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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject my ex was on my couch.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm in my mid thirties and I

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Speaker 1: got divorced a year ago and I was getting over

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Speaker 1: my ex husband and I had started dating someone new.

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Speaker 1: I got the house and the divorce, and my ex

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Speaker 1: did not have a problem with that until he found

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Speaker 1: out I was dating a man that's way more handsome

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Speaker 1: and put together than he's ever been. He got jealous

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Speaker 1: and started texting me things about the man being over

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Speaker 1: to my house all night, and he said it wasn't

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Speaker 1: a good look. I blocked his cell number and I

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Speaker 1: blocked him on social media, but our mutual friends kept

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Speaker 1: him in the loop about every little thing I did

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Speaker 1: with the new guy. It got messy, but I was

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Speaker 1: only focused only on this new guy and losing weight

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Speaker 1: because he is so fine. One of my girls popped

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Speaker 1: by one evening and my new man was painting the

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Speaker 1: kitchen with his shirt off. She went and spread that

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Speaker 1: bit of tea, and then my ex husband started writing

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Speaker 1: by my house. He sent a message to me through

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Speaker 1: my sister saying we need to talk about selling the house.

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Speaker 1: This is my house, so I knew that was a lie.

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Speaker 1: I thought avoiding him would make him go on with

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Speaker 1: his life, but it only made him try harder to

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Speaker 1: get to me.

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Speaker 2: When I got.

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Speaker 1: Home Thursday, his car was parked out front and my

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Speaker 1: front door was opened. I called my sister to tell

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Speaker 1: her that he was there, and she encouraged me to

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Speaker 1: go inside and talk to him. I found him sitting

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Speaker 1: on the couch crying. He pulled me close to him

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Speaker 1: and he apologized for cheating and said he can't stand

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Speaker 1: to see me with another man. I've waited for that

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Speaker 1: apology for almost two years. He said he will never

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Speaker 1: stop loving me. My heart melted. We made love, and

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Speaker 1: then he asked for a second chance to get things right.

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Speaker 1: Is he being sincere or is he doing all of

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Speaker 1: this because he is jealous? Well, of course he's doing

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Speaker 1: all of this because he's jealous. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's getting back to him that you got a new

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Speaker 1: man and he's fine and all of that. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's jealous. But he didn't think about any of this

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Speaker 1: when he was out there cheating on you, now did he?

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Speaker 1: But now since you've moved on with your life with

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Speaker 1: this fine man, you're enjoying your life now, you're happy.

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Speaker 1: Now your ex realizes how much he missed you and everything.

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Speaker 1: It's been a year since you guys got the divorce

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Speaker 1: and everything, so he's had time to think about what

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Speaker 1: he's lost. I'm sure he has regrets. But guess what

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Speaker 1: he did this. He broke up the family, he broke

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Speaker 1: up the home. We all know. Life is about changes,

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Speaker 1: we know that, and the wrong decision. Life is about choices.

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Speaker 1: I should say, the wrong decision can affect you for

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Speaker 1: the rest of your life. And clearly your ex didn't

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Speaker 1: make the right choice and he acted stupidly when he cheated.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's obvious. My suggestion is, if you want

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Speaker 1: to move on, would be to put the house on

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Speaker 1: the market and sell it. Okay, just like your husband suggested,

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Speaker 1: move away, start over if you can. Your ex won't

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Speaker 1: let you have any peace. You see that in this

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Speaker 1: house you too used to share because he just can't

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Speaker 1: stand the sight of another man in what he thinks

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Speaker 1: is still his home. The other thing is, please keep

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Speaker 1: all these other people out of your business, please, the sisters,

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Speaker 1: the friends, all of that. They can't just be popping up.

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Speaker 1: They know where you live. You know that would be

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Speaker 1: a good reason to say. They're running back telling your

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Speaker 1: ex what's going on now? He's asking for another chance.

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Speaker 1: So it boils down to does he deserve a second

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Speaker 1: chance after what he did to you? Will you ever

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Speaker 1: be able to forgive him and trust him again? Most importantly,

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Speaker 1: do his words line up with his actions. If the

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Speaker 1: answer to any of these questions is no, then no,

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Speaker 1: move on, Continue to move on with your life, Steve.

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Speaker 3: Well, my ex was on my couch. This is really

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Speaker 3: borderline dangerous a little bit. But I'm gonna give you

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Speaker 3: my honest opinion.

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Speaker 2: And here it is.

