Speaker 1: It's time to cash a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Tubile Show. Dede is on the phone
Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been with her
Speaker 2: boyfriend Jake for two years, but now she thinks something
Speaker 2: might be up, So we'll see if we can help
Speaker 2: her out. But first, Dedy, what's going on? Why do
Speaker 2: you think Jake's cheating on you?
Speaker 3: Well, it's just been weird lately, like he I mean,
Speaker 3: I normally talk to him every single day or I
Speaker 3: see him every single day, and he has not been around,
Speaker 3: not texting me as much. I haven't seen him in
Speaker 3: a couple of days. It's just been really weird and
Speaker 3: not like him at all. So have that like woman's
Speaker 3: intuition that something's going on.
Speaker 1: Have you said anything to him about it, like, hey, babe,
Speaker 1: where are you been?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I totally have, And he says that nothing's going on.
Speaker 5: He I should preface it by saying this.
Speaker 3: He works a lot, and he is like a video gamer,
Speaker 3: and he's got this deadline coming up for this game
Speaker 3: that's coming out. So he keeps telling me that, like
Speaker 3: he's under a lot of pressure with this deadline and
Speaker 3: this game, and like we've been through this before, so
Speaker 3: like I remember when that happened, and yeah, he kind
Speaker 3: of was like a little bit distant when that was
Speaker 3: going on.
Speaker 5: But like, I don't know, this just seems like a
Speaker 5: little bit different.
Speaker 1: So when you do see him, is he the same
Speaker 1: or even different?
Speaker 3: Then well, like I haven't seen him. That's the thing is.
Speaker 3: It's just he's not responding to my text as quickly
Speaker 3: as he normally does, and it's something's off, you know. So,
Speaker 3: I mean, we normally see each other every single day,
Speaker 3: but like I said, like the past month or so,
Speaker 3: like he just complains that he's working late and that
Speaker 3: this deadline is coming.
Speaker 5: So that's that's just not like him.
Speaker 3: It'll be like a day or two that he doesn't
Speaker 3: answer my text. Oh when he.
Speaker 5: Is writing me though, I mean, and when we are talking,
Speaker 5: he's still saying I love you. He's still nothing's wrong, baby,
Speaker 5: Everything's good, you know, that whole kind of thing. But
Speaker 5: I don't know something's up.
Speaker 1: Does he work from home or does he go into
Speaker 1: an office?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 5: See, that's the thing too. It's like I do work
Speaker 5: from home.
Speaker 3: I have a lot of time on my hands in
Speaker 3: comparison to him. So yeah, he's in an office all
Speaker 3: the time he's got that deadline, So I mean it
Speaker 3: is different.
Speaker 5: I'm trying to tell myself and like talk myself into
Speaker 5: that that that's what's going on. But I don't know.
Speaker 3: Just something made me contact you guys, because I just
Speaker 3: think it's a bit more.
Speaker 7: Do you do any pop ups or do you have
Speaker 7: anybody in house that could kind of like keep an
Speaker 7: eye on him?
Speaker 1: I just I don't know.
Speaker 7: Sometimes it sucks to have to go that extra mile.
Speaker 7: But the terms are so technical. Any house, right, what?
Speaker 7: Like you don't have that not those words.
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess I should also say too, that
Speaker 3: he is a little bit older than me. I am
Speaker 3: a little bit worried that maybe he found someone like
Speaker 3: his age and maybe that has something to do with it.
Speaker 1: Can I ask how much older? Like it like significant?
Speaker 5: I mean a lot of people tell me it's significant.
Speaker 3: It's twenty years. I don't really think it's that big
Speaker 3: of a deal. But I mean some people might think
Speaker 3: that that's a big deal, but it hasn't really mattered
Speaker 3: to us for the whole time we've been dating. And
Speaker 3: like I said, we've been dating for a while. Our
Speaker 3: two year anniversary is going to come up in a
Speaker 3: couple of months.
Speaker 7: So the age gap probably hasn't been a thing. But
Speaker 7: I wonder also if that's just like growing in different directions,
Speaker 7: just a different phases maybe right, even if there isn't
Speaker 7: another person. Yeah, and that's just kind of it's an
Speaker 7: intrusive thought that enters my head, like, yeah, okay, is
Speaker 7: he you know, finding someone that's like a little bit calmer,
Speaker 7: wants to sit around the house a bit.
