1 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: Tweaks to the planet, Charlamagne to God. Here and as 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: we come close to closing out this year, I just 3 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: want to say thank you for tuning into the Black 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 1: Podcast Network. There have been so many great moments over 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: the past year. Take a listen to some of those 6 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: captivating moments in this special best of episode. 7 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 2: Okay, so we need to read one of our Okay, 8 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 2: so we have it reasonable or shady. Yeah, and by 9 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: the way, guys, send us some more. We love reading 10 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 2: your reasonable or shady scenarios. Yes, we do, because we 11 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:34,319 Speaker 2: are reasonably shady. Okay, this says Hi, Robin and Giselle. Yeah, 12 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 2: this is from AVA. I have some drama and want 13 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 2: your opinion on whether it is reasonable or shady. My 14 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 2: friend moved in with her boyfriend of two years. Her 15 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 2: boyfriend is the one that asked her to move in. Okay, 16 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: her boyfriend now follow This is her ex boyfriend's dad, 17 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 2: and now she's living in the home where her ex 18 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: boyfriend grew up. 19 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 3: Whow Actually this is good, right, I'm like this shady, 20 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 3: all right, just shady already. 21 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 2: Her ex doesn't visit the house at all. 22 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 3: No, he does not. 23 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a reason. Yeah, Okay, even I mean, I 24 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 2: feel like the fact that her ex boyfriend's dad. 25 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 4: Is dating. 26 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 2: Whatever, yeah, his son's ex girlfriend. Yeah, that just tells 27 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 2: you they probably had a shitty relationship. Yeah you know 28 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like the dad and the boyfriend. 29 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:29,199 Speaker 3: Yeah. 30 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 4: Okay. 31 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: So she suggested to her boyfriend the dad that they 32 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: should move everything out of her ex's childhood room and 33 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 2: let her use it to store some of her stuff 34 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 2: and let her use it as her personal office lounging room. 35 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: Her boyfriend the dad agreed, so they boxed up, with 36 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 2: my help, Ava's help, everything in her ex boyfriend's childhood 37 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: room and moved them to the garage, including the furniture. 38 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 5: What. 39 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 2: She redecorated the room and made it hers very cute 40 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: and cozy before she even moved his things. But before 41 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 2: she even moved his things, she messaged her ex about 42 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: it and told him he should come by. She did 43 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 2: not the dad, right, she did, she did, Okay, this 44 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 2: is all this all get back, This is insane. 45 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 3: This get back. She he made her mad, and she 46 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 3: was like, yeah, right, I'm gonna get you I'm a. 47 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 2: Dad and move into your childhood or Okay, So this 48 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 2: should not be a question of is this shady? 49 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 4: Yes? 50 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 3: Hell, yeah shady. 51 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 2: It's actually the shady and so shame but I love 52 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 2: every second of it, right, Okay. 53 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 4: It's beyond shady. Yeah okay. 54 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 2: So so she messaged him and told him about it 55 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 2: and told him he should come by and take a 56 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 2: look at what he wants to keep and or sell 57 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 2: and or donate. After not hearing from him for three weeks, 58 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 2: he texted her, calling her all sorts of names and 59 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 2: clearing out and taking his room. Yes, she says, she's 60 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 2: really trying to be sensitive and nice, but he is 61 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: making this very difficult with his rage filled outbursts in texts. 62 00:02:58,240 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 3: What's her name? 63 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 2: I don't a friend's name? No, Oh, she's the person 64 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 2: that wrote in Yes is Ava? 65 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 4: Oh? Ava? 66 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 3: Is not this? 67 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: Okay, she's she's she's reported she's talking about her friend. Okay, 68 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 2: so it's actually but she helps her friend girls like 69 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 2: she's like, I'm writing for a friend. Yes, but she 70 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 2: helped her friend move her you know, move her stuff out, 71 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 2: move the stuff out of the ex boyfriend's room. She 72 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 2: and her boyfriend are giving him a year to clear 73 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 2: out his childhood stuff from the garage before they donate 74 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 2: everything neither of them feel clearing out his room is inappropriate, 75 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 2: but her ex is just melting down in a tantrum 76 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: filled rage. Personally, I don't think he should have such 77 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 2: an outburst when he never even visits. I also don't 78 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 2: think she should have started dating her ex's father. 79 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 4: No, Ava, what are your thoughts? 80 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: Was taking over his room reasonable or shady? 81 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 4: Okay, there's so many thoughts. 