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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl Lex Pete and it's

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Speaker 1: your girls dre in the cold, and you are tuned

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Speaker 1: in to another episode of poor.

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Speaker 2: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 1: Oh, how you doing this? Later? How you doings? How

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Speaker 1: you doing?

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Speaker 3: Miss niggas? Miss niggas? You know, dre got the niggas.

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Speaker 1: Baby, I'm good, I'm good. You know, I'm just going

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Speaker 1: through the motions.

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Speaker 4: I'm just, you know, trying to stay inside while everybody

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Speaker 3: And let me make a note to y'all seriously, people

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Speaker 3: that are in Atlanta that are listening to our show,

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Speaker 3: We're gonna have a fun episode today. Trust me, it's

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Speaker 3: gonna be very lighthearted, because I know last week was

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Speaker 3: very you know. But before we get started, y'all, if

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Speaker 3: you can stay home, please stay home. Only reason that

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Speaker 3: you need to be leaving your house is if you

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Speaker 3: go to the grocery store. And if you do go

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Speaker 3: to work, make sure that you get you a mask,

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Speaker 3: make a mask out of anything, make sure you have

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Speaker 1: But they still need a filter in the mask though, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because so you can breathe, I got my job.

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Speaker 4: No, And so it can't protect them from the virus.

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Speaker 4: Like if you just put a band down over your face,

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Speaker 4: that's not really protecting.

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Speaker 3: I mean, but it's better than having nothing at all, Right,

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, especially if they're double line. So

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Speaker 3: understand some businesses are opening and people do have to

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Speaker 3: go to work. I understand that, but just protect yourself

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Speaker 3: because the cases I think they had like two thousand

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Speaker 4: It was a thousand new cases that came out like

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Speaker 3: A lot of that was in Atlanta, right in Georgia.

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Speaker 3: It's been two thousands since they've opened the stack, and

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Speaker 4: Feel like a lot of people are just taking the

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Speaker 4: information the wrong way, like they like, oh, the media

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Speaker 4: will just feed you anything. They telling y'all all these shit,

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Speaker 4: and y'all believe in it. You literally have to wait

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Speaker 4: weeks before you can find out if you have COVID,

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Speaker 4: So y'all believe in this sit And they just opened

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Speaker 4: But that's not what they're saying. They're saying, it's been

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Speaker 4: all of these new cases. So what you think is

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Speaker 3: If you're just trying to go to the park like

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Speaker 1: Like? What is the air show? Like?

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Speaker 3: You know, like when the little airplanes be flying, Why

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Speaker 1: Girls, shut up.

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Speaker 4: You're right though, and I feel the same way because

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Speaker 4: I've been very serious about staying in.

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Speaker 1: The high serious. You was making fun of me.

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Speaker 4: No, that's not true. It was like that first weekend.

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Speaker 4: was already in Houston. So didn nobody need you seeing

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Speaker 4: But I'm already here and I gotta go through the

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Speaker 3: I was just telling you to be careful and to

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Speaker 1: Time Turkey leg hood. I sent it and they see

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Speaker 4: But either ways, ever since that weekend, which was like

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Speaker 3: No, you haven't been doing you know, we have been

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Speaker 1: So yeah, that was just while we Kobe Free open here. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I mean, I know we have more than Atlanta listeners.

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Speaker 1: Period.

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Speaker 3: So let's go ahead and get into it. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: let you introduce the first topics. This is your favorite

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Speaker 1: About, is it. We have talked about this before.

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Speaker 3: I mean me and you have talked about it before.

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Speaker 3: So let's just bring the Ship to the Forefront.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, so my mom and I were on the

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Speaker 4: Anyways, we was on the phone and like she was like,

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Speaker 4: I feel like I would choose money then love. And

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Speaker 4: But we're talking about romantic love, not the ability to

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Speaker 1: So let me ask you this, old mate, let me

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Speaker 3: You're talking about in your relationship with person A, you

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Speaker 1: But this is what I'll say.

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Speaker 2: You can only choose one from from anybody.

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Speaker 3: But you know what I fe I feel like love

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Speaker 4: And I feel like I have a good amount of

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, it's not only that, because I've been deeply,

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Speaker 1: He got money. That's cool with me. You ain't got

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Speaker 4: I feel like you don't necessarily have to be the

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I just love It is too dangerous

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Speaker 4: It's very dangerous, and it really will fuck you up.

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Speaker 4: And then also, you know what I mean, I realized too.

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Speaker 4: So I would rather not have to be worried about financing.

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Speaker 4: You married his nigga because you loved him, and now

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Speaker 4: I got three dollars.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to live his life no more. You

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Speaker 4: And I guess I feel that way too, Like I've

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Speaker 4: And I would say this let me cause it's one

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Speaker 3: And I'll say this, money he isn't the answer to

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Speaker 1: People, if you if that's what you want, that's what

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Speaker 3: But for me, I will say I'm one of the

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Speaker 4: I think being broke is worse. I think it's way worse.

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Speaker 4: That's heartbreak. Heartbreak is bad, but I've had my heart broken,

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Speaker 4: But I feel like being broke is worse because, like

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Speaker 3: I just thought about a quick story about when I

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Speaker 3: I could not pay my phone bill, and he was

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you and he was like, dude, you

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Speaker 3: This bitch at my phone was off y'all for like

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Speaker 1: So I had like bloody in but it's floody now.

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Speaker 3: So it's like I ended up like having to put

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Speaker 1: Body exactly, And you know, but not only that.

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Speaker 3: But you said you had enough people around you that

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Speaker 3: I'm talking bang rum my money, my money and my money.

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Speaker 1: To get turned out. I mean, y'all love you. I mean, okay,

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Speaker 4: But you had the option to choose to fuck with

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Speaker 3: A lot of women and men don't have access to

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Speaker 3: I love black men, mind you, but black men have

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Speaker 4: Because I feel like me and black people in other countries,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, say that honestly. When I started, when I started

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Speaker 3: But I've talked to him about you know. He was like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I'm being I'm being honest. I'm being honest.

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Speaker 4: But it's I mean, that was a little low balling,

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Speaker 3: But I'm telling y'all what the average the average black

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Speaker 1: She so need to make more, of course, but I'm

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Speaker 3: But but okay, but we're not gonna act like Raven

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Speaker 3: it's not fine as fuck either. She got a small

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Speaker 3: When you look at certain way, you have access.

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Speaker 1: To different type of thing. Yeah, or even when you

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Speaker 1: To those men.

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Speaker 3: Now, mind you, out of those men that are making money,

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Speaker 1: Well, I know that I got a few on my

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Speaker 3: But anyways, so half of them be married, some of

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Speaker 1: So I'm talking about for women.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's what you should at least shoot

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So when I say that, when I say sixty five

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Speaker 1: Those are the numbers.

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Speaker 3: Everybody can't fuck with a rich nigga, especially a rich

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Speaker 1: It's like, I agree with you.

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Speaker 3: We already as black women. Look, I'm getting mad y'all

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Speaker 3: as black women because I need we need where's our

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Speaker 1: But that's what I was gonna say.

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Speaker 4: I feel like that's really the main reason why a

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Speaker 4: is because a lot of them just don't be they

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Speaker 4: don't have it. But yeah they don't, they really don't

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Speaker 3: But all my friends go out here and we fucking

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. I feel like I know

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Speaker 3: Saying, I just know a lot of boss women, like

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't really think motivation is the issue, to

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Speaker 4: I feel like it's a lot of black men that

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Speaker 4: be motivated, they just can't get in the positions that

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Speaker 4: they be wanting to get in because of, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean. And it's just I mean

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Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, we all and we all know

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Speaker 3: But I just hate the fact that when black men

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Speaker 3: do get money, they feel like it's such a taboo

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Speaker 3: for them to treat a woman to nice things or

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Speaker 3: do nice things to her, like you looked at like

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Speaker 3: a trick or a sucker. Why is that it's okay

447
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Speaker 3: to do nice things for the woman that you're pursuing.

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Speaker 3: Why is it such a big deal.

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Speaker 1: With some money because them nigga's gonna treat or get

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Speaker 1: you a Nigerian.

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Speaker 4: They gonna treat soon get you a street nigga with

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Speaker 4: the money or not Cheerian.

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Speaker 1: Treat.

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Speaker 4: If y'all don't remember three niggas be they'd be so

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Speaker 1: They just be wanting to spread the love. They really do.

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Speaker 4: They just be wanting to spread the love and make

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Speaker 4: sure everybody's straight. And then I feel like Nigeria's I

460
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Speaker 4: don't know why. I don't know, well.

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Speaker 3: Because y'all remember when I talked about Big Daddy a

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Speaker 3: while back. Big Daddy wasn't when I was in the

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Speaker 4: With Big Papa. You don't even know Papa, that was

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Speaker 4: his neighbor. Remember we got into an argument because I

466
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Speaker 4: said that. He was like, no, it's not.

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Speaker 1: I'm just call him Big Papa, no like Big Daddy.

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Speaker 3: And then you was like, okay, yeah, that's why I said,

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Speaker 3: y'all remember when I talked about Big Daddy a while back.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, anyway, when.

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Speaker 3: I was talking about Big Daddy a while back, Big

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Speaker 3: Daddy was the one I almost threw up in his

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Speaker 1: To them say something about wonder of him wise heels.

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Speaker 1: I was just waiting. Don't forget the Louis Woe's tour.

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Speaker 1: ain't the only one I know a few.

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Speaker 3: No, I feel like with Nigerian men, they take pride

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Speaker 3: in their woman being like fresh and looking like how

518
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Speaker 3: they look like if you with the Nigerian man, they

519
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Speaker 3: want to be like damn you and Joe bitch fly

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Speaker 3: like y'all both look like money. I feel like Nigerian

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Speaker 3: men take pride in, like you know, having a woman

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Speaker 3: look like the baddest bitch in the building. So whatever

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Speaker 3: she needs, he gonna make sure that she needed right.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, like, because I told you,

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Speaker 3: like the first time we went, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: you know you icy.

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Speaker 1: He was like, Oh, don't worry, baby, We're gonna get

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Speaker 1: you right.

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Speaker 3: Na leave.

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Speaker 1: Mss Mama's gotta go, she gotta go. She really everything.

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Speaker 3: So I'm not a little off topic. But yeah, I

532
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Speaker 3: feel like love versus money, Like I feel like I

533
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Speaker 3: have a give me my coin tone. Yeah, because I

534
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Speaker 3: feel like I have a great.

535
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Speaker 1: Relationship with like the men that I date and it's

536
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Speaker 1: fun and I love it. Do I need more love

537
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Speaker 1: from them? Absolutely not. Do I need more money? Hell yeah.

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Speaker 1: So you can never have too much money, but too much,

539
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Speaker 1: never to too much?

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Speaker 4: What little way saying this? Too much money, ain't enough money?

541
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Speaker 4: And that's just on period.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So let us know how y'all think about the

543
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Speaker 3: love versus money. So I wish I could remember the

544
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Speaker 3: listener's name that sent us this topic. But she wanted

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Speaker 3: us to talk about colorism. She wanted us to talk

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Speaker 3: about it in the industry, but I just want to

547
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Speaker 3: talk about it in general. I saw a tweet today

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Speaker 3: that somebody had tweeted and they were basically they were like,

549
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Speaker 3: these are the top four women in the game looks wise,

550
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Speaker 3: and they had posted Rihanna sweety, Georgia, what.

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Speaker 1: You just annoying the way you need to saying it's

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Speaker 1: a game. Sweet I thought it was just sweetie soweety.

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Speaker 3: Why she put the A in there and in it's soweety,

554
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Speaker 3: you gotta do the at the end, so sweety.

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Speaker 1: So he posted basically, get back on topic.

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Speaker 3: So he posted Georgia Smith, Rihanna sweety, it's somebody else,

557
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Speaker 3: it's somebody else. And basically people were like saying that

558
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Speaker 3: if this is what colorism is, and the guy was

559
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Speaker 3: like defending himself. He was like, I never put anybody down.

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Speaker 3: This is just what's attractive to me. So at what

561
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Speaker 3: point is it preference or is it colorism? Well, I

562
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Speaker 3: feel like everybody has their preference. And I feel like

563
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Speaker 3: one thing about black women. Sometimes you have to stop

564
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Speaker 3: getting offended.

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Speaker 4: When me and when when other went well, not other

566
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Speaker 4: black men because you're not black men, but when black

567
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Speaker 4: men don't find the way that you specifically look attracted,

568
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Speaker 4: I feel like it's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 2: Like obviously he posted all four of those women. All

570
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Speaker 2: four of those women.

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Speaker 4: Are light skinned, They all have silky hair. They all look,

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Speaker 4: they don't look.

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Speaker 1: They don you ain't seen I relax, I love ponder, replaygirl.

