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Speaker 1: That's right, Steve, thank you for your loyalty and good

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Speaker 1: morning crew, Junior, morning Uncle absolutely correct. Thank y'all, We

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Speaker 1: what's up? What's up? Well? Ben? One of the first

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, dog, but I don't mean disrespect you that

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Speaker 1: Are you familiar with Leonard? Man? Familiar with? What letter?

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Speaker 1: Do you know? Literac? You coworker Letard? Yeah? What about him?

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Speaker 1: what's up? Man? This is y'all have me going out? Man,

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Speaker 1: the land, of course, no doubt. Man, It's a Steve

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Speaker 1: say it for your workers. Come thank you members, Tennessee,

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Speaker 1: sad news, especially for you, Steve and all the comedians

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Speaker 1: I actually got that from the Carol Burnette show because

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Speaker 1: Corman up, he was going for him. Though. Yes he

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Speaker 1: taught me that. Tim Conway said that was his goal

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Speaker 1: and make you break. Well. He did it, like you say, Steve,

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Speaker 1: every single week. Yeah. Yeah. A lot of comedians were

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Speaker 1: come in you? Tim Conway's rep says Tim was battling

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Speaker 1: complications from um nph Okay, that's an accumulation of spinal

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Speaker 1: goal in life. That was that was. It was greatness

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Speaker 1: for us though, growing up watching them. What about that

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Speaker 1: to spin off? Was Mama's was Mama's, wasn't it? Oh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Mama's family? Man? Oh my god, hated a daughter unis.

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Speaker 1: it was funny that Vicky Lawrence, being the younger of

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Speaker 1: condolences go out to Tim Conway's wife and his entire family.

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Speaker 1: R I P. Tim Conway gave us a lot a

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Speaker 1: lot of laughs. Yeah, definitely. And in other entertainment news, guys,

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Speaker 1: he's off for a while now, taking a break. Yeah, sometimes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've seen a lot of people do that. Yeah, just

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Speaker 1: take a break from it. Yeah yeah, yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: take me off. Y'all. All right, Steve, Time for today's headline,

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, miss Anne Tripp. Thank you very much,

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Speaker 1: A Texas police officer reportedly shot and killed a forty

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Speaker 1: He then says shot. He shot and killed her even

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Speaker 1: All police are saying now is that they say the

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Speaker 1: woman was not pregnant. In Alabama, Republican dominated state Senate

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Speaker 1: They're threatening a boycott. Sad news comedian, Yes, just heard

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Speaker 1: Shelley talking about it and Steve. Comedian Tim Conway has died.

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Speaker 1: Conway probably best known for his work on The Carol

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Speaker 1: Emmy Awards. In a Golden Globe. Tim Conway was eighty

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Speaker 1: five years old and finally today as Dinosaur Recognition Day,

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Speaker 1: Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening

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Speaker 1: This story is so horrific. Uh, we'll talk about it

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show a shaky cell

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Speaker 1: So much wrong with just that first sentence. Okay, Now,

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Speaker 1: You guys know exactly where that is. This happened, yeah

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Speaker 1: This is according to Baytown Police. A family member identified

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Speaker 1: the woman as Pamela Chantay Turner. That's Pamela Shante Turner

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Speaker 1: She was forty five years old. He knew that she

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Speaker 1: and fires five shots toward her. She killed her, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the same thing the video at all. That's a complete

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Speaker 1: you know. The sad part of this, first of all,

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Speaker 1: They make up jewels. Yeah, and it's so sad, man.

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Speaker 1: And I am telling you, ninety nine percent of black

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Speaker 1: people who will watch this video will see an injustice occur. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You're right, you're right. That's that's completely alarming, man, You're right,

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Speaker 1: that's completely alarming to me. How that can possibly be now, Steve.

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Speaker 1: The officer's name has not been released, but Baytown police

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Speaker 1: He is on paid administrative leave as authorities investigate. He's

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Speaker 1: on lead. She's dead always, yes, okay, and and and

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Speaker 1: get this. Police are asking the person who shot the

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Speaker 1: You have the video, I don't know what evidence. It's

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Speaker 1: the woman's family, Pamela Chante Turner's family says that they

625
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 1: told CNN that police have not shared any details with

626
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 1: the family about the shooting. The woman has two children

627
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:45,919
Speaker 1: there in their twenties, she has three grandchildren. She's gone, yeah, yeah,

628
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: this guy standing over her, yes, all the power does

629
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: nothing she can do? Yeah, and you hit a five

630
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: time and kill them. I know it's really horrific. And

631
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning

632
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: Show right after this you're listening show coming up at

633
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.

634
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today's subject is a good

635
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 1: heart and a good personality. Enough right now it is

636
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 1: a nephew in the building with today's prank phone call, nef,

637
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:24,879
Speaker 1: what you got problems at the valet? We have problems

638
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: at the valet. What could it possibly be? Problems at

639
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: the valet? Let's go Katy. Hello, Hey, I'm going Hey Tommy,

640
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: how's it going? Hey? Man, what's going on? Are you

641
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: doing all right? I'm doing good, doing good? What's up? Hey? Listen,

642
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 1: I need you to do something for me. But do

643
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: you need your your car hetails? No? No, no, no, no,

644
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: no no, not this week. Listen. If I got someone

645
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:51,959
Speaker 1: want you to do for me, I'm doing a prank

646
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: phone call, and I want you to call this guy

647
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: and tell him you're the valet downstairs, ask him for

648
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: his ticket number and tell him, hey, we got a

649
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: little a bit of an issue. But my my manager

650
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: is gonna call you back. Uh, are you sure you

651
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 1: want me to do it? You the vallet guy, that's

652
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 1: all you gotta do? All right? Why does the Mexican

653
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 1: guy gotta be at the valet guy and you get

654
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 1: to be the manager? What's up with that? I'll put

655
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: a click on with Nick the car. All I want

656
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: you to do is just telling you new the ballet guy.

