1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,119 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: and the Black Effects. 3 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: College punk Bubba's fucks that that really needs to be 4 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 2: my ship. 5 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: Like y'all don't remember Bubba spokes yes, bitch, Oh my god? 6 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: Who all right? 7 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 3: He lost sweet too? 8 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 2: He did? I haven't seen Let me see Bubba s 9 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 2: fucks real quick. 10 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know this is this is not the usual intro, 11 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: but something just came over me when she pressed the record, 12 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: and it was like college punk Bubba spucks brown. Alright, 13 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: let me see, let me see lord sweet. 14 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, he did lose weight. He's just 15 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 2: a black girl to damn damn Bubba. He do look good, 16 00:00:55,080 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: oh baby beard. Though these guys ship right here and 17 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: white certain white man. 18 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 3: I am to like when Travis she was doing Kayla. 19 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: Fine, yeah right, but wow, his own kin, you know, 20 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,199 Speaker 1: he looks like one of his own. Like, I don't 21 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: see how I was attracted. Travis used to be a fine. 22 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 3: I had swag, all that swag, the. 23 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 2: Haircut that even his skin looked a little tanner. 24 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 4: I can't wait for she pops out with next, because 25 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 4: you can't wait to see who what Kayla pop up next? 26 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 3: Yes, I think she's why good. She's flying to me. 27 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 3: I mean, she said certain remarks I didn't like. 28 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 2: But like what. 29 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: It was a few things that she said I didn't 30 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: like either, I'm not pop up with somebody else. 31 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 4: I just thought I just when I seen her before, 32 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 4: I thought she seemed like a cool person. You heard 33 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 4: her talk, but like, I think she still beautiful girl. 34 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 4: But for sure, she is definitely gorgeous. 35 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 2: For sure. 36 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 4: Like when she was wish some Colledge show, Okay, because 37 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 4: I don't want to interview. What she said, Well, she 38 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 4: was just kind of and actually should I guess big 39 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 4: herself up. 40 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 3: But it's just how it came off real. 41 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 2: Like I'm better. 42 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like that. 43 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 2: But the Cameron actually said something about that. 44 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: He was like, you can be the most beautiful girl, 45 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: but your attitude makes you ugly. 46 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 2: And I didn't like her after that interview. Yeah that's 47 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 2: that's literally what she said. I fucked with that. 48 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: But what I be doing, I'll be fixing messy on 49 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: We got semester day. This actually is one of my 50 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: family members, right, And she didn't want to I know, 51 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: it's crazy. She didn't want to write me a story. 52 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: She was just talking. We were just talking about it 53 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: and one of my family gatherings that we had over 54 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: spring break and we were talking about it, and yeah, 55 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: she asked me. Yeah, because I was like, well, why 56 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: are you just gonna come on my podcast? And she 57 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: was like, bitch, no, I'm not coming on. Just go 58 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: and tell a story. Act like I wrote it to you. 59 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't act like you just write it. 60 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: She was like, no, just just talk about it like 61 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 1: we're talking about it now. Tell him about the ship, 62 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:10,839 Speaker 1: and then you help me fix it. I said, all right, Taylor, 63 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: gonna help you too. She was like, she can't help me. 64 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 2: She don't have kids yet. 65 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 3: I said, I am about to have a child. 66 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 2: I know, but I guarantee you this shits so ghetto. 67 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 2: You've never been through this. So she knows that. 68 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: So she's like, no, Taylor is not Taylor is very 69 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 1: cookie cutter. She's never been through this. 70 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 71 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 3: I mean, fine, I'll take it exactly. 72 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 2: I know you will, So listen, this is ghetto, Taylor. 73 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 2: So my cousin, right, I. 74 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: Should tell him your name, bitch, because I told you 75 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: to write me a story. Now I gotta fucking remember everything. 76 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: Should say something anyway, Kelsey right. 77 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 4: Out. 78 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 2: I don't care. 79 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, we call a cow when she's right on Glennovera 80 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 1: and Baltimore. Listen, you'll no because she's a fucking clawn. Yo, 81 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: fucking write me anyway. 