WEBVTT - BEST OF 2024: Shady Mailbag #2

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<v Speaker 1>Tweaks to the planet, Charlamagne to God. Here and as

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<v Speaker 1>we come close to closing out this year, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to say thank you for tuning into the Black

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network. There have been so many great moments over

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<v Speaker 1>the past year. Take a listen to some of those

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<v Speaker 1>captivating moments in this special best of episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we need to read one of our Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so we have it reasonable or shady. Yeah, and by

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<v Speaker 2>the way, guys, send us some more. We love reading

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<v Speaker 2>your reasonable or shady scenarios. Yes, we do, because we

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<v Speaker 2>are reasonably shady. Okay, this says Hi, Robin and Giselle. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this is from AVA. I have some drama and want

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<v Speaker 2>your opinion on whether it is reasonable or shady. My

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<v Speaker 2>friend moved in with her boyfriend of two years. Her

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend is the one that asked her to move in. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>her boyfriend now follow This is her ex boyfriend's dad,

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<v Speaker 2>and now she's living in the home where her ex

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend grew up.

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<v Speaker 3>Whow Actually this is good, right, I'm like this shady,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, just shady already.

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<v Speaker 2>Her ex doesn't visit the house at all.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he does not.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's a reason. Yeah, Okay, even I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like the fact that her ex boyfriend's dad.

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<v Speaker 4>Is dating.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever, yeah, his son's ex girlfriend. Yeah, that just tells

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<v Speaker 2>you they probably had a shitty relationship. Yeah you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying, Like the dad and the boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So she suggested to her boyfriend the dad that they

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<v Speaker 2>should move everything out of her ex's childhood room and

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<v Speaker 2>let her use it to store some of her stuff

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<v Speaker 2>and let her use it as her personal office lounging room.

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<v Speaker 2>Her boyfriend the dad agreed, so they boxed up, with

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<v Speaker 2>my help, Ava's help, everything in her ex boyfriend's childhood

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<v Speaker 2>room and moved them to the garage, including the furniture.

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<v Speaker 5>What.

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<v Speaker 2>She redecorated the room and made it hers very cute

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<v Speaker 2>and cozy before she even moved his things. But before

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<v Speaker 2>she even moved his things, she messaged her ex about

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<v Speaker 2>it and told him he should come by. She did

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<v Speaker 2>not the dad, right, she did, she did, Okay, this

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<v Speaker 2>is all this all get back, This is insane.

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<v Speaker 3>This get back. She he made her mad, and she

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<v Speaker 3>was like, yeah, right, I'm gonna get you I'm a.

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<v Speaker 2>Dad and move into your childhood or Okay, So this

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<v Speaker 2>should not be a question of is this shady?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Hell, yeah shady.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually the shady and so shame but I love

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<v Speaker 2>every second of it, right, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>It's beyond shady. Yeah okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So so she messaged him and told him about it

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<v Speaker 2>and told him he should come by and take a

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<v Speaker 2>look at what he wants to keep and or sell

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<v Speaker 2>and or donate. After not hearing from him for three weeks,

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<v Speaker 2>he texted her, calling her all sorts of names and

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<v Speaker 2>clearing out and taking his room. Yes, she says, she's

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<v Speaker 2>really trying to be sensitive and nice, but he is

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<v Speaker 2>making this very difficult with his rage filled outbursts in texts.

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<v Speaker 3>What's her name?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't a friend's name? No, Oh, she's the person

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<v Speaker 2>that wrote in Yes is Ava?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Ava?

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<v Speaker 3>Is not this?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she's she's she's reported she's talking about her friend. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's actually but she helps her friend girls like

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<v Speaker 2>she's like, I'm writing for a friend. Yes, but she

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<v Speaker 2>helped her friend move her you know, move her stuff out,

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<v Speaker 2>move the stuff out of the ex boyfriend's room. She

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<v Speaker 2>and her boyfriend are giving him a year to clear

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<v Speaker 2>out his childhood stuff from the garage before they donate

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<v Speaker 2>everything neither of them feel clearing out his room is inappropriate,

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<v Speaker 2>but her ex is just melting down in a tantrum

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<v Speaker 2>filled rage. Personally, I don't think he should have such

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<v Speaker 2>an outburst when he never even visits. I also don't

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<v Speaker 2>think she should have started dating her ex's father.

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<v Speaker 4>No, Ava, what are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 2>Was taking over his room reasonable or shady?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, there's so many thoughts.

