1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl? 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 2: Licks pet And it's Sugarl Drey and the Call and 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 2: you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine. 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 1: We're a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. Girl, My god, 5 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: my girlfriend, that's what you was. No, but I've been 6 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: watching Girlfriends all week. 7 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 3: I've been watching it. I think everybody has been binge 8 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 3: watching you. 9 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 2: But you know what, I realize, like as an adult, 10 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 2: it's so much better. Like I watched it like when 11 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 2: I was, you know, in high school and stuff, but 12 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 2: watching it as an adult, I'm like, whoa, this is 13 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 2: some real ship. 14 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 1: But very very relatable. It's crazy, it's fun. 15 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:49,639 Speaker 2: Dog, you've never watched girls watch it's definitely a woman's show. 16 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 1: Though it is. It's definitely a woman show. 17 00:00:51,600 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 2: But I mean, I'm. 18 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 3: Not gonna lie so, sister, I used to watch it 19 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 3: so much. I literally know every single episode. So once 20 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 3: he dropped on Netflix, I didn't have no desire to 21 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:08,479 Speaker 3: like watch it. 22 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: But do you feel like you identify with any one 23 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 2: particular girlfriend? I feel like I'm definitely Maya. You think 24 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 2: so I'm definitely my Oh hell no, I'm definitely Maya. 25 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 2: You are not Maya Maya always get out as fun. Well, 26 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm Maya, but like I kind of 27 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 2: try like with a kid. Well, no, I'm talking about 28 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 2: her personality, like the way she reacts to things. She 29 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 2: just messy. 30 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: She always want to know the tea and what's going on. 31 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 2: She don't really be having like a lot of main 32 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: storylines A lot of the time, she just be in 33 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 2: the back kind of getting the tea, spreading the mess. 34 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 2: That's definitely Mea. I dated a little bit like Tony. 35 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 2: You know she married to a white. 36 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: Y'all know. I used to date the whites. 37 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 2: You used to date the I don't know, I kind 38 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 2: of identify with all of them, exceptly in I don't 39 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: got three dollars no more. So that is very poor. 40 00:01:56,120 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 3: I definitely feel like I'm a hybrid between Jones and. 41 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: Minus. 42 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 2: The poor part was Lena is so lazy bro Like 43 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 2: I never I didn't remember her being that because one 44 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 2: thing about me, Yeah, I went through my ship, but 45 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 2: I was working every fucking Yes, she. 46 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 3: Is lazy, but I think she's you know, she's just passionate, 47 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 3: and I feel like she didn't have anything that she 48 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 3: was passionate about, so until she found what she was 49 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 3: passionate about later on in the show. Yeah, I mean 50 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 3: when she started doing films and stuff. Yeah, she stopped 51 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 3: being lazy. I just feel and I feel like I 52 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 3: can kind of identify with that, because if it's not 53 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 3: something that I'm passionate about, I don't want to do 54 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 3: to she yet I'm not gonna go hard addy, right, 55 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So I can identify with 56 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 3: that now as far as like being a boom and 57 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 3: like sleeping on people couch and not having your own 58 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 3: plate that. 59 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 2: But I could definitely relate to Joan because Joan falls 60 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: in love so quickly and that's me. 61 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: I can relate to Joe because she's a little loony. 62 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, like over like when. 63 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 1: She was started dating Bro and she was like he 64 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:01,959 Speaker 1: invited her to Vegas. 65 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: She was like, oh my god, he's gonna propose that 66 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 2: be me Like my niggall be like come over. 67 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 1: I'll be like this is it? 68 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 2: This is it? 69 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 4: Oh my god, like like real talk, like I'm not 70 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 4: capping when I say I legit. 71 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 5: Never watched I watched one episode of Girlfriends. 72 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 4: It was the episode when the dude was this girl 73 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 4: and he kept saying somebody else's name. 74 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: Wait, I haven't got to the episode yet. I don't 75 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 1: remember that. 76 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 4: I did watch the episode, so, like, who's Tracy OSSs 77 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 4: She's the main character. 78 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: I noticed though they're always. 79 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 5: Tracy. 80 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: She is super fun. 81 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: But honestly, they all look good in the show, Like, 82 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 2: they all look really good. 83 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: It's just so relatable. I just love it. So it 84 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: could be our will youam Maren, I don't. 85 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 2: Know that is somebody said, damn, I didn't know money bagg. 86 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: You open on the scene for a while. Y'all don't 87 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: do him. 88 00:03:54,560 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 3: Like that does not look like money bag yea anything. 89 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: William is like the Friends. He's like the guy friends. Noay, 90 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: if he was gay, I wouldn't have said. 91 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 5: That was a genuine question. Marie look really upset. 92 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: He was like, is he gay? 93 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 5: No shot to the gay dudes. I'm not homophobic. 94 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 3: I hope that all of the poor girls have seen girlfriends. 95 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 3: Because spoiler alert, William actually starts sucking drown later. 96 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: On, he he did got married. 97 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 5: I can't do that because I can't suck y'all. Yeah, cool, 98 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 5: well look nice. 99 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: Been a little lonely marine. 100 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 2: Man. 101 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: He's getting cold, Marin, Now you're. 102 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 4: Right, Dane season his back I'm happy have mercy. How 103 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 4: was your weekends? 104 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: Yes? What did I do this weekend? I didn't do. 105 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 2: It's just so crazy because I got another promotion at 106 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 2: my job and I'm. 107 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: Trying to quit this. Give me time. What is your 108 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: new title? 109 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 2: I'm not telling y'all. Okay, people to tell me, all, 110 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 2: tell y'all, tell you. But no, it's just like, you know, 111 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 2: it's cool, it's more money. I'm not gonna complain, you know. 112 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 2: Whatever it is, what it is. But I had a 113 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 2: cool little weekend. I really just chilled all weekend. I 114 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 2: had absolutely nothing to do on Saturday for once, so 115 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: I literally laid in bed all day watch TV, Me 116 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 2: and throwback Base, Still going strong, Dick, still fire. He 117 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 2: actually made me mad last night over something so silly 118 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 2: because we don't have nothing to argue about, so we 119 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:31,280 Speaker 2: just argue about silly stuff. 120 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: And you'll probably be starting it. No, he started it. 121 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 1: He's he's forgetting. He got CTE though, he do got 122 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: a little ct E. The hand a little shook up. 123 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 2: But so I said something joking about like how I 124 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 2: be going through his likes or something like on Twitter 125 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 2: and stuff. He was like, oh my god. He was like, 126 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 2: you are crazy. Man, I'm gonna say something, but I 127 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 2: don't want to say nothing. And we always joke around 128 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 2: and he'll call me Nicky Parker and he's a professor Ogilvie. 129 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: Y'all joking around. 130 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 2: And it's funny though, like you know, yes, I always 131 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 2: do that to him, and I don't know. Last night, 132 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 2: he was just kind of like making it seem like 133 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 2: I was crazy, Like he was like, nah, you crazy, 134 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 2: You crazy? 135 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: And I do not like that. 136 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 2: Like I'm like, okay, hold on, babe, like I'm joking 137 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 2: around with you, like I don't stalk you. I do, 138 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 2: but he doesn't really know this. Please, I know you. 139 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 2: You definitely be stalking. I definitely stalk him, but he 140 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 2: doesn't know that to call me crazy, but I am, 141 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 2: but he doesn't know that. 142 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 3: So you're upset because he kind of know you crazy. 143 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 1: You don't know that he saying it, yeah, even though 144 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: it is true, but he doesn't know that. 145 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 2: So so anyway, so I was like, okay, I just 146 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 2: and I just got off the ball with him and 147 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 2: I hung up, and I was very unhappy. But like 148 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 2: an hour later, he sent me a video and it 149 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 2: was no, it was like a funny because we have 150 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 2: a like we laugh and joke around all day. So 151 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 2: he just like sent me this little video it's like 152 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 2: god Dance, and he was like, I made this video 153 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 2: for you, and it was like funny, but it's like 154 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 2: an inside joke kind of and he was like, I 155 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 2: hope that makes your move better. 156 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: Good night. He didn't want Mama to go to bed. 157 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 2: Maday, love you, daddy. 158 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: You are. I am so dead. That's good. I'm glad 159 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: you and uh throwback Bay are going strong. 160 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 2: I just can't stay mad at him because he's so 161 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: fun Like it's annoying. 162 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: I have never been in a situation like this. I 163 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: have a little bit of the limb with myself. What happened? 164 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 3: Okay, So my weekend was good too. I really had 165 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 3: like a pretty chill weekend. I didn't really do much. 166 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 3: I just ran a lot of errands and stuff actually 167 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 3: because I need to get groceries and stuff like that. 168 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 3: But then I also last night recorded Patreon the New Patron. 169 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 3: It was also make sure y'all go and subscribe. I 170 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 3: was talking about how you know I'm fucking with Houston. 171 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 3: Bay was no football baby trying to. 172 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: Fuck with me again, and that's a chocolate. 173 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 2: We both have a football band, we both got a 174 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 2: football bag. I don't know what to do. 175 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: You're single, I am, but like you know me, you'll. 176 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 3: Be like niggas at one time, like often like rotating, 177 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Like it's different if I'm 178 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 3: fucking one nigga and then I'll sleep with but like 179 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 3: to be fucking both of them at the same time. 180 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 3: And it's like if I start max fucking with football bab, 181 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 3: I can't tell him you can't have no bossy because 182 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 3: I already. 183 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: Gave him and he find a fuck. So I know 184 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: he wants me to come out there. 185 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 2: I would just go, just go, and they like, you 186 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: never know because you going to Houston this week. But listen, 187 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 2: you a football Bank aren't consistent enough for me to 188 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 2: be convinced that you would be like fucking them both 189 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 2: at the same time. 190 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: So I would go and see football Bank. Just see 191 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 1: what he talking about. You know what I'm saying, because girl, 192 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: he been coming in me, he coming back. That's all 193 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: A little Nigerian baby for real. Yeah, we've been texting. 194 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 2: I'm sure the listeners. Miss Nigeria. I love Nigerian. Nigerian. 195 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 1: That's my nigga though, like, oh, are you gonna see 196 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: him this weekend? No? Not this weekend. No, not this weekend. 197 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. 198 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: I'm going to hang out with my friends. I'm not 199 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 2: gonna you know, I'm not getting any dick this weekend. Okay, 200 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 2: but I just got off my period, so I don't 201 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 2: want to say that I'm not going. And I'm about 202 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 2: to get off mine too, And you know I'm going 203 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 2: to Houston Wednesday. It's killing birthday this week. It's going 204 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 2: Oh that is going down, That's what it's going. Okay, 205 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 2: So we're gonna get into these topics. But yeah, yeah, 206 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:40,559 Speaker 2: Nigerian bay is cool. Oh and then I forgot to tell. 207 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: You, Oh, I forgot to tell you too. What I 208 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: gotta say. 209 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 2: Well, I was about to say big Daddy and uh 210 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 2: Abouja he opened his restaurant, So I've got to get 211 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 2: my pass word back because he wants you. 212 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: We have to go. Yes, he's been to Nigeria and 213 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: I really want to. 214 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 2: His ship is so fucking nice. Yeah, so shout out 215 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 2: to him. I don't want to tell you not. 216 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 3: What I was gonna say is so why the nigga 217 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 3: that was trying to talk to me first, that's cool 218 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 3: with Houston baby up in. 219 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: My dms on Instagram? Don't he see you? Double seed up? 220 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: Please shut up? And my dms like heavy, like, hey, 221 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: what's up? 222 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,599 Speaker 3: Oh you don't find me on Instagram? You see I 223 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 3: got a hoo a bunch of followers and she now 224 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 3: you're trying to fuck back with the beach. 225 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:26,239 Speaker 1: You had carved me, like carved. 226 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 2: How you try to holler at me and then carved 227 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 2: me the same night? So wait, wait, did you tell 228 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,439 Speaker 2: Houston bab that he was trying? No, but I'm about 229 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 2: to let me tell the screen shot because I felt 230 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 2: like he was gonna be feeling his stuff. 231 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:38,959 Speaker 1: He gonna be like ya, this is what. 232 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 2: If you ever fucked with Drea and like one of 233 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 2: your friends are you're a friend of a nigga that 234 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 2: you fuck with. Don't try to holler at her cause 235 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 2: she's gonna switch. 236 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: She can't wait. 237 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 2: She love when her nigga friends sliding her DM. She's like, 238 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 2: I'm telling, I'm telling. 239 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: I shall left because you know y'all got no mother 240 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: fucking business here. You know y'all belong here? Why are 241 00:10:59,000 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 1: you here? 242 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 3: I'm gonna but honestly, I don't think that. I don't 243 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 3: think that this dude knows that I fuck. I don't 244 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 3: know if he knows that I'm puking because, come to 245 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 3: find out, some tea jazz man found out from a 246 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 3: reliable source that they not even cool like this. Oh okay, 247 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 3: so it worked out right. So I don't even know 248 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 3: if he knows. But no, marine to answer your question, No, no, 249 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 3: niggas have never got no fights because of them being 250 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 3: in my dms. But they have got into altercations. This 251 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 3: pussy do be causing arguments. 