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Speaker 1: Jebels second date of dates. You know, first dates don't
Speaker 1: always go according to plan. You got to be able
Speaker 1: to adjust on the fly. I like to call it
Speaker 1: being bendy. Oh well that's it. I'm so very bendy
Speaker 1: on dates. I can adjust however you need me, I
Speaker 1: will say. Also impressive, So good Yea. Christa is on
Speaker 1: the phone and apparently her first date didn't go completely
Speaker 1: according to plan, but she said she still had a
Speaker 1: good time. Christa, what happened? I met this guy Scott
Speaker 1: on a dating website and she suggested we go see
Speaker 1: a movie for our first date. He planned it all out. Okay,
Speaker 1: that sounds pretty I mean, not boring, but yeah, like
Speaker 1: what could go wrong? Yeah? Like pretty standard. You don't
Speaker 1: have to talk too much, but um, I hope you
Speaker 1: don't like the person that I got there. And this
Speaker 1: guy was super cute and seemed normal and we talked
Speaker 1: a little bit and we we're going to see like
Speaker 1: a you know, superhero movie. We get to the box office,
Speaker 1: and they're sold out. Oh my gosh. Yeah, kind of
Speaker 1: a rookie move, right, right, And even those superhero movies
Speaker 1: you needed to like buy tickets in advance for like
Speaker 1: three months because they're so booked everything. Yeah, So, I
Speaker 1: mean I felt kind of bad because he looked really
Speaker 1: super bummed out. I mean, I didn't care, it was
Speaker 1: just but um, you know, the next film started like
Speaker 1: an hour and a half later, so we weren't going
Speaker 1: to hang around there. So I was just like, well,
Speaker 1: why don't we go grab a drink somewhere? And we
Speaker 1: went to his car, and then I realized we're right
Speaker 1: in my neighborhood. We might as well just go to
Speaker 1: my place, and you know, I've got drinks there, and well, hello,
Speaker 1: Now that turned out well for him, didn't it. Maybe?
Speaker 1: And I guess it sounds saying it out loud, It
Speaker 1: sounds a little forward. But this movie is sold out,
Speaker 1: Why we just go back to my place? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: do what we intended on doing. Anyway, I feel like
Speaker 1: you're every guy's first date dream at this point. I
Speaker 1: guess I didn't even think about it that way. I
Speaker 1: just seemed like, oh, you know, I can never think
Speaker 1: of a place to go, which is why I ended
Speaker 1: up at the Superhero movie in the first place. Right,
Speaker 1: So was he down with that? Yeah, he was totally down.
Speaker 1: He drove me to my house and I don't know
Speaker 1: if we had a lot of fun. I really liked them.
Speaker 1: He had like he smiles, he like had these quel
Speaker 1: crinkles at the side of his eyes, and he really
Speaker 1: like looked at you when he talks, and I mean
Speaker 1: like a really good laugh in my sense of humor.
Speaker 1: And we had a couple of drinks and I decided
Speaker 1: it would be a good idea to play Truth or
Speaker 1: Dare Oh, no, bad idea. I feel like it could be,
Speaker 1: but it could go south really quickly. Well, I'd never
Speaker 1: done this before with a guy, you know, I like
Speaker 1: played it. Oh sure, that's time doing Truth or Dare
Speaker 1: you guys? Yeah, really was. I mean I played like
Speaker 1: with a group at a party. But you know, it's
Speaker 1: a good way to get to know people, and you
Speaker 1: kind of cut to like the real stuff. I mean,
Speaker 1: if you're you're doing so many online dates and you
Speaker 1: don't even do you want to get to know a person? Right,
Speaker 1: It depends how truthful they are at the truth part though,
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, I mean, I guess you never know.
