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Speaker 1: who says, so me thirty five male, and my wife

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Speaker 2: Damn, why are you doing that?

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Speaker 1: Jones couple, Davidson couple, and maddest couple? Really quick? How

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Speaker 1: Put in the comments how long is too long for

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Speaker 2: Dude? Real quick.

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Speaker 3: My first day with Angie, she got there an hour late,

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Speaker 3: Took an hour and a half because she was talking

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess you blur the line of like what's

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's break it down even further. Okay, they have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how long.

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Speaker 3: Should that last? Because I say, no more than two minutes.

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Speaker 3: You don't need to be talking with food on your fork.

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Speaker 2: It is too long. That's that's why I break it down.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? An hour? Someone else got a lot of slow

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Speaker 1: So? Wow? Wow? Almost almost half a lot of slow eaters.

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Speaker 1: I'm a fast eater.

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Speaker 2: I just gobble it up butt like time sometimes. Damn it. Riley,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know what you said, but

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Speaker 1: The first time we went out with the Maddis couple

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Speaker 3: Just stuck there watch her to have food in her

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Speaker 1: Even at dinner parties, Kelly still eats painfully slow.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about this. I think this is actually I

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Speaker 2: I'm here all the day.

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Speaker 1: group vacations roads. Yes, instead they're in Turkey. Their version

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Speaker 1: of partying perhaps is eating big mills together. Yes, but

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Speaker 2: I guess. Yeah, this is.

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Speaker 1: Like like Angelina Targerian says, you're the a hole. Why

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Speaker 1: so irrationally mad about it? Definitely the a hole poll

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Speaker 2: Here's my things. One are they holding people up?

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Speaker 3: And two is there something happening afterwards? If there's is

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Speaker 3: no to both of those, you need to invite them,

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Speaker 3: be patient, enjoy live.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bored a little bit?

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Speaker 1: Come on, I think that, Like I was trying to

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Speaker 1: think back, I don't know if I've ever had a

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Speaker 2: Have been on a double date.

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Speaker 3: I'm speaking, why are you looking for for?

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Speaker 1: When there's only love?

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Speaker 2: She does it. It was just the first day ever.

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Speaker 3: Since then, she eats a lot and it's like kind

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Speaker 2: But she does a good job. She she does, but

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Speaker 2: And that's also cute too. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think I'd have to really see how egregious it is,

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Speaker 2: Your own move is He's very nice.

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Speaker 1: I think I'll say, uh, you're the a hole for now,

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty close to the fence. But to pick a side,

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Speaker 2: Like I think.

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Speaker 1: It's just I don't know that.

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Speaker 3: To me, he is doing the ppee dance whenever he

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about, the pepe dance.

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Speaker 1: It's like when to talk.

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Speaker 2: Hello, I'm just saying, wake up. I'm just saying.

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Speaker 1: And he's trying to get random Internet strangers to back

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Speaker 2: His BS point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So that way he can bring it back to

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Speaker 2: That also destroy hers because she's married. She wouldn't want

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Speaker 2: Crabs in the bucket, I got you.

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Speaker 1: He gets so annoyed at op she just lets it bang.

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Speaker 3: Imagine if that was the case and they're eating an

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Speaker 1: Thirty minutes of silence with each dibble. Have you seen

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Speaker 2: That is her? You don't what I'm talking about. That's

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Speaker 2: what this is. Oh my god, I love it. But

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Speaker 2: we have an update.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's see if my conspiracy theory rings true.

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Speaker 2: X story.

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Speaker 1: My wife has a close and awesome friend, Kelly, who

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Speaker 1: I could totally see if you stayed an hour longer

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Speaker 3: This mill Yes, after the two hours up you leave

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Speaker 2: This is good for him. Is he the a hole

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Speaker 2: Oh? Gotcha? Gotcha scenario? This is smart.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm now even further down the spectrum if he's

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Speaker 2: Here we go. Wait.

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Speaker 1: We were seated at seven forty five. At the two

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Speaker 3: Okay, after two hours only one to two servings?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we've only been here for thirty minutes. That okay,

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Speaker 3: I see his point. I see his point.