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Speaker 3: You and your mid thirties. You got divorced a year ago,

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Speaker 3: you was getting over your ex. He started dating If

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Speaker 3: somebody knew you got the house in the divorce. X

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Speaker 3: didn't have problem with that till he found out that

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Speaker 3: I was dating a man that was way more handsome

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Speaker 3: and put together than he has ever been. Okay, jackpot,

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Speaker 3: So now you have moved on and found something actually better.

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Speaker 3: But you gotta understand how busy the devil is, and

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna show you that in this letter.

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Speaker 2: So now he got jealous.

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Speaker 3: And started texting me things about the man being over

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Speaker 3: my house all night, and he said it wasn't a

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Speaker 3: good look. It wasn't a good look to who. It

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Speaker 3: ain't a good look to him. It ain't a good

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Speaker 3: look for him. Why it ain't a good look?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 3: Because he got all these spies out here. Your divorce,

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Speaker 3: it's been over a year. And let me explain something

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Speaker 3: to you. It's actually been more than a year. The

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Speaker 3: divorce is just the date that the courts give you.

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Speaker 3: The marriage was over before that. It just took y'all

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Speaker 3: time to get the okay finalization from the court. Y'all

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Speaker 3: had been stopped being alright with each other long time

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Speaker 3: before that, so it's really been way more than a year.

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Speaker 3: I blocked his sell number. I blocked him on social media,

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Speaker 3: but our mutual friends kept him in the loof about

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Speaker 3: loop about every little thing.

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Speaker 2: I did with this new guy.

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Speaker 3: Now, I want you to understand something. Quit saying our

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Speaker 3: mutual friends because them ain't your friends. Them, it is

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Speaker 3: his friends. Them are not those, They're not your friends.

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Speaker 3: It got messy, but I was only focused on the

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Speaker 3: new guy and losing weight because he's so fine. You

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Speaker 3: better go, girl, Go on and get your life right.

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Speaker 3: You got a man that's helping you improve yourself. You

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Speaker 3: got a chance to be happy. When I come back,

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Speaker 3: I tell you the rest.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two of

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Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter title My ex was on my couch.

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve. Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject

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Speaker 1: my ex was on my couch?

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Speaker 3: What you'd got a divorce from your ex husband? Why

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Speaker 3: you got a divorce? I don't know he cheated or

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Speaker 3: understand later on, but he been doing you on for

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Speaker 3: a while. You've been divorced for over a year. That's

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Speaker 3: just the legal moment that the courts allotted. Your marriage

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Speaker 3: was over long before that. So it's been over two

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Speaker 3: years probably since you've been out there in the Dayton game.

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Speaker 3: So you got out there, you to mess them up

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Speaker 3: the wavefining your husband that he ever been and you

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Speaker 3: and your husband is jealous, start telling you stuff about

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Speaker 3: the man, and it wasn't a good look.

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Speaker 2: It ain't a good look for who.

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Speaker 3: Man, Stop letting people put their insecurities and ill feelings

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Speaker 3: on you, and why you got it's a bad It's

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Speaker 3: not a good look for who. And then so you

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Speaker 3: blocked the cell number, you blocked him on social media.

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Speaker 3: But then you'll mutual friends kept him in the loop

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Speaker 3: about every little thing I did with the new guy.

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Speaker 3: Those are not your mutual friends. Stop looking at that.

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Speaker 3: Them haters, and the devil is busy. Man. The devil

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Speaker 3: use a lot of people to get his weight. So

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Speaker 3: the devil don't want you to be happy. The devil

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Speaker 3: don't want you to see this new blessing because I

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Speaker 3: tell people all the time to break up is often

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Speaker 3: to blessing, but to get you not to see it.

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Speaker 3: Now here the devil come with all these tricks, and

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Speaker 3: now you said, you know, you've only been focused on

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Speaker 3: this new guy and losing weight because he's so fine.

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Speaker 3: One of my girls popped by one even and my

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Speaker 3: new man was painting the kitchen with his shit off.

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Speaker 3: She went and spread that being of tea. And then

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Speaker 3: my ex husband started riding by my house.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: He sent a message to me through my sister saying,

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Speaker 3: we need to talk about selling the house.

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Speaker 2: Selling the house.

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Speaker 3: Why once again something to benefit him. It's not a

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Speaker 3: good look. It's not a good look to him. We

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Speaker 3: need to think about selling the house. This is my house.

