1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Hey, there, folks. It was one year ago this week. 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: Robot and I were on our way to iHeart Studios 3 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: in Manhattan to meet and interview a reality TV star, 4 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: And honestly, we were excited and a little nervous to 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: meet her because all we knew of her was what 6 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: we'd seen on the show. And on the show, let's 7 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: just say she's a handful. But she not just won 8 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: us over, she wowed us and even warmed our hearts. 9 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: Her name Taylor Frankie Paul. So imagine our delight in 10 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: finding out this week she's the new bachelorette. Fellas, God 11 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,279 Speaker 1: bless you, and with that, welcome to this episode of 12 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 1: Amy and TJ. What the actual hell Taylor Frankie Paul 13 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: is the new bachelorette? The show is going a different direction. 14 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 2: Yes, that was jaw dropping, to be honest, Yes, we 15 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: loved her, and mostly because she's just her authentic, messy 16 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 2: self and I think we all have versions of that. 17 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 2: Hers might be a little extreme and on display for 18 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 2: the world to see. But you are talking about a 19 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,680 Speaker 2: young woman, she's thirty one, who is a single mom 20 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 2: of three kids. She has very much said, I have 21 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 2: two baby daddies, she has one divorce, and she was 22 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 2: made famous and kind of thrust into this reality world 23 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 2: and offered a show because of a soft swinging situation 24 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 2: she had with her first husband where she would have 25 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 2: sex with friends with him having sex with their wives 26 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 2: in beds right next to each other. So yes, this 27 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 2: is a departure from other choices for a bachelorette. 28 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 1: Okay, and look, The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives a 29 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: breakaway hit on Hulu and that is how when they 30 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: approached us and wanted us to possibly interview her and 31 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: another cast member. We had to get caught up and 32 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: we watch the show. I think yes, we had several episodes. 33 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if we binged it or they send 34 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: us the episodes to what. 35 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 3: We've sent us about. 36 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 2: I think three episodes in advance of the release of 37 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 2: the series. 38 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: Okay, do you remember your impressions of her initially in 39 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: watching the show. 40 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 3: Yes, I thought she was wild. I thought she was 41 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 3: just she was I thought she was one of those. 42 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 2: Women who I probably would have veered away from because 43 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 2: of the drama. 44 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 3: She is a she. 45 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 2: Attracts a lot of drama, but she's a lot of 46 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 2: fun to be around, and she's sweet, and she's wild 47 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 2: and crazy and all of that, but she's. 48 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 3: Fun to watch. I don't know how much fun I 49 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 3: would have thought she would have been to be friends with. 50 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: Okay, that was impression in watching the show, and I'm 51 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: with you. She was just a little Tasmanian devil to 52 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of ways. And yes, there 53 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 1: was so much drama surrounding her, whether she brought her 54 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: on herself, she egged it on or whatever. When that 55 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: damn studio door opened and she walked in, I am 56 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: telling you, it was a whole new world and a 57 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: whole new her. I'm not saying she's putting on on 58 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:11,239 Speaker 1: the show, but there is to your when we first started, 59 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: an authenticity with her that actually I think is coming 60 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: from a real place, a good place. She's authentic, and 61 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: she's emotional because she cares so much about this or that, 62 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: and yeah, she's still a young woman. She could admit 63 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: some mistakes she's made and things she should have done differently. 64 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: But I think the thing about her that you and 65 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: I certainly appreciated and respect it was just her being 66 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: authentic and didn't seem to be putting on shot, not 67 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: trying to win us over in any way, and we 68 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: really appreciated. 69 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: The time we have with and I do think she 70 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: was unapologetically herself and she came into the studio she 71 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 2: I believe at that point was a year sober, because 72 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 2: she had come off facing charges and she pleaded out 73 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 2: in some way to aggravated assault, and that all stemmed 74 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 2: from a very drunken evening and a fire with her 75 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 2: baby daddy, her boyfriend who she's since broken up with. 76 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 2: But she had hit rock bottom, so to speak, on 77 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 2: national television, and everyone knew her mess and everyone knew 78 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 2: her worst behavior, I guess, and was all being held 79 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 2: against her in a lot of ways and still is 80 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 2: for some people, I'm sure. But when you go through 81 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 2: something like that, something of your own doing, even you 82 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 2: have a well she had a very admirable level of 83 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 2: humility and understanding and wisdom that she gleaned from going 84 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 2: through all of this. 85 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 3: But she also still had that spark, that energy. 