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<v Speaker 3>This is wild. This is actually so wild.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want Okay, so we don't know any name here, no, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>if the boyfriend is listening, please write us, because so

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<v Speaker 2>the dad or the ex boyfriend, the ex boyfriend. If

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<v Speaker 2>the ex boyfriend's listening, listen, we want your point of view, right,

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<v Speaker 2>because your ex girlfriend is the worst, right, and your

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<v Speaker 2>dad were the worst. Your daddy is just alone for

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<v Speaker 2>the ride. We don't know how long dad got to

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<v Speaker 2>live on this earth. Okay, he just wants a little

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<v Speaker 2>hot girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, yes, So if your mother no started dating, this

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<v Speaker 3>is not my family. Okay, this is totally not my

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<v Speaker 3>family and not my people.

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<v Speaker 2>But I understand that your mother dad just wants like

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<v Speaker 2>a little.

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<v Speaker 3>To this out. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>If your mother's started dating jamal.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, Robin took a tupar. Okay, this episode might

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<v Speaker 3>be my mother wants no parts of Jamal. Let's start.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm your stepdaddy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he went from my ex husband to my steps

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<v Speaker 2>to my step That would be hilarious. So I, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>this is beyond shady on so many levels. But I

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<v Speaker 2>want to hear from the men of this nonsense. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know that we'll hear from them. Okay, So my

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<v Speaker 2>opinion is it shady? It's first of all, it's super

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<v Speaker 2>shady that she's dating her ex boyfriend's father. That's like, why,

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<v Speaker 2>let yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Find somebody else?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Is this like how many people are in the town?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>It's like find someone out exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>That's just crazy because it is almost like you're you're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get back at your ex boyfriend and then

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<v Speaker 2>you just don't think about like what is that going

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<v Speaker 2>to do to him and his relationship with his dad

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<v Speaker 2>and his family and everyone else involved like that. You

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<v Speaker 2>just should have She should have stayed away and not

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<v Speaker 2>done it now. Is it shady for clearing his room out?

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<v Speaker 2>If this is a childhood home? So I think about

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<v Speaker 2>my childhood room right that I never go in. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't need one thing out of it. Right, So if

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<v Speaker 2>my parents all of a sudden just got rid of

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<v Speaker 2>all my shit, I'd be like, great, thank you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but your ex boyfriend is not having sex with your

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<v Speaker 2>mother and living in that house. I know it's different.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's it's the way and with the principle, what's

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<v Speaker 3>the way in which the room was cleared? Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>and for whom?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>And this is all like I think, get back in

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<v Speaker 2>spite yeah yeah, yeah, No, it's it's.

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<v Speaker 3>This is some nasty, dirty Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like we can't even get past the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>the girl is dating her ex boyfriend's dad. Like that's

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<v Speaker 2>just that's baseline, shady. Yeah, and anything after that is

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<v Speaker 2>like it's like you're adding to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Dad, don't give a damn.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, if this was his dad's girlfriend, that has nothing

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<v Speaker 2>to do with the sun.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool, fine, clear sit out.

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<v Speaker 4>He won't care.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, But the fact that you're calling me and saying hey,

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<v Speaker 2>and why didn't the dad call and say, hey, we're

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<v Speaker 2>we're clearing out your room.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, in my house that I pay all the bills for.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a mess.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a mess.

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<v Speaker 4>Isn't that crazy?

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<v Speaker 2>This is a great reality television show. Right, let's get

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<v Speaker 2>all their information right, and let's produce it.

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<v Speaker 4>This is from Christopher.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, No, it's gonna be bad, he says, help.

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<v Speaker 2>Me find miss right please, because I have been single

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<v Speaker 2>for six years because my ex had a miscarriage six

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<v Speaker 2>years ago in Walmart because someone ran into my new

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<v Speaker 2>Dodge Charger. Why I in jail for child support for

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<v Speaker 2>my first girlfriend. Two weeks later, she has left for me,

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<v Speaker 2>left me for my cousin in law. So I've been

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<v Speaker 2>single for six years.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Chris, we can't help you, sir.

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<v Speaker 4>This just came through.

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<v Speaker 3>I just said there. It's best if you're not paying

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<v Speaker 3>your child support and you in jail. We're not paying

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<v Speaker 3>child support.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you're in jail and you can't and you're not

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<v Speaker 2>paying child support. Yeah, No, we can't help you.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we can't help it.

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<v Speaker 2>A matter of fact, Actually, Chris, write to us, tell

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<v Speaker 2>us what jail you're in.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and he's out of jail now.

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<v Speaker 4>I think he.