82 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 2: She's like, it's just said. 83 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: Okay, So he's in a relationship right with this guy. Now, 84 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: the guy's cool. He's been around us, he's been around 85 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: I've met him Baltimore was small, so I knew him before, 86 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: Like you know, I knew him from around Baltimore before, 87 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: but he wasn't always with my cousin. This shit right now, 88 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: this nigga is known in the city too. Like, he 89 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: got a lot of kids, just like my baby father. 90 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: Each kid got their own mother. He got like he 91 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: got seven kids with six baby mothers because he alright, 92 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: his first two kids are about the same woman. 93 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Yeah, there we go. 94 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: And him and my cousin been together for about six months, 95 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 1: but they were already they were fucking with each other 96 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: before they made it official. 97 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 2: They were fucking with each other on it off for 98 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 2: like the year. Right. So this is the thing. She 99 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 2: my cousin got kids too. 100 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: Her kids is by one She got three girls, her 101 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: kids by one guy, right, now, when she met this nigga, 102 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: her baby father had a problem with him, Like now, 103 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 1: she wasn't with her baby father, but they got engaged. 104 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: Her her baby father was engaged and she ended up 105 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 1: leaving him because he had cheated and all of that ship. 106 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 2: So they never made it down the oist. But that's 107 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 2: the thing. 108 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: She lived in his house and she ended up finding 109 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 1: condoms and all that type of ship and everything, and 110 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: she picked up and left while this nigga was at 111 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 1: work and she left. She never even came back. They 112 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: like she was for like two and a half years. 113 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: Like she she left, and she she didn't talk to 114 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: this nigga at all, and he's not really his daughter's 115 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 1: lives like that. Like she just was like yeah, because 116 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: when she cut niggas off, she cut Yes, she had 117 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 1: her birthdays. 118 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 2: Makes that's crazy. 119 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 3: Right after I knew that's something I would do, I. 120 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 2: Was like, yep, ye see Taylor can't help you dumb, So. 121 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 4: I mean I wouldn't still I want to have like 122 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 4: I would cut him off. But trigging with the yeah 123 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 4: they had kids already, Yeah, that's all right, was like that. 124 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:02,919 Speaker 1: And one, two or three, you got three girls with 125 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: this nigga, and she is so primed. 126 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 2: She was like, I'm gonna take yo. 127 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: She was going through, going through and having the work, 128 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: put all three of the girls in like daycare, in. 129 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 2: School, going to do it on her own just because 130 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 2: she likes she just I held you that right. She 131 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 2: was like, I should have set the fuck house some 132 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 2: fire everything. 133 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 1: That, but she didn't and that do you know that 134 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: nigga because she wouldn't take him back, decided not. He 135 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: won't go ahead, nothing to do with the kids, and 136 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: that was crazy and she was like, okay, got you. 137 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 2: I don't need I don't need you for shit. 138 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 1: So I know it was hard for her, but she 139 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: once she once she left the house, she knew, I'm 140 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: not coming back. 141 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 2: I'm not even allowing him back. So that's the thing. 142 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 1: But they recently like he started coming around for the kids, 143 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 1: like after like a year or so, so he's in 144 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: their lives, but not really like he needed to be 145 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:50,679 Speaker 1: and not enough or whatever. Right, so now she's dating 146 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: this new nigga who is known as a chronic cheater 147 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: all around the motherfucking city. And it got word got 148 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: back to baby Daddy. So baby Daddy was like, of 149 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: all nigga that you can deal with. You're gonna deal with, y'all. 150 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I know what I put you through. 151 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah. 152 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: I don't want that nigga around my girls. So yeah, yeah, 153 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: but like this nigga has drama. Baby Mama's okay, like 154 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: all of them from Baltimore to like niggas. No, listen, 155 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: this is the point of this is how popular he is. 156 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: Somebody in Baltimore is gonna figure out who the fuck 157 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: I'm talking about, Like my my, like Baltimore listens to 158 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: kV Rects, I guarantee you, I'm gonna get feedback like, bitch, 159 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: you talking about him? 160 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna be like, yeah, bitch, you know you 161 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. 