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Speaker 2: Homeless men have great dick, they do.

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Speaker 3: I've never had sex with a homeless man, shay please.

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Speaker 3: Okay, But what if he in between lessons.

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Speaker 1: He got some good dick in between blessing. You can

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Speaker 3: What's up, y'all's your girl XP and it's your girls

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Speaker 2: Real drunk mind speaks sober. But we ain't got no

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Speaker 3: We ain't got no guess today.

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Speaker 1: We had the BET Awards this past weekend, and y'all

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Speaker 2: Never heard of.

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Speaker 3: She using some type of cream that you can only

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Speaker 2: I was thinking that would be so funny. I was

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Speaker 3: Oh that was smooth though, because you know, I'll be

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Speaker 1: You know, but I've decided to clean it up real

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Speaker 2: That's good. It tastes like Lina, It tasts like strawberry lemonade.

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Speaker 2: It tastes like Kendah.

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Speaker 3: I can feel it wing your wow even wear your talk.

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Speaker 3: If he ever needs somebody to like do his vocals,

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm doing for my birthday this year? Right?

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Speaker 2: We're going to the stew Oh you didn't say that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: The Dome is crap from Houston. That's what we do.

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Speaker 2: Oh, little shout out to Lutle Chris, because he ate

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Speaker 3: Queen Elsa, I'm the frozen one. I said, same, I'm

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Speaker 2: I felt that When he said that, I felt it.

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Speaker 3: I'm only laughing because you really did do that though.

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Speaker 2: When he said and he was like oh, and I

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Speaker 3: And Be she was like, when I tell y'all all down,

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Speaker 3: You know how people being like the freestyle things in

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Speaker 2: And then you know, Bes, he don't they do what

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Speaker 3: That's the that's the hip Hop Awards for they need

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get a ghost writer.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna hit the I don't know somebody, Yeah, because

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Speaker 2: Bar I'm gonna Slim thug, you're gonna have you going

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Speaker 3: He definitely gonna ask, alright, you're gonna give me some.

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Speaker 2: Slim is not giving up until you giving up. And

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Speaker 2: want that payment up front. I'm so weak. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 2: let's get into this topic.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So topic one is what are you willing to

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Speaker 3: which is a good thing, but how far it's too

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I think this is a good topic since we're talking

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Speaker 2: So how far is too far? Like how far are

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think there's within boundaries, yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: But I feel like people that are extremely wealthy have

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Speaker 3: Need some little fuck sheet background. Don't cross the few people. Yeah, Now,

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Speaker 2: But it's like, I don't care who you are.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm good at like putting my feelings

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Speaker 3: thing go away from me with these apology, go wait

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Speaker 3: with me, your supaulass, like, just get away from me

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Speaker 2: I would rather go seek another opportunity.

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Speaker 3: One thing I will say for sure about me, I

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Speaker 3: But I will cut anybody off, especially when it comes

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Speaker 3: you got negative energy, you jellys, you weird. Oh you

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Speaker 3: I don't think you have to play dirty in this

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Speaker 2: I think you do, you think so?

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Speaker 3: I think when you get to a certain level, you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like no blueprint to life. You just

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Speaker 3: you never know if you're making a bus decisions. You

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00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:09,600
Speaker 3: just gotta make the busy decision for you.

441
00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:09,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

442
00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:13,400
Speaker 1: See, my biggest thing that I've seen that's like, oh

443
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:14,879
Speaker 1: my god. Like back in the day, I used to

444
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,800
Speaker 1: steal people tables. What you mean when I was bartending,

445
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 1: steal their tables. They sit down and you don't greet

446
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,159
Speaker 1: them quick enough. I'm going get that table, bitch should.

447
00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,640
Speaker 3: Oh I used to do that too. That's just cut throat.

448
00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 3: I was very cut throat.

449
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was. I'm taking I.

450
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,040
Speaker 3: Used to do this because why you're not you get

451
00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 3: a hot two minutes time?

452
00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 1: Because why you haven't greeted them yet? You don't want

453
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 1: that money I do. I'm going get your motherfucking table.

454
00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:41,960
Speaker 1: They used to be mad at me, at.

455
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,480
Speaker 2: Fried I'll say, okay, you know what, I don't think

456
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:44,960
Speaker 2: about it.

457
00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,439
Speaker 3: I'll say this too, because I definitely used to be

458
00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:49,159
Speaker 3: selling bottles to other people client.

459
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:53,480
Speaker 2: Oh work, Yes, I definitely was doing that. I'm sorry.

460
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,680
Speaker 3: I definitely used to sell bottles to other people.

461
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:55,960
Speaker 2: Client.

462
00:20:56,080 --> 00:21:00,199
Speaker 3: If you take it to If somebody your bottle and

463
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 3: they've been sitting there.

464
00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,440
Speaker 2: And they walk up to me, oh yo bad.

465
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 3: Yes, if you have a table, any y'r client walk

466
00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:08,400
Speaker 3: up to me and they like, oh, I've been trying

467
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 3: to get a bottle for the last steen minies. I

468
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 3: don't know where my waitresses at. Oh, I can tell

469
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,399
Speaker 3: you about them, and I'm getting there before you. They

470
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 3: drink half the bottle by the time you came and

471
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:17,640
Speaker 3: greeted them.

472
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 2: Again, sparkless and all and then and.

473
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,159
Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all something I like to give advice

474
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 3: to give it down when y'all drop these bottles off.

475
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,640
Speaker 3: The reason y'all not making no money is because y'all

476
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:29,440
Speaker 3: drop them off a walk away. You're supposed to pour

477
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,359
Speaker 3: on big shots so they can run through that bottle.

478
00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 3: How do you support some big ass shots so they

479
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 3: can order man, get them toe up so they.

480
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:38,640
Speaker 2: Can order another one and another one.

481
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,880
Speaker 1: It was light work for me to sell three four

482
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,879
Speaker 1: bottles to one table of like not a lot of people.

483
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 3: I think it's easy to maneuver like that, though, when

484
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:48,880
Speaker 3: you're not trying to really make friends. Yeah, I feel

485
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:52,240
Speaker 3: like both of us are like this, fuck y'all, Like, yeah,

486
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,639
Speaker 3: we have our It's not that I don't think you

487
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 3: or me are not. I don't think we're not open

488
00:21:58,680 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 3: to making friends.

489
00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 2: I'm all I'm not. Lex is a little less.

490
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 3: I'm definitely the friend out of me and her who

491
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 3: got a new friend every year.

492
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 2: Like I still got my core group.

493
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 3: Of friends that I've been friends with since I was

494
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 3: like eighteen fifteen, early twenties. But I'm always open to

495
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 3: meeting new people and like I'm always introducing legs to somebody.

496
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 2: Whew. I'm like this.

497
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, Lex definitely don't be with this shit. But I

498
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 3: said that to say, I think it's easy, easier to

499
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,919
Speaker 3: maneuver like that in this world and in this industry

500
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 3: when you're not really trying to be friends with people.

501
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 3: It's like, business is business is the one thing about us.

502
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,920
Speaker 3: We're very much business is business. Ass be cheese. If

503
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 3: I meet somebody and I happen to really like vibe

504
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 3: and connect with you.

505
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 2: Of course we can become friends.

506
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 3: Like I'm open to that, but I'm also not out

507
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 3: here trying to be friends with everybody just because we're

508
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 3: in the same space and doing the same shit. Because

509
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 3: just because we might have a lot of commonality in that.

510
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 2: Area, that don't mean commonality. That doesn't mean that you're

511
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 2: a good person.

512
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 3: That doesn't mean that our values the line. And I

513
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 3: don't really just care.

514
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 2: I don't know.

515
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 3: I always just been a person too who just be

516
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 3: feeling like you definitely need people like you need.

517
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 2: A good team.

518
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 3: For example, well it's with poor minds. Where will we

519
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 3: be without our team? Where would we be without our team?

520
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 3: We have a great team. We have cultivated a really

521
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 3: dope team.

522
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 1: You're cutting up with these words, slow the fuck down now.

523
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 3: But I feel like we have a great team, Like

524
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 3: we have Tie, we have Crib, we have Kyla, now,

525
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 3: we have a wall.

526
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 2: D D Shay.

527
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 3: Were doing our big one. So I mean, you definitely

528
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 3: need a team. But I've also always been the type

529
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 3: of person I don't feel like I need people like

530
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,719
Speaker 3: I don't need to be cool with somebody or attach

531
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,640
Speaker 3: myself somebody to somebody to make it, especially if you're

532
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 3: a weirdo and you be doing lame shit.

533
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 2: I don't need to be cool. Why are you laughing? Funny?

534
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 3: Because you really just be like fuck everybody when it

535
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 3: comes to like. But once you do something to make

536
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 3: me feel some type of way, absolutely, I don't give

537
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 3: a fuck about who you know. I don't care what

538
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 3: connections you have. I don't care who the fuck you

539
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 3: think you are. You can go because I'm gonna do

540
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 3: what I'm gonna do regardless, because it's God ordained that

541
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 3: I'm annointy.

542
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,479
Speaker 1: So I feel like for me, it's more so like

543
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 1: I learned at a very young age to work very

544
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: closely with people I cannot stand because I was always

545
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 1: like in manage.

546
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 2: Your roles at a young age, so I learned how

547
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 2: to you know what.

548
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,919
Speaker 1: I don't like her, but that's my personal feelings, but

549
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 1: she knows how to work. So I've learned to turn

550
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 1: it on and turn it off. It sounds horrible as hell,

551
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: but yes I do. I know how to be fake.

552
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 1: I do, I really do, and I do that shit

553
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: so well. It's frightening.

554
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 2: That's no good. I sell a course on how to lie.

555
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 2: Now you're good. I'm gonna have y'all out here doing

556
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 2: y'all be well. I don't like bees. They know what's

557
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 2: you will.

558
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 1: Literally never know you will you would never know because

559
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: I just feel like I have learned how to play

560
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 1: the game very well at a young age, and I

561
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: can work very closely with people I don't like, cause

562
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: it don't got to be all there. Let's get this

563
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 1: motherfucking work done. You know what I'm saying.

564
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 3: You know, no shade, but like none of the beaches

565
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 3: that I like, we don't be in the same rooms

566
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 3: in no way. So I just kind of be feeling

567
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 3: like I just be feeling like that's fair.

568
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: Well, I'm a hater, so I like people I don't.

569
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: I dislike people I don't even know.

570
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 3: Well, No, what I'm saying is I get your perspective.

571
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 3: I get sure a perspective, and that's a fair perspective

572
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 3: to have. I'm just saying, like, to me, a lot

573
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:43,919
Speaker 3: of the people that I feel like, I've been like,

574
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 3: oh fuck you, we don't need to be cool no more.

575
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 3: We ain't gonna we not going to the same But.

576
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying the people that you haven't stopped the people

577
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: did that you dislike, you actually know they did something.

578
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

579
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 1: I be disliking people just because I don't even know you,

580
00:25:58,520 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 1: and I don't like you because I hate it.

581
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So I'm coming from a point

582
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 2: of view. I'm a hater.

583
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: I seen you on a show. I really don't like you.

584
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: I don't like the way you made that joke. It

585
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,360
Speaker 1: didn't hit me like it was supposed to hit.

586
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 2: I don't like you. Be personal.

587
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: I just I don't like people because you said something

588
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: about beans.

589
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 2: How dare you so now.

590
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 3: I'm your op because you said something about Bush's baked beans.

591
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 2: It's up forever, okay, But I can work with you

592
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 2: on a close SPA. No, it's a lot of people.

593
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 2: I just don't. I don't know you don't be liking people.

594
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I just don't. I'm a hater. It's in

595
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:36,719
Speaker 2: me though.

596
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 3: If like me and X always say, just know, if

597
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 3: somebody somehow found a.

598
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 2: Way to heck our social media age, it's going to

599
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 2: fuck down everybody. Nobody is safe. I promise. We don't

600
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 2: talked about your grandma, We don't talk about your son.

601
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 3: We talk about you you animal bit.

602
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 2: A papa animal because the lady were talking about it earlier. Today.

603
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 2: You look at that Bailly.

604
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 3: I know they just sipping so hot right now?

605
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 2: Is I feel it? Have you ever done something at

606
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: your job that you felt like.

607
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: This is a little grimy, But I'm gonna do it

608
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: anyway because that's I gotta get to the bag.

609
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 2: I don't really do a lot of grimy stuff.

610
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 3: I can't say grimy, but I will do what I

611
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 3: need to do for me. But I agree, like I

612
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 3: don't necessarily try to step over people or like crabs

613
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 3: in a barrel type thing. I'm not gonna be sisty

614
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 3: to you. I'm gonna do what I need to do.

615
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

616
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 3: Like, but I've never like harmed anyone or like been malicious.

617
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm delicious. Food out nobody mouth.

618
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, taking that table is taking food out of somebody house.

619
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 3: If you saw somebody table, that's absolutely taking food up.

620
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 2: I have to feed my baby. You don't have to

621
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: have a dog. I had a dog.

622
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 3: I did his was gizmo r I P see.

623
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, so I can. I took food

624
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 2: out they mouth.

625
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 1: But they was taking food out their customer's mouth because.

626
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 2: They was home grys And that's like you said, that's

627
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 2: friendly competition. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You don't

628
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 2: know these people. Now for the whites at work, y'all

629
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 2: could get whatever I spew out because I really don't care.

630
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 2: He really reparation.

631
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 3: You're okay, now, my sisters, my brothers. Yeah, try my

632
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 3: best not to like yeah, sure.

633
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: But I feel like too, Like if somebody came to

634
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: me and like, oh, I found out about like this

635
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 1: audition hosting for this like game show or something like that,

636
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: I would be like, oh, give me the in focus.

637
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: I want to audition too, Like I'm gonna tell you I'm feeling,

638
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: but you're gonna give me that information, bitch, yeah, Or

639
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna if you don't want to tell me, I'm

640
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: gonna find it.

641
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 2: Get us all. Was gonna say, you don't even gotta

642
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 2: tell me. I'm just minded. Yeah.

643
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 3: But I like competition, Like I like that shit. It

644
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 3: makes me feel like if you can do this, I

645
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 3: know I can. So I think competition is a good thing. Yeah,

646
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 3: I think like friendly competition, like we can keep it cute.

647
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

648
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 3: But I don't know, I don't what nothing competition would

649
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 3: be cool?

650
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 2: Why you say it like that? I just don't even

651
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 2: be seeing them.

652
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: No, I mean when I say competition, I mean more

653
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: so like if we were up for something versus somebody else, Like, Okay,

654
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: there's two podcasts that we want to host the BT

655
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: Awards because what if they do a theme one year

656
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: that's like an influencer theme, you know, and they're like

657
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 1: everybody you know? So so like, okay, we have to

658
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: have one podcast that presents this. And it's like, I'm

659
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: we're gonna get it. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I'm

660
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: up for a little friendly competition because I'm like.

661
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 3: Okay, but will you support them if y'all don't get it?

662
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

663
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: Like this okay, but when the camera.

664
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 2: Pans and then I would be like.

665
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 3: Girl, i'ma be I'm gonna be happy for them because

666
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 3: i'm'a just feel like something bigger coming.

667
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 2: That's yeah.

668
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 3: I always look at stuff like I feel like my

669
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 3: mindset is always if we up for something against other people.

670
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 3: To be honest, this is how I look at it.

671
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 3: I always feel like Nea Lick's gonna win because you're

672
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 3: what if we don't. I don't even really get mad

673
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 3: because I just God is so good, like he has

674
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 3: been so good to us, So even when we don't

675
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 3: get stuff and we're against other people, I just be

676
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 3: looking at it like, well, shit, that means God about

677
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 3: to do his big Yeah, it's something bigger on the horizon.

678
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 3: It's something bigger and better coming if we didn't get

679
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 3: these opportunities. So I feel like because of that, I'll

680
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 3: be happy for other people. And to be fair, nobody

681
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 3: ever got nothing over but I'm.

682
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: So I'm speaking from a place of you know, maybe we'll.

683
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 3: Be like maybe, but like no, but I will say

684
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 3: I do know how to clap for other people because

685
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,239
Speaker 3: I do agree with you on that. Yeah, I do

686
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 3: not mind clapping for people because I'm like, if you got.

687
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: This, imagine what I'm finna get. You know what I'm

688
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: saying and not being like, oh, if you got this,

689
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 1: it's just like okay, that means it's coming for me

690
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: as well, because I can do this, Like honestly, like

691
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: watching Kevin Hart on stage, it's so inspirational because I'm like,

692
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: I can.

693
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 2: Do these, like we can do these. Yeah, Like everybody

694
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: that I'm.

695
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 1: Seeing, I'm like even with Jesse Woo, it was like

696
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: a full circle moment, like we was on TV getting

697
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 1: interviewed on the Red Carpet with Jesse Wo.

698
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 2: Like my girl, I've watched her grind and come up

699
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 2: and do this, So it's inspirational for me, Like I'd

700
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: be like, we can all do these yeaheah, very very When.

701
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: You be in the room and Jamie Foxx, you realize

702
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: like this shit is possible, and like I said, like

703
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: even with DC, it's like that's our brother, Like they

704
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: literally are all working together all the time, and like

705
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: just to even see him doing all of the things

706
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: he was doing at the bet Wars, you know, you

707
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 1: definitely just look at people like that even like it's possible.

708
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 2: If they could do it, I could do it too.

709
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 2: It don't be no reason to.

710
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 3: Hate, yeah, because we can all work together, so you'll

711
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 3: according each other.

712
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: Brother, I love you. I would never try to hurt you.

713
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 2: Oh won't you to know that? For you? Not no

714
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 2: metal with though I'm shut shut. So what are we

715
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 2: drinking today? Because this is good? We know.

716
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 3: Congratulations to y'all, Thank you that you accomplished. Y'all are

717
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 3: so inspiring to meet and so many others, So I'm

718
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 3: so happy to work alongside y'alla this journey. This one

719
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 3: is gonna be called the Red Carpet Rollout. Oh okay,

720
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 3: and it's red in color too, so you can have

721
00:32:58,520 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 3: whatever spirit of choice you like.

722
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 2: We have some moaning watermelon.

723
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 3: No, we have some moaning pineberry syrup, some watermelon lemonade

724
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 3: inside of it, and then we topped it off with

725
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 3: a watermelon sparkling water. So that's kind of given that

726
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 3: like now and later flavor.

727
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 2: Okay, that's into it.

728
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 3: And then we garnish it with some strawberry slices that

729
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 3: I just kind of mix between the ice in there,

730
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 3: just to kind of give it something different, something cute,

731
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 3: nice springy summer. We are in the summer, the girls

732
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 3: are outside. We are all right, But this is to

733
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 3: y'all red carpe rollout change. And I said lemonade. You

734
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 3: did say lemonade. I would like a shot todays.

735
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: First of all, let me get my girl had things,

736
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: because honestly, I'm not lying best dressed.

737
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 2: At towards you.

738
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 3: You had to oh me top tier dry that that

739
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 3: ship on.

740
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 2: I said, yeah, my girl is stepping thank you.

741
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 3: First of all, bitch, you looked good as foke to wait,

742
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 3: I mean, we look good as a unity, and it

743
00:33:58,080 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 3: was kind of It's so funny because we was kind

744
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 3: the matching, no little bit because you had all of

745
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 3: the gold accents and then my dress and my dress

746
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 3: was gold, and I feel like we just we were

747
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 3: coordinated perfectly. Somebody asked us if we were like, who

748
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 3: staw y'all? U?

749
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 2: Yeah? And one more thing before we move on.

750
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: I want to give a shout out to Keiky Palmer

751
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: because there was a moment and I really when it happened,

752
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 1: I was like focused on her because I was like,

753
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: let me see how she gets through this.