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Speaker 4: I forgot she ain't got the stealky smooth she don't.

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Speaker 4: But anyways, they all have a similar esthetic, shall I say?

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Speaker 1: So?

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's just his type. But you can't

578
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Speaker 2: be upset about.

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Speaker 1: This, okay, So this is my thing on it.

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Speaker 4: I feel like colorism is when people try to play

581
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Speaker 4: the two against each other. In my opinion, that's more

582
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Speaker 4: so colorism, right.

583
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Speaker 3: But let's get a little deeper down into it, because

584
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Speaker 3: colorism can also be it's not necessarily that I'm shading you,

585
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Speaker 3: but if I'm only showing love to one type of woman.

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Speaker 1: But if that's what he likes, then what is wrong

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Speaker 1: with that? There's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 3: But it's like, okay, if you have two types of people, okay,

589
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Speaker 3: like say there's you and then looks exactly fucking like you,

590
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Speaker 3: but she's just a yellow bone, okay, And so for

591
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Speaker 3: them to be like, oh, this is attractive, but this

592
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Speaker 3: is not, that's colorism.

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Speaker 4: But that's not fair because you can't say that if

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Speaker 4: it's if she a fucking yellow bone, we don't look

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Speaker 4: exactly alike you.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm just saying if y'all have the same y'all everything,

597
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Speaker 3: but you're just lighter. What I'm saying is just because

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Speaker 3: you're not dissing somebody.

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Speaker 1: But if you tend just to.

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Speaker 3: Praise one type of person because of their skin class,

601
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Speaker 3: that's colorism.

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Speaker 1: That's what I just said.

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Speaker 4: Is more so to me when you put in the

604
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Speaker 4: two against each other and then you're comparing or you're like,

605
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Speaker 4: but if somebody wants to put a picture of me next,

606
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Speaker 4: like you said, next to a girl who looks exactly

607
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Speaker 4: like me, but then she likes skin, and then they

608
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Speaker 4: praise in these person, well yeah, that is colorism. But

609
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Speaker 4: to post a thread of beautiful women that you think

610
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Speaker 4: are beautiful and they all happen to be light skined,

611
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Speaker 4: I just feel like that's.

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Speaker 1: His prayer frame.

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Speaker 3: I think that's but that's a little bit of colorism,

614
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Speaker 3: because you know, no, I'm not, but this is what

615
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Speaker 3: that is. It's because growing up, they've always told us

616
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Speaker 3: that all the brown paper bag tests and this is

617
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Speaker 3: what attract this is what is attractive growing up, and.

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Speaker 1: Neither one of us passed the brown shaw dings. I'm

619
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Speaker 1: a chocolate bunny. Honey girl, please, But what I'm saying

620
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Speaker 1: is it's not that.

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Speaker 3: It's just things that were instilled in us as younger people,

622
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Speaker 3: so we've had to grow out of it. But if

623
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Speaker 3: you're only finding light skinned women attracted because they're lighter skin,

624
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Speaker 3: that's colorism.

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Speaker 4: But how do you know that he That's what I'm saying.

626
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Speaker 4: It's like it could get really really deep because it's like,

627
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Speaker 4: how do you know that that's the only reason that

628
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Speaker 4: he find them attractive?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but black, if you're you don't really like

630
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Speaker 3: light I don't like But guess what is that colorism?

631
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Speaker 1: No? But guess what. I got a light in the

632
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Speaker 1: skin nigga on my roster. I fuck like skin. But

633
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Speaker 1: that's just not my preference. I know it's not your preference.

634
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Speaker 3: But there's a difference because I bet you if you

635
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Speaker 3: made a thread of black men, it's gonna be mixed.

636
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Speaker 1: It's not gonna be just dark skin niggas in there. Bro,

637
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Speaker 1: It's not that's what I's but what I'm saying, But

638
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Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. We'll go with that narrative. But

639
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Speaker 1: I bitch I a few likes. Well, I have fucked

640
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Speaker 1: with you know, you like him big and black. I'm

641
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: just saying I was agreeing with you.

642
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Speaker 4: I cannot wait until you hear one of these episodes.

643
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Speaker 4: I swear to God, I feel well, that's why he

644
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Speaker 4: ain't want to come to the function.

645
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Speaker 1: Don't blame it on me. Do not blame on you. You.

646
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Speaker 1: It's fucking you. You. You don't see that thing. You.

647
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Speaker 1: I'm getting a little too tear, so let me get

648
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Speaker 1: back to the point.

649
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Speaker 3: All I'm saying is if you tend to just praise

650
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Speaker 3: one type of skin color to me personally, I believe

651
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 3: that's colorism because you believe deep down inside that only

652
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 3: this type of skin color is attractive.

653
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Speaker 1: And that's just how I feel. Let me ask you

654
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Speaker 1: a question, do you think that this is colorism?

655
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Speaker 4: For example, Okay, so a few guys that I've dated,

656
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Speaker 4: like in my past or whatever, they would always say

657
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 4: things like, dang, like I normally don't be dating brown

658
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 4: skin or dark skinned girls, but you're just so fine

659
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 4: like you, Yeah, I mean whites, But that's what I mean.

660
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 4: That's what I was asking. I was just trying to

661
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 4: get your perspective because I did feel that way. I

662
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 4: definitely felt that way, and they when they would say

663
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 4: it as if it was a compliment, like, oh, you

664
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 4: look different, or you look you don't look like the

665
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 4: typical black woman. What's what is the typical black woman?

666
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 4: Elaborate please, right, But that's how I used to feel

667
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 4: about it, Like elaborate, what is the what is the

668
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 4: typical black woman? Because typically I don't think majority of

669
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 4: us look similar. I think we all look very different.

670
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 4: Me and you sitting here right now look different. Raven

671
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 4: and Kiki sitting over there look different. Like we we

672
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 4: look different. So what do you mean the typical black woman?

673
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 4: I just feel like men say stuff like that to

674
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 4: make it in their mind feel like it's okay today.

675
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 4: The darker skinned woman. It's always okay today the dark

676
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 4: skinned woman. Yr mama probably blacker than me. Your mama

677
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 4: looked like Florida.

678
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 1: Edney I'm dead, so okay. But this is what I'll

679
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: say as well.

680
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 3: I feel like colorism absolutely still affects people in the industry.

681
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 3: Going back to what she was talking about, one of

682
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 3: the listeners that at DM me because she was like,

683
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 3: how is it people like sweety or in the forefront.

684
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: Have you what?

685
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 3: How is it like somebody's one please? Somebody like Sweety

686
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 3: is in the forefront. But somebody like cash Doll that

687
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 3: can actually really wrap you know, it's not Sweety done

688
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 3: charted before.

689
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: But Sweedy had bobs. Okay, don't do that. Don't do that.

690
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,239
Speaker 1: Don't like what. I'm not playing with her. But if

691
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: you really gonna sit here and say she didn't have vibes,

692
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,719
Speaker 1: so he wasn't Jammy in my tight can you let

693
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: me speak so you wasn't. Can you let me speak?

694
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: I'm talking about talent, talent, and you feel like cash

695
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: Dog got more talent anything Sweety.

696
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 3: Dog, cash Doll is rapping Soweety Hump under a bridge.

697
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 3: You don't lost your damn mind if you're gonna sit here,

698
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 3: I have.

699
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: Not lost my mind.

700
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 4: First of all, before you even go there, I don't

701
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 4: listen to cash Doll, okay, but you listen to.

702
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 3: Sweety Hunk, Colorist, the Colorism people. She listens to Sweety Hump,

703
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 3: but she don't listen to cash.

704
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 1: To Sweety the only reason I heard my type is

705
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: because that ship was on the radio. But what was

706
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: her other bob? You said, bops, Oh, she need she

707
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,719
Speaker 1: had that icy girl song came so won't stop. Oh,

708
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: but you can't sing ice Me y Out. That was

709
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: a great song. Racism stay woke, my people, that was

710
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 1: a great song. I'm not saying that Ice Me Out

711
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: was not a bob, it was a vibe.

712
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 5: It was.

713
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: But I don't listen to cash Doll? Why I just don't?

714
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 1: You are so fucking dumb? What about.

715
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 4: I don't be listening to Dreasy neither you listen to Dreasy?

716
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 4: Why shouldn't never be your bop of the week then,

717
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 4: since you was such a fan? Okay, I don't listen

718
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 4: to dreams, But why Cash Doll ain't never been your

719
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 4: boa the week? I didn't make Ice Met my bop

720
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 4: of the week along time ago to run the takes back.

721
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to run that ship back because I

722
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 4: don't believe.

723
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: I like Ice Me Out.

724
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 4: I likes I'm not saying you don't like the song.

725
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 4: I just don't feel like that was your bip of

726
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 4: the week.

727
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: So you feel like colorism affects the industry?

728
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,719
Speaker 3: Do you feel absolutely like lighter skinned women are more

729
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 3: successful in the industry versus darker skinned women.

730
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: What's your definition of more successful? More successful?

731
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 3: As in, you see these women at the mtv BT

732
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 3: Awards me at the awards too, performing because you may't

733
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 3: I mean super heavy at the awards shows. B ch'all

734
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 3: was award shows. Ain't nothing saying nothing. I'm talking about

735
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 3: the people.

736
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: That are actually performing and doing things with the ward shows.

737
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So this would be performing. Okay,

738
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 1: that's a good point. That's I know it is.

739
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 3: But I feel like the successful light skinned women is

740
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 3: a lot longer than the successful.

741
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: Well let me not say successful, but like on the forefront,

742
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: the list is longer, the list is a little longer.

743
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: I feel like it's easy.

744
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 4: But but but but let's not but let's not make

745
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 4: it a color thing because realistically, some of these light

746
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 4: skinned women are talented, Like Nicki Minaj is very talented.

747
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: She's very talented. Yeah, is very talented. Rihanna is talented.

748
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 4: Back in the day, a shanty was Okay, that's where

749
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 4: I stopped.

750
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: You need to stop yourself because.

751
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 4: I guess he needing me some that you'll be trying

752
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 4: to play people on the show you want to You

753
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 4: was not listening to a shun in the day.

754
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: I didn't say she could sing. I said she was talented.

755
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 1: Back then. Back then, we didn't think she was talented,

756
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: don't do that. She danced like this feel Me with

757
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: so much jump and you was in your living room

758
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 1: doing that there soon watching me. Such sorry y'all dancing

759
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: cause she used to like the song, so hell I

760
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: did so.

761
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 4: But anyways, I'm just saying, like, you can't this credy

762
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 4: some of the like the people that are on the

763
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 4: roster of light Skin.

764
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 3: Well like Thoja Cat too very talented, is talented, but

765
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 3: like I said, I feel like a lot of these

766
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 3: industry people, they.

767
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: Will put more.

768
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 4: Some people that you feel like are not getting enough

769
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 4: freaking niche, like female black women in the industry that

770
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 4: you feel like aren't getting the recondition as they desire

771
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 4: right now.

772
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, like I said, going back to cash do,

773
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 3: I do feel like and although I don't listen to Drezy,

774
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 3: I have heard a few of her songs any before.

775
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 3: Now She's not my type of music that I like,

776
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 3: but I really do think she's super talented. What's that

777
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 3: girl's name from Atlanta that can rap her fucking assholeta,

778
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 3: I'm moretta beautiful girl wrap her asshof But she still

779
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:18,320
Speaker 3: is not where she It's.

780
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 4: Not fair and I mean, I don't know the girl personally,

781
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 4: so I'm not trying to be funny or nothing, but

782
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 4: I've heard nasty attitudes and that's why. To be honest, well,

783
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 4: I mean, at the end of the day, so let's

784
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 4: talk about that. Sometimes it don't necessarily be your color.

785
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 4: It could be other factors might be the reason why

786
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 4: you're not getting the reconition you desired.

787
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I definitely agree with that.

788
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,919
Speaker 3: But like I said, for these white folks that really

789
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 3: run the industry, they want to see a lighter skinned

790
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 3: black person on the forefront.

791
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: And that's that's really tea. That's what it comes down to.

792
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 3: And now, as black people, I feel like we give

793
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 3: people better chances because we for the most part, especially women,

794
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 3: we don't really care about that stuff. But for these

795
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 3: industry people, they are giving bigger budgets to lighter skinned women.

796
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: And that's just facts. It is. I mean, you gotta realize.

797
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 1: Let me talk about this. I'm glad you said a

798
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 1: shanty name too.

799
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 3: When a shanty first dropped, Let's not forget that her

800
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 3: and tweet dropped at the same time. Okay, and where's

801
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 3: tweet now versus a shanty and Tweet. Looking back on it,

802
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 3: Tweet was way more fucking talented. Tweet just didn't have

803
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 3: the Ashanti budget.

