1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: You are now angel what I call her ye way up? 2 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's good. It's way up with Angela Yee. 3 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 3: Lindsey Grange, your day two were back together and two besties. 4 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 2: And now I'm loving this. I feel like you'll be 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: here more. 6 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: Right I will. 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 4: You know I'm gonna manifest the East Coach from myself. Okay, well, 8 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 4: let's get this show started. We got to mek A 9 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 4: Mallory joining us today. 10 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 3: By the way, she has her book I Live to 11 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 3: Tell the Story, a memoir of love, Legacy and Resilience. 12 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 3: And all three of us have worked with coach jesse 13 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 3: My yeah the Detox now dot com. So we'll be 14 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 3: talking to them. But let's start the show with some 15 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 3: love and some positivity. Let's shine a light eight hundred 16 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 3: two nine two fifty one fifty Call us up. Let 17 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 3: us know who you want to spread some love to. 18 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 3: It's way up. 19 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 5: Turn your lights on, y'all spreading love to those who 20 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 5: are doing greatness. 21 00:00:58,680 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: Shut the light on. 22 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 5: It's time to shine a light on what's. 23 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 2: Up his way up at Angela yee. 24 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 3: I'm here with my girl, Lindsay Granger, Hey, and we 25 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 3: are going to shine a light. You found this person actually, lindsay, Yes, 26 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 3: Will l. Salwe he's the co owner and manager of 27 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 3: Zach's Finest Deli and Grocery and Staten Island, and you 28 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 3: know what he's doing. 29 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 2: He gives kids free food for good grades. 30 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: I love that because I remember my sister had friends 31 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: going up there. 32 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 4: She's three years older than me. But you know, they 33 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 4: gave me ten dollars if I got an A and 34 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 4: it meant so much. 35 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: You'd be trying to get them aids. 36 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 4: I was trying to get them a's on harpers. I 37 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 4: wanted ten dollars. So this is such a big deal 38 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 4: to be doing. As somebody who's not related or not 39 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 4: friends with these kids, you know, this. 40 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 3: Is really a community base thing because the kids literally 41 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 3: going there and he knows their names, what their last 42 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 3: grade was. Well, he says, students who get an average 43 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 3: of eighty to ninety percent get whatever they want from 44 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 3: the store. And if you get between seventy and eighty, 45 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 3: you get ten dollars worth of items. 46 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 2: Now if you get ninety percent. 47 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: Or higher, you get your pick of items from the store, 48 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 3: as well as one hundred dollars bill. 49 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 2: What he had a T shirt. That's a good there 50 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 2: to report current. 51 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: Right, he must be doing well, which is good for him. 52 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: He must be doing well. 53 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: But anyway, shout out to him. 54 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 3: That's amazing to see that as Zach's finest deli and groceries. 55 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 3: Shout out to will El Salwie, he's the car owner 56 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 3: and manager. Now me and who do you want to 57 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: shine a light on? 58 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 6: I would like to sign a light on both my 59 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 6: balling Dominic and shamar Okay. Dominic just started working at McDonald's, 60 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 6: so he is extremely excited about that. And my oldest 61 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 6: is in the Air Force. He just got stationed in 62 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 6: North Dakota. So I just want them to know that 63 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 6: I'm extremely excited him. 64 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 2: It's beautiful, Dominic. 65 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,679 Speaker 3: Tell Dominic, make sure I get my fries nice and 66 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 3: piping high. 67 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 2: Don't play with me. And that's not too much salt. 68 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 2: That's what I was in. 69 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 4: Oh And I think it's really good when parents tell 70 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 4: their kids they're proud of them. 71 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: Sometimes kids just want to you know, they know they 72 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: want to live up. They want to hear it. So 73 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: that's so nice of you. 74 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 6: Yes, he is extremely excited to start his first job. 75 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: What city are you in. We're in Atlanta, Georgia, Okay. 76 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 4: I'm gonnall's gonna get like flooded with people in the drive. 77 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 3: We'll shout out to them, you know, and to you 78 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 3: too for being a great mom and raising them to 79 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 3: be hard working individuals. 80 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: And you made it. 81 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 7: Congratulations, yeap, none to take care of you. Thanks for 82 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 7: calling you too. 83 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 3: All right, Well that was shine a light eight hundred 84 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 3: and two ninety two fifty one fifty. If you want to, 85 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 3: you can always call and leave a message and shine 86 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 3: a light for last word. And when we come back, 87 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 3: we have your ye t. And let's talk about Harvey Weinstein. 88 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 3: He was found guilty of sexual assault. Yes, they will 89 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 3: tell you what happened, all right. 90 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 5: It's way up the rooms from industry shade to all 91 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 5: of gossip out. Angela's speeling that yet. 92 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 3: What's up his way up at Angela? Yee, I'm here 93 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 3: and my girl Linda Grangers here. 94 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about it all. 95 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 2: That's right, it's ye tea time. Harvey Weinstein. 96 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 3: He has been convicted of one count of committing a 97 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 3: criminal sexual act, but he was acquitted on an one 98 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 3: of his sex crimes for that retrial in New York City. 99 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, Harvey Weinstein feels like never ending. He has so 100 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 4: many charges against him over the years that he's just 101 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 4: going to be in court. It feels like the rest 102 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 4: of his life, which you know, he did these things rightfully. 103 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 3: So there are so many people that have discussed how 104 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 3: awful he is. 105 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:19,679 Speaker 2: And this child started in April. 106 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 3: Three women testified about these alleged sexual assaults that he committed, 107 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 3: and he faced two counts of committing a criminal sexual 108 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,239 Speaker 3: act in the first degree and one count of third 109 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 3: degree rape. 110 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 2: So it is a mixed verdict. 