754
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 2: She was about to do the thing. I'm watching her.

755
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 2: They're getting ready.

756
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 1: The teleprompter stopped working and she just started vibing and

757
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: started like improving. And when I tell you, y'all don't

758
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: understand how hard it is to get in front of

759
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 1: a camera and just make it work.

760
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 2: And then you got all eyes.

761
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: On you, and I was like, I know, Keky Palmer

762
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: is at a level of skill that is just like

763
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: it's natural.

764
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 2: You can't learn that.

765
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't care what y'all say about

766
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 1: Kicky Palmer.

767
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,760
Speaker 2: The talent is immaculate, But what do they be saying?

768
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 2: I just you know, I saw you.

769
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 1: I've been seeing a lot of tiktoks lately. I've been

770
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:05,839
Speaker 1: trying to plug in and you know, like I said,

771
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: I'm learning times are changing right now, so I really

772
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: be tuned in because I'm like, what do the people

773
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: want to see?

774
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 2: What do you mean changing in what way?

775
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: Like what people want to consume and how they're consuming content.

776
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 2: I told you back in the day, remember.

777
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: When we first moved to Atlanta, and I told the

778
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: guy was dating this is not gonna work because of

779
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: this in X y Z and he didn't listen to me,

780
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 1: and it didn't work because he didn't listen to me.

781
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 1: And then he told us to be seen and not

782
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: be heard, and then only for him to be behind

783
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 1: the cameras begging for an interview and.

784
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 2: The BT Awards weekend twenty twenty five.

785
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but anyways, we saw you. But anyway, I've

786
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: always studied what the consumers want to see and what

787
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 1: they want to So right now there's like just a

788
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:52,479
Speaker 1: little thing of like it's not gonna work because people

789
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,359
Speaker 1: got to know I'm talking about against Keicky Palmer, No I.

790
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 2: Was just thinking about something go ahead, it was something else.

791
00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:00,320
Speaker 1: So a lot of people don't realize that there is

792
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 1: a huge, huge difference between online and in real life.

793
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: So these people that y'all bully online, in real life,

794
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 1: they are loved, They're getting a lot of accolades, They're

795
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:18,760
Speaker 1: getting bombarded by paparazzi cameras. Popularity online is so different

796
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 1: from in real life. And I learned that every single

797
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: time because a lot of times it's like for me,

798
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, all these people, I'm like, people gonna know.

799
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:30,720
Speaker 2: Let be they're excuse me, ma'am, back up, bitch. I'm like, God, damn,

800
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

801
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: But I say all that to say because I like

802
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 1: to be tuned into what people are saying. So the

803
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 1: reason I'm talking about Kiki is because there's like thing

804
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: right now where people aren't just online making fun of

805
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: Kiki Palmer for being so loud. I talked about this

806
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: on the episode with Kiki, and I'm like, y'all have

807
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: to realize she's different.

808
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 2: That's her niche. This is what got her to where

809
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 2: she is.

810
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: Y'all sit up here and complain about how oh, everybody's

811
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: aesthetic is the same. Everybody looks the same, everybody acts

812
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 1: the same. But as soon as somebody does something different,

813
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: y'all want to complain about it. But let me tell y'all,

814
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you can say what

815
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 1: you want to say, but the skill is there, and

816
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:03,959
Speaker 1: the skill cannot be touched.

817
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 2: You can't teach that.

818
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:08,359
Speaker 1: That what she sat up there and did, y'all are

819
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 1: looking like, oh, it was just a little fumble. You

820
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: get in front of a camera and do that, right,

821
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: You can't.

822
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 2: Literally you can't. People can't really get in front of it.

823
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 3: If somebody told me to read something and they're like, oh,

824
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,720
Speaker 3: the teleprompter is gonna work, and it stopped working.

825
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 2: I think I could do it, but I don't know.

826
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 2: You just never know. You just could.

827
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 3: You know, that's been good with that, I can like

828
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 3: roll off a cuff.

829
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I feel like I could.

830
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 3: I mean, because honestly, that's what poor mind's is. Yes,

831
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 3: we don't be reading off.

832
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 2: No TELEI potter.

833
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 3: I mean, I know, and what shit went now, we

834
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 3: gonna still make it happen.

835
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is is it's just a different

836
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: when you in BT, it's a wars. It's live. People

837
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 1: are literally she's in the middle of the crowd. It's

838
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 1: an audience and everybody's like this and the teleprompter not working. Yeah,

839
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: it's just a level of skill that is different. So

840
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 1: I say, there's a reason that Kiki Palmer is there,

841
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: and it's the reason that you just being.

842
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:02,839
Speaker 2: On TikTok being mean.

843
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's just stop being mean and give people their

844
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 1: their things, their flowers where it's due. Because a lot

845
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: of times y'all have all the critique for people, but

846
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: you couldn't do it.

847
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 3: You couldn't do it. They'd be sounding good. But then

848
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:16,919
Speaker 3: people ain't about to stop being mean.

849
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 2: They just mean that.

850
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 3: People are just meaning. Yes, cocktails a couple of weeks ago,

851
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 3: and this, oh my god, yes, talk about that that

852
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 3: we're ever talked about it on the show.

853
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 2: That weird ass girl and she really thought she ate

854
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 2: that girl.

855
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 3: Now you blocked on the poor Minds page because don't

856
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 3: never come for my queen tie.

857
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:39,720
Speaker 2: Because let me tell you something.

858
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:41,879
Speaker 3: First of all, everybody's like ties on the couch, gets

859
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,720
Speaker 3: tied on the couch, Ties on the couch every week.

860
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 3: But let me say I signed up for this.

861
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm saying, like I signed up to

862
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 1: be ridiculed, to be attacked.

863
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 3: I don't got tough skin. I'm gonna cross through it,

864
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: but I'm gonna get through it. But let me tell

865
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 3: you something. People that we hire, we hire everybody for

866
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 3: a reason.

867
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: Well, shut up, shut up, girl, But let me tell

868
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 1: y'all something. When y'all get y'all's crusty ass, she ass

869
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: hands to fix your fingers and talk about somebody who's

870
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 1: literally helped us transform this fucking show. And you did

871
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: it because you thought you was finna get hired and

872
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: have a job.

873
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 2: Tie. Why would you make pink drinks? Because I wanted one?

874
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 2: Bet you don't know what I asked for what I requested.

875
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 2: Shut the fuck up, and.

876
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 3: To say all of that and only to be like,

877
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 3: y'all need to let me come on right right, And

878
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 3: then she was.

879
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:33,879
Speaker 2: Talking about she was gonna make. She telling me y'all

880
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 2: should have had a blue motherfucker.

881
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 3: First of all, girl, a blue motherfucker is to be

882
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 3: a bartender. A blue motherfucker ain't nothing but a blue

883
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 3: long eyeland.

884
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 2: And who the hell want to sit on this whole

885
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 2: drinking a long eye drinks?

886
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 3: She thought she ate that a blue was so hysterical

887
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 3: to me, I was just like, wow, people, are you

888
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 3: have a lot of opinion? She was not even and

889
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 3: then talking about I think she called it a mascot

890
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,320
Speaker 3: mule up, a mascot mule.

891
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 2: Uh huh uh huh, Like, come on, I ain't never

892
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 2: even been out the country. You don't even know where

893
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 2: my scollar.

894
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 3: You ain't lying what Nikky said. You hoss can even

895
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 3: spell praud.

896
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: But that's how I know TI is doing an amazing job.

897
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,359
Speaker 2: Man, they coming for time hate no time.

898
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 3: Now I seen the blue motherfucker thing, I said, Okay, girl,

899
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,399
Speaker 3: be freakal because that's why that shit nasty, Like.

900
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 2: A nasty ass blue motherfucker Long Island is nast Yeah,

901
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 2: all the shit is next, bro.

902
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 1: If you drink a Long Island, that's because you got

903
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: five dollars left.

904
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:34,879
Speaker 2: Literally trus me. That comes from a bitch.

905
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 1: You had five dollars left and used to order a

906
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: Long Islands because that's the only thing I could afford

907
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 1: to get fucked up.

908
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 3: And you just don't give a fuck about nothing, because

909
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 3: why are you drinking all of the liquors in one drink?

910
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,280
Speaker 2: Hey, why are you drinking rum?

911
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 3: Blocks, gin and tequila all at one time, and don't

912
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 3: let it be a Texas tea.

913
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:03,919
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and usually well too. Yeah the bottom show.

914
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 3: I mean we I'm not gonna sit and act like

915
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 3: I haven't had a long island before.

916
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:10,760
Speaker 2: When I was younger, I had. That's what I'm shit.

917
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 3: I've had my share of long islands when I was

918
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 3: younger too. But I also used to be a bartender,

919
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 3: so I know how you make this sheet.

920
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 2: And it was just like, girl, you did not.

921
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 3: You ain't eat it the way my girl be curating

922
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 3: finely crafty drinks every week and we ain't had a repeada.

923
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 3: Ask Crown Royal about Come on now, all right, step

924
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 3: into the booth.

925
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Don't play with my girl.

926
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 3: But yeah, I have my days of drinking mccormicks. I

927
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 3: just love McCormick. I had mccormacks used to my shelves.

928
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:43,280
Speaker 2: I loved one a bottle.

929
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 3: I love when the battle double ends a home the

930
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 3: court double is nuts because.

931
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 2: It never double. Then you put some.

932
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, flowers in there, or you would empty it out

933
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: and take the label off, put some olives and peppers

934
00:41:58,600 --> 00:41:58,839
Speaker 1: in there.

935
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:07,240
Speaker 2: The mm hmm. This mean with a glass bottle.

936
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,439
Speaker 3: I can't remember the name, but it was this cheap

937
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 3: liquor back in the day that I used to try

938
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 3: to compete with Soroq.

939
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 2: So when Sorok would come out with a flavor, they

940
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 2: would too. But it was so thick the drink.

941
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: The drink, it was like vodka, but it was so

942
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: thick because it had so much syrup in there to

943
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: make it sweet. Oh my god, it was so bad.

944
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: Tom Let me ask you this. It's good vodka made

945
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: from potatoes or grapes. It actually varies very old.

946
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 3: So usually if it's made in France, that might be

947
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 3: made of grapes or wheat out there. But sometimes if

948
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 3: it's made in America, it might be made with potatoes.

949
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: Potato, but I know all three of those. But you

950
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: know what, I love potatoes. I like them fried tato

951
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: and yo tito, and I love titos. Yeah, you know what,

952
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 1: y'all gonna stop talking about me. Let me vodka titos.

953
00:42:56,120 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 1: It tastes like water and it gets you there calor reasons. Lo,

954
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: how y'all think I got this thin physique? Y'all want

955
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: to know where Naomi Campbell has been quiet since I

956
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: stepped on the scene.

957
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 3: She disappeared because she's like, look at I stepped on

958
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 3: the scene.

959
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 2: She said, let me go razy. Geez.

960
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:17,320
Speaker 3: You know, she said, I have to get myself together

961
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 3: because look at her. You know, vod could have just

962
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:25,760
Speaker 3: don't do it for me in a Martini like espressed

963
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 3: on Martini cool, in like a dirty Martini cool. I'm

964
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 3: telling you, I don't like shots and I don't like

965
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 3: like super meat about the drink vodka. When you get

966
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 3: your taste buzz up, that is sophistication, is it?

967
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 2: It is whiskey drinkers.

968
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 3: I feel like when you get those taste buzz up,

969
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:48,760
Speaker 3: you like gine.

970
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 2: I feel like when you know, I.

971
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 3: Feel like when you get your taste buzz up, you

972
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 3: into that like Japanese whiskey.

973
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 2: Yes and thoughts. Yes, that's one of a little elevated.

974
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 1: But I feel like the new when you watch sex

975
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:04,280
Speaker 1: in the City and the girls they're drinking thoms.

976
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, in a dirty Mark scene. I love a little olive.

977
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 3: That's why I do like a dirty Mark.

978
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 2: I'm telling you. I went back home. I started with

979
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 2: vodka and I made a full circle. I took my

980
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 2: rounds with the Hennessy the jack Dangs, the gin. I

981
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: went to Amsterdam for a while I was drinking the gin.

982
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 3: We used to drink Barefoot Baba gallon. He did Jesus Christ.

983
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 2: Now Tito's is made from corn, just to I love corn.

984
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 2: Yeah it is. I love corn. I like a little wow.

985
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: So when we talk about good vodkas, what are good

986
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 1: good vodkas?

987
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 2: Ooh?

988
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 3: I would put Gray Goose, Kettle one, Okay, I'd like,

989
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 3: it's definitely up there. There are some others that may

990
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 3: not get as much notoriety, like chopin a C H

991
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 3: O P I N like. Those are something that are

992
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 3: really good, but not everybody might know about those. But

993
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 3: if you're just looking for like a nice premium spirit

994
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 3: for vodka, Grey Goose.

995
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 2: Or Kettle one for sure. Kettle one. Yeah, holler at

996
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 2: me love les P need a sponsor? All right, let's

997
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 2: move on. You ready to move on? I am ready

998
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 2: to move on. All right.

999
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,359
Speaker 3: Now it's time to get into topic number two.

1000
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 2: What is your why?

1001
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 3: Like, what was the moment in your life where you

1002
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 3: realize nobody was coming to save you? Like you was

1003
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 3: really in this sheet one deed you had to figure

1004
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 3: it out. Nobody was gonna come riding in on a

1005
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 3: horse and save you. When was your moment when did

1006
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 3: you realize that everything was in your hand? Your future,

1007
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 3: your happiness, everything.

1008
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's been so It's been so many

1009
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 1: of the moments, to be honest, if I'm being real,

1010
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 1: I feel like one of my first wives was when

1011
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: my nephew was born, because I was like, I want

1012
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,880
Speaker 1: him to have all the connections that he can do

1013
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: whatever he want to do, because this shit is hard,

1014
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, I don't have nobody

1015
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 1: being like, Oh, let's you want to come on the

1016
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: carpet for the Mtvbmas or the Oscars and do this this,

1017
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 1: You're my cousin, come over here and do this. I

1018
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,359
Speaker 1: don't have that. So one of my wives is like, yeah,

1019
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 1: I want everybody around me. You finna be a nefo baby,

1020
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:19,400
Speaker 1: a nefo nephew, a neo cousin, a nefo bartender, a

1021
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: nefo everything, cause I'm plugging in everybody.

1022
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 2: I want to be the plug.

1023
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want I want everybody around me to feel success.

1024
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 1: Another one was when I moved to Atlanta, seeing black

1025
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 1: people right around in.

1026
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 2: Gy goon, seeing black.

1027
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 1: People buy five million dollar homes. I don't want nobody

1028
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: to buy that for me. I want to do that myself.

1029
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 1: Like I get it. We all want a BDB, right,

1030
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: we all want a man that has money and has

1031
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 1: a but to be doing it for yourself. I love

1032
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 1: the fact that I'm known for being myself, and it's

1033
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 1: not because I've a attached myself to anybody, like I

1034
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:06,399
Speaker 1: think that's always my why, Like it's me. I can

1035
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 1: do this and then like nobody's coming to say, because

1036
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 1: I always thought, like, Okay, I.

1037
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 2: Look good, I'm fine, I got my BBL.

1038
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 3: My body got you so embritizing my snook of your bedroom.

1039
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 2: Oh my god, y'all sigh. Oh fucking brother. I would

1040
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 2: see if Deacon inserted in the video. But it's this

1041
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 2: page on Instagram.

1042
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 3: This girl, she'd be making these robl it's called roadblocks, right, roadblocks.

1043
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 3: She'd be making these roadblocks parody videos of Trey Song

1044
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 3: singing all of his grattiest hits.

1045
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 2: And I don't know why.

1046
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's because the character is a

1047
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 3: box shade. I don't know if it's because it's braids

1048
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 3: is stopping way up there.

1049
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is sopapello because it be

1050
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 2: a capella to it, you know, music planning because he

1051
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 2: was doing that for real.

1052
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:08,760
Speaker 3: But the little the little person is always working.

1053
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:10,280
Speaker 2: A little duty wise.

1054
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 3: It's so funny. I would seem d can it starting

1055
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 3: with the videos? Let me know if it's just me,

1056
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,439
Speaker 3: am I a worny? Or is it really funny? Let

1057
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 3: me know in the comments it's.

1058
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 1: It's it's a mixture of both. It's funny. But I

1059
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 1: hate Trey songs.

1060
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. They didn't one of your favorite part.

1061
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to leave it leave. I'm so glad

1062
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 2: I have never ran into Tray songs.

1063
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 3: Yes you have before I had the platform.

1064
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 2: I hate him like that.

1065
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: We definitely, but that was when I was like, we

1066
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: were working, we were bartender.

1067
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: No, we was working you. But it's like now I

1068
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 2: would love.

1069
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: To have a sing off with him because I'm gonna

1070
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: show you how bad you sound compared to the Queen.

1071
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 2: What's song on? What you say? We can see.

1072
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 4: Anything.

1073
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 2: I would do and eat him up. He can't do that.

1074
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 2: You heard that. I yoled him a bit.

1075
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 3: I actually think he can do that. Bro, he's the original, don't.

1076
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 2: I would eat Trey songs he's an o g yodeler.

1077
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 1: I would eat him up, and I would have him

1078
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: crawling on his knees and begging for forgiveness.

1079
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 2: And I wish I was joking. I would eat him up.

1080
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 3: In the single No Though Tray songs, he really feeling

1081
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 3: that ship, them veins start popping out his I don't care.

1082
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 2: Mine can't too. No, you ain't got enough passion. I

1083
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 2: do have passion. Are you kidding me? The vein did

1084
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 2: not pop off.

1085
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: I can't tell this is crazy. I don't need y'all

1086
00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: on my side, actually.

1087
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:00,760
Speaker 2: Because when I come out on top, y'all are.

1088
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,919
Speaker 1: Gonna realize trait songs cannot sing. And I would eat

1089
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 1: him up, period. And it's no questions asked.

1090
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 2: Okay, it's up and it's stuck forever with that nigga, Right,

1091
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 2: I got it out for him. The sounds like a

1092
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 2: real beef it is. It's one side. Does he know

1093
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 2: about it? I don't think he knows. I don't give

1094
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:24,240
Speaker 2: a fuck.

1095
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 3: Okay, let's get back to the goddamn topic before I

1096
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 3: get mad?

1097
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:33,399
Speaker 2: What was I saying? Oh? Yeah, wow?

1098
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 1: You know a lot of times I thought, oh, I'm

1099
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: gonna look so good that it's gonna be easy for me.

1100
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 1: It's gonna be very easy. But it's like it doesn't matter.

1101
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:45,280
Speaker 1: You gotta get out. Nobody's coming to save you, ladies,

1102
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: Nobody is coming to save you. Y'all are thinking this

1103
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 1: like Prince Charming that has one hundred million dollars an athlete.

1104
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:55,239
Speaker 1: Y'all be on TikTok too much, seeing these people doing

1105
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 1: this and doing that, and thinking that y'all are Can

1106
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: it happen for some people? Yes, absolutely, but get it

1107
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 1: on your own. There is nothing better than making shit

1108
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: happen for yourself and following your own dreams. Because imagine

1109
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 1: if you meet a man who's following his dreams, you

1110
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: following yourself. Imagine what y'all can do if y'all came together.

1111
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 1: Why don't you know what I'm saying? Why do you

1112
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: want to be saved? I used to want to be saved,

1113
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: but then I got saved.

1114
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 2: She don't want to be saved? Hey, you know what

1115
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I did, though?

1116
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 3: What what when Jay Cole's hitting on his own, don't

1117
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 3: save she didn't want to be I said I did though.

1118
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I get that, But guess what back in

1119
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:37,879
Speaker 2: the day, back in the day.