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<v Speaker 2>Said I'm in jail for childs I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you in jail.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're in jail, we'll find you a pin pal.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh okay, will who oh, We'll just put it

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<v Speaker 3>out there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, okay, people find love in jail.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how we're gonna find you, miss right, Yeah, we'll

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<v Speaker 4>find you a pin pal.

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<v Speaker 2>This is from Lisa Bell. Hey, Lisa, ladies, this is

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<v Speaker 2>a shady request. Oh please discuss why Kim has fallen

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<v Speaker 2>from the throes of Bravo to MTV Surreal Life. Who's

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<v Speaker 2>Kim Solcia?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, okay, this is a shipwreck.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would she do this show? In the promo, Macy

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<v Speaker 2>Gray is riding a pool float calling at Mandingo. There

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<v Speaker 2>had to be other options before this show. Okay, Robin,

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<v Speaker 2>you bet not never ever do that show? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>say you, because Giselle would not, but Rob.

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<v Speaker 4>She would not.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Robin may may do it.

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<v Speaker 2>But Robin may say, well, how long do I have

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<v Speaker 2>to stay there? It would be a different experience. I

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<v Speaker 2>can teach them how to steal forks and eat food

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<v Speaker 2>by shopping in the grocery store. He loel anyway, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>being shady, but I will be watching the show. Reality

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<v Speaker 2>TV is my comic relief. Your podcast gives me life.

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<v Speaker 2>Bring a live show to Texas.

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<v Speaker 3>So, Lisa, huh, hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>I never say never.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably not doing that show only live once. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't see anything wrong with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So explain to me the premise of the show.

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<v Speaker 2>They live in a house for how long and when

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<v Speaker 2>do they get booted?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm gonna look it up. So real life.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I really don't really know the show, but I

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<v Speaker 2>saw that it's like Kim Tom Hanks's son.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, that's how they know each other.

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<v Speaker 2>I did see Chet is his same Yeah, Chet Hanks,

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<v Speaker 2>Chet Hanks, and he looks to me very the reason

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<v Speaker 2>why I stopped.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I looked at it because he looks like Croy,

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<v Speaker 3>her ex husband.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, okay, or soon to be.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if they're divorced. Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is the premise of the show. It is

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<v Speaker 2>a reality show about fading celebrities who were hot back

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<v Speaker 2>in the day and how they live their day to

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<v Speaker 2>day lives in one Los Angeles mansion.

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<v Speaker 5>Eight celebrity strangers are invited to the real life villa

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<v Speaker 5>in Meta Yine, Columbia for a healing getaway that will

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<v Speaker 5>change and bond them forever. Each day of their stay,

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<v Speaker 5>they'll be given secret missions that push them out of

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<v Speaker 5>their comfort zones throughout their time here, they'll confront their

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<v Speaker 5>fears and reveal their deepest secrets.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well you couldn't do that because you'll never be

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<v Speaker 2>faking You're you're hot to try. So let me see

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<v Speaker 2>who is on this cast this year. So it's Kim Zosiac,

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<v Speaker 2>Chet Hank Okay, Macy Gray, Chet Hanks, Ali Brooke don't

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<v Speaker 2>know who she is, Ot Genesis, Kim Zosiak, Johnny Weir,

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<v Speaker 2>Josie Conseco, and Tyler Posey.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, you only live once, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And Rob I said, never say now.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how I ended up on the other TV show

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<v Speaker 2>that I was on, because when the opportunity was presented

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<v Speaker 2>to me, I said, you only live once, so why

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<v Speaker 2>not do something that you never imagine doing, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>in your life?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>And I understanding that I ended up on that show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm happy that you're on that show. Now, people

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<v Speaker 2>are y'all are writing us years eight years, eight years,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all are writing us, writing us, asking for since Robin

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<v Speaker 2>is no longer on that show that she was on,

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<v Speaker 2>for Robin to give all the tea because she can

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<v Speaker 2>now because she's not actually obligating, and I'm telling y'all

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<v Speaker 2>right now stop because y'all trying to give me.

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<v Speaker 3>Fired so like, you know, but they can't against you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, they can't. Oh, by the way, I've been meaning

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you this. So a couple of weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 2>I had a pack at UPS package come and I

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<v Speaker 2>had to.

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<v Speaker 3>Sign for it, and I wasn't home.

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<v Speaker 2>And normally if I like go into my ring and

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<v Speaker 2>like talk to them, they'll just leave it, right. So

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't do that, so he was like, I'll be back,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, tomorrow. So same thing happened, and I asked him.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, can you just leave it? And he

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<v Speaker 2>was like no.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was like, dang, Like when am I gonna

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<v Speaker 3>give my package?