657
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 1: Will you do that for me? All right? Man? I

658
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 1: got you? All right? All right? All right? Hang on,

659
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: hang on hello? Hello? Is this mister Franklin? Yes? Can

660
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:32,280
Speaker 1: I ask? What's calling? Oh? Yes, Um, I'm I'm Orlando

661
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: with Vallet. Did you part Collectis with us about thirty

662
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: minutes ago? Yeah? I did? What's what's going on? What's

663
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: this about? I'm just gonna need your ticket number real quick.

664
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: There's a small issue. And once you get the ticket number,

665
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: I could have my manager just call you back five

666
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: three four six? But why do you Why do you

667
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:53,839
Speaker 1: need my ticket number? Is there something wrong with my car?

668
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: If something happened, Um, my manager will call you back

669
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 1: and you'll give you all the details. Oh okay, so

670
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 1: so something did happen to my car? Um? Once I

671
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,800
Speaker 1: give him my manager your ticket number, he'll call you

672
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:09,319
Speaker 1: back shortly and he'll tell you everything. Okay, Well, can

673
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: you have him give me a call as soon as possible,

674
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: because I would like to know what happened to my

675
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: car if something happened. This is I don't I don't

676
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: really understand what's going on here. I'm sorry. I have

677
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 1: to go, but you can't tell me anything else before

678
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: you leave. I mean, there's no details that you can

679
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: give me about anything with my car. Like I said,

680
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 1: my manager will handle it. I have to get going perfect, Orlando.

681
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,760
Speaker 1: That's perfect. I got it from you, bro. I appreciate.

682
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: Let's call him back. Hello. Hello, Is this is this

683
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,280
Speaker 1: mister Franklin? Yeah, this is he can ask his calling.

684
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 1: This is tu man. I'm the manager here down at

685
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: the valet. Oh great, thank you. I've been waiting to

686
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 1: hear from you. Oh my god. Thirty minutes ago you

687
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 1: you pulled in with a tell him you a silver light?

688
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 1: Great lexus, Yeah, that's that's yeah, that's my car. What

689
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 1: what's going on with my car here? Okay? And what's

690
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: your number? Is it five four six? Yeah, that's that's

691
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 1: my number. I mean I already went through this with

692
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: the other guy. Can you just tell me, what the

693
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: hell is going on with my car? Okay? Are you

694
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: able to come downstairs right now? No? I can't. I

695
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: valiate over there. I'm at a I'm at a lunch

696
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: with a client somewhere else. I'm not there right now.

697
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 1: Why do I need to come down right now? He

698
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,839
Speaker 1: just what is happening? Okay? So here's a deal, sir.

699
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: We have a we have a one of the valet

700
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: workers here has gotten that and he left. He quit

701
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: the job, and he's he's gone, he's left the premise.

702
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 1: The problem we're having right now is we don't see

703
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 1: your car and you don't see what do you what?

704
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? What? Well, I'm okay, okay, okay, oh wow,

705
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: all right? So my car is gone? My car is gone?

706
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: Is that what you're telling me right now? Somebody company

707
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 1: and took my car? Well, well, hey, we're looking on

708
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 1: every flour and we're trying to figure out if it's

709
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 1: got part somewhere else. But he is gone, and we're

710
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 1: we're why we call to get your number of cards

711
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 1: somewhere else? Man, what the do you mean? Do I

712
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:06,479
Speaker 1: have a car or not? If my car just stole

713
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,320
Speaker 1: with how many fours do you have how long to

714
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: say I just bought that car. That is a brand

715
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: new car, and now it's just are you kidding me?

716
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: Right now? Well, hold on, hold on, I understand, I understand.

717
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: Let me ask you something. Is there a way? Um?

718
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: Is there a way? Maybe you can come by tomorrow

719
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:24,360
Speaker 1: and we can try to work. Come now and just

720
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 1: see it. You know, No, there is no way I'm

721
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,959
Speaker 1: coming by tomorrow for a car that's listening today. First

722
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,840
Speaker 1: of all, we need to get the police involved in this.

723
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: I don't even know what mister frank right now, mister Frank,

724
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 1: we don't want to get the police involved in this.

725
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 1: We Who is we? Because I damn sure want to

726
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: get the police involved. So who is I'm just saying

727
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,959
Speaker 1: we Listen, I don't want to lose my job because

728
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 1: we lost the car. If you just give me some

729
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 1: time to find in the car, That's all I want

730
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,320
Speaker 1: you to do, is give me some time. Let me

731
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:57,399
Speaker 1: go by this guy's house where he lives and see

732
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 1: if the car is there. You should already be in

733
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 1: a car driving yo, ask to this man's house talking

734
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 1: to me right now. Okay, the fact that you're not there,

735
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: it's malpractice. I'm calling the police. I'm suing the building

736
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,480
Speaker 1: on I'm suing the managers. I'm suing the who made

737
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 1: the valet box. I'm sure everybody affiliated with your business

738
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: you didn't see me right now, I'm kad goody. It's

739
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: a parking Why are you? Why are you? Why are

740
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: you upset with me? I didn't do that now, I

741
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 1: didn't take the car. Okay? Why are you responsible for

742
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: this parking lot? Are you a manager? What's your occuproblem? Sir?

743
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: Why are you going to manager? I'm the manager here?

744
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 1: An Orlando called you earlier, okay, and we're trying to

745
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,879
Speaker 1: find out where the car is. We all really feel

746
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: like and you don't even want the police involved. Man,

747
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 1: you're not trying to fund you're trying to come yet.

748
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm mad at Orlando, I'm mad at you,

749
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: I'm mad at your company. I'm at the man who

750
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 1: put the day an assphalt down in the parking lot.

751
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: I'm mad at everybody right now. Okay, clip, okay, okay, okay,

752
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: we come down. Okay, but let me ask you this here?

753
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:58,839
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you? Are you mad at um? Are

754
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 1: you man? At your wife? What? What is none of

755
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: my wife? And white didn't steal my Damn car Ain't

756
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: your wife name, Carrie? How the hell you know my

757
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: wife's name? You know how I know your wife's name

758
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 1: because your wife got me to call you. This is

759
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 1: nephew taught me from the Steve Harvey more. Damn, Frankly,

760
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:23,839
Speaker 1: you just got crank baby. Damn. Oh boy, we're going

761
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: to marriage counselorce. This was this is y'all. Have you

762
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:32,399
Speaker 1: have shared this? Boy? She said, he just bought this car.