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Speaker 3: We ain't selling sugar honey a tea. That's what we

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Speaker 3: ain't doing. I wish I would. Now you're gonna give

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Speaker 3: up your asset and share it with him like it's

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Speaker 3: a week. No, no, sister, he keeps dropping his guilt

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Speaker 3: on you like he got right. He gave up them

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Speaker 3: rights when he gave up his marriage, so I knew

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Speaker 3: that was a lie. I thought of avoiding him would

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Speaker 3: make him going with his life, but only made him

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Speaker 3: try harder to get to me. But why though, See

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Speaker 3: you know what somebody told me one time, The finest

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Speaker 3: woman in the world is your X on the arms

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Speaker 3: of another man.

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Speaker 1: Go touch you that boom boomerang.

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Speaker 3: Grandmama, The finest woman in the world is your ex

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Speaker 3: on the arms of another man. And now hear his come,

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Speaker 3: we're selling the house. Well, no, no, it's your house.

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Speaker 3: Why would you sell the house for what? That's your asset?

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Speaker 3: You got your new man painting the kitchen with his

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Speaker 3: shirt off. But I got home Thursday, his car was

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Speaker 3: parked out in the front of my front door was open.

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Speaker 3: I called my sister to tell her that he was there,

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Speaker 3: and she encouraged me to go inside and talk to him.

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Speaker 2: What now you go.

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Speaker 3: Inside to talk to her? I found him on the

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Speaker 3: couch crying. Where was all them tears when he was

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Speaker 3: over the other chick's house. Where was all them tears?

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Speaker 3: In divorce court? See in court, man, they'll give you

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Speaker 3: a chance to rethink the divorce. They will ask you

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Speaker 3: if this is what you really want to do? But

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Speaker 3: what no tears? Then yeah, let me get on out

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Speaker 3: of here. I got some things I got to do.

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Speaker 3: He pulled me close to him and he apologized for

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Speaker 3: cheating and said he can't stand to see me with

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Speaker 3: another man. I told you that I've waited for that

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Speaker 3: apology for almost two years.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: I've waited for that apology for almost two years. I

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Speaker 3: told you it wasn't just a year this marriage been on.

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Speaker 3: I've waited on that apology for two years. Why would

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Speaker 3: it take a person who is kind hearted two years

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Speaker 2: See? You just wanted some closure.

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Speaker 3: Now here he come with this apology that you've been

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Speaker 3: waiting for for two years. He said he would never

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Speaker 3: stop loving me. I know, okay, cool, My heart melted.

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Speaker 3: We made love and then he asked for a second

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Speaker 3: is he doing all this because he jellous, he tell us,

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Speaker 3: he jellous.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he regret losing you.

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Speaker 3: I bet he do, because you jumped over that fence

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Speaker 3: thought that grass was green, but only see the only

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Speaker 3: you stop watering the grass on your side. So now

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Speaker 3: you done went over there and found out there wasn't

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Speaker 3: nothing but a bunch of tricks in the first place.

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Speaker 2: Now you want your real girl back.

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Speaker 3: You know, I would be curious what would happen system

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Speaker 3: in your mid thirties if you would share all this

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Speaker 3: information with your current new boyfriend. Just share the information

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Speaker 3: with him. He may have a plan for you this

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Speaker 3: way better than this food ever had for you. You

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Speaker 3: may have a blessing right in your house, and now

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Speaker 3: you're fit to mess up and.

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Speaker 2: Listen to this food right here.

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Speaker 3: If I were you, before I make a decision to

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Speaker 3: go back to your ex husband who.

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Speaker 2: Divorced you, always.

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Speaker 3: Remember why you got the divorce in the first place

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Speaker 3: and what has changed since difference, well, what has changed

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Speaker 3: since then? If I were you, I would sit down

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Speaker 3: and have this discussion with my new man and see

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Speaker 3: what his intents are before I go back to this book.

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Speaker 3: Just don't sound good to meet on SISTERMS.

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Speaker 1: You really don't, all right, Steve, thank you. Leave your

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Speaker 1: FM and check out the Strawberry Letter Podcast.

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Speaker 3: It's Steve Harbin Martin show Man. You can't do nothing

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Speaker 3: around my crack at Yeah, you're tattoo. You can't sketch

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Speaker 3: on it, you can't. You can't put tracing paper on

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Speaker 3: my crack. And I'm not gonna hold steal. I just

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Speaker 3: can't do it because I'm a clinch. I'm a clinch.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell your payper, I'm gonna tell your paper.

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Speaker 2: Steve Harby Morning Show, coming up right up to you.