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<v Speaker 2>So anyway, I forgot about the package and then I

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<v Speaker 2>happen to be pulling up into the house and here

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<v Speaker 2>he comes again. This was like a week later, and

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, hey, I just want you to know that

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<v Speaker 2>you know that time that you asked me to leave it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was with my boss that day and I couldn't oh.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, oh, okay, now I get that, as

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<v Speaker 2>I said, but I did get it, and he was

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah, okay, and then he gave me something else

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<v Speaker 2>and he left and I was like, I think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>turned on by the ups man.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I understand what Robin is talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you see, ups man, let me go

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<v Speaker 2>on again in order something so can come back.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So for those of you all who don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>Robin has to thing for ups man, and I have

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<v Speaker 2>joked her about him because I'm just like, for.

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<v Speaker 4>What, I think it's random.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not random, like because they have on I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>because they have on brown choices. Yes, they have on brown.

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<v Speaker 3>That's that's what turned you on?

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<v Speaker 4>The brown?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh the brown is actually not my favorite.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think PS men like they are responsible.

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<v Speaker 3>And they jump out their trucks.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, then they usually really nice legs, yes he did. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>they're they're fit, Yes, they just.

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<v Speaker 3>He was tall and they're hard worker.

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<v Speaker 4>He was buff.

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<v Speaker 2>They drive around that howdas truck.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, complain and they don't go and he had a

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<v Speaker 3>deep voice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, okay, you PS, Yes, I see you.

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<v Speaker 4>And they get good benefits.

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<v Speaker 2>They I don't know anything about that, but yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure they can give good benefits. Yeah, give me some

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<v Speaker 2>benefits you PS. And when I say leave my package,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean more than that. I mean a whole lot

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<v Speaker 2>of things when I say leave the package.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, moving on.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we got some we got some something called

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<v Speaker 2>Lettus emails, and we want to we.

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<v Speaker 3>Want to talk about them. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is from Chrissy and she says, good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Just wanted to say I love you, ladies. I've listened

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<v Speaker 2>to every podcast since the beginning. Me and my husband

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<v Speaker 2>came to see you live in Philly, and we.

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<v Speaker 3>Got the meat and greet tickets.

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<v Speaker 4>But I have a one year old.

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<v Speaker 3>Cappuccina. Oh, I have a Jesus Christ. I have a

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<v Speaker 3>one year old cap chun. Maybe I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>that's right.

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<v Speaker 4>Monkey.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, she has a one year old monkey. Forget

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<v Speaker 2>what kind it is, which is having a toddler on meth,

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<v Speaker 2>which is like having a Maybe I should have read

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<v Speaker 2>this before I read this. Okay, so we didn't make

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<v Speaker 2>it in time. However, I was the white girl with

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<v Speaker 2>the dreads sitting in one of the front I saw

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<v Speaker 2>her tables, and I strongly recommended that you guys do

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<v Speaker 2>more live shows, because you guys make great entertainment. Y'all

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<v Speaker 2>are funny and shit.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember I remember seeing the white girl with dreads? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so shout out to Christy white girl with dreads?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, who has a monkey? Yes? Okay, who's on meth?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't doubt anyway about the Stanley the Stanley Cup.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was a stupid trend. But when I

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<v Speaker 2>drink out of my daughter's one day, I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I get it. Then one day my husband forgot his drink,

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<v Speaker 2>so I gave him mine and he was shocked.

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<v Speaker 3>How good the water tasted.

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<v Speaker 5>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, I know it sounds crazy, but you have

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<v Speaker 2>to try it. I ordered him a forty ounce black one,

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<v Speaker 2>which was sixty five dollars, which which is just stupid,

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<v Speaker 2>but whatever. He put his barbershop sticker over the name,

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<v Speaker 2>ha ha. But me and him both drink way much

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<v Speaker 2>more water than we used to.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't explain it. You just gotta try it.

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<v Speaker 2>If this ain't a plug, I don't know what is.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, Stanley Cup is not paying us a

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<v Speaker 2>dime for this. They should Okay, keep being, Oh, keep

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<v Speaker 2>being you, stay throwing your shade because your product, your

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<v Speaker 2>podcast is one and you guys are my favorite Housewives

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<v Speaker 2>in the entire franchise.

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<v Speaker 3>PS.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you when you just make shit up. It's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>I know I'm gonna start doing that more more, oh gosh, please,

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<v Speaker 2>and ways include that allegedly with it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm out right so we don't get suit and Robin.