252 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 2: Not the pussy be causing arguments. My pussy be like, 253 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 2: no you take her? 254 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: No? No, who you take her? Please? Nigga take her? 255 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 2: That? 256 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: Okay, So let's get into these topics. Okay. 257 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 2: So I wanted to start this topic off because you know, 258 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 2: we love to bash the. 259 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 1: Men on here. 260 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 2: We do a lot of man We always tell y'all 261 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 2: what y'all are doing wrong and how we just can't 262 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 2: stand y'all. But I wanted to take a moment to 263 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 2: talk about what we like and men, what we look 264 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 2: for in men, and what makes a good man. I 265 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 2: feel like a lot of times we always talk about money, 266 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 2: and you know, the little light hearted stuff. But I 267 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 2: really want to talk about what makes a man a 268 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 2: good man. There's only two of y'all out there, but 269 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: we're gonna talk about the good qualities, like in a relationship, 270 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 2: what makes you happy? Like besides money, We're not gonna 271 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 2: talk about any financial things in this conversation. Okay, cause 272 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 2: that's already a given. Okay, we already know we like 273 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 2: men that are well off. That's already done. So other 274 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 2: than finances, what makes a man a good man to you? 275 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 1: Like what makes you happy? And a man. 276 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, you have to be somebody 277 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 3: that's spiritual. 278 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: Number one. 279 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 3: You have to be funny and have a great sense 280 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 3: of humor. You have to be able to make me laugh. 281 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 3: You have to have some fire dick. 282 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, this is a good list. Yay, it's just 283 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 1: a good list. You have to have some fire dick. 284 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 3: And we have to be able to have real in 285 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 3: depth conversations, like about real shit. Like, yeah, I want 286 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 3: you to be able to make me laugh, but I 287 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 3: want to be able to have like deep conversations with 288 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 3: you about real life. 289 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: Sheit. 290 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 3: I feel like I've dated so many niggas in the past, 291 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 3: and they had all of those other qualities, but then 292 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 3: nim Niggas was just dumb as fuck and couldn't hold 293 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 3: a conversation. It's like, how the fuck I'm post to 294 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 3: date you and I can't even hold an intelligent conversation 295 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 3: with you about things other than Luis Gucci and product. 296 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: And chains and she right, you know what I mean? 297 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 3: Like all that is exactly what you're talking about to 298 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 3: him and a few other people. But it's just like, 299 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 3: you know, how the fuck am I post to really 300 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 3: date you when it's all you want to talk about. 301 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm into all those things too, but I also. 302 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:43,839 Speaker 3: Want to talk about a plethora of other things. And yo, 303 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 3: as probably don't even know what pleathora means. 304 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 1: You doing good with the words lately. 305 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 3: Thatchelor's one thing about me that I have discovered as 306 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 3: I've gotten older is that I hate confrontation. 307 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 1: I hate to argue. I don't like it. 308 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 2: I'm more of a person that if you do something 309 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 2: to me and it bothers me and it hurts my feelings, 310 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you know, and I want us to 311 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 2: talk it out. 312 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to be like Nigga fuck you and 313 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 1: he like bitch fuck you. I don't want that. 314 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 2: So one thing that I look for and a man 315 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 2: is a man that knows how to communicate properly. And 316 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 2: when I say communicating, I know everybody says, oh, they 317 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:22,479 Speaker 2: want somebody with communication. 318 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 1: But I can't handle arguing. 319 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 2: Like I'm a type of person if I argue, I 320 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 2: literally break down, like it'll ruin my day. I'll be 321 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 2: thinking about it for days. I just cannot. I don't 322 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 2: function well with arguing. So one thing that I definitely 323 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 2: look for in a man is somebody that that really 324 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 2: just doesn't like to argue, but like rather talk things out. 325 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 2: I feel like as an adult you learn how to work. 326 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 2: You can work problems out without screaming, yelling, and you know, 327 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 2: like downplaying somebody and making them feel bad and saying 328 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 2: things to each other that you really don't mean. I'm 329 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 2: past that, So to me, that's what makes a good man, 330 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 2: because that's one thing that makes me man is somebody 331 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,359 Speaker 2: that just they're open to communication. 332 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: Like if I say, hey, babe, you did. 333 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 2: This and it bothers me, somebody that's gonna react like, 334 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 2: oh my god, bro, you always tripping on something that 335 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 2: hurts people's feelings. You can't take somebody's feelings and just 336 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 2: be like, Oh, this doesn't matter. This is not a 337 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 2: big deal to me, But it's a big deal to 338 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 2: hur So anybody that can recognize someone's feelings as valid 339 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 2: each and every time, even if it is silly to you, 340 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 2: Because sometimes I've had niggas say things to me like lex, 341 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 2: I don't like when you did that, and I'll be 342 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 2: thinking in my head, what the fuck this is stupid? 343 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 2: But I'm mature and I'm like, you know what, I apologize. 344 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 2: I didn't know that this bothers you? What bothers you 345 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 2: about it? So I know, just so I'm not tripping, 346 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, And I communicate. 347 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: So that's one thing that's like a big deal for me. 348 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm like a huge deal. 349 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 4: So what are some things that as women that y'all 350 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 4: think y'all do that might turn. 351 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 1: Off of men? This podcast? Yeah, that's just what I 352 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: was about to say. As well. 353 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 3: I feel like I need to dake somebody that's really, 354 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 3: really confident and it's gonna be okay with like letting 355 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 3: me be me fully, you know what I mean, because 356 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 3: this shit ain't going nowhere. So I have to date 357 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 3: somebody who is comfortable with me doing a podcast, comfortable 358 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 3: with me talking about the things that I talk about 359 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 3: on the podcast, and it's not gonna make them feel insecure, 360 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 3: and you know, things of that nature. I feel like 361 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 3: it's hard to find niggas like that thought because I 362 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 3: feel like so many men be intimidated about us doing 363 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 3: the show, and. 364 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 2: Not just that, I think, just the show, and like 365 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 2: social media in general, like the type of pictures we post, 366 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 2: the things we be tweeting. 367 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 3: And you don't let me still post this ass I'm sorry, 368 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 3: cause that's what I do. 369 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 2: Right, And I feel like a lot of times post 370 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 2: jokes about like being horny, sucking dig like, you know, 371 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 2: all that stuff. 372 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: But it's entertainment right right. 373 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 2: It's just like like I always say, like Lexby is 374 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 2: a character and I'm here the people, so it's like 375 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 2: you have to be understated. 376 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: I feel like that's probably like the number one thing. 377 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 1: Men probably be like what fu. 378 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 3: And they don't realize Yeah, a lot of the time, 379 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 3: it's like it's not that we're not being ourselves, but 380 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 3: it's like, if you get to know me on a 381 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 3: personal level. 382 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm more than that. It's more than who I am 383 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: on the show, you know what I mean? So yeah, yeah, 384 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 1: but I'm trying to think of something that I do 385 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: I'm to annoy me. I think sometimes I like. 386 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:16,880 Speaker 2: I expect people to kind of just know me really quickly, 387 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 2: because one thing about me is I'm super goofy. We 388 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 2: all know that. But I'm not gonna be tap dancing 389 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 2: all the time. I feel like sometimes in my situations 390 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 2: and my relationships, people want me to be in a 391 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 2: good mood all the damn time. So when I'm serious, 392 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 2: they'd be like, oh God, are you in that mood again? 393 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, I can't just chill, and I get 394 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 2: mad at them, but they don't understand because they haven't 395 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 2: got to know me yet, you know. So I think 396 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 2: I try to rush things a lot, and that probably 397 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 2: annoys people too, because I'll be ready to be like, okay, 398 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 2: know me, this is what I like, this is what 399 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 2: I do, But that takes time, you know what I mean. 400 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 2: So I know that's something for sure for sure that 401 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 2: annoys people, because it's not that I'm in a bad mood. 402 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 2: When I'm in a serious mode and I don't feel 403 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 2: like joking around, I'm not in a bad mood. I 404 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 2: just be chilling, but it makes me mad when people 405 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:05,719 Speaker 2: ask me what's wrong. But instead of getting mad, I 406 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 2: need to just be like I'm chilling and explain that 407 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 2: instead of being like, oh my fucking god, you want 408 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: me to crack jokes, not nigga like I sad ass 409 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:16,880 Speaker 2: be mad, you know what I'm saying. So I gotta 410 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 2: learn to like just be more understanding when people do 411 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 2: that to me. 412 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm really trying to think. 413 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 3: I think that like I'm too much like a nigga, 414 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,919 Speaker 3: I definitely, And I think that sometimes that can annoy 415 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 3: niggas cause they be like beach with the fuck, like 416 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,719 Speaker 3: I'm trying to fuck with you. You need to be affectionate, 417 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 3: be this certain type of way, and it's like hard 418 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 3: for me to be that way, you know what I mean. 419 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:43,880 Speaker 3: I feel like I have to meet somebody who makes 420 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 3: me feel comfortable in order for me to be like 421 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 3: soft and vulnerable. And I feel like niggas are used 422 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 3: to meeting women. A lot of women majority of the time, 423 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 3: are just automatically that way, and I feel like I 424 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 3: have to warm up to you to become that way, 425 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 3: and I feel like that annoys a lot of men, 426 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,679 Speaker 3: and they don't be to put in the work to 427 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:03,360 Speaker 3: get me to be that way, you. 428 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 1: Know what I mean. So we just don't beating up 429 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 1: working out. 430 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 2: Something that I look for. Also, getting back to the 431 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 2: topic of a good man for me personally, I love romance. 432 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 2: I like that to me, like a man that goes 433 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,359 Speaker 2: out of his way to just do little things just 434 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,399 Speaker 2: to make a person smile, Like anything can make your 435 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 2: girl's day, flowers, candy just because a nice text message, 436 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 2: like you know, little stuff like that. I'm a I'm 437 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 2: a big person that's on like little things meaning the 438 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,720 Speaker 2: most to me, Like it's cool, I don't got shoes, 439 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 2: I don't got bags, I don't got trips. 440 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, that's a must. Now. 441 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that, but to me, the things that 442 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 2: stick out in my mind be like the smallest little things, 443 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 2: like I'm the type of person like I tweeted this yesterday, 444 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,160 Speaker 2: like if a Nigga Taels. 445 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: Says something like, oh, man, like remember when we went. 446 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 2: And I got a base on pillows because we was 447 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 2: in the bad, he was like, man, I hate these pillows. 448 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: I need some more pillows. Like he wasn't even saying 449 00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:58,199 Speaker 1: that to me, you. 450 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 2: Were talking out loud, and I went got him like 451 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 2: a whole bunch of pillows for his big and. 452 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 1: He was real happy. 453 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 2: But that's the type of person I am, Like, I 454 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 2: pay attention to things i'm and I want that for me, 455 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like any little thing that 456 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 2: a nigga say, if you'd be like, oh man, I 457 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 2: need a pin, man, I'm gonna show up with a 458 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 2: bucket of pins in my hand like. 459 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,679 Speaker 1: There's some bigs bad. You know what I'm saying, Like, 460 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 1: that's just how I am. 461 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:23,119 Speaker 2: No, I definitely I feel like people that are thoughtful 462 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 2: and go out their way to think about their significant 463 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 2: other and they keep the romance alive. That definitely makes 464 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 2: a good man. Cause I feel like a lot of 465 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 2: times people just stop caring and they and they get comfortable. 466 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 2: I will never get comfortable in my relationship, yeah me either. 467 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 1: Ever. 468 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 3: I feel like too, I have to be able to 469 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:42,120 Speaker 3: have fun with you, Like we need to be able 470 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 3: to have fun at home, but we need to be 471 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 3: able to go out together and have fun and shit too, 472 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:47,719 Speaker 3: Cause like I like going out with my nigga and 473 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 3: like turning up with my niggas fun. 474 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: I love feeling club. That's my favorite pace. It's so fun. 475 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 3: So it's like I could never date a guy that, 476 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,719 Speaker 3: you know, just want to be in the house all 477 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 3: the time, or you know, just you want to go 478 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 3: out to eating shit, but he don't like to go 479 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 3: out to the club and he don't like to turn 480 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 3: up like I need you a nigga, I can turn. 481 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm definitely. That's like a big thing. 482 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 2: And not necessarily because me, I don't even lie and 483 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 2: say I like going to the club maybe once every 484 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 2: now and then, but I'm a person like, at least 485 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 2: can we go to like a little lounge, smoke some 486 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 2: hood right, get drunk, you know, listen to some music. 