1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for not letting my kids 2 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: go on vacation with my ex because it's my time 3 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: with them? So kitten Box eight says, right now, both 4 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: of my kids, sixteen year old son and nine year 5 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: old daughter, and my ex are extremely mad at me 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 1: because I won't give up my appointed time with them. 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: My son won't even talk to me, and my daughter 8 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 1: is crying all the time. A little backstory, Me and 9 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: my ex divorced shortly after my daughter was born. I 10 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,639 Speaker 1: blame him for it and he blames me. I won't 11 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: go into detail here. We ended up with a fifty 12 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: to fifty custody agreement, switching every other week. While this 13 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: was eight years ago, we're still not on good terms. 14 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,279 Speaker 1: We rarely ever, We rarely ever talk to each other 15 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: outside of the kids, and I'm perfectly fine with that. 16 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: One thing we've agreed on since the beginning, though, is 17 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: that we don't plan things on days that aren't ours, 18 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: and unless it's extremely important, we don't switch days or weeks. 19 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: In the eight years since we've been divorced, I have 20 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: never asked to have the kids on a day that 21 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:04,479 Speaker 1: isn't mined, and I've never given him one of my days, 22 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: even if he begged. I don't know. That seems kind 23 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: of I feel like there should be some leeway. I 24 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: don't know if you can be that strict when it 25 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: comes to having kids. I think there are times when 26 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: you probably need to be a little bit flexible. 27 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 2: You need to be able to adjust. 28 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you need to be able to adjust. Well. 29 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: Last week, my ex contacted me and told me the 30 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: good news. His parents are hosting a weeklock week long 31 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: family reunion in the summer at Disneyland and he wants 32 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: to take the kids. Well, the problem is that it's 33 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: on one of my weeks. He asked me to let 34 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 1: the kids stay with him that week, or to switch 35 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: a week with me, and I got shot and I 36 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: shot him down. What I don't know about this. It's 37 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: my week with them, and I get to spend it 38 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: with them. I told him, if it's so important to him, 39 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: to reschedule, but he claims his parents can't do that 40 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,559 Speaker 1: and this is the only week that the whole family 41 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: can go, And he told me that I need to 42 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: think of them. I told him tough luck and hung 43 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: up on him. Hmmm, oh, V, I think you're the 44 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: a hole. I think you're the a hole. 45 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. Three jumping ja Yeah? 46 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: Uh what three? I'm gonna read. Chrysaline says it should 47 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: be more about what's best for the kids that I'm 48 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: not getting the specific days you have. I completely agree, 49 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: and I'll say more about this. 50 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is kind of whack that op, get it. 51 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 2: Things happen in life, and I know it's it's her 52 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 2: week to watch the kids, right, Yeah, gotta be able 53 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 2: to be flexible. 54 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's she's being you said she she's the a whole. 55 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: Let the kids have fun. Don't be petty. It's very 56 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: much pettiness and controlling behavior. She's not letting her kids 57 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: have a fun time because it's her quote unquote week. 58 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: Just change it. He's not. It's not like he's saying, oh, 59 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: I want to take double the weeks or something away 60 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: from you. He's just saying, can we switch a week? 61 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: Why can't you do that? Why are you being so 62 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: strict about this jumping jo? 63 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 2: What is it you can get? You can guess you 64 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 2: can get one? Do you guesses? 65 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 1: What did I say? I feel like you're not tracking it? 66 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: Another jumping jack, like, yeah. 67 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: I have since like so many times. 68 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 2: I didn't catch a lot of them. 69 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: You didn't catch so many of them because what time 70 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: over you said. 71 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: You said it, then you guessed it. All right, she's done, guys. 72 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 2: You guys have more mystery penalty things. Go to the discord, 73 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 2: go to the will and put them in there. 74 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm annoyed. I'm annoyed because I thought it was like 75 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: a while ago, but then I said it a couple 76 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: of times and you didn't say anything, so I assumed 77 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: that it wasn't that. 78 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: I've didn't catch on say it. So it's like a 79 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 2: bread like it's breath. 