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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from TK and he says

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Speaker 1: this holiday weekend road trip with his long distance girlfriend

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Speaker 1: has turned into a drama. He says she lives about

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Speaker 1: nine hours away. That's a nine hour drive away, and

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Speaker 1: they both agreed that a nice romantic spot near the

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Speaker 1: middle is the way to go instead of meeting in

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Speaker 1: the middle. Though, my girlfriend now wants me to fly there,

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Speaker 1: drive us to the spot, drive us back, and then

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Speaker 1: I would fly back. That feels like such a waste

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Speaker 1: of time and money. Yeah, especially when I did look

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Speaker 1: at the route and I realized it was actually forty

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Speaker 1: five minutes closer to her than it is to me.

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Speaker 1: I would love to see her, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: that wasting the time at the airport and flying and

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Speaker 1: upwards of two thousand dollars they would cost for the

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Speaker 1: last minute flight makes the least bit of sense. She said,

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Speaker 1: it has to be that way or the weekend won't happen.

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Speaker 1: How big of a deal is this, that's what he came.

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Speaker 2: Well, bruh, the deal is up to you. How big

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Speaker 2: is it is it? See, you all had a plan, right,

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Speaker 2: she changed the plan. So now instead of y'all driving

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Speaker 2: meeting halfway four four and a half hours of peace.

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Speaker 2: The plan is you fly there, pick up, then y'all

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Speaker 2: drive the four hours, then you drive her back, and

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Speaker 2: then you get on the plane and you fly back.

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Speaker 2: Now that could be a way. She's trying to say,

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Speaker 2: I could spend more time with you because we get

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Speaker 2: a road trip and all that out of it. But

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Speaker 2: you think it's a waste of money. So I can't

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Speaker 2: tell you that it's not. You know, I can't tell

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Speaker 2: you that it's not a waste of money. You just look, man,

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Speaker 2: we all pay for our relationships. I've done way more

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Speaker 2: than that, so I'm not But you have to determine

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Speaker 2: what's worth it. Everything has a cost to it. You

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Speaker 2: just have to determine this the cost is worth it. Now,

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Speaker 2: this is the chicken, your dream, and y'all have talked

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Speaker 2: it out, and you think it's worth it, you can

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Speaker 2: do it. But if you don't think it's worth it,

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Speaker 2: it's nothing I could say that make you think it's

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Speaker 2: worth it.

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Speaker 3: And maybe you just don't want to go through all that.

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Speaker 2: And you thought y'all had a plan which will cost

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Speaker 2: each one of you four and a half hours there

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Speaker 2: and four and a half hours.

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Speaker 3: Back and that was the play grand. But now listen

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Speaker 3: to me, man, I want you to think about this.

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Speaker 2: It's nine hours of your day gone and time with

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Speaker 2: her over the weekend nine hours total, four and a

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Speaker 2: half there, four and a half back, so it's nine

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Speaker 2: and a half hours. That nine hour drive is probably

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Speaker 2: an hour twenty flight and then you there.

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Speaker 3: But that two grand in your world could be a lot.

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Speaker 2: So you don't want to do it, you shouldn't do it.

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Speaker 2: But then she said, if you don't do it like that,

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Speaker 2: then it ain't no weekend now. Now is she being

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Speaker 2: fair about that? I don't think so. I don't think

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Speaker 2: she's been fair about it at all. I think she's

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Speaker 2: being rather demanding and wants to put the on this

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Speaker 2: on you. And if you don't want it all on

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Speaker 2: you, you don't have to. This might not be the chick

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Speaker 2: for you anytime you were the person that won't compromise.

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Speaker 3: You know that's top.

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Speaker 1: Long distance relationships are hard anyway, you know that's all

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Speaker 1: I have?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 1: What or what?

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Speaker 4: It's not hard? She gotta figure out how fine is she?

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Speaker 4: Is she Delta fine or spirit fan? This to determine

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Speaker 4: what airline were getting on that this might not be

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Speaker 4: worth the two thousands, but it might be worth a

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Speaker 4: three hundred. You gotta figureut how fine she is. We

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Speaker 4: ain't got hot argued about this. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 4: ain't gonna put I'm gonna pay two fallacy, but I

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Speaker 4: might if this a want to get away?

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Speaker 3: Is this is a Southwest?

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Speaker 4: Is Southwestern?

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Speaker 3: I want to get away?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: It might be a ninety nine dollar weekend. We just

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Speaker 4: ain't have to go. This could be a FaceTime, a

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Speaker 4: whole FaceTime weekend. Man, Please two thousands. I know the copy.

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Speaker 4: I paid the two thousand, see my wife. I did

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Speaker 4: that because.

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Speaker 3: I had to.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, beautiful, for sure, this is not.

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Speaker 4: That it might matter be here. This might be a

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Speaker 4: horse and carriage. You might just catch a ride with

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Speaker 4: the Amish.

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Speaker 3: I don't care.

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