WEBVTT - He Said Q & A 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:04.000 This is, he said a Yavi ho with Eric Winter 0:00:04.120 --> 0:00:09.680 and Rosalind Fantas. All Right, welcome back to another episode, 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:12.840 he said. Yep, you guessed it, he said, he said, 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:17.040 because the wife is gone again. What can I do? Listen, 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:20.200 she travels, she's working, She's a busy lady. She's in 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:23.560 New York right now. She's having a great time watching 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:28.120 the play. Real women have curves and it is. She 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:31.440 was there with a bunch of her friends celebrating. It's 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:33.599 not opening, not the opening day but it's been open 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:36.120 for a little bit now, but celebrating and it was. 0:00:36.200 --> 0:00:39.599 It was fantastic. She's there also doing a campaign for 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:42.479 a company, and it's, you know, a quick little getaway 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:44.879 for her. It's not bad. I'm just here tackling everything 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:48.879 with the kids and still enjoying my break from filming, 0:00:48.920 --> 0:00:52.440 which has been awesome, and so much Palmer Republic stuff, 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:54.880 you know, happening people I know I've seen recently. I 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:58.680 posted something about a virtual signing that we're doing, and 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:00.320 I think this might be one of the first. I 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:01.960 don't think a lot of companies and let's hope this 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:05.000 stays under wraps for a bit have been doing virtual 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:08.800 virtual signings in the spirit space, and I think this 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:10.600 is gonna be a fun way for people who haven't 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:13.080 been able to make the signings we had at Total 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.800 Wins in Miami. And you know, we're only in a 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:17.720 few markets. We're in Florida, and we're in Texas. We're 0:01:17.720 --> 0:01:20.039 gonna be starting some signings there at Specs once we 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:23.680 get fully locked in, and we're gonna be expanding here 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:25.720 slowly into California. We're I'll be doing some more signings 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:28.039 in La as well with Total Wines. But if you 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:31.040 haven't already, check out the virtual signing link, put your 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:33.600 email in. We'll keep giving updates and then we're going 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:36.800 to be you buy a package of two bottles signed, 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:38.640 and then you get to get a one on one 0:01:38.760 --> 0:01:41.600 zoom with me for a few minutes to ask me 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:43.840 whatever you want chat just like you were at a 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:46.600 regular signing, but probably even a bit more intimate because 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:48.840 you don't have a line of people behind you hurrying 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:51.840 you along. So make sure you do sign up for that. 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:54.840 And this episode is going to be more audience questions, 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:56.800 which I always love to do, So let me go 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:59.120 ahead and jump in first. Questions, do you think throughout 0:01:59.120 --> 0:02:01.880 the seasons of the Rookie, the writers put in flirtation 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:04.680 with Tim and Lucy in case it became a relationship, 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:07.400 or do you think it only started once they decided 0:02:07.400 --> 0:02:10.280 it was going to be a storyline. That's a great question. 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:13.160 And here's something interesting. I don't think there was like 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:20.160 an organic flirtiness or you know, romantic storyline set up 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:22.960 at all. I think Tim was a jerk. She was 0:02:23.000 --> 0:02:25.160 somebody going through a lot. Then you realized Tim was 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:28.360 going through a lot, and little by little she started 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:31.960 trying to over She was trying to overstep her boundaries 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:36.000 across the line with him to sort of help him, 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:39.720 and that was something he never wanted or was open to. 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:41.919 And so I think little by little they started seeing 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:46.240 this as a way in to a deeper relationship between 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:48.520 a training officer and a rookie, and then the fans 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:51.280 ran with that. And I think when the fans ran 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:54.839 with it, they started realizing, huh, okay, we might need 0:02:54.880 --> 0:03:00.000 to turn Tim's snarkiness and sarcastic banter that he obviously 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:02.760 just has with people he works with into a little more. 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:04.160 So I think that's kind of how it evolved. That 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:07.359 it wasn't planted early on by any means, I don't 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:10.840 think it was established by the writers per se, until 0:03:10.919 --> 0:03:14.080 much later when the fans got involved. Second question, I 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:16.840 know you just spoke about how to communicate with your partner. 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:19.000 I wanted to see if you had advice for my case. 