WEBVTT - Ep. 16 "Walk Em Like A Dog" 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.160 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:18.200 talks back? How are you doing? I ain't doing that. 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:20.279 I don't know how to per? Did you hit? You're 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:22.919 not a perse my pussy per that's it? Whatever that 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:41.720 pussy party be barking, that's why pussy y'all. She said, Hey, meanwhile, anyway, 0:00:42.080 --> 0:00:46.600 it's tam bam a J. Why are you getting to 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:49.800 do that every time? But I can't say, oh, but 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:52.560 you can go a J A yeah, because a J 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:56.640 is so short like you got damn, damn. I just 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:59.560 got why you had to say? Why do you have 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:05.720 to say like that? Am Am? I got a J? 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:10.319 So I gotta add the aide. Okay, you got it? Okay, 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:12.440 I like it. I like it. That's cool, y'all. This 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:14.520 is we talked back. That's what I know, right, Welcome 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:17.480 to a new episode that we talked back. We don't 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:20.480 even we lost. As long as we make for the 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:25.880 fucking year. We fulfilled our contractual obligations. What's you do 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:28.559 over the weekend? Tell me about your weekend, girl? Uh, 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:33.520 work out something I didn't work um nothing exciting. I 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:36.960 actually moved from my old place into eight, moving off 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:39.880 weekends and the de luxe apartment in the sky y'all. 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:43.640 But let me tell you what happened. So one of 0:01:43.680 --> 0:01:46.840 my friends stopped by to help take my shells down 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.240 and my TVs off the wall. And I was like, 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:51.200 how much you're gonna charge me for this? And he 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:53.240 was like, no, I got you. It's cool. I was like, well, 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:55.040 you want to smoke some weed, I can give you 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.520 a little weed or something like that. He was like, 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:00.520 that's cool. He's like, I don't smell like that. I'll 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:06.640 smoke with you. What happened This nigga started tripping so bad. Man, 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:11.040 he started sweating. He's like, I can't breathe. I can't breathe. 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:14.320 Give me some water. I'm just focused on my breathing, 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:17.600 my lungs, just doing all that. Then he was like, 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.400 what's that like? Smoking the picture of cool bitch. I 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:22.480 was like, I'm about to put in the uber like 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:24.800 he could not calm down. I tried to help conversation. 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:27.000 Supposed to give him some milk. Let's talk about music. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:29.480 Milk milk brings the high down. Oh, I don't know. 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:31.280 I don't I don't have cows milk in my house, 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:33.960 so that wouldn't have work no way. So I was 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:37.240 just trying to, like put on cool music, calming down. 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:40.960 I even threwing some motherfucking shot that didn't work. I 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:43.639 put on some what's that snow allegra. I don't know 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:46.360 if I said that right snow algible, I don't know 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:50.000 how to say, but it's something like that. I threw 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.679 her all that ship didn't work. I tried to talk 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:54.880 to him. He was in there panicking. And that's the 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:56.800 second time I haven't had a nigga lose it on 0:02:56.880 --> 0:03:00.400 some drugs in my house, drugs no more being the 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:02.400 last time the nigga left the ambulance I had to 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:05.959 call an ambulance. I feel like you get party being niggas. No, 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:08.600 it's just a little za. These niggas can't handle the 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:11.919 zoba because I don't understand why niggas be bugging out 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:14.640 at your house about some damn regular ass weed. It 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:20.560 don't be regular, it be za? What exactly marijuana? Seal 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:23.760 hous it grown? Is it grown? Different? Like? What's so? 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:26.799 What makes it so special? What's in it? Gasoline? Bitch? 0:03:27.480 --> 0:03:29.359 Like you don't even know? This is this is what 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:31.560 scares me about weed right now, bitch, you don't know 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:34.360 what the funk these people doing to you. Don't know 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:37.040 what's in them dia pills. You'll be taking bet y'all 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:44.440 kill you, bet Y talking on you. Look now, I'm 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:47.600 trying to uh, you know, free advertisement, but I haven't 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:51.160 taken these sucking detox pills and no shipping having me 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:53.160 feeling kind of funked up the last couple of days. 