804
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: Why she didn't, wasn't she working with Missy Elliot? Yeah,

805
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: but that's not coming out of Missy's pocket.

806
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 3: You have to realize that you have to go beyond

807
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:35,879
Speaker 3: Missy Elliott to get the budget for your view.

808
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 1: Missy not paying for these videos out her pot.

809
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 4: I mean, of course, that's of course I know that,

810
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, from my understanding, she was signed

811
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 4: to a major record label as well.

812
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: Just exactly. And guess what.

813
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 3: Guess what, just because me and you were signed to

814
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 3: the same label doesn't mean okay, well, just because me

815
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 3: and you were signed to a label doesn't mean I'm

816
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 3: gonna get the same amount as money as you. Just

817
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 3: like Tierra Marie and Rihanna. Now this has to do

818
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 3: a color, but they started dumping all their money into

819
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 3: Rihanna because they were like, okay, by girl, like you're

820
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 3: not it.

821
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 1: But back then and sometimes that just be what it

822
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 1: is too. You just ain't it. Tweet was good. We

823
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: didn't give my good sister a chance.

824
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that she wasn't good, but it's like,

825
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 4: obviously she didn't have what it takes to have longevity

826
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 4: in the industry, and ah TD, I think that they

827
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 4: just didn't.

828
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: I think she wasn't given a fair shot. All right.

829
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 4: Of course you will say that because I'm woke, my sister.

830
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 4: You want to be hotel so bad.

831
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 3: Y'all wan call me a doctor, missus umar, nobody call

832
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 3: you down, Okay, So let us know how y'all feel

833
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 3: about colorism in an industry. I just want to discuss

834
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 3: that real quick, Okay. So I'm so excited to talk

835
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 3: about this topic because this is very interesting to me.

836
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 3: So basically, I don't know, it's just interesting to me.

837
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:56,839
Speaker 3: So the other day I had tweeted I actually muted

838
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 3: it because I didn't care anymore, but I had asked

839
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 3: the girls and the.

840
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: Boys, Oh, I just thought about it, keep going. I

841
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 1: asked them, who would you sign an n d A for? Oh?

842
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 3: Then it went back to that because they were trying

843
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 3: to say Lebron was cheating on Savannah with some white

844
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 3: girl and they were saying that basically her NDA got broken.

845
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 3: So I was like, well, who would you sign an

846
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 3: NDA for? Is there any man or woman? Because we

847
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 3: know how drag it down. Is there any man or

848
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 3: woman you would sign an NDA for?

849
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 1: Why damn sure?

850
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 2: When signe for no beach and I went for no niggas.

851
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you sign the NDA though? Just to protect no?

852
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 4: Because I mean, you don't trust me. If you don't

853
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 4: trust me, you don't need to be fucking with me, Okay.

854
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 4: And that's just really how I feel about it.

855
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,800
Speaker 3: But sometimes maybe it's not about you, it's about the

856
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 3: people around you. Because the girl didn't know it's about me.

857
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 3: I mean, but what if he doesn't trust Like so

858
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:53,360
Speaker 3: it's like, if he.

859
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 4: Don't trust you, then you need to sign the NDA

860
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,399
Speaker 4: because you just said it's not about me the people

861
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 4: around me. So okay, cool, this my nigga, I'm fucking

862
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 4: with him. I'll be having my homegirls around and he

863
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 4: don't want them to post stuff on social media or whatever.

864
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: Whatever. You need to sign the NDA. I feel why

865
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 1: I need to sign one.

866
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 3: I feel like this is kind of like it's not

867
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 3: the same, but it kind of is like a pre nut,

868
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. It's kind of like in

869
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,800
Speaker 3: the same little bit of category. It's in the same realm.

870
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 3: It's just a little bit and that's fine, but because

871
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:26,479
Speaker 3: if you don't know what's gonna happen.

872
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 4: True, But I just feel like you need to be

873
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 4: more cautious of the type of people that you keep

874
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 4: around you. And that's just how I feel about it.

875
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 4: I feel like if a nigga came to me and

876
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 4: I ain't never had no nigga come to me about

877
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 4: No damn NDA the hook, I I know, I know.

878
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: That's why. That's what I want you to know about.

879
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,320
Speaker 4: When you first brought it up and you was like

880
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 4: what and I was like, never mind to see you

881
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 4: because I knew we was gonna talk about it later.

882
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 4: But yeah, and I felt like that was very disrespectful,

883
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 4: but especially coming from him that asked you to sign

884
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 4: an NDA, like.

885
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,800
Speaker 1: Nigga, are you serious? Don' don't even care about you

886
00:39:58,960 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: like that? Right now?

887
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 3: Basketball, let me say I've never said that man's name

888
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 3: in public. Anytime anything was shown in public it was

889
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 3: a nerve. It was because of him.

890
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: Let me be clear.

891
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 3: Anytime Ding says in public it was because of him.

892
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 3: But anyways, besides that point.

893
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: How did you feel when he asked you to sign and.

894
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 3: Feel no type of way, I was like, Okay, fuck it.

895
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 3: I'll sign it because I'm not talking about your ass

896
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 3: no way. That's honestly how I felt. I feel like

897
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 3: if a nigga asked me to sign the NDA.

898
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 4: And remember it being a little feelings. No, don't get

899
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 4: me wrong. I'm talking about the way I told him.

900
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 4: Now when I came to you, it definitely made me

901
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 4: feel some type. I was like, yeah, he don't trust me,

902
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 4: but this is my man.

903
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 1: If this is what he wants from me, I'm willing

904
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: to sign it.

905
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 3: He now, we never got to that point of me

906
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 3: signing it or him even drawing up a contract in

907
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 3: this sheet. But I feel like, if you're gonna want

908
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 3: me to sign the NDA, but also, what are the

909
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 3: benefits on my end?

910
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 4: It ain't nothing because youre talking about these like a prenup,

911
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 4: And that's how I'm trying to figure out how, because

912
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 4: a prenup is when you married to somebody, when you

913
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 4: about to get married to somebody, okay, and then you

914
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 4: could you could try to put certain clauses in there

915
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:07,840
Speaker 4: to make it comfortable for you to sign it to

916
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 4: where you like, Okay, Well, I know if we do

917
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 4: end up getting a divorce, I'm still gonna get maybe

918
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 4: this percentage or whatever this case may be. With the NDA,

919
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 4: you ain't getting shit because you don't have no legal

920
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 4: ties to any good.

921
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: Of course, now that's how what you now. But listen, listen.

922
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: I feel like, once you bring a contract into it,

923
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 1: that means we're doing business. So nigga about to do

924
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 1: business with you about I know, damn NDA. If anything,

925
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 1: he gonna be like, bitch, fuck you. You just ain't

926
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: gotta be around me no more. If he read that

927
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:36,959
Speaker 1: adamant about you. But that's what I'm saying.

928
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 3: I feel like back then, I was more so like

929
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 3: it just depends how I feel about the person. Now,

930
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 3: if this is somebody i'm fucking with, I'm like, okay,

931
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 3: and he's giving me money.

932
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: And we're doing what we're supposed to do. Cool. But

933
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 1: if it was like somebody like, I'm not gonna lie.

934
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: If Lebron James splidding my DMS right now, I'm gonna

935
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: sound that NDA because I want that dick real bad.

936
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: But that's different because you don't know him, that's what

937
00:41:59,680 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: I say.

938
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 4: And he's married and you just trying to be a

939
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 4: gold digger and you just want some money and she

940
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 4: so it's kind of like dud, You're gonna sign the

941
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 4: NBA because me trying to get some money and shit.

942
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 4: But I'm talking about somebody like that you fuck with.

943
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 4: You were in a harr relationship. You was in a

944
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 4: hall relationship with these men. It is no reason to

945
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,919
Speaker 4: me why it's why you had been at his house

946
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 4: for five six months. I however long y'all had been

947
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 4: together before he asked you to do this sit.

948
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: The podcast for it does not matter. I'm not taking

949
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: up for him.

950
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is, it's no real that was

951
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 4: your boyfriend though y'all were together, y'all were in a relationship.

952
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: Isn't real sassy about this?

953
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 4: No?

954
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: Because that shit's stupid. So like I was, I mean, no,

955
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm agreeing with you.

956
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 4: I feel like if no, I'm not getting sassy. I'm

957
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 4: just saying I'm passionate about it because I feel like

958
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:44,720
Speaker 4: that shit.

959
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: She's stupid.

960
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 4: I couldn't believe he asked you to sign that ship.

961
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 4: I was mad, as I probably was more mad than

962
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 4: you because I mean to.

963
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,320
Speaker 3: Me, I felt like, honestly, I'm not gonna lie like

964
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 3: in that situation, I was like, whatever, I'm not gonna

965
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 3: say nothing about you. Anyway, So whatever, I'll sign it.

966
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 3: But I growing from that situation and looking back on it,

967
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, you don't.

968
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: Trust me, Like what's the deal?

969
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 3: But like I said, of course, but that's what we're

970
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 3: talking about, Like who would you sign the NDA for?

971
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 1: Like shit like that, like not deep situations, because honestly.

972
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,360
Speaker 3: If like if I met Wiis Kleef of today and

973
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 3: he was like signing NDA, fucking I'm gonna sign the

974
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 3: NDA because I want to fuck with you, Like what's

975
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 3: the big deal? I feel like at the end of

976
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 3: the days to protect something. So if I get to

977
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 3: a certain level and i'm I'm I don't think I'm

978
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 3: gonna get married. I don't think I'm gonna be in

979
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 3: a relationship.

980
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: But you know, niggas talk more than bitches these days.

981
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: I do think.

982
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 3: I'm not trying to be funny, but I look at

983
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 3: stuff from the other side of you. So yeah, there

984
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 3: is a point that I feel that I'm gonna get

985
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 3: in my career that I want to be fucking with niggas.

986
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 3: I'm absolutely gonna make them sign the NDA, absolutely, because

987
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 3: I ain't no nigga about to go around being like, yeah,

988
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 3: I ate lex p pussy last night.

989
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: She ate my ass because you know, I evil little

990
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 1: ass and I don't need it going by, so I'll

991
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: be looking for Well, you're probably gonna tell them anyway,

992
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: So no, I'm not. I'm not.

993
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 3: If I fucked somebody that I just want to fuck

994
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 3: because we on tour or something, I do not want

995
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:15,240
Speaker 3: this person getting online and sharing that story.

996
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm giddy, I giddy, but I think with me,

997
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 4: it's just more of like a thing. Like I said, like,

998
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 4: if you don't trust me, you don't have to fuck

999
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 4: with me. But I think it's mad disrespectful to ask

1000
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 4: somebody then you fuck with society. But you.

1001
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: You know how many people have been in relationships with

1002
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: people and they broke up and they sold a story. Yeah,

1003
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 1: so the interviews, I get that.

1004
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 3: So a lot of times these people it's not about

1005
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,480
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1006
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you shouldn't ask these species. Just don't

1007
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: ask me, that's all. That's all I'm saying.

1008
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that you shouldn't ask me your society das,

1009
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:54,880
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1010
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 1: I don't even move like that. I mean, one day

1011
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:58,520
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1012
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1013
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Speaker 1: What I mean? Just keep it cute. Hey bye.

1061
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 3: So still i'mnna still use cold names. But I'm saying, though,

1062
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 3: but it's gonna be easy well you know, or let

1063
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 3: me not say that. Oh, I'm just saying people figure

1064
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:23,800
Speaker 3: out our cold names.

1065
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: People have.

1066
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 3: That's okay, okay, But all I'm saying is nbas can

1067
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 3: protect people in the long run, because who's to say,

1068
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 3: thirty years from now, you don't want to write an

1069
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 3: autobiography about your book and mention people that don't want

1070
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 3: to fucking be mentioned.

1071
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 4: I feel that I do, But like I said, for me,

1072
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 4: it's just like a touchy thing. It's just kind of like,

1073
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 4: excuse me. I feel like I don't know, I've never

1074
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,839
Speaker 4: been in that position, but like I'm just imagining if

1075
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,800
Speaker 4: somebody came to me and asked me some shit like that.

1076
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 3: I would be like, right, and I know how you feel,

1077
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 3: But there's some niggas you need to make your bitches

1078
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 3: sign in D because I'm really tired of seeing your

1079
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 3: ass on the blog with bitches. Seriously, Like there's some men. No,

1080
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 3: and I'm not even talking about anything that has to

1081
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 3: do with anything. I'm just saying there's some men, like

1082
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 3: why aren't you making these bitches sign NDAs? You know

1083
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, like it doesn't even matter. And I'm

1084
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 3: and there's one person in particular I'm thinking about. I'm like,

1085
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 3: you were with this girl for so long and it's

1086
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 3: like she just.