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<v Speaker 2>I love how you stay true to who you are,

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<v Speaker 2>who you were before the show, and how you stick

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<v Speaker 2>by your man and how he's he isn't changing for

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<v Speaker 2>no one because of what others may think. Hashtag real

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<v Speaker 2>shit forever. A fan Chrissy from Wilmington. And here's a

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<v Speaker 2>picture of Abou. Okay, so monkey Abu is the monkey, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>and we might put this on our Instagram story. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>if y'all can see Abu the monkey. He has on

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<v Speaker 2>a red hoodie and he's chilling.

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<v Speaker 4>That was before we do advice. It's just a little

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<v Speaker 4>hater hater mail. Oh we love hater mail. Ye hater mail.

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<v Speaker 2>We did get a hater mail song like Dawn turn

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<v Speaker 2>it right. It's really quick. It's not as deep as

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<v Speaker 2>Linda with the Deer. Okay, all right, so this person,

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<v Speaker 2>Sandra says, I love you, ladies, but you laughed and

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<v Speaker 2>shamed the klepto basketball player, but one and your son

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<v Speaker 2>ate and put back at target. That's stealing too, And Giselle,

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<v Speaker 2>you show no compassion about hitting the deer. Please try

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<v Speaker 2>and speak to two sides of your stories.

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<v Speaker 4>Be good human beings. Still listening. What's up? Sandra? What? Sandra?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you're right, Wan and Corey you need to go

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<v Speaker 2>to jail.

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<v Speaker 4>How dare they?

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<v Speaker 2>How dare they taste tests and they didn't like it

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<v Speaker 2>and they put it back. They need to go to

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<v Speaker 2>jail because that's the same thing as walking out of

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<v Speaker 2>Target with candles body wash? So under your jacket, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not And how dare I live?

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<v Speaker 3>And the dear die? How dare I live?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Crazy, y'all people out here crazy? All right, So

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<v Speaker 2>we need advice for Alaniya Whitfield. She needs advice for

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<v Speaker 2>a fourteen year old daughter. All right, Hello, lovely ladies. First,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to say I've been a loyal listener since

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<v Speaker 2>episode one. You two brighten up my day, especially when

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<v Speaker 2>I've had a rough one and I turned to I

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<v Speaker 2>turned on an episode of Reason Me Shady and it

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<v Speaker 2>helps me tremendously. My name is Holly, Okay, so I

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<v Speaker 2>totally said her name wrong. Her name is Holly. I

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<v Speaker 2>live in Bangor, Maine.

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<v Speaker 4>Shout out to Banger.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that how you really pronounced that?

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<v Speaker 4>B a ng o or Banger? Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yes, Robin, I know you have been to Banger. Oh, yes, okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that's where I got kicked out of the airport. That's right,

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<v Speaker 2>that's right, and had an experience at the airport. Ha ha.

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<v Speaker 3>I promise you we aren't that bad. I need some advice.

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<v Speaker 2>My daughter's fourteen and has recently been give be in

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<v Speaker 2>trouble at school. She just got suspended for smoking pot.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought she was smarter than that, but I also

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<v Speaker 2>know what it's like to be a teenage girl. Giselle,

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<v Speaker 2>You've raised some very smart, respectable ladies, and I would

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<v Speaker 2>love your advice on how you approach the situation and

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<v Speaker 2>how to give the best guidance for my daughter. Thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for any advice you two might have.

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<v Speaker 4>Keep doing what you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Doing, and just know that the guy that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are making a difference. Lots of love, Holly, Oh, that's

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<v Speaker 2>so nice. Yes, And I don't know what kind of

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<v Speaker 2>advice I can give Grace smok a weed right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, Okay, I'm joking.

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<v Speaker 3>Jokes, jokes. You know. I was extremely upfront and.

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<v Speaker 2>Honest with my kids about everything, sex, drugs, rock and roll, everything,

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<v Speaker 2>just because I don't want them to learn about things.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want them to be curious about things and

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<v Speaker 2>then they're in the streets trying to figure it out.

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<v Speaker 2>So I tried to do scare tactics, and I tried

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<v Speaker 2>to be like, you know, if you smoke weed, then

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna be hooked on heroin for the rest of

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<v Speaker 2>your life, right, And I know that makes this's no correlation,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was like, it's a slippery slow, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>gateway drug.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a gateweight drug, very slow.

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<v Speaker 2>I shared that. My I'm sorry to cut you off,

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<v Speaker 2>but I shared. You know, I smoked weed at a

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<v Speaker 2>young age. And my best friend, who kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 2>was the one that I would get into trouble with.