763
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: He loves this car. Yea started sitting in it when

764
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: he ain't going nowhere. Wow, I can't believe it's always

765
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: it's always the closest people. It's all you don't tell you.

766
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 1: Wasn't I tell you? Who is not getting the right

767
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 1: in this car for a long time? You know what's

768
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 1: any man tell I mean is what is the baddest

769
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,760
Speaker 1: that I'm talking about? The baddest radio show in the land.

770
00:50:54,440 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: It's the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby day. You know,

771
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:06,839
Speaker 1: when you leave your car, you never know what's going

772
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 1: out when you leave your don't. I don't even want

773
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: to think about that though, seriously, you know, but it

774
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: has the thought has crossed my mom when yeah, I

775
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 1: don't because of stuff like that. Yeah, yeah, what what's

776
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: going on, nephew, Yeah, it's it's Memphis. It's Memphis, Tennessee.

777
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 1: We meet again, you know, we meet again. You know.

778
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 1: It's it's like playoffs. It's like playoffs with me and Memphis.

779
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: We meet once a year, we come head to head.

780
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 1: This time we're coming in the middle of barbecue time.

781
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: The more. That's all right, but we're gonna put them

782
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 1: real bones down in the evening and we're coming out

783
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 1: to Chuckle's Baby. Friday said to Sunday, the Moorial day

784
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 1: weekend to Friday too, Saday two Sunday, The nephew is time.

785
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: It is in time, when you get through with your

786
00:51:55,040 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: barbecue sauce, come high, let your ball. I'm waiting up. Yeah, alright, nephew,

787
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 1: bra us some potatost No, I'll pay us, that's all right,

788
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: katyat anybody right, do anybody even asked potatos? You don't

789
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 1: even ask for that. No, No, that's not one of

790
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 1: those dishes you asked. You may never heard about. Openly

791
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: say who got to pen? I love to day a salary?

792
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: All right, thank you enough you We gotta get out

793
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 1: of here. Coming up next it is the Strawberry Letter

794
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:30,439
Speaker 1: for today's subject is a good heart and good personality enough.

795
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to

796
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 1: all right, guys, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter,

797
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: and listen. If you need advice on relationships, on sex,

798
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: on dating, on work, on parenting, and more, please submit

799
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Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey f M and click

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Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live

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00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read this one

802
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,840
Speaker 1: right now. Buckle up, hold on tight. We gotta call you.

803
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter. Subject is a good heart and

804
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: good personality Enough. Here Stephen Shirley. I've been dating someone

805
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 1: special for four months and so far he is amazing.

806
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:16,879
Speaker 1: He loves the Lord, and he has a great personality

807
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 1: and a great career. When we first started dating, he

808
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 1: did not want to rush sex, so we waited a

809
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 1: little beyond it ninety days to become lovers. Since things

810
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 1: were going so great, I took him to meet my parents.

811
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 1: He fit in like a glove and they both told

812
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 1: me that he just might be the one for me.

813
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 1: The day after my boyfriend met my parents, I told

814
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,720
Speaker 1: him that I would love to meet his family. Next,

815
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: he totally avoided the conversation and started talking about the

816
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: NBA games. I waited and brought the subject back up

817
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:54,280
Speaker 1: later before we went to bed. He dismissed me again

818
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 1: by saying that he does not deal with his family

819
00:53:57,239 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 1: like that, so I could stop pressing the issue. So

820
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:05,320
Speaker 1: here's my problem with what he said. It's a lie. Surely.

821
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 1: He talks to his mom at least twice a week.

822
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 1: He tuchs his sister daily and shows me funny things

823
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:16,360
Speaker 1: she posts on social media. He plays basketball at the

824
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: gym with his brothers at least once a week. His

825
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: grandmother recently had surgery, and he goes by her house

826
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:25,760
Speaker 1: every other day to check on her and keep her company.

827
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 1: By him not wanting me to meet his family, I'm

828
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:31,640
Speaker 1: getting a bit self conscious, like maybe I'm not the

829
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: type of woman that he would take home to his family.

830
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 1: He always says he is dating me for my heart

831
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: and personality, So does that mean I'm not pretty enough

832
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 1: to meet them? I'm dealing with a lot of self

833
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: doubt and I feel like this might cause our breakup.

834
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,280
Speaker 1: How can I let him know how I feel without

835
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 1: nagging him? Please help all right. Well, first of all,

836
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: you guys have only been together for four months. I

837
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,279
Speaker 1: think it takes guys a little longer than it does

838
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 1: women to decide whether or not to take you to

839
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 1: their family. Four months is not a lot of time there.

840
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:11,760
Speaker 1: But as far as letting him know how you feel,

841
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,399
Speaker 1: just let him know. Just because you tell a person

842
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: how you feel doesn't mean you're nagging him. It's going

843
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: to be a discussion, a conversation, period. And it is

844
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: a problem that he lied to you about his family.

845
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it clearly looks like he doesn't want you

846
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: to meet them. I mean he's either not ready, and

847
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:31,319
Speaker 1: that could be the case because you guys haven't been

848
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: dating that long, only four months, or he has no

849
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 1: plans whatsoever to introduce you. That could be the other thing.

850
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: But the only way you're going to find out is

851
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 1: to actually have an open conversation. I think you should

852
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 1: leave it alone after you tell him how you feel

853
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:49,360
Speaker 1: and you know he doesn't have to lie about it.

854
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:51,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry you feel like you know it.

855
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 1: Maybe your looks, but if he specifically said he's dating

856
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 1: you for your heart and personality, there could be something

857
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:02,720
Speaker 1: to that. Hopefully, we'll all come out when you guys

858
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:07,239
Speaker 1: have your talk. But before um, you know, before I

859
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:10,239
Speaker 1: go and hand it over to Steve, I really don't

860
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 1: want you to lose your self confidence, in your self

861
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 1: esteem here, let it go to you. I see it

862
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: slipping all through this letter. You gotta know that you

863
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 1: are enough. And please don't let anyone tell you any differently. Okay,

864
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 1: all right, come on, Steve, that anyone I'm seeing. I

865
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 1: said this letters started with a lot of confidence, and

866
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: did you win? On? He just started to peel and all.