1087
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 1: Keep fucking talking. Why don't you make her sign an NDA?

1088
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: We'll talk about it later exactly, like why didn't you

1089
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: make her sign it?

1090
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 3: Because it's like, but why WI cause he wasn't Oh

1091
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 3: that's mine because you're my man and I'm her a bitch.

1092
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: But look how people act later on, But he wasn't

1093
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: that exactly. To be honest, it's like they helped each other.

1094
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:55,840
Speaker 3: Whatever they did should have been about him before they

1095
00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:57,959
Speaker 3: NDA should have been signed.

1096
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:00,320
Speaker 1: Heerd, I best you wish you had one? Now she

1097
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: talking about oh this is my man. That just doesn't

1098
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 1: that get I don't give a fuck. I don't give

1099
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:05,439
Speaker 1: a fuck.

1100
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 3: When I get to a certain level, NDA's is being

1101
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 3: passed out, even youth.

1102
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 4: And you think I'm gonna sign an NDA for you,

1103
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 4: you best believe you. Well, honestly you need signing that sheet.

1104
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tear it up and throw it in. You

1105
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 4: need to make me sign the NDA because all these

1106
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 4: scandalless nights you.

1107
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: But now you're the one. Now you the one that

1108
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 1: needs to sign an NDAK. You need to make me

1109
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 1: sign one too. Okay, So we're gonna get off that

1110
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: because this is a long episode.

1111
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 3: Okay, so let us know how y'all feel about NDAs

1112
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:42,840
Speaker 3: and if you were dating somebody that had it. I

1113
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 3: hope I'm not screaming too loud on this microphone. Little

1114
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 3: help with Jesus you Holley off.

1115
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:52,319
Speaker 1: Okay, So we gonna get into the baby dubbab ay

1116
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 1: the babe Ay.

1117
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 3: Okay, So today I wanted to talk about my favorite topic, sucking.

1118
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 1: I like to suck a little means I like to

1119
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 1: suck me too. We know, oh fucking live and in color.

1120
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: I'm tired of seeing you do sexual activities. You're the

1121
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: one who told me to do that. She cold. You

1122
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: don't understand I would, but my back, my back, my

1123
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 1: back was hurting. You're taking ship too far. But that

1124
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: was God, that was you. You did good though. You

1125
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 1: made Mama proud. I'm gonna do that, Okay.

1126
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 3: So today I wanted to talk about sucking dick from

1127
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 3: scratch because I feel.

1128
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 4: Like, explained to the people went from scratches, because I

1129
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 4: was a little confused that I can dick from scratches.

1130
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 3: Basically, when you start sucking the dick, whenever it's flaccid, soft, gummy, you.

1131
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 1: Know, no life if you will. So yeah, I definitely

1132
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: like sucking dick from scratch. But let me tell you why.

1133
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 3: I feel like the first time I sucked dick from scratch,

1134
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 3: it taught me how to deep throat. It did it

1135
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 3: truly did when it was tall. Well okay, so it

1136
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,840
Speaker 3: was like, okay, so you know how, what can I

1137
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,400
Speaker 3: use an example of? So you know how when you

1138
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 3: get into a pool and it's cold, so you kind

1139
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 3: of put your foot in and then you go deeper

1140
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 3: and you move around a little bit.

1141
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:29,439
Speaker 1: You go a little deeper and you move.

1142
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 3: Around it too it's comfortable. I feel like it was

1143
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 3: the same thing with the dick. So I put the

1144
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 3: dick in my mouth and it's just like I'm going back.

1145
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, I got it.

1146
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: It's growing a little bit more, and I'm like, okay,

1147
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: it could go a little bit more.

1148
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 3: It was like the dick was growing in my mouth,

1149
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 3: and as it was growing, I was able to go

1150
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 3: further and further back.

1151
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like I don't like this shit.

1152
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 3: I feel like, whenever you suck a dick from scratch,

1153
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 3: it's easier to deep throat it.

1154
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: It really is, because it's easy.

1155
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 3: He's shaking her head, because it helps you with your

1156
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 3: gag reflexes. Because if you just try to shove it

1157
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 3: all down at one time, when it's already hard, you're

1158
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 3: gonna throw up, or it's not gonna go down, you're

1159
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:09,120
Speaker 3: gonna be like.

1160
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: But if you let it grow in.

1161
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 3: Your mouth and take turns with it growing gradually, that

1162
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 3: whole thing gonna get swallowed.

1163
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 1: These are for the girls who don't know how to

1164
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: deep throat. Now, okay, yeah, because I don't, cause I

1165
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: can swallow that whole dick. I don't need it to

1166
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:24,919
Speaker 1: grow in my mouth.

1167
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:26,439
Speaker 4: I wasn't about to say that. I was just about

1168
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 4: to say I don't be liking when decks be like No,

1169
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 4: I just don't like when they be like South.

1170
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 1: I just don't like it. I'll be ready for you

1171
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 1: to be like.

1172
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:38,720
Speaker 3: I know, but it's fun.

1173
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 1: You don't like fun. I love it. I love to

1174
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: suck a gum gum.

1175
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:49,399
Speaker 3: I can't believe you don't like sounding. Okay, so deep

1176
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 3: throat tips? Do you have any deep throat tips?

1177
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you just have to relax.

1178
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 4: You have to relax and kind of like you said,

1179
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 4: That's why I said, I don't really I mean maybe

1180
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 4: that is a technique or whatever, but I feel like

1181
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 4: when you are attempted to deep throat, you have to

1182
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:06,239
Speaker 4: do like a little by a little until you can get.

1183
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 2: More and more in there, and you just have to

1184
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 2: relax your throat.

1185
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 1: That's why I said, do it from soft through. I mean,

1186
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 1: that makes sense, it does. It makes sense, But I

1187
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: don't need to do that because I know.

1188
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 3: And also I feel like a deep throat tip is

1189
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,240
Speaker 3: also like you got to hit it at an angle

1190
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 3: as well.

1191
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: That's sometimes it's easier to sli like it, like if

1192
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 1: you do an upside down, all right, all right, calm down,

1193
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 1: No am I not right? A right?

1194
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like if you laying like upside down on the

1195
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 4: bed and he like putting it in there, he's kind

1196
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:40,360
Speaker 4: of at an angle, so it's like really sliding.

1197
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 3: And if he has a curved curve dicks are the easiest.

1198
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 3: Like curve dicks are honestly the easiest to say too.

1199
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:51,879
Speaker 3: Like a curve dick, they slide down so easy. You'd

1200
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 3: be like now with a curve dick, if it's curved

1201
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 3: like towards him, if y'all doing sixty nine, you know,

1202
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,719
Speaker 3: so your face in this way on the dick, it's

1203
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 3: it just slides right on back there.

1204
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 1: Look at Kiki shaking her head.

1205
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 4: Think I ever had a nigga where it was curved

1206
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 4: towards him down? Yeah, I always had it curved.

1207
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It curves well, curved towards him.

1208
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, curve towards him. It best to do it in

1209
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 3: the sixty nine position now, ah. Now, if he got

1210
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 3: a curve, they got curved to the left or right.

1211
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: I ain't never seen that. They do have something. You've

1212
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: seen one of that, I've seen one. I haven't sucked one,

1213
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: but I've seen one. I never seen one. I mean,

1214
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 1: penis is.

1215
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 3: Curved all type of ways, but the best ones to

1216
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 3: me are you know, but when they are curved towards him,

1217
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 3: you can get in the sixty nine position. But yeah,

1218
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 3: like Drea said, if you want to start off deep throating,

1219
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 3: lay on the bed, hang off the bed, and just

1220
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 3: let him kind of fuck your mouth because you're the

1221
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 3: way your head is going to be angled. It's gonna

1222
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 3: be let that dick go down. So yes, those are

1223
00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 3: our deep throat tips of the day.

1224
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 1: Y'all welcome. So we're gonna get into the bop the

1225
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: bye bye. I'm gonna let you go first because I

1226
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: know you got eighty bops.

1227
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:14,239
Speaker 3: So go ahead, girl, Oh fucking brother, let me pour

1228
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 3: me up a glass one. This bitch about to talk

1229
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 3: about this ship for about thirty minutes.

1230
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: Sit back and relax, Niggers. So you know, y'all know

1231
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 1: Drake's mix tape came out this week. I'm not saying nothing.

1232
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 4: Go ahead, So drake mixtape came out this week. It's

1233
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 4: called Dark Lane Demo Tapes. And you know he had

1234
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 4: a few bops on here. Not gonna lie, not gonna lie,

1235
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. He's definitely had better mixtapes,

1236
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 4: but I did think that this particular mixtape has some

1237
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 4: bops on it, Like I like Deep Pockets, I like,

1238
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 4: I like Deep Pockets, Chicago Freestyle.

1239
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,959
Speaker 1: I can't remember that one, Okay. I like Landy.

1240
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 4: Desires, but that was already leaked a few months ago.

1241
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:12,760
Speaker 4: Whatever Landy, I like Landy.

1242
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 1: What else? Let's Hee Losses and then I also like

1243
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 1: D four l Okay with Future the original right for.

1244
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:28,399
Speaker 1: I never was a fan of this. I like, I'm

1245
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I never was a fan of Slide.

1246
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: I like it's cool. But if you want to talk

1247
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: about the catalog on the album, I don't feel like

1248
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: this is one of the best songs. What was the

1249
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: one that I made my caption? What's the name of

1250
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 1: that song? What was your caption? He should have put

1251
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 1: me Somewhere where nobody can find That's Desires.

1252
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, I like that song because he was like,

1253
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 3: put you somewhere where nobody can find you, like Katie

1254
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 3: and Dallas.

1255
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: But I'm like, people be in Dallas, people gonna find

1256
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:55,360
Speaker 1: me in Dallastuck But.

1257
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 4: No, the song O the other song that got like

1258
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 4: a good caption too, is Landy, Landy got a good

1259
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 4: caption so because he'd be like, baby, if you baby,

1260
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,239
Speaker 4: if you lose it, you gonna me see it or

1261
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:09,800
Speaker 4: something like that.

1262
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:15,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, he has a good lot of So we have

1263
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: two bops of the week, my first one being The Scott's,

1264
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: So shout out to Travis Scott and Kid Cuddy. I

1265
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: used to be a huge, huge, huge Kid.

1266
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 3: Cutty fan, So I love when like two of my

1267
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:31,920
Speaker 3: favorite rappers come together. And I'm so happy because it

1268
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 3: was like number one on the Hot one hundred, so

1269
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 3: like Kid Cutty got his first like number one song.

1270
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 3: So yeah, Travis Scott has a song with Kid Cutty

1271
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 3: called the Scott's and it's fire. I feel like Travis

1272
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:48,920
Speaker 3: Scott is very consistent with his music. He always fucking delivers,

1273
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 3: and I really feel like he's necessarily not a lyricist,

1274
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 3: but he just makes.

1275
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 1: Fucking good music, bro.

1276
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 3: And it's like he has the type of music that

1277
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 3: literally everybody can listen to, Like you know how Wiz

1278
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 3: Khalifa makes music for white people and black people and

1279
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 3: they can all jam to. Travis Scott is in that

1280
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 3: little pocket and not many people get in that pocket.

1281
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 3: Drake's in that pocket as well, you know what I'm saying.

1282
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's my bop of the week, And of

1283
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 3: course we have the same bop of the week.

1284
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 1: H Town queens, Beyonce and megs like beyond say like

1285
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 1: me Hey. The fact that she referenced fucking heavy, the lyricism,

1286
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: the talent, the booty, the beauty.

1287
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 4: Let me tell y'all, I don't think y'all understand how

1288
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 4: much I love being from Houston, like truly, bitch, I'm honored.

1289
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 1: I just don't mean knowing what to say. It's just like,

1290
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: how could it be from anywhere?

1291
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all something, since day one, since day one,

1292
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 3: this is the same ship I did with City Girls,

1293
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 3: the same ship we told you all about it. You

1294
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 3: did with City Girls, I said, I said we I said,

1295
00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 3: this is the same shop we did with City Girl.

1296
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 3: We told y'all when we first heard see the Girls,

1297
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 3: that was it. Since day one, I've been fighting from them.

1298
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 3: I've been fighting for Meg's rights. I've been telling y'all,

1299
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 3: this girl goes hard. I've been telling y'all've been telling y'all.

1300
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 3: I've been telling y'all. I've been telling y'all and listen,

1301
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 3: let me the accolades. Name one bitch in the game

1302
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 3: that got a Nicki Minaj and a Beyonce feature in

1303
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 3: a year before her album has even fucking dropped.

1304
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 1: Bro, Name one bitch. Oh wait, you can't a Beyonce feature? Bro?