162 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, And more than like yeah, bitch, I'm fucking you 163 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like yeah, Like he actively cheats 164 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: on my cousin And I'm like, bitch, if you didn't 165 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 1: take it from your big father, why the fuck is 166 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: you allowing this nigga to do it? 167 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 2: Right? Hold up? 168 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: Hold up, I know this shit getting good, but listen 169 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 170 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen. 171 00:07:55,840 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: I don't know why, but this nigga just purpose to her, 172 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: the boyfriend, like, yeah, he just proposed to her, but 173 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: this is the crazy thing. 174 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 2: He proposed to her, like. 175 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: A few weeks ago, but a few weeks before that, 176 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: she caught him cheating, you know what I mean. And 177 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: then you way you get around the family and shit 178 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: and her and her daughters, and mind you he takes 179 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: care of like he loves her daughters, like he takes 180 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: care of her daughters, and he takes care of his kids. 181 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: He definitely getting money. He one of them niggas in 182 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: the streets. But like the thing is is like so 183 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: all together they got ten kids, right, I know. Now 184 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:40,599 Speaker 1: he has custody of four of them because for the 185 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: baby mothers is schizophrenic, bipolar, like yeah he yeah, yeah, 186 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 1: that's why they're so that's why they're drama. Like one 187 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 1: of his baby mother's locked up. Yeah, one is in 188 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: a rehabs Like now, I don't know, but I was 189 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: just saying, it just sounds good. It sounds like and 190 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: go with the story. But no, no, no, all them 191 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,439 Speaker 1: bitches is drawn. Everything is street with the rehab shit 192 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, like so it's straight drama. 193 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:05,719 Speaker 2: But my cousin. She he proposed to her. 194 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 1: This bitch said yes, right because she didn't want to 195 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 1: embarrass him. But and I went to that, we had 196 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: a family gather and you know, a couple of days 197 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: after and shit, and she come, bitch, look what I 198 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 1: got showing me the ring? 199 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,959 Speaker 2: She like, yeah, you know, I show her my ring 200 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 2: and shit. 201 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 1: And I'm like, you said yeah, and you just tell 202 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: me like he just cheated on you caught it, you know, 203 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: and you've caught him how many times? And you'll only 204 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: been together for six months, bitch, and you don't caught 205 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: like more bitches than monce y'all been together, Like that's crazy, 206 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: you know, Like you caught him, that's that many times. 207 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: And so she was just like, yeah, bitch, I didn't 208 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: want to embarrass him. I didn't, I said, So you 209 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: didn't mean to say yes. So I didn't want to 210 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: say yes. 211 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: I meant what. 212 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: I didn't mean what I said. I just didn't want 213 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: he proposed in front of everybody. 214 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 3: Bitch, then if you don't already want. 215 00:09:59,880 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 1: To So she don't know how well, two things. She 216 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: don't know what she want to do, right, Kelsey, She 217 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: don't know what she want to do? 218 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 2: And also she don't. 219 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 1: Know how to tell him that she not ready. She 220 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: thinks he needs more time because she was like, bitch, 221 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: he's gonna be mad. 222 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 2: I was like, is it gonna beat on you? 223 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:23,839 Speaker 1: You say, bitch, no with women, Okay, cool, So if 224 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: you're not in fear of your life, if you don't 225 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 1: got to worry about being punched or anything, but just 226 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: sit down and tell. 227 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 4: That nigga alshow being engaged in me or getting married 228 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 4: the next day either though. 229 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: I understand that, Taylor, but no, I'm not ready to say, yeah, yo, 230 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: you was just literally like and she's. 231 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 2: Not a crier, so I'm not gonna say she was 232 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 2: literally crying to me. 233 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,079 Speaker 1: No, I'm the one that got to listen to the 234 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:47,599 Speaker 1: shit every fucking time she catches it caause this is 235 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: one of my favorite cousins. 