Speaker 1: Hey, everybody's Sunday Sampler time.
Speaker 2: We'll get to some Sore Losers movie Mike's Movie podcast,
Speaker 2: but we're gonna start with a little bit of Doctor Josie.
Speaker 2: It's the final episode of season one of In the
Speaker 2: Vets Office and Caroline Hobby stop Buy had her three
Speaker 2: month old puppy, Ruby, and they talked about what you
Speaker 2: need to know whenever you have a puppy, because I
Speaker 2: think anytime we get a new puppy, we're like, holy crap.
Speaker 1: What they talked about, what to do and what not
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 3: Let's get started.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 2: Here's a clip of this week's episode of In the
Speaker 2: Vets Office with Doctor Josie.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're listening to In the Vets Office with Doctor
Speaker 5: Josie Horshak.
Speaker 4: Right, So we got Ruby on a whim and I
Speaker 4: am not following any of the rules.
Speaker 6: This is my daughter's dog. Thankfully. Ruby loves to.
Speaker 4: Rough house, goes to She and Sunday and Ruby like
Speaker 4: play and wrestle all the time. But just working on
Speaker 4: the potty training. They were seventy percent there. She is
Speaker 4: sleeping in the bed. Oh or I'll talk about that.
Speaker 4: Not sure about the food situation because she started off
Speaker 4: with one food. Then when eat it and tried to
Speaker 4: give her another one, and then she got diarrhea.
Speaker 6: And so I'm just like the basics of starting up.
Speaker 4: A dog and perfect you know, I guess, nailing down
Speaker 4: what you need to do in the beginning I could use.
Speaker 6: Really, the potty training is my number one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it is so important when they are at this age,
Speaker 4: they're very impressionable, and we're setting them up for success
Speaker 4: for the rest of their life. Because Ruby og, we
Speaker 4: know how that plight, we know how that goes. So
Speaker 4: remind me Ruby two point zero. We'll call her. She's
Speaker 4: fourteen weeks. Yeah, okay, I'm a big proponent.
Speaker 5: Of the crate.
Speaker 6: Okay, it is.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it is soul sucking for someone like me who
Speaker 4: is a dog mom.
Speaker 5: I like, live for my dogs.
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm torturing them, especially puppies when you
Speaker 4: put them in the crate and they cry. I mean,
Speaker 4: it's just like the worst thing in the world. But
Speaker 4: it is going to set you up for success. Tell me, okay,
Speaker 4: tell me why, and then how do you do the crate?
Speaker 4: So you want to make sure you get to create
Speaker 4: a The size is super important. We want to get
Speaker 4: to create that isn't too big. We want it to
Speaker 4: be big enough where she can get in it, move
Speaker 4: in a circle, kind of lay down and get subtled,
Speaker 4: but not big enough that she can go to one
Speaker 4: side of the crate and pee and poop and then
Speaker 4: skidad all over to the other side.
Speaker 6: Okay, So she has to be like just enough.
Speaker 4: To correct, like somewhat confined, but not big enough for
Speaker 4: her to run around in it. So size is really important.
Speaker 4: I think it's nice to have like the metal wire
Speaker 4: ones where they can see out, and then at night,
Speaker 4: if she's in her crate, which she should be, you
Speaker 4: could throw a blanket over it. That way, it's nice
Speaker 4: and dark and it is far and away our best
Speaker 4: tool for potty trading. Can they make it through the
Speaker 4: whole night at fourteen weeks? The kind of rule of
Speaker 4: thumb is for every month they are plus one, that's
Speaker 4: how many hours they can hold it through the day.
Speaker 4: Usually by this time around fourteen weeks, some of them
Speaker 4: can hold it overnight. But you probably are looking at
Speaker 4: getting up once in the early morning to take her
Speaker 4: out to go potty.
Speaker 6: And will she like cry?
Speaker 4: You think she Once she gets great trained, she'll probably
Speaker 4: whine to let you know she needs to go out.
Speaker 4: There's some puppies that are gonna whine because they just
Speaker 4: want to be with you. But it's almost like a
Speaker 4: baby where you start to understand, like are you crying
Speaker 4: because you want my attention? Are you crying because you
Speaker 4: need to go potty? But you're I mean fourteen weeks. Gosh,
Speaker 4: you've only got another like three or four weeks. And
Speaker 4: she'll be able to hold it through the.
Speaker 6: Evening well just because she is sleeping in the bed.
Speaker 6: I have noticed.
Speaker 4: I took her out like at eleven last night, and
Speaker 4: she did make it till like six this morning. Okay,
Speaker 4: that's great. So now we know that she can hold it,
Speaker 4: so this is perfect. So yeah, I would doing it
Speaker 4: all wrong, That's okay, that's okay. So create is so important.
Speaker 4: I tell owners potty training is on us. If they
Speaker 4: have an accident in the house. We don't necessarily want
Speaker 4: to punish them because we aren't necessarily doing our job.
Speaker 4: And it's very kind of saying it, saying you messed up. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't. I'm not gonna say you messed up, but
Speaker 4: want that so during the day they need to go out.
Speaker 4: It feels like one hundred times.
Speaker 6: All the time.
Speaker 4: Okay, so how often do we need That's like huge,
Speaker 4: It's like every thirty minutes you gotta take them out,
Speaker 4: or what is every time after they eat, after they drink,
Speaker 4: after they wake up from a nap, after they're done playing.
Speaker 5: I mean it is like constant.
Speaker 4: Do you say, like, go potty, go body, I sady, yep,
Speaker 4: go potty, give them the chance to go. I Also,
Speaker 4: I am really big on if you are going to
Speaker 4: peepad train, no stick with pea pads for all of
Speaker 4: you out there that are ppad training. Worst, if you're
Speaker 4: not going to peepad train, like long term, you want
Speaker 4: them to go outside, do not start peap pads at all.
Speaker 6: Oh be really confusing for the peapads or the visit
Speaker 6: the bane, the veine of my existence.
Speaker 4: The bane of my existence got me both. Yeah, because
Speaker 4: they just don't quite get the peapad. They'll put their
Speaker 4: front paws on it and they're pee on the carpet.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, congratulations to people doing well with peapads.
Speaker 7: I never have And.
Speaker 4: There's a lot of like little dogs and high rises
Speaker 4: that do great in the right right. But when we're
Speaker 4: potty training some people be like, well, I'm using peapads
Speaker 4: for now, and then I want them to go on
Speaker 4: the grass, and that just is really difficult. So so
Speaker 4: go outside, go to the same spot and the same spot. Yep.
Speaker 4: Make it really consistent, really can really routine, same spot,
Speaker 4: and then I find a really high reward treat that
Speaker 4: they love. I had one dog that was so hard
Speaker 4: to potty train that I got turkey hot dogs and
Speaker 4: I slice them into tiny pieces and the only time
Speaker 4: she got a piece of a turkey hot dog is
Speaker 4: when she went potty outside like she was supposed to.
Speaker 4: And that just kind of helps them. It helps it click.
Speaker 4: So you say, good potty, here's your treat, like right then,
Speaker 4: right then and there, so you have it with you
Speaker 4: when you take them outside.
Speaker 5: You want to have treats in your pockets at all
Speaker 5: times when you have a puppy. So okay, okay, go out
Speaker 5: with your turkey hot dogs.
Speaker 4: As soon as soon as she goes, give her a
Speaker 4: little bit, tell her she did a great job. And
Speaker 4: then you go right back inside, and you want to
Speaker 4: make it like, hey, you did an awesome job. Like
Speaker 4: your neighbors are going to think you're insane, but you know,
Speaker 4: lots of reward.
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 4: So so put in their credit at night right when
Speaker 4: you wake up, take her outside with the treat, have
Speaker 4: it ready, yep? Then feeder, then feeder, and then right
Speaker 4: back out to go potty again.