487 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 1: I just like the vibe. Yeah, me too. 488 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 3: I guess I should say that because it's not so 489 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 3: much like you said, always going to the club, but 490 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 3: just you know, like vibing with somebody and just being 491 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 3: out having a good time. 492 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 493 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 3: And then that's like family is important too, Yes, family, 494 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 3: you gotta be cool with your mama. 495 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to date no more niggas. Oh my god, 496 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 1: I don't want to date. 497 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 3: No more niggas who got bad relationships or strange relationships 498 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 3: with their mama. Hell them the worst, fucking worst one, 499 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:49,880 Speaker 3: the worst one, so the best first day? 500 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:50,400 Speaker 1: You cool? 501 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 2: How's you in your mom's relationship? Yes, I had a 502 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,239 Speaker 2: long one thousand percent agree. The worst situations I've been 503 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 2: in were men that had issues with yeah saying. 504 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 1: It's like the way they treat women. 505 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 2: It's totally different from men who have a great relationship 506 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 2: with their mind. I agree, Yeah, it's really really crazy. 507 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 2: But yes, I'm super I am obsessed with my nephews. 508 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,640 Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with my sister. I'm assessed with my mom. 509 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 2: I'm super big on family, and especially if a man 510 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 2: has kids. I love a man that takes care of 511 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 2: his kids, like being a good father. Like I dated somebody. 512 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna sit up here and say he was 513 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 2: a bad father, but it was just kind of like 514 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 2: I didn't even know his kid existed sometimes seriously, I mean. 515 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 3: But I feel like too, you know what's crazy because 516 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 3: I feel like I've dated people who were like great fathers, 517 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 3: but they still was fucked up people because they had 518 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,639 Speaker 3: fucked up relationships with their parents. 519 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 2: Right, No, I'm just talking about another another another point, 520 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 2: right right, good father? 521 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 1: But yeah, I agree. 522 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like you, I don't know. I just feel 523 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 3: like all around you just need to be a family man. 524 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, on every level, you. 525 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 3: Know what I mean, Because like I said, like what 526 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 3: I just said, you know what I mean, you could 527 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 3: be a great dad, but if you got mama issues 528 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 3: or if you got daddy issues. 529 00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 1: You're still gonna be a trash ass partner, right. I 530 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:01,919 Speaker 1: definitely agree. 531 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 2: And like I said, I dated somebody where it's like 532 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 2: I knew that they had a kid, but it was 533 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 2: like they were rarely with them, and it was definitely 534 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 2: a red flat for me. It was definitely I'll tell 535 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 2: you later, I'll do I. 536 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 1: Know the person. 537 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, you know, but yeah, but no, it's 538 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,959 Speaker 2: just like when somebody has children and they're so active, 539 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 2: and I actually love that me too. I love to 540 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 2: see a man like with his kids and you know, 541 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:29,679 Speaker 2: being I come to the zoo with. 542 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 1: Child like, I think that's fun. Like, I love kids. 543 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,360 Speaker 1: I'm a I don't know if I necessarily want kids, 544 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 1: but I do love kids. I don't mind. I wouldn't 545 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: mind being a little step mama. You know. 546 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 2: I'm safingly want kids. I want at least two, at least. 547 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 1: At least two. 548 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 2: Another thing that makes a man a good man is 549 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 2: somebody that doesn't mind showing love and affection, Like I 550 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 2: feel like a lot of times niggas will get a 551 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 2: girl the baddest bitch and they'll tell her that all day, 552 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 2: every day, a year. 553 00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 1: Into the relationship. 554 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 2: She don't get no compliments, she don't get random kisses, 555 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 2: she don't get random hugs. Like I feel like, affection 556 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,880 Speaker 2: is so important a relationship. You cannot stop doing that. 557 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 2: You can stop telling her that she's beautiful. You cannot 558 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,440 Speaker 2: hugging her, stop hugging her, You can't stop kissing her. 559 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 2: Like gotta have date nights. You gotta have date nights. 560 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,400 Speaker 2: Like little stuff like you wake up in the morning 561 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 2: and she's still sleep you kiss her on the forehead, little. 562 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:20,400 Speaker 1: Stuff like that. 563 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 3: I love a forehead I love And that's a hood 564 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 3: nigga specialty, not. 565 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,439 Speaker 1: A hood nigga special You. 566 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 2: Know. 567 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 1: Everybody know I got fat ass cheek. 568 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 2: I do love cheek kisses, though usually niggas be kissing 569 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 2: my cheeks because I have fat cheek. I do love 570 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 2: a little cheek kiss you is a double cheek thune. 571 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 2: I am quadrupletes in the back now, don't forget the ones. 572 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: But yeah, I just feel like affection goes a long way. 573 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 1: Like sometimes you know what I'm saying. 574 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 2: If you just looking at look gaze in her eyes 575 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 2: and he's on them double seas before. 576 00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 1: Starts, look at her whole day. 577 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 3: I love before head keith, y'all, I really do. And 578 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 3: I love when niggas call me baby girl. 579 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 1: Oh you know what, I'm not gonna lie. I do 580 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 1: love a little baby girl. But I like I like 581 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: pat names. 582 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 2: Baby girl, baby my baby, gil be calling you. 583 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,119 Speaker 1: I like baby girls. That's what I like. 584 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 6: I recognize that that's my voice for every nigga. How 585 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:36,640 Speaker 6: you recognize that because I know it's when you take that. 586 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 1: Okay. 587 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 2: So yeah, those are our things that make a good 588 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,679 Speaker 2: man to us. So if you're trying to be I mean, 589 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 2: you gotta do all that. 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Okay, So I wanted 634 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 2: to talk about this next topic because, like I said, 635 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 2: I've been on my girlfriend's tip all week, so I 636 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 2: wanted to know should a woman say I love you first. 637 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,160 Speaker 2: If you've been dealing with a man for a very 638 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 2: very long time and and your feelings just overwhelm you, 639 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 2: do you say I love you? 640 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't. 641 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 3: I mean, you could do whatever the fear move you 642 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 3: to do, right, but I wouldn't because I have to 643 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 3: know that it's mutual. 644 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 1: I one hundred thousand agree. 645 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, I have to know that the feeling is mutual. 646 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 3: Like to me, the worst thing that not It's not 647 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 3: that it's the worst thing that you could do, but 648 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 3: I would just feel so embarrassed if I said it 649 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:33,679 Speaker 3: to a nigga or he changed the subject or something, 650 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,160 Speaker 3: I would just feel so stupid. Like I've never said 651 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 3: I love you to a dude before he said it 652 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 3: to me. 653 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 1: Have you ever slipped up and said I love you 654 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: during sex? No? 655 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 3: Never, not if we weren't already saying it, you know, 656 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 3: to one another. But like no, like I said, I mean, 657 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 3: you could do, cause some women be feeling like they 658 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 3: love a nigga and they just want to say, Hey, 659 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 3: I love you, nigga, and that's cool. 660 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: I just can't see myself doing it. I need be 661 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 1: cause I feel like if a man love you, he 662 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 1: gonna say if that's how he feels, he gonna say it, 663 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 1: except for hood and again they'll say after the first 664 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 1: two weeks, I love it, I love it too, and 665 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: I'll be lying saying it back. I feel like I 666 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:15,200 Speaker 1: love you too. 667 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 2: Bad I did I love it lying? No, no, no, no no, 668 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 2: it's not lying honestly. It's a difference though, because you 669 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 2: can really have love. It's difference between having love for 670 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 2: somebody and being in love with somebody. So I'm not 671 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 2: gonna lie like I told a nigga before, like you know, 672 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 2: you know I got love for you, like you my nigga, 673 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 2: like and but I knew it wasn't like I'm in 674 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 2: love with you like I've told a nigga first, like 675 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 2: I got love for him, but I knew he had 676 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 2: love for me. 677 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So that's not an issue. 678 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 2: But to be like I love you, I didn't have 679 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,479 Speaker 2: sex with a nigga and I was like, ooh, I 680 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 2: love it like I was talking about the nigga. 681 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 1: He was like, I love you too, girl. I said, 682 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 1: home on, what did you say? I just kept sucking. 683 00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,239 Speaker 2: I was like, I didn't say I love you, I 684 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 2: love it it's like, you know, but sometimes people just 685 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 2: be in the moment. 686 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: You know, you can't help what you feel. But to 687 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: say I love you first, that's not in my ministry. 688 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not in my ministry. I feel like as 689 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 2: women we are obviously. I feel like as women obviously 690 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 2: were more emotional. So I do feel like women tend 691 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 2: to fall in love first. 692 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes. 693 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 2: Well I mean, but I'm saying like I'm talking about 694 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 2: you know, I'm talking about being in love, like being 695 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 2: in love like I think most of the time, sometimes 696 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 2: women do fall first. So you got to make sure 697 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 2: that you and that nigga are on the same page. 698 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 2: Some men move fast, some men move slow. But I 699 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 2: just feel like, let the man be the man. 700 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:40,280 Speaker 1: I agree? Do you agree? Marin? 701 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 5: It depends. 702 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 1: Has a woman told. 703 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 2: You she loved you first and you're feeling wasn't mutual unfortunately, 704 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 2: and then what happened? 705 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 1: So how did you proceed? 706 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 4: It was just very awkward because it's like, you know, 707 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 4: I've been in situations where we're having sex and it 708 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 4: comes out and. 709 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 2: It's like, oh damn, like, oh my god, that's so embarrassing. 710 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 1: It's not even in it. 711 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 5: I don't even know if embarrassing is the word. But 712 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 5: I definitely I felt bad. 713 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: Word. 714 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 5: But I definitely felt bad because. 715 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: It's like, so you just didn't say nothing, you just 716 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 1: kept strong. 717 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 4: If I'm not in love, if I'm not in love 718 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 4: with you, I'm not gonna. 719 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 2: Say that's rme because I feel like a lot of 720 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 2: people do do that just because somebody says I love you, 721 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 2: though they feel like they have to say it back 722 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 2: even if they. 723 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 1: Don't feel it. 724 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,479 Speaker 3: What I just said, I be saying it back to niggas, 725 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 3: but it'd be like like you said, I'm not in 726 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 3: love with you, but I do love you. Like when 727 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 3: I say I love you to somebody, it doesn't in 728 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 3: my personal opinion, it doesn't always mean I'm saying I'm 729 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 3: in love with you. 730 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I'm saying I love you like it is confusing. 731 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 1: That's why you can't say it like I love you. 732 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 5: Like I've been in that situation. 733 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 2: If you just say love you, what if you take 734 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 2: the eye off if you are not in love? 735 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 1: Like right, yes, I mean that's just me. 736 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 4: I'm one person, But I do feel like if you 737 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,880 Speaker 4: are not in love, you should not say. 738 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 5: I say the love because like that's that's real. That's like, 739 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,280 Speaker 5: that's a hard thing for people to say. 740 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel and it's like when people process it different. 741 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 2: That's why I said people process it differently. So if 742 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 2: a nigga tells me I love you, I'm gonna assume 743 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 2: that he means he's in love with me. But yes, 744 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 2: but if a nigga says, you know, I got love 745 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 2: for you, lex like like I fuck with you, I'm 746 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 2: gonna take it like. 747 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 1: He got love for me. And see, I don't always 748 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 1: interpret it that way. 749 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 2: I feel like I've had niggas tell me that they 750 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 2: love me, but I feel like I knew they wasn't 751 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 2: in love with me. I knew that they just fucked 752 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 2: with me the long WI Like my ex, the one 753 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 2: I did the Patreoty toy, he used to tell me 754 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 2: he loved me all the time. I never felt like 755 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 2: he was in love with me, though. I feel like 756 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 2: he just really fucked with me to you know what 757 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 2: I mean. 758 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 3: So he used to be like I love you, I 759 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 3: love you, but I never just really internalized it. 760 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 2: I'm also a leo, soybody says anything, I'm like, oh my. 761 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 1: God, we're getting married. And see maybe too because I'm 762 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 1: an Earth signing and he an Earth sign So I. 763 00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 3: Feel like y'all had to Understandah, we just had an 764 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,400 Speaker 3: understanding and I used to say it back. But he 765 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 3: will find out I was I'm day with another nigga 766 00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 3: two days later. You know, I wouldn't in love what 767 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 3: he says. Yeah, so he'd be like way, it would 768 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 3: be like that. 769 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 2: Sometimes it do be like that sometimes, but yeah, I 770 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 2: feel like as a woman, sometimes y'all let a man 771 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:16,840 Speaker 2: be a man. 772 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:18,720 Speaker 1: I don't believe I'm very traditional when it comes to 773 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 1: shit like that. 774 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 2: A man is supposed to propose, a man is supposed to, 775 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 2: you know, want to take that next step. I just 776 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 2: like for the man to leave when it comes to 777 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,920 Speaker 2: stuff like that, like when we take that next step 778 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 2: from talking to being an actual relationship, Let the man 779 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 2: do that, like I just believe in Sometimes I like 780 00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 2: to take a back seat to my man, Like I 781 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,040 Speaker 2: like a man that takes the wheel and knows how 782 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 2: to drive, because when I start driving, I'm wreck that 783 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,000 Speaker 2: beach and we all gonna die beach. 