236 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 2: You know. She my older cousin. 237 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 1: Too, So like, bitch, what, No, you just told me 238 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: he cheated on you with this bitch and this bitch 239 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: called your phone because he's been spending the night at 240 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 1: her house. 241 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: She told me, I can tell this put by the 242 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 2: way too. Just don't. 243 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, did she want to be with 244 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 3: him or. 245 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 2: She or any of the bitch's names. Huh. 246 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 3: Did she want to be with him? 247 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: She did, she want to be with him, but she 248 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,319 Speaker 1: don't want to marry him. 249 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 2: But he's paying for the house, he's paying for the kids. 250 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: And I also think because knowing who my cousin is, 251 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: she's always been the type of person that's been like 252 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: taken care of, like she's a captain bitch like she 253 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: she's a keep up bitch, like you know, not a 254 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: kept up bitch like men have to be able to 255 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: keep up with her lifestyle. 256 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and he pays for it all. 257 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 4: And mind you, but what she does, she but just 258 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 4: not bad enough to be one. 259 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 3: Ever saying does she love him for what? 260 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 2: Then? 261 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 3: Like you know what I mean? 262 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 2: Like she said, it's. 263 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: More than just money, because she used to be a 264 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 1: money hungry gold digg in his house. But yeah, but yeah, 265 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 1: that's just really that's how we talk to each other too. 266 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: Want that's time we talking about each other, you know. 267 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: But yeah, she she used to be that. And and 268 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: after having her last two daughters, she she started taking 269 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: herself and her life way more seriously than she was 270 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: taking it. 271 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 4: Like my cousin used to do, like take any type 272 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:30,559 Speaker 4: of abuse for money, like what you. 273 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: Know, Like her dating history is not good, but that's 274 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: why we didn't see this coming. 275 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:35,440 Speaker 2: With her babyfather. 276 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: Her beefall was actually one of the best guys that 277 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 1: she was with, but he started cheating before a while, 278 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: like he was great, like and then he just started 279 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: cheating or whatever. But but she's never been a cheater, Like, 280 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: she never cheated on nobody. She And when I say like, 281 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: go digging ass her, I mean like she wasn't in 282 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 1: relationships with niggas, like but couldn't nobody talk to her 283 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: unless she was getting something out of it, you know 284 00:12:57,440 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 1: what I mean. So that's when I say when I 285 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: say he like, I don't mean like she was cheating 286 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: in a relationship cheating, She just had a roster of niggas, 287 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: you know. So she said, she said she do love him. 288 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: She said she wants to you know, she don't want 289 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: to leave him, but she don't want to marry him. 290 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:14,839 Speaker 2: She don't think he's ready to get married. 291 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: But she said she honestly felt like he proposed because 292 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: she forgave him too quickly. And so he feels like 293 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 1: this my ride or diabage, just my damn bitch, and 294 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 1: he did tell her. She said he did tell her 295 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: instead of apologizing, because he's never apologized for fucking cheating. 296 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 1: All he all he does is get like is point 297 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 1: out thing is All he does is point out shit 298 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 1: that he don't like and try to like make reasons 299 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: like I did while I'm out here doing me because 300 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: you was like, or because when I come home sometimes 301 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: you don't feel like fucking me, or when I you 302 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,719 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, or like I don't know, it's 303 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 1: just it's just weird shit. Then he complains about like 304 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,079 Speaker 1: how her daughters are now, my little cousins are very disrespectful. 305 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 2: Is no, it's been no father figure. 