82 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 3: This is wild. This is actually so wild. 83 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 2: So I want Okay, so we don't know any name here, no, okay, 84 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 2: if the boyfriend is listening, please write us, because so 85 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 2: the dad or the ex boyfriend, the ex boyfriend. If 86 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 2: the ex boyfriend's listening, listen, we want your point of view, right, 87 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 2: because your ex girlfriend is the worst, right, and your 88 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 2: dad were the worst. Your daddy is just alone for 89 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 2: the ride. We don't know how long dad got to 90 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 2: live on this earth. Okay, he just wants a little 91 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 2: hot girlfriend. 92 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 3: Really, yes, So if your mother no started dating, this 93 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 3: is not my family. Okay, this is totally not my 94 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 3: family and not my people. 95 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 2: But I understand that your mother dad just wants like 96 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 2: a little. 97 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:37,679 Speaker 3: To this out. Okay. 98 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 4: If your mother's started dating jamal. 99 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, Robin took a tupar. Okay, this episode might 100 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 3: be my mother wants no parts of Jamal. Let's start. 101 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 3: I'm your stepdaddy. 102 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, he went from my ex husband to my steps 103 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: to my step That would be hilarious. So I, yes, 104 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: this is beyond shady on so many levels. But I 105 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 2: want to hear from the men of this nonsense. I 106 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 2: don't know that we'll hear from them. Okay, So my 107 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 2: opinion is it shady? It's first of all, it's super 108 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 2: shady that she's dating her ex boyfriend's father. That's like, why, 109 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 2: let yes. 110 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 3: Find somebody else? 111 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 112 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 3: Is this like how many people are in the town? 113 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 4: Right? 114 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 3: It's like find someone out exactly. 115 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 2: That's just crazy because it is almost like you're you're 116 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 2: trying to get back at your ex boyfriend and then 117 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 2: you just don't think about like what is that going 118 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: to do to him and his relationship with his dad 119 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 2: and his family and everyone else involved like that. You 120 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 2: just should have She should have stayed away and not 121 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 2: done it now. Is it shady for clearing his room out? 122 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 2: If this is a childhood home? So I think about 123 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 2: my childhood room right that I never go in. I 124 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 2: don't need one thing out of it. Right, So if 125 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 2: my parents all of a sudden just got rid of 126 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 2: all my shit, I'd be like, great, thank you. Yeah, 127 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,840 Speaker 2: but your ex boyfriend is not having sex with your 128 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: mother and living in that house. I know it's different. 129 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 3: It's it's it's the way and with the principle, what's 130 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 3: the way in which the room was cleared? Yes, yes, 131 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 3: and for whom? 132 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 4: Yes? 133 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 2: And this is all like I think, get back in 134 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: spite yeah yeah, yeah, No, it's it's. 135 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 3: This is some nasty, dirty Yeah. 136 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: It's like we can't even get past the fact that 137 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 2: the girl is dating her ex boyfriend's dad. Like that's 138 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 2: just that's baseline, shady. Yeah, and anything after that is 139 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 2: like it's like you're adding to it. 140 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 3: Dad, don't give a damn. 141 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 142 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 2: Now, if this was his dad's girlfriend, that has nothing 143 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 2: to do with the sun. 144 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 3: Cool, fine, clear sit out. 145 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 4: He won't care. 146 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 2: Yes, But the fact that you're calling me and saying hey, 147 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 2: and why didn't the dad call and say, hey, we're 148 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 2: we're clearing out your room. 149 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, in my house that I pay all the bills for. 150 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 4: That's a mess. 151 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 3: It's a mess. 152 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 4: Isn't that crazy? 153 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 2: This is a great reality television show. Right, let's get 154 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 2: all their information right, and let's produce it. 155 00:06:58,920 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 4: This is from Christopher. 156 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 3: All right, No, it's gonna be bad, he says, help. 157 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 2: Me find miss right please, because I have been single 158 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 2: for six years because my ex had a miscarriage six 159 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 2: years ago in Walmart because someone ran into my new 160 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 2: Dodge Charger. Why I in jail for child support for 161 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 2: my first girlfriend. Two weeks later, she has left for me, 162 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 2: left me for my cousin in law. So I've been 163 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 2: single for six years. 