Speaker 6: And how long do you wait after they eat? I
Speaker 6: typically will go.
Speaker 5: Right after they eat.
Speaker 4: It takes her a lot of poop, and like I'll
Speaker 4: take her out and then she'll pee, and then we'll
Speaker 4: hang out there for a while and then she just
Speaker 4: woll poop and then she'll come in and poop inside
Speaker 4: that what is that? That is just her being young
Speaker 4: and not getting it yet, So just stick with it.
Speaker 4: Once she goes potty, I would only give her like
Speaker 4: a minute or two to go poop. If she's not
Speaker 4: going to do her business, then it's back inside because
Speaker 4: they can get kind of distracted a butterfly, you know,
Speaker 4: and they're like pooop, yeah exactly, So back inside, give
Speaker 4: them a few minutes, and then you can go back
Speaker 4: out again and give it another shot. And then during
Speaker 4: the day when you were not directly supervising her in
Speaker 4: the crate. In the crate, I know it's it's soul sucking.
Speaker 5: I'm telling we just let her when we leave, we
Speaker 5: just leave her in the house. Oh Lord and Almighty.
Speaker 4: That I feel about that, doctor, I don't feel great
Speaker 4: about that. I mean, I suppose in some puppies it works,
Speaker 4: but in ninety nine percent of them, it's a recipe
Speaker 4: for ruby og.
Speaker 6: Okay, okay.
Speaker 4: So as soon as I leave here, I need to
Speaker 4: go get a crate. Yes, definitely, you can on Amazon.
Speaker 4: You can get them at any pet store. Get a
Speaker 4: create immediately, yep, get it create immediately.
Speaker 5: And the crate.
Speaker 4: That's a whole other thing is we want it to
Speaker 4: be a place that they want to go.
Speaker 6: How do you make it that?
Speaker 5: So I throw a.
Speaker 4: Little blanky in there, not not too much stuff, but
Speaker 4: I'll blanket if you want to put one of your
Speaker 4: t shirts in there that smells like you.
Speaker 5: Throw it in a room.
Speaker 4: Where you guys are often in, typically like a living room.
Speaker 4: Leave the door open. That way, she can kind of
Speaker 4: come and go as she pleases. Lots of positive reinforcement,
Speaker 4: so treats when she goes into her crate. Some people
Speaker 4: will like even feed them there. If they're food motivated,
Speaker 4: they'll feed them their meals in the crate, so they
Speaker 4: just we want to associate the crate with positivity. We
Speaker 4: don't ever really want to use it as punishment, like, oh,
Speaker 4: you Pete in the house, I'm going to put you
Speaker 4: in your crate.
Speaker 5: We do not want to do that.
Speaker 6: Oh that's good advice.
Speaker 4: And if you don't have a Kong, I would get
Speaker 4: a cong. Those are like those rubber volcano looking toys.
Speaker 6: Put that in the crate.
Speaker 4: I typically put like a little tablespoon of peanut butter,
Speaker 4: throw it in the freezer. And then when you put
Speaker 4: her in her crate and you're leaving to like run
Speaker 4: an errand it's like, Hey, I'm going on my crea.
Speaker 5: This is not the end of the world because.
Speaker 6: I have a cong.
Speaker 5: I have an amazing peanut butter filled kong.
Speaker 2: The first songs you learned was it for me? It
Speaker 2: was a lot of classic rock stuff. And I'm not
Speaker 2: the player that you are, but I remember just.
Speaker 1: What I what I would learn.
Speaker 2: I would learned like Metallica stuff, because some of that
Speaker 2: stuff was easy. I'd learn like some using like tab.
Speaker 2: I would learn like some.
Speaker 1: Guitar times.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even use tab anymore. But at the beginning,
Speaker 2: it was really good for me to learn, you know,
Speaker 2: six three. But what what was that for you? What
Speaker 2: did you want to learn? What did you learn first?
Speaker 8: I can't read music at all, period whatsoever. I don't
Speaker 8: read a chart. I hardly know the Nashville skills here,
Speaker 8: Like I know enough to understand what they're talking about,
Speaker 8: but I don't. I've never been able to. It doesn't
Speaker 8: translate with me. So it's all about ear. That being said,
Speaker 8: the first things that I kind of learned when I
Speaker 8: started playing guitar, I mean, simple Man, Smoke on the Water.
Speaker 1: Those are all like dittymoke on the Water.
Speaker 4: Army.
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, But like when you talk about getting into
Speaker 8: like ultimate guitar tabs and like all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 8: Like the first ones that I remember putting together all
Speaker 8: the way through were Drake White songs. Probably the first
Speaker 8: ever was probably a simple Man letter Skinnered. That was
Speaker 8: probably the first one, top to bottom that I learned
Speaker 8: all the way through.
Speaker 1: How long until you could actually sing and play?
Speaker 8: Oh god, it took a while, man, it was, you know.
Speaker 1: And I'm not the I'm not I'm.
Speaker 8: Still not the player that I want to be when
Speaker 8: it comes to this hand, you know, or this one,
Speaker 8: you know. But it took a while, and my timing
Speaker 8: used to be so weird, so weird, man.
Speaker 2: What about because it haven't you know, we get to
Speaker 2: know you a little bit over the past couple of
Speaker 2: years the time that we spent together. You're not a
Speaker 2: guy it's gonna walk into a room and just demand everybody's.
Speaker 1: Attention when everybody's just hang around talking. You don't say
Speaker 1: a lot.
Speaker 2: You have a big presence because you're a big guy,
Speaker 2: and you definitely dress like you're gonna murder someone if
Speaker 2: they cross you. However, I would not, just by knowing
Speaker 2: you as a person, think well, this is a guy
Speaker 2: that wants to get on stage and sing or talk
Speaker 2: or entertain in any way whatsoever. Now did you have
Speaker 2: the same demeanor younger? And was your dad and your
Speaker 2: family like.
Speaker 3: You want to do what?
Speaker 8: My dad never wanted us to lay brick and block,
Speaker 8: So anything other than that was very welcome in our family. Now,
Speaker 8: my siblings have taken over the family business and they're
Speaker 8: doing that, you know. But they all went out and
Speaker 8: had their time in the world and chase their dreams
Speaker 8: and they've come home and you know, all that stuff.
Speaker 8: But no, he wanted anything other than what he was doing.
Speaker 2: He had to be so surprised though, and maybe he wasn't,
Speaker 2: but that you wanted to go entertain people, because again,
Speaker 2: if you meet you, you don't think, well, he wants
Speaker 2: to get on stage and just rock people's face off.
Speaker 1: You're like, that guy's.
Speaker 2: Probably I don't know what kind of mobb he's in,
Speaker 2: what kind of cattle he's trading, who knows, But you know,
Speaker 2: your personality on stage is large. Your personality here it's
Speaker 2: very compact. Your demeanor is very straightforward. People can hear
Speaker 2: that I used to be scared of you, not anymore,
Speaker 2: but he's scared of you when I first met you
Speaker 2: because I was like this, dude, he hates my guts,
Speaker 2: but I would compare like you, and I'm friends with
Speaker 2: Kane Brown. I thought Kine hated me because Kine doesn't
Speaker 2: say a whole lot, no, no man, a few words. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Now that I know Kane and love Kane like, that's
Speaker 2: one of the things I love about him. It's like
Speaker 2: he's still who he is off stage, but then when
Speaker 2: he gets on stage he puts it on again. Were
Speaker 2: they surprised that you wanted to get on stage and
Speaker 2: put it on.
Speaker 8: It definitely took some time to grow on my mom.
Speaker 8: She didn't quite understand. She didn't quite not fathom it
Speaker 8: at first, but she was like, I don't know, honey,
Speaker 8: you know, I don't know. And I'm also talk about
Speaker 8: two and a half three years before she was like, okay,
Speaker 8: let's go.