Speaker 1: Was there any awkward moments during that game? Yes, there
Speaker 1: were a few. I discovered that his most disgusting habit
Speaker 1: is picking his earwax. Oh and you want a second
Speaker 1: date with this guy? Well he was honest, remember, Yeah,
Speaker 1: how you tell they're truthful? Like a good judge of
Speaker 1: his honesty, because that's disgusting. I would never tell anybody that,
Speaker 1: Oh it's love that it's like not like eating your
Speaker 1: bookers or something. I don't know. Ye, what did you
Speaker 1: reveal about yourself? So this was the other kind of
Speaker 1: awkward thing that happened, and not like on a more
Speaker 1: serious note, he asked if I had ever cheated on
Speaker 1: one Okay, And I mean, you've got to be honest
Speaker 1: because I'm an honest person and the truth is yeah,
Speaker 1: and I mean it sounds worse than if it's not
Speaker 1: something I'm proud of. I was really young. Yeah, A
Speaker 1: lot of people can relate to that. Yeah, people always
Speaker 1: have that model like once a cheater, always a cheater,
Speaker 1: And that's not necessarily true. People can change. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: just hangs over your head. Yeah, I mean I guess
Speaker 1: you know, maybe that made him nervous. You think I
Speaker 1: don't know. That's like the one thing when I play
Speaker 1: the date over in my head that could have I mean,
Speaker 1: I felt like I felt like I explained it to
Speaker 1: a point where he seemed more comfortable and satisfied with it.
Speaker 1: But then at the end of the night, like he
Speaker 1: called an uber and like we didn't kiss, he just yeah, hum,
Speaker 1: So maybe I don't know. Maybe she seemed to be
Speaker 1: into me though. Did he reveal that he had been
Speaker 1: cheated on and he was really scarred? I mean, that's
Speaker 1: a loaded question to ask you, Like, there's got to
Speaker 1: be a reason why he's even asking that. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: didn't think about it that way. I mean I guess maybe.
Speaker 1: I mean, he didn't tell me that he'd been cheated on.
Speaker 1: Did you start crying as soon as you said it?
Speaker 1: That would be a good indicator. No, you seem cool anyway.
Speaker 1: So that's why I'm calling you guys, because you know,
Speaker 1: it's hard to find a good guy out there, and
Speaker 1: I thought we really especially when you're cheating on him
Speaker 1: all the time. Well, I mean, you did bring it
Speaker 1: up that I was in the past. It's not like
Speaker 1: you were like, yes, I'm actually currently cheating with you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not during this first date, I've been secretly run
Speaker 1: away and texting someone else. And have you talked at
Speaker 1: all since he left? No? I never want to seem desperate.
Speaker 1: I sent him a text message and he didn't reply,
Speaker 1: and so I sent him one a couple of days later,
Speaker 1: and I was like about to just leave it, and
Speaker 1: I thought, you know what, No, you can't just let
Speaker 1: people ghost on you or situations like this just I
Speaker 1: don't know. I felt like I wanted to reach out
Speaker 1: and do something and call him on it. What's the deal? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so us calling him will help with that whole you
Speaker 1: not seeming desperate thing? I mean, yeah, all right, well
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back and call him to
Speaker 1: get your second day update. Okay, okay, looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning date If you're just joining us for today's
Speaker 1: second date update. Christa is on the phone and Christa
Speaker 1: is a habitual cheater. Loves can't get enough of cheating,
Speaker 1: right Christa? Oh yes, right, No, if you missed the
Speaker 1: first part of the second day update. We talked to
Speaker 1: Christa about a dude she met. His name is Scott.
Speaker 1: They met online and they were going to go to
Speaker 1: a movie, but the movie was sold out, so they
Speaker 1: went back to her place and actually played Truth or Dare.
Speaker 1: She thinks the reason he might not be calling her
Speaker 1: back is because during that game, she did reveal that
Speaker 1: she had cheated one time, way in her past. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it could have scared him off. We don't know.
Speaker 1: They did. In the date where he called an uber,
Speaker 1: she got a hug and he left and she hasn't
Speaker 1: heard a word since. Or about to get him on
Speaker 1: the phone and see what happened and find out if
Speaker 1: we can get Krista another. Are you about ready? Christa?
Speaker 1: I'm ready? Thanks. Guys, do you regret being honest about
Speaker 1: the cheating thing in your past? No? I don't. I
Speaker 1: feel like honesty is the best policy. And I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want to be with someone who'd be scared off and
Speaker 1: wouldn't cheer me out. Or maybe he was sad that
Speaker 1: you weren't currently cheating on anybody. That would be really weird.