111 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 4: It's so wild how many different charges have come up 112 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 4: in how many people must have been sitting around seeing 113 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,359 Speaker 4: these actions happen. Like he's so wealthy and access to 114 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 4: so many people. You think about how many people watched 115 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 4: all this go down, and you kind of get disgusted 116 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 4: about it. 117 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: If it, like I said, if it's true, obviously these 118 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: are alleged. 119 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 3: Well, he is serving a separate sixteen year prison sentence 120 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 3: for his twenty twenty two rape conviction. 121 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 1: Right, so we do have that to go there. 122 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, not alleged, Okay, and Silento, do you remember Silento? 123 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: Yes? 124 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 3: Me? 125 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 4: Where? 126 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, that's me? 127 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 8: Day Nay. 128 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 1: He just got. 129 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 3: Sentenced to thirty years yesterday, gosh, I thought we have 130 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 3: a good news for the twenty twenty one murder of 131 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 3: his cousin in Atlanta. He was arrested weeks after his cousin, 132 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 3: Frederick Rooks the third, was found shot multiple times at 133 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 3: a home. He admitted to the shooting and bullets founded 134 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 3: the scene messgun he was carrying at the time of 135 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 3: his arrest. According to prosecutors, when you have access and 136 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 3: you've seen another side of success and change, like why 137 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 3: go back to any of the stuff that you may 138 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 3: or may not have been doing in the past, right, 139 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 3: I mean, look, his song that watched Me Whip came 140 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 3: out in twenty fifteen. 141 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 7: He was only a junior in high school at that time. 142 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 7: So yes, and condolence to the family. 143 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 3: That's not anything easy to have to deal with another 144 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 3: family member killing, you know, somebody else. 145 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 2: So that's awful. 146 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 3: Well that is your yet and when we come back, 147 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 3: we have about last night. That's where we discussed what 148 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 3: we did last night. I spent a lot of my 149 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 3: day yesterday on the phone on hold. 150 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 4: I know you did too, Oh, I spent it on 151 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 4: text automated text with United. 152 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 2: I respect you know what we're going to talk about 153 00:05:57,800 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 2: all of that is way up? 154 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 5: Whoa n so about last night? 155 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 3: Yes, I went down What's up? Its way up at 156 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 3: Angela Yee and I'm here with my girl Linda Granger, 157 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 3: and we both had a similar about last night issue. 158 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 4: Because we were inventing these automated systems and people and 159 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 4: you go first. 160 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,919 Speaker 3: So I've been trying to pay the insurance on the 161 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 3: building in Detroit. I somehow got locked out of the account. 162 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 3: I think I put the wrong password in or something, 163 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 3: and then it locks me out. I cannot get a person, 164 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,119 Speaker 3: a human being on the phone to pay this bill, 165 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: and so they keep on like sending me emails, but 166 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 3: I can't get anyone on the phone. Like every time 167 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 3: I call, it's like press this number, we need, your 168 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 3: zip code we need and it's just not working. And 169 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 3: it's so irritating every time I call it that I'm 170 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 3: on hope for so long that I end up just 171 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,359 Speaker 3: having to hang up, you know, because I'm working, I 172 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 3: got stuff going on. 173 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 2: I can't get a person on the phone. 174 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 4: You don't want to do that during your downtime when 175 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 4: you're done working for the day, Like who wants to 176 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 4: sit on the call for hours. 177 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: Then it's like a good time to. 178 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 2: Be like, I gotta pay LAK fees. Now this is 179 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: now you also I had. 180 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 4: The same issue, like, you know, these text automations with 181 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 4: airlines is supposed to make your life easier. I'm going 182 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 4: to shoot this text and get this sortied. But I 183 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 4: was texting back and forth with a bot for like 184 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 4: forty five minutes, and I kept saying represented too represented text, 185 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 4: and they were like, no, we need to understand the issue. 186 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: We can help. We were well equipped to help. 187 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 4: He's had in a full conversation, and I'm like, so, 188 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 4: finally get to the forty five minute later mark and realize, no, 189 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 4: they can't book a flight for my daughter. Now you 190 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 4: still got to make a call that so I had 191 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 4: to talk to somebody. Andy said, they can't book a 192 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 4: flight for your daughter. When your kid is under three, 193 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 4: you can't book them a flight by themselves. So they're 194 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 4: not allowed to travel alone without an adult till they're five. 195 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 4: But Collin's already on the flight, and we already booked 196 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 4: his ticket. I was just trying to book hers separately 197 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 4: because I hadn't done it on time. 198 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 7: So she wants to fly with her dad, but because 199 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 7: he is already booked. 200 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 2: You can't just book her tickets and you can't get 201 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 2: anyone on the phone. 202 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 4: Right, So it was just dramatic. But it's booked now. 203 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 4: But after two hours of my life have been down. 204 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: Representative. 205 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 7: Represent But look, it's so mad, all right, But that's 206 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 7: about last night. 207 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:56,559 Speaker 2: Another thing I was thinking about. 208 00:07:56,560 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 3: You know, they have this whole story about what it 209 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 3: means if you constantly post about each other on social media, right, 210 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 3: and experts are saying when people feel more insecure about 211 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 3: their partner's feelings, they tend to make their relationships visible. 212 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 3: I want to talk about what that means and what 213 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 3: your idea is. You know, you talk about Colin, You 214 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 3: post to Colin all of that, like I post my man, 215 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 3: but I don't you know. 216 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 2: What I'm saying. 