1305
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 3: Do you know that Beyonce has only collabed with a

1306
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 3: handful of women because the girls can't keep up with

1307
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 3: Beyonce on the track.

1308
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, mm, I know what you mean.

1309
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 1: It's like, that's like jay Z doing a record with

1310
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 1: fucking Playboy Cardi or something. I don't know. It just

1311
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: don't make sense, you know what I'm saying.

1312
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 3: But when you are on that level and you that bitch,

1313
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 3: you can make a record with the fucking queen. Beyonce

1314
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 3: only does features with women when she he feels like

1315
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 3: you're making noise.

1316
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

1317
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,240
Speaker 3: Who has made on The last person that she did

1318
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 3: a song was Nikki, and before that was Lady Gaga,

1319
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 3: and before that it was Shakira.

1320
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: Shakira, So you know what that means.

1321
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 3: That means that Megan is in a category with fucking

1322
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:19,959
Speaker 3: Lady Gaga and Shakira and Nicki.

1323
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 1: Thank you magach. I'm shoot, make sure y'all go stream

1324
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 1: Sugar Fire.

1325
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 4: And I got another vibe okay, Humble by a Little Baby,

1326
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 4: because you know, I told y'all last week the Little

1327
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 4: Baby the Looks album was coming out, and he came

1328
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 4: out the same day as Drake album. And yeah, he

1329
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:40,040
Speaker 4: got a new song on there. It's called Humble. And

1330
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 4: I also like social distancing. Those are our bobs of the.

1331
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 3: Week, okay, okay, so yes, before we get into the questions,

1332
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 3: I just I want to do the item of the

1333
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 3: week first before we get some questions. Okay, So for

1334
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 3: the autumn of the week. Now, I told y'all, I

1335
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 3: know times is hard. You know, ran through your stimulus check.

1336
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 3: So let me tell y'all about a little call Current

1337
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 3: now because I.

1338
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 1: Don't ran through my check too.

1339
01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 3: Now, I know I ain't the only one here that

1340
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 3: got three dollars. Y'all be laughing, y'all be laughing. Well

1341
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,919
Speaker 3: maybe if you would get a job, bitch, Why would

1342
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 3: I do that?

1343
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 1: I know that's right. You bet a stunt on us.

1344
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 3: Okay, So anyways, I want to talk to y'all about

1345
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 3: app call Current now. No, I ain't th only bitch

1346
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:23,840
Speaker 3: with three dollars on here. We all got three dollars

1347
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 3: or some of us got three dollars, some of us

1348
01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:25,919
Speaker 3: got six.

1349
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 1: So let me tell you about this app called Current.

1350
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 3: So Current is like a bank account on crack, but

1351
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 3: good crack, you know what I'm saying. So basically, it's

1352
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 3: an app on your phone. You can you get a card,

1353
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 3: you get a card in the mail. You can use

1354
01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 3: it just like a debit card, so you can send money.

1355
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 3: People can send you money, and it's instant and the

1356
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:48,880
Speaker 3: best thing about it to me personally is that you

1357
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 3: can withdraw up to one hundred dollars without no feed. Now,

1358
01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 3: I told y'all had twelve hundred dollars, but I got

1359
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 3: my wife sale shoes, but they was thirteen hundred dollars.

1360
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 3: But I was able to get my shoes because I

1361
01:01:58,120 --> 01:01:59,040
Speaker 3: had one hundred dollars.

1362
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:01,360
Speaker 1: Drift feed, okay, and I ain't got to pay nothing

1363
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:04,479
Speaker 1: on it. So make sure y'all download the Current app.

1364
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: It's really really fired.

1365
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 3: There's no fees when you try to send money anything

1366
01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 3: like that, and you won't get the clients or anything.

1367
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 3: Whenever you try to, you know, swipe your card and

1368
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 3: you ain't got no money in there as long as

1369
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 3: you don't go over one hundred dollars.

1370
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: Now, don't go over that hundred dollars.

1371
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 3: So the Current app, like if you swipe your card,

1372
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 3: it'll notify you how much you've spent, how much you

1373
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 3: have in your account, and if you're under eighteen, you

1374
01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 3: can still get in an account with credit.

1375
01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:31,120
Speaker 1: So with currents.

1376
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 3: So if y'all have kids out there, kids in high school,

1377
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 3: or you know you want to try to teach your

1378
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 3: kid financial literacy, you could definitely get them their own

1379
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 3: card in their name. You can know, you can put

1380
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 3: a limit on there and do all that good stuff.

1381
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 3: It only takes two minutes to sign up and your

1382
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 3: current card will be.

1383
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,600
Speaker 1: Shipped to you for free.

1384
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 3: So make sure y'all download the Current app and use

1385
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 3: the code poor minds. That's po you are in my

1386
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 3: NDS and you'll get a visa debit card. Okay, so

1387
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 3: do what you gotta do, get your money.

1388
01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 1: Right and your bdb's.

1389
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:03,680
Speaker 3: If y'all't know what a BDB is, because some people

1390
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 3: have been asking me, because I know we say BDB

1391
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 3: a lot for the new listeners, a BDB is a.

1392
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:08,720
Speaker 1: Big dick baller.

1393
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:10,560
Speaker 3: So if you got a big dick baller that I

1394
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:12,960
Speaker 3: want to send you some money. Make sure you download

1395
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 3: the current app and tell them just to send it

1396
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 3: to your current card boo.

1397
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 1: Amen. So now we're gonna get into the next segment.

1398
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 3: If you want your question answered on the show, make

1399
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 3: sure you email us at ask Poor Minds at gmail

1400
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 3: dot com.

1401
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 1: That's ask p O. You are m my nds. Hit it, Drea.

1402
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 1: Excuse me, I got excited. So now it's time for

1403
01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: the questions, and y'all know the routine.

1404
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 4: If you have any questions that you would like answer,

1405
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 4: please send your questions to ask Poor Minds at gmail

1406
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 4: dot com and we will make sure that we answer

1407
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 4: your questions. So this is the first question this week,

1408
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 4: says Heydrea. I mean, hey, lexp Andrea, please keep my

1409
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 4: name anonymous. I've been dating this guy for seven years,

1410
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 4: but out of those seven years, I've cheated on him twice.

1411
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 1: The reason is because he doesn't satisfy me sexually.

1412
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 4: Don't get me wrong, he's a great man, pays all

1413
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:12,480
Speaker 4: the bills, brought us the house, and I love him dearly.

1414
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 1: But listen, see the sex is wag. I haven't talked

1415
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 1: to him about it. No, she said.

1416
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 4: I have talked to him about it, even tried to

1417
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 4: show him what I like, but nothing works. The guy

1418
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 4: keep cheating on my boyfriend with He's a great guy

1419
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 4: as well. He gives me money, digs me down the way.

1420
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:29,440
Speaker 4: I like, Eat fat Ma.

1421
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 1: Fat mam is at Garfield girl, I'm dead, Eat fat mom.

1422
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:36,880
Speaker 1: I know who's fat mom. I know what it is

1423
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:38,840
Speaker 1: that I believe she called it.

1424
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 4: That's Garfield cousin. Eat fat ma like he eating his

1425
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 4: last meal. But he a hoe. He has three baby mamas,

1426
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 4: and I know for a fact he's still fucking on them.

1427
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 4: Although he says he's not. I've actually fallen for him.

1428
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 4: Could you please give me some advice on what to

1429
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 4: do because I'm torn between both of my men.

1430
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 1: But I know this is not right. I'm gonna go first. Damn.

1431
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 1: If you read the question, you're supposed to let me

1432
01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:03,880
Speaker 1: go from well, that sounds great.

1433
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 4: Unfortunately though you don't do that, so I no, you don't, No,

1434
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 4: you don't, So I'm gonna go first. You're real sassy today,

1435
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 4: so yeah, So I just feel like the right thing

1436
01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 4: to do is obviously to stick with your nigga.

1437
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 2: He watched you a house, he paid the bills.

1438
01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:25,240
Speaker 4: You could work with him in the sixth apartment, or

1439
01:05:25,360 --> 01:05:27,600
Speaker 4: you could just keep cheating, But I mean cheat with

1440
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 4: somebody else. Don't keep cheating with that nigga, because obviously

1441
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 4: he got a whole bunch of shit going on, and

1442
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 4: it sounded.

1443
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 1: To me like eventually y'all about to get caught up.

1444
01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:37,520
Speaker 1: That's just how I feel.

1445
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 4: I feel like his situation already too massy. He got

1446
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 4: three baby mamas.

1447
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 1: He fucking on him.

1448
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 4: You think he's still fucking on him, and then you

1449
01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 4: fucking with your nigga, And that's a lot of I

1450
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 4: don't know if y'all using protection or not, that's a

1451
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 4: lot of juices in the twining. I just feel like

1452
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 4: some shit gonna end up hitting the fan, and I

1453
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 4: would hate to see it happen for you, sees, because

1454
01:05:56,720 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 4: he gonna kick your ass out their house and you're

1455
01:05:58,880 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 4: gonna be homeless.

1456
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 1: We don't want you to be hungry. Do the right thing.

1457
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:04,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like you've been dealing with this man

1458
01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 3: for seven years, so obviously this is somebody that you

1459
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 3: love and care about. But obviously, if you fucking somebody

1460
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:11,919
Speaker 3: on the side, it's hard not to develop feelings because

1461
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of the times women cheap

1462
01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:17,439
Speaker 3: for emotional reasons as well. But that's another topic. Even

1463
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 3: though you've talked to him, it's more than talking. If

1464
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 3: somebody's not satisfying you sexually, it's more than talking. Whenever

1465
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 3: the act, the physical act is going on, that's when

1466
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 3: you need to have tell him, Oh, I like this,

1467
01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 3: Show him where to put his hands, show him where

1468
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 3: to put his fingers, show him where you like to

1469
01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 3: be licked at and suck that, show him how to

1470
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 3: hit it.

1471
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 1: Like you can't have it. I can't have a conversation

1472
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 1: with Dred like, oh this is how I like my

1473
01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: pussy eight.

1474
01:06:41,760 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 3: You know, like we need to actually lay down and

1475
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 3: do the act, and I'm gonna have to show her.

1476
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:47,840
Speaker 3: So I feel like during the act, maybe you need

1477
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 3: to what bitch, please hold on now? But I feel

1478
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 3: like this side nigga, he's obviously no good.

1479
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 1: He got other bitches.

1480
01:06:58,000 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 3: He's not gonna take care of you like your main

1481
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 3: man that's taking care of you. I feel like it's

1482
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 3: not worth it. You got a bead, b sis, you

1483
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 3: got a BDB.

1484
01:07:04,480 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 1: Stop being greedy girl. You and fat MONI to calm down.

1485
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 3: And figure out how to make it work sexually with

1486
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,960
Speaker 3: your main man, bring toys in the bedroom, watch poorn together.

1487
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:18,600
Speaker 3: I feel like you haven't tried all your options out.

1488
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:20,960
Speaker 3: So yeah, you and fat mab calmed down, cut your

1489
01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 3: side nigga off because you don't want.

1490
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 1: To be, you know, out in the car.

1491
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:25,919
Speaker 4: But I do feel like sometimes when you be trying

1492
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 4: to tell people what to do in the bedroom, me

1493
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 4: and take that if you be in controllable, because I

1494
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:32,840
Speaker 4: get accused of being controlling all the time.

1495
01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 3: They've been together seven years, so I feel like they

1496
01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 3: can be past that point. They know each other very

1497
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:39,400
Speaker 3: seven years is a long time, that is, so it's

1498
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 3: like he should if she tells him that he's not satisfied,

1499
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 3: then he should take that as you know, let's work

1500
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:47,960
Speaker 3: on it and we can work this together. We can

1501
01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 3: work this out together. I don't think he should be

1502
01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 3: offended because they've been together.

1503
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 1: For a while.

1504
01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:55,240
Speaker 3: Okay, So good luck girl. Okay, So I'm gonna read

1505
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 3: the next one. I'm very excited because I've been through

1506
01:07:57,200 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 3: this before me. It says, hey, ladies, I'm a bartender

1507
01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:04,520
Speaker 3: and a popular strip club in the major cities, and

1508
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 3: the strippers make way more money than we do. I'm

1509
01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 3: considering switching to stripping since since when people find out

1510
01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:14,280
Speaker 3: you work at a strip club, they assume you strip anyway.

1511
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:17,600
Speaker 1: But I'm still very apprehensive about it. Ad a k.

1512
01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 3: It just seems intimidating. I recall Lex tweeting about how

1513
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:24,599
Speaker 3: she stripped for a summer, and I was wondering, if

1514
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:26,560
Speaker 3: you could shed some light on your experience.

1515
01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 1: Okay, girl, you oh, go ahead.

