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Speaker 2: Go Shirley. A little extra that was like coming in hot. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Thanks Carla. Subject get somewhere and sit down, okay, Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm a sixty year old single mother. My son is

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Speaker 1: thirty two and he has been a single father since

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Speaker 1: his first wife passed away four years ago. My granddaughter

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Speaker 1: is fourteen years old and she's with me during the

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Speaker 1: week and she goes back to her dad house on

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Speaker 1: the weekend. My son has started back dating and he

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Speaker 1: wants to be married again. He says he doesn't function

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Speaker 1: well as a single man. I have nothing to do

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Speaker 1: with his love life, but I have everything to do

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Speaker 1: with how his daughter is raised. And I don't think

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Speaker 1: he should be introducing her to all kinds of women

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Speaker 1: while she's still in the grieving process. This new girl

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Speaker 1: he's dating is very simplistic and materialistic. She's got her

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Speaker 1: own money, so she's not asking for anything from my son.

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Speaker 1: But it's the way she carries herself that is on

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Speaker 1: my nerves. She and I don't see eye to eye

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Speaker 1: on a lot of things. She has a sixteen year

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Speaker 1: old daughter that she leaves alone overnight to go play

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Speaker 1: house with our son. Her daughter has a brand new

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Speaker 1: all over town. The only time my granddaughter has quality

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Speaker 1: time with her with her dad is on the weekend.

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Speaker 1: And this new woman is always around and in the way.

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Speaker 1: My granddaughter sees through her and gets irritated when this

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Speaker 1: woman plays rap music and knows all the lyrics. She

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Speaker 1: feels like the woman is trying too hard. She's visited

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Speaker 1: at my house with my son and runs around waiting

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Speaker 1: on my son hand and foot, and I had to

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Speaker 1: tell her to get somewhere and sit down. I have

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Speaker 1: never seen a woman try so hard, and her intentions

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Speaker 1: may be good, but she has to fall back a bit.

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Speaker 1: I think my son is falling for her representative and

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Speaker 1: not the real woman. How can I get him to

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Speaker 1: pump the breaks? Okay, grandmother, your intentions might be right,

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Speaker 1: but you need to fall back a little bit. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I agree your son doesn't need to introduce her daughter

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Speaker 1: or his daughter, I should say to a lot of

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Speaker 1: random women, because grief is a process and it takes time.

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Speaker 1: And although it has been four years, grief is different

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Speaker 1: for everyone. And your granddaughter. His daughter's only fourteen, so

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Speaker 1: that means her mother passed when she was just ten

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Speaker 1: years old. So let her have a moment. Okay, she's

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Speaker 1: obviously still working through some things in her young life. Now,

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Speaker 1: your son wants to remarry, you said, but he's got

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Speaker 1: to make sure his daughter is good and he has

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Speaker 1: to make sure this woman is a good fit for

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Speaker 1: their family. His daughter needs him, Yes she has you, grandmother,

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Speaker 1: thank god, But daddy has to learn how to divide

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Speaker 1: his time and make his time count and make quality

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Speaker 1: time between his new girlfriend and his daughter, who again

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Speaker 1: is only fourteen. Is this new woman even trying to

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Speaker 1: connect with the daughter? Is she doing that? Is she

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Speaker 1: ready to take on the role of stepmom mom? Or

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Speaker 1: is she just concentrating on being with the dad. It

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Speaker 1: doesn't sound like she is according to your letter. It

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Speaker 1: sounds like according to you, she's only interested in your

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Speaker 1: son and not his daughter. But again, all you can

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Speaker 1: do is talk to your son. You can try to

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Speaker 1: reason with him and make suggestions on how he should

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Speaker 1: handle this very delicate situation. You can't go in too

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Speaker 1: hard against this woman because your son does like her

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Speaker 1: and he's considering marriage. He wants to remarry, and it

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Speaker 1: sounds like it might she might be the one. So

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Speaker 1: he needs your non emotional voice of reason right now.