86 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 2: That fun, cute, sweet hopeful energy of doing better and 87 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: having and enjoying her life despite all the mistake she made. 88 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 3: It led her to. 89 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,679 Speaker 2: Exactly where she was right then a year ago, sitting 90 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 2: across from us, and we both genuinely liked her, appreciated her, 91 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 2: and were rooting for her as she left the studio. 92 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: A joy, optimism and in someone you have to appreciate 93 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 1: and then you throw into it. Yes, she is. She 94 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: has the personality to boot. She's a hoot. So that 95 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: show is a hit, hit show for Hulu, which is 96 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 1: owned by Disney. Bachelorette is a sinking, sinking, nearly dying show. 97 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 1: Somewhat argue on ABC, which is owned by Disney. So 98 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: what should we do here, robes If we as a 99 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 1: company have reality show gold over here and a waning 100 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 1: reality show over here, how could we possibly make this work? 101 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 3: And this is absolutely a ratings grab. 102 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 2: And a lot of folks point to the fact that 103 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 2: this is a ratings stunt because the Bachelorette and Disney, 104 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: we know it well. They are a conservative brand, so 105 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 2: to speak. And this has been a show about marriage. 106 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 2: This has been a show that hasn't just been about 107 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 2: entertainment or antics or drama. 108 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: And I think I want to make sure. I think 109 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: you were saying conservative terms, not politics, polactics, not pushing 110 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 1: the envelope. 111 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 3: Correct. 112 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 2: This is broadcast television. This isn't cable. There aren't f 113 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 2: bombs flying. There aren't sexual scandals. 114 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 3: That are being lauded. 115 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 2: This isn't that's not what this show has been about 116 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 2: that you know, we think about reality show on Bravo 117 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 2: or on Yes Hulu, on all of these streaming networks, 118 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 2: you can go into a lot of extremes that ABC 119 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 2: and Disney would never want to do. 120 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: So this is controversies they have been at. Any time 121 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: a little hint of a controversy has come up on Bachelorette, 122 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: they freak out exactly. 123 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 2: So they are inviting a walking controversy and certainly goes 124 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 2: against When I say conservative, I also mean values. 125 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 3: So you know, you've got somebody who was a. 126 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 2: Swinger who actually told everyone else about her swinging. It 127 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 2: wasn't as if she found out she decided to tell 128 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 2: everyone about it. She's been divorced, she's been in a 129 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 2: messy relationships, she's been arrested for a violent act and 130 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 2: had some sort of plea deal surrounding that, and she 131 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 2: hasn't been shy about talking about it. And she's got 132 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 2: three children, she's a single mom. So yes, this is 133 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 2: a massive departure and they will get a lot of 134 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 2: eyeballs because there are huge fans of Mormon Wives, and 135 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 2: they'll be watching just to watch Taylor Frankie Paul do 136 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 2: her thing because she is going to be entertaining. 137 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: And this is not a criticism of what they're doing. Now, 138 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: I knock yourselves out. Do whatever you want to do 139 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: when it comes to ratings, and a lot of people 140 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: will say this is a brilliant idea. It does tell 141 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: you we're changing the Bachelorette franchise. That's okay. They are 142 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: trying to keep up the Bachelorette with streaming dating shows 143 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: that have taken off and raise the bar when it 144 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: comes to how RAUNCHI you can get. The Bachelorette is 145 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: rated G compared to triple X of some of the 146 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: stuff we're watching on streaming. Who wants to watch the 147 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: Bachelorette and everybody be all sweet and get out of 148 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: their limos and do all this When I can go 149 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 1: watch these hot bodied people make out and then go 150 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: fight about it. She is that and so I have 151 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: no problem if they want to make the ratings grab. 152 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: I am I guess disappointed because we have had a 153 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: close relationship with Bachelor Nation for a long time and 154 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: including a lot of people who have been on those 155 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: shows in one way or anothering that we consider friends. 