Speaker 1: This is, he said, a yad home with Eric Winter
Speaker 1: and Rodlin Fantas.
Speaker 2: Hey, Hey, welcome to he said, Aja the Homeostamihanta, how
Speaker 2: are you?
Speaker 1: Eric?
Speaker 3: I'm doing good?
Speaker 2: So professional? You sound so like full blown radio host.
Speaker 2: I'm a podcaster. Hi. Hi, guess what. We're a little
Speaker 2: nervous see those because we have a guest back on
Speaker 2: the show. She's doing it again and the last time
Speaker 2: she was here she gave us a homework and of
Speaker 2: course we didn't do it. What do you have to
Speaker 2: say about that, Eric Winter?
Speaker 3: Well, I think we're not leading a good example because
Speaker 3: we tell our kids to do their homework and be
Speaker 3: on top of stuff, and here we are failing at homework.
Speaker 3: But listen, who better than to have on Valentine's Day
Speaker 3: other than doctor V. You're back into some couples work
Speaker 3: for me.
Speaker 2: You don't want to tell the audience what was the
Speaker 2: homework before we bring We're going to talk about it
Speaker 2: with her, but if you go ahead, so basically we're
Speaker 2: supposed to have a ten minute makeout and nothing else,
Speaker 2: just making out session before leading to anything. So basically
Speaker 2: kissing and for like ten minutes you make out let
Speaker 2: and I guess what, No, it didn't happen. No, it
Speaker 2: didn't even happen. Well, maybe for a few minutes, a
Speaker 2: few minutes. We just have a different dynamic, we do
Speaker 2: it a different way. Well, no, we've make out for
Speaker 2: a few minutes, about ten minutes, so long, but we
Speaker 2: don't do ten minutes. Yes, all right, Well let's talk
Speaker 2: to her about it. Let's bring her in. How are
Speaker 2: you going to see you?
Speaker 1: It's so good to see y'all. It feels like it's
Speaker 1: been forever. Maybe it has been.
Speaker 2: Like it's been a year. It has been a year,
Speaker 2: it's been a full year. But it was last it
Speaker 2: was last year that we probably all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it would have been around maybe early summer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense, Maybe it makes sense.
Speaker 1: It was nice for a check in.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we were just talking about how we fail.
Speaker 2: They're going to be happy. I mean we did we didn't.
Speaker 2: We didn't do the specific homework of just like making
Speaker 2: out and kissing for ten minutes. But what did what
Speaker 2: did other stuff?
Speaker 1: Let's just get into it. I think we need to
Speaker 1: get into it. I know we have to.
Speaker 2: What do you think is so difficult? Listen, it's so
Speaker 2: funny because I'm sure you know how how it's very
Speaker 2: current the whole topic about Baldoni and Blake Lively and
Speaker 2: the whole lawsuit, right, and they have a very infamous
Speaker 2: video that they're doing a scene and he's explaining to
Speaker 2: her listen with my wife sometimes we just look into
Speaker 2: each other's eyes for five minutes, and then the actress
Speaker 2: is like, Haha, I want to do that. All do
Speaker 2: is talk talk talk, talk, talk, Like, what do you
Speaker 2: think that happens? Why do you have You have the
Speaker 2: couple that is perfectly comfortable with that complicity of just
Speaker 2: staring into each other's eyes, and then you have the
Speaker 2: other couple that they just want to talk it out
Speaker 2: and talk and laugh and talk and laugh about nonsense.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think.
Speaker 2: Not nonsense.
Speaker 3: Maybe they're talking about the kids or something deep.
Speaker 1: I think. I mean, I think we're really judging something
Speaker 1: that we can't just because it could be I mean,
Speaker 1: we might assume, and it could be wrong that talking
Speaker 1: talking talking when you're really close to someone is easing
Speaker 1: tension or it's easing the awkwardness for others. It might
Speaker 1: be like the fact that they're talking that close. It
Speaker 1: could be Wow, that really shows vulnerability because you know
Speaker 1: your breath might stink or you know, you might You're like,
Speaker 1: attention is right here, so it could be even closer.