784 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 3: I will vacuum South Beach before I propose to a Nika. 785 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 1: What about asking man to be in a relationship? Grace before. 786 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 5: Have anyone of y'all ever asked her, what are we questioning? 787 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:00,840 Speaker 1: No, I don't think I have. 788 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 2: No. I think I did in like high school. Yeah. 789 00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 3: Oh, because I feel like I'm really a person who 790 00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,520 Speaker 3: believes in just letting things flow and letting things turn 791 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,919 Speaker 3: into whatever it's gonna turn into. I feel like we're 792 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 3: grown as fucked women should not still be thinking that 793 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 3: me and don't know what the fuck they want. If 794 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,799 Speaker 3: a man want to be in a relationship with you, 795 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,319 Speaker 3: if he want to take it to the next level, 796 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 3: if he want to do anything with you, if you 797 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 3: want to go on a trip, if he want to 798 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 3: buy you something, if he want to do shit for you, 799 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 3: he's going to do it. You're never gonna have to 800 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 3: ask what are we And if you had to keep you, 801 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 3: he gonna make you his beach, especially as you get older. 802 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,920 Speaker 2: I feel like in my thirties now, it's like I 803 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 2: don't I don't question anything. You know what I'm saying, 804 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,359 Speaker 2: Like I already know. If a man doesn't want a man, 805 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,239 Speaker 2: especially dealing with me, he already know like the type 806 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 2: of person I am. So if he wants me to 807 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 2: stop all this shit, he's going to make sure he 808 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 2: lets me know. I don't feel comfortable with what you're 809 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,520 Speaker 2: doing this, I make sure like I let the men 810 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,439 Speaker 2: that i'm dating know, like be you can be vocal 811 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:01,960 Speaker 2: with me and let me know what you expect from 812 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 2: me or what you want from me, right, Because if 813 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 2: you don't bad, I'm. 814 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,239 Speaker 1: Gonna be out your buck. Why with it? Because I'm 815 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 1: gonna do what I want to do. And that's what 816 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 1: I was about to say. 817 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 3: I won't never ask a man what are we But 818 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 3: then it's like, Okay, after we've been dating for a 819 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,480 Speaker 3: certain period of time, you know what I mean. If 820 00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,440 Speaker 3: I feel like, okay, these ship is not going nowhere 821 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 3: and this is what I want, I'm gonna let you 822 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 3: know what I. 823 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 1: Want, right, you know what I mean? And then you 824 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 1: can move how you want to move. 825 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 3: And if you're not gonna move in the direction that 826 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 3: I just told you I want to move, well, then 827 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 3: I'm not about to keep fucking with. 828 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,919 Speaker 1: You, right, that's rue. You know what I mean. 829 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:31,719 Speaker 3: I'm gonna just let you know what it is. So 830 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 3: it's like, Okay, we've been dating for a year, I'm 831 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 3: ready to be in a relationship, but I'm looking to 832 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:38,959 Speaker 3: be in a relationship. And then if he say, Okay, 833 00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 3: that's not what I'm looking for, cool, chuck up the deuce, 834 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 3: you know, but I'm not about to ask you what 835 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:43,799 Speaker 3: are we? 836 00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:47,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a head ask question. 837 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 1: That's something Joan. 838 00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:00,359 Speaker 2: That's definitely something Joan would say. 839 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is definitely something Joan was crazy. 840 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:08,239 Speaker 3: It's cringey to watch her something. 841 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 1: It's very fucking cringey to watch her sometimes. I'm sorry, 842 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 843 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 2: We forgot Cash is a baby. Wasn't even old enough 844 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:21,720 Speaker 2: to watch a girl for she was like two. Okay, 845 00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 2: So I want to move into this next topic. First 846 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,719 Speaker 2: of all, let me say I don't want any men 847 00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:29,360 Speaker 2: to get offended out there. They are though they about 848 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:32,359 Speaker 2: to go in on us in the comments right, Yes, 849 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 2: before I start this topic, Yes, I know my hair 850 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,920 Speaker 2: is fake, Yes they're no, my nails are fake. Yes, 851 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 2: I know my lashes are fake. Saying not what this 852 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 2: is about. This is not about us right now, but what. 853 00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,680 Speaker 1: Edges underneath the is real, very real. Okay. 854 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,840 Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about this just because I 855 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,840 Speaker 2: feel like, you know, like I said, we wear fake lashes, 856 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 2: we wear fake nails, fake hair, fake titties. 857 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,759 Speaker 1: Fake ascid sometimes, you know. So I wanted to know 858 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: how you feel about how do you say it? What's 859 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 1: the pro beijing? 860 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:09,400 Speaker 2: Beijing men using Beijing in their hair? How do you 861 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 2: feel about it? 862 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 1: Like you know, when you. 863 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 2: See that crispy crispy lineup and then you get a 864 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:15,880 Speaker 2: little close and it's kind of glistening. 865 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,840 Speaker 1: And somebody they used Beijing. She used a lot of it. 866 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: He used to relax. One time, y'all. Let me tell 867 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:24,360 Speaker 1: you about this. 868 00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 2: He fucking permed his hair and it was like straight, 869 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 2: and we were like, what the fuck. 870 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,520 Speaker 1: He was like, oh man, it was something my mama shampoo. 871 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 2: And that was the time I had short hair, so 872 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,600 Speaker 2: I used to put the little not extrare. I used 873 00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,279 Speaker 2: to put a texturizer on my hair, just so, you know, 874 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 2: loosen up my curls. 875 00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,719 Speaker 1: I was like, nigga, how our hair looked the same? No, 876 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,400 Speaker 1: it didn't look the same. His ship was straighted. Your 877 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 1: ship was curly. And he really tried to tell us 878 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,960 Speaker 1: that it was some type of shampoo that he used it. 879 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 1: If we're not, we haven't been women our whole lives 880 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:59,720 Speaker 1: and haven't been using shampool our whole life, Like Nigga, 881 00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:01,960 Speaker 1: no old shampoo that you're gonna use. It's make your hair. 882 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 1: It's gonna make your hair go from curly like two straight. 883 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 1: It was straight, y'all. It was so embarrassing. 884 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,799 Speaker 2: But anyway, but anyway, back to the basis, the same 885 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 2: nigga that used to wear a Beijing. 886 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 1: How do you feel about Beijing? Though? I don't want 887 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 1: to date no nigga that wear a Beijing? Oh you 888 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:17,240 Speaker 1: real man. 889 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,720 Speaker 3: Because first of all, I feel like that ship is messy. 890 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 3: It's gonna get on your sheets. 891 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 1: Okay, I gotta I know, I know. 892 00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:25,960 Speaker 3: So I said that it's gonna get on your sheets, 893 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:27,239 Speaker 3: it's gonna get on your pillows. 894 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 1: Like, it's just messy. 895 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 3: You you touched that nigga hair, it's gonna be on 896 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 3: your hand. 897 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:37,239 Speaker 1: Oh god, you face got astache like a mulan. Yeah. 898 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 1: What she was talking about, this bitch childish y'all, exactly 899 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:45,799 Speaker 1: what I was thinking about. What I said. 900 00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 5: I mean, I can't relate to this because. 901 00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,879 Speaker 1: You know, you have a full, beautiful head of hair. Okay, 902 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,960 Speaker 1: I will say this. I get it. 903 00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:57,719 Speaker 2: I get it because you know what, I'm not gonna 904 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 2: lie like throw back bait. He got a full head 905 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 2: of hair right, a full beard, and it's all his 906 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 2: like very very black hair. He has very long lashes. 907 00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 2: He's just a hairy person. 908 00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:11,279 Speaker 1: Marine has. Marienne has long lashes. Marine has a head 909 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 1: full of hair. 910 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:15,759 Speaker 2: That is very attractive in men, especially men like thirty 911 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:17,920 Speaker 2: and older, because a lot of times, once niggas hit 912 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 2: like twenty seven to twenty eight, that hairline starts disappearing 913 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 2: and faded. So when older men, that's that's something that's 914 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,240 Speaker 2: super super attractive. I'm not gonna lie. I don't really 915 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,480 Speaker 2: care for bald heads like that. I'll date a guy 916 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,440 Speaker 2: with a ball head, but I don't really care for 917 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,359 Speaker 2: it like that Uncle t. But it's like for men 918 00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,799 Speaker 2: that use Beijing. I feel like that's what women don't 919 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,359 Speaker 2: want to admit it, but we like that shit. 920 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 1: We love a full head of hair, we do. But 921 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,920 Speaker 1: I don't want that shit coming off on my head. 922 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,440 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. But I get it though. I mean, imagine, 923 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,239 Speaker 2: if you was bald headed, you gonna put on. 924 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,040 Speaker 5: A wig, is gonna hit in barrolls. 925 00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 1: Now ball by toy, she shaves her head, you know 926 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 1: what I mean? She's not bald Yeah, yeah, that is. 927 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,719 Speaker 3: I feel like it's a difference. I feel like that 928 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 3: situation traumatized me. Well why can't But I'm a yeah, no, 929 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 3: dude that was wearing Beijing that ship traumatized me at 930 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 3: Houston Baby, I asked him could. 931 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,520 Speaker 1: He take his hat off in the club because I 932 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,520 Speaker 1: need to see if he had hair? Did he have hair? 933 00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,280 Speaker 1: He did, but he said that would have been offensive 934 00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 1: if I. 935 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,840 Speaker 2: Needed to know, so I could cut my losses early. 936 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 2: So why is it that women, Why can't we like 937 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 2: wear hair if we don't have edges, we can make 938 00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 2: fake edges or why can't we do that stuff? 939 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 1: But me and can't? 940 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,920 Speaker 3: Man can do that stuff. You could use Rogain or 941 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,600 Speaker 3: you could I dould think works. 942 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:41,839 Speaker 1: I don't know. I haven't heard that name. 943 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,400 Speaker 3: Yes, I was gonna say, you could use Rogain. Now 944 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,960 Speaker 3: they have that surgery where you could get the hair. 945 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:52,200 Speaker 1: No, they could go to Bosley, not Bosle. 946 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 2: Okay, they got that surgery where you could get the 947 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,480 Speaker 2: hair taken from the back of your head and put 948 00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:58,839 Speaker 2: at the front of your head, so lower your hair. 949 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think they like take it and 950 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:01,920 Speaker 1: then they sew it. 951 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:06,440 Speaker 7: I think that's what they do. 952 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,759 Speaker 2: Cause Lebron James did he needed to get out that 953 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:19,920 Speaker 2: bubble and go back. It's going back, damn. Okay, let 954 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 2: me tell you all the story. When I went to 955 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,680 Speaker 2: Dubai last year. I was with my guy I was 956 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 2: dating at the time. Okay, so my hair was red 957 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 2: at the time, but I was super drunk, super turned 958 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 2: up the whole time, like kept fall asleep in my makeup. 959 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,239 Speaker 2: We were at a really fucking nice hotel, like in 960 00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 2: the penthouse top floor, so I'm falling asleep, and like 961 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,439 Speaker 2: every morning he was very nice. He would wake up 962 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 2: and go and do whatever he had to do because 963 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,319 Speaker 2: he would let me get up, take a shower, ship 964 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,320 Speaker 2: do my makeup. Like every morning he would leave and 965 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,279 Speaker 2: give me like an hour so I could do my thing. 966 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:55,720 Speaker 2: So every morning I would wake up, he would already 967 00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,800 Speaker 2: be gone, and I was just like, oh my god, 968 00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:02,000 Speaker 2: like I'm getting mascared getting all this ship on these pillows, 969 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,839 Speaker 2: like and it was every morning, every fucking morning. I 970 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 2: was like, what the fuck am I? Like, I need 971 00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 2: to wash my face. So one of the last nights 972 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,800 Speaker 2: I was there, he we woke up and he was 973 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,520 Speaker 2: still in the bed. Bit y'all turned over that nigga 974 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 2: whole hairline was gone. I think he was leading in 975 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 2: the morning and going getting it like he must have 976 00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:24,560 Speaker 2: knew somebody out there that was doing it. It was like, 977 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:27,520 Speaker 2: not there. Why he ain't sally put a new rag on, 978 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,440 Speaker 2: I don't know. But that ship was all over the pillows, 979 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,360 Speaker 2: all over the bed. I was like, oh my god, 980 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 2: it's you. It's fucking you, me, it's you. I was 981 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:42,640 Speaker 2: so embarrassed. It was everywhere. It was like smeared on 982 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:43,640 Speaker 2: his forehead. 983 00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:49,000 Speaker 1: No to him again. I never talked to him. 984 00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:50,000 Speaker 5: Isn't that serious? 985 00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 1: It was just embarrassing. 986 00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:53,520 Speaker 5: I was just like y'all in his house. 987 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,560 Speaker 2: It was just I was rather you go ball. That's 988 00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,640 Speaker 2: what I was about to say, Just go ball. There's 989 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,719 Speaker 2: only one mass care that needs to be smeared here. 990 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:08,960 Speaker 2: And I don't want a nigga using my eyeliner to 991 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:09,920 Speaker 2: do his edge up. 992 00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:11,640 Speaker 1: I don't have no issue. 993 00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,239 Speaker 2: I mean, I prefer not today bald men, because like 994 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,600 Speaker 2: I said, they'd be giving me very much uncle, but 995 00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 2: I would prefer for you to be bald. 996 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,320 Speaker 1: You use that ship is terrible. 997 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,919 Speaker 2: I never really knew how it worked and all that stuff, 998 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,160 Speaker 2: but I didn't know it could rub off on stuff. 