80 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: Damn, Hyatt says. If Ope is going to be such 81 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: a stickler about her time, they can make it up 82 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: by giving her an extra week later on. Can you 83 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 1: scroll up a little bit? Geez? I predicted this, but 84 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:32,239 Speaker 1: was hoping, oh pee, actually, wasn't this unreasonable? Very true? 85 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: Ohp seems incredibly unreasonable. Unfortunately, Well, this last Sunday, when 86 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: my ex dropped the kids off with me, my son 87 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: refused to talk to me at all, and my daughter 88 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 1: wouldn't even look at me. When I asked my ex 89 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 1: what was wrong, he refused to talk to me, only 90 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: saying ask them in a snarky tone before leaving. When 91 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 1: I asked my daughter what was wrong, she burst into 92 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: tears and said that I was not letting daddy take 93 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: them to Disneyland. Asking my son, who still refuses to 94 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: talk to me, it turns out that my ex told 95 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: them that I was not letting them go to Disneyland 96 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 1: with him. He's trying to paint me as the bad guy. 97 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 1: I don't know if he should be talking to your 98 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: kids about it, but you are the bad guy, like 99 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: he definitely shouldn't be telling your kids about the inner 100 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 1: workings of your argument, but but you're still the able. 101 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: I sat both of them down last night to talk 102 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 1: to them and explain it's my week with them, but 103 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: they refuse to listen to me. You sound so childish. 104 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 1: It's my week. He can't have it. I don't want 105 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: to share. That's what you sound like. My daughter what 106 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: I It made sense in that context, but they refused 107 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: to listen to me. My daughter just cried, and my 108 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: son told me, I'm only doing this to get back 109 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: at my that's what it sounds like. I'm not, though. 110 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 1: I think it's unfair for him to do this when 111 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: his parents scheduled it during my time with them. I 112 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 1: demanded an apology for my ex and him to set 113 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: things straight, but he refuses, and his last text to 114 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: me being I can't tell them the truth because they 115 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 1: already know it. I am so pissed right now? Am 116 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 1: I the a hole? Because my ex scheduled something during 117 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: my time with my kids? How is it my fault 118 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: that I'm only using my right to spend time with them? 119 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: And there is There are some top comments and a 120 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 1: little baby update, but let's read your comments. Can you 121 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: swap a little bit? 122 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 2: My question is has he's done this before? 123 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 1: Whoh, that's a good question if it's like it doesn't 124 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 1: seem like he has been able to do it before, 125 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: because she said in the beginning of the story, I 126 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 1: have never switched to day a week and he's asked 127 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: sometimes and I refused, So it seems like op, he 128 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: has never been willing to make adjustment adjustments to their schedule. 129 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: But can you sque up a little bit? Brittany W 130 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: says he's the a hole for putting the kids in 131 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: the argument, but she's not being flexible. Some situations you 132 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: can't be flexible. But it hasn't sounded like this is 133 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: one of those times I completely agree that he definitely 134 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: shouldn't have brought them into it, but I don't understand 135 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: why she can't just change the week. Uh Fibridfolio's Books says, 136 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: it's not like they're being thrust off for nothing. This 137 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: is something that will benefit them and they will keep 138 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: these memories for the rest of their life. And Lena 139 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: Covenant says, my ex and I made a pack to 140 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: do what was best for our kids and to never 141 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: put them in the middle. If we had an issue, 142 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: we hashed it out between us. The kids were never 143 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: the go between. Opie is awful and the A hole. 144 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: Yeah I don't Yeah, I don't like how either her 145 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 1: parents is handling this. It seems they're being very childish 146 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 1: and the kids are forced to be in the middle 147 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: of it and that's not fair to them. Lydia Whitaker, 148 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: thank you for the ten bucks. My parents are like 149 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: this with my younger siblings. They're divorced and they are 150 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: so childish, not putting what is best for the children 151 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 1: or asking what they want. Yeah, big time on this family. 