306 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 1: Around for a while, and she kind of do let 307 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 1: that big one and that the middle my middle baby, 308 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: My middle little cousin very respectful, my oldest, her oldest 309 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 1: daughter and her baby very they talk back. They disrespectful, 310 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: and he was like, ain't none of my kids like this? 311 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 2: You know? 312 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: So he kind of like criticizes her about her parenting 313 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 1: and like, and he says, if I'm gonna be living 314 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: here and I'm paying all the fucking bills, they're gonna 315 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: respect me and they're going to treat me like Dad 316 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: they gotta call me daddy, but they gonna treat me 317 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: as if I'm their father. 318 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: They're gonna fucking respect me, like you gotta. You know. 319 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 2: He's like, I think you should start physically disciplining them. 320 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 2: You don't. She never hit her girls, like she you 321 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. 322 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: So he's like, but she like, Yo, you want you 323 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: want to all of this, but you cheating on me. 324 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 1: You not even doing everything you're supposed to do. Like 325 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 1: because she cares more, she cares more about just the money. 326 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: But she also that is also a big factor. Went 327 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: back in the day, that was the only only fucking factor. 328 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, but they live together for how long? 329 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 2: Six months? 330 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. 331 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 2: They lived He moved. 332 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 1: In literally like I mean now he moved in, He 333 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: moved there, like they got a place together. He got 334 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: a place for them. 335 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 336 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: They moved together like before they made it officials. So 337 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: because they already knew they was gonna make it official. 338 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: I think that she knew he had a roster of bitches. 339 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: She already That's why she was sucking with him on 340 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: and off for a year. Somebody you kept going in 341 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: my ad yeah, bitch here street nigga, and he got bitches. 342 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: So he and you want days, it's convenient for him. 343 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: He did that for a whole year, and then she 344 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 1: asked him. She gave him the ultimatum, you're gonna be 345 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: with me or you're not because I'm not. 346 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 4: You know. 347 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 2: He was like, all right, let's make it happen. You 348 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. 349 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 1: Like, and then he got the house, you know, and 350 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: there's that if you love me, you'll listen to this 351 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: commercial and then we'll be right back. 352 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 2: Well, like I said that, I don't. 353 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 4: They're not even get married right away. So she's said 354 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 4: it's a growing relationship. Do you think he can get 355 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 4: over her cheating? You think she can get over him cheating? 356 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 3: Do you think does she think that he will stop cheating? 357 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 2: No? Never, No, I know he won't stop cheating. 358 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: Like I know this nigga, Like no, no, no, the 359 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 1: nigga's my fucking homeboy. 360 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 2: I know, like I know him, But why isn't it 361 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 2: is not more something deeper than no I know? 362 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 1: Now listen, it's another thing. I know he loved my cousin, 363 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: Yeah he does. He loves her, but his type, like 364 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 1: you know, he can't be with one person, and that's 365 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: what she wants now. 366 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 2: At first, she didn't give a fuck about any of that. 367 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: As long as the nigga was paying bills for her, 368 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: she was getting money out of him, she didn't give 369 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: a fuck. But now my cousin is like, she want 370 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: a fam like she want that househol because she wants 371 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 1: more kids. Oh and the bitch pregnant. Yeah, she ain't 372 00:16:58,160 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: tell me I can say that part, but she is. 373 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 2: Okay. She text me like, bitch, how you gonna give 374 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 2: me the whole meal? 375 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:13,879 Speaker 4: But I can't put the chart onside pregnant. I know, 376 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,480 Speaker 4: I know, I know, I know it, I know it 377 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 4: just put everything that she was raising. 378 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:27,160 Speaker 2: It's a total different gear, I know. 379 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 3: But not necessarily, I would say. 380 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 4: I mean, now it's more complicated too, because now you 381 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 4: have a better have another father for your child. But 382 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,719 Speaker 4: like it's clear the type of guy she's going for, 383 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 4: is it, Like, yeah, you can find a guy that's 384 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 4: not always in the streets and still takes care of you. Yeah, Well, no, 385 00:17:57,119 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 4: I believe that you can't find a god that's not 386 00:17:58,680 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 4: in the street sector. 