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:56.600 Dog stop taking that off right now. Today I'm on 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:59.960 carriage juice and coffee, and I ain't did my work 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:02.320 out yet, but I'm fastened for the most part. Today. 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:04.480 I might eat a little bit later, but yeah, I 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:07.920 need my sister to clear out. I feel fucked up. Yeah, 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:11.080 don't take that ship no more. Just boss up his 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:12.920 eyes like you come and get your little carriage, like 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:22.160 you're coming from me, from me with Yeah, he tripped out. 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:25.080 He was panicking. I couldn't do it. I was like, 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:27.920 call you a lift because he didn't drive, So I 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:30.040 was like, call you a live home, bro, you need 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:31.919 to sleep it off. And he was just pacing the 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:34.680 floor and I was like, just sit down, have a seat, man, 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:38.000 and he couldn't sit down. So he was like, you 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:39.800 want me to not go? I was like, no, I 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:41.839 definitely want you to go funk out of here, please 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:45.160 for you die in here with that crazy ship and look, 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:46.839 and he was moving. I don't let him die in 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:50.760 that old that's apartment. Move. No, that's my friend. I 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:54.520 can't let him die. It was just sweet gonna die. 0:04:54.600 --> 0:05:02.080 He would gonna fall asleep, dad in the band down. 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:06.159 That's terrible. When I tell y'all, I look a hot 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:09.479 fucking mess something about moving. If you can stay beautiful 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:12.160 while you're moving, you are a bad bitch. Because I 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:14.880 got one nail on my left hand, two on my 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:18.160 right hand. I got slip tracks all over the place. 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:20.080 It's just a fucking mess right now. But I'm gonna 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:22.839 put you next week before the weekend all over again 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:26.400 in my new apartment period. Oh you know what did 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:29.560 happen to me? Bitch? On Saturday night, me and my 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:32.760 home girl left the club and you know, I'm in 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:36.240 Charleston right now, so and she's still closing early for 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:39.200 the most part. So the strip club closed at two o'clock. 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:42.120 So we left the regular club and we tried to 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:43.760 go over to the strip club. They was closing too. 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:46.479 I'm just posted by my car and people are coming 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:48.480 out the strip club. Strippers are coming out the strip 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:52.640 club at this point too. This big goofy country ask, dude, 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:57.080 I'm standing by my car came and smacked me on 0:05:57.160 --> 0:06:01.240 my ass and I had to stop his hand because 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:02.840 he was about to smack me on my ass a 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:05.479 second time. And I'm like, what the funk? I said, 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:08.200 I'm a grown ass woman. You know there's bitches for that. 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:10.200 Why are you coming out here and putting your hands 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:12.760 on a woman you don't fucking know? Like I s, 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:15.560 I was ready to pop the trunk on him. I 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:20.520 was highly h Niggas feel entitled to your answer. Yeah, 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:23.080 and that's a big problem. Like I feel like men 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:25.640 who get women would never do something like that. They 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:29.560 would never put their hands on a woman uninvited, Like, no, 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:32.840 niggas will be drunk and stupid. Sometimes you just left 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:36.000 the strip club, my dog, Why do you still feel 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:37.760 needed to touch a women. I'm pretty sure he was 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:41.400 in there sing them buggaboos on the ask because listen, 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.839 these strippers in Charleston and knock, that's why we should 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.520 just start robbing these niggers. He didn't even look like 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:50.360 he had anything for me to rob. The niggas talking 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:53.640 about snatch snatching my chain off, so he started talking 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:58.320 their Let me tell you this is this is why 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:01.960 these niggas that have these platforms now empowering these bitch 0:07:01.960 --> 0:07:06.080 ass niggas who don't get pussy. It's very dangerous because 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:09.000 they now giving them like the courage to even funk 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:11.400 with women even more. And this guy had to be 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:14.640 at least like, I don't know, six five, a big 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:17.480 niggah country nigga, like I'm gonna have to shoot you 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:20.320 and maker in the parking lot at the Strip Club 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:23.480 in Charleston, South Carolina, because I can't yes girl to 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:25.880 leave home without it. I really was sucked up this 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:28.360 weekend because I totally forgot about that ship. But yeah, 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:30.800 that my homeboy, and I hope his ass is listening. 