156 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 1: We have actually spent a lot of time with Trista 157 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: and her husband recently, like real good time to see 158 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: that family unit and to hear their story about their 159 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 1: struggles and their real love and how they have been 160 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: fighting and to stay together in twenty years? How many 161 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 1: three kids? Teenagers? All, I'm like, wow, I love that 162 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: this is not a show about finding love and engagement 163 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 1: at the end anymore. And that's okay too. 164 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 2: But they're not saying that publicly. Bachelorette is not, and 165 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: certainly this is a show about marriage. 166 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,359 Speaker 3: I mean, they do tout. 167 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 2: The relationships and the babies that have been made in 168 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 2: both of the franchises, So are they going to have 169 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 2: to acknowledge here that this is about entertainment, this is 170 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 2: less about I mean, I'm going to be the cynic 171 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 2: here and nothing against Taylor Frankie Paul because we absolutely 172 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 2: enjoy her, love her and wish for the best. But 173 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 2: do you genuinely think she's on this show to find 174 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 2: a husband? 175 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: No, because even in the Disney press release it said 176 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: she is ready to trade headline making heartbreak for hometown 177 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 1: dates as she begins making her mark on Bachelor. 178 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 2: Nation, making her mark. So they're acknowledging it in that 179 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 2: press conference that this isn't about her trying to find love, 180 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 2: trying to find mister Wright, We're. 181 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: About to put on a show with somebody that you 182 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: all really really like, and we know as entertaining as hell. 183 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 3: That's okay, that's okay, that's okay. 184 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 2: But I and you're right if the Bachelorette fan base 185 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 2: has shrunks to such a small margin that they aren't 186 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 2: really gonna get us say in what they'd prefer, if 187 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: they'd prefer a true love story, a woman actually looking 188 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 2: for love, a woman actually looking to settle down and 189 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 2: find a man. And to your point that we were 190 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 2: talking about before we jumped onto the microphones, these men, 191 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 2: how many men are actually looking for a woman where 192 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 2: they have to move to the state of Utah because 193 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 2: she's made that very very clear that she will not. 194 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 2: And I get that with her kids, and she said, 195 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 2: because I don't have just one baby daddy, I have 196 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 2: two baby daddies. I do not have a choice other 197 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:42,719 Speaker 2: than to live in the state of Utah. So now 198 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 2: you're saying you're gonna get an eligible group of men 199 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: who have to move to the state of Utah, who 200 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 2: are totally okay with raising two different men's children who 201 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 2: are very very young. One I believe her kids are one, five, 202 00:10:56,480 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 2: and eight. And so you're juggling with two x's their 203 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 2: kids and you have to live in Utah. How many 204 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 2: men would run into that relationship? 205 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 3: Willingly? 206 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: You on paper would never say that's what you are 207 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: looking for? Obviously, But this rose you bring up is 208 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: going to be a very important point in conversation and 209 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: a sensitive one around this dating show. What's wrong with 210 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: dating a woman who is once divorced, has three kids, 211 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: has this stuff going on to where we are, we 212 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: might get some insight into saying that's okay. It's like 213 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: it's okay to date someone who's been divorced, and generally 214 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: we know that. But normally, and you're looking at your 215 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 1: dating pool, that wouldn't be your first go to or 216 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: you know what, it would be a turnoff if you 217 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: were sitting next to someone on the first or second date. 218 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: I got three kids, they're at this age two or 219 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: with this guy. Another's with this guy, and I'm gonna 220 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: need you to move to Utah. I'm never gonna leave 221 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: here one day too. You would say no, you would 222 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 1: say I can't sign up for this. But in this case, 223 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: all of these guys know exactly what they're signing up for, 224 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: which is her. The problem there is what robes are 225 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 1: they really signing up for? Love? 226 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 2: That's my point, that's my point to be stars because yes, exactly, 227 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 2: and obviously in no way am I or you, but 228 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,479 Speaker 2: certainly am I because of what I just said, implying 229 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 2: in any way that she's any less valuable as a human, 230 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 2: as a partner. In fact, I think that sometimes when 231 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 2: you've gone through actually not sometimes, most times, when you've 232 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: gone through what she's gone through, you're going to be 233 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 2: a better partner because you have made the mistakes and 234 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 2: you've hopefully learned from those mistakes, or at least, if 235 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 2: that's your goal, to constantly be in that mode of 236 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 2: learning and evolving because of what you've been through. So 237 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 2: I actually there's incredible value to that. My point is 238 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 2: when you've got these twenty something year old guys, who 239 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 2: are you know, all model good looking, the idea would 240 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 2: be that mostly they'd be there for the Instagram followers, 241 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 2: for the deals that you're going to get from brands. 