999 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:33,960 Speaker 1: What about lace for ends? Would you date? Yeah, they 1000 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 1: do him to wear. It's like, you can't mean that's 1001 00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 1: so good. But I don't know how I would feel 1002 00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 1: if my nigga was, like I seen his lace coming up. 1003 00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:44,359 Speaker 1: I don't y'all. 1004 00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like he could work because y'all 1005 00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:49,359 Speaker 3: use the same products he could use. 1006 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 2: Your guy to be glued. Wow, I don't know, it's 1007 00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:56,399 Speaker 2: just different. No, No, it's just some things that men 1008 00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,279 Speaker 2: can do that women can't. Some things that women can do. 1009 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,920 Speaker 2: That why I just thought about it, like if I 1010 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,080 Speaker 2: was sitting with Throwback Bait because I love his hair, 1011 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:06,279 Speaker 2: like I literally that's one of my favorite things about him. 1012 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:07,920 Speaker 1: And if I was laying there and I seen that 1013 00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:11,320 Speaker 1: shit lifting up, do you know how betrayed I would feel. 1014 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,719 Speaker 1: I would feel betrayed by him. 1015 00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:16,719 Speaker 2: No, because that's like when I look at a man, 1016 00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,840 Speaker 2: I look at his features, especially if I'm dating you. 1017 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:20,799 Speaker 2: Not saying that I look at Throwback Bait like this, 1018 00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 2: but like, if I look at his features, I'm like, oh, 1019 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,080 Speaker 2: if we have a child, my child is gonna have 1020 00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:28,359 Speaker 2: these features, you know what I'm saying. And one thing 1021 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:33,319 Speaker 2: about me, I have a full hairline. I have beautiful hair. Okay, 1022 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:36,919 Speaker 2: I have beautiful skin. Okay, I have the only thing 1023 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,279 Speaker 2: that y'all our kids probably gonna have that I lied 1024 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 2: on it. 1025 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 1: She ain't gonna have no ass all right. I see 1026 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:48,000 Speaker 1: y'all got all three. But it's like I cannot. I 1027 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,680 Speaker 1: don't know. I just feel like, if you're a life. 1028 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:51,839 Speaker 5: Like, none of that is somewhat hypocritical. 1029 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:55,320 Speaker 1: I don't, well, no, because I have hair. That's what 1030 00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:56,120 Speaker 1: I was about to say. 1031 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 7: I have a beautiful hair. 1032 00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:00,000 Speaker 5: Y'all got something. 1033 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:03,359 Speaker 2: I'm not covering up something, yes, And that's another thing, dude, 1034 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:04,920 Speaker 2: Like I'll be on this show. 1035 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:07,120 Speaker 1: I've been on the show with my regular hair. No 1036 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:08,759 Speaker 1: make you know, like. 1037 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 3: They see, they've seen same. They've seen both of us 1038 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,000 Speaker 3: without when men without makeup. 1039 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:15,760 Speaker 2: When men are doing the lace Front and the Beijing, 1040 00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 2: they're covering up something. 1041 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:21,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. So in my defense, now some women, it's hereditary. 1042 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,200 Speaker 1: I don't want my son being nineteen going bald the 1043 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 1: fuck because that shit don't run in my family, but 1044 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,680 Speaker 1: clearly you're running yours. Yeah, and it's hereditary. Bald didn't 1045 00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:31,280 Speaker 1: gets hereditary. 1046 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 2: That's definitely something I think about, Like, I don't want 1047 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,880 Speaker 2: to have a kid with a man that has I 1048 00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 2: know it sounds. 1049 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 1: So easy, it sounds fucked up, but I gotta think 1050 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 1: about my son though, and possibly my daughter. 1051 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:50,240 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because I'll be seeing some girls up like damn, 1052 00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:58,640 Speaker 2: I know your daddy. 1053 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:04,360 Speaker 1: Attack us in a car. It's just Joe. 1054 00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:07,520 Speaker 3: God. 1055 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:09,799 Speaker 2: Okay, So let us know how y'all feel about men 1056 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:11,600 Speaker 2: who use Beijing products or. 1057 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:18,400 Speaker 1: I'm not with it? What about the don't play with 1058 00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:19,839 Speaker 1: me because I slept the funk out of you. 1059 00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:25,080 Speaker 2: Don't get no tattoo on your head because that ship 1060 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 2: does not look real, y'all look ridiculous. 1061 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:33,000 Speaker 1: Okay, niggas Marien, have you ever seen the little tattoos 1062 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 1: that they get that look like hairs. 1063 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:38,160 Speaker 2: Like little it looks like little dots like So basically, 1064 00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 2: I guess the only way that you would be able 1065 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 2: to wear your hair if you get that is like 1066 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:47,240 Speaker 2: damn near ball like you loo, but with dots on you. 1067 00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:48,320 Speaker 1: That ship ugly. 1068 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,719 Speaker 2: Just go ball and then you gotta wait till it 1069 00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,279 Speaker 2: like wear off or something. What you mean, like what 1070 00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,000 Speaker 2: if you don't want it anymore? You just like I 1071 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:55,680 Speaker 2: want to go ball. 1072 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,120 Speaker 1: I don't think it wears off. I think it's a tattoo. 1073 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,000 Speaker 1: That ship is ugly as fun. 1074 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:04,239 Speaker 3: And you know how like with little beanie tattoos, like overtime, 1075 00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:09,080 Speaker 3: as they get old, you know, they start spreading. 1076 00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:17,840 Speaker 1: I wonder I hated here. Oh man, this is a ghetto. 1077 00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,040 Speaker 1: It's ghetto. 1078 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:26,040 Speaker 2: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the by baby. 1079 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:30,240 Speaker 2: Oh baby, you heard the remix. 1080 00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 1: Now we got a remix. Now you didn't hear me. 1081 00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:36,520 Speaker 1: I dropped the Yeah, I dropped on the I dropped 1082 00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:40,000 Speaker 1: on your head, man. Okay. 1083 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:44,120 Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about sexual when I get 1084 00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:47,200 Speaker 2: that feeling, I won't. 1085 00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:52,319 Speaker 1: I guess you could call it a sexual healer. So, 1086 00:47:52,760 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: oh bro, you're just waiting. You were fucking waiting to 1087 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 1: do that. 1088 00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:06,960 Speaker 3: Anyways, I want to talk about sexual enhancement pills for 1089 00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,960 Speaker 3: both men and women. I want to talk about you know, 1090 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,840 Speaker 3: how do y'all feel about people our age, because I. 1091 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 1: Feel like it's become a trend. 1092 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:18,880 Speaker 3: I see, you know, with like younger people taking sexual enhancers. 1093 00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, at one point it was 1094 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:24,000 Speaker 3: something that was mostly kind of targeted towards older people, 1095 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 3: and now a lot of young people are attacking sexual 1096 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,880 Speaker 3: enhancement pills. You know, we have a really good friend. 1097 00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:33,880 Speaker 3: They well cocktails. They do a promotion for a sexual 1098 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,120 Speaker 3: enhancement pill and a lot of people take it and 1099 00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:37,759 Speaker 3: a lot of people say it work. We've tried it 1100 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:41,200 Speaker 3: before too. But you know, I think that it's something 1101 00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:43,680 Speaker 3: that I don't have an issue with. Try and get, 1102 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,359 Speaker 3: but I don't want. 1103 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,120 Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like I'm too young to take 1104 00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,200 Speaker 1: something every day or every time I have SI. So 1105 00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:51,200 Speaker 1: do you feel about it? 1106 00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,759 Speaker 2: I feel like this if you're trying to have like 1107 00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,680 Speaker 2: a turnt up night with your boo. Like I told 1108 00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 2: you how the other night, I brought the butt plug. 1109 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,520 Speaker 2: We have a toy, wore my lingerie. I took a 1110 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,719 Speaker 2: little pill that night. Okay, the pussy can't ever be 1111 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 2: too wet right now. As far as taking something every day, 1112 00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:09,239 Speaker 2: that might be a little much. 1113 00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,680 Speaker 1: But some of these pills are all natural. 1114 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,520 Speaker 2: They are so it's like they're organic, so it's not 1115 00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:18,240 Speaker 2: like you're taking anything that's like changing your body or anything. 1116 00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,960 Speaker 2: So if something is like an organic I would actually 1117 00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:22,719 Speaker 2: look up the products and see what are the other 1118 00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,359 Speaker 2: benefits besides making my pussy weed. You know what I'm saying, right, 1119 00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:27,919 Speaker 2: Because honestly, it's like if you're taking something that's all 1120 00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,320 Speaker 2: natural products. It's not gonna hurt you, you know what 1121 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 2: I'm saying. So I don't feel like it's a big 1122 00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,120 Speaker 2: deal if you do take them every day, you know 1123 00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,480 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. But do I take them every day? 1124 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:39,840 Speaker 2: I don't like taking pills anyway. Yeah, so I don't. 1125 00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,839 Speaker 2: But I feel like, if you're about to fuck and 1126 00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,239 Speaker 2: you want to turn that shit up, it's fun take 1127 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:44,879 Speaker 2: the fucking pill. 1128 00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 1: Who cares? 1129 00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just wanted to talk about it because I 1130 00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:52,480 Speaker 3: actually had saw I actually saw a tweet where somebody 1131 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,680 Speaker 3: had said something about it, like they were like, y'all 1132 00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,759 Speaker 3: too young to be taking sexual enhancment pills. Y'all in 1133 00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:00,600 Speaker 3: y'all twenties taking all of these pills? You even need 1134 00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,160 Speaker 3: that for you pussy don't get wet or something like that. 1135 00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,480 Speaker 3: So that's why I kind of had wanted to talk 1136 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,360 Speaker 3: about it, you know. So, how do you feel marine? 1137 00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 5: I mean, I do kind of. 1138 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:11,360 Speaker 4: I wouldn't just go in on Twitter, but it is 1139 00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,480 Speaker 4: kind of weird heing a twenty year old taking pills 1140 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:14,040 Speaker 4: for the pussy. 1141 00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:14,799 Speaker 5: That shit is kind of. 1142 00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:18,799 Speaker 2: Weird, But you know what, sometimes it makes there's other 1143 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 2: effects though it's not just that it's gonna make you wetter. 1144 00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:23,480 Speaker 1: Sometimes they make you more sensitive. 1145 00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:25,719 Speaker 2: So you a lot of girls we don't like I 1146 00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:29,879 Speaker 2: say this, what, seventy percent of women aren't having orgasms. 1147 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,320 Speaker 2: So a lot of times we're not taking the pill 1148 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 2: to impress a nigga or to get extra wet. 1149 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 1: We taking it for us so we can actually bust 1150 00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:38,200 Speaker 1: the damn nut. Yeah. 1151 00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,719 Speaker 2: So I think a lot of people aren't even realizing that, 1152 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 2: like women, we need help in the bedroom because men 1153 00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,560 Speaker 2: are just not making us orgasm. So yeah, when I 1154 00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 2: take some pills, sometimes my little kittie do get a 1155 00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,319 Speaker 2: little more sensitive, and I do have more orgasms. So yeah, 1156 00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:55,520 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm at the point to where I know 1157 00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:57,480 Speaker 2: how to have an orgasm every time I have sex, 1158 00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,719 Speaker 2: no matter what. But it took me so long to 1159 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,080 Speaker 2: get there, you know what I'm saying. So if a 1160 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:04,960 Speaker 2: twenty one year old wants to take a little pill 1161 00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,600 Speaker 2: because it makes her pussy sensitive and it makes her 1162 00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:08,879 Speaker 2: have an orgasm, girl, take yo goddamn pill. 1163 00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 3: And like I said, I mean, and I will say, 1164 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:12,880 Speaker 3: these does she orgasms? 1165 00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:18,759 Speaker 2: Peels really do work? They really do work. Like if 1166 00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 2: y'all pussy already get wet like a pop a few 1167 00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:25,000 Speaker 2: of them. She orgasms before you fuck your niggas, He's 1168 00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:25,560 Speaker 2: gonna be like. 1169 00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,440 Speaker 1: Whoa, I'm telling you. 1170 00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:29,799 Speaker 5: I mean, hey, man, do it. 1171 00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,319 Speaker 4: Do whatever you need to do to be satisfied in 1172 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,839 Speaker 4: the bedroom. But you know, most people when they think 1173 00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,200 Speaker 4: of sexual enhancement pills, they think of like dick pills. 1174 00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like viagra, bluetoo, I'm dead. But you know what, 1175 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 2: even for men, sometimes niggas busts a nut. If your 1176 00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 2: girl got good pussy and she makes you not quick 1177 00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:49,400 Speaker 2: take the damn pill. 1178 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:50,640 Speaker 1: Who cares. 1179 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:52,799 Speaker 2: I feel like, if you want to take a little now, 1180 00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,080 Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not saying take this shit every day. 1181 00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:58,359 Speaker 2: But sometimes girls want to have sex longer than four minutes. 1182 00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,960 Speaker 1: That's true. Sometimes men can't last that long. 1183 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's like sometimes nigga, you do need a 1184 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:05,720 Speaker 2: little help in the bedroom. 1185 00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:07,359 Speaker 3: But I think that's the issue, you know what I mean, 1186 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:09,680 Speaker 3: A lot of men don't really care. They'd be like, oh, 1187 00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:10,680 Speaker 3: I got myneg. 1188 00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but see that. I don't deal with that. I 1189 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:13,759 Speaker 2: deal with niggas that care. 1190 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:15,640 Speaker 1: Now. I don't know if I've had a nigga that 1191 00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:18,400 Speaker 1: took a sex pill before. I've never dated. If they do, 1192 00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:19,440 Speaker 1: I didn't know about it. 1193 00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,239 Speaker 2: But that's why we said in the other episode, have 1194 00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:25,240 Speaker 2: somebody that wants to have sex with you, not somebody 1195 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,560 Speaker 2: that just wants to fuck you. Like sex is an 1196 00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,080 Speaker 2: activity we are doing together, right, If I don't nothing 1197 00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:32,839 Speaker 2: or you don't nothing, I feel like, what was the point? 1198 00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,919 Speaker 1: We were just hunching? Yeah, Like you know what I'm saying. 1199 00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,240 Speaker 1: We were just humping each other for no reason. 1200 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,000 Speaker 2: Like there has to be an end go and the 1201 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:41,799 Speaker 2: end goal is for both of us to have in 1202 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,680 Speaker 2: a orgasm. So I feel like, you know, if you 1203 00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 2: want to last longer for your woman, it's okay to 1204 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,560 Speaker 2: take a pill. It's not a big deal. I feel 1205 00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,480 Speaker 2: like people always want to put an age on something. 1206 00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:55,760 Speaker 2: There's some fifty year old women who got that wop 1207 00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,879 Speaker 2: and don't need no fucking people. But just because that 1208 00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,359 Speaker 2: woman doesn't need it doesn't mean a twenty year old woman. 1209 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:03,880 Speaker 2: And I was about to say that too, you know 1210 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,320 Speaker 2: what I mean, Like, let's be real here, draw pussy 1211 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,600 Speaker 2: is a thing for some people. 1212 00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:10,840 Speaker 1: It is, it's a thing for every person. 1213 00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,640 Speaker 2: Not There's been sometimes where I wanted to have sex, 1214 00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 2: but I just couldn't get my pussy with It happens. 1215 00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:16,640 Speaker 1: It's normal. 1216 00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 2: Not everybody is walking around with that super soaker and 1217 00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:21,000 Speaker 2: has amazing fucking pussy. 