Speaker 1: I'm glad that each of those couples found each other though,
Speaker 1: because they seem pretty in sync.
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, it feels like there's definitely no one
Speaker 3: way I mean community. On one side, you could say
Speaker 3: it's great that they can communicate, you know, that couple
Speaker 3: about anything and talk and be connected with dialogue. And
Speaker 3: whether it's talking out in argument or talking about the
Speaker 3: kids or talking about work, you know, I mean they're
Speaker 3: able to communicate in that way.
Speaker 2: Now, is that their love language?
Speaker 3: The communication factor?
Speaker 2: I don't know, is that team it up? You know?
Speaker 2: For them maybe the other.
Speaker 3: Two, maybe just staring into each other's eyes is what
Speaker 3: gets them excited and makes them happy. I feel that
Speaker 3: there's no right answer in that situation, but you got
Speaker 3: to find the right partner, because if one person wants
Speaker 3: to stare, one person wants to talk.
Speaker 2: You got a problem.
Speaker 1: Yeah. It might be like, look calm down, or why
Speaker 1: are you so neervous? They're like, I'm not nervous. I'm
Speaker 1: just excited to be here with you and we get
Speaker 1: to talk about this and that and I've got your attention.
Speaker 1: Especially with celebrity couples, attention is hard to get in
Speaker 1: personal situations. For a lot of times, they're always having
Speaker 1: to work on getting, you know, keeping other people's attention,
Speaker 1: giving their attention to all the different managers and people
Speaker 1: and production and crews and all of that. Everybody wants
Speaker 1: something from them. So for some people being able to
Speaker 1: say like we had five uninterrupted quiet moments is amazing,
Speaker 1: and for others it's we got to talk for five minutes.
Speaker 1: That's amazing. Yeah, it's tough to know.
Speaker 3: I will say this because you're notorious with this US
Speaker 3: is that if we have maybe like a moment that's
Speaker 3: going to be intimate to some degree, she always loves
Speaker 3: to bring up a conversation at that moment. Not always,
Speaker 3: but you've done it quite a bit, you know where
Speaker 3: I've been like why aren't we talking?
Speaker 2: I used to do it a lot, especially about the kids,
Speaker 2: like we're in the middle of something and then I
Speaker 2: just go, oh my god, Sibby did something so funny,
Speaker 2: and then I started talking about the daughter and he's like,
Speaker 2: why are you bringing Sabella or the kids or anything intimate?
Speaker 2: Like we're not being fully intimate. That's weird.
Speaker 3: Noilty, guilty, but we've been like we've been like starting
Speaker 3: to be intimate about something. She's like, oh, this just
Speaker 3: popped in my head and I'm like, that just killed
Speaker 3: the mood. Why are we talking about that right now?
Speaker 1: I've been guilty of that, and I don't know if
Speaker 1: it's the same thing for you, Rosalind, But for me,
Speaker 1: what made that happen at that time is that it
Speaker 1: was like the first time we were really connecting, like
Speaker 1: just the two of us. So it's like, oh, my gosh,
Speaker 1: I have a few things to catch you up on.
Speaker 1: And my husband's like, yeah, no, this isn't like getting
Speaker 1: me not now.
Speaker 2: So that's what happens with this one over here. He's like,
Speaker 2: why wait, I don't know. I just thought about it,
Speaker 2: but this is what happened. And he's like, oh my god, Ross,
Speaker 2: it's funny, but I'm doing better.
Speaker 3: No, you haven't done it in a while, but it's
Speaker 3: one of the things that you have done and we
Speaker 3: have talked about a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is kind of funny, and sometimes I do
Speaker 2: get the giggles again, it used to be more often,
Speaker 2: like not anymore as much, but I will just get
Speaker 2: because intimacy is a trip, you know. Intimacy is something
Speaker 2: that is very intimate, you know, and depending on the day,
Speaker 2: I could just I don't know if it's nervous laughter.
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is that I just start laughing.