164 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 3: Okay, Chris, we can't help you, sir. 165 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 4: This just came through. 166 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 3: I just said there. It's best if you're not paying 167 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 3: your child support and you in jail. We're not paying 168 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 3: child support. 169 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 2: Okay, you're in jail and you can't and you're not 170 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: paying child support. Yeah, No, we can't help you. 171 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 3: No, we can't help it. 172 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 2: A matter of fact, Actually, Chris, write to us, tell 173 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 2: us what jail you're in. 174 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's out of jail now. 175 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 4: I think he. 176 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 2: Said I'm in jail for childs I don't know. 177 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 4: Are you in jail. 178 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 2: If you're in jail, we'll find you a pin pal. 179 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh okay, will who oh, We'll just put it 180 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 3: out there. 181 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, okay, people find love in jail. 182 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 4: That's how we're gonna find you, miss right, Yeah, we'll 183 00:07:58,240 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 4: find you a pin pal. 184 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 2: This is from Lisa Bell. Hey, Lisa, ladies, this is 185 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 2: a shady request. Oh please discuss why Kim has fallen 186 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 2: from the throes of Bravo to MTV Surreal Life. Who's 187 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 2: Kim Solcia? 188 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, this is a shipwreck. 189 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 2: Why would she do this show? In the promo, Macy 190 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 2: Gray is riding a pool float calling at Mandingo. There 191 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 2: had to be other options before this show. Okay, Robin, 192 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 2: you bet not never ever do that show? Yeah, I 193 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 2: say you, because Giselle would not, but Rob. 194 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 4: She would not. 195 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 3: Well, Robin may may do it. 196 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 2: But Robin may say, well, how long do I have 197 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 2: to stay there? It would be a different experience. I 198 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: can teach them how to steal forks and eat food 199 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 2: by shopping in the grocery store. He loel anyway, I'm 200 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 2: being shady, but I will be watching the show. Reality 201 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 2: TV is my comic relief. Your podcast gives me life. 202 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 2: Bring a live show to Texas. 203 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: So, Lisa, huh, hilarious. 204 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 2: I never say never. 205 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 3: Probably not doing that show only live once. I mean, 206 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 3: I can't see anything wrong with it. 207 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 2: Okay, So explain to me the premise of the show. 208 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: They live in a house for how long and when 209 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:16,839 Speaker 2: do they get booted? 210 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna look it up. So real life. 211 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I really don't really know the show, but I 212 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 2: saw that it's like Kim Tom Hanks's son. 213 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 3: Oh, that's how they know each other. 214 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 2: I did see Chet is his same Yeah, Chet Hanks, 215 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 2: Chet Hanks, and he looks to me very the reason 216 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 2: why I stopped. 217 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 3: I mean I looked at it because he looks like Croy, 218 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 3: her ex husband. 219 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, or soon to be. 220 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 3: I don't know if they're divorced. Yeah, I don't know. 221 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 4: Okay. 222 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 2: So this is the premise of the show. It is 223 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 2: a reality show about fading celebrities who were hot back 224 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 2: in the day and how they live their day to 225 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: day lives in one Los Angeles mansion. 226 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 5: Eight celebrity strangers are invited to the real life villa 227 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,959 Speaker 5: in Meta Yine, Columbia for a healing getaway that will 228 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 5: change and bond them forever. Each day of their stay, 229 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 5: they'll be given secret missions that push them out of 230 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 5: their comfort zones throughout their time here, they'll confront their 231 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 5: fears and reveal their deepest secrets. 232 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 2: Okay, well you couldn't do that because you'll never be 233 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 2: faking You're you're hot to try. So let me see 234 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 2: who is on this cast this year. So it's Kim Zosiac, 235 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 2: Chet Hank Okay, Macy Gray, Chet Hanks, Ali Brooke don't 236 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 2: know who she is, Ot Genesis, Kim Zosiak, Johnny Weir, 237 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 2: Josie Conseco, and Tyler Posey. 238 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 3: Okay, I mean. 239 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: Listen, you only live once, okay. 240 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 3: And Rob I said, never say now. 241 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 2: That's how I ended up on the other TV show 242 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 2: that I was on, because when the opportunity was presented 243 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 2: to me, I said, you only live once, so why 244 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 2: not do something that you never imagine doing, you know, 245 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 2: in your life? 246 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 3: Right? 