1120
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,879
Speaker 1: But you saved yourself. You did, Oh for sure, That's

1121
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's so much My why is like

1122
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: I gotta do this for me. I want to be

1123
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:49,359
Speaker 1: that person. Like people are so fickle, you better say

1124
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: that you can't depend on nobody, do it for yourself.

1125
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 1: There's nothing better than laying my head down at night

1126
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: knowing can't nobody take shit from.

1127
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 3: Me, knowing that them light's gonna be own because you

1128
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 3: pay to be.

1129
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:04,800
Speaker 1: I'm on now, you can't stop this. You cannot stop

1130
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: what the fuck I got going on?

1131
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,320
Speaker 2: I agree, you know what's your wife?

1132
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 3: I'm luck When my dad died, Yeah, that's when I

1133
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 3: realized that it was like a tough pew to swallow

1134
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 3: because I feel like me and my dad was always really,

1135
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 3: really close. I mean, obviously, y'all know I still have

1136
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,240
Speaker 3: my mom, and my mom and my dad were married

1137
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 3: my whole life, but my dad. My mom was always

1138
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 3: a little bit more of like a tough love type

1139
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 3: of person, and my dad he just will give me

1140
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,320
Speaker 3: whatever I want. People hate that about you too, be like,

1141
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 3: I can tell this.

1142
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 2: Bitch ain't got no daddy.

1143
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:39,399
Speaker 3: First of all, the hat what about you like when

1144
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 3: you say stuff and people be like, I can tell

1145
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 3: she ain't had no daddy.

1146
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 2: They hate that you had a supportive father. Yeah, eat

1147
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 2: you up with that.

1148
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,439
Speaker 3: Every time I see those comings, I mean like that's

1149
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 3: hilarious because like literally my dad was there since bird

1150
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 3: until I was twenty nine. Yeah, but but yeah, so

1151
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 3: I feel like my dad he was just never a

1152
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 3: tough love type of person, Like no matter what I

1153
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,959
Speaker 3: was going through, if I needed anything, I always knew

1154
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:09,799
Speaker 3: I could call him and he would make sure that

1155
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 3: I got whatever I needed. Like even if I would

1156
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 3: talk to my mom and she would kind of be like, mmm,

1157
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:16,319
Speaker 3: I don't know, like this is a listen. I feel

1158
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 3: like you need to figure out on your own. I

1159
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 3: hit my daddy up and he would be like, I'm

1160
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 3: gonna I'm gonna stick to you from another yeah, like

1161
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Like my dad was just

1162
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 3: always that person for me who I know I could

1163
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 3: depend on. So I think when he passed away, I

1164
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 3: was like, Wow, like life is really fucking hard and

1165
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 3: I don't have one of my biggest support systems here anymore.

1166
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 3: Like I really gotta figure out how to get this

1167
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:42,879
Speaker 3: shit out the mudbitch, plush you almost thirty. You really

1168
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 3: need to get it together and figure out what you

1169
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 3: want to do with your life. And like at the time,

1170
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:51,360
Speaker 3: we were doing Poor Minds already for what like a

1171
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 3: year and a half, I think before my dad passed away,

1172
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 3: so it's like we was already working on it. But

1173
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 3: I think that that really like put that battery in

1174
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 3: my back, like you need to really take this shit

1175
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:01,760
Speaker 3: way more serious.

1176
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:02,920
Speaker 2: You need to make suit happen.

1177
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, because nobody's coming to save you, like it's about you.

1178
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 3: I think it was between that and then going through

1179
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 3: like the kind of breakup situation that I was going

1180
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 3: through at the time, where the person was like doing

1181
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 3: so much for me, and it just made me realize, like, no, you,

1182
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 3: like you said, people be fickle. As soon as somebody

1183
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:22,400
Speaker 3: mad at you or they not fucking with you, or

1184
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,320
Speaker 3: y'all not seeing out all, why ain't gonna pay you

1185
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 3: all rent this link?

1186
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:27,799
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Shit like that.

1187
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:31,760
Speaker 3: And luckily for me, I've always been like a heavy saver.

1188
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 3: I've always been being gonna saving my money. I could

1189
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 3: probably have had way more shit than I have now

1190
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:38,919
Speaker 3: if I was like just going by sheit every time

1191
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 3: somebody gave me some money, but I.

1192
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 2: Used to always save my money.

1193
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 3: Because I knew that shit like men be fickle, you

1194
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 3: pissed them off, you rubbed them the wrong way, all

1195
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 3: that shit that they doing for you gonna go out

1196
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:51,799
Speaker 3: the window, and then you're gonna be love to have

1197
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:53,879
Speaker 3: to figure it out yourself. And if you ain't got

1198
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 3: your own you ain't got your own two legs to

1199
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 3: stand on, what the fuck you gonna do? But you

1200
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 3: also don't want the sheet you have to be dependent

1201
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 3: on on men neither. So for me, that was my

1202
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 3: why because I think naturally I always kind of depended

1203
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 3: on me in just because I had my dad there

1204
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 3: in my whole life. He was always somebody ILL could

1205
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 3: depend on. So when he passed away, it just really

1206
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 3: shifted my perspective.

1207
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,360
Speaker 1: You know, it was a nobody's coming to save you

1208
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:24,479
Speaker 1: moment for me. Now that I'm glad that we woke

1209
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: the fuck up, No shade, y'all, I don't want to

1210
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 1: get ate up for these, but I know y'all probably

1211
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: gonna clip this and talk about me. So when I

1212
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 1: was like working at the clubs and the bars when

1213
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 1: I was younger, it was like the Instagram girl era,

1214
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:43,280
Speaker 1: Instagram girls were winning, baby, They was on the trips,

1215
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: they was on the yachts, they was on the in chanelle,

1216
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: they was in There is not one I G girlly

1217
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,720
Speaker 1: I see right now, ten years later. That's like, damn,

1218
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: she did her big one.

1219
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:57,479
Speaker 2: All they got is Dimnelle oh Man.

1220
00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: When I tell you what it is, it's like, I mean,

1221
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: I'll be seeing like and this is no shade to

1222
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: none of the I G girlies like to me, I

1223
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:09,879
Speaker 1: always say this, and I want to give a shout

1224
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 1: out to her if I if I can't say, we might.

1225
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:13,359
Speaker 2: If you want to edit it out.

1226
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 3: Why you because I know it.

1227
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 1: But I love like miracle Wats for me is like

1228
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: the only I G girl I see that she made

1229
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,840
Speaker 1: that crossover into like the beauty industry and creating content.

1230
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 1: That's like, okay, girl, you made that crossover successfully and

1231
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: you're doing a.

1232
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 2: Good job with it. I like miracles.

1233
00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like miracle like, but like I feel like

1234
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:34,319
Speaker 1: a lot of girls from that era is just kind

1235
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 1: of like it.

1236
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 3: Don't Why are you calling.

1237
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,400
Speaker 2: I choked on my titos? It's because I'm small.

1238
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 1: I don't know what that was, but I and this

1239
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 1: is and like I said, it's no shade, but that

1240
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: comes from centering men and depending on men.

1241
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 2: To give you a lifestyle. You know what I'm saying.

1242
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 1: It's like you have to focus on yourself because the

1243
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: proof isn't a pudding. Nobody came to save. It was temporary.

1244
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 1: You really gotta get it on your own, you know

1245
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So to me, that was like the realization,

1246
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: like nobody's coming to save nobody.

1247
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 3: Cause it's like, I can't remember if we talked about

1248
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 3: this recently or not, but it was one point in

1249
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 3: time where if you was fine as hell, like if

1250
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 3: you was like pretty in the face, you had a

1251
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 3: nice body, you were an anomaly, if that makes sense.

1252
00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 3: You didn't really have to have much going on because

1253
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 3: you were an anomaly. You had a nice body, you

1254
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 3: had a pretty face. Men obviously are naturally attracted to that.

1255
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:39,440
Speaker 3: Now everybody looked good. Everybody has the same aesthetic. Everybody

1256
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 3: has the same body type. Everybody has when it has

1257
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 3: surgery or work. They asked off in the gym to

1258
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 3: get it, Like, everybody has a similar personality to a

1259
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 3: certain extent. I feel like, well, how they try to

1260
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 3: show their celf online? Nah, not us, but I'm talking

1261
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 3: about like just in general, I feel like a lot

1262
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 3: of people have a similar aesthetic and it's so easily

1263
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 3: accessible to hype yourself up and look better. If that's

1264
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 3: what you want to do. All you gotta go do

1265
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:11,919
Speaker 3: is get surgery. All you gotta go do is get

1266
00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 3: some feelers and stuff like that, so it's easy. So

1267
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 3: I think a lot of the girls from back in

1268
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 3: the day who relied heavily on their looks, now you

1269
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 3: can't really rely on that no more because everybody look

1270
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 3: good and that don't phase these men no more, because

1271
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 3: they like it's a you every five blocks, Like I

1272
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 3: don't gotta go far, it's another you everywhere I go.

1273
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 3: And some of them are easier to get along with.

1274
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 3: They and they cheaper. They just don't sit there and

1275
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 3: eat their food and just be happy to be in proximity.

1276
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:42,880
Speaker 2: All they want is to go a little stake for

1277
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 2: the airs and a little hookah. Yeah, man, that's what

1278
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1279
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 3: So even with that tool, because back then, I feel

1280
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 3: like the girls was really on there, like niggas got

1281
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 3: a spendy type shit.

1282
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 2: So they come up with them and you could be absolutely.

1283
00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:01,600
Speaker 3: But now it's just not so much of a requirement

1284
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 3: anymore because there's so many girls who look the same way.

1285
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 2: Who is going for lis? And honestly, I thought you

1286
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 2: said going for Lex. I was like, no, what am

1287
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 2: I say it? Going for Lix? But I will say that.

1288
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 2: And the nigga's not green no more? They not. They

1289
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 2: don't be spending like, they don't be wanting to spend

1290
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 2: it like this. They're not green no more.

1291
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 3: That's what I be hearing. You know, I ain't been

1292
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 3: in the streets in a minute.

1293
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and honestly, I mean blocked now. And

1294
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: but not only that, it's just we're in a different

1295
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 1: I've always been the type of girl like I can't

1296
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:32,920
Speaker 1: be bought well back in the day, probably yeah, but

1297
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like now it's more so like I

1298
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 1: have my own So the things that you have to

1299
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 1: do to impress me is beyond money, because I've learned

1300
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 1: that money comes.

1301
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 2: And goals, and I feel like who.

1302
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: Being in this position it feels good because I get

1303
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:52,440
Speaker 1: to walk away from situations that don't serve me emotionally

1304
00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: and spiritually.

1305
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 2: That's my favorite thing to do. Yeah, walk away.

1306
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 1: Walk away cause finances I got my own finances and

1307
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 1: that it was like a real reason for me.

1308
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 2: That's like, that is my why.

1309
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:07,160
Speaker 3: I want to support myself absolutely whatever.

1310
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 2: A man do.

1311
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 3: And as somebody who I just feel like gifts in

1312
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 3: like romance is my love.

1313
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 2: Like yeah, so I'm gonna.

1314
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 3: Naturally always want those things, like I think I'm always

1315
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 3: gonna want to day a man who like buys stuff

1316
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,959
Speaker 3: for me and like pays for things. But it feel

1317
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 3: hella good to not need.

1318
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 2: That's all about once.

1319
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 3: Yeah no, well now it's the one I feel like

1320
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 3: when I was younger, it.

1321
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:36,480
Speaker 2: Was more but need. No what what gifts weren't a need?

1322
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 3: No, I'm just saying like doing things okay, okay, yeah

1323
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 3: yeah yeah, So like now it's a once, like I

1324
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 3: want to be with somebody who's thoughtful. I want to

1325
01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 3: be with somebody who's chivalries. I want to be with

1326
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 3: somebody who's romantic and spontany as they just plan surprise

1327
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 3: dates and surprise trips or surprises me with a gift

1328
01:00:56,680 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 3: like I want them, but it's I don't have to

1329
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 3: depee or I want a man who's gonna pay bills,

1330
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. But like at the end

1331
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 3: of the day. If that's not what you own, you

1332
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 3: can go because Bill's still gonna get paid.

1333
01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:10,640
Speaker 2: He gone.

1334
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 1: When I look at a lot of old situations I

1335
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 1: used to be in, I know that I was there

1336
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: just because, like he was helping financially.

1337
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 2: The money. Your money was fundy.

1338
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:22,440
Speaker 1: My money was laughing hall up at a bitch sitting

1339
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 1: front row at an Added Murphy show.

1340
01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 2: Bitch money was just fine as fun. You know what

1341
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I know what you're saying. My money used

1342
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 2: to be a little funny food, but wasn't shit funny?

1343
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 2: You know, ty, what's your wife?

1344
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 3: Okay, So I will say when my mom died, but

1345
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 3: before she passed, my parents are going through a divorce.

1346
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 3: And I was an adult that was probably surprisingly harder

1347
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 3: than you would think.

1348
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 2: You're like comparing that to being a kid.

1349
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 3: And your parents get divorced because I grew up with

1350
01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 3: this Cosby family style lifestyle.

1351
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the way.

1352
01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 3: That my father kind of just literally black and white

1353
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 3: switched up on our entire family was just heart wrenching,

1354
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 3: Like leaving my mom to take care of all these

1355
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 3: kids she passed. He did not help take care of

1356
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 3: my siblings whatsoever. And I'm the oldest, and everyone was

1357
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 3: younger than me, still in college, high school.

1358
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 2: Elementary school.

1359
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 3: So for me, it was just that was my biggest

1360
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 3: wake up, like, damn, people will really switch, like you said,

1361
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:28,880
Speaker 3: will really switch up on you after decades.

1362
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:30,960
Speaker 2: Of being married or being your parents.

1363
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:34,160
Speaker 3: And so from that moment it was like, Okay, well,

1364
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 3: I'm literally on my own. I don't have my mom

1365
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:40,439
Speaker 3: is completely gone, and then my dad is not being

1366
01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 3: a father to anyone. So I got to put on

1367
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 3: a cape and save everybody. So I got to make

1368
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:48,280
Speaker 3: sure everyone has anything that they need, they can get

1369
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 3: through school, or they have a place to stay, all

1370
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 3: of those things. But that was just my biggest wake

1371
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 3: up call. And then a couple years after my mom died,

1372
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 3: I got fired from my corporate job. And then from

1373
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 3: there it was like, I know, I don't want to

1374
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 3: work for anybody without having my own as backup. I

1375
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 3: would never just be left out in the cold like that. Yeah,

1376
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:10,440
Speaker 3: And so those are the two biggest things.

1377
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 1: And I think that's a good point that you may,

1378
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 1: like you realize when somebody passes away, people don't really care.

1379
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,880
Speaker 1: They like that they like, that's your trauma to do with,

1380
01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:24,960
Speaker 1: Like and in the beginning, everybody's like, oh my god,

1381
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 1: what can I do to be here? Nobody check on

1382
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 1: you after like the first think, yeah, after that month,

1383
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:31,760
Speaker 1: it's kind of like, but you're still grieving and going

1384
01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 1: through the shit, man, when I tell.

1385
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:35,800
Speaker 2: You, because this is my new reality. Yeah, this is

1386
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 2: my reality.

1387
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm saying I'm glad that you brought

1388
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,280
Speaker 1: that up, because I usually be like, let me not

1389
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 1: put my personal business out there, but like, I really

1390
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:46,640
Speaker 1: don't care, just because it was just so crazy to me,

1391
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 1: because we're talking about your why and why you gotta

1392
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:52,360
Speaker 1: keep going and when you realize nobody's coming to save you,

1393
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 1: and how people will use you. Like I watched my

1394
01:03:56,440 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 1: mom be there for like my first cousin his higher life.

1395
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 1: I mean literally whenever him and his mom wasn't getting

1396
01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 1: into it, you know, he moved in my house literally

1397
01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 1: like two three months.

1398
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 2: Before she passed.

1399
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 1: He was at her house and face timing me with

1400
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 1: his girlfriend. She was like, oh, I listened to the

1401
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 1: show I Love you, like just literally being a support

1402
01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:19,680
Speaker 1: system for him only for when my mom passed, didn't

1403
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 1: text me, didn't.

1404
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 2: Show up to the memorial.

1405
01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 1: Still to this day, my mom's been going for almost

1406
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:28,520
Speaker 1: what has been three years now, still.

1407
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 2: Has to said a word to me.

1408
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 1: And that really makes me realize even you can do

1409
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 1: everything for people and show up, it don't matter. Yeah,

1410
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 1: you know you have to you have to change the

1411
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:43,600
Speaker 1: pattern and be that solid thing. You know what I'm saying.

1412
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:47,160
Speaker 1: For sure, nobody coming to save you. I saw that

1413
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 1: he would take everything from you.

1414
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. I saw that happen with my dad.

1415
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 3: When my dad passed away too, Cause like my dad,

1416
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:56,080
Speaker 3: he was like kind of he just used to be

1417
01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 3: in his own little world, like kind of stay at

1418
01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 3: office and stuff. But my mom has always been very giving.

1419
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 3: She will give you the clothes off of her bag.

1420
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 3: I kind of feel like that's where I get it

1421
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 3: from because I'm kind of like that too when it

1422
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:08,280
Speaker 3: comes to people that I really care about. And so

1423
01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 3: I've just my whole life seen my mom like give, give,

1424
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 3: give to people in our family. It was so many

1425
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:18,200
Speaker 3: people who just didn't even say nothing when my dad

1426
01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 3: passed away. They didn't send the text, they didn't send

1427
01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:24,880
Speaker 3: a card, they didn't send no floral arrangement, they.

1428
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 2: Didn't show up to the funeral.

1429
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,120
Speaker 3: And then at the time too, because you know, my

1430
01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 3: dad passed away during like the height of COVID too,

1431
01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 3: So it was already a lot of people that couldn't

1432
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 3: come to the funeral just because it was a certain

1433
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 3: amount of people that we could have there and stuff.

1434
01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 2: But even still like no texts, no nothing.

1435
01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, and my mom her feelings was so hurt by

1436
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 3: like I remember two specific people in our family who

1437
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 3: just didn't even reach out.

1438
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:55,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fucking like because that's why I said, my

1439
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 1: mom is the same was the same way, And like

1440
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 1: I said, I feel like out of everybody, like he

1441
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 1: should have been there, Like you really got some motherfucking

1442
01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 1: nerve you, Like I will never speak to that man

1443
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:09,960
Speaker 1: for the rest of my life. Like ever, you don't

1444
01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 1: have nothing to say to me, Like ever, I feel you.

1445
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 1: But we're gonna move on and real and just real quick.

1446
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: I want to give a shout out to my honey,

1447
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:21,440
Speaker 1: Lane because I will say, you love us some Moneylane,

1448
01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 1: because she always shows up for me.

1449
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying to.

1450
01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 3: Turn my girl be having a ball laughing because she

1451
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 3: know Elaine was turned at the party.

1452
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:36,440
Speaker 2: Having a ball. That's my girl period. Uncle Freddy shows

1453
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 2: up showing up to Yes.

1454
01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 1: Okay, So now it's time to get into the big bowl.

1455
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 2: A bow about bell, bell, bell, bell. So today this

1456
01:06:51,360 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 2: is a very controversial topic.

1457
01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 1: Okay, it's sex better when gods are struggling financially.

1458
01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:07,840
Speaker 2: Now let me tell you why why not about this topic?

1459
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 2: I know, But let me tell y'all something.

1460
01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 1: Men who are homeless are a different breed, are a

1461
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 1: different type of romantic. They are a different type of manipulative.

1462
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 1: They are a different type of gas lighters. And I'm

1463
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 1: not speaking from experience. I'm speaking from like I'm seeing.