217 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 3: It's not like if you know, you know, I'm not 218 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 3: sending him sweet messages on social media. But we'll talk 219 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 3: about it. It's way up. 220 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 4: You want to know my name? 221 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 2: What's up? 222 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 3: His way up at Angela yee And I'm here with 223 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 3: Lindsay Granger. Yes I'm back, y'all, and we're talking about 224 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 3: people who post a lot about their relationship. According to 225 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 3: reports that says they actually have bad relationships. They said, 226 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 3: it's fine to post once in a while, but when 227 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 3: someone is constantly posting, is it for validation? 228 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 4: I need to go through my answer of anaunci just how 229 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 4: much of the ratio I already looked at your page. 230 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 4: It's really not oh good, okay. In fact, it don't 231 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 4: even look like you have a man because he always. 232 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: Post me a single mom on Instagram and I don't 233 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: feel like I have. 234 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 3: I like, one time, okay, I take that back, I 235 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 3: was like forty posts I see him like, well, I'll 236 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 3: tell you I would dating somebody in the past that 237 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 3: used to argue me about how much I posted them, 238 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 3: So I just gave it and just posted them all 239 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 3: the time. It do look like because you do post 240 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 3: your daughter Kinsley a lot, and then I'm a single 241 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 3: It's like, well. 242 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 4: Me and Colin I picked in healthy relationships, So thank you, therapist. 243 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 4: So I think correctly, I am not the one that 244 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 4: overposts them. 245 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 1: Man, what about you? 246 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 3: No, I really don't post him like that like in 247 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 3: my stories if we're somewhere together, but I don't be 248 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,959 Speaker 3: like this is my man, like I don't do all 249 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 3: of that right, But it's not for any like real reason. 250 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 3: Most of my page is kind of stuff for work. 251 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 4: Well, I just tried the light on Colin yesterday. Still 252 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 4: now I'm like, okay, am I doing too. 253 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 3: Muchee back at it too. You guys travel together, you 254 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 3: work together. 255 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 4: So I think we we got to figure out more 256 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 4: of our friends separate time. We're working on that part 257 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 4: because we hang out all the time. It's out of line. 258 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 2: What about a collab? Would you do a collab post 259 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 2: with him? 260 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 4: We've actually gotten an arguments about that because I'm like, 261 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 4: I don't feel this. 262 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 2: Like this is your post. 263 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: But obviously if it's. 264 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 4: Like about our business, like it benefits us, I don't 265 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 4: feel this like I don't want to share. 266 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: But so I'm working on it. 267 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 4: If you really feels strongly about it, Like he was 268 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 4: featured in the Source magazine and I'm like, cool, post it. 269 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna repost it on my stories. 270 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 4: Da da da, You're necessarily a collab post. But I'm like, 271 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 4: I'm not even mentioning the story. 272 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:27,959 Speaker 2: Well, I don't ask him. 273 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: He didn't mention you, but I ended up collab posting 274 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: because he felt to worry about it. So whatever, I'm 275 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: opening the cloud post. It doesn't mean that much to me. 276 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 3: I do think sometimes it is whatever works for you. 277 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 3: It can be very healthy to just keep that private 278 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 3: because for me, I feel like every now and then 279 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 3: something happens and then I don't need nobody. I don't 280 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 3: also don't post and tag my mom like I'll put 281 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 3: my mom, but I don't put her page up for anything, 282 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 3: because I always don't want people like attacking people in 283 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 3: your family who are like or people close to you 284 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 3: who you're like. I'm not even trying to put them 285 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:00,679 Speaker 3: in the middle of something. Because people can be very 286 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 3: nasty online, especially when. 287 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: I talk about politics, like three out of four days 288 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: a week. 289 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, people find me under a picture of Kingsley and 290 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 4: be like raggedy and I'm like, no, baby. 291 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 3: Listen, Like I could say something like, man, it's so 292 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 3: sad to see ice tearing families apart, and then they 293 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 3: will go in on you. 294 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 2: Like the thing with. 295 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 4: Colin is I will always tag him because he want 296 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 4: to go toe to toe with anybody in them. 297 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 3: And now you got to calm him down. No, buddy's 298 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 3: a bosy about me. Now I gotta calm you down. 299 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 3: Well anyway, you know, I would love to hear what 300 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 3: you guys think about that eight hundred two nine fifty 301 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 3: one fifty call us up. 302 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 2: You can always leave a. 303 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 3: Message or on the app, you can click that microphone 304 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 3: and leave a message that way. 305 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 2: When we come back, we have your yee tea. 306 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 3: And speaking of all of this posting, let's talk about 307 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 3: Larsa Pippen. H she is discussing what it was like, 308 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 3: you know, dating and then breaking up at Marcus Jordan. 309 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 3: And she has a new show that came out yesterday. 310 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 3: We'll talk about it. It's way up show. 311 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,199 Speaker 5: She's about to blow the lid about this, but just 312 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 5: get it, Angelus frilling that. 313 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 1: Yea tea, Come and get the tea. 314 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 2: What's up this way? 315 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:05,199 Speaker 1: Yep? 316 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 3: But angela yee. I'm here with Linday Granger and it's 317 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 3: time for your yee team. 318 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: Yes, let's do it. 319 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 3: Oh so recently, Larsa Pippen was just talking about, you know, 320 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 3: her previous relationship with Marcus Jordan, and she talked to 321 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 3: the post and she said that she didn't date for 322 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 3: like a year after that. 323 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: I mean it was very very, very very public. 324 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 3: She says, she worked on date dot com, she worked 325 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 3: on her businesses, she spent time with her kids, her friends. 