242 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 2: You see what's happening with Love Island and all of 243 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 2: these shows that we have actually loved watching from the 244 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 2: relationship standpoint, and you still do get really interesting takeaways. 245 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 2: But the truth is, these folks all now see the 246 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 2: business model attached to being on a reality show and 247 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 2: even a reality dating show. It's less about the relationship 248 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 2: and it's more about the career. 249 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: So if we're all in on it, is it fine? 250 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: I mean, they're not trying to fool us to think 251 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: this is. 252 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 2: All about It does take away, yes, I get it, 253 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 2: but it does take away a little bit, like I'm 254 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:31,319 Speaker 2: less excited about watching if I know that it's all 255 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 2: just for money and it's all just for what comes 256 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 2: after the show. It's all about being a brand champion 257 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 2: for whatever that makes it feel. Again, we talked about authenticity, 258 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 2: and that's what I'm hoping from Taylor Frankie Paul that 259 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 2: she's she's not in on it, She's just gonna be 260 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 2: real and if she sees some guy there for the 261 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 2: wrong reason, she's going to call them out on it, 262 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 2: which actually will be refreshing. I do think that that 263 00:13:56,640 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 2: is her appeal one hundred percent, and she can't deviate 264 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 2: from that. I can't imagine she would at this point. 265 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 3: Why would she? 266 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: Now, Well, folks, if you don't believe us that this 267 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 1: is a ratings grab, if you will, she is not 268 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: the only Secret Lies of Mormon Wives star that is 269 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: going to be showing up on another reality show on ABC. 270 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: Will tell you who they are. Also, they have put 271 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 1: out a call for eligible bachelors. We will read to 272 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: you the casting call for the upcoming Tailey Tailey, Taylor, 273 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: Frankie Paul. I'm surprised I haven't screwed that up. 274 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 3: You mentioned that she actually has three first names. That's 275 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 3: unusual Taylor and confusing Paul. 276 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, we'll tell you what the casting call actually says. 277 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: Stay here all right, back now, folks. They are yes, 278 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: taking a shot at, so say Robe, saving the Bachelorette franchise. 279 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 1: They have now cast Taylor Frankie Paul of Secret Lives 280 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: of Mormon Wives, no doubt the breakout star of that show. 281 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 1: She is now the Bachelorette. The mother of three is 282 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: going to be the new Bachelorette. Clearly, Rose, you know 283 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: what the Bachelorette franchise. I didn't realize how much it 284 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: has been hurting in recent seasons to the point this 285 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: year is the first time and the second time in 286 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: its entire history, they didn't air it during the summer. 287 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: I didn't realize The Bachelorette is a summer thing. They 288 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: moved it from the lineup this year. 289 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, Paradise didn't do well either, which is a spinoff 290 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 2: that I have liked over the years. 291 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 3: So they have been struggling. 292 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 2: And just to get an idea of the reaction from 293 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 2: some of the fans, who most people believe more are 294 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 2: fans of the Secret Wives of Mormon Wives Secret Lives 295 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 2: of Mormon Wives than they are of The Bachelorette. But 296 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 2: one fan on ex roate ABC and Hulu ate that 297 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 2: casting up another did that did make the tectonic plates 298 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 2: below me shift, Like people are really excited. Quite possibly 299 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 2: one of the smartest moves in reality television. 300 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 3: Space I've seen in years. 301 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 2: So from a marketing standpoint, this is full excitement. I mean, 302 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 2: people are like they cannot wait to see because they 303 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 2: believe they're going to be watching a train wreck on 304 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 2: broadcast TV in a storied franchise that hasn't really had 305 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 2: anyone quite like Taylor Frankie Paul No, and all. 306 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 1: Of and this is not an insult in any way, 307 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: but are very much put together young ladies who have 308 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: been the head of that franchise. I can't remember a 309 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: lot not watching the seasons, but I mean a lot 310 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: of them came through the studio, a whole bunch of. 311 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 3: Rachel Lindsay a friend of ours. 312 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 1: Rachel, but I mean I can't compare even knowing Lindsey 313 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: or Rachel. As well as we know her personally, we 314 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 1: party with her. I haven't seen her be as wild 315 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 1: as no, no, no, no Tuesday morning, you know. 316 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 2: No, it was more about representation and she was, oh yeah, no. 317 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 2: This this is a massive departure. 