Speaker 1: You've heard some strange things doing me, That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Prepare for anything. At this point, I'm gonna die. Whose
Speaker 1: pub right? Now? Here? We go? Hello? Hey? Is this Scott? Yes?
Speaker 1: It is Scott? How are you man? This is Jewel
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: how going not too bad? How are you? Um? Okay?
Speaker 1: Can I help you? Well? I don't even gonna help me.
Speaker 1: That's a loaded question when it comes to me. But
Speaker 1: there is somebody who you might be able to help out.
Speaker 1: Actually got an email about you from one of our listeners.
Speaker 1: What Yeah. We do a segment on our show called
Speaker 1: the second Date Update. That's where if you go out
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody and then end up not
Speaker 1: calling them back after, they can email us to get
Speaker 1: you on the phone and find out what happened. And
Speaker 1: we got an email from a woman named Krista. And
Speaker 1: you should remember going out with her because you guys
Speaker 1: played Truth or Dare. And unless you're playing Truth or
Speaker 1: Dare all over the place all the time, then I'm
Speaker 1: assuming you probably remember. Yeah. Now that was the first
Speaker 1: and last time I've played Truth or Dare. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: you regret it. You do regret playing that game on
Speaker 1: a first date. I mean, like, look, Christa seems like
Speaker 1: a really nice person. I sort of mess things up
Speaker 1: initially because I pitch used a movie and I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just I wasn't thinking I didn't play tickets ahead
Speaker 1: of time. Yeah, she told us all that, and then
Speaker 1: she told us about how you guys are hanging out
Speaker 1: and playing Truth or Dare. So she thinks that maybe
Speaker 1: you might have been embarrassed because she revealed that she
Speaker 1: had cheated on a partner in the past. That's what
Speaker 1: she really thinks. No, no, no, no, no, that was
Speaker 1: not the issue. Like I kind of actually appreciated that
Speaker 1: she was like just being upfront about it, and she
Speaker 1: said that it happened like ten years ago or something.
Speaker 1: So I don't like, No, I don't. I'm not judging
Speaker 1: her for that. She felt like, your whole mood changed
Speaker 1: when she revealed that she had cheated on someone. No,
Speaker 1: my whole mood changed like five minutes later when her
Speaker 1: mom walked in and I was like, what is going on? Wait?
Speaker 1: Hold on? Did she live with her mom and she
Speaker 1: didn't tell you or something? Yeah, like what's going on? Yeah,
Speaker 1: of reaction. If I was hanging out some chick's house
Speaker 1: playing Truth or Dare and then her mom walked in,
Speaker 1: I might be like, whoa, this is about to get
Speaker 1: really interesting. You know, I don't know what kind of
Speaker 1: dares are you coming? Up with lady. Yeah, and honestly, like,
Speaker 1: it just kept getting weirder. We're like, suddenly her mom's
Speaker 1: playing truth or Dare? Wait, hold up, she didn't tell
Speaker 1: us any of this, so her mom started playing truth
Speaker 1: or Dare with you guys in your first date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: We're like sitting cross legged in a circle on the
Speaker 1: rug and like suddenly it's like, how old am I?
Speaker 1: What's happening? And she seems to have no like lights on.
Speaker 1: It just seems as if all this is totally was
Speaker 1: her mom cool? Was she cool? I mean, like, after
Speaker 1: you got over the initial shock, was she a cool
Speaker 1: person to hang out with? Oh? Like, it's not. I'm honestly,
Speaker 1: I much trying to hang out with someone's mom, Like,
Speaker 1: I mean, she seemed like a perfectly fine person if
Speaker 1: I met her in five months or something, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. But maybe it just doesn't cross her
Speaker 1: mind because they like live together, so it's so normal
Speaker 1: for her. If you were on a day with a
Speaker 1: dude and that's what happened, wouldn't you be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: time for me to truth my way out of here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, I wouldn't stick around, yea. And so it
Speaker 1: gets crazier because so she's playing and then suddenly the
Speaker 1: dare for me is that I have to give them
Speaker 1: my phone for two minutes of uninterrupted time. No, so
Speaker 1: her and her mom are checking out what's on your phone, which, like, honestly,
Speaker 1: to be completely honest, like I don't really have anything
Speaker 1: on there that I'm like that concerned with, Like I'm
Speaker 1: not taking pictures of things. I shouldn't be taking pictures up. Hey,
Speaker 1: that is your body. You can take pictures of it
Speaker 1: if you want. Wait, did you give her did you
Speaker 1: give them your phone? Yes? Yes, we were already in it.