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Speaker 1: Two hours yeah, and I think you can't get mad

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Speaker 1: it happens, Kelly. Can we go somewhere where they serve food.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually still hungry my wife. Did you not need

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't get a chance to finish since her

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Speaker 1: Seriously, we had two hours. What were you doing in

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Speaker 1: It wasn't two hours. You're being unreasonable again, friend number one. No,

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Speaker 1: Bit annoyed, but we agreed to go somewhere where they

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Speaker 3: read ahead, but I have he this was a trap.

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Speaker 3: He set her up because.

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Speaker 2: The only person that was annoyed was OPI and Bob. Wow,

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Speaker 2: who else is annoyed? We had two hours to eat?

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Speaker 2: Why did you eat anything? You set her up? Bro?

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Speaker 3: This was this was forty chess in And you see

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Speaker 1: He was like, now I'm getting everyone else lives. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Than da da.

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Speaker 1: That is unreasonable. Yeah, I think that is unreasonable, and

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Speaker 1: like similar situations before, Dude, I think I might switch

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Speaker 1: to he's the a hole. Do I think both of

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Speaker 3: After it hit the two hour mark, she automatically becomes

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Speaker 1: Hole and she's the ahole now, dude, well flopping all

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Speaker 2: This is a big foot flop. This is big.

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Speaker 1: Now everyone began questioning Kelly and her eating habits. Being

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Speaker 1: I think that just the way like people are talking

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Speaker 2: If you're tired, you know, no worries.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna stay here, finish up my meal, and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's like just like on Reddit rating boobs like

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Speaker 3: Okay, I was And he's all the time like talking

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Speaker 2: Ye, well, he has a hobby.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I think it's everyone. Yeah, I think everyone made an

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Speaker 1: go out to coffee or is the meal you're trying

445
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Speaker 1: to leave? It's twelve thirty, what do you do?

446
00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:18,679
Speaker 3: I think Opie's wife has done a good job of

447
00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,800
Speaker 3: trying to figure out what's going on and just kind

448
00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:22,400
Speaker 3: of talk her down and be like, hey, I noticed

449
00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,040
Speaker 3: that this is eating habit or disorder. I want to

450
00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,280
Speaker 3: figure this out with you, and she is clearly defensive.

451
00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:30,040
Speaker 3: I think Kelly just needs to like figure this out

452
00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:30,920
Speaker 3: in a way.

453
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

454
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Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't even think she needs to talk about

455
00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,120
Speaker 1: the eating at all, because I think it's ultimately irrelevant.

456
00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:38,960
Speaker 1: I think I think she should just say, like, hey,

457
00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:40,600
Speaker 1: I'm going to get the people off of your back

458
00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,440
Speaker 1: for eating. But I think I think it would be

459
00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,560
Speaker 1: good if everyone's able to go home if the fire.

460
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and maybe Kelly. I wish we could see a

461
00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,679
Speaker 3: conversation with Kelly, yeah, and just kind of see is

462
00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,439
Speaker 3: she talking a lot or is she kind of like

463
00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:58,320
Speaker 3: just enthralled by the conversation because if she's talking a lot,

464
00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,520
Speaker 3: maybe she needs to let other people talk and maybe

465
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Speaker 3: eat before she gets there.

466
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Speaker 2: These are just solutions. Yeah, I don't know.

467
00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:07,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think kind of just like just just let

468
00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 1: people do what they want. Like as long like uh

469
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:13,360
Speaker 1: op needs to let Kelly eat how she wants to eat,

470
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 1: it has no bearing on him. But at the same token,

471
00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:19,880
Speaker 1: Kelly cannot you know, get frustrated with with wait staff

472
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 1: or for things like the two hour limit that was

473
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,000
Speaker 1: already explained. She can't get mad at the friends for

474
00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:26,920
Speaker 1: wanting to leave early even though she hasn't finished yet.

475
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 1: Gabrielle Morissette, thanks for the two Canadian Bucks, says let

476
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Speaker 1: her know. I don't look at the time when it's fun,

477
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,399
Speaker 1: so like like let her know when she feels like

478
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:39,520
Speaker 1: you're overstaying the welcome and when time is flying by

479
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,280
Speaker 1: and it feels like it's basically when you're having fun,

480
00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 1: nobody notices the time. But when someone says, hey, I'm

481
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Speaker 1: ready to go, you let him go. Yeah, I think

482
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Speaker 1: that's I think it's I think that's it.