326 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 3: She said she felt like her last relationship was so 327 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 3: public and at the end it was so draining and 328 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 3: she feels like, thank god I made it out of it. 329 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 4: And also probably for her, like some people on reality 330 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 4: shows do a good job of keeping their family and 331 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 4: people they love out of the conversations. But they're both 332 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 4: for kind of famous you know, Marcus Jordan and his 333 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 4: own right, So it's like, how could you avoid it 334 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 4: in some ways? But I guess, you know, just posh 335 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 4: fan now, Okay, So it took her a year. Is 336 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 4: that a good amount of time to take. 337 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 3: Her new man is Jeff Kobe. You know he also 338 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 3: plays basketball, okay, and he's thirty one years old, and 339 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 3: she was working on herself and also the app that 340 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 3: she co founded called date dot com. You know, she 341 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 3: went to a party, met him, and she said things 342 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 3: happened naturally and organically, and she wasn't looking for it. 343 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 4: So it's date like one of those hookup like you're 344 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 4: going to help you out, like tender like this date 345 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 4: because she's I feel like she was the perfect person 346 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 4: to work on a yeah that gets people together, especially 347 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 4: if this new relationship that happened organically is something that 348 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 4: lasts for a long time. It could be like, look, 349 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 4: you could being through a divorce, you could be this 350 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 4: type of person. 351 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: Either way, it could all work out for you. 352 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 2: Well her, Yeah, it is. If you're looking for love. 353 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 3: It's an app called date dot Com that's supposed to 354 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 3: make finding love super easy, which I don't know that 355 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 3: you could ever guarantee that. 356 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, lot of those people doing whatever, just whatever. 357 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 7: You know. 358 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 3: Real Housewives in Miami is back, so you can watch 359 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 3: that now. It came back out last night. 360 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 1: Exciting. 361 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 2: All right, Well that is your ut when we come back. 362 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 3: We have under the radar. These are the stories that 363 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 3: are not necessarily in the headlines. They're flying under the radar, 364 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 3: but you need to know about them. 365 00:13:58,800 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 2: Is way up? 366 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, news, this in the news that relates to you. 367 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 5: These stories are flying under the radar. 368 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 2: What's up? 369 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 3: Its way up with Angela yee, I am here with 370 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 3: Lindsay Granger. I'm back, you back baby, and we are 371 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 3: ready to do this under the radar stories. So Netflix 372 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 3: has officially announced their release date for the Dallas Cowboys 373 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 3: documentary series. 374 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 1: I'm excited. 375 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: Yes, that is something that I know. 376 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 7: These crazy Cowboys fans are going to be very into 377 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 7: because it's serious. 378 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 4: One of my friends like, if I do something that 379 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 4: makes her uncomfortable during a Cowboys game, it's my fault. 380 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 1: They lost. 381 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 4: Oh, like if I walked in front of the TV 382 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 4: if I And that's how Cowboy fans feel. 383 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 3: Well, it's called America's Team, the Gambler and his Cowboys. 384 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 3: The trailer came out back in December, but we now 385 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 3: know it's going to be released on August nineteenth. 386 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 4: Now we're gonna see if the Cowboys are actually as 387 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 4: popular on TV as they are. 388 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: Realize a good. 389 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 3: Point, right, And the FDA has approved lab grown salmon. 390 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 3: Does that matter to you as a salmon eater? 391 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 1: I can't do it. 392 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 4: I've just had some amazing hopefully not lab growl on 393 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 4: samone earlier. 394 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 2: But how would you know? 395 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 6: Yeah? 396 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: No, I don't want to think that my fish is 397 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: growing in the lab. 398 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 3: The FDA also has approved two companies cultured chicken in 399 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 3: twenty twenty two, so I guess we have that as well. 400 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 4: So I mean, just here in lab growing, I already 401 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 4: think that we do too much nonsense to our food 402 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 4: and were eating way worse than most other countries. Haven't 403 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 4: visited a few of them, and I don't want to 404 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 4: eat anything that's going in the lab. 405 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: I just don't trust to people enough. 406 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 2: But we'll never know, we won't. It's going to be. 407 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: In the stone with a small writings of lab. 408 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 2: All right, but that is your under the radar. 409 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 3: And when we come back, you know, we got the 410 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 3: Way Up mix at the top of the hour, Plus 411 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 3: Tamika Mallory. 412 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 2: Is going to be joining us. 413 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 3: Her book, I Live to Tell the Story, a Memoir 414 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 3: of love, Legacy and Resilience, is out right now. 415 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 2: You gotta check it out. It's way up, man, she's. 416 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 5: Spilling it all. This is yeaty. 417 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 2: Way, what's up? 418 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 3: It's way up with Angela Yee and Lindsay Granger is here, 419 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 3: and I just want to say, Linda, you broke this 420 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 3: story when you were on Way Up, and I want 421 00:15:58,720 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 3: my credit. 422 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie. It was March and I said, listen, 423 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: it's still up there. Okay. 424 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 4: We had a lot of interaction with it, but I 425 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 4: said that Diddy's team was already talking to Trump's team 426 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 4: about a potential preemptive pardon, just in case things don't 427 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 4: go right for him. 428 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 2: Right and now. 429 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 4: Trump responded and said, a couple of days ago, I'll 430 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 4: be looking at it all. 431 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 3: Right, Well, let's get into what's going on while Diddy 432 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 3: is on the stand right now and the Jane Doe 433 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 3: is being cross examined by the defense. 434 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 4: This is one of his ex girlfriends, Caress, Yes, And 435 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 4: I don't know if. 436 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 2: I would consider this one of his girlfriends though he knew. 437 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 4: All his girlfriend somebody he was dealing with, we're messing 438 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 4: with for a long time, or had a situationship. 