Speaker 5: More, not go out as much, like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: So we'll see if we can figure it out for
Speaker 1: you. You told us at grocery store.
Speaker 2: He's a rewards card member at So we'll call up,
Speaker 2: pretend to be from there and say that every single month,
Speaker 2: we choose one lucky rewards member who gets free flowers
Speaker 2: delivered from our florial department. We'll see if he sends
Speaker 2: those two or to somebody else.
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I appreciate it.
Speaker 3: I listen to you guys all the time, and I
Speaker 3: can't believe I'm doing this.
Speaker 2: Well, sorry, you're going through it. Hopefully he's not, but
Speaker 2: we'll see if we can catch him the plays. I'll
Speaker 2: come back, Get to catch a Tater next. It's the
Speaker 2: Jewel Show right in the middle of to catch a
Speaker 2: teeter if you're just joining us. Dede is on the phone,
Speaker 2: and Dede he thinks that a boyfriend of two years
Speaker 2: named Jake might be cheating. So on a second, we're
Speaker 2: gonna call him and pretend to be from the grocery
Speaker 2: store that he's a rewards card member at and say
Speaker 2: that he's this month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered
Speaker 2: from our floral department to anywhere that he wants, and
Speaker 2: we'll see if he sends those to his girlfriend or
Speaker 2: to somebody else before we do that, though, Dide, why
Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 5: My god, I just got really nervous once you went
Speaker 5: through all that.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Just I mean, we've been together almost two years and
Speaker 3: just something's been off lately. He's been telling me that
Speaker 3: he's got this deadline at work and that that's why
Speaker 3: he's just not texting me as quickly, not coming around
Speaker 3: as much.
Speaker 5: And I don't know, there's just something that I don't know.
Speaker 3: Some things doesn't smell right to me here, and I
Speaker 3: just think that something's up.
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 1: You ready for us to call him?
Speaker 5: Like I said, I'm so nervous, okay.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, this is horrible calling from I was looking
Speaker 2: for a Rewards card member named Jake.
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, speaking, Please.
Speaker 2: Don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to say thank you very much for
Speaker 2: shopping with us. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 6: Okay, wow, cool, this is a nice surprise.
Speaker 4: I guess I won. Yes, I didn't enter anything.
Speaker 1: So well.
Speaker 2: We do it every single month for our Rewards Card members.
Speaker 2: Maybe you haven't seen the signage. That's fine if you haven't.
Speaker 2: But every month we choose one Awards Card member to
Speaker 2: call up and say thank you very much for being
Speaker 2: such a loyal customer. You've won thirty six long stim
Speaker 2: red roses, a box of candy or chocolates, and a
Speaker 2: card to be delivered to anybody that you want.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 6: I feel like a real big winner. Well, as much
Speaker 6: as I want to, I want the flowers. I think,
Speaker 6: there's just no question. I already know I'm going to
Speaker 6: send them to my wife Janelle obviously.
Speaker 1: Okay, Holly, guy has been together, by the way, that's cute.
Speaker 4: We've been married like ten years.
Speaker 1: Wow, that is a long time.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, wow, a decade Jake.
Speaker 2: This isn't the grocery store. This is actually a radio show.
Speaker 2: My name is Jubil, It's called the Jewbel Show. And
Speaker 2: DEDI is on the phone.
Speaker 5: You're married?
Speaker 4: Are you kidding me? This is what's happening right now?
Speaker 5: I was no, no, no, no, good act like that.
Speaker 5: You're married? What do you mean you're married? Like?
Speaker 4: This is how you want to do this right now? DEDI, seriously,
Speaker 4: would you tell them that we're in a relationship? Did
Speaker 4: you tell them the truth? Is that what you did?
Speaker 5: We are in a relationship. I mean, you're the liar.
Speaker 5: You're the one that told me that.
Speaker 4: What you want to call it?
Speaker 6: No, I am married, Okay, I'm her sugar daddy, Okay, okay, whatever.
Speaker 5: It's more than that.
Speaker 4: It's more than that, is it? Like in the day one, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I did. I was thinking I love each other like this.
Speaker 5: It's been more than that.
Speaker 4: I did tell you I was not in a relationship.
Speaker 4: I did tell you were the only ones thankful.
Speaker 1: You tell me you love me?
Speaker 8: Like, what are you talking about now? You're married, You've
Speaker 8: been married, You've been lying the whole time.
Speaker 4: Is this how you want to actually blow my spot
Speaker 4: up on the radio. Yeah, and I'm just about it.