Speaker 2: It's also got to be weird too, because where I
Speaker 2: come from, nobody did anything in the art community because
Speaker 2: they worked at the mill. Like they worked at the mill,
Speaker 2: or they had a job, you know, just because where
Speaker 2: you and I both come from, it's not like people
Speaker 2: move off and are, for my case, work on radio
Speaker 2: and TV or your case, they don't move off and
Speaker 2: become country stars. So it's not the people say you
Speaker 2: can't do it, but they don't know that you can
Speaker 2: because no one else really does it around.
Speaker 8: Yeah, and the only the only people that the only
Speaker 8: references we had from around home, you know, coming from construction,
Speaker 8: we don't know the music industry, right. The only references
Speaker 8: we had were brothers Osbourne and Nuggie Rose. You know
Speaker 8: they Maggie's from Mechanicsville and the brothers are from literally
Speaker 8: twenty used to life fires the same place as they did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that hasful though, to see those guys
Speaker 2: and see that they were doing it, and it because again,
Speaker 2: there is.
Speaker 1: Normal I know their parents. There is normal and blue collar.
Speaker 8: And there's like two hundred and fifty of them of them,
Speaker 8: of the of the OSBA. It's it's nuts, man, It's
Speaker 8: it's nuts. I've met fifteen uncles of theirs.
Speaker 6: They They've been.
Speaker 8: Really good to us over the last couple of years.
Speaker 8: The first big ass show that we did was Delaware
Speaker 8: State Fair with them, and I remember choking so bad.
Speaker 1: I choked on Hallelujah.
Speaker 8: On Ryan Bingham's Hallelujah, I've been playing the song for
Speaker 8: three years and just too much happening in my brain
Speaker 8: and just completely choked on it. But that was the
Speaker 8: biggest show that we had done to that date, and
Speaker 8: they were so good to us and have.
Speaker 1: And have continued to be.
Speaker 8: But there they were the only they were the only
Speaker 8: even close to us that we were like, that's dope,
Speaker 8: you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like and humans like us can do that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because that I mean, I think representation, regardless of
Speaker 2: what it is, you were kind of being represented by
Speaker 2: somebody showing that if you want to do it, and
Speaker 2: you're good enough to do it, and you.
Speaker 1: Work hard enough to do it.
Speaker 9: It actually can be done personally.
Speaker 10: Visuals than.
Speaker 11: This episode is all about careers and finding happiness within success.
Speaker 6: I have on Ashley Stall, who is a.
Speaker 11: Career coach with years of experience, talking about the best
Speaker 11: way to discover your direction in life and how to
Speaker 11: find fulfillment in a career. Then Melissa Schleichner joins me.
Speaker 11: She's a celebrity makeup and hairstylist, most known for her
Speaker 11: salon Parlor three in Nashville. And of course we're being
Speaker 11: Carrie Underwood's full time hair and makeup stylist for over
Speaker 11: seventeen years. Making the leap to a new job can
Speaker 11: also be super scary. How can one know or feel
Speaker 11: that they're making the right move for themselves, because that's
Speaker 11: a really terrifying place to be.
Speaker 12: You know.
Speaker 13: I think that life is really an experiment and you
Speaker 13: need to be willing to take what you know and
Speaker 13: with the best of your knowledge, move forward. Fulfilling and
Speaker 13: successful career really has three lily pads, is what I've found.
Speaker 13: The first lily pad is kind of what the majority
Speaker 13: of the workforce unfortunately chooses to be in, which is
Speaker 13: they're fine, and they're fine with being fine, and maybe
Speaker 13: they don't love what they do, they like it enough
Speaker 13: or it pays the bills and they stay there. There's
Speaker 13: a certain population that swims from lily pad one to
Speaker 13: lily Pad two, which is where my work really is
Speaker 13: geared to take people. That's about really figuring out where
Speaker 13: you're a gifted and where your talents are. So if
Speaker 13: you're willing to swim from being fine to really finding
Speaker 13: your gifts, you need to go through an unknown and
Speaker 13: an experimental period. Clarity comes from engagement. It's never going
Speaker 13: to just come from thinking. You can't think. It's like
Speaker 13: rocking in a rocking chair, just thinking and ending up
Speaker 13: in the same place. Ultimately, a certain level of thinking
Speaker 13: got you to where you are, And as Albert Einstein
Speaker 13: has set in many of his quotables, you need to
Speaker 13: do something new to get somewhere new. That comes down
Speaker 13: to experimenting. So in order to get to that second
Speaker 13: lily pad, there comes a point where you need to
Speaker 13: say this feels like it's aligned with my core skill
Speaker 13: set and really understand your core skill set is a
Speaker 13: huge umbrella with many different options beneath it and many
Speaker 13: different ways of expressing yourself beneath it.
Speaker 6: And once you lock.
Speaker 13: In to a role that's using your gifts, people notice
Speaker 13: your magic because it's actually rare, unfortunately, to see someone
Speaker 13: in a role where they're really aligned with their skills.
Speaker 7: And you know it, if you think about.
Speaker 13: Your work right now or your team right now, you
Speaker 13: know there's one person that comes to mind where they're
Speaker 13: really shining because they're locked in with their skill set
Speaker 13: and people always want to get and that's the thing.
Speaker 13: A lot of research shows that the most talented and
Speaker 13: high impact person is the most burnt out person because
Speaker 13: people see how gifted they are and they want to
Speaker 13: give them more work because they can trust them to
Speaker 13: get it done with a lot of shine on it.
Speaker 13: And so I think going into that experimental period, trying
Speaker 13: things on that gets you onto that second lily pad
Speaker 13: where you're working in your zone of genius, and from
Speaker 13: there life becomes a game of opportunities. You start to
Speaker 13: sift between your yeses and your nose because once people
Speaker 13: start to see someone really talented, they start to ask
Speaker 13: them and offer them different opportunities. And the thing with
Speaker 13: opportunities is that they can be a very high form
Speaker 13: of distraction, because sometimes opportunities are a yes for you,
Speaker 13: other times they're just distracted you and they're not actually
Speaker 13: what you're meant for. So your job, when you get
Speaker 13: to that second lily pad and you finally have experimented
Speaker 13: enough to land in a role that's really using your
Speaker 13: skills and showing your gifts and you're shining, is to
Speaker 13: be able to say yes to the right things for you,
Speaker 13: be a little more discerning about who you really are,
Speaker 13: what your values are, what your skills are, and how
Speaker 13: you want to be growing. And once you find that
Speaker 13: right opportunity, you have an opportunity to swim over to
Speaker 13: the third lily pad, and not everybody makes it there.
Speaker 13: I believe that that lily pad is kind of what
Speaker 13: they would call your dharma you're calling, and I've only
Speaker 13: been there once in my career. When I was writing
Speaker 13: my book, it felt like time didn't exist. Words were
Speaker 13: just flying through my fingers as I was typing for
Speaker 13: deadlines with my publisher. It was like this magical experience
Speaker 13: that was beyond me and it felt like soul work.
Speaker 13: And I think a fulfilling life doesn't have to get
Speaker 13: you to that part where you're really doing your dharma.
Speaker 13: But I wish for everyone to at least have an
Speaker 13: opportunity to access that human experience. And I would say,
Speaker 13: you really can't get there unless you're willing to experiment,
Speaker 13: to engage, to try on different things. And it doesn't
Speaker 13: mean you need to be reckless, you need to be thoughtful.
Speaker 11: What was that first connection that happened for you? I
Speaker 11: listed so many of the country music starts you were
Speaker 11: working with. When did that begin and what did that
Speaker 11: look like to even get your foot in that door?