318 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 1: When you say most of the bachelorettes, again not to 319 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 1: be offended, are very much put together, buttoned up, very professional, 320 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:17,919 Speaker 1: very I. 321 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 3: Would use the word wholesome. 322 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,720 Speaker 2: Okay, fine, I mean I hate to say that, but 323 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 2: I would say that would be the image that ABC 324 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: and Disney have put out with the bachelorettes. They've chosen 325 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 2: have been relatively wholesome, wifey material, like that's what they 326 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 2: have been putting up as their poster woman for the 327 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:39,120 Speaker 2: Bachelorette up until now. 328 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: So in that regard. I do like the idea of 329 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: putting someone up who is not in line with that idea, 330 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 1: that mindset perfection is still wify material. I like that idea. 331 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 2: I do too, because perfect is unattainable. Perfect is sometimes 332 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 2: you know, I guess who was interesting to try and watch. 333 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 2: But then it also I think as young women. I 334 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 2: watched the show a couple of times with my girls 335 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 2: many many years ago when they were little, and sometimes 336 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:10,400 Speaker 2: I kind of got icky, feeling like it was this 337 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 2: fairy tale, like Cinderella's looking for her prints, and it 338 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 2: had that kind of a feel to it. 339 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 3: So for that, I do love that Taylor Frankie Paul. 340 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 2: Is a modern day woman in the sense that she 341 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 2: has made mistakes. She's not apologizing for her mistakes. She's 342 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 2: owning them, she's learning from them, and she's sharing them. 343 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 2: So we all maybe feel a little less shitty about 344 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 2: the decisions we've made in our lives. I mean, we 345 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 2: all live in glass houses exhibit A right here. I 346 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 2: appreciate people who've been through stuff and aren't shying away 347 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:43,880 Speaker 2: from it, but are leaning into it. 348 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 3: And she's one of them. 349 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 1: And so yes, we talked about Yes, the Bachelorette franchise 350 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 1: has been struggling in recent years with ratings, to the 351 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 1: point some thought the show might actually go away last Now, 352 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 1: I was going to ask you, you said you used 353 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 1: to like the Bachelor in Paradise franchise to watch a bachelorrette? 354 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: Why did you fall? 355 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 3: Because it got boring? Boring, it got boring, and I 356 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:03,919 Speaker 3: just didn't like. 357 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 2: The truth is, I actually do believe that some of 358 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 2: the competing relationship shows on streaming services are just far 359 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 2: more interesting and new and exciting. 360 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 3: And who how's this going to work? 361 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,920 Speaker 1: As so high and sexy and drama filled. 362 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 2: And you only have so much free time, and so yeah, 363 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 2: I'm going to go where the entertainment is versus something 364 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 2: that seems kind of old and stale and unattainable in 365 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 2: a way. 366 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: Is there drama on Bachelor and Bachelor just who. 367 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 2: They're going to choose and whether or not they made 368 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 2: the right choice because that person really loves someone not 369 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 2: really not really no, well yes. 370 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 1: Disney also has made a decision to put two other 371 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 1: stars from Secret Lives of Mormon Wives on an ABC show, 372 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars, Whitney Levitt Gene Affleck. Excuse me, 373 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:51,959 Speaker 1: jen Affleck are going to be competing there, so they 374 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: have an absolute juggernaut, and so they're trying to find 375 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: a way to use those women on Mormon Wives to 376 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 1: bost other properties. And here they are two of their 377 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:06,199 Speaker 1: biggest shows of the past quarter century. Now haven't those 378 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 1: shows been around twenty plus yeah, seasons. 379 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 2: At this point, it's clear they are on a marketing 380 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 2: move to try and boost ratings, because you know, it 381 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 2: doesn't matter what you do if no one's watching. 382 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 3: And that's kind of where they are right now. 383 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 2: And to the point where Taylor Frankie Paul if you 384 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:22,879 Speaker 2: read some of her or listen to some of her interviews, 385 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 2: she was even surprised. She didn't think she was going 386 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 2: to be chosen. She thought, why would anyone want to 387 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 2: date me? I mean, that sounds awful, but she was 388 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,680 Speaker 2: kind of saying, I get it, like, I'm not exactly ooh, 389 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 2: let me bring her home to mom kind of material. 