247 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 2: And I understanding that I ended up on that show. Yeah, 248 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 2: and I'm happy that you're on that show. Now, people 249 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 2: are y'all are writing us years eight years, eight years, 250 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 2: y'all are writing us, writing us, asking for since Robin 251 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 2: is no longer on that show that she was on, 252 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:21,719 Speaker 2: for Robin to give all the tea because she can 253 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 2: now because she's not actually obligating, and I'm telling y'all 254 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 2: right now stop because y'all trying to give me. 255 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 3: Fired so like, you know, but they can't against you. 256 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 2: Yes, they can't. Oh, by the way, I've been meaning 257 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 2: to tell you this. So a couple of weeks ago, 258 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 2: I had a pack at UPS package come and I 259 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 2: had to. 260 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 3: Sign for it, and I wasn't home. 261 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 2: And normally if I like go into my ring and 262 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 2: like talk to them, they'll just leave it, right. So 263 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 2: he didn't do that, so he was like, I'll be back, 264 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 2: you know, tomorrow. So same thing happened, and I asked him. 265 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 2: I was like, can you just leave it? And he 266 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 2: was like no. 267 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 3: So I was like, dang, Like when am I gonna 268 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 3: give my package? 269 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: So anyway, I forgot about the package and then I 270 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 2: happen to be pulling up into the house and here 271 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 2: he comes again. This was like a week later, and 272 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 2: he's like, hey, I just want you to know that 273 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 2: you know that time that you asked me to leave it. 274 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 2: I was with my boss that day and I couldn't oh. 275 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, okay, now I get that, as 276 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 2: I said, but I did get it, and he was 277 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 2: like yeah, okay, and then he gave me something else 278 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 2: and he left and I was like, I think I'm 279 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 2: turned on by the ups man. 280 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 3: I was like, I understand what Robin is talking about. 281 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 2: I was like, you see, ups man, let me go 282 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 2: on again in order something so can come back. 283 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 5: Yeah. 284 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. So for those of you all who don't know, 285 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 2: Robin has to thing for ups man, and I have 286 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 2: joked her about him because I'm just like, for. 287 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 4: What, I think it's random. 288 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:51,719 Speaker 3: It's not random, like because they have on I'm like, 289 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 3: because they have on brown choices. Yes, they have on brown. 290 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 3: That's that's what turned you on? 291 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 4: The brown? 292 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 2: Oh the brown is actually not my favorite. 293 00:12:58,760 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 294 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 2: I just think PS men like they are responsible. 295 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 3: And they jump out their trucks. 296 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 2: Yes, then they usually really nice legs, yes he did. Yes, 297 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 2: they're they're fit, Yes, they just. 298 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 3: He was tall and they're hard worker. 299 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 4: He was buff. 300 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 2: They drive around that howdas truck. 301 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 3: Yes, complain and they don't go and he had a 302 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 3: deep voice. 303 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 2: Yes. 304 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, you PS, Yes, I see you. 305 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 4: And they get good benefits. 306 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:29,559 Speaker 2: They I don't know anything about that, but yeah, I'm 307 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 2: sure they can give good benefits. Yeah, give me some 308 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 2: benefits you PS. And when I say leave my package, 309 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 2: I mean more than that. I mean a whole lot 310 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 2: of things when I say leave the package. 311 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 3: Anyway, moving on. 312 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:46,319 Speaker 2: Okay, so we got some we got some something called 313 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:50,439 Speaker 2: Lettus emails, and we want to we. 314 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 3: Want to talk about them. Okay. 315 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 2: So this is from Chrissy and she says, good morning. 316 00:13:57,080 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 2: Just wanted to say I love you, ladies. I've listened 317 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 2: to every podcast since the beginning. Me and my husband 318 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,959 Speaker 2: came to see you live in Philly, and we. 319 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 3: Got the meat and greet tickets. 320 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 4: But I have a one year old. 321 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 3: Cappuccina. Oh, I have a Jesus Christ. I have a 322 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 3: one year old cap chun. Maybe I don't know if 323 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 3: that's right. 324 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 4: Monkey. 325 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, she has a one year old monkey. Forget 326 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 2: what kind it is, which is having a toddler on meth, 327 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 2: which is like having a Maybe I should have read 328 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 2: this before I read this. Okay, so we didn't make 329 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 2: it in time. However, I was the white girl with 330 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 2: the dreads sitting in one of the front I saw 331 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 2: her tables, and I strongly recommended that you guys do 332 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 2: more live shows, because you guys make great entertainment. Y'all 333 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 2: are funny and shit. 334 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 4: Thank you? 335 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 2: Do you remember I remember seeing the white girl with dreads? Okay, 336 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 2: so shout out to Christy white girl with dreads? 