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.560 I tend to want to talk about things in the 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:24.600 moment and right away, and my boyfriend wants to walk 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:27.880 away and process and revisit. Do you think either way 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:31.280 is better? And how do we make the communication style work? Listen, 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:36.640 that's a great question, not an easy one. I am 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:39.920 somebody that likes to talk about things on the spot. 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:43.360 My wife, I think she's open to it on the spot, 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:46.120 but she definitely prefers to process a bit more before 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:49.360 talking as well. And I think there isn't a right 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:51.920 or wrong for sure, but you've got to create space 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:55.960 for that person who does want to walk away, process, 0:03:56.440 --> 0:04:00.480 get their mind right, and then come back and have theeson. Now, 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:01.920 the tricky part is if you're a person like me 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:03.920 who wants to talk about things right away, you're afraid 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:06.320 you're gonna forget your thoughts, da da da. But a 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:08.680 good thing about taking a pause and walking away it 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:10.600 kind of goes back to an episode we had with 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:14.880 Deepak Chopra, which is you can breathe and let the 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:18.400 fight or flight that happens with an argument calm down. 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:20.760 Because nobody can communicate well when they're amped up where 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:22.720 they're too hyped. So you've got to kind of take 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:25.160 a moment, take a breath, give each other maybe a 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.760 little bit of space, write down your thoughts or your 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:30.080 questions if you have to. Sometimes that'll actually calm you down. 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.760 And then if the person doesn't come back to you 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:34.440 with a time, you need to make it a point 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:36.719 to say, hey, remember we were going to talk about this. 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:38.880 This bothers me. Let's set a time up to have 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:40.840 a conversation. That's the way I would approach it. If 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:43.120 you had to, I say all this like it's easy. 0:04:43.640 --> 0:04:45.800 Doesn't happen in our house like that. It's not that smooth, 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:49.200 It's not that easy. It's never as easy as it sounds. 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:52.200 You have to definitely make it a conscious effort and 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.960 choice when you're doing it. That's how that's how we've 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.640 tried to navigate it. How would you react if you've 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.000 found out that one of your kids was caught vape 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:02.880 or smoking, and how would you handle that conversation with them. 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:05.800 I would lose my mind. I can tell you that 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:08.559 right away. I've seen way too many documentaries on vaping. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:12.600 Vaping is horrible. It is misleading that it's not as 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:15.520 bad as a cigarette. It's worse in a lot of ways. 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:18.799 I just saw recently some teenage girl got popcorn lung 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:21.719 because she thought she was vaping to be cool for 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:23.919 her boyfriend who vapes, and she ended up in the 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:27.880 hospital almost died. I would lose my mind. I would 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:31.000 show them video after video evidence, you know, more and 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:33.880 more evidence about how it's just killing teens and killing 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:37.520 people left and right. And I hate to use a 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.240 scare atack, but it's not even a scare attack. It's 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:42.440 just facts. Smoking's gonna kill you. Vaping is gonna kill you. 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:44.280 And our kids know that, and we talked to them 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:47.760 about that, and thankfully, our kids are extremely turned off 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:50.440 by both at the moment. Like Dylan doesn't even like 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:52.440 to walk by a smoker on the street. He panics, 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:54.160 and I'm like, dude, you're gonna be fine if he 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:56.599 just walked by, it's okay. He wants to go completely round, 0:05:56.960 --> 0:06:00.880 like a roundabout way to get there, but I think 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:03.800 you look, you got to talk early, right away. You 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:09.240 cannot waste time, you cannot try to give them the 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:11.200 I get what you're going through. No, no, no, I 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:13.479 would show them every piece of evidence that leads to 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:16.760 death that this is going to kill you. Whether it's 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:18.880 right now, in the next few years, or in the 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:21.240 next ten years, it is going to cause a problem. 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:25.920 And that's how I'd work with it. Very passionate about that. 