152 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: Let's get into these top comments. Delete it says you're 153 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: the a hole. Your ex gave you months of notice 154 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: for this trip. Have you ever been to Disney. That's 155 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: the kind of trip that takes a lot of planning, 156 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: especially if your ex is trying to coordinate it with 157 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: a large extended family. If this is the only weekend 158 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 1: that his family can go, then do you really think 159 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: this is kind of This is the kind of thing 160 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: that can be rescheduled so easy, so easily. He's trying 161 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 1: to paint me as the bad guy. Quote that's because 162 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: you are the bad guy. You're being incredibly small, selfish, 163 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: and petty. It sounds like you're using this opportunity to 164 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 1: get back at your ex and his family somehow. What 165 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: you were really doing is damaging your relationship with your kids. 166 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 1: This drama is and even about your kids. It's about 167 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: you and how you are being, in your opinion, so 168 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 1: so wronged. If you value your kids in your relationship 169 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 1: with them, be flexible and hey girl says, how are 170 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: you the evil step mom to your own kids? You're 171 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: the ale E Bulham says, you're the a hole. You've 172 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: stopped your kids from having a vacation at Disney because 173 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: you're too petty to swap a week. I completely understand 174 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: why your kids are pissed at you, and love to 175 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:29,599 Speaker 1: be me says you're the a hole. You won't compromise 176 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 1: with him and switch days because you've never asked to 177 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: change weeks with him. How petty of you. Even if 178 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: you don't have a good relationship with your ex, think 179 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: of the children. The only person you really you're really 180 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: hurting from them, oh from not letting them go is them, 181 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: which they're completely innocent. From stopping selfish and let them go. 182 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: And there is a tiny little baby update before we 183 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:56,839 Speaker 1: finish the story. Okay, I'm here because my son found 184 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: the post and is begging me to update it and discuss. 185 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: After discussing the issue with my ex over the past 186 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: two weeks, I have decided to swap a week in 187 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: the summer with him to allow my kids to go 188 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: to Disney with them. Finally, some growth. I'm not doing 189 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: this because I was the ale in this situation, but 190 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: because in the end, you were right that it's best 191 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: to compromise in the situation. Facts you're still the a 192 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: whole initially, but I'm glad that you learned. I'm glad 193 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: that you figured this out. Barbie Art, thank you for 194 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: the four fifty four. Let's get one more hour. My 195 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: daughter is staying with her dad today, So I appreciate 196 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: having you guys. Yeah, thank you for coming on. Lossandra Rivera, 197 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 1: thank you for the time buck tip. Narcissist mother, she's 198 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 1: just being petty. I'm sure controlling was one of the 199 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: issues for the divorce. Yeah, doesn't seem that nice. Michelle G. 200 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: Thank you for the twenty five bob tip. Listening to 201 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,439 Speaker 1: you guys while I work helps time fly and makes 202 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 1: worse work less stressful. I love to hear it. Barbiert, 203 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: thanks for the one forty tip. Like the stream, guys, 204 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,359 Speaker 1: we are we're math away from seven hundred. 205 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 2: Likes, nine hundred and fifty eight of you, fifty eight 206 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 2: of you. Why can't a few of you just actually 207 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 2: one hundred of you one hundred and yeah, twenty three people, 208 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 2: just like the stream, just do it, Just go ahead, 209 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 2: just do it. 210 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:24,959 Speaker 1: I dare you too, I triple dog dare you too? 211 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: You get a back down from a triple dog? Dare coward? 212 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:33,719 Speaker 1: Thank you forgetful, Sophie for the five bucks. Et h 213 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: you know what I never learned? What etch meant? Ah? 214 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: Why isn't there an a in it? 215 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 2: I like to keep thinks short? 216 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: Why not et a? 217 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 2: Oh? 218 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 1: Is already sorry. 219 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 2: Forgetful, So FI let me know if that is what 220 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 2: you meant. 