1464
01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 1: I see things that go on. I don't want to

1465
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:42,520
Speaker 1: say too much. But when I tell you homeless men

1466
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five, the homeless like not homeless. The

1467
01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 1: broke men I used to deal with back in the

1468
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 1: day when I was in college because I was broke too.

1469
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 2: You know.

1470
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 1: We used to just be like, hey, you know what,

1471
01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:57,520
Speaker 1: I'll order the pizza hood today. Hey, I'll get the

1472
01:07:57,560 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 1: tacos from Taco Bell today. Now, the homeless man, they're demanding.

1473
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 1: They want your car when they drop They want to

1474
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:07,120
Speaker 1: drop you off at work and take your car.

1475
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 2: They want to now.

1476
01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 3: Jody was doing it and baby Boy making two thousand

1477
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 3: and one.

1478
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:14,840
Speaker 2: They want to move in. Nigga's been doing it.

1479
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:16,640
Speaker 1: But they want to move in, and they're going to

1480
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:20,640
Speaker 1: bring their kids with him. Hell no, their kids are

1481
01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:21,320
Speaker 1: hitting you up.

1482
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:25,280
Speaker 2: Hey, can I have some money in all the.

1483
01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:28,160
Speaker 1: But they but they laying that dick down. They're digmatizing

1484
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:31,320
Speaker 1: on another level. They're giving the type of dick that

1485
01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 1: I never want. If a dick gets put inside of

1486
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:38,640
Speaker 1: this vagina, it makes.

1487
01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 2: Me lose all the money. Oh my big facts, he

1488
01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 2: got something going on.

1489
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 1: But if a dick can come inside of me and

1490
01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 1: make me not care that you don't have a home,

1491
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:52,240
Speaker 1: I don't want it. These niggas are putting dick inside

1492
01:08:52,240 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 1: of women in twenty twenty five that are making them

1493
01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 1: forget that they're homeless.

1494
01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:58,240
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, it's an epidemic and it's going on,

1495
01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 2: and you ain't got to tell me. Oh my gosh,

1496
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 2: So I'll be for.

1497
01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:06,640
Speaker 1: Sex is I won't say it's better because I don't know.

1498
01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:08,639
Speaker 1: I don't have sex with homeless man or men who

1499
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:11,439
Speaker 1: don't have things going on financially, but they got I

1500
01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:12,519
Speaker 1: know they got good dick.

1501
01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 2: Homeless men have great dick, they do.

1502
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 3: I've never had sex with a homeless man.

1503
01:09:17,760 --> 01:09:18,599
Speaker 2: Shay please.

1504
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 1: And when I say homeless, we're not talking like under

1505
01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 1: the bridge homeless. We talk about niggas that be like, yeah,

1506
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm in between they staying with their homeboy on the couch.

1507
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 3: Okay, but what if he in between blessings?

1508
01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:32,400
Speaker 1: He got some good dick in between blessing. You can

1509
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 1: be in between blessings, but you don't have a home.

1510
01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 1: That's fine, But I'm saying you laying down that pipe.

1511
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 3: Look, I ate, I feel like sex ain't never been

1512
01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 3: like sex. It's no way sex could be good when

1513
01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 3: he broke. Come on, yo, koochie, get with what else

1514
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 3: does he have to do?

1515
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 4: Like?

1516
01:09:51,680 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 2: What else does he have to bet?

1517
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:56,639
Speaker 3: He giving you everything he got And then he say

1518
01:09:57,160 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 3: I'm doing what I'm doing the best I can with

1519
01:09:59,400 --> 01:10:02,840
Speaker 3: what But what I'm saying is like, how do you

1520
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 3: even get turned on by that?

1521
01:10:05,040 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 2: Niggas?

1522
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 3: Like, right, in hindsight, I get it. Okay, you end

1523
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:15,839
Speaker 3: up having sex with the dude, it's good, he doing.

1524
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 2: All of the right things.

1525
01:10:16,920 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 3: Then you find out that he's homeless, he don't have

1526
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:24,519
Speaker 3: a job, he's broke, he hates a feeling, he has.

1527
01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:27,640
Speaker 2: A lot of stuff going on. Right, let me tell you.

1528
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 2: He out on out on bond.

1529
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:32,599
Speaker 3: That's why I said, because me and a feeling already matter,

1530
01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 3: because it's how munch of rich feelings they got.

1531
01:10:35,320 --> 01:10:37,759
Speaker 2: Think no it is I know you.

1532
01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:42,560
Speaker 1: Know you don't you, babe, You don't have to convince me.

1533
01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: I know you would know it's rich.

1534
01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:49,840
Speaker 2: That was like me in a past. I know what

1535
01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:51,559
Speaker 2: I'm saying. That was me, and that was me a

1536
01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 2: long time ago.

1537
01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:59,439
Speaker 3: Yes, I used to love me or reformed, but now

1538
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:04,799
Speaker 3: I just oh girl, But now I just date legitimate business.

1539
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:08,400
Speaker 3: Mean exactly, I have elevated, I have grown from their space.

1540
01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:12,479
Speaker 3: We's not gonna bring up the past. But the point

1541
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:17,439
Speaker 3: that I was making is like he in between blissons, whatever,

1542
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:21,559
Speaker 3: he got a lot going on, How do you even

1543
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 3: get turned on to keep fucking him? Let me after

1544
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:27,439
Speaker 3: you know about all of these things going on, Like

1545
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 3: the first time, I cool, you don't know.

1546
01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:31,200
Speaker 2: You might not know what he got going on once

1547
01:11:31,240 --> 01:11:34,759
Speaker 2: you find out what the teas? How are you still

1548
01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:38,760
Speaker 2: fucking this men? How is y'all pussy still getting with?

1549
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 1: And I one hundred one thousand percent agree with you,

1550
01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:45,720
Speaker 1: especially at this age early twenties. I'll give them girls

1551
01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 1: a past. I'm talking about this agent. But let me

1552
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:49,320
Speaker 1: tell you out. Let me tell you how, because, like

1553
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 1: I said, this has been something I'm witnessing. They approach you,

1554
01:11:56,960 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 1: they act like they got their shit together, so they lying,

1555
01:12:00,160 --> 01:12:03,559
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because let me tell you my house, shut my.

1556
01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:07,720
Speaker 2: Head, this, I always had this, I had that. So

1557
01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 2: by the.

1558
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:12,559
Speaker 3: Time the real truth comes out, you're already deep in.

1559
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:16,120
Speaker 1: And what do they tap into. A woman being a nurturer,

1560
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:20,519
Speaker 1: a woman being a fixer, especially a black woman. We

1561
01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 1: love to fix, We love to nurture, we love to Oh,

1562
01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:28,519
Speaker 1: I can help him, I can help him. And even

1563
01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 1: though we aren't like that, the average black woman is

1564
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:33,120
Speaker 1: because what do they do.

1565
01:12:33,160 --> 01:12:35,880
Speaker 3: They turn to black women to fix things. We're fixers.

1566
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:38,559
Speaker 1: So these women are getting caught up and stuck in

1567
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 1: these situations. So by the time they find out, they're like,

1568
01:12:42,160 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 1: I can help Yeah, I.

1569
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:45,479
Speaker 2: Can get him back on his feet. But babe, he

1570
01:12:45,560 --> 01:12:47,519
Speaker 2: was never on his feet. He tricked you.

1571
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:51,599
Speaker 3: He was never on his feet. He was like trying

1572
01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:52,920
Speaker 3: to portray something so.

1573
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 2: He could pull you. He pulled you in, dipped you down,

1574
01:12:56,960 --> 01:13:00,000
Speaker 2: love bombed you, romanced you. Let me tell you.

1575
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:06,000
Speaker 1: Everybody says romance doesn't cost right, romance is free. Being

1576
01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:10,559
Speaker 1: a romantic man is all about being thoughtful. Romance can be, Oh,

1577
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:12,800
Speaker 1: I'm headed to her house. Let me go stop by

1578
01:13:12,800 --> 01:13:15,160
Speaker 1: and get some flowers and get some chocolates. That's twenty dollars.

1579
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 1: Romance is very cheap. Romance can be free. Romance can

1580
01:13:18,880 --> 01:13:21,080
Speaker 1: be I wake up first thing in the morning, send

1581
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:22,320
Speaker 1: her a paragraph text.

1582
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:23,120
Speaker 2: That's romantic.

1583
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:26,799
Speaker 1: Romance can so there he's doing all these cheap things

1584
01:13:26,840 --> 01:13:30,320
Speaker 1: and free things. So you're wrapped in. So by the

1585
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:33,559
Speaker 1: time you realize he's homeless and he don't got no money,

1586
01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:36,479
Speaker 1: I can help him. Let me build him up because

1587
01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:39,400
Speaker 1: this six months he's been, he's been there, he's been,

1588
01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:40,599
Speaker 1: so let me support him.

1589
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:45,759
Speaker 2: It's all a mind game. And they know that. Sorry,

1590
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:47,040
Speaker 2: they trick him.

1591
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 3: Just thinking about stuff in I'll be so glad people

1592
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:52,559
Speaker 3: can't see my thoughts.

1593
01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 2: They be tricked. Why did L COOLJ say that on

1594
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:57,599
Speaker 2: this phone?

1595
01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 3: It just made me think about it when you was

1596
01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 3: just saying they always what they head.

1597
01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:05,960
Speaker 2: Why did he say is what you had with you?

1598
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:10,800
Speaker 2: He was homeless. We just used to be homeless. He

1599
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:15,080
Speaker 2: said that you had pride, but you got me now

1600
01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 2: you got me bucking up. The pride is what you had,

1601
01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:22,680
Speaker 2: baby girl, not what you have, bitch ass whole. You

1602
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:27,559
Speaker 2: ain't finna have. But that's what he meant. They the

1603
01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:28,439
Speaker 2: producer said, we're.

1604
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:31,880
Speaker 1: Gonna take this part. Oh God said, proud is what

1605
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 1: you had, baby girl. Now what you have, you bitch

1606
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:37,080
Speaker 1: ass whole. And they edited that part of They not

1607
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:38,040
Speaker 1: edit that part out.

1608
01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:46,920
Speaker 3: But I feel like, yeah, this is hard to say.

1609
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:50,639
Speaker 2: And favorite me and Lax love this song.

1610
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 3: I want to make sure I go about this in

1611
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 3: the right way because lately and no, you don't feel

1612
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:01,000
Speaker 3: appreciated and whatnot what not?

1613
01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:07,639
Speaker 2: His hell looks fly, it's flow is still in your uh.

1614
01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 3: Talk real foul slip every other sentences that you make

1615
01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:13,439
Speaker 3: me sick. He low, he was not a good person

1616
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:14,120
Speaker 3: on this song.

1617
01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 2: In the song does he have ears?

1618
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 3: Now?

1619
01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:22,519
Speaker 1: Well, you know every time I see interviews with Llo

1620
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:24,760
Speaker 1: COOLJ his they don't they be like, oh, Llo cool

1621
01:15:24,800 --> 01:15:25,840
Speaker 1: J don't have ears.

1622
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:31,000
Speaker 3: Google tie google it, google ll cool J ears. I

1623
01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:32,480
Speaker 3: want to see her faceless.

1624
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 2: See I told you, I don't think she pulled it up.

1625
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:39,200
Speaker 3: He really did say, no, Old cool J, no ears,

1626
01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:40,960
Speaker 3: say I've told you it's a thing.

1627
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:43,720
Speaker 2: He has ears. Okay, so he.

1628
01:15:43,680 --> 01:15:49,479
Speaker 3: Does his ears. So it's given author. Yes, he took

1629
01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:51,920
Speaker 3: him inside his hat, so like an ongoing thing is

1630
01:15:52,000 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 3: Viewers deserve to know why l cool J's ears are

1631
01:15:55,080 --> 01:15:56,720
Speaker 3: tucked inside his hat all the time.

1632
01:15:57,360 --> 01:16:00,639
Speaker 2: Oh so it's like they tucked inside his hair. Yeah,

1633
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 2: he talks the that's strange. I'll be talking my ears

1634
01:16:04,080 --> 01:16:08,840
Speaker 2: under my wig sometimes it hurts you, see it is

1635
01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:15,799
Speaker 2: Linda d you got TikTok about this. That's crazy. That's crazy.

1636
01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:18,040
Speaker 2: But now yeah, I don't know.

1637
01:16:18,200 --> 01:16:20,400
Speaker 3: I just feel like the girls just need to stand up,

1638
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,320
Speaker 3: stand up, stop dealing with.

1639
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,000
Speaker 1: If y'all still keep dealing with these niggas, you're gonna

1640
01:16:25,040 --> 01:16:27,679
Speaker 1: end up like uh Jani your own straw.

1641
01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:29,519
Speaker 2: Oh I haven't seen it.

1642
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:34,679
Speaker 3: I haven't seen either, but maybe it's But I also

1643
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 3: feel like women just be desperate sometimes, like they don't

1644
01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:40,760
Speaker 3: want to see or read into the red flags, like

1645
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:44,040
Speaker 3: they be living in the lululand too, because I have

1646
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:47,519
Speaker 3: friends that they will like get with a man within

1647
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:49,559
Speaker 3: the first couple of weeks' and you choose to have

1648
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:51,639
Speaker 3: sex with people, when you choose to have sex with them, whatever,

1649
01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:54,880
Speaker 3: that's your choice, but like to your point, once you

1650
01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 3: know the story, they come with you at all.

1651
01:16:57,360 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 2: These excuses, Oh, I can't go home. I got it.

1652
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 3: Maybe that's too much drama that I don't even want

1653
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 3: to deal with. Get on out of here, buck, cause

1654
01:17:04,439 --> 01:17:07,200
Speaker 3: well is your scooters? Yeah, you don't even have a

1655
01:17:07,439 --> 01:17:08,280
Speaker 3: What is your home?

1656
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:09,200
Speaker 2: Is your home?

1657
01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 1: I just feel like and at a certain age, is unacceptable.

1658
01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:15,679
Speaker 1: I do feel like Black people we tend to push

1659
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:18,840
Speaker 1: ourselves out the home too soon. I feel like after graduation,

1660
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:21,960
Speaker 1: if you still want to live with your parents, that's okay.

1661
01:17:22,479 --> 01:17:23,360
Speaker 2: But we are.

1662
01:17:23,120 --> 01:17:26,639
Speaker 1: In our mid thirties, late thirties now. So the young

1663
01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:28,519
Speaker 1: girls watching, I'm not talking to you. I'm talking to

1664
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:30,360
Speaker 1: my ladies who are watching, who are in their mid

1665
01:17:30,400 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 1: thirties and older even early thirties too. If a man

1666
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:36,960
Speaker 1: doesn't have things going for himself and he's depending on you,

1667
01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:41,560
Speaker 1: like it's a difference between a man who has businesses

1668
01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:44,680
Speaker 1: and maybe he's in a rough season, that's different. But

1669
01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:48,639
Speaker 1: if somebody who has never had nothing, he's never has nothing,

1670
01:17:48,680 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 1: he's got let me tell y'all, red flag multiple baby mamas,

1671
01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:55,120
Speaker 1: y'all have got to stop giving. If he has more

1672
01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 1: than two three baby mamas, y'all gotta be strict.

1673
01:17:58,800 --> 01:18:01,640
Speaker 2: Three I was about to say.

1674
01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:03,640
Speaker 1: Well, no, if a man has one baby mama, all

1675
01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:04,840
Speaker 1: date a man with one baby mama.

1676
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:06,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm talking about.

1677
01:18:06,200 --> 01:18:11,760
Speaker 3: Two three questions need to be asked, questions.

1678
01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:13,240
Speaker 2: Why you ain't like none of them enough to be

1679
01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:13,799
Speaker 2: a family.

1680
01:18:14,040 --> 01:18:15,960
Speaker 3: But you nutting and these women like I don't want

1681
01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:17,720
Speaker 3: to talk to them, Yeah, like I want to know.

1682
01:18:18,840 --> 01:18:19,599
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1683
01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:22,400
Speaker 1: You have to question what makes you so different from

1684
01:18:22,400 --> 01:18:26,320
Speaker 1: these four, these two three, four other women. You're not

1685
01:18:26,520 --> 01:18:29,479
Speaker 1: stop thinking, Oh, I got my shit together, I'm fine.

1686
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 1: You are the perfect victim, you got money, you fine.

1687
01:18:32,960 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 1: Andrew a dummy, he can't wait to clean you out.

1688
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:37,880
Speaker 2: I've seen.

1689
01:18:38,040 --> 01:18:40,400
Speaker 3: It's so funny because going back to tip point, because

1690
01:18:40,400 --> 01:18:42,479
Speaker 3: I feel like that was a really good point. Women

1691
01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 3: do be desperate, and it's like we talked about these

1692
01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 3: on the show before, like desperation, especially when women get

1693
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:52,160
Speaker 3: today thirties. I had seen a club earlier on Instagram

1694
01:18:52,240 --> 01:18:55,680
Speaker 3: today actually, and this lady was crying, like she was

1695
01:18:55,680 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 3: sitting in her car and she was crying because I

1696
01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:01,240
Speaker 3: guess her husband and she was married who he ended

1697
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:03,880
Speaker 3: up leaving her. He wiped out her whole four oh

1698
01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:07,519
Speaker 3: one k and then he used some of the money

1699
01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:10,760
Speaker 3: to pay his child support, so I'm assuming like back

1700
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,160
Speaker 3: child supporting stuff that he has, So I'm assuming obviously

1701
01:19:13,479 --> 01:19:16,880
Speaker 3: not a child that they have together with somebody else.

1702
01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:19,240
Speaker 3: And like she was just in a car crying, and

1703
01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:20,920
Speaker 3: she was just like, I just can't believe you would

1704
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:22,719
Speaker 3: do this to me, And I can't believe you would

1705
01:19:22,720 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 3: be this evil when I've never done anything to you.

1706
01:19:26,840 --> 01:19:29,599
Speaker 3: And sometimes I just feel like in situations like that,

1707
01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:33,240
Speaker 3: like on very rare occasions, people do switch up and

1708
01:19:33,280 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 3: you don't expect it, you don't see it coming. But

1709
01:19:36,160 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 3: a lot of the time then redflegs be the and

1710
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:44,679
Speaker 3: then y'all be ignoring them until something insane happens and

1711
01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:47,719
Speaker 3: now you're looking crazy with the egg on your face

1712
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:50,160
Speaker 3: because you should have been walked away a long time ago.

1713
01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:53,720
Speaker 1: If you watch a man be evil to another woman, wait,

1714
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:55,519
Speaker 1: y'all turn exactly it's coming.

1715
01:19:55,680 --> 01:19:56,599
Speaker 2: I'm talking about evil.

1716
01:19:56,640 --> 01:20:02,840
Speaker 1: If you see him do something evil to somebody, bitch, Okay,

1717
01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 1: I don't care, Like I agree, it's coming. That's why

1718
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:09,200
Speaker 1: I always pay attention to to how men treat the

1719
01:20:09,240 --> 01:20:11,519
Speaker 1: mother their children. Even if you have I'll pay attention

1720
01:20:11,600 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 1: to the way men. I used to be like, oh yeah, girl,

1721
01:20:14,400 --> 01:20:17,600
Speaker 1: he on with her. He led me down. Okay, my

1722
01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:21,479
Speaker 1: turn came, My turn came, and it smacked the fuck

1723
01:20:21,520 --> 01:20:24,200
Speaker 1: out of me. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So

1724
01:20:24,240 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 1: you have to pay attention to that. You have to

1725
01:20:26,080 --> 01:20:29,040
Speaker 1: pay it. A person's character is gonna show every time.

1726
01:20:29,720 --> 01:20:32,599
Speaker 1: I watch how even with my girlfriends, I watch how

1727
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:35,320
Speaker 1: they treat their other friends, how they treat their parents,

1728
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:36,799
Speaker 1: how they treat everybody around.