337 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 4: Yes, who has a monkey? Yes? Okay, who's on meth? 338 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 2: I don't doubt anyway about the Stanley the Stanley Cup. 339 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 2: I thought it was a stupid trend. But when I 340 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 2: drink out of my daughter's one day, I was like, oh, 341 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 2: I get it. Then one day my husband forgot his drink, 342 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 2: so I gave him mine and he was shocked. 343 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 3: How good the water tasted. 344 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 5: What? 345 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I know it sounds crazy, but you have 346 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 2: to try it. I ordered him a forty ounce black one, 347 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 2: which was sixty five dollars, which which is just stupid, 348 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 2: but whatever. He put his barbershop sticker over the name, 349 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 2: ha ha. But me and him both drink way much 350 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 2: more water than we used to. 351 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 3: I can't explain it. You just gotta try it. 352 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 2: If this ain't a plug, I don't know what is. 353 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 2: By the way, Stanley Cup is not paying us a 354 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 2: dime for this. They should Okay, keep being, Oh, keep 355 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 2: being you, stay throwing your shade because your product, your 356 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 2: podcast is one and you guys are my favorite Housewives 357 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 2: in the entire franchise. 358 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 3: PS. 359 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 2: I love you when you just make shit up. It's hilarious. 360 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 2: I know I'm gonna start doing that more more, oh gosh, please, 361 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 2: and ways include that allegedly with it. 362 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 3: I'm out right so we don't get suit and Robin. 363 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 2: I love how you stay true to who you are, 364 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 2: who you were before the show, and how you stick 365 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 2: by your man and how he's he isn't changing for 366 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: no one because of what others may think. Hashtag real 367 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 2: shit forever. A fan Chrissy from Wilmington. And here's a 368 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 2: picture of Abou. Okay, so monkey Abu is the monkey, guys, 369 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 2: and we might put this on our Instagram story. Okay, 370 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 2: if y'all can see Abu the monkey. He has on 371 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 2: a red hoodie and he's chilling. 372 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 4: That was before we do advice. It's just a little 373 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 4: hater hater mail. Oh we love hater mail. Ye hater mail. 374 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 2: We did get a hater mail song like Dawn turn 375 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 2: it right. It's really quick. It's not as deep as 376 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 2: Linda with the Deer. Okay, all right, so this person, 377 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 2: Sandra says, I love you, ladies, but you laughed and 378 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 2: shamed the klepto basketball player, but one and your son 379 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: ate and put back at target. That's stealing too, And Giselle, 380 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 2: you show no compassion about hitting the deer. Please try 381 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 2: and speak to two sides of your stories. 382 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,919 Speaker 4: Be good human beings. Still listening. What's up? Sandra? What? Sandra? 383 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 2: Okay, you're right, Wan and Corey you need to go 384 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 2: to jail. 385 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 4: How dare they? 386 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 2: How dare they taste tests and they didn't like it 387 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 2: and they put it back. They need to go to 388 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:55,199 Speaker 2: jail because that's the same thing as walking out of 389 00:17:55,240 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 2: Target with candles body wash? So under your jacket, Okay, 390 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 2: it's not And how dare I live? 391 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 3: And the dear die? How dare I live? 392 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 2: Okay? Crazy, y'all people out here crazy? All right, So 393 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 2: we need advice for Alaniya Whitfield. She needs advice for 394 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 2: a fourteen year old daughter. All right, Hello, lovely ladies. First, 395 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,400 Speaker 2: I want to say I've been a loyal listener since 396 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 2: episode one. You two brighten up my day, especially when 397 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:30,919 Speaker 2: I've had a rough one and I turned to I 398 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 2: turned on an episode of Reason Me Shady and it 399 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 2: helps me tremendously. My name is Holly, Okay, so I 400 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,199 Speaker 2: totally said her name wrong. Her name is Holly. I 401 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 2: live in Bangor, Maine. 402 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 4: Shout out to Banger. 403 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 3: Is that how you really pronounced that? 404 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 4: B a ng o or Banger? Yes? 405 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 2: Okay, yes, Robin, I know you have been to Banger. Oh, yes, okay, yes, 406 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 2: that's where I got kicked out of the airport. That's right, 407 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 2: that's right, and had an experience at the airport. Ha ha. 408 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:57,359 Speaker 3: I promise you we aren't that bad. I need some advice. 