221 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 1: I just know. I think I think so we're like 222 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: X won't give up his weeks, but she has to 223 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: grand parents. It's suck, but to they should know better 224 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: because this arrangement isn't new. Kids lose, No, he will 225 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: give oh forgiveful, Sophie. He is offered to exchange weeks before. 226 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: She said that she never asked. 227 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 2: Sorry, you sent it like right before it ended? 228 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: What oh before the thing? Yeah? Yeah, But at the 229 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: beginning of the story, she Uh, I think it was 230 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 1: stated that he had offered to switch weeks before but 231 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: she refused, and she had. She said that she never 232 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: asked him to switch weeks. So I think that she 233 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: was like, I have such moral superiority because I've never 234 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: asked him to switch weeks and he always asks and 235 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 1: I say no, Latte, thank you for the five bucks. 236 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: Off topic, but have your videos playing so often? I 237 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: didn't realize we were live. Thank you guys for the 238 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 1: hard work. 239 00:12:55,960 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 2: That's funny gone to tell you guys, but uh, John's 240 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 2: cat supper suffers from uh being lonely, and that's why 241 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 2: his girlfriend has to be home a lot, and to 242 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 2: fix that, he has pulled on okop at his house 243 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 2: so that every time he's gone, his voice is there 244 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:19,079 Speaker 2: for her. I think that is adorable. 245 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: It's pretty cute. 246 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 2: I think it might. I don't know if it's helping 247 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 2: or not, but curious. 248 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: But it could be. And that's cute. But you know 249 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:30,559 Speaker 1: what else is cute? What this next story? 250 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:32,680 Speaker 2: What's so field? What else could be cute? 251 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: The next story? 252 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 2: As a kitten? 253 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:36,719 Speaker 1: This next story? 254 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 2: What are you saying as a kitten? 255 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:40,559 Speaker 1: What else is cute as a kitten? 256 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 2: And I guess so you guys agree, I'd rather I 257 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 2: would much rather look at a cat than words on 258 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 2: a screen. 259 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: WHOA get out of here, don't come by my house, 260 00:13:57,200 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: don't call me, you don't get a work here anymore? 261 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:03,839 Speaker 1: What do you care more about cats than stories? 262 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I read a lot of stories, and 263 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,839 Speaker 2: I haven't seen a lot of cats leave. I just 264 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 2: said cute. I mean, which one is more fun reading stories? 265 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 2: Which one's more cute? Looking at kittens? 266 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: What are we talking about? 267 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: I bored her? All right? Go ahead. I figured out 268 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 2: a way to keep you entertained whenever I talk to you, 269 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 2: do I have. This is what I'm gonna do for 270 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 2: now on so anytime. So whenever I talk to you 271 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 2: in a long sentence, I'll just shake my. 272 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm losing my mind. We'll get back 273 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 1: at it. I am I the ale for wanting to 274 00:14:55,400 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: keep all the benefit money my grandparents left me. And 275 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: this is a special story because it comes from our 276 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: slash Okop show. And if you want to share your story, 277 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 1: gotta Reddit and then type in r slash okop show 278 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: and share your story there. Or you can go to 279 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: our call in line which is four four zero five 280 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: zero eight six five sixty seven. 281 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 2: Yep, look at that bam bam, or or you know 282 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 2: our discord. You got options. 283 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 1: You got options. You don't have to choose one, you 284 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: can choose all of them. WHOA, but I want to 285 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: choose this story. So Mama bear four nine two says 286 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: I am thirty two female and my grandpa recently passed. 287 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry about that. He was my last parent 288 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: figure and it has completely devastated me. When we lost 289 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: my grandma, he wrote his beneficiaries for the death benefits 290 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 1: to be paid out when he passed. I was unaware 291 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 1: I was the only surviving beneficiary until recently when I 292 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 1: got a letter in the mail. Last whispers I had 293 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: heard in the family was that my aunts and unclothes 294 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 1: were planning on splitting the money and then we're going 295 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: to split my parents' portion between my siblings and I 296 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: would I be wrong to keep it all for myself? Okay, So, 297 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: so what we know right now is that Ope received 298 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: beneficiaries from her grandparent and then later hurt hold On 299 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: later heard that the other family members had plans to 300 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: split this money. But I guess the money's not going 301 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: to any of them, It's just going to Ope. 302 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 2: Is that it's not the understanding. So Op has the 303 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 2: money from the grandparent, but he's like, They're like what 304 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 2: should I Should I share it or should I just 305 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 2: keep it all for myself? 