867
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 1: It's not my job to hold people together. You know.

868
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: If you fall in a party, hell, don't write me.

869
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,720
Speaker 1: I don't know how to keep you from falling apart.

870
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: I just have to help you with the truth. You're

871
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:52,360
Speaker 1: dating somebody special for full months. He's amazing, you know.

872
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 1: It makes him love amazing everybody. He loves the Lord.

873
00:56:56,840 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 1: He's got a great personality and a great career. When

874
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,760
Speaker 1: we first started dating, he didn't even want to rush sex.

875
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:07,320
Speaker 1: I want you to underline this word. He did not

876
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 1: want to rush sex, asked the first clue in this

877
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: letter right there. So we waited a little bit beyond

878
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:28,919
Speaker 1: ninety days. I'll be down past. We didn't went down

879
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 1: the ninety day ruse hellway with Steve. I need more time.

880
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 1: This was him. Since things were going so great, I

881
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: took him to meet my parents. He fit in like

882
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: a glove and they both told me he just might

883
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 1: be the one. He said, just we the one for me.

884
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: The day after my boyfriend met my parents, I told

885
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: him I would love to meet his family. Next invarted

886
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: the conversation talking talking about the NBA, who was gonna

887
00:57:55,720 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 1: get drafted? What happened to Houston? And come Lebron went

888
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 1: to Cleveland? And then you thought you brought the subject

889
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 1: back up before we went to bed. He dismissed me

890
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: again by saying that he don't deal with his family

891
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: like that. Wow, so I could stop pressing issue. So

892
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 1: here's my problem with what he's said. It's a lie. Shirley.

893
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: See now she's not talking to me anymore because she

894
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: already know why Iden did already. So so here's my

895
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 1: problem with what he said. It's a lie Shirley because

896
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 1: she knows Shirley gonna side with her about this guy.

897
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:39,120
Speaker 1: Don't ask Steve because stec through this already. He talks

898
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: to his mom at least twice a week. He texts

899
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 1: his sister daily and he shows me funny things she

900
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: posts on social media. He played basketball at the Damn

901
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: Jim with his brothers Lease once a week. His grandmother

902
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:52,040
Speaker 1: recently had surgery, and he go by her house every

903
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: other day check on her and keep her company. By

904
00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:58,360
Speaker 1: him not wanting me to meet his family, I'm getting

905
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 1: a bit self conscious, like maybe I'm not the type

906
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 1: of woman he would take home to his family. He

907
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 1: keeps telling you he me, he's dating me for my

908
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: hard and personality. Need to write that down, Hold on,

909
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 1: hold on heart and personality. All right, Look, we'll have

910
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: part two if Steve's response coming up at twenty three

911
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject is a good

912
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: heart and good personality enough. We'll get back into it

913
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, Come on,

914
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter is a good heart and

915
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: good personality enough is the subject dating somebody special. He

916
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:46,120
Speaker 1: loved the Lord great personality career. When we started dating,

917
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: he and he want to rush stape, so they waited

918
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 1: beyond ninety days. You told us to write that down. Yeah,

919
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: that was his ideal. He needed moment because you're trying

920
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,479
Speaker 1: to work all this out in his head, I'm gonna

921
01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 1: do this, and he felt the pressure. When the ninety

922
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: days was up, he saw my book sitting on your coffee.

923
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 1: She expected somebody I know. She rest these books. First

924
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 1: chapter nine to day rude were about see how long

925
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:30,960
Speaker 1: I can play this? Then you wouldn't met his parents

926
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 1: and the boyfriend you took him meet your parents. They

927
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: said that he could be the one. They were shocked

928
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 1: though that's not in the letter, but they was. When

929
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: you came in the house with him. They were surprised.

930
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 1: They were surprised. Now they see they was they was.

931
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 1: They were pretty surprised. He fitted in like a glove

932
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 1: and he told me he might just be the one.

933
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: They were surprised, though. Then the day after that, you

934
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 1: told me you want to meet the family. He changed sibly,

935
01:00:56,520 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 1: bought off basketball, and then before you went to bed,

936
01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 1: you asked him again, and then he told you that

937
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,680
Speaker 1: he closed his family like that, and then you said,

938
01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 1: well that's her last, Shirley. He talks to his mama

939
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 1: at least twice a week and don't talking with me.

940
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 1: He texts his sister Daly showed me funny thing she pulled,

941
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: and he played bath Roliga with his brothers once a week.

942
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 1: His grandmama got seeing he go bout every day checking

943
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: on her, but him not wanting me to meet his family.

944
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: I'm getting a bit self conscious. Here we go. This

945
01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 1: is what this letter is all about. Like, maybe I'm

946
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 1: not the type of woman that he would take home

947
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: to his family. Now when she came to the conclusion,

948
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 1: this is you saying I'm not the type of woman

949
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:42,280
Speaker 1: that he would take home to his family. He always

950
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 1: says he's dating me from my heart and personality, So

951
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 1: does that mean I'm not pretty enough to meet Well,

952
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 1: he says he's dating me from my heart and personality,

953
01:01:55,080 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: and you can't see either one in him. Most Jim

954
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 1: is invisible, you can see, So does that mean that

955
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:10,280
Speaker 1: I'm not pretty enough to meet them? Well, let's go

956
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: back all the way back to the top of this letter.

957
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:18,120
Speaker 1: When he first started dating. He did not want to

958
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:22,160
Speaker 1: rush sex, but man, you know, trying to get to

959
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 1: the promise that as soon as he can. That was

960
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 1: your first clue that maybe he had to work his nerves.

961
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 1: Then he waited a little bit beyond ninety days that's

962
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: just going to damn father. Then when you took him

963
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:40,960
Speaker 1: to meet his pasty, he met them and saw what

964
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: they looked like when he decided this ain't work. He

965
01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:59,439
Speaker 1: saw yo mother and father, and this is what she said.