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:29.200 Do you have advice for how I should talk to 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:34.839 my kids better about divorce. I know they have questions 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:37.400 they are scared to ask. Maybe I know I have 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.600 answers I may be afraid to give them as a parent, 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:43.200 how would you approach the situation? Oh, that's a good one. 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:45.240 That is a good one. You know. I come from 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:49.040 divorced parents. I'll never forget I say it all the time. 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:50.919 At seven years old when my parents got divorced, I 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:54.839 remember that conversation. I mean perfectly, how they sat me 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:58.559 down and told me. I don't think I ever asked 0:06:58.600 --> 0:07:01.320 questions throughout the years as to why. I kind of 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:04.960 just compartmentalized it and put it away. But I would 0:07:05.040 --> 0:07:07.800 encourage for sure now if I had it in reverse, 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:11.120 I would definitely encourage my kids to please talk to 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:13.280 me about it, ask me any questions they want they 0:07:13.360 --> 0:07:17.840 might have. I don't know if I would immediately just 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:20.720 volunteer information unless they asked I would. I would definitely 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:24.760 volunteer something to give, like the basis for the divorce 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:27.800 or you know, the mom and dad just we love 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:29.600 each other but not in love with each other, and 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:32.800 we have grown apart, but we love you guys the 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:34.280 same and we want to be there for you and 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:39.800 you know, hopefully learn how to navigate that co parenting 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:42.880 even though you're divorced and really putting the kids first 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:46.840 in the divorce. So I would definitely try to find 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:48.600 ways to communicate with the kids because I know from 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:53.000 my own experience that the kids are just compartmentalizing and 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:55.960 closing it all in there. They don't want to talk 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:57.760 about it because it's very scary and it's very sad 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:00.800 to them. Even if they know heart said it's better 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:04.160 for mom and dad, it's not easy. So yeah, try 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:06.200 to strike conversation as much as you can to give 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:11.559 them that escape podcast is called he said, she said, 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:14.200 And I love it when you guys have different opinions 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:18.320 on things and give different perspectives. Is this how you 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:21.800 your relationship together has always been. We've always been very 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:24.680 opposite and a lot of things, and you know, some 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:26.720 people are like, you know, opposites never work. And then 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:30.920 there's obviously the saying opposites attract. I do believe opposites attract. 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:33.080 And I have a funny story of a girl I 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:36.360 dated years and years ago, and you know, beautiful girl 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:38.840 and a lot of things going for I had friends 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:40.480 that were like, well, you're so lucky you're dating this girl, 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:42.760 blah blah blah, she's so cool, and I could not 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:45.520 get into the relationship. But I couldn't figure out what 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:47.480 was holding me back. All I wanted to do was 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:49.000 go out. Finally got her to go out, and then 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:51.720 I was just not into it. And I realized after 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:53.800 watching an episode of Seinfeld. And maybe I've talked about 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:56.360 this before, but no joke. I saw an episode of 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:59.960 Seinfeld and he was dating a version of himself, and really, 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:04.160 this girl is me, is the female me, and that's 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:06.400 why I couldn't get into it. I was driving myself crazy. 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:10.560 So I do love the opposite. So now listen, too 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:14.720 many disagreements, are too many things that you don't have 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:16.800 in common can be a problem. Thankfully, Roz and I 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:19.320 have a lot of things in common as well. We 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:22.400 share a lot of core values. We laugh about a 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:24.320 lot of the same things, and I think laughter is key. 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:26.760 But we are opposite in a lot of our opinions, 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.920 and some of that's culturally, some of that's just the 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:34.160 way we grew up. So it is that there's no coincidence. 