Speaker 14: So it started there was another makeup artist, Melanie. There
Speaker 14: was not very many makeup artists when I was started
Speaker 14: for the celebrities, and there was a girl named Melanie
Speaker 14: Shelley and I was kind of her assistant, and I
Speaker 14: would do people when she couldn't do it, and she
Speaker 14: was just amazing. She was working with the Dixie Chicks,
Speaker 14: Alan Jackson, Lena Womack, all these different people.
Speaker 13: Well, she got super busy with the Dixie Chicks, so
Speaker 13: I would.
Speaker 14: Go do Alin Jackson for her or different people, and
Speaker 14: you know, it just kind of evolves where it wasn't
Speaker 14: they liked me, but she was just really busy at
Speaker 14: the time. My first real client was Alan Jackson.
Speaker 11: And what does that look like doing makeup for a
Speaker 11: male artist, because a lot of people are like, oh, makeup, hair,
Speaker 11: it's all female.
Speaker 14: I love male grooming like it's easy, but it's also me.
Speaker 14: You think, oh, just slap some powdery. It's not that easy.
Speaker 14: They're going on TV. You have to make sure everything
Speaker 14: looks great. They're brows and all the good things. But
Speaker 14: I love male grooming so much.
Speaker 13: How did the connection to Carrie happen?
Speaker 14: Carrie was this girl on American Idol. I didn't watch
Speaker 14: TV much. I was weren't busy doing my freelance stuff.
Speaker 14: Here Alan Jackson, Leo Walmack, all these people. And my
Speaker 14: daughter Hunter was watching American Idol when bo and Carrie
Speaker 14: were on there she won, which my daughter was obsessed
Speaker 14: with carry and I said, oh, Hunter, they called me
Speaker 14: for that girl you love on American Idol for her
Speaker 14: first Afrey debut. She's like, mom, you have to do it.
Speaker 14: And so I had Alan Jackson that night. So I
Speaker 14: actually was like, Okay, I can come get it ready,
Speaker 14: but I have to leave. So I did it.
Speaker 6: Didn't think anything about it.
Speaker 15: I just did it for my daughter.
Speaker 14: That was eleven years old at the time to get
Speaker 14: an autograph. And then I think like two weeks later,
Speaker 14: I was working with other artists. They were kind of
Speaker 14: slowing down and called me for like thirty dates for
Speaker 14: Carrie and I was like, oh, okay, I liked her.
Speaker 10: She's great.
Speaker 7: And then it just went from there.
Speaker 3: We're gonna do it live.
Speaker 12: Oh the one, two, three, Sore Losers.
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Speaker 16: I know the most about sports, so I'll give you
Speaker 16: the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much
Speaker 16: a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 12: It's Susan. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
Speaker 12: I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser,
Speaker 12: my wife.
Speaker 3: We do have a farm.
Speaker 12: It's beautiful, a lot of acreage, no animals, a lot
Speaker 12: of crops. Hopefully soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe
Speaker 12: a little fescue to be determined. Over to you, coach.
Speaker 16: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The
Speaker 16: Sore Losers. The wife and I kind of got in
Speaker 16: a little tiff because get home with the kids, you know,
Speaker 16: and I'm outside and I'm on the phone with Granny
Speaker 16: and Grandpa and Toolbox and you know, hat Box. We're
Speaker 16: just chatting away and we're I'm just hanging in the
Speaker 16: front yard. The kids keep coming in and out. They're
Speaker 16: talking to me, get away from the moat, and I
Speaker 16: end up talking to my parents for like forty five minutes,
Speaker 16: just about life, how everything's going.
Speaker 3: Hey, dad, I never asked you what's your favorite color? No, no, don't.
Speaker 16: I don't know what his favorite color is. Don't know
Speaker 16: what my mom's favorite color is either, never really asked
Speaker 16: them that. But we're just talking about other things, just talking.
Speaker 12: Hey dad, how's your sex life.
Speaker 16: I'd rather talk to my kid about sticking his fingers
Speaker 16: and his butt and smelling them than know about my parents'
Speaker 16: sex life. Do you think about that like your parents
Speaker 16: are Hey no.
Speaker 12: No, I mean you could think of you realize your
Speaker 12: mind's really powerful. You could think about anything any moment
Speaker 12: of the day. But I choose the things that I
Speaker 12: think about. But when you look at your mom and dad,
Speaker 12: do you think, man, they still do it. No, I
Speaker 12: don't ever think about that because that's just a gross thought.
Speaker 12: But I have ways of blocking stuff out of my head,
Speaker 12: like if I do something a mistake, block from the head.
Speaker 12: Forget about it Friday afternoon. Don't care about it, so
Speaker 12: you can block stuff. You have that power. You need
Speaker 12: to teach your son he has that power to not
Speaker 12: wonder about what's in his buttthole.
Speaker 16: I agree, I need him to block that out because
Speaker 16: I do think about that. Like I think about like
Speaker 16: when my father in law's around, Like does he sit
Speaker 16: there and go, man, this dude's banging my daughter. Does
Speaker 16: he have that thought or is that not in his
Speaker 16: head now?
Speaker 3: I mean I originally probably yes, but now.
Speaker 16: Like you don't think your father in law sit there going, man,
Speaker 16: he's going to bed with my daughter. I gots so weird,
Speaker 16: like that is a weird concept that eventually your kid
Speaker 16: is gonna be I don't know. That's just weird to me.
Speaker 12: Right if you choose to think about that. But I
Speaker 12: just don't, well, I don't choose to think about it.
Speaker 16: Just pops in my head sometimes, like man, he thinks, oh, yeah,
Speaker 16: he's having sex with my daughter.
Speaker 3: Like if you ever thought about hooking on with Arnold? No,
Speaker 3: I haven't. That's what I'm saying. You have that power
Speaker 3: to not think about them.
Speaker 16: Okay, okay, anyway back to my original story.
Speaker 10: I'm sorry.
Speaker 16: So after forty five minutes, I tell my parents, all right,
Speaker 16: I gotta go, you know what I mean. I'm gonna
Speaker 16: go inside hopefully, you know, maybe dinner's ready by now
Speaker 16: or something. And I go inside and the plates are
Speaker 16: all on the counter and I'm like what. And I
Speaker 16: go to my wife. I said, did you guys already eat?
Speaker 16: She goes yeah. I'm like, oh, well, why didn't you
Speaker 16: come out and say, hey, dinner's ready? She goes, Oh,
Speaker 16: I thought you'd be in any minute.
Speaker 3: I said, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 16: But when I didn't come in in a minute, you
Speaker 16: don't think you could pop your head out and say, hey,
Speaker 16: we're gonna eat. You want to come in and eat?
Speaker 16: And she's like oh. I was like, you could even
Speaker 16: texted me. You could even text me instead of walking
Speaker 16: the ten feet to the door, you could have texted
Speaker 16: me and said, hey, you coming inside for dinner.
Speaker 3: Instead, you guys had dinner without me.
Speaker 16: She's like, yeah, I mean I just thought, oh, he'll
Speaker 16: be in a minute, and then a couple of minutes
Speaker 16: you were so I'll say, oh, he'll be in another minute,
Speaker 16: and next thing you know, we were done eating dinner.
Speaker 3: Is that what led to TIFF's treats or you said,
Speaker 3: Tiff that was a tiff, Yeah, little fight. Yeah, so
Speaker 3: I ordered TIFF's treats right, Well, why would I order
Speaker 3: TIFF's treats. She's the one that didn't tell me, damn,
Speaker 3: dinner was ready? I sided with your wife. How I
Speaker 3: have real life examples, go for it.
Speaker 12: Baser does Uber Eats. She knows exactly when it's gonna
Speaker 12: be delivered. When it comes and she says, hey, Uber
Speaker 12: Eats is here, I go get Uber Eats once a month.
Speaker 3: Guys, we don't do it regularly every week in this economy,
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 12: And so get it and I put it on the
Speaker 12: table and I'll just start eating. And sometimes she's under
Speaker 12: the assumption that I'm gonna bring it to her in bed.
