1 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: All right, buckle up and hold on tight. We gotta 2 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 1: fell you here. It is the strong every letter. Here 3 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: we go, Steve subject. Wow, that's what it says. Hey, 4 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm so hurt right now, and it's my 5 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: own fault. My boyfriend and I came back to the 6 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: house last night and my friend told him how I 7 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: went out with this other dude the other night. Now 8 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: my man won't even speak to me. I just had 9 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: to go out one more time to see the other guy. 10 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: But I love my man and I want to be 11 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: with my man. The sex wasn't even that great with 12 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 1: the other guy, but he has big hands, if you 13 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: know what I mean. I don't want that. I want 14 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: my man. But now it's all messed up because my 15 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: girl ran her mouth. Should I beg his forgiveness or 16 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: go ahead to the next one. Oh, I always got 17 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: a few in the bag because that's what I do. 18 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: Whoo whoop a crazy letter man, And don't blame this 19 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: on your girl. First of all, you told her that's 20 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,559 Speaker 1: number one. But don't blame this on her. You brought 21 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: all of this on yourself, all of this just by 22 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: the way you wrote your letter. You brought all this. 23 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: You're the one that had to go just one more 24 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: time with that other guy. So you're just all over 25 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: the place, ARENGI You're just here, You're just there. But 26 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: you really love this guy. But if you really loved 27 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: your man, then what are you doing over there for 28 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: a booty call with this other man with these big 29 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: old hands? And we know what that means. Okay, don't 30 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 1: grow Yeah we've heard that a few times. Anyway, Why 31 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: why would you jeopardize your relationship with this guy if 32 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: you really loved him? So again, you're all over the place. 33 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: Should you beg his forgiveness? I mean, you could do it, 34 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: but he knows now he's probably not gonna take you back. 35 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: You messed up. Don't blame another girl. You did it 36 00:01:53,720 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: to yourself. Steve Um subject, Wow, all a letter full 37 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: of contradictions. You know, I'm man, And then when look, 38 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: I just think that when people write some letters, I 39 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: just don't care. Yeah, I really really don't. And this 40 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:17,119 Speaker 1: this chick has a tone of arrogance to herself, said, 41 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: I really just don't like you, know, um you here, here, 42 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: here are the contradictions. H Stephen Charlotte. I'm so hurt 43 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 1: right now, and it's my own fun. My boyfriend write 44 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: that you have a boyfriend. Okay, cool. So now the 45 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: rest of this letter becomes almost unnecessary. I came back 46 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: to the house last night and my friend told him 47 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 1: I went out with this other dude. What other dude? 48 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you got a boyfriend, but you're so 49 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: called friend told your boyfriend that you went out with 50 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: this In your words, other dude, I don't understand the 51 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: other night. Now my man won't even speak to me. Oh, 52 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: here your man, but he wasn't your man the other night. See, 53 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just trying to work with you on 54 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: this letter. I just had to go out one more 55 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: time to see the other guy. But I love my man. Yeah, 56 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I'm explain something to you that I 57 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,119 Speaker 1: used to hear my father say to my sisters all 58 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: the time. You can't do what I do and steal 59 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 1: b l A. Yeah, yeah, he saying that all the time. 60 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: You can't do what I do and steal be la. 61 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: So you can't sleep around trick and all this here 62 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: and want to go to work and be a lady. 63 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: See if we all went like, for example, you all 64 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: listen to the Escort Hays a time, y'all just laughed 65 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: getting up. Yeah, one of y'all coming here and tell 66 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: that story one time one time. I just can't work. 67 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: You lose all everything, everybody watching or listening, because let's 68 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: double standards and that you can't do what I'm doing. 