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:36.240 That's called he said, she said, because that is a 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:38.480 lot of who we are as people. But it makes 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:41.200 it fun, keeps it interesting, and it keeps you on 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:52.400 your toes, that's for sure. When traveling is a couple 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:55.400 or a family, I find it hard when there are 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:57.920 too many cooks in the kitchen. Everyone wants to do 0:09:57.920 --> 0:10:00.400 something different. How do you manage who gets to see 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:03.960 what they want? Maybe what activities you have to have 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:07.200 to skip without disappointing someone in the family. That is 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:10.440 a great question. In our house. It's worked out pretty 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:14.360 easy so far on these big trips because I am 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:17.959 generally the planner. Roslind goes with the flow, which is 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:20.400 awesome as long as I plan it in a way 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:22.640 that you know, sort of is comfortable with the family. 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:25.400 She doesn't like to be rushed, pushed to do too 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:28.560 many things at once, and sometimes she didn't realize how 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:30.360 much she would enjoy something that I set up. And 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:34.000 I think that's fun with the kids. Listen, I don't 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:37.160 when we go on big the couple big European trips 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:39.000 that we've taken, I don't give the kids much of 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:41.560 a choice. I'm like, you're gonna see a lot of 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:44.599 amazing history, You're gonna learn some cool stuff. Sometimes we 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:48.080 hire a tour guide, and I want them to experience 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:49.760 what it's like to be in another country and not 0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:52.679 just not just go shopping or not just see things. 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:55.600 I want them to learn. And funny enough, a lot 0:10:55.640 --> 0:10:56.960 of people are like, isn't that the kids are gonna 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:59.440 are they gonna be bored? Or doesn't this Dylan Sometimes 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:02.000 at a museum can get a little bored, But overall 0:11:02.120 --> 0:11:04.920 they have found it very interesting the stuff that they've learned. 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:07.800 And if you have a great guide sharing that knowledge, 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:10.480 so it helps a lot. So I often I just 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:12.360 plan things. The kids have to roll with it, and 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:14.600 they've been really good at it so far. And Roz 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:16.840 does as well. She kind of trusts my opinion, but 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:19.600 I think you know, you got to throw in a 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:21.840 thing or two that other family might want to do 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:24.160 and that you might not want to do. Eliminate something 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:26.559 that you have in mind for something that they want. 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:29.400 You got to compromise for sure, because everybody's gonna have 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:32.160 an opinion. Like you said, you got to make it 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:35.240 enjoyable for everybody. But whoever is the planner, I think 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:37.120 you know, stick to your plan for the most part 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:41.600 and try to make it flow with the family. I'm 0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:44.720 a single mom, and when it comes to male hygiene, 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:46.679 what is the best way to approach my son to 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:49.720 have a conversation about that? Is it appropriate for me 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:52.680 as his mom to talk about it or should I 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:56.560 find a male to handle the conversation. The more teenager 0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:59.160 he becomes, the more I find myself having to remind 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:02.480 him about to you and showering. Look, if you're a 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:07.640 single mom, I say you go all in. I wouldn't look. 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:09.200 If you look, if there's a male figure that you 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:12.800 can go to for something and you want to even 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:14.600 be a part of that conversation, I would do it. 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:16.760 And I only say this because I'm not a single 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:18.640 dad by any means. Obviously, I'm married and I have 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:23.800 an amazing wife, but I am all in about communicating 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:27.880 with my daughter about female things. I listen, she got 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:31.120 her period. She came and told both of us she's cramping. 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:33.439 She tells me. If I'm with her, she's going through 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:37.520 her stuff as a female. I make her comfortable to 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:39.320 talk to me about it. I don't want it to 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:41.839 be a secret. I'm not. You shouldn't be embarrassed about it. 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:45.120 It's human development and it's human things, whether it's male 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:47.280 or female. So I think talking to your son is 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:50.800 whether a girl or boy. If my daughter's not showering 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:53.160 or using yodurant, I say, I'll say something. I'll be like, look, 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:55.840 you're smelling right now. You stink. Why are your smell? 