Speaker 12: I just you know, the food's there, so come out
Speaker 12: and get it. Yeah, no, no, Or what if I
Speaker 12: just go get the pizza. So there's there's like about
Speaker 12: a two minute thing where it says it's coming down
Speaker 12: our driveway and when I start eating, I'll just go
Speaker 12: get it, put on the table and start eating. Do
Speaker 12: I need to go into the bedroom and say, hey,
Speaker 12: do you want me to bring the food too? I'll
Speaker 12: just start eating. I'm with your wife. You don't need
Speaker 12: to know. You knew around when the meal was gonna
Speaker 12: be made, did I? My wife knows when when the
Speaker 12: uber is gonna come into the table.
Speaker 16: I get that uber eats is a set time. See, guys,
Speaker 16: here's this thing uber eats. Were you rich people?
Speaker 10: Well?
Speaker 12: Because my wife can't hear the door because for whatever reason,
Speaker 12: we had a two hundred square feet that I didn't
Speaker 12: plan on having, so she actually can't hear the door shut,
Speaker 12: so she doesn't know that food is on the table.
Speaker 12: Is it my job to say dinner's here when she
Speaker 12: knows the roundabout time that that food is gonna be
Speaker 12: put on the table from when I went and got
Speaker 12: it from the uber eats.
Speaker 3: Now that I understand, I just sit down and start eating.
Speaker 3: Just like your wife. I'm hungry.
Speaker 16: I'm gonna agree with you on your side, but mine
Speaker 16: is not. It's an uber eat situation where there's a
Speaker 16: set time when on an app that tells you when
Speaker 16: they're gonna be at your freaking door. This is my
Speaker 16: wife is in the kitchen making some dinner, and she's
Speaker 16: gonna put it on plates, and we're gonna eat and
Speaker 16: if she doesn't tell me it's ready, I would never
Speaker 16: So I'm just supposed to stand there and just watch
Speaker 16: her until it's ready. No, say hey, dinner's ready. And
Speaker 16: I said, you usually come outside and say hey, dinner's ready,
Speaker 16: and she goes, yeah, but you're usually outside with the kids.
Speaker 16: The kids weren't out there, So I'm supposed to just
Speaker 16: magically know it's ready.
Speaker 3: It's it's the same. It's you and Bezer the same.
Speaker 12: Y'all should date you guys need to then check on
Speaker 12: the knead. I don't know. It's not mine and your wife.
Speaker 12: Me and your wife are in the same boat on
Speaker 12: this one. It's not our job to notify you of
Speaker 12: the meal that you already know is about to be
Speaker 12: made in some in some five minute window, the meal's made,
Speaker 12: come check in on it. What if you just came
Speaker 12: and just what if you on the phone just come in? Huh,
Speaker 12: look and see if the phone's food's made. It's your
Speaker 12: wife's job to come notify you that the food is made.
Speaker 3: No, No, hang out for a second. Just see if
Speaker 3: all the food's coming in. Hey, would you bring it
Speaker 3: in the room. All the foods here.
Speaker 16: That's the thing dude, how do you think it would
Speaker 16: fly over if at the Dallas Cowboys facility, catering gets
Speaker 16: put out and they just.
Speaker 1: Leave it out and then they leave.
Speaker 16: You're telling me they would, and if they didn't go
Speaker 16: down the hallway and tell Zeke and Dak and Ceedee
Speaker 16: Lamb and Jake Ferguson, if they didn't stick their head
Speaker 16: in the other rooms say hey, guys, food's ready, Come
Speaker 16: and eat it.
Speaker 3: Brandon cooks, Thanks, Brandon Cooks.
Speaker 10: Thanks.
Speaker 16: If you don't think there would be a problem that
Speaker 16: the person that cooked the food didn't go down and
Speaker 16: tell freaking Mike McCarthy, I mean you think Mike McCarthy's
Speaker 16: gonna be okay with not eating.
Speaker 12: No, sir, that's because it's an outside catering source, somebody
Speaker 12: that's not related or in cahoots with the person eating
Speaker 12: the meal. You and your wife are on such a
Speaker 12: similar thought pattern. You guys know in Baser all of it,
Speaker 12: there's no need for the notifications of the meal. Once
Speaker 12: you shoot a deer fifty years ago, you started eating
Speaker 12: the fucker. You don't go tell the caveman. Hey, guys,
Speaker 12: I got a deer. I'm gonna cook it. No man,
Speaker 12: you just started eating that.
Speaker 8: Good cast up little food for yourself.
Speaker 3: Life.
Speaker 8: Oh it's pretty bad, It's pretty beautiful, maiful.
Speaker 1: Laugh a little more, said he k.
Speaker 10: Y're kicking with fulling.
Speaker 17: With Amy Brown.
Speaker 5: So on Monday, Kat has an episode coming out on
Speaker 5: you Need Therapy. She has episodes every Monday and Wednesday,
Speaker 5: and I'm going to be the guest and we're going
Speaker 5: to be talking about my recent dating life, because when
Speaker 5: it comes to dating, I need therapy, so a lot
Speaker 5: of people. But if you're dating like me, it can
Speaker 5: be a little bit confusing. It can be intimidating, especially
Speaker 5: if you're divorced and you have kids and you're older.
Speaker 5: And I feel like it was confusing for me in
Speaker 5: my twenties, and you would think with the maturity, which
Speaker 5: I would say, it's a little different. I do have
Speaker 5: some of that, but there's still stuff that creeps in
Speaker 5: morow like I can't believe I'm having these thoughts at
Speaker 5: forty something that I had back when I was in
Speaker 5: my twenties, because I'll still find myself getting a little confused.
Speaker 5: But I guess I recover from it faster or I
Speaker 5: have more rational thoughts pop into my head that are like, Okay,
Speaker 5: don't overthink this, don't over analyze it doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 5: You're building a story. But I think when meeting a guy,
Speaker 5: if you're getting to know him, it's normal to wonder
Speaker 5: like does he really like me? Or is this going
Speaker 5: to be like a friend thing? And so I was
Speaker 5: looking at various sources and came across twenty seven signs
Speaker 5: that he likes you more than a friend, but I
Speaker 5: pulled the top six.
Speaker 18: Okay, I was like, that's a lot of signs.
Speaker 5: No, we're not going to go over all twenty seven,
Speaker 5: but I'm very curious about this first one. He displays
Speaker 5: a healthy jealousy. From a therapist standpoint, I'm curious your
Speaker 5: thoughts on this. If he gets a little jealous when
Speaker 5: you mention other guys, he's probably displaying his protectiveness around you.
Speaker 5: So is there such thing as healthy jealousy?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 18: I think jealousy is oftentimes healthy and it's helpful because
Speaker 18: when we feel jealous, it's often because we see something
Speaker 18: that we want.
Speaker 7: So I think that that can be true.
Speaker 18: It's what you do with that jealousy that might be
Speaker 18: that healthy and unhealthy thing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like, how far is willing to go?
Speaker 7: But what does he do.
Speaker 18: Does he like blame you for cheating on him or something,
Speaker 18: or does he go like beat this guy up, or
Speaker 18: he ask you to like never contact that person again?
Speaker 7: That is not great. But if he's like, oh, Brad
Speaker 7: texted you, what did he want?
Speaker 5: Cool? What are you going to hang out with Brad?
Speaker 7: That's passive aggressive?
Speaker 5: Oh but I know, but I've done that joking joke. Okay,
Speaker 5: So I've done that jokey jokey with which maybe we'll
Speaker 5: talk about it more on Monday. We haven't recorded that
Speaker 5: episode yet, but you've been there and I've made a
Speaker 5: joke joke about it's cute. Let's call her Tina. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 5: is that what Tina like to do?