409 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 2: My daughter's fourteen and has recently been give be in 410 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 2: trouble at school. She just got suspended for smoking pot. 411 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 2: I thought she was smarter than that, but I also 412 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 2: know what it's like to be a teenage girl. Giselle, 413 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 2: You've raised some very smart, respectable ladies, and I would 414 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 2: love your advice on how you approach the situation and 415 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 2: how to give the best guidance for my daughter. Thank 416 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 2: you for any advice you two might have. 417 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 4: Keep doing what you're. 418 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 2: Doing, and just know that the guy that you guys 419 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 2: are making a difference. Lots of love, Holly, Oh, that's 420 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 2: so nice. Yes, And I don't know what kind of 421 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 2: advice I can give Grace smok a weed right now? 422 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 4: Oh, Okay, I'm joking. 423 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 3: Jokes, jokes. You know. I was extremely upfront and. 424 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 2: Honest with my kids about everything, sex, drugs, rock and roll, everything, 425 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 2: just because I don't want them to learn about things. 426 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,959 Speaker 2: I don't want them to be curious about things and 427 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 2: then they're in the streets trying to figure it out. 428 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 2: So I tried to do scare tactics, and I tried 429 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 2: to be like, you know, if you smoke weed, then 430 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 2: you're gonna be hooked on heroin for the rest of 431 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 2: your life, right, And I know that makes this's no correlation, 432 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,720 Speaker 2: but I was like, it's a slippery slow, it's a 433 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:14,360 Speaker 2: gateway drug. 434 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 3: It's a gateweight drug, very slow. 435 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 2: I shared that. My I'm sorry to cut you off, 436 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 2: but I shared. You know, I smoked weed at a 437 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 2: young age. And my best friend, who kind of you know, 438 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 2: was the one that I would get into trouble with. 439 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 2: We stopped hanging out midway through ninth grade, and by 440 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:34,919 Speaker 2: her senior year, she was hooked on heroin. 441 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:38,640 Speaker 3: Yes, so it is a gateway drug. Yeah, it can be, Yes, 442 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 3: it can be. 443 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:43,639 Speaker 2: I I a couple other things I told them. I 444 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 2: was like, you know, do you know how you get heroin? 445 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 2: In your body and they're like how and you have 446 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 2: to take a needle and you have to like click it, 447 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 2: you know how they be clicking a needle and then 448 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,399 Speaker 2: you put it in your veins and they're like why 449 00:20:57,840 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 2: what do you mean? 450 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:04,399 Speaker 3: So I like, I over exaggerate what's really happening. 451 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 2: I mean if you tell a child that, that's like traumatizing, right, 452 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 2: And it's like why would I want to get high 453 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 2: at bad? 454 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 4: Right? 455 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 2: So I just say, Holly, just be honest with your 456 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 2: daughter and like, yes, weed is a gateway drug. 457 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 458 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 2: However, if the child is just smoking weed at fourteen, 459 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 2: is that that bad? 460 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 5: What? 461 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 3: So? 462 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,360 Speaker 4: Okay, you know what I mean? 463 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 2: It could be some other bad she could be selling 464 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:33,680 Speaker 2: if my fourteen year olds okay, fine, it's really bad. 465 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, it's bad. It's not good. That's bad, So 466 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:38,880 Speaker 4: give her a no. 467 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 2: Oh my god, okay, it's it is. It is very 468 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 2: scary out here. It is all sidey. It's very scary. Yes, 469 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 2: I will with me. I have boys, Jill, you have girls, 470 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 2: Okay at fourteen? I want to know how much freedom 471 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 2: did your girls have at fourteen? What's fourteen? What's what class? 472 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 2: What grade is that? That's like ninth ninth grade pretty 473 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,199 Speaker 2: much ninth grade? Okay, yeah, I mean you said freedom, 474 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 2: What do you mean like to hang out, to go 475 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 2: to leave your house without you being there and they 476 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 2: can just go. They're like, oh, Mom, can you drop 477 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 2: us off at the at Susie's house? Or can you 478 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 2: drop us off at the movie now? Or can you 479 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 2: drop us off at the mall now? Or can you write? 480 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:26,439 Speaker 2: So the difference, I think is how much freedom do 481 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:31,439 Speaker 2: your children have? Because I was fourteen, I knew better. 482 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,879 Speaker 2: I was a almost a straight A student. I was 483 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 2: well behaved in school, I was well behaved at home, 484 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 2: but my parents gave me a little bit of freedom, 485 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 2: and that's when I got into my trouble. That's when 486 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 2: I would smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol, smoke weed because I 487 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 2: was hanging out with someone who had access, yes, but 488 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 2: when I was at home, I wasn't doing that well. 489 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 2: I was okay anyway she was. I would sneak no, no, no, 490 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 2: I would like sneak or whatever. 