483
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Speaker 3: Also, my mom just joined as soon as talking about that.

484
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Speaker 3: Dude written boobs beautiful timing.

485
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Speaker 2: God, I love it.

486
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Speaker 1: Mama Wilson's in the Challie's and gentlemen, there we go.

487
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Speaker 1: That's I think. I think that's it.

488
00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 2: That's good. I feel good about that. Yeah, I do too.

489
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:06,120
Speaker 2: I do to feel really good about what you keep

490
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:12,200
Speaker 2: reading to me. Let's do it. So here we go.

491
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 1: I aired my mom's dirty laundry at her dad's funeral.

492
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 1: Best place to do it. Well, you know, we can't

493
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 1: be too mad. Do you want to know why, Riley?

494
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 1: Why is that? This comes from our slash Okay story time,

495
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,879
Speaker 1: one of our very own ladies and gentlemen. Oh what

496
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:29,199
Speaker 1: if one of our own has a story and they

497
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,119
Speaker 1: want to share? Where do they go our slash okay

498
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,560
Speaker 1: Storytime on Reddit? We want to We want to literally

499
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 1: read so many stories from every single We want every

500
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 1: single episode to be our slash Okay storytime.

501
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 2: Make it happen.

502
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 1: We want send it in. And this comes from mistake.

503
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 1: I think we might have read from before. I feel

504
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 1: really I feel like I might remember that very good handle,

505
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 1: but I digress. I twenty eight female, haven't spoken to

506
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 1: my mother fifty five ish female in probably eight years.

507
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 1: My sister thirty four female, and I moved out when

508
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:03,360
Speaker 1: we were thirteen and six, respectively. Oh, because our mother

509
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 1: could never make an effort to be on her own

510
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 1: and ritualistically dated toxic men. She eventually got married to

511
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:15,479
Speaker 1: a guy, Bill that was rather homophobic. His brother, Jim,

512
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:19,879
Speaker 1: was also a registered child essay offender. I, as a

513
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 1: pan sexual teen with a girlfriend, kept my distance. Fast

514
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:26,399
Speaker 1: forward to twenty nineteen. Bill developed cancer and passed away.

515
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,639
Speaker 1: I never reached out, and I did pull from the

516
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:32,120
Speaker 1: ATM when I saw a collection box for medical bills

517
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,440
Speaker 1: with my mom and her husband's picture on it and

518
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 1: a gas station. Wait, so she pull withdrew from an

519
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: ATM when I saw a collection box for medical bills? Oh,

520
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,680
Speaker 1: I see, Okay, So I think she like basically donated

521
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 1: some money to help the medical is what it looks like.

522
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 1: She's like, Hey, I didn't talk to them, but I

523
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 1: put in some some amount of undisclosed amount of money

524
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 1: for the house there.

525
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 2: Alrightcha gotcham.

526
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Speaker 1: Within the year, I was informed my mother had started

527
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 1: dating her deceased husband's offender brother Jim. Ah, Yes, the

528
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 1: one who has the beeto stuff. Fast forward again to

529
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Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. My grandfather passed away on the fourth

530
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Speaker 1: of July a BLUs America.

531
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Speaker 2: What.

532
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: We didn't have a traditional funeral, as my family is

533
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,639
Speaker 1: very blue collar and our gatherings have always been picnics

534
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 1: and bonfires. Ew, we decided to have a celebration of life.

535
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 1: I was told my mother may show up, and I

536
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: told everyone I was fine with that as long as

537
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: she didn't bring her boyfriend. Big sigh of exasperation. Of

538
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 1: course she did, Riley, of course she did. You brought

539
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 1: the husband, Ah bought the husband? Of course she did.

540
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 1: I was furious. There was a dozen kids on the

541
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 1: property and much of the family had no clue about Jim,

542
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: so I told them. My mother addressed my grandmother and

543
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: then sat on a bench with Jim on the edge

544
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 1: of the property for half an hour or so before leaving.

545
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what was said, but I'm sure the

546
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: not so quiet statements I was making had a role

547
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,239
Speaker 1: in their quick exit. I still think about this and

548
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: feel bad for robbing my mother of the opportunity to

549
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: reconnect with the rest of the family in that time

550
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,640
Speaker 1: of morning. I think of all the ways I could

551
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,679
Speaker 1: have handled it, I picked like the worst one. I

552
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: wonder if I should try to reach out and apologize.

