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Speaker 1: What kind of text? Or are you it's the Duel Show.

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Speaker 2: Are you the type of person who responds right away

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Speaker 2: to someone and then if they don't hit you back

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Speaker 2: right away, you freak out and then start peppering them

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Speaker 2: with text after text after text demanding that they respond

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Speaker 2: to you. Or are you one of those people who

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Speaker 2: wait six weeks to respond to a text and says sorry,

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Speaker 2: just saw this. Then remember that you have red receipts

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Speaker 2: on and whoever you're texting knows that you're lying. Yep, Well,

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Speaker 2: there's a new study out that says that how you

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Speaker 2: text may be the reason you have trouble in the

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Speaker 2: dating world. Go over and next so you can make

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Speaker 2: your texting game as sexy as your made updating profile with.

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Speaker 1: The fixature on it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the Dual Show. The dating world is a

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Speaker 2: tough place. It's the Jewel Show. You have all the

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Speaker 2: different dating apps and all the different things that they offer,

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Speaker 2: like bumble, the ladies hit you up first, Tender, a

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Speaker 2: free for all of dudes trying to convince you that

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Speaker 2: they read books in hopes of getting a hook up.

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Speaker 1: Plenty of fish.

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Speaker 2: If you're looking across a new std off of her

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Speaker 2: I've had this one punched card. And if that's not enough,

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Speaker 2: the way that you text can also affec your dating life.

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Speaker 2: And I know that because a new study is out

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Speaker 2: that says how you text maybe the reason you have

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Speaker 2: trouble in the dating world.

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Speaker 3: I believe that.

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Speaker 2: So we'll go over it right now so you can

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Speaker 2: learn how to text better. If you want to get dates,

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Speaker 2: they say that you should respond as soon as you

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Speaker 2: can to any potential dates.

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Speaker 1: No, why, Victoria, you're saying, no.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, immediately.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 3: It's such a turn off when you wait too long.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but when you're texting me too fast, it's telling

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Speaker 4: me that you don't have anything else to do, or

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Speaker 4: that they like you and respect your time. No, like

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Speaker 4: you have like nothing else to do but text me

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Speaker 4: right now. And I have a lot of things going on,

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Speaker 4: and I have a lot of things to do right now.

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Speaker 4: So you're texting me so fast, it's going to get

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Speaker 4: pressure thinking I have to text that real quick.

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Speaker 5: But I'm not going to.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to.

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Speaker 2: Why would I ever want to date you? You're not

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Speaker 2: booked and busy. Yeah, he's what you're saying, Victoria, see

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Speaker 2: very much.

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Speaker 6: I really feel like it's an age thing sometimes because

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Speaker 6: at this point, I'm like, I'm not trying to play around, Like,

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Speaker 6: if you're texting me, you text me.

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Speaker 3: If you're not getting out of here, I'm not going

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Speaker 3: to chase you.

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Speaker 2: According to this study, it says that you should never

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Speaker 2: wait more than fifteen minutes to respond to somebody that

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Speaker 2: you want to date.

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Speaker 5: Fifteen eighteen. That's it.

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Speaker 6: If you're available and you're looking at your phone and

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Speaker 6: you're available and you don't text. Now you're playing games

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Speaker 6: and you're wasting my time. What do you mean by available?

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Speaker 4: Like if I'm working, but I saw you message me,

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Speaker 4: and so like in my mind, I'll wait till later.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well that's fine, Like I will No, No, you

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Speaker 6: wait hours later. I don't think you need to drop

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Speaker 6: everything you're doing to text the person back. But let's

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Speaker 6: be honest, within an hour, if your phone is right

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Speaker 6: next to you can find two seconds to text somebody back.

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Speaker 2: We're going over a new survey that says that the

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Speaker 2: way you text can directly affect your dating life and

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Speaker 2: these are the ways to text in order to be

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Speaker 2: sexier in the dating world. It says, when it comes

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Speaker 2: to applying fast, don't reply before they finish their text.

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Speaker 2: That's a little too fast, so you kind of have

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Speaker 2: to find out of me, and that's fair. It also

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Speaker 2: says never, just text the word hey, never or hi never, I.

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Speaker 5: Like high and then what then I'll say him back?

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Speaker 3: But is that not like the most ridiculous conversation ever.

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Speaker 5: I don't mean it's a combination.

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Speaker 3: It's a starter.

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Speaker 4: So then I can say hi, and then it makes

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Speaker 4: you feel better because I can text that back.

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Speaker 3: Past and then where do conversation go? Wherever he wants

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Speaker 3: it to go.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Also says that don't use ellipses. What ellipses. Ellipses are

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Speaker 2: the mullets of punctuation is what they're saying, mysterious in

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Speaker 2: the front breakdown in coming in the back?

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Speaker 1: Yo us an ellipses?

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Speaker 3: Is that the semi colon thing?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's the dot dot Oh ellipses.

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Speaker 1: I like the dot dot dot though I do.