1729
01:20:38,280 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 3: I see how people treat their friends. I'm like, oh,

1730
01:20:39,920 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 3: she is a great friend. I like that, a great daughter,

1731
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:45,840
Speaker 3: a great everything.

1732
01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:49,160
Speaker 1: Like you see that, a person's character is gonna speak

1733
01:20:49,200 --> 01:20:52,840
Speaker 1: every time. So if everybody got these horror stories about you,

1734
01:20:54,960 --> 01:20:59,200
Speaker 1: okay girl, all right, I'll give you one or two

1735
01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:01,960
Speaker 1: horror stories, cause sometimes you're gonna be the villain people's story.

1736
01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:07,599
Speaker 2: But if it's a lot, it's too many, Nah, nah,

1737
01:21:08,680 --> 01:21:11,439
Speaker 2: not trusting it. Have you y'all lived with a man

1738
01:21:11,640 --> 01:21:14,439
Speaker 2: I have? Did you move into his place or did

1739
01:21:14,479 --> 01:21:16,960
Speaker 2: he move into your place? He moved into mine.

1740
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:19,720
Speaker 1: I was young though, this is college, so we was

1741
01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:22,000
Speaker 1: like both, you know, broken stuff.

1742
01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:23,760
Speaker 2: But I feel like I learned a lot.

1743
01:21:24,160 --> 01:21:26,679
Speaker 1: But like I said, that situation was different because we

1744
01:21:26,680 --> 01:21:29,839
Speaker 1: were so young. We used to work at TGI Fridays together,

1745
01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 1: we was both in college. But as an adult doing

1746
01:21:33,200 --> 01:21:35,400
Speaker 1: what I do now, I would never let a man

1747
01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 1: move in with me.

1748
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:39,560
Speaker 2: Never. Yeah, agree, Never.

1749
01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:42,440
Speaker 1: Like like I said, it has to be a situation

1750
01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:44,840
Speaker 1: to where like if we've been together for a while

1751
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:48,440
Speaker 1: and I know that you got and it's like temporary

1752
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:49,559
Speaker 1: or something, but.

1753
01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:52,160
Speaker 2: I just don't.

1754
01:21:52,479 --> 01:21:54,400
Speaker 1: I don't know because I would never move in with

1755
01:21:54,439 --> 01:21:57,879
Speaker 1: a man like that, Like, we gotta get something together.

1756
01:21:57,960 --> 01:21:59,479
Speaker 2: That's what I say. You know what I'm saying. We

1757
01:21:59,520 --> 01:22:01,960
Speaker 2: both got it, have something to lose. You can't kick

1758
01:22:02,040 --> 01:22:02,439
Speaker 2: me out.

1759
01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 3: I see a lot of women he bought me a house,

1760
01:22:07,280 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 3: bit he kicked you out though. Well, first of all,

1761
01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 3: if somebody is buying you something, that's just always been

1762
01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:15,559
Speaker 3: a rule of thumb for me. You not buying me

1763
01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:17,960
Speaker 3: shit unless it's paid off and.

1764
01:22:18,080 --> 01:22:19,000
Speaker 2: It's in my name.

1765
01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:22,439
Speaker 3: You didn't buy it for me, because if it's not

1766
01:22:22,520 --> 01:22:24,439
Speaker 3: paid off, you gave me a new bill.

1767
01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:26,200
Speaker 2: Because if you.

1768
01:22:26,200 --> 01:22:28,240
Speaker 3: Decide that you're gonna stop paying the sheit now, it's

1769
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:31,479
Speaker 3: my responsibility. That's not a gift. You didn't give that

1770
01:22:31,600 --> 01:22:33,960
Speaker 3: to me. You gave me a new burdens. He bought

1771
01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:36,799
Speaker 3: a house and he lets you move in. That's very different.

1772
01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:41,680
Speaker 3: So yeah, I just feel like, yeah, I don't know

1773
01:22:41,720 --> 01:22:44,479
Speaker 3: when it comes to like living with me, and I

1774
01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 3: just feel like they just be wanting to be in

1775
01:22:46,360 --> 01:22:50,160
Speaker 3: your business. If you want to be married, if you

1776
01:22:50,200 --> 01:22:52,160
Speaker 3: want us to live to put a ring on my finger,

1777
01:22:52,960 --> 01:22:56,040
Speaker 3: make me your wife, make me your wife. You can

1778
01:22:56,120 --> 01:22:57,880
Speaker 3: know what I'm doing all the time, And I'm like,

1779
01:22:57,880 --> 01:22:59,360
Speaker 3: because I don't really be. I mean, I don't be

1780
01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:03,120
Speaker 3: doing shit. But to me, it's just I have had

1781
01:23:03,920 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 3: a few people that our daty like want me to

1782
01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:08,240
Speaker 3: move in with him, and it's like why for what

1783
01:23:09,160 --> 01:23:10,840
Speaker 3: I feel like in my younger years, I would have

1784
01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 3: I don't really see a point, like we can still

1785
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:15,559
Speaker 3: keep doing what we're doing. That's why you know, I

1786
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:17,840
Speaker 3: always advocate for like just you know, let him pay

1787
01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:18,240
Speaker 3: your rent.

1788
01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:21,400
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this, in my younger days, I would

1789
01:23:21,439 --> 01:23:22,920
Speaker 1: have like, if a nigga asked me to move in, yeah,

1790
01:23:22,960 --> 01:23:25,240
Speaker 1: I'm a movie because I can stack my bread and

1791
01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:26,519
Speaker 1: then I can move whenever I'm ready.

1792
01:23:26,560 --> 01:23:28,320
Speaker 3: And see, I'm gonna stack mine because you're just gonna

1793
01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:31,400
Speaker 3: pay my rent, right, but I will say for me,

1794
01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:34,559
Speaker 3: I think at this age, men that got a lot

1795
01:23:34,560 --> 01:23:36,880
Speaker 3: of stuff going on to they want you to move

1796
01:23:36,920 --> 01:23:38,480
Speaker 3: in because they like the benefits.

1797
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah again you cleaning, you.

1798
01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:45,080
Speaker 1: Taking your curating, this vibe in the house. And like

1799
01:23:45,120 --> 01:23:46,760
Speaker 1: I said, I don't mind doing that because I do

1800
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:49,440
Speaker 1: that anyway. But honestly, it's kind of like, okay, what's

1801
01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 1: but what's next?

1802
01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 2: Because they will get comfortable, Oh we love bady, What

1803
01:23:54,160 --> 01:23:55,400
Speaker 2: do we need a paper? You know?

1804
01:23:55,439 --> 01:24:01,240
Speaker 3: They get soothed to mother you. This is the girlfriend bit. Yeah,

1805
01:24:01,400 --> 01:24:05,040
Speaker 3: I'm not getting too much. I'm going home. I'm going home.

1806
01:24:05,080 --> 01:24:06,800
Speaker 2: I love when my man walking my house, He's like,

1807
01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:09,200
Speaker 2: you see how you have everything over here, but can't

1808
01:24:09,240 --> 01:24:09,960
Speaker 2: you do that over here?

1809
01:24:10,000 --> 01:24:12,599
Speaker 3: Because if you want me over there, that's the wife's

1810
01:24:12,640 --> 01:24:14,519
Speaker 3: package exactly, that's the wife.

1811
01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:18,479
Speaker 2: You want this vibe over here, you got to you

1812
01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:21,960
Speaker 2: gotta get the wife's package. You know what I'm saying.

1813
01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:25,479
Speaker 3: Yep, I agree, the wife and the wife's package. Like

1814
01:24:26,960 --> 01:24:29,639
Speaker 3: you could do a lot. You could do a lot

1815
01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:33,599
Speaker 3: for a man before y'all get married or before y'all

1816
01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:34,280
Speaker 3: get engaged.

1817
01:24:34,280 --> 01:24:35,800
Speaker 2: But I mean, just be mindful.

1818
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:39,040
Speaker 3: M M. You know, I think you should do certain

1819
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:41,560
Speaker 3: things because I think I think when we had a

1820
01:24:41,800 --> 01:24:43,800
Speaker 3: Kadeen and Develle on the show, they made a really

1821
01:24:43,840 --> 01:24:46,080
Speaker 3: good point like either you're with somebody who wants to

1822
01:24:46,120 --> 01:24:48,400
Speaker 3: serve and be a partner or your knife. Yes, so

1823
01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:50,879
Speaker 3: I feel like you should definitely be serving your partner

1824
01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:54,240
Speaker 3: before marriage, Thank you, sir. I think you should definitely

1825
01:24:54,280 --> 01:24:56,640
Speaker 3: be serving your partner before marriage and stuff like that.

1826
01:24:56,680 --> 01:24:58,960
Speaker 3: But like when it comes to certain stuff, y'all just

1827
01:24:59,000 --> 01:25:03,040
Speaker 3: be giving niggas too much. But I won't say.

1828
01:25:02,360 --> 01:25:05,400
Speaker 2: Giving all that if you want all it put a

1829
01:25:05,520 --> 01:25:06,200
Speaker 2: ring on it.

1830
01:25:06,600 --> 01:25:08,840
Speaker 1: But I do think it's silly when people say like

1831
01:25:08,920 --> 01:25:12,320
Speaker 1: stuff like, oh, you be cooking for him, babe, omelet

1832
01:25:12,439 --> 01:25:14,000
Speaker 1: is not gonna be the reason why he doesn't.

1833
01:25:14,439 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 2: You can cook for your man. I think that's okay. Yeah,

1834
01:25:16,920 --> 01:25:18,439
Speaker 2: I think like we take it.

1835
01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:20,519
Speaker 1: A little far and they be like, I'm not cooking

1836
01:25:20,600 --> 01:25:24,720
Speaker 1: unless girl, that little salmon is not gonna determine if

1837
01:25:24,720 --> 01:25:25,559
Speaker 1: he marries you or not.

1838
01:25:25,640 --> 01:25:26,760
Speaker 2: Like little stuff like that.

1839
01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:29,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like not that serious, but I'm talking about

1840
01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:34,960
Speaker 1: like once you talk about money, bank accounts, investments, businesses,

1841
01:25:35,840 --> 01:25:38,400
Speaker 1: Doing that with a boyfriend is crazy.

1842
01:25:38,520 --> 01:25:40,760
Speaker 3: I just think I don't know, like I just be

1843
01:25:40,840 --> 01:25:43,120
Speaker 3: taking notes from like women that I look up to.

1844
01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:46,080
Speaker 3: Like I remember I did an interview years ago, like

1845
01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:49,960
Speaker 3: before her and jay Z got married, and like they

1846
01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:51,439
Speaker 3: were asking her. They was like, see, you know, what's

1847
01:25:51,479 --> 01:25:53,439
Speaker 3: your relationship status or whatever. She was like, well, I'm

1848
01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:55,080
Speaker 3: She was like, I'm single. She was like, well, I

1849
01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:57,880
Speaker 3: mean I'm not married. Right, She was like, so I'm

1850
01:25:57,920 --> 01:26:00,200
Speaker 3: single or whatever. She was like, but I'm having fun.

1851
01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:02,719
Speaker 3: I'm in a good space. And then literally like maybe

1852
01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:05,040
Speaker 3: six months later, j Z proposed to her because he

1853
01:26:05,160 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 3: was like, yeah, because people like you on interview with

1854
01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:11,519
Speaker 3: saying you single, because but she kind of was. And

1855
01:26:11,600 --> 01:26:14,920
Speaker 3: I love that because I feel like, yes, until you're married,

1856
01:26:15,400 --> 01:26:20,880
Speaker 3: you're single, and if you want to change, I mean, yeah,

1857
01:26:20,920 --> 01:26:25,719
Speaker 3: it is Beyonce, but I also feel like, still hold

1858
01:26:25,760 --> 01:26:26,320
Speaker 3: yourself to.

1859
01:26:26,280 --> 01:26:27,120
Speaker 2: A certain standard.

1860
01:26:27,160 --> 01:26:30,439
Speaker 3: Absolutely everybody can't be Beyonce, but you should still hold

1861
01:26:30,479 --> 01:26:31,719
Speaker 3: yourself to a certain standard.

1862
01:26:31,720 --> 01:26:33,880
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree, and I agree with you, like.

1863
01:26:33,880 --> 01:26:35,600
Speaker 3: And just because you're not heard, don't mean that you

1864
01:26:35,680 --> 01:26:38,440
Speaker 3: shouldn't have the same standard worthy.

1865
01:26:39,840 --> 01:26:41,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're worthy of whatever.

1866
01:26:41,640 --> 01:26:44,040
Speaker 3: I am a firm believer you're worthy of whatever you

1867
01:26:44,120 --> 01:26:45,000
Speaker 3: think you're worthy of.

1868
01:26:45,360 --> 01:26:47,559
Speaker 2: That's why I think sometimes.

1869
01:26:47,800 --> 01:26:50,240
Speaker 3: When it comes to like when it comes to like

1870
01:26:50,360 --> 01:26:53,400
Speaker 3: factors like people's environments and how they grow up and

1871
01:26:53,439 --> 01:26:56,040
Speaker 3: stuff like that, I can more so understand, Like if

1872
01:26:56,040 --> 01:26:58,920
Speaker 3: somebody is struggling financially but they never have been in

1873
01:26:58,960 --> 01:27:02,320
Speaker 3: a position to really throw in life, that's more understandable.

1874
01:27:02,479 --> 01:27:04,440
Speaker 2: But sometimes when women.

1875
01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:08,720
Speaker 3: Be in fucked up relationships and stuff, it just sometimes,

1876
01:27:08,720 --> 01:27:11,439
Speaker 3: depending on what's going on, be kind of hard for

1877
01:27:11,479 --> 01:27:15,680
Speaker 3: me to be like, Okay, yeah, because you worthy of

1878
01:27:15,720 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 3: whatever you think you worthy of. So if you're still

1879
01:27:18,479 --> 01:27:21,040
Speaker 3: dealing with that sheet, I guess that's what you're worthy of,

1880
01:27:21,280 --> 01:27:23,680
Speaker 3: because you could just not deal with that Niga.

1881
01:27:23,400 --> 01:27:26,120
Speaker 1: Noom word kindsight is twenty twenty, So I one hundred

1882
01:27:26,120 --> 01:27:28,040
Speaker 1: percent agree with you when I was in it, though

1883
01:27:28,120 --> 01:27:30,240
Speaker 1: you can't see it when you're in it. You cannot

1884
01:27:30,280 --> 01:27:32,760
Speaker 1: see it when you're in it, so I get it

1885
01:27:32,800 --> 01:27:35,320
Speaker 1: from both points of views. Because you have somebody who

1886
01:27:35,400 --> 01:27:39,800
Speaker 1: has manipulated you. That's why I say, like cheat like that.

1887
01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:43,920
Speaker 1: Manipulative things that these men do, it can literally change

1888
01:27:43,920 --> 01:27:47,519
Speaker 1: your chemical and balancing your brain. Like you see people

1889
01:27:47,640 --> 01:27:51,280
Speaker 1: get into deep depressions over relationships, you know, Like I

1890
01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:57,439
Speaker 1: have seen I had a friend in high school who

1891
01:27:57,560 --> 01:28:02,560
Speaker 1: her mom committed suicide. He's going through so it's like

1892
01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:04,360
Speaker 1: a lot of things that somebody can do to you

1893
01:28:04,400 --> 01:28:07,519
Speaker 1: can really get you in a dark, dark space. So

1894
01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:11,840
Speaker 1: I'm understanding at the same time because thank God, I've

1895
01:28:11,840 --> 01:28:14,600
Speaker 1: never felt like I wanted to, you know, take myself

1896
01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:17,720
Speaker 1: out for that because but people can have that impact, right,

1897
01:28:18,520 --> 01:28:21,439
Speaker 1: So I will never go back to that place where

1898
01:28:21,520 --> 01:28:26,040
Speaker 1: man got me like feeling doubting myself. But I can

1899
01:28:26,120 --> 01:28:28,400
Speaker 1: understand how some women get there, you know what I'm saying.

1900
01:28:28,680 --> 01:28:30,800
Speaker 1: And because I can only imagine, like I love my

1901
01:28:30,880 --> 01:28:33,200
Speaker 1: friends way deeper than I love men. Me too, I'm

1902
01:28:33,200 --> 01:28:35,920
Speaker 1: a lover, but I love my friends so three. So

1903
01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:38,639
Speaker 1: I imagine imagine if like I woke up one morning

1904
01:28:38,760 --> 01:28:40,200
Speaker 1: Dre was like, Hey, I don't want to be your

1905
01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:44,680
Speaker 1: friend no more. I don't think I can do this. Bruh,

1906
01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:45,680
Speaker 1: that's heartbreak.

1907
01:28:46,439 --> 01:28:48,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. I would literally probably go into a depression.

1908
01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:51,320
Speaker 1: So imagine if somebody feels like that about the men

1909
01:28:51,360 --> 01:28:53,000
Speaker 1: that's in their life, that is their best friend and

1910
01:28:53,040 --> 01:28:55,559
Speaker 1: their everything. So I do try to be understanding because

1911
01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:58,080
Speaker 1: it's easier said than done. I would never go down

1912
01:28:58,120 --> 01:28:59,800
Speaker 1: that path with a man again. But I've been there

1913
01:28:59,800 --> 01:29:02,680
Speaker 1: where a man threw me off course, you know what

1914
01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying, where hindsight is I got, I got the

1915
01:29:06,240 --> 01:29:06,800
Speaker 1: last laugh.

1916
01:29:06,960 --> 01:29:09,680
Speaker 3: For me to be a thought thing though, Yeah, I

1917
01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:12,840
Speaker 3: don't never say anything. I just be thinking, yeah, cause

1918
01:29:12,880 --> 01:29:16,839
Speaker 3: I don't, like I understand everybody is not very strong mentally,

1919
01:29:17,120 --> 01:29:19,439
Speaker 3: you know, like I think some people are just really

1920
01:29:19,479 --> 01:29:22,959
Speaker 3: really really strong mentally, and I think I'm like this, Yeah,

1921
01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:26,360
Speaker 3: so I understand everybody isn't like that. So it's like

1922
01:29:26,400 --> 01:29:28,360
Speaker 3: I would never say, but sometimes when I be seeing

1923
01:29:28,680 --> 01:29:32,960
Speaker 3: seeing stuff online, I just be like, grow, leave, Leave

1924
01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:37,519
Speaker 3: that nigga alone, stand up, please, he ain't even all day, right,

1925
01:29:37,680 --> 01:29:38,640
Speaker 3: But I just always you.

1926
01:29:38,720 --> 01:29:39,799
Speaker 2: More wroad than that nigga.

1927
01:29:39,840 --> 01:29:42,160
Speaker 3: Why the fuck is you letting him make you feel

1928
01:29:42,160 --> 01:29:42,479
Speaker 3: that way?

1929
01:29:42,560 --> 01:29:44,439
Speaker 2: Look at you and look.

1930
01:29:44,280 --> 01:29:46,760
Speaker 3: At him, Look at the things you have going on,

1931
01:29:46,880 --> 01:29:48,320
Speaker 3: and look at what he got going on.

1932
01:29:49,160 --> 01:29:53,400
Speaker 2: He's blessed to have you in his life. Leave that nigga.

1933
01:29:53,520 --> 01:29:56,800
Speaker 2: He's sorry he sucked, but in the same breast.

1934
01:29:56,800 --> 01:29:59,280
Speaker 1: That's why I said, but thank God that you have

1935
01:29:59,400 --> 01:30:02,840
Speaker 1: your mentality and thank God that you don't have those struggles.