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<v Speaker 2>We stopped hanging out midway through ninth grade, and by

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<v Speaker 2>her senior year, she was hooked on heroin.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, so it is a gateway drug. Yeah, it can be, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>it can be.

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<v Speaker 2>I I a couple other things I told them. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you know, do you know how you get heroin?

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<v Speaker 2>In your body and they're like how and you have

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<v Speaker 2>to take a needle and you have to like click it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know how they be clicking a needle and then

0:20:53.480 --> 0:20:56.399
<v Speaker 2>you put it in your veins and they're like why

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<v Speaker 2>what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>So I like, I over exaggerate what's really happening.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean if you tell a child that, that's like traumatizing, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like why would I want to get high

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<v Speaker 2>at bad?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>So I just say, Holly, just be honest with your

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<v Speaker 2>daughter and like, yes, weed is a gateway drug.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>However, if the child is just smoking weed at fourteen,

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<v Speaker 2>is that that bad?

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<v Speaker 5>What?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>It could be some other bad she could be selling

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<v Speaker 2>if my fourteen year olds okay, fine, it's really bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, it's bad. It's not good. That's bad, So

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<v Speaker 4>give her a no.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, okay, it's it is. It is very

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<v Speaker 2>scary out here. It is all sidey. It's very scary. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I will with me. I have boys, Jill, you have girls,

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<v Speaker 2>Okay at fourteen? I want to know how much freedom

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<v Speaker 2>did your girls have at fourteen? What's fourteen? What's what class?

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<v Speaker 2>What grade is that? That's like ninth ninth grade pretty

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<v Speaker 2>much ninth grade? Okay, yeah, I mean you said freedom,

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean like to hang out, to go

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<v Speaker 2>to leave your house without you being there and they

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<v Speaker 2>can just go. They're like, oh, Mom, can you drop

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<v Speaker 2>us off at the at Susie's house? Or can you

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<v Speaker 2>drop us off at the movie now? Or can you

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<v Speaker 2>drop us off at the mall now? Or can you write?

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<v Speaker 2>So the difference, I think is how much freedom do

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<v Speaker 2>your children have? Because I was fourteen, I knew better.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a almost a straight A student. I was

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<v Speaker 2>well behaved in school, I was well behaved at home,

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<v Speaker 2>but my parents gave me a little bit of freedom,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's when I got into my trouble. That's when

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<v Speaker 2>I would smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol, smoke weed because I

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<v Speaker 2>was hanging out with someone who had access, yes, but

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<v Speaker 2>when I was at home, I wasn't doing that well.

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<v Speaker 2>I was okay anyway she was. I would sneak no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I would like sneak or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>But I knew way.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew way better, and I always had the fear

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<v Speaker 2>of my parents finding out and the repercussions and getting

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<v Speaker 2>in trouble and so so I think that prevented me

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<v Speaker 2>from like really going far was that I always knew

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<v Speaker 2>that my parents were were going to be there, and

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna if they found out I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>get in trouble. But it's all about their freedom you

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<v Speaker 2>give your kids, and Holly, I hate to say it,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know it might be a struggle. You might

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<v Speaker 2>have to rein in the freedom that your daughter has,

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<v Speaker 2>but also open lines of communication. Let's let's talk about this,

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<v Speaker 2>like why are you smoking weed? Like you're fourteen? Why

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<v Speaker 2>why are you doing this?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't just be the parent that's just gonna like punish

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<v Speaker 2>you and go to hell off and not like have conversation. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>And you gotta look at her friends. You gotta look

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<v Speaker 2>at who is she spending time with. I hate because

0:23:52.920 --> 0:23:55.439
<v Speaker 2>certain certain friends I would be I would go out

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<v Speaker 2>and I would get in trouble with, I would do

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<v Speaker 2>things I shouldn't do stuff with. And then other friends

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing such different things. So it's all about who

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<v Speaker 2>is she spending time with, how much freedom does she have?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And does she know better? And like I believe she

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<v Speaker 2>knows better because you're a concerned parent, right, Yeah, and

0:24:13.000 --> 0:24:16.239
<v Speaker 2>tell her to listen to reasonably shady because tell her

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<v Speaker 2>to listen to this advice that we're giving. Well, I

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<v Speaker 2>think Holly can can you know can translate? Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>tell her my story how I was hanging out fourteen.