439 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 2: Well. 440 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 3: She acknowledged yesterday that texting hotel night was fun, but 441 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 3: she said those feelings were for combs. It wasn't supposed 442 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 3: to be for the entertainers that she hired to come 443 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 3: and be. There was two entertainers, two men that they hired, 444 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 3: and she was reading allowed some text messages between her 445 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 3: and Diddy. He texted her to call a specific person 446 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 3: and then said or Paul is free, and then she 447 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 3: liked the message. 448 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 2: And you know, previously she had. 449 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 3: Said she wasn't really in the mood for all of that, 450 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,959 Speaker 3: but then it looks like she was saying that it 451 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 3: was fun and she wanted him to take her out 452 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 3: and romance her. She said she received any type of 453 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 3: affection from him with open arms. She said, my circumstances 454 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 3: were my options in this relationship. If I see him, 455 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 3: there is a request for a hotel night. So I'm 456 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 3: just adapting to my circumstances. I'm adapting to my environment. 457 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 3: So she's saying the reason that she organized these things 458 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 3: was because she was under pressure by him, and she 459 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 3: said that she was hurt after being made to have 460 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 3: sex at three guys, but she also texted him that 461 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:40,400 Speaker 3: she loved her birthday. 462 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 4: People are like, how is this connecting the dots to 463 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 4: trafficking and all the other things he's charged with, because 464 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 4: so far they're just trying to show a pattern of 465 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 4: coercion and behavior with people that were considered employees that 466 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 4: did things to aid some of these situations. So if 467 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 4: you look at what might have been happening in her 468 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 4: alleged hotel room activity or what happened with Cassie, there 469 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 4: are people who were on the job and on the clock, 470 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:04,399 Speaker 4: including even Cassie herself, that in some ways, if that 471 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 4: is your boss to subordinate relationship, doing these things not 472 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:11,360 Speaker 4: only illegal, but then it goes into another category, which 473 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 4: is what they're trying to prosecute him for so you know, 474 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 4: I'm just watching it all play out because obviously the 475 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,439 Speaker 4: defense is pushing back really hard on everybody, but the 476 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 4: prosecution also, I'm assuming, has a clear laid out plan 477 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 4: about why they're calling these people and what exactly adds 478 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 4: to the story. Besides, you know, people are like, Okay, 479 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 4: so Diddy's freaky. 480 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:30,119 Speaker 1: What are we talking about? 481 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:33,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, because she's reading these text messages aloud. She said, 482 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 3: I love you so much as my friend, my lover, 483 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 3: and my boyfriend, even though you don't like that word 484 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:40,919 Speaker 3: according to the message, And she actually was crying on 485 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 3: the stand while she was reading this and getting very emotional. 486 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 3: I'm talking about these hotel nights and how much she 487 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 3: loves spending time with him. I see a lot of 488 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 3: conversations with people being like, oh, well, she made this choice, right, 489 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 3: So what are we talking about here? I see people 490 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 3: saying that in the comments. But I think we'll see 491 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 3: as more things unfold. We will definitely keep you updated. 492 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 7: I know Armand Wagans is coming in tomorrow and he's 493 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 7: been there present at the. 494 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 2: Trial every day day. 495 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 7: That's your source, So we're gonna give you a little 496 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 7: update from somebody who's actually physically been there. 497 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 2: All right, well that is your yee t. 498 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,439 Speaker 3: And when we come back, we have asked yee eight 499 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 3: hundred two nine two fifty one fifty. 500 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 2: Any question you have. We're here to help its way up. 501 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 5: It's relationship for career advice. Angela's dropping facts you should. 502 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 5: This is ask gee what's up? 503 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 2: His way up? At Angela? 504 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 6: Yee. 505 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 2: I'm here with Lindsay granted, thanks for being here for 506 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:33,400 Speaker 2: day two. Of course I'm excited and it's time. 507 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 3: For ask yee eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty. 508 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 3: We're here to answer any question. And we have somebody 509 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 3: who wants to remain anonymous, so you know it's good. 510 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 2: Yes, Hey, what's up? 511 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: Hi? 512 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 2: How you doing going on? 513 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 6: I'm good, I'm good. How's everyone there? 514 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 2: We're feeling good. Thank you for asking. You have a question. 515 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 6: So I work a lot. My career is very very 516 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 6: important to me, but I often find myself being tired, 517 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 6: missing family events, forgetting to reach out to friends. 518 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 1: So I just want to know how can I balance. 519 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 6: My friendships and family with my work life without making 520 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 6: them feel neglected? 521 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 4: You know, I think my dad always tells me you know, 522 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 4: don't expect a friend if you're not being a friend, 523 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 4: And so you got to try to invest in those 524 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 4: relationships because when your partner gets on your nerves, when 525 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,199 Speaker 4: your kids get on your nerves, you still have friends 526 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 4: and those are all important relationships. And so they have 527 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 4: to understand a season that's busy, but if a season 528 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 4: becomes like five years of we haven't seen each other, well, 529 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:34,919 Speaker 4: then you are my associates probably. 530 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 3: And there's so many ways to stay in touch too 531 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 3: that don't have to necessarily be like in person. And 532 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 3: sometimes that does mean like I can call you not 533 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 3: because I need something, but just to say, hey, I'm 534 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 3: just checking on you, how you doing. 535 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 4: And we'll even do like this is a group of 536 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:50,679 Speaker 4: girls I want study abroad with. I haven't seen them 537 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 4: probably in two years, but every once a month on 538 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 4: the first Tuesday, we do a phone call. 539 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:55,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, thirty minutes. 