1936
01:30:03,080 --> 01:30:05,519
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, I'm like, yeah, bally weak,

1937
01:30:05,640 --> 01:30:08,240
Speaker 3: but that's what they pray on. Yeah, getting back to

1938
01:30:08,280 --> 01:30:08,920
Speaker 3: the topic of.

1939
01:30:08,920 --> 01:30:12,000
Speaker 1: Like the men who are financially struggling, they're not where

1940
01:30:12,000 --> 01:30:13,280
Speaker 1: they want to be in life, they.

1941
01:30:13,240 --> 01:30:15,320
Speaker 2: Pray they can't do that to a woman like you.

1942
01:30:15,439 --> 01:30:18,880
Speaker 3: I just hate to see raw bitches like girls who

1943
01:30:18,960 --> 01:30:21,600
Speaker 3: really you could be that girl, but you just be

1944
01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:24,759
Speaker 3: letting a nigga like bring lay down into the ground.

1945
01:30:24,760 --> 01:30:26,280
Speaker 2: Like I hate to see that.

1946
01:30:26,760 --> 01:30:29,040
Speaker 3: I hate to see that women go through stuff like

1947
01:30:29,080 --> 01:30:32,360
Speaker 3: that cause it's like, girl, you don't need that nigga,

1948
01:30:32,439 --> 01:30:33,719
Speaker 3: and it's always better.

1949
01:30:34,479 --> 01:30:37,240
Speaker 2: It's always better. I get to these hard to see

1950
01:30:37,240 --> 01:30:37,719
Speaker 2: that though.

1951
01:30:38,439 --> 01:30:40,040
Speaker 1: Like I said, I see it from both sides because

1952
01:30:40,080 --> 01:30:41,720
Speaker 1: now I'm on the other side of it.

1953
01:30:42,040 --> 01:30:43,840
Speaker 3: Well, that's why I just feel like even with you,

1954
01:30:44,160 --> 01:30:45,760
Speaker 3: I used to always tell you that though, like I

1955
01:30:45,760 --> 01:30:48,599
Speaker 3: feel like I would listen, but I never used to

1956
01:30:48,640 --> 01:30:51,519
Speaker 3: just be like, oh you bitch, you stupid. There's one

1957
01:30:51,520 --> 01:30:54,200
Speaker 3: thing you gotta keep going back to you really get fitter. Yeah,

1958
01:30:54,560 --> 01:30:57,720
Speaker 3: like you gonna wake up, bitch, And when you wake up,

1959
01:30:57,760 --> 01:31:01,559
Speaker 3: it's like such an awakening moment. Like when I tell

1960
01:31:01,600 --> 01:31:04,160
Speaker 3: you God saved me, and I thank God because I

1961
01:31:04,240 --> 01:31:05,439
Speaker 3: was me saying, I was praying.

1962
01:31:05,479 --> 01:31:08,840
Speaker 1: I was praying, and when God, y'all be praying to God,

1963
01:31:08,920 --> 01:31:10,880
Speaker 1: he'll show you. And you don't want to listen, that's

1964
01:31:10,920 --> 01:31:13,800
Speaker 1: your problem. I prayed to God and I listened, and

1965
01:31:13,840 --> 01:31:16,600
Speaker 1: I actually I had to pick up and I was like,

1966
01:31:16,640 --> 01:31:19,040
Speaker 1: I gotta walk away because I prayed to God. I said, God,

1967
01:31:19,040 --> 01:31:22,160
Speaker 1: if this is my person, please show me and let

1968
01:31:22,479 --> 01:31:25,360
Speaker 1: let him do right by me. And literally the next

1969
01:31:25,439 --> 01:31:28,280
Speaker 1: day he did the It was like, oh my God,

1970
01:31:28,880 --> 01:31:33,679
Speaker 1: I was so proud of you. Who oh, I went cold.

1971
01:31:34,160 --> 01:31:36,720
Speaker 2: Oh turkey, it wasn't no own. Let it still be.

1972
01:31:37,120 --> 01:31:41,080
Speaker 1: I blocked him on everything and I vanished like that.

1973
01:31:41,720 --> 01:31:42,640
Speaker 1: He didn't know what to do.

1974
01:31:42,840 --> 01:31:44,280
Speaker 2: But that's a very strong prayer.

1975
01:31:44,800 --> 01:31:48,920
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, when you say that prayer, you read ready, yeah, reveal,

1976
01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:51,840
Speaker 3: because once once you ask for that, he is gonna show.

1977
01:31:52,640 --> 01:31:53,280
Speaker 2: It's gonna punch you.

1978
01:31:53,320 --> 01:31:57,280
Speaker 3: An ounce, I said, I said the prayer again. He

1979
01:31:57,400 --> 01:32:03,600
Speaker 3: got a ship together one. I said, all right.

1980
01:32:03,560 --> 01:32:06,240
Speaker 2: It be like that. You beat like that.

1981
01:32:06,479 --> 01:32:09,479
Speaker 3: You definitely have to, like you have to be ready

1982
01:32:09,520 --> 01:32:10,439
Speaker 3: for what you ask God.

1983
01:32:10,640 --> 01:32:13,080
Speaker 2: Yes, you really really do.

1984
01:32:13,240 --> 01:32:15,000
Speaker 1: But I think, like I said, it goes with being

1985
01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:16,680
Speaker 1: mentally strong because I have. I was doing the work

1986
01:32:16,720 --> 01:32:19,200
Speaker 1: on myself though outside of men. Yeah, I had these

1987
01:32:19,240 --> 01:32:22,080
Speaker 1: centered men completely and I still do because I'm like, baby,

1988
01:32:22,320 --> 01:32:26,439
Speaker 1: I'm that girl. I'm that girl kingo financially struggling man,

1989
01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:31,040
Speaker 1: mentally struggling man, spiritually struggling man. It's more than because

1990
01:32:31,680 --> 01:32:35,040
Speaker 1: you be struggling financially. You know what, I can deal

1991
01:32:35,040 --> 01:32:37,000
Speaker 1: with a man struggling financially before I deal with a

1992
01:32:37,040 --> 01:32:41,439
Speaker 1: man who's struggling mentally or spiritually. They worse, because they're worse, way,

1993
01:32:41,520 --> 01:32:42,400
Speaker 1: motherfucking worst.

1994
01:32:43,200 --> 01:32:45,639
Speaker 3: You can make it easy and it makes it easier

1995
01:32:45,680 --> 01:32:47,880
Speaker 3: to stay when they got the money. Yeah, that's why

1996
01:32:47,880 --> 01:32:49,720
Speaker 3: I think a lot of women stay in those type

1997
01:32:49,760 --> 01:32:50,360
Speaker 3: of situations.

1998
01:32:50,400 --> 01:32:52,760
Speaker 2: I'm on them mm hm, cause they'd be like, well,

1999
01:32:52,800 --> 01:32:54,040
Speaker 2: I mean he doing X, Y and Z.

2000
01:32:54,720 --> 01:32:58,880
Speaker 3: I'm just stay in a situation, but mentally, spiritually he

2001
01:32:58,920 --> 01:32:59,400
Speaker 3: ain't right.

2002
01:32:59,439 --> 01:33:01,120
Speaker 1: And like I said, no, shade, no, tea. That's where

2003
01:33:01,120 --> 01:33:02,800
Speaker 1: a lot of the I G girls are now.

2004
01:33:03,120 --> 01:33:07,040
Speaker 3: They with men who are financially all right, No, a

2005
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:11,360
Speaker 3: lot of them are nowhere. Now it's time to get

2006
01:33:11,520 --> 01:33:16,560
Speaker 3: into the bopow bow.

2007
01:33:16,720 --> 01:33:22,000
Speaker 2: Bow bow bow. Okay, So my pop, why did you

2008
01:33:22,080 --> 01:33:28,320
Speaker 2: do this Because that's what the girls be doing? What girls? Okay?

2009
01:33:28,920 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 2: But why would you switch.

2010
01:33:31,640 --> 01:33:34,120
Speaker 3: The topic like that when I say what I said

2011
01:33:34,520 --> 01:33:37,320
Speaker 3: then to say the girls being brought me back?

2012
01:33:37,560 --> 01:33:38,040
Speaker 2: Goodbye?

2013
01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:42,360
Speaker 3: Okay, So, my Papa, the week did you make Queen?

2014
01:33:42,520 --> 01:33:44,200
Speaker 3: Did you make all your Star your bop of the week?

2015
01:33:44,200 --> 01:33:46,599
Speaker 2: The other week? I did, but I can't remember what

2016
01:33:47,680 --> 01:33:48,439
Speaker 2: I think it was.

2017
01:33:49,040 --> 01:33:52,280
Speaker 1: I think it was too so that was one of

2018
01:33:52,280 --> 01:33:54,679
Speaker 1: my bops the week? Are your Star? And whiz Kid

2019
01:33:54,720 --> 01:33:55,200
Speaker 1: give me that?

2020
01:33:55,600 --> 01:33:56,080
Speaker 2: Are your Star?

2021
01:33:56,080 --> 01:33:58,200
Speaker 3: As a superstar? I always say that, y'all please go

2022
01:33:58,280 --> 01:34:00,000
Speaker 3: stream her music. She's absolutely amazing.

2023
01:34:00,400 --> 01:34:01,280
Speaker 2: That's home that.

2024
01:34:01,400 --> 01:34:05,840
Speaker 1: Superstar if her voice is so different, that voice is

2025
01:34:05,880 --> 01:34:07,479
Speaker 1: just so rich and unique.

2026
01:34:07,520 --> 01:34:08,679
Speaker 2: I love a unique singer.

2027
01:34:09,520 --> 01:34:12,120
Speaker 1: So but staying on that track, Tyler has a song

2028
01:34:12,160 --> 01:34:13,080
Speaker 1: called Bliss.

2029
01:34:13,640 --> 01:34:15,280
Speaker 2: Tyler is a superstar.

2030
01:34:15,800 --> 01:34:16,160
Speaker 3: She is.

2031
01:34:16,880 --> 01:34:18,479
Speaker 2: She got it, that it factor.

2032
01:34:18,640 --> 01:34:23,120
Speaker 3: It's there, hit after hit after hit after hit.

2033
01:34:23,160 --> 01:34:24,040
Speaker 2: The girls got it.

2034
01:34:24,600 --> 01:34:26,400
Speaker 1: And you know her song is going boel right now

2035
01:34:26,439 --> 01:34:28,960
Speaker 1: because in the video she's like crying and then the

2036
01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:32,479
Speaker 1: next thing she's twerking. I love a multitasking Queen. I

2037
01:34:32,479 --> 01:34:34,639
Speaker 1: done cried and trk at the same time before too.

2038
01:34:35,080 --> 01:34:37,360
Speaker 3: That's how I know though, that something is wrong with

2039
01:34:37,400 --> 01:34:41,160
Speaker 3: me mentally, because do you ever well, I know you

2040
01:34:41,240 --> 01:34:45,000
Speaker 3: do this because I've been around you. I definitely am

2041
01:34:45,000 --> 01:34:47,599
Speaker 3: a person who I will be crying in the mirror

2042
01:34:47,840 --> 01:34:48,880
Speaker 3: and then I'll be crying.

2043
01:34:48,920 --> 01:34:51,120
Speaker 2: Then I start looking at myself and be like, can

2044
01:34:51,160 --> 01:34:55,080
Speaker 2: I be like cool? Actually? Can I say or I'll

2045
01:34:55,120 --> 01:34:58,280
Speaker 2: start tworking. I was in seventh grade.

2046
01:34:58,320 --> 01:35:02,080
Speaker 1: Seventh grade, y'all, I was crying over my boyfriend at

2047
01:35:02,080 --> 01:35:06,559
Speaker 1: the time. I was so sad, and this other boy

2048
01:35:06,600 --> 01:35:08,320
Speaker 1: came up to me. He was like, you so pretty

2049
01:35:08,320 --> 01:35:09,000
Speaker 1: when you crying on.

2050
01:35:09,280 --> 01:35:16,519
Speaker 2: And I was like me, that be me. I could

2051
01:35:16,560 --> 01:35:19,679
Speaker 2: never seriously cry for real. Oh, I can seriously cry.

2052
01:35:19,720 --> 01:35:21,960
Speaker 2: But it's when I look in the mirror and watch myself.

2053
01:35:22,040 --> 01:35:24,799
Speaker 3: No, that's what I mean. Yeah, Like, if I'm crying

2054
01:35:24,840 --> 01:35:25,639
Speaker 3: and I can look.

2055
01:35:25,479 --> 01:35:28,480
Speaker 2: In the mirror, I'll be like, what are you crying for?

2056
01:35:29,520 --> 01:35:33,960
Speaker 1: So yeah, Tyler Bliss, I think she's a superstar, Aria star.

2057
01:35:34,120 --> 01:35:36,559
Speaker 1: Give me that with whizz Kid, love the girls down,

2058
01:35:37,000 --> 01:35:38,200
Speaker 1: They got some boss from the summer.

2059
01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:44,200
Speaker 3: Summertime is here and let this song What's Song by Chrisma?

2060
01:35:44,520 --> 01:35:48,160
Speaker 3: Oh but that ain't okay?

2061
01:35:48,200 --> 01:35:49,040
Speaker 2: What's your week?

2062
01:35:49,680 --> 01:35:53,200
Speaker 3: So shout out to Kiyama to day so sweet because

2063
01:35:53,240 --> 01:35:56,680
Speaker 3: we met her at the BT Awards, uh and we

2064
01:35:56,720 --> 01:35:59,880
Speaker 3: interviewed her. She was really really nice, super beautiful too.

2065
01:36:00,200 --> 01:36:03,400
Speaker 3: I don't know if these have been a vibe. I

2066
01:36:03,400 --> 01:36:05,400
Speaker 3: don't know if this is a new song, old song,

2067
01:36:05,520 --> 01:36:09,720
Speaker 3: Kennu today natural okay, but she had posted it on

2068
01:36:09,880 --> 01:36:10,439
Speaker 3: her picture.

2069
01:36:10,760 --> 01:36:12,280
Speaker 2: You know how you can add the songs here, which

2070
01:36:12,400 --> 01:36:14,719
Speaker 2: we love to do that. But yeah, so.

2071
01:36:16,200 --> 01:36:23,200
Speaker 3: Mom, mom my, mama, and I put black of it

2072
01:36:23,479 --> 01:36:26,120
Speaker 3: because I'm good on any emil.

2073
01:36:27,840 --> 01:36:30,200
Speaker 2: What. Oh. Yeah.

2074
01:36:30,760 --> 01:36:37,519
Speaker 3: So she definitely posted herself in this beautiful dress on

2075
01:36:37,600 --> 01:36:40,080
Speaker 3: the BT Awards, and that was the song that she

2076
01:36:40,120 --> 01:36:43,040
Speaker 3: put on there, and I wouldn't listen to. I was like, oh,

2077
01:36:43,360 --> 01:36:44,439
Speaker 3: you gotta come sit on the couch.

2078
01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:44,880
Speaker 2: I like that.

2079
01:36:45,360 --> 01:36:48,680
Speaker 3: She is so cute, so sweet. She has her own aesthetic.

2080
01:36:49,640 --> 01:36:52,320
Speaker 3: I think that's what the thing the game is missing.

2081
01:36:53,080 --> 01:36:56,080
Speaker 1: Y'all always want to talk about people who got the

2082
01:36:56,120 --> 01:36:58,519
Speaker 1: same aesthetic and be like, all the girls look alike,

2083
01:36:58,640 --> 01:37:00,799
Speaker 1: But you know, passis is a girls that's different.

2084
01:37:00,800 --> 01:37:02,680
Speaker 2: They got there on swag, they on style. She is

2085
01:37:02,760 --> 01:37:05,599
Speaker 2: so beautiful, her spirit. I love her.

2086
01:37:05,760 --> 01:37:08,519
Speaker 3: So it's actually an older song. Well, I mean it's

2087
01:37:08,560 --> 01:37:11,080
Speaker 3: not that old. It came out October first of twenty

2088
01:37:11,120 --> 01:37:11,599
Speaker 3: twenty four.

2089
01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:13,880
Speaker 2: That's not old, that's and that's the problem. Yeah, that's

2090
01:37:13,920 --> 01:37:14,320
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

2091
01:37:14,320 --> 01:37:16,519
Speaker 3: It's not It's not that the kid's gonna say that's old.

2092
01:37:16,840 --> 01:37:17,040
Speaker 2: Right.

2093
01:37:17,560 --> 01:37:20,120
Speaker 3: But yeah, the song came out October first, twenty twenty four.

2094
01:37:21,439 --> 01:37:23,360
Speaker 3: But I really like it, Like I said. She posted

2095
01:37:23,360 --> 01:37:24,880
Speaker 3: it on her page and then I.

2096
01:37:24,840 --> 01:37:26,599
Speaker 2: Was like, oh, let me go listen to these my song.

2097
01:37:26,640 --> 01:37:28,280
Speaker 2: I listened to it and I loved it. That's song

2098
01:37:28,360 --> 01:37:31,720
Speaker 2: she got. Yeah, that's song she got with Lama Jealous.

2099
01:37:32,080 --> 01:37:32,599
Speaker 2: That's mine.

2100
01:37:32,600 --> 01:37:35,479
Speaker 3: I like Jelly's soon. It's so shout out to her girl.

2101
01:37:35,479 --> 01:37:37,240
Speaker 3: We waiting for you to come on the cat we are.

2102
01:37:38,120 --> 01:37:41,160
Speaker 2: So what was that man named? They had their song

2103
01:37:41,439 --> 01:37:43,000
Speaker 2: with me? I need to stop.

2104
01:37:43,120 --> 01:37:46,599
Speaker 3: I just took too many shots because I said I

2105
01:37:46,720 --> 01:37:47,080
Speaker 3: liked it.

2106
01:37:47,520 --> 01:37:49,360
Speaker 2: Remember that song that man they had that song? I

2107
01:37:49,439 --> 01:37:50,800
Speaker 2: like it. I like it.

2108
01:37:51,479 --> 01:37:56,639
Speaker 3: I like the girl whoa whoa, whoa turn around from

2109
01:37:56,640 --> 01:37:58,160
Speaker 3: the back end of I like that.

2110
01:37:58,280 --> 01:38:02,000
Speaker 2: Yeallo, Houston. I know I was about to say that

2111
01:38:02,000 --> 01:38:04,519
Speaker 2: did he was? He able to put it back here? No? Girls,

2112
01:38:04,560 --> 01:38:07,040
Speaker 2: still don't he give it Romeo from iMX.

2113
01:38:08,120 --> 01:38:12,000
Speaker 3: So he just like took it out, like he pulled

2114
01:38:12,000 --> 01:38:13,840
Speaker 3: it from the word out, because you know your eye

2115
01:38:13,920 --> 01:38:18,320
Speaker 3: is attached to like yeah, you sure he never put

2116
01:38:18,360 --> 01:38:18,639
Speaker 3: it back.

2117
01:38:18,800 --> 01:38:20,559
Speaker 2: It ain't nothing to cut that bit off.

2118
01:38:20,600 --> 01:38:24,920
Speaker 1: He cut it off, he did, but he was struggling mentally.

2119
01:38:24,920 --> 01:38:27,160
Speaker 1: And this mental man's mental health aware?

2120
01:38:27,240 --> 01:38:32,000
Speaker 2: Is we joke? Romeo? No iMX. Brandy took his eye

2121
01:38:32,040 --> 01:38:38,200
Speaker 2: out allegedly from IMAX. Allegedly she took his eye out.

2122
01:38:38,280 --> 01:38:39,680
Speaker 2: She Brandy be cutting up.

2123
01:38:39,640 --> 01:38:50,800
Speaker 3: Because I ain't even she's on a streaking one.

2124
01:38:52,240 --> 01:38:54,840
Speaker 2: What would you say? Why would you take that man?