390 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 2: So she was a little worried about hometown dates and 391 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 2: what all that was going to be like. 392 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,200 Speaker 3: She just thought she was. 393 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 2: Shut shocked that they chose her, and it seemed genuine 394 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 2: when she said that, I mean, we. 395 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,239 Speaker 1: Have to be open to this. It's just and this 396 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 1: is not an insult to her, But these suitors. You 397 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 1: go to a guy and say, hey, there's a woman 398 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,199 Speaker 1: you might be interested in. You're going to ask Okay, 399 00:20:56,359 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: tell me about her. She's adorable, she's this tall, dark hair. 400 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: What does she do? She's on this reality show. She 401 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: has cameras falling around all the time. Oh is that right? 402 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 1: Oh she's divorced. She's got one divorce and she's got 403 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: she got three kids, two with the husband and one 404 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 1: with another guy. Okay, so I'll get one other thing. 405 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: He has an arrest record. She was charged with the 406 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 1: domestic violence incident. Most of the charges would drop. She 407 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 1: just she just was played guilty to the aggravated assault charge. 408 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: But other than that, great girl. 409 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 3: I get it. 410 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 2: And by the way, you said all that, now reverse it. 411 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:33,359 Speaker 2: What if the bachelor had that on his resume? 412 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: What a domestic violence charge to baby Mama's. 413 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 2: Yes, would he be would he be given the opportunity 414 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 2: to be the bachelor? 415 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 1: He would not? That would be an absolute uproar. We 416 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,199 Speaker 1: get that the standard is different. I'm not going to 417 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:51,439 Speaker 1: challenge it. Fine, but there is a reality here that 418 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,160 Speaker 1: I am not criticizing that. I am not actually saying 419 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 1: she shouldn't be the Bachelorette. I just understand that this 420 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,359 Speaker 1: is going to be a different show. It's not the Bachelorettible, 421 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 1: it's not finding love, is not getting down one knee 422 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: at the end. Because also it's how long will they 423 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 1: shoot the show over? Is it four months or six months? 424 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but it's months. Yes, it could be 425 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: as low as three, but as many as six. Is 426 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 1: that enough time? You're going to bring the man into 427 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: the home with your with your children, with your kids, 428 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 1: and I think in a normal dating scenario you wouldn't 429 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 1: do that. I don't know how she's going to handle 430 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 1: the kids on the show. 431 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 2: She doesn't have her kids on the show. At least 432 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 2: she doesn't have the older two, Okay, on the show. 433 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 2: She does not put them on the show. 434 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 3: We know of them. 435 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 2: She puts them on our social media, but obviously that's 436 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 2: an agreement she has with her ex husband. I'm guessing 437 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 2: where she has chosen not to or is required not 438 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,199 Speaker 2: to have them on Mormon Wives. So I'm sure we 439 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,679 Speaker 2: won't see them on the Bachelor. But it's a reality 440 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 2: of her life that whoever this guy is would have 441 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 2: to accept, and she said that is the number one 442 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 2: thing she says she's looking for in a man is 443 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 2: how he treats other people. But right there is how 444 00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 2: he's going to treat her children. Obviously. 445 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. It's just and a lot of guys 446 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 1: are signing up. And I wanted to mention that the 447 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 1: they're casting right now, but the casting call they've now 448 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: put it in the hands of the same folks who 449 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: do the Bravo shows. They've changed. They have brought in 450 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: the people who cast. Yes, the real house who cast 451 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: those shows are now casting. 452 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 2: So it's casting instead of contestants. I mean that really 453 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 2: is now probably a better way to put it. I'm 454 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 2: just saying, because you're not asking for contestants who want 455 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 2: to be her fiance or even her husband. 456 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 3: They're looking for casting tomato tomata. 457 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: Isn't that just something they say? But to your point there, 458 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,920 Speaker 1: I'm now looking down at the exact text of what 459 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,120 Speaker 1: they sent out as a casting call, and it does 460 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 1: say now casting single men for the Bachelorette Season twenty 461 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 1: two with Taylor Frankie Paul. If you or a friend 462 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,120 Speaker 1: are interested, email Wildside that blah blah blah, blah blah 463 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: blah blah blah, and be sure to mention wildside media 464 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 1: preferred you. Yeah, so it's they're casting. 