540 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, And that actually turns out to be really fun. 541 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 3: Group text messages with your friends are also good, Like 542 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 3: my group text. 543 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:04,479 Speaker 2: Message from high school. It be kind of lit sometimes. 544 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: And you can't answer everything. 545 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 4: You just jump in when you can, but don't feel like, 546 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 4: you know, not participating. 547 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 2: Because it's a group of them. 548 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 7: So if one of y'all ain't answering is fine, there's 549 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 7: the rest of them that can go crazy. 550 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 6: That's true. 551 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 1: That's true. Are your friends mad at you? 552 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 6: Well, it's not that they're mad at me. 553 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 7: But I kind of feel bad on my end, especially 554 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,159 Speaker 7: when it comes to my family. 555 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:27,439 Speaker 6: Because my family is very family orientated, Like we do 556 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:29,399 Speaker 6: a lot of things together. We have a lot of 557 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 6: events and like they have committees, and I feel bad 558 00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,640 Speaker 6: that I can't make meetings because I'm working or I'm tired. 559 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 6: So it's just things like that, you know. 560 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I will say family is a little bit 561 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,159 Speaker 4: different from me. As I get older, I'm like, I 562 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 4: need to show up for families like I need to 563 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 4: try to do that. 564 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:48,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, you do need to make some prioritization at times, 565 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 3: because I think sometimes we work with other responsibilities, we 566 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 3: put that last because we know that we take for 567 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 3: granted that they'll always be there for us. So you 568 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 3: don't want to have those regrets that you miss some 569 00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 3: really important milestones. 570 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,359 Speaker 2: And so you know, just make. 571 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 3: Sure if it's a holiday or a birthday or something 572 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 3: that you really should be there for, make it a priority. 573 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 4: And I'll ask my mom like, how important is this 574 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 4: to you? And she'll tell me because she makes everything 575 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 4: seem like I must be there. Yeah, so just be 576 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 4: like how important it? She'll be like, this is really 577 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 4: important and then I'll make it. 578 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 1: Make it. 579 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,159 Speaker 6: Yes, I'm gonna start doing that. I'm gonna start acting that, 580 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 6: like how how important is this to you? If I 581 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 6: show up? Thank you so much, ladies. I really appreciate 582 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 6: the advice. 583 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. 584 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 8: Thank you. 585 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 3: All right, Well that was ask ye, Thank you so much, lindsay, 586 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 3: that was great advice. 587 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:33,920 Speaker 1: What I try my best? 588 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 3: All right, Well, when we come back, we have Tamika 589 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 3: Mallory and coach Jesse joining us. We'll be talking about 590 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 3: Tamika's buck I Live to tell the story, a memoir 591 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 3: of love, legacy, and resilience. 592 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,680 Speaker 2: You are gonna love this conversation. She's so amazing. 593 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, she just is somebody who just is consistent and 594 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,200 Speaker 4: thorough and you got to just appreciate her no matter what. 595 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:53,640 Speaker 1: You just got to appreciate people like that. 596 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:58,360 Speaker 3: I write its way out and be one of mes 597 00:22:58,359 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 3: to train us women at radio audio. 598 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 5: We're talking about Angela ye. You're way up with Angela yee. 599 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 1: Please believe that. 600 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 2: What's upe's way up with Angela Yee. 601 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 3: I'm here with my good friend coach Jesse, and look 602 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 3: all my good friends again. Linday Granger's here, she's been 603 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 3: guest hosting, and of course the birthday girl in the Flashy. 604 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 2: Birthday, Anika Valory is here. 605 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 7: And we've been talking about this because you're a book. 606 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 7: I live to tell the story. 607 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 3: When I tell you, I thought I knew you and 608 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,439 Speaker 3: like they used to stay on MTV, but you have 609 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 3: no idea. And this memoir of love, legacy and resilience 610 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 3: is so amazing. 611 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 7: You know, some of the book has a lot of 612 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,159 Speaker 7: shame in it. You know, for me, moments when I 613 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 7: felt ashamed of certain things, and so it felt good 614 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 7: to like get it out, but to also be on 615 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 7: the other side of so much of it. 616 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 3: Just even thinking of a young Tamika and things that 617 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 3: you went through, and I know for some parents reading 618 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 3: the book they have teenage daughters, it made me reflect 619 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 3: on how I was too as a kid, because I 620 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 3: was a mess. And the friends that you think of 621 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 3: your friends at the time, and the boys that you 622 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 3: think care about you, and the situation to go through 623 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,439 Speaker 3: rebelling against your parents who at the time, they're trying 624 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,120 Speaker 3: to do the best that they can for the best 625 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,400 Speaker 3: they can as far as raising you, trying to protect 626 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 3: you from the outside world. But sometimes there is nothing 627 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 3: a parent can do when you're determined to be outside. 628 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 7: Absolutely, and you know my parents experience that. At my 629 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 7: birthday party, I said to them publicly, thank you for 630 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,439 Speaker 7: not leaving me, for never leaving me, because they could have. 631 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 7: I was ridiculous, like ridiculous. 632 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 1: I was a runaway. 633 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 7: I always, you know, dropped out of school, everything you 634 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:38,239 Speaker 7: could think of. 635 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,119 Speaker 1: I was just a mess right all. Everywhere I go. 636 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 7: People ask on book tour, They're like, what's the one 637 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 7: thing that you would tell your younger self or some 638 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 7: young person, And I say, listen to your parents and 639 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 7: listen to your mother. My mother used to say, I 640 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 7: don't like that little girl. Don't bring her back in 641 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 7: my house or energy. 642 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 1: I don't like it. 643 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 7: And she just wish she has my everything that my 644 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 7: mother told me. Everything came to pass in one way 645 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 7: or the other. 646 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 3: Right now, I am with a Lindsay Granger and coach Jesse. 