't care. He's one of them, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Like, why would you say yes? And she

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<v Speaker 1>also feels like he ain't ever proposed to nobody before.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but she's worried about the wrong things say, even

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<v Speaker 3>when you were.

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<v Speaker 2>Like she's she don't want to get married, but she

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<v Speaker 2>was really excited to show you the ring be w Yeah, idea,

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<v Speaker 2>she likes the idea of being a wife and being kept.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a lot that goes on.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you want to be Miss Tasha Saint Patrick,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how that story ends. Tasha was in jail

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<v Speaker 1>and fucking ghost. God, they stop dealing with these street niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody know this niggas.

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<v Speaker 1>This nigga's a big ass target people and being my friend,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I know that, like you, I don't want my

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<v Speaker 1>my family dealing with none of that shit.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's like one of my favorite cousins. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>really hard.

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<v Speaker 1>But she did want me to come on here and

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<v Speaker 1>like shed light on what she going through, her story and.

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<v Speaker 2>Shit like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I really want my girl to be straight,

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<v Speaker 1>like I want her to be all right, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because it's so much good about him,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's so much bad about him. I think she

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<v Speaker 1>also has to look more inside herself, right and understand

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<v Speaker 1>what's your word? Like what are you okay with? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yo, how you gonna make such a great

0:19:50.160 --> 0:19:53.440
<v Speaker 1>boss ass bitch move like you had your dignity when

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<v Speaker 1>you left them girls?

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<v Speaker 4>Dad?

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<v Speaker 1>You found that he cheated once, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>But he cheated in the you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>So because she found condoms like yeah, okay, you know

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<v Speaker 1>she found a condom like rapper that nigga. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a condom rapper and the condom was not far from

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<v Speaker 1>the rapper.

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<v Speaker 4>You also, Slobby, how far apart was this relationship versus.

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<v Speaker 1>She left our baby father like three years ago? So

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<v Speaker 1>it still ain't been that that motherfucking loan. You get

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. She left him three years ago. But

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<v Speaker 1>and she been dealing with this nigga for a year

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<v Speaker 1>and a half.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, I don't know, I don't know. It's very early.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm sorry. I think she should get an abortion.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did. I mean, I'm sorry, just not. I

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<v Speaker 1>think so, you know, And I also feel as if.

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<v Speaker 2>She should, she should leave that nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>Y you're not You're not the girl I used to be.

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<v Speaker 1>No more, you're not her. No more, like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>just give a fuck about money. You got three girls

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<v Speaker 1>looking yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>That two three girls, and you know it's more important things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, she's not and understand what a relationship and marriage

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<v Speaker 2>is like.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't just be excited for the ring.

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<v Speaker 2>No, for sure, That's what I'm saying. So it's not

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<v Speaker 2>a conversation. I love you so much, cousin. I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Kelsey on Glenola and Baltimore. All Just like that, we've

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<v Speaker 1>come to yet the end of another Canful Bakfast episode

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<v Speaker 1>with your girl just hilarious and my girl tailor.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all stay by the tailor, Tailor, stay by just like

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<v Speaker 2>that piece. We'll see you next week.

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