Speaker 2: How are you nervous with me after nineteen years? That's
Speaker 2: what you're saying.
Speaker 1: It's playful exactly. It's like you don't really know what
Speaker 1: is exactly going to happen your of course, most of
Speaker 1: us are probably naked. There's like this just self consciousness
Speaker 1: that can happen, and it can ease some of the tensions.
Speaker 1: So if the laughing or giggling or even playfulness helps
Speaker 1: to ease the tension, then great, it's serving its purpose.
Speaker 1: But if it's impeding or if you're staying in this
Speaker 1: place of now like oh my gosh, I'm laughing, doesn't
Speaker 1: he doesn't think this is funny, or he feels like
Speaker 1: I'm laughing at him, then maybe having a conversation like hey,
Speaker 1: by the way, I wasn't laughing at you, or it's
Speaker 1: just you know, I get a little bit like immature
Speaker 1: at the moment, and that's okay.
Speaker 2: It's playfulness, it's okay.
Speaker 3: Let me jump into Valentine's Day, which is obviously you
Speaker 3: know what we're going to be discussing a bit in
Speaker 3: this episode. What are your thoughts of the of people
Speaker 3: who put so much importance into that day versus giving
Speaker 3: that sort of attention year round.
Speaker 2: Does that make sense?
Speaker 1: Yes? I tend to recommend and practice that Valentine's say,
Speaker 1: should not be such a big deal or maybe more importantly,
Speaker 1: not such a big difference from your everyday life. Again,
Speaker 1: we should be we should be showing respect, love, care,
Speaker 1: generosity with our partners, especially in a romantic way, more
Speaker 1: often than just once or twice a year, like you know,
Speaker 1: birthdays and anniversaries and Valentines. But I think it's also
Speaker 1: a red flag if you don't try to acknowledge it
Speaker 1: at all. For sure, that's a little odd too. So, yes,
Speaker 1: you should be having that romance and gestures and attention
Speaker 1: maybe a little extra throughout the week. But if you're
Speaker 1: not acknowledging Valentine'sday at all, there's probably a story there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's interesting because I do know, like a lady
Speaker 3: that I work with, funny she talks about like her
Speaker 3: husband and her don't celebrate a lot of the holidays,
Speaker 3: they just do something for each other all the time.
Speaker 3: And she was saying, like even Christmas, like we don't
Speaker 3: necessarily buy things just for each other on Christmas. My
Speaker 3: husband will surprise me with things randomly, like just you know,
Speaker 3: whenevery you know, all the time, in a general statement.
Speaker 3: So I think it kind of applies even to Valentine's
Speaker 3: for her. Now, look, she's an older you know, it's
Speaker 3: an older lady, older couple. But in general, that's just
Speaker 3: their motto of how they approach things. So Valentine's isn't
Speaker 3: something they fully celebrate. He'll just do special things for
Speaker 3: her all the time.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that that's sweet, and it sounds like
Speaker 1: it worked for them. They probably had to have some
Speaker 1: sort of a conversation about that early on. I think
Speaker 1: it would be a little odd if somebody just kind
Speaker 1: of imposed that on a partner and said, by the way,
Speaker 1: I don't celebrate Christmas in a big way, and that's
Speaker 1: just the way it's going to be. Maybe hopefully more
Speaker 1: of a conversation of like, oh, yeah, no, I don't
Speaker 1: really necessarily need that either, especially if we're buying the
Speaker 1: things that we want for each other and for ourselves whenever,
Speaker 1: like gifts maybe don't matter that much. But then again
Speaker 1: that's probably because it's not one of your love languages,
Speaker 1: so it may not matter as much. I think again,
Speaker 1: I think it's great when people say, my partner and
Speaker 1: I like to do this. It's one thing to just
Speaker 1: say me, me, me, this is what I like. But
Speaker 1: if it's you and your partner, then go for it.
Speaker 2: The ideal if you implement that, you know that it
Speaker 2: doesn't have to be a specific holiday, but you actually
Speaker 2: are very mindful throughout the year and to do very
Speaker 2: special things and also celebrate those special moments, you know,
Speaker 2: like the holiday, the anniversary holiday, Valentine's, you know, birthdays.