2125
01:38:55,240 --> 01:38:58,520
Speaker 1: So I think she like threw something at him. Obviously

2126
01:38:58,560 --> 01:39:00,880
Speaker 1: she didn't know that was gonna happen.

2127
01:39:01,200 --> 01:39:03,639
Speaker 2: I remember that song. It's like and.

2128
01:39:03,600 --> 01:39:16,200
Speaker 3: Juliet hot sex just to make you sweat this.

2129
01:39:13,760 --> 01:39:18,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yep, yeah who It's like.

2130
01:39:23,439 --> 01:39:27,120
Speaker 3: Oh my God's sad when we be knowing a song

2131
01:39:27,360 --> 01:39:30,120
Speaker 3: word for word and they don't know who's sings.

2132
01:39:30,240 --> 01:39:31,559
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not trying to be funny, and this

2133
01:39:31,600 --> 01:39:33,519
Speaker 1: is no shade, but I think that that's why we

2134
01:39:33,640 --> 01:39:36,400
Speaker 1: got to bring back like artists, development and things like that,

2135
01:39:36,439 --> 01:39:39,439
Speaker 1: because think about how big boots on the ground is

2136
01:39:40,000 --> 01:39:40,280
Speaker 1: and a.

2137
01:39:40,200 --> 01:39:42,479
Speaker 2: Lot of people don't know his name. You know what

2138
01:39:42,479 --> 01:39:42,920
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

2139
01:39:43,640 --> 01:39:47,040
Speaker 1: But that's why splack of Velly. His name was slack

2140
01:39:47,080 --> 01:39:49,800
Speaker 1: of velly. It was I think, No it wasn't.

2141
01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:54,559
Speaker 2: What was his name? You just be lying a straight face.

2142
01:39:54,960 --> 01:39:56,960
Speaker 2: P M A C O K.

2143
01:39:57,439 --> 01:40:04,599
Speaker 3: He splack of a valley, bat bat bad trace songs

2144
01:40:04,600 --> 01:40:05,000
Speaker 3: can't do that.

2145
01:40:05,120 --> 01:40:07,920
Speaker 2: His name is Pressure, Oh Pressure, you put that pressure on.

2146
01:40:08,240 --> 01:40:10,360
Speaker 2: His name was pressure. I thought his name was black.

2147
01:40:10,760 --> 01:40:13,000
Speaker 3: He had one song that the or he had a

2148
01:40:13,160 --> 01:40:14,880
Speaker 3: call EP because that's the only song.

2149
01:40:15,040 --> 01:40:19,320
Speaker 1: I mean, but everyone does need that one splack of velly. Brother,

2150
01:40:19,479 --> 01:40:22,000
Speaker 1: you can call when your man ain't doing you right.

2151
01:40:22,600 --> 01:40:25,439
Speaker 2: I'm if my man ain't doing me right, I'm leaving it.

2152
01:40:25,520 --> 01:40:27,479
Speaker 1: I know, but I'm not gonna lie. About four months ago,

2153
01:40:27,520 --> 01:40:31,840
Speaker 1: I needed a Splackavilly. I needed Oh, I needed a

2154
01:40:31,840 --> 01:40:35,879
Speaker 1: splack of velly so bad. We gotta bring that word back.

2155
01:40:37,920 --> 01:40:40,760
Speaker 2: Her splack of Velly. This video is crazy so far.

2156
01:40:45,240 --> 01:40:47,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know how like people be showing up as Batman,

2157
01:40:48,160 --> 01:40:49,440
Speaker 3: Romeo Superman.

2158
01:40:49,880 --> 01:40:55,440
Speaker 2: That's a superhero. Black of Vlay, Slackervelly out splack of Valley.

2159
01:40:56,720 --> 01:40:57,719
Speaker 2: That's what happens when.

2160
01:40:57,560 --> 01:41:02,200
Speaker 3: He lands splack of belly and then the cake just

2161
01:41:02,479 --> 01:41:03,360
Speaker 3: flowing in the wind.

2162
01:41:03,560 --> 01:41:07,960
Speaker 2: Michael B. Jordan needs to be top, please come on.

2163
01:41:08,920 --> 01:41:12,559
Speaker 2: I love Michael Peter. I like Michael B. Jordan's I'm

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Speaker 2: Weak really competition this one. He really needed this swing

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Speaker 2: tag team on the road. I am awake.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, is this we're talking about? We was talking

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01:41:29,360 --> 01:41:32,400
Speaker 3: about our bobs and then I, oh, so real quick

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Speaker 3: time one more thing?

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Speaker 2: Can you look up? Who's sing Romeo and Juliet.

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Speaker 3: It's like and I don't know, just drive me crazy?

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Speaker 3: Do not know who's sing this song?

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Speaker 1: What was the other song that we used to like

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Speaker 1: shout his swing mind?

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Speaker 2: Way sure look good to me? Please swinging? Okay, it's

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Speaker 2: called That's Why.

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01:41:58,560 --> 01:42:02,639
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fine, e period fine still keep okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that sings Romeo and Juliet.

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Speaker 3: Huh, it's like Romeo and Juliet hot sex sonar bloke

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Speaker 3: That'll make you sweat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:42:10,760 --> 01:42:14,519
Speaker 3: And their album was called Raw Silk, Raw Silk, that's

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Speaker 3: y LK.

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Speaker 2: I like that fact. I used to think it was Tupac.

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Speaker 3: M that sing that song. Yes, he sounded like him

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Speaker 3: a little bit. And this was like when he was

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Speaker 3: still live.

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01:42:26,360 --> 01:42:29,760
Speaker 2: I think one year it came out or maybe it

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Speaker 2: was you. I'm sorry if it doesn't say it's so right.

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Speaker 3: Ten years ago. It is what the YouTube says, but

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Speaker 3: it's way that was a ninety song. Yeah, that was

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Speaker 3: definitely I was.

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Speaker 2: I was a nineteen ninety eight dad and go I

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Speaker 2: was singing justin Timberlay.

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Speaker 3: So, as always some of the week, my item of

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Speaker 2: To be Muse Beauty.

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Speaker 3: show lip glosses, lipliners, Matt lick with lipsticks, flip plumper,

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Speaker 3: jelly blushes and now we also have eyeliner and mess

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Speaker 3: Carro and I actually have the mass Carroll on right now.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I can get Dita Zoomian. Yeah, it's giving, it

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Speaker 2: is real last don't play with it.

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Speaker 1: So I actually have a different on naturalil. I actually

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Speaker 1: have a different item of the week this week. This

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Speaker 1: is not sponsors, So I actually y'all know I'm a

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Speaker 1: skincare girly. I love skincare, everything skincare. I actually ordered

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Speaker 1: Kalisa's skincare line. I got the bundle. So it's the

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Speaker 1: black soap, the rose hip oil for the face, and

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Speaker 1: gin food. The skin food is what everybody raised about

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Speaker 1: and I use it. So this is my first initial

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Speaker 1: review on it, so I'm gonna do thirty days and

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Speaker 1: then come back. But my initial review is that I

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Speaker 1: use a retinoid. I don't know why. I can't think

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Speaker 1: of the name of it. All treaton On. I just

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Speaker 1: shreadon on. So using treaton on your skin is always peeling.

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Speaker 1: It's very very dry, especially in the corners of the nose.

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Speaker 1: I've been peeling all weekend because I use treadon On.

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Speaker 1: I used that skin food last night, y'all, and I

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Speaker 1: woke up and my face was just not peeling. It

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01:44:19,080 --> 01:44:20,880
Speaker 1: was a little bitty, but not like it was like

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Speaker 1: my skin was peeling so bad right here. And when

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Speaker 1: I tell you, it nourished my skin. And this is

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Speaker 1: only one day after using it. So before you go

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Speaker 1: run out and buy it, I'm gonna give y'all a

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Speaker 1: thirty day review. But my initial review is like, Okay, Caalise,

2226
01:44:34,880 --> 01:44:37,439
Speaker 1: you wasn't lying, I'm about to go yeah.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it's.

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Speaker 1: Bounty and full Kalis's Skin Caroline. It's all natural. Now,

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Speaker 1: I will say the shipping was a little slow, so

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Speaker 1: don't be like this is not Amazon Overnight, but I'm

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01:44:48,160 --> 01:44:51,240
Speaker 1: very patient when it comes to orders. So yeah, my

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01:44:51,320 --> 01:44:53,680
Speaker 1: initial review of the skin food, I really loved it.

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Speaker 2: The black soap I used last night, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I really really like it.

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Speaker 3: So far so far, so yeah, So shout out to

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Speaker 3: Kalise Bounty and Food.

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Speaker 2: I really like her skin cares. Did you get the

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Speaker 2: ultimate Glow? Did you get the new meat with the

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01:45:09,000 --> 01:45:11,639
Speaker 2: skin and hair food? No, I don't. I don't wear

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Speaker 2: my hair out. Okay, I'm gonna get both. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: get the skin and the hairful. Yeah.

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01:45:15,120 --> 01:45:17,880
Speaker 1: So I got the bundle with the skin food, the

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01:45:17,920 --> 01:45:20,680
Speaker 1: black soap, and the oil, the face oil. That's the

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01:45:20,680 --> 01:45:25,800
Speaker 1: one I got the bundle. Okay, Yeah, so has beautiful skin.

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Speaker 1: So okay, I need that. She has amazing, amazing skin,

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01:45:29,960 --> 01:45:31,800
Speaker 1: beautiful skin. So I'm gonna give you all a thirty

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01:45:31,840 --> 01:45:35,040
Speaker 1: day review after I use it. But my initial review

2248
01:45:35,080 --> 01:45:37,200
Speaker 1: is that she got something.

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01:45:37,840 --> 01:45:38,559
Speaker 2: She got something.

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Speaker 1: I mean, my under eyes this morning just they were

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01:45:42,520 --> 01:45:47,719
Speaker 1: so plump, they were so plump. So it's a black soap.

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01:45:47,920 --> 01:45:49,840
Speaker 1: It's a black soap, and is it like an oil,

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01:45:50,040 --> 01:45:53,599
Speaker 1: a rose hip turmeric oil and the skin food. That's

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01:45:53,600 --> 01:45:59,679
Speaker 1: the three ones I got. It's a bundle. Okay, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, well, well well I'm adding that to my

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01:46:03,000 --> 01:46:05,160
Speaker 1: skincare routine. Like I said, I do have an extensive

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01:46:05,200 --> 01:46:08,439
Speaker 1: skincare routine, but I use things in certain ways so

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01:46:08,479 --> 01:46:11,559
Speaker 1: I know what's working and what's not. So I'm gonna

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01:46:11,560 --> 01:46:14,120
Speaker 1: give y'all another review in thirty days to let y'all

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01:46:14,160 --> 01:46:18,040
Speaker 1: know how I like it. But yeah, police, my initial

2261
01:46:18,080 --> 01:46:20,400
Speaker 1: review is like, I woke up and I didn't have

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01:46:20,479 --> 01:46:22,880
Speaker 1: any feeling on my skin that I usually have when

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01:46:22,880 --> 01:46:25,840
Speaker 1: I wake up, And I was like, Okay, you did

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01:46:25,880 --> 01:46:28,559
Speaker 1: something because I use a lot of products and when

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01:46:28,600 --> 01:46:30,600
Speaker 1: I wake up, my skin is always dry, and I

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01:46:30,640 --> 01:46:32,240
Speaker 1: woke up moisturized.

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Speaker 2: Well, I just placed my order that quick. That is

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Speaker 2: not your name? Why did you do that?

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Speaker 3: The camera is.

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Speaker 2: Not over here.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'll just make it sure and unplugged that man

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Speaker 3: name Cordo. Okay, now it's time to do our favorite

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Speaker 3: segment of the week.

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Speaker 2: It's to Pour your Heart Out segment.

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01:46:56,120 --> 01:46:57,800
Speaker 1: If you want your question answered on the show, make

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Speaker 1: sure you email us at ask poor Mind. Oh lord,

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Speaker 1: we done made this a two hour episode.

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01:47:04,800 --> 01:47:11,280
Speaker 2: Rick sitting over there like, shut up, crap, you gotta

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01:47:11,320 --> 01:47:14,519
Speaker 2: say that now you gotta let us know this right up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so if you want your question answered on the show,

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01:47:18,040 --> 01:47:19,880
Speaker 1: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at

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Speaker 1: gmail dot com. Patreon members, make sure you put that

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Speaker 1: in the headline.

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Speaker 3: You get to skip the line rich look hair on

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Speaker 3: the hair per usual.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead. Okay, damn, this is so long. Okay.

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Speaker 3: I first emailed y'all in April, but I shortened it

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Speaker 3: for y'all. Whenever y'all be saying it, I'd be like, well,

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Speaker 3: did you shorten me? Please keep me anonymies. Hey, Lex Andrea,

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Speaker 3: I'm twenty three. In a Newer listener love watching the

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Speaker 3: pie while I cook and clean. I was eating dinner

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01:47:56,280 --> 01:47:59,280
Speaker 3: while watching The Sisters Who Kill episode when Lex mentioned

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01:47:59,360 --> 01:48:02,599
Speaker 3: murder Puss in reference to Drea having an ex who

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01:48:02,640 --> 01:48:06,040
Speaker 3: passed I had never heard the turn before, but it

2295
01:48:06,160 --> 01:48:08,439
Speaker 3: hit me because I also have an X who passed away.

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01:48:08,880 --> 01:48:11,120
Speaker 3: He was my first real boyfriend. We met when I

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01:48:11,160 --> 01:48:13,719
Speaker 3: was eighteen and worked together from twenty twenty to twenty

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01:48:13,760 --> 01:48:16,639
Speaker 3: twenty three. We went through a life, but I can

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01:48:16,640 --> 01:48:18,719
Speaker 3: confidently say that I was the love of his life.

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Speaker 3: Anything's due to the relationship becoming too toxic and exhausting,

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01:48:22,800 --> 01:48:26,080
Speaker 3: but we stayed in light contact. In early twenty twenty four,

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Speaker 3: after I started casually seeing someone new and my ex

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01:48:29,200 --> 01:48:31,719
Speaker 3: came to visit me. At some point we were talking

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01:48:31,760 --> 01:48:33,599
Speaker 3: and I told him I had been with someone else.

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Speaker 2: He was clearly hurt and left right after.

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01:48:36,240 --> 01:48:38,760
Speaker 3: About four weeks later, he passed away at twenty four

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01:48:38,800 --> 01:48:42,679
Speaker 3: from an undiagnosed heart condition. It devastated me and I'm

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01:48:42,720 --> 01:48:46,040
Speaker 3: still healing. So now I'm wondering, am I over analyzing

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01:48:46,080 --> 01:48:48,679
Speaker 3: his passing or do y'all think there's something deeper going

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Speaker 3: on here? And also, can y'all explain more about what

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Speaker 3: murder pussy really means? Thanks for reading and put it

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Speaker 3: for reading and put it on for black women. I

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Speaker 3: love what y'all do.

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Speaker 2: Why would you? What are you laughing at? It's not funny.

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01:49:07,760 --> 01:49:12,240
Speaker 3: I'm laughing because she said, can y'all explain more about

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01:49:12,240 --> 01:49:13,800
Speaker 3: what murder pussy really means?

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01:49:14,640 --> 01:49:18,200
Speaker 2: Didn't just make that ship up? Made that up?

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01:49:18,240 --> 01:49:18,360
Speaker 3: Oh?

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01:49:18,439 --> 01:49:20,479
Speaker 2: I didn't? You did? You made that up?

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01:49:20,800 --> 01:49:25,360
Speaker 3: And then for me personally, speaking for myself, I had

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01:49:25,479 --> 01:49:29,160
Speaker 3: been I had been broke up with my ex, like

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01:49:29,320 --> 01:49:33,320
Speaker 3: we weren't together for like five years. This is my

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01:49:33,600 --> 01:49:39,840
Speaker 3: high school boyfriend. This was my high school boyfriend. We

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01:49:39,880 --> 01:49:41,840
Speaker 3: broke up when I was in like tenth grade, and

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Speaker 3: then he died when I was like a junior, I

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01:49:44,640 --> 01:49:49,040
Speaker 3: think in college. So we hadn't been together for years.

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01:49:49,840 --> 01:49:52,519
Speaker 3: I had not had sex with that young man in

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01:49:52,560 --> 01:49:57,559
Speaker 3: a long time. It's not what took his life. This

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01:49:57,600 --> 01:50:02,280
Speaker 3: pussy is not what took his life. However, murder pussy

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01:50:02,439 --> 01:50:06,880
Speaker 3: is some ship legs made up. I don't She can't

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01:50:06,880 --> 01:50:07,920
Speaker 3: even tell you nothing about it.

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01:50:07,920 --> 01:50:09,760
Speaker 2: Case. I don't know what it means because I don't

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01:50:09,760 --> 01:50:10,599
Speaker 2: have murder pussy.

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Speaker 1: The men who you do? The man who going to

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01:50:15,360 --> 01:50:19,439
Speaker 1: live prosperous life, the mean the men. I didn't say

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Speaker 1: nothing about the cheer. You're talking about a different type

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01:50:22,520 --> 01:50:24,400
Speaker 1: of murder pussy. That's still murder.

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Speaker 2: Mind your business. And I know they looking down like

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01:50:31,760 --> 01:50:33,840
Speaker 2: this to give me a chance.

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01:50:35,280 --> 01:50:37,599
Speaker 1: So let me tell you what murder pussy is. Murder

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01:50:37,640 --> 01:50:42,679
Speaker 1: pussy is when you have multiple excess. I only have one,

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01:50:42,840 --> 01:50:43,280
Speaker 1: do you?

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01:50:45,840 --> 01:50:46,080
Speaker 2: Yes?

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01:50:47,960 --> 01:50:49,320
Speaker 1: They have to think about it to make sure you

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01:50:49,360 --> 01:50:51,800
Speaker 1: wasn't lying.

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01:50:52,000 --> 01:50:52,800
Speaker 2: I only have one.

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01:50:53,280 --> 01:50:57,320
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe you only got one, baby. I feel like

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01:50:57,320 --> 01:50:59,400
Speaker 1: you had somebody that's been shot before.

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01:50:59,760 --> 01:51:02,720
Speaker 2: They made it. But he made it.

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01:51:03,720 --> 01:51:05,840
Speaker 1: But anyway, So murder pussy is when you have a

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01:51:05,920 --> 01:51:09,679
Speaker 1: vagina that men tend to slide in and something happens

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01:51:09,720 --> 01:51:14,080
Speaker 1: to him. You know, they get out that puss and

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01:51:14,120 --> 01:51:15,280
Speaker 1: they wet the block up.

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01:51:15,640 --> 01:51:17,680
Speaker 2: But they don't. They're the ones who wet the block up.

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01:51:17,720 --> 01:51:18,439
Speaker 2: They on the floor.

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Speaker 1: You all don't watch First forty eight enough for me.

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01:51:21,960 --> 01:51:24,800
Speaker 1: So that's what murder pussy is, first of all. Second

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01:51:24,840 --> 01:51:28,960
Speaker 1: of all, it is a joke. But I will say,

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Speaker 1: I think you're over analyzing it because he had a

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01:51:32,320 --> 01:51:35,000
Speaker 1: he had a hard condition, babe. So I think what

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01:51:35,040 --> 01:51:36,760
Speaker 1: you're trying to ask me is did he dive a

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01:51:36,840 --> 01:51:37,559
Speaker 1: broken heart?

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01:51:38,240 --> 01:51:39,679
Speaker 2: That digg It didn't go to the doctor.

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01:51:40,280 --> 01:51:43,640
Speaker 1: That's undiagnosed. It was undiagnosed. So maybe he did go

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01:51:43,720 --> 01:51:47,200
Speaker 1: to the doctor. Don't blame you.