306 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think the other family members are maybe 307 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 1: maybe operating under the false assumption that they're going to 308 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: get money too. Okay. Now, for some backstory, my grandparents 309 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: weren't the most well off and some and when it 310 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 1: seemed to really give into my youngest uncle and his family, 311 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:12,959 Speaker 1: they had a few kids, and my grandparents moved in 312 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 1: with them to help them financially. Since the age of thirteen. 313 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: I had taken care of my grandmother until her passing, 314 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: which was over thirteen years ago, because she had medical 315 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 1: issues that didn't allow her to care for herself. I 316 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:27,360 Speaker 1: never asked for a monthly check, and if my Grandpa 317 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,440 Speaker 1: would forget to pay me, I wouldn't ask him for 318 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: a check because because I didn't think I needed to 319 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: be paid for taking care of someone I cared about. 320 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: Because I have done this for so many years, I 321 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: was the only person besides one other family members to 322 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 1: help until they fell ill to step up. I know 323 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 1: this is why I was listed as the beneficiary. I 324 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: gave up a lot of my youth to help and 325 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: didn't move away until I was thirty or step down 326 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 1: from carrying my grandpa. Caring for my grandpa even though 327 00:17:56,800 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 1: I was halfway across the country. My grandpa would call 328 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: me and inform me of when he needed refills for 329 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,160 Speaker 1: his diabetic diabetic supplies or his phone bill pate paid. 330 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,440 Speaker 1: For example. I never stopped caring about him and even 331 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 1: offered to move him in with me after I got settled. 332 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: For example, I couldn't go to high school parties or 333 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 1: out with friends as a young adult because sometimes my 334 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 1: grandparents would call me in the middle of the night 335 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 1: if my grandpa grandma had an accident in her sleep 336 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 1: and she needed to have her diaper changed, or if 337 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: she fell ill, or if she fell Even in college, 338 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,639 Speaker 1: I had to inform my professors about my situation, and 339 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 1: they knew that I would only take phone calls if 340 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 1: it was my grandpa, and if it was serious, I 341 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 1: would leave immediately. Thankfully, I met my best friend in 342 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 1: college and we had the same classes. She learned pretty 343 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 1: quickly that if I didn't come back, she would pack 344 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 1: up my books and hold on to them for me. 345 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:49,880 Speaker 1: So would I be the a hole if I decided 346 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 1: to keep all the money. I feel like I was 347 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 1: listed because I did earn it, and there is an edit, 348 00:18:56,840 --> 00:19:02,719 Speaker 1: but before we get into it, tld are Op's grandfather 349 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: recently passed away and Ope was listed as beneficiary because 350 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: she gave up a lot of her youth taking care 351 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: of her grandparents and now feels is asking the question 352 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:16,439 Speaker 1: of whether or not she should keep all of the 353 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: money or if she should split it. I would say 354 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: I don't think not. I think not the a whole 355 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 1: if you if you keep it? 356 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 2: Grandparents would have Yeah, yeah, I. 357 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: Think it's Yeah, they they made the decision. It's not 358 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: like your It's not like they left it ambiguously and 359 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: you're taking it all. They said, we want this money 360 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: to go to you, And if they would have, if 361 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,880 Speaker 1: they wanted it split up, they would have split it up. Yeah. 362 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people. Do you want to 363 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 1: do a poll? 364 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 2: Sure, this is poor. 365 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: I think most people are saying not the a whole. 366 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 1: But you can say, maybe keep money? Would OP be 367 00:19:57,840 --> 00:19:59,719 Speaker 1: the A hole if she kept the money? 