387 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: Yes, I do believe that. However, why it's still early. 388 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 3: Why it's early coming. 389 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 1: She missed the period last month. She yeah, so she 390 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 1: literally and he knows, no, she ain't telling us, Yeah, god, no, no, no, no, no, 391 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: she didn't. 392 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 2: Tell him this yet. 393 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: But he do love kids and he ain't no cap 394 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 1: on the amount of kids that this nigga want to have, 395 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 1: Like he don't care. He's one of them, That's what 396 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, why would you say yes? And she 397 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: also feels like he ain't ever proposed to nobody before. 398 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, but she's worried about the wrong things say, even 399 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 3: when you were. 400 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 2: Like she's she don't want to get married, but she 401 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 2: was really excited to show you the ring be w Yeah, idea, 402 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 2: she likes the idea of being a wife and being kept. 403 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 2: Don't understand. 404 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:02,199 Speaker 3: It's a lot that goes on. 405 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 1: And if you want to be Miss Tasha Saint Patrick, 406 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,920 Speaker 1: you know how that story ends. Tasha was in jail 407 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 1: and fucking ghost. God, they stop dealing with these street niggas. 408 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 2: Everybody know this niggas. 409 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 1: This nigga's a big ass target people and being my friend, 410 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:19,159 Speaker 1: Like I know that, like you, I don't want my 411 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 1: my family dealing with none of that shit. 412 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 2: And that's like one of my favorite cousins. So it's 413 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 2: really hard. 414 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 1: But she did want me to come on here and 415 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: like shed light on what she going through, her story and. 416 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 2: Shit like that. 417 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 1: I just I really want my girl to be straight, 418 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:33,679 Speaker 1: like I want her to be all right, you know, 419 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, because it's so much good about him, 420 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: but it's so much bad about him. I think she 421 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: also has to look more inside herself, right and understand 422 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: what's your word? Like what are you okay with? And 423 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, how you gonna make such a great 424 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 1: boss ass bitch move like you had your dignity when 425 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 1: you left them girls? 426 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 4: Dad? 427 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:58,880 Speaker 1: You found that he cheated once, you know what I'm saying, 428 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 1: But he cheated in the you know what I'm saying. 429 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 2: I get it. 430 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 1: So because she found condoms like yeah, okay, you know 431 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 1: she found a condom like rapper that nigga. It was 432 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: a condom rapper and the condom was not far from 433 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: the rapper. 434 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 4: You also, Slobby, how far apart was this relationship versus. 435 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 1: She left our baby father like three years ago? So 436 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: it still ain't been that that motherfucking loan. You get 437 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. She left him three years ago. But 438 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: and she been dealing with this nigga for a year 439 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: and a half. 440 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 2: I think, I don't know, I don't know. It's very early. 441 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 1: I think I'm sorry. I think she should get an abortion. 442 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: Yeah I did. I mean, I'm sorry, just not. I 443 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:49,160 Speaker 1: think so, you know, And I also feel as if. 444 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 2: She should, she should leave that nigga. 445 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: Y you're not You're not the girl I used to be. 446 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 1: No more, you're not her. No more, like you don't 447 00:20:57,880 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 1: just give a fuck about money. You got three girls 448 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: looking yeah. 449 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:05,200 Speaker 3: That two three girls, and you know it's more important things. 450 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 2: Yes, she's not and understand what a relationship and marriage 451 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:10,159 Speaker 2: is like. 452 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 3: Don't just be excited for the ring. 453 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:16,119 Speaker 2: No, for sure, That's what I'm saying. So it's not 454 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 2: a conversation. I love you so much, cousin. I love you. 455 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: Kelsey on Glenola and Baltimore. All Just like that, we've 456 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: come to yet the end of another Canful Bakfast episode 457 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: with your girl just hilarious and my girl tailor. 458 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 2: Y'all stay by the tailor, Tailor, stay by just like 459 00:21:29,800 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 2: that piece. We'll see you next week. 460 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 1: Can't Fully Reckless is a production of iHeart Radio and 461 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: The Black Effect. For more podcasts from iHeart Radio, visit 462 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to 463 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 1: your favorite shows.