Speaker 2: It will be incredible to have that couple that has
Speaker 2: that kind of just beautiful agreement that they just celebrate
Speaker 2: each other throughout the year and celebrate each other when
Speaker 2: it matters, you know.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 2: And also like this is where it's in.
Speaker 3: Everybody's different in this, Like it goes back to like
Speaker 3: sort of love languages in a way, right, Like is
Speaker 3: it the big material gift that makes Valentine special for
Speaker 3: that person? Is it the intimate dinner and intimate night
Speaker 3: out that makes Valentine special and different. I assume that's
Speaker 3: specific to each couple into each individual on a sort
Speaker 3: of a love language level, right, But I know often
Speaker 3: when you get into a holiday, it becomes associated with
Speaker 3: the gift, even more so sometimes than the physic, especially
Speaker 3: like even Valentine's Day. It might be like, well, what
Speaker 3: person am I getting versus what about the intimate moment
Speaker 3: we're going to spend celebrating our love.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that that's where you have to slip
Speaker 1: the heartfelt written card in the purse.
Speaker 2: With the flowers.
Speaker 1: But no, I mean I think again the commercialization of
Speaker 1: love in general. I can't say that it is a
Speaker 1: wonderful thing, but I also can't say that it's awful
Speaker 1: because for some people it really supports their idea of
Speaker 1: like I get to show my partner because it's societally
Speaker 1: okay during this time, I get to shower with them
Speaker 1: with gifts, whereas maybe otherwise they wouldn't want it or
Speaker 1: would feel kind of awkward with that attention. So for
Speaker 1: some people it permits them to be romantic and to
Speaker 1: be cheesy and to kind of almost go back to
Speaker 1: like teen years and have that excitement, And for others
Speaker 1: it creates a lot of pressure if you are deciding
Speaker 1: what gifts to give your partner because of what you've
Speaker 1: seen other people on Instagram talking about that's not heartfelt.
Speaker 1: They might appreciate it, but it's not actually a symbol
Speaker 1: of your love. And so for a lot of people,
Speaker 1: I want to remind them, if it's not heartfelt, it's
Speaker 1: not Valentines, it's homemark holiday, you know, and that's what
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 2: This is an interesting question here. How about talking to
Speaker 2: your kids who may have a crush in school or
Speaker 2: may have started dating, and them receiving something in school
Speaker 2: from that person seems like the most important thing to them. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I saw that too.
Speaker 3: I wanted to bring that up as well, because that's
Speaker 3: been an interesting thing for us going through as far
Speaker 3: as not our son, but our daughter who's in junior high.
Speaker 2: She's at thirteenth seventh grade.
Speaker 3: Started in sixth right the first time Valentine became.
Speaker 2: Correct and when she was very mindful about when my
Speaker 2: friend has a boyfriend, and I wonder if I'm going
Speaker 2: to have a boyfriend, you know what. And she talks
Speaker 2: about those things not a lot, you know, but she
Speaker 2: get the peer pressure I'm assuming, you know, of having
Speaker 2: friends that are very close, friends that are already dating.
Speaker 2: So it's going to be really interesting to see, come
Speaker 2: this Valentine's you know, if she's going to receive a row,
Speaker 2: or if somebody's going to write a letter, or she's
Speaker 2: going to tell us about it, And wouldn't you agree.
Speaker 3: It felt a bit more peer pressure in sixth grade,
Speaker 3: like a lot of her friends were already like, well,
Speaker 3: who's going to ask you to be their Valentine?
Speaker 2: Who's going to be?
Speaker 3: And it almost felt like you I remember when we
Speaker 3: were kids and somebody had passed you a little note
Speaker 3: with a candy and whatever, kissed me and the thing,
Speaker 3: and it's, you know, a little heart right, it's a joke.
Speaker 2: Doesn't even matter with them. In sixth grade, I think
Speaker 2: it's gonna be worse.