1516
01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 3: You guys want to saying hold on cause you because

1517
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:32,840
Speaker 3: you worked at a strip club before two.

1518
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 4: I wanted to strip when I was younger, but I

1519
01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:43,720
Speaker 4: always felt like I stuck with bartending and waitressing because

1520
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 4: I just feel like that was the right thing to do,

1521
01:08:45,680 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 4: the politically correct thing to do. And I just, you know,

1522
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:51,719
Speaker 4: was afraid of what people in my family and stuff

1523
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 4: was gonna think about me. But honestly, if I could

1524
01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:55,800
Speaker 4: go back in my life and go back to be

1525
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:58,920
Speaker 4: in twenty two twenty three, I would definitely shake this

1526
01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 4: ass and wouldn't give a fuck or people got to

1527
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 4: say about it, because at the end of the day, bitch,

1528
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:06,840
Speaker 4: make your money. Make your money, because that's gonna set

1529
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 4: you up for your future more than what you realize.

1530
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 4: And I don't know how old you are because you

1531
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 4: didn't say you know in a message or whatever. But definitely,

1532
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:16,760
Speaker 4: if that's something that you want to do, do it.

1533
01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:19,680
Speaker 4: You always should prefer to be that girl that went

1534
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:21,760
Speaker 4: forth in the beach, that look back on her life

1535
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:24,080
Speaker 4: and be like, damn, I wish I could have eate

1536
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 4: it she'd or I wish I would have ead that

1537
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 4: she's so bitch. I just say go for it, because

1538
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:29,120
Speaker 4: you could do it one time and then if you

1539
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 4: don't like it, don't do it no more.

1540
01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:33,800
Speaker 3: Well, for me, I would say it wasn't for the money.

1541
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 3: I just wanted to do it because I'm a kind

1542
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:37,720
Speaker 3: of person. I would just like, turn the fuck up

1543
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:40,599
Speaker 3: type shit, and it looked fun. It did look fun too,

1544
01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 3: So I'll say this. I used to work at Dreams

1545
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 3: in Houston, very popular strip club. We used to have

1546
01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:48,479
Speaker 3: all the bedb's in that hole, and the girls used

1547
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:51,160
Speaker 3: to be making fucking bridge, just like the situation you're

1548
01:09:51,200 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 3: in right now. So me and one of my close

1549
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 3: friends we decided to pack up our shit and go

1550
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 3: to Dallas. And we actually went a few times and

1551
01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:01,280
Speaker 3: we stripped and I made a lot of fucking.

1552
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,679
Speaker 1: Money, Bitch. Iall danced for the Dallas Cowboys one time

1553
01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: when it was fucking fun, and I would say, this

1554
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 1: money you made, you know what. But honestly, I'm not

1555
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:13,240
Speaker 1: trying to be funny. I don't remember that.

1556
01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:14,920
Speaker 3: It was a long time ago and I made a

1557
01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 3: lot of money in the strip club bartending and when

1558
01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:18,400
Speaker 3: I was stripping for that little time.

1559
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:19,680
Speaker 1: But honestly, when I.

1560
01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:21,719
Speaker 3: Look back on it, I was like, damn, I don't

1561
01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:24,519
Speaker 3: know why I really stopped because it was outside of

1562
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:26,960
Speaker 3: it being fun, it was actually fun for me. I

1563
01:10:27,040 --> 01:10:30,280
Speaker 3: felt liberated, I felt powerful. I was like, I'm controlling

1564
01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:32,240
Speaker 3: this nigga, all this fucking nigga money and I'm not

1565
01:10:32,320 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 3: doing shit. And the club I was dancing that you

1566
01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:36,840
Speaker 3: had to get butt booty hole naked. And it was

1567
01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:38,840
Speaker 3: so funny because my friend was like, bitch, I didn't

1568
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:39,759
Speaker 3: think you was naked.

1569
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, we had to be naked in Dallas. Yes, yes,

1570
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:45,519
Speaker 1: it was at Onyx and Dallas.

1571
01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 3: Bitch, they probably still got because you know, you gotta

1572
01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 3: go take a picture, you gotta go get the license,

1573
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:51,519
Speaker 3: you gotta do all that with Dallas.

1574
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:52,719
Speaker 1: You gotta do that everywhere.

1575
01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 4: We'll not in Houston bitch, we're not in Houston, but

1576
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:57,719
Speaker 4: even here like working in the strip clubs in Atlanta.

1577
01:10:57,760 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you want to be a bartender or whatever.

1578
01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 1: You still gotta get a.

1579
01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 3: But I will never forget. My friend was like, well, bitch,

1580
01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:03,640
Speaker 3: I didn't know if you knew how to dance. I

1581
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:05,240
Speaker 3: was like, this, bitch about to embarrass me, she said.

1582
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:06,960
Speaker 3: I looked over to the left, but you was already

1583
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:09,800
Speaker 3: making busting that booty hole open. So I say this,

1584
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:13,040
Speaker 3: you can't care about what other people think. I feel

1585
01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:14,800
Speaker 3: like as long as as long as you don't feel

1586
01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 3: bad about yourself, and you're doing it for the right reasons,

1587
01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 3: whether it be money or you want to have fun

1588
01:11:19,439 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 3: or you just want to turn up.

1589
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:22,800
Speaker 1: This is your life, and you get one life.

1590
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:24,840
Speaker 3: And let me tell you, yes, I stripped for a

1591
01:11:25,040 --> 01:11:28,720
Speaker 3: few times in one summer and it was literally so

1592
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:30,880
Speaker 3: much fun. And it's a memory that me and one

1593
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 3: of my best friends always laugh about and we have

1594
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:35,600
Speaker 3: to look back on. So I say, fucking girl, do

1595
01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:38,880
Speaker 3: it turn up. I don't regret anything about do it too. Yeah,

1596
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:41,519
Speaker 3: I didn't regret anything about it, and it was fun.

1597
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:43,880
Speaker 3: I was young, and that's something I can say I

1598
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 3: did before. Not many bitches can say, well, a lot

1599
01:11:45,880 --> 01:11:47,640
Speaker 3: of bitches can say they can strip, because a lot

1600
01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 3: of bitches do be stripping on the low.

1601
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,280
Speaker 4: So fuck it, turn up because I was gonna say

1602
01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 4: I had a friend who win stripped all the low

1603
01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:54,599
Speaker 4: one time too, and I'm like, damn.

1604
01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 1: I should have win with man. That was just so much.

1605
01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I just feel like you, young Douey,

1606
01:11:58,720 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

1607
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:01,599
Speaker 4: It's like, fuck, why not, like you said, you already

1608
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:03,439
Speaker 4: in the atmosphere, you already in the club.

1609
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:03,840
Speaker 1: You know.

1610
01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:06,680
Speaker 4: I feel like I have people in my family who

1611
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 4: even though I was dancing, not not necessarily my parents,

1612
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:12,600
Speaker 4: but I had people in my family who knew I

1613
01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:13,960
Speaker 4: was working at strip club and they thought I was

1614
01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:14,639
Speaker 4: stripping anyway.

1615
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:18,360
Speaker 1: So I should have just did this. So go turn up, girl,

1616
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 1: yes and let us know how you So go ahead. Okay.

1617
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:27,320
Speaker 4: So the next question says Instagram tips, Hey, guys, been

1618
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:29,560
Speaker 4: listening to you since you were wind down Wednesday, so

1619
01:12:29,720 --> 01:12:33,080
Speaker 4: obviously I love your content. Can you get can you guys,

1620
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:36,680
Speaker 4: especially Drea lo l, give some advice on how to

1621
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 4: become ig famous to IgG famous, How to become ig

1622
01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:43,560
Speaker 4: famous to the point where I can get company sponsorships.

1623
01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:46,320
Speaker 4: Not to too my own horn, but I'm hot, I'm

1624
01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:49,519
Speaker 4: just lazy and inconsistent. I have been posted on ig

1625
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:51,680
Speaker 4: in over a year, and I know growth has a

1626
01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 4: lot to do with consistency in order to keep people

1627
01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:56,600
Speaker 4: interested in your content. I got wiped up by a

1628
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 4: BDB and got lazy, But now that we broke up,

1629
01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 4: I'm ready to get back out there. I have questions like,

1630
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:04,439
Speaker 4: how do companies just reach out to you or to

1631
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:07,599
Speaker 4: promote their clothes or products, How to grow a following,

1632
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 4: what type of peaks to take advice on, how to

1633
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 4: put your rates, posing plus content advice and so forth?

1634
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:19,879
Speaker 4: What not to post SA's or slash organizing your highlights

1635
01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:23,879
Speaker 4: or hashtags corny? Now do you have to post designer

1636
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:25,920
Speaker 4: and lavish trips or keep it humble?

1637
01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:28,680
Speaker 1: Stuff like that? Thank you and evans, I'll let you go.

1638
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:34,800
Speaker 3: Versuses well, I feel like any I mean, I'm not

1639
01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 3: gonna get too deep on it because I'm not Instagram

1640
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:39,200
Speaker 3: famous either, but I know I have a platform. So

1641
01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:42,280
Speaker 3: one thing I think people get caught up in is

1642
01:13:42,360 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 3: the follower count. The thing that you need to focus

1643
01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:47,840
Speaker 3: on is your engagement. Because a lot of companies, believe

1644
01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:50,439
Speaker 3: it or not, they're focusing on micro influencers now.

1645
01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:52,000
Speaker 1: They're focused on people who.

1646
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:53,719
Speaker 3: Don't have as many followers because a lot of times

1647
01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 3: people are gonna listen to somebody that has ten k

1648
01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 3: followers because they feel like they're telling the truth versus

1649
01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:01,720
Speaker 3: somebody who has a million followers who most likely is

1650
01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 3: getting paid for it, not knowing that they're both getting

1651
01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:06,880
Speaker 3: paid for it. So I feel like, whatever you want

1652
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:08,880
Speaker 3: to do, you need to focus on that. For me,

1653
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 3: I didn't start my Instagram off knowing that this is

1654
01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:12,920
Speaker 3: what I was going to be doing three or four

1655
01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 3: years later. So my content it tends to be a

1656
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 3: mix between bad bitch and stuff. But I also like

1657
01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:22,599
Speaker 3: to tag my hair like because I'm into hair, nails

1658
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:25,160
Speaker 3: and stuff. So if anything, I prefer to get hit

1659
01:14:25,280 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 3: up by like hair companies because I like bitch, I

1660
01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:28,519
Speaker 3: like free.

1661
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: Hair the fuck. You know what I'm saying. So it

1662
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:33,160
Speaker 1: just depends what your what your goal is.

1663
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:36,719
Speaker 3: I have a friend and she has maybe eight thousand followers,

1664
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:39,080
Speaker 3: and when I tell you, she makes fucking money and

1665
01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:42,280
Speaker 3: she is all but she's a blogger. So everything she posts,

1666
01:14:42,320 --> 01:14:44,920
Speaker 3: she's just fresh out the shower with some nice towels

1667
01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 3: on tagging a towel company. She's in the kitchen, cooking,

1668
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 3: she's tagging the whoever is her spatula is in her hand.

1669
01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 3: So if you're trying to be like a lifestyle influencer,

1670
01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:56,400
Speaker 3: that's what your pictures need to be of. It doesn't

1671
01:14:56,439 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 3: have to be all sexy and shit like how I mean, well,

1672
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 3: not sexy, but you don't gotta have your ass and

1673
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:03,080
Speaker 3: your titties out to necessarily do what you want to do.

1674
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 3: But you do have to be consistent, and I think

1675
01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:08,040
Speaker 3: that's what I have a problem with. Still, I'm not

1676
01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 3: consistent on my posting. I feel like, if you want

1677
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:12,320
Speaker 3: to get your Instagram followers up, you need to do

1678
01:15:12,400 --> 01:15:16,720
Speaker 3: at least I'll say, like at least four to five

1679
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 3: posts a week. That's the people that have a lot

1680
01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:21,800
Speaker 3: of content coming out. Those are the people that are

1681
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:23,800
Speaker 3: like posting four to five times a week. I post

1682
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:26,840
Speaker 3: maybe once a week, and that's not good. So, but

1683
01:15:26,920 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 3: I don't let the queen Instagram queen take the ropes.

1684
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 4: So definitely, you know what I mean to elaborate on

1685
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:38,960
Speaker 4: what LyX was just saying about, consistency, Consistency is definitely

1686
01:15:39,080 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 4: the key if you want to get a bunch of

1687
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,519
Speaker 4: Instagram followers. I feel like when I first started growing

1688
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:48,160
Speaker 4: my Instagram following, which was probably when I first moved

1689
01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 4: to Atlanta actually like four years ago, I was very consistent,

1690
01:15:52,320 --> 01:15:56,040
Speaker 4: Like I used to post the picture damn near every day,

1691
01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:57,479
Speaker 4: like I didn't skip a day.