647 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 3: Where are talking to Tamika Mallory. 648 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 8: Here you were in a situation where you had boys 649 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 8: who you trusted. 650 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 2: Nearly gang rape there, right, you. 651 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,360 Speaker 8: Talk about it in the book, and that kind of betrayal. 652 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 7: Not boys who were antagonistic, but your friends. My parents 653 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 7: did not know that that particular incident occurred. My dad 654 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 7: would say all the time, do not go to any 655 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 7: boy's house. And then I went to this boy's house 656 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 7: and he had three other boys there, and all of 657 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 7: them had different conversations with me, and they tried their 658 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 7: best and tried their best to talk me into it. 659 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:47,640 Speaker 7: Big old dog in the house. I'm scared to death, 660 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 7: clos crying close, disheveled. And the boy's mother came in 661 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 7: the house and looked at me and said, what is 662 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 7: this little girl doing in my house? And she was like, 663 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 7: get yourself together and get out. She never took her 664 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 7: eyes out of my eyes. As I think back over it, 665 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 7: God only knows what her experience was in life that 666 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 7: had her like, damn this, this girl is about to 667 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 7: experience something. I'm here to catch it as a mother 668 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 7: of the boy who is orchestrating it. 669 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 2: To add more trauma onto that. 670 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,400 Speaker 3: Your best friend, who you thought was your best friend 671 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 3: at the time, then spreads the rumor about you. 672 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,719 Speaker 7: The God so then she goes out and spreads that. 673 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 7: You know, I'm basically out here letting people run a 674 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 7: train on me. A lot of what we do as 675 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,639 Speaker 7: young women is just trying to be cool. 676 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 2: All right. 677 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 3: Tamika Mallory is here, Lindy Granger is guest hosting. Coach 678 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 3: Jesse's in the building. We got more when we come back. 679 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 3: It's way up. 680 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:49,959 Speaker 2: What's up? 681 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 3: As way up with Angela Yee and of course my 682 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 3: girl Lindy Grange has been here guest hosting for the. 683 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:54,880 Speaker 2: Past two days. 684 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 3: We got Coach Jesse here, and we got the amazing 685 00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 3: Tamika D. 686 00:26:59,119 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 2: Mallory. 687 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 4: This is the cost of courage for you because and 688 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 4: then also, what would you tell people that, you know, 689 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 4: everybody's not an activist. Some people don't even know how 690 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 4: to jump in some of these conversations or fights. You know, 691 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,679 Speaker 4: we all know kind of what we would do, but 692 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 4: there are some young people that don't know how to 693 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 4: get in this conversation without risking losing jobs. 694 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 1: And like, so what's yeah, right? 695 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 5: You know what I mean? 696 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 7: It's funny because I tell people all the time, they 697 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 7: think that I'm gonna say, like, you know, shut it 698 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 7: down everywhere you go. 699 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:27,679 Speaker 2: God, stand up. 700 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 7: I'd be like, don't you lose that job now? And 701 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 7: they're trying to argue with some folks every. 702 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 2: Day and doing it. 703 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 7: You better go to work and do your job and 704 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 7: work towards being an entrepreneur, or work towards getting in 705 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 7: a place where you can be yourself. 706 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 2: You can speak up. 707 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 7: But guess what, because of me being so outspoken and 708 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 7: now being labeled as controversial and all the things, I 709 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,400 Speaker 7: can't take those skills to go work for ex company because. 710 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,119 Speaker 1: They're not going to hire me. 711 00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 7: I tried to presence three years ago at Sachs in 712 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 7: like Bloomingdale's. 713 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 1: I applied for the position because I'm really good at rapping, 714 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 1: I said, Bruh. 715 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 7: One of those stores contacted me to be like this 716 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,560 Speaker 7: is not gonna happen, not gonna like. 717 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 1: What are you? 718 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 2: Why are you over? 719 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 1: Are you crying this position? 720 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:18,640 Speaker 2: Miss Mallory Misma. 721 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,159 Speaker 7: So even though that might be funny because it was funny, 722 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,920 Speaker 7: my friend was like, girl, please, why did you even apply? 723 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,679 Speaker 1: I can't, but is it not funny? If I was 724 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 1: seriously in. 725 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 3: Need of the job right now, I am with a 726 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 3: Lindsay Granger and coach Jesse are talking to Tamika Mallory. Now, 727 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:36,439 Speaker 3: I do want to ask you about something else in 728 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 3: the book that you mentioned right. This was an instance 729 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 3: fourteen years old where you were raped by somebody that 730 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 3: you knew, but still have to see that person at 731 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,239 Speaker 3: times and kept it cordial even though it wasn't. And 732 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 3: you said you can understand people who don't because you 733 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 3: went through this. 734 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 2: And he was going to be a basketball star. 735 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 7: I'm thinking to myself, damn if I tell this story, 736 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 7: this might ruin his career. Then I started being like 737 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 7: my parents told me, don't be going to the boys housing. 738 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 7: So now it's kind of my fault because I shouldn't 739 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 7: have been here. All of that stuff played in my mind. 740 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 7: I was at an event. A group of women came 741 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 7: with a little girl, and so at the end she 742 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 7: stood up. 743 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 2: And said she wanted to ask a question. 744 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 7: And so she said, well, I've been sitting here reading 745 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 7: your book, but you say in here that you didn't 746 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 7: tell anybody. And she said, now as that you're older, 747 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 7: would you do something different? But in my mind, I'm thinking, 748 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 7: I don't want my dad to. 749 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: Go to jail. Are they gonna believe me? 750 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 7: But what I said to her in response was, Oh, 751 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 7: if I could do it again, I would definitely tell 752 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 7: because what I realized in hindsight is that he had 753 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 7: to be doing it to somebody else. So if I'm 754 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 7: a young woman, I mean, I just feel like we're 755 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 7: creating a society that further cements the idea that if 756 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,959 Speaker 7: you speak out about your pain, people are going to 757 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 7: accuse you of something. You know, So it's not a 758 00:29:56,360 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 7: healthy environment for young women or men men. God bless 759 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 7: what they've gone through that no one knows about the 760 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:08,800 Speaker 7: sexual assault from the babysitter or the on or whomever. 