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<v Speaker 2>You please tell her that I was hanging out fourteen

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<v Speaker 2>spoken we doing shit I shouldn't have been doing, drinking,

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<v Speaker 2>getting black out drunk, and my friend that I was

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<v Speaker 2>doing that with eventually had to go to rehab by

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<v Speaker 2>the by senior year. That's she doesn't want to go

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<v Speaker 2>down that road. No, okay, so she and I had

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<v Speaker 2>to take I literally had to take a step back

0:24:46.400 --> 0:24:49.959
<v Speaker 2>from hanging out with her. Yes, and every after that

0:24:50.080 --> 0:24:56.199
<v Speaker 2>everything was fine. So Mohammed, if you all remember, we

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<v Speaker 2>love Mohammad, He's one of our reasonably shakesters. Yes, this

0:24:59.760 --> 0:25:03.480
<v Speaker 2>was like in the summertime. So he has an update

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<v Speaker 2>from a dilemma he had a reasonable or shady or

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<v Speaker 2>it was an advice question did you have for us?

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<v Speaker 2>And it was one of his best friends was getting

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<v Speaker 2>married but she didn't include him in some things and

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<v Speaker 2>he was feeling really left out and in his feelings

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<v Speaker 2>and asked us what he should do and what do

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<v Speaker 2>we say? I think we told him not to go,

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<v Speaker 2>right because the wedding was in Puta Khana and it

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<v Speaker 2>was a lot of money, and we.

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<v Speaker 3>Said, you don't need to go because you are really invited.

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<v Speaker 2>In the first place, right, So we told them not

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<v Speaker 2>to go. So he has a follow up. He says, Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>Jazelle and Robbin, it's your favorite person from Toronto, Mohammed.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to give you an update on the Punta

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<v Speaker 2>Kana situation and ask for more advice. So when I

0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:41.600
<v Speaker 2>heard your advice, is my birthday week and I had

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<v Speaker 2>a party and my best friend attended and I got

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<v Speaker 2>black out drunk and ended up spilling everything that I

0:25:46.640 --> 0:25:48.960
<v Speaker 2>was keeping in about the bachelrette party and not being

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<v Speaker 2>part of her bridal party. What you all don't know

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:53.919
<v Speaker 2>is that she asked me to help set up her

0:25:54.040 --> 0:25:58.080
<v Speaker 2>bridal shower and even bring stuff, which I did. I

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<v Speaker 2>even told her that Giselle and Robin said that you

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<v Speaker 2>were not my friend and I shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Be going to her wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Mommy, you need to keep eye guys between us.

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<v Speaker 3>She can't be telling everybody now.

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<v Speaker 4>She hates us.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember any of this, but long story short,

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<v Speaker 2>after a lot of talks with our mutual friends and

0:26:15.119 --> 0:26:18.720
<v Speaker 2>my therapists. They suggested I should go, but view it

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<v Speaker 2>as a vacation and not as.

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<v Speaker 4>Her wedding, so I ended up going.

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<v Speaker 2>We barely spoke, and she reminded me many times through

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<v Speaker 2>her actions that I was just a guest at her

0:26:29.280 --> 0:26:32.840
<v Speaker 2>wedding and nothing more. I was hurt throughout the trip,

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<v Speaker 2>but I made sure.

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<v Speaker 4>That I had a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>On the last day of the trip, it got back

0:26:36.920 --> 0:26:38.920
<v Speaker 2>to me that she's mad at me for some comments

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't make about her wedding not being classy.

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<v Speaker 3>Even though a.

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<v Speaker 2>Bunch of our mutual friends assured or they never heard

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<v Speaker 2>me say that, she still believes that I haven't spoken

0:26:48.960 --> 0:26:51.640
<v Speaker 2>to her since this last conversation and don't have any

0:26:51.720 --> 0:26:54.560
<v Speaker 2>intention to, And usually I am the one putting in

0:26:54.560 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 2>the effort of texting first and checking in because I

0:26:57.560 --> 0:26:59.960
<v Speaker 2>haven't done that. We have not spoken in over six weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think I should reach out or leave it

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<v Speaker 2>for her to make the first move? Love Mohammed, and

0:27:04.840 --> 0:27:06.800
<v Speaker 2>Mohammad says, I love you all so much. I'm driving

0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:09.760
<v Speaker 2>all the way to Philly to see you. Yeah first, yay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So we got my Mohama's gonna be in the house.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. First of all, Mam, is you lying? Mohammad is lying?

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<v Speaker 4>Why is it lying?