Speaker 1: I was just like I sort of felt like, I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: this was like peer pressure. I felt like I was
Speaker 1: in like, I don't know, middle school again or something.
Speaker 1: It was crazy. What did they do for two minutes
Speaker 1: with your phone? I don't know, I mean really they
Speaker 1: like look through things. Were mostly bored, except I'm getting
Speaker 1: texts from some number that I don't have, being like
Speaker 1: let's hang out, and it's like, oh, it's Debbie Chris's mom. Wait,
Speaker 1: her mom is texting you to hang out. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: assume that she must either like I don't know if
Speaker 1: she like memorized my number when they hit my phone
Speaker 1: or what. But I'm like, really actually very creeped out
Speaker 1: by all of this. You have no interest in going
Speaker 1: out with her mom? Huh No, No, I mean against
Speaker 1: her mom. This isn't how I like meet people phone.
Speaker 1: You're an interesting guy, Scott, and the mom is like
Speaker 1: hitting on you. You don't think that she just doesn't
Speaker 1: understand how friends work. No, Like she kept saying that
Speaker 1: I had nice arms or something where like, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's definitely hey Scott. Yeah, I forgot to mention that
Speaker 1: Christa is on the phone and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Christa,
Speaker 1: you're still there? Where's your mom? There? Here? One? Now?
Speaker 1: Just me? I'm here. How do you leave about that information?
Speaker 1: It didn't seem like pertinent information to me. She was
Speaker 1: there for five minutes and then he left. Also, I
Speaker 1: don't believe my mom would be texting you, But even
Speaker 1: if it was, it's not that crazy. She's a MoMA there,
Speaker 1: she's protected. Okay, hold on, I mean, guys, do you
Speaker 1: see why this is problematic for me? I still don't
Speaker 1: get it. But oh you don't get it. I feel
Speaker 1: like you just don't have a good relationship with your parents.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you she doesn't know. Look, I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that I'm perfect that. I'm not saying my relationship
Speaker 1: with my parents is perfect. I'm just saying that I
Speaker 1: was definitely freaked out by the whole. Like playing truth
Speaker 1: through Dare and then like getting the text put me
Speaker 1: over the edge, Like I think you really need to
Speaker 1: have a conversation with your mom. I'm just not trying
Speaker 1: to get in between any of this. You're not trying
Speaker 1: to get in between her and her mom not making
Speaker 1: this any easier, just saying like, honestly, mama being her aside,
Speaker 1: Like that's not cool. Okay, you said something about her
Speaker 1: commenting on your arms. What was that about? What did
Speaker 1: she say? She just kept saying like, oh, you have
Speaker 1: nice arms. Do you work out? Well? Yeah, I guess
Speaker 1: that is a little weird. Yeah, that doesn't sound like
Speaker 1: somebody who's protective. How are you not freaking out about this?
Speaker 1: If my mom did this to me, I would be
Speaker 1: I rate and embarrassed in all of the things. I know,
Speaker 1: she's a fun lady. I mean came homent, like you know,
Speaker 1: she'd walk in in at eleven thirty to our house
Speaker 1: that we share I'm not gonna say like I'm on
Speaker 1: date leaves. Yeah, but I would also say to my
Speaker 1: day oh, shoot my mom home, Maybe we call it
Speaker 1: a night, not continue to play Truth or Darren with him?
Speaker 1: Well one round, yeah, one round was damaged enough, I
Speaker 1: guess so. Um. Really, I'm just trying to check in
Speaker 1: with you here, Krista, Like, are you hearing what I'm
Speaker 1: saying is happening? Your mom is texting me behind your back? Okay? Yeah,
Speaker 1: compliments and cloud is here. You're being very clear. I
Speaker 1: understand the texting that you say she's doing behind my back.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be talking to her about that. Believes me
Speaker 1: because that that is cross question. Has this ever happened before? Like?