69 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: Still be like, she don't get that. I want to 70 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 1: be with my The sex wasn't even that great, osten. Yeah, 71 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: I thought you just went out and ate something. I 72 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: thought y'all went just saw a movie. So you I 73 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 1: just got just get out there, just getting just cut 74 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: down now and then he got big hands, if you 75 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yeah, we know what that man, 76 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: But what do that mean? What do what do? What 77 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: do it really means? Though in the total scheme of it, 78 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: now that you've lost your man here, I don't want that. 79 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: I want my man. But nah's all messed up because 80 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: my girl ran her mom, your girl. That's what get 81 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: the got down to your girl? Are you for real? 82 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 1: Did your girl's fault? See you just you just all 83 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: over the place. She did the dirt. Now she wants 84 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,799 Speaker 1: to ask me a question. This is crazy, this question. 85 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: Should I beg is forgiveness? Go ahead to the next. Yeah, 86 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: she always has a few in the bag. She said, 87 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: what's the other whoo whoo? Man, even kid do that 88 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: a lot in Laho. So you're gonna bring the real 89 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: as soon as we come back. Part two of Steve's 90 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three after the app or 91 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: we'll be bad. Steve, You've got to finish up your 92 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: response to part two of today's Strawberry Letter right now, 93 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 1: come on, uncle subject Wow. See you know, you know, 94 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 1: you know, it really ticks me off about this lady. 95 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: She sounded like a man. Yeah, her whole actions is Man, 96 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: there's some messo. Dude. She's really young too, wouldn't you say? Um? Yeah? 97 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, but she's in for a life of misery 98 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: and she can't even see this coming. Um. Should I 99 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: beg his forgiveness or go ahead to the next one. 100 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: You know what you're You're the woman that gives good 101 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: women a bad name? Okay say that? I mean you 102 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 1: really are. So many women out there are searching and 103 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: trying to find a good man. You get one, and 104 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: now you're passing yourself out like a box ship down 105 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: at the movie theater. You're just some milk dougs going 106 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 1: down the road. You know, by time the box come 107 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 1: back to you, it ain't gonna be worth nothing. See 108 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 1: the dangered part that this girl don't understand is see man, eventually, 109 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: once they know that's how you play in the game. 110 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: You cannot play this game like we do. You cannot 111 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: do what we do and still be a lady. It 112 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: don't come back the same way. So now what you're 113 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: doing is you're causing yourself to head for a life 114 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 1: from misery. And then you're arrogant. Oh should I move 115 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 1: on to the next one? Oh, I always got a 116 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: few into the bag. That's what I do. Woo who 117 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 1: See See right, there's where I lost the tea. And 118 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: that's why you're gonna always be in a trick bag. 119 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: You know you're gonna always be in a trick back 120 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: because see you, you, you, you, you don't get it. 121 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: You don't get it, and by the time you get it, 122 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: so many men gonna be the ran through you. Your 123 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: reputation gonna be so stake. If you run into mister Wright, 124 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be right for him, because you got 125 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: to start practicing what you want to happen in your life, 126 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: and you get exactly what you put out. You know, 127 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: you read what you sold. The law of attraction is 128 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:01,679 Speaker 1: in a place. So all you're gonna do is bring 129 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: me into your life. That ain't gonna do you right 130 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: because you ain't doing me right. Let me this is 131 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: just what makes a good man go bad. No, when 132 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: things like this happens to me. No, but this, this 133 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: is what messes it up for so many women out there. Now, 134 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: you got a guy who won't really go bad, but 135 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: he might be a little bit less trusting. You know, 136 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 1: men have baggage to you. Now for sure, men don't 137 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: always you know, but you know you who. I always 138 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: got a few in the back. We'll go ahead on. 139 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: That's what I do. Yeah, that's what made me not 140 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: care about because you know all of this. I'm so 141 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: hurt right now. I really won't my man. I love him, 142 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: but I don't want that. I got a few in 143 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: the bad. That what I do about anything? Take your 144 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: little trick tail on. Yeah, don't go where you going? 145 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: All right? We have to go, sir, Email or Instagram? 146 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: What's your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter? At my Girl, Shirley, 147 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.