553
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: I wonder if it would prompt some deep conversation and

554
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 1: maybe we find some sort of connection, or maybe it

555
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 1: would be as shallow as our talks always were.

556
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 2: So am I the a hole? Wow?

557
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: Okay, so we do have some relevant comments after this,

558
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,360
Speaker 1: and like, once again, this is one of our very

559
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Speaker 1: own So basically, I was told my mother may show,

560
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: and I told everyone I'm fine with that as long

561
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: as she didn't bring her boyfriend.

562
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 2: Soyfriend and some.

563
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,360
Speaker 1: We know for sure that she told everyone else. Did

564
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 1: she tell her mom? I have to imagine yes, And

565
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 1: I think I don't know this is this is a

566
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Speaker 1: f one. I mean, you could one path you could

567
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 1: go down is basically be like, hey, it is good

568
00:24:55,800 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: to inform everyone as long as there's no seemingly isn't

569
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: danger at that moment. You could wait to like Opie said,

570
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,959
Speaker 1: like oh, give her mom the time to you know,

571
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: mourn and connect with the family, but then also inform

572
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: everyone and let them know, because I think that is

573
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 1: like totally fair. Like what if there are what if

574
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: they introduce him to the children like these other these

575
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: other things, like I'm sorry if someone has that on

576
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: the record, I do not want them absolutely, you know

577
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: what I mean? So like which actually probably this is

578
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 1: a bunch of family at a funeral. They probably were

579
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 1: it's there, so here we go, Here we go. Maybe

580
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: it's this, Maybe you go to the mom or like

581
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,920
Speaker 1: I think she went to the grandma first and talked,

582
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: talked to her. It could be you, It could be you,

583
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 1: and maybe like a small handful of people or something

584
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,400
Speaker 1: like that, I think you go directly to the mom

585
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 1: and be like, hey, you know, we want you to

586
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: be able to mourn. We want you to be able

587
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: to connect with the family.

588
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 2: Jim cannot be here.

589
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so go tell Jim believe and all will

590
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: be good. You know, we want you to stay. We

591
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: want you to have your chance for morning and celebration

592
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: of life. We don't want to take that away from you.

593
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 1: But at the same time, that doesn't mean that you

594
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: can bring Jim here, especially when it seems like, at

595
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 1: a bare minimum, the rest of the family was informed

596
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 1: that OPI wanted only her mom and not the boyfriend. Right,

597
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: so it was like previously communicated with the whole family,

598
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: all that jazz, the.

599
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 2: Bad vibe to have him there.

600
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: It's yeah, and and like again I think that that

601
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 1: gets what OP wants, which is, you know, not having

602
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: Jim a registered defender at the funeral and also let

603
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: it still giving the mom an opportunity to to to

604
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 1: mourn and reconnect with the family, right. I think that

605
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 1: does kind of serve everything for both parties in the

606
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: best way possible. I agree, that's what I think. Okay,

607
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: But we have some relevant comments here, so maybe and

608
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: OPI does respond to some of them. Actually, some of

609
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: this could be our very own community responding, I think so.

610
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: I think it is if if any of you guys responded,

611
00:26:58,280 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 1: please let us know in the chat.

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Speaker 2: I would love to know.

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00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 1: Rosalie eighty three says, not the ahole was he legally

614
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: even around kids publicly? Or is that a violation of

615
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 1: his release? Always protect innocent kids over adults? Feelings that

616
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 1: part she knew about him and picked him anyway, segregation

617
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: from her family is penance for picking a child abuser.

618
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: OP responds, I am unsure of the terms of his release,

619
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 1: but his offense was decades ago and it was private property,

620
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: so it feels like a huge gray area as far

621
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: as the law is concerned. Rosalie eighty three says private

622
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 1: property doesn't matter. Just his distance to children. If he's

623
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: still on their register, he probably has to follow certain

624
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: conditions to stay out, like not living within so many

625
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 1: feet of a school. Different states, different countries, different laws.

626
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 1: In the UK, we have Sarah and Claire's laws. We

627
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: can go to the police station and give them a

628
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: name and ask if this person has a history of

629
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 1: DV or crimes against children and they will answer.