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:58.640 Put some yodorant on, Make sure you shower, make sure 0:12:58.679 --> 0:13:02.760 you wash really well, do your hair really well. I'm 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:05.200 all about it with my son and my daughter. So listen. 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:09.040 If you're single, mom, just assume both. Don't even think 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.840 about it as roles male or female. Just be a 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:14.280 parent and jump in and don't be afraid to communicate. 0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:17.360 That's my biggest thing. The more your kids communicate with 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:20.240 you about things like that, they'll communicate with you about everything. 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:23.360 But again, if you have a male that you can 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:25.199 lean on for something, I think, go for it. It's 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:26.679 not going to hurt, but I would want to be 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:31.000 a part of that conversation. I've been living with my 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:34.120 girlfriend for a year, but we have kept my apartment 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.960 that entire year. I'm finally getting rid of my apartment 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:38.840 at the end of the month and we are combining 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:41.000 all of our things. When did you and Roz know 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:42.760 it was a good time to take the step and 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:47.040 did you get married first? Oh? Good question, good question. 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:51.520 So we did the same thing. I had my own place, 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:53.560 she had hers. We only lived like a mile apart, 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:59.679 so it was extremely convenient at the time. And it 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:03.320 was probably around the time you're saying, like a year 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:05.240 that we decided, okay, maybe we move in with each 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:07.480 other and give this a real shot. And I didn't 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:09.680 like I didn't have an apartment. I had a place 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:11.520 that I owned and I still own it. So I 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:14.120 kept most of my stuff at that place, and just 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:16.719 little by little was moving you know, things into her 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:19.960 house to see what that was like. Now, we both 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:24.040 were married before, we did not get married first. Before 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:25.840 we decide to move in with each other. Obviously that 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:28.000 is a personal choice for a lot of people, whether 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:30.840 it be religious reasons or family reasons, et cetera. So 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.600 I think you can wait until you're married if that's 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:35.800 what you want to do. For sure. I am definitely 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:37.680 of the mindset that you learn a lot about a 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.400 person when you live with somebody, and sometimes that could 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:44.240 be a defining part of the relationship if you can 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:47.440 even marry that person, if you can move forward. So 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:50.640 for my thinking, I would prefer move in first and 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:55.360 see how everything works as one, especially having come out 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:58.960 of a divorce before Roslin. But it was about that 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:01.840 amount of time and it's nerve wracking. You got to 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:03.960 figure it out. It's you're You're probably there all the 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:05.840 time anyway, so it's not totally different. But once you 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:08.480 kind of you're giving up your own apartment now, which 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:11.480 is big, and now you feel like you have nowhere 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:14.760 else to go, right, You're you're definitely all in, but 0:15:15.040 --> 0:15:17.720 you can always go back, you can always get another apartment, 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:19.960 you can always move out. So I wouldn't stress about it. 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:22.080 I would go all in if that's what you're You're 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:24.960 where you guys are at, and the next step is 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:27.880 if you're gonna move in with somebody, you're already thinking 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:31.400 marriage is down the road, So don't waste your time, 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:34.920 don't waste your partner's time moving in and taking that step. 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:39.000 If marriage isn't a thought, or if you're not even 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:41.040 a person that's all about marriage, but you're gonna be 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:42.760 a you have a partner for the rest of your life. 