966
01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 1: This high went, I'm want y'all listen to gather because

967
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 1: his name is Jerome. Mama, daddy, this Jerron, how did

968
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:13,320
Speaker 1: your own hege your own? This was Drone's reaction. Wait

969
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 1: what hege your own? Hege your own? Jerome? Gasp, he gasped,

970
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 1: because y'all parents, your mama, and your he would damn

971
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 1: Lord have message. Doesn't no chance she' been to get cute.

972
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 1: It's nobody in this house. Look at her mama and daddy.

973
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: So now let's go back to the letter. By them

974
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 1: not wanting me to meet his family, I'm getting a

975
01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 1: bit self conscious, like maybe I'm not the type of

976
01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 1: woman that he would take home to his family. He

977
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 1: always says he's dating me for my heart, and so

978
01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 1: does that mean I'm not pretty enough to meet him?

979
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:03,640
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with a lot of self doubt. Ain't you ship?

980
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 1: And I feel like this might cause I break up?

981
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 1: Y'all already broke up? He broke up with you when

982
01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 1: he saw your How can I let him know how

983
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 1: I feel? I ain't got to tell him how you feel.

984
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 1: You know how you feel. That's why I love you

985
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 1: for your heart and your personality, because you're so strong

986
01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 1: to keep waking up looking like that, and he admires

987
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 1: your heart and personality. But now I even met your

988
01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 1: mom and daddy, he know this ain't gonna get better.

989
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 1: It's gonna get worse. He's ain't that chance and a

990
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:39,680
Speaker 1: sad thing about your baby. I ain't even gonna lie

991
01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:45,520
Speaker 1: to you. Probably look jet like him, dad, and which

992
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 1: is messing him up even more because you know your mama.

993
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 1: Your mama had a chance with him. But when you

994
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 1: walked in and you and your daddy, girl, you look

995
01:04:55,200 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 1: jet like you dadd All right, listen, you can email

996
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 1: us your Instagram as your thought. Coming up at forty

997
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 1: six after the hour I told you for your heart

998
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 1: and personnelity, I think we're gonna go ahead and do

999
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 1: part three of today's subject. Is a good heart and

1000
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:24,440
Speaker 1: a good personality enough? Apparently not, according to mister Harvey.

1001
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this Part three

1002
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 1: coming up. You're listening to Steven Show. All right, Steve,

1003
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:36,520
Speaker 1: we're gonna do a part three of today's Strawberry Letter.

1004
01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:39,400
Speaker 1: The subject is a good heart and good personality Enough.

1005
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 1: A young lady wrote in She's been dating a guy

1006
01:05:42,240 --> 01:05:45,080
Speaker 1: for four months so far. He's amazing, he loves the Lord,

1007
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:48,600
Speaker 1: great personality, great career. She took him to meet her parents.

1008
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 1: He fit right in. Her parents told her he might

1009
01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:55,880
Speaker 1: be the one for her. So she in turn told him, well,

1010
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 1: now I think it's time for me to meet your parents. Oohsten.

1011
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:05,240
Speaker 1: He changed the subtects, started talking about the NBA. You

1012
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 1: take it from there, Steve. And then before they went

1013
01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: to bed, she thought she'd bringing up again. Well I

1014
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: can't help meet your parents. So then he turned to

1015
01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:19,880
Speaker 1: let her down easy. He said, look, me and my family,

1016
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: we ain't close like that. Then she told Sherley, Shirley,

1017
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 1: that's a lie. That is a lie, Sherillley. He talks

1018
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 1: to his mama twice a week. He texts his sisters

1019
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 1: every day. He showed me for tough day post on

1020
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 1: social media. He played basketball at jim with his brother's

1021
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 1: least once a week. His grandmama got sick head certain

1022
01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:40,919
Speaker 1: he go bout the house day each other. He lying

1023
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 1: to me shull he close to his family, but not

1024
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,040
Speaker 1: wanting me to meet his family. I'm getting a little

1025
01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:48,920
Speaker 1: bit self conscious, like maybe I'm not the type of

1026
01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 1: woman that he would take home to his family. You

1027
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 1: already know that you're the one bought it up. I

1028
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna say nothing about the letter, but you said

1029
01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:01,160
Speaker 1: I'm not the type. He always says he's dating me

1030
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:03,600
Speaker 1: for my heart and personality. That's what he told you.

1031
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 1: He ain't saying he's dating you for your looks. He

1032
01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:09,840
Speaker 1: loves your heart and your personality. Now you're gonna have

1033
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 1: to just trust in that, because that's he ain't giving

1034
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 1: you nothing else. He's not in it for your looks.

1035
01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 1: He's in it. You're dating you because of your heart

1036
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 1: and your personality, and you're probably pretty good. I'm just saying, yeah,

1037
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 1: he never said it. She never said he told her

1038
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:32,439
Speaker 1: that she was beautiful or anything not that, because well,

1039
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 1: you know, let me explain something. If you've never heard

1040
01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 1: a person tell you in your life you're beautiful, it's

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Speaker 1: probably cause you're not well. She didn't say that in

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01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 1: the letters. Still, Huh, she didn't say that in the letter. Oh,

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01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:57,960
Speaker 1: it's all in this damn that he always says he's

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01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:01,160
Speaker 1: dating me for my heart and personality. That means you're

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01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 1: not acute. You ain't cute? So does that mean I'm

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01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:07,120
Speaker 1: not pretty enough to meet them? Are you pretty enough

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01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 1: to meet him? But he's not gonna introduce you as

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01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:13,280
Speaker 1: this woman? Oh that's all you can go. You can

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01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 1: meet him anytime, but just don't tell him. Y'all been together,

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01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 1: you've been see him. You better see him. How can

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01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 1: I let him know how I feel? Just walk on

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01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 1: and know what you love? Glass and tell him, Hey,

1053
01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:31,719
Speaker 1: all right, I'm not feeling this here? All right? Look?

