1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, all animal trainers, anybody 2 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: who has ever driven a vehicle of any kind, all 3 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: of you who have learned how to ride bicycles, any 4 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: of you who have any schooling at all, anybody who 5 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: knows ABC's, anybody who has ever gotten a paycheck, anybody 6 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: that's ever been unemployed, anybody that's ever had a divorce, 7 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: anybody that's ever been married and wanted a divorce, anybody 8 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: who's sitting in a relationship thinking about a divorce, and 9 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: anybody who is happy. Welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning 10 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: Show that aught to just about cover quite a lot 11 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: of people. If you ain't never rode a bike before 12 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: I drove a car, this is not for you, But 13 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: then you could just be happy. 14 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 2: This is for you. So this is it. This is 15 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 2: how we do it today. 16 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: Be grateful today, y'all start your day with gratitude and 17 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: will affect your attitude with as a direct correlation to 18 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: your altitude. 19 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: Always remember that. 20 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica Junior and the 21 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: legend that is Nephew Tommy Junior, tight hat Jackson. 22 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 2: What's going on? 23 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: All right? 24 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: Uncle? 25 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you this, Uh, A lot 26 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: of people have a lot of what ifs about their life, 27 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 1: like what if this happened? 28 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 2: What if this? And what if? What do you tell them? Uncle? 29 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: How do you how do you get them to focus 30 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,119 Speaker 2: on the positive? Well? What if causes anxiety? 31 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: And anxiety is is the concern of two things that 32 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: you have no control over, your past and your and 33 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: your future. Once you belabor the point of either one 34 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: of those and you become overly concerned about that if 35 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: I hadn't did this, what if I do this? Well, 36 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: if I you know, I wish I hadn't did this, 37 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: But suppose this happened, what would I do? 38 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: Listen? 39 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: That over concern causes anxiety. Anxiety robs you of your 40 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: current chance at peace. If you want to strip yourself 41 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: of peace, concern yourself with yesterday or tomorrow, and watch 42 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: what happened. 43 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:20,839 Speaker 2: Watch what happened, see yesterday. See. 44 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: The good thing about the past is that you should 45 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: leave it there. 46 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 2: You only use. 47 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 1: The past as a reference of something that happens in 48 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: your current day, so you have a track record and 49 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: experience of what happened. That's the only purpose for the past. 50 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: It helps me my past has helped me not repeat 51 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 1: the same mistake. My past has taught me so many 52 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: valuable lessons. I use that experience in my current decisions today. 53 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: That is the purpose of the past. If you are 54 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: hanging on to a pain in the past, you are 55 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: doing your future no justice, none and you are currently 56 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: robbing yourself of peace in the present. So don't what 57 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: if yourself to death? What if I had done this? 58 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: What if this happened tomorrow? Don't do that to yourself. 59 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: You don't know what tomorrow is gonna bring. No one 60 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: knows because when it gets here, how many times have 61 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: you wondered about something and then when tomorrow got here 62 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 1: was totally different? 63 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 2: I being completely different, peace robbing killed yourself. Y'all. Have 64 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: a great day today, y'all you're listening Harby Morning Show.