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:33.080 We grew up together. We happened to run into him 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.480 while we was out. He was literally trying to convince 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:39.240 me that that's um like a man smacked me on 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:43.000 the ass is like a compliment, And I like to 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:47.960 all exactly. I like to always put men's children. We 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:50.360 can't say mamas no more because these niggas hate their mama, 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:52.360 so we can't be like, oh, how would you feel 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:54.520 if somebody do this to your mama? Niggas hate their mama. 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:56.640 How would you feel if somebody did to see you 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:59.400 a little girl? Niggas do not hate their mama. Girl, 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:03.600 A lot of these they resent their mother. They don't 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:07.880 hate her. They resent her, Okay, some way of saying it, 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:11.440 tam Okay. They resent their moms. That's why do you 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:13.360 go out. They way to make sure they don't make 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:18.560 niggas loved hood. Niggas love a grandma. Got their way 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:21.840 to not replicate themselves, you know, so they don't look 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:24.240 so the kids don't look like them or the mom. Okay, 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:27.640 I understand they resent their moms. They don't hate their moms. 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:31.640 But yeah, how would you feel if somebody do that 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:34.320 to your child? Man? That's what many to think about 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:36.360 a lot of times I wouldn't be okay with that ship. 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:40.280 Oh girl, I wanted to talk to you about what 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:46.120 Caitlyn Jennerson over the weekend. I saw that this question 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:50.199 of fairness. That's why I oppose biological boys who were 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:55.160 trans competing in girls sports in school. It just isn't 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:59.360 fair and we have to protect girls sports. But but 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.920 if someone musicians are now identifies as a girl, isn't 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:04.920 it delegitimizing their identity to prevent go today? So if 0:09:04.960 --> 0:09:07.920 you're a trans, if you're born a boy and you 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.520 identify as a trans girl, now you should not be 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:14.040 able to compete with females. You should only be able 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:16.960 to compete with boys, or not compete at all, according 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:20.600 to Kitlin, which makes sense. So then I saw a 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:24.199 couple of trans basically saying that he should then give 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:27.880 back all his gold medals that he won during the Olympics. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:29.520 That don't make sense to me because he was a 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:32.440 boy competing against other competed against boys, Like what are 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:35.400 y'all saying? So look, this is this is how confusing 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:38.200 this would actually sound if what they are saying should 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:41.319 actually happen. So what y'all saying is is that because 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:46.440 he was probably always internally this trans woman competing against 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:51.040 men and winning, that he should give back his medals 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:54.120 because if he were, You see, your domino should is 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:57.200 sucking sounding like I'm trying to understand what a funk 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:59.760 they're coming from, and I can't. What are y'all saying? 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:03.400 It's hard to understand? All right, here's my thing? Be 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:06.200 whoever the funk you want to be. I'm about to 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:10.120 start identifying as trans age, and I want y'all to 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:13.600 respect my ship the way you want me to respect. 