491 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 4: But I knew way. 492 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 2: I knew way better, and I always had the fear 493 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 2: of my parents finding out and the repercussions and getting 494 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 2: in trouble and so so I think that prevented me 495 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 2: from like really going far was that I always knew 496 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 2: that my parents were were going to be there, and 497 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,879 Speaker 2: we're gonna if they found out I was going to 498 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 2: get in trouble. But it's all about their freedom you 499 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,919 Speaker 2: give your kids, and Holly, I hate to say it, 500 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:30,880 Speaker 2: and I know it might be a struggle. You might 501 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 2: have to rein in the freedom that your daughter has, 502 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,639 Speaker 2: but also open lines of communication. Let's let's talk about this, 503 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 2: like why are you smoking weed? Like you're fourteen? Why 504 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 2: why are you doing this? 505 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 4: Right? 506 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 2: Don't just be the parent that's just gonna like punish 507 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 2: you and go to hell off and not like have conversation. Right, 508 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 2: And you gotta look at her friends. You gotta look 509 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 2: at who is she spending time with. I hate because 510 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 2: certain certain friends I would be I would go out 511 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 2: and I would get in trouble with, I would do 512 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 2: things I shouldn't do stuff with. And then other friends 513 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,880 Speaker 2: we're doing such different things. So it's all about who 514 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 2: is she spending time with, how much freedom does she have? 515 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? 516 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 2: And does she know better? And like I believe she 517 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 2: knows better because you're a concerned parent, right, Yeah, and 518 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,239 Speaker 2: tell her to listen to reasonably shady because tell her 519 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 2: to listen to this advice that we're giving. Well, I 520 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,919 Speaker 2: think Holly can can you know can translate? Yeah, but 521 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 2: tell her my story how I was hanging out fourteen. 522 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,360 Speaker 2: You please tell her that I was hanging out fourteen 523 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 2: spoken we doing shit I shouldn't have been doing, drinking, 524 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 2: getting black out drunk, and my friend that I was 525 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 2: doing that with eventually had to go to rehab by 526 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 2: the by senior year. That's she doesn't want to go 527 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,120 Speaker 2: down that road. No, okay, so she and I had 528 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 2: to take I literally had to take a step back 529 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,959 Speaker 2: from hanging out with her. Yes, and every after that 530 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:56,199 Speaker 2: everything was fine. So Mohammed, if you all remember, we 531 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 2: love Mohammad, He's one of our reasonably shakesters. Yes, this 532 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 2: was like in the summertime. So he has an update 533 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 2: from a dilemma he had a reasonable or shady or 534 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 2: it was an advice question did you have for us? 535 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 2: And it was one of his best friends was getting 536 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 2: married but she didn't include him in some things and 537 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,119 Speaker 2: he was feeling really left out and in his feelings 538 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 2: and asked us what he should do and what do 539 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 2: we say? I think we told him not to go, 540 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 2: right because the wedding was in Puta Khana and it 541 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,240 Speaker 2: was a lot of money, and we. 542 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 3: Said, you don't need to go because you are really invited. 543 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 2: In the first place, right, So we told them not 544 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,679 Speaker 2: to go. So he has a follow up. He says, Hi, 545 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,640 Speaker 2: Jazelle and Robbin, it's your favorite person from Toronto, Mohammed. 546 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 2: I wanted to give you an update on the Punta 547 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 2: Kana situation and ask for more advice. So when I 548 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 2: heard your advice, is my birthday week and I had 549 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 2: a party and my best friend attended and I got 550 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 2: black out drunk and ended up spilling everything that I 551 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 2: was keeping in about the bachelrette party and not being 552 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 2: part of her bridal party. What you all don't know 553 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,919 Speaker 2: is that she asked me to help set up her 554 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 2: bridal shower and even bring stuff, which I did. I 555 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 2: even told her that Giselle and Robin said that you 556 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 2: were not my friend and I shouldn't. 557 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 4: Be going to her wedding. 558 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 3: Okay, Mommy, you need to keep eye guys between us. 559 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 3: She can't be telling everybody now. 560 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 4: She hates us. 561 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 2: I don't remember any of this, but long story short, 562 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 2: after a lot of talks with our mutual friends and 563 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 2: my therapists. They suggested I should go, but view it 564 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 2: as a vacation and not as. 565 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 4: Her wedding, so I ended up going. 