Speaker 18: But that's flirting okay, But if you take it too far,
Speaker 18: if you were like, why don't you just go hang
Speaker 18: out with Tina?
Speaker 7: That is not.
Speaker 5: Fun Lifetime movie vibes, Yes, like who's Tina? When we've
Speaker 5: only been out like twice and he could easily still
Speaker 5: be dating Tina and doing it in an appropriate way
Speaker 5: because when you're usually dating, you can be dating multiple people.
Speaker 5: And the jealousy thing. I like that you brought that
Speaker 5: up too, So it's outside of relationships as well, Like
Speaker 5: you could see something you want, like you could be
Speaker 5: jealous of a career thing, but you can use as
Speaker 5: an indicator of like, oh, it's actually good that I'm
Speaker 5: feeling this because it's telling me what I want and
Speaker 5: now what do I need to do to go get
Speaker 5: that in a healthy way?
Speaker 7: And I don't have to hate the person that has
Speaker 7: something I want.
Speaker 5: Observes even the small things about you, So it says
Speaker 5: a guy who notices small changes in your daily life
Speaker 5: is making an effort to build a deeper connection with you.
Speaker 7: I love it.
Speaker 5: When I topped on my hair off, he noticed, Yeah.
Speaker 7: So you're saying this guy likes you.
Speaker 5: I'm just kidding. That was very obvious. My hair went
Speaker 5: from really long to really short.
Speaker 18: I cut five inches off of my hair and colored it,
Speaker 18: and I came home and I just stood in the
Speaker 18: kitchen looking at Patrick, being like flipping my hair and
Speaker 18: being like, how's your day? And then I just like
Speaker 18: stared at him in the eyes for like thirty seconds,
Speaker 18: and he was like, what is wrong with you?
Speaker 7: And I was like, Oh, I don't.
Speaker 18: Know if anything new happened or if you notice, and
Speaker 18: he was so confused, So then I think I probably
Speaker 18: gave him the silent treatment for like an hour after
Speaker 18: he didn't five inches.
Speaker 5: Chat GPT would not agree with your reaction to that. Well,
Speaker 5: first of all, I was tricked him into trying to
Speaker 5: notice your hair and stood there, and then you gave
Speaker 5: him the silent treatment. It's not effective communication, It's.
Speaker 18: Not It was very unhealthy and I will own that.
Speaker 18: But what do you think it says about Patrick that
Speaker 18: he didn't notice. He's a sociopath, okay, and he doesn't
Speaker 18: like me.
Speaker 5: I'm just kidding. Next thing, he goes the extra mile
Speaker 5: for you. Men will go to any extent to charm
Speaker 5: their partners, even at the cost of their inconvenience.
Speaker 7: I love this one.
Speaker 5: I haven't experienced it really, Yea.
Speaker 7: I have when you had the mold.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, okay, thank you for the reminder.
Speaker 18: We're like I'd like, oh I have to make a
Speaker 18: phone call for her, and like like that's an inconvenience,
Speaker 18: but people do it.
Speaker 7: Okay.
Speaker 5: That was right when it all kind of started back.
Speaker 7: And he was happy to be inconvenienced by you.
Speaker 5: Okay, thank you for that. He changes his body language,
Speaker 5: does he keep his feet towards you. Does he look
Speaker 5: you in the eye or listen attentively when you speak?
Speaker 5: If yes, he could be attracted to you. Does he
Speaker 5: keep his feet towards you? That's interesting me paying attention
Speaker 5: to feat? Does he look you in the eye? But
Speaker 5: you and Patrick Yell are married now for what seven months?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Whole seven months? So probably we're past the sea towards
Speaker 7: each other.
Speaker 5: Stage keeps you updated. Men who see you as romantic
Speaker 5: interest will update you about their day, send you pictures,
Speaker 5: show curiosity to know about your day, and send wishful texts.
Speaker 7: You're smiling.
Speaker 5: I'm smiling because I sent a text to him yesterday
Speaker 5: because you want to see that new Reagan movie with
Speaker 5: Dennis Quaid.
Speaker 7: Oh I want to see that. I know about that.
Speaker 5: So I saw a big billboard and I was out
Speaker 5: of light, and I took a picture of the Reagan billboard,
Speaker 5: but in front of me was a grey Honda. And
Speaker 5: all he replied back, he was like, you must really
Speaker 5: like that gray Honda, because you're sending it to me.
Speaker 3: I want this.
Speaker 7: He knew it was the billboard. He was making a joke. Oh,
Speaker 7: that's really funny.
Speaker 5: And so now I said, oh, yeah, you know, every
Speaker 5: time I see Gray Honda, they are But that was
Speaker 5: me kind of updating him. I feel like I would
Speaker 5: probably text way more than he does, but that's okay.
Speaker 18: Also, the way you text in general is different, Like
Speaker 18: you're like a text like me, which is.
Speaker 7: We send a lot of texts in a row and
Speaker 7: then we go M I A yeah.
Speaker 18: And then But you don't mind like being in that
Speaker 18: constant where like some people would rather just like, Okay,
Speaker 18: if I have something to say, I'm going to call you,
Speaker 18: or I don't need to talk to you all day,
Speaker 18: I'll just call you at a certain point and catch up.
Speaker 18: Versus I'm like, every time I take a step, I
Speaker 18: have to tell you how far I've gotten in what
Speaker 18: I've seen and how the clouds look different and all
Speaker 18: that true.
Speaker 5: The final thing he introduces you to his inner circle.
Speaker 5: If you have met his best friends or his family,
Speaker 5: he may just be interested in you.
Speaker 18: That is actually a good indicator because when you are
Speaker 18: kept he's calling shut up.
Speaker 5: It should be recorded like through it, hold on, hold on, hold.
Speaker 10: On, Carne.
Speaker 12: She's a queen and talking and so she's.
Speaker 6: Get really not afraid to fing so so just.
Speaker 10: Let it blow.
Speaker 17: No one can do we quiet, carlne it's sound of Caroline.
Speaker 4: So how are you doing? You have so last time
Speaker 4: we talked, you and John weren't married. You were maybe
Speaker 4: not even engaged. Maybe we're engaged, just engaged or right
Speaker 4: in the Yeah, we're definitely serious and in the engagement world.
Speaker 6: But it was all so new.
Speaker 4: You guys met because your mom's introduced you. Yeah, can
Speaker 4: you just refresh that story because that one's too good?
Speaker 15: You my actually my client and John's mom.
Speaker 6: Do you do hair?
Speaker 15: I did hair?
Speaker 6: Have been tired?
Speaker 15: Oh good for you.
Speaker 6: Hey, you've moved on to new things.
Speaker 15: I thought for sure I was going to be back
Speaker 15: to hair four weeks after Presley, like I was one
Speaker 15: hundred percent I'm going to be back, And here I
Speaker 15: am now a year and a half later, with two
Speaker 15: babies and still not doing hair. Hey season, But it's
Speaker 15: I feel like at peace with it, which is really nice.
Speaker 15: So but yeah, no, John, So my client at the time,
Speaker 15: and John's mom. John and I both grew up in California,
Speaker 15: like three hours apart, didn't know each other. I honestly
Speaker 15: don't even know who he was, even though I've grown
Speaker 15: up with country music. But they set us up because
Speaker 15: he had had failed fail after fail of girlfriends, and
Speaker 15: same for me with boyfriends and so.
Speaker 6: So he was looking for a good girl.
Speaker 15: He was looking for a good girl, looking, John, All,
Speaker 15: you're looking for a good girl.
Speaker 6: You were looking for a good cowboy.
Speaker 15: I was looking for a cowboy. You really probably weren't
Speaker 15: have lived in California, but a California cowboy.
Speaker 6: Well, he is a California cowboy.
Speaker 15: Yeah that those exist, but they really they do.
Speaker 4: There's a lot of land up there in California. Yeah,
Speaker 4: he grew up as a cowboy, like on land.