0:27:16.720 --> 0:27:22.359
<v Speaker 2>You said, dis girl, this wedding is not classy? Okay

0:27:22.520 --> 0:27:25.280
<v Speaker 2>you said it. Maybe you were drunk because he said

0:27:25.080 --> 0:27:28.400
<v Speaker 2>he didn't remember saying all the other stuff. But right,

0:27:28.720 --> 0:27:32.040
<v Speaker 2>So no question, And it's okay Mohammad that it's okay

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<v Speaker 2>to give your commentary on the non classy wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

0:27:35.520 --> 0:27:38.840
<v Speaker 2>See, I'm I'm on the flip side. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>first of all, I hate being accused of something I

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:45.200
<v Speaker 2>didn't do, Okay, Okay, So if Mohammad did not make

0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:49.480
<v Speaker 2>these comments and people are saying that, that would like

0:27:49.600 --> 0:27:52.040
<v Speaker 2>burn me up and I and this has happened to

0:27:52.040 --> 0:27:54.240
<v Speaker 2>me many times where people accuse me of doing things

0:27:54.240 --> 0:27:57.439
<v Speaker 2>that I haven't done, especially things that like I wouldn't do.

0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:02.359
<v Speaker 2>So that's number one. And then number two, if his

0:28:02.520 --> 0:28:05.280
<v Speaker 2>friend after he tells his friend, no, I didn't say

0:28:05.320 --> 0:28:07.040
<v Speaker 2>that that, I don't know where that came from, if

0:28:07.040 --> 0:28:09.960
<v Speaker 2>she's still choosing to believe that he said that, like

0:28:10.000 --> 0:28:12.720
<v Speaker 2>for me, that's just a killer, Like, oh, okay, so

0:28:12.800 --> 0:28:14.840
<v Speaker 2>I told you, I told you I didn't say it,

0:28:15.119 --> 0:28:17.520
<v Speaker 2>but you still believed I said it, So why am

0:28:17.560 --> 0:28:19.720
<v Speaker 2>I still friends with you? Why would you want to

0:28:19.760 --> 0:28:20.480
<v Speaker 2>be friends with me?

0:28:20.560 --> 0:28:21.280
<v Speaker 4>Why would you want to.

0:28:21.240 --> 0:28:24.479
<v Speaker 2>Continue this friendship? So that's that's my perspective, Like this

0:28:24.600 --> 0:28:29.000
<v Speaker 2>actually kind of triggered something in me right now, okay

0:28:29.640 --> 0:28:35.080
<v Speaker 2>at eight A right, Okay. I don't like being accused

0:28:35.080 --> 0:28:36.480
<v Speaker 2>of something I didn't do. And when I tell you

0:28:36.520 --> 0:28:39.120
<v Speaker 2>I didn't do it and you choose to still believe it, Yeah,

0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 2>that's it. There's nothing else I can do. I'm not

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:43.080
<v Speaker 2>going to sit here and try to prove it. I'm

0:28:43.080 --> 0:28:44.720
<v Speaker 2>not trying to state my case. I'm not going to

0:28:44.800 --> 0:28:46.440
<v Speaker 2>try to, you know, kiss her ass and be.

0:28:46.360 --> 0:28:48.760
<v Speaker 4>Like hol bl blah blah blah. No, we ain't doing that.

0:28:48.760 --> 0:28:49.440
<v Speaker 4>We're not doing that.

0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:53.800
<v Speaker 2>So Mohamet, the ball is my is I'm concerned the

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:55.640
<v Speaker 2>ball is in her court if she wants to circle

0:28:55.680 --> 0:28:58.560
<v Speaker 2>back to you and realize the friend that she lost,

0:28:58.600 --> 0:29:01.600
<v Speaker 2>the friend that she offended, and that's on her. But

0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:04.880
<v Speaker 2>as far as I'm concerned with you, Muhammed, I think

0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:07.720
<v Speaker 2>you should just act like you ain't never met her before.

0:29:07.960 --> 0:29:09.680
<v Speaker 3>Well, he should have listened to us in the first place.

0:29:09.720 --> 0:29:10.400
<v Speaker 3>We told him not.

0:29:10.280 --> 0:29:13.200
<v Speaker 2>Nothing to go and then he's yeah, he told her

0:29:13.280 --> 0:29:16.120
<v Speaker 2>just all a Roma said that he should not go,

0:29:16.600 --> 0:29:17.880
<v Speaker 2>and he went and packed his bags.

0:29:17.920 --> 0:29:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Anyway, Yeah, you should have listened to us in the

0:29:19.920 --> 0:29:20.400
<v Speaker 3>first place.

0:29:20.600 --> 0:29:22.840
<v Speaker 2>True, And we know you trashed her wedding as you should,

0:29:22.880 --> 0:29:24.720
<v Speaker 2>because if I went and you're not speaking to me,

0:29:24.800 --> 0:29:26.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm a trashed her wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>That wedding suck.

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