1218 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,440 Speaker 1: Like, let's be real and honest here. You know what 1219 00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like things happen. Sometimes it just be going on. 1220 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I don't know. 1221 00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,040 Speaker 2: Next time I have sex, I hope the thing get 1222 00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:33,160 Speaker 2: wet because I'll be rubbing my coochie into oblivion. Sometimes 1223 00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,040 Speaker 2: when I masturbate too much and it's time to have 1224 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,120 Speaker 2: sex and my COUCHI don't be getting with. But I 1225 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:39,120 Speaker 2: like to masturbate during my period because it makes my 1226 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:40,080 Speaker 2: period in quicker. 1227 00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:44,399 Speaker 1: Does he Oh? I didn't know it does, starts trying 1228 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:51,120 Speaker 1: on for seven, but it does. I did. 1229 00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:52,960 Speaker 2: I did do some research because they said it makes 1230 00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,520 Speaker 2: it makes your muscles contract, so it kind of gets 1231 00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:57,319 Speaker 2: that shit out of there. 1232 00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,279 Speaker 3: But like you said, though, you know, I feel like 1233 00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:06,560 Speaker 3: some people need sexual enhancement pills more than others. And 1234 00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:09,040 Speaker 3: if you need them, it's nothing wrong with that, and 1235 00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 3: it's not like an age. 1236 00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:10,960 Speaker 1: It's not an age. 1237 00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,520 Speaker 3: But I will say I do feel like, but like, 1238 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:16,480 Speaker 3: if you don't need it, why take it every day. 1239 00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:18,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you don't need it, don't take it every day. 1240 00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:19,920 Speaker 2: But even if you don't need it, and you just 1241 00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:24,560 Speaker 2: want to spice things up and this pop off you. 1242 00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,360 Speaker 1: Who cares start up? Have fun? 1243 00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,520 Speaker 2: Jesus, live your life, y'all, just want to Everybody just 1244 00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,319 Speaker 2: wants to have people and great dick and you know what, 1245 00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:36,200 Speaker 2: everybody ain't God wipe. And you know what's crazy though, 1246 00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:38,600 Speaker 2: I noticed, Drea. The main people that are like saying, oh, 1247 00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:41,040 Speaker 2: y'all are only twenty y'all. And the people that don't 1248 00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:42,879 Speaker 2: want to try stuff in bed are the main ones 1249 00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:47,200 Speaker 2: that aren't giving people orgasms or are havesh or don't 1250 00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,600 Speaker 2: have trash sex. Don't be the main people that feel like, oh, 1251 00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:52,560 Speaker 2: they don't need nothing in the bedroom but just me 1252 00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 2: and you no me and you ain't another yes, like 1253 00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,720 Speaker 2: you gotta spice things up, y'all be so fucking boring. 1254 00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 1: Oh I can't have six with nobody like that. You 1255 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:03,760 Speaker 1: gotta be down for whatever. 1256 00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:10,080 Speaker 2: Okay, So the week bye bye? 1257 00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:12,520 Speaker 1: You want me to go first? Uh, yeah, you can 1258 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:12,879 Speaker 1: go first? 1259 00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:14,960 Speaker 2: What should I? I actually have a few this week, 1260 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,719 Speaker 2: so I've been catching up on Pea Valley. I'm still 1261 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:22,759 Speaker 2: gonna do. I'm still gonna do the review on the Patreon. 1262 00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:24,200 Speaker 2: I know I said I was gonna do it a 1263 00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,439 Speaker 2: while back, but I am. I'm just I've been really busy, 1264 00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:27,480 Speaker 2: but I'm catching. 1265 00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 1: Up on it. 1266 00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:30,040 Speaker 2: So I was watching it yesterday and there was this 1267 00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,279 Speaker 2: episode and y'all know, if y'all know me, like, I'm 1268 00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,640 Speaker 2: really obsessed with Jeremiah. So on this episode, the girl 1269 00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:37,960 Speaker 2: Autumn was given the dude Andrea a lap dance and 1270 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:41,040 Speaker 2: they were playing the song It's called Drip. It's amory 1271 00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,839 Speaker 2: feature in Jeremiah. I don't know how old this song 1272 00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:45,800 Speaker 2: is or when it came out, but that shit is fired. 1273 00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 2: It's definitely something you should suck some dick to ride 1274 00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 2: some dick too, and do all the things that you 1275 00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:51,960 Speaker 2: can do to a dick. 1276 00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:52,200 Speaker 1: Two. 1277 00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:56,640 Speaker 2: Okay, I remember that scene. Yes, it's called drip amory 1278 00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,080 Speaker 2: feature in Jeremiah. That's my first bop of the week. 1279 00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:01,960 Speaker 2: My second one is I don't know if have I 1280 00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:03,000 Speaker 2: made this my bop of the week. 1281 00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,680 Speaker 1: Snow Allegra. Have I talked about her before? I've talked 1282 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:10,399 Speaker 1: about Snow. Yes, I made that my bop of the week. 1283 00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,560 Speaker 1: Oh you already did? Okay, so dying for Your Love. 1284 00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:13,200 Speaker 1: That's a good one. 1285 00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:16,640 Speaker 2: But let me talk about this song because damn, I 1286 00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,239 Speaker 2: can't remember the name of the group he was in. 1287 00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:20,040 Speaker 2: I was gonna talk about the group that he was in, 1288 00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:22,640 Speaker 2: because y'all know, I really don't listen to pop music. 1289 00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:26,080 Speaker 1: I'm not a pop kind of girl. 1290 00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:31,399 Speaker 2: But I love Harry Styles One Direction, one direction, Yes, 1291 00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:35,560 Speaker 2: Harry Styles in one Direction, and he his album is 1292 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:36,640 Speaker 2: so fucking good. 1293 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,440 Speaker 1: Seriously, really, oh my god. So he has a song. 1294 00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,200 Speaker 2: It came out last year. It's called Watermelon Sugar, and 1295 00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,719 Speaker 2: I have literally been listening to this song on. 1296 00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 1: Repeat for like a week. Really, it's so fucking good. 1297 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,439 Speaker 2: It's like it reminds me of like a summer song, 1298 00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:53,959 Speaker 2: like you in the pool with your bag and y'all 1299 00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:57,640 Speaker 2: just drinking and splashing around and having a good time drink. 1300 00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:02,480 Speaker 2: I love the drinking splash. So yeah, that's my bop 1301 00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,640 Speaker 2: of the week too, Harry Styles Watermelon Sugar. 1302 00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:05,800 Speaker 1: It's a bob. I love it. 1303 00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:09,680 Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, Okay, So you know Lex had a 1304 00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:12,560 Speaker 3: Bryce until her about a few weeks ago. I wasn't 1305 00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:14,520 Speaker 3: really feeling that song. We he got a new song 1306 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,439 Speaker 3: Always Forever, and I really really like this song because 1307 00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:20,280 Speaker 3: it's what it's kind of like what I was saying 1308 00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:22,600 Speaker 3: on the last episode when Lex was talking about like 1309 00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:24,680 Speaker 3: that song being heard about the week, how I like when. 1310 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,840 Speaker 1: He sings more. Okay, So I really really liked this song. 1311 00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,840 Speaker 1: It's a good song. And then Ruby Ro y'all know 1312 00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:32,720 Speaker 1: I love y'all. 1313 00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:36,360 Speaker 3: I told y'all I love Ruby Rowl. So Ruby Rose 1314 00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 3: got a new song called Pogo with Camp. 1315 00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:40,280 Speaker 1: Oh you know I love some k Camp. 1316 00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, so she got a song called Pogo with Camp. 1317 00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,600 Speaker 3: And he's about two okay songs. 1318 00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:46,920 Speaker 1: What's yours? Marin? 1319 00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,320 Speaker 4: Oh, man my bop of the week? Man, shout out 1320 00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,080 Speaker 4: to Bowl of Christ, shout out to the east Side. 1321 00:57:51,120 --> 00:58:00,480 Speaker 4: That boy, young boy, you got a new track out 1322 00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,920 Speaker 4: called All White. I just fucked with Nudy ud I 1323 00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,160 Speaker 4: do like Young U. This is my favorite Atlanta rapper 1324 00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:05,440 Speaker 4: right now. 1325 00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:09,760 Speaker 2: I listened to what's it called. It's called all White, 1326 00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,120 Speaker 2: All White by Young Nudy. I'm definitely gonna listen to 1327 00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:12,520 Speaker 2: that when I. 1328 00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:15,720 Speaker 4: But I do want to throw this out there because 1329 00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,040 Speaker 4: I don't know if y'all saw this on Twitter, but 1330 00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:19,680 Speaker 4: there was like this big debate between Brent Fires and 1331 00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:20,600 Speaker 4: Bryce and Tilla. 1332 00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,320 Speaker 1: That was yeah, like y'all trying to I don't even 1333 00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:26,440 Speaker 1: that's like apples and oranges because Brent fires. I put 1334 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:28,640 Speaker 1: him in like the category of future, but he's seen. 1335 00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:33,760 Speaker 2: I don't even know that and like he talks by 1336 00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:36,200 Speaker 2: Taylor is like heart heartbroken all the time. 1337 00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:39,120 Speaker 5: I was just saying, it is like stop stop that 1338 00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:41,760 Speaker 5: lame ass. This artist is better than. 1339 00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: This, right. 1340 00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,000 Speaker 2: But they did the same thing with Magde Stallion and 1341 00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:47,160 Speaker 2: Mulatto knowing hard with comparing them. 1342 00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:48,919 Speaker 1: It's like they're both fucking great. 1343 00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:49,520 Speaker 5: They're great. 1344 00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:51,640 Speaker 1: They're great. And speaking of. 1345 00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:57,600 Speaker 3: Honorable mention, wife and Lucy came out with the remis, 1346 00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:04,480 Speaker 3: oh yeah fire and her versus fine, all her features. 1347 00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:06,120 Speaker 2: I don't know what she's doing right now and what 1348 00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,560 Speaker 2: her team is doing right now, but they're doing fucking amazing. 1349 00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:10,320 Speaker 1: She is everywhere round. 1350 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:15,880 Speaker 5: To the south Side. I'm so proud of you, so proud. 1351 00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:21,760 Speaker 2: Yes, this is a Mulatto stand podcast obviously, Okay, So 1352 00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:24,640 Speaker 2: as usual, we answer your questions on the show. If 1353 00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,600 Speaker 2: you want your question answer to make sure you email 1354 00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:29,400 Speaker 2: us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. We 1355 00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:31,400 Speaker 2: get a lot of questions. If you want to skip 1356 00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:33,440 Speaker 2: the line. A lot of y'all be like, oh my gosh, 1357 00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:35,600 Speaker 2: I want my question answer, but I don't feel like Wait, 1358 00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:37,360 Speaker 2: the only way you can skip the line is if 1359 00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:40,280 Speaker 2: you're the top tier on Patreon. That's the only people 1360 00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,320 Speaker 2: that can skip the line and get that question answered 1361 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:44,280 Speaker 2: on the show. If y'all didn't know, if you're on 1362 00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:46,000 Speaker 2: the top tier and Patreon, you. 1363 00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 1: Can get your question. What that is shady because I'm not. 1364 00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm not saying it like that. I'm just letting them. 1365 01:00:01,280 --> 01:00:02,280 Speaker 5: God damn dress. 1366 01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:06,760 Speaker 1: I'm kidding, God damn Crown. 1367 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:11,000 Speaker 2: Okay, So, yes, the memberies off, y'all are on the 1368 01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,440 Speaker 2: top tier of Patreon, you can skip the line and 1369 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,000 Speaker 2: get your advice answered on the show. If you haven't 1370 01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:20,280 Speaker 2: signed up for Patreon, we dropped bonus life things, we 1371 01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:23,280 Speaker 2: talk about our exes, We have our exes on the show, 1372 01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:25,120 Speaker 2: all that good stuff. So if you haven't subscribed to 1373 01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:28,000 Speaker 2: our Patreon, make sure you do that. So back to 1374 01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:32,120 Speaker 2: the questions and I'll go first. It says, Hey, Drea 1375 01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:35,120 Speaker 2: and lex I love y'all's podcast. I can't get enough 1376 01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:37,480 Speaker 2: of it. Okay, So I've been talking to this nigga 1377 01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,760 Speaker 2: who is from Miami since twenty sixteen. We met on 1378 01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:44,240 Speaker 2: an international dating site because I'm all the way from Wakanda, 1379 01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:47,280 Speaker 2: l o l I'm from South Africa. So we saw 1380 01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:49,520 Speaker 2: each other for the first time back in February. 1381 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:57,680 Speaker 5: Joke, sorry, So we saw each other for. 1382 01:00:57,720 --> 01:01:06,880 Speaker 2: The got it nobody see you oti, So we started 1383 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:10,560 Speaker 2: each other the first time back in February because I 1384 01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:13,720 Speaker 2: work in Florida. Now I'm telling him that I would 1385 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:16,480 Speaker 2: like to be exclusive since we've been talking for four years. 1386 01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 2: But he told me he's on the down low. So 1387 01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:22,080 Speaker 2: do I forget about the whole thing and see other 1388 01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,800 Speaker 2: people or should I be patient? PS It is still 1389 01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:26,800 Speaker 2: my first year in the USA, so maybe I could 1390 01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:28,560 Speaker 2: find someone who I have more in common with. 1391 01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,520 Speaker 1: But I really do care about him. Kind regards this 1392 01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:36,200 Speaker 1: way down low a boid. He's he's gay. 1393 01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:39,400 Speaker 2: So the guy he's been dating he wants to be exclusive. 1394 01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:43,120 Speaker 2: But the guy said, I'm down low like nobody knows little. 1395 01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:49,880 Speaker 1: And I like Little murder Man's too much. That's low 1396 01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:55,200 Speaker 1: about Little murder So I don't like that. I don't 1397 01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:56,960 Speaker 1: like it either. I don't like that for you, and 1398 01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:58,920 Speaker 1: I think you should forget it. I think you should too. 1399 01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:01,160 Speaker 2: I mean it's okay that you still have feelings for him, 1400 01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,040 Speaker 2: but you don't want to be patient and be waiting forever. 1401 01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,440 Speaker 2: At this point, you said it's been four years. I 1402 01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:07,680 Speaker 2: feel like it's twenty twenty times. That's a long time. 1403 01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:10,520 Speaker 2: It's twenty twenty. Who cares about people being gay? Like, 1404 01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,960 Speaker 2: I think it's a beautiful thing, Like when you love somebody, 1405 01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:15,320 Speaker 2: it doesn't have a gender on it. 1406 01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:17,320 Speaker 1: Like, no, it shouldn't be a big deal anymore. 1407 01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:19,640 Speaker 2: I think it's so weird that people still make announcements that, 1408 01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:21,840 Speaker 2: like if a celebrity comes out the closet, they're like, 1409 01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:24,080 Speaker 2: oh my god, such and such is gay. Why is 1410 01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:25,680 Speaker 2: somebody's sexuality news? 1411 01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:27,840 Speaker 1: But either way it goes. 1412 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,680 Speaker 2: I feel like you deserve to be loved out loud, 1413 01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:33,480 Speaker 2: and you shouldn't have to hide behind closed doors just 1414 01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:34,680 Speaker 2: because y'all are both two men. 1415 01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:39,160 Speaker 1: That's silly, and it's and push you in Miami. It's 1416 01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:40,000 Speaker 1: not a lot of good. 1417 01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:41,920 Speaker 2: It's a lot of good Dick in Miami. Boy, go 1418 01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,160 Speaker 2: live your life and have fun. He doesn't deserve you. 1419 01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:47,840 Speaker 2: But and I get it though, that's what I'm saying. 1420 01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:50,200 Speaker 2: But you can't rush somebody to come out to their family, 1421 01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:51,960 Speaker 2: you know, so you don't want to put that pressure 1422 01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:54,160 Speaker 2: on him. So I feel like this situation is not 1423 01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:57,520 Speaker 2: for you. You're open, you're living your life, so you 1424 01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:00,400 Speaker 2: deserve somebody who has that in common with you. I 1425 01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:04,840 Speaker 2: never promote people being on the down low and hiding somebody, 1426 01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:07,960 Speaker 2: even if you're in a straight relationship. If anybody has 1427 01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:10,280 Speaker 2: to hide y'all's relationship, don't fuck. 1428 01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:11,960 Speaker 1: With it, period. I totally agree. 1429 01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:13,320 Speaker 2: Like, if that's what you want, if you want to 1430 01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:14,960 Speaker 2: be in a relationship with somebody and you want to 1431 01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:16,800 Speaker 2: be out and open with them and he don't want that, 1432 01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:19,080 Speaker 2: you just need to let that situation go because it's 1433 01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:21,120 Speaker 2: too many people out there that will be with you 1434 01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:23,360 Speaker 2: openly and love you and public. 