465 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 3: I mean, I guess do they? Oh I don't know this. 466 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 2: I don't remember because, honestly, to the credit of ABC, 467 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 2: Disney all of that in their marketing team, I don't 468 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 2: remember actually knowing whether or not. And we were at 469 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 2: ABC's we were in Bachelor Nation and promoting this through 470 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,919 Speaker 2: Good Morning America for years and years and years. But 471 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 2: I guess do they always put out who the bachelorette 472 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,479 Speaker 2: is and like dangle her and say hey, if you 473 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 2: want to be cast on the. 474 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 3: Show with her? 475 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 2: Or do they do it all at the same time. 476 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 2: Do they cast men who want to find love and 477 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 2: cast the bacherette all the same time or is this 478 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 2: different where they're now dangling literally the bachelorette. 479 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 1: We should know this. I should know this because usually 480 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: you know what's what? Aren't Usually we find out about 481 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 1: the new bachelor or bachelorette right after the other show. 482 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 1: It's the one who ends up in sealing. 483 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 3: Oh, you're right. 484 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 2: So the contestants or now cast members know who the 485 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 2: bachelorette is ahead of time, so they can decide, Hm, 486 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 2: that's somebody who I might want to date. 487 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 1: So it's rare that they have a contestant that comes 488 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: from outside Bachelor. 489 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 3: That makes sense. 490 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 1: I think Matt was from outside. He hadn't been on 491 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 1: a preview. 492 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 3: He's best friends with Tyler. Is it Tyler? What's his name? Matheson? 493 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 1: Tyler? 494 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 2: No, I'm getting messed up now, Cameron Tyler, Cameron Cameron 495 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 2: Matheson and Tyler Cameron Cameron, matthes he's from the soaps. 496 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:23,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love him, He's great, love, we love him. 497 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 3: Sorry I got those names confused, But. 498 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 2: That's how Matt came in because he was on the 499 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: show because he was best friends with the Bachelor. 500 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 1: But it's rare to get someone from out. Yes, technically 501 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 1: he was from but yet she is from completely outside. 502 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 3: Wait, well but she's in. She's in the ABC family, 503 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 3: the Hulu family. 504 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,120 Speaker 1: I think there's a great opportunity here. I do think 505 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 1: it's great. I think she is great, a woman who's 506 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 1: made some mistakes. You can have all kinds of feelings 507 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 1: about her. She is a polarizing figure, but she is 508 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 1: authentic and I think just from our impressions of her, 509 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 1: which are just a couple of hours we got this 510 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 1: being with her was a delight and authentic person who's 511 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,879 Speaker 1: is in the right place, who's made some mistakes, who 512 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 1: can admit that, and I just I'm absolutely rooting for 513 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,159 Speaker 1: but I'm also rooting for what a lot of she represents. 514 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 1: This is before me getting cynical, but what it represents 515 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: to show that, yes, most people are out there trying 516 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 1: to date with a divorce on the resume, with the 517 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 1: kids at the house, juggling a career or whatever else. 518 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 1: I am excited about what that can say. 519 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:24,439 Speaker 3: I agree with you. 520 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 1: I am excited about it. And they're going for the 521 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 1: ratings way up. Fine. I just hope it doesn't turn 522 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: into a circus. 523 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, that's a really good point. 524 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 2: I hope it really does show that so many of 525 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 2: us are not we didn't get it right, we aren't perfect, 526 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 2: and we're still looking for love and we're still worthy 527 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 2: of love. And so I think that could be a 528 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 2: cool I hope part of this season. And by the way, 529 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 2: just in case, I want to let you guys know, 530 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 2: if you just look back, I believe it'll be the 531 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 2: previous episode from this one. We actually reposted our interview 532 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,400 Speaker 2: from exactly one year ago this week with Taylor Frankie Paul, 533 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 2: before all the Bachelor announcement, before actually she even became 534 00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 2: the star that she is now. So if you want 535 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 2: to hear for herself for yourself who she is and 536 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 2: who she was a year ago before all of the 537 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 2: fame really followed, encourage you to check that out so 538 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 2: you kind of really get to see her and meet 539 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 2: her the way we did. So thank you for listening 540 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:20,479 Speaker 2: to us. 541 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 3: Everyone. I made me Roebuck alongside TJ. Holmes. Have a 542 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 3: great day, everybody,