368 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 2: Let's do. 369 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 1: For a keep Yeah, And then you guys know that 370 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: that is for keeping the money. So if you think 371 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 1: that OP is the ale for keeping money, then you 372 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: can say yes. If you think that OP is not 373 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,479 Speaker 1: the a whole if she keeps the money, you can 374 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 1: say no. But yeah, I agree that Ope. I think 375 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 1: that OP is not the a whole if she decides 376 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: to keep that money because that was yeah, that was 377 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:30,120 Speaker 1: given term. Yep, and then there is a little baby edit. 378 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: Thank you to everyone for the support and advice. I'm 379 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 1: a very caring person and this was something that was 380 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,880 Speaker 1: troubling me. I've decided to help one of my siblings 381 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 1: with a portion of the money and then keep the 382 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 1: remainder for myself and spend it on my kids. This 383 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 1: is so sweet. I really appreciate you're taking your time 384 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 1: to read this and share your opinion. This is really sweet. 385 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:57,400 Speaker 1: I'm glad. I think that Opie's very like. I commend 386 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,640 Speaker 1: you for for how much you know, work you put 387 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: in as a kid, who are taking care of your 388 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 1: parents and now taking care of your children, Like, You've 389 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: made a lot of sacrifices, and I think you definitely 390 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: deserve this money. I think that. Yeah, And I think 391 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 1: your grandparents recognize that too. Yeah, and I think that 392 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 1: they're clearly very grateful for all the help that you 393 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: gave them. 394 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. 395 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 1: Oh, justice for Forestalls is seven percent a whole? Who 396 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:29,920 Speaker 1: are the who are the seven percent? Ales? Eight percent 397 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 1: a whole? Who's there? Who's who's saying that? And show 398 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 1: your reasons, show your work. Uh, Lily Pillie's a hole 399 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:47,959 Speaker 1: to herself, maybe for or splitting it. Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, 400 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: it doesn't seem like she did, so I think she's 401 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 1: not the ale to yourself. She just split it a 402 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 1: little bit with her sister, which I think that's reasonable. 403 00:21:54,520 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 1: She clearly cares about her sister. Yeah, what do you think, Riley. 404 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, you do the right thing. The money's yours. You 405 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 2: could have kept it, but it was nice of you 406 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 2: to do that. You're a very kind hearted person, agreed. 407 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 1: And you know what else would be kind hearted of 408 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:16,400 Speaker 1: you guys to do? If you like this dream, we're 409 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 1: thirty thirty likes away from a wheel space and four 410 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 1: minutes and forty eight seconds. 411 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 2: An extra ten minutes on here there is an extra. 412 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: You could have it all. You could have everything that 413 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 1: you've ever wanted. Wow, you could make all of your 414 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:35,200 Speaker 1: dreams come true. 415 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 2: Make this five longer? 416 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,640 Speaker 1: But are there any donations that I must read late? 417 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: Thank you for the five buck tip off topic? But 418 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 1: have your videos playing so often? Oh we said that one. Oh, 419 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 1: but thank you again, Spiffy Tivvy. Thank you for the 420 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: ten twenty nine buck tip. If you haven't liked this dream, 421 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 1: what are you doing? Also join the discord if you haven't. 422 00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: We have over fifteen hundred little sillies there. That's a 423 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 1: lot of little sillies. I didn't even know that. Yeah, 424 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: y'all are y'all are populating crazy fast? Thank you Norms 425 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 1: see for the five buck tip. Finally able to catch 426 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 1: a live during pay days. We love you, thank you, 427 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 1: and thank you Stanley Costa for the two seventy one. 428 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 1: Would you guys ever be willing to do a live 429 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 1: stream where you just read okop fam stories? We would 430 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 1: love to do that. I think that's we're trying to 431 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: do more O k O P fam stories. 432 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. Sorry, guys, We're like, we get a lot of 433 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 2: stories and we just kind. 434 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 1: Of it's yeah, yeah, but keep submitting your stories and 435 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: we'll we'll try and do an episode where maybe it's 436 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: all yeah fan stories. If you give us enough, I 437 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 1: think we. 438 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 2: Are one more for another. 439 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 1: Story, Yeah, one more, one more story? 440 00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:58,120 Speaker 2: S five. 441 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 1: On what on force? Ah? 442 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 2: Thank you? What I should doing? 