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:20.360 I'm fucking twenty seven. Goddamnit, I'm trans age, bitch. Tell 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:23.160 me I'm not like I'm trans race. Okay, especially on 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:28.160 applications and ship. You're a white woman, I'm a whole 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:33.040 white I'm a white twenty seven year old woman. That's 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:38.640 why identified. Where is the application for the privilege? Right, 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:45.240 there's a privilege application changed to well, I don't know, 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:49.199 I mean where do you? Genetically men are stronger than women, right, 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:51.480 that's a proven fact that if you're born a man, 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:55.720 you are typically stronger than women. Is that true or 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:58.439 is that just something that is true? Like as big 0:10:58.440 --> 0:11:01.960 as and bad as women think they are, the majority 0:11:02.120 --> 0:11:05.600 of women cannot do anything. You cannot handle a man, 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:08.920 even the smallest of men, they're just stronger. So even 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:11.080 if you're a small, little petite man, you should not 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:14.040 be playing against women. It's just not right. I don't 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:16.960 even think. I don't get Also, Tam, is that you 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:22.440 don't see transgendered boys with this much controversy. They just 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:25.319 being the cut persons that were born women who now 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:28.600 identify as men. You don't see them with the same ship. 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:32.160 They don't want to compete against they're not winning, no competitions. Yeah, 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:34.800 but they also aren't trying to be competing against men. 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:37.600 They might want to play football, yeah they do. That'd 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:40.160 been wrestling and ship you, but they don't win. So 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:43.679 you I've never seen a trans boy wrestle a man 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:46.320 or even want to. I just haven't seen it. Now. 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:48.120 I know they want to play football with the guys. 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:51.080 I'm there somewhere. Well, they're not in the forefront. So 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:53.160 what we're I feel like what we're dealing with that's 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:55.520 because they're only are not in the forefront because they're 0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:59.679 not winning. That's the issue. They winning medals. It really 0:11:59.679 --> 0:12:02.400 be like it'd be like, Samantha, how did you do it? 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:07.720 Tell us how you did it? Just took it all 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:11.240 the way to the top. Like that's not fair, that's 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:17.520 not fair, y'all. Don't be mad at me. That was funny. 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:24.480 That's fun Okay. First of all, girl, So I don't 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:27.600 know this is this this time we're living in boy 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:31.440 and what a time to be alive, What a time? Man? 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:35.920 Don't cancel me guys, it's just a joke. I love everybody. 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:38.600 I'm just staying my little bubble child because I can't 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:41.160 do stay your lane, Stay in my lane. Twenty seven 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:46.560 year old white woman signing up for white privilege. Listen, 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:50.439 what do you think about Rachel Dozel had a documentary 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:54.360 just drop on Netflix. She really identifies as a black woman. 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:56.000 We'll see. That's the thing. And I know a lot 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:58.160 of people were trying to come for me saying I 0:12:58.160 --> 0:13:02.480 don't know the difference between race, ethnicity, and all this stuff. 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:05.720 I definitely know the difference in the difference between culture 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:08.400 and those things too. I know the difference. But tally 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.240 a black woman, She's not a black woman. She wasn't 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:13.679 even raised in their black cultures. Like she grew up, 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:16.320 decided to pust some crochet in her head and joined 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:19.120 the n double a c P. That's what happened. She 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:21.600 didn't grow up like last week we had the guy 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.000 sent in the letter Brandon Brandon grew up in the hood, 0:13:24.160 --> 0:13:27.160 the black culture. Right, he's trying to see why he 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:30.120 can't say the word nigga. I Rachiel did not grow 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:32.280 up that way. I mean she has now she has 0:13:32.360 --> 0:13:35.280 bi racial children, her first child. I think it's an 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:38.400 adopted child and he's fully black, and he helped her 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.439 to assimilate. I'm not trying to pass any judgment on anybody. 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.360 I don't know enough about her too, even but from 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:47.560 what yeah, what I from what I've seen, No, okay, 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:50.000 you are a white woman. You know there were people 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:52.280 mad at her in the documentary saying like, you know, 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:55.320 is she hurting any Yeah, she's not hurting me. But 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:58.520 people are mad because they're saying, like her white privilege 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:02.160 allows her to do this, and she gets to go 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:06.160 further helping black people, then black people can help themselves 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:09.320 because she's not black. I mean, but people can say 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:11.679 the same thing about light skin, light skinned people, light 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:13.880 skined black people. At a lot of people feel that, 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:16.320 you know, just because you light skin like you, probably 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:19.680 there's there's a light skin there's some light skin privilege. 