566 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 2: We barely spoke, and she reminded me many times through 567 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 2: her actions that I was just a guest at her 568 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 2: wedding and nothing more. I was hurt throughout the trip, 569 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 2: but I made sure. 570 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 4: That I had a good time. 571 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:36,880 Speaker 2: On the last day of the trip, it got back 572 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 2: to me that she's mad at me for some comments 573 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 2: I didn't make about her wedding not being classy. 574 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 3: Even though a. 575 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 2: Bunch of our mutual friends assured or they never heard 576 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,959 Speaker 2: me say that, she still believes that I haven't spoken 577 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 2: to her since this last conversation and don't have any 578 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 2: intention to, And usually I am the one putting in 579 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 2: the effort of texting first and checking in because I 580 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 2: haven't done that. We have not spoken in over six weeks. 581 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,119 Speaker 2: Do you think I should reach out or leave it 582 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 2: for her to make the first move? Love Mohammed, and 583 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 2: Mohammad says, I love you all so much. I'm driving 584 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 2: all the way to Philly to see you. Yeah first, yay, Okay, 585 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 2: So we got my Mohama's gonna be in the house. 586 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 3: Okay. First of all, Mam, is you lying? Mohammad is lying? 587 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 4: Why is it lying? 588 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 2: You said, dis girl, this wedding is not classy? Okay 589 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 2: you said it. Maybe you were drunk because he said 590 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,400 Speaker 2: he didn't remember saying all the other stuff. But right, 591 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 2: So no question, And it's okay Mohammad that it's okay 592 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 2: to give your commentary on the non classy wedding. 593 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:35,439 Speaker 4: Okay. 594 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 2: See, I'm I'm on the flip side. I feel like, 595 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 2: first of all, I hate being accused of something I 596 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 2: didn't do, Okay, Okay, So if Mohammad did not make 597 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 2: these comments and people are saying that, that would like 598 00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 2: burn me up and I and this has happened to 599 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 2: me many times where people accuse me of doing things 600 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,439 Speaker 2: that I haven't done, especially things that like I wouldn't do. 601 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 2: So that's number one. And then number two, if his 602 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 2: friend after he tells his friend, no, I didn't say 603 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 2: that that, I don't know where that came from, if 604 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 2: she's still choosing to believe that he said that, like 605 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 2: for me, that's just a killer, Like, oh, okay, so 606 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 2: I told you, I told you I didn't say it, 607 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 2: but you still believed I said it, So why am 608 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 2: I still friends with you? Why would you want to 609 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 2: be friends with me? 610 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 4: Why would you want to. 611 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,479 Speaker 2: Continue this friendship? So that's that's my perspective, Like this 612 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 2: actually kind of triggered something in me right now, okay 613 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 2: at eight A right, Okay. I don't like being accused 614 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 2: of something I didn't do. And when I tell you 615 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 2: I didn't do it and you choose to still believe it, Yeah, 616 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 2: that's it. There's nothing else I can do. I'm not 617 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 2: going to sit here and try to prove it. I'm 618 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 2: not trying to state my case. I'm not going to 619 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 2: try to, you know, kiss her ass and be. 620 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 4: Like hol bl blah blah blah. No, we ain't doing that. 621 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 4: We're not doing that. 622 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:53,800 Speaker 2: So Mohamet, the ball is my is I'm concerned the 623 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 2: ball is in her court if she wants to circle 624 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 2: back to you and realize the friend that she lost, 625 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 2: the friend that she offended, and that's on her. But 626 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 2: as far as I'm concerned with you, Muhammed, I think 627 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 2: you should just act like you ain't never met her before. 628 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 3: Well, he should have listened to us in the first place. 629 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 3: We told him not. 630 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 2: Nothing to go and then he's yeah, he told her 631 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 2: just all a Roma said that he should not go, 632 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 2: and he went and packed his bags. 633 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 3: Anyway, Yeah, you should have listened to us in the 634 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 3: first place. 635 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 2: True, And we know you trashed her wedding as you should, 636 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 2: because if I went and you're not speaking to me, 637 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,719 Speaker 2: I'm a trashed her wedding. 638 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 3: That wedding suck. 639 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 1: Once again, thank you for tuning into the Blackfect Podcast Network. 640 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 1: Seeing you in twenty twenty five for more great moments 641 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 1: from your favorite podcast.