1435 01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:24,080 Speaker 1: Period. 1436 01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:24,360 Speaker 2: Poll. 1437 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:29,120 Speaker 3: Next question it says trying to make it. Hey, y'all, 1438 01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,640 Speaker 3: I hope you're doing well. My question to y'all is 1439 01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:33,800 Speaker 3: what suggestions would you give someone who is trying to 1440 01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:37,440 Speaker 3: start their own YouTube slash podcast. Me and my sister 1441 01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:40,000 Speaker 3: aren't a social but we have but we have really 1442 01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:42,919 Speaker 3: fun personalities. Any little suggestion helps. 1443 01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:45,720 Speaker 1: My thing. 1444 01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:49,760 Speaker 2: The main thing is, like, I know, it sounds so cliche, 1445 01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:51,920 Speaker 2: cause you know one thing I hate. I hate when 1446 01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:53,960 Speaker 2: I used to ask people for advice, but it sounded 1447 01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 2: really cliche. You just go to crime, But it's the truth. 1448 01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:00,800 Speaker 2: Just gotta work now being here, it's really the fucking truth. 1449 01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:02,880 Speaker 2: First of all, you have to have a plan. You 1450 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,760 Speaker 2: need to know how your show is gonna be set up, right. 1451 01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,120 Speaker 2: One thing that me and Dre we had no idea 1452 01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:10,160 Speaker 2: when we started doing this shit, so we would just 1453 01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:13,120 Speaker 2: sit down and fucking talk. Now we have segments so 1454 01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:15,040 Speaker 2: people know what to look forward to and they know 1455 01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:17,120 Speaker 2: what they like, Like, you need to come up with 1456 01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:18,520 Speaker 2: a whole like. 1457 01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:22,360 Speaker 1: What's it called outline? Outline? 1458 01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:24,160 Speaker 2: You have to come up with an outline for your show. 1459 01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:25,880 Speaker 2: You need to know what your show is going to 1460 01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:29,160 Speaker 2: be about, your target audience. But the main thing is, 1461 01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:32,280 Speaker 2: and we always say this, you have to be consistent. 1462 01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:35,080 Speaker 2: There was one point, like I told y'all, it was 1463 01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:37,400 Speaker 2: like maybe fifty people listening to me Andrea talk every 1464 01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:40,880 Speaker 2: week both but we still can't. 1465 01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:44,280 Speaker 1: We still was dropping shit every fucking week. We did 1466 01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:44,840 Speaker 1: not care. 1467 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,640 Speaker 2: But one thing is you said, y'all aren't social. You 1468 01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:50,000 Speaker 2: have to use social media. There's no way you can 1469 01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:52,480 Speaker 2: have a podcast, a YouTube if you're not using social 1470 01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:56,080 Speaker 2: media podcasting and YouTube is social media, so you have 1471 01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:59,160 Speaker 2: to make your presence on social media known. There's no way, 1472 01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:02,080 Speaker 2: like I said, unless you're already a celebrity. There's no 1473 01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:04,440 Speaker 2: way you can have a successful YouTube or a podcast 1474 01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:07,200 Speaker 2: without being on social media. So that's something. Those are 1475 01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:08,640 Speaker 2: the things that you need to work on. Those are 1476 01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:11,720 Speaker 2: like the baby steps, like and being consistent. Like I said, 1477 01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:13,320 Speaker 2: we've been doing this ship for what. 1478 01:05:13,520 --> 01:05:16,440 Speaker 1: Two years now? Next month? Yeah, next month, it'll be 1479 01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:18,240 Speaker 1: two years, and we're just now starting to making money. 1480 01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,520 Speaker 1: Like that's what I'm saying, Like people don't really be 1481 01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:25,040 Speaker 1: seeing they think. Yeah, people be thinking that you just 1482 01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:26,800 Speaker 1: do this ship and you just be making money, and 1483 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,040 Speaker 1: it's not like that at all. It's very. 1484 01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:30,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1485 01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,320 Speaker 4: Nah, it's true though. Can y'all like elaborate on maybe 1486 01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:38,160 Speaker 4: some of y'all struggles with that cuz you. 1487 01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:40,240 Speaker 5: Don't want to with you know, other than you know, 1488 01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:42,120 Speaker 5: having fifty listeners. 1489 01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:41,840 Speaker 3: Like. 1490 01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:46,240 Speaker 2: Just figuring out like we used to record in her 1491 01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:50,720 Speaker 2: living room. The sound used to be terrible, Like it 1492 01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:52,800 Speaker 2: was just a lot of figuring shit out. I didn't 1493 01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:54,320 Speaker 2: like I knew how to edit, because you know, that's 1494 01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,120 Speaker 2: what I went to college for. But it was like 1495 01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:57,920 Speaker 2: I had to refresh all that memory. So you need 1496 01:05:57,920 --> 01:05:59,480 Speaker 2: to figure out are you gonna pay somebody to do it? 1497 01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:01,520 Speaker 2: Is that in your budget? Are you gonna do it yourself? 1498 01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:04,120 Speaker 2: So it's like figuring out a schedule and. 1499 01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:07,080 Speaker 1: Just like figuring out when you want to drive. 1500 01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:11,120 Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, my main advice that I always give 1501 01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:14,880 Speaker 3: anybody actually tweeted about DC yesterday is just being consistent 1502 01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:19,320 Speaker 3: because jobs, all of these other things, as crazy as 1503 01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:22,000 Speaker 3: they sounds, I think to people, all of the other 1504 01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:24,760 Speaker 3: stuff sounds harder, but once you start really doing something, 1505 01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,640 Speaker 3: you realize being consistent is the hardest part. Like, like 1506 01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,040 Speaker 3: you could figure out how to work these computer programs 1507 01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:31,520 Speaker 3: and do all that type of stuff, But if you're 1508 01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:34,520 Speaker 3: not a consistent person and you don't have consistency, your 1509 01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:37,000 Speaker 3: show is never gonna go anywhere. I Like I said, 1510 01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:39,000 Speaker 3: I spoke on these yesterday on Twitter. I've seen so 1511 01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:42,360 Speaker 3: many people during the pandemic, you know, start podcasts and 1512 01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:46,200 Speaker 3: start blogs and do like maybe two episodes, three episodes, 1513 01:06:46,680 --> 01:06:49,000 Speaker 3: maybe three, four blog posts, and now they not doing 1514 01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:51,280 Speaker 3: the shit no more. How are you gonna have a 1515 01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,680 Speaker 3: successful blog or a successful podcast or a successful YouTube 1516 01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:58,000 Speaker 3: channel if you're not dropping content consistently. We live in 1517 01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:02,120 Speaker 3: a generation where it's like you gotta be like if 1518 01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:04,560 Speaker 3: people if you're not being seen, people gonna forget about you, 1519 01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:07,400 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So your podcast might be great, 1520 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:09,040 Speaker 3: the first two episodes might have been great, But if 1521 01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:10,800 Speaker 3: you're not dropping shit and you don't drop nothing for 1522 01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:13,800 Speaker 3: three weeks, they gonna forget about your ads, and they're 1523 01:07:13,800 --> 01:07:16,360 Speaker 3: gonna go listen to somebody else who's being consistent, you 1524 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:19,320 Speaker 3: know what I mean. So I just always say consistency 1525 01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:21,440 Speaker 3: is the main thing because you can learn everything else. 1526 01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:25,760 Speaker 2: I don't think people realize like it's a job. Y'all 1527 01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:28,840 Speaker 2: get episodes on y'all, y'all see us every Wednesday. For 1528 01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:31,480 Speaker 2: people who aren't Patreon members, y'all just see us on Wednesday. 1529 01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:35,680 Speaker 2: The YouTube drops on Friday. But we are doing something 1530 01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:39,040 Speaker 2: for poor minds every day. If you're a Patreon member, 1531 01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:41,400 Speaker 2: you're seeing us more than once a week, and like 1532 01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:44,440 Speaker 2: every day, like I'm responding to emails, sitting in this 1533 01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:46,760 Speaker 2: for the ads, I'm sitting in there, like I'm literally 1534 01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:48,000 Speaker 2: doing something for poor minds. 1535 01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:50,280 Speaker 3: We have every meetings, we be talking to people on 1536 01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:52,840 Speaker 3: the path. It's just a lot of stuff that kind 1537 01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:55,600 Speaker 3: of goes into it. You have to be you have 1538 01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:57,960 Speaker 3: to be consistent, and I really don't know what else 1539 01:07:57,960 --> 01:07:58,040 Speaker 3: to do. 1540 01:07:58,240 --> 01:07:59,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying a lot of people. 1541 01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:02,640 Speaker 2: Most people are you know, you're working, you know you 1542 01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:04,600 Speaker 2: have a job, so you just have to make time 1543 01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:07,160 Speaker 2: for Like I started being like, Okay, I'm gonna dedicate 1544 01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:09,240 Speaker 2: this time and this time to poor minds every day, 1545 01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:11,760 Speaker 2: and I really I still do that, you know what 1546 01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:14,400 Speaker 2: I'm saying. Like, I know I'll be working at work, 1547 01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:16,759 Speaker 2: I'll be at my job working on poor mind stuff. 1548 01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:18,160 Speaker 2: I'll be like, Okay, this is the time I know 1549 01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:20,080 Speaker 2: at work that I'm not that busy, So from like 1550 01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:21,760 Speaker 2: three to five, I'm gonna get all this shit done 1551 01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:22,320 Speaker 2: for poor minds. 1552 01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:24,559 Speaker 1: And that's what I do. And I want to say 1553 01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:24,960 Speaker 1: this too. 1554 01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:27,639 Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of the time too, people 1555 01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:31,400 Speaker 3: be wanting to start podcasts and stuff because they be like, oh, 1556 01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:34,160 Speaker 3: I'm funny, I have a good personality. And I think 1557 01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:36,720 Speaker 3: that people think that it's gonna be easier because it's 1558 01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:39,679 Speaker 3: not like a business where you're stealing a tangible product, 1559 01:08:40,040 --> 01:08:43,160 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, like clothing or cosmetics and stuff. 1560 01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:45,120 Speaker 3: So I think people be thinking that it's gonna be easier. 1561 01:08:45,479 --> 01:08:47,280 Speaker 3: But if you don't have I'm ana say this. I 1562 01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:48,880 Speaker 3: always say this on the show. If you don't have 1563 01:08:48,960 --> 01:08:51,920 Speaker 3: the mindset to be an entrepreneur, it's not gonna work 1564 01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:54,719 Speaker 3: as well because it's still a business, like you still 1565 01:08:54,800 --> 01:08:56,719 Speaker 3: being a boss, you still being an entrepreneur. 1566 01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:59,160 Speaker 1: So if you don't have that in you, you know, 1567 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,400 Speaker 1: and some people just don't. But not only that. 1568 01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:03,960 Speaker 2: When we first started recording, how many times while I 1569 01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:05,920 Speaker 2: stop the camera and I'd be like, this ain't it? 1570 01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:07,479 Speaker 1: And we would have far. 1571 01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:09,400 Speaker 3: Over And we used to do that as well, like 1572 01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:12,479 Speaker 3: we used to record whole episodes. Sometimes the Lax used 1573 01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,240 Speaker 3: to piece me off because it will be like forty 1574 01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:16,639 Speaker 3: five minutes in to record an episode, and she'd be like, nah, 1575 01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:18,720 Speaker 3: we gotta do these over because I just didn't like 1576 01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:19,200 Speaker 3: the vibe. 1577 01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:20,920 Speaker 1: I don't feel like he flowed right, And I'd be like, 1578 01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,280 Speaker 1: what the fuck? But I would do the she because 1579 01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:25,880 Speaker 1: it's just like I had a vision, and look at 1580 01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:29,000 Speaker 1: the vision. Look at that what I wanted. 1581 01:09:29,400 --> 01:09:31,960 Speaker 2: Everybody's like, what's the main thing that the poor girls 1582 01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:34,559 Speaker 2: and the poor boys say to us? They love our banter, but. 1583 01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:36,600 Speaker 3: This wasn't what we wanted. This was I mean, it 1584 01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:38,840 Speaker 3: wasn't always like these. I mean, we get along because 1585 01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:40,880 Speaker 3: we're genuinely for no. I was saying, like, when the 1586 01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:42,680 Speaker 3: camera is off, this is really how we are. But 1587 01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:44,080 Speaker 3: we just had to figure out how to do it 1588 01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:46,479 Speaker 3: in front of the camera and make it like where 1589 01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:48,840 Speaker 3: we wasn't putting all of our business out right, but 1590 01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:49,880 Speaker 3: it was still funny. 1591 01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:52,160 Speaker 1: But it was still like, good, sorry, you have to 1592 01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:54,120 Speaker 1: come up with that formula. And we came up with 1593 01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:56,360 Speaker 1: it and it worked, but it took time. It's a toy, 1594 01:09:56,600 --> 01:09:57,160 Speaker 1: so good luck. 1595 01:09:57,200 --> 01:09:57,400 Speaker 7: Girl. 1596 01:09:57,520 --> 01:09:59,920 Speaker 2: Let me know, y'all definitely, I'm always here to help. 1597 01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:02,120 Speaker 2: You can send us a d M anytime you got 1598 01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:03,000 Speaker 2: any questions, but. 1599 01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:06,880 Speaker 1: Just say to see sninker. Don't starting quick? Okay, go ahead, 1600 01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:10,719 Speaker 1: go ahead? Are you already ready? Okay? One it says, 1601 01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:13,000 Speaker 1: please don't use my real name? What up? Though? 1602 01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:15,680 Speaker 2: I love the show first and foremost, and I know 1603 01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:19,000 Speaker 2: that folks don't like toys, but I cannot relate. When 1604 01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:21,880 Speaker 2: I found out that all women don't orgasm be a penetration, 1605 01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:27,120 Speaker 2: I knew I had to do more. Conalingus was the 1606 01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:29,639 Speaker 2: immediate go to, of course, but them toys. 1607 01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:36,200 Speaker 1: You don't know. It's head for women, and that's what 1608 01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:39,720 Speaker 1: that's the real When women get head, it's called that's 1609 01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:47,720 Speaker 1: the real textbook definition of it. It's called a man head. 1610 01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:54,839 Speaker 1: I forgot give me that. That's actually is the textbook 1611 01:10:54,880 --> 01:11:01,280 Speaker 1: time for I want, Yes, conn of lingis that's what 1612 01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:03,560 Speaker 1: he is. I believe y'all. Can you give me some 1613 01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:06,559 Speaker 1: of that coin of lingus? Okay, I shouldn't even sound sexy, 1614 01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:12,240 Speaker 1: say you know, dre sex to say its see that's 1615 01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:18,200 Speaker 1: not like give al right, all right. 1616 01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:22,439 Speaker 2: Vibe writers are the ship I use them during for 1617 01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:25,840 Speaker 2: a play deep kissing, choking vibes equals wop. 1618 01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:28,879 Speaker 1: I combine a small one while performing conn of lingus 1619 01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:38,920 Speaker 1: because I know I like it. He called him lame. 1620 01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:44,120 Speaker 1: I I mean, I never like. 1621 01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:46,360 Speaker 2: I think he's trying to not to be offensive and 1622 01:11:46,520 --> 01:11:48,680 Speaker 2: he's trying to be use the proper terms, and I 1623 01:11:48,960 --> 01:11:51,200 Speaker 2: like it. I like it. 1624 01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:55,160 Speaker 1: I combine a small one while performing con lingus. 1625 01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:58,160 Speaker 2: Because I know the clattorus is not just a button 1626 01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:02,200 Speaker 2: under the hood during sex either. With this with this partner, 1627 01:12:02,320 --> 01:12:05,360 Speaker 2: vibe I have that stimulates the glattorius and the g spot, 1628 01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:09,040 Speaker 2: I can still penetrate or one that I have her 1629 01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:12,840 Speaker 2: hold anal, plugs, cock rings, with vibes, all of that. 1630 01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:15,840 Speaker 1: I have this Wan vibe that has bluetooth and I 1631 01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:17,400 Speaker 1: can use it long distance. 1632 01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:19,920 Speaker 7: Right now. 1633 01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:23,280 Speaker 2: These it has a stroker attachment that I can use 1634 01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:25,760 Speaker 2: and they can control. I also have one that my 1635 01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:28,600 Speaker 2: partner can wear while we're out. I'm always open to 1636 01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:31,800 Speaker 2: talking about toys with fellas who aren't arrogant and homophobic. 1637 01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:33,160 Speaker 1: I'm not on period. 1638 01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:36,920 Speaker 2: I always say, keep that sex nasty and fuck with 1639 01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:38,559 Speaker 2: the heteronormative bullshit. 