Speaker 3: In seventh grade, it felt like a lot of pressure,
Speaker 3: like she had to have a Valentine, she needed to
Speaker 3: partner up with somebody, not even as a boy. I
Speaker 3: mean they called each other like dating partners, not even
Speaker 3: really in the formal sense of what we know as that.
Speaker 3: It just felt like a pressured situation, different than when
Speaker 3: we went to school.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm in the middle of it. I have a
Speaker 1: thirteen year old son as well, and he does have
Speaker 1: a little girlfriend right now. And having met my current
Speaker 1: my husband, having met him when I was twelve and
Speaker 1: he was thirteen, and we were each other's first love,
Speaker 1: first kiss, I may and my husband would say the
Speaker 1: same thing. We may put a little bit too much
Speaker 1: emphasis on how important these junior high relationships are. We've
Speaker 1: had to pull back because it is not the same
Speaker 1: When we ask him what it means to be to
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend, or to have a girlfriend, or to
Speaker 1: be one, you'd be surprised. I would love for y'all
Speaker 1: to ask your child that, like, what does this mean?
Speaker 1: What does it mean? Because it might feel different for
Speaker 1: you like it does for me.
Speaker 2: What did he say when you're asking me the question?
Speaker 1: He said, Oh, it just means that we talk a
Speaker 1: lot on the phone. You know, I'm always the one
Speaker 1: that's encouraging because my parents did not want me to
Speaker 1: see my husband, you know, my boyfriend at the time.
Speaker 1: They were very strict, no known and you know what
Speaker 1: they probably should have been, because you know, we were
Speaker 1: we were wild, but but it's just not. That's not
Speaker 1: the case. And so these days it's much more like
Speaker 1: we go to the mall together, we go to movies together,
Speaker 1: we go in groups together, and we talk all the time.
Speaker 1: But I don't know that the feelings are as intense
Speaker 1: at this age as maybe they were for us.
Speaker 2: I would fully agree.
Speaker 3: I think the last time we did kind of talk
Speaker 3: to her about it, it was related to us in
Speaker 3: that sort of matter.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: We just hang out at school, we sit together during lunch.
Speaker 3: It was almost like they were better friends, like the
Speaker 3: partner partnered as a friendship, which I thought was fantastic.
Speaker 2: I was like, no, that's great. I don't want you.
Speaker 3: I do think there's a bit of a double standard
Speaker 3: with the boy, at least from my mindset. Like if
Speaker 3: my son's in that situation, you know, if he's like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, I want to hold her hand, I'd
Speaker 3: be like great. And if she's like, well, he wants
Speaker 3: to hold my hand, I'd be like, really, Like, I
Speaker 3: would definitely.
Speaker 2: Pause a bit more.
Speaker 3: But we're very open and communicative when it comes to
Speaker 3: that kind of stuff with her. I don't want her
Speaker 3: thinking it's taboo or we're against it. It's just in
Speaker 3: my brain there's a bit of a double standard.
Speaker 2: This is what we know She is pretty clear about
Speaker 2: the sex topic. You know, we we sat down with her,
Speaker 2: We had a whole conversation. I took paper and pensy
Speaker 2: like explain everything about the reproductive system, you know, and
Speaker 2: she was very uncomfortable. You know, she was kind of like, oh, mom,
Speaker 2: I know, but I explained everything. So she's pretty clear.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: She now, God, she's going through puberty, so this is
Speaker 2: what it means. So now we have to be more
Speaker 2: mindful Sabella. But it's going to be really tricky when
Speaker 2: she actually starts dating somebody that we realized she really
Speaker 2: likes this kid. You know, it's going to be really
Speaker 2: interesting to know what's going to be our dynamic as parents.
Speaker 2: How are we going to deal Because just having a
Speaker 2: little friend that she just has a crush it's one thing.
Speaker 2: But actually saying no, this is my boyfriend that I'm
Speaker 2: going to go to the mall or his parents are
Speaker 2: going to pick me up. What do you think about that?