1692
01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:58,160
Speaker 1: Posting a picture.

1693
01:15:58,520 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 4: And because I was posting so much, of course, all

1694
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:04,960
Speaker 4: of those you know, little pages that post, like the

1695
01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:07,679
Speaker 4: Instagram baddies or the cute girls or whatever, they would

1696
01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:10,360
Speaker 4: always repost my photos and then that would give me

1697
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:12,800
Speaker 4: a lot of followers. And I understand girl about your

1698
01:16:12,920 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 4: situation with the BDB, because I got in a situation

1699
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:16,519
Speaker 4: like that too, And I feel like that's when I

1700
01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:20,639
Speaker 4: stopped and started slacking on posting, because before that situation,

1701
01:16:21,280 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 4: I was posting consistently all the time. But I get

1702
01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:26,080
Speaker 4: I get it, you know what I mean. Sometimes you

1703
01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:28,880
Speaker 4: get in a situation where you comfortable and you're not

1704
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:31,080
Speaker 4: worried about making that a little bit of money that

1705
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 4: you was making from your social media no more because

1706
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 4: you got some other shit going on.

1707
01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:36,960
Speaker 1: But you have to stay consistent.

1708
01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:38,880
Speaker 4: And I feel like, now you know, I mean to

1709
01:16:38,920 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 4: talk about even what I'm going through personally right now,

1710
01:16:41,280 --> 01:16:44,840
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm working on getting my engagement.

1711
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:45,559
Speaker 1: And stuff back up to what.

1712
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:50,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, But yeah, I feel like I'm working

1713
01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:52,080
Speaker 4: on getting my engagement back up to what it used

1714
01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:53,960
Speaker 4: to because at one point I was like Lex too,

1715
01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 4: Like it was like I just didn't have the desire

1716
01:16:57,240 --> 01:16:59,719
Speaker 4: to post it on Instagram to get.

1717
01:16:59,600 --> 01:17:01,439
Speaker 1: Cute and pictures and all that shit. It was like

1718
01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 1: for what.

1719
01:17:02,360 --> 01:17:05,679
Speaker 4: So like, consistency is definitely key as far as getting

1720
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 4: companies to reach out to you. Companies look at engagement.

1721
01:17:10,080 --> 01:17:13,160
Speaker 4: Like Lex said, they look at engagement, they look at

1722
01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:15,160
Speaker 4: your likes, they look at stuff like that. So a

1723
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:17,479
Speaker 4: lot of the time, unfortunately, I know it's probably not

1724
01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 4: gonna sound good to you. But if companies want to

1725
01:17:20,040 --> 01:17:22,720
Speaker 4: work with you, they gonna reach out to you. You

1726
01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:24,920
Speaker 4: can reach out to them, because it has been times

1727
01:17:24,960 --> 01:17:27,400
Speaker 4: that I've reached out to companies and try to work

1728
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:28,800
Speaker 4: with them, but a lot of the time they only

1729
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 4: want to send you free stuff. They ain't really trying

1730
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:33,680
Speaker 4: to Yeah, they not really trying to pay you. When

1731
01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:36,080
Speaker 4: people want to pay you to work with you, they

1732
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:40,320
Speaker 4: will reach out to you. As far as posing and content,

1733
01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 4: I just feel like, you have to find your audience.

1734
01:17:43,320 --> 01:17:45,080
Speaker 4: You have to figure out what your audience is and

1735
01:17:45,160 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 4: post shit that targets your audience.

1736
01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:49,400
Speaker 3: And also another thing is make sure it's something that

1737
01:17:49,520 --> 01:17:51,880
Speaker 3: you like to do, because I feel like at one

1738
01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 3: point I was trying to post stuff because I was

1739
01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:55,960
Speaker 3: trying to fit in this category of stuff that I

1740
01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 3: wanted to do, but it wasn't stuff that I liked

1741
01:17:58,240 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 3: to do.

1742
01:17:58,600 --> 01:17:59,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1743
01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 3: I feel like, for me, the best thing that's gonna

1744
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:03,920
Speaker 3: be for me is like makeup and hairshit, because that's

1745
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:06,320
Speaker 3: what I'm into. That's what I like, lashes, I love

1746
01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:08,600
Speaker 3: getting all that type of stuff sent to me. Like

1747
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:10,679
Speaker 3: I just you gotta stay in your lane.

1748
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 4: You do.

1749
01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:12,719
Speaker 1: You have to stay in your lane.

1750
01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:16,920
Speaker 4: And then to answer your last question, how to grow

1751
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:22,760
Speaker 4: a following, I'm gonna be honest. When I started getting

1752
01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:26,559
Speaker 4: a lot of Instagram followers, Instagram and the algorithms and.

1753
01:18:26,560 --> 01:18:29,360
Speaker 2: All that shit was completely different than how it is now.

1754
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:32,000
Speaker 4: And I'm not trying to discourage you or nothing, because

1755
01:18:32,000 --> 01:18:34,400
Speaker 4: you can still grow an Instagram following these days, but

1756
01:18:34,520 --> 01:18:36,680
Speaker 4: it's not as easy as it was to get the

1757
01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:39,000
Speaker 4: amount of followers that I have now. As it was

1758
01:18:39,160 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 4: back then, you know what I mean, That's when I

1759
01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:43,479
Speaker 4: really gained the bulk of my followers, was like two

1760
01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 4: years ago because they hadn't changed the algorithms. Now it's

1761
01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:49,920
Speaker 4: really hard to get like on the explore page and

1762
01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:53,599
Speaker 4: they just have so many other different factors where Instagram

1763
01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:57,360
Speaker 4: just be blocking people from being seen and stuff like that.

1764
01:18:57,640 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 2: So you know what I mean.

1765
01:18:59,080 --> 01:19:02,040
Speaker 4: But my main tip will just be stay consistent and

1766
01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:04,760
Speaker 4: post fire pictures. Like if you post something fire, people

1767
01:19:04,840 --> 01:19:07,400
Speaker 4: can't help but to like this shep and that's just

1768
01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 4: what it is. I think a lot of the time

1769
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:11,479
Speaker 4: people just be wanting to post some sheet. That's one

1770
01:19:11,479 --> 01:19:13,040
Speaker 4: thing I noticed from a lot of people. People just

1771
01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:14,680
Speaker 4: want to post up. They just be wanting to have

1772
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:16,880
Speaker 4: something to post every day and they be posting sheet,

1773
01:19:17,120 --> 01:19:19,160
Speaker 4: but yo, sheit ain't fired. And then they wonder why

1774
01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:22,800
Speaker 4: they not getting engagement or they not getting followers and

1775
01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:24,920
Speaker 4: they not getting likes. It's like cause the shep not fire.

1776
01:19:25,040 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 4: Make sure everything you post is like likable. It's something

1777
01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 4: that people gonna be like, damn.

1778
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:31,880
Speaker 3: And I think it also helps, Like what helped me

1779
01:19:32,120 --> 01:19:34,840
Speaker 3: is like focus on what people always compliment you on

1780
01:19:35,040 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 3: and try to make sure you highlight that or talk

1781
01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:39,400
Speaker 3: about that a lot, and that's how companies will start

1782
01:19:39,439 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 3: reaching out to you. Because I know, for me, like,

1783
01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:43,360
Speaker 3: I do a lot of shit with my hair, and

1784
01:19:43,400 --> 01:19:45,960
Speaker 3: I wear my wigs every which way, so I was

1785
01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 3: always like talking about what kind of wigs I was

1786
01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:50,960
Speaker 3: wearing or posting this and posting that, and honestly, hair

1787
01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:53,000
Speaker 3: companies started reaching out to me. I can't remember last

1788
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:55,479
Speaker 3: time I like bought like a good wig, because I mean,

1789
01:19:55,560 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 3: companies send me shit and they be fire so and.

1790
01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:01,439
Speaker 4: By the way, hashtags, yeah, they don't really work anymore.

1791
01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:03,920
Speaker 4: And as far as posting, because I'm trying to make

1792
01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:06,280
Speaker 4: sure we answer all of the questions that you sense

1793
01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:10,120
Speaker 4: us posting designer and lavish trips are keep it humble.

1794
01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:12,080
Speaker 4: I feel like you should just do what true to yourself.

1795
01:20:12,120 --> 01:20:13,639
Speaker 4: Like Beach, if you got a whole bunch of Chanel

1796
01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:15,560
Speaker 4: and a whole bunch of wire steling, she didn't you

1797
01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:16,479
Speaker 4: want to post pictures in there?

1798
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:18,920
Speaker 1: She Beach postal picture because people do like stuff like that,

1799
01:20:19,160 --> 01:20:19,720
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

1800
01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:21,479
Speaker 4: And then if you go on trips all the time

1801
01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 4: and you want to post your pictures, yeah, goo post

1802
01:20:25,840 --> 01:20:27,760
Speaker 4: post your pictures from your trips. It just depends, like

1803
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:29,639
Speaker 4: I said, on the type of audience that you're trying

1804
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:30,160
Speaker 4: to a trade.

1805
01:20:30,400 --> 01:20:32,840
Speaker 1: So what s you a poor girl? I don't know

1806
01:20:32,920 --> 01:20:34,599
Speaker 1: what that word means to be honest.

1807
01:20:35,200 --> 01:20:37,360
Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm gonna skip this one just because it's

1808
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:39,040
Speaker 3: really long. But I'm gonna read one more just so

1809
01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:42,200
Speaker 3: we can get caught up. So this one, oh yeah,

1810
01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:43,560
Speaker 3: that one's really long, so I'm gonna save that.

1811
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:45,800
Speaker 1: That's the one I show Kiki. I said, these girls

1812
01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:47,880
Speaker 1: be truthy, so I went up, these are just a

1813
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 1: lot of these are just advice. So I went to

1814
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:52,200
Speaker 1: the one. I went to this one. It says he's

1815
01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:52,880
Speaker 1: gonna leave.

1816
01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:57,280
Speaker 3: No okay, so it says, hey, ladies, please keep me anonymous.

1817
01:20:57,400 --> 01:20:59,880
Speaker 3: Let's jump right into it. I'm not having enough sex

1818
01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:02,479
Speaker 3: with my man. We've been together for a little over

1819
01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:05,000
Speaker 3: three years, and I truly think I'm going to marry

1820
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:07,840
Speaker 3: this man one day. He's perfect for me in every way.

1821
01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:10,880
Speaker 3: When we first started out, the sex was good. I'm

1822
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:13,240
Speaker 3: a little kinky, so I had to show him things.

1823
01:21:13,520 --> 01:21:15,400
Speaker 3: But now he's a freak like me, and we have

1824
01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:19,240
Speaker 3: amazing sex when we can. We both work full time,

1825
01:21:19,560 --> 01:21:22,200
Speaker 3: but I also have a side business as a visual artist,

1826
01:21:22,320 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 3: which leads to long work hours after my full time.

1827
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:27,280
Speaker 1: Also a little team I.

1828
01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:30,920
Speaker 3: My cycle is irregular and sometimes can last half a

1829
01:21:31,040 --> 01:21:34,639
Speaker 3: month ooh, which also cuts into my sex time. He's

1830
01:21:34,720 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 3: cool with period sex, but I just don't feel sexy

1831
01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:37,720
Speaker 3: during that time.

1832
01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:38,800
Speaker 1: Ooh, girl, I feel you.

1833
01:21:39,520 --> 01:21:42,599
Speaker 3: I've tried more kinky shit. I take shee orgasm. Let's

1834
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 3: make sure y'all use Kiki cold Kiki said so and

1835
01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:48,120
Speaker 3: get a discount. I'm attracted to him and all, but

1836
01:21:48,280 --> 01:21:50,479
Speaker 3: lately I'm just too tired or not in the mood

1837
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:52,880
Speaker 3: to have sex, and I dk what to do. He's

1838
01:21:52,920 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 3: pretty understanding, and he says it's not a big deal.

1839
01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:57,040
Speaker 3: But I know my man and I know he wants

1840
01:21:57,120 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 3: more from me. How do I get myself in an

1841
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:02,759
Speaker 3: even better mood or make more time to have sex.

1842
01:22:03,080 --> 01:22:05,000
Speaker 3: I don't want to lose my nigga over pussy that

1843
01:22:05,080 --> 01:22:06,559
Speaker 3: I want to give him thanks.

1844
01:22:07,800 --> 01:22:09,759
Speaker 1: You want to go or you want me to go? Okay?

