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Speaker 2: It's up with all these rich families. Eat out the rich,

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Speaker 2: Five years ago, he sold his home to move into

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Speaker 3: Least a couple million.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's a lot.

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Speaker 2: He loved his alma mater and was very involved in

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Speaker 2: of years ago, he told me he planned to donate

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Speaker 2: his entire estate to their alumni scholarship fund. He'd always

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Speaker 2: I never really thought about it, since interesting generous to

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Speaker 2: I don't know why that's coming off as such a

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Then, when he passed, all the fueler arrangements and whatnot

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Speaker 1: saying when he told me, I should have tried to

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Speaker 1: and I just feel like it's all unnecessary. Yeah, our

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Speaker 2: So this is where I get pissed off with the

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Speaker 2: Maybe he wasn't able to pay for all of university,

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Speaker 2: Maybe he wasn't able to pay for like a nice

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Speaker 2: extravagant wedding, Right, but gave you good love, gave you

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Speaker 2: be mad when you don't receive any inheritance from him?

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Speaker 4: It's the same scenario both ways.

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Speaker 2: You don't receive inheritance from the rich father and you

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Speaker 2: don't receive inheritance from the not wealthy father. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: you are angry at the wealthy father for us. I mean,

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Speaker 1: The kids should be angry, But if it was me,

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Speaker 2: And it's not that the kids should get no money,

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Speaker 2: but it's it's the perversing the memory of their father

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Speaker 2: by expecting so much cash. Exactly, the expectation kind of perverted.

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Speaker 3: I agree, But go hear about my date?

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Speaker 4: Yeah I do. Let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: So it was a friend, a friend's girl, friend's friend,

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Speaker 1: And so she looked kind of cute Instagram and like

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Speaker 1: Australian thoughtye wow sawty Okay, but dude, she literally comes

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Speaker 3: Is that not a red flag? Oh it's totally red flag.

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Speaker 1: She was like much more energetically reserved and like a

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Speaker 3: Right, Campbell, I need your dating expertise.

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Speaker 1: Okay, need I need a woman's thought process on what

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Speaker 1: this means. This is Campbell, She's a woman. So I'm

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Speaker 2: Riley brought me into one bathroom. He's like, you have

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Speaker 1: I make a joke about like, hey, you to buy

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Speaker 1: go from that to another bar playpool. We're playing pool,

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Speaker 1: sexual jokes. It's like fun, but I'm not putting my

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Speaker 1: one hundred percent flirt on her. And then we go

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Speaker 1: to one more bar and we go to Old Man's,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, hey, like you know, like I'll spin you around.

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Speaker 1: Let's do some answers together, and we do one and

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Speaker 2: Nice dude, that's how you know the date's going really well.

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Speaker 1: And she's like no, but I am like I am

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Speaker 1: which is like uber immediately back and she's like, how

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Speaker 4: Oh? How about your bathroom? Trying to see that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so like how would you interpret that?

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Speaker 4: Interesting?

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Speaker 5: I'm tired, screams I'm not going home with you. I'm

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Speaker 5: that she's the one who's saying that she wanted to

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Speaker 4: She also started with that she loves a lot.

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Speaker 3: We also might hang out with this person, so just

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Speaker 4: Know, looking forward to meeting her, just setting it up

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Speaker 5: I did hear her come in last night, so like

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Speaker 5: I already knew the end of the story. I think

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Speaker 5: it's all around weird. Also, the invite into the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: I think it was a joke. We shouldn't read too

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Speaker 1: much into it.

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Speaker 5: No, however, usually you can just be like you go, look,

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Speaker 5: you don't have to be like, come.

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Speaker 4: With me, right.

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Speaker 2: Also, it's like into the women's bathroom. I'm assuming I

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Speaker 2: have no idea. I don't know the bathroom setup. She's like, oh, like,

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Speaker 2: you can leave from there.

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Speaker 1: And so we get there and she's not ordering your

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Speaker 3: It's like a little awkward. I'm kind of done.

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Speaker 1: I thought she was done, but then she's kind of

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Speaker 3: I'll order it for you.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 1: So like it was going well until old Man's old man.

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Speaker 1: She gave me hard signals like hey, I want this

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Speaker 5: I think it's very important to remember that, like, even

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Speaker 5: is most people's one hundred percent. I think that's crucial

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Speaker 5: to remember flattering me.

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Speaker 3: And then she sent me this this morning.

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Speaker 2: Also, while you're pulling that up, what if this was

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Speaker 2: like her really like strange wave. I want to get

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Speaker 2: like let's go check out your place, let me just

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Speaker 2: like shut down the vibe here so I can turn

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Speaker 3: That actually, well that might because it's very weird.

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Speaker 1: But like I think that, but like isn't saying I'm

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Speaker 5: Down, you're being a downer. I'm tired, I want to

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Speaker 5: go home. I need to work.

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Speaker 3: I mean like, I'm fine with that.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 5: So she gets home, she texts you, thank you for

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Speaker 5: such a fun night. Not only did I love beating

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Speaker 5: you at games, but bar hopping was a blast. Science

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Speaker 5: say otherwise, I love to show you all some other

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Speaker 5: spots soon.

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Speaker 3: Cute.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I love a confirmation she's safe. That's great. We

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Speaker 5: should try for sunset a la Barisa tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: Cute.

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Speaker 5: This could be taken in so many different ways. I mean,

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Speaker 5: these are very normal friend texts. I think you're in

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Speaker 5: like is the right category for somebody who introduces themselves

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Speaker 5: a compulsivelyer.

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Speaker 1: All right, well that has been a breakdown analysis of

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Speaker 1: my what my meeting yesterday?

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Speaker 4: Your meeting? Yes, your consensual courtesy meeting.

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Speaker 2: Yes, by the way, round of applause for Campbell for

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Speaker 2: just beautifully dissecting that.

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Speaker 3: Just jumping in. That's right, all right, We'll see you soon.