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01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 1: Should we? Sometimes you just have to have a big

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Speaker 1: old cry fest? Uh, and we'll talk about crying. It

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Speaker 1: can make you lose weight. Coming up right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening, all right, crying can help you lose weight. Guys. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that, did you? I didn't I would

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01:08:55,680 --> 01:09:05,720
Speaker 1: have been crying all this time? Sure we God? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes having let me let them because it sounds pretty good,

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Speaker 1: and then weak and then week and then weak made love. Sometimes,

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01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 1: you know, having a big old cry fest makes you

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01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:21,360
Speaker 1: feel better. We can all say that when you get

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01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:25,640
Speaker 1: it out like that, well, now we're hearing that a

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01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:29,679
Speaker 1: big tear field emotional release like that may actually help

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Speaker 1: you lose weight. Why it's hard to eat when you cry?

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01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:41,760
Speaker 1: You choke yourself half trying to eat while you cry. Yeah,

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01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:45,360
Speaker 1: it does sound a little hard to believe, but the

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Speaker 1: hormones associated with extreme emotions raised cortisol levels, which can

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Speaker 1: actually lead to a build up of Betty belly fat

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Speaker 1: if not released. That's what's wrong. You need to cry more, Steve.

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Speaker 1: T cortisol. Oh okay, yeah, I don't really have the stomach.

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01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 1: I just head quarters. How much crying you got to

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Speaker 1: do it? How much weight I can drop with it? Okay,

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01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 1: because you're getting ready to do your tears. All you

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01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:13,560
Speaker 1: got to do is just go to area that have

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01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:20,720
Speaker 1: a lot of lightning storm. I will be cracked, all right.

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Speaker 1: So it says the type of tears we cried when

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01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 1: we're emotional, psychic tears actually reduce cortisol level, Steve, and

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Speaker 1: they can help us lose weight well as monicas. That's

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01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:35,640
Speaker 1: true because you know she knows everything when they come

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Speaker 1: to psychologist. What the monica said, I don't um, I

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01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:46,720
Speaker 1: don't know definitely, but I do want to ask you this.

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Speaker 1: I will ask you this. When was the last time

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01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 1: you guys really cried? Oh, let me see, I'm trying

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01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:55,799
Speaker 1: to think. I don't cry that much. So I cried

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Speaker 1: May ten on my dad a birthday. Yeah yeah, I

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01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:04,920
Speaker 1: get it at, Yeah, right out of his truck. Get

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Speaker 1: it at. So I've dropped some weight? Yeah yeah, according

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01:11:11,520 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: to the story. You what up? What about you? Ji?

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Speaker 1: If that's what you're doing to lose weight? Coming, you

1092
01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:19,559
Speaker 1: need to cry hard next time when you cry? Why

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01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:31,240
Speaker 1: don't you just run alongside Junior Winds? The last time

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01:11:31,280 --> 01:11:36,160
Speaker 1: you had a really good cry probably about a about

1095
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 1: a couple weeks ago. Really, Brian, best friend Brian? Oh

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01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:45,160
Speaker 1: the anniversary? Yeah I was coming out yea wow? Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah that is sad. I lost some weight too time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you lose how many pounds? What do you think?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but if it's cord to the story,

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Speaker 1: I lost no weight. Yeah it was waterweight, but we'll

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Speaker 1: take it. Yeah, necessarily. I can't tell you another time

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Speaker 1: I cry. Okay, don't be don't laugh at me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you know I won't do that. When they shot their

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01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:11,080
Speaker 1: second dragon down a game, I'm gonna lie. I couldn't

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01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 1: I couldn't hold it, man, Yeah, because we were down

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01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:18,720
Speaker 1: to one, you know, and I got scared. Then. Yeah,

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01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:21,240
Speaker 1: I cried one though she used that one, didn't she

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01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:24,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna cry this Sunday, probably because it is the

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01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:26,560
Speaker 1: last of Game of Thrones. But I gotta get to

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Speaker 1: Steve tonight, the Sunday. The Sunday. Yeah, that's the last one, Steve,

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Speaker 1: before we before we go. Well, Steve, I just want

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Speaker 1: to know when the last time you cried? Yesterday afternoon?

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01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:47,200
Speaker 1: Are you days running together? Yesterday afternoon I cry. I

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01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:49,920
Speaker 1: was in my dress room and had a copy of

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Speaker 1: the American Express bill it all right, cry us out

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01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 1: of here, Steven, go back, we go back. We're gonna

1117
01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:07,640
Speaker 1: be doing some stuff. We ain't gonna business, dude, And

1118
01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 1: it's still gonna be on that show. And I'll trying

1119
01:13:11,560 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 1: to deal with something because a lot of girls did

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01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:19,800
Speaker 1: take me to Meta. That's where, dude. That was that

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Speaker 1: pretty ding. You're skinny, Marv. The Steve Harvey Morning Show

1122
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:32,479
Speaker 1: coming up right after this. Okay, right, baby, you're listening

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Speaker 1: to all right? Good news and bad news for fans

1124
01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:44,120
Speaker 1: of Fox's TV show Empire with the Lions. The network

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01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:46,840
Speaker 1: announced that it will return this fall on Fox. But

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01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 1: as we told you before, Jesse Smallett remains a question mark.

1127
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:55,360
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, yeah, I think I think, I think

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Speaker 1: he should be giving his role back. I really do. Well.

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01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 1: He was acquitted. Yeah, you can't pass gentment on the man,

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01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:06,960
Speaker 1: that's right. The charges would dropped. That's not his fault. Yeah,

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01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:10,439
Speaker 1: I agree. Um, well, the really bad news is Steve

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01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:13,719
Speaker 1: that next season, the sixth season, will be there last

1133
01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:17,720
Speaker 1: for the ship. Yeah, they're canceling the show after the

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01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: sixth season. They also canceled Star, which was all so yeah,

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01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:25,720
Speaker 1: and I love Star. I love Star. I love both

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01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:29,240
Speaker 1: those shows back to back. Um. Yeah, but six is

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01:14:29,240 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 1: a good run though. Six is good. Yeah, yeah, I

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01:14:32,960 --> 01:14:35,800
Speaker 1: bet it's gonna be a good season. Though. Mine was

1139
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 1: going after seven. What you say, Sticky, Mine was going

1140
01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 1: after seven? Okay, ye seven? Yeah you had a good run.