Speaker 4: I'm married and we had a thing. I've just been
Speaker 4: dealing with the deadline. The game was about to launch,
Speaker 4: it's selling. Well, my wife and I are doing okay, Bedie,
Speaker 4: And what you knew this was temporary.
Speaker 6: You would always want that you had other sugar daddies,
Speaker 6: and like the millisecond I stopped spending sending money to you.
Speaker 6: This is how you react to Actually, I haven't talked
Speaker 6: to you in like a couple.
Speaker 4: Of days, and you're calling me on the radio.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean like you weren't answering me, and like
Speaker 8: you stop sending me everything.
Speaker 5: So like, how else am I supposed to get show?
Speaker 1: Are you guys actually together or do you just pay
Speaker 1: for things?
Speaker 6: We were like, I thought it was we in an agreement,
Speaker 6: that was the contract.
Speaker 4: She said there was other people doing whatever financially, and
Speaker 4: I knew. I didn't think either of us were being
Speaker 4: one hundred percent honestly, I thought it is what it is,
Speaker 4: and like that's why there was no urgency to get
Speaker 4: back to you.
Speaker 6: Dd Okay, Well now you're literally ruining my marriage on
Speaker 6: the radio.
Speaker 7: She's going on sugar Daddy like you called yourself Hey,
Speaker 7: sugar daddy.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm laughing but that's funny.
Speaker 5: It's kind of funny.
Speaker 4: What else do you want to call it?
Speaker 6: I was just trying to be a financial beneficiar or whatever.
Speaker 8: But like I just okay, but you can't, like, you
Speaker 8: can't just cut me off like that without an explanation.
Speaker 5: So I you should have told me this.
Speaker 4: That was the agreement.
Speaker 6: If you're just gonna break the contract literally by blowing
Speaker 6: up my spot.
Speaker 4: Right now, live God knows you be here. I'm sure
Speaker 4: my wife listens to this.
Speaker 5: Two years ago, like I thought, we moved on.
Speaker 1: Do you guys meet on a website or something.
Speaker 4: I'm like tender couple years ago.
Speaker 1: Is there a real contract?
Speaker 8: No, there's no real contract, like that's for the sugar
Speaker 8: Babies website has a contract. We didn't meet that way.
Speaker 8: I told them about my other clients, but I don't
Speaker 8: have them anymore.
Speaker 4: Oh, it was an agreement. She didn't make that appearance.
Speaker 4: He called me those other people.
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, Jake, do you say I love you to her?
Speaker 7: Yes?
Speaker 4: I love my wife. I don't know what is going
Speaker 4: on right now. Please don't call me anymore.
Speaker 6: I'm hanging up this is ridiculous. This is so ub
Speaker 6: I can't believe you did this on the radio. Dan,
Speaker 6: Please stop following me, Please don't text me anymore.
Speaker 4: You're through. I want nothing to do with you.
Speaker 8: No, I want to talk to you, like, let's talk
Speaker 8: this out, like I.
Speaker 5: Can't love you?
Speaker 1: Did He hung up?
Speaker 5: But I hope he doesn't like block me.
Speaker 8: I mean, like I need to get in touch with him,
Speaker 8: like he still owes me money and like I mean,
Speaker 8: like it's more than this, like it's it's.
Speaker 5: The whole thing.
Speaker 1: Why does he owe you money?
Speaker 5: He pays for my rent.
Speaker 8: I mean, like there's a lot that goes into it,
Speaker 8: Like he can't just disappear.
Speaker 9: Like this, and you didn't know he was married, had
Speaker 9: no clue, no clue, like say, I love you, like
Speaker 9: I thought this was my man, Like yes, it started
Speaker 9: out as something, but like it's evolved, so I thought.
Speaker 5: I mean, now now Lena see.
Speaker 1: It at least now you know, you know, good luck
Speaker 1: figuring stuff.
Speaker 5: Out, Jesus, Like this is a mess.
Speaker 7: I'm really sorry, DEDI that sucks, especially because you thought
Speaker 7: you guys were in a relationship. But it doesn't sound
Speaker 7: like it started off real honest and he's married.
Speaker 3: You don't want that anyway, you know, no, But like
Speaker 3: that's the whole other thing is like now I got
Speaker 3: like come to terms with that.
Speaker 5: I just I gotta go process all this. Thank you
Speaker 5: you guys, I really appreciate it.
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