761 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 7: No one knows about that, no one knows they're being 762 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 7: beaten by their wives, and if they come forward made 763 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 7: fun of, oh heck, yeah, you can't. You know, no 764 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 7: one knows about that. They don't feel comfortable sharing those things, 765 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 7: all right. 766 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 3: Tamika Mallory is here alongside coach Jesse, and I got 767 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 3: Linday Granger by my side. 768 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 2: Love that for me. 769 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,720 Speaker 3: And when we come back, we normally would be doing 770 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 3: last Word, but instead we have some more with Tamika Mallory. 771 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 3: That's how great this book I live to tell. The 772 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 3: story is we got more conversations. It's way up, way up. 773 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 2: With Angela Yee. More, now what's up as way up 774 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 2: with Angela Yee. 775 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 3: I'm here, Linday Granger is here, and Coach Jesse's here, 776 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 3: and Tamika D. 777 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 2: Mallory is here. 778 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 3: All of us are in the building. This book I 779 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 3: live to tell. The story is out right now, this 780 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 3: is Tamika's memoir. 781 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 8: But yet and still you took everything that you went 782 00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 8: through and you openly shared it, and that was so crazy. 783 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 8: Just something you mentioned about depression, right, you said in 784 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 8: the book you didn't even know that you were depressed. No, right, 785 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 8: going back to where you were in that place, how 786 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 8: did you get help? 787 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: Oh, thank you God for help. Thank you God for 788 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: the rough days. 789 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 7: The rough days, unfortunately, is where I learned how to 790 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 7: take care of myself. 791 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 6: You know. 792 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 7: Another saying by my mentor, she said to me, God's 793 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 7: address is in the dark. 794 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: That's where he lives. Like when you're in a dark space, 795 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 1: that's where you find God. 796 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 7: I said, wow, And it's so true, because that rehab 797 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 7: facility it was so dark. 798 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 8: So the rehab was because during depression you were the pills. 799 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 7: Everybody at the same time, I'm acting like, yeah, remember 800 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 7: connected us we want you to. 801 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 8: Get the book. 802 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 7: So going to rehab, which I have to give you know, 803 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 7: so much love to my sister Rachel nord Lingo, who 804 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 7: dropped me off, took me to it was there's a 805 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 7: picture of us that she sends me every year. We're 806 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 7: inside of the facility and she's about to lead wow, 807 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 7: and she sends me that picture every year to remind 808 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 7: me of how far I've come, you know, since twenty nineteen. 809 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 7: And Jason Williams, the NBA All Star, sent me to 810 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 7: rehab under an alias. 811 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 1: I didn't have to pay one dime. 812 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,000 Speaker 7: Put me in a program which I later found out 813 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 7: was eighty thousand dollars, and I was like, give me 814 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 7: eighty thousand dollars when I'll go home and see if 815 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:26,240 Speaker 7: I had to work it out, you know, the therapy 816 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 7: there like shoot. But it was there that the therapists 817 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 7: would come and he would ask me questions, which I 818 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 7: talk about in the book. By the way, even though 819 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 7: I was under an alias, all of the staff knew 820 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 7: exactly who I was or who I am, and so 821 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 7: when he asked the question, he was being very intentional 822 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 7: and he was trying to figure out why are you here? 823 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,160 Speaker 7: And I'm like, well, I want to get sober, you know, 824 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 7: I just gave a very generic answer. But all night 825 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 7: I sat with that thing, why are you here? And 826 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 7: that next day I was really busted out and I said, 827 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 7: my life is in shambles, the relationship between my son 828 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 7: and I, it's a mess. Everything around me is falling apart, 829 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 7: and I need to get myself together. And later on 830 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,479 Speaker 7: he pulled me to the side and said, everything that 831 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:17,560 Speaker 7: you're going through in this moment, you need to recognize. 832 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 2: That it's okay to take care of you. 833 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 7: So I just quote in the book that says I 834 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 7: was born fighting for freedom and I will die fighting 835 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 7: for freedom, but this time freedom includes me. So trying 836 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 7: to center myself in the midst of that, and that's 837 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 7: how I'm getting help. That therapy is important, and I 838 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 7: don't just have a therapist. I have a psychiatrist. And 839 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 7: because the stigma around needing medication to deal with different issues, 840 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 7: there is a stigma that makes you feel like you're crazy, 841 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 7: especially in the black community. It's like, oh, you need 842 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 7: to take this, Oh oh you're on that. But I've 843 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 7: never been better in my life that I have help 844 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 7: for anxiety, that I need I need it every day. 845 00:33:58,360 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 2: So listen. 846 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 3: I love to tell the story love, legacy, and resilience. 847 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 2: Tamika D. Mallory, We thank you so much. I appreciate 848 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 2: you've had and it's the right time. 849 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 1: It's my birthday. 850 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much too, Tamika D. Mallory And 851 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,279 Speaker 3: to coach Jesse for joining us. Thank you Lindsey for 852 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,560 Speaker 3: guest hosting for these past two days. 853 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: Welcome. 854 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,800 Speaker 4: I love coming up here. It's just like a nice 855 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 4: breath of fresh air. You guys are really the best 856 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 4: in the business. 857 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 3: Well, I'm looking forward to seeing you more, but of 858 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 3: course you'll have a great day. 859 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 2: I'll be back tomorrow.