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:21.880 Do you think do you think there's pretty pretty privileged 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:25.600 there's light skin privilege. There's privilege based on your size, 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:28.720 because I know people discriminate against big people. Yes, all 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:31.400 type is there's all kind of privilege. I don't know, 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:34.120 there's all types of difference. There's definitely all types of privilege. 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:36.480 That's gonna make a T shirt that says, listen, I'm 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:39.920 not about to psych my fucking mind to accommodate you. Yeah, 0:14:40.000 --> 0:14:42.520 here's the thing. How much do I have to participate 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:48.000 in your mental and your identity? I just don't feel 0:14:48.000 --> 0:14:50.840 like I should have to participate in another one's self 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:53.880 identity or self word for self value in that way. 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.880 And if I want to be seven, why would people 0:14:56.920 --> 0:14:59.760 I say that, people laugh in my face. It's not right. 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:04.800 Look I'm laughing right now. But all right, we're gonna 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:06.400 leave that where it is, and we're gonna pay some 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:14.640 bills because we don't want no smoke. Alright, So you 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:17.240 ran into a SAP this weekend? So do you have 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:20.480 a dumb bit story for us? We actually do have 0:15:20.520 --> 0:15:26.120 a dumb bitch story today, dumb bitch stories because we've 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:28.520 all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:34.480 one your email, alright, So let's see no name alright. 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:37.680 So Hi, my name is no I D. And there 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:41.480 was a time I was an habitual online dater. I 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:44.320 met this guy once on a dating app. I won't 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:47.640 say which one, but the most ratchet one you could 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:54.160 think of plenty of girl probably listen alright, So she says, 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.560 she goes on and says, I befriended a guy who 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:59.680 hooked me up with an older gentleman that was actually 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.560 in stay prison at the time for supposedly defrauding the 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:05.960 government out of millions. He said he still had millions 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.160 and would take care of me. He promised to buy 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:10.360 me a new Mercedes and even had me go to 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:14.760 the dealership to test drive cars. Two years and hold on, 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:21.040 this bitch was test driving cars and the dealership by 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:23.640 herself because jail told her to go do it. Yes, 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:27.960 that's what I'm reading. This is getting good alright. So 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:31.560 two years into the relationship, with prison being he he 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:34.360 was released and moved in with me. I then realized 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:38.560 how shady this guy actually was, a professional financial predator 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:44.440 to make a Then, to make a long story short, 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:47.920 he ended up defrauding me out of thousands, and to 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:51.040 make matters worse, he was cheating on me with my neighbor. 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:54.640 He actually moved in with the Hispanic woman and married 0:16:54.640 --> 0:16:57.240 her so she could get her citizenship. I'm no longer 0:16:57.360 --> 0:17:00.480 the same person from this story. I learned lot from 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:04.080 this situation, and I will never be the strustworthy, especially 0:17:04.080 --> 0:17:06.720 when it comes to men in prison. Sincerely, a former 0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:10.200 dumb bitch, were good. I'm glad you learned. Yeah, girl, 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:12.680 you know what, sometimes we have to go through ship 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:15.320 to know better and do better because how you was 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:17.480 just you just seem like maybe you're just a very 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:21.480 naive and good loving person and want to trust people. 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:24.200 You know, sometimes you just want to tell those people 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:27.040 are needed, those people, those type of people are necessary 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:30.080 to those that are willing to help people. But the 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:33.119 thing is is that you got scumbs, scum bag ass 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:36.159 dudes out here that will take advantage of good women. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:38.760 And you know, he already in prison. And I'm not 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:42.240 saying that all niggas in prison are you know, foul, 0:17:42.320 --> 0:17:45.600 but you probably want to, you know, just slow down 0:17:45.640 --> 0:17:47.480 a little bit. What did they in prison get to 0:17:47.480 --> 0:17:50.200 know him a little bit more than the nigga out 0:17:50.600 --> 0:17:52.879 you know, and like at least get the account number 0:17:52.920 --> 0:17:55.760 for the UH for the account with all the millions 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:59.399 first ship, I need prison. Where is the money? Proof 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:03.760 of life? Money? Right? Because I know you could get 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:05.680 money from nigga's and jail. I used to get checks 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:10.639 from bitch, do you hear me? Yes? So if he 0:18:10.720 --> 0:18:12.560 had the millions, girl, he could have had a way 0:18:12.560 --> 0:18:17.359 to get him something to exactly. Sorry that happened to 0:18:17.359 --> 0:18:19.440 you girls. I'm glad to know that she's no longer 0:18:19.520 --> 0:18:21.600 sucking with the person, so she really doesn't need advice. 0:18:21.640 --> 0:18:25.679 It seems like she learned from the situation. Umm, I 0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:28.600 don't know, bitch, I got it at me. See now, 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:30.440 I want to know what she's faithful to the nigga 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:33.240 for two years while he was in jail, because she 0:18:33.320 --> 0:18:35.760 said he moved in with her two years later when 0:18:35.760 --> 0:18:38.679 he got out. I know that's crazy. If she was, 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:41.159 If she was literally sitting there waiting on the stranger 0:18:41.160 --> 0:18:43.640 to come on from prison, that's some wild ship. That's 0:18:43.640 --> 0:18:46.159 something real wild ship. But that ship happened more than 0:18:46.200 --> 0:18:48.879 you think. Yeah, but you know, I wonder if this 0:18:48.920 --> 0:18:52.320 is a matter of fact. Um, I saw the picture 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:54.960 of this person as a black woman, but you would 0:18:54.960 --> 0:19:01.440 think this was like a white bitch. Don't then that 0:19:02.520 --> 0:19:04.679 dumb bitches coming every time I had a couple of 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:07.239 prison babs. And I'm not saying I would go up 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:09.920 in the jail. There's only one man that I would 0:19:10.040 --> 0:19:13.440 visit in prison, and girl, it'd be the finest nigga 0:19:13.520 --> 0:19:17.240 sitting to the table with a fat white bitch every 0:19:17.320 --> 0:19:23.479 time every visit. You're right, but um your prison babe. 0:19:23.640 --> 0:19:28.679 You didn't meet prison baby. Hell no, And listen, I 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:31.680 always told and actually that particular person I told him 0:19:31.800 --> 0:19:34.040 when I met him in in college. Actually, and I 0:19:34.080 --> 0:19:35.679 told him listening, if you ever go to jail, I'm 0:19:35.720 --> 0:19:37.520 not waiting on you. I'll see you when you get home. 0:19:37.560 --> 0:19:41.480 Hit me up when you get home. Right, So let's 0:19:41.480 --> 0:19:45.320 get into that. Let's get into that. So uh man, 0:19:45.440 --> 0:19:50.000 d C's and Yandy had a clip going viral from 0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:54.640 um VH one Couples Retreat. Then dc is basically admitted 0:19:55.040 --> 0:19:59.120 that if she did a bit, he doesn't know if 0:19:59.160 --> 0:20:01.240 he would be able to to hold her down the 0:20:01.280 --> 0:20:04.520 same way that she held him down. If the rolls 0:20:04.520 --> 0:20:07.879 were reversed, would you hold me down if the shoes 0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:10.320 is on the other foot. You know, I don't know 0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:12.639 what I will be able to do. Then that's so 0:20:12.840 --> 0:20:15.560 hurtful because people have said to me, you're doing all 0:20:15.640 --> 0:20:18.080 this where you do that for you And I've always 0:20:18.080 --> 0:20:20.960 come at it with, yeah, we love each other. But 0:20:21.080 --> 0:20:23.800 to hear him sit here and my face and be like, 0:20:23.840 --> 0:20:27.280 I don't know, I'm telling you the truth. Like that's 0:20:27.359 --> 0:20:30.919 so unfair and that's the problem, like she said, and 0:20:31.000 --> 0:20:34.359 that's a problem. And that's also why I would not 0:20:34.480 --> 0:20:37.040 suggest unless y'all are married. I mean, okay, so let's 0:20:37.119 --> 0:20:41.160 roll it back man. D C and Yandy, as far 0:20:41.200 --> 0:20:44.920 as I remember, are technically not legally married. That came 0:20:44.960 --> 0:20:49.040 out on UM Loving Hip Hop the last season that 0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:51.159 he was on, or maybe the season he went to prison, 0:20:51.400 --> 0:20:54.679 because she's essentially said, you know, for business purposes, No, 0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:57.240 they're not married right now. They did have a union. 0:20:57.280 --> 0:20:59.720 They had a wedding though, but no, they aren't married 0:20:59.760 --> 0:21:01.800 for his purposes. And I would think because he's going 0:21:01.880 --> 0:21:05.359 to prison right or um, she probably got more ship 0:21:05.400 --> 0:21:08.439 going on than he does financially legally, who knows what 0:21:08.480 --> 0:21:10.879 the case may be. But they have two children together, 0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:13.520 they're committed to each other. He goes to prison, right, 0:21:13.720 --> 0:21:16.680 that's her choice. She she did choose to hold it down. 0:21:17.000 --> 0:21:19.080 I feel her when she says, like, I had to 0:21:19.119 --> 0:21:21.520 make the money, I'm running five businesses, I'm raising two children. 0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:23.920 You're just sitting down all day in prison. You're sitting down, 0:21:23.920 --> 0:21:27.040 You're eating honey bonds and doing like you got a 0:21:27.080 --> 0:21:29.280 deck of car, got nothing but time on your hand. 0:21:29.320 --> 0:21:32.040 Like in jail, time stops for those niggas, Like I've 0:21:32.080 --> 0:21:35.680 been in relationships, but a man in jail and they remember, 0:21:36.119 --> 0:21:38.119 they want to keep talking about the same ship that 0:21:38.160 --> 0:21:42.120 transpired when they were home. So right, this nigga, all right, 0:21:42.160 --> 0:21:45.480 so before I was in college when he went to jail, 0:21:46.040 --> 0:21:48.159 and I was like out of college already, and he 0:21:48.200 --> 0:21:50.200 sent me a letter talking about when he gets out, 0:21:50.600 --> 0:21:54.080 he gonna go to Bennedict and play basketball, and we're 0:21:54.080 --> 0:21:58.320 gonna they stopped. I'm like, bo, I graduated already, like 0:21:58.440 --> 0:22:03.080 they stopped. Here. You are living every day, breathing free, 0:22:03.800 --> 0:22:07.040 having new life experiences, and they they ship is just 0:22:07.119 --> 0:22:09.800