Speaker 2: And we're gonna go to the movies? You know that
Speaker 2: it's I'm not ready definitely.
Speaker 1: Well, and I'll tell you I think that one of
Speaker 1: the things that parents these days are not focusing on
Speaker 1: is the emotional side of having these relationships. Yes, alarm goes,
Speaker 1: alarm bells go off with the sex talk, and we're like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, we need to know that. But a
Speaker 1: lot of them don't talk about the emotional side of
Speaker 1: it and how what is a crush? What is love?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 1: And I've I've had some more of those conversations with
Speaker 1: our son because I'm like, look, at some point, you
Speaker 1: may decide you don't want to be with her. I
Speaker 1: can't assume you're going to be with her forever. But
Speaker 1: how you break up with someone, how you talk to
Speaker 1: them really matters. You know. He knows what I do
Speaker 1: for a living, so I tell him how what you're
Speaker 1: doing now, and not to put too much pressure on you,
Speaker 1: but just don't be a jerk because that will live
Speaker 1: with someone forever, and it will live with you forever,
Speaker 1: and hopefully you won't get you know, jerked around either.
Speaker 2: So yeah, oh my goodness. It's a balance. It is
Speaker 2: not easy. It's not easy. It's not easy with the boy.
Speaker 2: I think it's going to be. Like you said, I
Speaker 2: don't know, and I grew up with men, you know,
Speaker 2: I have three brothers, and there even though it was
Speaker 2: the same household, and it was a very similar upbringing
Speaker 2: because we all saw what we saw. But the way
Speaker 2: my mom talked to me or never talk to me
Speaker 2: about sex or anything that had to do with emotional intelligence,
Speaker 2: and this is how you navigate relationships. That conversation never
Speaker 2: ever happened, you know it was and if it ever happened,
Speaker 2: it was a threat. If I ever hear that you,
Speaker 2: if I ever hear that you, you know, that kind
Speaker 2: of thing. It's it's going to be interesting because because
Speaker 2: I grew up with men, I saw it all, you know,
Speaker 2: and I saw the double standard my parents had with
Speaker 2: my brothers that with me. So it's going to be
Speaker 2: really interesting to see how I'm going to navigate Dylan
Speaker 2: and Sabella when they're dating.
Speaker 3: And you know, it's funny that I see I don't
Speaker 3: see this in school with these kids, like we were saying,
Speaker 3: like with their daughter, it felt like more pressure, right
Speaker 3: with your son? I don't, I don't know, but you know,
Speaker 3: with adults, you hear Gallentine's Day. Now I'm hearing Single
Speaker 3: Person Awareness.
Speaker 2: Day, which is wild wild.
Speaker 3: Why is that not just accepted in school? Why aren't
Speaker 3: these kids just being like, I don't need a partner.
Speaker 3: We's Galentine's Day. Us girls can all be friends, or
Speaker 3: we can lift each other up.
Speaker 2: Or I'm single, they're doing it. I think they're doing it.
Speaker 2: You're high. I feel like it's just you got to
Speaker 2: partner up with somebody. It's pressure, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Think again a lot of it comes down to family values.
Speaker 1: Is just like letting them know you are an individual.
Speaker 1: This is not like it's in these days. I have
Speaker 1: found because I do we have a high schooler as well,
Speaker 1: so we have two teens, oh my goodness, sixteen and thirteen,
Speaker 1: and now high schools are much more open to like
Speaker 1: you don't have to have a date to go to
Speaker 1: a dance. You can go as long as you go
Speaker 1: to these schools or whatever it is, which is great
Speaker 1: because I remember there was a lot of pressure and
Speaker 1: fortunately there were friends that you could go with from
Speaker 1: these schools, but there was a lot of pressure to
Speaker 1: couple up for the night for sure, whether you had
Speaker 1: feelings like that or not, or whether it was a
Speaker 1: group or not. So I would say talking to them about, hey,
Speaker 1: why don't you do like a group thing or like
Speaker 1: some of the things that my daughter does. She'll go
Speaker 1: to dances with a group of friends and they'll meet
Speaker 1: up with a group of guys. Nobody's dating anybody, but
Speaker 1: just reminding them. You know, you don't have to do this,
Speaker 1: and if you want to, you need to go to
Speaker 1: a guy and one of the kids and say, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, I'd love to give you something for Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day as a friend, you know? Will you do the
Speaker 1: same and have them talk it out instead of it
Speaker 1: being something that's all about perception?