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01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: Yea very you'll be fine. Yeah. Choice whatever you was

1142
01:14:50,120 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 1: doing before you started them seven and go back do that.

1143
01:14:53,280 --> 01:15:00,519
Speaker 1: God is still real. Simple solutions. What you gonna go

1144
01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:03,760
Speaker 1: back on the road, Boy, I ain't gonna lose no money.

1145
01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:11,200
Speaker 1: I got jokes, I got I got a gilt Podnow

1146
01:15:12,800 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 1: juniors doing the happy dance right now here we go,

1147
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:18,360
Speaker 1: all right, Barb to Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up

1148
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:25,320
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to some sad news. Guys.

1149
01:15:25,720 --> 01:15:29,760
Speaker 1: Comedy legend Tim Conway and Carol Burnette's co star on

1150
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:33,639
Speaker 1: her long running variety show, The Carol Burnett Show passed

1151
01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:38,200
Speaker 1: away Tuesday in Los Angeles. Really sad news, especially for you,

1152
01:15:38,400 --> 01:15:41,000
Speaker 1: Steve and all the comedians on the show. He was

1153
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 1: an icon, right man, no man, him and Harvey Cormann

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01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:51,599
Speaker 1: with Carol Burnette. I had Carol Burnette on my show

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01:15:51,920 --> 01:15:55,760
Speaker 1: last year. It's a great moment for me to meet

1156
01:15:55,840 --> 01:16:00,120
Speaker 1: her because my asked Steve, I actually got that I'm

1157
01:16:00,160 --> 01:16:03,880
Speaker 1: the Carol Burnett Show because used to go out and

1158
01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:07,320
Speaker 1: take questions from the crowd. And that's where I got

1159
01:16:07,400 --> 01:16:09,920
Speaker 1: that from. I said, Man, I could do that. I

1160
01:16:09,920 --> 01:16:13,360
Speaker 1: always wanted to do that and her, Harvey Corman and

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01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 1: Tim conwayllo man was funny when they break character, which

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01:16:23,479 --> 01:16:27,280
Speaker 1: was every day, week, every skin and because Tim Conway

1163
01:16:27,479 --> 01:16:31,800
Speaker 1: used to crack Harvey Corman up, he was going for him.

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01:16:31,840 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 1: Though yes he couldn't keep face in front of Tim Conway.

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01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:38,120
Speaker 1: He just couldn't do it. He comes reading that and

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01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:40,880
Speaker 1: People Magazine taught me that. Tim Conway said that was

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01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 1: his goal and make you break. Well, he did it,

1168
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:53,240
Speaker 1: like you said, Steve, every single week. Yeah. Yeah. A

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Speaker 1: lot of comedians were posting about him today on the Gram. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: r Win, would you come in here? Tim Conway's rep

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01:17:05,040 --> 01:17:10,559
Speaker 1: says Tim was battling complications from NPH. Okay, that's an

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01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:14,639
Speaker 1: accumulation of spinal fluid on the brain. Um. Tim, along

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01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:17,840
Speaker 1: with a late Harvey Corman, start brilliantly on The Carol

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Speaker 1: Burnett Show. As we just shared with you guys. Their

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01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:24,640
Speaker 1: scenes with Carol were legendary. As all three they just

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01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:29,680
Speaker 1: constantly tried and often succeeded almost every every time they did,

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Speaker 1: and making each other crack up on camera. Man, that

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01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:36,000
Speaker 1: was their goal in life. That was that was It

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01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:43,240
Speaker 1: was greatness for us though growing up watching them as

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01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:49,760
Speaker 1: the stomach turns. Uh, well, that's a spin off. Was

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01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:54,360
Speaker 1: Mama's Was Mama's, wasn't it? Oh? Yeah, Mama's family? Man,

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01:17:56,479 --> 01:18:07,280
Speaker 1: My God hated a daughter Unice. If you don't see

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01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 1: I wish you'd make me. Yeah. It was funny that

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01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:18,559
Speaker 1: Vicky Lawrence, being the younger of the two, played the mom.

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01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:22,960
Speaker 1: She played Carol Burnette's Carol Burnette's mom, and she always

1186
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:26,280
Speaker 1: played her younger sister on the regular show. But um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: our prayers and our condolences go out to Tim Conway's

1188
01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:33,479
Speaker 1: wife and his entire family. R I P. Tim Conway

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Speaker 1: gave us a lot, a lot of laughs. Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up, last break of the day and

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01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:44,800
Speaker 1: of course closing remarks from the one and only Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey right after this you're listening to all right, Steve,

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01:18:51,200 --> 01:18:53,760
Speaker 1: we are at the crossroads. I guess you can say

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01:18:53,800 --> 01:18:56,240
Speaker 1: the last break of the day and time for you

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Speaker 1: with your closing remarks. You know, I think everybody can

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01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:05,080
Speaker 1: relate to what I'm about to say. I always use

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01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:12,599
Speaker 1: myself as the primary example of all my motivational moments

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01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:17,080
Speaker 1: and speeches, because I mean, who better than yourself? I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, when you've experienced something that's quite a up

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01:19:22,560 --> 01:19:24,920
Speaker 1: when you're explaining it to someone, you know, it's like,

1201
01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:29,800
Speaker 1: you know, hard to have a golf instructor and the

1202
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:32,840
Speaker 1: guy that's instructing you to play golf has never played golf.