1845
01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:11,760
Speaker 3: So I feel like this is a big thing of

1846
01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:13,760
Speaker 3: mine because I've been in loan this, I've been in

1847
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:15,760
Speaker 3: like a relationship before, and I live with my man

1848
01:22:15,800 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 3: and I understand it's hard to keep that spark, especially

1849
01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 3: when you've been with somebody for a long time, and

1850
01:22:23,880 --> 01:22:26,560
Speaker 3: it's hard to not lose that sexual spark. So for me,

1851
01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:29,680
Speaker 3: this is what I did, y'all. Seriously, this may sound bad,

1852
01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:32,160
Speaker 3: it may sound crazy, but I learned how to make

1853
01:22:32,240 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 3: my man up.

1854
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:34,400
Speaker 1: Fast, you know what I'm saying.

1855
01:22:34,400 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 3: I learned how to drain my nigga because sometimes I

1856
01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:38,240
Speaker 3: wouldn't be in the mood so I didn't want to

1857
01:22:38,320 --> 01:22:41,040
Speaker 3: have sex for or do sexual things for twenty thirty minutes.

1858
01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:42,840
Speaker 3: So bit ch'all would just get in there, make that

1859
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:45,439
Speaker 3: nigga nut in like five minutes and I will be done. Yeah,

1860
01:22:46,240 --> 01:22:49,560
Speaker 3: just drain that nigga, girl, drain him, and then I

1861
01:22:49,640 --> 01:22:53,000
Speaker 3: feel like sometimes you know, it's a science, it's a science,

1862
01:22:53,080 --> 01:22:55,080
Speaker 3: but not only just drain him, because you obviously you

1863
01:22:55,200 --> 01:22:58,240
Speaker 3: do want your sexual drive back. So I feel like,

1864
01:22:59,360 --> 01:23:03,479
Speaker 3: if y'all go long time without sex, you know, you

1865
01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:06,439
Speaker 3: maybe should try edging for yourself. If you don't know

1866
01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:08,800
Speaker 3: what edging is, it's when you masturbate but you don't

1867
01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:09,639
Speaker 3: let yourself nut.

1868
01:23:09,720 --> 01:23:10,960
Speaker 1: You just kind of get there and you.

1869
01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:13,560
Speaker 3: Don't, So maybe you should try edging for yourself to

1870
01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 3: maybe get yourself.

1871
01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:15,559
Speaker 1: In the mood. Yeah.

1872
01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:18,760
Speaker 3: I think that's a great idea. I do that a like, yeah, well, bitch,

1873
01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 3: I don't do that shit. ILL need my nut and

1874
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:23,320
Speaker 3: I need it's my nut and I want it now right.

1875
01:23:23,400 --> 01:23:25,000
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about before I have sex.

1876
01:23:25,080 --> 01:23:29,040
Speaker 4: Oh okay, before, bitch, you gotta be playing with my

1877
01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:30,120
Speaker 4: pussy and don't nuts.

1878
01:23:30,160 --> 01:23:31,519
Speaker 1: I don't know what you do with that thing.

1879
01:23:32,240 --> 01:23:35,160
Speaker 4: I'm like about before I before I know I'm gonna

1880
01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:36,519
Speaker 4: have sex. A lot of the time, I do do

1881
01:23:36,640 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 4: that to like kind of get myself in the mood

1882
01:23:39,160 --> 01:23:42,280
Speaker 4: and get myself ready. So it's like she yeah, the

1883
01:23:42,400 --> 01:23:43,120
Speaker 4: nut gonna come.

1884
01:23:43,320 --> 01:23:43,519
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1885
01:23:43,640 --> 01:23:46,679
Speaker 3: So I feel like, maybe for the times you don't

1886
01:23:46,680 --> 01:23:48,559
Speaker 3: want to have sex, and you know he does want

1887
01:23:48,600 --> 01:23:52,200
Speaker 3: to have sex, girl, just drain him because I feel

1888
01:23:52,280 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 3: like Nigga's gonna go out and have sex or cheat

1889
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:55,920
Speaker 3: or whatever if they want to.

1890
01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:58,439
Speaker 1: But I feel like if I keep my nigga drained

1891
01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:01,800
Speaker 1: and he ain't gonna got time for another bitch, you

1892
01:24:01,840 --> 01:24:02,320
Speaker 1: know what I'm.

1893
01:24:02,160 --> 01:24:06,080
Speaker 3: Saying, Well, well, that's not Nigga's always got But I

1894
01:24:06,200 --> 01:24:07,360
Speaker 3: feel like, at least I.

1895
01:24:07,439 --> 01:24:09,360
Speaker 1: Knew in my mind my nigga can't ever say that

1896
01:24:09,479 --> 01:24:10,479
Speaker 1: I turned him down.

1897
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:12,400
Speaker 4: For sex for me personally, and I think that is

1898
01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:14,360
Speaker 4: something that I learned from you because I feel like

1899
01:24:16,000 --> 01:24:18,000
Speaker 4: because yeah, because I feel like I used to be

1900
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:20,000
Speaker 4: like if I don't want to fuck, I don't want

1901
01:24:20,040 --> 01:24:22,320
Speaker 4: to fuck. And I'm a very sexual person, so he's

1902
01:24:22,479 --> 01:24:25,200
Speaker 4: very rare that I don't want to fuck, but it

1903
01:24:25,280 --> 01:24:27,040
Speaker 4: would be time, so I'll just be like m M,

1904
01:24:27,080 --> 01:24:28,679
Speaker 4: and I just want to turn over and go to sleep.

1905
01:24:28,720 --> 01:24:30,160
Speaker 4: But he's like, if your nigga want to fuck, you

1906
01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:31,879
Speaker 4: don't ever want to deny.

1907
01:24:31,720 --> 01:24:33,800
Speaker 3: Your I'm not gonna lie. That's probably the only pick

1908
01:24:33,920 --> 01:24:36,240
Speaker 3: me trade about myself that I have. Any man that

1909
01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:39,519
Speaker 3: I've ever dated, you can ask them. The one thing

1910
01:24:39,600 --> 01:24:42,640
Speaker 3: they gonna remember about me is I never told my niggas.

1911
01:24:42,400 --> 01:24:43,240
Speaker 1: No yeah ever.

1912
01:24:43,640 --> 01:24:45,760
Speaker 4: But even now I'm like that too, Like I never

1913
01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:47,439
Speaker 4: tell a nigga now if I fuck with him like

1914
01:24:47,479 --> 01:24:49,519
Speaker 4: and he want to fuck, it just be like you

1915
01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:50,040
Speaker 4: gotta do it.

1916
01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:53,840
Speaker 3: So, like I said, my two things for advice is

1917
01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:57,920
Speaker 3: one edging. Look into edging before you have sex. You know,

1918
01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:00,759
Speaker 3: just masturbate a little bit, but don't nut. Maybe that'll

1919
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:02,960
Speaker 3: get you in the mood. Or two find out what

1920
01:25:03,080 --> 01:25:04,720
Speaker 3: makes him nut quick, so you can kind of get

1921
01:25:04,760 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 3: it over with, but don't tell him that or don't

1922
01:25:06,800 --> 01:25:08,519
Speaker 3: show it that you're trying to make him hurry up

1923
01:25:08,520 --> 01:25:11,160
Speaker 3: and nut Just find out. Let me tell you, I

1924
01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:12,600
Speaker 3: used to sit my knigga on the edge of the

1925
01:25:12,640 --> 01:25:14,519
Speaker 3: bed and I used to bounce on his dick.

1926
01:25:14,920 --> 01:25:18,160
Speaker 1: Seriously two minutes. He would not every time, Yeah, every

1927
01:25:18,280 --> 01:25:19,000
Speaker 1: fucking time.

1928
01:25:19,280 --> 01:25:21,760
Speaker 3: Like, so, find out what makes him nut quick, so

1929
01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:23,439
Speaker 3: you can just get in and get out and you

1930
01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:25,560
Speaker 3: can figure out the things that you have going on this.

1931
01:25:25,840 --> 01:25:28,479
Speaker 1: But I feel like you can make it work. Good luck.

1932
01:25:28,560 --> 01:25:32,839
Speaker 4: I agree, I agree. I really don't have much advice

1933
01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:36,680
Speaker 4: on this topic. I hit all the points and I

1934
01:25:36,800 --> 01:25:37,360
Speaker 4: agree with you.

1935
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:40,840
Speaker 1: So I'm not this is not I actually just want

1936
01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:42,880
Speaker 1: to read this. It's not a question.

1937
01:25:43,080 --> 01:25:45,439
Speaker 3: I just want to read this real quick, so this

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Speaker 3: girl said, and let me just apologize because I don't

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Speaker 3: be doing it on purpose.

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Speaker 1: You do do this though, because I know what you're

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Speaker 1: about to read, because I read it too, she said,

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Speaker 1: Lex Especially, you don't need to rush to finish the show. Lol.

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Speaker 3: We love you guys so much and we love long episode,

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Speaker 3: so there's no reason to keep cutting Drea off mid

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Speaker 3: speech or to rush topic and in the show, I

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Speaker 3: love your question segment too because they're like in many

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Speaker 3: topics even if I can't relate at this rate, you

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Speaker 3: guys need to do bonus episodes where it's just Q

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Speaker 3: and A to clear your inbox.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys as usual, and stay safe.

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Speaker 3: Well, let me say this first of all, when I

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Speaker 3: do that, y'all have to look at I'm looking at

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Speaker 3: my phone. Ill whenever we created this, this podcast, I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to keep things in a category like it's supposed

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Speaker 3: to be this.

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Speaker 1: Amount of time and this amount of time. So it's

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Speaker 1: not like I'm.

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Speaker 3: Cutting her off, but I when you have a vision

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Speaker 3: for something, that's exactly how you wanted to be executed.

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Speaker 1: So today I did.

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Speaker 3: It's an hour and thirty minutes today. But I will

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Speaker 3: say we are working on our Patreon, so please look

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Speaker 3: out for that because we are going to be dropping

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Speaker 3: bonus content for y'all because I know y'all have been

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Speaker 3: asking for that a lot. I won't be cutting Drea off,

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Speaker 3: no fucking more.

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Speaker 1: So I'm I'm.

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Speaker 3: Sorry because but but y'all have to realize I'm just

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Speaker 3: the person. I'm very I'm sensitive about my shit, and

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Speaker 3: I want poor minds to be executed in a certain way.

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Speaker 3: So the reason I do do that sometimes is because

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Speaker 3: I'm looking at my phone and i'm looking at the time,

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Speaker 3: and I'm trying to stay on a time stamp because

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Speaker 3: I'm very organized when it comes to my show, and

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Speaker 3: i like it to be delivered a certain way.

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Speaker 1: So it's not that I'm being rude. I'm just trying

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Speaker 1: to get it to where I like. Let me speak

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Speaker 1: for myself too, for the listeners.

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Speaker 4: You know, I do appreciate when y'all be seeing and

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Speaker 4: stuff like that, but you know, I can speak for myself.

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Speaker 1: I know legs she don't be meaning nothing by it.

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Speaker 1: I'm used to.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't be cutting her off because I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to hear what she's say. But I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: we already did twenty minutes or fifteen minutes or thirty

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Speaker 3: minutes whatever we needed for that topic.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of movie.

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Speaker 3: But thank you so much for listening. I appreciate that feeding.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate but we but we hear y'all and we

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Speaker 3: see y'all, so the bonus content is coming. Look y'all

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Speaker 3: are gonna no, it's like coming like in like a week,

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Speaker 3: week and a half. So if y'all keep a lookout

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Speaker 3: next week when we drop the episode, we're gonna drop

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Speaker 3: the Patreon link. Y'all are about to get bonus content

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Speaker 3: bone this episode, and y'all gonna absolutely love it.

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Speaker 1: Amen, do you have anything you want to add? I

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Speaker 1: just want to know what song you're gonna take, cause

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Speaker 1: I'm with this week.

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Speaker 4: I personally think that you that you should sing JD

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Speaker 4: in honor of Drake and his new album.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know what, Jada is one of my things.

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Speaker 1: Now let me pull up the lyrics so I don't

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Speaker 1: think I don't know you. You know, Jaded is such

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Speaker 1: a I was listening to Jaded last night. I know

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Speaker 1: it's your It's like that telepathy. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: I can sing? Can I just sing like two lines?

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Speaker 1: I'm really not to move to sing. I just know

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Speaker 1: the people want to hear you sing what mark? Do

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Speaker 1: you want me to sing the chorus? Yeah? Some heard it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, some j there j thereah yeah yeah yeah, I'm

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Speaker 5: fucking j Baby.

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Speaker 1: No oh not Jane Baby, not not miss Wimming referencing

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Speaker 1: r Kelly. I don't know you lines. I know you lying,

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Speaker 1: not represent anybody. I know you lying. Me Swimming. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we get the from me. You all. We'll see y'all

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Speaker 1: next week. Bye, y'all, your fucking miss swimming, not miss

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Speaker 1: wimm