630
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: Considering this man.

631
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: Is attached to your family and not going away, it

632
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 1: might be worth a call to your local police to

633
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 1: see if they can tell you if he has to

634
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: live under any restrictions. If he does and he breaks them,

635
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 1: report them immediately to the police. Guys Rosalie eighty three,

636
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: one of our very own I think giving some really

637
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: really really good context here, I think absolutely like this,

638
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 1: but if he is around children, this absolutely could be

639
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: a violation of you know, whatever his whatever that legal

640
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: situation is, and so there could be literal legal recourse,

641
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 1: like honestly even for his own good of like not

642
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,919
Speaker 1: breaking the law and not catching another case or or

643
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: or whatever. It would end up being to stay away

644
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: from the funeral where children are. Again, it wasn't clear

645
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: that children were there, but it seems like there's a

646
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: there's probably a good chance that there was children.

647
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 2: Oh did OPI? Yeah? OPI?

648
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, OPI didn't didn't didn't confirm so and and another

649
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 1: good point to pall her local police station and just

650
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: ask what exactly happened there, So OPI both has the

651
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: full knowledge and context. And again can like you know

652
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: of him from any scenario if he's like legally not

653
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: allowed to be around you. I don't know why his

654
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: I mean, Opie's mom does not the most stand up

655
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 1: citizen of all time. But I'm kind of surprised that

656
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: because again literally for his own good of not catching

657
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: like another case or anything, you think he would hit

658
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: him or his wife would look into that.

659
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, not really thinking with the dude. But yeah,

660
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 2: I'm protect your family at all costs.

661
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, protect your family at all cost Oh and again

662
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Speaker 1: Rosalie's line of always protect innocent kids over adults feelings,

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Speaker 1: My god, a truer statement has never been said. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we read a story, uh in that kind of vein

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Speaker 1: yesterday and it's like, yeah, you have to protect the kids.

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Speaker 1: That is like number one, point blank end of story.

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Speaker 1: In fact, it is it is so potential, the potential

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Speaker 1: danger is so so so so high. It is it

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Speaker 1: is EON's beyond not worth it to, you know, protect

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Speaker 1: the adults feeling or the adult over these literal innocent children.

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Speaker 1: So look, I'm Rosalie eighty three crushed it. I would honestly,

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Speaker 1: I would say os Op, He's not the a hole.

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Speaker 1: In fact, Opie might have been doing him a favor

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Speaker 1: by getting him.

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Speaker 2: Out of fair.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so OPI is like doubly triply not the ahole.

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Speaker 1: I think it is perfectly fine to remove a literal

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Speaker 1: predator from a place where children are hot take hot,

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Speaker 1: hot piping, hot take ladies and gentlemen. But let's answer

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Speaker 1: to close this out, the the question of this episode,

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Speaker 1: which is when can you break unsaid social rules? And

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Speaker 1: I'm going to run it back real quick through our

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Speaker 1: first three stories. So with the first story, I told

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Speaker 1: the guy I loved him after the first d eight.

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Speaker 1: You know, yeah, we don't say I love you typically

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Speaker 1: or like I want to marry you.

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Speaker 2: But it was it was fun, it was cute, embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: It worked out so so great. So I think, like,

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Speaker 1: if you ever send an embarrassing too, I feel like

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Speaker 1: you can play it off. Like I feel like almost

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Speaker 1: all those scenarios are totally recoverable. That's that's that's what

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Speaker 1: I think there. My wife's shown as the slowest eater.

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Speaker 1: Shouldn't That is an example where I don't think you

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Speaker 1: should comment unless the only thing you say there is like, oh, hey,

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Speaker 1: like I'm tired, I'm whatever, I'm gonna you know, finish up, enjoy,

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Speaker 1: have fun, I'm gonna head out like you. That person

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Speaker 1: cannot make you stay or do something that you don't

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Speaker 1: want to do because of what they're doing. And then finally,

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Speaker 1: I mean, this isn't even a so this is even

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Speaker 1: beyond the question. It's like we went when we went

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Speaker 1: from unsaid social rules to the law, so it's like

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Speaker 1: follow the law, follow it and kick them out.

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Speaker 2: Hi, come on, that's the episode. That's that. Guys.

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