Speaker 6: Yep, doing what.
Speaker 15: He's All of his family and stuff has been in
Speaker 15: different family members are in farming. They'd had like almonds
Speaker 15: and all kinds of things up north where he's from,
Speaker 15: like outside of sacrament now. So he always grew up
Speaker 15: just out out living the dream.
Speaker 4: So she'll met on a blind date. Met on a
Speaker 4: blind date because your mom, his mom came to you.
Speaker 4: I've so was she coming to you?
Speaker 15: That's what you said, my client, his mom, Okay, did
Speaker 15: their whole working magic? Gave John my number. He sat
Speaker 15: on it for a few days. Text me because he
Speaker 15: was actually in my hometown for a concert. I think
Speaker 15: he was trying with Dirks at the time, but I
Speaker 15: was in Vegas, and so the next option was to
Speaker 15: fly out to Denver the following week to meet him,
Speaker 15: where he had two shows.
Speaker 4: I forgot you actually flew out to meet him on
Speaker 4: a blind date. That's so ballsy summer, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 15: And I took my girl friend just in case it
Speaker 15: was a disaster. Case it was a disaster, I would
Speaker 15: at least have a girl und daed roll strip. I
Speaker 15: tried to cancel the flight, and that didn't happen because
Speaker 15: it was booked by his travel agents, so I couldn't
Speaker 15: go in and edit the flight. I tried to. I
Speaker 15: panicked last minute, and so here we are, seven years,
Speaker 15: I think now later.
Speaker 6: I've got a lot of grounds in seven.
Speaker 15: Years, twenty seventeen.
Speaker 6: So how's how was it?
Speaker 15: Okay?
Speaker 4: Y'all got married? Touring NonStop, career keeps blowing up. You
Speaker 4: are like blowing up. You're such like an incredible brand ambassador.
Speaker 4: You have so much great advice to share with people
Speaker 4: like I. Literally, if I need to know what I
Speaker 4: need to have for everything in my life, you are
Speaker 4: a go to.
Speaker 6: You're an incredible.
Speaker 4: Resource and you just learn. You're just such like a
Speaker 4: wonderful energy to follow too. You're so real, you're so open,
Speaker 4: you're just.
Speaker 6: You're just your or your dream, your total dream summer.
Speaker 15: Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 4: So your life has dramatically changed though, because marrying John
Speaker 4: puts you on a different trajectory.
Speaker 15: Definitely.
Speaker 6: And how was that? Do you feel like you were
Speaker 6: made for road life?
Speaker 4: Because I really some people like it's really hard, and
Speaker 4: other people are like, this is what I'm made for.
Speaker 15: I mean definitely wasn't made for it. Then we talked
Speaker 15: about this, I'm sure in the beginning too, because it
Speaker 15: was just like I was such a routine homebody, like
Speaker 15: same breakfast every day, same you know, wake up, jim
Speaker 15: scrambled egg, work, home, nothing, nothing outside those lines. And
Speaker 15: so to be thrown into this lifestyle where there's no
Speaker 15: routine and no no schedule in a sense of like normalcy.
Speaker 15: But I've done well, I will say I've I have.
Speaker 15: I will pat myself on the back because I have
Speaker 15: done better than I thought I would do.
Speaker 4: What have you had to what were the parts that
Speaker 4: you had to like get to And they makes you
Speaker 4: feel a little like, oh, this is this is not
Speaker 4: my normal that you had to push through alter your
Speaker 4: perception on it a little bit.
Speaker 15: Everything about road life, the shitty sleep.
Speaker 6: Sleep is so bad, horrible, It's so bad.
Speaker 15: Unless you get blocked out drunk. It's the only way
Speaker 15: to sleep.
Speaker 6: Man, You're gonna feel terrible in another way and you.
Speaker 15: Pay for it. Yeah, there's no there's no positive. And
Speaker 15: I get scared that.
Speaker 6: We're going to crash.
Speaker 4: Like I have a very hard time going to sleep,
Speaker 4: because like you're putting your whole life in this person
Speaker 4: driving the bus.
Speaker 15: The guy's not think about stuff because John's never talked
Speaker 15: about that. I'm like, I spent the first six months
Speaker 15: waiting to get tea boned Yeah, in the back of
Speaker 15: that bus.
Speaker 4: Michaels never thinks about stuff like I'm always like, okay,
Speaker 4: assessing my situation, which is kind of ironic that I
Speaker 4: crushed my tail buone because.
Speaker 6: I am someone I told the cmicle.
Speaker 4: I was like, I am literally someone who I'm going
Speaker 4: to assess the situation. I don't want to be like
Speaker 4: a freak of nature where I'm scared of everything, but
Speaker 4: I'm going to look at the whole thing and I'm
Speaker 4: going to figure out where the pitfalls could be where
Speaker 4: the danger lurks, you know, on that one where the
Speaker 4: risk is.
Speaker 6: How about that.
Speaker 4: I'm going to find the risk and then I'm going
Speaker 4: to weigh my odds, do we is this worth the
Speaker 4: risk or not?
Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 4: So like the risk with the road life, like the
Speaker 4: driving in the in the bus is very scary to
Speaker 4: me to sleep at night, but I mean it's worth
Speaker 4: the risk because you got to get to the shows,
Speaker 4: which is why are you bus? I mean, so, you know,
Speaker 4: and I think that's how Michael view sings is like
Speaker 4: he's like, what are you going to do? You know,
Speaker 4: It's like you can't worry about that kind of stuff.
Speaker 6: But I think about it.
Speaker 4: So the first six months you were thinking about it, Yeah,
Speaker 4: and then what happened?
Speaker 6: You just decided not to worry about it anymore.
Speaker 15: I think I just got broken. I think I just
Speaker 15: started getting drunk every.
Speaker 1: Night or something.
Speaker 4: I I think that's another reason why people do have
Speaker 4: like some a little sleep aid.
Speaker 6: I need a little help to like go to sleep.
Speaker 15: Definitely, I mean that's definitely part of it, yeah, for sure. Sure,
Speaker 15: But also that first year was so fun of like
Speaker 15: the party life. You know, it's night and day from
Speaker 15: what we were back then.
Speaker 6: Tell me how it was then and how it is now, Like,
Speaker 6: give me some details.
Speaker 15: I mean, it was party central, but we were also
Speaker 15: on one bus with like thirteen of us. It was
Speaker 15: me and like the loving guys, which was honestly disgusting.
Speaker 15: But in the time, I was so in that honeymoon phase,
Speaker 15: like I said, this is amazing, Like this is so fun.
Speaker 15: One bathroom always covered in pe fal And then I
Speaker 15: think a year later we had graduated two buses, and
Speaker 15: then now it's got four or five, and so we
Speaker 15: have our own bus now, so we have our family
Speaker 15: bus where it's just us and the girls, and then
Speaker 15: we have automar nanny who travels with us. And so
Speaker 15: even that, though is like it makes me laugh thinking
Speaker 15: about the days when that first eight months of our
Speaker 15: life together was literally thirteen of us on a bus,
Speaker 15: just rage mode parting every night.
Speaker 17: Hey, it's Mike d and this week All Movie Mike's
Speaker 17: Movie Podcast, I shared my top eight movies from the
Speaker 17: eighties that I think deserve a sequel. Now with the
Speaker 17: success of Beetlejuice Beetlejuice, I think Hollywood is foaming out
Speaker 17: the mouth to get more eighties movie sequels, So I
Speaker 17: shared some of my favorite movies from the eighties that
Speaker 17: still don't have one. Surprisingly, I also gave my spoiler
Speaker 17: free review of Beetlejuice. Beetlejuice, so be sure to check
Speaker 17: out this full episode. But right now, now, here's just
Speaker 17: a little bit of movie Mike's movie podcast at number
Speaker 17: eight a movie that came out in nineteen eighty six.