Speaker 2: You know, makes sense.
Speaker 3: Let me say this before we let you go flip
Speaker 3: it back onto us. It's Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2: What advice?
Speaker 3: Now there's a broad statement, but what would you say
Speaker 3: to us something to take back again as homework or
Speaker 3: whatever because we failed last time? What kind of advice
Speaker 3: would you give us for Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1: Okay, Roblin, allies are on you.
Speaker 2: Expect to be at least, don't.
Speaker 1: Worry because I've got you covered. Okay. I would love
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Speaker 1: last time we talked, Broslyn, you said that you're very
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Speaker 2: Correct.
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Speaker 2: Okay, hilarious, Okay, I have to say it again.
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Speaker 2: let's go to All High. Let's go to like a
Speaker 2: fabulous you.
Speaker 3: Can't put we have we have to deal with kids
Speaker 3: and all kinds of saff you can't put demands on.
Speaker 2: Of course I can exactly actually met. Yes, we fly. No,
Speaker 2: we're gonna go to All We're actually a Minnesot. We're
Speaker 2: gonna be out of town. So guess what. We're going
Speaker 2: to be out of town at a hotel. So we
Speaker 2: don't have any kids on Voluntine's there, that's right.
Speaker 3: Which would probably be asleep because this gonna be a
Speaker 3: time difference and all that, so it's probably gonna this
Speaker 3: would be interesting.
Speaker 2: Fifteen Let go. I know, right, he's already like like
Speaker 2: talking here.
Speaker 3: Unbelievable, believable anyways, funny, I'm very excited to see what's.
Speaker 2: In that box. I don't want to say vivid.
Speaker 1: That's you know, here's the thing for all of you
Speaker 1: who are trying to do something special this holiday, the
Speaker 1: Valentine's Holiday, but who don't really know where to start,
Speaker 1: a lot of it is just asking your partner. You
Speaker 1: could ask them this sympol question of like how do
Speaker 1: I help you to feel loved? Just start there, start
Speaker 1: that conversation, and if they don't ask it back, say
Speaker 1: this is how I try to show you that I
Speaker 1: love you? Does it? Land? Having a heartfelt conversation is
Speaker 1: cheap and it can go a long way. So don't
Speaker 1: you don't have to go overboard with any of it.
Speaker 1: Just be loving, be kind, be generous, and don't forget
Speaker 1: about it. Valentine's Day. It's February the fourteenth, It's a friday.
Speaker 1: And even if you don't make something happen on that
Speaker 1: Friday you got all weekend.
Speaker 2: All of the good news is I have a Valentine.
Speaker 3: I'm very happy with it.
Speaker 2: So this is fantastic. Sweet thank you, it's good. Thank
Speaker 2: you so much, doctor B. We appreciate you always love
Speaker 2: having you.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: It is awesome. Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: Take care by bye bye.
Speaker 2: So you have it. Vivid Box David, Minnesota. It is
Speaker 2: on like dog Kings. It's gonna be like a stand
Speaker 2: up comedy and that laughter is.
Speaker 1: Going to be herd.
Speaker 2: I have to blindfold you and I have to do anything.
Speaker 2: There's a bunch of stuff in that box. You have
Speaker 2: to seebody who have to follow the box says I think.
Speaker 3: It's I think it's picked your own adventure, choose you
Speaker 3: an adventure box.
Speaker 2: That's really funny. I want to be laughing. It's gonna
Speaker 2: be a good time. It's gonna be something anyways, having valentinee.
Speaker 2: Everybody love you Valentine's Day.
Speaker 3: Love you, Thanks for listening.
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