1640 01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:41,519 Speaker 1: Oh that wasn't a question. He was just telling us 1641 01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:45,519 Speaker 1: he likes he a doctor. Okay, shout out to you. 1642 01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:47,840 Speaker 1: You know what, I'm glad. I'm actually glad we read 1643 01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:49,880 Speaker 1: that because I learned the word. 1644 01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:54,520 Speaker 5: It's just like this just so extra. 1645 01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:58,760 Speaker 2: Extremely sexual. But I love when black men show that 1646 01:12:58,960 --> 01:13:00,759 Speaker 2: side because it's not the Mary. 1647 01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:03,680 Speaker 1: I love it. I cannot wait to say, give me 1648 01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:04,599 Speaker 1: that condo lingus. 1649 01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:09,519 Speaker 4: This cond of league is like if a nigga really 1650 01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:10,920 Speaker 4: came up to you said let me get that kind 1651 01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:11,920 Speaker 4: of that's gonna turn you. 1652 01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:14,000 Speaker 1: Now he's supposed to say, let me get that fillation up. 1653 01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:15,920 Speaker 2: He's supposed to Can I give you that coming I 1654 01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:20,040 Speaker 2: gave you. The man said that I would be impressed. 1655 01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:20,880 Speaker 5: That sounds like food. 1656 01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:22,960 Speaker 1: I would be like, he knows his ship. Hell yeah, 1657 01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:27,519 Speaker 1: come give me that. Connor Lingers, boy, you lie like 1658 01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:32,680 Speaker 1: you lie, like lie like fu if you know. I 1659 01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:35,679 Speaker 1: feel like, if you know the fucking word, you probably 1660 01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:41,800 Speaker 1: get some good kind of lingus. I mean, you really 1661 01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:45,080 Speaker 1: know what the fuck is like study like you said, 1662 01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:48,400 Speaker 1: he probably really give good hand. 1663 01:13:49,280 --> 01:13:51,320 Speaker 5: Hey man, shout out to bruh. You know what I'm saying. 1664 01:13:51,320 --> 01:13:53,960 Speaker 5: I hope I did not offend you at all. Shout 1665 01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:55,519 Speaker 5: out the bruh. Shout out Bruh. 1666 01:13:55,840 --> 01:13:59,479 Speaker 1: I hope you ain't feed him neither, did. I really 1667 01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:02,479 Speaker 1: hope he knows he knows the show. Obviously he's a listener, 1668 01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:05,479 Speaker 1: so he knows we're joking. Okay, so last one. 1669 01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:09,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Hey ladies, I recently got back from a 1670 01:14:09,479 --> 01:14:13,280 Speaker 3: girl's trip and I'm having issues. Everything was fine until 1671 01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:15,200 Speaker 3: a day or two after we got back. My friend 1672 01:14:15,320 --> 01:14:17,240 Speaker 3: is saying that I owe her money, but I'm. 1673 01:14:17,160 --> 01:14:21,880 Speaker 1: Asking her y'all, so we can't never get to a 1674 01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:26,160 Speaker 1: fucking question. Nobody's ever gonna email us ever. Again, I 1675 01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:29,679 Speaker 1: wasn't laughing to Mariam. Now I still want the last question. 1676 01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:37,120 Speaker 1: You didn't see him reading Marian freaking him should be. 1677 01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:41,240 Speaker 3: She said, my friend is saying that I owe her money, 1678 01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:44,280 Speaker 3: but I'm asking her how I kept trekking tabs. 1679 01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:46,439 Speaker 1: Of what I speak, I sound like me. 1680 01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:51,280 Speaker 2: Like you, I don't have no issue paying any money back. 1681 01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:53,200 Speaker 2: If she could show me exactly what I owe. 1682 01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:55,720 Speaker 3: I didn't and haven't liked how she talks to me, 1683 01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:58,240 Speaker 3: and it's like whenever I say something about it, it's 1684 01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:00,599 Speaker 3: a problem. At this point, I'm willing to just send 1685 01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:02,800 Speaker 3: her some money because I don't want the friendship to end. 1686 01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:05,599 Speaker 3: What would you do in my situation? Thanks and events? 1687 01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:09,280 Speaker 3: So let me read the text messages. So she sent 1688 01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:10,240 Speaker 3: us the text message. 1689 01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:13,000 Speaker 2: So she said to the girl, oh okay, No, the 1690 01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:14,679 Speaker 2: girl is saying, it's to how she's in blue. 1691 01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:15,360 Speaker 1: You're right, okay. 1692 01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:18,000 Speaker 3: By bed, the girl is saying this to her, Oh okay. 1693 01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:20,840 Speaker 3: I was like, phone had to be on, do not 1694 01:15:20,960 --> 01:15:23,880 Speaker 3: distart before the ubers to and from the boat. So 1695 01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:26,439 Speaker 3: she said, I paid for that already. The friend said, 1696 01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:28,880 Speaker 3: so you paid for every uber because I don't remember. 1697 01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:31,400 Speaker 3: She said, yes, I did. She said, I know you 1698 01:15:31,560 --> 01:15:34,639 Speaker 3: had cash. I know you had cash and on cash 1699 01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:35,080 Speaker 3: at but I. 1700 01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:38,240 Speaker 1: Didn't remember that, oh my sicking one eight dollars. Mine 1701 01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:41,080 Speaker 1: didn't either. Anyways, y'all get the point, y'all just going 1702 01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:41,559 Speaker 1: back and forth. 1703 01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:43,800 Speaker 3: So she basically sent a long test message to the girl, 1704 01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:45,600 Speaker 3: and she told her I paid all my parts and 1705 01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:48,160 Speaker 3: kept track. You told me the ride was nine dollars 1706 01:15:48,240 --> 01:15:49,880 Speaker 3: there and back, and then you switch it in. The 1707 01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:52,200 Speaker 3: total was thirty dollars, which I don't think was fair 1708 01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:54,840 Speaker 3: because how did it go from nine dollars to fifteen dollars. 1709 01:15:55,080 --> 01:15:57,840 Speaker 3: I didn't complain, just went and paid it. I also 1710 01:15:57,960 --> 01:15:59,920 Speaker 3: paid sixty dollars for the boat because that's all I 1711 01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:03,960 Speaker 3: could afford. So it's a lot of messages. But anyways, 1712 01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:07,200 Speaker 3: from what I'm reading, it ain't that much money. So 1713 01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:11,479 Speaker 3: your friend petty as fuck. I'll say this fast forward 1714 01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:15,880 Speaker 3: all that shit. First of all, don't go on a 1715 01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:17,639 Speaker 3: trip if you really have to be like Canty. 1716 01:16:18,439 --> 01:16:20,040 Speaker 2: I'll say this a lot of times, like when I 1717 01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:22,280 Speaker 2: go on trips for our friends, I'll be like, Okay, 1718 01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:23,120 Speaker 2: you get the uber. 1719 01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:24,320 Speaker 1: I'll get the uber next time. 1720 01:16:24,479 --> 01:16:27,080 Speaker 2: We're not If her uber was thirty dollars and mine 1721 01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:28,800 Speaker 2: was ten, she's not like well Man was thirty in 1722 01:16:28,880 --> 01:16:29,439 Speaker 2: years was ten. 1723 01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:30,120 Speaker 1: We don't do that. 1724 01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:32,439 Speaker 2: We're just here to turn up and have a good time. 1725 01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:34,920 Speaker 2: If there's anything going on, I'm gonna cash at you. 1726 01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:38,280 Speaker 2: I'm gonna it's not that serious. I never argue with 1727 01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:40,400 Speaker 2: my friends about money when we're on a trip, So 1728 01:16:40,760 --> 01:16:42,960 Speaker 2: if somebody don't got it, then y'all. 1729 01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:44,640 Speaker 1: Don't really need to be traveling together or need to 1730 01:16:44,680 --> 01:16:45,919 Speaker 1: be traveling sidebar. 1731 01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:48,840 Speaker 2: She sent us another message that I'm just now seeing 1732 01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:51,599 Speaker 2: that says also, I really think she's trying to get 1733 01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:54,640 Speaker 2: over on me because she didn't spend her money wisely. 1734 01:16:55,240 --> 01:16:56,160 Speaker 1: Which might be true. 1735 01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:59,040 Speaker 3: I feel like, in order to avoid that going forward 1736 01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:00,760 Speaker 3: in the future, you know, you want to steal stay 1737 01:17:00,760 --> 01:17:02,439 Speaker 3: friends withhood, because I wouldn't want to be cool when 1738 01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:06,840 Speaker 3: that'd be too bugging me about like fifty dollars, even 1739 01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:10,679 Speaker 3: if it was if it was three hundred dollars like still, 1740 01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:14,160 Speaker 3: I just feel like, in order to avoid that going forward, 1741 01:17:14,200 --> 01:17:16,720 Speaker 3: if y'all are going to be splitting things, you need 1742 01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:19,880 Speaker 3: to send her the money as soon as soon as 1743 01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:22,680 Speaker 3: if y'all go out to eat, and y'all she she 1744 01:17:22,800 --> 01:17:24,880 Speaker 3: paid a whole tab, send her the money asp or 1745 01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:26,680 Speaker 3: if y'all out the country or whatever, so you don't 1746 01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:28,519 Speaker 3: have Wi Fi right there as soon as you get 1747 01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:30,800 Speaker 3: back to the hotel, y'all saying it or whatever, I 1748 01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:33,240 Speaker 3: would send her her money, so it's not no issue. 1749 01:17:33,600 --> 01:17:34,479 Speaker 1: I always do that. 1750 01:17:34,840 --> 01:17:36,720 Speaker 2: Dre knows I don't be playing. I don't like me 1751 01:17:36,880 --> 01:17:41,040 Speaker 2: neither as possible. Like when we went all out to 1752 01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:44,040 Speaker 2: eat to that sushi lounge one time, and like I 1753 01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:45,639 Speaker 2: was like, okay, me and Dre on the same tab. 1754 01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:47,880 Speaker 2: I paid it with my card before we even could 1755 01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:50,720 Speaker 2: get up. My money was in my account. Like not 1756 01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:52,960 Speaker 2: that we argue about money or stuff like that, but 1757 01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:56,000 Speaker 2: it's no need because it because we just send it 1758 01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:56,519 Speaker 2: to each other. 1759 01:17:57,200 --> 01:17:57,760 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 1760 01:17:57,880 --> 01:17:59,639 Speaker 2: You should never be arguing with your friend about money, 1761 01:17:59,680 --> 01:18:02,360 Speaker 2: especially y'all on vacation. I'll get the uber. It's not 1762 01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:03,840 Speaker 2: that serious, you know what I'm saying. 1763 01:18:03,880 --> 01:18:06,160 Speaker 3: So I feel like I can't believe she was saying 1764 01:18:06,200 --> 01:18:08,400 Speaker 3: you out an uber. Like when we even in Atlanta, 1765 01:18:08,439 --> 01:18:11,519 Speaker 3: when we go places, we take turns paying for the rights. 1766 01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:15,519 Speaker 3: But even if it's not a turn, even les pay 1767 01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:18,519 Speaker 3: pay for it. This time to there, to and from 1768 01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:19,519 Speaker 3: I'll pay it for it. 1769 01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:20,080 Speaker 1: Next time. 1770 01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:22,160 Speaker 2: But no, But like, honestly, it really just be like 1771 01:18:22,680 --> 01:18:24,720 Speaker 2: who got the better service or who gonna get who 1772 01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:25,280 Speaker 2: gonna get. 1773 01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:29,200 Speaker 1: Got more battery? That's what I'm saying. Honestly, I actually 1774 01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:31,920 Speaker 1: like using my lift because I get mill right, that's 1775 01:18:31,960 --> 01:18:32,439 Speaker 1: what I be us. 1776 01:18:34,720 --> 01:18:36,320 Speaker 2: I don't even use it every time you you know, 1777 01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:37,800 Speaker 2: every time you spend a dollar, you get a mile 1778 01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:38,280 Speaker 2: with Delta. 1779 01:18:39,400 --> 01:18:42,799 Speaker 5: Yes, told me we're talking about. 1780 01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:45,120 Speaker 1: I got you, I got. 1781 01:18:46,479 --> 01:18:48,639 Speaker 2: And then when you're coming from the airport, you get 1782 01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:57,120 Speaker 2: two miles give us. So yeah, I feel like y'all 1783 01:18:57,120 --> 01:18:59,560 Speaker 2: shouldn't be arguing over money. That's silly, that's petty, and 1784 01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:02,800 Speaker 2: moving forward, y'all definitely did have a conversation like why 1785 01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:05,360 Speaker 2: are we pinching and counting pennies that we owe each other? 1786 01:19:05,439 --> 01:19:06,240 Speaker 1: That's that's silly. 1787 01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:08,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a lot of text messages. See I'm 1788 01:19:08,400 --> 01:19:10,439 Speaker 3: sorry I didn't get a chance to really read through 1789 01:19:10,520 --> 01:19:11,200 Speaker 3: all of them. 1790 01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:14,240 Speaker 1: But yeah, that would be my advice. It's just in 1791 01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:14,719 Speaker 1: the future. 1792 01:19:14,920 --> 01:19:16,439 Speaker 2: I think y'all need to have a conversation in the 1793 01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:18,719 Speaker 2: future going forward, if y'all going any more troops together. 1794 01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:21,840 Speaker 3: As soon as she pays for something, send her hor money. 1795 01:19:23,040 --> 01:19:25,680 Speaker 3: So you won't even have that issue period about what 1796 01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:29,920 Speaker 3: you That's what it sounds like to me too. But 1797 01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:31,479 Speaker 3: you know, everbody be saying, I mean, so I'm trying 1798 01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:32,479 Speaker 3: to try a different approach. 1799 01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:33,120 Speaker 5: Well, I said it for you. 1800 01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:39,240 Speaker 1: Should we tell them what we did last Monday? I 1801 01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:42,559 Speaker 1: said it on Patreon last night, So I mean, it's 1802 01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:44,680 Speaker 1: up to you. I gave it. I gave as he 1803 01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:49,800 Speaker 1: to our Patreon. Sorry, can I see this cash? I 1804 01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:50,280 Speaker 1: can say that. 1805 01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:55,639 Speaker 5: Well, m we are popping, especially. 1806 01:19:56,640 --> 01:19:59,400 Speaker 2: I have an episode with one of y'all's favorite podcast 1807 01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:02,960 Speaker 2: that y'all we had him on the show in the past, 1808 01:20:03,000 --> 01:20:04,559 Speaker 2: but he actually invited us on our platform. 1809 01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:06,679 Speaker 1: So yeah, last Monday we did the eighty. 1810 01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:09,360 Speaker 5: Five style show congratulation, Thank You. 1811 01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:12,599 Speaker 1: It was so much fun. It was very, very fun. 1812 01:20:12,640 --> 01:20:14,880 Speaker 2: I think the episode is gonna drop this Friday, I think. 1813 01:20:15,400 --> 01:20:17,560 Speaker 2: So yeah, y'all just make sure y'all look out for that, 1814 01:20:17,800 --> 01:20:19,920 Speaker 2: and y'all go support us on that platform because y'all 1815 01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:21,840 Speaker 2: know how, y'all know how people when we're on other 1816 01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:23,040 Speaker 2: platforms be coming for us. 1817 01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:25,560 Speaker 1: So we need our poor girls to come through and 1818 01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:27,040 Speaker 1: our poor boys to come through for us. You know 1819 01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:28,639 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But yeah, we did the eighty. 1820 01:20:28,439 --> 01:20:30,640 Speaker 2: Five Style Show. Shout out to Carlos. It was an 1821 01:20:30,640 --> 01:20:33,599 Speaker 2: amazing time. He always knocking out. If you haven't ever 1822 01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:35,439 Speaker 2: listened to the eighty five Style Show, it's really really 1823 01:20:35,520 --> 01:20:42,320 Speaker 2: dope and it's funny, like funny. Yes, and she can 1824 01:20:42,560 --> 01:20:44,680 Speaker 2: but yeah, we did like a booty whole song that 1825 01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:47,120 Speaker 2: was so I can't wait till that episode. 1826 01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:49,720 Speaker 1: Y'all a sniffiche, but have to wait. 1827 01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:53,040 Speaker 2: Speaking of it, we need to do a song. Okay, 1828 01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:55,600 Speaker 2: I'm excited because you didn't. She didn't tell me what 1829 01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:57,640 Speaker 2: song she was singing this week. I actually wanted to 1830 01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:02,000 Speaker 2: sing this dedicated to Dream Houston Babe, because every time 1831 01:21:02,080 --> 01:21:04,360 Speaker 2: I call her she got a smile on her face. 1832 01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:08,640 Speaker 2: Let me pull up the lyrics first. Just I know 1833 01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:11,120 Speaker 2: the words, but it's just the case. I don't want 1834 01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:13,479 Speaker 2: to miss it. This is dedicated to you in Houston 1835 01:21:13,520 --> 01:21:15,080 Speaker 2: Bank because he's been having you glowing. 1836 01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:21,800 Speaker 1: The dick is good and it's showing. Here we go, y'all, 1837 01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:26,400 Speaker 1: Here we go, y'all ready, I'm ready. I was trying 1838 01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:27,400 Speaker 1: to fall. 1839 01:21:30,320 --> 01:21:38,639 Speaker 2: I don't know, doesn't you me, b that's called man 1840 01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:42,240 Speaker 2: act in such a craze it way. 1841 01:21:45,600 --> 01:21:48,800 Speaker 1: Whatever is that you do you and you do you 1842 01:21:49,160 --> 01:21:56,479 Speaker 1: want you do you. It's a laying it high on 1843 01:21:57,360 --> 01:22:06,560 Speaker 1: a stand because my heart's nuts, beauty, triple thoughts of 1844 01:22:06,800 --> 01:22:11,320 Speaker 1: loving you on my mind. I can't bear out just 1845 01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:23,400 Speaker 1: what chn win the car? Thank you. I get so wicked. 1846 01:22:24,280 --> 01:22:30,280 Speaker 1: I can hardly harly I control something. It takes takes 1847 01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:32,960 Speaker 1: all of me. M hm. 1848 01:22:34,760 --> 01:22:38,160 Speaker 5: So you gotta get to the feet part. 1849 01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:42,160 Speaker 2: Wait, how's that barker and amazing? I don't know the worst. 1850 01:22:42,200 --> 01:22:43,400 Speaker 2: That's why I stopped. 1851 01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:52,080 Speaker 8: Singing me off my whoo off my can explain while 1852 01:22:52,120 --> 01:22:53,760 Speaker 8: you love it makes me. 1853 01:22:53,960 --> 01:23:00,479 Speaker 1: We don't see you with your man look at a 1854 01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:03,240 Speaker 1: blessing again, laughing at. 1855 01:23:03,240 --> 01:23:13,560 Speaker 7: You get that blown out this weekend shout very embarrassing. 1856 01:23:13,760 --> 01:23:16,320 Speaker 4: O God, we are congratulating you on your up and 1857 01:23:16,400 --> 01:23:17,320 Speaker 4: coming good weekend. 1858 01:23:20,439 --> 01:23:21,400 Speaker 5: Gonna it's gonna be up. 1859 01:23:21,800 --> 01:23:26,559 Speaker 2: Yeah man, yeah, shout birthday when it rons it will 1860 01:23:26,560 --> 01:23:29,080 Speaker 2: be her birthday, right. Make sure y'all tell our friend 1861 01:23:29,160 --> 01:23:33,320 Speaker 2: Kellen happy birthday. It's her birthday today, and thank y'all 1862 01:23:33,320 --> 01:23:35,200 Speaker 2: so much for tuning in. Make sure y'all subscribe to 1863 01:23:35,240 --> 01:23:37,679 Speaker 2: the Patreon. You want your questions answered on the show, 1864 01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:40,240 Speaker 2: Email us at ask Poor minds at gmail dot com, 1865 01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:41,760 Speaker 2: and we'll see y'all next week. 1866 01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:42,400 Speaker 1: By y'all,