Speaker 17: It's one of my favorite football movies of all time. Actually,
Speaker 17: two of my favorite all time favorite football movies came
Speaker 17: out in the eighties, but it is Lucas. The reason
Speaker 17: I feel that this movie needs a sequel is one
Speaker 17: I identified a lot with the character of Lucas. If
Speaker 17: you're not familiar with this movie, it is a character
Speaker 17: named Lucas played by Corey Heim, Which how more quintessential
Speaker 17: eighties actor can you get than Corey Heim sadly passed away,
Speaker 17: but he was such a dominant force in the eighties
Speaker 17: when it came to childhood and teenage actors. And he
Speaker 17: played this character named Lucas, who was a really smart
Speaker 17: teenager and he was trying to get this girl, and
Speaker 17: in order to impress, he joined the football team. She
Speaker 17: was the new girl in school. Played by Carrie Green.
Speaker 17: Charlie Sheen was in the movie. He tried to protect Lucas,
Speaker 17: Y said, I know in a writer, so an incredible
Speaker 17: eighties cast, And the reason I want to see a
Speaker 17: sequel to Lucas is probably a little bit selfish. But
Speaker 17: in the eighties and nineties, there was this category of
Speaker 17: movie with a plot line nerdy boy tries to get
Speaker 17: hot girl, and that was a lot of movies and
Speaker 17: us as viewers, we love to root for the underdog.
Speaker 17: We love to root for the guy to get the girl,
Speaker 17: the girl to get the guy. The will they won't they?
Speaker 17: That has just been a constant in TV and movies,
Speaker 17: and I feel in the last ten fifteen years we
Speaker 17: don't really have those type of movies anymore. And it's
Speaker 17: probably in the same way that we've had less comedies
Speaker 17: in the last five, six, seven, even decade, we've also
Speaker 17: had less of this type of plotline because it's not
Speaker 17: quite a rom com, it's not quite a full on comedy.
Speaker 17: It is this very specific coming of age movie. That
Speaker 17: is why I want to see that movie. I have
Speaker 17: Lucas too at number eight At number V seven is
Speaker 17: a movie from nineteen eighty five, I want to see
Speaker 17: a sequel to Sesame Street Presents Follow That Bird, Give
Speaker 17: Me Part Two. This is a movie that I discovered
Speaker 17: on a VHS tape. I'm not sure exactly what movie
Speaker 17: that I watched so much in my childhood that I
Speaker 17: remembered all the trailers, and this was one of the
Speaker 17: trailers that when you pop into that VHS tape you
Speaker 17: had to sit through them. You don't have that anymore.
Speaker 17: Our version of that is maybe a pop up ad
Speaker 17: on social media. Scrolling through TikTok. Every now and then
Speaker 17: you get a movie trailer, you hop onto YouTube you
Speaker 17: see trailers. But before that, for DVDs, when you got
Speaker 17: a VHS, it had the baked in movie trailers of
Speaker 17: other movies that you could go buy right now. But
Speaker 17: I remember watching this trailer all the time, and I
Speaker 17: finally was able to actually watch the movie. And I
Speaker 17: love this category of movie. And the interesting thing about
Speaker 17: Sesame Street movies is they've only made two that came
Speaker 17: out in theaters. The first one was this one, Follow
Speaker 17: That Bird, which came out in nineteen eighty five, and
Speaker 17: then they had another one in nineteen ninety nine, Elmo
Speaker 17: and Grouchland. Sadly The thing about Sesame Street movies not
Speaker 17: that profitable, which is so surprising to me that a
Speaker 17: TV show as popular as Sesame Street would have box
Speaker 17: office BOMs. Follow that Bird only made thirteen million dollars
Speaker 17: at the box office, probably cost around ten million dollars
Speaker 17: to make. They didn't even release the numbers for how
Speaker 17: much this movie costs to make. But the Ilman movie
Speaker 17: in ninety nine cost twenty six million dollars to make
Speaker 17: and only mail eleven million dollars at the box office.
Speaker 17: So after that they said, Okay, no more Sesame Street movies.
Speaker 17: It could be the model of Sesame Street. You're having
Speaker 17: to go pay for something in theaters that you could
Speaker 17: get at home for free. And it also has a
Speaker 17: very young audience, so maybe it's hard to kind of
Speaker 17: convert that into getting people and families out to go
Speaker 17: to the theater to watch it. Because I feel like
Speaker 17: a Sesame Street movie. Now I'm kind of talking myself
Speaker 17: out of it, but I feel like a Sesame Street
Speaker 17: movie has just a very very key demographic of young
Speaker 17: young kids, unlike some of the Illumination or Disney movies
Speaker 17: that are fun for the entire family. But me as
Speaker 17: a kid I love follow That Bird had an amazing cast.
Speaker 17: You had Waylon Jennings in this movie. You had Chevy Chase,
Speaker 17: you had John Candy, you had the classic Sesame Street humor.
Speaker 17: My favorite joke out of the entire movie is whenever
Speaker 17: they're trying to track down Big Bird, because what happens
Speaker 17: in this movie. Big Bird is living in Sesame Street,
Speaker 17: living his normal life, loving it, and then he is
Speaker 17: sent to live with a bird family much like he is,
Speaker 17: ends up. He doesn't like that Bird family whatsoever and
Speaker 17: decides that he misses his friends and wants to go
Speaker 17: back to Sesame Street. So it's him getting away from there,
Speaker 17: and then all the Sesame Street characters trying to find
Speaker 17: Big Bird now that he is lost.
Speaker 1: But there is this.
Speaker 17: Big road trip, and I love a movie with the
Speaker 17: road trip. But there's joke where they're like, oh, it's
Speaker 17: the fork in the road, and there's like a literal
Speaker 17: fork in the road. Classic comedy. Me as like a
Speaker 17: four or five year old.
Speaker 10: I ate that up.
Speaker 17: So I know these movies have not been successful, But
Speaker 17: as you can hear in my voice that twenty five,
Speaker 17: twenty seven years after I watched this movie, I'm still
Speaker 17: thinking about it. Even though they didn't make a whole
Speaker 17: lot of money at the box office, that doesn't mean
Speaker 17: that these movies aren't impactful. Maybe it's a straight to
Speaker 17: MAX type movie, because that is just the nature of
Speaker 17: things now we don't have straight to videos straight to
Speaker 17: vhs anymore. Maybe it's a Max original give me Follow
Speaker 17: That Bird Too at number six from nineteen eighty three
Speaker 17: when the original came out. Kujo two is a sequel.
Speaker 17: I would love to see. Reason is I just remember
Speaker 17: this being the go to scary movie that everybody talked
Speaker 17: about when I was growing up. Have you seen Kujo
Speaker 17: The Story of the Killer Dog? One of I believes
Speaker 17: Stephen's best movies in the eighties. It is a movie
Speaker 17: that just feels like it gets a referenced so much
Speaker 17: even if you haven't seen it. But essentially what happens
Speaker 17: in Kujo is, well, you have a killer dog, and
Speaker 17: it's this family trapped in a car the entire time
Speaker 17: and them trying well not to be eaten by Kujo.
Speaker 17: And the movie is truly terrifying. His bloody snout is
Speaker 17: just a great, fantastic movie, and I am surprised that
Speaker 17: we have not had a sequel to it now. Stephen
Speaker 17: King did put out another book called Rattlesnakes, which does
Speaker 17: serve as the sequel to Kujo, primarily focusing on the
Speaker 17: human characters taking place in the aftermath of Kujo, which
Speaker 17: spoiler alert doesn't turn out so great. So you do
Speaker 17: have the source material here. There is a story for
Speaker 17: Kujo two you can throw in make it another dog,
Speaker 17: So I have Kujo two is a sequel I want
Speaker 17: to see at number six.
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