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01:51:47,920 --> 01:51:48,920
Speaker 2: It was undiagnosed.

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01:51:49,720 --> 01:51:51,080
Speaker 3: So maybe he did go to the doctor and they

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01:51:51,120 --> 01:51:55,720
Speaker 3: didn't find it. Okay, sometimes people go to the.

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01:51:55,680 --> 01:51:57,920
Speaker 2: Doctor and they didn't. They didn't find my fibroid. I

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01:51:58,000 --> 01:52:00,439
Speaker 2: had to go to Columbia and they found it. Couldn't

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01:52:00,439 --> 01:52:03,960
Speaker 2: even get my booty done. I had to postpone my BBL.

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01:52:05,080 --> 01:52:10,040
Speaker 2: But I took that motherfuck out and I went right.

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01:52:10,200 --> 01:52:16,240
Speaker 2: I said, hey, it's gone now I ain't ship.

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01:52:16,360 --> 01:52:20,360
Speaker 1: But anyways, moving on, So do not blame yourself. And

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01:52:20,439 --> 01:52:22,960
Speaker 1: I know we making jokes, but you do need to heal.

2376
01:52:23,120 --> 01:52:23,880
Speaker 2: At the end of the day.

2377
01:52:24,040 --> 01:52:26,720
Speaker 1: There's one person who has to say so on how

2378
01:52:26,760 --> 01:52:28,519
Speaker 1: long we are on this earth, and it is God.

2379
01:52:29,000 --> 01:52:31,439
Speaker 1: So all jokes aside, please do not blame yourself for

2380
01:52:31,560 --> 01:52:34,040
Speaker 1: his death. I think you need to do some healing.

2381
01:52:34,439 --> 01:52:36,840
Speaker 1: Murder pussy is a joke, bitch, I said that to

2382
01:52:36,920 --> 01:52:41,519
Speaker 1: fuck with her. Murder pussy is not real. Okay, women,

2383
01:52:41,800 --> 01:52:44,320
Speaker 1: it is not your fault. But now some of y'all

2384
01:52:44,320 --> 01:52:47,080
Speaker 1: do practice hodoo and voodoo and all that stuff.

2385
01:52:47,240 --> 01:52:50,600
Speaker 2: I don't get into that. I don't know nothing about it.

2386
01:52:50,680 --> 01:52:52,639
Speaker 1: They be doing that, I don't know, and I don't

2387
01:52:52,840 --> 01:52:54,960
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, but I will say, just

2388
01:52:55,040 --> 01:52:57,559
Speaker 1: do the healing. I mean, it's hurtful because a lot

2389
01:52:57,560 --> 01:53:00,400
Speaker 1: of times death is so unexpected. So I think what

2390
01:53:00,439 --> 01:53:02,479
Speaker 1: you're dealing with is like you felt like you hurt

2391
01:53:02,479 --> 01:53:04,960
Speaker 1: his feelings and you didn't get your last word or

2392
01:53:04,960 --> 01:53:07,160
Speaker 1: your last thing to say in this and X y

2393
01:53:07,320 --> 01:53:09,960
Speaker 1: Z and I think if you do believe in God

2394
01:53:10,000 --> 01:53:13,720
Speaker 1: and when people cross over, they have to go through

2395
01:53:13,760 --> 01:53:17,280
Speaker 1: a moment of forgiveness and healing in their own spiritual self.

2396
01:53:17,720 --> 01:53:20,879
Speaker 1: So I think that that's the same healing and process

2397
01:53:20,960 --> 01:53:23,479
Speaker 1: things that he probably went through when he crossed over

2398
01:53:23,600 --> 01:53:24,240
Speaker 1: is what we have.

2399
01:53:24,280 --> 01:53:25,759
Speaker 2: To deal with on this earth.

2400
01:53:26,200 --> 01:53:28,680
Speaker 1: So if there are things left unsaid with somebody that

2401
01:53:28,720 --> 01:53:33,760
Speaker 1: you lost, the same feelings that you feel, they have

2402
01:53:33,840 --> 01:53:35,880
Speaker 1: to go through as well. But you just have to

2403
01:53:35,880 --> 01:53:38,400
Speaker 1: heal and process it, you know what I'm saying. So

2404
01:53:38,439 --> 01:53:40,200
Speaker 1: the best advice I can give you is not to

2405
01:53:40,200 --> 01:53:42,559
Speaker 1: blame yourself and just move on.

2406
01:53:42,800 --> 01:53:44,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, just move on.

2407
01:53:45,920 --> 01:53:48,680
Speaker 3: I always feel like people shouldn't blame themselves on somebody that.

2408
01:53:54,080 --> 01:54:10,800
Speaker 2: Carol Baskin girl, what the fuck? Oh my shup girl.

2409
01:54:13,360 --> 01:54:19,200
Speaker 3: Anyways, I feel like, unfortunately, death is a natural part

2410
01:54:19,240 --> 01:54:22,280
Speaker 3: of life, like and at some point we're all going to,

2411
01:54:23,360 --> 01:54:25,960
Speaker 3: you know, get to that crossroads. I don't feel like

2412
01:54:26,160 --> 01:54:29,120
Speaker 3: you should blame yourself for somebody else's death, you know,

2413
01:54:29,240 --> 01:54:32,920
Speaker 3: unless you directly had a hand in it, And it

2414
01:54:32,960 --> 01:54:36,120
Speaker 3: doesn't seem from what you have wrote that you had

2415
01:54:36,120 --> 01:54:38,800
Speaker 3: a hand in his death. Like I would not put

2416
01:54:38,880 --> 01:54:42,160
Speaker 3: that burden on myself. I would not put that hurt

2417
01:54:42,200 --> 01:54:45,280
Speaker 3: on myself. The responsibility. You still got a hill of

2418
01:54:45,320 --> 01:54:47,560
Speaker 3: life to live. Just you know, I like to people

2419
01:54:47,640 --> 01:54:49,920
Speaker 3: that I care about who passed away. I like to

2420
01:54:49,960 --> 01:54:52,920
Speaker 3: feel like I'm living my life for them and that

2421
01:54:52,960 --> 01:54:55,600
Speaker 3: they're living through me. So like, you know, I just

2422
01:54:55,680 --> 01:54:58,960
Speaker 3: live your life, be happy, do things that would make

2423
01:54:59,040 --> 01:54:59,600
Speaker 3: him proud.

2424
01:54:59,640 --> 01:55:03,200
Speaker 2: And yeah, Li've bea life all right.

2425
01:55:03,360 --> 01:55:07,360
Speaker 3: Last one, Hey, big Mama and Little Drea. First off,

2426
01:55:07,480 --> 01:55:09,920
Speaker 3: love y'all been rocking with Poor Mind since the Red

2427
01:55:10,000 --> 01:55:13,040
Speaker 3: and Black background days, and I'm so proud of y'all.

2428
01:55:13,240 --> 01:55:16,800
Speaker 3: Here's my situation. I'm thirty five. My man is thirty seven.

2429
01:55:16,880 --> 01:55:19,400
Speaker 3: We've known each other since high school and reconnected last

2430
01:55:19,480 --> 01:55:23,360
Speaker 3: year after years of missing of missed timing. We are

2431
01:55:23,480 --> 01:55:26,360
Speaker 3: super in love and even talking marriage. But lately I'm

2432
01:55:26,400 --> 01:55:27,760
Speaker 3: seeing some red flags.

2433
01:55:27,840 --> 01:55:28,600
Speaker 2: He's selfish.

2434
01:55:28,880 --> 01:55:31,200
Speaker 1: I don't ask for much, but when I do, it's

2435
01:55:31,240 --> 01:55:34,280
Speaker 1: met with an attitude. Meanwhile, I show up for him

2436
01:55:34,400 --> 01:55:38,560
Speaker 1: every time, no hesitation. The last straw, my car was

2437
01:55:38,640 --> 01:55:41,440
Speaker 1: down and I had an important errand instead of offering

2438
01:55:41,480 --> 01:55:44,440
Speaker 1: the help, he asked questions and hopped on the PlayStation.

2439
01:55:44,840 --> 01:55:48,040
Speaker 1: I had some uber and honestly, when that car door shut,

2440
01:55:48,160 --> 01:55:50,360
Speaker 1: I felt like I was done Am I wrong for

2441
01:55:50,480 --> 01:55:53,280
Speaker 1: expecting the same love and care I give, or.

2442
01:55:53,200 --> 01:55:55,360
Speaker 3: Should I just take this as a sign and move

2443
01:55:55,400 --> 01:55:58,720
Speaker 3: the fuck on poor Cruse forever. I just feel like

2444
01:55:58,760 --> 01:56:01,400
Speaker 3: he's money probably funny, nick mean when they money funny.

2445
01:56:01,440 --> 01:56:04,080
Speaker 3: We was talking about broke niggas earlier. I just think

2446
01:56:04,280 --> 01:56:07,600
Speaker 3: me and be like, really mean when they don't have

2447
01:56:07,960 --> 01:56:10,960
Speaker 3: no money. And then men naturally don't want to let

2448
01:56:11,080 --> 01:56:13,520
Speaker 3: you know when they're going through things financially, so he's

2449
01:56:13,520 --> 01:56:17,240
Speaker 3: not going to just straight out tell you. I feel

2450
01:56:17,240 --> 01:56:19,440
Speaker 3: like maybe he going through a rough pass, especially since

2451
01:56:19,480 --> 01:56:23,200
Speaker 3: because y'all aren't married. Yeah, so I'm sure y'all bank

2452
01:56:23,200 --> 01:56:25,600
Speaker 3: accounts and all of that stuff is not intertwined. Girl,

2453
01:56:25,640 --> 01:56:28,160
Speaker 3: you don't know what he got going on for real financially,

2454
01:56:28,520 --> 01:56:31,880
Speaker 3: and I feel like he just taking it out on

2455
01:56:31,920 --> 01:56:32,800
Speaker 3: you a little bit.

2456
01:56:33,160 --> 01:56:35,520
Speaker 1: But I also think this is why you ask questions.

2457
01:56:35,560 --> 01:56:38,360
Speaker 1: I think we need to express ourselves as women. So

2458
01:56:38,640 --> 01:56:40,720
Speaker 1: I get where you're coming from of being fed up

2459
01:56:40,720 --> 01:56:43,720
Speaker 1: and being aggravated. But instead of slamming that door and

2460
01:56:43,760 --> 01:56:45,680
Speaker 1: being done, why don't you talk to him like, Hey,

2461
01:56:46,400 --> 01:56:48,040
Speaker 1: I had this going on and I.

2462
01:56:48,000 --> 01:56:49,480
Speaker 2: Felt like you didn't show up for me.

2463
01:56:49,680 --> 01:56:52,760
Speaker 1: What's going on or why, And I think his explanation

2464
01:56:52,840 --> 01:56:54,720
Speaker 1: and him communicating and telling you why, he's going to

2465
01:56:54,800 --> 01:56:57,240
Speaker 1: give you all the answers that you need. I can't

2466
01:56:57,240 --> 01:56:58,800
Speaker 1: give you an answer because I don't know what he's

2467
01:56:58,840 --> 01:56:59,360
Speaker 1: going through.

2468
01:56:59,520 --> 01:57:01,280
Speaker 2: I don't know what the dynamic is.

2469
01:57:01,560 --> 01:57:05,400
Speaker 1: So we need to communicate, tell him how you feel.

2470
01:57:05,720 --> 01:57:07,920
Speaker 1: And his reaction to how you feel is gonna say

2471
01:57:07,960 --> 01:57:10,600
Speaker 1: everything if he hears you and he's like, you know what, babe,

2472
01:57:10,880 --> 01:57:13,520
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry. I didn't realize you didn't felt like

2473
01:57:13,560 --> 01:57:15,720
Speaker 1: I feel like I was showing up for you. I'm

2474
01:57:15,720 --> 01:57:18,160
Speaker 1: gonna do better and I'm gonna show you better, versus.

2475
01:57:17,840 --> 01:57:21,000
Speaker 2: Being, oh, well, what you want me to do? What

2476
01:57:21,120 --> 01:57:22,760
Speaker 2: you that's gonna give you the answer you need?

2477
01:57:23,120 --> 01:57:26,040
Speaker 1: Of you expressing yourself and actually telling him in.

2478
01:57:26,120 --> 01:57:29,160
Speaker 2: His reaction, or did you straight up ask him, are

2479
01:57:29,200 --> 01:57:35,080
Speaker 2: you right now? Do you need some money? Do you

2480
01:57:35,160 --> 01:57:39,720
Speaker 2: need what? Todd? What was that he said that on

2481
01:57:39,880 --> 01:57:42,720
Speaker 2: that reunion? What? What was that show?

2482
01:57:43,160 --> 01:57:49,520
Speaker 3: The with Todd Terrence Howard?

2483
01:57:50,680 --> 01:57:51,720
Speaker 2: Oh my best man?

2484
01:57:52,200 --> 01:57:54,640
Speaker 3: Remember they did the reunion the show and then he

2485
01:57:55,120 --> 01:57:56,240
Speaker 3: said do you need some money?

2486
01:57:56,840 --> 01:58:00,320
Speaker 2: Yeah? And he indeed needed that money. That's saying so

2487
01:58:00,360 --> 01:58:04,560
Speaker 2: sometimes it is so sometimes just straight up. Harport was broke.

2488
01:58:05,200 --> 01:58:08,240
Speaker 2: He needed that money. That book deal was not coming

2489
01:58:08,280 --> 01:58:13,760
Speaker 2: to You need some money, ask him? Ask him? Is cute? Yes, yes,

2490
01:58:14,120 --> 01:58:16,440
Speaker 2: but I don't ask if you ain't to give. Damn.

2491
01:58:16,480 --> 01:58:21,200
Speaker 2: We got real chatty today. I hope y'all enjoyed this episode. Oh.

2492
01:58:22,160 --> 01:58:23,000
Speaker 2: I tried.

2493
01:58:25,080 --> 01:58:26,960
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all watched Dray and the Cold with three

2494
01:58:27,000 --> 01:58:30,000
Speaker 1: E's blogs Weekly Drunk.

2495
01:58:31,240 --> 01:58:32,200
Speaker 2: What was that?

2496
01:58:37,320 --> 01:58:37,360
Speaker 3: No?

2497
01:58:37,520 --> 01:58:42,320
Speaker 1: Ever, since I can't remember, we can finish. Close it up, Todd,

2498
01:58:42,400 --> 01:58:44,160
Speaker 1: What you got going on where people can find you?

2499
01:58:44,400 --> 01:58:48,080
Speaker 3: A tyn of call Tucker on Ig so mixy to

2500
01:58:48,280 --> 01:58:50,720
Speaker 3: exus on I G and Crown Royalty at o on

2501
01:58:50,800 --> 01:58:53,240
Speaker 3: ig we crowing and glowing baby here.

2502
01:58:53,400 --> 01:58:57,560
Speaker 2: I've been seeing your events. They always on my good girl.

2503
01:58:57,720 --> 01:59:00,720
Speaker 2: I have a whole team now, y'all, I'm out of you.

2504
01:59:00,880 --> 01:59:05,760
Speaker 3: We are Elevation of Girls, and y'all make sure y'all

2505
01:59:05,800 --> 01:59:08,680
Speaker 3: tune into Love LEXP Every Monday is now available on

2506
01:59:08,720 --> 01:59:11,640
Speaker 3: all audio platforms, and we'll see y'all next week.

2507
01:59:11,920 --> 01:59:32,360
Speaker 2: Ever, since I can't remember, I've been popping my give

2508
01:59:32,360 --> 01:59:35,880
Speaker 2: it to him. I want to be good to your baby.

2509
01:59:36,360 --> 01:59:39,480
Speaker 3: Oh, com me crazy, but I think I found a

2510
01:59:39,560 --> 01:59:40,520
Speaker 3: level of my life.

2511
01:59:40,640 --> 01:59:44,560
Speaker 2: That's right. Have you ever felt warm on a cold,

2512
01:59:44,560 --> 01:59:50,040
Speaker 2: cold night when you at least expected and you can't

2513
01:59:50,040 --> 01:59:50,880
Speaker 2: resiate it?

2514
01:59:52,440 --> 01:59:57,240
Speaker 5: That crazy little tingling feeling painting your chest?

2515
01:59:57,920 --> 01:59:59,640
Speaker 2: You feel that fe.

2516
02:00:00,960 --> 02:00:02,720
Speaker 5: Just letting it burn.

2517
02:00:03,840 --> 02:00:09,440
Speaker 2: Because there's no running when it's shown. Side. But I

2518
02:00:09,440 --> 02:00:10,360
Speaker 2: think God found.

2519
02:00:10,320 --> 02:00:16,680
Speaker 5: Let it burn, let it, let it burn, just letting

2520
02:00:16,760 --> 02:00:19,720
Speaker 5: it burn, let it, let.

2521
02:00:19,560 --> 02:00:22,640
Speaker 2: It back, Chris, I think I found a level of

2522
02:00:22,680 --> 02:00:23,080
Speaker 2: my life.

2523
02:00:23,200 --> 02:00:26,840
Speaker 5: Really creeping in your heart, oh baby, when your kids

2524
02:00:26,960 --> 02:00:27,960
Speaker 5: feeling in your heart?

2525
02:00:28,120 --> 02:00:38,480
Speaker 2: That's right, that'sten. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Why are you saying me.

2526
02:00:38,840 --> 02:00:42,839
Speaker 3: Gonna find no using drying?

2527
02:00:43,000 --> 02:00:47,280
Speaker 1: I walls on the wall, in the way, just see the.

2528
02:00:49,960 --> 02:00:57,080
Speaker 2: Just let it back. It's that story running whoa show? Side?

2529
02:00:59,000 --> 02:01:10,880
Speaker 2: Let it, let it, let it mine. Then we go

2530
02:01:11,040 --> 02:01:38,960
Speaker 2: like this. It was a harmony. M Come on, let

2531
02:01:39,040 --> 02:01:45,960
Speaker 2: it work when you can't get it.

2532
02:01:46,160 --> 02:01:49,000
Speaker 1: Sorry, Jasmine, come on the show and say, show us

2533
02:01:49,000 --> 02:01:51,000
Speaker 1: how to do it right, show us.

2534
02:01:50,920 --> 02:01:56,080
Speaker 2: How to do it right. We did. We got hit

2535
02:01:56,640 --> 02:01:59,560
Speaker 2: and we got missus. I still think it was a hit.

2536
02:02:01,400 --> 02:02:05,840
Speaker 2: You it was your idea. I played it and you say,

2537
02:02:06,960 --> 02:02:08,560
Speaker 2: because I thought you knew it. You'll know, I don't

2538
02:02:08,600 --> 02:02:09,440
Speaker 2: ever know the words.

2539
02:02:09,480 --> 02:02:14,280
Speaker 5: But guess what, just feeling fine thought I was done.

2540
02:02:14,600 --> 02:02:16,600
Speaker 2: I said, your glass off the staine.

2541
02:02:17,160 --> 02:02:24,440
Speaker 5: There's no running when it's your turn. Just let it burn,

2542
02:02:26,280 --> 02:02:33,920
Speaker 5: let it burn, and there's no running when it's your turn.

2543
02:02:37,040 --> 02:02:41,560
Speaker 2: I'm not scared of lions and tigers, and say you

2544
02:02:41,600 --> 02:02:42,760
Speaker 2: did know the word you.

2545
02:02:43,160 --> 02:02:48,000
Speaker 5: I'm not scared of lions and tigers and bursts.

2546
02:02:50,480 --> 02:02:50,960
Speaker 2: I hate that.

2547
02:02:52,480 --> 02:02:57,960
Speaker 3: If you ever see me, if you ever see me running,

2548
02:02:58,160 --> 02:03:01,160
Speaker 3: help the bell, Help the man,