Speaker 1: Am I the first person who's been in the situation
Speaker 1: with you? Okay, Okay, to be honest, I've played a
Speaker 1: couple rounds of Truth or Dare with my mom with
Speaker 1: other guys before me. The first time that she has
Speaker 1: ever texted someone afterwards, Scott, that means you're special? Yeah,
Speaker 1: actually it means I'm like totally not special, Like, did
Speaker 1: you right? I really need to know the set? Were
Speaker 1: you setting us up to play Truth or Dare with
Speaker 1: your mom? Oh? My gosh, what No, that is crazy talk. No,
Speaker 1: I live with my mom. We were playing Truth or
Speaker 1: Dare she happened to come in. Uh and how many
Speaker 1: times has that happened? Though? I can hear you guys
Speaker 1: not believing me. Yeah, because we don't. Come on, Christy,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't date a guy who had his dad play
Speaker 1: Truth or Dare with you? If you was as fun
Speaker 1: as my mom isn't, Definitely it would be okay with me. Okay, Wow,
Speaker 1: maybe you guys just have different priorities here, Scott, I'm
Speaker 1: tapping out guys. I'm just well, not yet, Scott, I
Speaker 1: got a question for you. Would you like to go
Speaker 1: out with Chris on a second date? We will pay
Speaker 1: for it. Maybe we can buy you a twist or
Speaker 1: set for her? Yeah, you would, you would pay for it? Yeah? No,
Speaker 1: of course we're not going to go on a sez.
Speaker 1: You think this is the money if you so much
Speaker 1: for them? Like, yeah, no, I'm fine, I'm listen to this.
Speaker 1: I think relationships they're not a deposition. This is crazy question.
Speaker 1: Have you ever given a deposition in a situation like this?
Speaker 1: That's a really good question. Scott broken Jewil in the morning,
Speaker 1: texted in at seven to eighty five to nine two,
Speaker 1: saying nobody asked the most important question was the mom
Speaker 1: hot that is not the most important looking jewel in
Speaker 1: the morning. I think we know the answer the answers
Speaker 1: probably no, because Scott wasn't interested. I'm talking about today's
Speaker 1: second eight update. If you missed it, this girl, Christa
Speaker 1: wanted to call it. A dude named Scott. They actually
Speaker 1: went out and they were going to go to a movie,
Speaker 1: but it was sold out, so they decided to go
Speaker 1: back to her place and they played truth or Dare
Speaker 1: and she couldn't figure out why he wasn't calling back.
Speaker 1: She thought, maybe it is because one of the questions
Speaker 1: was about cheating, and she revealed that she had cheated
Speaker 1: in the past. But we got him on the phone
Speaker 1: and we found out the reason he wasn't calling back
Speaker 1: was because while they were playing truth or Dair her
Speaker 1: mom came home. She lives with Mamma, and her mom
Speaker 1: sat down and played Truth or Dare with them for
Speaker 1: a little while, and one of the dares was for
Speaker 1: him to give him his phone for two minutes so
Speaker 1: they could go through it. But that wasn't the biggest issue.
Speaker 1: The biggest issue was after the date, the mom has
Speaker 1: been texting him saying that he has nice arms and
Speaker 1: trying to hang out and things like that, and so
Speaker 1: he's convinced the mom is hitting on him. Christa's still
Speaker 1: not really sure if the mom is actually hitting on him,
Speaker 1: but I would think so. And he was just weirded
Speaker 1: out by the whole situation, so he didn't want to
Speaker 1: go out with her. I can't believe how many sickos
Speaker 1: are on the text board right now. So WHOA, you
Speaker 1: can get it with them both? That is so gross, dude,
Speaker 1: that's a daughter and their mother. Yeah yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 1: That is like as incestual as it gets. I got
Speaker 1: some online research. I'm gonna show you you know what
Speaker 1: is wrong with people. Anyway, they didn't go out again.
Speaker 1: If you want to do a second date up, they
Speaker 1: just emailed the show and we will call the person
Speaker 1: who didn't call you back.