1203
01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:35,800
Speaker 1: Or you can't have a swimming instructor and a swimm

1204
01:19:35,840 --> 01:19:38,320
Speaker 1: instructor don't know how to swim. It just doesn't make

1205
01:19:38,360 --> 01:19:40,200
Speaker 1: that much sense. I guess you could do it, but

1206
01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:42,640
Speaker 1: what do they know about it? So I try to

1207
01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:50,320
Speaker 1: use my own shortcomings, missteps in life or happenings to

1208
01:19:50,479 --> 01:19:53,800
Speaker 1: try to motivate everybody as I see it. One of

1209
01:19:53,880 --> 01:19:57,960
Speaker 1: the things that I've always been pretty good at, and

1210
01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm having to pay attention closely again is my acceptance

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Speaker 1: of God's will. You know, it's a it's a funny thing, man,

1212
01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:18,639
Speaker 1: But when you really really understand how life really really works,

1213
01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:22,600
Speaker 1: everything is in order. Even some of the challenges and

1214
01:20:22,840 --> 01:20:27,240
Speaker 1: tests that you're facing, it's for a purpose, a reason

1215
01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:32,439
Speaker 1: you're not having a hardship in your life or a

1216
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:39,200
Speaker 1: moment of challenging your life because it's just happens upon you. No,

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01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:41,760
Speaker 1: there's some value in it. Bishop Jakes was on my

1218
01:20:41,880 --> 01:20:44,719
Speaker 1: should the other day and he said, beyond every moment

1219
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:49,360
Speaker 1: of pain, pain always leaves a present behind, a gift,

1220
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Speaker 1: something for you to unbox, unwrap and learn from it,

1221
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Speaker 1: grow from it, become better for it, become experienced from it.

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Speaker 1: And that's the gift that at all always leaves. One

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Speaker 1: thing I've learned to accept is God's will. It's funny man.

1224
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Speaker 1: But on my Instagram, I was looking at my vault Instagram.

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01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:21,280
Speaker 1: While I was you know, learning some things about I

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01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:24,120
Speaker 1: was motivating someone on my vault thing. It was a

1227
01:21:24,160 --> 01:21:27,040
Speaker 1: guy who came to my show and the brother was

1228
01:21:27,120 --> 01:21:29,600
Speaker 1: up in the crowd and he was talking about his

1229
01:21:29,800 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 1: life and how he you know, how he wanted to

1230
01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:40,400
Speaker 1: start a company and he was having trouble with starting

1231
01:21:40,479 --> 01:21:43,880
Speaker 1: the company, and it was asking me, you know what

1232
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:48,080
Speaker 1: what I thought about it, and as he told me

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Speaker 1: this whole company idea. And then and he was working

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01:21:51,479 --> 01:21:53,679
Speaker 1: at a job and he had just lost his job

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Speaker 1: and been laid off and everything of that nature. And

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Speaker 1: he kept looking at me and I said, well, hey, man,

1237
01:21:59,520 --> 01:22:07,200
Speaker 1: let men a question. I said, what is your gift?

1238
01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:11,680
Speaker 1: And he said it's cooking? And I said, well, why

1239
01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:18,599
Speaker 1: are you messing around selling computer wear? And I told

1240
01:22:18,600 --> 01:22:20,559
Speaker 1: went on to tell him. I said, look, man, I said,

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Speaker 1: sometimes this layoff that you have and this is God's

1242
01:22:24,760 --> 01:22:26,840
Speaker 1: way of getting you to move in the direction that

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01:22:26,960 --> 01:22:29,240
Speaker 1: he has for you. I say, you know, I wrote

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01:22:29,320 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 1: or dinner video about jumping. I say, but sometimes you

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Speaker 1: don't get jumped, sometimes you get pushed. I said, because

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Speaker 1: God is fair. When God wants you to come around

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Speaker 1: to his way of thinking or seeing his plan. He

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Speaker 1: can allow for certain things to happen in your life

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Speaker 1: where you can actually see it the way he's wanted

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Speaker 1: you to see it all along. And so in his layoff,

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Speaker 1: it caused him to have to think of, Man, now

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Speaker 1: that I had this free time, what am I to do? Well,

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Speaker 1: as I was watching that video day on my Vault

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Speaker 1: Empowers Instagram, I'm actually gonna take it off today and

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Speaker 1: post it on my regular Instagram because I was really

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Speaker 1: talking to myself at the time that I was that

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Speaker 1: this video came out was made. It was made months ago,

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Speaker 1: but it was for me to hear myself and in

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Speaker 1: this time where people are you know, I appreciate people's concern,

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Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, I really really do. I appreciate

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Speaker 1: people pulling from me and praying for me and hoping

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Speaker 1: I'm okay, and I really am okay. I want everybody

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Speaker 1: to know that I am really, really just fine. It's

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Speaker 1: just I've been pushed into the direction that he wants

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Speaker 1: me to go, and that's all it is. And it's

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Speaker 1: sort of amazing how this whole thing is unfolding, because

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Speaker 1: you know, the haters out there, They're gonna say what

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Speaker 1: they want to say. But Bishop Olmer taught me a

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Speaker 1: valuable lesson. He said, for those that love you, no

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Speaker 1: explanation necessary. For those that hate you, no explanation acceptable.

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Speaker 1: So I've learned to stop talking to haters because nothing

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Speaker 1: I can say to them is going to change their mind.

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Speaker 1: They just want to be what they are. But being

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Speaker 1: in a great place because God has something in store

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Speaker 1: for you. Remember this always, y'all. When the door closes.

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Speaker 1: The only reason, if you are a person of faith,

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Speaker 1: that God allows the door to be closed in your

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Speaker 1: face on you because He got another one he wants

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Speaker 1: you to go through. That's the only reason God didn't

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Speaker 1: bring you this father leave you. God really does love you.

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Speaker 1: God really has your best interests at heart. And what

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Speaker 1: some men do for evil, God does for good. So

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Speaker 1: somebody can plied against you. But Isaiah fifty four seventeen

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Speaker 1: is pretty clear no weapon formed against me should prosper.

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Speaker 1: It never has in the past, it never will in

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Speaker 1: the future. God's promises never comes back void. He does

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Speaker 1: not make a promise, and it's an empty promise. And

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Speaker 1: if you believe that, that's how you live and That's

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Speaker 1: how I live and I strongly give that to everybody.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry about it, y'all. Keep your head up because

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Speaker 1: God got you, just like he always has. Those are

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Speaker 1: my remarks today. Amen, Yes, you drop the knowledge and

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Speaker 1: the mic out the dough. Y'all have a great weekend. Okay,

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