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:45.520 If that's not in your mindset of like being with 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:48.360 that person for a long, long time forever, quote unquote, 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:52.440 then you shouldn't move in with each other. You should 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:54.360 just wait. But if it's in your if it's in 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:56.080 your cars, take that down the road that I think, 0:15:56.440 --> 0:15:59.880 go for it and take that leap. Good for you, guys, 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:03.080 all right. Next question, there are a lot of people 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:05.440 who are popping up women's sports bars for people who 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:07.800 watch women's sports. You have a liquor company and a 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.160 daughter in women's sports. Would you ever consider opening a 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:14.160 sports bar dedicated to women's sports. I have never thought 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:17.760 about that, and I find it fascinating that and if 0:16:17.760 --> 0:16:20.160 people are opening up these bars, clearly there are statistics 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:25.320 showing that, which I love, women's sports are growing in viewership, 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:28.760 and I I'm one of the new viewers you know 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:31.240 now listen not across all women's sports. I've always loved 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:34.920 women's dentis, Women's soccer has always grabbed me for quite 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:37.840 some time now, and now I'm starting to watch more WNBA. 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:42.840 So if you're getting that great mix of audience coming 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:47.160 in and you can sustain customers, I think a bar 0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:50.320 dedicated to women's sports would be incredible. I would have 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:52.760 to learn more about it, you know, because I feel 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:55.760 like if you can do if you can have a 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:58.960 bar that's just includes all genders, but you're going to 0:16:59.120 --> 0:17:02.080 show all sports, you know, male sports and female sports, 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:04.360 but maybe you pick a night where it's just women's 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:07.480 sports night, and that nights can be dedicated to WNBA, 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:09.960 or that night's can be dedicated to women's soccer or 0:17:10.560 --> 0:17:13.040 tennis for that matter. That could be cool as well. 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:16.760 But every day dedicated to one gender, I don't know. 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:18.960 I mean, that's what kind of like a regular sports bar, 0:17:19.040 --> 0:17:22.240 it kind of is dedicated to male sports. I don't 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:24.240 know that I've walked into many sports bars and seen 0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:28.280 women's sports come on, unless it was the Olympics. I 0:17:28.280 --> 0:17:30.280 think there should be more of it. I like this idea, 0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:33.960 like where it's headed. Getting Palm Republic at any of 0:17:33.960 --> 0:17:36.680 these bars would be great. But you know, I'm always 0:17:36.680 --> 0:17:40.240 about supporting women's sports in general. Obviously my daughter plays, 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:44.040 and I'm hoping to go, guys to my first WNBA 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:47.679 game in July. I've been watching ever since I was 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:50.080 not a big w NBA guy. I would watch clips 0:17:50.080 --> 0:17:52.160 and I knew a little bit about the players, and 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:54.320 I know I'm jumping on sort of this bandwagon of 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:56.359 Caitlin Clark and Angel Rees coming into the league. But 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:59.879 when that happened, that rivalry, I got into it. And 0:18:00.680 --> 0:18:02.760 now I watched third and watch the full thing. But 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:05.200 I followed the WNBA draft this year with Page Becker's 0:18:05.240 --> 0:18:07.760 Haley than Lift and all these players coming out. I 0:18:07.880 --> 0:18:11.560 watched the final four, the women's final four as well 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:14.840 as the men's and I am really trying to go 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:17.880 to the Chicago Sky Indiana Fever game in July, which 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:19.359 is going to be in Chicago when I'm there for 0:18:19.400 --> 0:18:22.280 a signing. I'm hoping this happens. I'm pumped about it. 0:18:22.640 --> 0:18:25.040 So look, I'm one of these people that very well 0:18:25.080 --> 0:18:28.080 would show up at this women's sports bar. You know, 0:18:28.920 --> 0:18:32.680 I would be there watching whatever's on TV, so let's see. 0:18:32.720 --> 0:18:35.960 I like where the space is headed. All right. Question ten, 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:39.520 would you like to do more films instead of television 0:18:39.680 --> 0:18:42.199 or do you love the pace of scripted television more 0:18:42.240 --> 0:18:44.760 than films? You know, listen, I'm open to both. I've 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:48.200 done movies. I've done more TV than movies. I love both. 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:51.879 I love being in Los Angeles. That's one of the 0:18:51.880 --> 0:18:54.960 benefits of the television show that I'm on. And not 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:56.600 every show is obviously like that, but I get to 0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:59.440 be with my kids and my family. Rozland's had to 0:18:59.440 --> 0:19:02.040 travel a lot, and it's hard. It's hard on the kids. 0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:04.639 It's just it's in general, it's it's difficult for someone 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:07.200 to go away for months at a time, and movies 0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:08.960 can often do that. But the benefit of a movie 0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:10.680 is it's a one off. So if I go away 0:19:10.680 --> 0:19:13.040 for like Rosen was doing a movie in Budapest for 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:15.560 a month, that was just she was gone maybe five 0:19:15.600 --> 0:19:17.160 weeks and we got to go see her. But it's 0:19:17.200 --> 0:19:21.000 only five weeks. It's not ongoing year after year, and 0:19:21.040 --> 0:19:24.639 that is where it gets tough. So I'm the lifestyle 0:19:24.680 --> 0:19:29.000 of a TV show in LA is awesome. Even doing 0:19:29.000 --> 0:19:32.040 a movie in La lifestyle would be great, but there's 0:19:32.040 --> 0:19:34.520 a benefit to doing a film because it's short, it's 0:19:34.520 --> 0:19:36.440 shorter lived and you can move on and go back 0:19:36.440 --> 0:19:39.960 to your life at home. However, there's stability and TV, 0:19:40.040 --> 0:19:41.920