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Speaker 1: That might make a difference in the woman he chooses

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Speaker 1: to be with. And if it's her, you know, just

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Speaker 1: be reasonable, talk to him, don't be all emotional talking

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Speaker 1: about the woman and all that, because again, he likes her.

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Speaker 2: Steve, Well, get somewhere and sit down.

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Speaker 3: This is a letter about a mother that doesn't like

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Speaker 3: the choice of women her son is making. That's all

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Speaker 3: this letter is about. Now it's masked with a lot

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Speaker 3: of other stuff, and I will point this out to

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Speaker 3: sixty year old single.

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Speaker 2: Mother, but I didn't know that was a turn.

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Speaker 3: I thought that when your son is thirty two, and

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Speaker 3: you sick. I think you can stop saying that. At

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Speaker 3: one point. It's like, when the baby is thirty eight

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Speaker 3: months old. Come on, now we need some years. We

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Speaker 3: got we got to quit doing moths now, you know,

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Speaker 3: we gotta stop doing you know, you know I'm seven

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Speaker 3: weeks pregnant.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 3: At one point you got to be seven months, you know.

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Speaker 3: We just it's just a conversion. So I'm confused with that.

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Speaker 3: I'm a sixty year old single mother referring to yourself

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Speaker 3: as a single mother, meaning.

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Speaker 2: That you have to raise a child on your own.

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Speaker 3: That's what being a single parent on mother representation to me.

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Speaker 2: It's just my opinion.

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Speaker 3: She may be single and a mother, that's cool, but

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Speaker 3: don't use that because the boy.

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Speaker 4: Thirty two, I don't like, you got to take his

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Speaker 4: soccer practice, you got to come up with field trip money.

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Speaker 2: You're just struggling with it.

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Speaker 1: So what should she have said? Just a sixty year

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Speaker 1: old single woman.

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Speaker 3: My son is thirty two, that's all. Don't try to

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Speaker 3: draw us in with the I'm a sixty old single

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Speaker 3: mother to draw like, oh wow, how long she been doing?

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Speaker 2: That's all right? Here we go.

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Speaker 1: She said that we'll have part two.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part too of Steve's response because he's just

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Speaker 1: stuck on the first line on the Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 3: Ta't get off of it. It's gonna take just come

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Speaker 3: tail tale the rest of the letter.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll have part two of your response coming

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Speaker 1: up Steve at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's

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Speaker 1: title is one that's close to my heart of the

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Get somewhere and sit down. We'll get back

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Speaker 1: into it with Steve's response right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry Letter, the subject

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Speaker 1: get somewhere and sit down.

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Speaker 3: Well, this sixty year old single mother that didn't have

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Speaker 3: to mention that to us, because when you single mother,

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking of your raising children on your own. Her

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Speaker 3: boy is thirty two, so that's the term I disagree with.

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Speaker 3: My son is thirty two, and he's been a single

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Speaker 2: Very important.

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Speaker 3: My granddaughter's fourteen, and she's with me during the week

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Speaker 3: and she goes back to her dad's house on the weekend.

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Speaker 3: My son has started back dating and he wants to

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Speaker 3: be married again. He says he doesn't function well as

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Speaker 3: a single man. I have nothing to do with his

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Speaker 3: love life. This is not true, because you do. I

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Speaker 3: have nothing to do with his love life. But the

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Speaker 3: rest of his letter is all about his love life.

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Speaker 2: But I have everything to.

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Speaker 3: Do with how his daughter is raised, and I don't

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Speaker 3: think he should be introducing her to all kinds of

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Speaker 3: women while she's still in the grieving process. Now, I

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Speaker 3: understand that statement that this woman is making, and I

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Speaker 3: understand that the little girl is still dealing with it

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Speaker 3: even after four years, because it's something you almost never

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Speaker 3: get over. I understand that, but this man has been

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Speaker 3: grieving for four years too, but he's ready to move forward.