443 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 1: Let's get into this story. So am I the a 444 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: hole for rejecting my ex husband when he begged me? 445 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: I read that one rib. Yeah, Riley's gonna find us 446 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:24,920 Speaker 1: a news story and I'm gonna read your guys is. 447 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 1: Oh wait, we're out of wheelspin We're oh that definitely 448 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 1: didn't say rise spin that Who what does it say? 449 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 2: Jeopardy? 450 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 1: Jeopardy? Okay, who am I fighting myself? You can't do it? Yeah, dude, 451 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 1: give me a timer. All right, We're doing Jeopardy woo 452 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 1: mmm uh uh. 453 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:10,719 Speaker 2: Kids, Here we go guys number one, pretty okay? Who 454 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 2: wrote the novel Kill a mocking Bird? 455 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 1: Oh? I should know this, damn ah as a woman. John, Oh, 456 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: there's like a this is embarrassing. I should know this. 457 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 1: Uh Is it like a like an initials? 458 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 2: Jack gets that? You guys win, You guys win. You 459 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:36,360 Speaker 2: guys get it before she does. 460 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,760 Speaker 1: I can't think. I can't remember. I read it. I 461 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 1: literally read this book. 462 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 2: And I wrote the novel Kill a mocking Bird? Is 463 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 2: there an l is any part of the name? I 464 00:25:50,320 --> 00:26:01,879 Speaker 2: knew it? There we go, I knew it. Killed it 465 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 2: all right, scot, It's good. The next one, all right? Geography? 466 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 2: What's the world's largest desert? What is the world's largest 467 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,679 Speaker 2: desert in the world? What's the largest desert in the world? 468 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: There, I know them, but I can't remember anything any names. 469 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:27,160 Speaker 1: The largest desert in the world is in the Middle East? 470 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 1: And it is It's not in the Middle East? Is 471 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:33,880 Speaker 1: it in Africa? 472 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 2: It is not in Africa? 473 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: But the frick? Where's the largest desert? 474 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 2: What is Antarctica? 475 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: There we Goarah? I was thinking, Sarah, but I was 476 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 1: I was duped because the Antarctica is also freaking desert. 477 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 1: These are hard. 478 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 2: I'm failing music. Who was known as the king of pop? 479 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 1: King of pop? I'm thinking of Elvis, but it's not 480 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 1: the king of pop. He's the king of something else. 481 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,719 Speaker 1: He's the king, king of pop, king of pop? Who 482 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 1: is the king of pop? Can I have a hint? 483 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,120 Speaker 2: No, you should know this? 484 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 1: Why who's the king of Pop's a few Michael? 485 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 2: There we go, Wow, twenty six, there we go. 486 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 1: I need a different jore, excuse you? 487 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:32,199 Speaker 2: Okay? Right? Uh? Sports? And what sport you perform? A 488 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 2: slam dunk basketball? There we go? Good job, I got one. Okay, okay, okay, 489 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 2: I have to. 490 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 1: Say who is or what is? 491 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 2: Let's see? 492 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 1: What is basketball? 493 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 2: Are you going with? Science? 494 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: Relatively? 495 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 2: Language? 496 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 1: Relatively? 497 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 2: All right? What is the official language of Brazil? Oh? 498 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 1: Portuguese? Brazilian? 499 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,960 Speaker 2: No, no, you're right right, yeah, you looked. 500 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 1: At me, so twenty two I'm twenty two. Sorry. I 501 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,879 Speaker 1: did listen to Michael Jackson. I just didn't know he 502 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: was called the king of pop? 503 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, sorry guys. One last question, okay ooh, 504 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 2: what is the capital of Australia? 505 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 1: Oh uh, it's not well, it's not Melbourne. Or Sydney. 506 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,679 Speaker 1: Is that's in Victoria? I should know this again, this 507 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 1: is These are all questions I should know. I've Brisbane, no, 508 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 1: dang is it any of the ones that I. 509 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 2: Said, No it is not. Okay, okay yeah, Lily Bill, yes, 510 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 2: Lily Picks uh, oh my gosh, Lily Pilly Ah. 511 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well I knew what it wasn't. I knew 512 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: it wasn't Melbourne, and I knew it wasn't Sydney. Because 513 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 1: so I think that's all, folks, I failed. I got. 514 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: I think I got two questions right. 515 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 2: Yeah that was bad. That was rough. 516 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was that was It was Canberra. I should 517 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: have done that. 518 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 2: Well, thank you for joining. We'll be back Monday. If 519 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 2: you love us, make sure to subscribe We love you 520 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 2: and tomorrow