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Speaker 5: It gives like a It gives you a pause if

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Speaker 5: you're telling a joke.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I use them a lot.

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Speaker 2: It's like, hey, look at the end of these three periods,

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Speaker 2: there's gonna be something hilarious. Yeah, yeah, Or apparently they say,

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Speaker 2: don't use that. That's not a sexy way of texting. Well,

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Speaker 2: I'm in on that not sexy move. I like it too, really,

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 6: The best is when you're like, guess what dot dot dot,

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Speaker 6: and then you wait a few minutes and then you

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Speaker 6: text them something and now you're like, see, I had

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Speaker 6: you on that book.

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Speaker 3: I hate that.

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Speaker 2: No, Yeah, I'm terrible to text that way because I

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Speaker 2: put my phone down and then I forget that I

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Speaker 2: even have a phone, So I'd be like, guess what

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Speaker 2: do do dot? And then I wouldn't respond for hours,

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Speaker 2: and then whoever is sitting there with their punchline loaded

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Speaker 2: and they're not gonna be able to deliver it for

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Speaker 2: a very long time.

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Speaker 4: You're like, what is it?

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Speaker 5: What do you?

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Speaker 2: By the time I responded like, never mind, don't worry

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Speaker 2: about it. What is the sexiest punctuation? According to this survey,

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Speaker 2: and M dash is the sexiest punctuation you can use

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Speaker 2: in a text, says I know grammar and also probably

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Speaker 2: own linen sheets.

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Speaker 3: According to this circle, what is an M dash?

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Speaker 1: That's a good question.

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Speaker 2: I don't think any of us would be sexy when

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Speaker 2: texting because AI right now, okay?

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Speaker 3: Is an M dash in writing? Yeah? That's interesting? I

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Speaker 3: don't get it.

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Speaker 5: Is it just the dash like the like when to

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Speaker 2: And m dash is a long dash used in writing

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Speaker 2: to create a strong break or interruption innocence. So it's

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Speaker 2: like it's like taking the time to actually put a

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Speaker 2: long dash in there. Now, it's time to do that,

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Speaker 2: No One.

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Speaker 5: And also what's it in between that?

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Speaker 3: And a dot?

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Speaker 5: Dot is funnier and it tells you it's a pause.

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Speaker 3: I agree.

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Speaker 5: The dash is just as they.

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Speaker 2: Also say, if you want to be sexier when you're

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Speaker 2: texting somebody, break your text into short bursts old suspense

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Speaker 2: and also stimulates the nervous system.

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Speaker 5: Who am I a sexy text?

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Speaker 3: Or guys, oh you're irritating.

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Speaker 6: You'll text me two words and then another text three words,

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Speaker 6: another text four words, and back to two words, and

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Speaker 6: it's like this whole line.

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Speaker 5: They're a different thought.

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Speaker 3: And then I'm sitting there and I'm doing something and

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Speaker 3: I just get bybee bebep, beep beep.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, oh again, But you know what, honey, to

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Speaker 6: somebody that is really sexy.

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Speaker 2: We're going over and new studies out that says the

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Speaker 2: way you text can directly directly affect how you date

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Speaker 2: and if you be successful in the dating world.

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Speaker 1: They also say, of course, make sure you pay attention

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Speaker 1: to autocorrect.

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Speaker 2: Oh, if you say you want to meet up with

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Speaker 2: somebody and it's me E T and you say me

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Speaker 2: E A T, that could be very confusing.

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Speaker 4: I had a guy that it tikes me, but he

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Speaker 4: could I don't I don't know what it was. But

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Speaker 4: he kept using like a lot of different like they're

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Speaker 4: there and there's all the wrong ones. He swelled a

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Speaker 4: lot of things wrong, and I couldn't tell if he

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Speaker 4: was texting me or if he was getting like AI

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Speaker 4: to text me and would just like really messing things up.

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Speaker 3: You're giving him a lot of credit for saying that

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Speaker 3: it was AI.

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Speaker 6: There's a really good chance he doesn't know how to

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Speaker 6: use this theirs.

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Speaker 2: It also says avoid sending voice notes.

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Speaker 4: Why that I take a personal punch to what's wrong

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Speaker 4: with voice notes?

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Speaker 6: Just think about it. Put yourself in the situation. It's

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Speaker 6: the early stages of dating. Somebody knew Victoria, okay, and

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Speaker 6: they send you a voice note giving you an update

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Speaker 6: on their day.

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Speaker 3: Okay. You like that?

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because then I can I know their tone

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Speaker 4: you text message, you can't tell someone's tone.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So you can't tell someone's being nice.

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Speaker 3: To you, mean, do you rude?

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Speaker 5: Do you money to you?

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Speaker 3: If their voice note is hi, okay, no, give me more.

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Speaker 1: Like Victoria likes the hey text, but if you just

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Speaker 1: got a text.

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Speaker 2: From dude to some dude that was just hey, okay.

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Speaker 3: When that's when you hear

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Speaker 2: Them them fumbling to turn it off, it's not sexing,

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Speaker 2: no fumble,