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Speaker 2: He should be allowed to date.

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Speaker 3: Now. You made a statement that I think he should

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Speaker 3: still in the grieving process. But that ain't what this

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Speaker 3: letter is about. You immediately go This new girl he's

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Speaker 3: dating is very simplistic and materialistic. Excuse me, make up

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Speaker 3: your mind, mama. She's either simplistic or materialistic. Simplistic means

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Speaker 3: very simple things are essentials, very doesn't care about extra

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Speaker 3: Materialistic is the direct opposite. So I'm not really sure

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Speaker 3: you even know what you're talking about. She's got her

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Speaker 3: own money, okay, so she's not asking for anything from

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Speaker 3: plenty to the table outside of being what could be

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Speaker 3: a very good woman. But it's the way she carries

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Speaker 3: the letter that you don't you don't want to get

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Speaker 3: into your son's love life. It's none of your business.

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Speaker 3: Just raising the daughter is. But now I don't like

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Speaker 3: to wait. The way she carries herself gets on my nerves.

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Speaker 3: She and I don't see eye to eye on a

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Speaker 3: lot of things. She has a sixteen year old daughter

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Speaker 3: my son. Sixteen year olds can stay home by theyself.

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Speaker 3: Sixteen year olds can stay home. Technology now makes it

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Speaker 3: where a sixteen year old can stay home by theyself.

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Speaker 1: I did it when we didn't have to.

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Speaker 3: Tell Yeah, I had to stay home and busy, and

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Speaker 3: I tell you what, here was the rule. When I

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Speaker 3: get back, this house better be just like I left it.

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Speaker 2: That's right, that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 3: Her daughter has a brand new car and she lets

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Speaker 3: her run wild with her friends all over town. Does

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Speaker 3: new car and can drive to visit her for.

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Speaker 2: Nothing?

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Speaker 3: Girl ain't no reputation or nothing letting her run. That's

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Speaker 3: not what it is. The only time my granddaughter has

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Speaker 3: quality time with her dad.

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Speaker 2: Is on the weekends, and this new.

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Speaker 3: Woman is always around and in the way. Excuse me,

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Speaker 3: but this man's every weekend can't be for his daughter.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, that's not y'all can say that if you

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Speaker 2: The girl is fourteen.

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Speaker 3: She probably has friends, has a life on her own FaceTime,

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Speaker 3: probably got a phone.

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Speaker 2: All this here, I got news for you.

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Speaker 3: Once they reached that teenage years, they don't really want

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Speaker 1: At that month, they really don't.

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Speaker 2: They visits.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they have their own friends, and.

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Speaker 3: The new woman is always around and in the way.

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Speaker 3: My granddaughter sees through her and gets irritated when this

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Speaker 3: woman plays rap music and knows all the lyrics. Well,

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Speaker 3: you can't know the lyrics unless you know the lyrics.

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Speaker 3: You know, they're in their thirties, that's all. She grew

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's called effort.

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Speaker 3: She's visited at my house with my sons and runs

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Speaker 3: I had to tell her to go somewhere and sit down. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So now the woman caters to your son. You don't

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Speaker 3: like that. She got her own money, you don't like that. Okay,

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Speaker 3: she's simplistic, you don't like that. And she materialistic, you

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Speaker 3: don't like that. And now she come over to your

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Speaker 2: And if you.

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Speaker 3: Don't want her to try hard, what you want her

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Speaker 3: And I think my son is falling for her representative

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Speaker 3: the representative can't stay forever. How can I get here

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Speaker 3: to pump the break? Well, let's start with you need

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Speaker 3: the pump the break. Yeah, your son wants to be married.

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Speaker 3: Let him figure it out. Every weekend k B for

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Speaker 3: the kids, Her sixteen year old can stay home alone.

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Speaker 2: And you're wrong because you don't even really know this woman.

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Speaker 3: And that's why your is a sixty year old single mother.

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Speaker 3: That's exactly why this is a sixty year old single mother.

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